Speaker 1: Miss Spelling with Tori Spelling and iHeart Radio Podcast.
Speaker 2: How are you doing, Tori?
Speaker 3: I'm great? Oh my gosh, I look great. Thank you?
Speaker 3: So do you another hat? God? No one, no one
Speaker 3: wears a hat like you.
Speaker 2: Well listen. So I so my girlfriend owns New York
Speaker 2: Vintage in New York.
Speaker 3: Hook me up.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, you have to go there, you'll love it.
Speaker 2: She has she collects everything Valentino. Uh, you know, she
Speaker 2: gets all of their she owns most all of Valentino. Basically,
Speaker 2: where is it? It's on It's in Chelsea. Like Shannon,
Speaker 2: she is a badass. She she not only collects you know,
Speaker 2: these ventures things, but she's a box who boxes and
Speaker 2: she rides motocross motorcycles.
Speaker 1: Really okay, now, but you know I probably gonna say
Speaker 1: I didn't know you weren't to check now.
Speaker 2: Not no, not me either. That's the way I to
Speaker 2: love Hotel.
Speaker 3: Yeah okay, So first I.
Speaker 2: Have to say, okay, so we're gonna go down the
Speaker 2: hat story. Hold on, let's start about the hat. So
Speaker 2: Philip Trace, this is Philip Tracy, right. So okay, So
Speaker 2: I go into her story and I see my black hat,
Speaker 2: which is my Fedora, right, that I were all the time,
Speaker 2: been wearing it for years, the one that Kim Gerdashian
Speaker 2: to steal my look at the you know about that story.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, No, is that bitch stole my look?
Speaker 1: I mean that can be with anyone.
Speaker 2: That's totally But I didn't. I was moving into my house,
Speaker 2: so I didn't even know this was happening. And she
Speaker 2: wore a Fedora style hat on the red carpet to
Speaker 2: the uh help me out here, Sarah to the met Galla, Thanks,
Speaker 2: met Galla, and everyone's like, that is the countess this look?
Speaker 2: So anyway, I don't know who made her hat, but
Speaker 2: my that was made by Philip Tracy, who's the head
Speaker 2: of the Queen of England. Right, So I went to
Speaker 2: see him when I was in London, and because you
Speaker 2: can only go to see him in London, and because
Speaker 2: I was touring over right anyway, So he goes, I said,
Speaker 2: I want you to make me another one, because if
Speaker 2: I lose this hat, I'll be so upset. He goes,
Speaker 2: I can't make it again. I made it fifteen years ago,
Speaker 2: and that satin you can't get it anymore. That's bick,
Speaker 2: you know, because his great hat so he goes, I
Speaker 2: can't even make this for you again anyway. So that's
Speaker 2: that's the story, I mean. And on the wall he
Speaker 2: had a letter for only three and he's the header
Speaker 2: of the Queen of England and all the you know,
Speaker 2: all the euristos and anyway. So but he's got Liz
Speaker 2: Taylor on the wall one letter he kept only one,
Speaker 2: Joe Collins and Share and he's main hats for the
Speaker 2: whole world.
Speaker 1: So I mean, you're known for your hats. I'm I'm
Speaker 1: a marketing like branding guru. So well, are you doing
Speaker 1: your own hatline?
Speaker 2: Well, I'm working on it, you know, but maybe you've
Speaker 2: got more connections than I do.
Speaker 1: Probably not, but when it comes out, I'll totally support one. Right,
Speaker 1: I look terrible in hats, terrible.
Speaker 2: Really a fedor who looks band in the fedor? If
Speaker 2: I put this on you, you would look amazing.
Speaker 1: Okay, style me, bitch, please please okay? So I love
Speaker 1: in Love Hotel, the Grand Entrance. It's all these beauty shots,
Speaker 1: all of you look gorgeous in your hat flies off,
Speaker 1: I know, right, And for me that was a very
Speaker 1: I'm going to date myself here, Mary Tyler Moore like
Speaker 1: throwing her hat up right, none of the young kids
Speaker 1: will get that.
Speaker 2: But whatever, Well, you know, so funny because when it happened,
Speaker 2: it happened organically, and so I was like, well, that's
Speaker 2: the best thing. That's the best entrance right there, because
Speaker 2: you know, it just flew off and h yeah. So
Speaker 2: I love that moment. Okay, I love that moment.
Speaker 3: I love that moment. Okay.
Speaker 1: So I've watched all four episodes and I don't right
Speaker 1: of me, what.
Speaker 3: Really you were there? It doesn't count there.
Speaker 2: I was there.
Speaker 1: I don't know what the fuck I just watched, but
Speaker 1: I am here for it.
Speaker 2: Right, that's I know. It's great.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 2: You know what the great thing about is that we're
Speaker 2: each other's wing men. You know, it's not of this
Speaker 2: housewives drama I'll take you down, you know kind of stuff.
Speaker 2: It's you know, we have each other's backs.
Speaker 1: No, I love that you take the men down in
Speaker 1: that place exactly.
Speaker 3: So how did this?
Speaker 1: Like, so Bravo came to you and was like, hey,
Speaker 1: would single would you want to do this?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: And were you like who else is doing it? Or
Speaker 3: you don't know?
Speaker 2: Well I didn't know. So they called and they go, hey, Louis.
Speaker 2: So we're going to send you away for three weeks.
Speaker 2: Of course, we're going to pay you, and we're gonna
Speaker 2: find you guys. I go, I've been single for seven years.
Speaker 2: Good luck with that. Yeah, and well I was very
Speaker 2: you know, in trepidationous about it, like, well, they're going
Speaker 2: to find me, guys, I mean, I need a European anyway,
Speaker 2: we get a laundry list, we're getting Europeans. But and
Speaker 2: then they go, what time, guy, you're looking for us
Speaker 2: as well? First of all, kind successful in his own
Speaker 2: right that.
