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Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.

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Speaker 1: Alicia is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 1: She's been married to her husband Edward for three years,

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Speaker 1: but now she thinks something might be going on, so

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Speaker 1: we'll see if we can help her out. Sorry about that, Alicia,

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Speaker 1: what's going on? Why do you think that your husband

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Speaker 1: Edward's cheating?

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Speaker 2: Hi, Well, I mean it's kind of a it's kind

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Speaker 2: of a bit of a story.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 2: Well, we work for the same company, but we work

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Speaker 2: in at different departments, so we've never really had to

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Speaker 2: interact that much. I have a different boss in my

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Speaker 2: department and my husband, Edward is the boss in his department,

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Speaker 2: And you know, we're both very professional at work, and

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Speaker 2: we're very by the book. So when we come home,

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Speaker 2: we don't really talk very much about work, and it's

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Speaker 2: been good for us in the relationship, but sometimes it

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Speaker 2: can be a little boring.

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Speaker 1: But you know, we just don't.

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Speaker 2: Really talk about our days, I guess when we get

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Speaker 2: home until about until about a month ago, some things

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Speaker 2: have just gotten sort of rocky in the past month,

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Speaker 2: and my husband and I have been going to therapy

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Speaker 2: trying to work with a therapist and trying to talk things,

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Speaker 2: but it doesn't really feel like things are getting better.

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Speaker 2: It just feels like everything is sort of plateaued and

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Speaker 2: they've not gotten worse. And I just feel like Edward,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, he seems very attached, he feels he

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Speaker 2: seems like he's bored, like he just wants to not

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Speaker 2: come home or not really like talk to me. And

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Speaker 2: I feel like I've tried everything I could think of

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Speaker 2: to spice things up and keep him interested.

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Speaker 4: Are you bored?

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Speaker 2: No, you know, I mean I've been leeve been marry

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Speaker 2: for a while, you know, well not a while, but

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Speaker 2: three years, so it's a long time to be married.

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Speaker 2: And you know, it's comfortable.

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Speaker 1: Now, so I'm not really bored, yea, But I mean.

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Speaker 2: There are times when things have gotten sort of complacent,

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Speaker 2: but that I think that's just life.

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Speaker 4: Sure, do you think that he's actually cheating on you

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Speaker 4: or do you think that because he's bored that he might.

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Speaker 2: Well, here's the thing is we you know, we both

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Speaker 2: take separate cars to work, even though we're going the

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Speaker 2: same place.

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Speaker 1: But we both get home.

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Speaker 2: He usually gets home a little later, but now he's

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Speaker 2: been getting home like a few hours later than he

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Speaker 2: usually does. And he's also been getting text from his

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Speaker 2: secretary Lizzy right before we go to bed at ten eleven,

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Speaker 2: which is pretty late for us. And I've asked him, like,

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Speaker 2: why does your secretary keep texting you? What does she

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Speaker 2: need to talk to you about, like eleven o'clock at night?

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Speaker 2: And he says, oh, it's just work, and he's right,

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Speaker 2: you know, I'll say, just stop talk, like, stop being

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Speaker 2: like that, like you're being creaky right now.

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Speaker 3: I don't like that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, it's very like he just has like

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Speaker 2: these prepared answers to kind of shoot me down whenever

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Speaker 2: I ask him anything about Lizzy to where I don't

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Speaker 2: feel comfortable talking about it. But I don't think that's

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Speaker 2: appropriate or that she probably needs to tack with him

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Speaker 2: that late.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no, I think you think you're right. Does

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Speaker 3: Lizzie know you? Yes, she knows me, Okay.

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Speaker 4: I mean, coworkers don't need to be texting that late

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Speaker 4: unless you're working on a special project and it's like

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Speaker 4: a one time thing, but that's like not an everyday thing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, could he be working on a special project.

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Speaker 2: I don't think so, but it's I don't think so

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Speaker 2: I think work is just.

