1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:01,760 Speaker 1: I just took a DNA test. 2 00:00:01,880 --> 00:00:05,000 Speaker 2: Turns out I'm one hundred percent not my dad's son. 3 00:00:05,320 --> 00:00:06,120 Speaker 1: What should I do? 4 00:00:06,280 --> 00:00:08,559 Speaker 2: And this is okop where we read the craziest true 5 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:12,280 Speaker 2: stories on Earth. I'm John and producer Riley. 6 00:00:12,480 --> 00:00:14,760 Speaker 1: What do we think this? Oh? P he should do? 7 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:16,799 Speaker 3: I think you should actually go find your dad? 8 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:17,279 Speaker 1: You know. 9 00:00:18,040 --> 00:00:20,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's you know what, not a bad place to 10 00:00:20,840 --> 00:00:22,159 Speaker 2: start when you really think about it. 11 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:24,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, if this guy isn't it go fund the other 12 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 3: next kind of what do you think they should do? 13 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:29,480 Speaker 1: Yeah? I mean what what else? Maybe? 14 00:00:29,640 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 2: The only other argument is like, do you first make 15 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:36,520 Speaker 2: peace with the person that's thought was dad but it's 16 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:38,920 Speaker 2: not dad? Do you go to not dad and try 17 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 2: to hash it out? 18 00:00:40,120 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 1: And because he. 19 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 3: Could have actually, like in your eyes, been dad. 20 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:45,920 Speaker 2: Right, Because most people these stories, they're like, this is 21 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:49,240 Speaker 2: actually my dad because this person raised me and my dad. 22 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 3: But not daddy. Or he's dad but not father. Is 23 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 3: he dad or father? Because I feel like there's a 24 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:57,160 Speaker 3: difference between father and dad. Some people could be a 25 00:00:57,160 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 3: good father but a bad dad. 26 00:00:58,360 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 1: Yeah. 27 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 2: I feel like to me, dad is like yo, I 28 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:03,840 Speaker 2: have the that's the relationship, Like this is my dad. 29 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 1: I love him? We're tight whatever. 30 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 2: My father is the person who inseminated me and helped 31 00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:11,960 Speaker 2: me get on earth. 32 00:01:12,240 --> 00:01:13,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the father. 33 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 1: You're the father, right, Not you're the dad of the year. Now, No, 34 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 1: you're the father. That's true, right, So. 35 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:22,000 Speaker 3: What are they gonna do? 36 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:25,400 Speaker 2: Well, we're gonna have to find out from open Leachy 37 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:28,880 Speaker 2: seventy five eighty seven, they say. 38 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:31,959 Speaker 1: On January third, twenty twenty four. Very recent. For as 39 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 1: long as I can remember, my parents' marriage has been 40 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:36,400 Speaker 1: happy and stable. 41 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 2: WHOA, Okay, they were high school sweethearts, adorable, and my 42 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 2: dad proposed to her at their senior prom. 43 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 1: WHOA, how old. 44 00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:48,080 Speaker 3: Are your parents because that's a kind of an older 45 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:49,120 Speaker 3: thing I haven't heard. 46 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're so seventies. You are so right? 47 00:01:54,240 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 2: Who is proposing at your high school senior prom? 48 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 3: Because anybody are as I do that the same. 49 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 2: I'm crazy, like literally if it's like the guy all 50 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 2: all your boys. 51 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 1: Are like, yo, are you sure? 52 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 2: Like yeah, that's what would happen in high school, That's 53 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:11,560 Speaker 2: what would happen. 54 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:15,760 Speaker 3: Oh my yeah, I think my grandparents got married at 55 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 3: like seventeen eighteen. 56 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:20,040 Speaker 2: Your grandparents, Yeah, yeah, I mean that? Which is which 57 00:02:20,080 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 2: is this? So this is like grandparents generation level game 58 00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 2: right here, yeah, back all right. Nowadays they're your stereotypical 59 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 2: old couple, just as in love as the day they married. 60 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 2: We called that dude adorable, We called that we We 61 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 2: really did you did you? You did that? 62 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 3: You were on board? 63 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:38,680 Speaker 1: You did I was on board. 64 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 3: You backed me up. 65 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:40,160 Speaker 1: I hopped on. 66 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:44,080 Speaker 2: SS big protein, and I was not dissatisfied. Take that 67 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 2: as you will, uh bo Boor Thanksgiving, one of my 68 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 2: friends bought DNA tests for the whole friend group. 69 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:55,360 Speaker 3: Best Thanksgiving tradition you could ever know. 70 00:02:55,840 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 2: Oh, we might be there might be more than stuffing 71 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 2: that's coming out this this Thanksgiving season, ladies and gentlemen, because. 72 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:08,400 Speaker 3: For Thanksgiving, all you do is gather around your family, so. 73 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:11,359 Speaker 1: You might as well find out who is the real family. 74 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:12,600 Speaker 1: Like do it at. 75 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:14,839 Speaker 3: Honestly, do it at Christmas. Don't do it things because 76 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:17,359 Speaker 3: you do at Thanksgiving. You got Christmas coming up right after. 77 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 2: That, right, Yeah, you've already gotten all the holidays out 78 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:22,079 Speaker 2: of the quad holiday season. 79 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 1: Wait was it? 80 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:26,600 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year's squad holiday. 81 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:28,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, get get get the quad out of the way. 82 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 3: I did Christmas. Figure it out? At New Year's January second, 83 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:34,640 Speaker 3: went to a new year being a different person, knowing 84 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 3: the things that you know. 85 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 2: Then go January second, six days late on opening the gifts. 86 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 3: That's when you do, akay throw a red flag on 87 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 3: the front having a Thanksgiving. He knew what they were 88 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 3: doing that. 89 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 2: He's super into genealogy, the friend who abought the kids 90 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 2: and family trees and wanted to share his hobby. 