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Speaker 1: Miss Spelling with Tori Spelling and iHeart Radio Podcast.

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Speaker 2: How are you doing, Tori?

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Speaker 3: I'm great? Oh my gosh, I look great. Thank you?

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Speaker 3: So do you another hat? God? No one, no one

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Speaker 3: wears a hat like you.

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Speaker 2: Well listen. So I so my girlfriend owns New York

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Speaker 2: Vintage in New York.

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Speaker 3: Hook me up.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, you have to go there, you'll love it.

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Speaker 2: She has she collects everything Valentino. Uh, you know, she

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Speaker 2: gets all of their she owns most all of Valentino. Basically,

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Speaker 2: where is it? It's on It's in Chelsea. Like Shannon,

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Speaker 2: she is a badass. She she not only collects you know,

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Speaker 2: these ventures things, but she's a box who boxes and

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Speaker 2: she rides motocross motorcycles.

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Speaker 1: Really okay, now, but you know I probably gonna say

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Speaker 1: I didn't know you weren't to check now.

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Speaker 2: Not no, not me either. That's the way I to

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Speaker 2: love Hotel.

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Speaker 3: Yeah okay, So first I.

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Speaker 2: Have to say, okay, so we're gonna go down the

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Speaker 2: hat story. Hold on, let's start about the hat. So

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Speaker 2: Philip Trace, this is Philip Tracy, right. So okay, So

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Speaker 2: I go into her story and I see my black hat,

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Speaker 2: which is my Fedora, right, that I were all the time,

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Speaker 2: been wearing it for years, the one that Kim Gerdashian

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Speaker 2: to steal my look at the you know about that story.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, No, is that bitch stole my look?

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Speaker 1: I mean that can be with anyone.

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Speaker 2: That's totally But I didn't. I was moving into my house,

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Speaker 2: so I didn't even know this was happening. And she

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Speaker 2: wore a Fedora style hat on the red carpet to

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Speaker 2: the uh help me out here, Sarah to the met Galla, Thanks,

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Speaker 2: met Galla, and everyone's like, that is the countess this look?

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Speaker 2: So anyway, I don't know who made her hat, but

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Speaker 2: my that was made by Philip Tracy, who's the head

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Speaker 2: of the Queen of England. Right, So I went to

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Speaker 2: see him when I was in London, and because you

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Speaker 2: can only go to see him in London, and because

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Speaker 2: I was touring over right anyway, So he goes, I said,

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Speaker 2: I want you to make me another one, because if

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Speaker 2: I lose this hat, I'll be so upset. He goes,

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Speaker 2: I can't make it again. I made it fifteen years ago,

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Speaker 2: and that satin you can't get it anymore. That's bick,

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Speaker 2: you know, because his great hat so he goes, I

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Speaker 2: can't even make this for you again anyway. So that's

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Speaker 2: that's the story, I mean. And on the wall he

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Speaker 2: had a letter for only three and he's the header

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Speaker 2: of the Queen of England and all the you know,

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Speaker 2: all the euristos and anyway. So but he's got Liz

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Speaker 2: Taylor on the wall one letter he kept only one,

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Speaker 2: Joe Collins and Share and he's main hats for the

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Speaker 2: whole world.

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Speaker 1: So I mean, you're known for your hats. I'm I'm

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Speaker 1: a marketing like branding guru. So well, are you doing

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Speaker 1: your own hatline?

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm working on it, you know, but maybe you've

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Speaker 2: got more connections than I do.

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Speaker 1: Probably not, but when it comes out, I'll totally support one. Right,

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Speaker 1: I look terrible in hats, terrible.

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Speaker 2: Really a fedor who looks band in the fedor? If

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Speaker 2: I put this on you, you would look amazing.

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Speaker 1: Okay, style me, bitch, please please okay? So I love

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Speaker 1: in Love Hotel, the Grand Entrance. It's all these beauty shots,

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Speaker 1: all of you look gorgeous in your hat flies off,

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Speaker 1: I know, right, And for me that was a very

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Speaker 1: I'm going to date myself here, Mary Tyler Moore like

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Speaker 1: throwing her hat up right, none of the young kids

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Speaker 1: will get that.

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Speaker 2: But whatever, Well, you know, so funny because when it happened,

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Speaker 2: it happened organically, and so I was like, well, that's

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Speaker 2: the best thing. That's the best entrance right there, because

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Speaker 2: you know, it just flew off and h yeah. So

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Speaker 2: I love that moment. Okay, I love that moment.

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Speaker 3: I love that moment. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So I've watched all four episodes and I don't right

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Speaker 1: of me, what.

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Speaker 3: Really you were there? It doesn't count there.

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Speaker 2: I was there.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what the fuck I just watched, but

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Speaker 1: I am here for it.

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Speaker 2: Right, that's I know. It's great.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 2: You know what the great thing about is that we're

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Speaker 2: each other's wing men. You know, it's not of this

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Speaker 2: housewives drama I'll take you down, you know kind of stuff.

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Speaker 2: It's you know, we have each other's backs.

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Speaker 1: No, I love that you take the men down in

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Speaker 1: that place exactly.

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Speaker 3: So how did this?

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Speaker 1: Like, so Bravo came to you and was like, hey,

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Speaker 1: would single would you want to do this?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: And were you like who else is doing it? Or

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Speaker 3: you don't know?

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Speaker 2: Well I didn't know. So they called and they go, hey, Louis.

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Speaker 2: So we're going to send you away for three weeks.

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Speaker 2: Of course, we're going to pay you, and we're gonna

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Speaker 2: find you guys. I go, I've been single for seven years.

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Speaker 2: Good luck with that. Yeah, and well I was very

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Speaker 2: you know, in trepidationous about it, like, well, they're going

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Speaker 2: to find me, guys, I mean, I need a European anyway,

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Speaker 2: we get a laundry list, we're getting Europeans. But and

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Speaker 2: then they go, what time, guy, you're looking for us

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Speaker 2: as well? First of all, kind successful in his own

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Speaker 2: right that.

