WEBVTT - EP 450: The Pettiness (feat. Chy & Winter) 0:00:00.680 --> 0:00:03.160 Welcome to Decisions Decisions. I don't think you should say 0:00:03.200 --> 0:00:06.440 decisions Decisions. It sounded like you was talking to Kurson. 0:00:06.840 --> 0:00:09.800 You definitely say to welcome, welcome to the new podcast. 0:00:10.039 --> 0:00:13.920 Oh wait, you want to say together the Decisions Decisions. 0:00:14.440 --> 0:00:19.480 Hey guys, welcome to another episode of Decision Decision. 0:00:19.960 --> 0:00:20.479 I'm your girl. 0:00:20.520 --> 0:00:23.560 Mandy b aka Peg the Sign aka Pegan Marcle aka 0:00:23.640 --> 0:00:25.480 Peggy Bundy aka de Bitch. 0:00:25.760 --> 0:00:28.000 Hey, everybody, I'm easy. Welcome back. 0:00:28.200 --> 0:00:29.560 We have some guests in the building, and every time 0:00:29.560 --> 0:00:31.400 I want to say BTL, I want to say GTL 0:00:31.520 --> 0:00:33.080 like Jersey Shore. 0:00:33.000 --> 0:00:34.680 Oh Jcam laundry. 0:00:34.720 --> 0:00:37.760 But let me try to do a very good intro. 0:00:38.240 --> 0:00:39.040 I love a good intro. 0:00:40.520 --> 0:00:44.040 Winter and Shy the social media influencers who are two 0:00:44.080 --> 0:00:47.320 women bringing unique perspectives in life on it hilarious little 0:00:47.320 --> 0:00:50.360 personality that just make you laugh out loud on their show, 0:00:50.800 --> 0:00:52.479 social media has been a part of their lives for 0:00:52.479 --> 0:00:53.400 as long as they can remember. 0:00:53.400 --> 0:00:58.440 Their IG hosts, oh, that's not in there, and may 0:00:58.600 --> 0:01:00.800 understand that it's a platform over like so. 0:01:00.960 --> 0:01:04.200 Winter believes in pushing the boundaries and living life to 0:01:04.240 --> 0:01:07.479 the fullest, while Shy is all about inspiring and empowering 0:01:07.480 --> 0:01:08.800 women to reach their goes and you're not. 0:01:09.760 --> 0:01:14.200 I am the way. This was not y'all, she cheated. 0:01:14.319 --> 0:01:23.360 This was intro website. I actually can't so anyway. 0:01:23.600 --> 0:01:26.200 Together, they take you on a journey that explores the 0:01:26.240 --> 0:01:28.000 complex world of social media. 0:01:28.280 --> 0:01:29.800 But I'll tell you what I think they show it. 0:01:30.440 --> 0:01:32.000 I think it is such a cute show before. 0:01:32.080 --> 0:01:33.840 If you've never heard of their show, I know a 0:01:33.880 --> 0:01:35.320 lot of our listeners I got to go on their 0:01:35.360 --> 0:01:36.440 show haven't. 0:01:36.200 --> 0:01:37.080 Crossed paths yet. 0:01:37.720 --> 0:01:40.320 I would describe your show as like friendship and current 0:01:40.319 --> 0:01:42.080 events and very very authentic. 0:01:42.480 --> 0:01:44.600 I love the show. I've had episodes about almost breaking 0:01:44.720 --> 0:01:45.640 up and. 0:01:45.560 --> 0:01:48.040 Then getting back together and crying, and like, to me, 0:01:48.160 --> 0:01:50.640 that just feels like very real and raw podcasting. 0:01:50.720 --> 0:01:57.120 So introducing y'all to Shy Winter, that was a great intro. 0:01:57.240 --> 0:02:00.040 I love it. I should have interrupted y'all saying I 0:02:00.080 --> 0:02:00.880 can't write off that way. 0:02:03.120 --> 0:02:05.400 Hold up, because look, I'm no better because I'd. 0:02:05.280 --> 0:02:13.600 Be using Chatgypt for my intro. I call mine. Look glorious. 