91 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:51,840 Speaker 1: I guess I it. 92 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 3: Sounds like an evil mastermind. Oh you're right, dude. Yeah, 93 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 3: he's into destroying families. That's what he's into. 94 00:03:59,280 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 1: Bro. 95 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 2: I just it's got my results back. And my biological 96 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 2: father was bound the way from what we know at 97 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 2: the title and everything. It's like I find out who 98 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 2: my biological dad. Oh here this next sentence, Except he's 99 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:20,000 Speaker 2: not the man I grew up calling my dad. He's 100 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 2: some rando from New Jersey. Oh honestly, the secret, dad, 101 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 2: New Jersey not a great place to be from. New 102 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:29,840 Speaker 2: Jersey is not the place you want your secret. Your 103 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 2: secret surprise, real dad? 104 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:33,880 Speaker 3: That so because like here they were like their parents 105 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 3: are happy and stable and then they. 106 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:42,040 Speaker 2: Find this so oh nope, all about to come crashing down. 107 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:45,919 Speaker 2: I do admit he does look like me, but he 108 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 2: doesn't look like my sister at all. That means either 109 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:51,919 Speaker 2: my sister is my dad's real daughter or that my 110 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 2: mom cheated multiple times. I mean, honestly, it's painful, But 111 00:04:56,560 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 2: like I see why Opie's brain is like jump around 112 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:02,680 Speaker 2: to those conclusions because this whole world is crumbling before him. 113 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:06,960 Speaker 1: I mean, it's. 114 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:08,159 Speaker 3: Hopefully we get ages so we can like put the 115 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:14,039 Speaker 3: Golden Rule on famous past makes. 116 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:16,160 Speaker 1: Sense Sam's Golden Rules trademark TM. 117 00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:18,719 Speaker 2: I do know that my dad's family has a history 118 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:22,600 Speaker 2: of fertility issues and that his identical twin brother can't have. 119 00:05:22,600 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 1: Kids at all. 120 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 2: Oh another strike for for for not dad Dad. Oh no, 121 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:33,600 Speaker 2: I want to blow up my parents' lives. Yeah, and 122 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:37,360 Speaker 2: regardless of my DNA, my dad is still my dad. 123 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:37,960 Speaker 3: That's good. 124 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 1: What did we say? What did we say at the top? 125 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 2: That happens all the time, all the time. He raised 126 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 2: me and loved me like his own and that's all 127 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:47,400 Speaker 2: that matters to me. But there's a voice in the 128 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:50,320 Speaker 2: back of my mind telling me to tell my dad 129 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:52,800 Speaker 2: that he deserves to know that his wife cheated and 130 00:05:52,839 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 2: that he raised another man's child. But then will he 131 00:05:57,279 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 2: ever look at me the same. What if he disc 132 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 2: owns me out of rage? And what about my mom? 133 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:07,360 Speaker 2: She lives off his pension and home business. But she's 134 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 2: a cheater, so maybe I shouldn't consider her feelings. Oh 135 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:12,640 Speaker 2: bro is going. 136 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 1: In on his mom? Oh man, Oh, I don't know. 137 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:17,920 Speaker 2: I had to tell someone, so I figured redd it 138 00:06:18,040 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 2: might be a good place. 139 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 1: It might not, but we're about to find out. 140 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:23,719 Speaker 2: I'm going to think about what I should do for 141 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:26,120 Speaker 2: a while before taking any drastic actions. 142 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:26,840 Speaker 1: I have the. 143 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:30,520 Speaker 2: Power to destroy my parents' lives and I don't take 144 00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:34,279 Speaker 2: that lightly. Oh and we don't take these relevant comments lightly. 145 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:35,000 Speaker 1: But we have to. 146 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:37,400 Speaker 2: We have to. You gotta break We gotta go into 147 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:37,919 Speaker 2: the breakdown. 148 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:40,480 Speaker 3: You're you're looking at your parents, They're sitting there on 149 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:42,919 Speaker 3: the couch. You musted up the strength to do it. 150 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 3: But as you're sitting there looking at them while they 151 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:48,240 Speaker 3: watching TV as happy as can be, they're the best 152 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:51,360 Speaker 3: couple you know, you can tell them. 153 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:52,840 Speaker 1: Dude, it's and you know what it is. 154 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:56,679 Speaker 2: It is such a double edged sword because on one 155 00:06:56,720 --> 00:06:58,240 Speaker 2: side of the coin, you're looking at them and you're like, 156 00:06:58,400 --> 00:07:00,600 Speaker 2: look at these people that have been high school sweethearts 157 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:03,719 Speaker 2: and that clearly are having such a great relationship and 158 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:07,600 Speaker 2: at the same time, like, I know the truth and 159 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 2: I see that, you know, my mom chose to you know, 160 00:07:11,840 --> 00:07:14,560 Speaker 2: have me and you know, not not tell him and 161 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 2: not be honest with him and then obviously cheat on him. 162 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:25,800 Speaker 3: Uh yeah, dude, I I don't know. Yeah, I have 163 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 3: some I got I kind of okay story time. Yeah 164 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 3: that maybe it's like trauma I need to break through 165 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:36,239 Speaker 3: or whatever, but it is relevant to cheating. But like, honestly, 166 00:07:36,280 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 3: I would want to tell them. I would only want 167 00:07:38,280 --> 00:07:41,040 Speaker 3: to tell them to know, like, hey, I'm upset about this, 168 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 3: Why didn't you keep this from me? Kind of vibe, 169 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 3: But like for the sake of your parents, do you 170 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 3: bring that up? And pause something like oh yeah, Honestly, 171 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:53,920 Speaker 3: I would tell them if my sister was eighteen and 172 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 3: we were both out of the house, I would confront 173 00:07:55,880 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 3: them with it. 174 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:59,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, and we haven't gotten ages yet to your point earlier, 175 00:07:59,120 --> 00:08:01,840 Speaker 2: But I low key have a feeling like they're old 176 00:08:01,880 --> 00:08:05,560 Speaker 2: adults right now. I'm purely guessing based off of like 177 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 2: the way that OPI's like talking about the situation and whatnot, 178 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:11,200 Speaker 2: and the fact that OPI like is going to Reddit 179 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:14,640 Speaker 2: and like writing this story and whatnot. 180 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 1: You know. 181 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 2: My response to your point about do you not tell 182 00:08:19,960 --> 00:08:23,360 Speaker 2: them is you could potentially tell the mom first, because 183 00:08:23,760 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 2: that could, in theory, still keep their relationship intact. But 184 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:31,840 Speaker 2: at least it's a starting place, you know, because the 185 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:34,120 Speaker 2: dad still doesn't know yet, so the relationship isn't like 186 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:37,640 Speaker 2: ruined yet, and maybe you can get some closure or 187 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:40,240 Speaker 2: or or or maybe that helps you make the decision 188 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:43,079 Speaker 2: and tell the dad, because really it's telling the dad 189 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:47,319 Speaker 2: that will ruin the you know, the facade of the 190 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 2: perfect marriage. Riley, we got some relevant comments. 