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Speaker 1: Normal as it's always been.

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Speaker 2: I don't think they have anything special going on right now.

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Speaker 2: But it's also just like the way he responds in

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Speaker 2: his tone whenever I ask him about it.

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Speaker 1: He gets very defensive. Yeah, not a good defensive and

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Speaker 1: this is usually not a good sign when it comes

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Speaker 1: to that. Well, we'll see if we can help you out.

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Speaker 1: You already told us grocery store. You guys are Rewards

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Speaker 1: card members at. So we'll call pretend to be from

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Speaker 1: the grocery store and say that every single month, we

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Speaker 1: choose one lucky Rewards member who gets free flowers delivered

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Speaker 1: to anybody that they want, and we'll see if he

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Speaker 1: sends us to here to somebody else. Okay, thank you,

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Speaker 1: last song, Come back and get your to catch teeter next.

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Speaker 1: Right in the middle of to Catch a Cheeter if

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Speaker 1: you're just joining us, Alicia is on the phone and

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Speaker 1: she thinks that her husband of three years, Edward, might

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Speaker 1: be cheating. So we're about to call him and pretend

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Speaker 1: to be from the grocery store that he's a rewards

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Speaker 1: member at, and tell him that every single month, we

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Speaker 1: choose one lucky Rewards member who gets free flowers delivered

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Speaker 1: from our floral department, and we'll see if he sends

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Speaker 1: those to his wife, Alicia or to somebody else. But first, Alicia,

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Speaker 1: why don't you refresh our memory of your situation?

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Speaker 2: My husband and I have been having problems lately. Has

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Speaker 2: been going to therapy and thinks of m's gotten worse,

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Speaker 2: that they haven't really gotten better. And lately, Yeah, hasn't

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Speaker 2: been coming home from work right away, and he's been

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Speaker 2: getting checks from his secretary pretty late at night and

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Speaker 2: won't tell me what they're about, and gets pretty defensive

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Speaker 1: So, just wondering what's going on. Yeah, me too, see

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Speaker 1: if we can find out for you. Are you ready

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Speaker 1: for us to call him?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, this is Corrib'le calling

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Speaker 1: from SO. I was looking for a rewards card member

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Speaker 1: named Edward. Yes speaking Hi Edward. Please don't hang up.

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Speaker 1: This is not a marketing phone call. I'm actually calling

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Speaker 1: to say congrats here this month's big winner.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I must be. Uh must be my lucky day.

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Speaker 1: I win the flowers. Every single month, we choose one

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Speaker 1: lucky Rewards card member at random to say thank you

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Speaker 1: very much for being a customer and shopping with us.

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Speaker 1: You've won thirty six long stem red roses, a box

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Speaker 1: of candy or chocolate, and a card to be delivered

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Speaker 1: to anybody that you want within the fifty United States.

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Speaker 1: It's a three hundred and sixteen dollars value. Actually wow okay, yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: thank you, thank you. I'm in Yeah. Can I tell

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Speaker 1: you who to make it up to?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 1: Let me get my form pulled up then, and okay,

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Speaker 1: first thing I'll need is the first and last name

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Speaker 1: of the person you want to send him to. Sure, yeah,

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Speaker 1: make it up to Lizzy. Okay, great, I will do that.

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Speaker 1: And is there anything you would like to put on

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Speaker 1: a card before I get the address and stuff? Sure? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: put Alicia.

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Speaker 5: I listened to the show too, and Lizzy is my

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Speaker 5: free pass? Okay, whoa, what are you serious right now?

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Speaker 5: Putting me on the show? Putting me on blast? You

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Speaker 5: know I listened to the show. I know your voice, buddy.

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Speaker 3: Well, thank you for listening to the show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you for listening to the show. Obviously. Then

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Speaker 1: you know your wife is on the phone, Alicia and

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Speaker 1: suspects that you might be messing around, So you are Alia.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm cheating on you with Lizzy. I'm

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Speaker 6: cheating on with you with Lizzia and mean anything. All right, listen,

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Speaker 6: it's just musical. But guess what, she's my past because

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Speaker 6: you cheated first, and you know this.

