1 00:00:09,160 --> 00:00:11,360 Speaker 1: What's up is ANGI La he is lip Service and 2 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 1: the gang's all here. Hey. I'm Stephanie Santiago and I'm G. 3 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 1: G McGuire and we have a very special guest, Mr 4 00:00:16,800 --> 00:00:19,799 Speaker 1: Ralph Sentton was good. Thanks for having me. Ladies. Listen. 5 00:00:19,880 --> 00:00:22,439 Speaker 1: He has a radio voice, in case you haven't noticed, Yes, 6 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 1: I think I have a radio voice too. Set up, Stephanie, 7 00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:30,800 Speaker 1: we are, but before we get started, you know, let's 8 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 1: just plug everything that you have because you have your sex, 9 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 1: drugs and rock and roll. Yeah, the str show of 10 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 1: the sex drugs and rock and Rolls have to be 11 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:42,200 Speaker 1: confused with std. We were number one on iTunes comedy 12 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:45,040 Speaker 1: in March about two hundred thousand lists of a month 13 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:47,840 Speaker 1: right now. And I have a nationally syndicated rock radio 14 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:49,960 Speaker 1: show called The Tour of Us on about fifty stations, 15 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:53,280 Speaker 1: and I every month write a ridiculous article about dating 16 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:55,440 Speaker 1: in the modern world as a single old man. I've 17 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 1: read some of your articles, by the way, and by 18 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 1: the way, I'm gonna say me and that's something in common. 19 00:01:00,680 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 1: Because Appetite for Distraction is one of my favorite albums 20 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 1: from Guns and Roll. I do like rock music too. 21 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 1: I do two guns and rolls was one of my 22 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:11,959 Speaker 1: favorite Al Smith and bon Jovi, the stuff that's very 23 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 1: popular that we know. For me, I also am a 24 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:16,560 Speaker 1: big hip hop and R and we're going to rack 25 00:01:16,600 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 1: it up for you. You're all too young for this, 26 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:21,480 Speaker 1: but I was a breakdancer in the movie Crush Group. No, 27 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 1: you were, absolutely you were in Crushed Girl. That's hip hop. 28 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 1: I was only about hip hop tells about eighteen and then, 29 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 1: oh my god, I'm gonna go. I started getting laid, 30 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:35,040 Speaker 1: so I started growing my hair long, and I started 31 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 1: getting to rock and roll. So you think long here 32 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 1: in rock and roll helped you get lately hip hop 33 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 1: it wasn't really working all right now. One of the 34 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:49,240 Speaker 1: articles that I read that you wrote, you know what. No, 35 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 1: before we get into that, I want to talk about 36 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 1: something that gig actually texted me about gigs from Philly. 37 00:01:54,240 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 1: Oh my right. And there was a story today about 38 00:01:56,720 --> 00:02:00,320 Speaker 1: this guy from Philly. Apparently he used a boxer, he 39 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 1: was a little hard up for cash and then why 40 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:05,920 Speaker 1: he didn't Yeah, listen, listen. They said he got a 41 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 1: message on Facebook saying, hey, you know what, we want 42 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 1: you to come do a porn and we'll pay you. 43 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 1: And he was like, okay, you know, I'll do it. 44 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:14,640 Speaker 1: He came to New York from Philly, went to the Bronx, 45 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:17,760 Speaker 1: went to some address, and he says he took a 46 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:21,600 Speaker 1: pill and some vodka alright, and doesn't remember anything else. 47 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 1: And next thing you know, he's in a gay porn 48 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 1: with two other men, with two guys in his mouth 49 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 1: at the same damn time. Was the pill provided to 50 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 1: him when he got I guess they gave it him 51 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 1: that they gave him a pill. He said he did 52 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 1: an article with the Philadelphia Daily News. Now, mind you, guys, 53 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 1: this is a story that has been going around in Philly, 54 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 1: you know, for a good month or so, three months, 55 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:44,680 Speaker 1: three weeks to a month or so. Now, so he decides, 56 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 1: I guess that he wanted to tell his version of 57 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 1: the story. He goes to the movies out that he 58 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:55,640 Speaker 1: says that he um that he doesn't remember anything. He 59 00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 1: remembers waking up on on a train at thirty or 60 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 