WEBVTT - All My Children 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.480 Let me tell you something. Let me tell you something. 0:00:03.680 --> 0:00:06.160 Taco Bell is so good and I'm not. 0:00:06.160 --> 0:00:07.000 Ashamed of it. 0:00:07.400 --> 0:00:09.520 For a while, I tried to act like, oh, I 0:00:09.560 --> 0:00:13.000 don't eat that, ill girl. Fuck y'all, I don't ever. 0:00:13.280 --> 0:00:15.200 But I don't even know why you was ever acted 0:00:15.280 --> 0:00:17.480 like that, because you'll be fucking up Taco Bell. 0:00:17.600 --> 0:00:18.759 I fuck up Taco Bell. 0:00:18.960 --> 0:00:20.919 But you're not scared of the mystery meat. 0:00:21.079 --> 0:00:23.280 I'm not. I don't put mystery meat in my mouth before. 0:00:25.760 --> 0:00:25.920 No. 0:00:26.079 --> 0:00:30.600 Okay, all right, all right, all right, tough crowd, Okay. 0:00:30.040 --> 0:00:53.320 Okay, what's up, y'all? 0:00:53.640 --> 0:00:57.120 It's your girl licks Pete any sugarl drain a call, 0:00:57.240 --> 0:00:57.560 and you. 0:00:57.520 --> 0:01:01.240 Are tuned in to another episode of where a drunk 0:01:01.320 --> 0:01:02.920 Mind speaks sober thought. 0:01:03.120 --> 0:01:06.679 We ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no 0:01:06.880 --> 0:01:08.039 guests today. 0:01:08.480 --> 0:01:10.520 We don't you know what's crazy. 0:01:10.920 --> 0:01:13.000 So somebody had tweeted me yesterday and they were like, 0:01:13.040 --> 0:01:15.520 when are y'all gonna start letting regular people come on 0:01:15.560 --> 0:01:17.160 the show. When she said regularly, she just meant like 0:01:17.200 --> 0:01:19.679 somebody who's not famous or whatever, And I was like, 0:01:20.640 --> 0:01:23.800 I responded back to her, and I was like, honestly, 0:01:24.080 --> 0:01:27.039 the listeners don't like when we have guests, period, So 0:01:27.080 --> 0:01:30.039 we're not gonna frustrate them any further than we already do. 0:01:30.440 --> 0:01:31.160 And another girl. 0:01:31.080 --> 0:01:33.040 Tweeted me, she was like, facts, because I've been listening 0:01:33.120 --> 0:01:35.160 since twenty twenty one and I've never listened to a 0:01:35.160 --> 0:01:36.120 guest episode. 0:01:36.600 --> 0:01:38.640 Yeah, it's a few people that I see say that 0:01:38.720 --> 0:01:40.720 all the time, Like they be like, whenever y'all have gifts, 0:01:40.800 --> 0:01:41.880 I just skip over the episodes. 0:01:41.920 --> 0:01:44.600 That's crazy, because the guest episodes be really good. 0:01:44.840 --> 0:01:47.080 The guest episodes do be good. I mean, I don't know. 0:01:47.160 --> 0:01:51.040 I think people just have their preferences because, to be honest. 0:01:51.160 --> 0:01:51.720 I don't know. 0:01:52.720 --> 0:01:55.880 Like GIP, I think when people think of podcasts, they 0:01:55.920 --> 0:01:57.360 don't think of you having gigged. 0:01:57.400 --> 0:02:00.360 Well, this isn't a podcast as a talk show, but when. 0:02:00.200 --> 0:02:02.720 We started it was a podcast, so they probably like, 0:02:02.760 --> 0:02:04.200 they never used to have gifts, and we used to 0:02:04.240 --> 0:02:06.200 always say that we don't have gifts on our shows, 0:02:06.200 --> 0:02:08.120 So they probably like, you bitches, don't switch it up 0:02:09.600 --> 0:02:12.720 because Hollywood. Y'all have got Hollywood on this. 0:02:13.240 --> 0:02:16.080 We switched it to a talk show, damn it, we 0:02:16.160 --> 0:02:17.359 gotta do. That's there. 0:02:17.480 --> 0:02:19.560 But that's probably why they don't want to listen to 0:02:19.600 --> 0:02:20.920 though when we have gifts because they'd be like, I 0:02:20.960 --> 0:02:23.240 missed when y'all used to be yelling at each other 0:02:23.280 --> 0:02:23.840 on the floor. 0:02:24.360 --> 0:02:26.960 That's crazy to miss that, Okay, but you know what, 0:02:27.000 --> 0:02:29.000 I do think people, it was a fun time. 0:02:29.400 --> 0:02:30.399 I think people. 0:02:30.160 --> 0:02:32.440 Miss I see people say this all the time. They're like, 0:02:32.560 --> 0:02:35.160 I miss the red and black background because y'all were 0:02:35.200 --> 0:02:36.080 so unhinged, you. 0:02:36.120 --> 0:02:36.720 Know what I'm saying. 0:02:37.080 --> 0:02:39.360 Yeah, I think that people miss that because y'all have 0:02:39.440 --> 0:02:43.400 to understand though, like we were not that we're not 0:02:43.480 --> 0:02:47.800 like Hungry now, but we were a lot more immature 0:02:47.919 --> 0:02:48.560 than we are now. 0:02:48.600 --> 0:02:49.600 Like we've grown a lot. 0:02:50.160 --> 0:02:51.959 Y'all have to realize, like we have been doing poor 0:02:52.000 --> 0:02:53.760 minds for a while now. 0:02:54.200 --> 0:02:56.400 Yeah, I don't even think it had anything to do 0:02:56.480 --> 0:02:59.680 with Hungry. I just think it was just like not 0:03:00.000 --> 0:03:03.119 thinking about things before we said we just would say 0:03:03.160 --> 0:03:05.400 whatever was on our mind. Now we're just a little 0:03:05.440 --> 0:03:08.840 more cautious with the things that we say because we 0:03:08.880 --> 0:03:10.840 have to because we have to be. Yeah, we have 0:03:10.960 --> 0:03:13.519 to be. I think back then it wasn't as many 0:03:13.520 --> 0:03:17.040 people listening, and we just were really really blunt and 0:03:17.080 --> 0:03:19.280 would just say whatever it was that came to our mind? 0:03:19.480 --> 0:03:21.919 Like crazy? Sheit because when I be seeing some of 0:03:21.960 --> 0:03:24.240 the old episodes or like clips from the old episodes, 0:03:24.240 --> 0:03:26.919 I'd be like, I can't believe I said it. I know. 0:03:28.360 --> 0:03:31.000 It be really like oh my god, and I would 0:03:31.000 --> 0:03:32.240 be dead serious. 0:03:32.680 --> 0:03:34.520 Why I'm still serious about a lot of the stuff 0:03:34.560 --> 0:03:40.680 I said to be honest, but I just be feeling like, wow, 0:03:40.960 --> 0:03:44.040 like we just really used to be raw and unfiltered. 0:03:44.760 --> 0:03:48.720 As somebody else has said, what did they say? They 0:03:48.760 --> 0:03:51.240 were just like when Poor Minds first came out, there 0:03:51.360 --> 0:03:54.520 wasn't a lot of podcasts like that, and it wasn't 0:03:54.720 --> 0:03:56.960 And it's so crazy to think about because honestly, when 0:03:57.000 --> 0:03:59.280 we started it, it didn't feel that way. It just 0:03:59.320 --> 0:04:01.640 felt like we were doing us and just doing something. 0:04:02.080 --> 0:04:04.800 So now to see like there's a lot of podcasts 0:04:04.800 --> 0:04:06.960 that you know, have the best friends who just be 0:04:07.000 --> 0:04:09.040 cutting up and talking about life, it is a lot 0:04:09.080 --> 0:04:10.080 of podcasts like that. 0:04:10.360 --> 0:04:12.720 Yeah it is. I wonder where they got it from. 0:04:13.320 --> 0:04:15.640 Okay, see this is what we're. 0:04:16.200 --> 0:04:20.880 So original, but were not walking I'm just saying that's 0:04:21.040 --> 0:04:21.840 very original. 0:04:22.160 --> 0:04:24.600 I'm like, I think it's good to be inspiring, though, 0:04:24.760 --> 0:04:26.640 I think it's a good thing. Like I said, yeah, 0:04:26.680 --> 0:04:28.599 we need more black women on the mics. It's not 0:04:28.760 --> 0:04:30.920 enough for me. I want to see more. I love 0:04:30.960 --> 0:04:32.040 to have a lot of children. 0:04:32.120 --> 0:04:35.360 Absolutely, yeah, okay, but you're talking about me all these 0:04:36.680 --> 0:04:39.840 but I'm saying, but I'm saying I agree. Like I 0:04:39.839 --> 0:04:43.240 guess when we started, back when we started, I didn't 0:04:43.400 --> 0:04:47.520 think about corn Minds as a podcast, Like I definitely just. 0:04:47.480 --> 0:04:49.839 Thought like, oh, yeah, we're just doing something. 0:04:49.600 --> 0:04:52.280 On the MIC's doing whatever, Like I didn't know what 0:04:52.320 --> 0:04:54.480 we was doing, like cause it wasn't even us their 0:04:54.560 --> 0:04:56.560 thought to make it into a podcast. It was one 0:04:56.560 --> 0:04:58.440 of your friends that told us that we should turn 0:04:58.480 --> 0:05:01.600 it into a podcast. We was is doing the YouTube 0:05:01.680 --> 0:05:03.400 channel every week and we. 0:05:03.400 --> 0:05:04.080 You know what the hell? 0:05:04.560 --> 0:05:06.520 That living I made on. 0:05:06.960 --> 0:05:10.279 It was so good, it was good you made you 0:05:10.400 --> 0:05:12.520 made a little ghetto Bailey's. 0:05:12.240 --> 0:05:15.479 I did the ghetto Bailey used to have everybody remember. 0:05:15.720 --> 0:05:18.800 Before I had to go to work, I was so tipsy. 0:05:18.920 --> 0:05:19.839 Was that the same night? 0:05:20.000 --> 0:05:20.680 What the same night? 0:05:21.040 --> 0:05:23.960 Oh no, that wasn't the same night. That unfaithful night? 0:05:24.279 --> 0:05:25.480 What unfaithful night? 0:05:25.680 --> 0:05:26.960 You know that unfaithful night. 0:05:27.200 --> 0:05:30.280 I had a lot of let me say, I had 0:05:30.320 --> 0:05:32.000 a lot of unfaithful nights. 0:05:32.080 --> 0:05:35.320 We're talking about the night that remember you got pulled over, 0:05:35.360 --> 0:05:37.480 but that was that was that. 0:05:37.520 --> 0:05:39.120 Was way like I was at that time when you 0:05:39.160 --> 0:05:41.039 made the hood Bailey's. You were still living with me. 0:05:42.400 --> 0:05:44.240 But I had to go to work that night, Like 0:05:44.279 --> 0:05:45.919 I was still working in the clubs and I had 0:05:45.960 --> 0:05:48.160 to go to work, and I was so tipsy that 0:05:48.240 --> 0:05:50.599 bad leys had me south with clubs and then I 0:05:50.640 --> 0:05:52.680 went to work and I still was taking shot to me. 0:05:53.120 --> 0:05:54.680 I used to be young and rick. 0:05:55.120 --> 0:05:59.359 When I think about being young and reckless, me and 0:05:59.400 --> 0:06:01.960 my friends used to about a bottle of Saraq on Friday, 0:06:02.120 --> 0:06:04.640 the big bottle, and it would be going by the Blue, 0:06:05.320 --> 0:06:08.200 the Blue, and we would be at the liquor store. 0:06:08.800 --> 0:06:09.880 I'm not gonna lie to y'all. 0:06:11.720 --> 0:06:14.000 Did He used to have people waiting in line for 0:06:14.040 --> 0:06:14.960 that sarak like they were. 0:06:14.960 --> 0:06:15.839 Some Ja's bruh. 0:06:16.000 --> 0:06:18.839 Essentially, when the new flavors would come out, When the 0:06:18.839 --> 0:06:21.839 new flavors, I remember when the coconut, when that peach 0:06:21.920 --> 0:06:25.080 hit the streets was going cripe bags facts and people 0:06:25.200 --> 0:06:28.640 used to love the peach Sarah with spring and a 0:06:28.640 --> 0:06:29.240 little pin. 0:06:29.440 --> 0:06:31.640 Their RedBerry and cranberry. 0:06:31.200 --> 0:06:33.719 Juice, but like the red berry, it tastes like coffee. Minutes. 0:06:33.920 --> 0:06:37.159 People used to they like the RedBerry with the cranberry girl. 0:06:37.520 --> 0:06:42.640 Oh yeah, in college too, at that pineapple. 0:06:43.960 --> 0:06:47.240 You went to somebody's house and they had all the Sarah. 0:06:47.640 --> 0:06:50.080 You were like, you got money? 0:06:50.680 --> 0:06:55.080 I hit the jackie. What a simple time thinking niggas 0:06:55.120 --> 0:06:58.520 had money because they had Sorak bottles in their home. Man, 0:06:58.640 --> 0:07:01.120 what at my home? We have McCormick bottles. 0:07:01.279 --> 0:07:05.000 See we did, But I'm saying though that in college, 0:07:05.080 --> 0:07:07.680 me and my best friend, my roommate in college, we 0:07:07.800 --> 0:07:10.480 used to make the little trash can punch and we 0:07:10.480 --> 0:07:13.280 would saved the bottles of mccormie and we had them 0:07:13.320 --> 0:07:14.600 on top of our cabinet. 0:07:14.920 --> 0:07:18.760 How tacky is that? Then then I upgraded when I 0:07:18.800 --> 0:07:20.680 moved into my apartment in Houston, and it was the 0:07:20.760 --> 0:07:26.200 Carlos Rossy bottles. Y'all know, the Carlos, thee yes judge, 0:07:27.920 --> 0:07:31.800 the same grella, the same grill was my face. You 0:07:32.040 --> 0:07:36.520 are so right, But that don't you know how much 0:07:36.560 --> 0:07:39.480 we was drinking because we had enough to go around 0:07:39.520 --> 0:07:39.880 the hall. 0:07:40.560 --> 0:07:43.680 Oh yeah? And then where was my phone out on vibra? 0:07:43.800 --> 0:07:44.600 How I am professional? 0:07:44.680 --> 0:07:44.920 Of me. 0:07:45.680 --> 0:07:49.000 It was really some alcoholics flow keys, literally, you know 0:07:49.080 --> 0:07:52.120 what we were. So we used to get the soroc 0:07:52.200 --> 0:07:54.280 on Fridays and then we weren't supposed to drink on 0:07:54.320 --> 0:07:56.920 the job, obviously when I was working at Dreams, But 0:07:57.000 --> 0:07:59.800 so we used to put the liquor and water bottles. 0:08:00.240 --> 0:08:01.800 So it got to the point to where like we 0:08:01.840 --> 0:08:03.880 would stay the night at each other's houses, me and 0:08:03.960 --> 0:08:06.560 my friends at the time that I bartended with, and 0:08:06.600 --> 0:08:09.760 there would be so many bottles of water in our room, 0:08:10.360 --> 0:08:12.480 like we didn't know what was liquor and what was water. 0:08:12.880 --> 0:08:15.920 I remember one morning I woke up thirsty and hung over. 0:08:16.080 --> 0:08:17.040 I grabbed a bottle of it. 0:08:17.160 --> 0:08:18.960 I took a big old gulp of nothing but so rock, 0:08:19.000 --> 0:08:21.280 and when I tell you, I threw up right already. 0:08:22.120 --> 0:08:23.560 You know how bad that is to take a shot 0:08:23.600 --> 0:08:24.720 when you're already hungover. 0:08:25.280 --> 0:08:28.400 But you know, they say see and again yet another 0:08:28.760 --> 0:08:31.080 way that I know me and my friends was really 0:08:31.360 --> 0:08:35.040 borderline alcoholics. You know, they say, you're supposed to drink 0:08:36.200 --> 0:08:38.400 make you feel, but like beer and stuff. 0:08:38.120 --> 0:08:41.720 Though right now, sometimes liquor, sometimes. 0:08:41.320 --> 0:08:43.400 Regular liquor too, But we did used to drink beer, 0:08:43.480 --> 0:08:45.240 like me and Lynn would go to our job and 0:08:45.360 --> 0:08:48.280 we worked it wheat lounge. We used to go to 0:08:48.360 --> 0:08:50.480 work the next day hungover and she would be like, 0:08:50.679 --> 0:08:51.840 you want to drink a Heineken? 0:08:52.960 --> 0:08:53.320 That is? 0:08:53.559 --> 0:08:59.360 That is Lena's Jaican she is that's she love a 0:09:00.080 --> 0:09:04.840 good cold Bruski girl, not the red stripe. 0:09:04.960 --> 0:09:06.960 Well, we ain't have fridge stripes, so we had to 0:09:07.000 --> 0:09:09.720 make do with what we had. We had a little Heineken, 0:09:09.760 --> 0:09:11.560 and I never would finish mine because I would be 0:09:11.600 --> 0:09:14.080 like you, I don't see how you drink beer. I 0:09:14.120 --> 0:09:14.679 don't like beer. 0:09:14.800 --> 0:09:16.400 I do not. I've never been a beer girl. I 0:09:16.440 --> 0:09:19.679 don't like all you like beer. I love ip as. Okay, 0:09:19.840 --> 0:09:23.160 so I forgot tell I know her stuff. But that's you. 0:09:23.280 --> 0:09:26.319 Yeah, you like a beer connoisseur. Yeah, because they probably like, 0:09:26.360 --> 0:09:27.480 what the fuck is ip a? 0:09:28.040 --> 0:09:30.560 Well, I used to want to drink coronas so bad 0:09:30.640 --> 0:09:33.720 because they just looked good with the salt and the lime. 0:09:33.800 --> 0:09:35.080 I was like, oh my gosh, they have to be 0:09:35.080 --> 0:09:36.760 good because my sister. I don't know if she still 0:09:36.800 --> 0:09:39.040 drinks them, but she used to drink coronas and I 0:09:39.160 --> 0:09:41.679 just I wanted to drink it so bad, And honestly, 0:09:42.160 --> 0:09:45.720 bartending when we used to have these frozen mugs and 0:09:45.760 --> 0:09:47.240 we would put the beer in it, and the beer 0:09:47.280 --> 0:09:51.360 would literally freeze and get so frothy like, and they look, 0:09:51.480 --> 0:09:57.120 it looks so good, but the taste. 0:09:55.520 --> 0:09:58.200 Oh, it's not bad to me. If you like a 0:09:58.240 --> 0:10:01.640 corona is not that bad when you put grenadine in it. 0:10:02.200 --> 0:10:04.360 But then I feel like that takes away from the 0:10:04.480 --> 0:10:08.000 integrity of the beat, right, yeah, so, but I like 0:10:08.080 --> 0:10:09.839 it with the little grenadine. And then at one point 0:10:09.840 --> 0:10:11.880 I used to call myself trying to drink a little 0:10:12.040 --> 0:10:15.440 cider all And I used to love angry orchard and 0:10:15.480 --> 0:10:17.559 then I like saki too. And you know, saki is 0:10:17.640 --> 0:10:20.080 kind of similar to be a raise, like a wine. Yeah, 0:10:20.800 --> 0:10:21.880 it's in like the same thing. 0:10:21.920 --> 0:10:25.280 We used to put that crown apple in the angry orchard. 0:10:25.840 --> 0:10:27.600 Oh, Babby, we used to cut up. We thought we 0:10:27.600 --> 0:10:28.840 were doing something. 0:10:28.559 --> 0:10:33.000 That it was so good, said, I said, that's too sweet. 0:10:33.000 --> 0:10:33.680 You gonna get a cab. 0:10:33.760 --> 0:10:36.480 But you know what's crazy. I used to love sweet liquor. 0:10:36.559 --> 0:10:39.839 The thought and Todd knows I hate sweet stuff. The 0:10:39.880 --> 0:10:43.720 thought of drinking something sweet irks my soul. But I 0:10:43.840 --> 0:10:46.480 used to love like crown Royal Apple was that girl. 0:10:46.600 --> 0:10:49.320 It had the streets and a choke choke hole, but 0:10:49.400 --> 0:10:53.880 it was so sweet. It was all That ship was 0:10:53.920 --> 0:10:56.360 thicker than me. It was on a Friday night. 0:10:56.800 --> 0:10:59.520 It was very thick and it's hard to find it first. 0:10:59.640 --> 0:11:01.560 It was so it's like if you found a bottle 0:11:01.600 --> 0:11:04.520 of Crown Apple, you was really on to something. He 0:11:04.559 --> 0:11:06.280 was really doing something and you had the gate keep. 0:11:06.679 --> 0:11:10.000 Yeah, I knew that Crown Apple had the streets on lock. 0:11:10.040 --> 0:11:12.199 When I seen the strippers walking around with the Crown 0:11:12.240 --> 0:11:15.079 Apple bags to pick up their money, I said, oh, yeah, 0:11:15.160 --> 0:11:15.920 y'all got something. 0:11:16.040 --> 0:11:22.640 They still be walking around with. But Crown Apple ol 0:11:22.760 --> 0:11:25.480 G purple w the ol G purple. 