191 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 3: Let's dig into it. I need more context, we really do. 192 00:08:55,160 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 2: Board Pana fifty five says it kind of depends on 193 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 2: the couple, age, religion, et cetera. Interesting to Big Protein's point, 194 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 2: you have literally no idea what happened around conception unless 195 00:09:05,120 --> 00:09:08,200 Speaker 2: they told you something. It's very possible it's something other 196 00:09:08,400 --> 00:09:11,320 Speaker 2: than cheating. I aunt will be honest, that did not 197 00:09:11,360 --> 00:09:12,400 Speaker 2: cross my mind. 198 00:09:12,720 --> 00:09:18,320 Speaker 3: Uh really, maybe I guess they're saying like adoption perhaps, yeah, 199 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:19,440 Speaker 3: could yeah. 200 00:09:19,520 --> 00:09:21,319 Speaker 1: But like that's kind of messed up because then tell 201 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:23,560 Speaker 1: the like, at least yeah, the kid. 202 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:24,560 Speaker 3: But I don't think it is. 203 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:28,559 Speaker 2: I don't know, because it's also also OPI isn't doubting 204 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 2: that his mom is his mom. He's only doubting that 205 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:32,719 Speaker 2: well he I guess he knows that dad is and 206 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:35,640 Speaker 2: his dad. Oh, he probably knows from the DNA test. 207 00:09:35,720 --> 00:09:37,600 Speaker 2: The mom is his mom, but the dad's not his dad. 208 00:09:37,640 --> 00:09:41,600 Speaker 2: He didn't, OPI didn't say it explicitly, but I mean, okay, 209 00:09:41,760 --> 00:09:45,000 Speaker 2: that's basically yeah, that's almost certainly what happened. Maybe talk 210 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 2: to the mom first. I know you are very angry now, 211 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:50,960 Speaker 2: but cheating is only one of multiple reasons for this 212 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 2: last question. Did your DNA test come back one hundred 213 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:57,200 Speaker 2: percent that your mom is your mom? Because that happened 214 00:09:57,200 --> 00:10:00,240 Speaker 2: on REDDA before a guy DNA tested his daughter and 215 00:10:00,280 --> 00:10:03,280 Speaker 2: found out she wasn't him and flipped on his wife. 216 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 2: After tons of work and testing mom, they found out 217 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:09,280 Speaker 2: their child had been switched at the hospital. 218 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:11,560 Speaker 3: Well when do you go find that story that? 219 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:15,839 Speaker 2: Wow, oh my goodness, we do though. Op's response, her 220 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:20,720 Speaker 2: family's never done DNA testing, so I don't know. Oh actually, okay, wow, 221 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:23,480 Speaker 2: all right, our assumption was wrong. My parents have been 222 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:27,120 Speaker 2: honest with me about other embarrassing things. I just can't 223 00:10:27,160 --> 00:10:29,440 Speaker 2: see them keeping something like that from me. But I 224 00:10:29,480 --> 00:10:33,120 Speaker 2: suppose it's possible. What other embarrassing things are in the 225 00:10:33,160 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 2: realm of I cheated on you had a kid with 226 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:40,080 Speaker 2: another guy and lied for the kid's whole life? 227 00:10:40,640 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 1: What other embarrassed that like? 228 00:10:44,400 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 3: To me? 229 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:47,760 Speaker 2: That's beyond embarrassing. Yeah, it obviously is also embarrassing. But 230 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 2: that's like like earth shattering. 231 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:52,000 Speaker 1: Yeah right, I mean. 232 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:55,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, that really is. You just can't can't look. 233 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 2: At I'm the same dude. It's tough. It's really really tough, 234 00:10:59,000 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 2: Zena Sebastian. How old are you? 235 00:11:01,400 --> 00:11:01,600 Speaker 1: Op? 236 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:04,920 Speaker 2: It doesn't really matter. I'm just curious. You should definitely 237 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:08,200 Speaker 2: talk to your mom first. Your dad may know that 238 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:11,000 Speaker 2: you're not his biologically, now that we have seen before 239 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:14,880 Speaker 2: where the parents like I do know that I am aware. Op, 240 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:17,840 Speaker 2: I'm twenty seven, all right, that means you're in the grave? 241 00:11:17,960 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 2: Great cool. 242 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 1: In real okay, real, okay, Fams, you know you know 243 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:24,160 Speaker 1: what I want. 244 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 2: She's young and fruitful, young fu twenty So twenty seven's young, young, 245 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 2: spry bro. What really killed me is so we're referencing 246 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:35,160 Speaker 2: the inside joke of John's old I am the oldest 247 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:37,480 Speaker 2: one of the group by like six months, mind you, 248 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:38,800 Speaker 2: and then in BALI became a joke. 249 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 1: It was great. 250 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:43,280 Speaker 3: This is a millennial. He thinks it is debated. 251 00:11:43,320 --> 00:11:44,080 Speaker 1: It is debated. 252 00:11:44,160 --> 00:11:48,480 Speaker 2: Most people have different There's two sides of the coin, right. Anyways, 253 00:11:49,520 --> 00:11:54,360 Speaker 2: so I am also twenty seven, like this person here, 254 00:11:55,080 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 2: Where was I going with that? 255 00:11:56,640 --> 00:11:57,280 Speaker 1: Twenty seven? 256 00:11:57,440 --> 00:11:59,199 Speaker 3: Oh? I just think you want to tell you when 257 00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:01,040 Speaker 3: you were twenty seven and I'm like thirty two. 258 00:12:01,240 --> 00:12:03,080 Speaker 1: Oh yes, uh. 259 00:12:03,200 --> 00:12:06,480 Speaker 2: The someone there was literally like a string of comments. 260 00:12:06,840 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 2: I think Riley or someone must have said like, oh yeah, 261 00:12:09,040 --> 00:12:11,640 Speaker 2: John's forty or whatever, and we all laughed, right, and 262 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:14,560 Speaker 2: then like a whole string of comments being like John 263 00:12:14,640 --> 00:12:17,200 Speaker 2: is forty, Like that is insane. I thought he was 264 00:12:17,240 --> 00:12:19,280 Speaker 2: like literally in his like late twenties or maybe his 265 00:12:19,360 --> 00:12:20,679 Speaker 2: early thirties or something like that. 266 00:12:20,720 --> 00:12:24,280 Speaker 3: Oh those people really loved dude. They're looking looking out 267 00:12:24,320 --> 00:12:24,560 Speaker 3: for you. 268 00:12:24,880 --> 00:12:26,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's that's up here. 269 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:31,000 Speaker 2: The question is, though, do you take do you go, hey, 270 00:12:31,200 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 2: I am wow, you look so good for being old, 271 00:12:34,720 --> 00:12:38,080 Speaker 2: or do you take wow, really you're that long young? 272 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:40,160 Speaker 1: You look way older. Hmm. 273 00:12:41,559 --> 00:12:43,880 Speaker 3: Every time someone tells me their age, like there's no 274 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:46,760 Speaker 3: way like older women will be like I'm sick. Same. 275 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:48,640 Speaker 3: I there's no way I thought you were like forty eight. 276 00:12:49,160 --> 00:12:51,440 Speaker 3: I always take it. I always take it down twelve years. 277 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:51,880 Speaker 1: Up, dude. 278 00:12:51,960 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 3: I mean sometimes it does shock me. Like older women 279 00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:58,800 Speaker 3: in their seventies that are getting around, well, I honestly 280 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:01,200 Speaker 3: think they're like fifty and they're like, I'm seventy two, 281 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:03,000 Speaker 3: and I'm like, what the heck? That's crazy. 282 00:13:03,559 --> 00:13:05,640 Speaker 1: Men are ugly, dude. Yeah, it's crazy. 283 00:13:05,679 --> 00:13:09,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, most of them, most of them. Yeah, yeah, nothing. 284 00:13:09,559 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 3: No man's beauty can compare to a woman. 285 00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:14,040 Speaker 1: It's crazy, dude. It's like, not even close. It's not 286 00:13:14,080 --> 00:13:14,520 Speaker 1: even close. 287 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:15,959 Speaker 3: This has comeing from two straight guys. 288 00:13:15,960 --> 00:13:18,559 Speaker 1: This is coming from men. All right. Men are ugly. 289 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:21,000 Speaker 1: I said it, and I meant it. 290 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 2: But anyway, it's back to a p I'm twenty seven, 291 00:13:23,760 --> 00:13:25,840 Speaker 2: and you're right that it doesn't matter. 292 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:30,800 Speaker 1: Keep keeping that fun for us. It does, It really does. Though. 