1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:00,640 Speaker 1: Beautiful. 2 00:00:00,720 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 2: Okop fans, you were about to experience the Redditor podcast. 3 00:00:05,960 --> 00:00:08,920 Speaker 2: This is our friend Jack. He's amazing. We've done a collab. 4 00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:12,920 Speaker 2: He drops incredible stories and content every single day, just 5 00:00:12,960 --> 00:00:15,520 Speaker 2: like us and honestly one of the very very few. 6 00:00:15,600 --> 00:00:19,799 Speaker 2: So we're very excited to play this episode segment for 7 00:00:19,880 --> 00:00:22,119 Speaker 2: you now at the end of the episode. If you 8 00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 2: want to hear the full one, go to the link 9 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:27,680 Speaker 2: in the description, check it out, listen, and subscribe to 10 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 2: the podcast while you're at it. Jack is absolutely incredible. 11 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 2: Without further ado, let's get into Jack's episode. 12 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:36,880 Speaker 3: What is going on everyone, and welcome back to the channel. 13 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 3: I hope you're all doing well today. I've got for 14 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:44,080 Speaker 3: you my first episode of pro Revenge in twenty twenty four, 15 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 3: and goodness me, is it an absolute banger. Now, this 16 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:51,360 Speaker 3: whole episode has just one story in it, and as 17 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:53,600 Speaker 3: you can tell by the length, it's a long one 18 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 3: it is, but. 19 00:00:55,120 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 1: Stick with it. 20 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 3: It gets better and better the longer it goes on. 21 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 3: There's a lot of important context to start with, but 22 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 3: trust me when I say that this is one of 23 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 3: the most well thought out, brilliantly executed pro revengers that 24 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 3: I've ever seen, and in fact, I'm going to stick 25 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:12,759 Speaker 3: my neck on the line. It is the most well 26 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:16,560 Speaker 3: thought out revenge that I've ever read on Reddit without 27 00:01:16,600 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 3: further ado, sit back, relax, subscribe if you haven't done 28 00:01:19,920 --> 00:01:22,160 Speaker 3: so already, drop alke on this one. If you're excited, 29 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 3: here we go. Sister wants to walk down the aisle 30 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 3: at my wedding. We use that to our advantage here. 31 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:31,800 Speaker 3: I am writing this long tail on my honeymoon, but 32 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:34,640 Speaker 3: it does feel cathartic to finally type it out, and 33 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 3: my husband is way more excited about this than the 34 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 3: resort drinks. Anyway, this is a throwaway account because I 35 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:43,679 Speaker 3: don't have a Reddit account, and my husband, the Reddit fanatic, 36 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 3: said he doesn't want this associated with his main As 37 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 3: to why the Reddit guy isn't the one rising this, 38 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 3: it's because he said, since it's my family, I should 39 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 3: be the one with the honor of posting the story. 40 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 3: But he is looking over my shoulder to help out. 41 00:01:57,440 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 3: So I think first it's necessary to give some background 42 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 3: to explain how this behavior reached this level and why 43 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 3: our responses were as they were. So Ever, since I 44 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 3: could remember, my parents loved my sister more, I don't 45 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:12,520 Speaker 3: mean in subtle ways. Either, if my sister accused me 46 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 3: of something, they'd believe it and punish me. If I 47 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 3: accused her, they wouldn't believe it. Even if there was 48 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 3: undeniable proof, They'd still give her a lesser punishment and 49 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 3: try to find a way to scold me in tandem. 50 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:26,960 Speaker 3: My birthday cake had to be a flavor that she 51 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:30,520 Speaker 3: wanted hers did not, and my parents always denied, knowing 52 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:32,960 Speaker 3: that I didn't like that type of cake. They always 53 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:35,520 Speaker 3: brought her a bit more than for me. We went 54 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:37,919 Speaker 3: to where she wanted, even if it was an event 55 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 3: that should be about me. My sister grew up spoiled 56 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:42,679 Speaker 3: and didn't like me. She just used me as a 57 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:46,000 Speaker 3: punching bag. But at first she mostly ignored me, and 58 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:48,680 Speaker 3: then it got really bad when we were young teens. 59 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:50,800 Speaker 3: I'm not sure what the cause and effect are, but 60 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:54,200 Speaker 3: she found herself with no friends and her behavior got worse. 