0:11:26.360 --> 0:11:28.000 When you had to greenback, You're like, oh, she came 0:11:28.040 --> 0:11:31.000 to get that money. She came to get it. 0:11:31.000 --> 0:11:33.000 When we were shrinking Crown Apple, it was a time 0:11:33.040 --> 0:11:34.199 to be in the club for sure. 0:11:34.320 --> 0:11:36.920 There it was we were just talking about fragrances that 0:11:38.040 --> 0:11:40.760 everybody works, what bass and body works it? 0:11:40.760 --> 0:11:45.920 Did you like Jepanese cherry bluff? Oh, queen, Yeah, I 0:11:45.960 --> 0:11:48.640 feel like that was the beginning of my bad Bitch era, 0:11:50.280 --> 0:11:53.800 you know, like and then of course Victoria's Secret had 0:11:53.800 --> 0:11:56.600 everybody in the choke hold. I think what was it 0:11:56.679 --> 0:11:59.040 called the one I used to wear? Was it pure seduction? 0:12:00.440 --> 0:12:02.760 It was something like I remember that it wasn't No, 0:12:02.840 --> 0:12:03.480 it wasn't pink. 0:12:03.640 --> 0:12:04.400 Was it? Was it pink? 0:12:04.480 --> 0:12:06.720 I can't even remember what color now I know love 0:12:06.760 --> 0:12:07.560 Spell was purple. 0:12:07.600 --> 0:12:09.800 Love Spell was purple, and it had me and my 0:12:09.880 --> 0:12:13.040 friends in a choke hold. Like if you smelled like 0:12:13.120 --> 0:12:16.040 love Spell, you were like that girl. We were all 0:12:16.080 --> 0:12:18.439 walking around. I mean, I used to beg my mom. 0:12:18.520 --> 0:12:22.040 Now mind you. I grew up, y'all know, Orange Texas. 0:12:22.040 --> 0:12:24.199 So we had to go all the way to Beaumont 0:12:24.280 --> 0:12:26.360 to get love Spell because we didn't have Victoria's Secret 0:12:26.400 --> 0:12:26.960 and Orange. 0:12:27.160 --> 0:12:28.559 So if you weren't and I. 0:12:28.600 --> 0:12:32.640 Was going on Rod, yes you weren't in Orange Texas 0:12:32.679 --> 0:12:33.920 with some love Spell on. 0:12:34.520 --> 0:12:39.200 You had that gwap, You was gwopped up. I don't 0:12:39.240 --> 0:12:41.680 want to be with your serve everybody. 0:12:41.760 --> 0:12:45.480 Yes, I was with getting that love Spell and so 0:12:46.280 --> 0:12:48.280 we going to a hall another seat. 0:12:48.440 --> 0:12:49.959 Yes, we had to. 0:12:50.559 --> 0:12:52.040 We didn't have Victoria's Secret. 0:12:52.400 --> 0:12:53.000 That's funny. 0:12:53.200 --> 0:12:55.079 I never really wore love Spell because I felt like 0:12:55.120 --> 0:12:58.199 it wasn't exclusive. But no, it definitely everybody was wearing 0:12:58.240 --> 0:13:00.640 everybody wearing. So I used to be like, let me 0:13:00.679 --> 0:13:03.480 get some news, and I like the vanilla one too. 0:13:03.679 --> 0:13:05.080 I don't remember the vanilla one. 0:13:05.320 --> 0:13:07.200 Yeah, it was a vanilla one. I can't remember what 0:13:07.200 --> 0:13:10.440 it was called. It's so long. I need to go 0:13:10.520 --> 0:13:12.679 up in Victoria's Secret and see what they got. I 0:13:12.760 --> 0:13:16.319 know they probably do have some good every day fragrancies 0:13:16.480 --> 0:13:18.000 just to wear, like if you don't want to put 0:13:18.000 --> 0:13:20.800 on something expensive, because like when I go to the gym, 0:13:20.880 --> 0:13:23.240 I wear a lot of the Salt Dejoneiro. 0:13:24.840 --> 0:13:25.440 You put me on that. 0:13:25.559 --> 0:13:29.280 And then Flour has some really good inexpensive sprays too, 0:13:29.480 --> 0:13:32.480 So maybe I might go to Victoria's Secret and see 0:13:32.520 --> 0:13:33.319 what they got up in there. 0:13:34.000 --> 0:13:37.000 Every day body spray. Zora has some good ones too, 0:13:37.640 --> 0:13:38.680 I like, I've. 0:13:38.440 --> 0:13:41.960 Never bought any of their body sprays, but Zora has 0:13:42.000 --> 0:13:45.319 this perfume called ebony Wood if you like woody scents. 0:13:45.920 --> 0:13:50.120 That has sounds okay they have. 0:13:51.360 --> 0:13:52.000 I like that. 0:13:52.800 --> 0:13:55.360 They have this spraggerance called ebony Wood if you like 0:13:55.400 --> 0:13:58.200 woody scents, and it has had me in a choke 0:13:58.200 --> 0:14:00.800 hover like the past few years. Like to mix it 0:14:00.920 --> 0:14:03.160 with a lot of my fragrancies. Though, like Layry, I 0:14:03.200 --> 0:14:05.079 don't ever really just wear it by itself because it's 0:14:05.080 --> 0:14:09.080 a little too woody to wear alone. But it's like 0:14:09.160 --> 0:14:11.720 a good addition if you have on another set that's 0:14:11.760 --> 0:14:13.680 a little sweet. You get a little too deep in 0:14:13.720 --> 0:14:15.959 your bag when you get to talk about perfume, but 0:14:16.160 --> 0:14:17.439 you know, you be talking about the. 0:14:17.400 --> 0:14:20.320 Scents and the layers and the flavors and the extra rizer. 0:14:20.520 --> 0:14:22.800 I don't, girl, I don't know. You know, I wear 0:14:22.840 --> 0:14:27.840 the same shit. Hey say, I've been wearing these. I 0:14:27.880 --> 0:14:36.320 promise y'all've been wearing That's it. Those are my three 0:14:36.440 --> 0:14:38.520 go tos. I don't switch up. And you know what's crazy. 0:14:38.560 --> 0:14:41.880 They all have the same uh the patulion, all of 0:14:41.880 --> 0:14:44.240 them have. That. That's all I know. That's what I 0:14:44.280 --> 0:14:45.720 stick with. That's what rocks with me. 0:14:46.000 --> 0:14:48.440 And see, Cassiopia is another one of them sins. I 0:14:48.480 --> 0:14:51.760 remember when the dude at Sacks, who I be going 0:14:51.800 --> 0:14:53.560 to to get my fragrances or whatever. I remember he 0:14:53.600 --> 0:14:56.240 put me on cassiop like maybe at this point, like 0:14:56.320 --> 0:14:58.960 four years ago, and I feel like it was really exclusive. 0:14:59.040 --> 0:15:03.080 Nobody had it. That's another fragrance there. Now it's like baccharade. 0:15:03.120 --> 0:15:08.840 It is yay, everybody be wearing absolutely, But that's why 0:15:08.840 --> 0:15:11.200 you gotta get into a lot of the other fragrancies 0:15:11.240 --> 0:15:14.880 that are in fragrance houses, because people be always going 0:15:14.920 --> 0:15:18.160 towards that one fragrance that's popular. But these fragrance houses 0:15:18.200 --> 0:15:21.320 we having so many other good sins, like Mason Francis 0:15:21.320 --> 0:15:24.360 has so many other good sins outside of Bakarade. Maybe 0:15:24.400 --> 0:15:29.560 I don't even know fragrance has had homes, bitch. Yes, 0:15:29.760 --> 0:15:31.880 tom Ford is a fragrance house. Well, I mean tom 0:15:31.920 --> 0:15:34.240 Ford has a lot of other things outside of fragrance, 0:15:34.800 --> 0:15:36.840 but yeah, they're called fragrance house. 0:15:37.360 --> 0:15:39.480 Maybe that's too I go to the apartment, bitch. 0:15:40.120 --> 0:15:42.760 I'm not trying to be in no fragrance house because Babe, 0:15:42.840 --> 0:15:45.240 that collection that you got is some serves out. 0:15:46.840 --> 0:15:49.760 Maybe I just mind my business and. 0:15:49.760 --> 0:15:50.680 Stick to what I know. 0:15:50.840 --> 0:15:53.840 I haven't really been buying any new fragrances lately, though, 0:15:53.880 --> 0:15:57.400 because I have so many, to the point that I'm like, girl, 0:15:57.440 --> 0:15:59.560 you need to use some of these first before you 0:15:59.560 --> 0:16:02.800 start buying. Ain't some more? It's because you don't. 0:16:02.840 --> 0:16:04.040 I don't. I think it's kind of. 0:16:04.040 --> 0:16:07.280 Crazy when people have whole rooms full of perfume, because 0:16:07.320 --> 0:16:10.000 how are you ever going to use all of that perfume? 0:16:10.400 --> 0:16:12.960 Like I get that these a collection and like when 0:16:12.960 --> 0:16:16.480 people are collectors, they just like to collect. But I 0:16:16.480 --> 0:16:18.120 felt like I was kind of starting to get there. 0:16:18.480 --> 0:16:21.760 Does the bottle matter to you the way the bottle looks? 0:16:21.840 --> 0:16:22.160 Yeah? 0:16:22.400 --> 0:16:24.600 No, yeah, because I see a lot of people be like, oh, 0:16:24.640 --> 0:16:26.560 I'm not buying that. It smells good, but the bottle 0:16:26.640 --> 0:16:29.240 is so ugly. I can't do it. No, I don't 0:16:29.240 --> 0:16:31.720 care about the bottle as long as the perfume smell good. 0:16:31.840 --> 0:16:33.520 Why you know, I'll be seeing a lot of people 0:16:33.560 --> 0:16:36.480 on TikTok. It will come up on my FYP and 0:16:36.520 --> 0:16:38.000 I just be watching cause I ain't buying none. 0:16:37.920 --> 0:16:38.240 Of that shit. 0:16:38.520 --> 0:16:41.200 There's a guy actually he talks about the spray of 0:16:41.240 --> 0:16:43.400 it too, like how it comes out, and he rates 0:16:43.480 --> 0:16:46.040 them like, oh this is a bad spray, Oh this 0:16:46.120 --> 0:16:49.040 is a good spray and stuff. And I know personally 0:16:49.200 --> 0:16:51.400 my LAVs Bell sprays ten out of ten. 0:16:51.680 --> 0:16:54.080 Well, I will say this, I don't like. I don't 0:16:54.160 --> 0:16:57.880 like perfumes that come in like aerosol. 0:16:57.440 --> 0:17:01.680 Can oh, like the kind of like like a body 0:17:02.040 --> 0:17:02.200 like a. 0:17:04.000 --> 0:17:06.359 Yeah, I don't like when they come in like a medal. 0:17:06.520 --> 0:17:10.560 Oh okay, yeah, and so it's this one fragrance company. 0:17:11.320 --> 0:17:13.240 I think it's months. I don't know if I'm saying 0:17:13.280 --> 0:17:15.320 it right. I don't know if it's month, tally or month. 0:17:15.359 --> 0:17:16.560 I think I know what you're talking about. 0:17:16.720 --> 0:17:20.320 But I never have bought one of their fragrances, just 0:17:20.359 --> 0:17:23.480 because I don't like Yep, I knew that. Yeah, I 0:17:23.480 --> 0:17:25.320 don't like the battle, So maybe I am. 0:17:25.960 --> 0:17:27.160 That's the one I was thinking about. 0:17:27.240 --> 0:17:31.560 It's not it is, but people swear it smells so good. 0:17:32.119 --> 0:17:34.720 People say it smells so good. I heard that too, But. 0:17:35.200 --> 0:17:38.000 Yeah, okay, okay, all right, now we don't I don't 0:17:38.000 --> 0:17:38.359 know how. 0:17:38.280 --> 0:17:38.679 We got on. 0:17:39.280 --> 0:17:41.760 You know, we always gonna get off topic, that's what 0:17:41.880 --> 0:17:44.800 we do. First, we went from talking about, you know, 0:17:45.000 --> 0:17:49.119 the originality of everybody having podcasts with their best friends 0:17:49.119 --> 0:17:51.720 now and need some on the way we started talking about. 0:17:51.840 --> 0:17:53.560 And before we get to the topic, let me ask 0:17:53.560 --> 0:17:58.800 you a question. If you had to eat I was 0:17:58.840 --> 0:18:01.680 having a conversation with somebody that little CBD shot b 0:18:01.960 --> 0:18:04.320 if you had to eat fast food, one fast food 0:18:04.359 --> 0:18:06.160 place for the rest of your life, like you had 0:18:06.200 --> 0:18:07.560 no choice, what fast food place. 0:18:07.560 --> 0:18:07.840 Would you. 0:18:10.840 --> 0:18:12.720 Let me see Chick fil a? 0:18:12.960 --> 0:18:13.440 Chick fil a? 0:18:13.600 --> 0:18:14.840 And I don't eat chicken no more. 0:18:14.920 --> 0:18:17.120 But I feel like, so what would you do? 0:18:17.400 --> 0:18:20.040 Just eat fries so you can eat fries for the 0:18:20.080 --> 0:18:21.760 rest of your life, because I mean when I think 0:18:21.760 --> 0:18:24.359 about it everywhere else, Like I haven't ate McDonald's in 0:18:24.440 --> 0:18:28.200 like a really really long time, like years. I haven't 0:18:28.280 --> 0:18:29.760 ate Taco Bell in years. 0:18:29.760 --> 0:18:34.040 You're missing out. You done passed up a fine, fine cuisine. 0:18:34.080 --> 0:18:36.640 Well, I have heard that they have an elite new meani, ma'am. 0:18:36.760 --> 0:18:39.639 What I've heard the new menu is elite now that 0:18:39.720 --> 0:18:42.120 I mean when they reviewing it on TikTok, people man 0:18:43.080 --> 0:18:46.200 chicken dippers that you rip apart and see. 0:18:46.240 --> 0:18:46.760 That's the thing. 0:18:47.000 --> 0:18:49.280 I think it's weird when people get stuff like why 0:18:49.280 --> 0:18:51.159 would you get chicken dippers from Taco No. 0:18:51.240 --> 0:18:54.240 It's like cause it's like there is chicken. It's like 0:18:54.280 --> 0:18:57.680 a casadia. It's wrapped up and it got cheese on 0:18:57.720 --> 0:18:59.639 the outside and it's real melty and you dip it 0:18:59.640 --> 0:19:02.000 in the little sauce. Not you know about all they 0:19:02.080 --> 0:19:05.080 new me. I'm telling you, I need a membership at 0:19:05.119 --> 0:19:06.159 Taco Bell so I could be. 0:19:06.160 --> 0:19:07.080 A plaqua member. 0:19:07.200 --> 0:19:10.119 Okay, they gonna have to pry Taco Bell from my 0:19:10.320 --> 0:19:11.800 cold dad hands back. 0:19:12.040 --> 0:19:15.240 So I'm assuming that that's your in. It's Tacoby. 0:19:15.320 --> 0:19:17.760 Let me tell you something. Let me tell you something. 0:19:19.000 --> 0:19:22.240 Taco Bell is so good and I'm not ashamed of it. 0:19:22.760 --> 0:19:24.879 For a while, I tried to act like, oh, I 0:19:24.880 --> 0:19:26.800 don't eat that, ill girl. 0:19:26.880 --> 0:19:29.880 Fuck y'all, I don't ever. But I don't even know why. 0:19:29.720 --> 0:19:32.000 You was ever acted like that, cause you be fucking 0:19:32.080 --> 0:19:32.800 up Taco Bell. 0:19:33.080 --> 0:19:34.120 Fuck up Taco Bell. 0:19:34.280 --> 0:19:36.719 But you're not scared of the mystery means I'm not. 0:19:36.840 --> 0:19:38.440 I'm gonna put mystery meat in my mouth. 0:19:38.280 --> 0:19:43.280 Before no, Okay, all right, all right, all right, tough 0:19:43.280 --> 0:19:45.880 crawd Okay, okay, Okay. 0:19:46.119 --> 0:19:50.280 All I'm saying is mystery medio mouth is. I'm just 0:19:50.359 --> 0:19:54.920 saying Taco Bell has variety, the variety of sauces, variety 0:19:55.000 --> 0:19:58.280 of drinks, variety of what meat you like. You won't 0:19:58.359 --> 0:20:04.800 steak ground beef, chicken. I'm telling you it is top ten. 0:20:04.880 --> 0:20:07.960 And then don't let you go to the Taco Bell cantina. 0:20:08.400 --> 0:20:09.720 They got margaritas in that mouth. 0:20:09.880 --> 0:20:11.720 Now you know what I really did used to like 0:20:11.800 --> 0:20:15.280 from Taco Bell, the Diablo sauce, but the beauty, but 0:20:15.359 --> 0:20:18.240 the beauty of being. In twenty twenty five, they sell 0:20:18.320 --> 0:20:20.159 all of these sauces and stuff in the store. So 0:20:20.440 --> 0:20:22.720 you could just make yourself a healthier version of Taco 0:20:22.720 --> 0:20:24.760 Bell at home. Gets you some real meat where you 0:20:24.800 --> 0:20:26.960 know what you put in your mouth, not mystery meat, 0:20:27.480 --> 0:20:30.600 and you can still get the Diablo sauce, some tomatoes 0:20:30.640 --> 0:20:32.359 that are ripe, not the ones that are white like 0:20:32.440 --> 0:20:34.560 tomatoes anyway, because I don't know why the tomatoes and 0:20:34.560 --> 0:20:35.679 Taco Bell are always everyway. 0:20:35.800 --> 0:20:38.560 I've never every time. I don't look ripe. I don't 0:20:38.600 --> 0:20:40.560 eat tomatoes. You know why, Oh yeah you don't. 0:20:40.600 --> 0:20:42.160 You don't like raw tomatoes. 0:20:42.240 --> 0:20:44.000 I've never seen a tomato from Taco Bell. 0:20:44.160 --> 0:20:45.200 Yeah, good point. 0:20:45.240 --> 0:20:47.560 I get a Mexican pizza, extra cheese and tomatoes. 0:20:47.760 --> 0:20:48.840 You do have a good point there. 0:20:49.400 --> 0:20:50.240 Yeah, I don't know. 0:20:50.520 --> 0:20:53.200 It's Taco Bell is enough. It's a hard pass for me. 0:20:53.880 --> 0:20:58.879 But Chick fil A used to be my favorite fast. 0:20:58.600 --> 0:20:59.800 Foolish, Okay, that's fair. 0:20:59.840 --> 0:21:02.120 That's I would go to Chick fil A like three 0:21:02.240 --> 0:21:04.520 four times a week. They was getting all my money. 0:21:04.600 --> 0:21:06.639 I'm not gonna lie to tortilla soup. 0:21:06.600 --> 0:21:06.760 That. 0:21:08.280 --> 0:21:08.680 Butting. 0:21:09.200 --> 0:21:12.119 But somebody grandma be making that mac and cheese at 0:21:12.160 --> 0:21:12.840 Chick fil a too. 0:21:12.920 --> 0:21:16.000 That mac and cheese is good. I mean they have 0:21:16.080 --> 0:21:18.760 a lot of great menu items. That peach milkshake that 0:21:18.800 --> 0:21:22.760 they be having in the summertime, it's real. I ain't 0:21:22.760 --> 0:21:29.000 heard of that, Okay, now you but yeah, or Wendy's maybe, 0:21:29.040 --> 0:21:30.320 See I don't like Wendy's. 0:21:30.320 --> 0:21:31.639 They fries, it's track. 0:21:31.840 --> 0:21:36.480 I like they chicken nuggie Okay, they spicy. And I 0:21:36.560 --> 0:21:39.080 used to fuck up what what is it called the 0:21:39.119 --> 0:21:43.679 little dollar the little do But it's a name for 0:21:43.760 --> 0:21:49.480 it's a little bird, good biggie, the little bird. I 0:21:49.640 --> 0:21:53.000 used to fuck up a minie junior burger of Frosty. 0:21:53.800 --> 0:21:55.800 I like the frost the Frosty. 0:21:55.880 --> 0:21:56.760 So, I mean, I don't know. 0:21:57.280 --> 0:21:58.240 Wendy's might be a. 0:22:00.440 --> 0:22:01.080 Variety. 0:22:01.880 --> 0:22:03.359 You gotta think about the menu. 0:22:03.920 --> 0:22:04.520 Taco Bell. 0:22:04.640 --> 0:22:05.480 You can go there for. 0:22:07.119 --> 0:22:10.480 Every day for a month, not repeat nothing and have 0:22:10.760 --> 0:22:15.119 fine fine dining every day breakfast, lunch, and dinner. 0:22:15.240 --> 0:22:20.160 Calling it fine dining is absolutely insane. 0:22:20.359 --> 0:22:21.439 Is that a fish flat? 0:22:22.240 --> 0:22:22.359 Oh? 0:22:22.400 --> 0:22:25.000 We know it would be McDonald's for see double Fish 0:22:25.040 --> 0:22:26.280 fil a, y'all. 0:22:26.400 --> 0:22:28.600 I have every time. I think when somebody says fish 0:22:28.600 --> 0:22:29.960 fil a, I think of my mom. I think I 0:22:30.000 --> 0:22:30.560 told this story. 0:22:31.600 --> 0:22:33.720 My mom used to love fish fil ats. My mom 0:22:33.800 --> 0:22:39.080 loves fish fla. She when she was younger, my great aunt, 0:22:39.640 --> 0:22:43.399 she used to babysit her daughter her My mom's what 0:22:43.680 --> 0:22:46.119 that was her cousin. I guess she used to babysit her. 0:22:46.160 --> 0:22:48.879 She would pay her and filel fish, and my mom 0:22:48.920 --> 0:22:52.240 would be excited. Like when I used to come home 0:22:52.280 --> 0:22:54.120 sometimes I used to bring a little filish fail fish. 0:22:54.160 --> 0:22:57.800 She'd like, that's why my daughter, Okay, all right, Jazz, 0:22:58.119 --> 0:22:59.760 you ain't never brought mama flail fish. 0:23:00.119 --> 0:23:02.199 I ain't mad at that, because if somebody paid me 0:23:02.359 --> 0:23:04.280 some chiic fil a nuggetes, I probably would have been 0:23:04.280 --> 0:23:04.760 happy too. 0:23:04.800 --> 0:23:06.400 And I think we also need to have a conversation 0:23:06.440 --> 0:23:07.919 how Pizza Hut has the best pizza? 