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Speaker 1: been out on a hot date and done something totally innocent,
Speaker 1: but to the other person it looked really bad? You know,
Speaker 1: Like I know as a guy, if you ever over
Speaker 1: at a girl's place trying to hook up and you
Speaker 1: like hop into the bathroom to bust out some push
Speaker 1: ups real quick to make your chest seem bigger. Is
Speaker 1: that really something that you do? Oh? Yeah, you want to.
Speaker 1: You want to get that swell on to seem a
Speaker 1: little bit bigger than you are. But through the door,
Speaker 1: all she can hear is a bunch of grunting yeah,
Speaker 1: And then you come out all sweaty, and it's like, oh,
Speaker 1: you thought I will Oh no, no, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: that's not what I was doing. You don't hook up
Speaker 1: very much, do you, Jeffrey, It was I had a
Speaker 1: rough go early on there. Well, one of our listeners
Speaker 1: apparently got himself into a situation that was totally legitimate,
Speaker 1: but it may have looked really, really bad. Oh no,
Speaker 1: his name is TJ. TJ will get to your embarrassing
Speaker 1: moment in just a second, but first, tell us about
Speaker 1: the girl you want to call today. What's her name? Hey, guys,
Speaker 1: so her name is Alicia? Okay, jolly TJ. Where'd you
Speaker 1: meet Alicia? I met her on that app Plenty of Fish?
Speaker 1: All right? Oh, I mean we say it like that.
Speaker 1: Why did you choose plenty of Fish? TJ? Can you
Speaker 1: tell us that's a good question. Yeah. Yeah, I feel
Speaker 1: like Tinder and some of those other apps are more
Speaker 1: like hookup apps, and I'm at a place where I'm
Speaker 1: looking to meet somebody to have a relationship with. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what I think of plenty of Fish. I didn't know
Speaker 1: Fish had enough money to make an app. That's amazing. Well,
Speaker 1: when there's plenty of them together, they yeah, pulled it.
Speaker 1: We're just saying that because Plenty of Fish is kind
Speaker 1: of known in the dating world. It's like the very
Speaker 1: bottom end of the app, if that makes sense. It's
Speaker 1: actually not what I've heard, and I kind of feel
Speaker 1: that Tinder's kind of the bottom of the barrel and
Speaker 1: you got I mean, you got a hot date. It
Speaker 1: sounds like out of it, right, t J. Yeah, it
Speaker 1: was actually very interesting. She had a link in her
Speaker 1: bio to this YouTube video and it was like her
Speaker 1: dancing at a wedding and she had so much energy
Speaker 1: and it was horrible. It was horrible dancing. But oh
Speaker 1: my god, I love you for that is cool. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we all know somebody that's just a terrible dancer, but
Speaker 1: you know what, it's cool that they just own it. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean the people who like really go all out
Speaker 1: are the ones that you love the most. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: really endearing. Yeah, I mean Alexis is in the room.
Speaker 1: She knows understands. Terrible dancer, Alexis, And if I'm being honest,
Speaker 1: I'm also a horrible dancer, but I do it with enthusiasm.