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Speaker 1: Did did she tell you that? Did she tell you

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Speaker 1: that she's a cheater? Did she tell you let him know?

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Speaker 2: Lisha?

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Speaker 1: Do you want sellmer? Should I? Alicia had sex with her? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Two months ago. Do you know how I found out?

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Speaker 1: We drive separate.

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Speaker 5: So one day I came home, I found a condom

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Speaker 5: wrapper in the waste basket.

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Speaker 1: Next to the bed in my bed?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 1: Do you think we use condom as know?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 1: So then I'm ashamed.

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Speaker 5: I felt being being cuckled by my oh my, your

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Speaker 2: So the way you deal with it is should cheat

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Speaker 2: on me with your secretary.

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Speaker 1: That's the way I deal with it, Your secretary. That's

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Speaker 1: so cliche.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I told you that you deal with it to

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Speaker 2: get back at me.

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Speaker 5: Oh, give me a break, like we haven't gone to therapy,

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Speaker 5: Like we haven't gone through this that you owe me.

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Speaker 1: You admitted that we talked about having a free past.

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Speaker 1: Guess what Lizzie is mine? I try to be a

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Speaker 1: little bit double about it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I was kind of obvious, but for you to

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Speaker 5: get mad about it, let alone go on the radio

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Speaker 5: and call it out.

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Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? Alicia? You hypocrite?

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Speaker 4: So you lied about it, and it kind of doesn't

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Speaker 4: make it better that you just didn't see it.

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Speaker 3: But Alicia, you don't, I mean it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, sounds like you know you guys obviously have a

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Speaker 1: lot to talk about or to not talk about it anymore.

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Speaker 2: I don't think you should just try to make it

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Speaker 2: an eye for an eye and get back at me

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Speaker 2: sleeping with your secretary and then lying to me about it.

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Speaker 5: You were fine with an eye for an eye.

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Speaker 1: You said you'd owed me all right, Do I have

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Speaker 1: a free pass or not?

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Speaker 3: Well, you should have just told her that you had,

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Speaker 3: that you were taking advantage of the past.

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Speaker 1: I mean at that point, no, I'm sorry if I

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Speaker 1: made you feel humiliated or called you out.

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Speaker 2: That was not what I wanted to do. I just

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Speaker 2: felt like you weren't talking to me and you couldn't

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Speaker 2: tell me what was going on. If you wanted a

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Speaker 2: free path, why didn't you have this conversation with me?

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Speaker 1: Did you have a conversation with me? Before you cheated.

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Speaker 1: Do you think I wanted any of this? Okay, Alicia,

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Speaker 1: you know, maybe you got your answer sounds like I'm ret.

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Speaker 2: I just talk about this off the year when we

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Speaker 2: go home. I mean, I love you, and I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to keep fighting with you. Do you

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Speaker 1: guys want to be together. I didn't enjoy being with Lizzie.

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Speaker 6: It was a one time thing, and I'm i'm I'm

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Speaker 6: I'm calling it off.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to do it again. I only did

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Speaker 1: it because I felt like I had to gain some

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Speaker 1: kind of control all right back in the relationship. But no,

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Speaker 1: you're who I want to be with, and I hate it.

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Speaker 1: I hate everything about it. I love you.

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Speaker 3: I love you too.

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Speaker 1: We didn't give up on Yeah, it's really good. It

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Speaker 1: sounds like you guys have something to talk about now

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Speaker 1: in therapy. Yeah. Well, yeah, okay, good luck. I hope

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Speaker 1: you work it out. I do me too.

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Speaker 3: I'm glad you guys have love there.

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Speaker 1: Cool. Thanks Lockeys, appreciate it, Thank you. I love you.

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