0:23:09.520 --> 0:23:13.800 Come on, now that crust is golden. You know that's debatable. 0:23:14.280 --> 0:23:18.720 Poo's I better pizza than Pizza Hut. Papa John's better ingredients, 0:23:18.880 --> 0:23:20.560 better pizza, Papa John. 0:23:20.680 --> 0:23:25.040 Papa John's thinks you're a hardy yar. I didn't forget that. 0:23:26.040 --> 0:23:28.680 Papa John. Remember he called us the hardy yar. 0:23:29.200 --> 0:23:31.680 I don't eat Papa John's anymore. I don't really eat 0:23:31.720 --> 0:23:34.560 pizza like that anymore. But when I was younger and 0:23:34.600 --> 0:23:36.399 I used to like pizza because I used to be 0:23:36.480 --> 0:23:39.280 a person that would eat pizza like pizza is probably 0:23:39.359 --> 0:23:40.399 one of my favorite food. 0:23:40.520 --> 0:23:42.640 Pizza is so good Now that I'm trying. 0:23:42.400 --> 0:23:47.320 To be healthier, I just don't really eat pizza with spinach, no. 0:23:47.720 --> 0:23:50.000 But when I would get pizza, I'm not gonna lie. 0:23:50.000 --> 0:23:51.600 I'm trying to think of the last time I've had pizza, 0:23:51.640 --> 0:23:53.800 probably when we had it up here and they had 0:23:53.800 --> 0:23:56.840 dominoes or something, but I had a chin like pizza. 0:23:57.240 --> 0:24:03.520 But Edgewood Pizza good pizza is what's the name of 0:24:03.520 --> 0:24:05.640 that place that was by my house that he's closed now? 0:24:05.800 --> 0:24:09.680 The vin Cheese, The vin Cheese was good. Benches was. 0:24:09.840 --> 0:24:12.080 But so like, I'm not gonna lie. More of like 0:24:12.160 --> 0:24:15.280 a local, local person. I don't really order from like 0:24:15.359 --> 0:24:18.639 Papa John's. Pizza Hood whenever I do. Pizza Hood is 0:24:18.720 --> 0:24:19.160 really good. 0:24:19.200 --> 0:24:21.200 But I would say Papa John's got the garlic butter 0:24:21.280 --> 0:24:22.760 on lock That garlic sauce f on. 0:24:22.800 --> 0:24:25.760 Papa John's is top tier. Okay, all right, that's what 0:24:25.800 --> 0:24:28.600 you don't like domino I'm not a Domino's girl. 0:24:29.040 --> 0:24:30.520 Now, I do like their cheese bread. 0:24:31.240 --> 0:24:32.080 They have good cheese. 0:24:32.119 --> 0:24:34.160 Their cheese bread it's top ten. 0:24:34.640 --> 0:24:38.199 But when we talk about crust, the ratio of cheese 0:24:38.320 --> 0:24:40.480 to sauce, pizza HUDG just got it on. 0:24:40.480 --> 0:24:43.879 Lock and see. But pizza hood got nasty wings. That 0:24:44.040 --> 0:24:45.199 wings so nasty. 0:24:45.440 --> 0:24:48.200 I don't. I don't. I'm not a wing girl myself, 0:24:48.680 --> 0:24:50.479 but if I do eat wings, I'm going to j 0:24:50.520 --> 0:24:54.200 our crickets. Now, if we're talking about wings, JR. 0:24:54.280 --> 0:24:56.639 Creey's got good wings. But I guess I'm locking up 0:24:56.640 --> 0:24:57.920 a more national place. 0:24:58.000 --> 0:25:00.520 Oh yeah, yeah, I damn. I feel sorry y'all. Y'all 0:25:00.560 --> 0:25:01.200 have never had JR. 0:25:01.280 --> 0:25:01.680 Creakys. 0:25:01.720 --> 0:25:06.320 Man, Jay Creakys has good wings, for sure. 0:25:07.280 --> 0:25:07.840 Is a grint. 0:25:08.160 --> 0:25:11.080 No, she was not green. She wasn't. You don't know 0:25:11.760 --> 0:25:12.440 you don't like JayR. 0:25:12.520 --> 0:25:14.520 Creek Baby, that's what you need because you know that's 0:25:14.560 --> 0:25:15.399 a real chicken. 0:25:15.520 --> 0:25:19.760 No, y'all be liking the Arnold Schwartz and nagger chicken. 0:25:19.800 --> 0:25:21.600 That's y'all probably look it up. Baby. 0:25:21.760 --> 0:25:24.639 No, I like me a little bit of out tie 0:25:24.680 --> 0:25:26.920 and normally we be on the same page. I don't 0:25:26.920 --> 0:25:29.119 want no fat ass chicken white No. 0:25:29.440 --> 0:25:31.600 For a million dollars for them six wings? 0:25:31.680 --> 0:25:34.000 Yeah, look it up that now they are expensive. 0:25:34.760 --> 0:25:38.439 By the time you order a fish plate with six wings, 0:25:38.920 --> 0:25:40.560 some fries and a cold drink. 0:25:40.960 --> 0:25:41.960 Baby, that's your rent. 0:25:42.320 --> 0:25:43.800 Yeah, that's your rent. 0:25:44.040 --> 0:25:46.280 J R. Creakds is expensive. Y'all need to come down 0:25:46.280 --> 0:25:49.840 on them. Goddamn prices. They fast food restaurant that you. 0:25:50.080 --> 0:25:52.159 I honestly don't eat a lot of fast food, but 0:25:52.200 --> 0:25:53.840 if I had to, it would be Chick fil A, 0:25:53.960 --> 0:25:59.879 Wingy's or Popeye's. Who I forget about Popeye because I 0:26:00.240 --> 0:26:01.960 the fuck up some Popeyes. 0:26:02.119 --> 0:26:03.959 It's a little red beans and rice. 0:26:04.280 --> 0:26:05.000 Oh my gosh. 0:26:05.160 --> 0:26:10.480 So New Orleans, Uh, New Orleans, listen, Icy, please don't 0:26:10.480 --> 0:26:12.400 get mad at me right now. I hate when people 0:26:12.400 --> 0:26:14.919 from New Orleans say the Popey's on Canal Street taste different, 0:26:14.960 --> 0:26:21.720 because it don't. But it don't. It's somebody unty mama 0:26:21.840 --> 0:26:22.919 and grandma in that kitchen. 0:26:23.280 --> 0:26:25.040 It do not taste different to me. It don't really 0:26:25.080 --> 0:26:27.240 taste the different than me. But Willy's though. 0:26:27.880 --> 0:26:31.560 Now Willy's Chicken Shack, now will now Willy's Chicken Shack 0:26:31.640 --> 0:26:36.800 in New Orleans man, What that chicky beans and rice. 0:26:36.760 --> 0:26:37.720 Is so good? 0:26:38.160 --> 0:26:39.040 I went to Willie's. 0:26:39.119 --> 0:26:41.719 I said, give me the biggest couple of red beans 0:26:41.720 --> 0:26:47.280 and rice you got. Oh, I had shake contested this. 0:26:47.520 --> 0:26:50.560 I had about ten stacks of them star Pham bowls 0:26:51.560 --> 0:26:54.000 on my dresser. 0:26:54.119 --> 0:26:57.080 I was fucking them up. Oh, I was messing it up. 0:26:57.400 --> 0:27:00.520 Yeah, Willie's is good, but I mean yeah, I would 0:27:00.520 --> 0:27:02.480 have been a contender for me. They used to eat 0:27:02.480 --> 0:27:04.920 popos alike. Yeah, especially when we was at the old 0:27:04.960 --> 0:27:08.480 studio off of Metropolity. 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You know. 0:30:33.000 --> 0:30:34.880 I'm not telling y'all to go out here and do anything. 0:30:35.040 --> 0:30:36.480 It didn't sound believable. 0:30:36.600 --> 0:30:38.080 It's because I don't want people. 0:30:37.880 --> 0:30:39.840 To be like are Alex said it was okay, so 0:30:39.920 --> 0:30:41.160 this is what I should be doing. 0:30:41.800 --> 0:30:43.720 And I just did. Like I said. 0:30:43.760 --> 0:30:46.240 I did an episode of Scam God. It shout out 0:30:46.240 --> 0:30:49.880 to Lacy a few weeks ago, and I truly believe 0:30:50.760 --> 0:30:54.320 that one thing that I hate thieves. Okay, let me 0:30:54.360 --> 0:30:56.040 just start off by saying that but one thing that 0:30:56.080 --> 0:30:57.680 I see people do that I don't care about. 0:30:57.680 --> 0:30:58.400 It doesn't bother me. 0:30:58.600 --> 0:31:01.000 It's like when people steal from like Walmart are like 0:31:01.040 --> 0:31:06.600 a Publix, Like when they do the yeah that's a stamp, bitch, 0:31:06.760 --> 0:31:08.040 what that's a stamp? 0:31:08.320 --> 0:31:10.840 I was thinking, like when people be selling their food 0:31:10.880 --> 0:31:12.640 steps this is big shop at really. 0:31:12.400 --> 0:31:13.160 Going in the store. 0:31:13.240 --> 0:31:15.960 No lot of times people go and still Like we've 0:31:16.000 --> 0:31:16.880 seen the people. 0:31:16.600 --> 0:31:20.200 That will go into like Alta or Sophar and they'll steal. 0:31:20.040 --> 0:31:22.520 A bunch of like makeup items and they're selling Boosters. 0:31:22.560 --> 0:31:23.160 Boosters. 0:31:23.280 --> 0:31:26.600 I don't feel bad for that were taken back from 0:31:26.680 --> 0:31:32.280 the man what he took from us. Okay, So I'm 0:31:32.320 --> 0:31:34.600 not mad at that. I'm not mad at the Boosters stealing. 0:31:34.880 --> 0:31:37.680 I'm not mad at you're stealing for your household. Eggs 0:31:37.880 --> 0:31:40.240 is six to nine, nine and nine. 0:31:40.560 --> 0:31:42.560 Get it, how you live, Okay. 0:31:42.920 --> 0:31:44.680 But now if you go into like a mom and 0:31:44.760 --> 0:31:47.720 pop shop, you know, like I don't like, don't steal 0:31:47.760 --> 0:31:51.080 from them. But these big corporations, I don't. I don't 0:31:51.080 --> 0:31:54.520 give a damn. They have whole what are they called prevention? 0:31:55.000 --> 0:31:59.360 What are they called lost prevention? They lost prevention is 0:31:59.400 --> 0:32:03.040 a whole department that gets paid millions of dollars. They'll 0:32:03.040 --> 0:32:06.520 be all right, they will be after store too. 0:32:07.920 --> 0:32:09.360 You know what scam that I used to do? 0:32:12.800 --> 0:32:16.880 I know you because Drad doesn't scream, right, I used 0:32:16.880 --> 0:32:17.760 to chase you. 0:32:17.760 --> 0:32:20.040 You'd be like hell, oh my god. 0:32:20.240 --> 0:32:20.520 No. 0:32:21.400 --> 0:32:27.160 I just used to be like, what is going on, Drea? 0:32:29.880 --> 0:32:30.680 You need something? 0:32:30.880 --> 0:32:33.840 But another scam that I respect. And then I'm gonna 0:32:33.880 --> 0:32:36.440 le I'm gonna let you answer. So this doesn't I 0:32:36.440 --> 0:32:38.320 don't know because I don't go to the bank the 0:32:38.720 --> 0:32:41.240 drive through banks anymore. But when I used to work 0:32:41.280 --> 0:32:45.360 at the club and bartend I used to obviously have 0:32:45.400 --> 0:32:47.480 a lot of money, so I would deposit the money 0:32:47.520 --> 0:32:49.040 in the bank in the bank. So when I would 0:32:49.040 --> 0:32:50.720 go to the drive a bank, this would this happened 0:32:50.720 --> 0:32:53.040 to me like five or six times, y'all. I would 0:32:53.080 --> 0:32:56.360 deposit so much money in there. It would say, oh, 0:32:56.960 --> 0:32:59.080 like the machine would be like, couldn't count your money right? 0:32:59.200 --> 0:33:02.480 Please call to verify how much money it was. So 0:33:02.520 --> 0:33:05.880 the first time I did it, I verified the exact 0:33:05.880 --> 0:33:08.600 amount that I had and they put that exact amount 0:33:08.640 --> 0:33:11.560 in my account immediately. And I was like, damn, what 0:33:11.640 --> 0:33:13.880 if I reported a little bit more, I was. 0:33:13.800 --> 0:33:14.280 Like, damn. 0:33:14.720 --> 0:33:17.360 And literally like a few months went by and it 0:33:17.480 --> 0:33:20.160 happened again, and I was like, okay, let me report 0:33:20.200 --> 0:33:22.920 just like an extra like fifty dollars hundred dollars and 0:33:23.000 --> 0:33:24.520 be like, oh, if they say something, I just. 0:33:24.480 --> 0:33:25.280 Miscounted it wrong. 0:33:25.760 --> 0:33:29.120 Happened again. I reported like an extra fifty hundred dollars. 0:33:29.920 --> 0:33:32.440 Nothing happened. And it was like, because every time I 0:33:32.440 --> 0:33:34.280 would make sure I stuffed a bunch of money in there, 0:33:34.360 --> 0:33:36.400 like to mess up the machine child. 0:33:37.080 --> 0:33:39.320 The third time I did it, I remember I started adding, like. 0:33:39.320 --> 0:33:43.000 An extra five six, seven hundred dollars. 0:33:43.240 --> 0:33:45.160 Bitch, have it been ten years? As a statute of 0:33:45.200 --> 0:33:48.040 limitations over for that's my fault. 0:33:48.360 --> 0:33:49.760 I don't know if closed anyway. 0:33:50.760 --> 0:33:52.560 I'm like, I don't know if you should be saying 0:33:52.600 --> 0:33:54.440 that on the show incriminating. 0:33:55.320 --> 0:33:59.160 I mean, yeah, it has been ten years. I'm thirty 0:33:59.200 --> 0:34:03.000 five now I was. I ain't it might be twenty. 0:34:03.320 --> 0:34:06.520 Hey, you ain't lying. So yeah, that was a scam 0:34:06.600 --> 0:34:07.080 that I did. 0:34:07.280 --> 0:34:11.040 But y'all are the banks, y'all, y'all all right, So 0:34:11.120 --> 0:34:13.600 I think sometimes when you are I was a broke 0:34:13.640 --> 0:34:14.320 college student. 0:34:14.360 --> 0:34:15.640 I needed that five hundred. 0:34:15.719 --> 0:34:17.759 I needed it, y'all don't need y'all is not gonna 0:34:17.760 --> 0:34:20.360 miss that five hundred dollars. Money really ain't real anyway, 0:34:20.480 --> 0:34:23.280 especially now it's really it's digital. 0:34:23.800 --> 0:34:24.319 Sit ain't real. 0:34:24.400 --> 0:34:27.879 Y'all can add a little, y'all can just move that decimal. Yeah. 0:34:27.960 --> 0:34:30.160 See, like I said, I was gonna say, like when 0:34:30.200 --> 0:34:32.160 people be selling their food stam so I don't see 0:34:32.160 --> 0:34:33.000 anything wrong with it. 0:34:33.600 --> 0:34:33.839 Yeah. 0:34:33.960 --> 0:34:35.399 I feel like if they give you a starting around 0:34:35.400 --> 0:34:36.799 of food some so you're trying to get money for 0:34:36.840 --> 0:34:38.640 you trying to get cash for it because you know 0:34:38.920 --> 0:34:40.719 that you're not gonna end up using them all before 0:34:40.719 --> 0:34:41.960 the end of the money, I. 0:34:42.000 --> 0:34:43.239 Don't see nothing wrong with it. 0:34:43.440 --> 0:34:46.279 Yeah. I think that that's the okay scam. I think 0:34:46.320 --> 0:34:50.680 scams where you're not really like hurting anybody or still 0:34:50.960 --> 0:34:54.000 like personally, I think stealing is wrong now. 0:34:54.160 --> 0:34:59.840 Okay, now all right, at that part it's wrong. Now okay, 0:35:00.000 --> 0:35:01.799 all right, you know you shouldn't do. 0:35:01.760 --> 0:35:02.239 That, right. 0:35:02.400 --> 0:35:05.360 I think any scam that you do that's against these corporations. 0:35:05.400 --> 0:35:08.359 I don't mind if I'm being quite honest, but if 0:35:08.400 --> 0:35:12.040 you're I don't like when people are scamming people, like 0:35:12.040 --> 0:35:15.920 on the phone to get their bank information. Y'all been 0:35:15.960 --> 0:35:18.520 texting me talking about I got a toll way ticket 0:35:18.560 --> 0:35:19.000 in Houston. 0:35:19.000 --> 0:35:21.240 Baby, I ain't lived in Houston years. 0:35:21.480 --> 0:35:22.520 And essentially, when I be. 0:35:22.440 --> 0:35:24.600 Doing into the Senior Citizens, my mom would be calling 0:35:24.600 --> 0:35:28.759 me every other day nervous. Y'all be stressing my pole 0:35:28.960 --> 0:35:32.040 Mama out should be calling me every other day telling 0:35:32.040 --> 0:35:34.400 me about some scams she's seen on the news and 0:35:34.440 --> 0:35:36.200 be telling me to be careful. And I'd be like, weir, 0:35:36.239 --> 0:35:37.960 I'm gonna be careful. She'd be like, don't be responding 0:35:38.000 --> 0:35:39.840 to them six And I'd be like, why would I 0:35:39.880 --> 0:35:40.640 respond to the tea? 0:35:40.719 --> 0:35:42.120 You're trying to make sure her baby girl down. 0:35:42.160 --> 0:35:43.920 They knew be trying to make sure. But I'd be like, 0:35:44.200 --> 0:35:47.080 you make sure you don't respond to the tea. I 0:35:47.200 --> 0:35:49.600 know not to respond when I'm be hitting the tea. 0:35:50.120 --> 0:35:51.240 Oh my gosh. 0:35:51.320 --> 0:35:53.680 Yeah, I think scams like that when you're trying to 0:35:53.719 --> 0:35:55.759 Like when y'all send, I just want y'all to get 0:35:55.800 --> 0:35:56.160 a job. 0:35:57.200 --> 0:35:57.960 That's all I want you. 0:35:58.080 --> 0:35:59.319 It's no work, Just. 0:35:59.239 --> 0:35:59.960 Go get a job. 0:36:00.080 --> 0:36:01.120 Sucking ass up at work? 0:36:01.280 --> 0:36:02.520 Yes, come on. 0:36:02.560 --> 0:36:05.399 Like, I just think it's so y'all be sending text 0:36:05.400 --> 0:36:08.560 messages all day praying on people like to me, that 0:36:08.680 --> 0:36:09.000 is so. 0:36:09.040 --> 0:36:11.440 Weird And I think it's bad when you steal like 0:36:11.640 --> 0:36:14.160 big stuff, like I don't know, like going up in 0:36:14.200 --> 0:36:17.080 the store stealing TVs and stuff. I just feel like 0:36:17.160 --> 0:36:20.799 you ain't gotten no's like for cool. Yeah, you just 0:36:21.520 --> 0:36:23.680 rolling out with TVs your part. 0:36:24.200 --> 0:36:25.040 That's insane. 0:36:25.040 --> 0:36:29.200 I mean, now, a little lip gloss, a little mess sky. 0:36:29.400 --> 0:36:32.080 I stole that. Back in my day, they'd be. 0:36:32.480 --> 0:36:35.680 Rolling out with dropping scam the tomato for it. 0:36:35.760 --> 0:36:36.800 Bitch, that'd be you. 0:36:39.719 --> 0:36:42.360 Not a TV though, not a TV though not. 0:36:42.239 --> 0:36:43.600 At least scan like them. 0:36:43.640 --> 0:36:47.040 You if I had to steal a TV, if I 0:36:47.040 --> 0:36:48.960 had to steal a TV, what would I scan for that? 0:36:48.960 --> 0:36:52.160 That's kind of like close, Oh, eggs, If I'm trying 0:36:52.160 --> 0:36:56.000 to steal a TV. I scanned some eggs. But you 0:36:56.040 --> 0:36:56.839 ain't making it off. 0:36:56.840 --> 0:37:00.800 The stove lost prevention gonna be on your tail, beef. 0:37:01.120 --> 0:37:03.840 But you know, honestly, now I order my groceries online. 0:37:03.880 --> 0:37:06.320 I can't remember the last time I went to grocery shopping, 0:37:06.840 --> 0:37:07.600 to be honest. 0:37:08.040 --> 0:37:10.359 Yeah, you know, I'm going the Whole foods now them 0:37:10.360 --> 0:37:13.480 whole foods, them whole foods. Eggs be like thirty dollars 0:37:13.520 --> 0:37:14.880 bro them a little bit. 0:37:14.880 --> 0:37:18.160 They ass quail eggs be expensive too. It's so good. 0:37:19.480 --> 0:37:20.880 And I was just about to say, why would you 0:37:20.880 --> 0:37:23.920 want to eat a quail eve? Well, I eleborate, Well, 0:37:24.120 --> 0:37:25.760 the yolk is very rich. 0:37:26.440 --> 0:37:30.799 So I love like avocado toast with a sunny side 0:37:30.880 --> 0:37:33.279 up egg. So I was just trying it to see 0:37:33.280 --> 0:37:35.200 if I liked it. But it was really good. I 0:37:35.280 --> 0:37:38.040 was surprised. But that yolk is really rich. It's thek 0:37:39.000 --> 0:37:43.240 I mean, yeah, it's thick, but I cook it sunny 0:37:43.239 --> 0:37:44.400 side up, but it's. 0:37:44.200 --> 0:37:46.719 Not like too too running. It's just like a little 0:37:46.760 --> 0:37:48.640 bit of runny. But how many do you need? 0:37:49.520 --> 0:37:51.640 Because I assume you can't just use one? 0:37:52.160 --> 0:37:52.320 You do? 0:37:52.480 --> 0:37:52.600 Like? 0:37:52.920 --> 0:37:55.120 Yeah, you do like two on the avocado toast. 