WEBVTT - Miss Countess Luann

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<v Speaker 1>Miss Spelling with Tori Spelling and iHeart Radio Podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>How are you doing, Tori?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm great? Oh my gosh, I look great. Thank you?

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<v Speaker 3>So do you another hat? God? No one, no one

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<v Speaker 3>wears a hat like you.

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<v Speaker 2>Well listen. So I so my girlfriend owns New York

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<v Speaker 2>Vintage in New York.

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<v Speaker 3>Hook me up.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, you have to go there, you'll love it.

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<v Speaker 2>She has she collects everything Valentino. Uh, you know, she

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<v Speaker 2>gets all of their she owns most all of Valentino. Basically,

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<v Speaker 2>where is it? It's on It's in Chelsea. Like Shannon,

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<v Speaker 2>she is a badass. She she not only collects you know,

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<v Speaker 2>these ventures things, but she's a box who boxes and

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<v Speaker 2>she rides motocross motorcycles.

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<v Speaker 1>Really okay, now, but you know I probably gonna say

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know you weren't to check now.

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<v Speaker 2>Not no, not me either. That's the way I to

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<v Speaker 2>love Hotel.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah okay, So first I.

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<v Speaker 2>Have to say, okay, so we're gonna go down the

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<v Speaker 2>hat story. Hold on, let's start about the hat. So

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<v Speaker 2>Philip Trace, this is Philip Tracy, right. So okay, So

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<v Speaker 2>I go into her story and I see my black hat,

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<v Speaker 2>which is my Fedora, right, that I were all the time,

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<v Speaker 2>been wearing it for years, the one that Kim Gerdashian

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<v Speaker 2>to steal my look at the you know about that story.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, No, is that bitch stole my look?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that can be with anyone.

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<v Speaker 2>That's totally But I didn't. I was moving into my house,

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<v Speaker 2>so I didn't even know this was happening. And she

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<v Speaker 2>wore a Fedora style hat on the red carpet to

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<v Speaker 2>the uh help me out here, Sarah to the met Galla, Thanks,

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<v Speaker 2>met Galla, and everyone's like, that is the countess this look?

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<v Speaker 2>So anyway, I don't know who made her hat, but

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<v Speaker 2>my that was made by Philip Tracy, who's the head

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<v Speaker 2>of the Queen of England. Right, So I went to

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<v Speaker 2>see him when I was in London, and because you

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<v Speaker 2>can only go to see him in London, and because

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<v Speaker 2>I was touring over right anyway, So he goes, I said,

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<v Speaker 2>I want you to make me another one, because if

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<v Speaker 2>I lose this hat, I'll be so upset. He goes,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't make it again. I made it fifteen years ago,

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<v Speaker 2>and that satin you can't get it anymore. That's bick,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, because his great hat so he goes, I

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<v Speaker 2>can't even make this for you again anyway. So that's

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<v Speaker 2>that's the story, I mean. And on the wall he

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<v Speaker 2>had a letter for only three and he's the header

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<v Speaker 2>of the Queen of England and all the you know,

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<v Speaker 2>all the euristos and anyway. So but he's got Liz

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<v Speaker 2>Taylor on the wall one letter he kept only one,

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<v Speaker 2>Joe Collins and Share and he's main hats for the

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<v Speaker 2>whole world.

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<v Speaker 1>So I mean, you're known for your hats. I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a marketing like branding guru. So well, are you doing

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<v Speaker 1>your own hatline?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I'm working on it, you know, but maybe you've

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<v Speaker 2>got more connections than I do.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably not, but when it comes out, I'll totally support one. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>I look terrible in hats, terrible.

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<v Speaker 2>Really a fedor who looks band in the fedor? If

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<v Speaker 2>I put this on you, you would look amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, style me, bitch, please please okay? So I love

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<v Speaker 1>in Love Hotel, the Grand Entrance. It's all these beauty shots,

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<v Speaker 1>all of you look gorgeous in your hat flies off,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, right, And for me that was a very

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to date myself here, Mary Tyler Moore like

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<v Speaker 1>throwing her hat up right, none of the young kids

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<v Speaker 1>will get that.

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<v Speaker 2>But whatever, Well, you know, so funny because when it happened,

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<v Speaker 2>it happened organically, and so I was like, well, that's

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<v Speaker 2>the best thing. That's the best entrance right there, because

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<v Speaker 2>you know, it just flew off and h yeah. So

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<v Speaker 2>I love that moment. Okay, I love that moment.

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<v Speaker 3>I love that moment. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So I've watched all four episodes and I don't right

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<v Speaker 1>of me, what.

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<v Speaker 3>Really you were there? It doesn't count there.

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<v Speaker 2>I was there.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what the fuck I just watched, but

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<v Speaker 1>I am here for it.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, that's I know. It's great.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what the great thing about is that we're

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<v Speaker 2>each other's wing men. You know, it's not of this

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<v Speaker 2>housewives drama I'll take you down, you know kind of stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>It's you know, we have each other's backs.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I love that you take the men down in

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<v Speaker 1>that place exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>So how did this?

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<v Speaker 1>Like, so Bravo came to you and was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>would single would you want to do this?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>And were you like who else is doing it? Or

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<v Speaker 3>you don't know?

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<v Speaker 2>Well I didn't know. So they called and they go, hey, Louis.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're going to send you away for three weeks.

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<v Speaker 2>Of course, we're going to pay you, and we're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>find you guys. I go, I've been single for seven years.

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<v Speaker 2>Good luck with that. Yeah, and well I was very

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<v Speaker 2>you know, in trepidationous about it, like, well, they're going

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<v Speaker 2>to find me, guys, I mean, I need a European anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>we get a laundry list, we're getting Europeans. But and

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<v Speaker 2>then they go, what time, guy, you're looking for us

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<v Speaker 2>as well? First of all, kind successful in his own

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<v Speaker 2>right that.

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<v Speaker 3>You said kind, That was the first thing you said. Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>I love that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, kind hard, kind.

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<v Speaker 3>Hard to find.

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<v Speaker 2>I want like a good kind man. Right, So of

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<v Speaker 2>course successful and handsome and tall, which didn't pan out

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<v Speaker 2>so great. But the guys were short.

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<v Speaker 3>How tall are you? Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, you present taller?

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<v Speaker 3>Well? Thank you? Yes, okay, sorry, I interact classy? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Right? Who actually for me? Who has children already? Because

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<v Speaker 2>if the man is single, he doesn't have kids. He's

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<v Speaker 2>never had to give himself to others, you know what

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<v Speaker 2>I mean. So they tend to be as they get

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<v Speaker 2>as they're older, they tend to be more spoiled. In

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<v Speaker 2>terms of spoiling themselves. They're not other people selfish. Thank you,

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<v Speaker 2>that's red and uh so, uh let's let's go on

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<v Speaker 2>rich successful rich. You know rich money can't buy you class?

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<v Speaker 1>Can you coined it the best? But here's my question

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<v Speaker 1>to inter asking for myself as well. You're super successful,

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<v Speaker 1>Do you need somebody rich?

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<v Speaker 2>No, that's why I said, it's not about you know,

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<v Speaker 2>not somebody.

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<v Speaker 3>Who'd be nice. I understand, travel with.

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<v Speaker 2>Me in first class? Okay, you know I want the

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<v Speaker 2>guy singing in economy while I travel in first class,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, saying so, who has the same lifestyle? And

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<v Speaker 2>I say it on the show, I want a guy

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<v Speaker 2>with the same lifestyle, which is I'm busy, I have

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<v Speaker 2>my cabaret, I do my TV thing. You know, I

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<v Speaker 2>want somebody who is not too needy, because I don't

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<v Speaker 2>want a needy guy. I want a guy that's got

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<v Speaker 2>his own thing going on, who has the same kind

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<v Speaker 2>of lifestyle, which is means the same kind of money

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<v Speaker 2>more or less. Right. I have my home. This is

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<v Speaker 2>staying in my house. I go, I my home. I

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<v Speaker 2>have my children, I have a career of everything I've

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<v Speaker 2>always wanted. I have my beautiful cars outside, right, So

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<v Speaker 2>I want somebody who's going to bring something to that equation,

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<v Speaker 2>like which is you know, parallel universes.

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<v Speaker 1>I understand that I took notes watching this because I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I'm newly single, I'm gonna hopefully date one day.

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<v Speaker 3>And I was like, wow, you go.