0:02:13.600 --> 0:02:17.240 She knows she gets Gloria Patricia Tabernacle, That's what I 0:02:17.280 --> 0:02:19.320 call her. I say, I gotta ask Gloria some questions 0:02:19.480 --> 0:02:20.080 I don't have that. 0:02:20.280 --> 0:02:23.040 I'm old school me too. 0:02:23.560 --> 0:02:24.160 No, I've seen that. 0:02:24.200 --> 0:02:26.040 When you said something about chat GYBT on your story, 0:02:26.040 --> 0:02:28.239 I said, bit not too much, not to not too much. 0:02:28.840 --> 0:02:31.560 I said, you're not gonna be talking about for exactly. 0:02:33.120 --> 0:02:36.520 Because people been writing like really like even passive aggressive emails. 0:02:36.919 --> 0:02:38.639 You might try to cuss me out with tack. Oh 0:02:38.720 --> 0:02:42.119 I am that, I say. Furthermore, I'd be like, let 0:02:42.120 --> 0:02:45.320 me handle it, chat handle it. Yeah right. 0:02:45.600 --> 0:02:48.839 I've had emails from PR teams agents all this ship 0:02:48.919 --> 0:02:51.200 that's chat GBT, and I'm like, oh, y'all, bish is 0:02:51.360 --> 0:02:53.240 really paying for someone else to write it? 0:02:53.440 --> 0:02:53.679 H know? 0:02:54.560 --> 0:02:57.560 Anyway, So today I really wanted to do an episode 0:02:57.600 --> 0:03:00.000 all about breakups and makeups because if you guys don't 0:03:00.040 --> 0:03:02.320 listening behind the lives, Shi has been really open about 0:03:02.320 --> 0:03:04.079 a breakup me, and he's been open about her breakup. 0:03:04.160 --> 0:03:06.760 I've been open and like and well, I know, I 0:03:06.800 --> 0:03:08.240 know you ain't going through one one right now. 0:03:08.280 --> 0:03:11.200 So we got but we've all probably what's pverities niggas 0:03:11.200 --> 0:03:16.760 I do, I'll be crying, shouldn't, Oh they don't know, 0:03:16.880 --> 0:03:17.240 but I do? 0:03:17.840 --> 0:03:21.760 So ok kidding? You cry publicly, you cry in your. 0:03:21.680 --> 0:03:25.880 Big I mean I cried my friends, I guess okay, yeah, 0:03:26.040 --> 0:03:27.560 tell us your sign so the people can know. 0:03:28.280 --> 0:03:30.840 So I am an Aquarius and I am not. I 0:03:30.880 --> 0:03:34.720 am not emotional at all. But this relationship has gotten good. 0:03:34.880 --> 0:03:36.520 I've been going through the motions. 0:03:37.080 --> 0:03:41.440 I've been what's the fourth saying of a grief again? Yeah, 0:03:41.480 --> 0:03:42.840 now now I'm today. 0:03:42.920 --> 0:03:44.280 I don't give a fuck to talk about right now. 0:03:44.360 --> 0:03:46.240 But I really am not a crier at all. Like 0:03:46.280 --> 0:03:48.160 we we talk all the time about our difference of 0:03:48.200 --> 0:03:50.880 emotions because we are so polar opposite when it comes 0:03:50.920 --> 0:03:53.160 to it. But y'all, I had this podcast I recently 0:03:53.160 --> 0:03:54.480 went on, and I was like, I was in the 0:03:54.520 --> 0:03:56.320 middle of crying again. I was like, I probably shouldn't 0:03:56.320 --> 0:03:59.040 agree to do it. Literally, I was like, I am 0:03:59.280 --> 0:04:01.320 really cried like four different times. 0:04:01.320 --> 0:04:03.280 Believe it'll be out by this time. So like, yeah, Shan, 0:04:03.480 --> 0:04:05.040 my god, but Shannon will get you there. 0:04:05.040 --> 0:04:06.560 Shanon will get you there, and she'll just stare at 0:04:06.640 --> 0:04:10.280 you with this not even like with this, with this love, 0:04:10.680 --> 0:04:12.520 and her green eyes are just piercing into you, and. 0:04:12.520 --> 0:04:22.599 I'm just like, you gotta and and I was literally crying. 0:04:22.640 --> 0:04:25.760 I was like, do I still nice? No? 0:04:25.880 --> 0:04:30.000 Yeah, I am a tourist. I definitely am really, really 0:04:30.040 --> 0:04:32.360 an emotional person. But it's just so funny because when 0:04:32.360 --> 0:04:35.039 people first like meet us, they would assume she's like 0:04:35.080 --> 0:04:37.120 the softer one, the more emotional one. 0:04:37.360 --> 0:04:39.599 But definitely I am more emotional than she is, like 0:04:39.720 --> 0:04:40.160 by far. 0:04:40.839 --> 0:04:42.640 So it's crazy because I don't think I knew what 0:04:42.680 --> 0:04:43.279 to expect. 