WEBVTT - Caroline Bryan 0:00:09.280 --> 0:00:16.400 Caral. She's a queen of talking. He was She's on 0:00:16.440 --> 0:00:21.120 the inside. She got the scoop on No one can 0:00:21.160 --> 0:00:35.680 do win, Caral, Caral, No one can do win Quiet, Caral, Carol. 0:00:36.320 --> 0:00:39.680 This episode of Get Real Podcast with Caroline Brian is 0:00:39.840 --> 0:00:44.599 so much fun. I love Caroline. I recently discovered her 0:00:44.640 --> 0:00:47.839 Instagram page early last year and I've been hooked. She 0:00:48.040 --> 0:00:50.479 is so stundenly beautiful. But more than that, she's a 0:00:50.520 --> 0:00:53.840 prankster and she pranks her entire family. She does the 0:00:53.880 --> 0:00:57.320 wildest things, from stuffing herself in a life size Teddy bear, 0:00:57.640 --> 0:01:01.520 putting snakes and refrigerators, jumping on hucks Is, putting Figurenai 0:01:01.560 --> 0:01:03.920 polish on a bar of soap and watching Luke lather 0:01:04.080 --> 0:01:06.399 up on with it and wondering what's going on. She 0:01:06.480 --> 0:01:10.440 puts it all on Instagram and hysterical. Also, Luke's mom, Leclaire, 0:01:10.640 --> 0:01:14.000 is a huge character in all of caroline stories. Leclaire 0:01:14.040 --> 0:01:17.200 straight out of a movie. She is so hysterical, her 0:01:17.280 --> 0:01:20.720 dance moves, just her whole personality. You have to follow 0:01:20.720 --> 0:01:23.400 along because it's sheer joy. We also talk all about 0:01:23.400 --> 0:01:26.480 Caroline and Luke's love story. It's so sweet. Luke was 0:01:26.480 --> 0:01:29.640 the second guy Caroline's ever kissed, and hearing their journey 0:01:29.720 --> 0:01:32.680 is incredible. And beyond that, we talked about how Caroline 0:01:32.680 --> 0:01:35.080 and Luke have dealt with some serious tragedy. Both of 0:01:35.160 --> 0:01:38.120 Luke's siblings passed away. Caroline and Luke stepped in and 0:01:38.120 --> 0:01:41.240 are helping to raise and support his sister's children who 0:01:41.319 --> 0:01:43.920 are in high school and college, as well as raising 0:01:43.959 --> 0:01:47.720 their own two young boys. Caroline's brother also lost his 0:01:47.840 --> 0:01:50.480 daughter at a really young age. Her name was Brett, 0:01:50.640 --> 0:01:53.160 and in honor of Brett, Caroline had promised her a 0:01:53.160 --> 0:01:55.840 pony when she was one years old. So Caroline and 0:01:55.880 --> 0:01:59.040 her family started Brett's Barn, which is a barn that 0:01:59.120 --> 0:02:02.080 has all sorts of animals where kids with disabilities and 0:02:02.120 --> 0:02:05.320 sickness can come and pet the animals and feel happiness 0:02:05.400 --> 0:02:08.919 and joy. And it's also so Brett's legacy and memory 0:02:09.000 --> 0:02:11.400 will never die and it will live on forever. The 0:02:11.440 --> 0:02:14.520 way that Caroline and Luke have navigated their life and 0:02:14.600 --> 0:02:18.040 gone through such hard times and still found joy and 0:02:18.120 --> 0:02:22.720 love and humor and fun, it's just nothing short of inspiring. 0:02:22.919 --> 0:02:26.960 I'm telling you, Caroline's faith in God is so inspiring. 0:02:27.400 --> 0:02:31.160 This episode touched my heart so much it maybe laugh. 0:02:31.280 --> 0:02:34.760 It made me feel everything. And I'm just so happy 0:02:34.880 --> 0:02:36.960 and thankful to know Caroline and Brian because what an 0:02:37.000 --> 0:02:40.000 incredible person she is. You guys are gonna love this podcast. 