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<v Speaker 2>On the hotel darling. I mean that would be fun.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure after seeing those guys, but okay, but no,

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<v Speaker 1>I took note like, oh, that is super important that

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<v Speaker 1>they have kids, that they understand what it's like to

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<v Speaker 1>give and care for others and not themselves. So I

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<v Speaker 1>put that on my list in here. I would think

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<v Speaker 1>it's pretty hard to date someone like you because not

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<v Speaker 1>that you're putting it on them, but how can a

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<v Speaker 1>man and men or men and their primal not feel

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<v Speaker 1>emasculated with you.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm such a girl, honey, I am such a girl.

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<v Speaker 2>Will you see me blurred around?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh? No, no, no, I don't feel that way.

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<v Speaker 1>You're super successful, you're driven, you're hardworking. I mean you two.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we all have our stuff, but to the outside,

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<v Speaker 1>you have it all.

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<v Speaker 3>So to come to step into that is a hard thing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's going to take a man that's really the right one,

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<v Speaker 1>the right.

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<v Speaker 2>One, secure himself, you know. So you see what's going

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<v Speaker 2>on with James at this point, Right, James says, I

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<v Speaker 2>love my life the way it made it. And James's

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<v Speaker 2>you know, tagline for his life is I love my life,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, And I was like that energy. I love

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<v Speaker 2>that energy about him because he was so secure about

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<v Speaker 2>who he is. He likes to meditate, he likes yoga,

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<v Speaker 2>he's pretty, he has his own business, you know, he's

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<v Speaker 2>you know.

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<v Speaker 1>He doesn't have though, he doesn't make peepy. Well I

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<v Speaker 1>want a private point.

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<v Speaker 3>Well he's okay, so he did.

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<v Speaker 2>He has Oh wait, did we see arma baby yet?

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe not see it?

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<v Speaker 3>We get to see it?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I well, no, meaning we talk about it.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't even know what about it, he said. He

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<v Speaker 3>tells you a story.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. But when he told you that story, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I don't know as what I think to

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<v Speaker 1>be like your friend over over podcasts, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>got defensive. I'm like, why is he telling her this

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<v Speaker 1>right now? Like oh my gosh. But then on the

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<v Speaker 1>other hand, I'm like, I want to say it like

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<v Speaker 1>the arm of.

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<v Speaker 2>A baby, like a baby's arm a baby. It's like

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<v Speaker 2>a thing, which I did not know it hereditary like

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<v Speaker 2>is that's where I said.

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<v Speaker 3>With it?

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<v Speaker 2>Of course, I think penis size is definitely hereditary.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it doesn't skip like like you know, someone can

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<v Speaker 1>have full head of hair and then it skips a generation.

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<v Speaker 3>They're bald like men. So it really James got lucky.

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<v Speaker 2>Whoa whoa.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, because that towel went up on that camera and.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, there's something to be said for mystery.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, great. I mean when you brought your vibrator to

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<v Speaker 3>Love Hotel, you didn't know you were James, so I

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<v Speaker 3>hope you brought lube too.

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<v Speaker 2>Well listen, darling, you know I'm going on a dating show.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what's going to happen, so I had

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<v Speaker 2>to come backing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Wait, so it was in a black case. They

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<v Speaker 1>stopped you at customs because of it. Correct, what brand

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<v Speaker 1>was was that?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just I'm asking for a friend.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wait, it was what's your name, Lulu Fils fancy French?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, of course you have fancy fucking vibrator.

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<v Speaker 2>It's tiny, tiny, it's not about it's not powerized. It's

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<v Speaker 2>about the motion of the ocean.

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<v Speaker 3>That has been powerful. Yeah, did you use that with James?

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<v Speaker 2>No, because I didn't need to.

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<v Speaker 3>Yay, Oh my gosh, I can't wait to see what happens.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, So all these men come on, and first

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<v Speaker 1>of all, you look so hot.

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<v Speaker 3>In this show.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh thank you, like a.

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<v Speaker 1>Tall drink of water, so beautiful. There is something about it, though.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to be honest that I wanted to see

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<v Speaker 1>you with someone a tabit younger, because right, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think women and men the same, similar ages, look the same.

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<v Speaker 3>If that makes sense, well it does.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean there's I think there's very few guys that

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<v Speaker 2>really look good at you know, in their fifties, sixty,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>I agree, like I don't want to see you with

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<v Speaker 1>the silver Fox.

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<v Speaker 2>Right right, Well, although I do love a silver fox,

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<v Speaker 2>see what happens on the show, but ultimately I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Think is in the silver Fox.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait?

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, wait, there's someone Oh my god, score, yes, sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>There's the beeping sound going on here. Hold on a second,

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<v Speaker 2>how was that? Okay? Whatever, I got so many workers here,

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<v Speaker 2>there's the pool happening, and there's something beeping. One second,

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<v Speaker 2>that's that's my Warren.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, what wait? Is that?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that the key to the hotel around your neck

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<v Speaker 1>or I'm serious.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well it is a key, that's true. It's the key. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I like puzzles and games.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, it's a key in reference to the show.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's just it's a key. And how funny that

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<v Speaker 2>I have the sound for this. It's so funny. I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't even think about it. Oh really, I no, I

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<v Speaker 2>never gave it a second though. No, I can see

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<v Speaker 2>you back. Okay, sorry about that. I had a little

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<v Speaker 2>problem with my alarm.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So were you friends with any of the girls before.

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<v Speaker 2>Or you know, Bravo con friends you know howse are

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<v Speaker 2>I friends but not close.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a big fan of Shannon. I know Shannon, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think, yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Hope it works out. I'm really upset about girl.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, Earl the Pearl. Well you'll see what happens.

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<v Speaker 2>But the Pearl, Earl the Pearl, I mean, not the

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<v Speaker 2>guy I would go for. But okay, and I know, right,

0:14:57.840 --> 0:15:01.960
<v Speaker 2>I was like, really anyway, so you'll see what happens there.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know, Shannon's track record with guys is not

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<v Speaker 2>the best, isn't it.

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<v Speaker 3>No, it's not.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I love her, So it's like, you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>think it's poorly due to her own lack of maybe

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<v Speaker 2>confidence in that way, you know what I'm saying, Like, no, girl,

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<v Speaker 2>you can get whoever you want, right, But somehow I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know if she believes it. And then she winds

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<v Speaker 2>up with these guys who are like, leave her for

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<v Speaker 2>other women who are on her cast. I mean, who

0:15:30.240 --> 0:15:30.680
<v Speaker 2>does that?

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<v Speaker 3>Who guys does she dates?

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<v Speaker 1>But here's the thing. So part of me was like,

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<v Speaker 1>and I do feel bad, Like I think she's so

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful and so nice and so funny that to me,

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<v Speaker 1>but I have bad confidence that I.

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<v Speaker 3>Was like, no, like, you're great, But I felt like,

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<v Speaker 3>do you think she.

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<v Speaker 1>Went out with Earle to begin with because he told

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<v Speaker 1>the story about how his wife had died and she

0:16:02.960 --> 0:16:08.320
<v Speaker 1>felt bad in some way or connected. No, she was

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<v Speaker 1>really into him. Yeah, she knows she was until she

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't right.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah, you'll see what happens there, but you know

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<v Speaker 2>I did.

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<v Speaker 3>At the end, he got the letter.

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<v Speaker 1>He's eliminated, right, Oh, Viral, let to find his pearl

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<v Speaker 1>somewhere else.

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<v Speaker 3>Poor Earl. He's been through a lot and he's eliminated.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 3>But it wasn't working, No, not really. But each of

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<v Speaker 3>you get to eliminate somebody.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, what happens is that, you know, we kind of

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<v Speaker 2>I love that moment where I go, you know what,

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<v Speaker 2>I like Ralph. He's hot, he's tall. I'm gonna take

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<v Speaker 2>Ralph and they're like, what you already got two guys's taking Ralph.

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<v Speaker 2>Well let me give him a little ride and see

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<v Speaker 2>what happens. There's a little ride, meaning a little spend

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<v Speaker 2>a little time with Ralph.

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<v Speaker 3>Anyway, was there a baby arm like James, No.

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<v Speaker 2>Well we didn't. We didn't go to it's.

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<v Speaker 3>About the size. We didn't get on the size.

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<v Speaker 2>We didn't get on the right just yet. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, let's find out what he's all about. Also,

0:17:13.280 --> 0:17:15.959
<v Speaker 2>because if you're interested in him, let's find out more

0:17:15.960 --> 0:17:17.920
<v Speaker 2>about him. Because I'm looking out for the girls too.

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<v Speaker 1>You see, you are, all of you are looking out

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<v Speaker 1>for each other. That is so nice to see. But wait,

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<v Speaker 1>Ralph was like every I know he was rowing in here.