0:37:55.640 --> 0:38:00.600 It'd be good though. Really yeah, it's good. Okay, it's good. 0:38:00.760 --> 0:38:01.440 I believe you. 0:38:01.960 --> 0:38:03.319 I probably won't be trying me. 0:38:04.120 --> 0:38:06.440 You know, I did it a few times about a 0:38:06.520 --> 0:38:07.120 coiled egg. 0:38:07.239 --> 0:38:08.120 Ain't seeding right. 0:38:08.080 --> 0:38:10.480 With my Have you ever seen the ostrich egg? I 0:38:10.560 --> 0:38:14.080 have their huge Now that's too much egg? What are 0:38:14.160 --> 0:38:15.279 those eggs called? That? 0:38:17.080 --> 0:38:21.319 The is it Korean's beauty? What is it? 0:38:22.600 --> 0:38:22.839 Oh? 0:38:22.880 --> 0:38:22.960 My? 0:38:23.120 --> 0:38:25.680 God, let me make the egg with the chicken in it. 0:38:26.880 --> 0:38:29.600 I'm pronouncing it right. I'm not gonna lie because one 0:38:29.600 --> 0:38:31.640 thing I'll say, I'm not ignorant when it comes to 0:38:31.680 --> 0:38:33.759 other cultures and other food. So I don't make fun 0:38:33.760 --> 0:38:35.680 of it. I don't say it's gross. But it is 0:38:35.719 --> 0:38:38.600 just so interesting to me because I wonder the first 0:38:38.719 --> 0:38:40.120 balloot ballot. 0:38:40.320 --> 0:38:41.000 That's what it is. 0:38:41.680 --> 0:38:45.440 I was interested, like when the first person who ate 0:38:45.480 --> 0:38:47.080 a balluot egg, Like what was. 0:38:47.040 --> 0:38:48.040 Going through your mind? 0:38:48.680 --> 0:38:52.399 Because they be eating the head like a ballute egg 0:38:52.520 --> 0:38:58.440 is like the chicken was infertilized, a hard boiled egg, 0:38:58.880 --> 0:39:02.879 fertilized the eggs yeah, contain a partially developed embryo. Yeah, 0:39:03.360 --> 0:39:04.040 so it'd be. 0:39:03.960 --> 0:39:05.080 Like they be slurping it. 0:39:05.160 --> 0:39:07.279 They slurfing, but they say it's good. 0:39:08.880 --> 0:39:11.680 I hear it's good, seasoning it, putting soy sauce in 0:39:11.719 --> 0:39:12.280 it and stuff. 0:39:12.440 --> 0:39:13.319 Yeah, you know. 0:39:13.480 --> 0:39:15.640 And I feel like it don't matter how much soy 0:39:15.680 --> 0:39:17.839 sauce you put on it. Absolutely. 0:39:17.920 --> 0:39:19.600 I think it would just be like the bones that 0:39:19.680 --> 0:39:23.239 threw me off, that's what you think with you, I 0:39:23.400 --> 0:39:25.719 try on that. 0:39:28.320 --> 0:39:29.120 I don't like to try. 0:39:29.320 --> 0:39:31.839 It would be something about eating an embryo that would 0:39:31.840 --> 0:39:35.600 throw me off, like just knowing you can see you 0:39:35.600 --> 0:39:36.560 can see it in there. 0:39:36.800 --> 0:39:40.800 I mean, yeah, you're looking it up to it's really graphic. 0:39:40.880 --> 0:39:42.960 It is, you can see the reason. I mean, I 0:39:43.360 --> 0:39:44.879 just feel like I could try it, I'll done worse 0:39:44.960 --> 0:39:45.520 to my own mbri. 0:39:45.640 --> 0:39:48.000 I wonder if I wonder if somebody ever. 0:39:47.880 --> 0:39:54.160 Opened Okay, real tough, that's you know. Let's let's relax 0:39:54.200 --> 0:39:57.000 and lighten the mooth. Okay, all right, now keep going 0:39:58.040 --> 0:40:03.759 because I'm just saying. I'm just saying I'll treat the 0:40:03.800 --> 0:40:05.160 blue egg better than my own. 0:40:07.080 --> 0:40:09.960 I don't lost my goddamn trying to thought because bitch, 0:40:10.040 --> 0:40:14.279 what then you know, we just gonna go to tie. Okay, 0:40:14.160 --> 0:40:19.760 what are we drinking today? Well, because speaking of different cultures, 0:40:20.719 --> 0:40:22.160 gonna change this up real quick. 0:40:23.080 --> 0:40:25.040 So this is an honor to you ladies. 0:40:25.200 --> 0:40:26.759 The travel Queen. 0:40:28.560 --> 0:40:32.440 Drink is called Congratulations Are your News show the debut 0:40:32.560 --> 0:40:33.080 on b ET. 0:40:33.280 --> 0:40:34.760 We're so proud of you. We love y'all. 0:40:35.040 --> 0:40:37.080 So this one we're gonna call this tribal Queens. You 0:40:37.080 --> 0:40:39.920 can add any spirit of choice. Let's have some vodka. 0:40:40.280 --> 0:40:43.719 We gonna add some grapefruit. I muddled some cucumbers and jalapenos. 0:40:43.760 --> 0:40:45.240 So we have a little bit of kick a spice, 0:40:45.400 --> 0:40:47.160 a little bit of lime juice, and I actually made 0:40:47.200 --> 0:40:49.560 a cucumber syrup, so that's in there give it a 0:40:49.680 --> 0:40:52.960 like refreshing taste. And then we topped it with a 0:40:53.040 --> 0:40:56.520 sparkling water mixed with grapefruit and lime sparkling water together. 0:40:57.040 --> 0:41:00.239 I gave the rim a celery salt mixed with ta 0:41:00.320 --> 0:41:03.560 heen to a little paprika, little salt there, and then 0:41:03.560 --> 0:41:07.000 we garnished it with some cucumbers and jalapeno coins. So 0:41:07.440 --> 0:41:08.880 that's very refreshing. 0:41:08.880 --> 0:41:09.600 It is good. 0:41:09.760 --> 0:41:12.400 Thank you, ty so welcome travel. Why did you make 0:41:12.440 --> 0:41:13.880 the cucumber syrup? 0:41:14.360 --> 0:41:16.160 Just kind of I made some like I use a 0:41:16.200 --> 0:41:18.480 guy they actually for that one, and then let the 0:41:18.840 --> 0:41:21.680 cucumber set in it. And then I actually added a 0:41:21.680 --> 0:41:23.360 couple of halopenos. But I don't feel like it was 0:41:23.440 --> 0:41:24.080 that spicy. 0:41:24.160 --> 0:41:25.160 Yeah, yeah, it's good. 0:41:25.280 --> 0:41:25.719 It's good. 0:41:25.719 --> 0:41:28.239 You know I love spicy anyways, you do love a 0:41:28.280 --> 0:41:29.760 spicy drink. You love everything. 0:41:29.880 --> 0:41:31.000 I love a spicy drink. 0:41:31.040 --> 0:41:34.480 He is, But thank you, So make sure y'all check 0:41:34.520 --> 0:41:39.319 out Travel Queens. It just premiered two days ago. We 0:41:39.360 --> 0:41:42.200 are super excited. It was an amazing opportunity. Y'all have 0:41:42.239 --> 0:41:45.239 to run it up. 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Because I know when that is they come, 0:44:52.760 --> 0:44:53.000 to my. 0:44:53.080 --> 0:44:55.280 Mind a legendary scam. 0:44:55.360 --> 0:44:59.680 Okay, they didn't go in Oh Joe in the scam 0:44:59.719 --> 0:45:02.319 the sk So this is a legendary scam to me 0:45:02.480 --> 0:45:06.200 because just how young that they were. Y'all. There's a 0:45:06.239 --> 0:45:10.560 movie called American Animals and it's about these kids who 0:45:10.560 --> 0:45:11.160 were in college. 0:45:11.160 --> 0:45:13.520 It's such a great movie, and they came. 0:45:13.400 --> 0:45:16.000 Up with like a big heightst to steal one of 0:45:16.040 --> 0:45:21.360 the most valued books in like art history that was 0:45:21.400 --> 0:45:24.600 at their college. And they the things, the hoops that 0:45:24.640 --> 0:45:27.600 they jumped through to do this, and it was really 0:45:27.680 --> 0:45:29.759 kind of low key, like a perfect plan. I don't 0:45:29.760 --> 0:45:31.400 want to give the movie away because it's based on 0:45:31.440 --> 0:45:32.120 the true story. 0:45:32.640 --> 0:45:34.720 So it was one of those things that happened. 0:45:34.760 --> 0:45:36.520 I'm like, why would y'all ever think of this as 0:45:36.560 --> 0:45:39.200 being college students and they would have got away with it. 0:45:39.280 --> 0:45:40.479 But you have to watch the movie. 0:45:40.520 --> 0:45:43.279 But that's probably like one of my favorite scams because 0:45:43.280 --> 0:45:46.680 if you try to steal art seriously, like stealing art 0:45:46.760 --> 0:45:49.960 is very crazy if you think about that. So y'all 0:45:50.000 --> 0:45:52.960 have to watch American Animals. It's a really really good movie. 0:45:53.120 --> 0:45:56.000 I've seen that movie before. Yeah, I was gonna say 0:45:56.040 --> 0:45:57.960 when they used to have them signs you uhould be here? 0:45:59.760 --> 0:46:02.600 But was that a good skin because everybody, everybody was 0:46:02.680 --> 0:46:04.680 doing it while it was running, While it was up 0:46:04.680 --> 0:46:06.759 and running, they was making a lot of money. 0:46:06.960 --> 0:46:09.560 Oh my, why I don't know who I owned. 0:46:09.520 --> 0:46:11.759 Though I know, I wonder whoever started at what they're 0:46:11.760 --> 0:46:12.279 doing now? 0:46:12.360 --> 0:46:14.880 Yeah, I wonder what they're doing, probably on the probably 0:46:14.880 --> 0:46:16.879 on the island out the country with a new name. 0:46:17.080 --> 0:46:17.640 I don't even tell. 0:46:17.719 --> 0:46:19.920 Lady on Scam got us to do an episode about 0:46:19.920 --> 0:46:22.359 that because she gets deep in her research and you'll 0:46:22.400 --> 0:46:23.799 find it because. 0:46:23.520 --> 0:46:25.440 You gotta think about that. Everybody was like, what are 0:46:25.440 --> 0:46:28.200 you doing right now? You're doing nothing? You should be here, and. 0:46:28.160 --> 0:46:31.120 They will be on a bead on a beach blue 0:46:31.160 --> 0:46:33.319 time like that was a good one. 0:46:33.480 --> 0:46:35.560 Everybody was doing it too. It was so many people 0:46:35.600 --> 0:46:37.919 on my timeline. They would be popping up out the blue. 0:46:38.000 --> 0:46:40.520 Every day. I would get on Instagram, somebody knew on 0:46:40.600 --> 0:46:41.799 their story you should be here. 0:46:41.840 --> 0:46:44.840 I'd be like, oh fuck, they got you too. See 0:46:44.840 --> 0:46:46.840 that's how I know you smart because I used to 0:46:46.840 --> 0:46:48.439 be like me, should I be there? 0:46:48.480 --> 0:46:52.200 So why you I don't know? Their money? Don't make 0:46:52.280 --> 0:46:52.760 no money? 0:46:52.760 --> 0:46:55.720 Oh I made some money, bitch, eventually, but I'm saying, 0:46:55.719 --> 0:46:56.719 why you ain't enjoying it? 0:46:56.760 --> 0:46:58.200 I just on the bed. 0:46:58.320 --> 0:47:00.959 But I always used to look at them like they're 0:47:01.000 --> 0:47:03.439 living the life I want to be there. 0:47:03.600 --> 0:47:05.640 I don't know. I was one of those people. I 0:47:05.680 --> 0:47:07.759 was always very skeptical about a lot of things. I 0:47:07.760 --> 0:47:10.000 thought everything was a scam. Maybe it was because of 0:47:10.000 --> 0:47:12.200 my mom was because she think everything is scam. So 0:47:12.840 --> 0:47:14.680 I just never used the choice that they would be 0:47:14.680 --> 0:47:15.480 making money like. 0:47:15.480 --> 0:47:17.960 The I think the people that I saw doing it though, 0:47:18.000 --> 0:47:21.040 it wasn't convincing m because I'm like, I know you broke. 0:47:22.920 --> 0:47:27.000 I know you are so few people I knew was broke, 0:47:27.080 --> 0:47:29.520 soo yeah, and I just was. I just used to 0:47:29.520 --> 0:47:32.359 try to figure out, like, how exactly are y'all making money? 0:47:32.360 --> 0:47:36.120 But you know, things like that are called pyramid scheme 0:47:36.480 --> 0:47:37.400 and that's a scam. 0:47:37.480 --> 0:47:39.640 Yeah, pyramid schemes are illegal. 0:47:40.520 --> 0:47:42.960 So I think that's kind of why I didn't ever 0:47:43.000 --> 0:47:44.919 sign up for it though, because I already knew about 0:47:44.920 --> 0:47:46.480 pyramid schemes because I. 0:47:46.480 --> 0:47:49.040 Remember cause basically, you're making money because all of these 0:47:49.040 --> 0:47:52.160 people are signing up under you, paying a membership, right, 0:47:52.200 --> 0:47:53.600 That's how you're making me right. 0:47:53.920 --> 0:47:56.480 And I remember a long time ago my friend was like, 0:47:57.040 --> 0:47:58.319 oh my gosh, I'm gonna go. 0:47:58.360 --> 0:47:59.919 I got this meeting. I want you to come along 0:47:59.920 --> 0:48:00.279 with me. 0:48:00.320 --> 0:48:02.279 This guy met he's like a business he's like a 0:48:02.280 --> 0:48:05.080 millionaire and he's gonna put us on and whatever you 0:48:05.160 --> 0:48:07.040 need as far as your business, Like, oh, what you're 0:48:07.040 --> 0:48:09.240 trying to do media? He knows a bunch of people 0:48:09.239 --> 0:48:11.080 in the industry and all this stuff, like sold me 0:48:11.120 --> 0:48:13.640 this dream and it was like, what was that business call? 0:48:13.719 --> 0:48:15.720 It was like am Traks or something. 0:48:15.920 --> 0:48:19.520 Do y'all remember it? But it's basically like they sell 0:48:19.719 --> 0:48:23.120 everything like groceries, food and all this stuff. But it's 0:48:23.160 --> 0:48:25.200 basically the same thing you signed people up. 0:48:25.560 --> 0:48:26.719 It's kind of like Mary Kay. 0:48:27.120 --> 0:48:29.200 Okay, but I don't want to say Mary Kay because 0:48:29.200 --> 0:48:31.040 Mary Kay is kind of but it's not, but it 0:48:31.239 --> 0:48:33.040 you know, but it's kind of the same thing like 0:48:33.080 --> 0:48:35.400 that was. And I was just like, Girlin'm not finna 0:48:35.400 --> 0:48:37.600 sell no goddamn fruit roll ups. 0:48:38.080 --> 0:48:39.719 I'm trying to get in the media, I think, and 0:48:39.760 --> 0:48:40.840 I'm finna be some right. 0:48:40.880 --> 0:48:47.520 I'm thinking j Max, finna be here, somebody, not just somebody. 0:48:45.040 --> 0:48:50.920 I was so mad, so I know how to recognize 0:48:50.920 --> 0:48:52.480 a pyramid scheme from a mile away. 0:48:52.640 --> 0:48:54.719 When I used to sell insurance, I thought that was 0:48:54.719 --> 0:48:55.080 a skin. 0:48:55.400 --> 0:48:55.680 Yeah. 0:48:56.880 --> 0:48:58.680 Yeah, I used to go door to door. 0:48:58.800 --> 0:48:59.440 Yeah, I need that. 0:48:59.560 --> 0:49:02.719 She feel like two weeks then I went to like 0:49:02.800 --> 0:49:03.319 three house. 0:49:03.640 --> 0:49:05.760 Yeah, because and then they make you do a whole 0:49:05.800 --> 0:49:07.000 interview process. 0:49:07.239 --> 0:49:09.879 Well, that makes you do a whole interview process. And 0:49:09.920 --> 0:49:14.279 then even once you get like somebody to sign the 0:49:14.360 --> 0:49:16.400 policy or whatever, you get somebody to sign up for 0:49:16.440 --> 0:49:19.560 the life insurance, you still have to wait like a 0:49:19.600 --> 0:49:22.080 whole month or two before you get paid for it. 0:49:22.560 --> 0:49:24.759 So then like if the person ends up canceling or 0:49:24.840 --> 0:49:27.360 if anything just ends up having me, you won't end 0:49:27.440 --> 0:49:30.680 up getting paid. And it's only commission based, so basically 0:49:30.680 --> 0:49:32.640 you go into work for free. Every day. It'll be 0:49:32.640 --> 0:49:37.640 like fifty people in a hot ass room making phone 0:49:37.680 --> 0:49:40.719 call call whole calls. You will literally have a list 0:49:40.760 --> 0:49:42.920 of phone numbers to call. And I was just like, 0:49:42.920 --> 0:49:46.480 you know what, I respect everybody hood school, but this 0:49:46.680 --> 0:49:49.000 just ain't for me though, I don't got it in me. 0:49:49.239 --> 0:49:51.040 I remember when I went on a job interview one time, 0:49:51.040 --> 0:49:52.640 they're like, oh, this is a marketing job. 0:49:54.400 --> 0:49:56.799 Figures I'm like. 0:49:56.680 --> 0:49:57.759 Oh six figures. 0:49:57.800 --> 0:50:01.719 Wow, Oh it's commission based. I must have ran out 0:50:01.760 --> 0:50:02.840 that building so quick. 0:50:02.960 --> 0:50:05.000 And then they love to get the CEO to come 0:50:05.280 --> 0:50:08.320 and give you an inspirational motivational talk. 0:50:08.280 --> 0:50:09.399 That big ass suit. Right. 0:50:09.719 --> 0:50:13.120 I started off only getting one seal. I was sending 0:50:13.440 --> 0:50:16.040 six months. I was working here, and I was calling 0:50:16.040 --> 0:50:20.239 people from those cold callies, and I only made one 0:50:20.239 --> 0:50:23.200 seal in six months. And now I'm worth fifty million dollars. 0:50:23.640 --> 0:50:25.960 This could be you. 0:50:25.960 --> 0:50:28.279 You didn't have to keep going right where you were. 0:50:28.600 --> 0:50:30.920 You just have to keep going. I know it gets rough. 0:50:31.239 --> 0:50:32.800 I know you might not want to make the calls, 0:50:32.840 --> 0:50:35.160 but just do it. Because what if I would have 0:50:35.200 --> 0:50:37.560 gave up. I wouldn't have my beautiful wife and my 0:50:37.640 --> 0:50:40.719 seven kids, and my ten million dollar home and my 0:50:40.800 --> 0:50:43.439 big ass suit and my big ass teas. 0:50:43.480 --> 0:50:45.800 They love a big ass soup bitch. 0:50:45.840 --> 0:50:47.160 And some big ass teas. 0:50:47.200 --> 0:50:52.000 Oh my god, I would say, but you know what it'll. 0:50:51.800 --> 0:50:52.560 Be ten notes. 0:50:52.719 --> 0:50:55.520 All you need is one yes, one yeah. 0:50:55.600 --> 0:50:58.319 I was like, fuck dad. And then they got the 0:50:58.360 --> 0:51:01.279 other people who worked there, there like me, has a 0:51:01.320 --> 0:51:03.560 few seals, and how they manager so they be hype 0:51:03.560 --> 0:51:06.239 about their position because they say up because they feel 0:51:06.239 --> 0:51:09.120 like they gonna usually be like the CEO, it's just 0:51:09.280 --> 0:51:11.439 all some scammy sheet to me, Like. 0:51:11.800 --> 0:51:13.520 I don't know, I just like, there's not an easy 0:51:13.560 --> 0:51:14.320 way to make money. 0:51:14.360 --> 0:51:15.120 It's not though. 0:51:15.160 --> 0:51:17.040 If you ever hear something that's too good to be true, 0:51:17.080 --> 0:51:19.080 I'm sorry to be negative, Nancy. 0:51:19.120 --> 0:51:21.759 It's too good to be true. It truly is. 0:51:22.040 --> 0:51:23.960 Yeah, it's no way to make like a lot of 0:51:23.960 --> 0:51:26.720 money real fast. 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So would 0:54:44.640 --> 0:54:48.359 you rather be rich and stressed or broken peaceful? Ain't 0:54:48.400 --> 0:54:51.680 no fucking such thing as being broken peaceful. 0:54:51.280 --> 0:54:54.560 But that you can change the hypothetical. Bitch, if you 0:54:54.600 --> 0:54:59.360 are broke, you have no peace, but the change the hypothetical, Drea, 0:54:59.600 --> 0:55:02.319 that's not the hypothetical. The hypothetical is that you're really 0:55:02.719 --> 0:55:04.680 I'm telling you my answer. 