Speaker 1: Say that's cute. So did you use that as an
Speaker 1: opening line with her or something? I actually did, And
Speaker 1: it was great because it wasn't that typical like hey,
Speaker 1: what's going on. It was like, I'm also a bad
Speaker 1: ding sir, That's what I said. All right, Okay, obviously
Speaker 1: that worked out for you. So what did you guys
Speaker 1: do for your date. So I took her out to
Speaker 1: this nice restaurant and you know, dressed up. I was
Speaker 1: really excited to get her a good meal and it
Speaker 1: was a great time. But I'll be honest, I don't
Speaker 1: I don't go to a lot of nice restaurants. I'm not, like,
Speaker 1: how dare you? We only talk to people who go
Speaker 1: out to nice restaurants on a consistent basis. He's like,
Speaker 1: I'm normally good with like Chipotle and McDonald's. Like I'm
Speaker 1: but I wanted to do something nice. And we go
Speaker 1: to this restaurant and a little something happened at the
Speaker 1: beginning that I think maybe threw her off. It threw
Speaker 1: me off. I'm not used to places that bring you
Speaker 1: wines to the table and give you that gave me
Speaker 1: like a little sample of the wine to taste it
Speaker 1: to see if I would like it. I was completely
Speaker 1: unaware that you're not supposed to spit it back out. No,
Speaker 1: you have to have like a spatoon if you're going
Speaker 1: to do that. Did you where did you spit it
Speaker 1: back out? Right back in your glass? Yeah? Listen, I
Speaker 1: used to be a fine dunning server. When you see
Speaker 1: someone not know what to do, it is excruciating as
Speaker 1: a server. But honestly, she laughed and like she didn't
Speaker 1: seem to judge me for that. Yeah, and you shouldn't
Speaker 1: be judged for it. I mean it's a silly mistake
Speaker 1: and it's cute that you're laughing at it yourself. Totally. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So is that the embarrassing thing that you said happened?
Speaker 1: So that was a embarrassing thing that happened. There was
Speaker 1: something else. We got back on track. We had good conversation,
Speaker 1: had some wine, had a really good time, swallowed it
Speaker 1: this time. Yeah, it just spins it all exactly, brought
Speaker 1: me a different glass. So it was great, good service.
Speaker 1: And at the end, she had made it very clear
Speaker 1: when she got there, you know, like in a nice way,
Speaker 1: that she would feel more comfortable if we split the check,
Speaker 1: which was totally cool with me, you know, like I
Speaker 1: get that, no pressure. So we did that. We each
Speaker 1: put our card on the Okay, her card, she had
Speaker 1: like a unique cover on her card though. It was
Speaker 1: actually really cool. It was like this eagle over the
Speaker 1: ways with a sunset, Like I've never seen a credit
Speaker 1: card like this. Yeah, I mean you can get like
Speaker 1: personalized credit cards, whatever picture you want. Yeah, totally. And
Speaker 1: I've seen sports teams. I've just never seen like this
Speaker 1: piece of art that was so neat. Okay, so I
Speaker 1: took a picture of it because I wanted to like
Speaker 1: keep this piece of art. It was so cool and
Speaker 1: why does I was taking the picture of it. She
Speaker 1: came back to the table, Oh yeah, okay, that looks
Speaker 1: so bad. Like now I think she thinks I was
Speaker 1: trying to like steal her credit card information or like,
Speaker 1: what did you say to her? I told her. I
Speaker 1: was like, no, I really liked the design, and she
Speaker 1: kind of kind of smild's card. Yeah did she I mean,
Speaker 1: did she tell you to delete the photo? I would
Speaker 1: have yeah, pins, but she like also kind of clammed
Speaker 1: up and grabbed her card immediately and put her back
Speaker 1: and her wallet and You're like, no, just sign this.
Speaker 1: I just want to see what your signature looks, like, yeah,
Speaker 1: what's your birthday? So I feel so dumb because then
Speaker 1: the rest of the night, you know, like we kind
Speaker 1: of wrapped things up there and said good night. You know,
Speaker 1: we kind of gave each other a hug, but it
Speaker 1: was like kind of an awkward hug, and yeah, I
Speaker 1: lost momentum. Yeah, and it was going so well, guys,
Speaker 1: despite the wine mix up, it was going so well.
Speaker 1: So I just I feel dumb, guys, and I just
Speaker 1: don't know how to talk to her and get her
Speaker 1: back because she goes to me. So I mean, you
Speaker 1: do come across for sure as a credit card THEEF. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I hope not. But I understand like why she would
Speaker 1: have thought that. I mean, I hope not. I have
Speaker 1: a new TV. But well, let's see what Alicia has
Speaker 1: to say. We're gonna play a song, we'll come back,
Speaker 1: we'll call her, and we'll try and get you your
Speaker 1: second date update. All right, thanks, guys, I appreciate it.