0:02:40.000 --> 0:02:46.160 Here she is Caroline, Brian and the Hissy. Hey, hey, 0:02:47.960 --> 0:02:51.160 that's all right. How you doing awesome? You're coming fresh 0:02:51.200 --> 0:02:54.880 off a tennis match? Yes, yes, it was good. So sorry, 0:02:54.919 --> 0:02:57.320 I was a little like, you look great to become 0:02:57.440 --> 0:03:00.399 You got your like cute spank shiny pants on. Oh 0:03:00.440 --> 0:03:02.679 well I did. I brushed my hair in the car 0:03:02.760 --> 0:03:05.760 and I put on some gloves. But I suppose as 0:03:05.760 --> 0:03:09.079 good as it kids these days. Sorry, it's looking good. 0:03:08.840 --> 0:03:11.800 Look like I've been a street fight and I got 0:03:11.880 --> 0:03:15.000 my ask kicks. Sorry, but you actually were the champion 0:03:15.000 --> 0:03:17.560 of the tennis match. We did win? Yes, was it 0:03:17.720 --> 0:03:20.680 a close match or like? It was? So that's why 0:03:21.120 --> 0:03:22.799 it took a lot long time. But it was good. 0:03:22.840 --> 0:03:25.160 It was fun. It's my outlet, so I get to 0:03:25.240 --> 0:03:27.840 hit a ball instead of hitting instead of hitting a 0:03:27.919 --> 0:03:31.200 child or luke. I like when I walk in, you 0:03:31.320 --> 0:03:33.920 asked you where are the kids? And he's like half 0:03:33.960 --> 0:03:36.440 of them are on the snowpile, and where's the other half. 0:03:36.600 --> 0:03:43.360 The other half upstairs, I don't know snowpile. Okay, so 0:03:43.720 --> 0:03:47.920 this is I'm not lying. So my children are obsessed 0:03:47.920 --> 0:03:52.040 with snow because we loved to ski and which I 0:03:52.040 --> 0:03:54.200 saw you had a trip up there for day we did. 0:03:54.360 --> 0:03:56.360 We had it was the best trip I think we've 0:03:56.400 --> 0:03:58.960 ever had as a family because the kids are finally 0:03:59.520 --> 0:04:03.200 our kids are well, our kids and our nieces so 0:04:03.320 --> 0:04:09.000 everybody is seventeen, ten and eight. So I feel like 0:04:09.040 --> 0:04:13.320 we've made it through the really hard part, which is 0:04:13.600 --> 0:04:16.120 having a baby and infant and all that stuff. So 0:04:16.200 --> 0:04:18.680 now they're like they can kind of function, so I 0:04:19.000 --> 0:04:21.160 can tell them to go put their ski clothes on, 0:04:21.520 --> 0:04:23.920 because if you ever put ski clothes on a baby 0:04:24.040 --> 0:04:28.120 or a child? Did you attempt skiing with babies? So 0:04:28.240 --> 0:04:30.000 we did it? Did you like strapping? What do you 0:04:30.080 --> 0:04:33.760 and go skiing? Loose people? Luke put a halter on 0:04:33.880 --> 0:04:36.520 him and went down the mountain. See that's how they 0:04:36.600 --> 0:04:38.880 learned how to skip. But what if he would have fallen. 0:04:39.400 --> 0:04:40.919 He's not going to fall. He's a great scare. He 0:04:40.960 --> 0:04:42.520 just knows he's not gonna fall. So I would just 0:04:42.520 --> 0:04:44.880 stay behind Luke and I would just panic the whole 0:04:44.880 --> 0:04:47.720 time because thinking they're gonna fall, but we go do 0:04:47.839 --> 0:04:51.279 like blacks and stuff. What's not not when he was 0:04:51.320 --> 0:04:54.760 teaching them. But now my eight year old can do 0:04:54.839 --> 0:04:57.400 blacks and my ten year old can do black. So 0:04:57.440 --> 0:04:59.719 I do blacks with my ten year old. See, to me, 0:04:59.839 --> 0:05:02.440 I never really seed growing up. So I've ski maybe 0:05:02.440 --> 0:05:03.960 like four or five times, and I can do like 0:05:03.960 --> 0:05:07.120 blues in a constant snowplow. But every time I'm doing it, 0:05:07.160 --> 0:05:10.560 I'm like, this is a suicide mission, Like this is 0:05:10.560 --> 0:05:14.720 how people? How is this something that the world raises? 0:05:14.880 --> 0:05:17.320 Because this, to me is so you just have to go. 0:05:17.720 --> 0:05:20.160 I just tell them to go side to side, just go, 0:05:21.080 --> 0:05:23.120 just go side to side. But they can fly because 0:05:23.160 --> 0:05:25.760 they're so they're small. So if you have you seen 0:05:25.800 --> 0:05:28.240 the kids who do it and they're so tiny and 0:05:28.320 --> 0:05:31.000 they can just fly because they're so small, they can 0:05:31.080 --> 0:05:35.200 handle it. But we're not working. Hey, what's up? So 0:05:35.320 --> 0:05:38.760 here's my come here's siventeen it year old? Till