Speaker 3: You said kind, That was the first thing you said. Yes,
Speaker 3: I love that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, kind hard, kind.
Speaker 3: Hard to find.
Speaker 2: I want like a good kind man. Right, So of
Speaker 2: course successful and handsome and tall, which didn't pan out
Speaker 2: so great. But the guys were short.
Speaker 3: How tall are you? Okay?
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, you present taller?
Speaker 3: Well? Thank you? Yes, okay, sorry, I interact classy? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Right? Who actually for me? Who has children already? Because
Speaker 2: if the man is single, he doesn't have kids. He's
Speaker 2: never had to give himself to others, you know what
Speaker 2: I mean. So they tend to be as they get
Speaker 2: as they're older, they tend to be more spoiled. In
Speaker 2: terms of spoiling themselves. They're not other people selfish. Thank you,
Speaker 2: that's red and uh so, uh let's let's go on
Speaker 2: rich successful rich. You know rich money can't buy you class?
Speaker 1: Can you coined it the best? But here's my question
Speaker 1: to inter asking for myself as well. You're super successful,
Speaker 1: Do you need somebody rich?
Speaker 2: No, that's why I said, it's not about you know,
Speaker 2: not somebody.
Speaker 3: Who'd be nice. I understand, travel with.
Speaker 2: Me in first class? Okay, you know I want the
Speaker 2: guy singing in economy while I travel in first class,
Speaker 2: you know, saying so, who has the same lifestyle? And
Speaker 2: I say it on the show, I want a guy
Speaker 2: with the same lifestyle, which is I'm busy, I have
Speaker 2: my cabaret, I do my TV thing. You know, I
Speaker 2: want somebody who is not too needy, because I don't
Speaker 2: want a needy guy. I want a guy that's got
Speaker 2: his own thing going on, who has the same kind
Speaker 2: of lifestyle, which is means the same kind of money
Speaker 2: more or less. Right. I have my home. This is
Speaker 2: staying in my house. I go, I my home. I
Speaker 2: have my children, I have a career of everything I've
Speaker 2: always wanted. I have my beautiful cars outside, right, So
Speaker 2: I want somebody who's going to bring something to that equation,
Speaker 2: like which is you know, parallel universes.
Speaker 1: I understand that I took notes watching this because I
Speaker 1: was like, I'm newly single, I'm gonna hopefully date one day.
Speaker 3: And I was like, wow, you go.
Speaker 2: On the hotel darling. I mean that would be fun.
Speaker 1: I'm not sure after seeing those guys, but okay, but no,
Speaker 1: I took note like, oh, that is super important that
Speaker 1: they have kids, that they understand what it's like to
Speaker 1: give and care for others and not themselves. So I
Speaker 1: put that on my list in here. I would think
Speaker 1: it's pretty hard to date someone like you because not
Speaker 1: that you're putting it on them, but how can a
Speaker 1: man and men or men and their primal not feel
Speaker 1: emasculated with you.
Speaker 2: I'm such a girl, honey, I am such a girl.
Speaker 2: Will you see me blurred around?
Speaker 3: Oh? No, no, no, I don't feel that way.
Speaker 1: You're super successful, you're driven, you're hardworking. I mean you two.
Speaker 1: I mean we all have our stuff, but to the outside,
Speaker 1: you have it all.
Speaker 3: So to come to step into that is a hard thing.
Speaker 1: It's going to take a man that's really the right one,
Speaker 1: the right.
Speaker 2: One, secure himself, you know. So you see what's going
Speaker 2: on with James at this point, Right, James says, I
Speaker 2: love my life the way it made it. And James's
Speaker 2: you know, tagline for his life is I love my life,
Speaker 2: you know, And I was like that energy. I love
Speaker 2: that energy about him because he was so secure about
Speaker 2: who he is. He likes to meditate, he likes yoga,
Speaker 2: he's pretty, he has his own business, you know, he's
Speaker 2: you know.
Speaker 1: He doesn't have though, he doesn't make peepy. Well I
Speaker 1: want a private point.
Speaker 3: Well he's okay, so he did.
Speaker 2: He has Oh wait, did we see arma baby yet?
Speaker 2: Maybe not see it?
Speaker 3: We get to see it?
Speaker 2: Well, I well, no, meaning we talk about it.
Speaker 3: I didn't even know what about it, he said. He
Speaker 3: tells you a story.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. But when he told you that story, I
Speaker 1: was like, I don't know as what I think to
Speaker 1: be like your friend over over podcasts, I was like,
Speaker 1: got defensive. I'm like, why is he telling her this
Speaker 1: right now? Like oh my gosh. But then on the
Speaker 1: other hand, I'm like, I want to say it like
Speaker 1: the arm of.
Speaker 2: A baby, like a baby's arm a baby. It's like
Speaker 2: a thing, which I did not know it hereditary like
Speaker 2: is that's where I said.
Speaker 3: With it?
Speaker 2: Of course, I think penis size is definitely hereditary.
Speaker 1: Well, it doesn't skip like like you know, someone can
Speaker 1: have full head of hair and then it skips a generation.
Speaker 3: They're bald like men. So it really James got lucky.
Speaker 2: Whoa whoa.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, because that towel went up on that camera and.
Speaker 2: You know, there's something to be said for mystery.
Speaker 3: Okay, great. I mean when you brought your vibrator to
Speaker 3: Love Hotel, you didn't know you were James, so I
Speaker 3: hope you brought lube too.
Speaker 2: Well listen, darling, you know I'm going on a dating show.
Speaker 2: I don't know what's going to happen, so I had
Speaker 2: to come backing.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Wait, so it was in a black case. They
Speaker 1: stopped you at customs because of it. Correct, what brand
Speaker 1: was was that?