61 00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:57,240 Speaker 3: Did her friends move did they ditch her because she 62 00:02:57,320 --> 00:02:59,959 Speaker 3: was mean? I don't know, because we were never close, 63 00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 3: and my parents loved to boast about her achievements but 64 00:03:03,240 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 3: never ever mentioned any of her issues, whereas with me, 65 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 3: they loved to bring out any flaws of mine constantly 66 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:13,080 Speaker 3: as teasing material. I only knew she had none because 67 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:15,359 Speaker 3: we went to the same school and I noticed her 68 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 3: no longer walking around with people. So anyway, she had 69 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 3: no friends, and I did. I actually used to be 70 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:24,240 Speaker 3: decently popular. My sister realized that, and suddenly I stopped 71 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:27,400 Speaker 3: being the occasional punching bag to a hated person that 72 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 3: she needed to take down at all times. She started 73 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:33,360 Speaker 3: accusing me of more stuff. She accused my friends of 74 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 3: more stuff. My parents stopped allowing me to hang out 75 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 3: with anyone. The excuses raging from they're not good people, 76 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 3: according to your sister, to why are you trying to 77 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:45,360 Speaker 3: leave us? Why can't you be like your sister and 78 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 3: enjoy family time. What saved me from complete isolation was 79 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 3: my extended family. Most of my family lived in the 80 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 3: same hometown, and I got along with my cousins despite 81 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 3: some age difference. At one gathering, they invited me over 82 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 3: to something I don't remember, and I sadly replied that 83 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 3: I'm not allowed to go anywhere. When asked why, my 84 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 3: kid's self with no filter, replied that it was because 85 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 3: I wasn't allowed to have friends. 86 00:04:09,360 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 1: Since my sister didn't. 87 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 3: Have any well that reached the adults, who apparently tore 88 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:17,680 Speaker 3: my parents apart. Later, I was scolded for lying and 89 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:20,040 Speaker 3: I was grounded as if I had anywhere to go 90 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 3: for a month. 91 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:22,920 Speaker 1: But after that they allowed me some. 92 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 3: Leeway, so it was worth her and my sister changed schools. 93 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 3: I guess the humiliation of extended family knowing her social 94 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 3: status was bad. She demanded to be changed, and my 95 00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 3: parents immediately obliged, even though it cost them more since 96 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 3: the school was further away. But she made friends at 97 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 3: the new school. However, she never went back to the 98 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 3: previous status quo of mostly ignoring me. I guess, having 99 00:04:46,360 --> 00:04:48,600 Speaker 3: felt the power of how badly she could screw with 100 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:51,799 Speaker 3: me and anger that I told family she had no friends, 101 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:54,919 Speaker 3: she never let me go. My life was still bad. 102 00:04:55,480 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 3: Her friends would come over and bully me, and my 103 00:04:57,920 --> 00:04:58,719 Speaker 3: parents called. 104 00:04:58,560 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 1: It light teasing. 105 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 3: I never called friends over because my parents were awful 106 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:05,880 Speaker 3: hosted them, or my sister would accuse them of taking 107 00:05:05,880 --> 00:05:08,599 Speaker 3: stuff and they'd believe it. I did become close to 108 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 3: my cousins, though, since my parents never dared do any 109 00:05:11,920 --> 00:05:12,799 Speaker 3: of that a family. 110 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:14,880 Speaker 1: And then I got my first boyfriend. 111 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:17,200 Speaker 3: I didn't want to bring him home at all, but 112 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 3: my parents insisted. Well, at one point we were separated 113 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 3: and he came to find me to tell me my 114 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 3: sister was flirting with him, by which he meant she 115 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:29,880 Speaker 3: came over with skimpy clothing, batting her eyelashes really badly, 116 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 3: and started telling him how bad I was and how 117 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:35,600 Speaker 3: good she was. He was irked and ran off to 118 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 3: find me. Of course, my sister told my parents a 119 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 3: different tale that my boyfriend had instead tried to flirt 120 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:44,039 Speaker 3: with her, but she naturally refused, since how could. 121 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 1: She do that to me? And guess who my parents believed? 122 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:51,839 Speaker 3: Now, my boyfriend wasn't perfect, but I immediately believed him for 123 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 3: a mean reason. But remember that back then I was 124 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 3: a teen and suffering from the unfair bad treatment. I 125 00:05:57,839 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 3: was very resentful and moody and hated my sister as 126 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:02,560 Speaker 3: much as she hated me. 127 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:04,719 Speaker 1: Well, that surely is fair enough. 