293 00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:34,200 Speaker 2: I know people think I'm acting immature by jumping to cheating, 294 00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:36,480 Speaker 2: but my gut is telling me that it can't be 295 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:39,320 Speaker 2: something as simple as a sperm donor or adoption. 296 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:40,560 Speaker 1: We're family. 297 00:13:40,679 --> 00:13:43,320 Speaker 2: We tell each other everything, me and my dad especially, 298 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:46,439 Speaker 2: and I can't believe that they'd hide something so important 299 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:47,880 Speaker 2: as who gave me. 300 00:13:47,880 --> 00:13:51,240 Speaker 1: The blood in my veins? I don't know. I don't know, 301 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:53,280 Speaker 1: and I won't know until I talk to my mom. 302 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:56,079 Speaker 3: Hmmm. When you put it like so like they're hav 303 00:13:56,080 --> 00:14:01,040 Speaker 3: any like an identity kind of saying like who am 304 00:14:01,120 --> 00:14:03,640 Speaker 3: I really? Because I like, under this supression, I thought 305 00:14:03,679 --> 00:14:07,520 Speaker 3: I was this person, but now I'm not, so I mean, yeah, 306 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:08,440 Speaker 3: figure this out. 307 00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:10,920 Speaker 2: Yeah you kind of like I feel like that could 308 00:14:10,960 --> 00:14:14,480 Speaker 2: definitely just cause a spiral of thoughts in your head 309 00:14:14,480 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 2: of like like who am I? Like this this such 310 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:22,440 Speaker 2: a fundamental it's like multiple things because it's like I 311 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 2: am not the child of my father. This guy is 312 00:14:26,680 --> 00:14:30,080 Speaker 2: actually my father. My parents' relationship isn't when I thought 313 00:14:30,120 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 2: it is, What is it that my mom did here? 314 00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:36,120 Speaker 2: If if she did something nefarious? You know, like it 315 00:14:36,280 --> 00:14:40,840 Speaker 2: just calls into question a lot of different things, and 316 00:14:40,880 --> 00:14:44,240 Speaker 2: it's low key, like especially tough if there's like another 317 00:14:44,360 --> 00:14:49,720 Speaker 2: kid and they're like either obviously or most likely the 318 00:14:49,840 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 2: actual kid of the two of them, and you realize 319 00:14:52,640 --> 00:14:58,000 Speaker 2: like you're the Yeah, I'm sorry, OPI that was Yeah, that. 320 00:14:58,360 --> 00:15:01,520 Speaker 3: Is what you are, and you just gotta like yeah, 321 00:15:01,520 --> 00:15:02,040 Speaker 3: it's kind of. 322 00:15:01,960 --> 00:15:04,880 Speaker 2: Like lots of people are accidents, like, yeah, it's it's 323 00:15:04,920 --> 00:15:05,880 Speaker 2: I was an accident. 324 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:08,600 Speaker 3: There, it is, I was an accident. 325 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:12,200 Speaker 1: There, I really was, dude, and my world would not 326 00:15:12,240 --> 00:15:12,960 Speaker 1: be the same without you. 327 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:14,320 Speaker 3: No. I tell my family all the time with the 328 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:15,960 Speaker 3: glue to their family, because if it wasn't for me, 329 00:15:16,480 --> 00:15:18,040 Speaker 3: none of them would be there. And I don't know 330 00:15:18,120 --> 00:15:20,560 Speaker 3: if they actually think it's a joke, but I mean it. 331 00:15:21,280 --> 00:15:24,000 Speaker 1: Brought ay Riley said it, and he meant it. 332 00:15:24,040 --> 00:15:24,520 Speaker 3: I meant to. 333 00:15:24,680 --> 00:15:28,000 Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen, diligent course six one six also meant 334 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:30,200 Speaker 2: it when they said, let me ask you some advice 335 00:15:30,280 --> 00:15:31,440 Speaker 2: from a step parent. 336 00:15:31,240 --> 00:15:34,000 Speaker 1: In a similar situation. Oh wow, that's kind of wild. 337 00:15:34,800 --> 00:15:37,400 Speaker 2: Would you have been preferred that you were told the 338 00:15:37,400 --> 00:15:40,120 Speaker 2: truth since you were old enough to understand, or have 339 00:15:40,240 --> 00:15:42,840 Speaker 2: it continued to be kept a secret knowing how you 340 00:15:42,880 --> 00:15:43,520 Speaker 2: feel now? 341 00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:46,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, this is good. 342 00:15:46,240 --> 00:15:47,080 Speaker 1: That's what we want to know. 343 00:15:47,480 --> 00:15:50,400 Speaker 2: I don't want to lie to my stepdaughter, who calls 344 00:15:50,440 --> 00:15:54,120 Speaker 2: me daddy and has only known me as so obviously 345 00:15:54,280 --> 00:15:56,480 Speaker 2: being five years old wouldn't comprehend much. 346 00:15:56,520 --> 00:15:59,160 Speaker 1: Anyways. I don't know. I guess I'll figure out when 347 00:15:59,320 --> 00:16:00,000 Speaker 1: the time. 348 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:02,920 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, Okay, I've been through the ringer on 349 00:16:02,960 --> 00:16:06,640 Speaker 3: this too. Like growing up, I'm getting more parent lore 350 00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:09,960 Speaker 3: and I'm kind of like, honestly wish she would have 351 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:13,240 Speaker 3: told me. It would have mattered younger. But now that 352 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:15,800 Speaker 3: I'm knowing this at my age, you can process it 353 00:16:15,920 --> 00:16:18,040 Speaker 3: like I don't even know what to do this information. Yeah, 354 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:21,000 Speaker 3: like this is some like deep cut stuff. But my 355 00:16:21,040 --> 00:16:23,400 Speaker 3: mom and dad got in a fight one time, mind you. 356 00:16:23,440 --> 00:16:26,160 Speaker 3: My dad's six eight, my mom's five to five, and 357 00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:29,600 Speaker 3: my dad got like I think he got on like 358 00:16:29,680 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 3: some like drug or alcohol or something I don't know, like, 359 00:16:34,080 --> 00:16:38,760 Speaker 3: and he was passed out in my great grandpa's front 360 00:16:38,800 --> 00:16:41,560 Speaker 3: yard and they had to call the ambulance. Well, two 361 00:16:41,640 --> 00:16:44,760 Speaker 3: years later, I'm talking to my mom about it. Turns 362 00:16:44,760 --> 00:16:47,240 Speaker 3: out he didn't pass out because of the drug. He 363 00:16:47,280 --> 00:16:49,920 Speaker 3: passed out because she knocked his ass out. She punched 364 00:16:49,960 --> 00:16:53,360 Speaker 3: him in the face and knocked him out. And like, wow, 365 00:16:53,400 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 3: if she would have told me then what happened, how 366 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:57,560 Speaker 3: would I feel about it? But now knowing now, like 367 00:16:57,640 --> 00:17:00,320 Speaker 3: I don't really know what to do that information. Hair 368 00:17:00,360 --> 00:17:02,520 Speaker 3: Like it was a bad place, but kind of crazy 369 00:17:02,560 --> 00:17:04,800 Speaker 3: that my five to five mom knocked out my six 370 00:17:04,920 --> 00:17:07,680 Speaker 3: eight dad dude in the face. I really hope she's 371 00:17:07,720 --> 00:17:09,520 Speaker 3: not watching this. I think she would be so pissed 372 00:17:09,640 --> 00:17:12,119 Speaker 3: that I said this. But like, yeah, what when do 373 00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:15,600 Speaker 3: you tell a kid like, because whenever you mess up 374 00:17:15,600 --> 00:17:18,280 Speaker 3: as a parent, when's the when is the appropriate time 375 00:17:18,280 --> 00:17:20,399 Speaker 3: to be like, Hey, this is what the actual truth 376 00:17:20,480 --> 00:17:23,880 Speaker 3: is rather this facade that we have given you. 377 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:27,160 Speaker 2: I will, I will admit, like, obviously we've come across 378 00:17:27,200 --> 00:17:29,640 Speaker 2: these situations many times in these stories, and I don't 379 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:33,000 Speaker 2: think I ever like fully sat down and considered, like, well, 380 00:17:33,119 --> 00:17:38,199 Speaker 2: one thing about telling them younger is like there's not 381 00:17:38,320 --> 00:17:41,040 Speaker 2: as like when you're older you can process the gravity 382 00:17:41,080 --> 00:17:43,800 Speaker 2: of what it actually means, and that like kind of 383 00:17:43,880 --> 00:17:46,639 Speaker 2: hits you a lot harder or I mean younger you 384 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:49,680 Speaker 2: could it's you're less in touch with your emotions and stuff. 385 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:52,760 Speaker 2: But like, I guess one could argue that that is 386 00:17:52,840 --> 00:17:55,359 Speaker 2: like one pro of like, hey, tell them as early 387 00:17:55,400 --> 00:17:59,439 Speaker 2: as possible because they won't have as much gravity and 388 00:17:59,480 --> 00:18:03,960 Speaker 2: they will learn over time to like understand it and 389 00:18:03,960 --> 00:18:07,040 Speaker 2: and make peace with it or whatever, versus like you 390 00:18:07,080 --> 00:18:09,440 Speaker 2: wait till they're old enough and then you tell them, 391 00:18:09,440 --> 00:18:11,760 Speaker 2: and then it's kind of like earth, you know, you 392 00:18:11,760 --> 00:18:13,480 Speaker 2: give them a whole childhood of happiness or. 393 00:18:13,480 --> 00:18:15,280 Speaker 1: Whatever it is, and you kind of shatter there. 394 00:18:15,480 --> 00:18:18,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's kind of dude, it's impossible, Like it's impossible, 395 00:18:18,560 --> 00:18:22,320 Speaker 2: I see, I see why Again, there's kind of like 396 00:18:23,160 --> 00:18:27,440 Speaker 2: things on on on both approaches that, but they both 397 00:18:27,480 --> 00:18:31,000 Speaker 2: have pros and cons they Yeah, it's kind of impossible. 398 00:18:31,000 --> 00:18:32,840 Speaker 1: It is low key impossible. 