did 0:05:38.760 --> 0:05:42.080 you go skiing? Also? Can you say, hey, come tell? 0:05:42.200 --> 0:05:45.279 How are you one of those uh skiers that goes 0:05:45.400 --> 0:05:50.080 like he's ridiculous? Yes, yeah, yeah, you know he can 0:05:50.080 --> 0:05:57.599 say hi on this, Till doesn't so well till Till's here. Now, 0:05:57.680 --> 0:06:01.080 till Till does jumps, and so I'll just stand there 0:06:01.080 --> 0:06:05.520 and I'll just be nervous as hell. But he does jumps, 0:06:05.560 --> 0:06:07.560 and you're never worried that you're going to fall and 0:06:07.640 --> 0:06:12.800 hurt yourself. Well, you're young. You have to start when 0:06:12.800 --> 0:06:14.200 you're young, because if you don't start with you're young, 0:06:14.240 --> 0:06:16.120 if you start like me when you're old, it just 0:06:16.160 --> 0:06:18.400 feels like every single time I'm on the slope and 0:06:18.680 --> 0:06:22.400 how this is crazy that people do this, and they 0:06:22.440 --> 0:06:25.520 do it and he's great, but Till's also people don't 0:06:25.560 --> 0:06:28.920 know till seventeen and six four. So if he falls, 0:06:29.000 --> 0:06:31.839 it's a long way to fall, a long way. Taitan 0:06:31.920 --> 0:06:35.320 bow were a little bit smaller. But Till he'll just 0:06:35.360 --> 0:06:38.520 fly and it's it's scary, but he's a great skier. 0:06:38.600 --> 0:06:43.120 So have you always ski too? No? I never skied, okay, bye, tail, 0:06:45.240 --> 0:06:48.920 I never skied. I never skid, Oh my gosh, until 0:06:48.960 --> 0:06:52.400 I was good. Lord, I guess I've been skiing for 0:06:52.440 --> 0:06:55.720 about we go every year, and that's y'all saying, I 0:06:55.760 --> 0:06:59.560 guess it's been like but ten years now. I guess 0:06:59.760 --> 0:07:03.160 maybe eight ten years and Tait and both start to 0:07:03.160 --> 0:07:06.600 skiing when they were both about three and they just 0:07:07.160 --> 0:07:10.640 they love it. So we just we go here every year. 0:07:10.880 --> 0:07:13.480 So why was this the best family trip ever? Because 0:07:13.480 --> 0:07:16.000 they're finally at the age where I don't have to 0:07:16.120 --> 0:07:19.360 dress them. So to all the moms out out there, 0:07:19.800 --> 0:07:22.360 when if you have small children, if it's your first 0:07:22.400 --> 0:07:27.440 skate trip, do not put ski clothes on. Okay, before 0:07:27.480 --> 0:07:30.920 you dress your child. You will die. You don't put 0:07:30.920 --> 0:07:33.400 your own skis. Don't It's like being an asana, because 0:07:33.400 --> 0:07:35.200 then you will not work out ahead of time. You 0:07:35.240 --> 0:07:38.520 will die. I learned that the hard way. And so 0:07:38.760 --> 0:07:41.560 but once everybody, and then once you're trying to teach 0:07:41.600 --> 0:07:43.920 your children how to ski, you kind of have to 0:07:44.000 --> 0:07:45.720 stand there and pick them up as they fall down. 0:07:45.760 --> 0:07:47.520 You gotta pick them up and they fall down, so 0:07:47.560 --> 0:07:50.760 you can't really ski. But now my kids are great skiers. 0:07:50.800 --> 0:07:53.760 So we just go and we just ski all day 0:07:53.880 --> 0:07:57.880 and the kids fall maybe once and that's it. And 0:07:57.880 --> 0:07:59.320 then we go get in a hot tub and have 0:07:59.360 --> 0:08:01.200 a drink, and then kids hopping the pool. And I 0:08:01.240 --> 0:08:02.920 saw you having some drinks on the way up to 0:08:03.000 --> 0:08:08.120 the ski slopes. We did we did. We did. I 0:08:08.320 --> 0:08:10.720 actually think it's smart because it keeps a little bit 0:08:10.800 --> 0:08:15.120 loose loosen. Yeah, and so but what I Okay, so 0:08:15.160 --> 0:08:18.200 I was telling Caroline this earlier. I the best thing 0:08:18.240 --> 0:08:20.800 that's ever happened to me is discovering your Instagram page. 0:08:21.400 --> 0:08:24.000 Because I always like, would see you at award shows 0:08:24.200 --> 0:08:26.680 and see you on red carpets and a You're just 0:08:26.720 --> 0:08:29.280 a bombshell and you are like a knockout, and so 0:08:29.320 --> 0:08:31.600 you're kind of like so beautiful that you're intimidating because 0:08:31.600 --> 0:08:36.680 you're so beautiful and you're just like a perfect looking person. 