WEBVTT - Textual Healing: Mystery Makeout 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:01.720 He's Brig and Jeffrey in the morning. Welcome to the 0:00:01.720 --> 0:00:04.200 Second Day Podcast. And who knew throwing yourself your own 0:00:04.240 --> 0:00:05.920 wedding where you marry yourself would. 0:00:05.760 --> 0:00:10.160 Be so controversial? Very true. I think it's a father 0:00:10.280 --> 0:00:11.760 daughter dance that got a lot of people. 0:00:12.200 --> 0:00:13.920 Yeah, I did see a few comments in that one 0:00:13.960 --> 0:00:14.280 as well. 0:00:14.360 --> 0:00:17.360 Oh yes, I'm referring to yesterday's brand new second Date. 0:00:17.400 --> 0:00:19.560 We do have a brand new textual healing coming up 0:00:19.560 --> 0:00:22.200 in just a minute, but we want to go over 0:00:22.320 --> 0:00:25.680 some thoughts and feelings in our comments section about what 0:00:25.760 --> 0:00:27.000 happened on yesterday's show. 0:00:27.560 --> 0:00:29.760 Yeah, we got a lot of like, as soon as 0:00:29.800 --> 0:00:31.960 she was manifesting, I checked. 0:00:31.640 --> 0:00:34.800 Out people are into manifesting. 0:00:34.880 --> 0:00:36.560 It's a negative thing, I guess. 0:00:36.600 --> 0:00:38.280 So that's what a lot said about her wedding. But 0:00:38.280 --> 0:00:40.040 then a lot of people said she needs to recaption 0:00:40.159 --> 0:00:43.599 her photos as saying a self love photo show. More 0:00:43.760 --> 0:00:44.319 like about that. 0:00:44.400 --> 0:00:47.000 I think about if she captioned it help. 0:00:47.360 --> 0:00:48.959 This is just a good example if we don't need 0:00:48.960 --> 0:00:49.800 to post everything. 0:00:50.000 --> 0:00:54.160 Yeah, you know, like keep the photos for yourself awesome, 0:00:54.200 --> 0:00:54.520 But she. 0:00:54.480 --> 0:00:57.000 Had a wedding you would want to post her because it. 0:00:57.000 --> 0:00:58.000 Looks so good. True. 0:00:58.120 --> 0:01:00.120 Oh and this one. If she's paying for the second wedding, 0:01:00.160 --> 0:01:00.760 sign me up. 0:01:02.520 --> 0:01:04.560 You know she's obviously very successful. 0:01:05.520 --> 0:01:06.280 Yeah, totally. 0:01:06.840 --> 0:01:07.040 Yeah. 0:01:07.520 --> 0:01:10.640 You know there's somebody for everybody. All right, thank you 0:01:10.680 --> 0:01:13.520 so much for always participating. We're getting your brand new 0:01:13.560 --> 0:01:14.920 textual healing started now. 0:01:15.080 --> 0:01:15.959 Yeah. 0:01:16.240 --> 0:01:19.520 If you get a text from an unknown number, normally 0:01:19.720 --> 0:01:22.800 you just reported as junk block and delete it forget 0:01:22.800 --> 0:01:23.160 about it. 0:01:23.319 --> 0:01:23.720 Yeah. 0:01:25.520 --> 0:01:25.679 Yeah. 0:01:25.680 --> 0:01:28.040 Even if I get a text from Brook, I report 0:01:28.080 --> 0:01:29.800 it junk block. 0:01:30.160 --> 0:01:31.640 Delete okay, report that one. 0:01:31.720 --> 0:01:34.280 Yeah that is not funny, write me back. 0:01:34.480 --> 0:01:36.800 One of our listeners got a message from a mystery 0:01:36.880 --> 0:01:40.680 phone number, but what it said was too juicy to 0:01:40.680 --> 0:01:44.160 toss away. In fact, it's very clear that they know 0:01:44.319 --> 0:01:46.800 each other really, and he has to get to the 0:01:46.800 --> 0:01:49.400 bottom of who is sending them because if he doesn't, 0:01:49.680 --> 0:01:53.400 he might miss out on a sweet opportunity. You're gonna 0:01:53.440 --> 0:01:56.200 hear it in a brand new textual healing right after 0:01:56.240 --> 0:02:10.000 this textual healing textual there is one place that we 0:02:10.120 --> 0:02:13.320 need you to be touching right now, Jeff. It is 0:02:13.600 --> 0:02:17.040 not on each other or even on yourself. It's on 0:02:17.080 --> 0:02:17.680 your phones. 