WEBVTT - Celibacy Can Heal You

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, guys, Welcome to the Tribe Chat. It's another

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<v Speaker 1>wonderful episode with yours truly, Mela and Erica, especially for

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<v Speaker 1>our Patreon because y'all hostes don't need to know all

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<v Speaker 1>of our business. I know.

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<v Speaker 2>This is like our our intimate little group chat. So

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<v Speaker 2>come close, come hither, Come sit around the fireplace of

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<v Speaker 2>good moms, put up your pillows.

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<v Speaker 1>In your chairs. Yes, it's just this is just for you, baby.

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<v Speaker 2>This is not for mass consumption.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank god, because i I'm over being mass consumed. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot. It's a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>Some people really love that shit, though, I like, I

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<v Speaker 2>think of a few of my friends that are in

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<v Speaker 2>the space that fucking won't shut the fuck up.

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<v Speaker 1>Like they could podcast forever.

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<v Speaker 2>They could have twenty two podcasts, and I'm like, how

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<v Speaker 2>how does one talk so much and share so much?

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<v Speaker 1>I know, it is a lot. And even like even

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<v Speaker 1>podcasting with Orlando, I see where I'm like, here, you

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead, baby, just take the reins. You talk, you

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<v Speaker 1>talk your little head off, and I'm just there. We're like,

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<v Speaker 1>But then I hear myself when he's editing, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking a lot, how But talking takes a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of energy. I've realized that it makes me. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if it's just hard work in general,

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<v Speaker 1>because we're talking to people, but in general, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know how people get touched out, like moms get

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<v Speaker 1>touched out. I'm talked out. I don't wanna talk. I

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<v Speaker 1>have some invite me to the birthday party yesterday, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was supposed to go to town, and then I did it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought for one second, like should I go

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<v Speaker 1>to the party, and I was like, absolutely not. No.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought about sitting at a table with people, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, cool, yeah, no, I feel you. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel you.

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<v Speaker 2>The talking is can be a lot, but I talk

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<v Speaker 2>a lot in my head all day too, so it's

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<v Speaker 2>like a never ending dialogue that's going on, which is

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<v Speaker 2>why it's even more annoying and stressful.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's talk about the talking in our heads, because I

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<v Speaker 1>think that not enough people talk about the dialogue that's

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<v Speaker 1>going on in our heads. And sometimes we're having conversations

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<v Speaker 1>with in our heads, and I don't even think people

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<v Speaker 1>are realizing that they're doing it. Oh yeah, no, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean literally, even like sitting here listening to I probably

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<v Speaker 1>was talking in my head right now. I was. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what I said, but you have to be

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<v Speaker 1>conscious of that, because you know, I noticed too a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of times the talking in your head is negative stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh nine times out of ten. Let's be honest, when

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<v Speaker 2>was the last time you were in your head like

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<v Speaker 2>you're so amazing, You're did such a great job today.

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<v Speaker 2>She likes you so much, Like, see you're looking at you.

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<v Speaker 2>She loves you. She can't wait to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Look at your fucking You're just a bitch, You're a

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<v Speaker 2>bomb bitch. Look at these nails, they look so great.

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<v Speaker 1>See that face. She just made it to you. It's

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<v Speaker 1>because she's thinking. She's daydreaming about how much she loves you.

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<v Speaker 2>Everything's getting done, the work is getting done, your kids

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<v Speaker 2>are happy, you're a good mom. Like these are not

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<v Speaker 2>These are not conversations that everything is opposite, Like, oh

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<v Speaker 2>my god, nothing got done. She fucking hates me. The

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<v Speaker 2>work is over, the work is done, My kids hate me.

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<v Speaker 2>God I didn't do that. Thank God, I didn't do this.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank God.

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<v Speaker 2>He's such a fucking asshole. I should have cursed him out. Damn,

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<v Speaker 2>we should have sent that diabolical email.

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<v Speaker 1>Fuck why didn't we send the door of em I'm

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<v Speaker 1>still really mad about speaking of gospel and God so

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<v Speaker 1>ever so present in her life, pouring the blessings on us.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I was gonna tell the Patreon people, the

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<v Speaker 1>Tribe of the Tribe, the Tribe chat about my epic

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<v Speaker 1>and to Lingham experience after the sex party. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to tell you that I was trying to

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<v Speaker 1>elaborate on my story and you didn't really seem interested

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<v Speaker 1>in it. Kind of hurt my feelings. What why this

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<v Speaker 1>can't be it? Why the fuck are you laughing.

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<v Speaker 2>The same reason Orlando's laughing in the other room.

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<v Speaker 1>What the fuck are you laughing? No one takes No

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<v Speaker 1>one takes my feeling seriously, What the fuck are you

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<v Speaker 1>laughing at? I'm sorry?

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<v Speaker 2>What more information did you want me to know about

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<v Speaker 2>your experience?

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<v Speaker 1>An epic tooling of experience? And you know, I told

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<v Speaker 1>my friend and I just told her quickly on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone because she was on a date or something, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's did like a good time. And then I saw

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<v Speaker 1>we were on the phone for like a good ten minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how much more detail you could give me.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, I went to her house and I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>I was really receptive and proud of you and happy

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<v Speaker 2>for you then, so much so that I shared it

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<v Speaker 2>with my partner and said, how do you feel about this?

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<v Speaker 1>What did he say?

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<v Speaker 2>He said, Tune into next episode to find out what

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<v Speaker 2>he said.

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<v Speaker 1>That's don't don't get any don't get any ideas. Is

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<v Speaker 1>that what he said?

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<v Speaker 2>No, that's not what he said.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, I came to her house to tell her more.

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<v Speaker 1>To tell her it.

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<v Speaker 2>Came specifically to my house to tell me more.

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<v Speaker 1>We had something else to do. But that was the motivation. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, it's fine because I didn't see her

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<v Speaker 1>in person to tell these important details, and I was

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<v Speaker 1>floating on cloud nine. I'm actually still floating on cloud nine.

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<v Speaker 1>It still hasn't worn off. The life force energy is high.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a big thing. And I was like, you don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, let me finish telling you, and she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't tell me everything already, and I was like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I did it, okay, so tell me more, don't you

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<v Speaker 1>see my joy? No, I don't want to tell you anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling what the fuck do it separate being? But

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<v Speaker 1>I think you even told me more than I did.

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<v Speaker 1>But I noticed that you didn't really want to hear

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<v Speaker 1>about it, so I didn't tell you everything. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I gotta tell somebody I was gonna forget. Sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe my mind wasn't in the space to receive more

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<v Speaker 2>information about your two lingam.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it because you're not it's just because you're celibate?

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe probably Yeah, I'm not getting any dicks, so you're

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<v Speaker 2>getting two at once, So fuck that. I mean, that

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't really the mindset at all, But maybe it maybe

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<v Speaker 2>subconsciously my brain shut off, Like you can't access this

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<v Speaker 2>information because you might go crazy.

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