Speaker 1: All right. Well, if you're single trying to find love,
Speaker 1: you can treat every date like a learning experience. Okay, yes,
Speaker 1: you know, you kind of figure out what to do
Speaker 1: and what not to do in the dating world. And
Speaker 1: one of our listeners, TJ, definitely learned a lot of
Speaker 1: things you shouldn't do when he went out with a
Speaker 1: woman named Alicia. Like he learned, do not spit your
Speaker 1: wine back into the glass when the server offers you
Speaker 1: a taste. Also, don't take a photo of your date's
Speaker 1: credit card because you think the design on the fronts
Speaker 1: cool some things you think people would already know. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: But the important thing is he's going to take these
Speaker 1: life lessons, chew him up, digest them unlike his wine,
Speaker 1: and then maybe turn it into another date. Okay, that's good.
Speaker 1: That's a that's quite the cycle. That's that's how you learn.
Speaker 1: But TJ, Okay, if it doesn't work out, you know,
Speaker 1: it's all right. That's the whole idea behind the website
Speaker 1: Plenty of Fish is that there's plenty of other fish
Speaker 1: for you to learn from. Eventually you're bound to snag
Speaker 1: one of the pesky fish, maybe one of the dumb ones.
Speaker 1: You're saying, it's a numbers game. Yeah, so you don't
Speaker 1: give up. Maybe a throwback, but you can always keep
Speaker 1: it there. You go fair enough. That's good to know. Okay,
Speaker 1: I don't think he feels much better now, TJ. I
Speaker 1: actually have a lot of faith in this one because
Speaker 1: I can totally understand, like she met you on Plenty
Speaker 1: of Fish. You're taking pictures of her credit card. Why
Speaker 1: she's not calling back. But I'll vouch for you that
Speaker 1: you're a stand up guy and you weren't committing credit
Speaker 1: card fraud. Yeah, I appreciate that because I wasn't. Okay,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just trust him. He sounds like
Speaker 1: a nice guy. TJJ doesn't even know how to taste
Speaker 1: wine correctly. I think he's not sophisticated enough to pull
Speaker 1: off some big scheme. All right, I just say she's
Speaker 1: not wrong, guys, She's really not wrong. So I like TJ,
Speaker 1: me too, believe brother. Okay, TJ, let's try and get
Speaker 1: you a second date, and I'm gonna call Alicia and
Speaker 1: we'll see what she hasked to say. You ready? I
Speaker 1: absolutely am. Thanks guys. All right, let's dial the number
Speaker 1: right now here we go? Hello, Hi, can I speak
Speaker 1: to Alicia? Please don't shake Hi Alicia. My name's Jeffrey
Speaker 1: from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Uh,
Speaker 1: how did you get this number? We're just going through
Speaker 1: the phone book dialing everybody's numbers, saying what's up? There's
Speaker 1: still a phone book listing of cell phone numbers? Oh
Speaker 1: well you have to pay for it. Ye. The real
Speaker 1: reason I'm calling is we're doing something called a second
Speaker 1: date update. Have you ever heard of that before? Um?
Speaker 1: I've heard people talk about it, but I don't know.
Speaker 1: I didn't know this real thing. Yeah, it's real, and
Speaker 1: now you're on one. So congrat how about that serious? Hilarious? Yeah,
Speaker 1: yeah that's right. Is that cool with you, Alicia? I
Speaker 1: mean I guess sure, all right that I'll take that.
Speaker 1: Yeah that works, that's that's an affirmative. So the reason
Speaker 1: why we're calling you is because a guy emailed us
Speaker 1: hoping to get a hold of you. His name is TJ.