0:02:18.000 --> 0:02:18.360 Yay. 0:02:18.880 --> 0:02:21.680 Yes, we want you to move those fingers. Ever so 0:02:21.880 --> 0:02:25.040 gently and prepared to type out a message that feels 0:02:25.320 --> 0:02:26.360 oh so right. 0:02:26.720 --> 0:02:28.400 I feel like I need to ask for my phone 0:02:28.480 --> 0:02:30.359 consent when you talk about it that way. 0:02:30.480 --> 0:02:35.160 That's right, I'll unlock you with my eyes. Because it's 0:02:35.160 --> 0:02:38.040 a brand new textual healing the segment where we help 0:02:38.080 --> 0:02:41.680 a listener craft the perfect message to instantly fix any 0:02:41.720 --> 0:02:44.679 problem they might be facing, or, if not fix it, 0:02:44.680 --> 0:02:47.080 at least get out of a weird situation. And an 0:02:47.240 --> 0:02:49.440 urgent request came in this morning from one of our 0:02:49.480 --> 0:02:53.240 listeners named Joe, who needed some textual help. So, Joe, 0:02:53.280 --> 0:02:54.120 welcome to the show. 0:02:54.520 --> 0:02:56.240 Thank you so much for helping me. I am in 0:02:56.320 --> 0:02:57.359 dire need of healing. 0:02:57.680 --> 0:03:02.160 Oh wow, you do sound desperate it I don't think 0:03:02.200 --> 0:03:03.320 that was an insult or anything. 0:03:03.360 --> 0:03:04.639 I mean, he admits it. 0:03:04.720 --> 0:03:08.160 Yeah, okay, let's find out exactly how desperate you are. 0:03:08.280 --> 0:03:10.040 What made you reach out to us for help. 0:03:10.880 --> 0:03:13.760 Last weekend, I was at a house party with a 0:03:13.800 --> 0:03:15.760 bunch of friends and also a lot of people I 0:03:15.800 --> 0:03:19.720 didn't know, and we were boozing it up. I met 0:03:19.720 --> 0:03:23.320 a few ladies. I had a good time. Next day 0:03:23.919 --> 0:03:27.560 I get a message that says, hey, Joe, I had 0:03:27.600 --> 0:03:29.840 a great time last night winki face. 0:03:30.280 --> 0:03:34.600 Oh okay, something happened. 0:03:36.200 --> 0:03:37.840 I did hook up with a couple of late, but 0:03:37.840 --> 0:03:38.880 I don't know who it. 0:03:38.840 --> 0:03:42.600 Is those people. 0:03:44.160 --> 0:03:44.520 Anything. 0:03:44.560 --> 0:03:45.680 What does hookup mean to you? 0:03:46.160 --> 0:03:47.280 Like it's second base? 0:03:47.600 --> 0:03:50.360 Okay, all right, okay, do you have any idea who 0:03:50.400 --> 0:03:51.520 the message is from? 0:03:52.000 --> 0:03:53.600 No idea, not at all. 0:03:53.680 --> 0:03:54.960 It's just a random number. 0:03:55.400 --> 0:03:57.880 I sat on it. I didn't send anything back, and 0:03:57.920 --> 0:03:59.600 then they sent me a second text. 0:04:00.040 --> 0:04:00.800 That's the second one. 0:04:00.840 --> 0:04:04.400 Say They're like, I'm up for round two if you are? 0:04:05.960 --> 0:04:06.160 Wait? 0:04:06.200 --> 0:04:06.440 Whoa? 0:04:06.760 --> 0:04:08.440 And how does that make you feel? Joe? 0:04:08.760 --> 0:04:10.680 I mean, I feel like it's a slam dunk, but 0:04:10.840 --> 0:04:12.800 I want to make sure I know what I'm getting into, 0:04:14.840 --> 0:04:15.760 especially if you're. 0:04:15.640 --> 0:04:18.560 Like skilled while you're blacked out, Like, dude, good for you. 0:04:19.320 --> 0:04:21.240 So, like, what are your options right now? 0:04:21.279 --> 0:04:23.120 You either show up to a place and just hope 0:04:23.120 --> 0:04:24.240 you recognize a person. 