0:04:43.880 --> 0:04:47.320 And I know, you you funny, you fun I met her. 0:04:47.400 --> 0:04:50.159 She was like squatting in the bathroom, dancing and she 0:04:50.680 --> 0:04:53.640 bro When I first in mind you like, I didn't 0:04:53.720 --> 0:04:56.800 know she was from b She was popping her pussy 0:04:56.800 --> 0:04:59.120 above the toilet and you have to tell her to 0:04:59.120 --> 0:05:01.280 get there. She was clu I'm in the soul And 0:05:01.320 --> 0:05:05.360 I was like, well, you weren't crowing that night? I 0:05:07.960 --> 0:05:10.560 did every single morning and every single night. 0:05:10.600 --> 0:05:15.080 Oh well, yeah I was not exact that. I wasn't. 0:05:15.640 --> 0:05:17.280 I mean, you know, warned people, not like in a 0:05:17.320 --> 0:05:19.640 bad way, but I'd be like, she's a partier, like 0:05:19.720 --> 0:05:21.080 she wants to have a good time. 0:05:21.160 --> 0:05:24.320 She dances on the bartops and the tables and all that. 0:05:24.440 --> 0:05:25.960 So I didn't know that. People didn't know. 0:05:26.200 --> 0:05:28.400 You a little loose one, I know, but. 0:05:30.000 --> 0:05:33.200 People, it's so different sometimes they it's like it does 0:05:33.240 --> 0:05:35.200 it's not even that bad. But when when we're together, 0:05:35.240 --> 0:05:38.039 it'd be like, I'm so extreme to herself, but you 0:05:38.080 --> 0:05:39.920 can't get there. 0:05:40.000 --> 0:05:42.479 No, I get I can get there, but people don't 0:05:42.480 --> 0:05:45.720 expect that I'm as introverted as I am when I'm outside, 0:05:46.000 --> 0:05:47.320 Like you know, they don't really realize. 0:05:47.600 --> 0:05:48.440 I also realize. 0:05:48.480 --> 0:05:51.599 I'll tell you what five, five, eleven say. I was 0:05:51.640 --> 0:05:54.120 about to say six eight, you had the flets on. 0:05:54.160 --> 0:05:54.640 I looked down. 0:05:54.680 --> 0:05:59.239 I said, bits on, this is a sell. 0:05:58.760 --> 0:06:02.559 Outside, Like y'all, I'll actually give the most you give 0:06:02.880 --> 0:06:04.920 tall look like you ain't gonna be the one who 0:06:05.120 --> 0:06:07.000 cause you know what I mean. If we've seen Winter online, 0:06:07.000 --> 0:06:08.839 we don't think she gonna meet the one turn it up. 0:06:08.839 --> 0:06:09.440 So I like it. 0:06:09.440 --> 0:06:13.200 It gives a little opposite and said, yeah, we say 0:06:13.240 --> 0:06:15.120 that a lot like when people meet us in person. 0:06:15.200 --> 0:06:18.240 They're they're surprised at like the polar opposite of what 0:06:18.279 --> 0:06:18.600 they thought. 0:06:18.680 --> 0:06:21.800 Was I just recently maybe I said it to Jacob. 0:06:21.839 --> 0:06:25.120 I can't remember, but I said recently that I met 0:06:25.120 --> 0:06:28.159 someone who said, oh, when's the next time you're on tour? 0:06:28.760 --> 0:06:30.320 And I was like, oh, Like it gave me this 0:06:30.360 --> 0:06:32.240 big wave of and you guys just got off tour. 0:06:32.320 --> 0:06:36.720 Vinnie was there shout out to that. He said, y'all 0:06:36.760 --> 0:06:39.680 show was great, and so we you know, we like 0:06:39.680 --> 0:06:41.280 we're having this conversation. And this guy out said I 0:06:41.320 --> 0:06:44.039 was at a un No party and he said, why 0:06:44.120 --> 0:06:46.480 is it that tour is giving you anxiety? What are 0:06:46.480 --> 0:06:49.479 your fans like? And I was like, wow, that's interesting 0:06:49.520 --> 0:06:52.000 you said that, because that's probably the thing that's exhausting. 