128 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 3: Anyway, With that disclaimer out of the way, let's talk 129 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:11,919 Speaker 3: about looks. I hadn't mentioned them yet because they weren't relevant. 130 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:16,680 Speaker 3: My parents were, well are overweight, and since they liked 131 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 3: showing love via food, giving you more food, buying treats, etc. 132 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:25,080 Speaker 3: My sister was and is also overweight, whereas I was 133 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 3: and am not. In fact, I've always been kind of 134 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:32,240 Speaker 3: skinny because punishment often included no treats or snacks. Obviously, 135 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:36,599 Speaker 3: weight isn't what matters. Personality is, though, But my sister 136 00:06:36,640 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 3: even then was already rude and spoiled. Even her flirting 137 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:42,719 Speaker 3: attempts were bad because she never learned to work for anything, 138 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 3: since she could demand and my parents would deliver. Added 139 00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 3: to that the fact that she didn't look like some 140 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:52,239 Speaker 3: sexy model. Even my self conscious teen self didn't believe 141 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:55,200 Speaker 3: that my boyfriend would try and cheat on me with her. 142 00:06:55,839 --> 00:06:59,480 Speaker 3: Ah I see. Anyways, my parents prohibited me from dating 143 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 3: such a horrible boy. I did try to keep going 144 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:04,919 Speaker 3: in secret, but it was hard and the relationship ended. 145 00:07:05,240 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 3: I did get another, but again, my sister accused him 146 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:11,600 Speaker 3: of flirting with her when he refused her advances. Again, 147 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:14,800 Speaker 3: my parents believed her. I tried pointing out how this 148 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:17,960 Speaker 3: happened again, but they decided that that meant I was 149 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:21,960 Speaker 3: incapable of making good choices and kept picking bad boyfriends. 150 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:26,120 Speaker 3: The relationship couldn't handle the Romeo Juliet situation and. 151 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 1: Fizzled out again. 152 00:07:27,680 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 3: I would eventually get called a s word in high school, 153 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 3: as I was fine with making out with boys and such, 154 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 3: but refused to have relationships. Thankfully, that never got back 155 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:40,120 Speaker 3: to my sister or parents. My sister did bring one 156 00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:43,720 Speaker 3: boyfriend home during all this time. He was paraded with pride, 157 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:46,440 Speaker 3: and my parents spent every second telling me how good 158 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 3: he was and why couldn't I be like my sister 159 00:07:48,960 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 3: and find myself somewhere like that? Until he stopped showing 160 00:07:52,440 --> 00:07:56,880 Speaker 3: up and suddenly he was conniving into any swear word here. 161 00:07:57,240 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 3: That tricked my sister oh well. 162 00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 1: And the unequal treatment continued. 163 00:08:01,480 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 3: At this time, she had more spending money, Her curfews 164 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 3: were much better than mine. She was free to go 165 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:09,840 Speaker 3: anywhere at any time, while I couldn't. If I pointed 166 00:08:09,880 --> 00:08:12,480 Speaker 3: that out, my parents would say it's because she's older. 167 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:15,560 Speaker 3: But when I reached that age, I still didn't have 168 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:18,560 Speaker 3: the same treatment she had, And when I pointed that out, 169 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:21,480 Speaker 3: they deny they ever said that, or claim it was 170 00:08:21,520 --> 00:08:24,240 Speaker 3: because I couldn't be trusted like she was, using my 171 00:08:24,280 --> 00:08:28,080 Speaker 3: sister's accusations against my boyfriend and friends as proof of 172 00:08:28,160 --> 00:08:31,240 Speaker 3: my bad judgments. Time goes by, and it's time for 173 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 3: my sister to graduate she was accepted into a college, 174 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:36,679 Speaker 3: not a very well regarded one, and she had no 175 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 3: scholarship or anything. Again, because only her achievements were told 176 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:42,840 Speaker 3: to me, I don't know which colleges she even tried for, 177 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 3: so I can't say how badly she was rejected. I 178 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:48,559 Speaker 3: do know her grades were bad in school, though, because 179 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:51,320 Speaker 3: whenever she got a B we would celebrate. I would 180 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:54,120 Speaker 3: usually get good grades, but my parents refuse to celebrate, 181 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 3: claiming since I always got them, what was there to celebrate. 182 00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:00,720 Speaker 3: My parents naturally made a lot of fan and told 183 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:04,040 Speaker 3: her they'd pay for everything. I was relieved she'd be 184 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:06,800 Speaker 3: going away, not that it made my life any easier. 