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Speaker 3: You said kind, That was the first thing you said. Yes,

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Speaker 3: I love that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, kind hard, kind.

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Speaker 3: Hard to find.

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Speaker 2: I want like a good kind man. Right, So of

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Speaker 2: course successful and handsome and tall, which didn't pan out

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Speaker 2: so great. But the guys were short.

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Speaker 3: How tall are you? Okay?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, you present taller?

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Speaker 3: Well? Thank you? Yes, okay, sorry, I interact classy? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Right? Who actually for me? Who has children already? Because

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Speaker 2: if the man is single, he doesn't have kids. He's

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Speaker 2: never had to give himself to others, you know what

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Speaker 2: I mean. So they tend to be as they get

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Speaker 2: as they're older, they tend to be more spoiled. In

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Speaker 2: terms of spoiling themselves. They're not other people selfish. Thank you,

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Speaker 2: that's red and uh so, uh let's let's go on

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Speaker 2: rich successful rich. You know rich money can't buy you class?

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Speaker 1: Can you coined it the best? But here's my question

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Speaker 1: to inter asking for myself as well. You're super successful,

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Speaker 1: Do you need somebody rich?

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Speaker 2: No, that's why I said, it's not about you know,

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Speaker 2: not somebody.

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Speaker 3: Who'd be nice. I understand, travel with.

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Speaker 2: Me in first class? Okay, you know I want the

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Speaker 2: guy singing in economy while I travel in first class,

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Speaker 2: you know, saying so, who has the same lifestyle? And

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Speaker 2: I say it on the show, I want a guy

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Speaker 2: with the same lifestyle, which is I'm busy, I have

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Speaker 2: my cabaret, I do my TV thing. You know, I

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Speaker 2: want somebody who is not too needy, because I don't

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Speaker 2: want a needy guy. I want a guy that's got

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Speaker 2: his own thing going on, who has the same kind

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Speaker 2: of lifestyle, which is means the same kind of money

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Speaker 2: more or less. Right. I have my home. This is

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Speaker 2: staying in my house. I go, I my home. I

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Speaker 2: have my children, I have a career of everything I've

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Speaker 2: always wanted. I have my beautiful cars outside, right, So

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Speaker 2: I want somebody who's going to bring something to that equation,

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Speaker 2: like which is you know, parallel universes.

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Speaker 1: I understand that I took notes watching this because I

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Speaker 1: was like, I'm newly single, I'm gonna hopefully date one day.

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Speaker 3: And I was like, wow, you go.

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Speaker 2: On the hotel darling. I mean that would be fun.

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure after seeing those guys, but okay, but no,

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Speaker 1: I took note like, oh, that is super important that

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Speaker 1: they have kids, that they understand what it's like to

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Speaker 1: give and care for others and not themselves. So I

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Speaker 1: put that on my list in here. I would think

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Speaker 1: it's pretty hard to date someone like you because not

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Speaker 1: that you're putting it on them, but how can a

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Speaker 1: man and men or men and their primal not feel

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Speaker 1: emasculated with you.

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Speaker 2: I'm such a girl, honey, I am such a girl.

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Speaker 2: Will you see me blurred around?

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Speaker 3: Oh? No, no, no, I don't feel that way.

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Speaker 1: You're super successful, you're driven, you're hardworking. I mean you two.

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Speaker 1: I mean we all have our stuff, but to the outside,

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Speaker 1: you have it all.

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Speaker 3: So to come to step into that is a hard thing.

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Speaker 1: It's going to take a man that's really the right one,

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Speaker 1: the right.

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Speaker 2: One, secure himself, you know. So you see what's going

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Speaker 2: on with James at this point, Right, James says, I

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Speaker 2: love my life the way it made it. And James's

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Speaker 2: you know, tagline for his life is I love my life,

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Speaker 2: you know, And I was like that energy. I love

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Speaker 2: that energy about him because he was so secure about

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Speaker 2: who he is. He likes to meditate, he likes yoga,

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Speaker 2: he's pretty, he has his own business, you know, he's

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Speaker 2: you know.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't have though, he doesn't make peepy. Well I

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Speaker 1: want a private point.

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Speaker 3: Well he's okay, so he did.

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Speaker 2: He has Oh wait, did we see arma baby yet?

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Speaker 2: Maybe not see it?

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Speaker 3: We get to see it?

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Speaker 2: Well, I well, no, meaning we talk about it.

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Speaker 3: I didn't even know what about it, he said. He

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Speaker 3: tells you a story.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. But when he told you that story, I

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Speaker 1: was like, I don't know as what I think to

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Speaker 1: be like your friend over over podcasts, I was like,

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Speaker 1: got defensive. I'm like, why is he telling her this

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Speaker 1: right now? Like oh my gosh. But then on the

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Speaker 1: other hand, I'm like, I want to say it like

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Speaker 1: the arm of.

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Speaker 2: A baby, like a baby's arm a baby. It's like

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Speaker 2: a thing, which I did not know it hereditary like

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Speaker 2: is that's where I said.

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Speaker 3: With it?

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Speaker 2: Of course, I think penis size is definitely hereditary.

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Speaker 1: Well, it doesn't skip like like you know, someone can

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Speaker 1: have full head of hair and then it skips a generation.

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Speaker 3: They're bald like men. So it really James got lucky.

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Speaker 2: Whoa whoa.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, because that towel went up on that camera and.

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Speaker 2: You know, there's something to be said for mystery.

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Speaker 3: Okay, great. I mean when you brought your vibrator to

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Speaker 3: Love Hotel, you didn't know you were James, so I

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Speaker 3: hope you brought lube too.

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Speaker 2: Well listen, darling, you know I'm going on a dating show.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what's going to happen, so I had

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Speaker 2: to come backing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Wait, so it was in a black case. They

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Speaker 1: stopped you at customs because of it. Correct, what brand

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Speaker 1: was was that?