Speaker 3: I'm just I'm asking for a friend.
Speaker 2: Oh wait, it was what's your name, Lulu Fils fancy French?
Speaker 3: Oh my god, of course you have fancy fucking vibrator.
Speaker 2: It's tiny, tiny, it's not about it's not powerized. It's
Speaker 2: about the motion of the ocean.
Speaker 3: That has been powerful. Yeah, did you use that with James?
Speaker 2: No, because I didn't need to.
Speaker 3: Yay, Oh my gosh, I can't wait to see what happens.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, So all these men come on, and first
Speaker 1: of all, you look so hot.
Speaker 3: In this show.
Speaker 2: Oh thank you, like a.
Speaker 1: Tall drink of water, so beautiful. There is something about it, though.
Speaker 1: I have to be honest that I wanted to see
Speaker 1: you with someone a tabit younger, because right, I don't
Speaker 1: think women and men the same, similar ages, look the same.
Speaker 3: If that makes sense, well it does.
Speaker 2: I mean there's I think there's very few guys that
Speaker 2: really look good at you know, in their fifties, sixty,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: I agree, like I don't want to see you with
Speaker 1: the silver Fox.
Speaker 2: Right right, Well, although I do love a silver fox,
Speaker 2: see what happens on the show, but ultimately I don't.
Speaker 3: Think is in the silver Fox.
Speaker 2: Wait?
Speaker 1: Wait, wait, there's someone Oh my god, score, yes, sorry.
Speaker 2: There's the beeping sound going on here. Hold on a second,
Speaker 2: how was that? Okay? Whatever, I got so many workers here,
Speaker 2: there's the pool happening, and there's something beeping. One second,
Speaker 2: that's that's my Warren.
Speaker 3: Okay, what wait? Is that?
Speaker 1: Is that the key to the hotel around your neck
Speaker 1: or I'm serious.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well it is a key, that's true. It's the key. Yeah.
Speaker 3: I like puzzles and games.
Speaker 1: Wait, it's a key in reference to the show.
Speaker 2: Well, it's just it's a key. And how funny that
Speaker 2: I have the sound for this. It's so funny. I
Speaker 2: didn't even think about it. Oh really, I no, I
Speaker 2: never gave it a second though. No, I can see
Speaker 2: you back. Okay, sorry about that. I had a little
Speaker 2: problem with my alarm.
Speaker 3: Okay, So were you friends with any of the girls before.
Speaker 2: Or you know, Bravo con friends you know howse are
Speaker 2: I friends but not close.
Speaker 1: I'm a big fan of Shannon. I know Shannon, and
Speaker 1: I think, yeah, I.
Speaker 3: Hope it works out. I'm really upset about girl.
Speaker 2: I know, Earl the Pearl. Well you'll see what happens.
Speaker 2: But the Pearl, Earl the Pearl, I mean, not the
Speaker 2: guy I would go for. But okay, and I know, right,
Speaker 2: I was like, really anyway, so you'll see what happens there.
Speaker 2: But you know, Shannon's track record with guys is not
Speaker 2: the best, isn't it.
Speaker 3: No, it's not.
Speaker 2: No, I love her, So it's like, you know, I
Speaker 2: think it's poorly due to her own lack of maybe
Speaker 2: confidence in that way, you know what I'm saying, Like, no, girl,
Speaker 2: you can get whoever you want, right, But somehow I
Speaker 2: don't know if she believes it. And then she winds
Speaker 2: up with these guys who are like, leave her for
Speaker 2: other women who are on her cast. I mean, who
Speaker 2: does that?
Speaker 3: Who guys does she dates?
Speaker 1: But here's the thing. So part of me was like,
Speaker 1: and I do feel bad, Like I think she's so
Speaker 1: beautiful and so nice and so funny that to me,
Speaker 1: but I have bad confidence that I.
Speaker 3: Was like, no, like, you're great, But I felt like,
Speaker 3: do you think she.
Speaker 1: Went out with Earle to begin with because he told
Speaker 1: the story about how his wife had died and she
Speaker 1: felt bad in some way or connected. No, she was
Speaker 1: really into him. Yeah, she knows she was until she
Speaker 1: wasn't right.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, you'll see what happens there, but you know
Speaker 2: I did.
Speaker 3: At the end, he got the letter.
Speaker 1: He's eliminated, right, Oh, Viral, let to find his pearl
Speaker 1: somewhere else.
Speaker 3: Poor Earl. He's been through a lot and he's eliminated.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 3: But it wasn't working, No, not really. But each of
Speaker 3: you get to eliminate somebody.
Speaker 2: Well, what happens is that, you know, we kind of
Speaker 2: I love that moment where I go, you know what,
Speaker 2: I like Ralph. He's hot, he's tall. I'm gonna take
Speaker 2: Ralph and they're like, what you already got two guys's taking Ralph.
Speaker 2: Well let me give him a little ride and see
Speaker 2: what happens. There's a little ride, meaning a little spend
Speaker 2: a little time with Ralph.
Speaker 3: Anyway, was there a baby arm like James, No.
Speaker 2: Well we didn't. We didn't go to it's.
Speaker 3: About the size. We didn't get on the size.
Speaker 2: We didn't get on the right just yet. I mean,
Speaker 2: you know, let's find out what he's all about. Also,
Speaker 2: because if you're interested in him, let's find out more
Speaker 2: about him. Because I'm looking out for the girls too.
Speaker 1: You see, you are, all of you are looking out
Speaker 1: for each other. That is so nice to see. But wait,
Speaker 1: Ralph was like every I know he was rowing in here.
Speaker 1: Why does everyone want Ralph?
Speaker 2: Well, Ralph is hot. Ralph is hot. Let's say that,
Speaker 2: you know, super tall, good looking, muscular.
Speaker 3: He was tall. That's what you want there?
