WEBVTT - Episode 25 Ft. Ralph Sutton

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<v Speaker 1>What's up is ANGI La he is lip Service and

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<v Speaker 1>the gang's all here. Hey. I'm Stephanie Santiago and I'm G.

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<v Speaker 1>G McGuire and we have a very special guest, Mr

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<v Speaker 1>Ralph Sentton was good. Thanks for having me. Ladies. Listen.

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<v Speaker 1>He has a radio voice, in case you haven't noticed, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I have a radio voice too. Set up, Stephanie,

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<v Speaker 1>we are, but before we get started, you know, let's

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<v Speaker 1>just plug everything that you have because you have your sex,

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<v Speaker 1>drugs and rock and roll. Yeah, the str show of

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<v Speaker 1>the sex drugs and rock and Rolls have to be

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<v Speaker 1>confused with std. We were number one on iTunes comedy

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<v Speaker 1>in March about two hundred thousand lists of a month

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<v Speaker 1>right now. And I have a nationally syndicated rock radio

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<v Speaker 1>show called The Tour of Us on about fifty stations,

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<v Speaker 1>and I every month write a ridiculous article about dating

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<v Speaker 1>in the modern world as a single old man. I've

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<v Speaker 1>read some of your articles, by the way, and by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, I'm gonna say me and that's something in common.

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<v Speaker 1>Because Appetite for Distraction is one of my favorite albums

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<v Speaker 1>from Guns and Roll. I do like rock music too.

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<v Speaker 1>I do two guns and rolls was one of my

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<v Speaker 1>favorite Al Smith and bon Jovi, the stuff that's very

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<v Speaker 1>popular that we know. For me, I also am a

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<v Speaker 1>big hip hop and R and we're going to rack

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<v Speaker 1>it up for you. You're all too young for this,

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<v Speaker 1>but I was a breakdancer in the movie Crush Group. No,

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<v Speaker 1>you were, absolutely you were in Crushed Girl. That's hip hop.

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<v Speaker 1>I was only about hip hop tells about eighteen and then,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I'm gonna go. I started getting laid,

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<v Speaker 1>so I started growing my hair long, and I started

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<v Speaker 1>getting to rock and roll. So you think long here

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<v Speaker 1>in rock and roll helped you get lately hip hop

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't really working all right now. One of the

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<v Speaker 1>articles that I read that you wrote, you know what. No,

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<v Speaker 1>before we get into that, I want to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>something that gig actually texted me about gigs from Philly.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my right. And there was a story today about

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<v Speaker 1>this guy from Philly. Apparently he used a boxer, he

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<v Speaker 1>was a little hard up for cash and then why

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't Yeah, listen, listen. They said he got a

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<v Speaker 1>message on Facebook saying, hey, you know what, we want

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<v Speaker 1>you to come do a porn and we'll pay you.

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<v Speaker 1>And he was like, okay, you know, I'll do it.

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<v Speaker 1>He came to New York from Philly, went to the Bronx,

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<v Speaker 1>went to some address, and he says he took a

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<v Speaker 1>pill and some vodka alright, and doesn't remember anything else.

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<v Speaker 1>And next thing you know, he's in a gay porn

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<v Speaker 1>with two other men, with two guys in his mouth

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<v Speaker 1>at the same damn time. Was the pill provided to

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<v Speaker 1>him when he got I guess they gave it him

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<v Speaker 1>that they gave him a pill. He said he did

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<v Speaker 1>an article with the Philadelphia Daily News. Now, mind you, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a story that has been going around in Philly,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, for a good month or so, three months,

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<v Speaker 1>three weeks to a month or so. Now, so he decides,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess that he wanted to tell his version of

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<v Speaker 1>the story. He goes to the movies out that he

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<v Speaker 1>says that he um that he doesn't remember anything. He

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<v Speaker 1>remembers waking up on on a train at thirty or

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<v Speaker 1>three station, and he sucked in his pocket. But I

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<v Speaker 1>don't at least they paid him. How don't you remember

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<v Speaker 1>your booty hole being right? Wasn't it sore? Wasn't it? Oh? No,

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<v Speaker 1>Because he's used to he's a screenshot if you just

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<v Speaker 1>want to get an idea. Oh, that's my friend Tony.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know he's one of those. Oh no, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a straight man, I've got ten kids, I'm cold, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a boxer. I'm gonna beat you all up. Of y'all call.

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<v Speaker 1>He's very but he's see in the middle in this videos.

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<v Speaker 1>He's the one giving hit. Yeah, but I mean he's

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<v Speaker 1>far too engaged to not be understanding what's happening. Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what that's what I think is being penetrated from behind.

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<v Speaker 1>He says, come on, come on, that's all you got,

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<v Speaker 1>like he wants it. I've never said that to anybody.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, come on. That's how guys are when they

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<v Speaker 1>get because that's how guys talk. Oh my god, that's

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<v Speaker 1>so funny. I mean, had he that's so saily news

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<v Speaker 1>with his side of story, it would have gotten forgot

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<v Speaker 1>about it. And when I have went viral, he went

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<v Speaker 1>to the daily news that end up front page on

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<v Speaker 1>a newspaper and down the whole world knows it was

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<v Speaker 1>a philly thing. Comment. We would have we would have

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<v Speaker 1>not known about what And he tried to say that

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<v Speaker 1>he never seen the tape. He said it wasn't me.

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<v Speaker 1>I never he's first of all, you know, he said

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<v Speaker 1>when he went, when he agreed to do the porn,

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<v Speaker 1>when he got there, it was naked women walking around

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<v Speaker 1>going down. Give me a drink. And I don't believe

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<v Speaker 1>it either, and they give him the kill. So he's

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<v Speaker 1>saying that they didn't tell him to give him to

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<v Speaker 1>do a gay porn. Maybe he got there and saw

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<v Speaker 1>women and thought that it was, you know, regular, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was like a super famous boxer. Maybe I believe it,

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<v Speaker 1>some half known boxer. I believe it, and I going

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<v Speaker 1>to go through such elaborate ruse just to get know

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<v Speaker 1>that is. They now they're digging up. Now they now

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<v Speaker 1>they're doing they're investigating. Now everybody wants to dig into

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<v Speaker 1>his own social media blame that the past book page

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<v Speaker 1>that he was messaged on all of a sudden he

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<v Speaker 1>forgot that password, so he can't go back. And he's

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<v Speaker 1>really forgetting right, I was drug when I made my

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<v Speaker 1>Facebook and the way he was getting sucked in the eyes,

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<v Speaker 1>he would have been bleeding if it was the first time. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>so people started around with him and two other men

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<v Speaker 1>that are not the same. Two men that was and

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<v Speaker 1>he was second dick like a pro. You can't do

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<v Speaker 1>that same damn time. The first time I sucked. All

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<v Speaker 1>of the memes just came out of New where it

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<v Speaker 1>was so funny. It's like everything on social media was

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<v Speaker 1>talking about this guy is so sad. I feel sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna lie. I don't watch gay porn, but

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<v Speaker 1>I watched this porn. I watched some of it and

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<v Speaker 1>it was kind of hot. So you would watch like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, somebody sent a game male porn. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not you know, it was sexy. I'm not gonna lie

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<v Speaker 1>because I like, I'm into the look of these guys.

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<v Speaker 1>They were like athletic black guys, you know, but it

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of sexy. Thing is the sucking deal? I

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<v Speaker 1>think I think you're watching a guy suck two dicks

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<v Speaker 1>at once a turn on. It was kind I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>think I would, but I was watching it and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like filling a tingle. I just watched it and

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<v Speaker 1>felt the tingle. Just it is that him in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle looked at it uncomfortably too long. I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to for the recond none of us if it had

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<v Speaker 1>set two dicks at once, right, No okayly simultaneously. Now, well,

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<v Speaker 1>if I gotta ask you, have you ever blacked out?

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't had sex with Yes, I've ever blacked out

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<v Speaker 1>in my life once, and it was from what's that god,

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<v Speaker 1>I forgetting the name of it now, the drink that

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<v Speaker 1>is like illegal for years that you had to like

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<v Speaker 1>pour sugar on absently about an absent at home. But

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<v Speaker 1>it was supposed to burn sugar over and that's also

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<v Speaker 1>by way fallacy. You're not supposed to do the insist

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<v Speaker 1>in the movies. But that was the only time I

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<v Speaker 1>ever blacked out in my life. And it was like

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<v Speaker 1>twenty years ago. I got my bottle from Slovakia and

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<v Speaker 1>I still have one. Was an original, like a remodel.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's the only time I don't remember. I would

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<v Speaker 1>say an hour of my evening, but an entire night

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<v Speaker 1>that's never happened. Yeah, my friend actually had absence one time.

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<v Speaker 1>As she said, she ended up making in the bar,

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<v Speaker 1>dancing on the table. Oh my god. It's weird because

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<v Speaker 1>it's actually real. Traditional absence is poison. I mean, there's

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<v Speaker 1>there's wormwood in it. And that's the one the reason

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<v Speaker 1>why Van Go cut his ear off, because it's screwed

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<v Speaker 1>with his head. It's very right se during absence. So

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<v Speaker 1>so do you do people tell you like, oh, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I was home with a chick. We just wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>try it together and it was actually as a name

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<v Speaker 1>dropping idiot thing to say, but she used to date

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<v Speaker 1>Marilyn Manson, and Manson gave it to her. So we

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<v Speaker 1>decided to try it on New Year's Eve and that

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<v Speaker 1>was when I blacked out. Was it a good experience?

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<v Speaker 1>Like you would do it? Fine? I still I'll do

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<v Speaker 1>absence and I it's like, I'm never going to do

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<v Speaker 1>absence again. But I said, I should have brought that

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<v Speaker 1>battle tonight. If I would have known this story wants

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<v Speaker 1>nobody wants the blackout tonight. I don't want tomorrow. I

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<v Speaker 1>would you if you were in a gay point, would

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<v Speaker 1>you be in the middle or on the end? I

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<v Speaker 1>would say that logically, if I had to picket, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going in, okay, because if you go in it is

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<v Speaker 1>not necessarily gay. Can you do gay porn and not

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<v Speaker 1>be gay? No? Remember, if you're getting guys, would just

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<v Speaker 1>come out bisexual. He should just be like, I'm buying,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're turning on, you're turned on If you're geting

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<v Speaker 1>in direction. But he has ten kids and he said

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<v Speaker 1>he's about to get married to a woman. I have

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<v Speaker 1>a friend and this he's gonna kill me for. Here's this.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a trainer. He's my actual crop Maga trainer. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>His landlord is closet gay, married with three kids, but

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<v Speaker 1>gave him three free apartments in the building. One he

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<v Speaker 1>rents out to someone else, one he uses for a

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<v Speaker 1>training studio, and one he keeps for himself. And he

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<v Speaker 1>pays three in a month. Friend, and he's getting all

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<v Speaker 1>three apartments because the owner is gay and just likes

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<v Speaker 1>having him in his building. And it's closet gay. He

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<v Speaker 1>just looking at this really good looking dude. You know

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<v Speaker 1>your friend is Yeah, your friend is definitely why that's

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<v Speaker 1>okay if you're getting three apartment for three apartment, I

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<v Speaker 1>think most people were in New York right, because it

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<v Speaker 1>is really high and he's getting income from it. Your

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<v Speaker 1>friend is not just getting that to be looked at.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to let you know that he's definitely

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<v Speaker 1>like buzzing a wide open that's fine to the white meet,

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<v Speaker 1>but the owner of the guy is married with three kids.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just money, so it is all right, Now, let's

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<v Speaker 1>talk a little bit about your history because I know

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<v Speaker 1>you used to be a ship club DJ. Ten years

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<v Speaker 1>you were a strip club d J. And you did

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<v Speaker 1>an article about, you know, dating a pole princess. Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and GJ and I were talking about it because DZ

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<v Speaker 1>worked in the stip club as well. She probably hated

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<v Speaker 1>it if she reread the article. Well, she didn't agree

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<v Speaker 1>with something because the one thing that you said on

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<v Speaker 1>there was not to spend any money because then people

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<v Speaker 1>will look at you. So you were like, don't spending

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<v Speaker 1>money because then she's gonna always look at you with

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<v Speaker 1>dollar signs. Absolutely, and she's going to disagree because she

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<v Speaker 1>wants to make money as a dancer. Well, truth is it,

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<v Speaker 1>once you spend money, you are a customer and that's

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<v Speaker 1>the end of it. There's no other way, there's no

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<v Speaker 1>other logical statement. If you're spending money, you become a customer.