0:04:24.320 --> 0:04:28.599 Oh yeah, that's the best case scenario. Worst case scenario. 0:04:28.720 --> 0:04:30.000 Who knows how bad it gets? 0:04:30.360 --> 0:04:32.000 So have you responded at all? 0:04:32.600 --> 0:04:34.680 Not at all? Because I want to figure out what 0:04:34.680 --> 0:04:35.760 the perfect thing to send is. 0:04:35.960 --> 0:04:38.920 Okay, Well, let's start off with what we know. You 0:04:39.000 --> 0:04:41.680 said you think you made out with multiple women at 0:04:41.760 --> 0:04:44.480 least two. Do you remember either of their names? 0:04:45.480 --> 0:04:48.560 No, oh, you don't remember that even Hey, I feel 0:04:48.640 --> 0:04:49.040 you Joe. 0:04:49.279 --> 0:04:51.880 Okay, there's there's backyard and there's bathroom. 0:04:52.080 --> 0:04:56.560 Okay, ba girl and bathroom girl. Right, do you have 0:04:56.560 --> 0:04:57.760 a preference between the two? 0:04:59.240 --> 0:05:00.600 I like the bathroom him one better. 0:05:00.640 --> 0:05:04.200 Okay, but you're not saying no. 0:05:04.440 --> 0:05:07.719 Back girl says, this is guys talk about me after 0:05:07.760 --> 0:05:08.240 a party. 0:05:08.320 --> 0:05:08.680 Yeah. 0:05:09.120 --> 0:05:11.680 Now, this is tricky because you're trying to figure it out. 0:05:11.720 --> 0:05:14.320 You can't say, hey, yeah, that was fun in the backyard, 0:05:14.440 --> 0:05:17.560 or I'll never enter a bathroom the same way again. 0:05:18.160 --> 0:05:21.080 So what can we What can we say that's right 0:05:21.120 --> 0:05:23.839 in the middle, that doesn't give away he isn't sure 0:05:23.880 --> 0:05:24.919 who this person. 0:05:24.680 --> 0:05:26.920 Is, but we do want to still get some information 0:05:27.000 --> 0:05:28.479 from them to try to figure it out. 0:05:28.720 --> 0:05:31.320 Yes, I think we make a statement. We just say, oh, 0:05:31.400 --> 0:05:33.279 I think I'm still hungover. 0:05:33.120 --> 0:05:34.200 And a photo. 0:05:35.600 --> 0:05:36.080 What about you? 0:05:37.000 --> 0:05:37.200 Yeah? 0:05:39.040 --> 0:05:40.719 Smart, I don't know if he's going to remember what 0:05:40.720 --> 0:05:41.200 they look like. 0:05:41.360 --> 0:05:44.040 Yeah, well, maybe that's a good opportunity. Here's a picture 0:05:44.080 --> 0:05:47.279 of my face hungover. Let's see a picture of yours hungover. 0:05:47.600 --> 0:05:51.320 Or that's an instant turn off. The face hungover actually 0:05:51.400 --> 0:05:52.159 that's a good point. 0:05:53.800 --> 0:05:57.320 We're back at zero again. So what is something that's 0:05:57.400 --> 0:05:59.839 kind of flirtatious because we're trying to keep the door 0:06:00.080 --> 0:06:04.440 open for another connection to happen, but is also like 0:06:04.720 --> 0:06:05.240 who are you? 0:06:05.360 --> 0:06:06.560 What's the second text she said? 0:06:06.640 --> 0:06:08.599 Or it was just the one up for round two? 0:06:08.680 --> 0:06:11.080 If you are okay this person wants a round two? 0:06:11.400 --> 0:06:11.799 Yeah? 0:06:11.800 --> 0:06:14.280 What if you say where do you want round two 0:06:14.360 --> 0:06:15.320 to happen this time? 0:06:15.680 --> 0:06:16.800 Yeah? 0:06:16.839 --> 0:06:20.640 And then cross our fingers that they say not the backyard. 