399 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:35,760 Speaker 3: Learning more parent lore. I don't look at my childhood 400 00:18:35,800 --> 00:18:37,320 Speaker 3: and be like I had a bad childhood. I still 401 00:18:37,320 --> 00:18:38,800 Speaker 3: look at and be like I had a great childhood. 402 00:18:38,880 --> 00:18:39,359 Speaker 1: Yeah. Same. 403 00:18:39,480 --> 00:18:41,119 Speaker 2: I I think it's like kind of hard for me 404 00:18:41,160 --> 00:18:42,720 Speaker 2: to like look back at my childhood and be like, 405 00:18:42,760 --> 00:18:47,840 Speaker 2: oh this is like this, like it's the rose tinted glasses, 406 00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:48,480 Speaker 2: like it's there. 407 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:49,960 Speaker 3: I wasn't really that traumatized. 408 00:18:50,160 --> 00:18:52,160 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, same. 409 00:18:52,320 --> 00:18:54,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, sorry, going to answer, yeah, yeah. 410 00:18:54,760 --> 00:18:55,160 Speaker 1: Good good. 411 00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:57,520 Speaker 3: That's such a like hard question to figure out. 412 00:18:57,520 --> 00:19:00,439 Speaker 2: It is a kind of impossible. Well, okay, so Opie 413 00:19:00,480 --> 00:19:02,720 Speaker 2: responds to that. I'm pretty raw right now, so I 414 00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:04,720 Speaker 2: would take it with a grain of salts. But I'd 415 00:19:04,760 --> 00:19:07,920 Speaker 2: wish that I had known either way, I'd have known 416 00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:10,640 Speaker 2: my dad loves me as I'm sure your stepdaughter does. 417 00:19:11,040 --> 00:19:13,720 Speaker 2: But if I had known, then I wouldn't feel so 418 00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:17,359 Speaker 2: shocked and betrayed right now. Also, what happens if your 419 00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:20,399 Speaker 2: daughter grows up, moves out, and then gets sick. She 420 00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:23,040 Speaker 2: won't be able to give the doctors an accurate family history, 421 00:19:23,080 --> 00:19:25,760 Speaker 2: which is another thing that we've seen many times. And 422 00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:28,320 Speaker 2: if she gives them the family history thinking that you're 423 00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:32,080 Speaker 2: her bio mom, that might actually lead her medical team astray. 424 00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:36,240 Speaker 2: She deserves to know where she comes from. 425 00:19:36,520 --> 00:19:38,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I do. 426 00:19:38,560 --> 00:19:42,320 Speaker 2: I mean, I mean again, it's an impossible thing, but 427 00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:45,399 Speaker 2: I mean, op, like and you know that that was 428 00:19:45,440 --> 00:19:46,800 Speaker 2: good that they were like, hey, take this with a 429 00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:49,280 Speaker 2: grain of salt. I'm kind of like in the thick 430 00:19:49,320 --> 00:19:51,440 Speaker 2: of it right now, so I'm in a maybe more 431 00:19:51,560 --> 00:19:53,080 Speaker 2: turbulent mental state. 432 00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:55,720 Speaker 1: But like OPI's answer. 433 00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:58,200 Speaker 2: Is like, yeah, I would have preferred to have known 434 00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:00,600 Speaker 2: and for the for all the the reasons that we 435 00:20:00,760 --> 00:20:01,080 Speaker 2: just had. 436 00:20:01,119 --> 00:20:04,920 Speaker 3: So I'm still trying to think of a good age 437 00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:09,320 Speaker 3: to tell someone like like a let's say you have 438 00:20:09,359 --> 00:20:12,440 Speaker 3: a kid and you found out it's actually not your kid, 439 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:13,920 Speaker 3: and then you have to grow it up, but you 440 00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:16,000 Speaker 3: still love that kid. When do you want to tell them? 441 00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:17,639 Speaker 3: At what age you tell them, Hey, I'm actually not 442 00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:22,280 Speaker 3: your dad, but I think eighteen. I think eighteen that's 443 00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:25,320 Speaker 3: whenever you can just shatter their world. You're protecting them 444 00:20:25,359 --> 00:20:27,199 Speaker 3: and everything, and then like eighteen you're like, all right, 445 00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:27,800 Speaker 3: here you go. 446 00:20:27,960 --> 00:20:29,000 Speaker 1: Well it's the real news. 447 00:20:29,200 --> 00:20:31,840 Speaker 3: Right after you graduated at a high school. Boom you 448 00:20:31,840 --> 00:20:32,600 Speaker 3: put you drop it on. 449 00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:34,440 Speaker 1: I do have one. I do have one. 450 00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:38,600 Speaker 2: So actually this was one of our like long episodes, 451 00:20:38,640 --> 00:20:41,000 Speaker 2: definitely an hour hour plus, I think, true solo for me, 452 00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:45,800 Speaker 2: I think, And it was basically the situation that the 453 00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:49,760 Speaker 2: guy was not the real dad and he was like stepdad. 454 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:52,400 Speaker 2: Did he find out? I can't remember, but he basically 455 00:20:52,600 --> 00:20:55,760 Speaker 2: this was not the biological father, but in all intentsive 456 00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:58,600 Speaker 2: purposes absolutely was the dad to this to this child. 457 00:20:58,960 --> 00:21:00,480 Speaker 1: Child was like five ors old or something. 458 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:04,160 Speaker 2: So he did this exercise where he sat down with 459 00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:09,000 Speaker 2: the daughter and he's like, hey, we are going to 460 00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:12,000 Speaker 2: you have your your favorite teddy. You know you have 461 00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:13,959 Speaker 2: your stuff teddy. You know how much you love him 462 00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:14,840 Speaker 2: all you love him so much. 463 00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:16,160 Speaker 1: Let's build. 464 00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:20,840 Speaker 2: Let's build, uh, you know, a lego version of the teddy. 465 00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:22,879 Speaker 2: And she's like, oh, how fun, Like, oh, this is great. 466 00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:26,920 Speaker 2: So they build it the lego version and then uh. 467 00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:29,920 Speaker 2: He's like, oh, this is your This is your teddy now, right, 468 00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:32,439 Speaker 2: this is your teddy. And she's like, uh no, no, 469 00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:35,240 Speaker 2: you know this this is my teddy. And he was like, no, 470 00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:37,520 Speaker 2: but you made this, Like this teddy just kind of 471 00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:40,600 Speaker 2: you know, found found its way to you. You literally 472 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:43,760 Speaker 2: created this and that you don't like, that's not your teddy, 473 00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:45,399 Speaker 2: that's not the teddy that you know and love. And 474 00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:49,400 Speaker 2: she's like no, He's like, well that's you know, you're 475 00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:54,080 Speaker 2: my teddy. And just because I didn't make you, you know, 476 00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:56,200 Speaker 2: just like you you know, you made this doesn't mean 477 00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:57,479 Speaker 2: I love you any lesson. 478 00:21:57,560 --> 00:21:59,240 Speaker 1: I love you like you love Teddy. 479 00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:03,000 Speaker 3: That's such a good point. I love that. It's kind 480 00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:05,840 Speaker 3: of that because you honestly should tell them, but you 481 00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:08,320 Speaker 3: should figure out a way to communicate to them at 482 00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:09,000 Speaker 3: their age. 483 00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:11,399 Speaker 1: Yes, which and so and so. 484 00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:15,479 Speaker 2: Then if you tell them now, they probably Now of 485 00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:16,639 Speaker 2: course they could get upset. 486 00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:19,760 Speaker 1: Yeah right, but like I. 487 00:22:19,640 --> 00:22:23,679 Speaker 2: Again, they because they don't understand the full gravity and 488 00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:27,000 Speaker 2: implications of it. It has the potential of not only 489 00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:29,560 Speaker 2: hitting them less in the moment, but if they can 490 00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:33,560 Speaker 2: grow with it over time, they can learn to They 491 00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:36,800 Speaker 2: just have that time to process and make peace with it. 492 00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:39,359 Speaker 2: Now there's other things of like, you know, knowing that 493 00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:41,600 Speaker 2: all through their childhood, maybe that gives them some trauma 494 00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:44,520 Speaker 2: and other other things, things of that nature. But wow, 495 00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:47,800 Speaker 2: it's it, dude, It's just so impossible. Such a yeah, 496 00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:48,840 Speaker 2: it's so impossible. 