0:55:04.840 --> 0:55:08.400 The fuck I'm telling you. I don't feel like you 0:55:08.440 --> 0:55:09.520 could be broken peaceful. 0:55:09.560 --> 0:55:12.240 So I'm gonna to be rich over. 0:55:12.080 --> 0:55:16.520 Anything, because I feel like if you're rich and stress, 0:55:16.680 --> 0:55:17.560 you could buy piece. 0:55:18.239 --> 0:55:21.200 You can you can buy a little piece of piece. 0:55:21.239 --> 0:55:23.640 Girl, a piece of you could you could buy a 0:55:23.680 --> 0:55:25.600 little piece of piece. You can start going to therapy 0:55:25.600 --> 0:55:28.520 that yes, you literally can. You can start going to therapy. 0:55:28.960 --> 0:55:31.359 You can start doing the work. You could go on 0:55:31.400 --> 0:55:34.799 some retreats, numb yo, hoodangay. 0:55:34.320 --> 0:55:35.880 K okay. 0:55:36.600 --> 0:55:39.000 It's a lot that you can do when you have money. 0:55:39.040 --> 0:55:42.160 If you're stressed, to work on your stress, you can pop. 0:55:42.200 --> 0:55:44.040 A lot of people are stressed because they don't know 0:55:44.040 --> 0:55:46.839 how to manage the stress. I feel like you can 0:55:46.920 --> 0:55:49.040 figure out how to manage your stress, especially if you 0:55:49.120 --> 0:55:54.000 have some money. If you are broke, you ain't at peace. 0:55:54.280 --> 0:55:57.120 I know that for a fag. You can't be. You 0:55:57.120 --> 0:55:59.680 ain't got no money. You can't even pay your bills. 0:56:00.040 --> 0:56:01.120 See this, Are you peaceful? 0:56:01.520 --> 0:56:03.640 This is I have a little different view on that though. 0:56:04.280 --> 0:56:07.080 So my first thing is if you're rich in stress, 0:56:07.120 --> 0:56:09.080 you know, obviously you have a busy schedule and this 0:56:09.120 --> 0:56:12.160 and that. But you know one thing that scares me is, 0:56:12.480 --> 0:56:13.440 first of all, people. 0:56:13.200 --> 0:56:14.720 Don't stress can kill you. 0:56:14.760 --> 0:56:17.239 Absolutely, So if you're rich in stress, you can't even 0:56:17.320 --> 0:56:18.879 enjoy the fruits of your labor. Because I think it's 0:56:18.880 --> 0:56:21.200 crazy when I see rich people who work so hard, 0:56:21.200 --> 0:56:23.760 but you can't even enjoy yourself because you're so stressed 0:56:23.760 --> 0:56:25.400 out from trying to get to the money. But what 0:56:25.480 --> 0:56:28.400 I do also see that a lot of these people, 0:56:28.440 --> 0:56:31.560 like if you go and I know it sounds so cliche, 0:56:31.600 --> 0:56:33.040 but if you go to the lot of these like 0:56:33.800 --> 0:56:37.120 villages like when we went to Polinke, and you see 0:56:37.160 --> 0:56:39.560 these people who don't have much, and they don't have 0:56:39.640 --> 0:56:42.640 much of nothing, and they are extremely happy. So I 0:56:42.640 --> 0:56:46.560 think sometimes the environment that we live in, the capitalism 0:56:46.920 --> 0:56:49.840 in our environment, has taught us that you have to 0:56:49.960 --> 0:56:53.400 have all these materialistic things to be happy. So I 0:56:53.480 --> 0:56:56.600 do see where you're coming from, because in the life 0:56:56.680 --> 0:56:59.919 I live, I could not be broken peaceful. I could, 0:57:00.320 --> 0:57:02.520 but that's because this is the environment I was raised 0:57:02.560 --> 0:57:05.480 in and in America, that's what we teach you. But 0:57:05.640 --> 0:57:07.719 I do think on the other side that there is 0:57:07.880 --> 0:57:09.960 a life that looks like I don't have much, but 0:57:10.000 --> 0:57:11.240 I'm at peace because I don't. 0:57:11.080 --> 0:57:12.000 Need all that stuff. 0:57:12.200 --> 0:57:14.719 So I don't know what I would pick, honestly, because 0:57:14.719 --> 0:57:16.600 I don't want to be stress because stress can kill you. 0:57:16.960 --> 0:57:19.760 But I don't want to be broke either. I don't 0:57:19.760 --> 0:57:22.040 want to be stressed either. But again, I think you 0:57:22.080 --> 0:57:24.960 can manage stress. You could better learn how to manage dress. 0:57:25.480 --> 0:57:28.280 That's not something that they didn't say you could do, right, 0:57:28.360 --> 0:57:29.960 you know what I mean. So it's like, Okay, if 0:57:29.960 --> 0:57:33.320 you're rich but you're stressed out, figure out a way 0:57:33.320 --> 0:57:36.360 to manage your stress. Now you just gonna be rich 0:57:39.240 --> 0:57:42.280 versus I don't know, Like I just think that when 0:57:42.560 --> 0:57:47.240 you are broke, if you cannot afford things, life is expensive. 0:57:47.240 --> 0:57:50.520 But I just don't see how you can be peaceful. Yeah, yeah, 0:57:50.560 --> 0:57:52.680 And like I get what you're saying about, you know, 0:57:52.920 --> 0:57:55.440 using the example like when we went to Polinka and stuff. 0:57:56.120 --> 0:57:57.880 That's fine, But I'm sure it's a lot of people. 0:57:58.000 --> 0:58:01.120 I feel like happiness is relative. Do we really know 0:58:01.200 --> 0:58:02.400 if people are really happy? 0:58:02.440 --> 0:58:03.640 You never know. It could be a lot of. 0:58:03.560 --> 0:58:06.120 People who wish, who want it, who who lived there, 0:58:06.160 --> 0:58:09.400 but they still want more. But yeah, if this is 0:58:09.400 --> 0:58:12.120 your circumstances, this is what you were born into. I 0:58:12.160 --> 0:58:14.840 think some people find a way to just be okay 0:58:15.280 --> 0:58:17.920 with the environment that they were born into. But at 0:58:17.920 --> 0:58:21.080 the end of the day, I personally always think it's 0:58:21.480 --> 0:58:23.200 human nature to just want more. 0:58:23.480 --> 0:58:24.640 I don't think that's true though. 0:58:24.720 --> 0:58:28.200 I think that's you want more and that's okay, and 0:58:28.200 --> 0:58:31.000 that's why you exceed have achieved that. 0:58:31.360 --> 0:58:33.640 But I think a lot of people you don't. 0:58:33.680 --> 0:58:35.640 I think we don't understand some things because that's how 0:58:35.720 --> 0:58:37.840 our mind works. But we have to truly understand that 0:58:37.880 --> 0:58:41.000 some people are really they don't want more. They are 0:58:41.040 --> 0:58:43.960 really okay with that. They don't want to be on 0:58:44.280 --> 0:58:47.320 TV or have travel the world. They don't want to 0:58:47.360 --> 0:58:50.800 see things. They are literally okay with where they're at, you. 0:58:50.720 --> 0:58:51.360 Know what I'm saying. 0:58:51.520 --> 0:58:53.920 So I think it's hard for us to understand because 0:58:54.280 --> 0:58:56.880 we want that, We want everything, and we feel like 0:58:56.920 --> 0:58:58.720 it's so great and it's so fun. 0:58:59.240 --> 0:59:00.640 How could you know I want this? 0:59:00.840 --> 0:59:04.560 But there are people that have completely different thought processes 0:59:04.560 --> 0:59:06.640 from us. But when I think of more, I don't 0:59:06.640 --> 0:59:11.160 necessarily think of somebody looking at more, being traveling, or 0:59:11.200 --> 0:59:15.000 being on TV. You could want more for whatever it 0:59:15.120 --> 0:59:17.880 is that your goal is in life, Like somebody who 0:59:17.920 --> 0:59:20.560 lives in a small village, their goal might be just 0:59:20.600 --> 0:59:23.120 to be able to buy a home, by an actual 0:59:23.160 --> 0:59:24.360 home with air conditioning. 0:59:24.800 --> 0:59:26.360 That could be a goal for them. I do I 0:59:26.400 --> 0:59:30.880 think most people want more. People's definition of more varies 0:59:30.920 --> 0:59:33.080 from persons to person based off of the life that 0:59:33.160 --> 0:59:35.720 you want. But I think most people want more in life. 0:59:36.040 --> 0:59:40.480 Nobody wants to just be in a fucked up situation. 0:59:40.960 --> 0:59:42.919 I think the problem is a lot of people don't 0:59:42.960 --> 0:59:45.440 know how to get themselves out of those situations or 0:59:45.480 --> 0:59:46.920 they don't have the resources. 0:59:46.960 --> 0:59:49.120 But I also think too, it's probably not a fucked 0:59:49.160 --> 0:59:52.000 up situation to them or wanting more. 0:59:52.080 --> 0:59:53.680 They probably feel like they have it all. 0:59:54.160 --> 0:59:55.600 If they live in a village, they're like, you know, 0:59:55.760 --> 0:59:59.440 my family's here, We're all healthy. You know, we wake up, 0:59:59.480 --> 1:00:01.640 we go get water, we have our cat. Whatever that 1:00:01.680 --> 1:00:05.080 they're doing, that's probably they have achieved more. Some people 1:00:05.160 --> 1:00:09.240 really view their lives like I have everything I've ever wanted, 1:00:09.280 --> 1:00:11.200 you know what I'm saying. So that's why I said 1:00:11.240 --> 1:00:14.200 I see both ways because the life I live, if 1:00:14.200 --> 1:00:16.120 I'm being honest, I would rather be rich and stressed 1:00:16.640 --> 1:00:20.840 one percent stress Like I'm gonna be stressed because you 1:00:20.880 --> 1:00:24.160 know why, the reason that I've been broke before and 1:00:24.200 --> 1:00:27.160 I'm not going back at all, not going back. But 1:00:27.240 --> 1:00:29.840 I think that's because of the environment I was raised in. 1:00:29.960 --> 1:00:32.520 I can't say how I would be if I grew 1:00:32.600 --> 1:00:33.320 up somewhere else. 1:00:33.360 --> 1:00:34.640 I don't know what I would be content. 1:00:35.120 --> 1:00:37.680 I wasn't. I was never content as a child. I 1:00:37.800 --> 1:00:39.720 always wanted to get out of Orange. I never wanted 1:00:39.720 --> 1:00:42.880 to be there. I've always wanted more. But that's me, 1:00:43.400 --> 1:00:45.040 you know what I'm saying. A lot of people are 1:00:45.160 --> 1:00:47.880 like me. But there are people who are completely opposite. 1:00:47.960 --> 1:00:50.040 There are some people who are still. 1:00:49.800 --> 1:00:52.680 In Orange, Texas that feel like, this is what I wanted. 1:00:53.120 --> 1:00:53.680 I did that. 1:00:53.840 --> 1:00:57.320 I grew up, graduated from Little Cypress, and I'm here. 1:00:57.520 --> 1:00:59.360 I'm living in my nice little apartment. 1:00:59.360 --> 1:01:00.760 I got my husband, I got my kids, and I'm 1:01:00.800 --> 1:01:04.920 content with this. I'm happy. I'm not rich, but I'm 1:01:05.000 --> 1:01:07.080 content with my life. I did what I wanted to do, 1:01:07.120 --> 1:01:08.920 you know what I'm saying. So I think there are 1:01:09.000 --> 1:01:12.280 two sides of the coin. But if I had to pick, yeah, 1:01:12.320 --> 1:01:13.240 I'm gonna be rich as stress. 1:01:13.840 --> 1:01:14.440 I'm sorry. 1:01:14.600 --> 1:01:16.240 I'm gonna be like Dre. I'm gonna go to therapy. 1:01:16.240 --> 1:01:18.840 I'm gonna go to retreat. Maybe I'm not the best 1:01:18.920 --> 1:01:21.920 therapist money can buy. Agreed, I do agree with that. 1:01:22.000 --> 1:01:25.840 Y'all gonna see me and BALI, Yeah, I do agree, Eat, Pray, Love. 1:01:26.080 --> 1:01:30.480 I'm definitely when I turn forty, I cannot wait to 1:01:30.520 --> 1:01:33.680 take my eat pray, love moments like I look forward 1:01:33.760 --> 1:01:35.920 to stuff like that. But I do think there is 1:01:36.520 --> 1:01:40.600 a lot of peace that you can find that's beyond 1:01:40.720 --> 1:01:43.280 of the wanting more. I think I talked about this 1:01:43.360 --> 1:01:45.000 on the show I can't remember. I saw a TikTok 1:01:45.040 --> 1:01:47.640 video of this old woman and she was talking and 1:01:47.720 --> 1:01:50.040 she said, at some point, you have to stop and 1:01:50.120 --> 1:01:52.840 enjoy your life. She said, I'm eighty years old, and 1:01:53.120 --> 1:01:55.960 every time I had something, it was like, Okay, but 1:01:56.040 --> 1:01:57.280 I'll be happy when I get this. 1:01:57.720 --> 1:01:59.800 Then I'll be happy when I get this, then I'll 1:01:59.800 --> 1:02:02.120 be happy. She said, I lived my whole entire life 1:02:02.400 --> 1:02:05.040 trying to reach goals. And she was like, now I'm 1:02:05.160 --> 1:02:09.320 eighty and I'm like, I spent my whole life chasing things. 1:02:09.440 --> 1:02:12.240 I never enjoyed what I had. So I think that 1:02:12.400 --> 1:02:15.120 we do have to find a lot of peace in 1:02:15.240 --> 1:02:17.080 being happy with where we are right now. 1:02:17.120 --> 1:02:19.200 Still chase your goals, but just have that balance. 1:02:19.280 --> 1:02:19.640 I think. 1:02:19.840 --> 1:02:21.200 I think a lot of times we get caught up 1:02:21.240 --> 1:02:22.800 and like, oh, I want to be a millionaire. You 1:02:22.880 --> 1:02:25.280 hit one, now, Oh I got to hit five. Now 1:02:25.320 --> 1:02:27.120 I got five, I got to hit ten, or whatever 1:02:27.160 --> 1:02:29.720 the case may be. You've got a podcast you got 1:02:29.720 --> 1:02:33.000 one thousand views, and now you always work towards something, 1:02:33.000 --> 1:02:34.880 but sometimes it's okay to take a moment and clap 1:02:34.880 --> 1:02:37.080 for yourself and enjoy where you're at right now. 1:02:37.320 --> 1:02:39.200 So I do think we need to find a balance 1:02:39.240 --> 1:02:39.560 of that. 1:02:40.200 --> 1:02:44.360 Yeah, like being at peace but also kind of you know, 1:02:44.400 --> 1:02:47.160 it's so right to be a little working towards something, 1:02:47.160 --> 1:02:47.960 but also being. 1:02:47.840 --> 1:02:50.800 At peace at where you are in life. Yeah, And 1:02:50.840 --> 1:02:53.320 I don't know, I feel like you can have both. 1:02:53.480 --> 1:02:55.520 Like I hate when people try to ask would you 1:02:55.640 --> 1:02:58.040 rather be this or would you rather be that? Why 1:02:58.120 --> 1:02:59.840 I can't be rich and happy as hell? 1:03:00.680 --> 1:03:03.040 Because it's a life, I think, because I think, why 1:03:03.080 --> 1:03:05.080 the well, cause you know what it is. I think 1:03:05.120 --> 1:03:08.840 because a lot of rich people are unhappy. Do we 1:03:08.960 --> 1:03:11.560 know that for a well no, but will they say that, 1:03:11.720 --> 1:03:13.560 will they say to. 1:03:13.560 --> 1:03:14.720 Make themselves feel bit about it? 1:03:14.800 --> 1:03:17.200 Well? No, no, No. I think what it is is that 1:03:17.360 --> 1:03:20.040 people think that money solves your problems, and it doesn't. 1:03:20.680 --> 1:03:21.000 I think so. 1:03:21.120 --> 1:03:22.480 I think that's the point that they're trying to make. 1:03:22.560 --> 1:03:24.480 Just if you're not all of a sudden, if you're depressed, 1:03:24.640 --> 1:03:26.520 you're not all of a sudden become going to become 1:03:26.560 --> 1:03:28.280 a millionaire and all your problems are solved. 1:03:28.360 --> 1:03:29.160 You see what I'm saying. 1:03:29.560 --> 1:03:31.760 That's fair, But I feel like it's always people that's 1:03:31.800 --> 1:03:33.000 not millionaires that say that. 1:03:33.760 --> 1:03:35.600 No, it'd be millionaires that be saying it too. 1:03:35.840 --> 1:03:38.600 I mean, we've seen they people who are millionaires commit 1:03:38.680 --> 1:03:41.480 suicide half the time. People that are committing suicide, or 1:03:41.520 --> 1:03:44.040 the CEOs of these companies and things like that, and 1:03:44.080 --> 1:03:46.080 it's also broke people. 1:03:46.160 --> 1:03:47.040 Yeah, that's what I'm saying. 1:03:47.040 --> 1:03:49.440 But what I'm saying, I feel like people commit suicide 1:03:49.520 --> 1:03:51.640 no matter where you are in life, no matter how 1:03:51.720 --> 1:03:53.840 much money you make, no matter which one it worth is. 1:03:54.160 --> 1:03:56.480 I feel like you as a person have to be 1:03:56.560 --> 1:03:58.360 at peace. That's why I said, I feel like you 1:03:58.400 --> 1:04:01.360 can have both. It doesn't necessarily matter if you're rich, 1:04:01.440 --> 1:04:03.760 it doesn't matter if you're poor. It's about a mindset. 1:04:04.040 --> 1:04:07.600 Some people are committed to being miserable. Some people have 1:04:07.720 --> 1:04:10.280 mental health issues. It's a lot of different things that 1:04:10.280 --> 1:04:12.360 people are struggling with that has nothing to do with 1:04:12.440 --> 1:04:15.120 how much money they have coming in. I think it's 1:04:15.120 --> 1:04:18.280 about a mindset in choosing because I also feel like 1:04:18.320 --> 1:04:21.000 even if you have mental health issues, it's things that 1:04:21.040 --> 1:04:23.439 you can, you can go to therapy, you can try 1:04:23.480 --> 1:04:26.200 to actively work on those things. Some people choose to 1:04:26.320 --> 1:04:28.600 just give up, you know what I mean. Or if 1:04:28.600 --> 1:04:30.400 people are stressed and it's a lot going on in 1:04:30.440 --> 1:04:32.720 their life, how do you manage the stress? How do 1:04:32.760 --> 1:04:34.360 you deal with the stress? Or are you just gonna 1:04:34.400 --> 1:04:37.160 mope around about the fact that you stressed out? Are 1:04:37.160 --> 1:04:38.840 you going to try to find a solution? Are you 1:04:38.920 --> 1:04:42.960 just gonna sitty? You know, like, I think those things matter, 1:04:43.880 --> 1:04:46.840 And I feel like a lot of the time when 1:04:46.880 --> 1:04:49.320 the majority of the population is saying it so because 1:04:49.400 --> 1:04:51.600 majority of the population is not rich, I think that 1:04:52.120 --> 1:04:54.000 you know, people just well to say that. 1:04:54.080 --> 1:04:54.200 Well. 1:04:54.240 --> 1:04:56.160 The reason I said that narrative because I watched this 1:04:56.240 --> 1:04:59.360 divorce lawyer. I know his name, he's a divorce lawyer 1:04:59.400 --> 1:05:01.920 and he always makes really good points. I'm a by 1:05:01.960 --> 1:05:04.000 the time this comes out, I'm gonna have Hobby put 1:05:04.040 --> 1:05:06.280 the link with one of his tiktoks. But the reason 1:05:06.320 --> 1:05:08.840 he talks about that so much is just because a 1:05:08.880 --> 1:05:10.840 lot of people do think, oh, if I was rich, 1:05:10.920 --> 1:05:12.680 it would solve all my problems. So that was the 1:05:12.680 --> 1:05:14.040 only thing I was saying. Now, I do agree with 1:05:14.080 --> 1:05:16.800 you a lot of people like to make that excuse like, oh, 1:05:17.040 --> 1:05:19.760 rich people not really happy rich. But it is a 1:05:19.800 --> 1:05:22.680 lot of people that feel like, oh, once I got here, 1:05:23.000 --> 1:05:26.640 and when it comes to anything money, marriage, kids, getting 1:05:26.640 --> 1:05:29.200 a certain car, getting a certain job, you think once 1:05:29.240 --> 1:05:31.480 I reach this goal, it'll solve all my problems. 