0:06:20.240 --> 0:06:20.600 Or not. 0:06:22.160 --> 0:06:24.719 I want to be on the toilet again. We'll see. 0:06:24.880 --> 0:06:26.680 I mean, I don't know, maybe what do you think 0:06:26.680 --> 0:06:27.560 of that? Joe? 0:06:28.120 --> 0:06:30.080 I don't know. I feel like I'm still leaving myself 0:06:30.160 --> 0:06:32.200 open to get screwed over if I said the wrong thing. 0:06:32.480 --> 0:06:37.160 M Yeah, what's your idea? 0:06:37.320 --> 0:06:39.719 You could play completely dumb. Actually you're not playing dumb 0:06:39.720 --> 0:06:41.560 and just say, oh my god, I don't think I 0:06:41.720 --> 0:06:43.320 saved your number? Who is this? 0:06:43.440 --> 0:06:45.159 I mean that might be a risky one because if 0:06:45.200 --> 0:06:48.160 you're the other person receiving that text, they might be 0:06:48.240 --> 0:06:51.200 offended thinking like, oh, you don't even remember me, you 0:06:51.279 --> 0:06:55.360 got multi numbers. I mean, honestly, I hate to say this, 0:06:55.480 --> 0:06:57.560 but I kind of like. I still like Brooks first idea. 0:06:58.920 --> 0:07:02.159 Actually, anyone said to me it was like round two 0:07:02.200 --> 0:07:04.600 going down in the same spot, same spot. 0:07:04.360 --> 0:07:06.320 As last time, and then you probably want to be 0:07:06.360 --> 0:07:10.080 suggestive with like a winkie face, maybe even the tongue 0:07:10.080 --> 0:07:11.800 out emoji with the one winking eye. 0:07:12.920 --> 0:07:15.040 All right, you want to go with that one, sure? 0:07:15.160 --> 0:07:17.520 Or you can go with is round two going down 0:07:17.720 --> 0:07:23.720 for real? In flo Rida? Oh no, he's still big? 0:07:23.960 --> 0:07:24.200 Yeah? 0:07:24.240 --> 0:07:27.000 At state fairs all across the country's. 0:07:26.560 --> 0:07:27.760 Down place state fairs. 0:07:27.920 --> 0:07:29.360 Why don't we just say we should go to a 0:07:29.360 --> 0:07:30.240 flow ride of concert? 0:07:30.320 --> 0:07:33.600 Sometimes I think Brooke had the best idea. 0:07:33.920 --> 0:07:35.920 God, I love when Jeff says that, can you say 0:07:35.920 --> 0:07:36.280 it again? 0:07:36.360 --> 0:07:39.080 I'm saying it with extreme disappointment. 0:07:38.400 --> 0:07:40.280 In his arms. 0:07:40.280 --> 0:07:43.640 Did cross it across his chest and he's slunk down 0:07:43.640 --> 0:07:44.200 in his chair? 0:07:44.320 --> 0:07:45.920 But what do you think about typing that? 0:07:46.320 --> 0:07:49.080 All right? So if I do a tongue out single 0:07:49.080 --> 0:07:52.320 eye emoji, sounds great. Same spot as last time, question 0:07:52.440 --> 0:07:54.080 mark and then the same emoji again. 0:07:54.800 --> 0:07:56.040 Why are the emoji's first? 0:07:56.200 --> 0:07:58.840 I like I like more emojist. 0:07:59.760 --> 0:08:02.320 Like Spanish where you put the question marks on both sides. 0:08:02.360 --> 0:08:04.440 I think you need to do like a haha after 0:08:04.520 --> 0:08:07.120 same spot as last time, because it's feeling really serious 0:08:07.160 --> 0:08:10.560 the way you're responding instead of cute flirty. 0:08:10.680 --> 0:08:12.840 Yeah. Okay, that's a good point, Broke. 