0:06:52.440 --> 0:06:54.960 My fans is turned the fuck up. My fans is 0:06:55.000 --> 0:06:57.000 turned up. If I'm not turned up, they're asking me 0:06:57.040 --> 0:06:59.719 why I'm not turned up. I felt pressure to be more. 0:07:00.000 --> 0:07:02.640 It's hurted because what they're receiving on the podcast is 0:07:02.720 --> 0:07:04.400 high energy meeting exactly. 0:07:04.480 --> 0:07:05.400 They got that high and that. 0:07:05.440 --> 0:07:07.200 Is what it is for me too, Like I'll just 0:07:07.279 --> 0:07:09.960 feel so overstimulated with the amount of people we have 0:07:10.040 --> 0:07:12.400 to meet and talk to, and just like I'm just 0:07:12.480 --> 0:07:15.200 not how she is. She's a social butterfly. It's easy 0:07:15.280 --> 0:07:17.120 for her to come to National Hearth. For me, it 0:07:17.240 --> 0:07:20.800 takes a lot of effort for me to like push 0:07:20.880 --> 0:07:22.960 myself out there and talk to a bunch of people 0:07:23.000 --> 0:07:24.640 and be nice to a bunch of people and giggle 0:07:24.680 --> 0:07:26.400 with a bunch of people, So like, that's sad. 0:07:26.400 --> 0:07:28.760 When I say draining, it's funny that you just use 0:07:28.840 --> 0:07:31.680 the word. I've been talking to a guy. It's so 0:07:31.760 --> 0:07:34.840 weird because we fucked years ago, and he like, just 0:07:34.880 --> 0:07:36.280 be on my phone ow because we live in the 0:07:36.320 --> 0:07:39.040 same city, and I'm just not interested. And I feel 0:07:39.040 --> 0:07:41.160 like I'm not interested because I can't remember the dick. 0:07:41.240 --> 0:07:43.600 So it's like I don't even want to go back 0:07:43.600 --> 0:07:45.080 to it because I don't remember it. It means it 0:07:45.120 --> 0:07:47.520 wasn't me memor it wasn't memorable, So let's just be friends. 0:07:47.840 --> 0:07:49.640 And literally every time he hit me to hang out, 0:07:49.680 --> 0:07:52.280 I'm like, I'm recharging because I'm overstimulated. 0:07:52.360 --> 0:07:54.640 I didn't realize how often I use the word over stimulated. 0:07:55.000 --> 0:07:55.800 But it's that. 0:07:55.680 --> 0:08:03.040 Between work, between traveling, between constantly having to be performative, essentially, like, 0:08:03.760 --> 0:08:05.400 you know, they don't care about what we're going through 0:08:05.400 --> 0:08:07.600 in life. You're going through a breakup, whether someone died 0:08:07.600 --> 0:08:10.400 in your family, whether you're dealing with like heartache. When 0:08:10.440 --> 0:08:12.960 you see people you hug hey, be nice, you have to, 0:08:13.040 --> 0:08:16.160 you know, And so I literally am like WHOA. Every 0:08:16.160 --> 0:08:18.760 week I have to do like two to three days 0:08:18.760 --> 0:08:21.040 of like yeah, and so. 0:08:21.240 --> 0:08:23.760 You know, and then I go so hard not remembering 0:08:23.760 --> 0:08:25.680 how I got home because then when I go out 0:08:25.720 --> 0:08:29.240 a bit bro that's that's us. I will say. 0:08:29.240 --> 0:08:31.680 I don't think she gives herself enough credit when it 0:08:31.720 --> 0:08:34.080 comes to that, because we are We do take our time. 0:08:34.240 --> 0:08:37.000 But like in that moment, you are so loving and 0:08:37.040 --> 0:08:39.920 so you give them your alle We give them all 0:08:39.920 --> 0:08:42.440 our all. But you'll see moments on like the Patreon 0:08:42.480 --> 0:08:44.720 because we'll try to film behind the scenes. There'll be 0:08:44.760 --> 0:08:46.560 a moment like after the show where we just. 0:08:46.480 --> 0:08:51.120 Like like living just exactly, but they won't pick that up. 0:08:51.160 --> 0:08:51.960 Though they won't take it up. 0:08:54.960 --> 0:08:57.800 Yeah, it's not even like you're really faking it. 0:08:57.840 --> 0:09:01.520 And so you can and our fan what do be anesome? Right? 