1:05:31.520 --> 1:05:32.120 And it doesn't. 1:05:32.360 --> 1:05:33.760 And I agree with you. You have to do that 1:05:33.840 --> 1:05:34.400 inner work. 1:05:34.560 --> 1:05:35.680 You have to do the work. 1:05:35.760 --> 1:05:38.520 I don't know why people think they can escape the word, right, 1:05:38.800 --> 1:05:42.160 becoming a happy person is not something well, I mean, 1:05:42.240 --> 1:05:44.720 I do feel like some people are just naturally happy people. 1:05:44.800 --> 1:05:45.040 Yeah. 1:05:45.400 --> 1:05:51.560 Well, to be honest, I almost saying that song god people. Okay, 1:05:52.040 --> 1:05:55.880 seeing she do it every week. 1:05:55.920 --> 1:05:57.160 He got a crush on him. 1:05:58.040 --> 1:06:02.080 She like him to you, this is like the third 1:06:02.120 --> 1:06:03.920 week in a row that you brought that man up. 1:06:04.320 --> 1:06:11.840 Nobody lex p R Kelly, lex p R Kelly. No, 1:06:13.520 --> 1:06:17.600 they both got an initially, I don't know, we own something. 1:06:19.160 --> 1:06:21.800 He probably need a pin pal. It ain't gonna bitch 1:06:22.680 --> 1:06:28.400 that man. I forgot what the but you were saying 1:06:28.440 --> 1:06:31.560 happy people, But I forgot what the fuck? 1:06:31.680 --> 1:06:35.440 My point was some people are naturally happy people. 1:06:35.440 --> 1:06:37.120 Oh I was gonna say, I think some people are 1:06:37.200 --> 1:06:39.120 naturally happy people. And to be honest, I mean, we 1:06:39.160 --> 1:06:43.360 all started off happy, did yeah crying? I don't know 1:06:43.400 --> 1:06:46.520 about y'all. I came out started crying. 1:06:46.240 --> 1:06:49.040 Because it was called bitch. Hey, you don't remember what 1:06:49.080 --> 1:06:49.680 you were doing? 1:06:50.200 --> 1:06:53.720 Oh my god, we're. 1:06:53.520 --> 1:06:55.480 Not about to see her, Like you remember what she 1:06:55.600 --> 1:06:56.320 was doing today? 1:06:56.320 --> 1:06:59.440 You were? I told you, I know I was crying, girl. 1:06:59.560 --> 1:07:02.320 But now I feel like we were all born happy. 1:07:02.400 --> 1:07:04.800 Like if you go back to being a child, you 1:07:04.880 --> 1:07:07.840 were happy as a child. Life has hardened you, like 1:07:08.320 --> 1:07:11.400 life has made you unhappy. Life has made you not 1:07:11.480 --> 1:07:14.600 be content with yourself or content with the circumstances and 1:07:14.600 --> 1:07:17.600 content with what you have because you looking at other people, 1:07:17.680 --> 1:07:19.880 or it might be trauma that you've been through. It 1:07:19.960 --> 1:07:23.800 might be a bad relationship. Now you closed off to 1:07:23.880 --> 1:07:25.680 love and you don't know if you want to give 1:07:25.720 --> 1:07:28.640 your heart to somebody again. You walking around angry all 1:07:28.640 --> 1:07:30.480 the time because these niggas got you fucked up, you 1:07:30.520 --> 1:07:31.080 know what I mean? 1:07:31.160 --> 1:07:35.160 Like, I think life makes people that way. I think 1:07:35.200 --> 1:07:38.440 we all start off happy. So at the end of 1:07:38.480 --> 1:07:41.760 the day, if you feel like you're not yourself no more, 1:07:42.040 --> 1:07:43.680 or if you want to get back to being a 1:07:43.720 --> 1:07:45.840 happy person, you have to do the. 1:07:45.800 --> 1:07:48.880 Work, and it's not easy doing the work to become 1:07:48.920 --> 1:07:51.400 a better person and a better version of yourself. It 1:07:51.480 --> 1:07:53.520 is not easy. If it was easy, everybody you'd be 1:07:53.560 --> 1:07:56.520 doing me. We would have a world full of good people, 1:07:56.560 --> 1:07:58.560 and we don't, and we don't. It's way more bad 1:07:58.600 --> 1:08:01.200 people than it is good people. Yeah, but I said 1:08:01.280 --> 1:08:03.960 that to say I think that you can be happy 1:08:04.040 --> 1:08:06.040 and rich. You just have to do the work. And 1:08:06.080 --> 1:08:08.360 I don't know why people be trying to push put 1:08:08.400 --> 1:08:11.800 the narrative up that like all rich people are miserable 1:08:12.440 --> 1:08:17.600 and evil, because I just feel like you can't generalize 1:08:17.640 --> 1:08:20.519 any group of people. I agree have good people and 1:08:20.600 --> 1:08:22.040 bad people in every group. 1:08:22.200 --> 1:08:24.080 Because but I think a lot of times when people 1:08:24.120 --> 1:08:27.040 try to categorize like rich people being evil, it's because 1:08:27.240 --> 1:08:31.880 sometimes people abuse their power. And that goes with just 1:08:32.040 --> 1:08:36.439 that's in broke people, middle class rich. Because you know what, 1:08:37.120 --> 1:08:38.840 just like how we talked about when you had a 1:08:38.920 --> 1:08:40.800 manager at your old job that used to be so 1:08:41.000 --> 1:08:42.080 mean to you because. 1:08:41.800 --> 1:08:43.640 She finally was in a position of power, she was 1:08:43.680 --> 1:08:44.280 abusing it. 1:08:44.520 --> 1:08:46.959 You can find that wasn't rich, she just had exactly 1:08:47.040 --> 1:08:49.280 That's what I'm saying. Ray that's what I'm saying. So 1:08:49.920 --> 1:08:51.519 it's gonna be that's what I'm saying. 1:08:51.560 --> 1:08:52.120 I agree with you. 1:08:52.200 --> 1:08:55.160 It comes in every single you know, community as far 1:08:55.200 --> 1:08:58.120 as that. But it's like. 1:08:58.120 --> 1:09:00.000 People abuse their power at every level. 1:09:00.320 --> 1:09:02.800 But I will say, like I said, I don't want 1:09:02.800 --> 1:09:07.040 people to feel like always chasing something and that's gonna 1:09:07.080 --> 1:09:09.160 fix your issues. Like Dre said, you gotta do that 1:09:09.160 --> 1:09:12.040 that inner work. If people don't be wanting to do 1:09:12.080 --> 1:09:13.680 the work they don't want to do, they don't want 1:09:13.680 --> 1:09:15.360 to go to their stuff because they don't be wanting 1:09:15.360 --> 1:09:16.680 to have to hold that mirror up. 1:09:16.720 --> 1:09:19.040 That's what it be who they hate, because I think 1:09:19.160 --> 1:09:22.040 a lot of the time people know what's wrong. And 1:09:22.080 --> 1:09:25.679 of course we're talking about mental health and mental issues aside, 1:09:26.560 --> 1:09:28.720 but people be knowing what's wrong with them. Yeah, a 1:09:28.720 --> 1:09:30.080 lot of the time they know what they need to 1:09:30.120 --> 1:09:30.840 work on, and. 1:09:30.760 --> 1:09:32.479 Then they hate people that hold that mirror up to 1:09:32.520 --> 1:09:33.320 them and tell them about this. 1:09:33.600 --> 1:09:35.479 Yeah, they don't they don't want to hear it because 1:09:35.479 --> 1:09:37.559 they don't want to do the work. It's much easier 1:09:37.600 --> 1:09:39.920 to stay the same and make excuses for why you 1:09:40.000 --> 1:09:41.680 are where you are than to do the work and 1:09:41.760 --> 1:09:45.280 realize that you're your biggest obstacle. So yeah, ain't that 1:09:45.400 --> 1:09:48.000 a word? So let us know, would y'all rather be 1:09:48.080 --> 1:09:51.800 rich or stressed or broke? 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Mm? 1:12:35.600 --> 1:12:39.280 Big, big, big fucking difference. 1:12:39.320 --> 1:12:40.320 Oh what's the difference? 1:12:40.439 --> 1:12:45.400 Oh my gosh, So there's a difference between being sexy 1:12:45.439 --> 1:12:45.960 and sexual. 1:12:46.040 --> 1:12:46.960 Yes, there's. 1:12:47.040 --> 1:12:50.479 Sometimes you can see a woman or a man walking 1:12:50.520 --> 1:12:54.200 somewhere fully closed and they just ooh sex appeal. Sometimes 1:12:54.240 --> 1:12:57.599 people just they're just sexy people like they can't help it. 1:12:57.600 --> 1:13:00.960 It's the they're the shape of their eyes, their mouth, think, 1:13:01.040 --> 1:13:04.320 the way they talk. Some people are just naturally sexy. 1:13:05.040 --> 1:13:07.439 I think a good example of that is Rihanna. It 1:13:07.479 --> 1:13:09.439 doesn't matter what Rihanna has on. She could have on 1:13:09.439 --> 1:13:11.640 a moo move and she could just be have a 1:13:11.680 --> 1:13:13.840 video of her just laughing and she just looks sexy. 1:13:13.920 --> 1:13:17.960 I think she's just a naturally sexy person being sexual. 1:13:19.080 --> 1:13:22.519 It's you Deviance that be on Twitter all day tweeting 1:13:22.840 --> 1:13:23.639 about sex. 1:13:24.280 --> 1:13:25.080 Seven in the morning. 1:13:25.120 --> 1:13:26.920 Oh, I would love if I had a big, fat 1:13:26.960 --> 1:13:28.200 cock in my mouth. 1:13:28.760 --> 1:13:30.599 Babe, did you brush your teeth yet? 1:13:30.920 --> 1:13:31.840 A horny frog? 1:13:31.960 --> 1:13:34.440 And don't get me wrong, I don't slust shame. I don't, 1:13:34.439 --> 1:13:36.759 but even men do that. I mean I will post 1:13:36.800 --> 1:13:39.200 something that hasn't I'll be like, oh my gosh, I 1:13:39.200 --> 1:13:40.519 hope I have a good day to day. Well, if 1:13:40.560 --> 1:13:42.519 I was there dicking it down, you'd be having a 1:13:42.560 --> 1:13:43.120 great day. 1:13:44.320 --> 1:13:44.679 Ew. 1:13:44.880 --> 1:13:48.040 That's just being sexual. It's not sexy. It's overbearing and 1:13:48.080 --> 1:13:48.760 it's just a lot. 1:13:49.240 --> 1:13:50.320 There is a huge. 1:13:51.760 --> 1:13:51.960 Yeah. 1:13:52.000 --> 1:13:53.519 But I'm you'll being. 1:13:53.320 --> 1:13:57.519 A sexual offender. Yeah you do. Yeah, you arassing me 1:13:57.560 --> 1:13:59.879 saying some shit like that. That's passing. 1:14:00.479 --> 1:14:04.080 Yes, I think people definitely mix the two. I think 1:14:04.120 --> 1:14:06.200 sometimes you'll see a man or a woman take a 1:14:06.200 --> 1:14:09.559 picture trying to be sexy and it comes off cringe. 1:14:10.360 --> 1:14:12.240 Yes, I don't. 1:14:12.080 --> 1:14:14.040 Want to say I don't want to say names. But 1:14:14.080 --> 1:14:16.880 there was this photo shoot I saw and it was 1:14:16.920 --> 1:14:19.680 a celebrity and she was like in a tub of 1:14:19.720 --> 1:14:21.599 like milk and oreos and it was. 1:14:21.560 --> 1:14:24.000 Just, now, why would you say that, because everybody know 1:14:24.280 --> 1:14:26.160 exactly who the hell you talking about? 1:14:26.800 --> 1:14:27.280 My bed. 1:14:28.520 --> 1:14:31.880 But what I don't want to say it is it's 1:14:31.920 --> 1:14:33.880 a lot of people that do milk and oreo photo shoot. 1:14:34.080 --> 1:14:35.120 Name somebody else? 1:14:35.920 --> 1:14:37.200 Oh you said somebody else? 1:14:37.280 --> 1:14:40.400 Yeah, a lot. I can google it real quick. 1:14:40.680 --> 1:14:44.439 But I say, I've had to say, beautiful Walst the 1:14:44.520 --> 1:14:49.600 age you did it after exactly see see after, and 1:14:49.600 --> 1:14:53.360 and it wasn't sexy, Kiff you see. I say, I 1:14:53.520 --> 1:14:56.919 had to say. I think when you try to be sexy, 1:14:57.120 --> 1:14:58.720 then it just kind of messes it up. I think 1:14:58.720 --> 1:15:01.559 when you're just naturally like Tayana Taylor is another person, 1:15:01.600 --> 1:15:05.320 She's just naturally sexy. It's something about her eyes and 1:15:05.600 --> 1:15:07.200 it doesn't matter what she have on. She got on 1:15:07.240 --> 1:15:09.880 some cargos or she got on the sexy dress. It 1:15:10.080 --> 1:15:12.720 just some people just have that, and that's okay. Not 1:15:12.880 --> 1:15:16.960 everybody is meant to be sexy. That's not like the 1:15:17.120 --> 1:15:19.200 end all be all. If you're not sexy, it's okay, 1:15:19.240 --> 1:15:21.360 But when you try to be sexy, there's a huge 1:15:21.360 --> 1:15:23.839 difference between being sexual and being sexy. 1:15:24.080 --> 1:15:26.640 Yeah, I feel like sex appeal is natural. It's just 1:15:26.680 --> 1:15:29.080 one of those things. Either you have it or you don't, 1:15:29.120 --> 1:15:31.799 and like you said, if you don't have it, it's okay. 1:15:31.840 --> 1:15:35.120 But I just think we live in a time where 1:15:35.200 --> 1:15:38.479 everybody wants to be sexy. Everybody feel like they have 1:15:38.560 --> 1:15:40.519 to be the baddiest beach, they have to be the 1:15:40.520 --> 1:15:43.760 most sexiest or the finest. So that's why I feel 1:15:43.760 --> 1:15:45.559 like you have a lot of people who be trying 1:15:45.600 --> 1:15:49.519 to sell that image or give off that image when 1:15:49.560 --> 1:15:52.160 it's just not naturally. You can always see through it. 1:15:53.640 --> 1:15:55.719 And I think remember how we talked about how everybody 1:15:55.760 --> 1:15:59.200 think they're funny, everybody think they six, everybody think that's agreed. 1:15:59.640 --> 1:16:02.639 Nobody wants to stay in their lane anymore, like nobody xy, 1:16:02.760 --> 1:16:05.719 so he nerves and that nigga do not be nerved. 1:16:05.760 --> 1:16:10.160 Nigga hands be stiff as fuck when you around. Nobody's shaking, bitch. 1:16:10.360 --> 1:16:13.799 That was a bar, but I think that's a perfect 1:16:13.800 --> 1:16:16.960 example sexy Red. I think the way that sexy carries 1:16:17.000 --> 1:16:18.920 herself and just be like, yeah, I'm sexy. 1:16:19.080 --> 1:16:20.040 That's sexy to me. 1:16:20.479 --> 1:16:23.280 I think that's sexy when a person is confident in 1:16:23.320 --> 1:16:25.280 who they are. I don't give a fuck what y'all say. 1:16:25.360 --> 1:16:30.320 Woman that a game named herself meanly and you ain't 1:16:30.360 --> 1:16:33.280 from China. I don't know if I can trust you 1:16:33.320 --> 1:16:36.479 for people, because y'all put pregnancy on me all I 1:16:36.520 --> 1:16:37.840 And all it was was I ate a. 1:16:37.840 --> 1:16:39.679 Can of beans and had a few shots at tequila. 1:16:39.720 --> 1:16:42.400 Bitch, I just got back from a little happy hour 1:16:42.439 --> 1:16:45.960 a papacitos, and y'all was like, you pregnant, lect pregnant? 1:16:45.960 --> 1:16:49.320 Congratulations she's pregnant. Oh she frignant and baby I had 1:16:49.360 --> 1:16:52.240 just ate. So the only reason I'm being very Oh, 1:16:52.320 --> 1:16:54.439 he don't play about me. This nigga is swinging on 1:16:54.439 --> 1:16:58.519 the swing set right now, swinging on the Merry Go Round. 1:16:58.600 --> 1:16:59.000 Baby. 1:16:59.400 --> 1:17:03.639 Oh he playing all day on that PS five Mario Kart. 1:17:03.880 --> 1:17:08.799 Okay, that's crazy. That's like you have a sexual assault 1:17:08.840 --> 1:17:11.040 case and R Kelly being like, oh yeah, bro, I 1:17:11.120 --> 1:17:11.640 support you. 1:17:11.720 --> 1:17:12.400 Hey, I'm good. 1:17:12.880 --> 1:17:13.639 I'm good, bro. 1:17:13.840 --> 1:17:15.040 I don't need none of that support. 1:17:15.040 --> 1:17:16.160 I don't want none of your prayers. 1:17:16.240 --> 1:17:18.479 Somebody sent me something on my phone and said that 1:17:19.360 --> 1:17:20.599 A Hall tied her. 1:17:22.160 --> 1:17:27.240 I don't know people WHOA would an altar. Probably one 1:17:27.280 --> 1:17:30.320 day I will get married and my dad is not 1:17:30.439 --> 1:17:32.040 going to be here to walk me down the aisle 1:17:32.120 --> 1:17:35.040 things that I just always thought that he would be 1:17:35.160 --> 1:17:38.240 here for and you know, be able to experience with me. 1:17:39.040 --> 1:17:41.400 And I just know he would be so proud of 1:17:42.240 --> 1:17:45.800 everything that I'm doing, the woman that I'm becoming, how 1:17:45.920 --> 1:17:49.240 far I've come, especially with my attitude, that I'll be 1:17:50.600 --> 1:17:52.800 WHOA I was something else when I was growing up. 1:17:53.360 --> 1:17:57.479 But like I said, it's just a bittersweet thing. She's 1:17:57.560 --> 1:18:00.439 not trying to be anything, So y'all can relate. 1:18:00.840 --> 1:18:02.519 Niggas do be because she's sexy. 1:18:02.600 --> 1:18:03.559 They do be nervous. 1:18:05.040 --> 1:18:07.400 We don't say it, we don't say it. 1:18:07.960 --> 1:18:09.880 So I just feel like when you're just naturally who 1:18:09.960 --> 1:18:14.920 you are, that comes off as sexy, not you trying 1:18:15.040 --> 1:18:16.960 to be sexy, you know what I'm saying. 1:18:17.080 --> 1:18:20.320 Some some people can look at debatables. I mean, some 1:18:20.439 --> 1:18:22.559 people just being naturally who they are. You don't come 1:18:22.640 --> 1:18:22.880 and it. 1:18:22.880 --> 1:18:24.240 Don't come off as sexy. 1:18:24.240 --> 1:18:27.920 But it's Okay. The point that I'm made, Yeah, it's 1:18:27.920 --> 1:18:29.760 gonna be sexy to somebody, But I think that's the 1:18:29.800 --> 1:18:32.479 point that I'm making. It don't have to be sexy, Like, 1:18:32.600 --> 1:18:33.880 you don't have to be sexy. 1:18:33.960 --> 1:18:35.519 Who the fuck said you gotta be sexy? 1:18:36.640 --> 1:18:37.320 Big sexy? 1:18:38.040 --> 1:18:38.280 Wow? 1:18:39.040 --> 1:18:48.479 Before big sexy, before there was a big sexy who 1:18:48.640 --> 1:18:50.040 told y'all y'all had to be sick? 1:18:50.680 --> 1:18:53.320 You know what I mean? Like everybody wants to be everything. 1:18:53.400 --> 1:18:55.920 I think social media has made people feel like they 1:18:56.000 --> 1:18:57.200 want to be everything, and. 1:18:57.320 --> 1:19:00.400 People not okay with a meeting what they need, which 1:19:00.479 --> 1:19:03.320 is okay, everybody can't be everything. 1:19:03.560 --> 1:19:07.320 You can't be everything. You can't be everything, and that's okay. 1:19:07.760 --> 1:19:11.280 That's the I think we have lost the art and 1:19:11.400 --> 1:19:12.960 the love for being unique. 1:19:13.080 --> 1:19:14.719 Yep, that the issue. 1:19:14.800 --> 1:19:17.040 You see this girl, I want to be like everybody else. Yes, 1:19:17.160 --> 1:19:20.040 you see this girl, she is hilarious. Now you want 1:19:20.080 --> 1:19:20.759 to be hilarious. 1:19:20.800 --> 1:19:21.439 And then you see this. 1:19:21.560 --> 1:19:26.200 Girl she is very poised and educated and this and that, 1:19:26.600 --> 1:19:28.080 and then you're trying to act like her. Then you 1:19:28.120 --> 1:19:29.800 see this sexy girl, you're trying to act like her. 1:19:29.960 --> 1:19:30.400 Who are you? 1:19:32.760 --> 1:19:34.160 Why don't nobody want to be unique? 