1: three station, and he sucked in his pocket. But I 61 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 1: don't at least they paid him. How don't you remember 62 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 1: your booty hole being right? Wasn't it sore? Wasn't it? Oh? No, 63 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:12,400 Speaker 1: Because he's used to he's a screenshot if you just 64 00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:14,520 Speaker 1: want to get an idea. Oh, that's my friend Tony. 65 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:20,080 Speaker 1: And you know he's one of those. Oh no, I'm 66 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:23,679 Speaker 1: a straight man, I've got ten kids, I'm cold, I'm 67 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 1: a boxer. I'm gonna beat you all up. Of y'all call. 68 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:28,800 Speaker 1: He's very but he's see in the middle in this videos. 69 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 1: He's the one giving hit. Yeah, but I mean he's 70 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 1: far too engaged to not be understanding what's happening. Listen, 71 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 1: that's what that's what I think is being penetrated from behind. 72 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 1: He says, come on, come on, that's all you got, 73 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 1: like he wants it. I've never said that to anybody. 74 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 1: Come on, come on. That's how guys are when they 75 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 1: get because that's how guys talk. Oh my god, that's 76 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 1: so funny. I mean, had he that's so saily news 77 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 1: with his side of story, it would have gotten forgot 78 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 1: about it. And when I have went viral, he went 79 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 1: to the daily news that end up front page on 80 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 1: a newspaper and down the whole world knows it was 81 00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 1: a philly thing. Comment. We would have we would have 82 00:04:12,680 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 1: not known about what And he tried to say that 83 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 1: he never seen the tape. He said it wasn't me. 84 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 1: I never he's first of all, you know, he said 85 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 1: when he went, when he agreed to do the porn, 86 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:23,119 Speaker 1: when he got there, it was naked women walking around 87 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:26,280 Speaker 1: going down. Give me a drink. And I don't believe 88 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 1: it either, and they give him the kill. So he's 89 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:31,279 Speaker 1: saying that they didn't tell him to give him to 90 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 1: do a gay porn. Maybe he got there and saw 91 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 1: women and thought that it was, you know, regular, and 92 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:41,240 Speaker 1: it was like a super famous boxer. Maybe I believe it, 93 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:44,919 Speaker 1: some half known boxer. I believe it, and I going 94 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 1: to go through such elaborate ruse just to get know 95 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 1: that is. They now they're digging up. Now they now 96 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:53,160 Speaker 1: they're doing they're investigating. Now everybody wants to dig into 97 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:59,720 Speaker 1: his own social media blame that the past book page 98 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 1: that he was messaged on all of a sudden he 99 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:03,840 Speaker 1: forgot that password, so he can't go back. And he's 100 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 1: really forgetting right, I was drug when I made my 101 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 1: Facebook and the way he was getting sucked in the eyes, 102 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 1: he would have been bleeding if it was the first time. Well, 103 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 1: so people started around with him and two other men 104 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:20,839 Speaker 1: that are not the same. Two men that was and 105 00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:22,840 Speaker 1: he was second dick like a pro. You can't do 106 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:31,480 Speaker 1: that same damn time. The first time I sucked. All 107 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:32,920 Speaker 1: of the memes just came out of New where it 108 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:35,400 Speaker 1: was so funny. It's like everything on social media was 109 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:37,840 Speaker 1: talking about this guy is so sad. I feel sorry. 