1 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:19,799 Speaker 1: Nicky Glazer Nicky Glazer Podcast, Nicky Glazer Podcast here, thank 2 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:23,600 Speaker 1: hello here, I am welcome to the Nicki Glazer Podcast. 3 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 1: I'm Nicky Glazer and this is Monday's episode. It is 4 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 1: Sunday night in the Hampton's. I'm still in my Girl's trip, 5 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:36,120 Speaker 1: which I've talked about on the show before. I took 6 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:38,519 Speaker 1: last week off. Thank you so much to every bessie 7 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 1: who gave me that time and no no one gave 8 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:42,840 Speaker 1: me shit about it, and I really appreciate that. Thank 9 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:44,880 Speaker 1: you for letting me have the week off. I hope 10 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:48,040 Speaker 1: you enjoyed my special good clean filth on HBO Max 11 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 1: and also um HBO Max is Boy Island. I am 12 00:00:53,479 --> 00:00:58,400 Speaker 1: joined here in the Hampton's um by my best girlfriends Um. 13 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:01,200 Speaker 1: Let me just go around the sirt real quick. Noah 14 00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:06,160 Speaker 1: is here, as you know, she's not in Arizona. What's up? Noah? Okay? Yeah. 15 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:15,440 Speaker 1: We have Carlile Forrester y Yes, Alena yeah, who was 16 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 1: also known as We have Kirsten who have heard on 17 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 1: the podcast. B Hi, Catherine Taylor, I uh nan Anya Marina. 18 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:36,319 Speaker 1: I'm really excited to be Arena as Louise from Fight Island. 19 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 1: So um I just want to give a shout out 20 00:01:38,319 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 1: to a couple of girls who couldn't make it. Um, 21 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 1: shout up to Robin, Lauren, my sister, and the girl 22 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 1: we miss more than anyone here today. Andrew Collins, he 23 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:51,600 Speaker 1: couldn't be here for the podcast. He allowed us to 24 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 1: have this one on our own, so I appreciate it. 25 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 1: And he will be back tomorrow on the show. Um, 26 00:01:56,840 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 1: just as usual. So I hope you guys enjoyed this 27 00:01:59,200 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 1: departure from you know, the regular departure. What do you mean, 28 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 1: it's a departure. It's not over, okay. So Hala is 29 00:02:06,080 --> 00:02:09,080 Speaker 1: referencing something. Hall is doing a hand trip before the 30 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 1: show even begins, a call back to something that just 31 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 1: happened outside. I was posting on my Instagram story a 32 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:19,519 Speaker 1: picture that I took of my lady your lady to 33 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:23,119 Speaker 1: Halla because we're not gonna get into it, because Halla 34 00:02:23,160 --> 00:02:26,080 Speaker 1: didn't want to get into it. Right. You end up 35 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 1: sharing our vaginas with each other on these trips, sharing 36 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 1: sharing them, Harry, I don't know, like yeah, like Ami 37 00:02:37,600 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 1: my style, Yeah yeah, Joe and Hell and U and 38 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:45,359 Speaker 1: I was posting about it on my Instagram and then 39 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:47,359 Speaker 1: I read the Captain to make sure everyone was cool 40 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:50,079 Speaker 1: with it, and Kerson was not even in the picture. 41 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:52,520 Speaker 1: It's Anya and Halla. We are the ones that are like, 42 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:55,239 Speaker 1: I mean, is the one that's actually exposing yourself but 43 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 1: it's from behind so you couldn't see it, and then 44 00:02:57,280 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 1: Hall is just looking at it like thse weren't even that, 45 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:04,919 Speaker 1: And I wrote the Captain like every girl's trip ends 46 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:07,520 Speaker 1: with us comparing each of our labor labia to each 47 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:10,560 Speaker 1: other and realizing we're all normal. And Kirsten pipes up 48 00:03:10,600 --> 00:03:13,800 Speaker 1: with like, it's not over. It's nothing you wanted to know. 49 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 1: I said no, and he don't post that. It's like 50 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:20,640 Speaker 1: it's not not over, and I'm like, that's it's not ending, yeah, 51 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 1: versus like you sharing Yeah. I mean that's the problem 52 00:03:25,880 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 1: with trips or any vacation in general, I feel like 53 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 1: is that they have to end. I mean, isn't that 54 00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 1: just a metaphor for life? But like it is, so 55 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 1: the end is tomorrow of this trip. We started out 56 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:41,880 Speaker 1: on Friday, and I like that Usually on trips that 57 00:03:41,920 --> 00:03:44,040 Speaker 1: are really fun, I feel like I start focusing on 58 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 1: the end maybe the first night, like I start thinking like, oh, 59 00:03:48,080 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 1: this is our fourth to last night here, even though 60 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 1: it could be also you know, you'd say the first night, 61 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 1: but this one, I haven't thought about um leaving tomorrow yet, 62 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 1: which I think is a good sign of just being 63 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 1: present and not really thinking about what the future and 64 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 1: worrying about what you have to do, even though there's 65 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 1: so much piling up, and I think we're all just 66 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 1: getting like kind of little injections of like the normal, 67 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 1: like our real life that we've been escaping here where 68 00:04:18,480 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 1: like each of us will like slink off to like 69 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:23,599 Speaker 1: address our issues at home and then come back to 70 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 1: the group. But mostly it's just been hanging out with 71 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 1: eight four or five, six, seven, nine girls and Billy 72 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 1: the dogs in an amazing house in the Hampton's that 73 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:41,159 Speaker 1: Sarlena has so generously um like just like her Vagina 74 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 1: shared with us. It's just like it's the most beautiful house. 75 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:49,480 Speaker 1: I'm not going to go into it, but it's just 76 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 1: it's it's insane what we're staying in and how beautiful 77 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 1: it is and how perfectly decorated it is, and how 78 00:04:56,400 --> 00:04:58,599 Speaker 1: she has just like given over the space for us 79 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:02,720 Speaker 1: like be our selves, and she's hired private chefs each 80 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:10,159 Speaker 1: night to a private cheff named Charlotte intractive Charlotte still 81 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 1: so empty night Charlotte here. So for those of you 82 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:14,840 Speaker 1: who don't know who Charlotte is, who is everyone? I 83 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 1: just remind my friends that no one's been on this trip. 84 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:21,040 Speaker 1: Inside jokes are going to track and let's we kind 85 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 1: of explain them. Thanks. I'm glad Andrew isn't missing in spirit. 86 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 1: You need to give context. So, um, who wants to 87 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:34,719 Speaker 1: do so? Sere Lena, you decided to treat us instead 88 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 1: of like worrying about like, yeah, I wanted the part 89 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:38,479 Speaker 1: of the hang. I didn't want to cook it. We 90 00:05:38,520 --> 00:05:39,680 Speaker 1: all have to eat, so I didn't want to cook, 91 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:41,280 Speaker 1: and I wanted to be part of the hang. So 92 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 1: I thought that'd be fun to have a private chef. 93 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:46,560 Speaker 1: And then she cooks and cleans and brings her team. Well, 94 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 1: I didn't know it was a she. Yes, she. I 95 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 1: think she identifies as a sheet. But I wasn't short, right, 96 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:56,160 Speaker 1: was just calling up Charlotte. Yah, I think so Charlotte. 97 00:05:56,200 --> 00:06:03,719 Speaker 1: But she has she's handsome, waiting man. Well, the Charlotte. 98 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 1: We all can't handle it in the house. We all 99 00:06:07,760 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 1: started acting differently. Wanted. Yeah, I gotten nervous because she 100 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 1: was as soon as she comes in the house at 101 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 1: six thirty and and dinner happens, or like she arrived 102 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:21,560 Speaker 1: at six or whatever it is. She's in the kitchen 103 00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:23,839 Speaker 1: taking over and bringing all of her stuff and she's 104 00:06:23,839 --> 00:06:26,200 Speaker 1: an amazing chef. And then she has two people join 105 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 1: her to then like serveants at the table and clean 106 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:32,080 Speaker 1: up and everything. Um. But she's doing all the food work, 107 00:06:32,320 --> 00:06:36,640 Speaker 1: is what I like. The help They just would come 108 00:06:36,640 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 1: and like yes at the table and make it look nice. Yeah, 109 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:42,120 Speaker 1: like clear our ship out of the way, which is 110 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:45,359 Speaker 1: our ship, not serailiness, Like her place is littered with 111 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 1: our stuff and her places imaculate otherwise. But we while 112 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:52,920 Speaker 1: she was in the kitchen and like we're out on 113 00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:56,080 Speaker 1: the you know, by the pool, hanging out, listen to music, 114 00:06:56,240 --> 00:07:02,120 Speaker 1: doing the Cupid shuffle like macarena. Um. We like we 115 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:04,799 Speaker 1: would want to get like a seltzer from the fridge. 116 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:07,720 Speaker 1: And it's like I think once or twice a couple 117 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:09,800 Speaker 1: of us came back being like I wasn't able to 118 00:07:09,960 --> 00:07:15,560 Speaker 1: take what I needed because Charlotte's energy was like so strong, 119 00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:17,920 Speaker 1: and I got nervous of like I was flirting with 120 00:07:17,960 --> 00:07:20,200 Speaker 1: her by looking for a seltzer. In her space like 121 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:22,760 Speaker 1: it was like I would have to like it was 122 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:25,120 Speaker 1: almost like I was going to my locker that was 123 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:27,640 Speaker 1: next to a boys I liked. And I never knew 124 00:07:27,680 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 1: I wanted to be vegan until I met Charlotte, you know, Yes, 125 00:07:30,440 --> 00:07:33,720 Speaker 1: so I all had a crush on Charlotte. Charlotte against 126 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:37,560 Speaker 1: our energy. I wanted to throw something away and seleis 127 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 1: bathroom because I was too nervous to throw it in 128 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 1: the kitchen. It was just like to contact lens cases 129 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 1: in a hairball from my brush and I pulled out 130 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:45,240 Speaker 1: and I was like block. I was like, I like 131 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 1: tucked at my across the house, and we kept saying 132 00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 1: like we would each like kind of sharing interaction we 133 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:53,760 Speaker 1: had with Charlotte, and each of us would go like, oh, 134 00:07:53,800 --> 00:07:56,760 Speaker 1: so you talked to Charlotte, so she looked you in 135 00:07:56,800 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 1: the eye. Well, she told me the waves were big 136 00:07:59,120 --> 00:08:02,320 Speaker 1: today because of storms that were near. And I was like, wait, 137 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 1: what was that story about? And you were like, I 138 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:05,360 Speaker 1: don't know. I just talked to her, and you were 139 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 1: like that was just straight up. You were just like 140 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:09,720 Speaker 1: she took her ear butt out for me because I 141 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:14,560 Speaker 1: walked it. Yes, so that delicious. She was teaching us 142 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 1: life lessons to Like she went, I had a twelve 143 00:08:17,360 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 1: pack of selter that I was trying to put in 144 00:08:19,440 --> 00:08:22,320 Speaker 1: the fridge, but Catherine and she just looked at us 145 00:08:22,440 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 1: and does or you could let me do that for you? 146 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:34,960 Speaker 1: Now practice the art of receiving beyond just the egg 147 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:40,080 Speaker 1: plant she made. Yeah, it was really good. Well, and 148 00:08:40,120 --> 00:08:46,280 Speaker 1: we're sexualizing. She was not involved. This kind of you 149 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 1: honestly is like borderline. Effectively, we just couldn't help ourselves. 