185 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 3: She'd always come home every other weekend, and somehow stuff 186 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:12,960 Speaker 3: kept missing from her room or some other issues she'd 187 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:15,760 Speaker 3: think of to make my life miserable. My curfews were 188 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 3: still strict, etc. Eventually, my mum came to talk to 189 00:09:19,520 --> 00:09:22,839 Speaker 3: me about my impending graduation. I'm only a year younger 190 00:09:22,840 --> 00:09:25,000 Speaker 3: than my sister. She told me that since they were 191 00:09:25,040 --> 00:09:27,680 Speaker 3: paying for my sister's college, they had no money to 192 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:31,120 Speaker 3: pay for mine, so it would be better for me 193 00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 3: to start work immediately after graduation and wait until my 194 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:38,199 Speaker 3: sister finished UNI to see if they could afford something 195 00:09:38,200 --> 00:09:41,320 Speaker 3: for me. Oh, and if I decided to stay at home, 196 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:43,680 Speaker 3: I'd have to pay for all my stuff, part of 197 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:47,240 Speaker 3: the bills and rents. I pointed out, I could get 198 00:09:47,280 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 3: student loans. Mom said yes, except no, that is because 199 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:54,520 Speaker 3: they were so caring towards me and I had such 200 00:09:54,559 --> 00:09:57,280 Speaker 3: bad judgment. They would decide if a college was worth 201 00:09:57,280 --> 00:09:59,959 Speaker 3: my getting in debt or not. I'm not sure how 202 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:02,320 Speaker 3: they'd stop me from getting loans, but I didn't ask. 203 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:04,240 Speaker 3: Scholarships weren't mentioned. 204 00:10:04,679 --> 00:10:05,280 Speaker 1: They had no. 205 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:08,320 Speaker 3: Idea what my grades were anymore, and never believed in 206 00:10:08,360 --> 00:10:11,320 Speaker 3: my capabilities. Anyway, I did it, but an eyelid, I 207 00:10:11,320 --> 00:10:14,880 Speaker 3: simply said okay. My mum clearly didn't expect that and 208 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:18,040 Speaker 3: kept pushing. Maybe she hoped that I'd throw a tantrum 209 00:10:18,080 --> 00:10:19,920 Speaker 3: so they'd have an excuse to not ever pay for 210 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 3: my college. But I said nothing except I understood their position, 211 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:27,680 Speaker 3: thanked them for caring, and that was that. My dad 212 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:30,959 Speaker 3: later tried the same, but I also refused to be emotional. 213 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 3: You see, after a lifetime of their terrible parenting, I 214 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:37,200 Speaker 3: never had any expectations towards my education. 215 00:10:37,840 --> 00:10:38,640 Speaker 1: I knew they'd. 216 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:40,600 Speaker 3: Find an excuse to not pay for mine and make 217 00:10:40,679 --> 00:10:43,800 Speaker 3: my life miserable. I never believed they'd eventually pay it 218 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:46,400 Speaker 3: if I worked and waited for my sisters to graduate. 219 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:50,000 Speaker 3: I've been preparing for college for a long time. I 220 00:10:50,040 --> 00:10:52,840 Speaker 3: could barely go out. My friendships were slim, so I 221 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:55,240 Speaker 3: had a lot of time to study, and study I 222 00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:58,679 Speaker 3: did because I saw college as my only chance to 223 00:10:58,720 --> 00:11:01,120 Speaker 3: be free. Well, the time came, and I worked my 224 00:11:01,320 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 3: butt off and got a scholarship, not to anywhere like 225 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:07,439 Speaker 3: Ivy League or anything like law or medical school, but 226 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 3: it was good enough course in a decent college with 227 00:11:10,240 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 3: a full scholarship. Knowing my sister would hate it and 228 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:16,480 Speaker 3: try to stop me via my parents, I put my 229 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:20,120 Speaker 3: achievement on social media at the same time. I told them, 230 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:23,280 Speaker 3: even forced myself to thank them in the post. Now 231 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 3: they couldn't forbid me from going, as they'd have to 232 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:29,280 Speaker 3: explain to family why not. Initially they were even a 233 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:32,320 Speaker 3: little proud and boasting about it, and then I guess 234 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 3: my sister got to them and they changed gears and 235 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:37,680 Speaker 3: even asked me if I was sure I wanted to go. 236 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:41,040 Speaker 3: They let slip that my sister wasn't doing well in college, 237 00:11:41,200 --> 00:11:43,680 Speaker 3: and since she was smarter and had better judgment than me, 238 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:47,560 Speaker 3: i'd suffer worse. I obviously stuck to my guns. 239 00:11:47,880 --> 00:11:49,880 Speaker 1: They weren't happy, but couldn't do anything. 240 00:11:50,160 --> 00:11:53,600 Speaker 3: College was my savior, and I started being happy. I 241 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:56,839 Speaker 3: still contacted my parents and visited on holidays and such, 242 00:11:57,080 --> 00:11:59,600 Speaker 3: but since they refused to pay for anything, I could 243 00:11:59,679 --> 00:12:03,000 Speaker 3: excuse not going a lot due to money. During this time, 244 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:06,680 Speaker 3: I avoided introducing any man to them, and my sister 245 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:10,199 Speaker 3: stopped going to college. I know she didn't graduate, because again, 246 00:12:10,280 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 3: they'd have made a fanfare about it. She moved back home, 247 00:12:13,559 --> 00:12:17,400 Speaker 3: paying no bills or rent. But it's different, my parents said, 248 00:12:17,800 --> 00:12:20,079 Speaker 3: and started working at the same company as my mum, 249 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:23,920 Speaker 3: obviously thanks to her pulling strings. This was also to 250 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 3: me as a source of pride. Oh well, almost there, 251 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:30,680 Speaker 3: I promise. I met my husband around this time. You 252 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:33,679 Speaker 3: know those people that say, if I was an ex situation, 253 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:36,560 Speaker 3: i'd have done something. My husband is the type that 254 00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:39,640 Speaker 3: really does. I'm the person that is meek an adoremat 255 00:12:39,640 --> 00:12:42,360 Speaker 3: in any situation and then can't sleep at night wishing 256 00:12:42,400 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 3: I'd done something, had thought of something witty to say, etc. 257 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:48,360 Speaker 3: I'm the person that can't help but cry when I'm angry. 