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Speaker 3: I'm just I'm asking for a friend.

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, it was what's your name, Lulu Fils fancy French?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, of course you have fancy fucking vibrator.

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Speaker 2: It's tiny, tiny, it's not about it's not powerized. It's

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Speaker 2: about the motion of the ocean.

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Speaker 3: That has been powerful. Yeah, did you use that with James?

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Speaker 3: Think is in the silver Fox.

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Speaker 2: Wait?

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Speaker 3: Okay, what wait? Is that?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well it is a key, that's true. It's the key. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So were you friends with any of the girls before.

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Speaker 2: Or you know, Bravo con friends you know howse are

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Speaker 3: Hope it works out. I'm really upset about girl.

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Speaker 2: I know, Earl the Pearl. Well you'll see what happens.

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Speaker 3: Who guys does she dates?

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Speaker 1: Went out with Earle to begin with because he told

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, you'll see what happens there, but you know

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Speaker 3: At the end, he got the letter.

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Speaker 1: He's eliminated, right, Oh, Viral, let to find his pearl

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Speaker 3: Poor Earl. He's been through a lot and he's eliminated.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 3: But it wasn't working, No, not really. But each of

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Speaker 2: Well, what happens is that, you know, we kind of

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Speaker 2: I love that moment where I go, you know what,

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Speaker 2: Well let me give him a little ride and see

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Speaker 3: Anyway, was there a baby arm like James, No.

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Speaker 2: Well we didn't. We didn't go to it's.

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Speaker 3: About the size. We didn't get on the size.

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Speaker 2: because if you're interested in him, let's find out more

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Speaker 1: You see, you are, all of you are looking out

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Speaker 1: Ralph was like every I know he was rowing in here.

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Speaker 1: Why does everyone want Ralph?

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Speaker 2: Well, Ralph is hot. Ralph is hot. Let's say that,

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Speaker 2: you know, super tall, good looking, muscular.

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Speaker 3: He was tall. That's what you want there?

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Speaker 2: You go just like because he's tall. I'm like yeah,

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Speaker 1: There weren't a lot of younger guys there, Like, what

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Speaker 1: that was for Ashley's sake, because she's thirty six, right.

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Speaker 2: Right, exactly exactly. She's got small kids. She could still

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Speaker 2: a little bit too, you know what I mean. I

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Speaker 2: think she likes older guys, but I mean younger guys.

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Speaker 2: But I think, I mean, she was with an older guy,

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Speaker 3: I don't know, it's your casting.

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Speaker 2: I don't know everything about their past. I think she

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Speaker 2: I mean Joe not Joe Bradley young, but you know, younger.

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Speaker 1: So okay, so everyone wants Ralph. Wait, who's the surfer guy?

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Speaker 3: I liked him?

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Speaker 2: Oh Jerry, Oh the one they went I'm out. I

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Speaker 1: Guy, but I did I miss something? Well, they edited,

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Speaker 1: like that's all he talked about.

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Speaker 2: Well pretty much. You know. We talked about travel and

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Speaker 2: I said, well, you surf all day in Puerto Rico

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Speaker 2: I gonna do with that? I like sometimes like sunset,

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Speaker 3: I like, yeah, let's take a walk on the beach. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I'm done.

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Speaker 3: Is that what we said?

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Speaker 2: I'm out.

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Speaker 1: I love your confidence. You're like two guys on episode one.

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Speaker 1: and then you're off with someone else. Uh, pussy power

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Speaker 1: so great?

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Speaker 3: What's so great?

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Speaker 2: When we board, I was bored, So that's why I

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Speaker 2: got up. I was like, you know what, all right,

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Speaker 2: first of all, go and get me a drink, do something,

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Speaker 2: you know whatever. So I was the bored, so I

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Speaker 3: Are there more guys coming?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Just thank god?

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Speaker 1: Well, a constant rotation of the stallions.

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Speaker 2: Well there's there's a you know, there's you're.

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Speaker 3: A Philly that won't be broke. I'll stick with that.

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Speaker 2: What's that?

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Speaker 3: I think?

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Speaker 1: So they were talking, Joel's talking about the Stallions. I

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Speaker 1: They can't be broke. And I mean that in the

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, good good, Yeah, it's I know what I want.

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Speaker 2: Let's put it that way. At this point in my life,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I know what I want, so and I

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Speaker 2: know quickly. So why waste your time?

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Speaker 1: Did you think at any moment that you were like, hm,

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Speaker 1: I can find true love here.

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Speaker 3: Yes, like moments of it? Okay, yeah, you never know.

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Speaker 2: You never know. It takes Listen, three weeks is not

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Speaker 3: Wait did you?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Seventeen years and two beautiful children.

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Speaker 1: Two beautiful children, a name that won't quit. You're the

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Speaker 1: Countess forever.

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Speaker 2: No, it's like I'm listen, I have two kids with him.

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Speaker 2: He never remarried, my married. No. In fact, my kids

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Speaker 3: Today, Happy birthday, Counts, I say, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Or Alex, you know I called them, of course, Alex.

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Speaker 3: Why why do you think he never remarried?

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Speaker 2: Well, because I think he was married four times, and

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Speaker 2: I think that was his fourth wife. That was a

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Speaker 2: the three of his put together before that. That's pretty interesting.

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Speaker 2: But I think that you know, he's an age bray.

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Speaker 2: He doesn't, you know, wantn't be married, just having a

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Speaker 2: the Middle East. He lives all over the World's in

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Speaker 3: Do you want to set me up?

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Speaker 2: I would love to.

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Speaker 3: I could be number.

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Speaker 2: Five, but I think he's too old for you.

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Speaker 3: Duraling how old?

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Speaker 2: Well, he's sixteen years older than me and I just

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Speaker 2: turned Okay, No, he's like seventy five. No, it's too few.

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Speaker 3: It could be like Anna Nicole.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So anyway, I'm open to anything.

