Speaker 1: What's cracking? Y'all, Welcome back to Cheeky's and Chill. I
Speaker 1: have a new episode for you, and I think you're
Speaker 1: really gonna like this one because I have a special guest,
Speaker 1: my other half, my handsome Hobby. Hi babe, Hi, welcome
Speaker 1: to the podcast once again. Awesome. That makes me happy.
Speaker 1: So today we're going to talk about how marriage has
Speaker 1: been going, how married life is. But before we get
Speaker 1: into that, we're going to talk about our honeymoon because
Speaker 1: a lot of people have been asking about that. A
Speaker 1: lot of people don't know that we went on a honeymoon,
Speaker 1: but we did, and some people are asking where we went,
Speaker 1: how did it go? If we had fun? Are you ready? Yeah?
Speaker 1: All right? So okay, Hi babe, Hi, Doodle, How you feel? Man?
Speaker 2: I feel good?
Speaker 1: Have you guys noticed he calls me doodle? Yeah? What
Speaker 1: do you call me? Doodle? Babe? I forget because of
Speaker 1: Ryu because he's a doodle.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because we have doodles.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and just yeah, it's just cute doodle. Yeah, Okay,
Speaker 1: I love that. Okay, guys, So we went on a
Speaker 1: pre honeymoon and we're calling it pre honeymoon because it
Speaker 1: was like last minute we planned it last minute kind
Speaker 1: of right. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Also, we just want to do real, like a bigger one.
Speaker 2: I guess this is just kind of like with our schedule,
Speaker 2: we just had to kind of sneak it in.
Speaker 1: Sneak it in. Yeah, because this year has been gnarly, guys,
Speaker 1: A lot has happened. We got married in July, and
Speaker 1: then we worked. I was in the middle of the tour,
Speaker 1: and then after that we started Lakama and Immedia started
Speaker 1: going on tour too. Working, so it's just we didn't
Speaker 1: have time. But I really felt like I needed a
Speaker 1: mental break if I really felt like I was kind
Speaker 1: of I was almost over the edge.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it came at the perfect time. Like really, we
Speaker 2: really didn't need it because we kind of dedicated this
Speaker 2: year to like working.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we knew. We knew that we were going to
Speaker 1: do a lot of working and less traveling this year,
Speaker 1: so we were kind of on the same page. But
Speaker 1: I was like, I need a break. So I took
Speaker 1: a whole week off in September and we were already
Speaker 1: in Mexico, so we're like, let's go somewhere in Mexico.
Speaker 1: We wanted to go to Hawaii.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's our spot.
Speaker 1: That's our spot with love Hawaii, and I haven't gone
Speaker 1: to Hawaii this year, so I'm like really missing it.
Speaker 1: But it just made no sense. I was like, Okay,
Speaker 1: if we're in Mexico and then having to fly to Hawaii,
Speaker 1: it just it made no sense. We were going to
Speaker 1: lose a whole day. So we decided to go somewhere
Speaker 1: in Mexico and we went to Yes, we did. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And how did you like it? Had you been there
Speaker 1: to buy the Catman before? Yeah?
Speaker 2: My mom has taken me there since I was a
Speaker 2: little kids.
Speaker 1: Oh it's tray because it got it? Yes, yes, yes, yes,
Speaker 1: because he Yeah, because he knows all about it, got it.
Speaker 1: I'd never been still and we didn't go this last time.
Speaker 2: It's pretty cool.
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, I mean it looks cool. But he we
Speaker 1: were gonna go, and then you said, I think a
Speaker 1: lot of people are going to recognize you, so maybe
Speaker 1: we shouldn't.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it might be tough for us to go there.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because especially being on La like, I get recognized
Speaker 1: a lot more in Mexico now. So anyway, so we
Speaker 1: stayed at the it's called the Banyan Tree, bab Tree, yeah,
Speaker 1: banyon Tree. Yeah, that was great, and it's like all
Speaker 1: like Thailand, Thailand.
Speaker 2: It's from Yeah, it's based it's based out of Thailand,
Speaker 2: and they brought it over to.
Speaker 1: And they brought it over here and we love everything Asian.
Speaker 1: Hence I married, you know, half Filipino dude. But I
Speaker 1: really liked it because I like the resorts that are
Speaker 1: kind of like very private, so we can eat and
Speaker 1: hang out and do everything in the resort. Yes, so
Speaker 1: that's what we usually do.