Speaker 2: You go just like because he's tall. I'm like yeah,
Speaker 2: because he's tall.
Speaker 1: There weren't a lot of younger guys there, Like, what
Speaker 1: if you guys decided to go younger? I mean, I
Speaker 1: know there were a few, but like, you know, yeah,
Speaker 1: that was for Ashley's sake, because she's thirty six, right.
Speaker 2: Right, exactly exactly. She's got small kids. She could still
Speaker 2: have another child with the guys she wanted to, you
Speaker 2: know what, I mean, We're in a totally different you know,
Speaker 2: bracket in terms of who we're going to date. But
Speaker 2: I think part of her is also looking for daddy
Speaker 2: a little bit too, you know what I mean. I
Speaker 2: think she likes older guys, but I mean younger guys.
Speaker 2: But I think, I mean, she was with an older guy,
Speaker 2: wasn't she in the past?
Speaker 3: I don't know, it's your casting.
Speaker 2: I don't know everything about their past. I think she
Speaker 2: was with an older man, so so, but yeah, obviously
Speaker 2: there could have been more younger guys. I think, sure, yeah,
Speaker 2: I mean Joe not Joe Bradley young, but you know, younger.
Speaker 3: There.
Speaker 1: So okay, so everyone wants Ralph. Wait, who's the surfer guy?
Speaker 3: I liked him?
Speaker 2: Oh Jerry, Oh the one they went I'm out. I
Speaker 2: turned around and walk away because all he does is
Speaker 2: talk about surfing. I mean, he's a nice.
Speaker 1: Guy, but I did I miss something? Well, they edited,
Speaker 1: like that's all he talked about.
Speaker 2: Well pretty much. You know. We talked about travel and
Speaker 2: he likes you travel to places to go and surf.
Speaker 2: I said, well, you surf all day in Puerto Rico
Speaker 2: and then you're gonna travel go surfing, And what am
Speaker 2: I gonna do with that? I like sometimes like sunset,
Speaker 2: so do I. But you know, I like to go
Speaker 2: to Paris.
Speaker 3: I like, yeah, let's take a walk on the beach. Okay,
Speaker 3: I'm done.
Speaker 2: I'm done.
Speaker 3: Is that what we said?
Speaker 2: I'm out.
Speaker 1: I love your confidence. You're like two guys on episode one.
Speaker 1: You're talking to them and they're like, I'll be right back,
Speaker 1: and then you're off with someone else. Uh, pussy power
Speaker 1: so great?
Speaker 3: What's so great?
Speaker 2: When we board, I was bored, So that's why I
Speaker 2: got up. I was like, you know what, all right,
Speaker 2: first of all, go and get me a drink, do something,
Speaker 2: you know whatever. So I was the bored, so I
Speaker 2: got up and moved.
Speaker 3: Are there more guys coming?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 3: Just thank god?
Speaker 1: Well, a constant rotation of the stallions.
Speaker 2: Well there's there's a you know, there's you're.
Speaker 3: A Philly that won't be broke. I'll stick with that.
Speaker 2: What's that?
Speaker 3: I think?
Speaker 1: So they were talking, Joel's talking about the Stallions. I
Speaker 1: released them from the stables. I think you're a Philly.
Speaker 1: They can't be broke. And I mean that in the
Speaker 1: best way.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, good good, Yeah, it's I know what I want.
Speaker 2: Let's put it that way. At this point in my life,
Speaker 2: I'm like, I know what I want, so and I
Speaker 2: know quickly. So why waste your time?
Speaker 1: Did you think at any moment that you were like, hm,
Speaker 1: I can find true love here.
Speaker 3: Yes, like moments of it? Okay, yeah, you never know.
Speaker 2: You never know. It takes Listen, three weeks is not
Speaker 2: a long time, right, No, although I married the count
Speaker 2: after two weeks of knowing him.
Speaker 3: Wait did you?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Seventeen years and two beautiful children.
Speaker 1: Two beautiful children, a name that won't quit. You're the
Speaker 1: Countess forever.
Speaker 2: No, it's like I'm listen, I have two kids with him.
Speaker 2: He never remarried, my married. No. In fact, my kids
Speaker 2: are with him right now. It's his birthday.
Speaker 3: Today, Happy birthday, Counts, I say, yeah.
Speaker 2: Or Alex, you know I called them, of course, Alex.
Speaker 3: Why why do you think he never remarried?
Speaker 2: Well, because I think he was married four times, and
Speaker 2: I think that was his fourth wife. That was a
Speaker 2: fourth wife, And but our marriage lasted longer than all
Speaker 2: the three of his put together before that. That's pretty interesting.
Speaker 2: But I think that you know, he's an age bray.
Speaker 2: He doesn't, you know, wantn't be married, just having a
Speaker 2: nice time, you know, dating and living in you know,
Speaker 2: the Middle East. He lives all over the World's in
Speaker 2: Switzerland at least, so he's just enjoying his his life.
Speaker 3: Do you want to set me up?
Speaker 2: I would love to.
Speaker 3: I could be number.
Speaker 2: Five, but I think he's too old for you.
Speaker 3: Duraling how old?
Speaker 2: Well, he's sixteen years older than me and I just
Speaker 2: turned Okay, No, he's like seventy five. No, it's too few.
Speaker 3: It could be like Anna Nicole.
Speaker 1: Okay, So anyway, I'm open to anything.
Speaker 3: At this point, I never thought my life would be here.
Speaker 3: So here we go.
Speaker 1: Wait, so if they do a season two, who do
Speaker 1: you think should be honest?
Speaker 2: Who's Cynthia Bailey?
Speaker 3: Ah, Duran.
Speaker 2: Sutton Stratch Oh.
Speaker 1: Yes, right, Phedra, sure my Carl right?
Speaker 2: I love the house.
Speaker 3: Son God knows she needs it.
