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Speaker 1: It is time now for the Strawberry Letter. And if

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Speaker 1: read this one right here, right now. You never know

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Speaker 1: it could be yours.

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Speaker 2: All right, buckle up and hold on time you got

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Speaker 2: it for you?

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Speaker 3: Hear me?

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Speaker 2: Is Strawberry letter I got today? The Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 4: Will be done by Thomas Miles or nephew Tommy.

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Speaker 1: Oh, it's gonna be a nephew Tommy for sure.

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Speaker 2: And Junior I will be an observe it because I've

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Speaker 2: never seen him do the letter before.

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Speaker 1: Get us and if you want to, all right, don't

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Speaker 1: he gets me hot in more ways than one, right there,

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Speaker 1: all right, Dear Stephen Shirley. I came home after a

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Speaker 1: party late at night with my sister and walked in

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Speaker 1: I was tipsy and so was my sister, but we

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Speaker 1: my husband said he could stay over because he was

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Speaker 1: My sister decided to stay over at that point, and

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Speaker 1: I fell face down on the bed and whatever happened happened.

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Speaker 1: The next thing that I can remember was my husband

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Speaker 1: I begged my husband not to be mad, but he

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Speaker 1: My sister and I were shocked, and she that he

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Speaker 1: on eggshells for about a week before he told me

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Speaker 1: about all of it. The stranger has my phone number,

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Speaker 1: said he wants to finish what he started. I want

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Speaker 1: stop dreaming about how he felt on me that night.

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Speaker 1: Should I have sex with him? Or is this whole

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Speaker 1: thing a setup? What?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 1: And that's for you and your husband?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 1: I don't understand you, and I don't understand your husband.

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Speaker 1: What kind of marriage do you guys have? Is this

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Speaker 1: but your husband laughed and said you didn't. Then he

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Speaker 1: so now you want to. The man calls you and

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Speaker 1: all you can. That's all you can think about. Now again,

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Speaker 1: your husband wasn't mad, and he asked if you enjoyed yourself?

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Speaker 1: What husband anywhere would ask his wife that about Australia.

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Speaker 1: This is so weird because seriously, what are you guys doing.

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Speaker 1: Isn't this the very definition though, of an open marriage?

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Speaker 1: And now you're asking us if you should go ahead

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Speaker 1: Don't drag us into your mess. Please. I believe that

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Speaker 1: don't know why unless you really do want an open

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Speaker 2: I it's on time. All of this is a setup.

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Speaker 2: This is a p Dinny baby or Lupri can take that.

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Speaker 2: Take that set up. That's what this is, all right?

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Speaker 2: You say I'm hot? This got me hot. It got

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. This is something I ain't

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Speaker 2: That's what I do. So now that you didne gave

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Speaker 2: me a new assignment. I got to find me a

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Speaker 2: it down and see if I can do it what

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Speaker 2: I zipping myself up. But this is what I don't understand.

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Speaker 2: Here's what I don't This is what this is unclear

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Speaker 2: to me. You don't know this man. It's your first

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Speaker 2: time seeing this man. How the hell this man got

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Speaker 2: your number? Where he gets your number from? He? Now

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Speaker 2: let's take it to the next level. Now, I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: say this, though you want to do this man for

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Speaker 2: some reason, I want you to do it too. I

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Speaker 2: to do somebody. I do. I do. You know what

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Speaker 2: I've been mad twenty three deals. I can't do it

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Speaker 2: no more. So I know what it feels like when

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Speaker 2: to do it, and I want you to do it too.

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Speaker 2: I do. So listen, here's what you got to do.

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Speaker 2: Fall for the trick it's a prank. They done pranked you,

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Speaker 2: and they got you good. Now you got the number.

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Speaker 2: Now that you over there twiddling your thumb, biting your nail,

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Speaker 2: who I want to do it? Who I want to

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Speaker 2: like he don't give a damn. And y'all in some

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Speaker 2: other different kind of y'all got the diferent kind of

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Speaker 2: layout with your relationship. And it's fine every dentyer. Your

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Speaker 2: about that yet. You'll get to that, lady. You're gonna

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Speaker 2: find that out a little later. But right now is

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Speaker 2: the time if you're gonna get what you want. Nine

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Speaker 2: is the time to get it. It's the time to

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Speaker 2: get what you want. And you want this man. And

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Speaker 2: it's that tongue, that tongue that ran down your back,

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Speaker 2: and you can't get your mind off for that. And

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Speaker 2: I understand that. I understand that because if you wouldn't

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Speaker 2: But you fell out right when the tongue hits your back.

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Speaker 2: And see when your tongue hits your back. It was

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Speaker 2: got to do is drink your ass and water before

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Speaker 2: you get with this man the next time. But what

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Speaker 2: you can't be doing is being drunk and in enjoining,

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Speaker 2: missing out on the whole shebang. I want you to

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Speaker 2: do this man too, yes, sir, Now, Tommy. The only

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Speaker 2: thing is when you zip the zipper down with your

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Speaker 1: All right, hang on, we're gonna have part two of

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Speaker 1: this letter coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna hear from Junior on this letter as well.

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Speaker 1: The subject is he makes me hot in more ways

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Speaker 1: than one. Right after this, you're listening Hard Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, here we go, we're gonna recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject is he gets me hot in more ways

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Speaker 1: and one. A woman wrote this letter. She said she

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Speaker 1: She walked in on a man who was having a

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Speaker 1: She yelled for her sister to come and help her,

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Speaker 1: The guy went to the living room. They were talking.

