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<v Speaker 1>been out on a hot date and done something totally innocent,

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<v Speaker 1>but to the other person it looked really bad? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I know as a guy, if you ever over

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<v Speaker 1>at a girl's place trying to hook up and you

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<v Speaker 1>like hop into the bathroom to bust out some push

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<v Speaker 1>ups real quick to make your chest seem bigger. Is

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<v Speaker 1>that really something that you do? Oh? Yeah, you want to.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to get that swell on to seem a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit bigger than you are. But through the door,

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<v Speaker 1>all she can hear is a bunch of grunting yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And then you come out all sweaty, and it's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you thought I will Oh no, no, no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not what I was doing. You don't hook up

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<v Speaker 1>very much, do you, Jeffrey, It was I had a

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<v Speaker 1>rough go early on there. Well, one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>apparently got himself into a situation that was totally legitimate,

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<v Speaker 1>but it may have looked really, really bad. Oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>his name is TJ. TJ will get to your embarrassing

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<v Speaker 1>moment in just a second, but first, tell us about

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<v Speaker 1>the girl you want to call today. What's her name? Hey, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>so her name is Alicia? Okay, jolly TJ. Where'd you

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<v Speaker 1>meet Alicia? I met her on that app Plenty of Fish?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? Oh, I mean we say it like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Why did you choose plenty of Fish? TJ? Can you

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<v Speaker 1>tell us that's a good question. Yeah. Yeah, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like Tinder and some of those other apps are more

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<v Speaker 1>like hookup apps, and I'm at a place where I'm

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<v Speaker 1>looking to meet somebody to have a relationship with. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what I think of plenty of Fish. I didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>Fish had enough money to make an app. That's amazing. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>when there's plenty of them together, they yeah, pulled it.

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<v Speaker 1>We're just saying that because Plenty of Fish is kind

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<v Speaker 1>of known in the dating world. It's like the very

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<v Speaker 1>bottom end of the app, if that makes sense. It's

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<v Speaker 1>actually not what I've heard, and I kind of feel

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<v Speaker 1>that Tinder's kind of the bottom of the barrel and

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<v Speaker 1>you got I mean, you got a hot date. It

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like out of it, right, t J. Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>was actually very interesting. She had a link in her

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<v Speaker 1>bio to this YouTube video and it was like her

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<v Speaker 1>dancing at a wedding and she had so much energy

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<v Speaker 1>and it was horrible. It was horrible dancing. But oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, I love you for that is cool. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we all know somebody that's just a terrible dancer, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, it's cool that they just own it. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean the people who like really go all out

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<v Speaker 1>are the ones that you love the most. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>really endearing. Yeah, I mean Alexis is in the room.

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<v Speaker 1>She knows understands. Terrible dancer, Alexis, And if I'm being honest,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm also a horrible dancer, but I do it with enthusiasm.

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<v Speaker 1>Say that's cute. So did you use that as an

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<v Speaker 1>opening line with her or something? I actually did, And

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<v Speaker 1>it was great because it wasn't that typical like hey,

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on. It was like, I'm also a bad

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<v Speaker 1>ding sir, That's what I said. All right, Okay, obviously

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<v Speaker 1>that worked out for you. So what did you guys

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<v Speaker 1>do for your date. So I took her out to

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<v Speaker 1>this nice restaurant and you know, dressed up. I was

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<v Speaker 1>really excited to get her a good meal and it

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<v Speaker 1>was a great time. But I'll be honest, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>I don't go to a lot of nice restaurants. I'm not, like,

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<v Speaker 1>how dare you? We only talk to people who go

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<v Speaker 1>out to nice restaurants on a consistent basis. He's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm normally good with like Chipotle and McDonald's. Like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>but I wanted to do something nice. And we go

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<v Speaker 1>to this restaurant and a little something happened at the

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<v Speaker 1>beginning that I think maybe threw her off. It threw

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<v Speaker 1>me off. I'm not used to places that bring you

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<v Speaker 1>wines to the table and give you that gave me

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<v Speaker 1>like a little sample of the wine to taste it

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<v Speaker 1>to see if I would like it. I was completely

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<v Speaker 1>unaware that you're not supposed to spit it back out. No,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to have like a spatoon if you're going

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<v Speaker 1>to do that. Did you where did you spit it

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<v Speaker 1>back out? Right back in your glass? Yeah? Listen, I

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<v Speaker 1>used to be a fine dunning server. When you see

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<v Speaker 1>someone not know what to do, it is excruciating as

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<v Speaker 1>a server. But honestly, she laughed and like she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>seem to judge me for that. Yeah, and you shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be judged for it. I mean it's a silly mistake

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<v Speaker 1>and it's cute that you're laughing at it yourself. Totally. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So is that the embarrassing thing that you said happened?