497 00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:49,440 Speaker 3: That's good. 498 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:54,200 Speaker 1: I totally forget about that, right right, But Riley, But 499 00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:54,760 Speaker 1: there's more. 500 00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 3: Oh, there's more. 501 00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:59,120 Speaker 2: We have the update and this is January ninth, which 502 00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:00,680 Speaker 2: is I believe six days later. 503 00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:03,120 Speaker 3: Oh, this is one update, oh man. 504 00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:07,280 Speaker 2: Six days later. We have the updates that we're reading now. 505 00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:11,199 Speaker 2: All right, So first off, I want to say y'all, 506 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:16,040 Speaker 2: we're half right, huh, half right about what. Secondly, I 507 00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:18,760 Speaker 2: want to explain in more depth why I didn't think 508 00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:21,119 Speaker 2: it could be a sperm done put I see you 509 00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:24,160 Speaker 2: in the comments if you uh are guessing what's about 510 00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:27,840 Speaker 2: to go down. My family, my dad especially, hold honesty 511 00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:32,120 Speaker 2: as one of, if not the highest values. The angriest 512 00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:34,399 Speaker 2: I've ever seen my dad was when I covered up 513 00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:36,800 Speaker 2: a bad grade in high school. Now, he never hit 514 00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:39,880 Speaker 2: me or ever really came close, but he shouted and 515 00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:42,840 Speaker 2: made me feel like a piece of crap. My point 516 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:45,960 Speaker 2: is that lying is considered the greatest sin in my 517 00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:48,919 Speaker 2: dad's eyes. He's always told me that a man is 518 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:51,679 Speaker 2: only as good as his word, which also was another 519 00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:56,760 Speaker 2: thing that like messed up OP so much because they're like, yo, 520 00:23:56,880 --> 00:23:59,960 Speaker 2: my dad values on that, like that is his thing. 521 00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:03,800 Speaker 2: Like he's like, just be honest to me, you know. Yeah, 522 00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:06,680 Speaker 2: And he's like my mom, you know, broke again, assuming 523 00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:09,720 Speaker 2: that she went and had like an a fair child. Yeah, 524 00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:12,760 Speaker 2: the thought of my dad keeping something like that for 525 00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:16,320 Speaker 2: me was nearly unthinkable. The reason I went straight to 526 00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:20,160 Speaker 2: cheating rather than something like SA was that I don't 527 00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:23,280 Speaker 2: look at all like my dad. Because of this, my 528 00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:27,639 Speaker 2: cousins teased me my whole childhood. They called my mom 529 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:35,600 Speaker 2: a or behind her back, oh my god what oh, 530 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:39,080 Speaker 2: and combined with my rocky relationship with my mom, has 531 00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:42,600 Speaker 2: always made me suspect that my mom had cheated. The 532 00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:45,840 Speaker 2: DNA test only confirmed my suspicions. Like, honestly, that is 533 00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:50,320 Speaker 2: like when you grow up kind of thinking in the 534 00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:52,239 Speaker 2: back of your head, that's messed up. 535 00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:58,520 Speaker 3: That's honestly red flag for the cousin's parents telling them, dude, 536 00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:05,760 Speaker 3: telling them that you know, that's a oh yeah, guys. 537 00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:07,520 Speaker 1: Guys, I don't sport. 538 00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:10,479 Speaker 2: Okay, you might see me on Okay Sports, the new 539 00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:12,960 Speaker 2: Okay studio show coming out, but I don't sport. 540 00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:14,440 Speaker 1: All right, we got that settled. Now we're going to 541 00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:15,440 Speaker 1: try to float through the flag. 542 00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:19,600 Speaker 3: Oh oh word, there we go, red flag. All right, 543 00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:22,280 Speaker 3: talk to the cousin's parents because like, why are you 544 00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:24,840 Speaker 3: telling the kids that? And then the kids were like, 545 00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:27,600 Speaker 3: your mom's a whore. Dude, like you only joke like 546 00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:30,200 Speaker 3: you a whore. But like the way they said it, like. 547 00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:32,760 Speaker 1: They meant they meant it, they meant it. They're like, 548 00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:33,880 Speaker 1: we want this to hurt. 549 00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:37,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, red flag, you don't tell you kids, Like, yeah 550 00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:41,200 Speaker 3: I did. Yeah, I've been in situations where I learned 551 00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:43,639 Speaker 3: certain information about certain family members, but I didn't do 552 00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:45,359 Speaker 3: anything about it, and it came up the appropriate time, 553 00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:46,280 Speaker 3: But I did not say, like. 554 00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:49,320 Speaker 2: We're not the one you were not such a yeah, 555 00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:52,359 Speaker 2: because then the powers in your hands to blow up 556 00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:55,399 Speaker 2: a family or like whatever, and you chose I'm not 557 00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:56,880 Speaker 2: gonna do it, not gonna do it, take the high 558 00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:59,160 Speaker 2: road till Obama. 559 00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:01,240 Speaker 3: I'm just let's go. 560 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:02,240 Speaker 1: Let's go. 561 00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:05,960 Speaker 2: So the DNA test only confirmed my suspicions, which is 562 00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:10,080 Speaker 2: why I was so adamant that that is what happened. Now, 563 00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:13,240 Speaker 2: with a clear head, I realized how these biases were 564 00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:16,960 Speaker 2: affecting my judgment, which again we were like, hey, ope 565 00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:20,159 Speaker 2: in this moment, as there's a lot of process, and 566 00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:22,760 Speaker 2: you know, it's been six days, so a little bit 567 00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:24,800 Speaker 2: of time to you know, get even keel and think 568 00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:27,360 Speaker 2: about it. Anyway, I called my mom the other day 569 00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:30,320 Speaker 2: and explained about the DNA test. She chuckled, and instead 570 00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:33,119 Speaker 2: of confessing to cheating like I thought she would, lady 571 00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:35,639 Speaker 2: using a sperm donor like you guys thought she would, 572 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:40,520 Speaker 2: she said to me, I guess we couldn't keep this forever. Okay, 573 00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:43,879 Speaker 2: I guess it's time you knew, and then proceeded to 574 00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:48,800 Speaker 2: tell me this absolutely wild story. 575 00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:51,520 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, no, I don't even I don't even 576 00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:51,919 Speaker 3: want to know. 577 00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:54,760 Speaker 2: I'm gonna be honest. Oh wait wait wait wait, but 578 00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:56,080 Speaker 2: oh boy. 579 00:26:56,040 --> 00:27:01,320 Speaker 3: Oh all right, I don't no, no, he's gonna have 580 00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:02,119 Speaker 3: to toss it again. 581 00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:08,640 Speaker 2: Whereas ready, yeah, two for two. I'm just so afraid 582 00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:14,040 Speaker 2: of hitting the lights. Okay, okay, tin FOI hot conspiracy. 