Speaker 1: Oh Oh no, not the fish you were hoping for,
Speaker 1: not really, I mean, oh no, he called you guys. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean he told us all about your day, and
Speaker 1: we spoke with him a little bit. He sounds like
Speaker 1: a really nice guy. I mean, he go, right, that's
Speaker 1: such a bad review. I don't know how to explain this.
Speaker 1: I'm caught off guard. I'm sorry. I mean, so TJ did.
Speaker 1: When we spoke to him. He told us about some
Speaker 1: of the awkward things that happened during your day, Like
Speaker 1: he told us about spitting wine back into his glass
Speaker 1: when he was going to taste it. Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: I wasn't sure if he was trying to be funny
Speaker 1: or not. I mean it was then I realized that
Speaker 1: she didn't know what was going on. But it was
Speaker 1: kind of like cute, right, Like it's one of those
Speaker 1: moments you're like, oh, you're just dorky, it's cute. Yeah.
Speaker 1: It was more like, all you're so dumb and not. Okay. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he said he had a few of those moments. Because
Speaker 1: he also told us about at the end of the
Speaker 1: night when he was taking a picture of your credit
Speaker 1: card and he said that he wasn't trying to like
Speaker 1: steal your information off of it. He was just really
Speaker 1: impressed by the design on the front of the card.
Speaker 1: Oh oh my god. All right, So that preaked me
Speaker 1: out initially, and it's thought didn't cross my mind that
Speaker 1: he was trying to steal information because I could easily
Speaker 1: identify him and get him for that. But what really
Speaker 1: drove me nuts was like, so for a dessert he
Speaker 1: had ordered, like it was a decadent like peanut butter
Speaker 1: browning dessart, and he was like handling his phone and
Speaker 1: he had touched my credit card and his fingers were
Speaker 1: just so filthy. It was like toddler sticky fingers. Wait, what,
Speaker 1: you didn't think that he was? Like I thought for
Speaker 1: sure you weren't calling him back because he looked like
Speaker 1: some credit card scammer. But you were just grossed out
Speaker 1: by him a little bit. Yeah, like a lot of bit. Oh,
Speaker 1: because he had sticky fingers and he touched your credit
Speaker 1: card with him, that's it. Why Now it wasn't just
Speaker 1: sticky like he had peanut butter like on his nail, like,
Speaker 1: it was just yeah, well that you mentioned it, Oh
Speaker 1: my god. I mean I could see where that moment
Speaker 1: would be. I mean, I see how it would be
Speaker 1: sort of disgusting. But you think that you don't have
Speaker 1: a future with him romantically because he has sticky fingers
Speaker 1: after eating a delicious treat. It's just it was embarrassing.
Speaker 1: But I mean there was like another issue that I
Speaker 1: had with him, So, like after our date, I went
Speaker 1: on Facebook to look him up. I was very tread
Speaker 1: by his messy eating. But I noticed that we had
Speaker 1: a mutual friend, so I messaged her and after she
Speaker 1: had did she know TJ? Like did she go out
Speaker 1: to day with him? And then that girl ended up
Speaker 1: messenger Jamie on Messenger and that TJ basically has a
Speaker 1: littering problem. Littering. Did you see literally like throw garbage
Speaker 1: on the ground littering? Yeah, And I'm like one of
Speaker 1: those people. I'm like, I find that very disrespectful and
Speaker 1: I'm not cool with that. Basically, she had mentioned that
Speaker 1: they had gone out on a date to Chick fil A. Okay,
Speaker 1: so he definitely stepped up the class with your date though,
Speaker 1: so compliment, I guess. But after he had finished eating,
Speaker 1: they were in the car and he just kind of
Speaker 1: like chucked the whole bag of garbage out the window.
Speaker 1: I was like, who's tabbling on people for literate? But
Speaker 1: that was like a moment, like we were talking about
Speaker 1: behaviors that you can change and can't change. You can't
Speaker 1: change a litterer, that's for sure. All was the whole
Speaker 1: bag of something out the window? Are you sure? I mean,
Speaker 1: maybe this is like hearsay. You know, it's like this
Speaker 1: person knew this person knew that knew this person. Like
Speaker 1: what if it's even just a different TJ altogether or something.