150 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:54,079 Speaker 1: I think we were. She was just like taking over 151 00:08:54,240 --> 00:08:56,400 Speaker 1: and like providing for us, and we were all just 152 00:08:56,440 --> 00:08:59,160 Speaker 1: like kind of there for it. And then I think 153 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:02,560 Speaker 1: I made one on last like ditch what do they 154 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 1: call it? Like hail mary attempt and like getting her 155 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:06,360 Speaker 1: to like us. When she was leaving, I was just 156 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 1: like we all seek and we all have been what 157 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 1: did I say, validation of this entire time? And she goes, 158 00:09:14,160 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 1: you got it, ladies, And then she was like the 159 00:09:17,280 --> 00:09:22,400 Speaker 1: door slammed, and we were like, oh God, like you 160 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 1: don't have to try, you had you had already slam door. 161 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:30,320 Speaker 1: It was another right bless but yet like when she 162 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:32,280 Speaker 1: was like, let me help you unpack those seltzers on 163 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:34,200 Speaker 1: you and I were like a short thing. We were 164 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:36,200 Speaker 1: like furiously still putting them in the grid. We're like, 165 00:09:36,480 --> 00:09:38,719 Speaker 1: well doing the second after these boxes were broken down, 166 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:40,200 Speaker 1: and she was like I'll do that too. We just 167 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:44,800 Speaker 1: done so that. That was a highlight of the trip today. 168 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:50,280 Speaker 1: Another highlight of the trip was also consuming f Boy Island, 169 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:56,440 Speaker 1: which I mean episode You can now stream episodes one 170 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 1: through six on HBO Max and I hope that you do, 171 00:09:59,160 --> 00:10:00,679 Speaker 1: and I hope that you don't. I feel like if 172 00:10:00,679 --> 00:10:02,720 Speaker 1: you haven't, you can't listen to this part of the show, 173 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 1: or um, you may have like it's too late for you, 174 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 1: because I swear to God you will down those six 175 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:11,960 Speaker 1: so quickly it won't be hard to get through if 176 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 1: you if you want to check it out, it is 177 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:18,480 Speaker 1: so entertaining. Um, we have loved the show. Kirsten and 178 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:23,200 Speaker 1: Anya have been doing impressions of two of the main 179 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:27,160 Speaker 1: characters on the show to Maris and Louise and um, 180 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:29,240 Speaker 1: and I've loved for them to do a little bit 181 00:10:29,240 --> 00:10:34,680 Speaker 1: of it right now. I mean, Mercedes is just so cute, 182 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 1: like the cutest smile, but everyone sells these a flock roy. 183 00:10:42,080 --> 00:10:44,720 Speaker 1: That was Louise, and and then you got Tomorrow's who 184 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:47,280 Speaker 1: says I'm from the Bronx. But don't you try to 185 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:49,400 Speaker 1: check me because I'm gonna find out, guy, And I 186 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:53,080 Speaker 1: know if you're a fun boy Okay. Also, all I 187 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 1: can think about is that Tom's abs on that day 188 00:10:56,360 --> 00:11:00,880 Speaker 1: we're fuck are you plot? If you're watching the show, 189 00:11:00,920 --> 00:11:02,960 Speaker 1: you know how freak and accurate that is. You can 190 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:06,960 Speaker 1: set up in You have to want to throughout this 191 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:10,840 Speaker 1: show if you want. Um we also, so let's talk 192 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:13,080 Speaker 1: a little bit about f Boy Island, because I think 193 00:11:13,120 --> 00:11:16,800 Speaker 1: that we promised a segment last week because we took 194 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:19,560 Speaker 1: the shows off last week, um as I was in 195 00:11:19,559 --> 00:11:22,120 Speaker 1: New York doing Cress and stuff like that, and um, 196 00:11:22,160 --> 00:11:24,520 Speaker 1: I didn't get to talk about the first three episodes. 197 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:27,520 Speaker 1: And I know that the best He's probably consumed it 198 00:11:27,559 --> 00:11:29,720 Speaker 1: to not only support me, because but also because you 199 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:32,200 Speaker 1: like good things in f we Island is so freaking 200 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:37,040 Speaker 1: good and and really like I did not realize how 201 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 1: good it was because I said this in an Instagram 202 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:42,360 Speaker 1: post I made. But when I was making the show, 203 00:11:43,200 --> 00:11:47,439 Speaker 1: I only hear about what happens in you know, in uh, 204 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:50,439 Speaker 1: in reality TV world, we call it reality like the 205 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:53,120 Speaker 1: stuff that they shoot in the house with the people 206 00:11:53,280 --> 00:11:56,360 Speaker 1: as the like when I'm they're not not with the 207 00:11:56,400 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 1: host is called the reality. So in the reality world, 208 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:01,280 Speaker 1: I did not know any of the reality stuff. I 209 00:12:01,320 --> 00:12:03,960 Speaker 1: only knew what I saw, and then producers would sometimes 210 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 1: tell me, and then of course my conversations with the 211 00:12:06,640 --> 00:12:09,560 Speaker 1: girls that you often see on the show, That's where 212 00:12:09,559 --> 00:12:12,559 Speaker 1: I would get some information. But I had no clue 213 00:12:12,679 --> 00:12:15,640 Speaker 1: how insane everything was. So I feel like I'm watching 214 00:12:15,640 --> 00:12:18,720 Speaker 1: it for the first time too. Um for you guys, 215 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:21,000 Speaker 1: as fans of F Boy Island, now, what are some 216 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:23,160 Speaker 1: highlights for you? What do you want to discuss about 217 00:12:23,200 --> 00:12:25,640 Speaker 1: the show? Anything come to mind? Who do you do 218 00:12:25,679 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 1: you think Peter is still an f boy? Um? Peter? 219 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:33,439 Speaker 1: The returns from the show are Peter, Casey and Garrett 220 00:12:33,880 --> 00:12:36,160 Speaker 1: has come back to and just for no reason really, 221 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:41,760 Speaker 1: I mean, I think Peter and Casey are in the competition. 222 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:45,080 Speaker 1: They are intition And for those of you don't know 223 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:46,839 Speaker 1: and are like, I don't care about this. Peter was 224 00:12:46,880 --> 00:12:48,800 Speaker 1: an f boy last season. He was kicked off first, 225 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:50,600 Speaker 1: but I was so sad because the reason he got 226 00:12:50,640 --> 00:12:53,360 Speaker 1: kicked off. Yeah, the reason he got kicked off because 227 00:12:53,400 --> 00:12:55,599 Speaker 1: c J did not like their interactions. So CJ was 228 00:12:55,679 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 1: like talking to him at a mixer Peter and to Peter, 229 00:12:59,320 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 1: and they were I hated to talk about like what 230 00:13:00,840 --> 00:13:02,880 Speaker 1: they had in common. And she was like, you know, 231 00:13:03,040 --> 00:13:04,520 Speaker 1: I like to sleep, and he was like, I like 232 00:13:04,559 --> 00:13:06,800 Speaker 1: to sleep too. We shoul sleep together sometime, which I 233 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:10,600 Speaker 1: think was hilarious, but she had not, and she keeped 234 00:13:10,640 --> 00:13:13,120 Speaker 1: him off and we were so sad to stay. And 235 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:16,240 Speaker 1: I was sure he was a nice guy. Yes, we 236 00:13:16,240 --> 00:13:18,800 Speaker 1: were all shocked to remember. And then he was an 237 00:13:18,840 --> 00:13:21,200 Speaker 1: f boy. So he went to Limbro and that's where 238 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:24,959 Speaker 1: he kind of flourished. And the funniest thing is he 239 00:13:25,040 --> 00:13:31,040 Speaker 1: got your therapy lessons and therapy. If he watched the show, 240 00:13:32,000 --> 00:13:34,000 Speaker 1: people are calling him out for not being reformed, and 241 00:13:34,080 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 1: he goes, no, I sit down, and I got my 242 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:38,240 Speaker 1: therapy from NICKI. And those sessions really changed my life. 243 00:13:38,760 --> 00:13:41,240 Speaker 1: And it's so funny for me to watch that scene 244 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:44,680 Speaker 1: because when we were shooting the show, I remember Mia, 245 00:13:44,800 --> 00:13:47,360 Speaker 1: who is the one that is entertaining Peter as a 246 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:50,319 Speaker 1: possible Like you mean Peter still in the running for me. 247 00:13:51,280 --> 00:13:55,120 Speaker 1: Mia said to me, I remember, you know, when we 248 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:57,240 Speaker 1: were just hanging out before a shot or whatever. She 249 00:13:57,400 --> 00:13:59,680 Speaker 1: was like, Hey, whatever you did with me, whatever you 250 00:13:59,720 --> 00:14:01,520 Speaker 1: did with Eater, thank you so much. And I was 251 00:14:01,600 --> 00:14:04,280 Speaker 1: just like kind of like what, like what do you 252 00:14:04,320 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 1: mean like kind of and I was like kind of 253 00:14:06,040 --> 00:14:08,800 Speaker 1: just like and she goes no, he said it really 254 00:14:08,800 --> 00:14:11,000 Speaker 1: helped him, and I was just like, wait what Because, 255 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:14,160 Speaker 1: to be honest with you, what I did with well, 256 00:14:14,200 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 1: here's the thing, because I would sit down with these 257 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:19,800 Speaker 1: guys in these limbro therapy sessions and which, by the way, 258 00:14:20,120 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 1: you looked so hot enough. So that was a good 259 00:14:24,680 --> 00:14:28,240 Speaker 1: season one. I was like in love during that time, 260 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 1: so I was like populating as I was doing it. 261 00:14:31,320 --> 00:14:34,480 Speaker 1: But this season, I do therapy. But I don't think 262 00:14:34,520 --> 00:14:36,480 Speaker 1: those episodes they have an air yet. I think he'll 263 00:14:36,480 --> 00:14:39,640 Speaker 1: probably be in the last batch. But when I was 264 00:14:39,680 --> 00:14:42,800 Speaker 1: doing therapy with them, I but we were talking about 265 00:14:42,880 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 1: this morning actually a little bit. Men are so starved 266 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:49,320 Speaker 1: to talk about their feelings that even a sketch about 267 00:14:49,400 --> 00:14:52,920 Speaker 1: therapy got them to a place because they had never 268 00:14:52,960 --> 00:14:55,680 Speaker 1: shared anything. So Peter lying when he said he had 269 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:58,240 Speaker 1: a breakthrough with me. It was just a five minute. 270 00:14:59,760 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 1: But no one asked these guys how they feel, why 271 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 1: they might be s boys, what led them to what 272 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:07,880 Speaker 1: what woman hurt them before? Like you know, maybe the 273 00:15:07,920 --> 00:15:10,800 Speaker 1: sketch started with me going like Peter, who are you? 274 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:13,720 Speaker 1: But like I actually do care who heard them? So 275 00:15:13,760 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 1: I think there was something and these guys that felt 276 00:15:15,560 --> 00:15:17,800 Speaker 1: comfortable for them to like kind of open up. I 277 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:22,480 Speaker 1: remember when we were shooting this year's UM Therapy sessions, 278 00:15:22,920 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 1: one of the producers, my friend told me, one of 279 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:28,600 Speaker 1: the producers off camera, was like what is this even comedy? 