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<v Speaker 1>What I did not know prior to meeting you was

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<v Speaker 1>that you were Caucasian and that you worked in the

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<v Speaker 1>Caucasian strip clubs. So it's different rules difference. Yes, there's

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<v Speaker 1>a whole different world. So I agree with the white

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<v Speaker 1>girls because they're always going to be like, he's he's

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<v Speaker 1>my customer, he's my regular, you know, even if they

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<v Speaker 1>fake fall in love with you at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the day, So they're regular. Absolutely. Now in the black club,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a whole different story, right, you gotta break a

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<v Speaker 1>bit off not to get you ain't so if you

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<v Speaker 1>ain't making the rain and and making sure she got

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<v Speaker 1>deposits and ray bottoms, and guess what do they making rain?

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<v Speaker 1>And white ship clubs no make work. I would feel

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<v Speaker 1>disrespected if somebody through money at me, like, yeah, in

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<v Speaker 1>a stroke club, what are they for sure? And they

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<v Speaker 1>passed un bills and you go to champagne room. I

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<v Speaker 1>know that. Yeah, it happens, but not as much. Yea

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<v Speaker 1>once in a while, and they don't call it makers.

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<v Speaker 1>They call it a shower shower way nice. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>going to take a bubble bath. Yeah, all right, So white,

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<v Speaker 1>what's another difference between a white strip club and a

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<v Speaker 1>black strip club. We're gonna take it away. The music

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<v Speaker 1>is like number one. The black strip club is more

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<v Speaker 1>of a regular club with naked girls. And exactly like

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<v Speaker 1>they have club, they have sushi, they have five stars

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<v Speaker 1>steak meals. Yeah, they have five star Bronx like since

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<v Speaker 1>that he has a really good stak level. There's the

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<v Speaker 1>truck stop one, but there are ones that which is hilarious.

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<v Speaker 1>There are in like the Midwestern stuff that are strip

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<v Speaker 1>clubs like behind a gas station, which yeah, the truck

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<v Speaker 1>stop one. Those are really hilarious. But there's there's something

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<v Speaker 1>that are connected to motels. In New Jersey. There's go Go,

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<v Speaker 1>so there's no strip clubs. They don't take the clothes.

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<v Speaker 1>Then there's either go go or completely and then and

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<v Speaker 1>they can't if you can bring your own bottle, if

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<v Speaker 1>the girls can get naked, but if the girls can

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<v Speaker 1>get naked, then make your own bottles. Listen. The club

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<v Speaker 1>that I worked at the most of the time, when

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<v Speaker 1>I was in the white Strip Clubs with cheerleaders, which

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<v Speaker 1>is actually on the same owner's own Vandy Grant, but

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<v Speaker 1>that was when I worked there. It was a bikini bar,

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<v Speaker 1>so we were not allowed to take our clothes off,

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<v Speaker 1>but we were allowed to. I could see g working

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<v Speaker 1>easily on the white strip clubs, right, for sure, that's

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<v Speaker 1>for sure. There was more money in Magic City because

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<v Speaker 1>it was Magic City, right, because it was a really

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<v Speaker 1>popular number one. Now, what about as far as tricks,

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<v Speaker 1>like do the white strippers do in the white strip clubs?

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<v Speaker 1>Do they do like the gez had her? That was

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<v Speaker 1>another difference for me and the Yeah, yeah, I like

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<v Speaker 1>your working way too. You're working way. It's too hard

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<v Speaker 1>for sure, But like and another thing, um and the

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<v Speaker 1>clubs that I worked and they don't weren't allowed to

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<v Speaker 1>do floor work. We weren't. We could only wear like

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<v Speaker 1>we have to wear some bullshit. This is why all

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<v Speaker 1>the white stripper is gonna get big tips because they

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<v Speaker 1>just shake their booth. Yeah, you just be there like easy,

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<v Speaker 1>just like a little intro. We'd always the first thing

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<v Speaker 1>I would tell a girl when they got there. First

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<v Speaker 1>things no flooror no floor work at a floor? Who, well,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the point of that? Why not floor work? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know who came up with that rule, but

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<v Speaker 1>I was cool with it. That's trashy, it's trashy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>your back and ship. I was in a club, was

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<v Speaker 1>working in a club in Jersey and the girl went

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<v Speaker 1>up on the pole and flipped upside down, right, that's

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<v Speaker 1>InCred actually did it. Her wig fell off and her

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<v Speaker 1>bikini bottom fell off the bar. All of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>she was fired you're fired. She wasn't she got tipped.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's crazy because when I go to the

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<v Speaker 1>shipcome like if y'awlling on, do no po work and

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<v Speaker 1>be lazy and all of that. I can't even It's

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<v Speaker 1>a different world because it's all about going into the

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<v Speaker 1>champagne room being thousands of dollars. Yeah, exactly. Again, we're

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<v Speaker 1>like planting around in gowns, like just as a very

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<v Speaker 1>simple thing you tell a girl when you're on stage,

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<v Speaker 1>it's advertising, that's it. Well, they're gonna say, hey, look

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<v Speaker 1>at me, go take me. If we're gonna take you

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<v Speaker 1>to againt some lemon pepper wings, we're gonna take you

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<v Speaker 1>to these white girls getting like fake butts now too.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, I have not been in a strip

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<v Speaker 1>covered a long time, but I do hear that that's

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<v Speaker 1>very common. Now, Okay, now there's another thing I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about. We were looking at You're not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>know who she is Black China, right, and she's the

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<v Speaker 1>one that has a baby with Tiger and tigers dating

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<v Speaker 1>Kylie Jenner. But now she's dating future and that future

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<v Speaker 1>is she's for sure's eating him right, Well, she got

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<v Speaker 1>his name tattooed on her hand. She had like but

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she was thinking like future. They were together, he

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<v Speaker 1>got a tattoo, she was with her, she got and

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<v Speaker 1>she got the tattoo. And they've been seen in a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of different cities, a couple of different part and everything.

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<v Speaker 1>They've been seen together, like together. And he put on

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<v Speaker 1>Twitter earlier today, I'm single. Oh, you know, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>mean these. I don't pay attention to the gossip. I'm single.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like rumors. Yeah, I don't like y'all know,

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<v Speaker 1>he said, y'all know, I don't like rumors. Right now,

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<v Speaker 1>let's talk about tattoos, because they say that's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like the it's a jinx when you get somebody it is.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree with that tattoo. Do you have anybody's name? Tattoos?

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<v Speaker 1>Have three? Oh my god, I have three of the same.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop after Stephanie holds on one second. Stephanie, first, you

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<v Speaker 1>already know we're gonna get to and half a second.

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<v Speaker 1>I got my son's father's name. Um um, it's covered.

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<v Speaker 1>Is on the back of my neck. I have my

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<v Speaker 1>ex boyfriend on my finger, and then I had my

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<v Speaker 1>other ex boyfriend on my ribs. Let me see this one. Yeah,

0:16:10.640 --> 0:16:14.200
<v Speaker 1>they're they're not all visible. The one probably the least visible.

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<v Speaker 1>This one is ask your question, My gosh, how long

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<v Speaker 1>were you dating before you said, okay, I'm gonna do this. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this one, I was with him. I was with him

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<v Speaker 1>for like a year. I was within him for like

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<v Speaker 1>a year. I was adea no before I did. We

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<v Speaker 1>were probably dating like ten months. The Ribs one, I

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<v Speaker 1>know him since I was a kid. I know him

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<v Speaker 1>since I was like, you know, we were dating? We

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<v Speaker 1>were Yeah, we were dating for like a year. Any minute?

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<v Speaker 1>Does that mean that my name is tattooed on your ribs?

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<v Speaker 1>Your name is Ralph? Yeah? Yes, I got his first

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<v Speaker 1>that last name. I got his first and last name.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys hooked up and my son's father, you already

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<v Speaker 1>have his name also my son's father for eight years,

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<v Speaker 1>and I actually got after we broke off. If we

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<v Speaker 1>only date guys named Ralph, forget now. I'm covering this

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<v Speaker 1>stupid outside swammering ribs up. I already made the appointment.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm covering it up in a covering it up. He's

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<v Speaker 1>in jail right now. By the way, he's in jail.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like no, no, no, please don't come home again.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure he's not. Let's talk about your tattoos. You

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<v Speaker 1>covered some up though I covered too. There's still one left.

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<v Speaker 1>You have three, yes, so she covered two, but they're

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<v Speaker 1>all of the same person, the same dude. Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>was bad. I don't think the first one I got

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<v Speaker 1>after eight months, it was to prove my loyalty. He

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<v Speaker 1>made you do it. That's the one of my fingers.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just the guy's idea. I want you to tattoo

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<v Speaker 1>yourself to show up. No, it was my way of

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<v Speaker 1>moving to him that I was here to stay. I

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<v Speaker 1>got that one of my wrists, and then after I

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<v Speaker 1>got it, I saw a different design and I'm like, funk,

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<v Speaker 1>I should have got that. So for his birthday that

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<v Speaker 1>same year, I surprised him with that. That one was

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<v Speaker 1>also on my ris. But and then I was getting

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<v Speaker 1>something tattoos because I just have a million of them,

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<v Speaker 1>And he mentioned, and you're always getting some fucking in

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<v Speaker 1>you need to get my name again. You're like, I

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<v Speaker 1>have it twice. So I'm like, yeah, I have it twice,

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<v Speaker 1>why would I get it again? And he's like, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>get something. So I got his initials on the back

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<v Speaker 1>of my neck. So when we broke up, I covered

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<v Speaker 1>the one on my wrists with the picture of myself,

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<v Speaker 1>a portrait of me as a geisha. And then I

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<v Speaker 1>covered the second one of my red with the black

0:18:18.359 --> 0:18:20.760
<v Speaker 1>rose for his doll love. And then the one on

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<v Speaker 1>the back of my neck. I never covered it because

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have to look at it, and nobody sees

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<v Speaker 1>it because my hair is long, so I don't care.