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Speaker 3: At this point, I never thought my life would be here.

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Speaker 3: So here we go.

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Speaker 1: Wait, so if they do a season two, who do

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Speaker 2: Who's Cynthia Bailey?

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Speaker 3: Ah, Duran.

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Speaker 2: Sutton Stratch Oh.

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Speaker 1: Yes, right, Phedra, sure my Carl right?

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Speaker 2: I love the house.

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Speaker 3: Son God knows she needs it.

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Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 3: I love watching you and Sonia together. It makes me

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Speaker 3: so happy.

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Speaker 2: Right, craffe leg was so fun.

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Speaker 3: It was so good, so good.

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Speaker 1: dream vacation. Plus, you can earn rewards with their one

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Speaker 1: key program don't miss out. Okay, at any point this season,

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Speaker 1: might we see a song write you?

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Speaker 2: We I actually work on a song while I'm there. Okay,

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Speaker 2: you're going to hear that, I think, Okay, if I'm

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Speaker 2: not mis it.

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Speaker 3: But it's not like you making a song, No no, no.

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Speaker 2: I'm making a song for next tour because the next

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Speaker 2: cabaret tour. You know, my tour is always changing, right,

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Speaker 2: So I do my last the tour before this is

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Speaker 2: Mary f kil like who we'd marry, Who we'd ask me?

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Speaker 2: Who we kill? So that's what my conversations about. And

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Speaker 2: then I picked the song that goes with that conversation, right,

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Speaker 2: and a song that everybody knows because like a big

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Speaker 2: sing long and it's so much fun. So this last

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Speaker 2: tour was the greatest hits and the next turn in

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Speaker 2: twenty twenty six will be about the Love Hotel and

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Speaker 2: about love, love gone right and love gone wrong also right,

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Speaker 2: because you know, in life, we we do crazy things

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Speaker 2: for love, right and and for heartbreak.

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Speaker 3: Tell me about it, right, We move.

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Speaker 2: We change our lives, we do crazy shit right because

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Speaker 2: we're in love or we're heartbroken. And that's what makes

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Speaker 2: the world go around. Because without love, what is the point?

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Speaker 2: So I want you to be on the Love hote

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Speaker 2: tell me because I want you to find a guide

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Speaker 2: and be so content, you know, and love somebody that much,

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Speaker 2: which would be nice, wouldn't it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Wait, I have to process what you just said. Without love,

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Speaker 1: what is the point.

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Speaker 2: What is the point?

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Speaker 3: Well, there's different forms of love.

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Speaker 1: There's well love we feel with our children, love with

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Speaker 1: ourselves and with our.

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Speaker 3: Friends, so you mean a romantic love.

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Speaker 1: But what I mean at this point in life, I

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Speaker 1: gave up the fairy tale that I grew up with

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Speaker 1: the white picket fence. I never wanted one of those,

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Speaker 1: but maybe maybe a golden one.

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Speaker 2: I have a white picket fence. You want to see you.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what.

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Speaker 1: I don't know love wise, what I believe in anymore,

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Speaker 1: because I've been through the ringer and I'm just like,

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Speaker 1: maybe monogamy doesn't work, Maybe there isn't finding that one human.

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Speaker 3: Maybe love? What is love well for me? To you?

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Speaker 2: For me, love is someone who who adores the ground

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Speaker 2: that you walk on, Somebody who is will catch you

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Speaker 2: when you fall, will get you in your fall, somebody

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Speaker 2: who's got your back, somebody who inspires you, right, somebody

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Speaker 2: who you you're inspired by. Right. So I saw a

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Speaker 2: what do you call an astrologer and she said to me,

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Speaker 2: when you look at your man, you should be like, wow,

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Speaker 2: I can't believe I'm with him, instead of like wow,

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Speaker 2: what am I doing with him? Or you know, oh

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Speaker 2: I could do better? Or you know you know what

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Speaker 2: I'm saying. This all this felts out, So you know, listen,

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Speaker 2: love is leading with your heart and being loving yourself first,

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Speaker 2: because you can't love other people who don't love yourself.

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Speaker 2: So it starts there really because now and also it's

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Speaker 2: also you know, I'm man, I'm I said, by twenty

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Speaker 2: twenty four, I'm going to find a love because I

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Speaker 2: work in seven year cycles, So you're gonna love this.

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Speaker 2: So I divorced account in two thousand and nine.

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Speaker 3: Okay, wait, I don't do math, do I have to

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Speaker 3: right now?

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Speaker 2: No, well, I'll add for you. So two thousand divorce accounts.

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Speaker 2: Seven years later, I get married to Tom. Okay, right,

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Speaker 2: So then I divorced Tom seven months later verse seven,

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Speaker 2: and then seven years later because so seven years second.

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Speaker 2: So I knew by twenty twenty four. And I was

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Speaker 2: told this by this astrology that I just spoke about,

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Speaker 2: that I would be a fine love, and so I

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Speaker 2: kind of manifested it. So, you know, I think that

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Speaker 2: it's so important too. You know, I say to my knees.

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Speaker 2: They're in their forties, you know, one of their twins,

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Speaker 2: one has children, the other one is still thinking. I said,

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Speaker 2: you can't just throw darts now at the dirt word.

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Speaker 2: You have to aim, really aim for the center for

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Speaker 2: the bullseye. You know, there's no no messing around now.

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Speaker 2: And what I mean by that, what I mean by

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Speaker 2: that is, you know, like Ramona said to me, she

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Speaker 2: made a whole list of things that she wanted in

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Speaker 2: the guy. She wrote them down, wrote them down, wrote

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Speaker 2: them down, and so and then she found a guy,

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Speaker 2: a boyfriend. So, but you have to really will it

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Speaker 2: and want it to happen. You know, you can't come

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Speaker 2: out as negative Nelly right and go I'm never gonna

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Speaker 2: happen for me and I've given up on it. And

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Speaker 2: what you speak to the universe makes a difference. So

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Speaker 2: if you go out there and go, I know, I'm

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Speaker 2: going to be a guy and I'm this and I'm great,

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Speaker 2: and I'm going to meet a guy that's this, that

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Speaker 2: and the other thing, you know what I mean. So

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Speaker 2: you have to really manifest it. You have to put

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Speaker 2: out into the universe what you want, because if you

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Speaker 2: put out negative, you're not going to get it. You're

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Speaker 2: going to get negative. Right. So it's all about energy.