0:08:13.000 --> 0:08:14.760 I mean, maybe you can even toss in a toilet 0:08:14.920 --> 0:08:15.760 a toilet emoji. 0:08:16.080 --> 0:08:16.720 What if you're wrong? 0:08:17.000 --> 0:08:18.480 Well, then they'll be like what do you what does 0:08:18.480 --> 0:08:21.120 that mean? And you can say, oh, sorry, my finger slipped. 0:08:21.200 --> 0:08:22.880 That's not bad because then you put the toilet and 0:08:22.920 --> 0:08:24.760 he's right, and then you'd be like, oh, sorry, my bad, 0:08:24.800 --> 0:08:25.520 I meant this one. 0:08:25.720 --> 0:08:26.920 Yeah, and you send swing set. 0:08:26.960 --> 0:08:28.560 People mistake their text all the time. 0:08:28.840 --> 0:08:32.200 Yeah, all the people send me accidental toilet emo all 0:08:32.280 --> 0:08:32.760 the time. 0:08:32.960 --> 0:08:35.199 You can always say the toilet represented my hangover. 0:08:36.320 --> 0:08:38.240 Yeah good, I actually like you. 0:08:38.920 --> 0:08:40.920 Okay, there's a lot of way we're still backpedal out 0:08:40.920 --> 0:08:42.640 of it if it goes wrong, but let's just toss 0:08:42.679 --> 0:08:45.000 one out there so you can send that. 0:08:45.320 --> 0:08:49.040 Okay, Okay. 0:08:50.000 --> 0:08:53.080 Maybe one of the sexiest text messages is we've ever 0:08:53.160 --> 0:08:54.240 crafted on this show. 0:08:54.480 --> 0:08:55.319 The first time. 0:08:55.120 --> 0:09:00.160 We've worked a toilet into the text. We're gonna come back. 0:09:00.200 --> 0:09:03.360 Hopefully this person, this mystery person will respond to you, 0:09:03.960 --> 0:09:07.560 and we can keep the momentum going with more textual healing. 0:09:07.880 --> 0:09:12.400 Right after this, we're in the middle of textual healing 0:09:12.480 --> 0:09:15.600 with our listener Joe, who reached out because he needs 0:09:15.600 --> 0:09:18.839 our help figuring out who texted him the day after 0:09:18.920 --> 0:09:22.080 a big house party. Maybe was it the girl he 0:09:22.160 --> 0:09:25.720 made out with in the backyard or the girl he 0:09:25.760 --> 0:09:28.839 made out with in the bathroom, or is there a. 0:09:28.800 --> 0:09:32.400 Mysterious other girl that we didn't need to bring up that. Yeah, 0:09:32.600 --> 0:09:34.320 he's like, I forgot about the kitchen girl. 0:09:34.400 --> 0:09:37.320 Yeah, he doesn't know because there's no name attached to 0:09:37.400 --> 0:09:40.400 the phone number. It's just a few messages saying had 0:09:40.480 --> 0:09:42.960 fun with you last night, up for a round too soon. 0:09:43.480 --> 0:09:45.360 Even if there was a name, he doesn't remember the 0:09:45.360 --> 0:09:47.040 girl's name, it doesn't matter. 0:09:47.200 --> 0:09:49.440 It wouldn't be very clear. He doesn't want to give 0:09:49.480 --> 0:09:52.440 that away though, that he doesn't know who is texting 0:09:53.040 --> 0:09:55.280 and asked for our help and what to respond with. 0:09:55.440 --> 0:09:58.040 The best thing we came up with, and best is 0:09:58.080 --> 0:10:00.920 in quotations. When I say this, what's for him to say, 0:10:01.000 --> 0:10:06.000 I'm down same place as last time? Wink emoji toilet emoji. Yes, yes, 0:10:06.160 --> 0:10:08.719 because you can always backtrack and say, oh oops, that 0:10:08.840 --> 0:10:11.600 was a mistake. Yeah, Yeah, So the question Joe is, 0:10:11.640 --> 0:10:14.480 has this mystery texture responded to our message? 