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<v Speaker 1>Why does everyone want Ralph?

0:17:31.240 --> 0:17:33.600
<v Speaker 2>Well, Ralph is hot. Ralph is hot. Let's say that,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, super tall, good looking, muscular.

0:17:37.760 --> 0:17:39.400
<v Speaker 3>He was tall. That's what you want there?

0:17:39.440 --> 0:17:44.160
<v Speaker 2>You go just like because he's tall. I'm like yeah,

0:17:44.359 --> 0:17:45.040
<v Speaker 2>because he's tall.

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<v Speaker 1>There weren't a lot of younger guys there, Like, what

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<v Speaker 1>if you guys decided to go younger? I mean, I

0:17:50.760 --> 0:17:54.440
<v Speaker 1>know there were a few, but like, you know, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that was for Ashley's sake, because she's thirty six, right.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, exactly exactly. She's got small kids. She could still

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<v Speaker 2>have another child with the guys she wanted to, you

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<v Speaker 2>know what, I mean, We're in a totally different you know,

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<v Speaker 2>bracket in terms of who we're going to date. But

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<v Speaker 2>I think part of her is also looking for daddy

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit too, you know what I mean. I

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<v Speaker 2>think she likes older guys, but I mean younger guys.

0:18:15.440 --> 0:18:17.720
<v Speaker 2>But I think, I mean, she was with an older guy,

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't she in the past?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, it's your casting.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know everything about their past. I think she

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<v Speaker 2>was with an older man, so so, but yeah, obviously

0:18:30.520 --> 0:18:34.359
<v Speaker 2>there could have been more younger guys. I think, sure, yeah,

0:18:34.760 --> 0:18:38.960
<v Speaker 2>I mean Joe not Joe Bradley young, but you know, younger.

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<v Speaker 3>There.

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<v Speaker 1>So okay, so everyone wants Ralph. Wait, who's the surfer guy?

0:18:47.320 --> 0:18:47.880
<v Speaker 3>I liked him?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh Jerry, Oh the one they went I'm out. I

0:18:54.480 --> 0:18:57.280
<v Speaker 2>turned around and walk away because all he does is

0:18:57.280 --> 0:18:59.320
<v Speaker 2>talk about surfing. I mean, he's a nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Guy, but I did I miss something? Well, they edited,

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<v Speaker 1>like that's all he talked about.

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<v Speaker 2>Well pretty much. You know. We talked about travel and

0:19:06.600 --> 0:19:08.359
<v Speaker 2>he likes you travel to places to go and surf.

0:19:08.760 --> 0:19:11.240
<v Speaker 2>I said, well, you surf all day in Puerto Rico

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<v Speaker 2>and then you're gonna travel go surfing, And what am

0:19:13.720 --> 0:19:16.320
<v Speaker 2>I gonna do with that? I like sometimes like sunset,

0:19:16.359 --> 0:19:19.960
<v Speaker 2>so do I. But you know, I like to go

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<v Speaker 2>to Paris.

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<v Speaker 3>I like, yeah, let's take a walk on the beach. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm done.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm done.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that what we said?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm out.

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<v Speaker 1>I love your confidence. You're like two guys on episode one.

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<v Speaker 1>You're talking to them and they're like, I'll be right back,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you're off with someone else. Uh, pussy power

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<v Speaker 1>so great?

0:19:41.440 --> 0:19:42.280
<v Speaker 3>What's so great?

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<v Speaker 2>When we board, I was bored, So that's why I

0:19:45.640 --> 0:19:47.800
<v Speaker 2>got up. I was like, you know what, all right,

0:19:47.920 --> 0:19:50.600
<v Speaker 2>first of all, go and get me a drink, do something,

0:19:50.640 --> 0:19:53.560
<v Speaker 2>you know whatever. So I was the bored, so I

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<v Speaker 2>got up and moved.

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<v Speaker 3>Are there more guys coming?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>Just thank god?

0:20:02.480 --> 0:20:06.119
<v Speaker 1>Well, a constant rotation of the stallions.

0:20:07.520 --> 0:20:10.320
<v Speaker 2>Well there's there's a you know, there's you're.

0:20:10.200 --> 0:20:12.879
<v Speaker 3>A Philly that won't be broke. I'll stick with that.

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<v Speaker 2>What's that?

0:20:14.359 --> 0:20:14.800
<v Speaker 3>I think?

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<v Speaker 1>So they were talking, Joel's talking about the Stallions. I

0:20:19.040 --> 0:20:23.240
<v Speaker 1>released them from the stables. I think you're a Philly.

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<v Speaker 1>They can't be broke. And I mean that in the

0:20:27.040 --> 0:20:27.600
<v Speaker 1>best way.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, good good, Yeah, it's I know what I want.

0:20:32.880 --> 0:20:34.840
<v Speaker 2>Let's put it that way. At this point in my life,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I know what I want, so and I

0:20:37.800 --> 0:20:40.640
<v Speaker 2>know quickly. So why waste your time?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you think at any moment that you were like, hm,

0:20:45.400 --> 0:20:46.760
<v Speaker 1>I can find true love here.

0:20:49.960 --> 0:20:55.360
<v Speaker 3>Yes, like moments of it? Okay, yeah, you never know.

0:20:55.840 --> 0:20:58.480
<v Speaker 2>You never know. It takes Listen, three weeks is not

0:20:58.560 --> 0:21:04.639
<v Speaker 2>a long time, right, No, although I married the count

0:21:04.840 --> 0:21:06.440
<v Speaker 2>after two weeks of knowing him.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait did you?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Seventeen years and two beautiful children.

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<v Speaker 1>Two beautiful children, a name that won't quit. You're the

0:21:17.960 --> 0:21:18.720
<v Speaker 1>Countess forever.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's like I'm listen, I have two kids with him.

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<v Speaker 2>He never remarried, my married. No. In fact, my kids

0:21:30.359 --> 0:21:32.000
<v Speaker 2>are with him right now. It's his birthday.

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<v Speaker 3>Today, Happy birthday, Counts, I say, yeah.

0:21:38.400 --> 0:21:41.439
<v Speaker 2>Or Alex, you know I called them, of course, Alex.

0:21:41.720 --> 0:21:44.440
<v Speaker 3>Why why do you think he never remarried?

0:21:46.480 --> 0:21:50.480
<v Speaker 2>Well, because I think he was married four times, and

0:21:50.680 --> 0:21:53.080
<v Speaker 2>I think that was his fourth wife. That was a

0:21:53.240 --> 0:21:56.679
<v Speaker 2>fourth wife, And but our marriage lasted longer than all

0:21:56.720 --> 0:21:59.480
<v Speaker 2>the three of his put together before that. That's pretty interesting.

0:22:00.040 --> 0:22:02.680
<v Speaker 2>But I think that you know, he's an age bray.

0:22:02.680 --> 0:22:05.480
<v Speaker 2>He doesn't, you know, wantn't be married, just having a

0:22:05.600 --> 0:22:10.359
<v Speaker 2>nice time, you know, dating and living in you know,

0:22:11.160 --> 0:22:13.159
<v Speaker 2>the Middle East. He lives all over the World's in

0:22:13.160 --> 0:22:18.399
<v Speaker 2>Switzerland at least, so he's just enjoying his his life.

0:22:19.520 --> 0:22:20.479
<v Speaker 3>Do you want to set me up?

0:22:22.200 --> 0:22:22.879
<v Speaker 2>I would love to.

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<v Speaker 3>I could be number.

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<v Speaker 2>Five, but I think he's too old for you.

0:22:26.000 --> 0:22:27.120
<v Speaker 3>Duraling how old?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, he's sixteen years older than me and I just

0:22:29.800 --> 0:22:35.280
<v Speaker 2>turned Okay, No, he's like seventy five. No, it's too few.

0:22:36.960 --> 0:22:38.399
<v Speaker 3>It could be like Anna Nicole.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So anyway, I'm open to anything.

0:22:43.000 --> 0:22:45.160
<v Speaker 3>At this point, I never thought my life would be here.

0:22:45.240 --> 0:22:46.040
<v Speaker 3>So here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, so if they do a season two, who do

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<v Speaker 1>you think should be honest?

0:22:56.040 --> 0:22:57.840
<v Speaker 2>Who's Cynthia Bailey?

0:22:58.600 --> 0:23:00.000
<v Speaker 3>Ah, Duran.

0:23:02.000 --> 0:23:04.840
<v Speaker 2>Sutton Stratch Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, right, Phedra, sure my Carl right?

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<v Speaker 2>I love the house.

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<v Speaker 3>Son God knows she needs it.