0:08:38.760 --> 0:08:41.760 But then I discovered your Instagram and I was like, 0:08:42.160 --> 0:08:46.120 oh m G, you're the funniest person that I have 0:08:46.240 --> 0:08:49.160 ever seen. You're twelve days of pranks, Like you have 0:08:49.280 --> 0:08:51.439 to talk to the people about how you started this. 0:08:52.360 --> 0:08:54.439 I found these and like I showed them to all 0:08:54.480 --> 0:08:57.400 my band family. One night, Michael and I drank like 0:08:57.600 --> 0:09:00.480 two bottles of wine and watched the Instagram age and 0:09:00.559 --> 0:09:03.440 the pranks and cried laughing because it was so funny. 0:09:03.760 --> 0:09:07.559 I've never seen someone who pranks so hard. Well, okay, well, 0:09:08.800 --> 0:09:13.040 so here's the honest truth. So my family, we we've 0:09:13.080 --> 0:09:19.360 always done we've always done. Your dad, I did it. 0:09:19.480 --> 0:09:21.800 I would have called. He had no clue, he didn't 0:09:21.800 --> 0:09:24.000 know where it came from. I think you thought it 0:09:24.080 --> 0:09:26.280 was my brother's son who did it, because that's who 0:09:26.400 --> 0:09:29.080 he was holding. He was holding my brother and my 0:09:29.160 --> 0:09:31.400 sister in law's child, who was at the time was 0:09:31.480 --> 0:09:35.480 three months. But okay, so my family, like we we've 0:09:36.280 --> 0:09:40.480 if if people could see the footage I have it 0:09:40.640 --> 0:09:43.800 is there's Oh my god, I could sell it for 0:09:43.960 --> 0:09:47.920 there's there's no telling. So y'all grow up pranking and 0:09:49.120 --> 0:09:52.199 we've always done that. I've always done it um our 0:09:52.280 --> 0:09:55.320 family here like we just do the craziest stuff. But 0:09:55.360 --> 0:10:00.600 it's not anyway. So my niece, who's the oldest Jordan's 0:10:00.640 --> 0:10:03.280 she told me a while back, because I'm still new 0:10:03.320 --> 0:10:06.880 to like social media, I'm still new, and I just 0:10:07.080 --> 0:10:09.680 I don't post a lot because I just don't. I 0:10:09.679 --> 0:10:11.720 don't know. I got the one with Luke with the 0:10:11.800 --> 0:10:17.360 soap because it won't lather. So they stand in the 0:10:17.480 --> 0:10:20.400 shower and they're trying to get it to ladder won't 0:10:22.720 --> 0:10:25.199 so with clear fear not all you have to do. 0:10:25.360 --> 0:10:28.080 And then Luke's over there the shower going o don't 0:10:28.200 --> 0:10:31.480 I think this is maybe what's wrong? Does it smell funny? 0:10:31.600 --> 0:10:33.120 And then he came out, he goes, are you joking 0:10:33.160 --> 0:10:34.840 on me? And I had to cut the camera because 0:10:34.880 --> 0:10:37.440 I knew he was about to walk out, which a 0:10:37.440 --> 0:10:39.760 lot of girls have asked me for footage of that 0:10:39.920 --> 0:10:43.560 and I cannot give them that. But my niece goes 0:10:43.880 --> 0:10:48.200 and Caroline, your instagram is lame. No, damn, Jordan, I'm sorry. 0:10:48.840 --> 0:10:51.320 She goes, just just be you. Put put more out 0:10:51.320 --> 0:10:55.320 there because I started. I took the Instagram public because 0:10:56.280 --> 0:10:58.680 to bring awareness to our charity. So that's why I 0:10:58.720 --> 0:11:01.720 did so, that's why I at it. But so she 0:11:01.800 --> 0:11:04.440 told me, she goes, just be you, who cares about 0:11:04.840 --> 0:11:08.200 what anybody thinks? And so I was like, okay. So 0:11:09.559 --> 0:11:12.600 I was home on a Friday. Luke was in the 0:11:12.640 --> 0:11:16.440 bar where we're sitting there, Literally I have seen an airhorn. 