0:10:14.960 --> 0:10:16.320 Yeah, but it hasn't gotten better. 0:10:16.679 --> 0:10:19.080 Oh no, what do you mean? What did they say? 0:10:20.480 --> 0:10:25.080 Let's say no compreende laugh emoji? What does that mean? 0:10:25.679 --> 0:10:27.600 Oh so it must be the backyard girl. 0:10:27.760 --> 0:10:30.760 Yeah, right, isn't that better? Does that mean she didn't 0:10:30.840 --> 0:10:31.680 understand the toilet? 0:10:31.679 --> 0:10:34.280 Okay, So if I'm looking at the percentages right now, 0:10:34.600 --> 0:10:37.680 the bathroom girl went down to you about twenty percent. Yeah, 0:10:37.840 --> 0:10:41.600 backyard girl has gone up to sixty percent, and we 0:10:41.640 --> 0:10:45.360 still have about twenty percent left for mystery person. So 0:10:45.480 --> 0:10:47.480 now how do we clear this up? Because we can 0:10:47.480 --> 0:10:49.800 always say sorry, my fingers slipped, I meant to hit 0:10:49.800 --> 0:10:50.440 hard emoji. 0:10:50.800 --> 0:10:52.480 Yeah, do you have to say heart? 0:10:52.720 --> 0:10:52.960 Yeah? 0:10:54.600 --> 0:11:01.800 Okay, yellow heart emoji my friendship Mary? Yeah. Sure, that's 0:11:01.840 --> 0:11:04.320 just backtracking. It doesn't get us any closer to the 0:11:04.600 --> 0:11:05.640 answer of this person. 0:11:05.920 --> 0:11:08.719 So wait, wait, wait, she said what again? No comprende? 0:11:09.600 --> 0:11:12.280 He said no comprende. Then she put a laugh emoji, 0:11:12.600 --> 0:11:14.040 and then she goes what does that. 0:11:13.960 --> 0:11:16.720 Mean translated herself? 0:11:16.840 --> 0:11:17.040 Yeah? 0:11:19.600 --> 0:11:21.680 Okay, Well we're trying to figure out her name or 0:11:21.679 --> 0:11:23.120 what she looks like, like, what are we trying to 0:11:23.160 --> 0:11:23.600 find out. 0:11:23.520 --> 0:11:25.079 About it bas room or backyard. 0:11:25.280 --> 0:11:27.960 Okay, at least a name would jog my memory. 0:11:28.120 --> 0:11:29.560 Okay, what about this? What about this? 0:11:29.720 --> 0:11:32.880 You just say, okay, fine, you pick the spot, and 0:11:32.920 --> 0:11:37.160 then you leave her making the move on where to go. 0:11:37.400 --> 0:11:39.280 I like that. I like that a lot. You picked 0:11:39.320 --> 0:11:40.920 the spot, and I'll meet you there. 0:11:41.080 --> 0:11:44.120 But we still don't know who this person is exactly. 0:11:43.760 --> 0:11:45.760 Sure, but it might get us a little bit closer 0:11:46.200 --> 0:11:47.160 with her response. 0:11:47.640 --> 0:11:50.320 Yeah, so we're ignoring her asking what he meant by 0:11:50.360 --> 0:11:50.760 the toilet? 0:11:50.840 --> 0:11:52.880 Yeah, we just ignoring it. 0:11:52.920 --> 0:11:55.080 Okay, Yeah, we're going to pretend like we don't know 0:11:55.120 --> 0:11:56.439 what that what she's talking Okay. 0:11:56.480 --> 0:11:58.240 In fact, you could start with a laugh emoji like 0:11:58.720 --> 0:11:59.480 I'm not listening. 0:11:59.640 --> 0:12:01.840 Yeah, you should just react. You have an iPhone you 0:12:01.880 --> 0:12:03.320 can laugh at their comment. 0:12:03.559 --> 0:12:07.920 Oh that's right, okay, okay, ha ha, that's good. 0:12:08.080 --> 0:12:10.240 Haha. That okay, fine, you picked the spot. 0:12:10.480 --> 0:12:10.800 All right. 