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<v Speaker 1>So that was a embarrassing thing that happened. There was

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<v Speaker 1>something else. We got back on track. We had good conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>had some wine, had a really good time, swallowed it

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<v Speaker 1>this time. Yeah, it just spins it all exactly, brought

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<v Speaker 1>me a different glass. So it was great, good service.

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<v Speaker 1>And at the end, she had made it very clear

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<v Speaker 1>when she got there, you know, like in a nice way,

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<v Speaker 1>that she would feel more comfortable if we split the check,

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<v Speaker 1>which was totally cool with me, you know, like I

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<v Speaker 1>get that, no pressure. So we did that. We each

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<v Speaker 1>put our card on the Okay, her card, she had

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<v Speaker 1>like a unique cover on her card though. It was

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<v Speaker 1>actually really cool. It was like this eagle over the

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<v Speaker 1>ways with a sunset, Like I've never seen a credit

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<v Speaker 1>card like this. Yeah, I mean you can get like

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<v Speaker 1>personalized credit cards, whatever picture you want. Yeah, totally. And

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen sports teams. I've just never seen like this

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<v Speaker 1>piece of art that was so neat. Okay, so I

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<v Speaker 1>took a picture of it because I wanted to like

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<v Speaker 1>keep this piece of art. It was so cool and

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<v Speaker 1>why does I was taking the picture of it. She

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<v Speaker 1>came back to the table, Oh yeah, okay, that looks

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<v Speaker 1>so bad. Like now I think she thinks I was

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<v Speaker 1>trying to like steal her credit card information or like,

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<v Speaker 1>what did you say to her? I told her. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, no, I really liked the design, and she

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<v Speaker 1>kind of kind of smild's card. Yeah did she I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>did she tell you to delete the photo? I would

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<v Speaker 1>have yeah, pins, but she like also kind of clammed

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<v Speaker 1>up and grabbed her card immediately and put her back

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<v Speaker 1>and her wallet and You're like, no, just sign this.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to see what your signature looks, like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what's your birthday? So I feel so dumb because then

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<v Speaker 1>the rest of the night, you know, like we kind

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<v Speaker 1>of wrapped things up there and said good night. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>we kind of gave each other a hug, but it

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<v Speaker 1>was like kind of an awkward hug, and yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>lost momentum. Yeah, and it was going so well, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>despite the wine mix up, it was going so well.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just I feel dumb, guys, and I just

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how to talk to her and get her

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<v Speaker 1>back because she goes to me. So I mean, you

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<v Speaker 1>do come across for sure as a credit card THEEF. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I hope not. But I understand like why she would

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<v Speaker 1>have thought that. I mean, I hope not. I have

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<v Speaker 1>a new TV. But well, let's see what Alicia has

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<v Speaker 1>to say. We're gonna play a song, we'll come back,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll call her, and we'll try and get you your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. All right, thanks, guys, I appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. Well, if you're single trying to find love,

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<v Speaker 1>you can treat every date like a learning experience. Okay, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you kind of figure out what to do

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<v Speaker 1>and what not to do in the dating world. And

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners, TJ, definitely learned a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>things you shouldn't do when he went out with a

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<v Speaker 1>woman named Alicia. Like he learned, do not spit your

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<v Speaker 1>wine back into the glass when the server offers you

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<v Speaker 1>a taste. Also, don't take a photo of your date's

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<v Speaker 1>credit card because you think the design on the fronts

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<v Speaker 1>cool some things you think people would already know. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>But the important thing is he's going to take these

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<v Speaker 1>life lessons, chew him up, digest them unlike his wine,

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<v Speaker 1>and then maybe turn it into another date. Okay, that's good.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a that's quite the cycle. That's that's how you learn.

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<v Speaker 1>But TJ, Okay, if it doesn't work out, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's all right. That's the whole idea behind the website

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<v Speaker 1>Plenty of Fish is that there's plenty of other fish

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<v Speaker 1>for you to learn from. Eventually you're bound to snag

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<v Speaker 1>one of the pesky fish, maybe one of the dumb ones.