Speaker 2: Man.
Speaker 3: I love watching you and Sonia together. It makes me
Speaker 3: so happy.
Speaker 2: Right, craffe leg was so fun.
Speaker 3: It was so good, so good.
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Speaker 1: might we see a song write you?
Speaker 2: We I actually work on a song while I'm there. Okay,
Speaker 2: you're going to hear that, I think, Okay, if I'm
Speaker 2: not mis it.
Speaker 3: But it's not like you making a song, No no, no.
Speaker 2: I'm making a song for next tour because the next
Speaker 2: cabaret tour. You know, my tour is always changing, right,
Speaker 2: So I do my last the tour before this is
Speaker 2: Mary f kil like who we'd marry, Who we'd ask me?
Speaker 2: Who we kill? So that's what my conversations about. And
Speaker 2: then I picked the song that goes with that conversation, right,
Speaker 2: and a song that everybody knows because like a big
Speaker 2: sing long and it's so much fun. So this last
Speaker 2: tour was the greatest hits and the next turn in
Speaker 2: twenty twenty six will be about the Love Hotel and
Speaker 2: about love, love gone right and love gone wrong also right,
Speaker 2: because you know, in life, we we do crazy things
Speaker 2: for love, right and and for heartbreak.
Speaker 3: Tell me about it, right, We move.
Speaker 2: We change our lives, we do crazy shit right because
Speaker 2: we're in love or we're heartbroken. And that's what makes
Speaker 2: the world go around. Because without love, what is the point?
Speaker 2: So I want you to be on the Love hote
Speaker 2: tell me because I want you to find a guide
Speaker 2: and be so content, you know, and love somebody that much,
Speaker 2: which would be nice, wouldn't it?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Wait, I have to process what you just said. Without love,
Speaker 1: what is the point.
Speaker 2: What is the point?
Speaker 3: Well, there's different forms of love.
Speaker 1: There's well love we feel with our children, love with
Speaker 1: ourselves and with our.
Speaker 3: Friends, so you mean a romantic love.
Speaker 1: But what I mean at this point in life, I
Speaker 1: gave up the fairy tale that I grew up with
Speaker 1: the white picket fence. I never wanted one of those,
Speaker 1: but maybe maybe a golden one.
Speaker 2: I have a white picket fence. You want to see you.
Speaker 3: I don't know what.
Speaker 1: I don't know love wise, what I believe in anymore,
Speaker 1: because I've been through the ringer and I'm just like,
Speaker 1: maybe monogamy doesn't work, Maybe there isn't finding that one human.
Speaker 3: Maybe love? What is love well for me? To you?
Speaker 2: For me, love is someone who who adores the ground
Speaker 2: that you walk on, Somebody who is will catch you
Speaker 2: when you fall, will get you in your fall, somebody
Speaker 2: who's got your back, somebody who inspires you, right, somebody
Speaker 2: who you you're inspired by. Right. So I saw a
Speaker 2: what do you call an astrologer and she said to me,
Speaker 2: when you look at your man, you should be like, wow,
Speaker 2: I can't believe I'm with him, instead of like wow,
Speaker 2: what am I doing with him? Or you know, oh
Speaker 2: I could do better? Or you know you know what
Speaker 2: I'm saying. This all this felts out, So you know, listen,
Speaker 2: love is leading with your heart and being loving yourself first,
Speaker 2: because you can't love other people who don't love yourself.
Speaker 2: So it starts there really because now and also it's
Speaker 2: also you know, I'm man, I'm I said, by twenty
Speaker 2: twenty four, I'm going to find a love because I
Speaker 2: work in seven year cycles, So you're gonna love this.
Speaker 2: So I divorced account in two thousand and nine.
Speaker 3: Okay, wait, I don't do math, do I have to
Speaker 3: right now?
Speaker 2: No, well, I'll add for you. So two thousand divorce accounts.
Speaker 2: Seven years later, I get married to Tom. Okay, right,
Speaker 2: So then I divorced Tom seven months later verse seven,
Speaker 2: and then seven years later because so seven years second.
Speaker 2: So I knew by twenty twenty four. And I was
Speaker 2: told this by this astrology that I just spoke about,
Speaker 2: that I would be a fine love, and so I
Speaker 2: kind of manifested it. So, you know, I think that
Speaker 2: it's so important too. You know, I say to my knees.
Speaker 2: They're in their forties, you know, one of their twins,
Speaker 2: one has children, the other one is still thinking. I said,
Speaker 2: you can't just throw darts now at the dirt word.
Speaker 2: You have to aim, really aim for the center for
Speaker 2: the bullseye. You know, there's no no messing around now.
Speaker 2: And what I mean by that, what I mean by
Speaker 2: that is, you know, like Ramona said to me, she
Speaker 2: made a whole list of things that she wanted in
Speaker 2: the guy. She wrote them down, wrote them down, wrote
Speaker 2: them down, and so and then she found a guy,
Speaker 2: a boyfriend. So, but you have to really will it
Speaker 2: and want it to happen. You know, you can't come
Speaker 2: out as negative Nelly right and go I'm never gonna
Speaker 2: happen for me and I've given up on it. And
Speaker 2: what you speak to the universe makes a difference. So
Speaker 2: if you go out there and go, I know, I'm
Speaker 2: going to be a guy and I'm this and I'm great,
Speaker 2: and I'm going to meet a guy that's this, that
Speaker 2: and the other thing, you know what I mean. So
Speaker 2: you have to really manifest it. You have to put
Speaker 2: out into the universe what you want, because if you
Speaker 2: put out negative, you're not going to get it. You're
Speaker 2: going to get negative. Right. So it's all about energy.
Speaker 2: It's all about the energy that people give, right, right.