0:09:03.320 --> 0:09:07.560 But our literally and it doesn't even matter if you 0:09:07.559 --> 0:09:10.079 meet somebody, think about being that famous walk out of 0:09:10.080 --> 0:09:14.520 the venue. People are looking like iccurity guard, the driver 0:09:14.679 --> 0:09:17.880 you have, you go to a restaurant, everybody is freaking. 0:09:17.640 --> 0:09:20.000 Out about you, and so whatever we feel for them 0:09:20.040 --> 0:09:21.400 thirty minutes, that ain't nothing. 0:09:21.640 --> 0:09:23.079 Yeah, I gotta do no more. 0:09:23.120 --> 0:09:23.320 Though. 0:09:23.480 --> 0:09:26.160 Now I have a game for y'all. This is called poetry. 0:09:27.040 --> 0:09:29.200 It's our poetry. But it's a song that y'all know, 0:09:29.559 --> 0:09:31.600 and it's gonna be read as a poem. Okay, okay, 0:09:31.720 --> 0:09:33.199 so you're gonna have to try to see who we 0:09:33.240 --> 0:09:34.640 gets this person. I'll definitely a song. 0:09:34.679 --> 0:09:42.079 Guess the song. Okay, but I wish we had a buzzard. Okay. 0:09:43.240 --> 0:09:46.040 Just want to get your attention. Really want to be 0:09:47.080 --> 0:09:50.800 oh neo, no no, Really want to gets your attention. 0:09:51.840 --> 0:09:54.320 Yeah exactly, No, wait, I. 0:09:54.240 --> 0:09:59.600 Really want go sure, but you sung the songs, you know, 0:09:59.640 --> 0:10:03.520 I ma, that's only if you ain't scared. You still 0:10:03.520 --> 0:10:05.719 didn't need to name a song, and I will get 0:10:05.760 --> 0:10:07.160 your attention. Really want to get to things. 0:10:07.160 --> 0:10:12.760 I don't ring the bells. I know this, I know, 0:10:12.800 --> 0:10:16.360 I know you, oh so well, I know this. 0:10:21.360 --> 0:10:26.360 Daddy daddy so he got it like three. 0:10:26.120 --> 0:10:31.000 Words in bitch got you know, but I knew, but 0:10:31.040 --> 0:10:39.240 I know now. I do want to going from there. 0:10:39.640 --> 0:10:42.760 We did y'all podcast Behind the Likes, by the way, 0:10:42.880 --> 0:10:46.480 love that it's in the mirk. Yeah, y'all had us 0:10:46.600 --> 0:10:49.800 draw things from a hat. Yes, and so apparently ours was. 0:10:49.960 --> 0:10:52.520 I can't wait to see how real crazy these were. 0:10:52.520 --> 0:10:55.640 Their original quote should be just for them. So now, 0:10:56.040 --> 0:10:57.840 but we didn't read these, y'all. We got left with them. 0:10:57.880 --> 0:10:59.199 So we're gonna do y'all got left with. 0:10:59.160 --> 0:11:01.440 This, so you draw I don't know exactly the one printed. 0:11:03.760 --> 0:11:08.400 Look there we go. H this is a horrible one. 0:11:09.000 --> 0:11:13.040 Oh no, I said, what's the worst advice you've ever given? 0:11:13.040 --> 0:11:13.439 On the mic? 0:11:13.559 --> 0:11:16.560 They give us ship for our advice section. So what 0:11:16.640 --> 0:11:20.080 you say, Okay, this is horrible. Please y'all do not 0:11:20.160 --> 0:11:21.000 judge this one time? 0:11:21.040 --> 0:11:27.440 We should? I tell just we actually, y'all know this 0:11:27.520 --> 0:11:29.880 is so good. I want all of us answer yes, yeah, 0:11:30.000 --> 0:11:30.480 I like this. 0:11:30.679 --> 0:11:33.960 So there was one time where you're gonna say where 0:11:33.960 --> 0:11:36.680 we said something wasn't really sexual assault and it. 0:11:36.800 --> 0:11:39.800 Was oh no, wait, okay, what was it? But here's 0:11:39.800 --> 0:11:42.880 the here's the was it? I'm learning I haven't. 0:11:42.679 --> 0:11:44.920 Remember, no, And now we we really are, you know, 0:11:45.800 --> 0:11:46.959 live and learn, Live and learn. 