Speaker 2: Yes.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: After like the fourth day, I think we went out
Speaker 2: to the street for the first time and I was like,
Speaker 2: oh my god. We were really in this like secluded
Speaker 2: area where we kind of go into our own world.
Speaker 2: And I think that's what we needed. We needed like
Speaker 2: calm for sure.
Speaker 1: Yeah. We had our own little pool in the room.
Speaker 1: We had like we can walk down to the beach, yeah,
Speaker 1: and to the ocean. That was really nice. So we
Speaker 1: weren't supposed to work. I was kind of like, I
Speaker 1: don't want to be on my phone f everything. And
Speaker 1: we got there on a Monday and then we wake
Speaker 1: up on Tuesday, which was September seventeenth actually to be exact, right,
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and that's when I found out that I
Speaker 1: was nominated for the third Grammy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that first day.
Speaker 1: That first day, so I was like so then that
Speaker 1: he was kind of irritated with me because I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be on my phone. I don't be
Speaker 1: on my phone. But then I got nominated and so
Speaker 1: people were congratulating me. Then we had to, like I
Speaker 1: t had to jump on a call. So he was
Speaker 1: kind of like happy, obviously we're happy, but it was
Speaker 1: kind of like this is our time, right, yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's like there's certain things that I'm like, Okay.
Speaker 2: That was one where I'm like, okay, we could we
Speaker 2: celebrate this, we do what you gotta do. This one
Speaker 2: was like it's important, you know, yes, So I had
Speaker 2: to like, let you do your thing.
Speaker 1: Yes. So that kind of changed things a little bit,
Speaker 1: but not in a bad way. I was actually very excited.
Speaker 1: I had forgotten, you know, about the nominations. I just
Speaker 1: was working so much. I was so excited about my
Speaker 1: vacation finally that I don't know, but it was a
Speaker 1: great surprise. And then the only other work that we
Speaker 1: did was for our song for the song that I
Speaker 1: wrote for a medio called Casi Passando, which is my
Speaker 1: first love song you guys that I wrote for a
Speaker 1: medio and so we were supposed to look through our
Speaker 1: phones to send the editor a videos of us because
Speaker 1: that's what I wanted. We wanted the video to be
Speaker 1: very organic about our relationship. So then I was like,
Speaker 1: you know what, you're a photographer videographer, Like, what if
Speaker 1: we do something super organic and do like a few
Speaker 1: little which McAll what.
Speaker 2: Are they a little couple of clips? Yes, a few
Speaker 2: scenes there.
Speaker 1: Yes, So that's where we were on the beach there
Speaker 1: empl Garman by the pool. That's where you guys could
Speaker 1: see the video on YouTube Casando. So that was about it,
Speaker 1: and then we just had like a lot of fun.
Speaker 1: We ate a lot of good food. We saw alligator.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and the clips were like they're very raw, very raw,
Speaker 2: no makeup. Just We're like, hey, we're in this beautiful area.
Speaker 2: Let's just let's just take advantage of it.
Speaker 1: Yes, And I was kind of like I wanted to
Speaker 1: do it because I knew we needed it for the video,
Speaker 1: but I'm not gonna lie. I was kind of like, oh,
Speaker 1: I don't want to do this, but if you're not,
Speaker 1: to be really cool because it was just a media
Speaker 1: night and I put on, He's like, just you know,
Speaker 1: we're no makeup and just be yourself and we had
Speaker 1: a lot of fun doing that.
Speaker 2: It's a very raw video.
Speaker 1: I like it.
Speaker 2: It's like it's all real footage of.
Speaker 1: Us for sure. Yeah, it was cute, very Okay. So
Speaker 1: what was your favorite part of the honeymoon?
Speaker 2: I think probably the night that we went out into
Speaker 2: the town and it was our last night, Yeah, and
Speaker 2: we just kind of I don't know if it was
Speaker 2: a good idea to do it on the last night,
Speaker 2: but we kind of just let go of everything and just.
Speaker 1: Like, know, why didn't we do it earlier in the week.