258 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:51,920 Speaker 3: My husband is the guy that claps back immediately. He 259 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:55,160 Speaker 3: loves drama and he loves to resolve it. He's the 260 00:12:55,200 --> 00:12:57,600 Speaker 3: guy that if he doesn't immediately reply to a slight, 261 00:12:58,040 --> 00:13:00,960 Speaker 3: you better start worrying because he won't forgive and forget. 262 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 3: He's just doing something worse for revenge. He is the 263 00:13:04,800 --> 00:13:07,360 Speaker 3: one that wanted me to post here and wanted me 264 00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:10,720 Speaker 3: to post on nuclear revenge as well, but decided what 265 00:13:10,760 --> 00:13:14,400 Speaker 3: we did wasn't actually nuclear. People were baffled I got 266 00:13:14,440 --> 00:13:17,679 Speaker 3: together with him, but just because I was incapable thanks 267 00:13:17,679 --> 00:13:20,800 Speaker 3: to my upbringing probably of acting like him, it didn't 268 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:23,360 Speaker 3: mean I didn't like him. I love that my husband 269 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 3: does what I can't, and he treats people well as 270 00:13:26,280 --> 00:13:28,160 Speaker 3: long as they do the same to him. When we 271 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:31,000 Speaker 3: discuss marriage, we decided we didn't care much about the 272 00:13:31,040 --> 00:13:33,560 Speaker 3: ceremony due to our budget, as we'd rather spend it 273 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 3: on a dream trip to Europe for our honeymoon. As 274 00:13:36,320 --> 00:13:38,760 Speaker 3: for where to do it, since his family was spread 275 00:13:38,760 --> 00:13:41,520 Speaker 3: out and mine was still mostly concentrated in my hometown, 276 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:44,560 Speaker 3: we decided to do it there. We weren't living too 277 00:13:44,600 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 3: far off either, so we could take some long trips 278 00:13:47,360 --> 00:13:50,320 Speaker 3: during the weekends to manage stuff. Plus there was some 279 00:13:50,360 --> 00:13:53,160 Speaker 3: work flexibility so we could stay in my hometown for 280 00:13:53,240 --> 00:13:56,520 Speaker 3: a bit too if needed. We sent out the engagement 281 00:13:56,559 --> 00:14:00,480 Speaker 3: announcement and the save the date for a few months later. Well, 282 00:14:00,640 --> 00:14:03,959 Speaker 3: at this point, my parents naturally demanded they meet my man. 283 00:14:04,440 --> 00:14:07,560 Speaker 3: I wanted to grow a spine and refuse, but I 284 00:14:07,600 --> 00:14:10,160 Speaker 3: was having a hard time. The distance had made me 285 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:14,480 Speaker 3: think that maybe my parents weren't so bad. Well, my 286 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:17,839 Speaker 3: husband looked like I canceled Christmas when I told him 287 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:20,280 Speaker 3: I would. At least in short, they were never alone 288 00:14:20,320 --> 00:14:23,400 Speaker 3: with him. See, he's been getting ready for this. He 289 00:14:23,480 --> 00:14:26,200 Speaker 3: even bought a high quality recorder that he could hide 290 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:29,080 Speaker 3: in a pocket to record it all. He was stoked 291 00:14:29,400 --> 00:14:32,600 Speaker 3: thinking of all the ways he could refuse my sister's advances, 292 00:14:32,960 --> 00:14:36,160 Speaker 3: insult her, and then spread the recording of her attempts 293 00:14:36,200 --> 00:14:39,360 Speaker 3: to my family. So off he went, alone and excited 294 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:43,040 Speaker 3: to meet them, and came back later. Euphorick, Babe, Babe, 295 00:14:43,240 --> 00:14:46,200 Speaker 3: you won't believe the awful stuff they wanted. 296 00:14:46,560 --> 00:14:47,000 Speaker 1: Babe. 297 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:50,880 Speaker 3: We can screw them over so bad. There's so many possibilities. 298 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:53,400 Speaker 3: I was confused and I wanted to hear the recording, 299 00:14:53,680 --> 00:14:56,120 Speaker 3: but he smartly told me it was better to listen 300 00:14:56,160 --> 00:14:59,600 Speaker 3: to him first, or else I'd misunderstand him. Well, he 301 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 3: went and instead of the flirting, my parents and my 302 00:15:02,800 --> 00:15:06,000 Speaker 3: sister sat him down. After some grumbling about not being 303 00:15:06,040 --> 00:15:09,600 Speaker 3: okay with him my judgment, et cetera, they proclaimed they 304 00:15:09,600 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 3: were willing to pay for my wedding on one condition 305 00:15:13,960 --> 00:15:17,160 Speaker 3: my sister would walk down the aisle on my wedding 306 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 3: first in a wedding dress. Their excuses were that it 307 00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:24,440 Speaker 3: wasn't okay for a younger sister to marry first, so 308 00:15:24,600 --> 00:15:27,000 Speaker 3: it was only fair if my sister had at least 309 00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:30,800 Speaker 3: the experience of it at my venue, with pictures being 310 00:15:30,840 --> 00:15:34,520 Speaker 3: taken and the dress, and she'd have a cake later too, etc. 311 00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:38,160 Speaker 3: And now guys Opie's husband takes over for a second, 312 00:15:38,600 --> 00:15:42,840 Speaker 3: writing his parts, Hey vengeful husband here, hell hath no 313 00:15:42,960 --> 00:15:47,280 Speaker 3: fury like a proavenge slash instant karma slash nuclear avenge 314 00:15:47,320 --> 00:15:51,680 Speaker 3: lurker when his beloved is scorned. That said, as much 315 00:15:51,680 --> 00:15:54,600 Speaker 3: as my wife ti he she's my wife now paints 316 00:15:54,640 --> 00:15:57,400 Speaker 3: me as this quick witted dude, I admit my neurons 317 00:15:57,480 --> 00:16:01,760 Speaker 3: all but short circuited when those folks legit suggested that 318 00:16:02,320 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 3: trash like some sort of great fricking gift. Even Troy 319 00:16:06,160 --> 00:16:09,560 Speaker 3: wou'd rather taken the horse a second time, methinks. Alas, 320 00:16:09,680 --> 00:16:12,880 Speaker 3: after my brain rebooted, I did have a whole catalog 321 00:16:12,920 --> 00:16:15,880 Speaker 3: of insults about to spew out. But something in my 322 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:19,400 Speaker 3: soul whispered in my ear like the devil string these 323 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:23,080 Speaker 3: idiots along. So I said I needed to think see 324 00:16:23,080 --> 00:16:26,160 Speaker 3: how my wife back then fiance would react, and then 325 00:16:26,400 --> 00:16:28,840 Speaker 3: ran out of there before I could give away my 326 00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:30,080 Speaker 3: nefarious plans. 