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Speaker 2: It's all about the energy that people give, right, right.

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Speaker 2: The energy is this, like the energy is I'm heavy,

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Speaker 2: go lucky, I'm happy to be by myself and you know,

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Speaker 2: and women have to also invite men. So I'll give

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Speaker 2: your invite men.

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Speaker 3: Oh wait yeah, like so like a vampire.

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Speaker 1: You know, a vampire cannot enter your house unless you

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Speaker 1: invite them.

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Speaker 2: Right, Well, listen, this goes back to like the Queen

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Speaker 2: of England. Right, so you know you're not going to

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Speaker 2: go to Queen rest in Peace, Queen Elizabeth. You're not

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Speaker 2: going to go to Queen Elizabeth and and try to

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Speaker 2: shake her hand. She has to extend her hand to

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Speaker 2: you and invite you. Right, So men have to be

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Speaker 2: invited by women also, which is you go to you're

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Speaker 2: out with your girlfriends, You're at a table at a

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Speaker 2: restaurant bar situation. There's a hot guy at the bar, right,

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Speaker 2: and you're with a gaggle of girls. Now, he's not

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Speaker 2: gonna come over because he's it's too much, right And

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Speaker 2: does the girl go over to the bar and pick

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Speaker 2: him up. No, This is where the waiter comes in, handy,

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Speaker 2: I need to see the waiter and you write a

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Speaker 2: note and you invite him over to the table for

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Speaker 2: a drink. Please join us for a drink. He's gonna come.

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Speaker 1: I'm so bad at this. I probably would go home

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Speaker 1: with the waiter like, well, i'd crap out.

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Speaker 2: Well that can happen to it. But I'm just But

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Speaker 2: the point is that, you know, women really do invite

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Speaker 2: men into their space, and so, you know when, for example,

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Speaker 2: the first episode, I think I was like, well, hello Jerry, right, so,

570
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Speaker 2: hello Jerry, because the way he looked at me, you

571
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Speaker 2: know I knew right away, yes, so and then I

572
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Speaker 2: invited him on a date, didn't I.

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Speaker 3: Well, because you had to those the rules.

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Speaker 2: Right, But but I would invite a guy on a date.

575
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Speaker 2: You know, women are caught up in all these rules

576
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Speaker 2: that they should be there for the you know, not

577
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Speaker 2: be the last one to text or you know, afraid

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Speaker 2: to reach out because he didn't call me in five days. Well, hey,

579
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Speaker 2: what's up, let's grab a cocktail. Who cares?

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Speaker 3: No, you're right, would you be a renaissance?

581
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Speaker 2: I'm a good wing man for your doll.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, please help me out here. There's a

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Speaker 3: show here as well.

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Speaker 1: But there was a lot of talk about you're talking

585
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Speaker 1: about your nieces, right, you said in their forties one single.

586
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Speaker 1: A lot of talk if this is my last shot,

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Speaker 1: which really weighed on me because I was like, oh

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Speaker 1: my god, I just turned fifty two last week, and

589
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Speaker 1: I'm like.

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Speaker 2: Oh happy, but to your tourist like me, yes, wait

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Speaker 2: when's your They the seventeen that just had my birthday?

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, you after mine?

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Speaker 2: Oh you?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 2: I love that. That's why I really like each other. Okay, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Souris women are fears together. I have a lot of

597
00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 2: tourist friends, don't you. No, Oh you don't how interesting

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Speaker 2: I do.

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Speaker 3: I have a couple.

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Speaker 1: I have a couple, but yeah, I always gravitate towards

601
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Speaker 1: uh aries women, which don't really sink well with me,

602
00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:21,840
Speaker 1: but I'm friends with them.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. Or Lebres. Yeah, last shot.

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Speaker 1: So I'm like, I'm fifty two, Like, do I have

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Speaker 1: to make this next one count s?

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Speaker 2: No? No, because now you're predicting, you know what I mean,

607
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Speaker 2: And you know you have to live in the moment.

608
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Speaker 2: Right there's no yesterday and there's no tomorrow, So now

609
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Speaker 2: you're predicting the fifty two. I'm gonna wash it up

610
00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:50,800
Speaker 2: and there's no there's no guys out there and whatever,

611
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Speaker 2: you know what I mean? That's this is everything you

612
00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:54,920
Speaker 2: can't think, which is.

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Speaker 3: My self confidence is shit.

614
00:32:56,680 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 1: But I actually think I'm hot so you are hot.

615
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:04,480
Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm sure you're getting hit on all.

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00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:07,600
Speaker 3: The time by young guys right.

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Speaker 2: Too. Oh they love that, you know, they love that.

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Speaker 2: I mean, listen when I remember when you know, I

619
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Speaker 2: was that age. I like older guys. You know the

620
00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:24,200
Speaker 2: same with guys they like older women because they know

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Speaker 2: what they're doing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's not going to work out. Like no,

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Speaker 1: So last time we talked, we talked about the bush

624
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Speaker 1: song and you were gonna think about incorporating that into

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Speaker 1: your cabaret.

626
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Speaker 2: What the bush? What? Uh?

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00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:52,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, So we talked about, you know, the old thing

628
00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:55,280
Speaker 1: about you falling in the bushes, and I was like,

629
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Speaker 1: the bushes back is the bush back? We talked about

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Speaker 1: that and then I was like, wait, you have to

631
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Speaker 1: do a song about this.