Speaker 2: I don't know, I think we did. We were so
Speaker 2: comfortable in the hotel, yeah, that we didn't want to
Speaker 2: leave and there were so many great restaurants there that
Speaker 2: we were like, we don't need to leave. But then
Speaker 2: it was it was probably the longest besides like the
Speaker 2: Philippine trip. It was probably one of the longer vacations
Speaker 2: that we've been on. So after that, like fourth fifth day,
Speaker 2: we're like, hey, we need to go do something else.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, And just to give you guys some context,
Speaker 1: because I was doing lakadema and it was that one
Speaker 1: Sunday that I didn't make it because I got sick.
Speaker 1: So I had been feeling sick like the Wednesday before
Speaker 1: that Sunday, and then I just progressively started getting like
Speaker 1: like sicker is that a word? More sick, more sick, whatever, sicker,
Speaker 1: more sick. And then by Sunday, I was like out.
Speaker 1: I didn't make it to lakademia that day. So I
Speaker 1: slept all day, you guys, all day on Sunday, and
Speaker 1: I was like, am I going to feel good to fly?
Speaker 1: Because after that kademia, which is Monday, we were supposed
Speaker 1: to fly out for our honeymoon slash vacation. But then
Speaker 1: I started feeling really good. I think God just said
Speaker 1: you're tired mentally, physically, in every way. You need to sleep.
Speaker 1: And I slept all day, literally all day Sunday. So
Speaker 1: on Monday, I felt still a little bit like sick,
Speaker 1: but I felt a lot better. Yes, So I thought
Speaker 1: it was going to put a damper on our vacation,
Speaker 1: but it didn't because I was like, Dane, I want
Speaker 1: to drink, and you know you drink and your immune system,
Speaker 1: you know, weekends, So I was like, dude, I'm ready
Speaker 1: to take some tequila. Yeah, but we got there. We
Speaker 1: got there on Monday, and we took That's the first
Speaker 1: thing we did. How we took some shots.
Speaker 2: When we land. Every time when we land somewhere, you're
Speaker 2: like if you want a shot at the airport, I'm like,
Speaker 2: all right, whatever, And then we.
Speaker 1: Have, you know what, our rinking medicine.
Speaker 2: Yeah, our ride from the airport to the hotel, we're
Speaker 2: usually drinking and it's usually super fun and I'm sure
Speaker 2: the drivers think that we're really crazy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure. We start singing and the whole thing.
Speaker 1: I was like, bab, let's take a shot. We're here.
Speaker 1: It starts now. So we took a shot and then
Speaker 1: we took one to go. Yes, and we were buzzing
Speaker 1: on the way to the hotel. So that was super
Speaker 1: fun and okay, so yes, So that night, that night
Speaker 1: that we went out talking about alcohol, yeah, because we
Speaker 1: got that was on Saturday. So then the next day, Oh,
Speaker 1: we extended our state too. We were supposed to leave on Saturday,
Speaker 1: and I was like, dude, no, like we lost a
Speaker 1: whole day on Monday, like, let's just stay. And I'm
Speaker 1: glad we did. But I was filling it on lakademia.
Speaker 1: The next day Sunday, because we Saturday was when we
Speaker 1: went out. Yeah, and we partied hard because I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: we've been in the hotel, like, let's go out see
Speaker 1: the town. So we went to eat some steak. It
Speaker 1: was very good. Yeah, the food was bombed the US
Speaker 1: very nice, very nice, and we got buzzed and I
Speaker 1: don't really remember a lot, but I got We got
Speaker 1: home safely because we did because we got to the
Speaker 1: hotel because we had a red driver.
Speaker 2: We had a great driver taking care of us.
Speaker 1: So then the next day, which is Sunday, we flew
Speaker 1: out and I had to get ready straight from the airport,
Speaker 1: straight to the hotel, freshen up a little bit, and
Speaker 1: go straight to lad And then that day he went
Speaker 1: straight to go get his tattoo, because that's another thing
Speaker 1: he did while we were in Mexico. Guys, that was
Speaker 1: as a whole. Yeah, new sleeve.
Speaker 2: I got an entire new sleeve in in Mexico.
Speaker 1: City in a month, in a month.
Speaker 2: While we were all like, why did you do it?
Speaker 2: Because you told me that you wanted me to have
Speaker 2: more tattoos.
Speaker 1: That's really is that?
Speaker 2: Really?