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<v Speaker 1>You're saying, it's a numbers game. Yeah, so you don't

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<v Speaker 1>give up. Maybe a throwback, but you can always keep

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<v Speaker 1>it there. You go fair enough. That's good to know. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think he feels much better now, TJ. I

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<v Speaker 1>actually have a lot of faith in this one because

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<v Speaker 1>I can totally understand, like she met you on Plenty

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<v Speaker 1>of Fish. You're taking pictures of her credit card. Why

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<v Speaker 1>she's not calling back. But I'll vouch for you that

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<v Speaker 1>you're a stand up guy and you weren't committing credit

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<v Speaker 1>card fraud. Yeah, I appreciate that because I wasn't. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I just trust him. He sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>a nice guy. TJJ doesn't even know how to taste

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<v Speaker 1>wine correctly. I think he's not sophisticated enough to pull

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<v Speaker 1>off some big scheme. All right, I just say she's

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<v Speaker 1>not wrong, guys, She's really not wrong. So I like TJ,

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<v Speaker 1>me too, believe brother. Okay, TJ, let's try and get

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<v Speaker 1>you a second date, and I'm gonna call Alicia and

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<v Speaker 1>we'll see what she hasked to say. You ready? I

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely am. Thanks guys. All right, let's dial the number

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<v Speaker 1>right now here we go? Hello, Hi, can I speak

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<v Speaker 1>to Alicia? Please don't shake Hi Alicia. My name's Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>how did you get this number? We're just going through

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<v Speaker 1>the phone book dialing everybody's numbers, saying what's up? There's

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<v Speaker 1>still a phone book listing of cell phone numbers? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>well you have to pay for it. Ye. The real

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<v Speaker 1>reason I'm calling is we're doing something called a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. Have you ever heard of that before? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>I've heard people talk about it, but I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know this real thing. Yeah, it's real, and

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<v Speaker 1>now you're on one. So congrat how about that serious? Hilarious? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah that's right. Is that cool with you, Alicia? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I guess sure, all right that I'll take that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that works, that's that's an affirmative. So the reason

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<v Speaker 1>why we're calling you is because a guy emailed us

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<v Speaker 1>hoping to get a hold of you. His name is TJ.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh Oh no, not the fish you were hoping for,

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<v Speaker 1>not really, I mean, oh no, he called you guys. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he told us all about your day, and

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<v Speaker 1>we spoke with him a little bit. He sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>a really nice guy. I mean, he go, right, that's

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<v Speaker 1>such a bad review. I don't know how to explain this.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm caught off guard. I'm sorry. I mean, so TJ did.

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<v Speaker 1>When we spoke to him. He told us about some

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<v Speaker 1>of the awkward things that happened during your day, Like

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<v Speaker 1>he told us about spitting wine back into his glass

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<v Speaker 1>when he was going to taste it. Yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't sure if he was trying to be funny

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<v Speaker 1>or not. I mean it was then I realized that

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't know what was going on. But it was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like cute, right, Like it's one of those

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<v Speaker 1>moments you're like, oh, you're just dorky, it's cute. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>It was more like, all you're so dumb and not. Okay. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he said he had a few of those moments. Because

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<v Speaker 1>he also told us about at the end of the

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<v Speaker 1>night when he was taking a picture of your credit

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<v Speaker 1>card and he said that he wasn't trying to like

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<v Speaker 1>steal your information off of it. He was just really

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<v Speaker 1>impressed by the design on the front of the card.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh my god. All right, So that preaked me

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<v Speaker 1>out initially, and it's thought didn't cross my mind that

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<v Speaker 1>he was trying to steal information because I could easily

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<v Speaker 1>identify him and get him for that. But what really

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<v Speaker 1>drove me nuts was like, so for a dessert he

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<v Speaker 1>had ordered, like it was a decadent like peanut butter

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<v Speaker 1>browning dessart, and he was like handling his phone and

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<v Speaker 1>he had touched my credit card and his fingers were

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<v Speaker 1>just so filthy. It was like toddler sticky fingers. Wait, what,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't think that he was? Like I thought for

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<v Speaker 1>sure you weren't calling him back because he looked like

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<v Speaker 1>some credit card scammer. But you were just grossed out

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<v Speaker 1>by him a little bit. Yeah, like a lot of bit. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>because he had sticky fingers and he touched your credit

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<v Speaker 1>card with him, that's it. Why Now it wasn't just

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<v Speaker 1>sticky like he had peanut butter like on his nail, like,

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<v Speaker 1>it was just yeah, well that you mentioned it, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god. I mean I could see where that moment

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<v Speaker 1>would be. I mean, I see how it would be

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<v Speaker 1>sort of disgusting. But you think that you don't have

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<v Speaker 1>a future with him romantically because he has sticky fingers

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<v Speaker 1>after eating a delicious treat. It's just it was embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean there was like another issue that I

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<v Speaker 1>had with him, So, like after our date, I went

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<v Speaker 1>on Facebook to look him up. I was very tread

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<v Speaker 1>by his messy eating. But I noticed that we had

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<v Speaker 1>a mutual friend, so I messaged her and after she

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<v Speaker 1>had did she know TJ? Like did she go out

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<v Speaker 1>to day with him? And then that girl ended up

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<v Speaker 1>messenger Jamie on Messenger and that TJ basically has a