632
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:03,280
Speaker 3: You're like, I might do a song about this.

633
00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I did not because recently I came up

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Speaker 2: I remember so when I.

635
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Speaker 3: Was you do have to give me credit, just do it.

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00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:14,920
Speaker 2: No, I came up with another song, which is a

637
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 2: drag Queen saved my.

638
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Speaker 3: Life to shade fine.

639
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:28,719
Speaker 2: I was getting seriously, I was dating guy when I

640
00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:32,239
Speaker 2: was a nurse in Connecticut. Then I got scouted to

641
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:34,239
Speaker 2: be a model, right, And I was debating, do I

642
00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 2: go to New York? Do I not go to I'm

643
00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 2: a nurse. I'm gonna get married to this guy, Joe.

644
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:41,640
Speaker 2: And I come home one day from working as a nurse,

645
00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:44,399
Speaker 2: and I walk in and he's getting a blowjob from

646
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Speaker 2: the worst looking drag queen you've ever seen your life.

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Speaker 3: I mean, sorry, horrible.

648
00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:51,520
Speaker 2: So this so the point is that it made me

649
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:54,799
Speaker 2: move to New York. You see, So a drag queen

650
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Speaker 2: saved my life and changed my life because my whole

651
00:34:57,560 --> 00:34:59,360
Speaker 2: life would change after that. Then I went to Europe.

652
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:00,840
Speaker 2: You know, I had to go all the way to

653
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Speaker 2: Europe to find the count. Do you think I found

654
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:03,360
Speaker 2: in my backyard?

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00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:09,080
Speaker 1: No, that'd be nice, right, wouldn't that be nice? I

656
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:10,320
Speaker 1: want to count.

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00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:13,440
Speaker 3: That'd be great.

658
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:15,400
Speaker 2: Aristo is falling from the trees.

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00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:21,480
Speaker 1: So I mean, everything, everything pans out the way it's

660
00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 1: supposed to do everything. And do you believe like, if

661
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:28,040
Speaker 1: anything changes, you change your destiny.

662
00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:33,200
Speaker 2: I do believe that. I think that change, Uh sure

663
00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:38,120
Speaker 2: beats habit. Change is better than word.

664
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:42,759
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, you you need to put on an

665
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 3: inspirational book too. Don't worry, I won't take a referral

666
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:48,719
Speaker 3: fee for that one either. But I'm not saying.

667
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:50,160
Speaker 2: I'm working on a d I'm working on a dating.

668
00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:53,319
Speaker 2: But I get asked this all the time, right, you know,

669
00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:56,239
Speaker 2: I get asked about dating all the time, and tip

670
00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 2: some dating and flirting and all these things you know,

671
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:00,279
Speaker 2: all the time. So I definitely have to do book

672
00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:03,320
Speaker 2: on flirting the art of flirtation.

673
00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 3: Of course you do, because it's an art.

674
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:09,000
Speaker 2: Like that's how I met you, Grant. I backed my

675
00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 2: chair up.

676
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:13,280
Speaker 3: A restaurant you met you, Grant, tell that story, please?

677
00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:15,960
Speaker 2: What? Okay? So wait, so I'm out in the Hampton's right.

678
00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 2: This is right after I divorced account. I'm talking about

679
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:22,600
Speaker 2: fifteen years ago, right, And so I heard he was

680
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:24,880
Speaker 2: at Pierres, which is the restaurant we have in Bridgehampton.

681
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:27,839
Speaker 2: I go, he is, okay, we'll hold meet the table

682
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 2: next to him. I'm going to sit right next time.

683
00:36:29,960 --> 00:36:31,640
Speaker 2: So I go with. I'm with a group, my brother's

684
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:35,239
Speaker 2: there with his wife, and you sit next behind, like Hugh.

685
00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 2: So he was right behind me. Here, I'm in my

686
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:40,920
Speaker 2: chair and I slide my cheerwck and I bang ined

687
00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:46,560
Speaker 2: him and I go own, I'm so sorry, and I go,

688
00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:48,719
Speaker 2: can I buy you a drink? Because I bumped into

689
00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:51,720
Speaker 2: his chair right, And before you know it, he's sitting

690
00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:53,640
Speaker 2: at my table and we're doing shots in tequila.

691
00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 3: My god, you're good. Well listen, it's like wait, wait,

692
00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:02,319
Speaker 3: and then no, and then he before.

693
00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:04,319
Speaker 2: You know it, he's sitting at my table. We're doing

694
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:06,280
Speaker 2: shots of tequila and reminding.

695
00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:09,839
Speaker 3: Of that part and then making up. You meet out

696
00:37:09,880 --> 00:37:10,680
Speaker 3: with Hugh Grants.

697
00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, and my brother goes, I can't believe that you're

698
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:15,200
Speaker 2: sitting here making up with you. Guys me neither.

699
00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:22,080
Speaker 3: Me killed Julia Roberts got nothing on you. Damn.

700
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:26,040
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Hugh Grant, that's like legendary, but you're legendary,

701
00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:26,960
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

702
00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:28,839
Speaker 3: And then what it didn't go on?

703
00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:35,279
Speaker 2: Oh my god, and went on no, not really, no, no,

704
00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:38,840
Speaker 2: but not not because I didn't want.

705
00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:40,319
Speaker 3: To look good kiss her.

706
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 2: There was a lot of tequila involved, as the English saying,

707
00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 2: I can't remember.

708
00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:52,879
Speaker 3: That's your story. You're sticking to it. Perfect, I'll ask

709
00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:56,040
Speaker 3: you offline. Perfect. Oh my god.

710
00:37:56,280 --> 00:38:02,320
Speaker 1: Wait, that is amazing. We just need to pick an actor.

711
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:06,240
Speaker 1: You'll help me, and we need to find out where

712
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:09,080
Speaker 1: he is, okay, and then I just go.

713
00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:12,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, but why do you want an actor? Oh? My god,

714
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:15,080
Speaker 2: I don't know actors are insecure?