0:11:16.520 --> 0:11:18.959 I was like, he was here on the phone. Yeah, 0:11:19.440 --> 0:11:21.920 he got he thought it was a kid that did it. 0:11:23.880 --> 0:11:26.600 What is that? Whatever the hell? He said, I don't 0:11:26.600 --> 0:11:28.800 know it. So that's where it started. But then I 0:11:28.840 --> 0:11:30.720 was like, okay, well I'll just do so then you 0:11:30.760 --> 0:11:32.800 did like a whole series of air horns and you 0:11:32.880 --> 0:11:35.440 did you air horns everyone in your family and and 0:11:35.600 --> 0:11:39.080 friends and their reactions were insane. Know they hated me. 0:11:39.200 --> 0:11:41.920 Another favorite character I have in y'all's family is Luke's 0:11:41.960 --> 0:11:47.520 mom Leclair. Yes, how is like? How about that name? 0:11:47.720 --> 0:11:51.040 To be true? She is? Does she know how funny 0:11:51.080 --> 0:11:54.480 she is? She does, and she owns it. So do 0:11:54.520 --> 0:11:58.360 you remember the um she might be? The I started 0:11:58.360 --> 0:12:00.440 following her, She's a mess. What she do like a 0:12:00.480 --> 0:12:03.640 weekly video, like to give us a weekly dose of her, 0:12:03.679 --> 0:12:07.280 and she typically makes us do something because she's around. 0:12:07.320 --> 0:12:10.000 She's like, I don't know how to post, like, yes 0:12:10.080 --> 0:12:12.839 you do, but like she's like me, she just didn't 0:12:12.840 --> 0:12:16.120 think about it a lot. But she knows she's funny. 0:12:16.160 --> 0:12:19.120 But do you remember the character for them from the 0:12:19.720 --> 0:12:23.920 Palmark card? Maxine? She was the old lady sitting on 0:12:24.160 --> 0:12:27.640 smoking a cigarette, drinking her coffee. I call her Maxine. 0:12:28.040 --> 0:12:34.000 She's Maccine because she's just she says, there is no filter, none, 0:12:34.200 --> 0:12:39.720 there is no filter. She says whatever she thinks. Dancing. 0:12:40.480 --> 0:12:42.080 I feel like she's got a good cocktail in her 0:12:42.120 --> 0:12:45.360 hand a lot of times. I mean maybe not just beer, 0:12:45.520 --> 0:12:48.280 just beer. I saw one post and she had like, 0:12:48.679 --> 0:12:50.240 I mean, I've stopped he page so hard because it 0:12:50.280 --> 0:12:53.320 made me laugh. So she was just so in that post, 0:12:53.600 --> 0:12:56.160 she's like four cases of and your son in the car. 0:12:56.440 --> 0:13:01.240 Oh god, yes, no bud light which if hey if 0:13:01.280 --> 0:13:04.480 but almost a sponsor her, she'll take it. Leclaire is 0:13:04.520 --> 0:13:07.320 open for business. She'll be the happiest person ever. But 0:13:07.640 --> 0:13:12.040 so she just so she drinks only but like so 0:13:12.559 --> 0:13:16.040 she was joking with Luke, okay, trying to make him 0:13:16.040 --> 0:13:18.920 think she was drunk, and so she so it was 0:13:18.960 --> 0:13:21.200 a joke, but so she had on like a somebro 0:13:22.400 --> 0:13:25.839 and yeah, and he goes, what are you doing? And 0:13:25.920 --> 0:13:28.160 that's when she went and just trying to have fun 0:13:29.000 --> 0:13:30.720 and he bought it, which I'm like, you should know 0:13:30.720 --> 0:13:33.840 your mom better than that, because but he seriously thought 0:13:33.840 --> 0:13:35.880 his mom was drunk. So do y'all team up together 0:13:36.000 --> 0:13:37.720 like you and Leclair and go after people or is it? 0:13:39.920 --> 0:13:42.480 I feel like it could be just deadly in this 0:13:42.600 --> 0:13:45.599 house with the humor. Who's who's the one that's instigated 0:13:45.640 --> 0:13:50.720 than most? Is it you? Yes? Unfortunately, like one of 0:13:50.760 --> 0:13:54.080 your pranks, you got in a huge teddy bear that 0:13:54.200 --> 0:13:56.720 was me and then people would walk by and you 0:13:56.720 --> 0:13:58.560 would jump out and scare him, like, how do you 0:13:58.600 --> 0:14:01.080 even think of this stuff? Don't know. I guess I've 0:14:01.160 --> 0:14:06.280 just we've always done