Speaker 2: The energy is this, like the energy is I'm heavy,
Speaker 2: go lucky, I'm happy to be by myself and you know,
Speaker 2: and women have to also invite men. So I'll give
Speaker 2: your invite men.
Speaker 3: Oh wait yeah, like so like a vampire.
Speaker 1: You know, a vampire cannot enter your house unless you
Speaker 1: invite them.
Speaker 2: Right, Well, listen, this goes back to like the Queen
Speaker 2: of England. Right, so you know you're not going to
Speaker 2: go to Queen rest in Peace, Queen Elizabeth. You're not
Speaker 2: going to go to Queen Elizabeth and and try to
Speaker 2: shake her hand. She has to extend her hand to
Speaker 2: you and invite you. Right, So men have to be
Speaker 2: invited by women also, which is you go to you're
Speaker 2: out with your girlfriends, You're at a table at a
Speaker 2: restaurant bar situation. There's a hot guy at the bar, right,
Speaker 2: and you're with a gaggle of girls. Now, he's not
Speaker 2: gonna come over because he's it's too much, right And
Speaker 2: does the girl go over to the bar and pick
Speaker 2: him up. No, This is where the waiter comes in, handy,
Speaker 2: I need to see the waiter and you write a
Speaker 2: note and you invite him over to the table for
Speaker 2: a drink. Please join us for a drink. He's gonna come.
Speaker 1: I'm so bad at this. I probably would go home
Speaker 1: with the waiter like, well, i'd crap out.
Speaker 2: Well that can happen to it. But I'm just But
Speaker 2: the point is that, you know, women really do invite
Speaker 2: men into their space, and so, you know when, for example,
Speaker 2: the first episode, I think I was like, well, hello Jerry, right, so,
Speaker 2: hello Jerry, because the way he looked at me, you
Speaker 2: know I knew right away, yes, so and then I
Speaker 2: invited him on a date, didn't I.
Speaker 3: Well, because you had to those the rules.
Speaker 2: Right, But but I would invite a guy on a date.
Speaker 2: You know, women are caught up in all these rules
Speaker 2: that they should be there for the you know, not
Speaker 2: be the last one to text or you know, afraid
Speaker 2: to reach out because he didn't call me in five days. Well, hey,
Speaker 2: what's up, let's grab a cocktail. Who cares?
Speaker 3: No, you're right, would you be a renaissance?
Speaker 2: I'm a good wing man for your doll.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, please help me out here. There's a
Speaker 3: show here as well.
Speaker 1: But there was a lot of talk about you're talking
Speaker 1: about your nieces, right, you said in their forties one single.
Speaker 1: A lot of talk if this is my last shot,
Speaker 1: which really weighed on me because I was like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, I just turned fifty two last week, and
Speaker 1: I'm like.
Speaker 2: Oh happy, but to your tourist like me, yes, wait
Speaker 2: when's your They the seventeen that just had my birthday?
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, you after mine?
Speaker 2: Oh you?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 2: I love that. That's why I really like each other. Okay, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: Souris women are fears together. I have a lot of
Speaker 2: tourist friends, don't you. No, Oh you don't how interesting
Speaker 2: I do.
Speaker 3: I have a couple.
Speaker 1: I have a couple, but yeah, I always gravitate towards
Speaker 1: uh aries women, which don't really sink well with me,
Speaker 1: but I'm friends with them.
Speaker 3: I don't know. Or Lebres. Yeah, last shot.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, I'm fifty two, Like, do I have
Speaker 1: to make this next one count s?
Speaker 2: No? No, because now you're predicting, you know what I mean,
Speaker 2: And you know you have to live in the moment.
Speaker 2: Right there's no yesterday and there's no tomorrow, So now
Speaker 2: you're predicting the fifty two. I'm gonna wash it up
Speaker 2: and there's no there's no guys out there and whatever,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? That's this is everything you
Speaker 2: can't think, which is.
Speaker 3: My self confidence is shit.
Speaker 1: But I actually think I'm hot so you are hot.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm sure you're getting hit on all.
Speaker 3: The time by young guys right.
Speaker 2: Too. Oh they love that, you know, they love that.
Speaker 2: I mean, listen when I remember when you know, I
Speaker 2: was that age. I like older guys. You know the
Speaker 2: same with guys they like older women because they know
Speaker 2: what they're doing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's not going to work out. Like no,
Speaker 1: So last time we talked, we talked about the bush
Speaker 1: song and you were gonna think about incorporating that into
Speaker 1: your cabaret.
Speaker 2: What the bush? What? Uh?
Speaker 1: Yeah, So we talked about, you know, the old thing
Speaker 1: about you falling in the bushes, and I was like,
Speaker 1: the bushes back is the bush back? We talked about
Speaker 1: that and then I was like, wait, you have to
Speaker 1: do a song about this.
Speaker 3: You're like, I might do a song about this.
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I did not because recently I came up
Speaker 2: I remember so when I.
Speaker 3: Was you do have to give me credit, just do it.
Speaker 2: No, I came up with another song, which is a
Speaker 2: drag Queen saved my.
Speaker 3: Life to shade fine.
Speaker 2: I was getting seriously, I was dating guy when I
Speaker 2: was a nurse in Connecticut. Then I got scouted to
Speaker 2: be a model, right, And I was debating, do I
Speaker 2: go to New York? Do I not go to I'm
Speaker 2: a nurse. I'm gonna get married to this guy, Joe.
Speaker 2: And I come home one day from working as a nurse,
Speaker 2: and I walk in and he's getting a blowjob from
Speaker 2: the worst looking drag queen you've ever seen your life.
Speaker 3: I mean, sorry, horrible.
Speaker 2: So this so the point is that it made me
Speaker 2: move to New York. You see, So a drag queen
Speaker 2: saved my life and changed my life because my whole
Speaker 2: life would change after that. Then I went to Europe.