0:23:18.160 --> 0:23:18.400
<v Speaker 2>Man.

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<v Speaker 3>I love watching you and Sonia together. It makes me

0:23:24.080 --> 0:23:24.840
<v Speaker 3>so happy.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, craffe leg was so fun.

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<v Speaker 3>It was so good, so good.

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<v Speaker 1>might we see a song write you?

0:24:22.400 --> 0:24:25.919
<v Speaker 2>We I actually work on a song while I'm there. Okay,

0:24:26.080 --> 0:24:30.160
<v Speaker 2>you're going to hear that, I think, Okay, if I'm

0:24:30.160 --> 0:24:31.240
<v Speaker 2>not mis it.

0:24:31.280 --> 0:24:34.520
<v Speaker 3>But it's not like you making a song, No no, no.

0:24:34.480 --> 0:24:37.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm making a song for next tour because the next

0:24:37.160 --> 0:24:40.280
<v Speaker 2>cabaret tour. You know, my tour is always changing, right,

0:24:40.320 --> 0:24:43.600
<v Speaker 2>So I do my last the tour before this is

0:24:43.640 --> 0:24:45.600
<v Speaker 2>Mary f kil like who we'd marry, Who we'd ask me?

0:24:45.680 --> 0:24:47.560
<v Speaker 2>Who we kill? So that's what my conversations about. And

0:24:47.560 --> 0:24:50.240
<v Speaker 2>then I picked the song that goes with that conversation, right,

0:24:50.880 --> 0:24:53.160
<v Speaker 2>and a song that everybody knows because like a big

0:24:53.160 --> 0:24:55.840
<v Speaker 2>sing long and it's so much fun. So this last

0:24:55.880 --> 0:24:58.199
<v Speaker 2>tour was the greatest hits and the next turn in

0:24:58.200 --> 0:25:01.080
<v Speaker 2>twenty twenty six will be about the Love Hotel and

0:25:01.119 --> 0:25:06.199
<v Speaker 2>about love, love gone right and love gone wrong also right,

0:25:06.240 --> 0:25:11.000
<v Speaker 2>because you know, in life, we we do crazy things

0:25:11.000 --> 0:25:14.600
<v Speaker 2>for love, right and and for heartbreak.

0:25:15.240 --> 0:25:17.320
<v Speaker 3>Tell me about it, right, We move.

0:25:17.240 --> 0:25:20.520
<v Speaker 2>We change our lives, we do crazy shit right because

0:25:20.600 --> 0:25:23.880
<v Speaker 2>we're in love or we're heartbroken. And that's what makes

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<v Speaker 2>the world go around. Because without love, what is the point?

0:25:29.280 --> 0:25:30.960
<v Speaker 2>So I want you to be on the Love hote

0:25:30.960 --> 0:25:32.480
<v Speaker 2>tell me because I want you to find a guide

0:25:33.119 --> 0:25:37.480
<v Speaker 2>and be so content, you know, and love somebody that much,

0:25:37.520 --> 0:25:38.800
<v Speaker 2>which would be nice, wouldn't it?

0:25:39.800 --> 0:25:40.000
<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

0:25:40.040 --> 0:25:43.760
<v Speaker 1>Wait, I have to process what you just said. Without love,

0:25:44.000 --> 0:25:45.080
<v Speaker 1>what is the point.

0:25:45.440 --> 0:25:46.360
<v Speaker 2>What is the point?

0:25:46.560 --> 0:25:48.320
<v Speaker 3>Well, there's different forms of love.

0:25:48.440 --> 0:25:50.960
<v Speaker 1>There's well love we feel with our children, love with

0:25:51.000 --> 0:25:53.160
<v Speaker 1>ourselves and with our.

0:25:52.960 --> 0:25:55.720
<v Speaker 3>Friends, so you mean a romantic love.

0:25:55.760 --> 0:25:59.840
<v Speaker 1>But what I mean at this point in life, I

0:26:00.480 --> 0:26:02.640
<v Speaker 1>gave up the fairy tale that I grew up with

0:26:03.080 --> 0:26:06.200
<v Speaker 1>the white picket fence. I never wanted one of those,

0:26:06.520 --> 0:26:09.280
<v Speaker 1>but maybe maybe a golden one.

0:26:09.320 --> 0:26:13.440
<v Speaker 2>I have a white picket fence. You want to see you.

0:26:13.560 --> 0:26:14.360
<v Speaker 3>I don't know what.

0:26:14.520 --> 0:26:18.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't know love wise, what I believe in anymore,

0:26:18.400 --> 0:26:21.080
<v Speaker 1>because I've been through the ringer and I'm just like,

0:26:22.359 --> 0:26:26.159
<v Speaker 1>maybe monogamy doesn't work, Maybe there isn't finding that one human.

0:26:26.320 --> 0:26:31.280
<v Speaker 3>Maybe love? What is love well for me? To you?

0:26:31.920 --> 0:26:38.840
<v Speaker 2>For me, love is someone who who adores the ground

0:26:38.840 --> 0:26:41.520
<v Speaker 2>that you walk on, Somebody who is will catch you

0:26:41.560 --> 0:26:44.320
<v Speaker 2>when you fall, will get you in your fall, somebody

0:26:44.320 --> 0:26:49.320
<v Speaker 2>who's got your back, somebody who inspires you, right, somebody

0:26:49.320 --> 0:26:53.480
<v Speaker 2>who you you're inspired by. Right. So I saw a

0:26:54.720 --> 0:26:56.720
<v Speaker 2>what do you call an astrologer and she said to me,

0:26:57.119 --> 0:27:00.400
<v Speaker 2>when you look at your man, you should be like, wow,

0:27:00.840 --> 0:27:06.720
<v Speaker 2>I can't believe I'm with him, instead of like wow,

0:27:06.760 --> 0:27:09.880
<v Speaker 2>what am I doing with him? Or you know, oh

0:27:10.000 --> 0:27:11.520
<v Speaker 2>I could do better? Or you know you know what

0:27:11.520 --> 0:27:14.720
<v Speaker 2>I'm saying. This all this felts out, So you know, listen,

0:27:14.840 --> 0:27:18.040
<v Speaker 2>love is leading with your heart and being loving yourself first,

0:27:18.040 --> 0:27:20.000
<v Speaker 2>because you can't love other people who don't love yourself.

0:27:20.480 --> 0:27:24.040
<v Speaker 2>So it starts there really because now and also it's

0:27:24.080 --> 0:27:28.280
<v Speaker 2>also you know, I'm man, I'm I said, by twenty

0:27:28.600 --> 0:27:33.399
<v Speaker 2>twenty four, I'm going to find a love because I

0:27:33.480 --> 0:27:35.359
<v Speaker 2>work in seven year cycles, So you're gonna love this.

0:27:35.800 --> 0:27:38.480
<v Speaker 2>So I divorced account in two thousand and nine.

0:27:38.920 --> 0:27:41.439
<v Speaker 3>Okay, wait, I don't do math, do I have to

0:27:41.680 --> 0:27:42.000
<v Speaker 3>right now?

0:27:42.280 --> 0:27:45.280
<v Speaker 2>No, well, I'll add for you. So two thousand divorce accounts.

0:27:45.560 --> 0:27:49.040
<v Speaker 2>Seven years later, I get married to Tom. Okay, right,

0:27:49.960 --> 0:27:54.719
<v Speaker 2>So then I divorced Tom seven months later verse seven,

0:27:55.359 --> 0:27:58.680
<v Speaker 2>and then seven years later because so seven years second.

0:27:58.720 --> 0:28:01.720
<v Speaker 2>So I knew by twenty twenty four. And I was

0:28:01.720 --> 0:28:03.800
<v Speaker 2>told this by this astrology that I just spoke about,

0:28:04.400 --> 0:28:06.240
<v Speaker 2>that I would be a fine love, and so I

0:28:06.320 --> 0:28:09.960
<v Speaker 2>kind of manifested it. So, you know, I think that

0:28:10.040 --> 0:28:12.880
<v Speaker 2>it's so important too. You know, I say to my knees.

0:28:12.920 --> 0:28:15.199
<v Speaker 2>They're in their forties, you know, one of their twins,

0:28:15.280 --> 0:28:18.320
<v Speaker 2>one has children, the other one is still thinking. I said,

0:28:18.359 --> 0:28:20.840
<v Speaker 2>you can't just throw darts now at the dirt word.

0:28:20.880 --> 0:28:23.679
<v Speaker 2>You have to aim, really aim for the center for

0:28:23.760 --> 0:28:26.680
<v Speaker 2>the bullseye. You know, there's no no messing around now.