Speaker 1: Why? Though? Yeah, I think I did, and I think
Speaker 1: I think I even told him. I was like, I
Speaker 1: want like a little bit like right here, I'm sure
Speaker 1: like a little bit of like I want to see
Speaker 1: like a tattoo on your neck. I think this was
Speaker 1: are so sexy.
Speaker 2: You better ask my mom for the neck I no, no.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, Mom says, no, we're not doing it.
Speaker 1: But during the vacation he had to cover it because
Speaker 1: his whole plan was to finish the sleep so he
Speaker 1: wasn't even finished when we were on vacation, so we
Speaker 1: had to wear this these protector things.
Speaker 2: Yeah, just so so I didn't get some burned.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, but it was really nice. We spent a
Speaker 1: lot of time. I didn't Why did I tan? Like
Speaker 1: I feel like I just I did not tan at all.
Speaker 2: I think you did.
Speaker 1: Also you got burned.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we did a lot of different activities.
Speaker 1: Well tell them about what we did because we also, like.
Speaker 2: I think it was really cool. This trip was really
Speaker 2: cool because when you're planning a vacation, we always like, oh,
Speaker 2: we're going to do this, We're going to do that,
Speaker 2: and then the day comes and we're like, we don't
Speaker 2: want to do it. We want to lay here just chill.
Speaker 1: And eat because I slept so much. We slept a lot.
Speaker 2: This was one of the first vacations where I think
Speaker 2: we checked everything off of our list that we wanted
Speaker 2: to do, like riding bikes, going to this restaurant, getting
Speaker 2: on a boat doing like, yeah, we checked off everything,
Speaker 2: and so I was like really proud that we did that.
Speaker 2: So it felt like a very full vacation.
Speaker 1: You know, you're right because in the hotel we talked
Speaker 1: about because it was in a lagoon, right there was
Speaker 1: a lagoon, and we're like, okay, we heard it. There
Speaker 1: were alligators like on our third day there, and I
Speaker 1: was like, because we were eating at like this Thai restaurant,
Speaker 1: which is amazing, and they sat as like at the
Speaker 1: best table I think at the restaurant, and I started looking.
Speaker 1: I was like, dude, and I asked jokingly, I asked
Speaker 1: the waiter, are there any alligators? He said, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: there is, actually there's one right there. I was like,
Speaker 1: he's lying. I was like, you're lying. You want to
Speaker 1: put his here? If there's alligator? No, no, no, they sometimes
Speaker 1: get on the deck. He was just here earlier. Dude.
Speaker 1: I was freaking out. I'm so scared. Of alligators, like
Speaker 1: who is it? Right? But I'm like and I you
Speaker 1: could see the alligator's head. Yeah, and I was just like, dude,
Speaker 1: what am I going to do? What would I do?
Speaker 1: But he said he's very he's very nice. And they
Speaker 1: named him Buncho. Yeah. Yeah, they named the alligator Buncho.
Speaker 1: So we saw that. Then after that we were like,
Speaker 1: you know what, we need to ride the boat here,
Speaker 1: and we did. We got on the boat there because
Speaker 1: there's like they like a little lagoon. What does you
Speaker 1: call the boats not? Is it a boat? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah, fer boat?
Speaker 1: Yeah, little ferry boat there.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: And then you wanted to see a spider monkey and
Speaker 1: there was one there.
Speaker 2: Yes. Everything everything that we wanted that was that we
Speaker 2: couldn't control, we kind of got, which is really cool. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Also we did we got a little adventuross and we
Speaker 2: went ATVing and also ziplining, which was I was a
Speaker 2: little nervous for you to do it. I don't know
Speaker 2: because like see my wife fly over the forest.
Speaker 1: I'm just like, oh my god, Yeah, but how did
Speaker 1: I do?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: You did great. I'm not scared, You're not. What about
Speaker 1: the ATVs?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I had to keep up with her I had
Speaker 2: to keep up with you.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I said, you were crazy.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I was like, if we're ever in a survival situation,
Speaker 2: she's just jamming going there. I'm like, I'm gonna.