Speaker 2: You know, I had to go all the way to
Speaker 2: Europe to find the count. Do you think I found
Speaker 2: in my backyard?
Speaker 1: No, that'd be nice, right, wouldn't that be nice? I
Speaker 1: want to count.
Speaker 3: That'd be great.
Speaker 2: Aristo is falling from the trees.
Speaker 1: So I mean, everything, everything pans out the way it's
Speaker 1: supposed to do everything. And do you believe like, if
Speaker 1: anything changes, you change your destiny.
Speaker 2: I do believe that. I think that change, Uh sure
Speaker 2: beats habit. Change is better than word.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, you you need to put on an
Speaker 3: inspirational book too. Don't worry, I won't take a referral
Speaker 3: fee for that one either. But I'm not saying.
Speaker 2: I'm working on a d I'm working on a dating.
Speaker 2: But I get asked this all the time, right, you know,
Speaker 2: I get asked about dating all the time, and tip
Speaker 2: some dating and flirting and all these things you know,
Speaker 2: all the time. So I definitely have to do book
Speaker 2: on flirting the art of flirtation.
Speaker 3: Of course you do, because it's an art.
Speaker 2: Like that's how I met you, Grant. I backed my
Speaker 2: chair up.
Speaker 3: A restaurant you met you, Grant, tell that story, please?
Speaker 2: What? Okay? So wait, so I'm out in the Hampton's right.
Speaker 2: This is right after I divorced account. I'm talking about
Speaker 2: fifteen years ago, right, And so I heard he was
Speaker 2: at Pierres, which is the restaurant we have in Bridgehampton.
Speaker 2: I go, he is, okay, we'll hold meet the table
Speaker 2: next to him. I'm going to sit right next time.
Speaker 2: So I go with. I'm with a group, my brother's
Speaker 2: there with his wife, and you sit next behind, like Hugh.
Speaker 2: So he was right behind me. Here, I'm in my
Speaker 2: chair and I slide my cheerwck and I bang ined
Speaker 2: him and I go own, I'm so sorry, and I go,
Speaker 2: can I buy you a drink? Because I bumped into
Speaker 2: his chair right, And before you know it, he's sitting
Speaker 2: at my table and we're doing shots in tequila.
Speaker 3: My god, you're good. Well listen, it's like wait, wait,
Speaker 3: and then no, and then he before.
Speaker 2: You know it, he's sitting at my table. We're doing
Speaker 2: shots of tequila and reminding.
Speaker 3: Of that part and then making up. You meet out
Speaker 3: with Hugh Grants.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and my brother goes, I can't believe that you're
Speaker 2: sitting here making up with you. Guys me neither.
Speaker 3: Me killed Julia Roberts got nothing on you. Damn.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Hugh Grant, that's like legendary, but you're legendary,
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: And then what it didn't go on?
Speaker 2: Oh my god, and went on no, not really, no, no,
Speaker 2: but not not because I didn't want.
Speaker 3: To look good kiss her.
Speaker 2: There was a lot of tequila involved, as the English saying,
Speaker 2: I can't remember.
Speaker 3: That's your story. You're sticking to it. Perfect, I'll ask
Speaker 3: you offline. Perfect. Oh my god.
Speaker 1: Wait, that is amazing. We just need to pick an actor.
Speaker 1: You'll help me, and we need to find out where
Speaker 1: he is, okay, and then I just go.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but why do you want an actor? Oh? My god,
Speaker 2: I don't know actors are insecure?
Speaker 3: Don I don't know why I said that. It's old habit.
Speaker 3: It's just all I've known my entire life.
Speaker 2: Actor, for God's sake.
Speaker 1: Well, what do I want? I don't want a businessman.
Speaker 1: They can't deal with my life.
Speaker 2: What about a European?
Speaker 3: Okay, but they're far they're far away.
Speaker 2: Well, Darling, Well, I live in New York, so there's
Speaker 2: a lot of Europeans.
Speaker 3: Right, it's closer.
Speaker 1: I'm in LA and five young kids. Like, what am
Speaker 1: I gonna do? Move my kids to Europe? Live in
Speaker 1: a castle?
Speaker 3: Sign me up?
Speaker 2: No? But but go to places where you know, like
Speaker 2: Europeans gather, so embassy parties. Don't go out with the parties.
Speaker 2: Embassy parties.
Speaker 3: How do I find those?
Speaker 2: They're in New York. But I'm thinking La. Where the Europeans?
Speaker 2: Have I met some really cool guys at some I
Speaker 2: have to ask my girlfriend. I have a girlfriend who
Speaker 2: lives in LA, who knows a lot of people. Okaya,
Speaker 2: you should meet Pam.
Speaker 3: Okay, I'll meet Pam.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I don't go out, so there's no chance. I say, like, oh,
Speaker 1: I want to meet someone, but like, I don't even
Speaker 1: go out. I stay with my kids twenty four to seven.
Speaker 2: So really, you got to take time for yourself to
Speaker 2: you know, enjoy yourself and your yeah, your own you know, sexuality.
Speaker 3: I know.
Speaker 1: And you know what I really admire about you is
Speaker 1: you are so in touch with your sexuality and I
Speaker 1: think it's free and beautiful and you own it and
Speaker 1: you do what you want, no apologies, right, And I
Speaker 1: feel like I don't know this is archaic, but as
Speaker 1: women were like, oh no, like you can't be too sexual, you.
Speaker 3: Have to be a certain way. And it's like, no, really.
Speaker 2: Do we have to be absolutely not? That's why you know,
Speaker 2: I go there to the Love Hotel is a free bird.
Speaker 2: I'm like, you know what, let's see what you got
Speaker 2: because I love my life's the way I have it.
Speaker 2: Now are you going to add to it? You know?
Speaker 3: Are you?