327 00:16:30,280 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 1: Now back to me the wife. 328 00:16:31,880 --> 00:16:35,280 Speaker 3: So my husband sincerely recounted how my parents wanted even 329 00:16:35,320 --> 00:16:37,920 Speaker 3: my wedding to be about my sister with a grin 330 00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:40,640 Speaker 3: on his face, and had the recording to prove it. 331 00:16:41,240 --> 00:16:44,680 Speaker 3: I was shocked the distance had softened, how bad they 332 00:16:44,760 --> 00:16:49,120 Speaker 3: treated me, and I thought even they wouldn't go this far. Thankfully, 333 00:16:49,200 --> 00:16:52,080 Speaker 3: my husband, insisting on the angle of revenge, helped me 334 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:53,880 Speaker 3: not go to a bad headspace. 335 00:16:54,320 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 1: We had a blast thinking. 336 00:16:55,600 --> 00:16:59,520 Speaker 3: Out ways to screw them over this, from ridiculously outlandish 337 00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:01,880 Speaker 3: to what we thought was feasible. We then called his 338 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:04,840 Speaker 3: much more level headed brother when we decided on a plan. 339 00:17:05,200 --> 00:17:09,560 Speaker 3: It involved having two venue addresses, giving them the wrong one, etc. 340 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:14,000 Speaker 3: Well levelheaded brother scolded us for her. While he acknowledged 341 00:17:14,000 --> 00:17:16,439 Speaker 3: he would never be able to convince us from retaliation, 342 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:19,199 Speaker 3: he at least showed us something like that would be 343 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:22,000 Speaker 3: hard to pull off. Some of our other ideas were 344 00:17:22,040 --> 00:17:25,760 Speaker 3: also at danger of getting sued, so we eventually settled 345 00:17:25,760 --> 00:17:29,200 Speaker 3: for the most benign plan, act like we agreed, but 346 00:17:29,400 --> 00:17:33,200 Speaker 3: then higher security and don't let her in. Obviously, if 347 00:17:33,280 --> 00:17:36,280 Speaker 3: that was all, it wouldn't be pro revenge. The rest 348 00:17:36,359 --> 00:17:38,959 Speaker 3: is almostly my husband, but he wants me to do 349 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:42,720 Speaker 3: the honors, so here goes just important to mention everything 350 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:46,000 Speaker 3: he did was previously discussed with me and were our 351 00:17:46,080 --> 00:17:49,159 Speaker 3: mutual ideas. He went back to my parents, said he 352 00:17:49,240 --> 00:17:52,040 Speaker 3: probed and thought I wouldn't be down with it. However, 353 00:17:52,480 --> 00:17:55,439 Speaker 3: he didn't see the issue and not wanting family to 354 00:17:55,480 --> 00:17:58,479 Speaker 3: fall apart, would be down to helping them do it. 355 00:17:58,600 --> 00:18:01,240 Speaker 3: He pointed out that I don't like conflicts, so if 356 00:18:01,280 --> 00:18:03,480 Speaker 3: I was surprised with it, I might not throw a 357 00:18:03,520 --> 00:18:06,560 Speaker 3: tantrum in front of all the people. On the other hand, 358 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:09,120 Speaker 3: marriage is a big thing, so who knew if I'd 359 00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:13,480 Speaker 3: lash out? Then he suggested a compromise. They'd help pay 360 00:18:13,520 --> 00:18:16,920 Speaker 3: for stuff. This way, I would feel even more pressure 361 00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:19,600 Speaker 3: to not say anything, as not only would it be 362 00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:23,000 Speaker 3: public well with our families there, and also I'd be 363 00:18:23,000 --> 00:18:25,480 Speaker 3: grateful to the help they'd gave me, and that would 364 00:18:25,520 --> 00:18:28,639 Speaker 3: mollify me, he said. My parents look surprised, but my 365 00:18:28,680 --> 00:18:33,320 Speaker 3: grown sister started skipping with joy, literally so like a kid, 366 00:18:33,760 --> 00:18:37,880 Speaker 3: so it was accepted important to add. My husband also 367 00:18:37,960 --> 00:18:40,840 Speaker 3: claimed that due to some bad judgment in boyfriends in 368 00:18:40,840 --> 00:18:43,840 Speaker 3: the past, these words were all my idea, and I'm 369 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:47,439 Speaker 3: so so proud of using their words against them. I 370 00:18:47,600 --> 00:18:51,200 Speaker 3: was distrustful and controlling and liked to check his phone 371 00:18:51,240 --> 00:18:54,520 Speaker 3: and stuff to ensure he wasn't cheating on me. As such, 372 00:18:54,920 --> 00:18:57,919 Speaker 3: it was imperative that nothing of this plan was ever 373 00:18:58,240 --> 00:19:02,119 Speaker 3: put in any writing. For any discussion. Pretending to my 374 00:19:02,200 --> 00:19:05,359 Speaker 3: sister walking down the aisle before me, he'd go over 375 00:19:05,400 --> 00:19:06,920 Speaker 3: to their house to talk. 376 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:08,280 Speaker 1: That is genius. 377 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:11,280 Speaker 3: And so began the months of deception, where my parents 378 00:19:11,320 --> 00:19:13,879 Speaker 3: and sister thought they were tricking me, and my husband 379 00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:15,520 Speaker 3: and I really were milking them. 380 00:19:15,760 --> 00:19:17,480 Speaker 1: How well, rather. 381 00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:20,080 Speaker 3: Than pay for the wedding than lay low, of course, 382 00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 3: my parents wanted input in everything. For some stuff that 383 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:27,040 Speaker 3: meant a lot to me, the songs and color palette. 