Speaker 1: That's a good point. So let's ask TJ directly, TJ,
Speaker 1: are you a litterer? So this is the problem with
Speaker 1: getting suck in high for so high Alicia. So, Alicia,
Speaker 1: I should probably tell you that TJ has been on
Speaker 1: the other line listening and you heard everything that she's said.
Speaker 1: Did I forget to mention that, Yeah, you did. I
Speaker 1: know exactly what you're talking about, and let me clarify,
Speaker 1: because that again, that's the problem with second hand telephone.
Speaker 1: You know, people just just say things. There was a
Speaker 1: giant cockroach on the floor of her car, and I
Speaker 1: had to use the bag to kill it, but it
Speaker 1: was climbing up on the bag, so I grew it
Speaker 1: out the window because I just I freaked out. So, Alicia,
Speaker 1: what do you think in here? Are you skeptical or
Speaker 1: do you believe him? I mean, is that a real story?
Speaker 1: Like why would you even go and handle a cockroach?
Speaker 1: I mean, either fact, how can you can catch it?
Speaker 1: What are the odds you're in a car and you
Speaker 1: see a cockroach? It's never happened once in my life.
Speaker 1: And then second that it happens to climb on while
Speaker 1: you're thriving. It depends on the state of the inside. Listen.
Speaker 1: He didn't know that he was going to have to
Speaker 1: defend himself in this story, Alicia, and he came up
Speaker 1: immediately with this response. I mean, either he's an incredible
Speaker 1: liar or that that is just the truth. That's I know,
Speaker 1: it doesn't make me sound like the manliest man, but
Speaker 1: not the most hygienic person either. Like earlier, we learned
Speaker 1: that you're a messy eater who doesn't care about getting
Speaker 1: those nasty peanut butter fingers on your phone. How could
Speaker 1: you not see that that would be a huge turn
Speaker 1: off on a day. I don't know why. I don't
Speaker 1: know why, and I bet he's the type of person
Speaker 1: that likes to lick the butter off. It's definitely under
Speaker 1: his fingernail beds. Yeah. Well, actually not anymore because he
Speaker 1: already sucked it all out. Okay, I mean, Alicia, would
Speaker 1: you have gone out with him again if you hadn't
Speaker 1: heard the litter story? I don't know. I feel like
Speaker 1: maybe to go to finishing school or something, TJ. I
Speaker 1: don't think Alicia is trying to be mean. She's just
Speaker 1: trying to help you out so you don't do this
Speaker 1: again in the future. Ye Frankly, she's not who I
Speaker 1: thought she was. And honestly, I don't mean to insult you,
Speaker 1: but you're being a negative Nancy right now that I
Speaker 1: don't know. I told you that the aggressive TJ was
Speaker 1: coming out earlier. He means business. Honestly, I think you're
Speaker 1: being quite judgmental, and I thought we had a nice time.
Speaker 1: And if if you're this nitpicky and judgmental, I don't
Speaker 1: know if I want a second date down the loss.
Speaker 1: Is he a little more attractive when he does that?
Speaker 1: Or you roll in your eyes right now? I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm fine with that choice. That makes it here for
Speaker 1: you to say no, no, well no, you guys can't
Speaker 1: do that because I have to ask you if you
Speaker 1: guys would like to go out on another date first,
Speaker 1: we'll pay for it. I think I'm gonna have to
Speaker 1: pass you, guys. I'm sorry. I'm happy with this. Guys,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to pass two. Well, I'm sorry, TJ.
Speaker 1: No second date, you know what, I'm fine with that. Guys.
Speaker 1: There's plenty of fish, like you told me earlier, or
Speaker 1: plenty of cockroaches, depending on what website you want to try.
Speaker 1: Two point five