Speaker 1: She's I've watched a lot of Walking Dead and I've
Speaker 1: watched a lot of Like I am Legend, so I
Speaker 1: am prepared. I am not scared. I was like, I
Speaker 1: was like, I want to get through this. The only
Speaker 1: thing we didn't do because it was like a like
Speaker 1: a three the whole thing, like, remember we didn't do
Speaker 1: this and not this, which are caves. Yeah, I think
Speaker 1: I've shared this with you guys. I'm not afraid of
Speaker 1: a lot of things, but I am now that I've
Speaker 1: gotten older, I am very like weary of of the ocean.
Speaker 1: So I don't know. Before I used to love it.
Speaker 1: Now I'll get in, but to be deep in the
Speaker 1: ocean and in caves and having to go under, it's
Speaker 1: just not not my thing anymore, Okay. And I was like, dude,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I want to do this, babe.
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm so sorry. I was like, I'll
Speaker 1: do ATVs. I'll freaking do all the zip lines, Like
Speaker 1: I let my hands I'm like, well, whatever, I'm flying.
Speaker 1: It was so fun. But the sene is the caves.
Speaker 1: I couldn't. I just can't even like something that's under
Speaker 1: me and I don't know what it is. I just
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you were doing the zip lines with no hands
Speaker 2: right away, right away, like you can go if you want.
Speaker 2: You were just like going for it, and I'm like,
Speaker 2: I'm making sure they're locking you in correctly, and like
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, that's all right, that's how it works, okay.
Speaker 1: And now that you're we're talking about that, because you know,
Speaker 1: we've been flying. We were flying every week, and you know,
Speaker 1: there's always movies. And there was this movie. I don't
Speaker 1: know if you guys have watched it, but it's called
Speaker 1: King Arthur, I believe it is. It's about a dog
Speaker 1: and it's with what's his name, Matt Mark.
Speaker 2: Mark Wahlberg, right, Yes, the guy from Ted.
Speaker 1: Yes, that's him Mark. Okay, I'm sorry, I'm really bad
Speaker 1: with names. So anyways, I watch after Ziplining because there's
Speaker 1: a part of Ziplining on there. If I would have
Speaker 1: watched that movie before Ziplining, I don't know if I
Speaker 1: would have done it because the girl got stuck. But
Speaker 1: usually I'm just like, That's the thing. I think as
Speaker 1: we get older, we start thinking about things because before
Speaker 1: in the ocean, like even roller coasters. I love roller
Speaker 1: coasters and I'll still get on, but you know, when
Speaker 1: you're young, you don't think about the consequences, and now
Speaker 1: that I'm older, I'm like, wait, a lot of shit
Speaker 1: can happen, you know. So I just I wasn't down
Speaker 1: with the with the other part. But anyways, the zip
Speaker 1: lining was fun, yes, it was Yeah. And then we
Speaker 1: had really good chicken there.
Speaker 2: Yes, we did the chick Also another thing on our
Speaker 2: list that we did. We had a great balance of
Speaker 2: like activities and relaxing, drinking, eating.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: How amazing was the sound bath meditation? Oh my god, Yes,
Speaker 2: that was amazing.
Speaker 1: I almost forgot. That was on Saturday, right before our
Speaker 1: our outing, so we had a balance.
Speaker 2: Yea.
Speaker 1: So in the morning we were out and then after
Speaker 1: our workout we did the sound baths. Yeah, and then
Speaker 1: after that I think we rested a little bit or
Speaker 1: like went around on the boat because that was the
Speaker 1: last day. It was like we didn't do the boat.
Speaker 1: That's we got to check that off. And then then
Speaker 1: then we went partying. Yeah, and we got super buzzed.
Speaker 1: But the sound bath was amazing. It was a floating
Speaker 1: sound bath, so you were in water. It was freaking amazing.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Wow, I can't believe I almost forgot that.
Speaker 2: Yeah. And we were the only couple that did it. Yes,
Speaker 2: everyone else was like kind of.
Speaker 1: With their mom, with their mom or their sister a friend.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was.
Speaker 1: It was just it was a very small group and
Speaker 1: it was in the spall pool and they were just
Speaker 1: doing the sound baths and like the bells and the
Speaker 1: like I don't know what the other thing called them.
Speaker 1: Yeah whatever, that's called very Jane all Jane, so Jene.