0:28:27.359 --> 0:28:29.760
<v Speaker 2>And what I mean by that, what I mean by

0:28:29.800 --> 0:28:32.240
<v Speaker 2>that is, you know, like Ramona said to me, she

0:28:32.520 --> 0:28:34.600
<v Speaker 2>made a whole list of things that she wanted in

0:28:34.680 --> 0:28:37.000
<v Speaker 2>the guy. She wrote them down, wrote them down, wrote

0:28:37.040 --> 0:28:40.200
<v Speaker 2>them down, and so and then she found a guy,

0:28:40.400 --> 0:28:42.840
<v Speaker 2>a boyfriend. So, but you have to really will it

0:28:42.880 --> 0:28:45.320
<v Speaker 2>and want it to happen. You know, you can't come

0:28:45.320 --> 0:28:48.040
<v Speaker 2>out as negative Nelly right and go I'm never gonna

0:28:48.040 --> 0:28:50.560
<v Speaker 2>happen for me and I've given up on it. And

0:28:50.680 --> 0:28:53.280
<v Speaker 2>what you speak to the universe makes a difference. So

0:28:53.320 --> 0:28:55.000
<v Speaker 2>if you go out there and go, I know, I'm

0:28:55.000 --> 0:28:57.640
<v Speaker 2>going to be a guy and I'm this and I'm great,

0:28:57.720 --> 0:28:59.160
<v Speaker 2>and I'm going to meet a guy that's this, that

0:28:59.200 --> 0:29:00.320
<v Speaker 2>and the other thing, you know what I mean. So

0:29:00.360 --> 0:29:03.800
<v Speaker 2>you have to really manifest it. You have to put

0:29:03.840 --> 0:29:06.840
<v Speaker 2>out into the universe what you want, because if you

0:29:06.960 --> 0:29:09.600
<v Speaker 2>put out negative, you're not going to get it. You're

0:29:09.640 --> 0:29:12.120
<v Speaker 2>going to get negative. Right. So it's all about energy.

0:29:12.400 --> 0:29:15.000
<v Speaker 2>It's all about the energy that people give, right, right.

0:29:15.080 --> 0:29:18.400
<v Speaker 2>The energy is this, like the energy is I'm heavy,

0:29:18.440 --> 0:29:22.560
<v Speaker 2>go lucky, I'm happy to be by myself and you know,

0:29:22.600 --> 0:29:27.160
<v Speaker 2>and women have to also invite men. So I'll give

0:29:27.160 --> 0:29:28.080
<v Speaker 2>your invite men.

0:29:28.280 --> 0:29:30.360
<v Speaker 3>Oh wait yeah, like so like a vampire.

0:29:30.600 --> 0:29:33.520
<v Speaker 1>You know, a vampire cannot enter your house unless you

0:29:33.560 --> 0:29:34.440
<v Speaker 1>invite them.

0:29:34.880 --> 0:29:36.880
<v Speaker 2>Right, Well, listen, this goes back to like the Queen

0:29:36.880 --> 0:29:39.280
<v Speaker 2>of England. Right, so you know you're not going to

0:29:39.320 --> 0:29:41.920
<v Speaker 2>go to Queen rest in Peace, Queen Elizabeth. You're not

0:29:41.920 --> 0:29:44.320
<v Speaker 2>going to go to Queen Elizabeth and and try to

0:29:44.320 --> 0:29:46.560
<v Speaker 2>shake her hand. She has to extend her hand to

0:29:46.640 --> 0:29:50.719
<v Speaker 2>you and invite you. Right, So men have to be

0:29:50.760 --> 0:29:53.800
<v Speaker 2>invited by women also, which is you go to you're

0:29:53.800 --> 0:29:55.760
<v Speaker 2>out with your girlfriends, You're at a table at a

0:29:56.360 --> 0:30:00.360
<v Speaker 2>restaurant bar situation. There's a hot guy at the bar, right,

0:30:00.400 --> 0:30:02.680
<v Speaker 2>and you're with a gaggle of girls. Now, he's not

0:30:02.720 --> 0:30:05.480
<v Speaker 2>gonna come over because he's it's too much, right And

0:30:05.960 --> 0:30:07.760
<v Speaker 2>does the girl go over to the bar and pick

0:30:07.840 --> 0:30:11.240
<v Speaker 2>him up. No, This is where the waiter comes in, handy,

0:30:11.920 --> 0:30:14.960
<v Speaker 2>I need to see the waiter and you write a

0:30:15.000 --> 0:30:17.440
<v Speaker 2>note and you invite him over to the table for

0:30:17.480 --> 0:30:20.680
<v Speaker 2>a drink. Please join us for a drink. He's gonna come.

0:30:21.480 --> 0:30:24.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm so bad at this. I probably would go home

0:30:24.120 --> 0:30:28.400
<v Speaker 1>with the waiter like, well, i'd crap out.

0:30:28.800 --> 0:30:31.000
<v Speaker 2>Well that can happen to it. But I'm just But

0:30:31.040 --> 0:30:34.440
<v Speaker 2>the point is that, you know, women really do invite

0:30:35.240 --> 0:30:38.680
<v Speaker 2>men into their space, and so, you know when, for example,

0:30:38.720 --> 0:30:43.560
<v Speaker 2>the first episode, I think I was like, well, hello Jerry, right, so,

0:30:44.480 --> 0:30:47.920
<v Speaker 2>hello Jerry, because the way he looked at me, you

0:30:47.920 --> 0:30:50.560
<v Speaker 2>know I knew right away, yes, so and then I

0:30:50.640 --> 0:30:53.440
<v Speaker 2>invited him on a date, didn't I.

0:30:53.920 --> 0:30:58.400
<v Speaker 3>Well, because you had to those the rules.

0:30:58.200 --> 0:31:01.680
<v Speaker 2>Right, But but I would invite a guy on a date.

0:31:01.760 --> 0:31:04.480
<v Speaker 2>You know, women are caught up in all these rules

0:31:04.520 --> 0:31:07.680
<v Speaker 2>that they should be there for the you know, not

0:31:07.760 --> 0:31:10.240
<v Speaker 2>be the last one to text or you know, afraid

0:31:10.240 --> 0:31:13.720
<v Speaker 2>to reach out because he didn't call me in five days. Well, hey,

0:31:14.120 --> 0:31:16.400
<v Speaker 2>what's up, let's grab a cocktail. Who cares?

0:31:17.000 --> 0:31:21.640
<v Speaker 3>No, you're right, would you be a renaissance?

0:31:21.760 --> 0:31:24.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm a good wing man for your doll.

0:31:24.200 --> 0:31:27.640
<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, please help me out here. There's a

0:31:27.680 --> 0:31:28.560
<v Speaker 3>show here as well.

0:31:29.000 --> 0:31:32.560
<v Speaker 1>But there was a lot of talk about you're talking

0:31:32.560 --> 0:31:37.320
<v Speaker 1>about your nieces, right, you said in their forties one single.

0:31:38.240 --> 0:31:40.720
<v Speaker 1>A lot of talk if this is my last shot,

0:31:41.160 --> 0:31:44.280
<v Speaker 1>which really weighed on me because I was like, oh

0:31:44.320 --> 0:31:47.320
<v Speaker 1>my god, I just turned fifty two last week, and

0:31:47.320 --> 0:31:47.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm like.

0:31:47.680 --> 0:31:50.960
<v Speaker 2>Oh happy, but to your tourist like me, yes, wait

0:31:51.000 --> 0:31:54.360
<v Speaker 2>when's your They the seventeen that just had my birthday?

0:31:54.480 --> 0:31:55.920
<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, you after mine?

0:31:56.800 --> 0:31:58.239
<v Speaker 2>Oh you?

0:31:58.400 --> 0:31:58.640
<v Speaker 3>Yes?

0:31:59.280 --> 0:32:02.280
<v Speaker 2>I love that. That's why I really like each other. Okay, yeah, yeah,

0:32:02.480 --> 0:32:05.720
<v Speaker 2>Souris women are fears together. I have a lot of

0:32:05.760 --> 0:32:09.880
<v Speaker 2>tourist friends, don't you. No, Oh you don't how interesting

0:32:09.960 --> 0:32:10.320
<v Speaker 2>I do.

0:32:10.640 --> 0:32:11.920
<v Speaker 3>I have a couple.

0:32:12.440 --> 0:32:16.200
<v Speaker 1>I have a couple, but yeah, I always gravitate towards

0:32:16.440 --> 0:32:20.520
<v Speaker 1>uh aries women, which don't really sink well with me,

0:32:20.600 --> 0:32:21.840
<v Speaker 1>but I'm friends with them.