583 00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:18,200 Speaker 2: So actually I really don't know what's about to happen. 584 00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:20,840 Speaker 2: I'll be honest I have no idea, but we're gonna 585 00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:23,719 Speaker 2: speculate wildly because this is the tinfoil conspiracy hat segment. 586 00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:29,000 Speaker 1: What is it? What is it? 587 00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:31,919 Speaker 3: I don't even know. I feel like there's a movie 588 00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:34,159 Speaker 3: reference here where it's like, all right, it's time for 589 00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:35,840 Speaker 3: you to know, and then they like sit you down 590 00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:38,680 Speaker 3: and like give you a cup of whatever, and it's 591 00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:41,000 Speaker 3: like so long, long, long time ago. 592 00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:43,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what it feels like. This is like the 593 00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:45,359 Speaker 1: Matrix red pill right here. 594 00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:47,080 Speaker 3: I just want to stop. I want to I'm wanna. 595 00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:49,399 Speaker 3: I don't even want to know. Honestly, it's gonna be 596 00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:51,119 Speaker 3: the end of the episode. 597 00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:52,720 Speaker 1: Just call it. Just call it right here. 598 00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:58,199 Speaker 2: If I'm if I'm making a guess, I mean, so 599 00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:00,600 Speaker 2: it seems like so I'm reading the context schools here. 600 00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:03,359 Speaker 3: Right the twin was infertile. 601 00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:04,640 Speaker 1: The twin was infertile. 602 00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:08,640 Speaker 2: It seems like Opie said, like, oh, like it wasn't. 603 00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:11,600 Speaker 2: Opie's hinting like it's something like a sperm donor, but 604 00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:20,480 Speaker 2: not a sperm donor. Maybe it was it like was 605 00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:23,480 Speaker 2: it was it like a family member sperm? 606 00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:26,840 Speaker 3: So like when you but Dave was not of the family, 607 00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:30,040 Speaker 3: Do it like that? That random dude was not of. 608 00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:31,600 Speaker 1: The family, the random dude. 609 00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:33,199 Speaker 3: What do you mean? All right, go on, go on 610 00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:34,000 Speaker 3: with the conspiracy. 611 00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:38,040 Speaker 2: Sorry, you're good, Okay, I think I okay, this is 612 00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:40,600 Speaker 2: my best conspiracy theory. When you think sperm donor, what 613 00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:43,040 Speaker 2: do you think, you think like a sperm bank right 614 00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:44,440 Speaker 2: where it's like a random person. 615 00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:48,360 Speaker 1: I wonder if it was off just going crazy. 616 00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:51,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I wonder if this was a sperm donor, but 617 00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:55,760 Speaker 2: it was like a family member that like again, didn't 618 00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:58,760 Speaker 2: you know, did it the uh you know not? 619 00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:00,200 Speaker 1: Not not the. 620 00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:02,680 Speaker 2: Old fashioned way if you catch my drift, not not 621 00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:04,440 Speaker 2: like sleeping with the mom to get her pregnant, but 622 00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:08,040 Speaker 2: like was like the mom was like, hey, my husband's infertile. 623 00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:14,120 Speaker 1: Would you be willing to donate some sperm? And you know, 624 00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:14,440 Speaker 1: do it? 625 00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:17,080 Speaker 2: Do it through the whole actual donation process, so they 626 00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:20,600 Speaker 2: don't actually like blink and then that's how they did it, 627 00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:22,120 Speaker 2: or maybe a family friend or something. 628 00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:23,440 Speaker 3: But okay, that's so good. 629 00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:25,560 Speaker 2: I like that and so and so that's the reason 630 00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:27,400 Speaker 2: why op was like, you think it's a sperm donor 631 00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:29,160 Speaker 2: because you think it's the sperm donor in the sense 632 00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:32,120 Speaker 2: of like some random in a book, that's my best 633 00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:33,080 Speaker 2: I mean, what do you got? 634 00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:33,840 Speaker 1: What do you got for us? 635 00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:36,040 Speaker 3: So that that checks out. I thought it was like, 636 00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:38,560 Speaker 3: your dad couldn't get me pregnant, so we paid this 637 00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:40,520 Speaker 3: dude to get you pregnant. I just saw a relevant 638 00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:42,360 Speaker 3: story like that long ago. So I didn't know if. 639 00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:45,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. Maybe this is the long 640 00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 2: lost update to that story or something. 641 00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:48,760 Speaker 3: See, I don't know. 642 00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:52,280 Speaker 2: Let's get uh, let's get back into reality producer Riley. 643 00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:57,080 Speaker 1: So she told me what I'd already guessed about my 644 00:29:57,160 --> 00:29:58,040 Speaker 1: dad's fertility. 645 00:29:58,120 --> 00:30:02,520 Speaker 2: Okay, that he's completely unable to have biological kids. 646 00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:04,040 Speaker 3: Oh wait, what about Okay? 647 00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:10,040 Speaker 2: Sorry, sister, all right, Apparently my parents didn't have cash 648 00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:12,840 Speaker 2: to pay a sperm donor or an adoption, but they 649 00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:16,080 Speaker 2: wanted a kid more than anything in the world. What 650 00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:18,520 Speaker 2: they agreed to do was for my mom to drive 651 00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:23,680 Speaker 2: to the next state over and have unprotected intercourse with 652 00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:27,960 Speaker 2: men in hopes that she would get pregnant. 653 00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:32,240 Speaker 1: I am, wow, my mind is blown. 654 00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:35,720 Speaker 3: Go get hasn honey, Wow. 655 00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:38,440 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie that through me for a loop. 656 00:30:38,800 --> 00:30:43,960 Speaker 2: So I literally wasn't even thinking about that. I literally 657 00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:45,880 Speaker 2: wasn't even. 658 00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:50,719 Speaker 1: Oh you know, they just adopt. Why did Why did 659 00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:51,479 Speaker 1: the money? 660 00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:55,280 Speaker 2: They said money because adoption is like a long, laborious, 661 00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:57,120 Speaker 2: expensive process. 662 00:30:57,320 --> 00:31:04,120 Speaker 3: So a moment of silence. Dude, wow all right' wow okayah, 663 00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:04,800 Speaker 3: that's nuts. 664 00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:05,200 Speaker 1: Okay. 665 00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:08,840 Speaker 2: Apparently she tried to choose guys who had similar features 666 00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:13,200 Speaker 2: to my dad so the extended family wouldn't get suspicious. 667 00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:16,480 Speaker 2: Luckily for my parents, my sister came out looking like 668 00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:19,720 Speaker 2: a clone of my mom. Three years later, my parents 669 00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:23,880 Speaker 2: did the same thing, and that's where I came from. Oh, 670 00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:28,880 Speaker 2: the sister was too, but she literally, oh wow, oh 671 00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:30,400 Speaker 2: she literally just looks like the mom. 672 00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:33,600 Speaker 1: That is wild. 673 00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:35,600 Speaker 3: The fact that they were like, we want another one. 674 00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:42,920 Speaker 3: You're right, yeah, that's crazy. 