Speaker 1: And it was really really nice. Totally recommend it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so floating sound bath. And then we worked out, yes,
Speaker 1: four times while we were there, because we were like, okay,
Speaker 1: we got to be healthy. This is like that's the
Speaker 1: thing with him and I. We're totally on the same
Speaker 1: frequency right now, thank god, trying to eat like as
Speaker 1: healthy as possible. But then we love postmating and eating
Speaker 1: kind of late we're trying to stop that. But working
Speaker 1: out has been like our things. So we're like, we
Speaker 1: need a workout, babe, So we took our workout clothes
Speaker 1: and we did that four times there while we were there.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so we hold each other accountable, Yeah, because there's
Speaker 2: sometimes I don't want to go and she kind of
Speaker 2: drags me in and I'm like and I'm like, thank
Speaker 2: god we did that because then we feel better. Yeah,
Speaker 2: we've been. It's been great that we're on like that
Speaker 2: same frequency right now.
Speaker 1: For sure.
Speaker 2: We also have the same trainer, so that helps a lot. Yeah,
Speaker 2: because now you know what I'm doing. Yes, he's great
Speaker 2: and you understand it, and I understand and I know
Speaker 2: you're doing. So I'm like, Okay, I know we're growing together.
Speaker 2: And that's what I love. You know about where we're
Speaker 2: at right now is like we're really we're really doing
Speaker 2: a lot of things that are lining up for our growth.
Speaker 1: Well, my favorite part of the honeymoon, oh yes, it
Speaker 1: was when you oh yeah, okay, I didn't even have
Speaker 1: to say anything. You know, what is it?
Speaker 2: When we had our private dinner on the beach.
Speaker 1: I know, yeah, he surprised me with the private dinner
Speaker 1: on the beach. You guys, it was so nice. The
Speaker 1: salad was freaking phenomenal. Oh my god, I'm never ever
Speaker 1: in my life, gonna forget that salad. And it was
Speaker 1: a private dinner, so I was like, immanial, please, I
Speaker 1: want to ask if we can get it again, like
Speaker 1: they said they'll do anything for us here, and there's resort,
Speaker 1: Like how can they? I want them to make it
Speaker 1: for me again? And I didn't get it, So I
Speaker 1: need to go back for that salad. Oh it was
Speaker 1: so good. I had like mango and like vinigrette and lobster.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it was so good.
Speaker 2: Sorry, no, I was just going to say how amazing
Speaker 2: that private dinner was because it could have been any
Speaker 2: other night.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Sometimes it was rain. Sometimes it was on Thursday, hunh
Speaker 2: and and it the weather was perfect, perfect. We had
Speaker 2: an amazing table right on the beach in front of
Speaker 2: the waves, and I think the most beautiful thing was
Speaker 2: that we had the most amazing view ever. It was insane,
Speaker 2: these enormous thunderclouds with lightning in them. It literally looked
Speaker 2: like God painted something for us to like we had
Speaker 2: dinner on a show.
Speaker 1: It was insane. That is so.
Speaker 2: How can I get any better than this?
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was awesome.
Speaker 2: We had our own music. We had Asando playing, Yeah,
Speaker 2: walked down, Yes, I was.
Speaker 1: Like, where's he taking me? I was like, where are
Speaker 1: we going to dinner? I said, were already tried to
Speaker 1: the other restaurants. I was like, I want to go
Speaker 1: back to have ty food. I want ty Food again.
Speaker 1: And he's like, babe, just relax. I'm like okay. So
Speaker 1: I was a little bit buzzed anyways, and I was
Speaker 1: having a great time, and so I walked and he's like,
Speaker 1: get off. You know, we're on a golf cart and
Speaker 1: and I'm like, okay, you have to get off. I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: where am I going. We're in the middle of the beach.
Speaker 1: And then the song starts playing because they had just
Speaker 1: dropped that week as well, without us planning that hour. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that day, that day, you're right. So he was playing
Speaker 1: the song and then we have a whole video. It's
Speaker 1: super cute. And we had a private dinner and we
Speaker 1: had the waiter there and the food was so good.
Speaker 1: It was so good. So that was my favorite part.