280 00:15:28,640 --> 00:15:30,240 Speaker 1: What is because it was supposed to be comedy sketch, 281 00:15:30,280 --> 00:15:35,520 Speaker 1: but I was like actually getting into something, not like 282 00:15:35,560 --> 00:15:38,080 Speaker 1: I shouldn't be doing it because I don't have a license, 283 00:15:38,560 --> 00:15:41,400 Speaker 1: but I was really like breakthroughs with Garrett. And I 284 00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:43,680 Speaker 1: remember my friend telling me that a Brudgers was like 285 00:15:44,120 --> 00:15:46,920 Speaker 1: what is this? Like this can't they can't even use this. 286 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:49,560 Speaker 1: It's not funny at all because I'm wearing glasses. I'm 287 00:15:49,560 --> 00:15:54,000 Speaker 1: wearing like this like like you know, hounds tooth jacket 288 00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:57,760 Speaker 1: in the dead of like the Cobbo summer and and 289 00:15:57,800 --> 00:15:59,600 Speaker 1: it's supposed to be a comedy sketch. But I remember 290 00:15:59,600 --> 00:16:01,760 Speaker 1: being like, got it. I just had a couple more minutes. 291 00:16:02,240 --> 00:16:05,720 Speaker 1: This guy might stumble upon something that could lead him 292 00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:08,800 Speaker 1: somewhere else. But it was so but it's it's so 293 00:16:08,880 --> 00:16:10,920 Speaker 1: funny to be to watch Peter go like no, like 294 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 1: Nikki really worked with me, like last season, like I 295 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:17,760 Speaker 1: thought for a second that he was lying or like 296 00:16:17,840 --> 00:16:20,440 Speaker 1: just doing that to like that means he's enough. Boy 297 00:16:20,480 --> 00:16:23,520 Speaker 1: this season he's lying, Like but no, he really thinks 298 00:16:23,600 --> 00:16:26,240 Speaker 1: we made I don't know what he thinks he did. 299 00:16:26,400 --> 00:16:29,000 Speaker 1: But it was just a girl, but it was about 300 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 1: his feelings who he didn't want to fuck, I guess, 301 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:34,640 Speaker 1: and that like never happens. Um, we gotta go to break. 302 00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:36,800 Speaker 1: We're gonna come back with more show after this, talk 303 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:39,120 Speaker 1: more about a trip we went on today. We'll talk 304 00:16:39,160 --> 00:16:42,520 Speaker 1: more about f Boy Island and who knows what else 305 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:51,240 Speaker 1: will happen right after this set. All right, welcome back 306 00:16:51,320 --> 00:16:54,640 Speaker 1: to the podcast. I'm here with my best friends and 307 00:16:55,080 --> 00:16:59,240 Speaker 1: Kirsten and I'm sorry I just picked a name, but 308 00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:02,080 Speaker 1: Urson's like what I was like, I was sleeping. What 309 00:17:02,120 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 1: are we doing well the podcast? We are in the 310 00:17:05,000 --> 00:17:09,840 Speaker 1: Hampton's and we're talking to Foy Island. We Um, we 311 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:12,200 Speaker 1: went out on a boat today, which we didn't even 312 00:17:12,240 --> 00:17:16,760 Speaker 1: know that we needed because like we are just happy 313 00:17:16,880 --> 00:17:19,600 Speaker 1: just in this amazing house that you would. Honestly, I 314 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:23,639 Speaker 1: gotta say, if you were looking this house up on 315 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:27,959 Speaker 1: Airbnb two rent per night, I gotta say at least 316 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:33,159 Speaker 1: twenty grand a night. I'm not even I'm not kidding you, 317 00:17:33,240 --> 00:17:38,400 Speaker 1: I'm not. I mean, it's cool. We did a lot 318 00:17:38,440 --> 00:17:45,200 Speaker 1: of steam power, yes tonight, It's really we looked out 319 00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:52,560 Speaker 1: by having a very generous friend who I'm happy you. Um. 320 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:55,480 Speaker 1: And that friend also has happens to have a baby 321 00:17:55,560 --> 00:17:57,959 Speaker 1: that I absolutely fell in love with this week in 322 00:17:58,119 --> 00:18:02,399 Speaker 1: such a profound way on my Instagram store her baby Baby. 323 00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:08,000 Speaker 1: You're three months out, three months out of having a baby, Um, 324 00:18:08,119 --> 00:18:12,600 Speaker 1: what is the biggest surprise about being Like, what's something 325 00:18:12,640 --> 00:18:15,440 Speaker 1: that nothing prepared you for? Like none of the books 326 00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:17,840 Speaker 1: or the podcasts, or is there anything you would tell 327 00:18:17,880 --> 00:18:20,240 Speaker 1: new moms out there what I would tell them, like 328 00:18:20,280 --> 00:18:27,120 Speaker 1: advice us just so you know you're not going You're 329 00:18:27,119 --> 00:18:30,080 Speaker 1: gonna love. Somebody told me this before too, But I'm like, yeah, 330 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:34,720 Speaker 1: but how you just love this person you've never met, 331 00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:38,000 Speaker 1: like I've never loved anyone after three months? I mean, yes, 332 00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:39,960 Speaker 1: there was a couple of guys that I'm like, I 333 00:18:40,080 --> 00:18:45,240 Speaker 1: love them, but I love this child more than it's 334 00:18:45,320 --> 00:18:47,840 Speaker 1: it's very, very weird, and I don't do not know him. 335 00:18:47,880 --> 00:18:49,800 Speaker 1: He doesn't do much. I mean I know him, but 336 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:55,280 Speaker 1: he doesn't I never he's never talked. He's never talked 337 00:18:55,320 --> 00:18:57,160 Speaker 1: to me. He's never given me any And maybe that's 338 00:18:57,160 --> 00:19:01,600 Speaker 1: why I love him up. No, it's just this thing 339 00:19:01,680 --> 00:19:03,719 Speaker 1: comes out of your vagina, and usually love them when 340 00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:07,880 Speaker 1: they go in. But I fell and I just love 341 00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:10,720 Speaker 1: him so much. It's crazy. Would do anything for him 342 00:19:10,800 --> 00:19:13,160 Speaker 1: for this weekend. I mean, you haven't even been like 343 00:19:13,600 --> 00:19:15,760 Speaker 1: I missed him. I know it was hard to maybe 344 00:19:16,040 --> 00:19:18,600 Speaker 1: be like leaves him. I mean honnous that she cried 345 00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:20,520 Speaker 1: when she was leaving her dog. I've been saying that 346 00:19:20,560 --> 00:19:25,480 Speaker 1: about my dog, and I will say that and then 347 00:19:25,480 --> 00:19:27,560 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh am I bad at this? But I 348 00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:32,040 Speaker 1: feel so good. Yeah. Well, I had a hard red pregnancy. 349 00:19:32,040 --> 00:19:34,040 Speaker 1: I was on a bed rest. I was alone a lot. 350 00:19:34,200 --> 00:19:37,080 Speaker 1: Like if there's kind of a loneliness about you're even 351 00:19:37,080 --> 00:19:38,840 Speaker 1: when you're up in the middle of the night, you're 352 00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:41,399 Speaker 1: sort of by yourself, looking at the outside the window 353 00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:43,280 Speaker 1: of thinking whose else is up at this hour? And 354 00:19:43,440 --> 00:19:45,560 Speaker 1: there's something lonely about it at times, even though it's 355 00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:47,399 Speaker 1: so beautiful and you've fallen in love with this being, 356 00:19:47,760 --> 00:19:50,399 Speaker 1: but don't you who doesn't talk to you? But I 357 00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:52,280 Speaker 1: think just being here and being with you, girl, I 358 00:19:52,320 --> 00:19:54,679 Speaker 1: feel like there's like a tornnus in me, like a 359 00:19:54,720 --> 00:19:57,800 Speaker 1: part of me is a mom now, and then there's 360 00:19:57,840 --> 00:20:00,280 Speaker 1: this old me. And I got a little sense of like, oh, Sarah, 361 00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:02,760 Speaker 1: you know, with their friends against seeing you, seeing you 362 00:20:02,760 --> 00:20:04,679 Speaker 1: guys connect. I was just like falling in love with 363 00:20:04,800 --> 00:20:07,720 Speaker 1: just the thought of, like Leon's loving my friends and 364 00:20:07,880 --> 00:20:13,760 Speaker 1: felt it feels like this new I would lose my 365 00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:16,960 Speaker 1: friends when they became moms. But you were the first 366 00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:20,120 Speaker 1: friend I felt like. And Catherine is a mom as well, 367 00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:23,720 Speaker 1: and she's my best friends since uh college, and when 368 00:20:23,760 --> 00:20:26,119 Speaker 1: you had babies, like we were already living states apart, 369 00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:28,399 Speaker 1: so it wasn't like a friendship change. It was like 370 00:20:29,119 --> 00:20:32,040 Speaker 1: there was no discernible change of our friends because we 371 00:20:32,040 --> 00:20:33,720 Speaker 1: were always like we see each other three times a 372 00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:36,600 Speaker 1: year at best, but we like it's the type of 373 00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:39,480 Speaker 1: friendship that you you know, I always say that Katherine. 374 00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:41,679 Speaker 1: I knew we were best friends because we met in 375 00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 1: college and we walked like two blocks after we left 376 00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:46,639 Speaker 1: a party together because we both looked at each other 377 00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:50,560 Speaker 1: at the party like looks good. It was like kapa 378 00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:57,600 Speaker 1: sig I think. And two blocks after and I just stopped, 379 00:20:57,600 --> 00:20:59,280 Speaker 1: and I remember being nervous to tell her this, but 380 00:20:59,359 --> 00:21:01,800 Speaker 1: I was like, I feel like our kids are going 381 00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:05,240 Speaker 1: to know each other. And that is obviously I don't 382 00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:06,800 Speaker 1: have kids, but that was just me being like I 383 00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:08,520 Speaker 1: just feel like I'm just gonna know you my whole life. 384 00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:12,760 Speaker 1: And it's felt that way, but I really felt like, um, 385 00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:14,720 Speaker 1: like I felt like I've lost my sister a little 386 00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:17,640 Speaker 1: bit to motherhood, which is fine, like you expect it, 387 00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:20,359 Speaker 1: but I feel like, for the first time ever with 388 00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:22,240 Speaker 1: a friend having a kid. You made me feel the 389 00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:26,760 Speaker 1: other day like, oh, I actually my friend is more 390 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:29,600 Speaker 1: available because she's slowed her life down to become a 391 00:21:29,680 --> 00:21:32,199 Speaker 1: mother in a way, because you have not lockdown. I 392 00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:36,320 Speaker 1: mean your life was fucking like consumed by a baby. 393 00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:40,199 Speaker 1: So you you're you're like able. I'm like, I got 394 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:41,879 Speaker 1: to move back to New York because I have a 395 00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:44,560 Speaker 1: friend that's like you can hang all the time, would 396 00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:46,800 Speaker 1: You're always able to hang, always down hang, but in 397 00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:49,280 Speaker 1: a different way, like I'm busy. In another way, I'm 398 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:51,639 Speaker 1: just busy taking her baby. He gets to hang with us. 399 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:55,240 Speaker 1: He's a good hang. Oh my god, watch that Worst 400 00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:58,159 Speaker 1: Person of America. Worst watched The Worst Person in the 401 00:21:58,200 --> 00:22:03,480 Speaker 1: World America I, which was America's were they're reading stuff world? 402 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:06,720 Speaker 1: That was o good. He just hum with us, dude, 403 00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:08,919 Speaker 1: we watched The Worst Person in the World, which if 404 00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:10,640 Speaker 1: you haven't seen that yet, and we're going to watch 405 00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:12,800 Speaker 1: it tonight for those of my friends here who haven't 406 00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:15,520 Speaker 1: seen it, because it's I've watched it so many times. 407 00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:17,879 Speaker 1: It's like a It's the only movie I've ever felt 408 00:22:17,960 --> 00:22:19,720 Speaker 1: is like a song that I just want to hear 409 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:22,240 Speaker 1: over and over and over and I can't stop because 410 00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:26,160 Speaker 1: it just summons these deep feelings and like it's just great. 