Speaker 2: Are you going to make me laugh? Right? Are you
Speaker 2: going to make me laugh? To like cry? I was
Speaker 2: looking to have, you know, my good time? That's how
Speaker 2: you what.
Speaker 1: That's the best feeling when someone can bring out the
Speaker 1: real you.
Speaker 3: And I if.
Speaker 1: Someone makes me laugh hard, I will cry and piss myself.
Speaker 1: I mean not really okay, good, no, but no, no, no,
Speaker 1: you laugh so hard you're crying and you want to pee.
Speaker 1: You're like, oh my god, I pee myself.
Speaker 2: But you don't really Well, let's let's hope not and
Speaker 2: so so you know, there's things for that, but I'm
Speaker 2: not there now. I was looking for somebody who's going
Speaker 2: to you know, I want to have a good time.
Speaker 2: I'm here, I'm you know, you're dating. I want to
Speaker 2: have fun. Let's have fun, and let's not try to
Speaker 2: predict what's going to happen next, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: So you let go of expectations because you know what
Speaker 2: I mean. People are like but you know, I don't know,
Speaker 2: just take it for the moment and have a good
Speaker 2: time in the moment, you know. And that's why I
Speaker 2: think people overthink, you know, dating guys and you know,
Speaker 2: just going with you know, for me, I go in
Speaker 2: with a pure heart because I'm like a baby now.
Speaker 2: I cry when I have to, and I love who
Speaker 2: I want to. I know, you know, we used to
Speaker 2: make concessions for other people. I'm going to go to
Speaker 2: that wedding because you know, they really want me there.
Speaker 2: We don't know them that well. I mean it happened
Speaker 2: to me with Kelly ben Simone. I didn't really want
Speaker 2: to go to the wedding. I didn't think much of
Speaker 2: the guy, so I was like I was fighting myself
Speaker 2: about it, and I said, you know what, I'm not
Speaker 2: going to go. I don't believe this is going to
Speaker 2: work out. And it didn't. Two days later, she canceled
Speaker 2: the wedding. So that's a good example of you know,
Speaker 2: you know, were always doing for others, you're doing for
Speaker 2: your children, you have to do for yourself love, right, But.
Speaker 1: I do believe I've always had hope and no matter
Speaker 1: what happens, I lead with a kind heart and openness
Speaker 1: of love. Yeah, but I tend to get hurt because
Speaker 1: I can't keep it like free and like, oh this
Speaker 1: is cool. Like if there's somebody and I'll like go
Speaker 1: off the rails, I won't tell him. I'm like super
Speaker 1: like I'm not that girl. I'm not that girls, Like
Speaker 1: why didn't you text me? Why didn't you call me?
Speaker 1: I will stay silent for days, but you didn't text me.
Speaker 1: My heart's breaking, right, right, And I want to get
Speaker 1: past that, Like I want to be able to be
Speaker 1: like you.
Speaker 2: Don't care you don't care it is. It is okay,
Speaker 2: It is okay, but you know, obviously it's hard, like
Speaker 2: if you like somebody and they're not giving that same
Speaker 2: you know, like back right, Yeah, that's never easy, But
Speaker 2: it doesn't mean that you you can't enjoy meeting somebody
Speaker 2: else because guess what, you were there and now I'm busy.
Speaker 2: Like when I was kind of bored with those boys
Speaker 2: and went off and I started talking to Phil right
Speaker 2: because I was like, you know, I'm not having fun
Speaker 2: with you. I'm gonna go a fun up there.
Speaker 3: And you weren't worried about hurting feelings like you.
Speaker 2: Said, well, yeah, I mean exactly. No, you have to
Speaker 2: think really about yourself. You know. That's why I said, okay,
Speaker 2: I'm out because I was bored, so I was like,
Speaker 2: I'm out, and I wanted to meet the other guys. Also,
Speaker 2: I wanted to talk more to Ralph and Phil and
Speaker 2: the other guys.
Speaker 3: I understand. Well, I'm totally hooked on this show.
Speaker 2: Good.
Speaker 3: I can't wait for the next you're.
Speaker 2: Gonna come to my cabaret in la I just plead
Speaker 2: the Wiltern.
Speaker 1: When I was supposed to come in August, and then
Speaker 1: I couldn't that was for you.
Speaker 3: Just were at the Wiltern Recess.
Speaker 2: I just played the damn it what day was it?
Speaker 2: April Man? And you'll come to the next one and
Speaker 2: will about the Love Hotel. So you're gonna love it.
Speaker 3: Okay, great, I'm in. Oh my gosh, I love you.
Speaker 2: Wait when we get together and introduce my girlfriend.
Speaker 3: Please please, if you go out, you certainly go out.
Speaker 3: I'll do it. I'll do it for you.
Speaker 2: Okay, good and New York. You're coming to New York
Speaker 2: at all?
Speaker 3: No, I might be like I come off and on
Speaker 3: for work.
Speaker 1: So if I come to New York, I'll take you
Speaker 1: out embassy embassy guys.
Speaker 2: I'll think you to all the European boys hang out.
Speaker 3: Okay, fine, Okay, let's do it. It's a deal. Okay
Speaker 3: think Wait.
Speaker 1: So So Love Hotel is on Ravo every Sunday night
Speaker 1: filtering with.
Speaker 3: So New York Cab.
Speaker 2: What am I doing Boston? The Paramount Long Island. Then
Speaker 2: I'm out. I'm out in California, but not to the
Speaker 2: end of June. So okay, maybe one of those shows.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I saw dates all the way through August. Yeah, yeah, I.
Speaker 1: Love and Then Love Hotel Also, you can view on
Speaker 1: Peacocks streaming next day after it airs on Bravo nine
Speaker 1: o'clock Sunday nights. Oh my god, I love you so much,
Speaker 1: my tourist friend.
Speaker 2: I love you, Tory