crazy stuff. And I don't know. 0:14:06.559 --> 0:14:09.280 I think I was. I think I was scrolling through 0:14:09.760 --> 0:14:13.760 Amazon one not and I saw this life size Teddy Bear. 0:14:13.800 --> 0:14:16.240 I'm like, this would be I'm going to buy that 0:14:16.840 --> 0:14:19.080 and I'm going to jump out of it. I don't know. 0:14:19.120 --> 0:14:23.960 It's probably after three glasses of wine, so a little 0:14:23.960 --> 0:14:27.240 bit weird, But I don't know. I mean, I just 0:14:27.320 --> 0:14:29.400 have to say that I appreciate it, and I know 0:14:29.480 --> 0:14:34.360 everyone else that's too because it is so hysterical. And 0:14:34.480 --> 0:14:36.400 the snake one another one where you put snakes in 0:14:36.400 --> 0:14:40.600 the fridge, Yes, and that back that that backfired on me. 0:14:40.880 --> 0:14:45.600 I am petrified of snakes, like petrified of snakes. I 0:14:46.000 --> 0:14:47.680 don't want to see a dead one. I don't I 0:14:47.680 --> 0:14:49.920 don't want to see one that's a rubber. I don't 0:14:49.920 --> 0:14:53.320 want to see it. And Luke he pranked me once 0:14:53.360 --> 0:14:55.280 he bought a snake in the house and I think 0:14:55.280 --> 0:14:59.800 I put it on Instagram and I it was a 0:14:59.840 --> 0:15:05.360 lot I have snake and I just yes, oh my gosh, yes, 0:15:05.520 --> 0:15:07.280 it was like a king snake or something. But I 0:15:07.280 --> 0:15:09.400 don't care what it is. I don't want it around me. 0:15:10.000 --> 0:15:11.600 And he he bought it in the house. He was 0:15:11.640 --> 0:15:15.720 holding it, so I guess that was your seeing quickly. 0:15:17.240 --> 0:15:20.320 He did that first. This was last spring, so he 0:15:20.400 --> 0:15:22.880 did it first. So that's when you know, I got 0:15:23.000 --> 0:15:24.920 a paying back. So is this house just like a 0:15:24.960 --> 0:15:26.760 fun house all the time? Are there just tons of 0:15:26.760 --> 0:15:29.760 people in here constantly? Yes, there are always people in 0:15:29.840 --> 0:15:32.120 here with Um we have three boys in the house, 0:15:32.120 --> 0:15:35.200 so they always have friends over you till your nephew 0:15:35.200 --> 0:15:37.560 who just walked in. He's a seventeen year old, sevente 0:15:38.400 --> 0:15:42.000 he's a junior high school. He is on the dating scene, 0:15:42.440 --> 0:15:45.720 he is. How's that going? It's good, I mean, because 0:15:45.720 --> 0:15:49.360 he's so cute steels, so he's I mean, my god, 0:15:49.400 --> 0:15:55.440 he's seventeen six four, he's so cute. Um, it's good. 0:15:55.560 --> 0:15:57.560 But I mean, you know, he's he's never been like 0:15:58.160 --> 0:16:00.760 he's he's never juggled like a bunch of girls at once. 0:16:01.240 --> 0:16:05.640 He didn't do that. Um, he's just he's sweet. And 0:16:05.960 --> 0:16:08.840 I don't know, but usually it's more full of boys 0:16:08.880 --> 0:16:11.960 than it is girls. So thank god, I'm not sure 0:16:12.000 --> 0:16:15.600 how I would handle the other way around. There was 0:16:15.760 --> 0:16:18.480 one time that I didn't handle it well. Some girls 0:16:18.960 --> 0:16:22.600 showed up at the door, like at night, Oh my gosh, 0:16:22.800 --> 0:16:26.760 and I was in my robe and I was like, no, 0:16:26.960 --> 0:16:30.320 thank you. I know what to say for business, like 0:16:30.600 --> 0:16:34.560 I'm not gonna happen. Thanks by. I did well, No, 0:16:34.720 --> 0:16:38.520 actually I didn't. I'll let Till and his buddy come 0:16:38.600 --> 0:16:45.280 downstairs and tell them, you know whatever I see till 0:16:45.480 --> 0:16:49.640 Till Till stalking me right right, This was like two 0:16:49.720 --> 0:16:53.400 years ago, Till, so it wasn't last week. Two girls 0:16:53.480 --> 0:16:58.560 came to the door like ninety five at night and 0:16:59.720 --> 0:17:09.720 cheer leading outfits and cheerleading outfits, no it doesn't matter, 0:17:10.000 --> 0:17:16.639 and