411 00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:29,040 Speaker 1: But we were watching it with Leon and Leon we 412 00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:32,879 Speaker 1: had you know, we gave him a bath. Uh he said. 413 00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:35,680 Speaker 1: He was like it was almost it was getting dark, 414 00:22:35,720 --> 00:22:37,119 Speaker 1: and we were like, it's time for bed, Like he 415 00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:39,040 Speaker 1: was getting kind of sleepy, kind of like doing his 416 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:41,280 Speaker 1: sleepy How do you know when he's ready for bed? 417 00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:48,679 Speaker 1: He doesn't he like we get sexy sexy. He just 418 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:51,040 Speaker 1: did a little like a little mini grunt like he's 419 00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:53,439 Speaker 1: time to like in fidgeting. I'm I'm doing it, but 420 00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:55,960 Speaker 1: I'm also slanic because it's the podcast, so it's okay. 421 00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:57,960 Speaker 1: People watch it on YouTube as you can if you 422 00:22:57,960 --> 00:22:59,720 Speaker 1: want to see all my friends right now, this out 423 00:22:59,720 --> 00:23:01,800 Speaker 1: on you tim in a couple of days, um, if 424 00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:05,600 Speaker 1: you're listening live as it airs. But when we were 425 00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:07,000 Speaker 1: sitting there and then all of a sudden, he started, 426 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:09,800 Speaker 1: he started crying, and we realized that all of his 427 00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:12,199 Speaker 1: needs were met. He didn't have a dirty diaper, He 428 00:23:12,320 --> 00:23:14,679 Speaker 1: was not like he was just he was full. He 429 00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:21,000 Speaker 1: just wanted to hang out. He didn't want to be 430 00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:24,159 Speaker 1: in the room. But doesn't relate to that because I 431 00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:27,119 Speaker 1: remember one of my favorite I love sleeping during the 432 00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:30,240 Speaker 1: day because I know that things are safe because people 433 00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:33,240 Speaker 1: are awake, keeping the world like crime doesn't happen during 434 00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:35,119 Speaker 1: the day, Like no one can get me during the 435 00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:37,200 Speaker 1: day because no one's gonna Like not that I fear 436 00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:39,879 Speaker 1: anyone getting me, but my parents when they used to 437 00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:41,520 Speaker 1: stay up in party all night. It used to be 438 00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:43,720 Speaker 1: so soothing to me to go to bed and hear 439 00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:48,199 Speaker 1: activity happening outside instead of like a quiet house. And 440 00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:51,480 Speaker 1: sometimes I would hear like the clock, but like and 441 00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:52,840 Speaker 1: I thought it was like a man with an axe 442 00:23:52,920 --> 00:24:00,400 Speaker 1: going down. Our fence went down like junglele a clock. 443 00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:08,679 Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, yeah, but there is something so cuting. 444 00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:11,480 Speaker 1: Last night we stayed up till three o'clock, like it 445 00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:13,879 Speaker 1: dwindled down. People were just like we were watching f 446 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:17,040 Speaker 1: Boy Island and Kirston just got less and less doing 447 00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:21,880 Speaker 1: to Maris impressions so annoying. If I Marison, you were 448 00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,480 Speaker 1: so annoying, Like I was just trying to sleep. No, 449 00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:27,119 Speaker 1: but like I made through the episode the second way 450 00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:29,959 Speaker 1: we're watching and then I've shut down and then all 451 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:32,960 Speaker 1: the last thing I heard was Kirsten's on airplane mode, 452 00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:36,720 Speaker 1: and I was like, I haven't done with you. But 453 00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:38,760 Speaker 1: the reason I love you, ladies, just because like you 454 00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:41,960 Speaker 1: that I was really proud of that analogy, because you 455 00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:45,200 Speaker 1: were on airplane mode because you was there conscious no 456 00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:47,520 Speaker 1: information you were on your eyes were open, but no 457 00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:51,600 Speaker 1: information was coming in Joe, no impressions. And normally I'm 458 00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:55,040 Speaker 1: the one who was like being stastic and being silly, 459 00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:58,840 Speaker 1: but I was just like I heard bags of popcorn opening. 460 00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:01,560 Speaker 1: I was like, how are they so guys? Like I 461 00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:04,320 Speaker 1: next I would open for the microwave or like yes, 462 00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:13,040 Speaker 1: someone was whisking eggs. Well I remember looking. We were 463 00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:15,280 Speaker 1: like up talking about like money issues, just like it 464 00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:19,800 Speaker 1: ended up being just like morled me, Alena and and No, 465 00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:26,479 Speaker 1: and it was us Forrror. Everyone else appealed quietly. And 466 00:25:26,520 --> 00:25:28,560 Speaker 1: then I remember looking at the clock and I was like, 467 00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:30,520 Speaker 1: it's it's a two forty nine And I was like, guys, 468 00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:32,040 Speaker 1: we gotta go to bed. Holl it's going to be 469 00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:38,120 Speaker 1: up doing because all wakes up at the dawn. No, seriously, 470 00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,640 Speaker 1: I think I must have heard you, guys. I honestly, 471 00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:45,040 Speaker 1: I think my childhood, my childhood was spent like laying 472 00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:47,320 Speaker 1: in a bed listening to your dad, like that bird 473 00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:51,960 Speaker 1: singing in the dead of falling. And so I think 474 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:54,080 Speaker 1: it got quiet, and I was like, Okay, time for 475 00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:55,840 Speaker 1: me to get up, Like I heard you guys, go 476 00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:59,320 Speaker 1: to bed. I woke up. Yes, Um, It's just maybe 477 00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:01,359 Speaker 1: it dawned on me that I'm going to set you 478 00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:03,600 Speaker 1: each up for a story to tell that I know 479 00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:05,640 Speaker 1: that you have, which I think is a good way 480 00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:08,000 Speaker 1: to run the rest of this episode. That just occurred 481 00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:11,000 Speaker 1: to me because blackbird singing in the dead of knight 482 00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:13,040 Speaker 1: reminds me of a great story that Sara Lena to 483 00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:16,040 Speaker 1: the other day because we have two guitars here, we're 484 00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:19,840 Speaker 1: like fiddling around with them, and Sea Lena is so 485 00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:23,840 Speaker 1: good at one song and the story behind it is 486 00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:27,440 Speaker 1: very interesting. Why Sara Lena, can you play Blackbird? Which 487 00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:31,320 Speaker 1: is a very technically super difficult song. I can't play? 488 00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:34,720 Speaker 1: Thank you? Can you play that song so well? For 489 00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:37,560 Speaker 1: a boy? Why do we do anything? No? I was 490 00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:40,240 Speaker 1: thirteen and there's this guy and I had such a 491 00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:42,640 Speaker 1: crush and I was such a dork and this guy 492 00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:45,600 Speaker 1: was like, I like the Beatles. I was like, Oh, 493 00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:47,920 Speaker 1: that's cool. He's like, yeah, there's this really hard song, 494 00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:50,440 Speaker 1: the Blackbird. I'm trying to learn guitar. And I was 495 00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:53,320 Speaker 1: like that's cool. So then I just went home and 496 00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:55,680 Speaker 1: I worked my ass off. I've never worked so hard 497 00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:58,320 Speaker 1: at anything in my entire life. At thirteen and I'm like, 498 00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:00,560 Speaker 1: I'm learning this song. My dad would come in and 499 00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:03,160 Speaker 1: I'm like, Dad, leave me alone. I'm learning, leave me alone. 500 00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:06,919 Speaker 1: This book is so hard on this song, and I 501 00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:10,880 Speaker 1: learned it really that. I just listened. You didn't have 502 00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:13,480 Speaker 1: no way. I don't know. I'm not I'm not a 503 00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:16,159 Speaker 1: genius in music at all. I'm quite bad. I listened 504 00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:18,080 Speaker 1: to it. I would play with the chords. I knew 505 00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:21,240 Speaker 1: a few chords right, but there was But it's also 506 00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:23,720 Speaker 1: they didn't have it. That's the same. Well they had 507 00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:26,280 Speaker 1: him it, but it was like dial up, like like 508 00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:29,280 Speaker 1: nobody was getting on there for you know, World Guitar 509 00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:32,239 Speaker 1: Cab Car. It wasn't YouTube. But my dad knew how 510 00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:33,760 Speaker 1: to play it. I asked him to do it once 511 00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:36,240 Speaker 1: and that was like our connection and he taught me 512 00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:37,840 Speaker 1: a little bit. Then I just like, you're like, get 513 00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:40,040 Speaker 1: remembered some of the chords and it was a lot 514 00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:42,560 Speaker 1: of my ear shockingly and I'm not I'm not like, 515 00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:44,800 Speaker 1: oh that's so cool. I'm not good at anything, never 516 00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:46,720 Speaker 1: been able to pick up in here and do anything again. 517 00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:49,159 Speaker 1: But for a boy and this one, I would do 518 00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:53,000 Speaker 1: anything is isn't it crazy? Or what happened when you 519 00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:58,439 Speaker 1: were able to like dress? Yeah? I basically acted like 520 00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:00,440 Speaker 1: no big deal. I was like, oh, are you still 521 00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:04,080 Speaker 1: learning that song? And he's like yeah, and I'm like, oh, 522 00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:06,520 Speaker 1: can I see your guitar? And then I just busted 523 00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:12,000 Speaker 1: it out everybody, even top and down the thing, even 524 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:14,360 Speaker 1: at the end, and you did this like slide thing 525 00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:17,720 Speaker 1: at the end. I don't know. He was like WHOA 526 00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:20,159 Speaker 1: so impressed, and I was like, this is he's going 527 00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:25,159 Speaker 1: to be my first boy, right, Nothing was like and 528 00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:26,880 Speaker 1: you thought he was gonna be your first kiss, first everything. 529 00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:29,800 Speaker 1: I thought we were going to be together. You would 530 00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:31,440 Speaker 1: just kiss you because it was so amazing. Yeah, I 531 00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:39,520 Speaker 1: thought he was give me that guitar, you know. I 532 00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:41,720 Speaker 1: thought it was gonna be something amazing, But it's just 533 00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:44,040 Speaker 1: nothing ended up coming at it. He was like, WHOA, 534 00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:46,480 Speaker 1: that's cool, man, And then I just friend zoned myself 535 00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:48,880 Speaker 1: and then he would want to play other things, and 536 00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:51,920 Speaker 1: isn't it? That was it? I was tired of boys 537 00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:55,760 Speaker 1: want to be like you were talented in this thing 538 00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:58,160 Speaker 1: that he's trying to do, which might be the biggest 539 00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:03,520 Speaker 1: boner killer. Yeah, high like the comed do you feel 540 00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:05,920 Speaker 1: like with comedy? I mean I feel like that with 541 00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:08,480 Speaker 1: women all the time. Is that we think the way 542 00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:10,600 Speaker 1: to connect with guys is to show how good we 543 00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:12,920 Speaker 1: are at something, when really like they want to be 544 00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:15,560 Speaker 1: the ones that are good showing us. And then there's 545 00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:18,040 Speaker 1: the other side of things where girls like Rachel Findstein 546 00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:20,880 Speaker 1: has this great video where she just acts like she 547 00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:24,240 Speaker 1: like can't what is it she can't like it's something 548 00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:26,760 Speaker 1: so dumb where she can't like undo a buckle on 549 00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:29,120 Speaker 1: her belt or like on her purse or something. She's like, 550 00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:30,720 Speaker 1: can you help me? And she just goes up to 551 00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:33,600 Speaker 1: guys in the stream and is the dumbest girl ever, 552 00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:35,880 Speaker 1: like it's the easiest thing to do, Like it's like 553 00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:38,480 Speaker 1: I'm looking at carabbee or from something and she's like, 554 00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:41,320 Speaker 1: I just can't figure it out. My titcher can feel it. 555 00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:45,640 Speaker 1: They love it so And I'm not saying that if 556 00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:47,520 Speaker 1: guys are listening, being like, I'm not a dumb guy 557 00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:49,640 Speaker 1: who can just be tricked. I don't want a dumb woman. 