675 00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:46,680 Speaker 2: As I said before, I look nothing like my dad. 676 00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:48,880 Speaker 2: I do have some features from my mom's side of 677 00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:52,120 Speaker 2: the family, but absolutely none from my dad's side. Other 678 00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:54,520 Speaker 2: than that, I have lots of freckles, and so does 679 00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:57,280 Speaker 2: my dad and a few of his relatives. Turns out 680 00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:01,600 Speaker 2: my biological father is also covered in freckles. I asked 681 00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:03,840 Speaker 2: my mom if my sister knows, and she said that 682 00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:05,960 Speaker 2: my sister does not. 683 00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:06,600 Speaker 1: No. 684 00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:10,000 Speaker 2: My mom asked me for help telling my sister because 685 00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:12,280 Speaker 2: my sister has been hinting that she wants a DNA 686 00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:15,360 Speaker 2: test before having kids, which she wants to have soon. 687 00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:22,360 Speaker 2: I agreed, final part of the story here. I'll be 688 00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:24,360 Speaker 2: going over to my sister's place to talk to her 689 00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:27,880 Speaker 2: soon and the current plan is to have my parents 690 00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:31,360 Speaker 2: on zoom. I don't think I'll be updating again. So 691 00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:33,960 Speaker 2: get your I told you sos out of the way. 692 00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:36,680 Speaker 2: Now what do you mean You're not gonna update again? Lowell, 693 00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:39,640 Speaker 2: Leave us high and dry. Leave us high and dry. 694 00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:43,880 Speaker 1: Wow, wow, wow, wow, I'm again. 695 00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:47,360 Speaker 3: That is the most wild DNA test that I have heard. 696 00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:53,520 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm kind of speechless, like, although, okay, so. 697 00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:53,920 Speaker 3: So what what do you what are you getting that? 698 00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:54,840 Speaker 3: What do you getting out here? 699 00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:55,560 Speaker 1: So? 700 00:32:56,360 --> 00:33:00,520 Speaker 2: This was they both agree to it, right they that's 701 00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:04,160 Speaker 2: something Yeah, like this like it wasn't. It wasn't the 702 00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:06,440 Speaker 2: mom going off cheating. It wasn't like, oh my god, 703 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:09,440 Speaker 2: she portrayed his trust. How could you do that? They 704 00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:13,239 Speaker 2: were like, hey, we don't have the means a you 705 00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:16,640 Speaker 2: know what A plus for creativity I guess, and thinking 706 00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:19,600 Speaker 2: outside of the box by getting in the box. Uh 707 00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:26,719 Speaker 2: oh yeah, So I mean, wow, I I really I 708 00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:29,600 Speaker 2: really am. Y'all just just I'm just a little thrown 709 00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:32,440 Speaker 2: for a loop. I wonder did anyone got y'all, did 710 00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:36,000 Speaker 2: anyone watching this when we went ten fol conspiracy, did 711 00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:39,520 Speaker 2: anyone guess that? Because I really never could I really 712 00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:43,760 Speaker 2: never could have guessed that. I really really not like. 713 00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:48,720 Speaker 3: The heck, that's insane. I really don't. I cannot like, 714 00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:53,360 Speaker 3: I can't justify it and or calment about it. I 715 00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:55,280 Speaker 3: don't even know what to say. I didn't know what 716 00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:57,480 Speaker 3: to say. This is a good or bad thing? Yeah, 717 00:33:57,720 --> 00:33:58,440 Speaker 3: that's insane. 718 00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:02,440 Speaker 2: It's it's it's definitely like in again, what are we 719 00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:05,680 Speaker 2: at now? Probably like twenty eight hundred, twenty nine, we're 720 00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:07,960 Speaker 2: getting we're getting up to three thousand stories. Hold on, 721 00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:09,760 Speaker 2: hold on, let's see, let's see. It really is probably 722 00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:12,600 Speaker 2: like close to fifteen hundred, yeah, fifteen hundred. Anyways, Yeah, 723 00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:16,080 Speaker 2: thanks for seventeen fifty seventeen fifty something like that. Like 724 00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:18,759 Speaker 2: we're y'all, we're deep. We have never seen this. No, 725 00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:20,160 Speaker 2: we have never seen this. 726 00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:24,759 Speaker 3: No, I don't all willingly both sides allowing that to 727 00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:28,799 Speaker 3: happen because they want a kid someone to love. I mean, 728 00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:32,319 Speaker 3: I'm just sad that it didn't have enough money to Yeah, 729 00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:33,760 Speaker 3: do adoption. 730 00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:36,520 Speaker 2: Of course, like you like again, like best best case 731 00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:40,400 Speaker 2: scenario is probably something along the lines of, they, you know, 732 00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:43,600 Speaker 2: have the financial means, they find an incredible kid who 733 00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:45,640 Speaker 2: you know deserves the home, they bring them in, give 734 00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:46,279 Speaker 2: them a great life. 735 00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:47,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. 736 00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:49,799 Speaker 3: I astly want to know how dad feels about this 737 00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:52,440 Speaker 3: because low KEI I feel like the mom's like, I 738 00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:55,120 Speaker 3: want kids. This is the only way you're gonna have 739 00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:57,800 Speaker 3: to like agree with this. I feel like the mom 740 00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:03,120 Speaker 3: did something there totally now, so I totally could see 741 00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:07,920 Speaker 3: that what I will I I don't. 742 00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:10,560 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. I mean, it's obviously 743 00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:12,040 Speaker 1: definitely a possibility. 744 00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:13,680 Speaker 3: It's my hot take, but I really want to know. 745 00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:19,160 Speaker 2: For to me, one thing that leans into the dad 746 00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:20,840 Speaker 2: was school with it is they did it again, you 747 00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:22,840 Speaker 2: know what I mean? Like if the dad really couldn't 748 00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:24,879 Speaker 2: live it down after number one, I feel like he'd 749 00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:25,160 Speaker 2: be like. 750 00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:27,600 Speaker 3: Yo, like there's got to be another way. 751 00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:29,319 Speaker 1: There's got to be another way. I don't want to 752 00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:30,080 Speaker 1: do this way. 753 00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:33,799 Speaker 2: But uh wow, y'all, this this one, this one has 754 00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:36,680 Speaker 2: been wild. Let me know what you think down below, 755 00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:38,920 Speaker 2: and if you you know, we we love we love 756 00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:41,960 Speaker 2: getting your story. Share Share if you've been through anything 757 00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:45,120 Speaker 2: remotely similar, we would love to hear your thoughts, comments, 758 00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:47,560 Speaker 2: and stories in the comments below. As per usual, but 759 00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:51,040 Speaker 2: dang really done for Loop today. That's a wrap. Well, 760 00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:53,920 Speaker 2: if you love us, make sure to subscribe, and we 761 00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:55,840 Speaker 2: love you and see you tomorrow.