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<v Speaker 1>Now covered, now you're back together, But then we're back together, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So now, what would you get another one? Once I've

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<v Speaker 1>become mrs once y'all get married. Yeah, that's what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to get. If I get his name is then

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<v Speaker 1>it's going to have Mrs in front of it. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean the one on my son's father. I did it

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<v Speaker 1>for um my son's father and we were together for

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<v Speaker 1>almost eight years. You have your son's name tattooed on you? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I have his birthday tato. Yeah. No, that the first

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<v Speaker 1>time I got. No, the first time I got yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>just for the record, No, the first time I got

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<v Speaker 1>um my one of my boyfriend's tattooed on me at

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<v Speaker 1>the same time I did my son. Okay, because I

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<v Speaker 1>just feel like, if if I'm going to do that

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<v Speaker 1>for a guy, I should do it. You get your

0:19:09.480 --> 0:19:12.520
<v Speaker 1>father covered up. I got up, he's covered up. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I got covered. Now I don't have no tattoos. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>getting the one on my finger removed and I'm covering.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm covering up this one in like a week. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just waiting for those tattoo artists. Never as a man,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're dating a woman and she has her exit

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<v Speaker 1>name tattooed on her, I think I'm gonna she's You're

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<v Speaker 1>both gonna hate me for saying this, but I'm gonna

0:19:30.040 --> 0:19:32.399
<v Speaker 1>be honest. I think the girl's an idiot when they

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<v Speaker 1>get a tattoo, and I think so too. I don't

0:19:34.560 --> 0:19:38.960
<v Speaker 1>hate to say that. That's the true. Yeah, I don't hate. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't tell you the first two. The first two

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<v Speaker 1>I got, I surprised the guys. The last one he

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<v Speaker 1>knew I was getting. I told him. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting a tattoo. If you left her and she's crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not They should know me good enough to know

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<v Speaker 1>that I would not want that, but you know what

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<v Speaker 1>you would look at that? It's like it was his

0:20:03.800 --> 0:20:09.360
<v Speaker 1>BBM icon for a long his BlackBerry messenger. Remember, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I remember, I'm gonna go down. This is just a

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<v Speaker 1>black white thing that I don't probably probably know why

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<v Speaker 1>that all the time, like whenever they do, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>I just look at it. It's it's a negative thing

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<v Speaker 1>unless it if it's your son's name, something that's never

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<v Speaker 1>going to change. I understand that you are married, like

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<v Speaker 1>how you know, maybe ten year anniversary. Fine, I just

0:20:32.640 --> 0:20:34.840
<v Speaker 1>don't understand it. It's just like I was listening to

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<v Speaker 1>your episode with me Isabel okay and you guys talking

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<v Speaker 1>about how it's just accepted to be a side piece,

0:20:43.080 --> 0:20:46.040
<v Speaker 1>the term. I don't understand that said, you've never been

0:20:46.040 --> 0:20:51.879
<v Speaker 1>a sece, being an open relationship where whatever happens happens,

0:20:52.440 --> 0:20:55.119
<v Speaker 1>or you're committed one or the other don't interest except

0:20:55.160 --> 0:20:56.639
<v Speaker 1>oh my man's cheating once in a while. But you

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<v Speaker 1>know what it is ro for you guys, is that

0:20:59.640 --> 0:21:02.400
<v Speaker 1>man guys want everybody to be loyal to them while

0:21:02.400 --> 0:21:04.800
<v Speaker 1>they go out and break But if you but they

0:21:04.880 --> 0:21:06.159
<v Speaker 1>try to do stuff and you don't know and then

0:21:06.200 --> 0:21:09.280
<v Speaker 1>you find out, but you see the you never seen it.

0:21:09.760 --> 0:21:12.800
<v Speaker 1>I've cheated once twenty years ago. Now in my life.

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<v Speaker 1>If i'm not happy, I break up with the girl.

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<v Speaker 1>End of story. If you're not happy, why are you

0:21:17.880 --> 0:21:20.439
<v Speaker 1>only doing It's very selfish. You're doing it for yourself.

0:21:20.520 --> 0:21:22.480
<v Speaker 1>If you're cheating on a girl, if you're not happy,

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<v Speaker 1>you either discuss it or you break up the end

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<v Speaker 1>of story. Because some people say, oh, men cheat, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't believe that. I don't believe that either. How

0:21:29.680 --> 0:21:32.000
<v Speaker 1>many of me are thinking about cheating. I'm either going

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<v Speaker 1>to have a conversation, break up with the girl, or

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<v Speaker 1>tell the girl we gotta start doing threesomes. One of

0:21:36.160 --> 0:21:39.320
<v Speaker 1>those three percent it was nice. A good one percent

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<v Speaker 1>is wise. How many men you think cheat? I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's probably the same for men and women you think,

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<v Speaker 1>I think more men cheat than women. Men cheat when

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<v Speaker 1>they think they can get away with it. Women cheat

0:21:47.480 --> 0:21:50.119
<v Speaker 1>when they're missing something from the relationship. That's the end

0:21:50.119 --> 0:21:51.720
<v Speaker 1>of it. But I think that it's harder for women

0:21:51.800 --> 0:21:55.040
<v Speaker 1>to cheat when they have kids. Like No, I think

0:21:55.080 --> 0:21:57.239
<v Speaker 1>for women it's harder because I have friends that used

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<v Speaker 1>to cheat so much and then once they had a baby,

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<v Speaker 1>like when they're not when they're not at work, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>with my kids. I don't even have What does that

0:22:03.440 --> 0:22:05.360
<v Speaker 1>say about the person be If you meet a guy

0:22:06.000 --> 0:22:08.480
<v Speaker 1>and he already has someone else, right, and he's cheating

0:22:08.520 --> 0:22:10.479
<v Speaker 1>on that girl with you, and then you start dating them,

0:22:11.200 --> 0:22:13.800
<v Speaker 1>it's just gonna happen again. How you keep him? And

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand any of that. Just to me, it

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<v Speaker 1>makes no sense. So what about it? Do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to be in a monogo? I want to be. I

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<v Speaker 1>definitely would love to be married and have kids. But

0:22:21.840 --> 0:22:23.639
<v Speaker 1>until that happens, I'm not going to stay home and

0:22:23.680 --> 0:22:27.360
<v Speaker 1>twitter my thumbs. So you haven't gotten anybody pregnant every never? Well, actually,

0:22:27.920 --> 0:22:30.520
<v Speaker 1>when I was a kid, like kids, I was dating

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<v Speaker 1>for about three years while she while I was wearing

0:22:33.720 --> 0:22:35.560
<v Speaker 1>a condom, got pregnant. It may not have been mine

0:22:35.960 --> 0:22:37.119
<v Speaker 1>for all I know. Yeah, if you had on a

0:22:37.240 --> 0:22:41.399
<v Speaker 1>condom and it didn't condoms break, I have six break. Okay,

0:22:43.280 --> 0:22:45.119
<v Speaker 1>I would say that we got an abortion. That was

0:22:45.119 --> 0:22:48.160
<v Speaker 1>the only time it ever happened, and I still was mine.

0:22:48.200 --> 0:22:50.359
<v Speaker 1>But whatever, I was dating here at times, so I

0:22:50.400 --> 0:22:53.639
<v Speaker 1>took the ownage that probably mine and got her. But

0:22:53.760 --> 0:22:55.440
<v Speaker 1>since then, I have not a sex without a condom

0:22:55.480 --> 0:22:57.760
<v Speaker 1>in twenty years. You haven't had six without a condom,

0:22:57.840 --> 0:23:07.000
<v Speaker 1>And amen to you. And when I have threesomes, it's

0:23:07.040 --> 0:23:09.680
<v Speaker 1>the gentlemanly thing to do. Respect, but what a gentleman.

0:23:10.080 --> 0:23:11.840
<v Speaker 1>And it's funny because afterwards you just see like it

0:23:11.920 --> 0:23:16.000
<v Speaker 1>looks like a condom store vomited on my floor everywhere.

0:23:17.000 --> 0:23:18.959
<v Speaker 1>So you can bust and then go again, and then

0:23:19.000 --> 0:23:21.720
<v Speaker 1>bust again and then do it easily twice in an hour.

0:23:22.280 --> 0:23:24.239
<v Speaker 1>But I would usually I wouldn't come right away. If

0:23:24.240 --> 0:23:25.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm with two women, I'm gonna make it last as

0:23:25.840 --> 0:23:28.440
<v Speaker 1>long as possible. Okay, all right, So is it for

0:23:28.520 --> 0:23:32.040
<v Speaker 1>you girls right now? So is it like a real

0:23:32.160 --> 0:23:34.120
<v Speaker 1>compliment to a woman if you don't last long, because

0:23:34.119 --> 0:23:35.920
<v Speaker 1>some people say if I don't last long, that's a

0:23:35.960 --> 0:23:38.679
<v Speaker 1>compliment to you. No, I think that's a cop out

0:23:38.760 --> 0:23:41.520
<v Speaker 1>for guys that come too quickly. Yeah, I think so.

0:23:41.920 --> 0:23:44.080
<v Speaker 1>But you never had that happened when you chat happen on.

0:23:44.200 --> 0:23:46.119
<v Speaker 1>My favorite story ever was back when I was deting

0:23:46.119 --> 0:23:49.000
<v Speaker 1>in a strip club. There was this gorgeous Brazilian girl

0:23:49.080 --> 0:23:52.439
<v Speaker 1>that I was like infatuated with, five eleven long hair,

0:23:52.640 --> 0:23:56.959
<v Speaker 1>just gorgeous, And we go into uh, my car at

0:23:56.960 --> 0:23:58.560
<v Speaker 1>the end of the ship, go into my car and

0:23:58.640 --> 0:24:00.800
<v Speaker 1>we start filling around and I so turned on my

0:24:00.920 --> 0:24:03.440
<v Speaker 1>hair and before this is so embarrassing, but whoever, who

0:24:03.440 --> 0:24:07.040
<v Speaker 1>gives a ship? I came before anything happened. I came,

0:24:07.760 --> 0:24:14.080
<v Speaker 1>you didn't even had I acted like I got morals.

0:24:14.119 --> 0:24:16.119
<v Speaker 1>I said, you know what, we're going to do this.

0:24:16.400 --> 0:24:18.400
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to take time, let's go out to dinner.

0:24:18.480 --> 0:24:20.600
<v Speaker 1>I know you were so mad at your dick, but

0:24:20.680 --> 0:24:22.159
<v Speaker 1>I pulled it off and then we ended up going

0:24:22.200 --> 0:24:23.960
<v Speaker 1>on a date. And you know then she never knew,

0:24:24.520 --> 0:24:26.800
<v Speaker 1>and your pants were all she couldn't see. It was

0:24:26.800 --> 0:24:28.320
<v Speaker 1>like late at night. It just happened. It's just something

0:24:28.359 --> 0:24:30.720
<v Speaker 1>that happened that is so crazy that you busted off

0:24:30.800 --> 0:24:33.920
<v Speaker 1>before falling around. I licked someone's penis and he came.

0:24:34.160 --> 0:24:36.720
<v Speaker 1>That's awesome, that's great. I'm not gonna lie. When I

0:24:36.840 --> 0:24:38.399
<v Speaker 1>was younger, I did. I was making out with a

0:24:38.440 --> 0:24:40.040
<v Speaker 1>guy and he came before we we didn't even have

0:24:40.119 --> 0:24:41.960
<v Speaker 1>sex or anything. And not only did he come, but

0:24:42.040 --> 0:24:45.120
<v Speaker 1>it hit him in the chin. That's great. I pulled around.

0:24:46.160 --> 0:24:50.520
<v Speaker 1>He did. I was going to go down while I

0:24:50.600 --> 0:24:52.359
<v Speaker 1>was pulling a girl's pants down. She came before I

0:24:52.359 --> 0:24:58.560
<v Speaker 1>even got Oh, yeah, it was in fiction. Do you

0:24:58.640 --> 0:25:00.320
<v Speaker 1>have you ever had it? We were like going at it,

0:25:00.400 --> 0:25:02.520
<v Speaker 1>and I was ready to, you know, and I grabbed

0:25:02.560 --> 0:25:04.240
<v Speaker 1>it and I like, sometimes I like to go from

0:25:04.240 --> 0:25:05.760
<v Speaker 1>the and work my way up and then go back

0:25:05.800 --> 0:25:08.040
<v Speaker 1>down too much anticipation. And then I went and I

0:25:08.119 --> 0:25:13.240
<v Speaker 1>got and then I up and he was like, I've

0:25:13.359 --> 0:25:18.080
<v Speaker 1>ruined it. Party over, everybody go home. Grand open and

0:25:18.160 --> 0:25:21.840
<v Speaker 1>grand could say, look, give me ten minutes, I'll be

0:25:21.920 --> 0:25:24.720
<v Speaker 1>good to go against. We we we rolled over with

0:25:24.880 --> 0:25:26.640
<v Speaker 1>the sleep and we never tried to have sex again.

0:25:27.720 --> 0:25:29.040
<v Speaker 1>I know. He was like, I just give me one

0:25:29.040 --> 0:25:32.240
<v Speaker 1>moek now. I don't know if you guys saw this booked.