558 00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:52,360 Speaker 1: It's like you can't help what you like. And men 559 00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:55,560 Speaker 1: do like to be the you know, masculine energy wants 560 00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:58,840 Speaker 1: to lead and wants to provide and go hunt. And 561 00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:02,760 Speaker 1: someone just told me this was fascinating that the reason 562 00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:06,600 Speaker 1: men aren't overthinking things like women. Is it you that 563 00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:09,160 Speaker 1: told me? At no one, No, this is so weird. 564 00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:13,320 Speaker 1: I forget who told me. The reason men are constantly 565 00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:15,560 Speaker 1: like are able to just kind of like sit and 566 00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:18,400 Speaker 1: fish all day and just like not really say much 567 00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:21,520 Speaker 1: and just to be like yeah, taught out and just 568 00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:24,920 Speaker 1: like that's their day is because they used to go 569 00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:28,360 Speaker 1: like hunt and have to sit for hours and hours, 570 00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:31,080 Speaker 1: like we were in tribes and women were back like 571 00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:34,160 Speaker 1: gathering things and like knitting around the fire, and they 572 00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:37,040 Speaker 1: had to talk because they and they had to keep 573 00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:40,080 Speaker 1: away predators. They were like in the woods where men 574 00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:41,880 Speaker 1: had to be quiet, so they had to learn a 575 00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:44,920 Speaker 1: stillness of the mind that women don't have, whereas we're 576 00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:47,800 Speaker 1: like always analyzing everything. There was some other connection to 577 00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:52,240 Speaker 1: why women talk so fucking much. Um. But podcasting started 578 00:30:52,360 --> 00:31:01,000 Speaker 1: at in you know, had like cave walls. There was 579 00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:05,280 Speaker 1: like a man splanning little squares of you know, podcast 580 00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:08,880 Speaker 1: logos somehow, so like doing it now, like um, like 581 00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:14,080 Speaker 1: in the game one of the longest running podcasters when 582 00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:22,680 Speaker 1: we got podcasters, the real Peleeo diet is It's true. Okay. 583 00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:25,280 Speaker 1: So I was going to ask you, Holla to tell 584 00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:27,720 Speaker 1: the story earlier because it kind of came up. We 585 00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:31,080 Speaker 1: were talking about being molested as women, like you know, 586 00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:35,440 Speaker 1: like as women in public story. Yeah, like you know, 587 00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:37,880 Speaker 1: men touching us on the butts things like that, and 588 00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:40,720 Speaker 1: you were like, you said a reference to it, and 589 00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:42,240 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, I want you to 590 00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:44,160 Speaker 1: tell the story. But it's more funny than it is 591 00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:47,120 Speaker 1: like you weren't. I don't know where we're going. Well, 592 00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:50,040 Speaker 1: you went to a gas station one time? Oh god, yeah, okay, 593 00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:54,560 Speaker 1: person was nervous. Okay. I was in college. It was 594 00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:59,000 Speaker 1: so freaking hot out. Do you know the story? I 595 00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:01,120 Speaker 1: asked my ROOMMATESND was like, I'm so hot, I have 596 00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:03,360 Speaker 1: to go to the gas station and get sodas. Do 597 00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:07,840 Speaker 1: you guys want sodas? Yes? So I'm getting giant, like anyway, 598 00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:12,880 Speaker 1: huge sodas from the gas big big. So I'm on 599 00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:15,880 Speaker 1: we it's at ku. I'm on Mass Street, which is 600 00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:20,160 Speaker 1: like the busiest street in the whole town. And I 601 00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:23,120 Speaker 1: was driving there and I was like, oh god, I 602 00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:26,400 Speaker 1: feel like a woman. You know when you're in your twenties, 603 00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:28,200 Speaker 1: like forty feels so far away. I was like, I 604 00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:30,840 Speaker 1: feel like a four year old woman who's like driving 605 00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:33,239 Speaker 1: and trying to revive her sex life. Because I just 606 00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:36,440 Speaker 1: when I left, I took a strong and just tied 607 00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:38,840 Speaker 1: it around myself, just wrapped it and tied it. Didn't 608 00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:41,160 Speaker 1: want anything touching my body because it was so hot. 609 00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:43,719 Speaker 1: So I had no underwear, no brawn, nothing, just this 610 00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:49,600 Speaker 1: piece of cloth. And I drove every yea, yeah, every 611 00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:53,160 Speaker 1: day and I drove to the gas station and got 612 00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:56,400 Speaker 1: these giant sodas, go to pay, and then I'm holding 613 00:32:56,680 --> 00:33:00,600 Speaker 1: three cokes. I go, I back up ends the door 614 00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:03,760 Speaker 1: and I turned, and a gust of wind blows, and 615 00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:05,440 Speaker 1: I love your face. I'm gonna just tell this to 616 00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:07,880 Speaker 1: you because this is so satisfied. I turned, and this 617 00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:12,080 Speaker 1: gust of wind blows. Any sane person would drop the 618 00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:17,000 Speaker 1: sodas and go like this, but I just went up 619 00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:19,640 Speaker 1: behind me like a cape and I was just running. 620 00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:25,400 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, dress and her everything. 621 00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:28,400 Speaker 1: She was completely nude and there was buying a pickup 622 00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:31,200 Speaker 1: truck right, so yes, so I'm holding the sodas. I 623 00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:33,120 Speaker 1: could have just dropped them and like covered myself, but 624 00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:37,200 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, and I was proud 625 00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:39,239 Speaker 1: of myself, Like what is he even going on? And 626 00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:40,800 Speaker 1: I look up and there's a man sitting in his 627 00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:44,600 Speaker 1: pickup and he's just like I just got in my 628 00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:46,920 Speaker 1: car and I like I had the soda. I was 629 00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:49,160 Speaker 1: a strong blow away, No, but it was just tied 630 00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:53,320 Speaker 1: around my neck and it was it was literally cape. 631 00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:56,320 Speaker 1: And I was running downmastering to my car like with 632 00:33:56,440 --> 00:34:00,920 Speaker 1: the cape, and like I looked like naked Christopher Reeves 633 00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:08,680 Speaker 1: before the accidents, So Superman, Superman and anyway, Yes, that 634 00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:12,440 Speaker 1: was amazing. And I got into my car and like 635 00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:15,360 Speaker 1: instid of crumbling, I was just dying. I was laughing 636 00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:17,560 Speaker 1: so hard, like crying laughing. And I got home. I 637 00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:19,640 Speaker 1: was like, you guys are not going to believe what 638 00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:28,239 Speaker 1: you Saippen so arrested Taylor McGraw's here, you guys. She 639 00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:31,680 Speaker 1: might be one of our most um insane episodes ever. 640 00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:42,879 Speaker 1: Got arrested for hop and train and well you told us, 641 00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:45,040 Speaker 1: and it's oh, yeah, we gotta go to break soon. UM. 642 00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:48,640 Speaker 1: I want to get into maybe perhaps let's just talk 643 00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:51,360 Speaker 1: about real quick. UM. I'll get into the story that 644 00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:53,279 Speaker 1: I want you to tell, Taylor, but I don't think 645 00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:57,000 Speaker 1: we have time. UM, I uh, oh god, what did 646 00:34:57,040 --> 00:35:00,120 Speaker 1: I want to say? Um? Does anything else that an 647 00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:04,000 Speaker 1: embarrassing story where like a tip, any like body parts 648 00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:07,920 Speaker 1: were exposed or like has happened like that? Because I 649 00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:10,880 Speaker 1: think that there have been times though that I remember 650 00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:13,520 Speaker 1: I'll be like carrying a latte that I just got 651 00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:15,880 Speaker 1: or something that's important to me because I'm like, oh refreshing, 652 00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:21,080 Speaker 1: like you, they were more important than your nudity. But 653 00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:22,239 Speaker 1: if you would have thought about it, you would have 654 00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:24,279 Speaker 1: dropped the sodas. But it's right in that moment. I've 655 00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:28,160 Speaker 1: been like on an escalator and like almost dripped in, 656 00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:29,720 Speaker 1: Like all I would need to do is like drop 657 00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:31,880 Speaker 1: my latte and then grabbed the rail, But I've risks 658 00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:39,040 Speaker 1: like tumbling down like lights. It's like Darwin Darwin theory, 659 00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:41,320 Speaker 1: Like it would be so easy to solve this problem, 660 00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:43,640 Speaker 1: but I made it harder for my friend just can't 661 00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:46,239 Speaker 1: handle it, Yes, it can't. Someone just recent because I 662 00:35:46,239 --> 00:35:48,719 Speaker 1: think I I'm trying to train my brain to do 663 00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:51,359 Speaker 1: like what I would do if someone like entered, like 664 00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:54,719 Speaker 1: if there was a shooting that took place. And I'm sorry, 665 00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:57,080 Speaker 1: I'm laughing. I'm just laughing because I'm bringing up something 666 00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:59,160 Speaker 1: dark and I know that I always do, but I've 667 00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:00,960 Speaker 1: been trying to train my rain for like I would 668 00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:03,719 Speaker 1: want to launch at the person as opposed to run 669 00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:05,919 Speaker 1: away or just like cower and fear and like die 670 00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:08,880 Speaker 1: from like just being like I just think it's there's 671 00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:12,400 Speaker 1: it's obviously so sad, but like it's funny to me 672 00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:13,920 Speaker 1: that if there was a guy with a gun and 673 00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:16,600 Speaker 1: I was like scared, I would cover my head with 674 00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:18,680 Speaker 1: my hands like that would do