Speaker 1: It was really nice and romantic and we had a
Speaker 1: lot of fun. Oh that was the night because I
Speaker 1: was buzzing early the night that I realized that I
Speaker 1: had two different sandals on. Oh my god, Yes, I
Speaker 1: have a video and I never posted it. I thought
Speaker 1: it was so cute, you know, and then I forgot
Speaker 1: that I was trying on sandals. I was like, babe
Speaker 1: would sandal and he chose the gold one and I
Speaker 1: ended up leaving the gold and the nude on, so
Speaker 1: two different sandals. But whatever, experience that was fun. We're
Speaker 1: having fun. Yeah, what else that was that? I think
Speaker 1: we talked about everything. I mean, hanging out by the pool,
Speaker 1: taking naps. That was this whole thing was I don't
Speaker 1: necessarily want to plan anything or have any pressure in
Speaker 1: any way. And for me to just be off my
Speaker 1: phone that was the biggest thing because I didn't really
Speaker 1: realize that I was a workaholic until I started dating
Speaker 1: a medio because he's reminded me to just be present.
Speaker 1: So it's been like for me, I'm like, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: answer a few messages, but it's like really really like
Speaker 1: I just need to just I needed to disconnect. And
Speaker 1: I didn't even disconnect as much as I wanted to.
Speaker 1: I think I used the phone like honestly a percentage,
Speaker 1: like the whole time, thirty five that's exactly that i'mber
Speaker 1: I was gonna say thirty. Yeah, okay, yeah, and I
Speaker 1: really wanted to use it like zero percent. But you know,
Speaker 1: I am very responsible and like I'm like, oh, I
Speaker 1: like to answer people and anyways. So but I think
Speaker 1: it was it was more about just resting because I
Speaker 1: had been so exhausted. We both had been so exhausted.
Speaker 1: So much has happened, and like traveling back and forth
Speaker 1: to Mexico. Like, I didn't think it was gonna drain
Speaker 1: us as much, but it did. It was a great
Speaker 1: opportunity and I'm so grateful, but it was tiring. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was very like I think I was. I want
Speaker 1: to say during that time where I felt I was
Speaker 1: crying and just I had a lot going on.
Speaker 2: Yeah, there was a little period, probably week seven or eight,
Speaker 2: where it felt a little heavy on you.
Speaker 1: But also both of us, both of us. I'm also
Speaker 1: glad because you feel everything I feel too.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So it's like, I don't know, I really thought
Speaker 1: that I was having really bad thoughts, guys, you know,
Speaker 1: and I'm glad that we had this time to just
Speaker 1: like a little break. And Richard, my manager, also left
Speaker 1: and did his thing. But yeah, what were we gonna say?
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I was just going to say, we're super
Speaker 2: grateful that, you know, I was able to be at
Speaker 2: the majority of the weekends.
Speaker 1: There with you, so thank goodness.
Speaker 2: I think it just makes it a little easier on us.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Out of the twelve, you missed two, right, I.
Speaker 2: Think, yeah, maybe something like that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I missed one I got sick. But but yeah,
Speaker 1: it came at the right time. And this is just
Speaker 1: our pre honeymoon, Yes it is, and it was unplanned.
Speaker 1: So our honeymoon. Honeymoon is coming in December. Yes, I'm
Speaker 1: to January, and I'm super excited for that me too.
Speaker 2: I can't wait.
Speaker 1: Where are we going.
Speaker 2: We're going to go to one of our favorite places
Speaker 2: besides Hawaii. Yes, that feels like another home to us,
Speaker 2: for sure, I think because you know it's my other half.
Speaker 2: We're going to go back to the Philippines.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and of the Philippines guys and people are so nice.
Speaker 1: It's just great.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it feels like just like another part of the world. Yeah,
Speaker 2: we feel when we're there, we feel fully disconnected from
Speaker 2: our world that we live in.
Speaker 1: And I definitely want to disconnect. I'm probably going to
Speaker 1: tell my siblings that if you need to get hold
Speaker 1: of me call a Medio's phone, like I really want
Speaker 1: to just say, f my phone. I want to see everything,
Speaker 1: because dude, you don't realize, Like, and this is something
Speaker 1: that he's taught me where you're on your phone and
Speaker 1: you're like even if you're there, He's like, babe, look
Speaker 1: look look at the mountains, and I'm like, shit, you're right,
Speaker 1: Like and I tell you guys all this all the time.