384 00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:29,400 Speaker 3: My husband would convince them to let it go to 385 00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:32,280 Speaker 3: keep me in line, but since we never really care 386 00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:35,119 Speaker 3: for the ceremony to begin with, everything else was game, 387 00:19:35,800 --> 00:19:39,680 Speaker 3: or so they thought what we did was. Thus, we'd go, say, 388 00:19:39,760 --> 00:19:42,520 Speaker 3: to check the drink and menu options. We'd then accept 389 00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:45,880 Speaker 3: the lowest or second lowest priced option. My husband would 390 00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:49,280 Speaker 3: then secretly take my sister there to also try it out, 391 00:19:49,760 --> 00:19:52,120 Speaker 3: then sigh and say it's a pity, we don't want 392 00:19:52,160 --> 00:19:54,840 Speaker 3: to abuse my parents good will, so we wouldn't get 393 00:19:54,880 --> 00:19:58,520 Speaker 3: the best options. C my sister demanding my parents pay 394 00:19:58,520 --> 00:20:00,920 Speaker 3: for the best. My parents were then tell me not 395 00:20:00,960 --> 00:20:03,840 Speaker 3: to worry and they'd pay for the most expensive. Same 396 00:20:03,960 --> 00:20:06,879 Speaker 3: was done with the photographer. For the flowers, my husband 397 00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:09,520 Speaker 3: handed my sister a bouquet of the flowers we wanted, 398 00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:14,320 Speaker 3: then sadly expressed how I wanted some other tasteless flowers. 399 00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:17,040 Speaker 3: Cue my parents telling me they wanted us to go 400 00:20:17,080 --> 00:20:18,520 Speaker 3: with said flowers and. 401 00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:21,439 Speaker 1: They'd pay for a wedding dress. We hit a mina 402 00:20:21,560 --> 00:20:22,120 Speaker 1: snack here. 403 00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:25,960 Speaker 3: My parents wanted me to use a hideous dress. Okay, 404 00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:29,119 Speaker 3: not outright hideous, but it wasn't my style and wouldn't 405 00:20:29,160 --> 00:20:31,320 Speaker 3: look that good on me. We had planned on saying 406 00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:34,160 Speaker 3: yes then simply not using it, but my mum sent 407 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:37,080 Speaker 3: me a message about it so they'd be proof. I said, okay, 408 00:20:37,359 --> 00:20:39,919 Speaker 3: we had to go with me refusing in text and 409 00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:42,640 Speaker 3: standing my ground. My husband went over there and said 410 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:45,720 Speaker 3: he'd see what he could do. My sister suggested ruining 411 00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:48,240 Speaker 3: my desired dress so I'd be forced to wear the 412 00:20:48,320 --> 00:20:51,840 Speaker 3: other one. He pretended to agree. During all of this time, 413 00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:55,240 Speaker 3: they really did keep communications outside of any text. We 414 00:20:55,320 --> 00:20:58,440 Speaker 3: made sure that had happened bye. When my sister tried 415 00:20:58,440 --> 00:21:02,440 Speaker 3: messaging my husband have me reply to her, this solidified 416 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:05,959 Speaker 3: the I'm controlling and neurotic claims that my husband was making, 417 00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:09,080 Speaker 3: so they believed it and never risked anything in writing. 418 00:21:09,320 --> 00:21:11,399 Speaker 3: And maybe some people might not like the thought of 419 00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:14,640 Speaker 3: their partner going around and talking badly about them to family, 420 00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:17,280 Speaker 3: but I'm such a doormat that the thought of being 421 00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:21,359 Speaker 3: painted as this controlling and dangerous woman is extremely funny 422 00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:23,520 Speaker 3: to me, and I egged him on to do it. 423 00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:25,920 Speaker 3: I guess I have a warped sense of humor. Oh 424 00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:27,960 Speaker 3: and my sister did try to flirt with him, but 425 00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:31,679 Speaker 3: he acted conflicted also to really sell that he was 426 00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:34,560 Speaker 3: with them. My husband would pretend to tell them things 427 00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:38,480 Speaker 3: without my knowledge, but he never told them. We hired security. 428 00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:41,760 Speaker 3: It was really funny my husband and I, who had 429 00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:45,840 Speaker 3: sincerely considered a courthouse wedding to focus costs on our honeymoon, 430 00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:51,040 Speaker 3: having this extravagant, expensive wedding barely spending a dime. We 431 00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:54,200 Speaker 3: called it back pay for emotional damages from my parents. 432 00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:57,359 Speaker 3: I think that my husband, okay, he just confirmed that 433 00:21:57,400 --> 00:22:00,440 Speaker 3: I'm right, was enjoying the whole tricking them and actually 434 00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:02,840 Speaker 3: planning our wedding. I didn't think it was possible to 435 00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:05,040 Speaker 3: witness a guy beaming at the thought of wasting his 436 00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:08,800 Speaker 3: whole Saturday doing a car trip to discuss wedding details 437 00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:12,399 Speaker 3: with his in laws, But here we are. Soon the 438 00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:15,920 Speaker 3: day came. The plan that my parents, sister, and husband 439 00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:19,800 Speaker 3: had come up with was wait until everyone was seated. 440 00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:22,879 Speaker 3: Since the bride always comes out late, they'd have my 441 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:26,320 Speaker 3: sister arrive at that precise time to avoid me seeing 442 00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:29,040 Speaker 3: her and trying to stop it and walk down the aisle. 