1:19:35.240 --> 1:19:39.639 Because we in a black Mirror episode. Oh, come on now, 1:19:40.720 --> 1:19:44.559 Like nobody wants to be themselves anymore. Everybody looks up 1:19:44.640 --> 1:19:48.920 to everybody else and wants to imitate emulate them. People 1:19:49.080 --> 1:19:51.400 don't and a lot of people don't have confidence, I 1:19:51.479 --> 1:19:55.320 feel like because they're constantly comparing themselves online all the time. 1:19:55.720 --> 1:19:59.040 Every time you get online. If you looking at a 1:19:59.120 --> 1:20:01.360 whole bunch of girls ros who have a certain body 1:20:01.400 --> 1:20:03.680 type and you don't have that body type. Are you 1:20:03.760 --> 1:20:07.000 looking at girls who can go get their hair done 1:20:07.040 --> 1:20:08.880 every week and you can't go get your hair done 1:20:08.920 --> 1:20:12.840 every week? Girls who drive certain cars, who live certain lifestyles, 1:20:12.840 --> 1:20:16.120 and you feel like you're not living that. Then you're 1:20:16.160 --> 1:20:18.560 no longer confident in yourself, and now you feel like 1:20:18.640 --> 1:20:20.920 you have to be like them. Look, I must be 1:20:21.080 --> 1:20:23.400 missing something. Yeah, I have to be like them in 1:20:23.560 --> 1:20:26.120 order to get those things, obviously, So let me try 1:20:26.200 --> 1:20:29.040 to act more like this person, because then maybe I'll 1:20:29.120 --> 1:20:33.639 yield the same results. You know, But it's no longer 1:20:33.800 --> 1:20:36.120 okay and cool to be yourself. I feel like back 1:20:36.120 --> 1:20:37.639 in the day it was okay to be yourself because 1:20:37.640 --> 1:20:40.040 you didn't know what the next beach was doing. It 1:20:40.160 --> 1:20:41.840 was no way for you to know. You couldn't even 1:20:41.880 --> 1:20:42.720 copy beaches because you. 1:20:42.680 --> 1:20:45.240 Ain't know what they was doing right, exactly exactly. It 1:20:45.320 --> 1:20:47.880 wasn't no Internet, it wasn't no social media. You can't 1:20:47.960 --> 1:20:50.680 keep up with no content creating wasn't a job. So 1:20:50.800 --> 1:20:53.160 now they see these content creators how they live to 1:20:53.280 --> 1:20:54.800 add to your points. So they're like, oh, if I 1:20:54.880 --> 1:20:57.360 want to be a content creator and make all this money, 1:20:57.479 --> 1:20:58.720 I need to do what she's doing. 1:20:58.880 --> 1:20:59.000 Right. 1:20:59.160 --> 1:21:01.599 When a lot of these a lot of content creators 1:21:01.640 --> 1:21:03.479 that y'all see that have been OG's in the game, 1:21:03.520 --> 1:21:05.719 that have been making money for years, they were original, 1:21:05.920 --> 1:21:08.679 they were themselves. I always use Jackie as an example 1:21:08.680 --> 1:21:10.360 because y'all know I love me some Jackie down. 1:21:10.880 --> 1:21:12.320 Jackie has been herself since day one. 1:21:12.439 --> 1:21:14.360 Jackie is probably like one of the influences I've seen 1:21:14.400 --> 1:21:16.840 that she has never changed. So when people started all 1:21:16.880 --> 1:21:18.640 of a sudden coming out saying things about her like, 1:21:18.680 --> 1:21:21.400 oh my god, Jackie has literally been this way since day. 1:21:21.320 --> 1:21:25.120 One, very much like I'm a girl, I like this, 1:21:25.320 --> 1:21:25.960 I'm bougie. 1:21:26.120 --> 1:21:30.000 I'm very much giving this, but I still like to, 1:21:30.160 --> 1:21:31.760 you know, fuck around with the fuck around. You know 1:21:31.840 --> 1:21:34.000 what I'm saying she's been that way since day one, 1:21:34.120 --> 1:21:37.000 So y'all just got here. But that's the blessing you 1:21:37.080 --> 1:21:39.680 get when you are authentically yourself. You get to go 1:21:39.840 --> 1:21:42.080 on and have an amazing career. You get to be 1:21:42.200 --> 1:21:45.439 somebody who transferred from YouTube to TikTok and whatever. 1:21:45.520 --> 1:21:47.920 You know, all the endeavors that she has. So I 1:21:47.960 --> 1:21:49.479 think we do need to get back to that. 1:21:49.560 --> 1:21:52.680 I know we got off topic from the sexy versus sexual, 1:21:53.400 --> 1:21:55.320 but I think that's a good point that you made, 1:21:55.520 --> 1:21:59.800 Like there's there's so much value in being unique. Yeah, 1:22:00.040 --> 1:22:01.679 people don't want to be unique no more. They feel 1:22:01.680 --> 1:22:02.599 like they gotta agree. 1:22:04.040 --> 1:22:07.400 People be afraid to disagree with people. They be afraid 1:22:07.479 --> 1:22:10.880 to really speak their mind because they're afraid of how 1:22:10.920 --> 1:22:13.200 people gonna respond to them. More react to them more 1:22:13.200 --> 1:22:15.400 about not being liked? Who give a fuck about not 1:22:15.520 --> 1:22:17.960 being like? Do you like yourself? Come on, no, I 1:22:18.040 --> 1:22:19.960 always say that for real, because I feel like so 1:22:20.040 --> 1:22:22.280 many people care so much about what other people think 1:22:22.320 --> 1:22:24.360 and being liked about other people. Do you like you? 1:22:25.080 --> 1:22:27.599 Because if you like you, then you wouldn't be worried 1:22:27.800 --> 1:22:30.880 with everybody else is thinking. It matters way more what 1:22:30.960 --> 1:22:34.080 you think about yourself, and I feel like, yeah, we 1:22:34.200 --> 1:22:36.680 just live in the time where everybody want to be 1:22:36.760 --> 1:22:38.719 like everybody else. That's why everybody want to be sixy. 1:22:38.840 --> 1:22:40.840 Yeah, and that's why I said another point to like, 1:22:40.960 --> 1:22:44.360 sexy doesn't say much aid you're sexy. 1:22:44.840 --> 1:22:47.719 Sexy just gives like I'm just it's a moment. 1:22:48.160 --> 1:22:50.320 Always say that in general. Do I feel like that 1:22:50.479 --> 1:22:53.200 about sex apeal? But I also feel like that about confident. 1:22:53.280 --> 1:22:55.840 So I feel like people that are confident not saying 1:22:55.880 --> 1:22:58.799 that they confident all the time. They're not always overly 1:22:58.920 --> 1:23:02.800 boastful or like I'm that beach, I'm ned. They just 1:23:03.200 --> 1:23:06.360 that beach. They just exist and people can see it, 1:23:06.560 --> 1:23:08.080 you know what I mean. They don't have to say 1:23:08.080 --> 1:23:09.679 it all the time. I always feel like when people 1:23:09.720 --> 1:23:12.880 are like trying really hard to convince you, they also 1:23:12.960 --> 1:23:14.519 trying to convince stay still right. 1:23:17.560 --> 1:23:20.200 Because I think there's a thin line, you know what 1:23:20.240 --> 1:23:22.560 I'm saying. It be a thin line, like you know, 1:23:22.600 --> 1:23:24.400 you canna pop your shit every now and then, like 1:23:25.040 --> 1:23:28.560 baby I look good today or ooh, it's giving what 1:23:28.640 --> 1:23:31.519 it's supposed to give. But if it's like all day 1:23:31.600 --> 1:23:33.880 that's all you talking about online, Like all day I 1:23:34.000 --> 1:23:36.400 am so this, I am so that. It's just a 1:23:36.479 --> 1:23:39.080 thin line between like feeling yourself and it's like who 1:23:39.160 --> 1:23:39.880 you trying to convince? 1:23:39.960 --> 1:23:42.479 It ain't even gotta be all day because if you're 1:23:42.479 --> 1:23:44.760 doing it all day, you're just annoying as fucking Your 1:23:44.800 --> 1:23:47.040 account need to get disabled, but. 1:23:47.520 --> 1:23:48.360 I need to take them out. 1:23:48.600 --> 1:23:50.800 Yeah, your account need to get disabled, because who the 1:23:50.840 --> 1:23:53.439 fuck want to see that shit all day? But even 1:23:53.479 --> 1:23:55.280 if you do it every day, like I feel like 1:23:55.439 --> 1:23:58.800 every once in a while, like every blue moon. Cool, 1:23:59.360 --> 1:24:02.040 But I just feel like if you have to say 1:24:02.200 --> 1:24:04.880 things all the time or try to prove to people, 1:24:05.479 --> 1:24:08.160 you not really that and you don't really think that 1:24:08.280 --> 1:24:10.840 you that either that's why you trying so hard to 1:24:11.600 --> 1:24:14.240 come off sexy or you're trying so hard to come 1:24:14.320 --> 1:24:16.880 off confident or to say you sexy and say you 1:24:17.000 --> 1:24:20.120 confident all the time because you not really because if 1:24:20.200 --> 1:24:23.400 you was, we could see like that are your original 1:24:23.479 --> 1:24:27.519 point about Rihanna, Rihanna, don't go around saying I'm sexy, 1:24:27.640 --> 1:24:30.880 I'm beautiful, I'm fine, I'm rich, I'm this, I'm that, 1:24:31.000 --> 1:24:33.400 because she don't have to say that because you see 1:24:33.520 --> 1:24:36.560 what the foot going on, see the material. I just 1:24:36.640 --> 1:24:40.840 feel like, yes, like, be be calm, be cool, because 1:24:40.880 --> 1:24:43.040 people always gonna see what the foot going on. You 1:24:43.080 --> 1:24:46.600 ain't even got to say the people. Yeah, I like 1:24:46.680 --> 1:24:48.439 to let people say shit for me. I just be 1:24:48.560 --> 1:24:50.720 like hm hm cause period. Now when people say it, 1:24:50.800 --> 1:24:54.960 I do be like period because right. But I'm not 1:24:55.000 --> 1:24:57.400 about to just be like because yeah I'm that bitch, 1:24:57.520 --> 1:24:59.720 I'm this, I'm talking her like. 1:25:00.040 --> 1:25:02.320 It's just not that I think it's like you said. 1:25:02.439 --> 1:25:04.600 I think it's like, let the people say it for you. 1:25:06.160 --> 1:25:07.479 Just let them talk for you, you know what. I'm 1:25:08.760 --> 1:25:11.559 very so let us know what y'all think the difference 1:25:11.600 --> 1:25:15.799 between being sexy and sexual is because it's a huge difference. 1:25:16.080 --> 1:25:18.360 Just because you slap some lingerie on and post a picture, 1:25:18.400 --> 1:25:21.160 don't mean it's sixy or men. Just because you slap 1:25:21.240 --> 1:25:24.160 some boxes on and post a picture somebody, I don't. 1:25:24.040 --> 1:25:24.799 Mean it's sexy. 1:25:24.920 --> 1:25:26.960 Like I hate those videos when they be cooking and 1:25:27.000 --> 1:25:29.839 they be like rubbing on the chicken and stuff and spanking. 1:25:29.920 --> 1:25:30.880 Have you ever seen those videos? 1:25:31.000 --> 1:25:31.880 Or eating a hot dogs? 1:25:33.640 --> 1:25:35.400 Please? Please? 1:25:35.720 --> 1:25:40.320 I hate it. I hate it so bad. I don't 1:25:40.400 --> 1:25:44.519 like it either. It's just too suggestive, very annoying. 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But I mean 1:27:02.439 --> 1:27:04.000 so like she's popular on there. 1:27:04.200 --> 1:27:05.160 I mean, yeah she is. 1:27:05.520 --> 1:27:08.160 Okay, she'd just be, you know, doing a lot. 1:27:08.360 --> 1:27:12.080 That's so funny. What a time to be alive, cause 1:27:12.080 --> 1:27:13.840 we used to be up in that Apple store and 1:27:13.960 --> 1:27:16.480 taking pictures on the what left. 1:27:17.280 --> 1:27:20.520 Just cutting up for no in there, not buying a goddamn. 1:27:20.160 --> 1:27:23.120 Thing, just in that after school. So what you been 1:27:23.160 --> 1:27:23.560 listening to? 1:27:24.000 --> 1:27:26.360 So? I love this artist. I just love her voice, 1:27:26.360 --> 1:27:29.599 and I'm just glad that she's been consistently dropping great music. 1:27:29.880 --> 1:27:33.960 There's an artist. Her name is Aquila. She had that 1:27:34.120 --> 1:27:36.000 song Bloom. I don't know if y'all remember that, that song, 1:27:36.080 --> 1:27:37.000 What is it you see? 1:27:37.479 --> 1:27:38.519 What is it you see? 1:27:40.479 --> 1:27:43.519 So she has a new song called Wolf that drops 1:27:43.560 --> 1:27:46.600 I think like last month or something. But she's just 1:27:46.720 --> 1:27:50.320 kind of like telling a man like you finna. 1:27:50.120 --> 1:27:51.080 Stop playing in my face. 1:27:51.720 --> 1:27:53.960 So it's a good anthem if you got somebody playing 1:27:53.960 --> 1:27:55.960 in your face and you need something to hype you up, 1:27:56.360 --> 1:27:59.680 you know, and make you stand on business, cause you 1:27:59.720 --> 1:28:02.679 know how men do they be in your face treating 1:28:02.760 --> 1:28:04.280 you like trash? 1:28:04.760 --> 1:28:06.720 And then they want to cry wolf. 1:28:06.600 --> 1:28:08.880 To try to get you back. You know what I'm saying. 1:28:08.880 --> 1:28:10.000 They love to act like, oh I'm. 1:28:09.920 --> 1:28:13.800 A change baby, please baby please, I mean young black man. 1:28:14.360 --> 1:28:15.280 You know they love to do that. 1:28:15.479 --> 1:28:18.880 Okay, So this is this is a song about men 1:28:19.800 --> 1:28:23.240 crying wolf. Men love to cry wolf because they cry, 1:28:23.360 --> 1:28:25.080 they get you back and start doing the same thing 1:28:25.240 --> 1:28:29.800 over again. Oh you felt that, honey. See the men 1:28:29.880 --> 1:28:31.840 don't like that. Behind the camera y'all can't see him. 1:28:31.840 --> 1:28:32.800 But damn, oh thank you sir. 1:28:33.160 --> 1:28:35.240 So yeah, shout out to Akila. She has a song 1:28:35.360 --> 1:28:37.400 called Wolf. That's my bop of the week. 1:28:37.439 --> 1:28:37.920 What you got? 1:28:38.600 --> 1:28:42.040 So my Bob is Kane hide by a Little Dirk 1:28:42.200 --> 1:28:45.800 and Jeniko. Okay, I love a good I love me 1:28:45.880 --> 1:28:49.040 a good rap R and B collab. I really do. 1:28:49.200 --> 1:28:51.519 And plus you know I love Daikoh that's what I say. 1:28:51.560 --> 1:28:53.400 I love a little Dirk. I was about to say, Okay. 1:28:53.400 --> 1:28:55.840 Look well, I do like little Dirk. Little Dirk got 1:28:56.120 --> 1:28:59.840 some his that men. Okay, I don't know. If I 1:29:00.439 --> 1:29:02.360 I don't know what he did, I would rather be 1:29:02.439 --> 1:29:03.599 on the side of freeing him. 1:29:04.800 --> 1:29:07.640 Okay, I agree with you. I am We're okay now. 1:29:07.680 --> 1:29:09.040 I ain't mad at that. I ain't mad at that. 1:29:10.120 --> 1:29:12.280 I know he dropped the album. I haven't listened to 1:29:12.360 --> 1:29:15.400 it yet. I haven't listened to the whole I escaped. 1:29:15.080 --> 1:29:17.679 My little Chicago moment I had, but I'm gonna listen 1:29:17.760 --> 1:29:19.080 to it. I'm gonna go back, you. 1:29:19.120 --> 1:29:21.519 Know, Lenxy I did. 1:29:21.680 --> 1:29:22.559 I had a whole era. 1:29:22.640 --> 1:29:23.840 I don't know why I'm like that. 1:29:24.400 --> 1:29:27.000 I have like little eras of like music that I 1:29:27.160 --> 1:29:28.960 just I listened to all types of music. Like I 1:29:29.040 --> 1:29:31.519 told y'all, I have a playlist that'll literally go from 1:29:31.800 --> 1:29:35.200 master p to Dolly Parton, Okay, make him say literally 1:29:35.560 --> 1:29:39.080 to Joelene Okay. But I have like little pockets to 1:29:39.120 --> 1:29:43.280 where I like, really enjoyed like a genre of music. 1:29:43.360 --> 1:29:46.040 I'm liking this really like pop era kind of right now, 1:29:46.640 --> 1:29:48.040 like the pop girlies are doing it. 1:29:48.600 --> 1:29:52.559 Kesha is back pain. She got a song with T Pain. 1:29:53.400 --> 1:29:55.280 Oh you have to sing me the song because I 1:29:55.439 --> 1:30:00.599 like kish Oh my gosh, T Pain is still that guy. Yeah, 1:30:00.640 --> 1:30:02.880 and I just need y'all to really like stop playing 1:30:02.920 --> 1:30:05.639 on my man top. But yeah, he brought Kesha back, 1:30:05.800 --> 1:30:06.800 Like are you kidding me? 1:30:07.479 --> 1:30:07.519 So? 1:30:07.680 --> 1:30:09.559 Like I'm in this little like pop I'm in I'm 1:30:09.640 --> 1:30:11.679 enjoying the pop songs right now. I think the pop 1:30:11.760 --> 1:30:13.720 girls are doing any thing. But yeah, I have my 1:30:13.760 --> 1:30:16.920 little ear where I was in Chicago drill music real bad. 1:30:17.439 --> 1:30:20.639 You know who need to make a comeback? Pretty walk, 1:30:21.000 --> 1:30:23.240 stop making makeup and make a comeback? 1:30:23.520 --> 1:30:27.240 Rihanna, No Lady Got Guy, Lady God got to drop 1:30:27.360 --> 1:30:28.320 the album she did? 1:30:29.439 --> 1:30:32.439 She's about to go on tour. Bro had no idea. Oh, 1:30:32.640 --> 1:30:34.320 come on back, Well you have. 1:30:34.479 --> 1:30:36.640 Never heard about it? 1:30:36.720 --> 1:30:37.880 The other week you did? 1:30:38.320 --> 1:30:39.720 Yes, what episode? Bro? 1:30:40.320 --> 1:30:41.920 It was like, who did I talk about on the 1:30:41.960 --> 1:30:42.720 episode with I? 1:30:42.840 --> 1:30:47.080 Did Lady got? Then she does? The song debuted on 1:30:47.200 --> 1:30:47.800 Super Bowl. 1:30:50.560 --> 1:30:54.040 I had a cut down bro. 1:30:58.520 --> 1:30:58.680 Hit. 1:30:58.960 --> 1:30:59.880 I'm gonna just go listen. 1:31:00.120 --> 1:31:01.600 Okay, I sound just like it. 1:31:01.960 --> 1:31:04.760 You know I gave you a good example. I don't 1:31:04.800 --> 1:31:08.120 think that it probably sounds quite like that. But oh 1:31:08.200 --> 1:31:10.760 my god, I had no idea, and I love Lady 1:31:10.800 --> 1:31:12.880 Go Go. I did not know she had a new album. 1:31:13.479 --> 1:31:14.840 Did you listen to the whole album? 1:31:15.080 --> 1:31:17.200 I haven't listened to the album. Has it dropped? 1:31:17.240 --> 1:31:17.280 It? 1:31:18.000 --> 1:31:18.960 Let me see mayhem? 1:31:19.160 --> 1:31:23.479 Oh yeah, it dropped. The album dropped. I haven't March seventh, 1:31:23.520 --> 1:31:26.240 So it just dropped okay, weeks ago, but yeah, she 1:31:26.360 --> 1:31:27.760 dropped that single on Super Bowl. 1:31:28.720 --> 1:31:31.320 I love me some lady, guy, guy, what a time 1:31:32.080 --> 1:31:32.640 when we were in. 1:31:36.720 --> 1:31:40.839 The things that that lady gave to us are bad. 1:31:40.760 --> 1:31:43.519 Romance was my song Whenmber we sing it for Carryo 1:31:43.680 --> 1:31:44.160 we did, We. 1:31:44.240 --> 1:31:45.280 Did sing bad Romance. 1:31:45.320 --> 1:31:46.680 You know who else needs to make a comeback that 1:31:46.720 --> 1:31:49.360 I will be here for. I wouldn't mind have Brittany 1:31:49.400 --> 1:31:50.240 got her shit together. 1:31:50.400 --> 1:31:51.840 I think she got one more in her. 1:31:51.960 --> 1:31:54.280 I just she got one more in her. Bro I 1:31:54.360 --> 1:31:55.840 don't think so, you don't think so. 1:31:56.240 --> 1:31:56.639 I don't. 1:31:57.040 --> 1:31:58.080 I think she can do it. 1:31:58.200 --> 1:31:59.920 I don't think she need to get a little timber 1:32:00.080 --> 1:32:00.800 Timbaland track. 1:32:01.760 --> 1:32:02.599 He can bring her back? 1:32:02.720 --> 1:32:02.840 Now? 1:32:03.200 --> 1:32:04.920 What does she rip her skirt off on the stage? 