0:25:32.280 --> 0:25:35.240
<v Speaker 1>They did, like an unauthorized biography about Rita Aura, and

0:25:35.320 --> 0:25:37.840
<v Speaker 1>she talked about when she was fourteen years old she

0:25:38.600 --> 0:25:40.159
<v Speaker 1>had sex for the first time with the guy who

0:25:40.240 --> 0:25:44.320
<v Speaker 1>was twenty six, and she was like, listen, I don't

0:25:44.359 --> 0:25:46.600
<v Speaker 1>feel like anything was wrong with that. I don't feel

0:25:46.600 --> 0:25:48.800
<v Speaker 1>like anything. I wanted it, you know, I felt sexy

0:25:48.840 --> 0:25:52.560
<v Speaker 1>about it, no issue, no problem. I've been in Yeah,

0:25:52.560 --> 0:25:55.800
<v Speaker 1>I lost my virginity around the same age. I think fourteen,

0:25:55.840 --> 0:25:59.840
<v Speaker 1>fifteen years old and my boyfriend was like, I think

0:25:59.840 --> 0:26:03.080
<v Speaker 1>I was fifteen and he was three. But I know,

0:26:03.280 --> 0:26:06.520
<v Speaker 1>I mean now today we were the same age. I

0:26:06.560 --> 0:26:08.960
<v Speaker 1>didn't lose my virginity to someone that old, but I

0:26:09.160 --> 0:26:12.560
<v Speaker 1>was having a sexual I lost my virginity when I

0:26:12.640 --> 0:26:14.359
<v Speaker 1>was that young. I was fifteen or sixteen, and he

0:26:14.440 --> 0:26:19.240
<v Speaker 1>was the same age and normal. But honestly, today, you know,

0:26:19.440 --> 0:26:22.639
<v Speaker 1>as a mother and an adult, I don't think that's okay.

0:26:22.760 --> 0:26:24.639
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't think. I don't think a fourteen

0:26:24.720 --> 0:26:28.520
<v Speaker 1>year old girl should be having such I think not okay.

0:26:28.840 --> 0:26:31.760
<v Speaker 1>And you know, back then, had my parents or somebody

0:26:31.760 --> 0:26:33.800
<v Speaker 1>found out, they could have pressure you and all of that.

0:26:33.840 --> 0:26:35.560
<v Speaker 1>But how about this, the flips out of that coin

0:26:35.720 --> 0:26:39.960
<v Speaker 1>is he and no pun intended and stilled a lot

0:26:40.000 --> 0:26:45.240
<v Speaker 1>in me, still a lot of me, be a lot

0:26:45.359 --> 0:26:48.320
<v Speaker 1>about being a woman and being that it's not right.

0:26:48.600 --> 0:26:54.240
<v Speaker 1>It's all He's slightly responsible for making me into the

0:26:54.280 --> 0:26:56.639
<v Speaker 1>woman I am today. As bad as that situation was,

0:26:56.800 --> 0:26:58.679
<v Speaker 1>if it wasn't for the relationship that me and him

0:26:58.720 --> 0:27:00.000
<v Speaker 1>had and the things that he taught me and told

0:27:00.160 --> 0:27:02.520
<v Speaker 1>me as a young woman, I wouldn't be the same thing.

0:27:02.640 --> 0:27:04.520
<v Speaker 1>So this is a guy that was like, Okay, guy's

0:27:04.560 --> 0:27:06.720
<v Speaker 1>got to spend money, he's got to do this, He's

0:27:06.720 --> 0:27:09.080
<v Speaker 1>got to take care of you. Don't never let to

0:27:09.119 --> 0:27:14.159
<v Speaker 1>play you. You're worth so much more than I mean.

0:27:14.200 --> 0:27:16.440
<v Speaker 1>I just think that's so weird. It was very weird.

0:27:16.800 --> 0:27:22.840
<v Speaker 1>I think after eighteen better off at the age of

0:27:23.800 --> 0:27:26.280
<v Speaker 1>twenty two for me. I honestly, I don't think that

0:27:26.400 --> 0:27:29.280
<v Speaker 1>eighteen and thirty four is okay. I think anything over

0:27:29.320 --> 0:27:32.399
<v Speaker 1>eighteen is fine on both standing okay with it. I

0:27:32.440 --> 0:27:35.480
<v Speaker 1>don't think so. Daughter, And if she came home telling

0:27:35.520 --> 0:27:38.440
<v Speaker 1>me she was thinking somebody that was like I would

0:27:38.960 --> 0:27:45.080
<v Speaker 1>three and nine and now that's too, but like twenty

0:27:45.119 --> 0:27:47.280
<v Speaker 1>five or older, I would feel like I would be.

0:27:47.600 --> 0:27:51.760
<v Speaker 1>I think seven for a nineteen year old is no good.

0:27:52.040 --> 0:27:58.720
<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying. If that's my opinion. If every

0:27:58.960 --> 0:28:00.879
<v Speaker 1>if you're smart enough to make your own decisions, you

0:28:00.920 --> 0:28:03.000
<v Speaker 1>can vote, you could, you know, do everything else. I

0:28:03.040 --> 0:28:06.800
<v Speaker 1>think it's totally on your own as long as you're

0:28:06.840 --> 0:28:09.879
<v Speaker 1>not mentally challenged. You know, at that point you make

0:28:09.920 --> 0:28:12.080
<v Speaker 1>your own decisions now. But if you are mentally challenged.

0:28:12.280 --> 0:28:17.840
<v Speaker 1>A friend, I have a friend who is the we're around.

0:28:18.119 --> 0:28:20.240
<v Speaker 1>She's actually a couple of years older than me, and

0:28:20.480 --> 0:28:22.320
<v Speaker 1>she has a daughter that's around the same age as

0:28:22.359 --> 0:28:25.320
<v Speaker 1>my daughter, and we just recently via social media found

0:28:25.359 --> 0:28:26.960
<v Speaker 1>out that her daughter was dating a guy that was

0:28:27.000 --> 0:28:35.520
<v Speaker 1>in his forties, and and y'all have you know, we

0:28:35.680 --> 0:28:39.160
<v Speaker 1>just made sure the mom didn't know. Another one of

0:28:39.240 --> 0:28:42.400
<v Speaker 1>my friends found found out and you know, confronted the

0:28:42.440 --> 0:28:44.240
<v Speaker 1>mom and told her, like, listen, if she was on

0:28:44.280 --> 0:28:45.920
<v Speaker 1>the other foot, I want to know that my daughter

0:28:46.000 --> 0:28:48.040
<v Speaker 1>is messing with somebody that's old, and especially because he's

0:28:48.040 --> 0:28:49.720
<v Speaker 1>a creed, right, you know, and I know him, and

0:28:49.760 --> 0:28:51.320
<v Speaker 1>I know he's a creed. What is the you know,

0:28:51.640 --> 0:28:52.800
<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know she had to talk with her

0:28:52.880 --> 0:28:55.479
<v Speaker 1>daughter or whatever, and you know, whatever the mon misstanding him.

0:28:57.560 --> 0:28:59.040
<v Speaker 1>If you want to date a girl, if you're up

0:28:59.080 --> 0:29:01.960
<v Speaker 1>forty five, right, If I'm dating a girl that's nine team,

0:29:02.040 --> 0:29:04.480
<v Speaker 1>that is definitely weird. If I end up having sex

0:29:04.560 --> 0:29:07.680
<v Speaker 1>with the girl's nine team for fun, an, I don't

0:29:07.680 --> 0:29:13.400
<v Speaker 1>think that's terrible things to say legal, but I mean,

0:29:13.920 --> 0:29:19.400
<v Speaker 1>you know that girl, you might just be t you're

0:29:19.680 --> 0:29:21.560
<v Speaker 1>you're the girl I'm gonna married. Don't like even if

0:29:21.760 --> 0:29:25.880
<v Speaker 1>even if you have daughters that are listen to me, listen,

0:29:25.960 --> 0:29:27.960
<v Speaker 1>liten to what I'm saying nineteen years ago to du buy,

0:29:28.560 --> 0:29:32.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying no, but let's and listen, listen, let's listen.

0:29:32.800 --> 0:29:35.040
<v Speaker 1>It's just at nineteen years old, you could you're going

0:29:35.120 --> 0:29:37.600
<v Speaker 1>with the flow. It's yes, everything, you know what I mean,

0:29:37.680 --> 0:29:40.000
<v Speaker 1>Everything is cool, But when you go home you think

0:29:40.040 --> 0:29:42.200
<v Speaker 1>about it, you know, like as a as a female

0:29:42.280 --> 0:29:44.120
<v Speaker 1>young girl, I've been there, you know what I mean,

0:29:44.680 --> 0:29:47.560
<v Speaker 1>Like it's okay in the night time, when you wake

0:29:47.640 --> 0:29:49.600
<v Speaker 1>up in the morning, it wasn't okay. But there's some

0:29:49.720 --> 0:29:54.760
<v Speaker 1>nineteen years I was that nineteen year old. However, my

0:29:54.880 --> 0:29:59.720
<v Speaker 1>daughter is not. When I was very innocent, she is

0:30:00.880 --> 0:30:08.440
<v Speaker 1>like my ex he had. But my boyfriend told me

0:30:08.480 --> 0:30:11.240
<v Speaker 1>that he had a threesome with two women. One was

0:30:11.520 --> 0:30:15.120
<v Speaker 1>nineteen and the other one was twenty two. And I

0:30:15.280 --> 0:30:19.080
<v Speaker 1>told him, you're disgusting, like you're nasty, and I'm like, um,

0:30:19.400 --> 0:30:21.760
<v Speaker 1>like what did y'all do? Like like where was she

0:30:21.920 --> 0:30:23.440
<v Speaker 1>like sitting on your face? And the other one like

0:30:23.520 --> 0:30:25.200
<v Speaker 1>why did you And he's like no, they were like

0:30:25.680 --> 0:30:27.440
<v Speaker 1>he was like no, they were like taking a turn

0:30:27.520 --> 0:30:31.520
<v Speaker 1>sucking my dick. It was like it was like a contest.

0:30:31.560 --> 0:30:33.760
<v Speaker 1>And he's like, yah, one of them was in love

0:30:33.800 --> 0:30:36.000
<v Speaker 1>with me, but you know she's a horror and all

0:30:36.080 --> 0:30:38.720
<v Speaker 1>of that, and I'm like, you see like, that's like,

0:30:38.880 --> 0:30:42.480
<v Speaker 1>that's a steak. That's the woman's mistake. The man loves

0:30:42.520 --> 0:30:46.400
<v Speaker 1>its guy. Here's the thing. If a guy is honest

0:30:46.840 --> 0:30:49.720
<v Speaker 1>and says this is for fun, I'm dating other people,

0:30:50.480 --> 0:30:52.880
<v Speaker 1>then it's fine if they make that decision. It is fine.

0:30:53.240 --> 0:30:55.840
<v Speaker 1>If you lie to a girl to get them in bed,

0:30:56.040 --> 0:31:00.560
<v Speaker 1>that's wrong. I agree, And I think after nineteen eighteen,

0:31:00.960 --> 0:31:04.200
<v Speaker 1>it's legal by by American New York standards. You cannot

0:31:04.240 --> 0:31:06.520
<v Speaker 1>get arrested. There's nothing wrong with it. I was just saying,

0:31:06.520 --> 0:31:08.200
<v Speaker 1>I said I had when I turned forty. It was

0:31:08.280 --> 0:31:10.320
<v Speaker 1>my goal. I had sex with two twenty year olds

0:31:10.600 --> 0:31:13.160
<v Speaker 1>on my birthday, which is New Year's Eve. And then

0:31:13.320 --> 0:31:14.560
<v Speaker 1>and then you were like, I'm going to the club.

0:31:14.640 --> 0:31:18.680
<v Speaker 1>You can't get in that little one time. This is horrible.

0:31:18.720 --> 0:31:21.240
<v Speaker 1>I had sex twice in my life. Four girls in

0:31:21.360 --> 0:31:24.480
<v Speaker 1>me right, and we were walking. This is when the

0:31:24.560 --> 0:31:28.440
<v Speaker 1>first time Obama got elected. It was like a big celebration.

0:31:28.640 --> 0:31:32.400
<v Speaker 1>Everyone's in a I was walking into a nightclub with

0:31:32.560 --> 0:31:34.920
<v Speaker 1>these four girls, not knowing that one of them was

0:31:35.000 --> 0:31:37.280
<v Speaker 1>nineteen and she couldn't get in the club. So it

0:31:37.400 --> 0:31:39.120
<v Speaker 1>was a very hot club. We all walk in and

0:31:39.200 --> 0:31:41.560
<v Speaker 1>one of them waits outside. We're inside. It was like,

0:31:41.600 --> 0:31:43.240
<v Speaker 1>where's where's the other girl? And I'm like, I don't

0:31:43.240 --> 0:31:45.240
<v Speaker 1>we're outside. I'm like, why are you not in here?