0:11:47.040 --> 0:11:47.720 We live and learn. 0:11:47.800 --> 0:11:51.000 Honestly, we made we made a bad case of judgment. 0:11:51.040 --> 0:11:53.120 But I'll tell you the advice. I don't. 0:11:53.160 --> 0:11:54.200 I kind of stand by it a little. 0:11:54.480 --> 0:11:56.520 No, I don't really stand by because there's different there's 0:11:56.520 --> 0:11:58.679 different versions of sexual assault, you know what I'm saying, 0:11:58.760 --> 0:12:01.120 And you can't define what some might's versions. Yeah, that's 0:12:01.120 --> 0:12:03.960 where we will say we are we fall that. Okay, 0:12:04.120 --> 0:12:05.480 So what was the scenario. 0:12:05.679 --> 0:12:08.000 The scenario was basically this this girl. She had a 0:12:08.000 --> 0:12:10.040 guy best friend and you know, they would a lot. 0:12:10.040 --> 0:12:11.560 It was lurt a lot, and she let them sleep 0:12:11.559 --> 0:12:12.920 in the bed like they slept in the bed. 0:12:12.840 --> 0:12:15.960 Together, that made out. But she said, all right, we're 0:12:15.960 --> 0:12:18.560 going to sleep. Do not do not touch me anymore. 0:12:18.600 --> 0:12:20.040 Do not do anything with me, like you know, we 0:12:20.080 --> 0:12:20.480 have a pillow. 0:12:20.920 --> 0:12:22.440 She said that she didn't take pill up between us. 0:12:22.480 --> 0:12:26.320 Didn't say but all of that though, but she she 0:12:26.320 --> 0:12:28.319 didn't do all that. She just was like she's. 0:12:29.000 --> 0:12:32.240 Were So she said she woke up and he's twitter 0:12:32.280 --> 0:12:34.280 pissy and we were both like I like a little 0:12:34.280 --> 0:12:34.760 finger in. 0:12:34.679 --> 0:12:38.920 The pussy, you know, yeah. 0:12:38.040 --> 0:12:42.000 Okay, no, okay, here's here's my thing. Here's my thing. 0:12:42.240 --> 0:12:44.360 If I woke up and I'm like had made out 0:12:44.400 --> 0:12:46.079 with a nigga. We was cuddling in the bed. I 0:12:46.120 --> 0:12:47.640 woke up and he's trying to touch my pussy. I'm 0:12:47.640 --> 0:12:50.160 gonna just be like stop. And then after he don't stop, 0:12:50.200 --> 0:12:51.240 and be like do you not hear me say it? 0:12:51.240 --> 0:12:51.480 Stop? 0:12:51.559 --> 0:12:52.960 But it's like if it just happened. I'm not about 0:12:52.960 --> 0:12:53.720 to be like you said this. 0:12:53.760 --> 0:12:55.920 So the first time he did it was the assault 0:12:55.920 --> 0:12:57.400 because you said. 0:12:57.320 --> 0:13:00.280 Yeah, we don't want to fuck you. Yeah, a part 0:13:00.280 --> 0:13:02.839 of sex, just like oral sex. Why did you ever 0:13:02.880 --> 0:13:04.800 tell am not? I think he just was like touching 0:13:04.840 --> 0:13:05.400 her koochie. 0:13:05.480 --> 0:13:07.600 I don't know, but it don't matter you touch my cookie, 0:13:07.600 --> 0:13:14.839 bro regardless sexual assault and I never brought this, I 0:13:14.960 --> 0:13:15.360 have it. 0:13:15.440 --> 0:13:17.040 I actually think we cut it out because we started 0:13:17.120 --> 0:13:19.400 arguing about it, so we had a question come in. 0:13:19.480 --> 0:13:22.880 They were like, oh, my boyfriend always wants to have 0:13:22.920 --> 0:13:23.679 sex and I don't. 0:13:24.200 --> 0:13:25.559 How do I get out of this rut? 0:13:25.600 --> 0:13:28.200 And I was like, just literally get in the move 0:13:28.360 --> 0:13:31.120 or get break up, like have sex and take yourself there. 