1:32:04.960 --> 1:32:05.519 Fine with me? 1:32:06.479 --> 1:32:08.000 Started pennies? 1:32:08.400 --> 1:32:08.599 Yeah? 1:32:09.200 --> 1:32:14.800 Oh yeah, okay, okay. I just don't know, like maybe 1:32:14.920 --> 1:32:17.080 she could go Maybe she could go on like a 1:32:17.120 --> 1:32:20.719 little compilation tour, you know, kind of like how Escape 1:32:20.800 --> 1:32:26.760 dep Wasn't it like Escape? So yeah, I feel like 1:32:27.040 --> 1:32:28.640 maybe she could do something like that, like. 1:32:28.880 --> 1:32:33.920 Her Christina oohause they're not beefing no more, No they're not. 1:32:34.000 --> 1:32:37.520 But Christina can really sing. Oh, Jessica Simpson just dropped. 1:32:37.240 --> 1:32:39.479 The new Simpson and I used to like just the 1:32:39.600 --> 1:32:40.479 Simpson back in the day. 1:32:40.680 --> 1:32:43.160 Yes, and they said the single is actually good. Okay, 1:32:43.160 --> 1:32:45.320 we listen to Yeah, We're gonna have to listen to it. 1:32:45.479 --> 1:32:48.040 Shout out to Jessica girl. Is she from Texas? 1:32:48.360 --> 1:32:49.880 Yeah, Dallas, Dallas. 1:32:50.080 --> 1:32:53.840 Actually Simpson had one of the best rock albums on 1:32:53.960 --> 1:32:54.720 a Monday. 1:32:55.160 --> 1:33:01.120 I am, well, and she's a Ross. Now, I'm not 1:33:01.200 --> 1:33:03.080 going to even talk about that. She was deep in 1:33:03.200 --> 1:33:06.320 her bag she got because her first who was her 1:33:06.360 --> 1:33:07.080 first baby, daddy? 1:33:07.120 --> 1:33:09.680 It was the man Pete Wentz. Was it Pete went 1:33:09.920 --> 1:33:11.920 Yeah it was I think so? 1:33:12.600 --> 1:33:17.960 Right, Yeah, I think so. And then she had a baby. 1:33:19.400 --> 1:33:23.840 Ross. Was it is that his name? I think it 1:33:24.000 --> 1:33:28.320 was Pete Wentz Ashley Simpson. Yep, damn, I'm really too 1:33:28.360 --> 1:33:29.679 deep into pop culture streets. 1:33:30.040 --> 1:33:31.559 I know it was one of them from a boy 1:33:31.640 --> 1:33:33.519 man back in the day, from a rock man. I 1:33:33.560 --> 1:33:37.439 couldn't remember who it was, but yeah, shout out to 1:33:37.479 --> 1:33:38.240 the Simon man. 1:33:38.600 --> 1:34:05.040 Shout out to the Simpsons the time back. 1:35:14.479 --> 1:35:18.080 All right, moving on, We're getting to our favorite segment 1:35:18.120 --> 1:35:20.120 of the week. Pour your heart outs if you have 1:35:20.320 --> 1:35:24.040 a question, advice, anything, that you need answer on the show. 1:35:24.080 --> 1:35:26.599 Make sure you email us at Askpourminds at gmail dot com. 1:35:27.080 --> 1:35:30.760 If you are a Patreon girl, y'all, I'm struggling, I 1:35:30.840 --> 1:35:31.080 got it. 1:35:31.080 --> 1:35:31.439 If you're a. 1:35:31.479 --> 1:35:33.680 Patreon girly or God, make sure you put that in 1:35:33.760 --> 1:35:34.360 the subject line. 1:35:34.400 --> 1:35:37.040 You get to skip the line period. Okay, y'all. 1:35:37.080 --> 1:35:40.240 Make sure y'all keep the questions and whatever you're typing 1:35:40.560 --> 1:35:42.160 real short, cute and sweet. 1:35:42.240 --> 1:35:43.360 Okay, love y'all. 1:35:43.840 --> 1:35:45.720 You got some emojis on your I know. 1:35:47.680 --> 1:35:48.679 Hadria and LyX. 1:35:48.800 --> 1:35:51.160 I love the podcast in the advice y'all give its 1:35:51.200 --> 1:35:55.080 super entertaining and I learned something every episode. I'm sixteen 1:35:55.200 --> 1:35:58.519 and started dating my first boyfriend last June. Things were 1:35:58.600 --> 1:36:01.040 great until he eded it do the problems at home. 1:36:01.560 --> 1:36:04.280 I took it hard, but accepted it. Before I could 1:36:04.280 --> 1:36:06.880 fully move on, he came back asking to start over 1:36:07.000 --> 1:36:10.080 and I said yes. At first things were good, but 1:36:10.160 --> 1:36:12.479 when I wanted something more serious, he kept saying he 1:36:12.640 --> 1:36:15.920 wasn't ready. We started arguing, and I finally told him 1:36:16.280 --> 1:36:18.719 it's best we don't speak until he knows what he wants. 1:36:18.760 --> 1:36:19.519 What do y'all think? 1:36:19.960 --> 1:36:22.040 I think that you're sixteen and you need to go 1:36:22.520 --> 1:36:25.280 watch Pepper Pig. Why are you watching Poor Minds? 1:36:25.360 --> 1:36:26.160 That's what I said. 1:36:26.680 --> 1:36:28.120 Now, how you found out about the show? 1:36:28.200 --> 1:36:30.479 Baby? How did you find out about. 1:36:30.240 --> 1:36:31.320 These No, you are sixteen. 1:36:31.400 --> 1:36:33.800 You need to focus on school, she said, And what 1:36:33.960 --> 1:36:34.920 college you're getting into? 1:36:35.120 --> 1:36:36.719 These boys? He's not ready. 1:36:36.760 --> 1:36:41.160 He's sixteen. You're not ready, she said. Don't speak to 1:36:41.280 --> 1:36:42.679 me until you know what you want. 1:36:42.840 --> 1:36:44.200 She is sixteen at war. 1:36:44.439 --> 1:36:48.320 She is at war with that men because I know 1:36:48.800 --> 1:36:49.720 is not a man here. 1:36:49.840 --> 1:36:50.080 Boy. 1:36:50.280 --> 1:36:51.200 They both kids. 1:36:52.200 --> 1:36:54.800 Now, I want to know how old he is. 1:36:56.080 --> 1:36:57.280 She ain't say he was no kid. 1:36:58.200 --> 1:36:58.800 I don't like this. 1:36:59.600 --> 1:37:01.880 You need to stop watching Poor mind and problems at home? 1:37:01.960 --> 1:37:05.519 Hee could be with his wife. I hope not, because 1:37:05.520 --> 1:37:06.760 we got a case on our hand. 1:37:08.720 --> 1:37:09.559 I hope the hell. 1:37:09.760 --> 1:37:09.800 No. 1:37:10.040 --> 1:37:13.240 I'm just saying I don't be putting nothing past these men, 1:37:14.120 --> 1:37:17.200 know how they Yeah, you have sixteen year old girls 1:37:17.360 --> 1:37:18.640 be thinking that they be doing so they'd be like, 1:37:18.680 --> 1:37:22.360 ooh my boyfriend twenty my boyfriend twenty one. Yeah, girl, 1:37:22.400 --> 1:37:23.640 I had a few friends like that. 1:37:24.160 --> 1:37:28.000 You are off totally even trying to let a boy 1:37:28.080 --> 1:37:30.880 stretch you out at sixteen. I honestly hope you aren't 1:37:30.920 --> 1:37:33.320 even watching this to get the answer, because you don't 1:37:33.320 --> 1:37:34.639 even need to be watching poor minds. 1:37:34.640 --> 1:37:36.880 This is for grown folks. Oh, she's gonna tune in 1:37:37.120 --> 1:37:38.799 and she gonna be showing her friends in class. 1:37:39.479 --> 1:37:44.360 Look, y'all ain't answer my question. Girl, go study. You 1:37:44.439 --> 1:37:44.920 are sixteen. 1:37:44.960 --> 1:37:48.280 You're supposed to be worried about your college applications very soon. 1:37:48.520 --> 1:37:51.000 I agree. Whenever y'all be writing in and y'all he 1:37:51.120 --> 1:37:54.599 be worried about men and y'all be under like twenty five. 1:37:54.760 --> 1:37:57.000 I just my answer is gonna always be let it go. 1:37:58.400 --> 1:38:02.280 Let it go another live, Yeah, just let it go. 1:38:02.479 --> 1:38:05.560 You can always find someone else, like at sixteen, a 1:38:05.680 --> 1:38:09.519 boy or a mean whatever he Okay, should not be 1:38:09.840 --> 1:38:10.840 consuming your thought. 1:38:11.240 --> 1:38:14.760 Agreed, Agreed, All right, Hello ladies. I'm a twenty two 1:38:14.840 --> 1:38:17.599 year old young and turned boy from Dallas. Shout out 1:38:17.640 --> 1:38:21.280 to shout out to the Gritty Grove my best friend, 1:38:21.320 --> 1:38:23.960 and I admire y'all's friendship and the growth we've seen 1:38:24.200 --> 1:38:27.799 on screen. Lately, we've been dealing with some codependency issues 1:38:27.880 --> 1:38:29.639 and want to work on it. Do y'all have any 1:38:29.680 --> 1:38:33.160 advice on maintaining a healthy friendship balance? Have you Andrea 1:38:33.240 --> 1:38:35.960 ever gone through something similar. How did y'all grow through it? 1:38:36.320 --> 1:38:40.599 A self proclaimed number one stand ps Lex, p Andrea Andicle, 1:38:40.760 --> 1:38:43.400 y'all are the baddest Leo and Taurus out right now 1:38:43.800 --> 1:38:45.960 from a Sagittarius fire sign. 1:38:46.120 --> 1:38:50.040 Gang, who I Love Me is Sagitta Let me see 1:38:51.880 --> 1:38:57.080 I've seen them Emosis at the ED. Okay, So what 1:38:57.160 --> 1:39:00.280 advice do you have for code dependness? No, No, I 1:39:00.280 --> 1:39:02.160 don't feel like we were ever just colding neither. 1:39:02.280 --> 1:39:04.800 I don't think we have that personality trait. We're not 1:39:04.920 --> 1:39:06.160 cold dependent on anybody. 1:39:06.400 --> 1:39:08.120 Yeah, but I don't. 1:39:08.280 --> 1:39:12.000 Yeah, I'll say this, go ahead, go ahead, I'm sorry 1:39:12.000 --> 1:39:12.840 what I was just gonna say. 1:39:12.880 --> 1:39:15.439 I don't even necessarily know if I feel like that's 1:39:15.560 --> 1:39:19.240 like a bad thing with your friends. I'm like this, 1:39:19.600 --> 1:39:20.800 you think so, cause I was gonna say. 1:39:20.840 --> 1:39:22.519 I mean, I think it's good to have a friend 1:39:22.600 --> 1:39:22.840 that you. 1:39:24.479 --> 1:39:28.680 Have a really strong bond with that you probably might 1:39:28.800 --> 1:39:30.920 feel like you could talk to them about whatever, or 1:39:31.040 --> 1:39:32.840 you feel like they're always there for you. You know, 1:39:32.880 --> 1:39:35.240 they always a phone call away, or you can go 1:39:35.400 --> 1:39:37.320 hang with them whenever you're going through things, Like I 1:39:37.360 --> 1:39:40.360 think it's good to have those type of relationships, Like 1:39:40.360 --> 1:39:43.080 I'm wondering if it really is codependency or. 1:39:43.600 --> 1:39:44.200 That's what I'm saying. 1:39:44.240 --> 1:39:47.599 Obviously, it's some point to where it's becoming unhealthy, because 1:39:48.200 --> 1:39:50.519 what you're talking about is just being a friend and 1:39:50.680 --> 1:39:54.840 being there. I think a little codependency comes when it's 1:39:54.960 --> 1:39:59.479 becoming overbearing for one person and they can't be there 1:39:59.520 --> 1:40:01.760 for you if they they're not all the way there 1:40:02.000 --> 1:40:03.519 or what they have going on. That's why I said 1:40:03.560 --> 1:40:05.559 for me and my friends, I do have some friends 1:40:05.640 --> 1:40:10.280 that they are codependent a lot with their community. So 1:40:10.720 --> 1:40:13.920 I have let them know, Hey, I don't mind being 1:40:14.000 --> 1:40:16.160 there for you, but like I said, sometimes when you 1:40:16.240 --> 1:40:18.080 call me, you got a lot going on, just check 1:40:18.160 --> 1:40:20.360 in with me. Hey, Lex do you have the capacity 1:40:20.400 --> 1:40:22.640 to talk about this today? I think it's okay to 1:40:22.760 --> 1:40:25.200 draw boundaries with your friends because people think that drawing 1:40:25.240 --> 1:40:27.800 boundaries means I'm being mean and I don't want you 1:40:27.880 --> 1:40:28.200 next to me. 1:40:28.320 --> 1:40:29.160 That's not what I'm saying. 1:40:29.520 --> 1:40:32.000 I'm just saying, like, let's make sure that we are 1:40:32.080 --> 1:40:34.720 both in the mind frame to talk or have these conversations. 1:40:34.920 --> 1:40:36.360 So I think what y'all need to do is draw 1:40:36.439 --> 1:40:39.840 healthy boundaries. So maybe that's something y'all need to practice. Hey, friend, 1:40:40.360 --> 1:40:41.280 can you talk today? 1:40:41.600 --> 1:40:43.400 Are you in the mental capacity to talk today? 1:40:43.439 --> 1:40:45.560 Because I got this, I got something going on I 1:40:45.640 --> 1:40:46.760 want to talk to you about. But if you're not 1:40:46.800 --> 1:40:50.520 in the headspace, it's okay. Yeah, So just create healthy boundaries. 1:40:50.560 --> 1:40:52.920 I think a lot of times people look at boundaries like, oh, 1:40:52.960 --> 1:40:54.800 they're being mean, they don't want to talk. But we 1:40:54.920 --> 1:40:57.080 all got shit going on. So let's just be more 1:40:57.160 --> 1:41:01.160 respectful respe let's have more respect for other people's mental space. 1:41:01.439 --> 1:41:03.640 So I don't know if that's exactly the issue, but 1:41:03.760 --> 1:41:06.799 that's something that I've done in my personal other friendships. 1:41:06.960 --> 1:41:07.720 Like I said, I don't think we. 1:41:07.800 --> 1:41:10.240 Mean me and you have ever had that problem, but 1:41:10.600 --> 1:41:13.599 I think anything is worth talking about. We can say 1:41:13.680 --> 1:41:15.800 that any issue that we've ever had in the past, 1:41:15.840 --> 1:41:17.600 we always just be like, okay, friend, what's up. 1:41:17.840 --> 1:41:18.680 We've been to talk it out. 1:41:18.960 --> 1:41:21.960 No matter how avoidant somebody is, you got to put 1:41:21.960 --> 1:41:22.479 it on the flow. 1:41:23.320 --> 1:41:25.040 I agree, Yeah, I think y'all just need to have 1:41:25.120 --> 1:41:30.320 a healthy conversation because whoever is feeling that way, or 1:41:30.320 --> 1:41:33.439 if y'all are both feeling that way, there's a way to, 1:41:34.720 --> 1:41:37.160 like Lenke said, set healthy boundary. So y'all just need 1:41:37.240 --> 1:41:40.559 to have a good conversation and figure out what works 1:41:40.640 --> 1:41:44.040 best for y'all's relationship because you don't want to, you know, 1:41:44.280 --> 1:41:44.840 start feeling. 1:41:45.040 --> 1:41:47.679 Yeah, it seems like y'all love each other whatever, So yeah, 1:41:47.840 --> 1:41:50.679 y'all love each other, you know what I'm saying. All Right, y'all, 1:41:51.280 --> 1:41:54.479 make sure y'all tune in to Travel Queens on be 1:41:54.600 --> 1:41:58.400 et Her available on other platforms the next day. 1:41:59.720 --> 1:42:01.320 Check that out, Love Lexp. 1:42:02.080 --> 1:42:06.000 New episodes drop every Monday on my YouTube channel Lexp 1:42:06.560 --> 1:42:07.799 at ten am. 1:42:09.280 --> 1:42:11.600 Yes, make sure y'all follow my YouTube channel dre and 1:42:11.640 --> 1:42:15.040 a Call with three e's. 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Okay, 1:42:55.200 --> 1:42:58.880 they block me Andrea and the poor Minds page on both. 1:42:58.960 --> 1:43:04.800 So we only have one Instagram, one Twitter, one TikTok 1:43:05.160 --> 1:43:05.920 it is p o. 1:43:06.160 --> 1:43:07.439 You are underscore in my. 1:43:07.560 --> 1:43:10.840 Nds, all right, and we gotta hell a fake Facebook 1:43:10.880 --> 1:43:14.360 page on the Facebook page. It's our face. The crazy 1:43:14.400 --> 1:43:17.360 thing is our Facebook page actually have the least amount 1:43:17.360 --> 1:43:20.000 of follow So if you're on Facebook, one that's ours 1:43:20.360 --> 1:43:21.640 got the least amount. 1:43:21.320 --> 1:43:23.680 Of but one that's not us it's got like two 1:43:23.760 --> 1:43:26.880 hundred and fifty make if you actually look at the content, 1:43:26.920 --> 1:43:29.839 because the caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English, 1:43:30.080 --> 1:43:31.240 because their captures. 1:43:30.960 --> 1:43:34.120 Are like bumba claude, should men? Should men pay bill? 1:43:35.320 --> 1:43:36.320 Should men pay bill? 1:43:36.479 --> 1:43:36.639 Yes? 1:43:36.760 --> 1:43:36.800 No? 1:43:38.120 --> 1:43:40.400 Check answer below block block. 1:43:41.000 --> 1:43:45.040 Pull pull off, Like that's literally with the captions. I'm like, 1:43:45.240 --> 1:43:48.400 what that DG is? Bumba claude, bumba claud. 1:43:54.240 --> 1:43:57.320 Hey, I'm hitting one more time for hit it for. 1:43:57.280 --> 1:44:11.640 On whoa hmmmmmmmm bag lady. 1:44:15.240 --> 1:44:22.120 Dragging all them bags like that, I guess nobody ever 1:44:22.320 --> 1:44:27.000 told you how you mon sold on to is you? 1:44:28.280 --> 1:44:28.439 Is you? 1:44:29.680 --> 1:44:29.960 Is your? 1:44:32.200 --> 1:44:36.679 One day all them bags gonna get it in your way. 1:44:37.880 --> 1:44:42.280 One day, all them bags gonna get in your way. 1:44:42.800 --> 1:44:43.320 I said. 1:44:43.479 --> 1:44:47.920 One day, all them bags gonna get in your way. 1:44:49.160 --> 1:44:53.599 One day, all them bags gonna get in your way. 1:44:54.160 --> 1:44:57.480 So paylight. 1:44:58.479 --> 1:45:02.439 Who who bag lady? 1:45:03.240 --> 1:45:08.840 You gonna miss your bus. You can't hurry up because 1:45:08.880 --> 1:45:09.519 you don't got. 1:45:09.560 --> 1:45:10.599 Too much stuff. 1:45:11.600 --> 1:45:15.800 When when they see you come in, nigga say God, 1:45:15.960 --> 1:45:21.200 briennay from you issue. Oh yes, say dude. 1:45:23.040 --> 1:45:25.320 One day he gonna. 1:45:25.120 --> 1:45:30.759 Say you crowd in my space. One day he gonna 1:45:30.800 --> 1:45:36.360 say you crowded in my space. One day he gonna 1:45:36.439 --> 1:45:42.080 say you crowd in my space. One day he gonna 1:45:42.160 --> 1:45:44.639 say you crowd in my space. 1:45:45.040 --> 1:45:53.000 So peg lighte yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, girl. I know. 1:45:55.640 --> 1:45:57.120 Sometimes it's hard. 1:45:58.520 --> 1:46:00.120 We can't let go o. 1:46:02.600 --> 1:46:04.360 Some much Oh so. 1:46:04.680 --> 1:46:08.400 Bad inside you came to night. 1:46:09.760 --> 1:46:16.000 You can't stop crying. Say oh. 1:46:19.400 --> 1:46:28.759 Yeah, bag lady, back back, back back lady, That's. 1:46:28.640 --> 1:46:32.639 What I'm talking about. Hey, now we should have break 1:46:32.640 --> 1:46:33.479 it down real good. 1:46:34.040 --> 1:46:34.640 Let's find him. 1:46:34.680 --> 1:46:38.080 Let's fine. Now were my grocery bag? Lady? 1:46:41.520 --> 1:46:43.759 What about that grocery bag lady. 1:46:46.920 --> 1:46:53.439 I'm talking to about Gucci. Bag lady. What about my 1:46:53.560 --> 1:46:54.439 paper sackle? 1:46:54.600 --> 1:46:59.920 Hey day? What about my dickle bag? 1:47:00.000 --> 1:47:00.760 I can lay that. 1:47:04.400 --> 1:47:09.760 With the O your back of Mama. Yeah, he shout 1:47:09.800 --> 1:47:13.200 out to my bag laddy. Bitches out there, you got 1:47:13.240 --> 1:47:14.040 a bag, that's. 1:47:13.920 --> 1:47:14.599 All right, bitch. 1:47:14.640 --> 1:47:16.840 Don't let that nigga play you because you got a bag, Beach. 1:47:17.000 --> 1:47:17.640 I don't know. 1:47:18.560 --> 1:47:20.640 I'm a bag lady. I'm a bag laddy. You know 1:47:20.680 --> 1:47:21.040 what I got. 1:47:21.080 --> 1:47:24.720 I got that big bag. No, yeah, fuck with me. 1:47:25.200 --> 1:47:26.720 Y'all need to let that bag go. 1:48:00.800 --> 1:48:00.840 No,