0:31:45.280 --> 0:31:47.200
<v Speaker 1>She's like I can't get in? Why not? I did

0:31:47.240 --> 0:31:48.600
<v Speaker 1>it in front of like a hundred people trying to

0:31:48.600 --> 0:31:51.800
<v Speaker 1>get it when your nineteen and the whole place started laughing.

0:31:53.920 --> 0:31:58.880
<v Speaker 1>Obama need to change these laws. Get into the club now.

0:31:58.920 --> 0:32:00.719
<v Speaker 1>Are there things that you like now that you never

0:32:00.760 --> 0:32:02.560
<v Speaker 1>would have thought you would have liked in the bedroom

0:32:02.600 --> 0:32:04.880
<v Speaker 1>when you were younger? Oh? Of course. I think everybody

0:32:05.000 --> 0:32:06.720
<v Speaker 1>changes that they get older. You know, when you're when

0:32:06.760 --> 0:32:08.560
<v Speaker 1>you're a kid, you're just happy to be near a vagina.

0:32:09.160 --> 0:32:11.520
<v Speaker 1>But as you get older, You's just like in life.

0:32:11.560 --> 0:32:12.880
<v Speaker 1>Maybe when you were a kid, you go to a

0:32:13.200 --> 0:32:15.760
<v Speaker 1>Delhi you order a turkey sandwich and you're just happy

0:32:15.840 --> 0:32:18.280
<v Speaker 1>with whatever comes. But as you get older, like I

0:32:18.400 --> 0:32:21.600
<v Speaker 1>wanted the low sodium turkey, I want Dijon mustard. I

0:32:21.640 --> 0:32:25.560
<v Speaker 1>want it only lightly toasted. Because changed, right, do you

0:32:25.640 --> 0:32:28.040
<v Speaker 1>start to learn what you like and dislike. I remember

0:32:28.560 --> 0:32:31.120
<v Speaker 1>at twenty three, the first time a girl put her

0:32:31.120 --> 0:32:34.360
<v Speaker 1>finger in my ass, I freaked the I'm not gay Clinton,

0:32:35.600 --> 0:32:37.840
<v Speaker 1>She's like, no, no, it's gonna feel good, I promise you, like,

0:32:38.080 --> 0:32:40.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to find out. I want to love

0:32:40.720 --> 0:32:46.840
<v Speaker 1>it now. I'm all for it, right, I believe we

0:32:46.880 --> 0:32:51.080
<v Speaker 1>got a man who would that they don't like that

0:32:51.440 --> 0:32:54.200
<v Speaker 1>is uh, they definitely has some homophobia. Well, they haven't

0:32:54.200 --> 0:32:57.760
<v Speaker 1>tried it because I said, where the nerve endings are

0:32:58.200 --> 0:33:02.440
<v Speaker 1>that if if, if, if gay guys were miserable having

0:33:02.440 --> 0:33:10.440
<v Speaker 1>anal sex, they wouldn't do it do this, So I'm

0:33:10.440 --> 0:33:12.160
<v Speaker 1>gonna I'm gonna assume that has to do with getting

0:33:12.160 --> 0:33:15.880
<v Speaker 1>your asshole like as well. I think this is a

0:33:16.000 --> 0:33:23.200
<v Speaker 1>this is a lip service first yes, yeah, and never

0:33:24.160 --> 0:33:27.440
<v Speaker 1>first white guy that's been on the show. I don't

0:33:27.480 --> 0:33:33.760
<v Speaker 1>think that's why. Yeah, that's why. The two blacks are

0:33:33.880 --> 0:33:35.640
<v Speaker 1>way cooler than me. They just look so good looking.

0:33:35.800 --> 0:33:40.400
<v Speaker 1>But I'll tell you this, don't get but I have

0:33:40.560 --> 0:33:42.840
<v Speaker 1>to say. I have to say, um, you know I don't.

0:33:42.960 --> 0:33:45.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't have sex with white guys. I like Puerto

0:33:45.840 --> 0:33:48.640
<v Speaker 1>Rican guys and black guys. You've never said to a

0:33:48.640 --> 0:33:51.040
<v Speaker 1>white guy ever, I have. It's just not my taste

0:33:53.280 --> 0:33:56.040
<v Speaker 1>with almost every race. Yeah, no, it's good, but you

0:33:56.120 --> 0:33:59.320
<v Speaker 1>know I prefer a Latino man or a black man,

0:33:59.800 --> 0:34:02.560
<v Speaker 1>I have to say. It's it's the black guys that like,

0:34:03.040 --> 0:34:04.600
<v Speaker 1>you know what, they like fingers in the ass. The

0:34:04.720 --> 0:34:07.480
<v Speaker 1>black guys that I've been with, they're not gonna they're

0:34:07.600 --> 0:34:15.160
<v Speaker 1>gonna admophobia like they're like, it's for me. Puerto Rican

0:34:15.160 --> 0:34:18.680
<v Speaker 1>guys are really really gay or really really straight. There's

0:34:18.719 --> 0:34:21.560
<v Speaker 1>no in between. For Puerto Rican guys. You can't like,

0:34:21.680 --> 0:34:23.640
<v Speaker 1>you can't play with a Puerto Rican guys. Asked if

0:34:23.680 --> 0:34:25.560
<v Speaker 1>he thinks that he's not gay, why don't you like

0:34:25.640 --> 0:34:29.880
<v Speaker 1>white guys? I just, um, I just prefer I like

0:34:30.080 --> 0:34:36.840
<v Speaker 1>dark as alright, alright, since we're on lip service, I

0:34:36.880 --> 0:34:40.000
<v Speaker 1>could be honest. I like the way black dick looks.

0:34:40.840 --> 0:34:44.319
<v Speaker 1>Like the color of it, you know what I mean? Yeah,

0:34:44.440 --> 0:34:46.640
<v Speaker 1>I really like what is the guy? But his penis

0:34:46.760 --> 0:34:49.600
<v Speaker 1>is a darker like even the lighter skinned guys that

0:34:49.680 --> 0:34:52.600
<v Speaker 1>I've been with have a darker penis. You know, I

0:34:52.719 --> 0:34:57.400
<v Speaker 1>like a darker penis. WHOA, what if they might I

0:34:57.520 --> 0:35:02.480
<v Speaker 1>might be into that. Give me about three weeks at

0:35:02.480 --> 0:35:06.000
<v Speaker 1>a tenning sal I'm gonna put some black over everything.

0:35:06.080 --> 0:35:07.719
<v Speaker 1>But I can't say that I'm not I can't say

0:35:07.719 --> 0:35:09.600
<v Speaker 1>that I'm not attracted to white guys, because there's a

0:35:09.680 --> 0:35:11.880
<v Speaker 1>lot of white guys that I think are gorgeous, you

0:35:11.960 --> 0:35:13.640
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. White guy's faster, you thing to

0:35:13.680 --> 0:35:16.960
<v Speaker 1>eat pussy and everything, because that's the rumor they say

0:35:16.960 --> 0:35:21.560
<v Speaker 1>white guys are faster to eat pussy. I love it.

0:35:21.880 --> 0:35:24.600
<v Speaker 1>I think from my personal experience, white guys are more

0:35:24.640 --> 0:35:27.800
<v Speaker 1>open sexually, you know what. I love any girl that

0:35:27.880 --> 0:35:30.799
<v Speaker 1>I date that pushes the boundaries, that wants to do things,

0:35:30.840 --> 0:35:32.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, all right, well, let's try this. I'm a

0:35:33.000 --> 0:35:36.000
<v Speaker 1>big fan of that. Okay, like try this? Like what

0:35:36.320 --> 0:35:38.319
<v Speaker 1>Well the one time I said, no, I was dating

0:35:38.360 --> 0:35:41.319
<v Speaker 1>this really beautiful blonde chick and she not only wanted

0:35:41.360 --> 0:35:44.160
<v Speaker 1>to fund me with a strap on, which but she

0:35:44.239 --> 0:35:46.520
<v Speaker 1>also wanted me to wear stockings and our heels. And

0:35:46.640 --> 0:35:50.839
<v Speaker 1>I said she and her name was John. No, I'm

0:35:50.880 --> 0:35:54.759
<v Speaker 1>just about that was too much for See what it's

0:35:54.760 --> 0:35:56.200
<v Speaker 1>a funk you with a strap on? How do you

0:35:56.280 --> 0:35:58.919
<v Speaker 1>even approach somebody? And when she was a wild chick,

0:35:59.080 --> 0:36:01.440
<v Speaker 1>really wile, but we her only job in life for

0:36:01.480 --> 0:36:03.320
<v Speaker 1>the first like six months we were dating was finding

0:36:03.360 --> 0:36:06.120
<v Speaker 1>other girls for me to have sex with, which was amazing.

0:36:06.440 --> 0:36:13.440
<v Speaker 1>So it almost felt like obligated me. So much, Vagina said,

0:36:13.480 --> 0:36:15.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, I just couldn't do it. Woman. Yeah, she

0:36:15.640 --> 0:36:17.560
<v Speaker 1>was not only more than a wing woman because she

0:36:17.680 --> 0:36:20.080
<v Speaker 1>was involved, so she was like the best wing woman

0:36:20.120 --> 0:36:21.960
<v Speaker 1>on the planet. What if she was like I just

0:36:22.040 --> 0:36:23.640
<v Speaker 1>went to like, while you're having said me to suck

0:36:23.719 --> 0:36:25.879
<v Speaker 1>on this do though I could do that. That's fine.

0:36:25.920 --> 0:36:29.919
<v Speaker 1>Doesn't make me game oh ship, But I'm glad he's

0:36:30.040 --> 0:36:33.879
<v Speaker 1>very open. Like you said, what's gay about that? I'll

0:36:33.880 --> 0:36:35.640
<v Speaker 1>suck on a pan. I'll suck on a both of them.

0:36:36.239 --> 0:36:40.319
<v Speaker 1>That's what you want, baby, It means nothing. I used

0:36:40.360 --> 0:36:43.440
<v Speaker 1>to want to a nonsense with me. You know, I

0:36:43.480 --> 0:36:46.080
<v Speaker 1>find hilarious that you're oh, oh my god, I'm tied

0:36:46.120 --> 0:36:50.560
<v Speaker 1>to a bed. There's no danger right hopefully no, But

0:36:50.719 --> 0:36:53.160
<v Speaker 1>you know it's it's it's very refreshing to me a

0:36:53.280 --> 0:36:56.759
<v Speaker 1>man who's you know, not insecure about his sexuality, Well,

0:36:56.800 --> 0:37:05.520
<v Speaker 1>thank you, that's very refreshing. Helped him half Spanish. So

0:37:05.680 --> 0:37:07.640
<v Speaker 1>where does it stand now for you, Ralph? What's the

0:37:07.760 --> 0:37:10.480
<v Speaker 1>goals now in relationships? What? Like what is going to

0:37:10.600 --> 0:37:13.000
<v Speaker 1>make you want to settle down? Like what does a

0:37:13.080 --> 0:37:15.879
<v Speaker 1>woman have to have the beginning of dating? Like when

0:37:15.920 --> 0:37:18.720
<v Speaker 1>we there's always I always believe this a The first

0:37:18.800 --> 0:37:23.520
<v Speaker 1>three months of dating someone is infactuation land. Everybody honeymoon here.