Speaker 1: Stop and smell the roses. It's a real thing, not
Speaker 1: like literally but like or literally but say whoa, Like,
Speaker 1: there's so much beauty around us, so I really want
Speaker 1: to take in. We're not sure exactly what part of
Speaker 1: Philippines or where we're going to go.
Speaker 2: I know where I want to go now, Okay, he knows.
Speaker 2: I saw the video today and I was like, okay, we're.
Speaker 1: Going where we're going? Yes, okay, perfect because I know
Speaker 1: you're going to love it, so I love it. Okay. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna let him like planet, but definitely going
Speaker 1: to leave for two weeks and that'll be our honeymoon. Honeymoon,
Speaker 1: I mean we might just get remarried in the Philippines
Speaker 1: actually for your dad. Yeah, yeah, that'd be kind of cool.
Speaker 2: I told you I want after our first marriage, after
Speaker 2: we got first married, after we got married, I'm like,
Speaker 2: this is so fun. I want to marry you every weekend.
Speaker 1: He told me that last night, actually in the shower
Speaker 1: because he loves to shower together. Saves water. And then
Speaker 1: we have our conversations, you know. Yeah, but anyways, our
Speaker 1: deepest conversations. But that's not a bad idea. Like what
Speaker 1: if we were to get married in the Philippines, then
Speaker 1: in Hawaii and all our favorite places, let's do it,
Speaker 1: and then Paris. I've never been to Paris, and you
Speaker 1: want to take me to Paris your dad to get
Speaker 1: married to Paris. Not forgetting that. I hell know you
Speaker 1: said you're gonna take me.
Speaker 2: Speaking of roses, yes, you forgot to tell them what
Speaker 2: happened after our private dinner?
Speaker 1: What happened after our private dinner? Hold on, let me think.
Speaker 2: When we got back to the room.
Speaker 1: Oh, yes, I was buzzed. I was happy. Okay, So
Speaker 1: after oh my god, it was so fun. Okay, so
Speaker 1: after the dinner, I want to do it again. Okay.
Speaker 1: So after the dinner, we go to the room and
Speaker 1: there was rose petals all over the place on the
Speaker 1: bed and then out to the rose petals were taking
Speaker 1: me out to the chacuzi because we hadn't used it yet,
Speaker 1: and there was a jacuzi. It was The room was
Speaker 1: so freaking awesome, you guys. So you walk in the bed,
Speaker 1: then the door's open, and you have your pool and
Speaker 1: you have the beach. And then behind us, behind the
Speaker 1: bedroom there was a very cool bathroom with he loved
Speaker 1: the steam. There was a steam room built into the shower.
Speaker 1: He used it every day. Yes, Yeah, so we did that.
Speaker 1: And then behind that was this like open area but
Speaker 1: was closed.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it seemed like a super meditation area. Yeah, and
Speaker 2: had a private jacuzzi and yeah, it was filled with bubbles.
Speaker 1: And with bubbles and roses and roses in champagne. I think,
Speaker 1: I don't even remember. And so I just I walked
Speaker 1: straight there and I took off my clothes, my dress,
Speaker 1: I got naked.
Speaker 2: I was like, wait for me still, and I'm like,
Speaker 2: you're already in here.
Speaker 1: So I got I went in there skinny dipping. It
Speaker 1: was pretty fun.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was cool.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we just had a lot of fun after that,
Speaker 1: you know. So I can't talk about that because I mean,
Speaker 1: it was very shy, but it was fun, and we're married,
Speaker 1: so we're not fornicating anymore, so it's great. Yeah. It
Speaker 1: was really nice, a lot of fun.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was. It was It was a great day.
Speaker 1: It was great. It was beautiful the whole the whole trip.
Speaker 1: I did not want to leave you, guys. I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't want to leave. I don't want to leave.
Speaker 1: But it was beautiful. We're definitely going to go back there.
Speaker 1: It was awesome. It's awesome. All the restaurants were delicious.
Speaker 1: We tried everything. Yes, yeah, so that was our our
Speaker 1: that was our honeymoon, guys. That's our honeymoon. That's part
Speaker 1: one of this conversation with my husband. And it doesn't
Speaker 1: end here because we have a part two next week.
Speaker 1: So don't miss it. Thank you so much, babe, and
Speaker 1: don't leave because we have another conversation about how married
Speaker 1: life is going. I'm ready, all right. This is a
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