anything. It was kind 675 00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:20,239 Speaker 1: of like when my phone was stolen, I just go 676 00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:24,279 Speaker 1: come on, like that was ever going to do anything 677 00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:28,440 Speaker 1: like little things. That's like a cute, it's sweet. But 678 00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:30,279 Speaker 1: I do love the idea of a guy's being like, 679 00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:37,080 Speaker 1: she's right, I need to come on. Ye yeah, I 680 00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:41,880 Speaker 1: should come one crazy and he just like stops and 681 00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:44,560 Speaker 1: it's like here you go, ma'am um. But I was 682 00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:47,160 Speaker 1: best he wrote me about because I was talking about 683 00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:49,000 Speaker 1: this shooting thing and like I want to train my 684 00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:52,839 Speaker 1: brain in that. How like that is something that they 685 00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:56,480 Speaker 1: go through repeatedly to like make it so or like 686 00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:59,840 Speaker 1: seals or like Navy seals or whoever goes through training 687 00:36:59,840 --> 00:37:02,279 Speaker 1: to like rewire the thing in your brain that makes 688 00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:05,319 Speaker 1: you want to run when the thing that is not 689 00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:07,799 Speaker 1: going to help you, And that's training for this. What 690 00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:09,600 Speaker 1: are you doing? Well? I run it through my head 691 00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:11,960 Speaker 1: a bunch, like I like, sometimes we'll just be in 692 00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:13,640 Speaker 1: a place and I'll be like, if someone were coming 693 00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:15,480 Speaker 1: here right now, let me just visualize what that would 694 00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:17,720 Speaker 1: look like. Let me picture myself going towards them instead 695 00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:20,040 Speaker 1: of away, just because because I'm trying to be a hero, 696 00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:23,640 Speaker 1: but because I just know I'm gonna die anyway. Probably 697 00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:26,319 Speaker 1: if it's like this is we actually a meal and 698 00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:28,759 Speaker 1: I were hanging out last week and we right he 699 00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:30,400 Speaker 1: was like, what if someone came down the street like 700 00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:32,160 Speaker 1: right now, I'm like, I wouldn't run towards him if 701 00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:34,640 Speaker 1: we're outside, like I would run away, but like if 702 00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:36,719 Speaker 1: it's like in a nail salon or something, I don't know, 703 00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:39,719 Speaker 1: like I would I try to. I would try to. Yes, 704 00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:41,759 Speaker 1: I would try to charge, but who knows. It's like 705 00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:44,479 Speaker 1: punching a shark in the nose, or like or hitting 706 00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:49,399 Speaker 1: a deer not breaking wait wait what he got will 707 00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:51,600 Speaker 1: die all the time because they try to swerve and 708 00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:54,560 Speaker 1: not hit the deer or a break which just hit 709 00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:58,319 Speaker 1: it because wait, you're not supposed to break break and 710 00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:01,680 Speaker 1: just continue slow down, but you you go ahead and 711 00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:05,319 Speaker 1: you like you don't work about you're trying to hit 712 00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:08,040 Speaker 1: it and try to work into it. You get into 713 00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:17,759 Speaker 1: the woods, follow someone I know just total their car 714 00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:22,040 Speaker 1: because the deer Yeah yeah, because they swerved away. It 715 00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:25,160 Speaker 1: means though, like whenever I think have tribled, I always 716 00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:29,879 Speaker 1: like like cars like like totally totally like a Ford 717 00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:32,239 Speaker 1: focus can get totaled because there's like a like a 718 00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:37,360 Speaker 1: grocery car gets knocked off. It's because the appreciate the 719 00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:39,640 Speaker 1: kind of car. Wasn't I don't know. I don't know. 720 00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:42,840 Speaker 1: My dad wasn't and he hit a deer and the 721 00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:46,400 Speaker 1: whole front just like lunch. Really yeah, was he okay, 722 00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:48,879 Speaker 1: that's a sex Yeah the deer. The deer was fine. 723 00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:55,799 Speaker 1: My dad he died. What did you want? Well, we'll 724 00:38:55,800 --> 00:39:00,200 Speaker 1: find out when we get back after after this. Ye. 725 00:39:03,040 --> 00:39:04,799 Speaker 1: So I'm just setting my friends up for stories that 726 00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:07,160 Speaker 1: I know that they can tell. And Taylor McGraw is 727 00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:09,320 Speaker 1: backed by popular demand. People have been dying for to 728 00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:11,400 Speaker 1: come back to the podcast. It's true, Taylor, I know 729 00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:13,239 Speaker 1: that this. You're not used to this, but you are 730 00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:21,479 Speaker 1: infinitely interesting. During the break, during the break just now 731 00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:24,440 Speaker 1: I was, Taylor was like, you gotta you gotta let 732 00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:25,839 Speaker 1: me know what story and I told her which one. 733 00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:27,520 Speaker 1: She was like, actually, you just have to surprise me. 734 00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:33,520 Speaker 1: It's too much because sometimes reparation does it's like much. Um. 735 00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:36,399 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna first of all, I'm gonna remember when 736 00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:39,880 Speaker 1: we used to do a really creepy thing in I 737 00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:42,240 Speaker 1: think it went into I mean it was high school 738 00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:45,239 Speaker 1: because that's when we were hanging out. So in high 739 00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:50,799 Speaker 1: school we used to like what was it called at 740 00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:54,480 Speaker 1: night when we would go and creep in people's backyards 741 00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:59,800 Speaker 1: and staring, ning, spying. Yeah, we would go, okay, you 742 00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:03,440 Speaker 1: is both. Yeah, we were saying times abord walk but 743 00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:06,040 Speaker 1: like backyard. We would go to people's houses. We would 744 00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:11,399 Speaker 1: look in the buzz book, which is where so there 745 00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:14,759 Speaker 1: where students, like look and find where students lived, and 746 00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:16,799 Speaker 1: you can look names up and the phone number, walk 747 00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:19,000 Speaker 1: by the house parents. Can I remind you, guys, we're 748 00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:21,120 Speaker 1: on a podcast. Let's not over talk too much. But 749 00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:23,799 Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be perfect. But the buzz book, 750 00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:29,040 Speaker 1: but seriously better. The buzz book was always yeah, it's 751 00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:31,720 Speaker 1: like the yeah, the phone book for your high school 752 00:40:31,760 --> 00:40:34,479 Speaker 1: or your high school, middle school, whatever. And we would 753 00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:36,759 Speaker 1: take the buzz book and we would look at and 754 00:40:36,800 --> 00:40:39,680 Speaker 1: then my mom also had like another book of like 755 00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:42,680 Speaker 1: the maps of like maps of St. Louis, because she 756 00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:47,400 Speaker 1: was always going to yard saying look up the you 757 00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:50,120 Speaker 1: would look up to they would look up like a boy, 758 00:40:50,200 --> 00:40:52,279 Speaker 1: we and be like where does he live? And then 759 00:40:53,120 --> 00:41:00,399 Speaker 1: okay and find it coordinates. Yeah, everybody had a mat 760 00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:03,200 Speaker 1: book in their car, Like yes, that was how he 761 00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:07,759 Speaker 1: got around. And so we would go and people's backyards 762 00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:11,040 Speaker 1: and like watch them through the windows, like window enter 763 00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:13,279 Speaker 1: their houses. I just didn't bring you guys, you would 764 00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:21,799 Speaker 1: enter their home? Whose house? Whose house did you find alleged? Wait? 765 00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:25,319 Speaker 1: Did you whisper it in my ear? No? I won't 766 00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:28,720 Speaker 1: say I just heard it? Did you hear? Yeah? You guys? Yeah? 767 00:41:29,040 --> 00:41:35,400 Speaker 1: Wait if you were listening before because the doors open, 768 00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:37,439 Speaker 1: I wouldn't like molest them. I would just I would 769 00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:41,560 Speaker 1: look in the What was your im an investor? If 770 00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:44,440 Speaker 1: you got you are an investigator? Your asiagram type is 771 00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:48,840 Speaker 1: number five. It's the investigator, right, what round it? What 772 00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:51,320 Speaker 1: would you What would you do if you got caught? 773 00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:52,879 Speaker 1: That's always what I would run through my head when 774 00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:55,360 Speaker 1: I didn't, but but I would just I would be 775 00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:57,880 Speaker 1: what I did. When you're to tell store, I go like, yeah, 776 00:41:58,200 --> 00:42:06,120 Speaker 1: I like linked so weird. Nobody would not remember. At 777 00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:08,920 Speaker 1: one time we had to go to the bathroom so 778 00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:11,560 Speaker 1: bad on one of our sides that we like snuck 779 00:42:11,600 --> 00:42:13,759 Speaker 1: into a church to steal toilet people because we had 780 00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:18,719 Speaker 1: to like ship. We both were shipping. Yeah, any other 781 00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:20,400 Speaker 1: one is like I will do it with guys. I 782 00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:23,359 Speaker 1: want to remind you this is late high school, Like 783 00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:30,440 Speaker 1: this were not cool. People would think you were like yeah, 784 00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:33,000 Speaker 1: I mean it was. It was not, but it was 785 00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:35,600 Speaker 1: fun because I remember we didn't. There was something really 786 00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:38,000 Speaker 1: cool about watching someone you went to high school with, 787 00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:40,760 Speaker 1: like walking around like with their parents, like in their house. 788 00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:43,319 Speaker 1: That was very It was like I don't want to say, 789 00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:47,680 Speaker 1: but like I was in the reality TV like is 790 00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:52,759 Speaker 1: doing it like Instagram's window, Yes, it is totally real. Wando. Um, 791 00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:55,920 Speaker 1: So I wanted to ask you. You wrote a short 792 00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:58,440 Speaker 1: story that I would love to link to on our 793 00:42:59,320 --> 00:43:02,120 Speaker 1: Instagram for the podcast. But in that sort of story, 794 00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:04,120 Speaker 1: you talked about all the jobs you had in New 795 00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:07,759 Speaker 1: Orleans when you lived there for like one year how long. 796 00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:11,560 Speaker 1: It's insane how many jobs there were. And the story 797 00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:13,880 Speaker 1: is so great, but there was what you were nanny 798 00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:17,400 Speaker 1: for a time. I was what's it called when you 799 00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:21,000 Speaker 1: help my kid in secon? Did anyone tutor or nanny 800 00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:25,080 Speaker 1: in their twenties not hungover? Like I really reading your story, 801 00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:29,960 Speaker 1: being hungover around children is so relatable to me. Smelling 802 00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:34,080 Speaker 1: like cigarettes, being hungover, like just like looking at them 803 00:43:34,080 --> 00:43:41,920 Speaker 1: like harsh sunlight yes, your I haven't heard you tell 804 00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:43,919 Speaker 1: it to me without I just read it in your story. 