443 00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:31,120 Speaker 3: By the time that I'd heard what happened, it would 444 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:33,639 Speaker 3: be too late to do anything. As for my dress, 445 00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:36,960 Speaker 3: we saved some of the leftover fabric from my dress alterations, 446 00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:39,720 Speaker 3: and my husband took that to my parents' place my 447 00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:43,200 Speaker 3: sister still lives with them even now, and showed them 448 00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:45,880 Speaker 3: as proof that he'd ruin the dress. Then he said 449 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:47,320 Speaker 3: he had to go back to me as I was 450 00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:49,960 Speaker 3: raging and he needed to calm me down, and he'd 451 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:52,520 Speaker 3: see them at the wedding. We made sure to keep 452 00:22:52,560 --> 00:22:55,560 Speaker 3: our actual security hidden. At first, as the guests and 453 00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:58,359 Speaker 3: my parents arrived, all they could see was a woman 454 00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:01,040 Speaker 3: with a list of names to check. Only after my 455 00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:04,639 Speaker 3: parents arrived and sat down to bring out security, a 456 00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:07,639 Speaker 3: guy that looked like a bodyguard. We told him to 457 00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:10,560 Speaker 3: not allow my sister in and even agreed on paying 458 00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:13,120 Speaker 3: a handsome tip if he didn't reveal that We told 459 00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:16,080 Speaker 3: him that. Soon the time arrived, my parents got a 460 00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:18,760 Speaker 3: text that my sister was less than five minutes away, 461 00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:21,919 Speaker 3: so my dad went and told people to start. My 462 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:25,000 Speaker 3: bridesmaids had been told to follow his lead beforehand, so 463 00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:28,280 Speaker 3: they obeyed without checking with me. After they all went 464 00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:31,040 Speaker 3: down and took their places, my dad stood up at 465 00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:34,000 Speaker 3: the entrance as if waiting for me. During this, a 466 00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:37,000 Speaker 3: friend not in the wedding party texted me to get ready. 467 00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:40,199 Speaker 3: This is because if my husband or bridesmaids took out 468 00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:44,200 Speaker 3: a phone and started texting, people might notice. This friend 469 00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:46,720 Speaker 3: was in on the plan. She's my husband's friend, as 470 00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:49,320 Speaker 3: willing to help stir drama as he is. I didn't 471 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:52,160 Speaker 3: care about being a bridesmaid or anything. Well, as soon 472 00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:55,679 Speaker 3: as my dad took his position, the bridal song started playing. 473 00:23:56,080 --> 00:24:00,800 Speaker 3: The doors open and I come in. My dad looked 474 00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:03,840 Speaker 3: aghast at me being there. He tried glancing behind me, 475 00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:06,560 Speaker 3: but you can't see the venue entrance from where we were, 476 00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:09,439 Speaker 3: so we couldn't see what happened to my sister, and 477 00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 3: then his phone rang. I saw the cool id and 478 00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:15,159 Speaker 3: it was her. He just left me there with a 479 00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:19,600 Speaker 3: mumbled something came up. There were gasps and confusion all around. 480 00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:24,080 Speaker 3: The friend in on it loudly asked what happened. I lied, 481 00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:27,600 Speaker 3: and in a teary voice, said, he told me it 482 00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:31,000 Speaker 3: wasn't supposed to be me there. Now, that's not what 483 00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:33,280 Speaker 3: he said, but my husband and I agreed that if 484 00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:35,879 Speaker 3: he dared leave me, I should say that to make 485 00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:39,400 Speaker 3: him look the worst possible for the tears. I wish 486 00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:42,439 Speaker 3: I could just say it was my stellar acting, but no, 487 00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:45,720 Speaker 3: despite everything, a part of me didn't think he'd go 488 00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:48,439 Speaker 3: as far as to abanon me there, that the sister 489 00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:50,640 Speaker 3: thing wasn't true but an elaborate joke. 490 00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:51,679 Speaker 1: I don't know. 491 00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:54,119 Speaker 3: I was hurt and I still am so I was 492 00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:56,800 Speaker 3: sincerely trying not to cry. You know what, I think 493 00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:59,440 Speaker 3: that's an important part of the story right there, Despite 494 00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:03,159 Speaker 3: all this apparate revenge, still it is drummed into you 495 00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:06,280 Speaker 3: in that very moment that your dad just clearly doesn't 496 00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:11,119 Speaker 3: love you as much as your sister to an unbelievable extent, 497 00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:13,359 Speaker 3: and that he really is a terrible person for that, 498 00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:15,760 Speaker 3: I mean, to abandon you like that on the aisle 499 00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:17,919 Speaker 3: on your wedding day says a lot about him, and 500 00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:20,679 Speaker 3: to be fair, it indicates this entire revenge. 501 00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:22,320 Speaker 1: Let's carry on. Did you love that? 502 00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:24,680 Speaker 2: I mean, honestly I did. 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