0:32:21.960 --> 0:32:26.120
<v Speaker 3>I don't know. Or Lebres. Yeah, last shot.

0:32:26.200 --> 0:32:29.320
<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, I'm fifty two, Like, do I have

0:32:29.400 --> 0:32:32.760
<v Speaker 1>to make this next one count s?

0:32:33.320 --> 0:32:37.760
<v Speaker 2>No? No, because now you're predicting, you know what I mean,

0:32:38.560 --> 0:32:40.920
<v Speaker 2>And you know you have to live in the moment.

0:32:41.200 --> 0:32:44.560
<v Speaker 2>Right there's no yesterday and there's no tomorrow, So now

0:32:44.560 --> 0:32:48.440
<v Speaker 2>you're predicting the fifty two. I'm gonna wash it up

0:32:48.440 --> 0:32:50.800
<v Speaker 2>and there's no there's no guys out there and whatever,

0:32:50.920 --> 0:32:53.120
<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean? That's this is everything you

0:32:53.200 --> 0:32:54.920
<v Speaker 2>can't think, which is.

0:32:54.800 --> 0:32:56.440
<v Speaker 3>My self confidence is shit.

0:32:56.680 --> 0:33:00.560
<v Speaker 1>But I actually think I'm hot so you are hot.

0:33:00.720 --> 0:33:04.480
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I'm sure you're getting hit on all.

0:33:04.360 --> 0:33:07.600
<v Speaker 3>The time by young guys right.

0:33:08.960 --> 0:33:13.120
<v Speaker 2>Too. Oh they love that, you know, they love that.

0:33:14.240 --> 0:33:16.920
<v Speaker 2>I mean, listen when I remember when you know, I

0:33:17.000 --> 0:33:19.720
<v Speaker 2>was that age. I like older guys. You know the

0:33:19.720 --> 0:33:24.200
<v Speaker 2>same with guys they like older women because they know

0:33:24.280 --> 0:33:24.800
<v Speaker 2>what they're doing.

0:33:25.920 --> 0:33:29.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but that's not going to work out. Like no,

0:33:37.040 --> 0:33:40.840
<v Speaker 1>So last time we talked, we talked about the bush

0:33:41.000 --> 0:33:44.800
<v Speaker 1>song and you were gonna think about incorporating that into

0:33:45.240 --> 0:33:46.320
<v Speaker 1>your cabaret.

0:33:46.640 --> 0:33:48.520
<v Speaker 2>What the bush? What? Uh?

0:33:48.600 --> 0:33:52.880
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So we talked about, you know, the old thing

0:33:52.920 --> 0:33:55.280
<v Speaker 1>about you falling in the bushes, and I was like,

0:33:55.440 --> 0:33:58.600
<v Speaker 1>the bushes back is the bush back? We talked about

0:33:58.600 --> 0:34:00.480
<v Speaker 1>that and then I was like, wait, you have to

0:34:00.520 --> 0:34:01.360
<v Speaker 1>do a song about this.

0:34:01.480 --> 0:34:03.280
<v Speaker 3>You're like, I might do a song about this.

0:34:03.880 --> 0:34:07.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, No, I did not because recently I came up

0:34:07.720 --> 0:34:09.600
<v Speaker 2>I remember so when I.

0:34:09.680 --> 0:34:12.200
<v Speaker 3>Was you do have to give me credit, just do it.

0:34:12.280 --> 0:34:14.920
<v Speaker 2>No, I came up with another song, which is a

0:34:15.000 --> 0:34:16.000
<v Speaker 2>drag Queen saved my.

0:34:15.960 --> 0:34:24.440
<v Speaker 3>Life to shade fine.

0:34:24.800 --> 0:34:28.719
<v Speaker 2>I was getting seriously, I was dating guy when I

0:34:28.840 --> 0:34:32.239
<v Speaker 2>was a nurse in Connecticut. Then I got scouted to

0:34:32.239 --> 0:34:34.239
<v Speaker 2>be a model, right, And I was debating, do I

0:34:34.280 --> 0:34:36.080
<v Speaker 2>go to New York? Do I not go to I'm

0:34:36.120 --> 0:34:38.160
<v Speaker 2>a nurse. I'm gonna get married to this guy, Joe.

0:34:38.800 --> 0:34:41.640
<v Speaker 2>And I come home one day from working as a nurse,

0:34:42.040 --> 0:34:44.399
<v Speaker 2>and I walk in and he's getting a blowjob from

0:34:44.400 --> 0:34:46.439
<v Speaker 2>the worst looking drag queen you've ever seen your life.

0:34:46.480 --> 0:34:48.320
<v Speaker 3>I mean, sorry, horrible.

0:34:48.880 --> 0:34:51.520
<v Speaker 2>So this so the point is that it made me

0:34:51.640 --> 0:34:54.799
<v Speaker 2>move to New York. You see, So a drag queen

0:34:54.880 --> 0:34:57.560
<v Speaker 2>saved my life and changed my life because my whole

0:34:57.560 --> 0:34:59.360
<v Speaker 2>life would change after that. Then I went to Europe.

0:35:00.040 --> 0:35:00.840
<v Speaker 2>You know, I had to go all the way to

0:35:00.880 --> 0:35:02.399
<v Speaker 2>Europe to find the count. Do you think I found

0:35:02.600 --> 0:35:03.360
<v Speaker 2>in my backyard?

0:35:05.160 --> 0:35:09.080
<v Speaker 1>No, that'd be nice, right, wouldn't that be nice? I

0:35:09.120 --> 0:35:10.320
<v Speaker 1>want to count.

0:35:12.840 --> 0:35:13.440
<v Speaker 3>That'd be great.

0:35:13.760 --> 0:35:15.400
<v Speaker 2>Aristo is falling from the trees.

0:35:16.520 --> 0:35:21.480
<v Speaker 1>So I mean, everything, everything pans out the way it's

0:35:21.480 --> 0:35:25.520
<v Speaker 1>supposed to do everything. And do you believe like, if

0:35:25.560 --> 0:35:28.040
<v Speaker 1>anything changes, you change your destiny.

0:35:29.040 --> 0:35:33.200
<v Speaker 2>I do believe that. I think that change, Uh sure

0:35:33.200 --> 0:35:38.120
<v Speaker 2>beats habit. Change is better than word.

0:35:38.960 --> 0:35:42.759
<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, you you need to put on an

0:35:42.800 --> 0:35:46.000
<v Speaker 3>inspirational book too. Don't worry, I won't take a referral

0:35:46.000 --> 0:35:48.719
<v Speaker 3>fee for that one either. But I'm not saying.

0:35:48.440 --> 0:35:50.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm working on a d I'm working on a dating.

0:35:50.160 --> 0:35:53.319
<v Speaker 2>But I get asked this all the time, right, you know,

0:35:54.400 --> 0:35:56.239
<v Speaker 2>I get asked about dating all the time, and tip

0:35:56.360 --> 0:35:58.200
<v Speaker 2>some dating and flirting and all these things you know,

0:35:58.239 --> 0:36:00.279
<v Speaker 2>all the time. So I definitely have to do book

0:36:00.280 --> 0:36:03.320
<v Speaker 2>on flirting the art of flirtation.

0:36:04.400 --> 0:36:06.120
<v Speaker 3>Of course you do, because it's an art.

0:36:06.440 --> 0:36:09.000
<v Speaker 2>Like that's how I met you, Grant. I backed my

0:36:09.120 --> 0:36:09.600
<v Speaker 2>chair up.

0:36:09.840 --> 0:36:13.280
<v Speaker 3>A restaurant you met you, Grant, tell that story, please?

0:36:13.400 --> 0:36:15.960
<v Speaker 2>What? Okay? So wait, so I'm out in the Hampton's right.

0:36:16.000 --> 0:36:18.680
<v Speaker 2>This is right after I divorced account. I'm talking about

0:36:20.160 --> 0:36:22.600
<v Speaker 2>fifteen years ago, right, And so I heard he was

0:36:22.640 --> 0:36:24.880
<v Speaker 2>at Pierres, which is the restaurant we have in Bridgehampton.

0:36:24.960 --> 0:36:27.839
<v Speaker 2>I go, he is, okay, we'll hold meet the table

0:36:27.880 --> 0:36:29.640
<v Speaker 2>next to him. I'm going to sit right next time.

0:36:29.960 --> 0:36:31.640
<v Speaker 2>So I go with. I'm with a group, my brother's

0:36:31.680 --> 0:36:35.239
<v Speaker 2>there with his wife, and you sit next behind, like Hugh.