0:37:23.719 --> 0:37:26.799
<v Speaker 1>They all pretend they're great. They all think every three

0:37:26.960 --> 0:37:31.040
<v Speaker 1>three to four months is the zone say Okay, I'm

0:37:31.040 --> 0:37:33.919
<v Speaker 1>gonna date you exclusively. That first three or four months

0:37:34.000 --> 0:37:37.000
<v Speaker 1>it's we're just casually dating, and that's before you start arguing,

0:37:37.280 --> 0:37:39.239
<v Speaker 1>right everything at that point, if you like, I just

0:37:39.360 --> 0:37:42.319
<v Speaker 1>almost started dating this chick. We'd only been hanging out

0:37:42.360 --> 0:37:45.839
<v Speaker 1>with almost. We had a couple of times, and then

0:37:46.160 --> 0:37:48.440
<v Speaker 1>she flipped out on me for something that she saw

0:37:48.520 --> 0:37:50.640
<v Speaker 1>on Instagram that I wanted on a date with a

0:37:50.680 --> 0:37:54.440
<v Speaker 1>girl four months ago. Because she was going backtrack, Ben

0:37:54.640 --> 0:37:57.040
<v Speaker 1>freaked out on me. So I just I don't speak

0:37:57.040 --> 0:37:59.200
<v Speaker 1>to anymore because that's crazy. You're crazy person. That's a

0:37:59.239 --> 0:38:02.160
<v Speaker 1>bad indication. Has she been hitting you? Wept try because

0:38:02.239 --> 0:38:04.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't respond to Texas at all anymore. Is there

0:38:04.880 --> 0:38:07.480
<v Speaker 1>anything she could do to anything? No, it's not worth it.

0:38:08.200 --> 0:38:10.719
<v Speaker 1>She couldn't be like, no way, I'm sorry. I was

0:38:10.800 --> 0:38:14.239
<v Speaker 1>about to get my period at p MS. Normally I

0:38:14.239 --> 0:38:16.680
<v Speaker 1>don't act like that. I would say this, if you

0:38:16.760 --> 0:38:19.400
<v Speaker 1>want to just have sex, I will do that, and

0:38:19.440 --> 0:38:21.759
<v Speaker 1>I will be flat out about that. But if you are,

0:38:22.560 --> 0:38:24.319
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna get you. I'm not gonna do it too.

0:38:24.360 --> 0:38:26.839
<v Speaker 1>You're too crazy. I don't want that. It's an indication

0:38:27.360 --> 0:38:29.040
<v Speaker 1>of what's to come. I dated a girl once for

0:38:29.080 --> 0:38:31.120
<v Speaker 1>three or four months. On the fourth month, I found

0:38:31.160 --> 0:38:34.200
<v Speaker 1>out she was married for months and I slept at

0:38:34.200 --> 0:38:39.160
<v Speaker 1>our house. You know what, they were separated. How did

0:38:39.200 --> 0:38:40.880
<v Speaker 1>you find out she was married? Because all of a sudden,

0:38:40.920 --> 0:38:42.239
<v Speaker 1>I got a call from a guy that says, you're

0:38:42.280 --> 0:38:46.319
<v Speaker 1>fucking my wife. I'm going to kill you. She knew

0:38:46.360 --> 0:38:50.640
<v Speaker 1>my name, he knew where I worked. Matter was three

0:38:50.760 --> 0:38:53.840
<v Speaker 1>or four months. That's my minimum. The girl needs to

0:38:53.880 --> 0:38:55.919
<v Speaker 1>be by. The girl needs to be up for anal

0:38:56.000 --> 0:38:58.879
<v Speaker 1>once in a while, not always. And once we get

0:38:58.920 --> 0:39:01.239
<v Speaker 1>past that, if you go to six months, eight months,

0:39:01.520 --> 0:39:04.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm all about being serious. I'd love to commit. Why

0:39:04.120 --> 0:39:05.600
<v Speaker 1>does he have to be by, because you have to

0:39:05.640 --> 0:39:08.000
<v Speaker 1>have th reasons. I would say that my chances of

0:39:08.120 --> 0:39:12.040
<v Speaker 1>cheating are going to diminish immensely if she brings girls

0:39:12.080 --> 0:39:14.239
<v Speaker 1>in and enjoys it, if she's doing it for me.

0:39:14.400 --> 0:39:16.680
<v Speaker 1>I had a threesome two weeks ago, and it was

0:39:16.719 --> 0:39:18.640
<v Speaker 1>two girls that were literally lying on the bed next

0:39:18.680 --> 0:39:22.400
<v Speaker 1>to each other, not doing anything with each other, the

0:39:22.480 --> 0:39:24.400
<v Speaker 1>other this one blow me this one, but it was

0:39:24.640 --> 0:39:27.640
<v Speaker 1>it wasn't fun. It was just sucking. Kind of sounded

0:39:27.680 --> 0:39:34.840
<v Speaker 1>like fun. Yeah, that's a I mean everyone has to

0:39:34.920 --> 0:39:37.880
<v Speaker 1>be involved, and I don't like you sound like not

0:39:38.080 --> 0:39:46.719
<v Speaker 1>fun is fun. She's like it as fun as you

0:39:47.200 --> 0:39:49.279
<v Speaker 1>fucking one girl while the other girls going down on

0:39:49.320 --> 0:39:51.759
<v Speaker 1>the other. That fun. Two girls blowing you at once,

0:39:52.040 --> 0:39:54.880
<v Speaker 1>that's fun. I had a threesome and I was I

0:39:55.080 --> 0:39:57.719
<v Speaker 1>wasn't involved with the other girl with the girl, but

0:39:58.040 --> 0:40:02.440
<v Speaker 1>she was eating my pussy and that's pretty involved. But

0:40:02.480 --> 0:40:08.359
<v Speaker 1>we're doing it, were doing were every girl's a drunk

0:40:08.440 --> 0:40:11.640
<v Speaker 1>lesbian first, But no, I didn't go down on her.

0:40:11.680 --> 0:40:13.800
<v Speaker 1>Our kids are ill. I don't like girls to me

0:40:13.840 --> 0:40:15.360
<v Speaker 1>would be to me, it's a turn off if I

0:40:15.480 --> 0:40:17.839
<v Speaker 1>feel that the girls doing it to try and make

0:40:17.880 --> 0:40:20.560
<v Speaker 1>me happy, and I think I wasn't doing it to

0:40:20.680 --> 0:40:22.600
<v Speaker 1>trying to make my man happy. I was just doing

0:40:22.640 --> 0:40:24.640
<v Speaker 1>it because she was like giving me like awesome, had

0:40:24.680 --> 0:40:32.120
<v Speaker 1>it like it was really good? Yes, okay. I would

0:40:32.120 --> 0:40:34.919
<v Speaker 1>imagine if I fall in love, she we get married,

0:40:34.960 --> 0:40:37.000
<v Speaker 1>she has a kid, I would think at that point

0:40:37.080 --> 0:40:38.920
<v Speaker 1>when we have a child that I probably wouldn't have

0:40:39.000 --> 0:40:41.279
<v Speaker 1>that many. Three, a few just once in a while.

0:40:42.480 --> 0:40:44.879
<v Speaker 1>Can be with the women when you're not around you want.

0:40:45.200 --> 0:40:46.560
<v Speaker 1>She can be the round I'm not around. If I

0:40:46.560 --> 0:40:48.600
<v Speaker 1>could be a woman she's not around, that's fair. That

0:40:48.800 --> 0:40:52.480
<v Speaker 1>is fair. So what about having the other women like

0:40:52.800 --> 0:40:55.440
<v Speaker 1>live with you. I think it's hard to pull off,

0:40:55.520 --> 0:40:57.960
<v Speaker 1>but if it happens, and happens. I had a girl

0:40:58.000 --> 0:41:00.399
<v Speaker 1>say to me once when I said, you know, she said,

0:41:00.440 --> 0:41:02.800
<v Speaker 1>what I do with a woman is different than what

0:41:02.840 --> 0:41:04.839
<v Speaker 1>do you do with a woman, so it's not fair.

0:41:05.400 --> 0:41:07.600
<v Speaker 1>So I said, okay, I'll do with a woman what

0:41:07.760 --> 0:41:10.200
<v Speaker 1>you do with a woman? Is that fair? And that

0:41:10.320 --> 0:41:12.600
<v Speaker 1>didn't happen either. What if she's like, Okay, I'm down

0:41:12.680 --> 0:41:14.040
<v Speaker 1>and do the step with other women, but every now

0:41:14.080 --> 0:41:16.480
<v Speaker 1>and then I need another guy. No, and I'll tell

0:41:16.480 --> 0:41:20.200
<v Speaker 1>you why. It's very logical if you're getting enjoyment, if

0:41:20.200 --> 0:41:23.360
<v Speaker 1>you're truly bisexual, and you're getting enjoyment from being with

0:41:23.440 --> 0:41:26.600
<v Speaker 1>a girl, I'm not getting enjoyment with with the dude

0:41:26.640 --> 0:41:30.120
<v Speaker 1>in the room, so it's not fair. Okay, that makes sense.

0:41:30.239 --> 0:41:32.520
<v Speaker 1>You never want to watch No, it doesn't get and

0:41:32.560 --> 0:41:34.200
<v Speaker 1>it doesn't turn me out. Some guys it does, and

0:41:34.239 --> 0:41:38.000
<v Speaker 1>I always say that, Yes, I did swapping once with

0:41:38.080 --> 0:41:40.680
<v Speaker 1>another couple, Yeah, and I just didn't. I didn't. It

0:41:40.760 --> 0:41:42.080
<v Speaker 1>was like to me, it was just still I couldn't

0:41:42.080 --> 0:41:44.200
<v Speaker 1>do that with a girl that cared about. It was

0:41:44.239 --> 0:41:47.080
<v Speaker 1>some girl I didn't care about. Not be a weird situation.

0:41:47.239 --> 0:41:49.640
<v Speaker 1>But I tried to have a reason with my guy

0:41:49.880 --> 0:41:51.680
<v Speaker 1>and someone and I was really close friends with, and

0:41:51.880 --> 0:41:54.839
<v Speaker 1>I just it was awkward. Yeah, I love him too

0:41:54.920 --> 0:41:57.920
<v Speaker 1>much for day. And I also think this is it's

0:41:58.400 --> 0:42:00.480
<v Speaker 1>got to be somebody that you don't really So there

0:42:00.520 --> 0:42:02.640
<v Speaker 1>are two dudes in the room and there are like

0:42:02.800 --> 0:42:05.040
<v Speaker 1>five or six girls in the room, right, I bet

0:42:05.120 --> 0:42:07.520
<v Speaker 1>you if he asked the dudes, if you if your

0:42:07.560 --> 0:42:10.040
<v Speaker 1>girl is bisexual, would that be a good or bad?

0:42:10.800 --> 0:42:13.040
<v Speaker 1>Both guys are gonna say yes. But if you ask

0:42:13.120 --> 0:42:16.040
<v Speaker 1>the girls in the room, your guy's going to be bisexual?

0:42:16.680 --> 0:42:20.640
<v Speaker 1>Every maybe nine was any gonna say no? Right? Well,

0:42:20.760 --> 0:42:23.719
<v Speaker 1>you know, that's that's just how that's how, just how

0:42:23.800 --> 0:42:26.719
<v Speaker 1>it is. So for that reason, I think that you

0:42:26.840 --> 0:42:29.399
<v Speaker 1>want a girl to be bisexual, but you don't want

0:42:29.480 --> 0:42:32.279
<v Speaker 1>to because you don't get any enjoyment from a guy

0:42:32.320 --> 0:42:34.239
<v Speaker 1>in the room. It's just not fair if if the

0:42:34.280 --> 0:42:36.560
<v Speaker 1>girl said to me, look, once a year, I want

0:42:36.560 --> 0:42:39.160
<v Speaker 1>to suck another dude, But you can just go fuck

0:42:39.160 --> 0:42:41.919
<v Speaker 1>another girl. And that's that's just how it is. That's fine,

0:42:42.960 --> 0:42:45.960
<v Speaker 1>not just traditional. Yeah, me too. I feel like like

0:42:46.120 --> 0:42:48.759
<v Speaker 1>I can't be with a guy if he's with another woman. Now,

0:42:48.880 --> 0:42:54.279
<v Speaker 1>you can't. I don't do threesomes or understanding. I feel

0:42:54.280 --> 0:42:55.800
<v Speaker 1>like I feel like the guy that's gonna be with

0:42:55.920 --> 0:42:58.920
<v Speaker 1>me in a serious relationship needs to have that out

0:42:58.960 --> 0:43:05.560
<v Speaker 1>of his system already. You used to get three one

0:43:05.640 --> 0:43:07.439
<v Speaker 1>to ten. If you're a one and I'm a nine,

0:43:07.560 --> 0:43:10.000
<v Speaker 1>we would never get along. But if we're both five

0:43:10.080 --> 0:43:12.600
<v Speaker 1>to seven, we're probably gonna get on. For both one

0:43:12.600 --> 0:43:14.279
<v Speaker 1>and two, we're gonna get along. No, I think, and

0:43:14.320 --> 0:43:15.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't think it'll be very hard for you to

0:43:15.760 --> 0:43:18.920
<v Speaker 1>find someone because I'm very honest about it, and a

0:43:19.000 --> 0:43:21.480
<v Speaker 1>lot of the men wish that we had a guy

0:43:21.560 --> 0:43:27.040
<v Speaker 1>as honest as you, because even I want to have

0:43:27.200 --> 0:43:30.200
<v Speaker 1>three sons. Thing I want, you know, like this is

0:43:30.239 --> 0:43:32.720
<v Speaker 1>what I want, and this is whoever's gonna be serious

0:43:32.760 --> 0:43:34.800
<v Speaker 1>with me is gonna have to agree with this? Like

0:43:34.920 --> 0:43:37.839
<v Speaker 1>are you bisexual? No? Okay, we can't be serious, right.