0:12:10.840 --> 0:12:13.800 It's interesting advice from the only Samsung Galaxy owner in 0:12:13.840 --> 0:12:14.200 the room. 0:12:14.280 --> 0:12:16.440 But I get crab from enough iPhone people. I know 0:12:16.480 --> 0:12:20.079 how to use one idea of using I'm this. 0:12:20.040 --> 0:12:22.080 Is coming in handy, So go ahead. Have you typed 0:12:22.120 --> 0:12:22.480 that out? 0:12:22.720 --> 0:12:25.800 Joe yeah, I did the laugh emoji and I just 0:12:25.880 --> 0:12:28.080 said the okay, fine, you picked the spot. 0:12:28.400 --> 0:12:29.880 Okay, all right. 0:12:31.320 --> 0:12:40.400 That was so stressful just to say something so normals. 0:12:36.880 --> 0:12:39.600 And it's so hard. It's not even our texts. We 0:12:39.640 --> 0:12:40.839 have nothing on the line here. 0:12:40.880 --> 0:12:43.400 Oh my god, I would overanalyze this so bad after 0:12:43.440 --> 0:12:44.960 a party and making out with dudes. 0:12:45.400 --> 0:12:46.920 She's got to give us something after this. 0:12:47.440 --> 0:12:48.320 I just got an answer. 0:12:49.840 --> 0:12:51.840 This girl's invested in you. This is a good sign. 0:12:51.880 --> 0:12:52.480 What did she say? 0:12:52.600 --> 0:12:54.440 Decision making good for us? 0:12:54.920 --> 0:12:57.240 She said, not sure what you're on? 0:12:57.800 --> 0:12:58.040 What? 0:12:59.240 --> 0:12:59.560 That's it? 0:13:00.080 --> 0:13:00.400 That's it? 0:13:00.440 --> 0:13:03.000 And then she said, Alyssa said, you're coming to her 0:13:03.040 --> 0:13:06.600 thing on Friday. So let's rewind last weekend over there. 0:13:07.000 --> 0:13:10.120 Hey, ok, you're going to another house party and you're 0:13:10.120 --> 0:13:11.880 going to make out with another girl that you don't know. 0:13:12.840 --> 0:13:13.600 Do you know, Alyssa? 0:13:14.160 --> 0:13:16.080 Yeah, yeah, she's in our friend group and she's throwing 0:13:16.080 --> 0:13:17.000 a rager this weekend. 0:13:17.320 --> 0:13:20.160 Okay, So does that give you a clue of who 0:13:20.200 --> 0:13:21.760 this woman is it's texting you? 0:13:22.440 --> 0:13:24.320 Well, yeah, but the thing is, now that I know 0:13:24.320 --> 0:13:26.679 if she's in our friend group, that just is even weirder. 0:13:27.800 --> 0:13:29.800 Does it give you any clue to being backyard girl, 0:13:29.880 --> 0:13:31.040 bathroom girl, do you know? 0:13:31.840 --> 0:13:33.600 No, it's not pointing either way. 0:13:35.080 --> 0:13:36.559 You're starting to feel useless to me. 0:13:37.120 --> 0:13:38.920 Yeah, I don't know if you know it. If you 0:13:39.000 --> 0:13:40.680 belong in this friend group, what if you. 0:13:40.679 --> 0:13:43.400 Kissed somebody else who also has like a boyfriend or girlfriend? 0:13:43.520 --> 0:13:46.080 Like yeah, actually, Jose, maybe that's the reason why they're 0:13:46.080 --> 0:13:48.440 texting from a brand new number, because they're hiding it 0:13:48.440 --> 0:13:49.640 from their significant other. 0:13:50.080 --> 0:13:50.320 Bird. 0:13:50.400 --> 0:13:52.280 Oh, Joe, you're the secret third piece. 0:13:52.400 --> 0:13:54.000 We're at a party with all their friends and cheated 0:13:54.040 --> 0:13:54.880 in front of everybody. 0:13:55.080 --> 0:13:59.280 Yeah, inside a bathroom elect we're in backyard. 