715
00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:17,360
Speaker 3: Don I don't know why I said that. It's old habit.

716
00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:20,160
Speaker 3: It's just all I've known my entire life.

717
00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:21,359
Speaker 2: Actor, for God's sake.

718
00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:24,920
Speaker 1: Well, what do I want? I don't want a businessman.

719
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:26,440
Speaker 1: They can't deal with my life.

720
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:28,040
Speaker 2: What about a European?

721
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 3: Okay, but they're far they're far away.

722
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:35,600
Speaker 2: Well, Darling, Well, I live in New York, so there's

723
00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:36,320
Speaker 2: a lot of Europeans.

724
00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 3: Right, it's closer.

725
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:41,040
Speaker 1: I'm in LA and five young kids. Like, what am

726
00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:44,400
Speaker 1: I gonna do? Move my kids to Europe? Live in

727
00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 1: a castle?

728
00:38:45,400 --> 00:38:46,359
Speaker 3: Sign me up?

729
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:51,759
Speaker 2: No? But but go to places where you know, like

730
00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:57,840
Speaker 2: Europeans gather, so embassy parties. Don't go out with the parties.

731
00:38:58,000 --> 00:38:58,960
Speaker 2: Embassy parties.

732
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:01,360
Speaker 3: How do I find those?

733
00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:06,080
Speaker 2: They're in New York. But I'm thinking La. Where the Europeans?

734
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 2: Have I met some really cool guys at some I

735
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:11,160
Speaker 2: have to ask my girlfriend. I have a girlfriend who

736
00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:14,520
Speaker 2: lives in LA, who knows a lot of people. Okaya,

737
00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:15,560
Speaker 2: you should meet Pam.

738
00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 3: Okay, I'll meet Pam.

739
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:18,000
Speaker 2: Yeah.

740
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:20,919
Speaker 1: I don't go out, so there's no chance. I say, like, oh,

741
00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:22,960
Speaker 1: I want to meet someone, but like, I don't even

742
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:25,200
Speaker 1: go out. I stay with my kids twenty four to seven.

743
00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:27,880
Speaker 2: So really, you got to take time for yourself to

744
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:34,759
Speaker 2: you know, enjoy yourself and your yeah, your own you know, sexuality.

745
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:36,120
Speaker 3: I know.

746
00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:39,239
Speaker 1: And you know what I really admire about you is

747
00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:44,680
Speaker 1: you are so in touch with your sexuality and I

748
00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:49,480
Speaker 1: think it's free and beautiful and you own it and

749
00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:54,600
Speaker 1: you do what you want, no apologies, right, And I

750
00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:57,960
Speaker 1: feel like I don't know this is archaic, but as

751
00:39:58,080 --> 00:40:02,239
Speaker 1: women were like, oh no, like you can't be too sexual, you.

752
00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:05,799
Speaker 3: Have to be a certain way. And it's like, no, really.

753
00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:10,880
Speaker 2: Do we have to be absolutely not? That's why you know,

754
00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:13,880
Speaker 2: I go there to the Love Hotel is a free bird.

755
00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:16,839
Speaker 2: I'm like, you know what, let's see what you got

756
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:19,640
Speaker 2: because I love my life's the way I have it.

757
00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:22,440
Speaker 2: Now are you going to add to it? You know?

758
00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:22,800
Speaker 3: Are you?

759
00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:25,520
Speaker 2: Are you going to make me laugh? Right? Are you

760
00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:28,440
Speaker 2: going to make me laugh? To like cry? I was

761
00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:30,960
Speaker 2: looking to have, you know, my good time? That's how

762
00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:31,960
Speaker 2: you what.

763
00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:35,319
Speaker 1: That's the best feeling when someone can bring out the

764
00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:35,960
Speaker 1: real you.

765
00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:38,760
Speaker 3: And I if.

766
00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:42,040
Speaker 1: Someone makes me laugh hard, I will cry and piss myself.

767
00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:48,319
Speaker 1: I mean not really okay, good, no, but no, no, no,

768
00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:51,280
Speaker 1: you laugh so hard you're crying and you want to pee.

769
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:53,200
Speaker 1: You're like, oh my god, I pee myself.

770
00:40:53,200 --> 00:40:55,799
Speaker 2: But you don't really Well, let's let's hope not and

771
00:40:55,960 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 2: so so you know, there's things for that, but I'm

772
00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:02,920
Speaker 2: not there now. I was looking for somebody who's going

773
00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:05,720
Speaker 2: to you know, I want to have a good time.

774
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:08,600
Speaker 2: I'm here, I'm you know, you're dating. I want to

775
00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:11,279
Speaker 2: have fun. Let's have fun, and let's not try to

776
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:13,040
Speaker 2: predict what's going to happen next, you know what I mean.

777
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:16,040
Speaker 2: So you let go of expectations because you know what

778
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:18,880
Speaker 2: I mean. People are like but you know, I don't know,

779
00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:21,920
Speaker 2: just take it for the moment and have a good

780
00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:24,680
Speaker 2: time in the moment, you know. And that's why I

781
00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:29,120
Speaker 2: think people overthink, you know, dating guys and you know,

782
00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:31,279
Speaker 2: just going with you know, for me, I go in

783
00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:33,640
Speaker 2: with a pure heart because I'm like a baby now.

784
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:35,120
Speaker 2: I cry when I have to, and I love who

785
00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:37,320
Speaker 2: I want to. I know, you know, we used to

786
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:40,160
Speaker 2: make concessions for other people. I'm going to go to

787
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:42,720
Speaker 2: that wedding because you know, they really want me there.