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<v Speaker 1>littering problem. Littering. Did you see literally like throw garbage

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<v Speaker 1>on the ground littering? Yeah, And I'm like one of

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<v Speaker 1>those people. I'm like, I find that very disrespectful and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not cool with that. Basically, she had mentioned that

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<v Speaker 1>they had gone out on a date to Chick fil A. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so he definitely stepped up the class with your date though,

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<v Speaker 1>so compliment, I guess. But after he had finished eating,

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<v Speaker 1>they were in the car and he just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like chucked the whole bag of garbage out the window.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, who's tabbling on people for literate? But

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<v Speaker 1>that was like a moment, like we were talking about

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<v Speaker 1>behaviors that you can change and can't change. You can't

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<v Speaker 1>change a litterer, that's for sure. All was the whole

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<v Speaker 1>bag of something out the window? Are you sure? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe this is like hearsay. You know, it's like this

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<v Speaker 1>person knew this person knew that knew this person. Like

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<v Speaker 1>what if it's even just a different TJ altogether or something.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good point. So let's ask TJ directly, TJ,

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<v Speaker 1>are you a litterer? So this is the problem with

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<v Speaker 1>getting suck in high for so high Alicia. So, Alicia,

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<v Speaker 1>I should probably tell you that TJ has been on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listening and you heard everything that she's said.

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<v Speaker 1>Did I forget to mention that, Yeah, you did. I

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<v Speaker 1>know exactly what you're talking about, and let me clarify,

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<v Speaker 1>because that again, that's the problem with second hand telephone.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, people just just say things. There was a

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<v Speaker 1>giant cockroach on the floor of her car, and I

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<v Speaker 1>had to use the bag to kill it, but it

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<v Speaker 1>was climbing up on the bag, so I grew it

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<v Speaker 1>out the window because I just I freaked out. So, Alicia,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you think in here? Are you skeptical or

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<v Speaker 1>do you believe him? I mean, is that a real story?

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<v Speaker 1>Like why would you even go and handle a cockroach?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, either fact, how can you can catch it?

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<v Speaker 1>What are the odds you're in a car and you

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<v Speaker 1>see a cockroach? It's never happened once in my life.

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<v Speaker 1>And then second that it happens to climb on while

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<v Speaker 1>you're thriving. It depends on the state of the inside. Listen.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't know that he was going to have to

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<v Speaker 1>defend himself in this story, Alicia, and he came up

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<v Speaker 1>immediately with this response. I mean, either he's an incredible

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<v Speaker 1>liar or that that is just the truth. That's I know,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't make me sound like the manliest man, but

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<v Speaker 1>not the most hygienic person either. Like earlier, we learned

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<v Speaker 1>that you're a messy eater who doesn't care about getting

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<v Speaker 1>those nasty peanut butter fingers on your phone. How could

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<v Speaker 1>you not see that that would be a huge turn

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<v Speaker 1>off on a day. I don't know why. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know why, and I bet he's the type of person

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<v Speaker 1>that likes to lick the butter off. It's definitely under

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<v Speaker 1>his fingernail beds. Yeah. Well, actually not anymore because he

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<v Speaker 1>already sucked it all out. Okay, I mean, Alicia, would

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<v Speaker 1>you have gone out with him again if you hadn't

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<v Speaker 1>heard the litter story? I don't know. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe to go to finishing school or something, TJ. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think Alicia is trying to be mean. She's just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to help you out so you don't do this

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<v Speaker 1>again in the future. Ye Frankly, she's not who I

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<v Speaker 1>thought she was. And honestly, I don't mean to insult you,

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<v Speaker 1>but you're being a negative Nancy right now that I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I told you that the aggressive TJ was

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<v Speaker 1>coming out earlier. He means business. Honestly, I think you're

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<v Speaker 1>being quite judgmental, and I thought we had a nice time.

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<v Speaker 1>And if if you're this nitpicky and judgmental, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if I want a second date down the loss.

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<v Speaker 1>Is he a little more attractive when he does that?

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<v Speaker 1>Or you roll in your eyes right now? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm fine with that choice. That makes it here for

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<v Speaker 1>you to say no, no, well no, you guys can't

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<v Speaker 1>do that because I have to ask you if you

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<v Speaker 1>guys would like to go out on another date first,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll pay for it. I think I'm gonna have to

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<v Speaker 1>pass you, guys. I'm sorry. I'm happy with this. Guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna have to pass two. Well, I'm sorry, TJ.

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<v Speaker 1>No second date, you know what, I'm fine with that. Guys.

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<v Speaker 1>There's plenty of fish, like you told me earlier, or

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<v Speaker 1>plenty of cockroaches, depending on what website you want to try.

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<v Speaker 1>Two point five