a cheer they were prepared. Yeah I know, I know. 0:17:17.400 --> 0:17:20.920 So yeah, but no, he's he's a gen hard because 0:17:20.920 --> 0:17:23.800 I threatened him, right, that's right. You need to be healthy, 0:17:23.840 --> 0:17:28.240 a little healthy level of threat. Yes, oh yeah, on 0:17:28.320 --> 0:17:32.440 fighter over later. Yes. So do you have a girlfriend? Okay, 0:17:32.600 --> 0:17:36.680 so are we serious business here? Nice? I never had 0:17:36.680 --> 0:17:40.359 a girl a boyfriend in high school? I did? You did? 0:17:40.400 --> 0:17:43.800 I just had one? Yeah, I had one author high school. 0:17:44.000 --> 0:17:47.080 That's probably good to have author high school. And then 0:17:47.640 --> 0:17:50.439 we broke up. When I'm at Luke in college. So 0:17:50.560 --> 0:17:53.560 you and Luke were ding were college? Sweetheart? When did 0:17:53.640 --> 0:17:57.760 y'all meet? My first week in college? What like, right 0:17:57.760 --> 0:18:01.600 off the bat Thursday night, I went to y'all take 0:18:01.600 --> 0:18:04.399 a four year break, tills like the narrator here here 0:18:04.440 --> 0:18:06.600 giving us the inside. There wasn't even born yet. Yeah 0:18:06.600 --> 0:18:09.320 you don't. You weren't even around yet. Hey, but you 0:18:09.400 --> 0:18:11.320 got all the scoop. I'm gonna take it from util. 0:18:12.600 --> 0:18:15.080 So we had a four year break. Okay, we did. 0:18:15.200 --> 0:18:17.920 Yirst week of college? You met? Did y'all's humor draw 0:18:18.000 --> 0:18:20.520 you to each other? Because I feel like he has, yes, 0:18:20.600 --> 0:18:23.639 the same humor, I thought, because looks you know his 0:18:23.640 --> 0:18:30.000 his his like personality is so big that um it's first. 0:18:30.160 --> 0:18:33.480 So I met him at a bar called Dinghis. And 0:18:33.560 --> 0:18:36.840 y'all are both from Georgia. Yes, both from from Georgia. 0:18:36.880 --> 0:18:40.240 And you're at the University of Georgia Southern Georgia States 0:18:40.280 --> 0:18:43.640 for um. So he and I were at Dinghis and 0:18:43.840 --> 0:18:46.000 we're just hanging out. I was a freshman. I didn't 0:18:46.400 --> 0:18:50.000 love at first sect Um for me, No, I was terrified. 0:18:50.359 --> 0:18:52.160 I didn't know what the hell was happening. I mean, 0:18:52.200 --> 0:18:54.199 I just it was like my first time in a 0:18:54.240 --> 0:18:57.119 bar like I didn't. I was so sheltered growing up. 0:18:57.119 --> 0:19:01.000 I grew up in a small town. Where'd you grow up? Sandersville, Georgia, 0:19:01.240 --> 0:19:03.639 very small town. It's the Kaolan capital of the world, 0:19:03.880 --> 0:19:08.080 the wet capital of Kaol and chalk chalk like so 0:19:08.160 --> 0:19:12.520 everything's white, like just for chalkboards. Well, so it's like 0:19:12.560 --> 0:19:15.160 a chalk mine. So it goes in everything like medicine, 0:19:15.880 --> 0:19:19.280 in the air, chalk everywhere. It can be. Yeah, it's 0:19:19.280 --> 0:19:22.800 not typically no, but it can be. But no, it's 0:19:22.600 --> 0:19:25.879 it's not bad. But um, very small town. I went 0:19:25.920 --> 0:19:28.480 to a small private school, had the same boyfriend. I 0:19:28.520 --> 0:19:31.439 had the same the same buck guy. Yeah that you know. 0:19:31.480 --> 0:19:34.080 He came from a great family and we still we're 0:19:34.080 --> 0:19:36.640 still friends and he's married to the sweetest girl ever. 0:19:37.200 --> 0:19:40.359 So um. So I go off to college and he 0:19:40.440 --> 0:19:42.280 and I had datus since we were in the eighth grade. 