0:13:31.440 --> 0:13:34.720 So that Amandy was like, no, like you're forcing someone 0:13:34.720 --> 0:13:35.240 to fucking them. 0:13:35.320 --> 0:13:38.640 And so in what I'm saying is like, you know 0:13:38.679 --> 0:13:40.280 when you don't want to go out the house, then 0:13:40.320 --> 0:13:44.199 you do, and you're like that's all I'm saying, Yeah, 0:13:44.240 --> 0:13:46.240 he's already your man, you already live with him. Like 0:13:46.720 --> 0:13:49.400 to me, sometimes when I'm saying just do it, go 0:13:49.440 --> 0:13:51.880 through the motion, is because it's actually easier to get 0:13:51.920 --> 0:13:55.400 stuck not fucking than it is to just take the leap. 0:13:55.760 --> 0:13:57.600 So many times we're just be like, we're gonna do tonight, 0:13:57.600 --> 0:13:59.640 We're gonna do tonight, and then we don't know, actually 0:13:59.679 --> 0:14:03.480 make them measureie, put the music on, feel being that 0:14:03.640 --> 0:14:05.680 energy again, because a lot of times couples kind of 0:14:05.720 --> 0:14:08.079 like weck with that same T shirt all like. 0:14:10.640 --> 0:14:13.280 What, I'm not fucking you don't like that you're in 0:14:13.320 --> 0:14:13.640 a run. 0:14:13.800 --> 0:14:16.240 I'm not you know what I'm saying, even when you 0:14:16.240 --> 0:14:18.920 don't want to For the most part, I haven't not 0:14:19.080 --> 0:14:21.320 wanted to fuck, Okay, you know, Okay. 0:14:21.680 --> 0:14:24.040 If I don't want to have I'm not having it. 0:14:24.080 --> 0:14:26.600 I'm not I'm not fucking if. I really am just 0:14:26.600 --> 0:14:28.440 being like petty about it. But I always if I'm 0:14:28.440 --> 0:14:29.720 in a relationship and I love you and I love 0:14:29.720 --> 0:14:31.360 our sex, I'm always gonna want to fuck. 0:14:31.520 --> 0:14:32.920 You know what I'm saying. I'm not mad at that. 0:14:33.000 --> 0:14:35.280 Yeah, Sometimes I'm just like not into it sometimes like 0:14:35.360 --> 0:14:37.520 if we had sex the night before my Coochie store. 0:14:37.960 --> 0:14:43.320 Or if I'm just tired and examples night before, but yeah, 0:14:43.080 --> 0:14:45.320 yeah I didn't want What is the worst advice you've 0:14:45.320 --> 0:14:46.000 ever given one to? 0:14:46.200 --> 0:14:49.440 No, that was the I just got it. 0:14:49.520 --> 0:14:51.920 I actually just gave the worst advice and I felt 0:14:52.000 --> 0:14:54.160 kind of bad. I even was like, sorry, this is 0:14:54.200 --> 0:14:56.200 the worst advice I think I've given an all nine years. 0:14:56.400 --> 0:15:00.480 It happened on Patreon and we had a guy, uh 0:15:00.520 --> 0:15:03.680 the guy. A guy had a question where he assumed 0:15:03.760 --> 0:15:07.280 like his stepbrother or someone that wasn't related to him 0:15:07.720 --> 0:15:10.240 was kind of attracted to him by how he was acting. 0:15:10.600 --> 0:15:12.400 And I pretty much told him to like gay bait 0:15:12.480 --> 0:15:14.680 him and see if she would like. 0:15:17.400 --> 0:15:18.880 I said, take him to the. 0:15:18.880 --> 0:15:21.120 Gym, maybe spot him and set your dick on his 0:15:21.160 --> 0:15:22.200 forehead and see if. 0:15:22.480 --> 0:15:24.120 Like I gave the worst. 0:15:26.680 --> 0:15:29.240 Then I was like, ooh, so all the porn I watched, 0:15:29.280 --> 0:15:31.880 like you know, they be playing video games and like 0:15:32.320 --> 0:15:34.280 they make a pet for a little hand job. 0:15:35.640 --> 0:15:37.400 And I said, just see how he reacts. 