0:13:59.480 --> 0:14:01.719 Yeah, makes it kind of naughty and fun, But is it? 0:14:02.000 --> 0:14:03.240 I mean, at this point, do we need to be 0:14:03.240 --> 0:14:05.080 more direct and like start asking for a name? 0:14:05.320 --> 0:14:07.640 I really think we just go who is this? 0:14:08.360 --> 0:14:08.640 Yeah? 0:14:08.720 --> 0:14:10.720 I mean I mean something like that. But it's a 0:14:10.760 --> 0:14:13.080 little on the edge because you still are risking offending 0:14:13.120 --> 0:14:14.760 them by saying I don't remember your name. 0:14:15.480 --> 0:14:17.280 They're talking about round two of a party then, right, 0:14:17.280 --> 0:14:19.200 they're not talking about hooking up. They're just saying run 0:14:19.240 --> 0:14:19.680 it back. 0:14:19.600 --> 0:14:22.040 Like, run it back is fine, but round two means 0:14:22.080 --> 0:14:22.840 something else to me. 0:14:24.000 --> 0:14:28.840 Maybe they just need round two, like drinking. Yeah, maybe 0:14:28.920 --> 0:14:31.120 they did it. Maybe this isn't a person you made 0:14:31.120 --> 0:14:31.720 out with at all. 0:14:31.880 --> 0:14:34.480 This could be one of your like anybody, Yes. 0:14:35.000 --> 0:14:36.640 I've made out with a lot of people, so I 0:14:36.680 --> 0:14:37.080 doubt it. 0:14:37.600 --> 0:14:40.480 Okay, Well, I don't know. 0:14:40.520 --> 0:14:42.400 I feel like this whole thing has just been some 0:14:42.520 --> 0:14:45.240 humble brag to tell us everybody on the radio, how 0:14:45.240 --> 0:14:46.840 many people you make out with at parties? 0:14:46.920 --> 0:14:50.560 Yeah, I am jealous for sure of you. Start's working, 0:14:50.640 --> 0:14:52.480 but we still need to figure it this person out. 0:14:52.920 --> 0:14:54.960 Would it be a good hint to ask, like, who 0:14:54.960 --> 0:14:58.000 are you coming with to Alyssa's event? That give a 0:14:58.840 --> 0:15:00.680 which particular friend to hang out with them? 0:15:01.480 --> 0:15:02.360 I like that, Jess. 0:15:02.760 --> 0:15:05.400 They could just say my wife's fun. 0:15:05.680 --> 0:15:07.560 Okay, Well that would give you a little bit of 0:15:07.560 --> 0:15:10.120 a clue. Yeah, I mean that's the best idea we 0:15:10.160 --> 0:15:11.960 have right now. How do you feel about texting it? 0:15:12.880 --> 0:15:14.120 I'm down. Let's go for it. 0:15:14.200 --> 0:15:17.640 Yeah, all right, this is the probably riskiest one we've 0:15:17.680 --> 0:15:18.640 said for real. 0:15:18.880 --> 0:15:19.320 Let's see. 0:15:19.760 --> 0:15:21.000 Well, I mean I think it's going to give us 0:15:21.040 --> 0:15:24.720 the most information. Yeah, probably just started with this to 0:15:24.760 --> 0:15:25.200 be honest. 0:15:26.480 --> 0:15:28.640 Okay, he sent it, but yeah, at the time, we 0:15:28.680 --> 0:15:30.800 didn't know that this person was also going to Alyssa's 0:15:30.800 --> 0:15:34.280 house party, and it's someone that's in the tight social groups. 0:15:34.480 --> 0:15:35.920 Been in a house party in so long? 0:15:36.000 --> 0:15:40.400 I want to go to Alissa's hot You would be a. 0:15:40.320 --> 0:15:41.400 Good backyard girl. 0:15:41.720 --> 0:15:44.920 Oh dude, I could guarantee I made out with more 0:15:44.920 --> 0:15:52.280 people than this guy. 0:15:52.760 --> 0:15:53.760 I love making out. 0:15:54.000 --> 0:15:54.840 I got an answer. 0:15:55.960 --> 0:15:58.960 Okay, are we any closer to knowing who this person is? 0:15:59.120 --> 0:15:59.520 You know? 0:16:01.120 --> 0:16:04.400 I mean not? Yeah, yes, I mean there's a nickname. 0:16:04.440 --> 0:16:05.840 But that's as close as I can get. 0:16:07.400 --> 0:16:08.040