0:19:42.359 --> 0:19:45.960 Oh my god. So um we all decided to break out. 0:19:46.040 --> 0:19:48.720 We agreed to go our separate ways and just see 0:19:48.760 --> 0:19:51.720 what what was out there. That's terrifying and so yeah, 0:19:51.760 --> 0:19:53.520 so I didn't know. Luke was the second guy I'd 0:19:53.520 --> 0:19:57.520 ever kissed in my life. Ever, yeah. So I meet 0:19:57.600 --> 0:20:00.200 Luke in a bar and he's like and he such 0:20:00.240 --> 0:20:02.520 a big like personality. I was staring at him, like 0:20:02.600 --> 0:20:05.679 is this guy for real? Because he acts, he is 0:20:05.720 --> 0:20:08.240 how he is, like even back in the day, he's 0:20:08.520 --> 0:20:11.520 he's never been different. Well, now that I know Leclair, 0:20:11.800 --> 0:20:14.800 I do not doubt that's where he that's where he 0:20:14.800 --> 0:20:18.080 gets his stuff. I'm like, Cam, it is not fake. 0:20:18.240 --> 0:20:21.200 It is real. It is totally real. But he's um 0:20:21.200 --> 0:20:23.119 so he but he was so sweet. So he and 0:20:23.160 --> 0:20:26.280 I tried to be friends for a couple of weeks. 0:20:26.840 --> 0:20:30.120 That didn't last. Song we you know, we kissed and 0:20:30.320 --> 0:20:34.480 so did you start falling after the initial like I 0:20:34.600 --> 0:20:37.520 did him and you know, just I knew liked him, 0:20:37.520 --> 0:20:40.040 but we're like, let's just I was like, Okay, he 0:20:40.080 --> 0:20:42.440 can be a guy friend because that's the last thing 0:20:42.480 --> 0:20:44.800 I was trying to find was to date something that 0:20:44.920 --> 0:20:47.600 just broke up with your boyfriend, Like it was weird, 0:20:47.760 --> 0:20:51.159 and it was weird. So he not dated for like 0:20:51.880 --> 0:20:56.560 a year and a half and then I get I 0:20:56.640 --> 0:20:59.560 got freaked out because he was talking about marriage and 0:20:59.640 --> 0:21:02.119 so he was ready. Yeah, and I was like, I 0:21:02.160 --> 0:21:06.400 cannot go my entire life and not be single. I've 0:21:06.440 --> 0:21:10.280 got to and so we we separated for over four years. 0:21:10.280 --> 0:21:15.680 How is that it was us? Breaking up? Was horrible? 0:21:16.119 --> 0:21:19.639 Hephomore when I was, I was a sophomore. It was 0:21:19.720 --> 0:21:24.879 Christmas of my sophomore year, and no, he was he 0:21:25.400 --> 0:21:29.159 was graduating, so he was leaving school. Okay, so he 0:21:29.280 --> 0:21:30.959 was out of there and you were. So you finished 0:21:30.960 --> 0:21:34.320 off college single? How were those single years? They were fine? 0:21:34.359 --> 0:21:37.399 You know, I dated to to other guys, Like I 0:21:37.520 --> 0:21:40.760 called two other boys a boyfriend, but I had tons 0:21:40.760 --> 0:21:43.280 of like you know, dates and like first dates, but 0:21:43.520 --> 0:21:47.480 nobody compared. No, I mean, he was always these I 0:21:47.520 --> 0:21:50.399 always knew Luke was the sweetest and the best I 0:21:50.440 --> 0:21:54.439 always hands down. I always knew it. But at the 0:21:54.520 --> 0:21:56.960 time when we were a part, you know, I was, 0:21:58.480 --> 0:22:01.400 I just wasn't ready for that. I just I wasn't 0:22:01.400 --> 0:22:04.080 ready to be like in love yeah and forever. And 0:22:04.119 --> 0:22:08.119 then we met spontaneously after college. He was playing at 0:22:08.119 --> 0:22:10.840 a bar that I was at. Had no clue he 0:22:10.880 --> 0:22:12.880 was playing there, So y'all weren't even planning on trying 0:22:12.880 --> 0:22:14.919 to get back together. Like it was a break and 0:22:15.000 --> 0:22:17.760 over and done and like everyone's moving on. You're not 0:22:17.800 --> 0:22:22.199 really talking we talked a little bit through email or 0:22:22.240 --> 0:22:24.600 if he would come play at college. We talked a 0:22:24.600 --> 0:22:27.480 little bit, but he always take in touch with my brother, 0:22:28.359 --> 0:22:31.560 so hit an inside. So I always knew like where 0:22:31.600 --> 0:22:33.879 he was, what he was doing. And it was funny. 0:22:34.480 --> 0:22:37.080 He had the nerve once in college to bring a 0:22:37.119 --> 0:22:39.320 girl that he was dating to my house in college 0:22:39.480 --> 0:22:41.919 for a pre party. So you were having a pre 0:22:42.000 --> 0:22:44.680