805 00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:45,680 Speaker 1: It was so visceral to me. But I want to 806 00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:49,640 Speaker 1: hear how this job came along and how did you 807 00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:52,680 Speaker 1: end up being around this child on the worst day 808 00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:56,520 Speaker 1: of your life? Hung over wise, So the interviews were 809 00:43:56,560 --> 00:43:58,920 Speaker 1: just not really interviewed. Was over the phone. But I 810 00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:00,719 Speaker 1: used to be a substitute years, so they were like, 811 00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:03,160 Speaker 1: you're hired. They didn't ask me, do I know anything? 812 00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:08,160 Speaker 1: Do you think? It is a huge gap in Like 813 00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:10,920 Speaker 1: I found that when I was I was like, oh 814 00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:12,719 Speaker 1: my god, they don't know anything about me. I thank 815 00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:16,239 Speaker 1: god I'm a good person and not ever wanted. But 816 00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:19,239 Speaker 1: I just saw that, like there's no background checked. There 817 00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:22,560 Speaker 1: was nothing for me to babysit children and think. I'm 818 00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:24,799 Speaker 1: always like, thank god I wasn't a bad person, but 819 00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:28,239 Speaker 1: it seems like I could have gotten away like this, 820 00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:31,040 Speaker 1: there's nothing set in stone to keep I don't know 821 00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:33,080 Speaker 1: if it's changed since then, but like in my twenties, 822 00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:35,040 Speaker 1: I was like I could be terrible and they wouldn't know. 823 00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:39,680 Speaker 1: So you got this job? Yeah, I had to like fight. 824 00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:43,279 Speaker 1: I feel like it was like ten fifteen miles or 825 00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:47,360 Speaker 1: something and it was so fucking hot, and at the 826 00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:50,440 Speaker 1: time I was okay. I was like I dressed weird, 827 00:44:50,520 --> 00:44:52,960 Speaker 1: like I do. I remember I had two different colored 828 00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:55,520 Speaker 1: shoes on. They were like um commerce, but I had 829 00:44:55,520 --> 00:44:59,000 Speaker 1: two different shoes, like white shirt, black braw. Like my 830 00:44:59,080 --> 00:45:01,880 Speaker 1: hair was so short and I bleached it would break 831 00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:05,000 Speaker 1: a snap off because it was like so I just 832 00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:09,440 Speaker 1: looked blasting to see wetty, like wet t shirt contos 833 00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:13,720 Speaker 1: because we're white shirt. And then she's be like, oh 834 00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:19,760 Speaker 1: and these kids didn't no stuff and I didn't know either, 835 00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:21,640 Speaker 1: and they would be like I remember one time, they're like, 836 00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:24,520 Speaker 1: what is a like pronoun? And I thought it was 837 00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:26,759 Speaker 1: like a pronoun, It's like pro bus, it was like 838 00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:31,200 Speaker 1: a capital. It was like like your mom's a pronoun 839 00:45:31,239 --> 00:45:35,040 Speaker 1: and write her name slash card um and I was, 840 00:45:35,239 --> 00:45:37,319 Speaker 1: I mean, that might have been the one I wrote about, 841 00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:38,759 Speaker 1: might have been the hunger worst day of my life. 842 00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:40,799 Speaker 1: But I remember just laying on the ground, like not 843 00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:45,560 Speaker 1: being able to open my eyes, like droin the currents 844 00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:49,880 Speaker 1: and like no child didn't even tell him to set you. 845 00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:53,839 Speaker 1: Some said water hit me some water And next door 846 00:45:54,040 --> 00:45:57,920 Speaker 1: was opened by private chef and he went in and 847 00:45:57,960 --> 00:46:00,919 Speaker 1: he was like, miss t there's nothing like in here 848 00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:05,800 Speaker 1: to put water. And I was like, get it. Parents, 849 00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:08,600 Speaker 1: would you have to rob? I never saw the parents. 850 00:46:08,440 --> 00:46:10,440 Speaker 1: It's so weird. You brought like a tupper. I was 851 00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:12,040 Speaker 1: like this. I was like the side you could only 852 00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:18,279 Speaker 1: get a hamburg right. It was like a dog at 853 00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:19,520 Speaker 1: one time. I went in there and I was like, 854 00:46:19,640 --> 00:46:21,279 Speaker 1: I need a hair on the dog. And I like 855 00:46:21,520 --> 00:46:23,760 Speaker 1: drank a sip of the bottle of something like cooking 856 00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:27,239 Speaker 1: wine or something. I mean, I just loved that because 857 00:46:27,280 --> 00:46:30,440 Speaker 1: I just relate so well. There's nothing more when I 858 00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:32,920 Speaker 1: see a drunk person that's like stumbling or just being 859 00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:40,399 Speaker 1: like I'm not ready to more. What do they have 860 00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:44,040 Speaker 1: to do where they're going to feel like anyone else? 861 00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:46,960 Speaker 1: There was thing was something like I've thought of you, 862 00:46:47,080 --> 00:46:50,440 Speaker 1: I have like hurt for you, and I do be like, 863 00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:53,000 Speaker 1: do you guys, does this bring up any memories of 864 00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:56,959 Speaker 1: like being hungover situations when you couldn't be My high 865 00:46:56,960 --> 00:47:01,000 Speaker 1: school job was I worked at a drive through at 866 00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:05,000 Speaker 1: a famous chicken tender place, real famous, and I would 867 00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:08,200 Speaker 1: do a rave the night before. So this is like 868 00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:11,880 Speaker 1: more than alcohol and I had no business serving anybody's 869 00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:15,840 Speaker 1: Chicken Tenders. My best friend that worked there also, she 870 00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:18,080 Speaker 1: bailed on me, like she called out sick or whatever, 871 00:47:18,120 --> 00:47:19,680 Speaker 1: and I was like I can't. I gotta do this, 872 00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:21,680 Speaker 1: Like we had been up all night. I go to 873 00:47:21,719 --> 00:47:24,439 Speaker 1: the drive through and I'm just like the windows here 874 00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:28,040 Speaker 1: and I'm just like slump underneath the window, just like this, 875 00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:29,799 Speaker 1: like waiting for the card to blow up. And there 876 00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:35,080 Speaker 1: was like like when I got sitting down and standing 877 00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:38,360 Speaker 1: up and I didn't know that the owner had cameras 878 00:47:38,520 --> 00:47:41,520 Speaker 1: and one of them was appointed and this Lacey's called 879 00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:43,799 Speaker 1: Abner's Famous Chicken Tenders, and they called. They were like 880 00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:48,520 Speaker 1: Abner called and he said, you need to go home now, 881 00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:52,520 Speaker 1: and I'd already like grown up in the bathroom, bunch. 882 00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:55,440 Speaker 1: This is high school. Well, it's really hard to get 883 00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:58,640 Speaker 1: that hungover in high school. Like it was like my 884 00:47:58,640 --> 00:48:01,680 Speaker 1: first time doing like exstasy years. We drove to a 885 00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:04,480 Speaker 1: little rock, Arkansas to go to a rave and then 886 00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:06,239 Speaker 1: I was going to pull an all lighter and go 887 00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:09,600 Speaker 1: rally and go to work. Oh it was hell, Like 888 00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:11,759 Speaker 1: I just remember, like why did I think I had 889 00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:14,120 Speaker 1: to go? Rachel didn't go. My best friend called out, 890 00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:19,040 Speaker 1: and I was just like nope, I'm going people after 891 00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:27,480 Speaker 1: you an Advisor? Was that happen? It was Advisor? It 892 00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:29,360 Speaker 1: was like a T shirt and like a red apron, 893 00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:36,000 Speaker 1: and I was just like, under this window must this 894 00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:39,000 Speaker 1: week This reminds me this weekend we were I there, 895 00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:41,480 Speaker 1: we ate some mushrooms. We don't need to know what 896 00:48:41,600 --> 00:48:43,920 Speaker 1: kind they were. I'm just saying mushrooms were eaten, and 897 00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:46,319 Speaker 1: that's not an illegal thing to say. We don't know 898 00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:48,759 Speaker 1: who served them to us from a little scoop in 899 00:48:48,840 --> 00:48:52,560 Speaker 1: someone's back back or if they were cooked up by Charlotte, 900 00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:55,719 Speaker 1: it doesn't matter. But I will say that Carlisle was 901 00:48:55,760 --> 00:49:00,440 Speaker 1: starting to feel a little weird on some on like 902 00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:05,160 Speaker 1: after she ate some mushrooms for dinner and allegedly and 903 00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:08,040 Speaker 1: and I reminded you of the only story because I've 904 00:49:08,080 --> 00:49:10,200 Speaker 1: never done mushrooms when you told me the story, but 905 00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:14,200 Speaker 1: you told me about a time that, um, you had 906 00:49:14,239 --> 00:49:16,480 Speaker 1: partied with some people. I guess you. I've never done 907 00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:19,359 Speaker 1: ecstasy or anything like that. But you used to up 908 00:49:19,360 --> 00:49:22,120 Speaker 1: in the Hollywood Hills, right. You used to listen to 909 00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:26,719 Speaker 1: Carlole's car for a really long time. Was it only 910 00:49:26,760 --> 00:49:29,560 Speaker 1: had six c ds that were stuck in and they 911 00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:32,400 Speaker 1: were inside the car and then you could not get 912 00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:34,640 Speaker 1: them out, so you would only Lawrence in the machine 913 00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:38,440 Speaker 1: was one of them. Husky Rescue. Husky Rescue was the 914 00:49:38,480 --> 00:49:40,759 Speaker 1: name of a band that Carlole and she got no 915 00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:42,920 Speaker 1: you love it, Nikki, like you love it like I'll 916 00:49:42,920 --> 00:49:45,280 Speaker 1: listen to it one time when I was doing mushrooms, 917 00:49:45,719 --> 00:49:50,120 Speaker 1: Nikki just listened. This reminds me so much of a 918 00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:54,320 Speaker 1: town when a bunch of girls up in the hills 919 00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:56,840 Speaker 1: doing mushrooms listening to Husky Rescue. Well, you explained it 920 00:49:56,960 --> 00:49:59,880 Speaker 1: so fun. We just got this house and little canyon. 921 00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:02,440 Speaker 1: I had a bunch of musician friends and they were 922 00:50:02,440 --> 00:50:05,760 Speaker 1: in town from Austin, and they like rented a house 923 00:50:06,080 --> 00:50:09,360 Speaker 1: and I just partied with them for like three days 924 00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:12,080 Speaker 1: and we were like naked diving in the pool and 925 00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:16,000 Speaker 1: we kept ordering. We kept ordering the stuff from this 926 00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:18,560 Speaker 1: guy named Gene, and we would just be like Gene 927 00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:22,880 Speaker 1: or call him up, bring the beans, Jane, bring more beans. 928 00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:25,160 Speaker 1: And this guy would just come and deliver us ecstasy 929 00:50:25,200 --> 00:50:28,120 Speaker 1: and need like this magical fairy. And we were just 930 00:50:28,160 --> 00:50:31,400 Speaker 1: like naked and pulls and hot dugs. Why why, just 931 00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:33,680 Speaker 1: because I've never done ecstasy and I guess I've never 932 00:50:33,680 --> 00:50:37,239 Speaker 1: even talked to any like any to you about it? 933 00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:40,120 Speaker 1: Why do you not continue to do? Why is ecstasy 934 00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:42,480 Speaker 1: something people do in their twenties and then never again? 935 00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:45,320 Speaker 1: Like why is it not something that I hear people? 