788
00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:44,960
Speaker 2: We don't know them that well. I mean it happened

789
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:48,080
Speaker 2: to me with Kelly ben Simone. I didn't really want

790
00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:49,560
Speaker 2: to go to the wedding. I didn't think much of

791
00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:53,160
Speaker 2: the guy, so I was like I was fighting myself

792
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:54,279
Speaker 2: about it, and I said, you know what, I'm not

793
00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:56,080
Speaker 2: going to go. I don't believe this is going to

794
00:41:56,120 --> 00:41:58,960
Speaker 2: work out. And it didn't. Two days later, she canceled

795
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:02,200
Speaker 2: the wedding. So that's a good example of you know,

796
00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:04,960
Speaker 2: you know, were always doing for others, you're doing for

797
00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:08,600
Speaker 2: your children, you have to do for yourself love, right, But.

798
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:12,839
Speaker 1: I do believe I've always had hope and no matter

799
00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:18,120
Speaker 1: what happens, I lead with a kind heart and openness

800
00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:24,920
Speaker 1: of love. Yeah, but I tend to get hurt because

801
00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:28,279
Speaker 1: I can't keep it like free and like, oh this

802
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:33,000
Speaker 1: is cool. Like if there's somebody and I'll like go

803
00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:35,720
Speaker 1: off the rails, I won't tell him. I'm like super

804
00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 1: like I'm not that girl. I'm not that girls, Like

805
00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:40,239
Speaker 1: why didn't you text me? Why didn't you call me?

806
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:44,600
Speaker 1: I will stay silent for days, but you didn't text me.

807
00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:48,759
Speaker 1: My heart's breaking, right, right, And I want to get

808
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:50,680
Speaker 1: past that, Like I want to be able to be

809
00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:51,920
Speaker 1: like you.

810
00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:54,480
Speaker 2: Don't care you don't care it is. It is okay,

811
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:57,520
Speaker 2: It is okay, but you know, obviously it's hard, like

812
00:42:57,560 --> 00:43:00,319
Speaker 2: if you like somebody and they're not giving that same

813
00:43:01,160 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 2: you know, like back right, Yeah, that's never easy, But

814
00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:12,240
Speaker 2: it doesn't mean that you you can't enjoy meeting somebody

815
00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:15,760
Speaker 2: else because guess what, you were there and now I'm busy.

816
00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:17,960
Speaker 2: Like when I was kind of bored with those boys

817
00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:20,319
Speaker 2: and went off and I started talking to Phil right

818
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:23,200
Speaker 2: because I was like, you know, I'm not having fun

819
00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:24,399
Speaker 2: with you. I'm gonna go a fun up there.

820
00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:29,200
Speaker 3: And you weren't worried about hurting feelings like you.

821
00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:32,520
Speaker 2: Said, well, yeah, I mean exactly. No, you have to

822
00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:36,040
Speaker 2: think really about yourself. You know. That's why I said, okay,

823
00:43:36,120 --> 00:43:38,080
Speaker 2: I'm out because I was bored, so I was like,

824
00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:41,840
Speaker 2: I'm out, and I wanted to meet the other guys. Also,

825
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:44,840
Speaker 2: I wanted to talk more to Ralph and Phil and

826
00:43:44,880 --> 00:43:45,480
Speaker 2: the other guys.

827
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:49,279
Speaker 3: I understand. Well, I'm totally hooked on this show.

828
00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:49,560
Speaker 2: Good.

829
00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:52,360
Speaker 3: I can't wait for the next you're.

830
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:54,319
Speaker 2: Gonna come to my cabaret in la I just plead

831
00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:55,280
Speaker 2: the Wiltern.

832
00:43:56,400 --> 00:43:58,520
Speaker 1: When I was supposed to come in August, and then

833
00:43:58,560 --> 00:44:00,719
Speaker 1: I couldn't that was for you.

834
00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:02,440
Speaker 3: Just were at the Wiltern Recess.

835
00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:05,560
Speaker 2: I just played the damn it what day was it?

836
00:44:05,600 --> 00:44:11,040
Speaker 2: April Man? And you'll come to the next one and

837
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:13,319
Speaker 2: will about the Love Hotel. So you're gonna love it.

838
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:18,160
Speaker 3: Okay, great, I'm in. Oh my gosh, I love you.

839
00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:22,880
Speaker 2: Wait when we get together and introduce my girlfriend.

840
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:29,040
Speaker 3: Please please, if you go out, you certainly go out.

841
00:44:29,200 --> 00:44:30,319
Speaker 3: I'll do it. I'll do it for you.

842
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:31,960
Speaker 2: Okay, good and New York. You're coming to New York

843
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:32,239
Speaker 2: at all?

844
00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:35,960
Speaker 3: No, I might be like I come off and on

845
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:36,600
Speaker 3: for work.

846
00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:39,400
Speaker 1: So if I come to New York, I'll take you

847
00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:42,000
Speaker 1: out embassy embassy guys.

848
00:44:42,120 --> 00:44:44,279
Speaker 2: I'll think you to all the European boys hang out.

849
00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:52,680
Speaker 3: Okay, fine, Okay, let's do it. It's a deal. Okay

850
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:53,479
Speaker 3: think Wait.

851
00:44:53,680 --> 00:44:57,680
Speaker 1: So So Love Hotel is on Ravo every Sunday night

852
00:44:57,760 --> 00:44:58,359
Speaker 1: filtering with.

853
00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:01,960
Speaker 3: So New York Cab.

854
00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:06,239
Speaker 2: What am I doing Boston? The Paramount Long Island. Then

855
00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:09,279
Speaker 2: I'm out. I'm out in California, but not to the

856
00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:12,960
Speaker 2: end of June. So okay, maybe one of those shows.

857
00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:17,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, I saw dates all the way through August. Yeah, yeah, I.

858
00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:20,600
Speaker 1: Love and Then Love Hotel Also, you can view on

859
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:25,520
Speaker 1: Peacocks streaming next day after it airs on Bravo nine

860
00:45:25,520 --> 00:45:28,440
Speaker 1: o'clock Sunday nights. Oh my god, I love you so much,

861
00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 1: my tourist friend.

862
00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:34,040
Speaker 2: I love you, Tory