0:43:37.920 --> 0:43:39.560
<v Speaker 1>We can have fun, but we don't have a good

0:43:39.600 --> 0:43:42.640
<v Speaker 1>time together, but we can't be serious. Absolutely, I've never

0:43:43.080 --> 0:43:45.279
<v Speaker 1>sent in my adult life. I've never lied to a

0:43:45.360 --> 0:43:47.560
<v Speaker 1>girl to get late. It's just there's no reason for it.

0:43:47.760 --> 0:43:50.760
<v Speaker 1>There's enough women in the universe you can go elsewhere.

0:43:51.560 --> 0:43:54.239
<v Speaker 1>Do you ever feel like there was when that got away? Yes,

0:43:54.320 --> 0:43:57.160
<v Speaker 1>I do. There's one specific one had very unique names,

0:43:57.200 --> 0:43:58.759
<v Speaker 1>so if I say it, there's probably not many of

0:43:58.800 --> 0:44:00.640
<v Speaker 1>these girls in the world. Their names to ownA And

0:44:00.719 --> 0:44:04.640
<v Speaker 1>it was about ten years ago, and everything. The weird

0:44:04.680 --> 0:44:07.160
<v Speaker 1>thing was this. For the six months that we were dating,

0:44:08.280 --> 0:44:10.319
<v Speaker 1>all she ever said to me was that she did

0:44:10.400 --> 0:44:12.799
<v Speaker 1>not want to have a serious relationship. She just wants

0:44:12.840 --> 0:44:15.239
<v Speaker 1>to have fun. She wants to enjoy. We had three

0:44:15.280 --> 0:44:18.040
<v Speaker 1>simps together. She was beautiful, it was a party time

0:44:18.360 --> 0:44:20.279
<v Speaker 1>and every time we together, she would always say, I

0:44:20.280 --> 0:44:21.960
<v Speaker 1>just want to keep it lighthearted. I don't want to

0:44:22.000 --> 0:44:24.280
<v Speaker 1>have it. But everything about it was to me incredible.

0:44:24.320 --> 0:44:27.400
<v Speaker 1>I would have definitely dated this girl seriously. After about

0:44:27.440 --> 0:44:30.839
<v Speaker 1>six months, she broke up with me because they never

0:44:30.880 --> 0:44:33.560
<v Speaker 1>asked her to be my girlfriend. Sounds like that just

0:44:33.640 --> 0:44:38.279
<v Speaker 1>doesn't make you right. And then she said, well, you

0:44:38.320 --> 0:44:41.000
<v Speaker 1>should have known that I was just saying that to

0:44:41.080 --> 0:44:43.759
<v Speaker 1>make you happen, right, because women feel like men don't

0:44:43.760 --> 0:44:45.440
<v Speaker 1>want relationships, so we have to act like we don't

0:44:45.480 --> 0:44:48.680
<v Speaker 1>want relationships because we don't want to scare you away. Nowadays,

0:44:48.719 --> 0:44:50.680
<v Speaker 1>how do I This was like ten years ago. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>as I'm a little older, I think I would have

0:44:52.520 --> 0:44:55.520
<v Speaker 1>been smart enough to realize that maybe that I should

0:44:55.520 --> 0:44:57.520
<v Speaker 1>at least pitch it out there because I was so

0:44:57.680 --> 0:44:59.880
<v Speaker 1>into it as this woman. I was trying to be

0:45:00.040 --> 0:45:02.120
<v Speaker 1>too cool and too cool for the room that I'm

0:45:02.160 --> 0:45:03.680
<v Speaker 1>not going to act like I really like this girl.

0:45:03.880 --> 0:45:05.600
<v Speaker 1>But I mean, you know what, you was just going

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<v Speaker 1>off for what she was saying. But I feel like

0:45:08.120 --> 0:45:10.319
<v Speaker 1>they always say that if somebody tells you something, listen

0:45:10.400 --> 0:45:13.640
<v Speaker 1>to it. I agree with a lot of times, you

0:45:13.680 --> 0:45:15.440
<v Speaker 1>mean to grow and she goes, oh, I'm crazy when

0:45:15.480 --> 0:45:20.399
<v Speaker 1>a girl just say, you know, but guys like crazy girls.

0:45:20.480 --> 0:45:23.360
<v Speaker 1>Let's there. I host this cruise. Every host too, like

0:45:23.520 --> 0:45:25.840
<v Speaker 1>rock and roll music cruises, which is like three or

0:45:25.880 --> 0:45:29.120
<v Speaker 1>four thousand people on a boat with ten bands. It's crazy.

0:45:29.239 --> 0:45:31.600
<v Speaker 1>But I was going with this girl that I barely knew,

0:45:32.040 --> 0:45:33.600
<v Speaker 1>and she kept saying me I'm a little crazy, a

0:45:33.640 --> 0:45:36.320
<v Speaker 1>little wild, like car, He's gonna be fun. Let's do

0:45:36.440 --> 0:45:40.919
<v Speaker 1>this game bang on the boats a day to where

0:45:40.960 --> 0:45:43.520
<v Speaker 1>I couldn't find her, and I look and she's literally

0:45:44.080 --> 0:45:47.759
<v Speaker 1>naked wrapped in toilet paper, by naked wrapped the toilet paper,

0:45:48.080 --> 0:45:52.399
<v Speaker 1>screaming and I had to remove her from my room,

0:45:53.040 --> 0:45:55.120
<v Speaker 1>remove her from like because I have a credit card,

0:45:55.320 --> 0:45:57.600
<v Speaker 1>all that she was embarrassing your out And I told

0:45:57.640 --> 0:45:59.920
<v Speaker 1>the guy that puts the cruise together, you could throw

0:46:00.120 --> 0:46:01.759
<v Speaker 1>off the bote if you have to, because she's no

0:46:01.840 --> 0:46:07.359
<v Speaker 1>longer part of me. Sounds like a good time. Yeah,

0:46:07.400 --> 0:46:12.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm hosting. I'm representing my brand, the toilet paper with me.

0:46:12.560 --> 0:46:14.120
<v Speaker 1>When I first got with a guy, I'm like, you know,

0:46:14.520 --> 0:46:18.160
<v Speaker 1>once we're girlfriend, have to let you know that I'm

0:46:18.160 --> 0:46:21.440
<v Speaker 1>a little crazy. I'm gonna get your names had too.

0:46:21.719 --> 0:46:25.919
<v Speaker 1>I'm a little annoying. I'm gonna I'm annoying and bother

0:46:26.080 --> 0:46:30.359
<v Speaker 1>you a lot. So just prepare yourself. And they're fine

0:46:30.400 --> 0:46:31.840
<v Speaker 1>with it. And they was totally fine with it. They

0:46:31.920 --> 0:46:38.640
<v Speaker 1>love it. Yes to everything. Yeah, my last boyfriend, I'll

0:46:38.680 --> 0:46:40.160
<v Speaker 1>be like, oh, I see, I told you I was annoying.

0:46:40.239 --> 0:46:44.600
<v Speaker 1>He was like, baby, I love that you're annoying. Forward

0:46:44.680 --> 0:46:47.840
<v Speaker 1>to six months from now, let's see what happened. But no, seriously, no,

0:46:48.520 --> 0:46:51.120
<v Speaker 1>I would annoy him, but you know he loved me,

0:46:51.200 --> 0:46:54.239
<v Speaker 1>so it didn't matter. Never if you also did this

0:46:54.320 --> 0:46:57.000
<v Speaker 1>whole thing about social media and like how to represent

0:46:57.120 --> 0:47:00.960
<v Speaker 1>yourself on social media to yeah for day. Okay, have

0:47:01.280 --> 0:47:03.680
<v Speaker 1>you met a lot of women? I mean only women online?

0:47:03.800 --> 0:47:06.399
<v Speaker 1>Because here's the thing. I'm a very large man, six

0:47:06.480 --> 0:47:09.480
<v Speaker 1>almost six six. I'm a little terrifying in person, right,

0:47:09.880 --> 0:47:13.480
<v Speaker 1>so I don't do well in a social situation. I

0:47:13.520 --> 0:47:16.279
<v Speaker 1>would think that would make you stand at women. I'm

0:47:16.320 --> 0:47:21.640
<v Speaker 1>like Frankensteiny. I'm not like too tall and too big.

0:47:22.680 --> 0:47:26.120
<v Speaker 1>I think you're fine, just like I've had stories where people,

0:47:26.200 --> 0:47:28.800
<v Speaker 1>like one time I went into a men's bathroom and

0:47:28.920 --> 0:47:31.200
<v Speaker 1>a guy literally peetle over himself to cover up and

0:47:31.239 --> 0:47:33.359
<v Speaker 1>get the funk out of the room because he didn't

0:47:33.360 --> 0:47:36.000
<v Speaker 1>want to be near me. Okay, every time I'm walking

0:47:37.000 --> 0:47:39.600
<v Speaker 1>like a bar or restaurant, I hear I hear people going,

0:47:39.640 --> 0:47:41.600
<v Speaker 1>holy sh it, look at that dude. Because I'm almost

0:47:41.600 --> 0:47:43.840
<v Speaker 1>six six. I'm a big dude, you know, so I

0:47:44.000 --> 0:47:47.959
<v Speaker 1>know that I have this imposing figure I do better

0:47:48.080 --> 0:47:52.280
<v Speaker 1>meeting women online, and because of that, I've perfected ways

0:47:52.840 --> 0:47:55.800
<v Speaker 1>to meet chicks online. Now, you said mentioned and take selfies.

0:47:56.080 --> 0:48:00.320
<v Speaker 1>Absolutely absolutely not. I kind of agree with that they're

0:48:00.320 --> 0:48:03.080
<v Speaker 1>a little weird for men when it's cool when girls

0:48:03.160 --> 0:48:05.160
<v Speaker 1>do it, because we've been in here taking selfies all day.

0:48:05.320 --> 0:48:10.319
<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, yeah, but born for us. But when guys

0:48:10.360 --> 0:48:12.879
<v Speaker 1>say selfies, it's like weird. You know what's the worst.

0:48:12.920 --> 0:48:18.879
<v Speaker 1>When they take a picture in the mirror is better

0:48:18.960 --> 0:48:22.239
<v Speaker 1>than the like four camera facing. So I think the

0:48:22.320 --> 0:48:27.799
<v Speaker 1>worst male selfie is when male plus one front. If

0:48:27.840 --> 0:48:32.279
<v Speaker 1>you're not a selfie, selfie means self with someone else,

0:48:32.400 --> 0:48:36.600
<v Speaker 1>it's at very least it's a group. If it's two people,

0:48:36.760 --> 0:48:42.120
<v Speaker 1>two people is s it's a hussy. Right now, you

0:48:42.239 --> 0:48:44.960
<v Speaker 1>also said you shouldn't take pictures with women like just one.