0:36:35.360 --> 0:36:38.200
<v Speaker 2>So he was right behind me. Here, I'm in my

0:36:38.280 --> 0:36:40.920
<v Speaker 2>chair and I slide my cheerwck and I bang ined

0:36:41.000 --> 0:36:46.560
<v Speaker 2>him and I go own, I'm so sorry, and I go,

0:36:46.800 --> 0:36:48.719
<v Speaker 2>can I buy you a drink? Because I bumped into

0:36:48.760 --> 0:36:51.720
<v Speaker 2>his chair right, And before you know it, he's sitting

0:36:51.760 --> 0:36:53.640
<v Speaker 2>at my table and we're doing shots in tequila.

0:36:54.120 --> 0:36:59.000
<v Speaker 3>My god, you're good. Well listen, it's like wait, wait,

0:36:59.280 --> 0:37:02.319
<v Speaker 3>and then no, and then he before.

0:37:02.040 --> 0:37:04.319
<v Speaker 2>You know it, he's sitting at my table. We're doing

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<v Speaker 2>shots of tequila and reminding.

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<v Speaker 3>Of that part and then making up. You meet out

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<v Speaker 3>with Hugh Grants.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and my brother goes, I can't believe that you're

0:37:12.960 --> 0:37:15.200
<v Speaker 2>sitting here making up with you. Guys me neither.

0:37:18.080 --> 0:37:22.080
<v Speaker 3>Me killed Julia Roberts got nothing on you. Damn.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Hugh Grant, that's like legendary, but you're legendary,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 3>And then what it didn't go on?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, and went on no, not really, no, no,

0:37:35.760 --> 0:37:38.840
<v Speaker 2>but not not because I didn't want.

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<v Speaker 3>To look good kiss her.

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<v Speaker 2>There was a lot of tequila involved, as the English saying,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't remember.

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<v Speaker 3>That's your story. You're sticking to it. Perfect, I'll ask

0:37:52.920 --> 0:37:56.040
<v Speaker 3>you offline. Perfect. Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, that is amazing. We just need to pick an actor.

0:38:02.760 --> 0:38:06.240
<v Speaker 1>You'll help me, and we need to find out where

0:38:06.280 --> 0:38:09.080
<v Speaker 1>he is, okay, and then I just go.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but why do you want an actor? Oh? My god,

0:38:12.560 --> 0:38:15.080
<v Speaker 2>I don't know actors are insecure?

0:38:15.160 --> 0:38:17.360
<v Speaker 3>Don I don't know why I said that. It's old habit.

0:38:18.160 --> 0:38:20.160
<v Speaker 3>It's just all I've known my entire life.

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<v Speaker 2>Actor, for God's sake.

0:38:22.520 --> 0:38:24.920
<v Speaker 1>Well, what do I want? I don't want a businessman.

0:38:25.040 --> 0:38:26.440
<v Speaker 1>They can't deal with my life.

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<v Speaker 2>What about a European?

0:38:29.040 --> 0:38:32.680
<v Speaker 3>Okay, but they're far they're far away.

0:38:32.920 --> 0:38:35.600
<v Speaker 2>Well, Darling, Well, I live in New York, so there's

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of Europeans.

0:38:36.400 --> 0:38:37.080
<v Speaker 3>Right, it's closer.

0:38:38.120 --> 0:38:41.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm in LA and five young kids. Like, what am

0:38:41.080 --> 0:38:44.400
<v Speaker 1>I gonna do? Move my kids to Europe? Live in

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<v Speaker 1>a castle?

0:38:45.400 --> 0:38:46.359
<v Speaker 3>Sign me up?

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<v Speaker 2>No? But but go to places where you know, like

0:38:51.880 --> 0:38:57.840
<v Speaker 2>Europeans gather, so embassy parties. Don't go out with the parties.

0:38:58.000 --> 0:38:58.960
<v Speaker 2>Embassy parties.

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<v Speaker 3>How do I find those?

0:39:02.040 --> 0:39:06.080
<v Speaker 2>They're in New York. But I'm thinking La. Where the Europeans?

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<v Speaker 2>Have I met some really cool guys at some I

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<v Speaker 2>have to ask my girlfriend. I have a girlfriend who

0:39:11.160 --> 0:39:14.520
<v Speaker 2>lives in LA, who knows a lot of people. Okaya,

0:39:14.640 --> 0:39:15.560
<v Speaker 2>you should meet Pam.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I'll meet Pam.

0:39:17.800 --> 0:39:18.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't go out, so there's no chance. I say, like, oh,

0:39:20.960 --> 0:39:22.960
<v Speaker 1>I want to meet someone, but like, I don't even

0:39:23.120 --> 0:39:25.200
<v Speaker 1>go out. I stay with my kids twenty four to seven.

0:39:25.360 --> 0:39:27.880
<v Speaker 2>So really, you got to take time for yourself to

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<v Speaker 2>you know, enjoy yourself and your yeah, your own you know, sexuality.

0:39:35.800 --> 0:39:36.120
<v Speaker 3>I know.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know what I really admire about you is

0:39:39.360 --> 0:39:44.680
<v Speaker 1>you are so in touch with your sexuality and I

0:39:44.719 --> 0:39:49.480
<v Speaker 1>think it's free and beautiful and you own it and

0:39:49.520 --> 0:39:54.600
<v Speaker 1>you do what you want, no apologies, right, And I

0:39:54.680 --> 0:39:57.960
<v Speaker 1>feel like I don't know this is archaic, but as

0:39:58.080 --> 0:40:02.239
<v Speaker 1>women were like, oh no, like you can't be too sexual, you.

0:40:02.239 --> 0:40:05.799
<v Speaker 3>Have to be a certain way. And it's like, no, really.

0:40:07.200 --> 0:40:10.880
<v Speaker 2>Do we have to be absolutely not? That's why you know,

0:40:10.960 --> 0:40:13.880
<v Speaker 2>I go there to the Love Hotel is a free bird.

0:40:14.160 --> 0:40:16.839
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, you know what, let's see what you got

0:40:16.880 --> 0:40:19.640
<v Speaker 2>because I love my life's the way I have it.

0:40:19.880 --> 0:40:22.440
<v Speaker 2>Now are you going to add to it? You know?

0:40:22.560 --> 0:40:22.800
<v Speaker 3>Are you?

0:40:23.040 --> 0:40:25.520
<v Speaker 2>Are you going to make me laugh? Right? Are you

0:40:25.520 --> 0:40:28.440
<v Speaker 2>going to make me laugh? To like cry? I was

0:40:28.480 --> 0:40:30.960
<v Speaker 2>looking to have, you know, my good time? That's how

0:40:31.000 --> 0:40:31.960
<v Speaker 2>you what.

0:40:32.480 --> 0:40:35.319
<v Speaker 1>That's the best feeling when someone can bring out the

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<v Speaker 1>real you.

0:40:36.480 --> 0:40:38.760
<v Speaker 3>And I if.

0:40:38.560 --> 0:40:42.040
<v Speaker 1>Someone makes me laugh hard, I will cry and piss myself.

0:40:43.239 --> 0:40:48.319
<v Speaker 1>I mean not really okay, good, no, but no, no, no,

0:40:48.600 --> 0:40:51.280
<v Speaker 1>you laugh so hard you're crying and you want to pee.

0:40:51.400 --> 0:40:53.200
<v Speaker 1>You're like, oh my god, I pee myself.

0:40:53.200 --> 0:40:55.799
<v Speaker 2>But you don't really Well, let's let's hope not and

0:40:55.960 --> 0:41:00.560
<v Speaker 2>so so you know, there's things for that, but I'm

0:41:00.560 --> 0:41:02.920
<v Speaker 2>not there now. I was looking for somebody who's going

0:41:03.000 --> 0:41:05.720
<v Speaker 2>to you know, I want to have a good time.

0:41:05.920 --> 0:41:08.600
<v Speaker 2>I'm here, I'm you know, you're dating. I want to

0:41:08.640 --> 0:41:11.279
<v Speaker 2>have fun. Let's have fun, and let's not try to

0:41:11.320 --> 0:41:13.040
<v Speaker 2>predict what's going to happen next, you know what I mean.

0:41:13.440 --> 0:41:16.040
<v Speaker 2>So you let go of expectations because you know what

0:41:16.040 --> 0:41:18.880
<v Speaker 2>I mean. People are like but you know, I don't know,

0:41:19.800 --> 0:41:21.920
<v Speaker 2>just take it for the moment and have a good

0:41:21.920 --> 0:41:24.680
<v Speaker 2>time in the moment, you know. And that's why I

0:41:24.719 --> 0:41:29.120
<v Speaker 2>think people overthink, you know, dating guys and you know,

0:41:29.239 --> 0:41:31.279
<v Speaker 2>just going with you know, for me, I go in

0:41:31.280 --> 0:41:33.640
<v Speaker 2>with a pure heart because I'm like a baby now.