936 00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:47,760 Speaker 1: I didn't hang out with the crowd that did ecstasy 937 00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:49,880 Speaker 1: when I was that age, and so I missed it. 938 00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:52,279 Speaker 1: And now it's never talked about because it's not one 939 00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:54,960 Speaker 1: of those like one of those drugs where you do 940 00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:56,759 Speaker 1: it and then you're like, I have to do that 941 00:50:56,800 --> 00:50:59,440 Speaker 1: again tomorrow, Like you do it and you're like that 942 00:50:59,640 --> 00:51:01,879 Speaker 1: was good. Well that's sound like the best. So why 943 00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:04,920 Speaker 1: isn't everyone doing it? Isn't it down to isn't it 944 00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:08,479 Speaker 1: called molly? Now? Am I? So now it's all the same, 945 00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:12,040 Speaker 1: Well yeah, now more molly molly? Now we don't know. 946 00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:18,359 Speaker 1: See's like old school, yeah, not like love also its 947 00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:23,560 Speaker 1: first love drugs. But this drug was created, I mean, 948 00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:25,719 Speaker 1: Taylor probably was more about it. Wasn't it created for 949 00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:29,640 Speaker 1: likely puddles in the fifties that we're having marital problems? 950 00:51:30,080 --> 00:51:35,120 Speaker 1: That's why they originally created for ever? But I hear 951 00:51:35,239 --> 00:51:38,279 Speaker 1: that it does not want to bang. It just makes 952 00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:40,839 Speaker 1: you know, like want to touch and cuddle. Yeah, like 953 00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:43,960 Speaker 1: you're naked, but it's like childlike it's I know one ever, 954 00:51:44,560 --> 00:51:48,880 Speaker 1: Like it's like nothing sex, it's just free going on 955 00:51:48,920 --> 00:51:52,279 Speaker 1: the ski do without. Why have I never been offered it? 956 00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:54,480 Speaker 1: Why is it not something that people are like, let's like, 957 00:51:54,520 --> 00:51:57,520 Speaker 1: how do you obtain it? Like it's not a trend right, 958 00:51:58,239 --> 00:52:01,640 Speaker 1: it's very dangerous now because if then I do not 959 00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:04,439 Speaker 1: sign it, I do not do it today, I would 960 00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:07,799 Speaker 1: not do it. Those days are over. People say that 961 00:52:07,880 --> 00:52:10,000 Speaker 1: the speaking of the calm down the next day, Like 962 00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:13,000 Speaker 1: I hear that the next day to bring your head 963 00:52:13,040 --> 00:52:16,759 Speaker 1: from like ninety degrees to zero or whatever it does, 964 00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:18,960 Speaker 1: bring it up. You're like you're dying. What do they call? 965 00:52:19,080 --> 00:52:21,799 Speaker 1: Will you take a lot if you really depress? I'll 966 00:52:21,880 --> 00:52:24,560 Speaker 1: take a lot of five htp. If you are going 967 00:52:24,600 --> 00:52:26,920 Speaker 1: to do with this drug, go to Whole Foods, get 968 00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:35,279 Speaker 1: it replaces you pull it up now places serotonin in 969 00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:39,440 Speaker 1: the brain. He has taken five hp. Wouldn't we all 970 00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:41,279 Speaker 1: just take that all the time? No? I mean like no, 971 00:52:41,800 --> 00:52:44,279 Speaker 1: with it. You take it with it and it like 972 00:52:44,400 --> 00:52:47,320 Speaker 1: helps with the depletion so that you're not so depressed. 973 00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:48,839 Speaker 1: But why don't you just how much? Is it really? 974 00:52:50,080 --> 00:52:51,879 Speaker 1: But just don't do it because that's what I'm thinking, 975 00:52:52,239 --> 00:52:54,680 Speaker 1: not take five. That's why it's that whole foods. Get it, 976 00:52:54,840 --> 00:52:57,400 Speaker 1: that's like what it's for. But if you're going to 977 00:52:57,440 --> 00:53:00,600 Speaker 1: take eggs much? Does it make bad music sounding better? 978 00:53:00,880 --> 00:53:04,520 Speaker 1: Is that a thing? Like? Does it make Powsky Girls? 979 00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:11,440 Speaker 1: Is so bad country album? Check out Husky Rescue band 980 00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:14,439 Speaker 1: like as I actually don't understand it as a band 981 00:53:14,520 --> 00:53:17,719 Speaker 1: name because it's not. It's a thing that is real. 982 00:53:18,280 --> 00:53:21,600 Speaker 1: There are Husky Rescues. I know you'd have that. Ask 983 00:53:21,680 --> 00:53:25,239 Speaker 1: them from Phil. And jumpsuit apparatus is somewhere? Is that 984 00:53:25,320 --> 00:53:32,200 Speaker 1: a band? Red jumpsuit apparatus? I heard it on the radio? 985 00:53:32,640 --> 00:53:36,759 Speaker 1: Do you know that the Postal Service? Remember that they 986 00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:44,480 Speaker 1: got sued by the United States Postal Service? What is there? 987 00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:53,759 Speaker 1: So to the Chicago Transit? Three? Now it's Chicago the band? Wait? 988 00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:58,719 Speaker 1: What really Chicago Transit? Really Chicago the band used to 989 00:53:58,719 --> 00:54:01,560 Speaker 1: be the Chicago Transit already? The Postal Service should have 990 00:54:01,640 --> 00:54:03,799 Speaker 1: not but I don't. They could just say I'm the 991 00:54:04,000 --> 00:54:06,839 Speaker 1: Swedish Postal Service. I'm going to see FedEx at Red 992 00:54:06,920 --> 00:54:14,839 Speaker 1: Rocks branded final thought, let's do I really want to 993 00:54:14,840 --> 00:54:17,400 Speaker 1: bring in a new word that has coined on this trip. 994 00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:21,640 Speaker 1: That um, I mean the group that created is here. 995 00:54:21,680 --> 00:54:25,160 Speaker 1: It's Taylor, Halla and Kirsten and me and and Huffey 996 00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:27,680 Speaker 1: isn't here, but she was there for because origination and 997 00:54:27,680 --> 00:54:29,799 Speaker 1: that has just taken the world by storm. But there's 998 00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:32,280 Speaker 1: a new word that we're excited to share with everyone 999 00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:35,439 Speaker 1: that I wasn't even a part of creating. I think 1000 00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:38,360 Speaker 1: it got created in another car on you created it. 1001 00:54:38,640 --> 00:54:40,640 Speaker 1: Will you please introduce the new word to the group 1002 00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:42,880 Speaker 1: and to our listeners. The best it is a true 1003 00:54:42,960 --> 00:54:45,880 Speaker 1: hybrid of this is I'm this is like the Lennon 1004 00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:49,680 Speaker 1: McCartney partnership, me and Taylor. Taylor and I created this word. 1005 00:54:50,080 --> 00:54:54,840 Speaker 1: I have always said your rape, your rape, um relating 1006 00:54:54,880 --> 00:54:57,840 Speaker 1: to things that hurt my ears, like words are phrases, 1007 00:54:57,920 --> 00:55:03,160 Speaker 1: And Taylor on the trip said, oh so, in order 1008 00:55:03,200 --> 00:55:06,359 Speaker 1: to sue and not have the R word just like 1009 00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:09,960 Speaker 1: being thrown about, we call things that are like unpleasant 1010 00:55:10,000 --> 00:55:11,680 Speaker 1: to the ear, that just makes you kind of cringe, 1011 00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:15,239 Speaker 1: you know, for the basic fishes would be like the 1012 00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:19,280 Speaker 1: word moist, like things like that a word a phrase 1013 00:55:19,360 --> 00:55:25,840 Speaker 1: that makes you go and it's called son. We're gonna 1014 00:55:25,840 --> 00:55:28,399 Speaker 1: go around and just um, I think we just throw 1015 00:55:28,480 --> 00:55:31,480 Speaker 1: them out because I don't actually have one place. We 1016 00:55:31,480 --> 00:55:34,960 Speaker 1: were going around last night kind of like sitballing what 1017 00:55:35,160 --> 00:55:38,120 Speaker 1: some good arap s are and um and maybe the 1018 00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:40,879 Speaker 1: best pies can write in or call into the show 1019 00:55:40,960 --> 00:55:42,879 Speaker 1: for fan t Rex and give us your best a rap. 1020 00:55:43,440 --> 00:55:47,319 Speaker 1: But here's something that we encounter, especially on social media. 1021 00:55:47,360 --> 00:55:50,040 Speaker 1: I think Anya had to my very first a rap 1022 00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:53,240 Speaker 1: I ever heard, and I still contend it's my number 1023 00:55:53,239 --> 00:56:02,520 Speaker 1: one worst is noum. What about when someone posts on 1024 00:56:02,560 --> 00:56:06,440 Speaker 1: Instagram and they they post a picture of their significant other? 1025 00:56:06,520 --> 00:56:15,320 Speaker 1: What is the caption that bothers you this one? Kirsten 1026 00:56:15,400 --> 00:56:17,839 Speaker 1: had a great one the other day about you know, 1027 00:56:18,680 --> 00:56:21,480 Speaker 1: Row versus Wade, like when that got overturned. Everyone was 1028 00:56:21,560 --> 00:56:25,800 Speaker 1: posting all the time, like and what did you just 1029 00:56:25,800 --> 00:56:28,279 Speaker 1: just like seeing I don't know, people posting in the 1030 00:56:28,280 --> 00:56:30,000 Speaker 1: heat of the moment. I think it's always a bad idea, 1031 00:56:30,080 --> 00:56:32,439 Speaker 1: but seeing a post where someone's like I just got 1032 00:56:32,480 --> 00:56:35,360 Speaker 1: done from a run and it was like four point 1033 00:56:35,480 --> 00:56:38,080 Speaker 1: three miles the first thing in the morning. But that's 1034 00:56:38,080 --> 00:56:42,879 Speaker 1: not the point. The point is today second paragraph, I'm 1035 00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:46,040 Speaker 1: angry and then you look and all you see is 1036 00:56:46,080 --> 00:56:49,520 Speaker 1: like several emojens mixing with words. It's just like done unfollowed. 1037 00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:51,320 Speaker 1: It looks like a Britney Spears caption of like this 1038 00:56:51,520 --> 00:56:55,040 Speaker 1: gigantic thing of text where you're like, I'm angry, but 1039 00:56:55,160 --> 00:56:57,520 Speaker 1: also another one I'm sick of hearing is all of 1040 00:56:57,600 --> 00:57:01,880 Speaker 1: the feels like this, this, this taco, all of the bills, 1041 00:57:02,040 --> 00:57:03,920 Speaker 1: all of the films going to this content, all of 1042 00:57:03,960 --> 00:57:06,239 Speaker 1: my fields. It's all my feels, my person and my 1043 00:57:06,280 --> 00:57:08,759 Speaker 1: fields and in my person. My person says that all 1044 00:57:08,800 --> 00:57:10,960 Speaker 1: the fields are like all over my fields, I'm looking 1045 00:57:11,000 --> 00:57:13,920 Speaker 1: for my person, disgusting me to my person. What are 1046 00:57:13,960 --> 00:57:20,040 Speaker 1: you digging on the ground looking for your person? Where person? Go? Um? 1047 00:57:20,240 --> 00:57:22,480 Speaker 1: Any other ones come to mind of just saying on 1048 00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:25,040 Speaker 1: social media things that people say. I don't know if 1049 00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:27,280 Speaker 1: this is irrap a, but I was saying I hate 1050 00:57:27,720 --> 00:57:32,800 Speaker 1: when people use words to describe food about like clothing 1051 00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:37,720 Speaker 1: or experiences. Yeah, like like like this is so delicious 1052 00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:46,120 Speaker 1: or this is so yummy, yummy, had such a delicious 1053 00:57:46,200 --> 00:57:52,080 Speaker 1: time today, Ye that's yes, Yeah it wasn't. We didn't 1054 00:57:52,200 --> 00:57:55,080 Speaker 1: lick it. Yeah. I think you can call a really 1055 00:57:55,120 --> 00:57:58,160 Speaker 1: cozy sweater delicious. But I know it makes no you 1056 00:57:58,200 --> 00:58:01,600 Speaker 1: know that be my favorite Sarah silvermanjo where she's like, um, 1057 00:58:01,640 --> 00:58:05,400 Speaker 1: I wanted to donate, I like to get back and 1058 00:58:05,440 --> 00:58:11,040 Speaker 1: I just um uh, I just donated to uh these 1059 00:58:11,040 --> 00:58:13,600 Speaker 1: this I sent to this tribe in Africa, this package 1060 00:58:13,760 --> 00:58:18,680 Speaker 1: of like five amazing calnet chunky sweaters and I was 1061 00:58:18,720 --> 00:58:21,240 Speaker 1: so cozy and they wrote me a card back that 1062 00:58:21,360 --> 00:58:27,040 Speaker 1: said thank you so much. They were delicious. I bought started. 1063 00:58:27,120 --> 00:58:29,640 Speaker 1: But that joke always made me that sword. But um, 1064 00:58:29,680 --> 00:58:31,960 Speaker 1: A good way to close this out was one of 1065 00:58:31,960 --> 00:58:35,840 Speaker 1: our besties called out a caption that one of my 1066 00:58:35,920 --> 00:58:39,960 Speaker 1: friends posted. At some point, Um and Carl, will you 1067 00:58:40,000 --> 00:58:43,760 Speaker 1: just tell that story? Sometimes I struggle with my captions, 1068 00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:47,640 Speaker 1: all right, and I will think of the stupid one 1069 00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:49,880 Speaker 1: that everybody's posting first, and I'm like, no, I can't 1070 00:58:49,880 --> 00:58:52,040 Speaker 1: post that. Like today I had one when we took 1071 00:58:52,040 --> 00:58:54,040 Speaker 1: that picture and like, when are people take the picture 1072 00:58:54,560 --> 00:58:59,560 Speaker 1: picture of Carlyle on the boat? Hold my calls the people? 1073 00:58:59,560 --> 00:59:01,360 Speaker 1: Do you know when they're going to beat or something? 1074 00:59:01,760 --> 00:59:06,320 Speaker 1: But I just posted a good old Sunday Funday. Sunday 1075 00:59:06,960 --> 00:59:09,600 Speaker 1: Sunday Funday, do you picture for me in a bikini? 1076 00:59:09,640 --> 00:59:11,920 Speaker 1: Because I want to picture hot Peak for me to bikini, 1077 00:59:12,040 --> 00:59:14,120 Speaker 1: but what do you say? Like so Sunday fun Day 1078 00:59:14,840 --> 00:59:20,040 Speaker 1: and then the best Sieges wrote under it cut find 1079 00:59:20,080 --> 00:59:26,880 Speaker 1: you guys, my friends Carlisle, Noah, Sara, Hala, Kirsten, Cat, 1080 00:59:26,880 --> 00:59:29,320 Speaker 1: Taylor and Anya. Thank you for being here, Thank you 1081 00:59:29,360 --> 00:59:31,400 Speaker 1: best listening. Thank you for letting me have a week 1082 00:59:31,480 --> 00:59:33,960 Speaker 1: off of the show. We will be back tomorrow with me, 1083 00:59:34,200 --> 00:59:37,440 Speaker 1: Andrew and Noah live from my apartment in St. Louis, 1084 00:59:37,440 --> 00:59:39,440 Speaker 1: and we will see you then. Don't be cut, Andrew 1085 00:59:41,880 --> 00:59:41,920 Speaker 1: Y