0:15:37.600 --> 0:15:39.640 And it was me like trying to put him in 0:15:39.680 --> 0:15:42.640 all these gay want to be gay with him. 0:15:43.080 --> 0:15:45.400 He wanted to, but he was trying to see he's gay. 0:15:46.360 --> 0:15:50.120 He felt like he was getting this energy from someone. 0:15:49.880 --> 0:15:51.560 Who identifies as straight. 0:15:51.840 --> 0:15:55.320 And I was like, broaig straight all the time, but 0:15:55.400 --> 0:15:57.920 if he's giving you those signals, he just may not 0:15:57.960 --> 0:15:58.560 be comfortable. 0:16:00.120 --> 0:16:04.400 Bad that I don't think one. And you know what 0:16:05.120 --> 0:16:09.000 me saying what you did on sports, that's crazy, that's 0:16:09.560 --> 0:16:11.080 that's just but you know what's crazy before. 0:16:11.520 --> 0:16:14.040 I love a good gay porn. I don't watch you off, 0:16:14.160 --> 0:16:15.960 but I love a good gay porno intro and. 0:16:16.040 --> 0:16:18.120 I'd be like, just put it on. Say you react, 0:16:18.120 --> 0:16:20.400 what's the intro that you like? Like, I've never suck 0:16:20.440 --> 0:16:24.600 dick before? Yes you have. I don't get you, Yes 0:16:24.680 --> 0:16:28.280 you have, Johnny. I don't like intro support at all. 0:16:28.320 --> 0:16:29.680 I just skipped to what I need to get to 0:16:29.720 --> 0:16:30.280 and I keep it. 0:16:30.320 --> 0:16:33.080 Putting a story part of porn. Do you like favorite 0:16:33.080 --> 0:16:35.320 part of the cup? Do you like the I. 0:16:35.240 --> 0:16:37.320 Would say the ending, I would say like the cum. 0:16:37.240 --> 0:16:39.040 Shot, the middle, all the same. 0:16:40.080 --> 0:16:42.000 No, I love a good storyline and applot. I love 0:16:42.440 --> 0:16:44.200 on the on the van and they start talking about 0:16:44.200 --> 0:16:47.680 ship and then he's not he never act none of 0:16:47.680 --> 0:16:50.440 them having his homeboy penis and be like, yeah, we've 0:16:50.480 --> 0:16:51.240 just been roommates. 0:16:51.320 --> 0:16:51.880 Yeah y'all have been. 0:16:52.840 --> 0:16:54.760 When they pick up a guy and I guess he's 0:16:54.760 --> 0:16:59.120 struggling financially and he's like, I'll. 0:16:57.800 --> 0:16:59.880 Get I could get you. I should go. 0:17:01.600 --> 0:17:04.520 I to like, that's the born you know I like 0:17:04.560 --> 0:17:05.040 that too, though. 0:17:05.040 --> 0:17:05.399 I like that. 0:17:08.440 --> 0:17:17.719 Okay, question you have a question, compliment your co This 0:17:17.800 --> 0:17:21.239 is a little much, Oh y'all are to do this? 0:17:21.480 --> 0:17:28.240 Okay, because yeah, I actually like this is like sexy 0:17:28.240 --> 0:17:31.040 way like, okay, okay. 0:17:30.720 --> 0:17:33.479 What's the pettiest thing you've ever done after a breakup? 0:17:34.920 --> 0:17:43.520 Hear it? I got ya? Okay? Well yeah, I mean 0:17:44.359 --> 0:17:46.720 I was talking. I was talking. 0:17:46.720 --> 0:17:48.560 I was like dating this guy and like it was getting, 0:17:48.560 --> 0:17:50.280 you know, pretty seriously to the point we're like about 0:17:50.320 --> 0:17:54.840 to really be in a relationship. And basically he was 0:17:54.920 --> 0:17:58.359 in Florida for work stuff and I was in l 0:17:58.440 --> 0:18:02.879 A and then should up and then and then he 0:18:02.880 --> 0:18:05.359 had flown me, you know, obviously to him. And you know, 0:18:05.359 --> 0:18:08.439 I'm chilling in the house and I am starting to 0:18:08.520 --> 0:18:11.240 notice some odd things around the house, Like I notice 0:18:11.240 --> 0:18:13.359 a little bit of something that could be makeup on 0:18:13.400 --> 0:18:13.680 the bed. 0:18:14.280 --> 0:18:15.200 So mind you, I. 0:18:15.160 --> 0:18:18.760