0:41:33.640 --> 0:41:35.120
<v Speaker 2>I cry when I have to, and I love who

0:41:35.160 --> 0:41:37.320
<v Speaker 2>I want to. I know, you know, we used to

0:41:37.360 --> 0:41:40.160
<v Speaker 2>make concessions for other people. I'm going to go to

0:41:40.200 --> 0:41:42.720
<v Speaker 2>that wedding because you know, they really want me there.

0:41:42.560 --> 0:41:44.960
<v Speaker 2>We don't know them that well. I mean it happened

0:41:44.960 --> 0:41:48.080
<v Speaker 2>to me with Kelly ben Simone. I didn't really want

0:41:48.120 --> 0:41:49.560
<v Speaker 2>to go to the wedding. I didn't think much of

0:41:49.560 --> 0:41:53.160
<v Speaker 2>the guy, so I was like I was fighting myself

0:41:53.160 --> 0:41:54.279
<v Speaker 2>about it, and I said, you know what, I'm not

0:41:54.280 --> 0:41:56.080
<v Speaker 2>going to go. I don't believe this is going to

0:41:56.120 --> 0:41:58.960
<v Speaker 2>work out. And it didn't. Two days later, she canceled

0:41:58.960 --> 0:42:02.200
<v Speaker 2>the wedding. So that's a good example of you know,

0:42:03.160 --> 0:42:04.960
<v Speaker 2>you know, were always doing for others, you're doing for

0:42:05.000 --> 0:42:08.600
<v Speaker 2>your children, you have to do for yourself love, right, But.

0:42:08.680 --> 0:42:12.839
<v Speaker 1>I do believe I've always had hope and no matter

0:42:12.880 --> 0:42:18.120
<v Speaker 1>what happens, I lead with a kind heart and openness

0:42:18.200 --> 0:42:24.920
<v Speaker 1>of love. Yeah, but I tend to get hurt because

0:42:25.560 --> 0:42:28.279
<v Speaker 1>I can't keep it like free and like, oh this

0:42:28.440 --> 0:42:33.000
<v Speaker 1>is cool. Like if there's somebody and I'll like go

0:42:33.040 --> 0:42:35.720
<v Speaker 1>off the rails, I won't tell him. I'm like super

0:42:35.840 --> 0:42:38.520
<v Speaker 1>like I'm not that girl. I'm not that girls, Like

0:42:38.520 --> 0:42:40.239
<v Speaker 1>why didn't you text me? Why didn't you call me?

0:42:40.360 --> 0:42:44.600
<v Speaker 1>I will stay silent for days, but you didn't text me.

0:42:45.000 --> 0:42:48.759
<v Speaker 1>My heart's breaking, right, right, And I want to get

0:42:48.800 --> 0:42:50.680
<v Speaker 1>past that, Like I want to be able to be

0:42:50.760 --> 0:42:51.920
<v Speaker 1>like you.

0:42:51.840 --> 0:42:54.480
<v Speaker 2>Don't care you don't care it is. It is okay,

0:42:55.000 --> 0:42:57.520
<v Speaker 2>It is okay, but you know, obviously it's hard, like

0:42:57.560 --> 0:43:00.319
<v Speaker 2>if you like somebody and they're not giving that same

0:43:01.160 --> 0:43:06.120
<v Speaker 2>you know, like back right, Yeah, that's never easy, But

0:43:06.680 --> 0:43:12.240
<v Speaker 2>it doesn't mean that you you can't enjoy meeting somebody

0:43:12.320 --> 0:43:15.760
<v Speaker 2>else because guess what, you were there and now I'm busy.

0:43:15.960 --> 0:43:17.960
<v Speaker 2>Like when I was kind of bored with those boys

0:43:17.960 --> 0:43:20.319
<v Speaker 2>and went off and I started talking to Phil right

0:43:21.400 --> 0:43:23.200
<v Speaker 2>because I was like, you know, I'm not having fun

0:43:23.200 --> 0:43:24.399
<v Speaker 2>with you. I'm gonna go a fun up there.

0:43:25.719 --> 0:43:29.200
<v Speaker 3>And you weren't worried about hurting feelings like you.

0:43:29.200 --> 0:43:32.520
<v Speaker 2>Said, well, yeah, I mean exactly. No, you have to

0:43:32.520 --> 0:43:36.040
<v Speaker 2>think really about yourself. You know. That's why I said, okay,

0:43:36.120 --> 0:43:38.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm out because I was bored, so I was like,

0:43:38.520 --> 0:43:41.840
<v Speaker 2>I'm out, and I wanted to meet the other guys. Also,

0:43:42.000 --> 0:43:44.840
<v Speaker 2>I wanted to talk more to Ralph and Phil and

0:43:44.880 --> 0:43:45.480
<v Speaker 2>the other guys.

0:43:46.440 --> 0:43:49.279
<v Speaker 3>I understand. Well, I'm totally hooked on this show.

0:43:49.360 --> 0:43:49.560
<v Speaker 2>Good.

0:43:50.520 --> 0:43:52.360
<v Speaker 3>I can't wait for the next you're.

0:43:52.280 --> 0:43:54.319
<v Speaker 2>Gonna come to my cabaret in la I just plead

0:43:54.360 --> 0:43:55.280
<v Speaker 2>the Wiltern.

0:43:56.400 --> 0:43:58.520
<v Speaker 1>When I was supposed to come in August, and then

0:43:58.560 --> 0:44:00.719
<v Speaker 1>I couldn't that was for you.

0:44:00.840 --> 0:44:02.440
<v Speaker 3>Just were at the Wiltern Recess.

0:44:02.520 --> 0:44:05.560
<v Speaker 2>I just played the damn it what day was it?

0:44:05.600 --> 0:44:11.040
<v Speaker 2>April Man? And you'll come to the next one and

0:44:11.239 --> 0:44:13.319
<v Speaker 2>will about the Love Hotel. So you're gonna love it.

0:44:14.040 --> 0:44:18.160
<v Speaker 3>Okay, great, I'm in. Oh my gosh, I love you.

0:44:18.239 --> 0:44:22.880
<v Speaker 2>Wait when we get together and introduce my girlfriend.

0:44:22.920 --> 0:44:29.040
<v Speaker 3>Please please, if you go out, you certainly go out.

0:44:29.200 --> 0:44:30.319
<v Speaker 3>I'll do it. I'll do it for you.

0:44:30.360 --> 0:44:31.960
<v Speaker 2>Okay, good and New York. You're coming to New York

0:44:32.000 --> 0:44:32.239
<v Speaker 2>at all?

0:44:32.360 --> 0:44:35.960
<v Speaker 3>No, I might be like I come off and on

0:44:36.080 --> 0:44:36.600
<v Speaker 3>for work.

0:44:37.160 --> 0:44:39.400
<v Speaker 1>So if I come to New York, I'll take you

0:44:39.480 --> 0:44:42.000
<v Speaker 1>out embassy embassy guys.

0:44:42.120 --> 0:44:44.279
<v Speaker 2>I'll think you to all the European boys hang out.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, fine, Okay, let's do it. It's a deal. Okay

0:44:52.840 --> 0:44:53.479
<v Speaker 3>think Wait.

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<v Speaker 1>So So Love Hotel is on Ravo every Sunday night

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<v Speaker 1>filtering with.

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<v Speaker 3>So New York Cab.

0:45:02.920 --> 0:45:06.239
<v Speaker 2>What am I doing Boston? The Paramount Long Island. Then

0:45:06.280 --> 0:45:09.279
<v Speaker 2>I'm out. I'm out in California, but not to the

0:45:09.320 --> 0:45:12.960
<v Speaker 2>end of June. So okay, maybe one of those shows.

0:45:13.120 --> 0:45:17.319
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I saw dates all the way through August. Yeah, yeah, I.

0:45:17.320 --> 0:45:20.600
<v Speaker 1>Love and Then Love Hotel Also, you can view on

0:45:20.800 --> 0:45:25.520
<v Speaker 1>Peacocks streaming next day after it airs on Bravo nine

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<v Speaker 1>o'clock Sunday nights. Oh my god, I love you so much,

0:45:28.719 --> 0:45:29.680
<v Speaker 1>my tourist friend.

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<v Speaker 2>I love you, Tory