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Speaker 1: She was walking on eggshells about a week. Then her

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Speaker 1: They were laughing, but the guy did get her phone

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Speaker 1: And she's asking, is this whole thing is set up?

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Speaker 3: Junior, don't I don't see where y'all get this. This

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Speaker 3: hot in mo ways. It was what a lot of hot,

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Speaker 3: but just some tongue licking on a zipp of down.

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Speaker 3: That's about the only hot I've heard. The part just

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Speaker 3: need to be called is my husband really is crazy?

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Speaker 3: See if you laid up into bed and he wake

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Speaker 3: you up with another man in and he said, I'm

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Speaker 3: not mad girl, your man we filed go out and

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Speaker 3: have a drenk, it's crazy. You See, you need to

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Speaker 3: stop having drinks. That's what you need to stop doing.

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Speaker 3: See because every time you have drinks you get zipp

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Speaker 3: and licked on your back and all this stuff like this.

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Speaker 2: But see, this is what you need to do. Stop drinking.

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Speaker 3: First of all, because death coming. It's yellow tape coming.

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Speaker 3: His office is coming. Because you keep asking phone calls

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Speaker 3: with this man.

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Speaker 2: A lot of.

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Speaker 3: Stuff in heaven. I've seen it in the movie. Every

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Speaker 3: time somebody get that Jason, where there's Freddy Krueger.

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Speaker 2: It was Drakes.

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Speaker 3: Involved to keep the sun rises, gin and tonics and next.

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Speaker 2: Thing you know, did y'all hear that? Uh? I?

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Speaker 3: Next thing? Everybody dead? That's what you're on your way to.

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Speaker 3: You don't even know. You fil doubt your sister gonna

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Speaker 3: They caught you in the bed and this is what

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Speaker 3: you get. Please don't be mad. You need another story.

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Speaker 3: How I get here? Did you carry me in here?

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Speaker 4: Sir?

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Speaker 2: You strange man? That's his name.

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Speaker 3: We don't know his name.

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Speaker 2: His name is strange man.

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Speaker 3: The whole letter, all this you doing drinking with him,

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Speaker 3: you never got a name, So all night long he's

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Speaker 3: just strange man. And now all of a sudden, his

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Speaker 3: tongue going down your back as the zipper went down.

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Speaker 2: That's all the hot we got.

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Speaker 3: Because your husband woke you up the next morning with

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Speaker 3: the strange man next to you and.

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Speaker 2: Said, nah, I ain't man.

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Speaker 3: Come on, let's go downstairs have breakfast.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 3: You going with all the knives at You're gonna eat

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Speaker 3: breakfast with all the knives. Everything that could kill you

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Speaker 3: because you scared. There's a blender down there, ma'am. There's

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Speaker 3: a bunch of knife, ma'am. There's a state knife, ma'am.

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Speaker 3: The man is setting you up. Okay, Now keep us

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Speaker 2: You happen.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Now, let me just give you this piece of information.

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Speaker 4: Come on, there's a lot of focus on this zipper licking. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: let me explain to you how it's done. In the

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Speaker 4: back and you're unzipping the dress, you unzip it with

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Speaker 4: in the zipper, open it and go down and go down.

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Speaker 4: That makes them think you un zipping it with your mouth,

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Speaker 4: but it's actually your.

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Speaker 2: Finger, got it now?

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Speaker 4: Sip Me warn you young brothers, the first time you

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Speaker 4: do this, you are going to cut your tongue.

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Speaker 2: You can go too fast.

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Speaker 4: You just gonna be in a hurry and you're gonna

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Speaker 4: zipper before it's down and your tongue on slide cross it. Now,

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Speaker 4: you got to maintain your cool when this happened, or

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Speaker 4: you'll blow the mood. What you can't do is be

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Speaker 4: back there and go you can't get it. Yeah, that

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Speaker 4: so what you gotta do is this is how you

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Speaker 4: gotta do it. When you cut your tongue, do what

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Speaker 4: you gotta do. You gotta do that sounds like pleasure,

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Speaker 4: but it's really how you handle pain. There's two ways

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Speaker 4: to handle pain, pleasure or painfully. Try to practice pleasure

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Speaker 4: points of pain.

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Speaker 2: Two way.

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Speaker 4: That's how you're unzipped it thing just so Uncle Steve's less,

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Speaker 4: you know, yes, like what's wrong with the how you

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Speaker 4: take a braw off with one hand? You got you

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Speaker 4: got the you got the cup. You got to crease

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Speaker 4: right over the top of the center of they back.

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Speaker 4: You got to put your palm pressure, got to put

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Speaker 4: the heel pressure in your hand, and your finger took

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Speaker 4: pressure on their lumbar, and then with the index finger

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Speaker 4: and the uh thumb you press it until it comes

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Speaker 4: together and it pops off. As soon as they pop off,

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Speaker 4: you immediately come from back there to draw a distraction.

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Speaker 2: He only lumbar he got.

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Speaker 1: You got to get in the face any any word

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Speaker 1: on the husband, Steve, what's wrong with him? Why is

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Speaker 1: he letting?

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Speaker 2: I don't know what I don't know what the hell

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Speaker 2: going y'all. Ain't doing nothing to be concerned about him.

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Speaker 2: He may be in the process of about to kill you.

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