0:48:45.400 --> 0:48:47.200
<v Speaker 1>My brother is very funny. I have a twin brother,

0:48:47.280 --> 0:48:51.080
<v Speaker 1>but we look nothing alike. He's five seven seven had

0:48:51.120 --> 0:48:54.040
<v Speaker 1>a crazy note, I said five. I was born New

0:48:54.080 --> 0:48:57.480
<v Speaker 1>Year's Eve. He was born four minutes later in January

0:48:57.520 --> 0:49:01.200
<v Speaker 1>one New Year's Day. Were twins, different days, different years,

0:49:01.400 --> 0:49:08.160
<v Speaker 1>different decades. We look nothing alike, but he always puts

0:49:08.239 --> 0:49:11.279
<v Speaker 1>up pictures with a girl, not like a group him

0:49:11.320 --> 0:49:14.400
<v Speaker 1>and a girl, different girls, And I think it definitely

0:49:14.480 --> 0:49:19.640
<v Speaker 1>affects his dating attractability. He's a play Absolutely it does,

0:49:19.719 --> 0:49:21.919
<v Speaker 1>because I um, when I'm dating a guy, I don't

0:49:21.920 --> 0:49:24.440
<v Speaker 1>want him in a picture with any girl, right. And

0:49:24.520 --> 0:49:26.640
<v Speaker 1>if I made a guy and I see that he's

0:49:26.640 --> 0:49:28.880
<v Speaker 1>in pictures with a lot of girls, it's automatic like

0:49:29.680 --> 0:49:32.120
<v Speaker 1>you lost at least a lot of any girl that

0:49:32.200 --> 0:49:35.080
<v Speaker 1>you're attracting when you have all those photos, it's probably

0:49:35.120 --> 0:49:38.040
<v Speaker 1>not a girl you want to date seriously, right, Like, Okay,

0:49:38.120 --> 0:49:40.520
<v Speaker 1>he gets with the ladies, And it's one thing. If

0:49:40.560 --> 0:49:41.920
<v Speaker 1>you're looking for a girl just to have fun with,

0:49:42.040 --> 0:49:43.759
<v Speaker 1>that's fun. But if you looking for a girl to

0:49:43.800 --> 0:49:45.880
<v Speaker 1>have to be serious with, and she sees you in

0:49:45.920 --> 0:49:48.680
<v Speaker 1>a photo with thirty girls, like a weekend with this

0:49:48.760 --> 0:49:51.080
<v Speaker 1>girl somewhere, a weekend with that girl somewhere. If you

0:49:51.280 --> 0:49:55.359
<v Speaker 1>are a girl that finds that attractive, then you're sus Now,

0:49:55.480 --> 0:49:58.200
<v Speaker 1>how do you meet women on? Like? What tips would

0:49:58.200 --> 0:50:00.279
<v Speaker 1>you give to these guys? My number one trip trick,

0:50:00.480 --> 0:50:02.560
<v Speaker 1>not say tip trick, whatever you wanna call it, And

0:50:02.680 --> 0:50:05.319
<v Speaker 1>it works so well. And I'm gonna say, I don't

0:50:05.320 --> 0:50:06.799
<v Speaker 1>know if you guys are single? Are you guys single?

0:50:07.200 --> 0:50:11.160
<v Speaker 1>Both single? Cold? So you use Tinder, right, and Tinder

0:50:11.400 --> 0:50:15.360
<v Speaker 1>is looked at as for creeps. If you're you're on Tinder,

0:50:16.600 --> 0:50:18.520
<v Speaker 1>people looking at you like, oh my god, what a creeper.

0:50:18.520 --> 0:50:21.040
<v Speaker 1>You're trying to suck me? Right, But that being said,

0:50:21.160 --> 0:50:23.880
<v Speaker 1>everyone's on Tinder at least once they signed in just

0:50:24.040 --> 0:50:26.080
<v Speaker 1>to check it out. Okay, so that's a given. I've

0:50:26.120 --> 0:50:28.719
<v Speaker 1>never been on Tinder. Give it three months, we'll see

0:50:28.760 --> 0:50:32.200
<v Speaker 1>what happens. Okay, I do have friends on Tinder, and

0:50:32.239 --> 0:50:34.359
<v Speaker 1>I'll go look just to see what's happening. So, oh

0:50:34.480 --> 0:50:38.520
<v Speaker 1>you do. I do have friends. My best friend is you.

0:50:38.840 --> 0:50:42.240
<v Speaker 1>So what happens is Tinder will show you your common

0:50:42.360 --> 0:50:45.800
<v Speaker 1>friends on Facebook. Right, So what you do is you

0:50:45.960 --> 0:50:48.080
<v Speaker 1>don't swipe right on them on Tinder, which means you

0:50:48.160 --> 0:50:51.000
<v Speaker 1>like them. You find them on Facebook. Now you know

0:50:51.080 --> 0:50:54.440
<v Speaker 1>they're single. You add them on Facebook. Don't swipe right

0:50:54.480 --> 0:50:58.120
<v Speaker 1>on Tinder, then you know they're single. And if they

0:50:58.200 --> 0:51:01.360
<v Speaker 1>add you, you're just you're in over you. You know

0:51:01.520 --> 0:51:04.080
<v Speaker 1>she's single, she's looking. She doesn't know you found her

0:51:04.120 --> 0:51:06.440
<v Speaker 1>on Tinder. You just say it on Facebook. So we

0:51:06.480 --> 0:51:08.480
<v Speaker 1>had some common friends. I thought i'd add you. Is

0:51:08.520 --> 0:51:11.320
<v Speaker 1>it intimidating like women who have too many followers? No,

0:51:11.400 --> 0:51:13.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't sure about that because some people are just

0:51:13.160 --> 0:51:15.560
<v Speaker 1>trying to make you know, instan famous nonsense. But I

0:51:15.600 --> 0:51:17.640
<v Speaker 1>would say that your likelihood of if you look at

0:51:17.680 --> 0:51:20.160
<v Speaker 1>a girl on Instagram, she has ten thousand followers, she's

0:51:20.160 --> 0:51:22.680
<v Speaker 1>probably adding you because she just wants more followers, right,

0:51:22.800 --> 0:51:26.320
<v Speaker 1>it doesn't want baby, But that trick has worked for

0:51:26.360 --> 0:51:29.000
<v Speaker 1>me so many times. And then also, if you don't

0:51:29.040 --> 0:51:32.160
<v Speaker 1>have a good face, if you don't add me on Facebook,

0:51:32.239 --> 0:51:34.200
<v Speaker 1>and then that's a little bit. You find me on tender,

0:51:34.480 --> 0:51:38.160
<v Speaker 1>don't add me, don't then we're creeps. Just just go

0:51:38.400 --> 0:51:40.800
<v Speaker 1>on Facebook and you think it's a real kind on

0:51:40.920 --> 0:51:43.360
<v Speaker 1>Facebook or Tender. So you're the wrong person asked. But

0:51:44.440 --> 0:51:48.399
<v Speaker 1>let's say I got a lot of favorite. Often girls

0:51:48.440 --> 0:51:51.160
<v Speaker 1>will put their Instagram account link to their tender, right,

0:51:51.520 --> 0:51:54.280
<v Speaker 1>So if you go to their Instagram, it's very common

0:51:54.400 --> 0:51:57.680
<v Speaker 1>that they will put their full name underneath your Tinder

0:51:57.880 --> 0:52:00.799
<v Speaker 1>their Instagram. So then you just look up that name

0:52:01.000 --> 0:52:04.880
<v Speaker 1>on Facebook and add that and it works so often

0:52:05.000 --> 0:52:07.680
<v Speaker 1>it's ridiculous. Wow, So listen too, So don't just go

0:52:07.840 --> 0:52:12.200
<v Speaker 1>straight on Tinder, you guys, get a Tinder. Do you

0:52:12.280 --> 0:52:17.440
<v Speaker 1>guys have tender? Has nothing? Okay? Do you not at Facebook?

0:52:17.560 --> 0:52:19.759
<v Speaker 1>Is this what's going on? I have it, I just

0:52:19.840 --> 0:52:25.399
<v Speaker 1>don't use it. I don't have a Facebook, no way,

0:52:25.800 --> 0:52:32.400
<v Speaker 1>Jesus looking great, God damn it. Well, listen, we had

0:52:32.400 --> 0:52:33.800
<v Speaker 1>a great time with you. I think I learned a

0:52:33.800 --> 0:52:38.719
<v Speaker 1>lot today to about honesty. Yes, yes, freshmen, I'm gonna

0:52:38.760 --> 0:52:40.759
<v Speaker 1>say this one thing. I'm holding all three of you

0:52:40.840 --> 0:52:44.880
<v Speaker 1>to this. If we don't go to a black Star

0:52:45.000 --> 0:52:46.600
<v Speaker 1>before the end of the year, we got to promise,

0:52:46.960 --> 0:52:49.279
<v Speaker 1>all right, we're going to I don't want everyone to come.

0:52:49.280 --> 0:52:51.040
<v Speaker 1>We should be taking you guys should come to Vady

0:52:51.080 --> 0:52:52.520
<v Speaker 1>Grand It might be a little bit too okay, she

0:52:52.719 --> 0:52:57.839
<v Speaker 1>works at the one fail. We'll go to sid City.

0:52:57.840 --> 0:52:59.640
<v Speaker 1>I think the one in the Bronxton City is the best.

0:52:59.680 --> 0:53:02.879
<v Speaker 1>You get a good meal, and you you could. I'm

0:53:02.960 --> 0:53:05.560
<v Speaker 1>sitting here with that place, right, So we're gonna go

0:53:05.600 --> 0:53:07.440
<v Speaker 1>to here as closely. Yeah, I'm out taking, but I'm

0:53:07.560 --> 0:53:12.680
<v Speaker 1>down to take a little film in the champagne room.

0:53:12.680 --> 0:53:15.120
<v Speaker 1>I'll go to filming. I can't probably set that up

0:53:15.120 --> 0:53:17.680
<v Speaker 1>for you. There you go. We're going to fall back

0:53:20.400 --> 0:53:22.600
<v Speaker 1>more than listen. If Luke got his things like in

0:53:22.600 --> 0:53:24.040
<v Speaker 1>the champagne room, then I'm sure you can get you.

0:53:24.520 --> 0:53:27.239
<v Speaker 1>Thank God, and ladies, and Penis is darker than the

0:53:27.320 --> 0:53:31.319
<v Speaker 1>rest of his body. I want to say a couple

0:53:31.360 --> 0:53:34.799
<v Speaker 1>of quick things. It's I am Ralph Sutton on social media,

0:53:34.840 --> 0:53:38.080
<v Speaker 1>which is Facebook, Instagram, everywhere else as I am Ralph

0:53:38.080 --> 0:53:41.200
<v Speaker 1>Sutton Twitter, okay, and also the str Show. Please listen

0:53:41.200 --> 0:53:44.600
<v Speaker 1>to the sr show dot com or my radio show,

0:53:44.600 --> 0:53:46.640
<v Speaker 1>the Tour Bus at the tour bus dot com. And

0:53:46.719 --> 0:53:48.319
<v Speaker 1>I want to say this, thank you girls so much

0:53:48.320 --> 0:53:51.080
<v Speaker 1>for having me. I feel like I learned a lie.

0:53:51.280 --> 0:53:53.839
<v Speaker 1>Thank you, one of the great ones. I'm trying get

0:53:53.920 --> 0:53:58.640
<v Speaker 1>all your pants later. No, no, no, we're going to

0:53:58.680 --> 0:54:01.759
<v Speaker 1>film that movie for sure. And then you canna say, hey,

0:54:01.800 --> 0:54:04.319
<v Speaker 1>I was hi. I don't know what I blacked out.

0:54:06.320 --> 0:54:10.920
<v Speaker 1>It's a vodka like rousa. And thank you, thank you,

0:54:11.040 --> 0:54:11.279
<v Speaker 1>thank you,