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Speaker 1: been out on a hot date and done something totally innocent,

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Speaker 1: his name is TJ. TJ will get to your embarrassing

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Speaker 1: Plenty of Fish is that there's plenty of other fish

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Speaker 1: right now here we go? Hello, Hi, can I speak

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Speaker 1: to Alicia? Please don't shake Hi Alicia. My name's Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: the phone book dialing everybody's numbers, saying what's up? There's

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Speaker 1: Oh oh my god. All right, So that preaked me

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Speaker 1: he had touched my credit card and his fingers were

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Speaker 1: just so filthy. It was like toddler sticky fingers. Wait, what,

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Speaker 1: you didn't think that he was? Like I thought for

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Speaker 1: sure you weren't calling him back because he looked like

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Speaker 1: some credit card scammer. But you were just grossed out

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Speaker 1: by him a little bit. Yeah, like a lot of bit. Oh,

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Speaker 1: because he had sticky fingers and he touched your credit

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Speaker 1: it was just yeah, well that you mentioned it, Oh

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Speaker 1: after eating a delicious treat. It's just it was embarrassing.

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Speaker 1: But I mean there was like another issue that I

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Speaker 1: had did she know TJ? Like did she go out

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Speaker 1: littering problem. Littering. Did you see literally like throw garbage

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Speaker 1: I'm not cool with that. Basically, she had mentioned that

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Speaker 1: they had gone out on a date to Chick fil A. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so he definitely stepped up the class with your date though,

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Speaker 1: so compliment, I guess. But after he had finished eating,

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Speaker 1: I was like, who's tabbling on people for literate? But

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Speaker 1: that was like a moment, like we were talking about

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Speaker 1: behaviors that you can change and can't change. You can't

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Speaker 1: maybe this is like hearsay. You know, it's like this

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Speaker 1: what if it's even just a different TJ altogether or something.

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Speaker 1: That's a good point. So let's ask TJ directly, TJ,

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Speaker 1: are you a litterer? So this is the problem with

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Speaker 1: getting suck in high for so high Alicia. So, Alicia,

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Speaker 1: I should probably tell you that TJ has been on

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Speaker 1: Did I forget to mention that, Yeah, you did. I

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Speaker 1: because that again, that's the problem with second hand telephone.

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Speaker 1: You know, people just just say things. There was a

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Speaker 1: what do you think in here? Are you skeptical or

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Speaker 1: do you believe him? I mean, is that a real story?

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Speaker 1: Like why would you even go and handle a cockroach?

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Speaker 1: I mean, either fact, how can you can catch it?

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Speaker 1: And then second that it happens to climb on while

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Speaker 1: you're thriving. It depends on the state of the inside. Listen.

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Speaker 1: He didn't know that he was going to have to

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Speaker 1: defend himself in this story, Alicia, and he came up

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Speaker 1: immediately with this response. I mean, either he's an incredible

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Speaker 1: it doesn't make me sound like the manliest man, but

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Speaker 1: not the most hygienic person either. Like earlier, we learned

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Speaker 1: that you're a messy eater who doesn't care about getting

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Speaker 1: those nasty peanut butter fingers on your phone. How could

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Speaker 1: off on a day. I don't know why. I don't

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Speaker 1: his fingernail beds. Yeah. Well, actually not anymore because he

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Speaker 1: maybe to go to finishing school or something, TJ. I

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Speaker 1: don't think Alicia is trying to be mean. She's just

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Speaker 1: but you're being a negative Nancy right now that I

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Speaker 1: don't know. I told you that the aggressive TJ was

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Speaker 1: coming out earlier. He means business. Honestly, I think you're

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Speaker 1: being quite judgmental, and I thought we had a nice time.

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Speaker 1: And if if you're this nitpicky and judgmental, I don't

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Speaker 1: know if I want a second date down the loss.

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Speaker 1: Is he a little more attractive when he does that?

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Speaker 1: Or you roll in your eyes right now? I mean,

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Speaker 1: I'm fine with that choice. That makes it here for

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Speaker 1: you to say no, no, well no, you guys can't

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Speaker 1: we'll pay for it. I think I'm gonna have to

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Speaker 1: pass you, guys. I'm sorry. I'm happy with this. Guys,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to pass two. Well, I'm sorry, TJ.

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Speaker 1: No second date, you know what, I'm fine with that. Guys.

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Speaker 1: There's plenty of fish, like you told me earlier, or

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Speaker 1: plenty of cockroaches, depending on what website you want to try.

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Speaker 1: Two point five