110 00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:39,919 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I don't watch gay porn, but 111 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 1: I watched this porn. I watched some of it and 112 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:45,480 Speaker 1: it was kind of hot. So you would watch like, 113 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 1: you know what, somebody sent a game male porn. It's 114 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:50,160 Speaker 1: not you know, it was sexy. I'm not gonna lie 115 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 1: because I like, I'm into the look of these guys. 116 00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:57,599 Speaker 1: They were like athletic black guys, you know, but it 117 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:00,919 Speaker 1: was kind of sexy. Thing is the sucking deal? I 118 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:04,920 Speaker 1: think I think you're watching a guy suck two dicks 119 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 1: at once a turn on. It was kind I didn't 120 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:09,360 Speaker 1: think I would, but I was watching it and I 121 00:06:09,400 --> 00:06:11,400 Speaker 1: was like filling a tingle. I just watched it and 122 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:14,719 Speaker 1: felt the tingle. Just it is that him in the 123 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:18,279 Speaker 1: middle looked at it uncomfortably too long. I just want 124 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 1: to for the recond none of us if it had 125 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:29,040 Speaker 1: set two dicks at once, right, No okayly simultaneously. Now, well, 126 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 1: if I gotta ask you, have you ever blacked out? 127 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:36,360 Speaker 1: I haven't had sex with Yes, I've ever blacked out 128 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:40,600 Speaker 1: in my life once, and it was from what's that god, 129 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:42,159 Speaker 1: I forgetting the name of it now, the drink that 130 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:44,839 Speaker 1: is like illegal for years that you had to like 131 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:49,599 Speaker 1: pour sugar on absently about an absent at home. But 132 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 1: it was supposed to burn sugar over and that's also 133 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:54,599 Speaker 1: by way fallacy. You're not supposed to do the insist 134 00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: in the movies. But that was the only time I 135 00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:58,279 Speaker 1: ever blacked out in my life. And it was like 136 00:06:58,279 --> 00:07:00,719 Speaker 1: twenty years ago. I got my bottle from Slovakia and 137 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 1: I still have one. Was an original, like a remodel. 138 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:06,240 Speaker 1: And that's the only time I don't remember. I would 139 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:08,800 Speaker 1: say an hour of my evening, but an entire night 140 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 1: that's never happened. Yeah, my friend actually had absence one time. 141 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 1: As she said, she ended up making in the bar, 142 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:18,720 Speaker 1: dancing on the table. Oh my god. It's weird because 143 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:22,400 Speaker 1: it's actually real. Traditional absence is poison. I mean, there's 144 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 1: there's wormwood in it. And that's the one the reason 145 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 1: why Van Go cut his ear off, because it's screwed 146 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:30,120 Speaker 1: with his head. It's very right se during absence. So 147 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 1: so do you do people tell you like, oh, no, 148 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 1: I was home with a chick. We just wanted to 149 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 1: try it together and it was actually as a name 150 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 1: dropping idiot thing to say, but she used to date 151 00:07:38,880 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 1: Marilyn Manson, and Manson gave it to her. So we 152 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 1: decided to try it on New Year's Eve and that 153 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 1: was when I blacked out. Was it a good experience? 154 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 1: Like you would do it? Fine? I still I'll do 155 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:49,360 Speaker 1: absence and I it's like, I'm never going to do 156 00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:51,360 Speaker 1: absence again. But I said, I should have brought that 157 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:54,760 Speaker 1: battle tonight. If I would have known this story wants 158 00:07:56,160 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 1: nobody wants the blackout tonight. I don't want tomorrow. I 159 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 1: would you if you were in a gay point, would 160 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 1: you be in the middle or on the end? I 161 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 1: would say that logically, if I had to picket, I'm 162 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 1: going in, okay, because if you go in it is 163 00:08:16,240 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 1: not necessarily gay. Can you do gay porn and not 164 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 1: be gay? No? Remember, if you're getting guys, would just 165 00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 1: come out bisexual. He should just be like, I'm buying, 166 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:29,960 Speaker 1: so you're turning on, you're turned on If you're geting 167 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:31,520 Speaker 1: in direction. But he has ten kids and he said 168 00:08:31,520 --> 00:08:33,440 Speaker 1: he's about to get married to a woman. I have 169 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 1: a friend and this he's gonna kill me for. Here's this. 170 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:38,840 Speaker 1: He's a trainer. He's my actual crop Maga trainer. Right. 171 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:43,320 Speaker 1: His landlord is closet gay, married with three kids, but 172 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:46,760 Speaker 1: gave him three free apartments in the building. One he 173 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:49,520 Speaker 1: rents out to someone else, one he uses for a 174 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:51,839 Speaker 1: training studio, and one he keeps for himself. And he 175 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 1: pays three in a month. Friend, and he's getting all 176 00:08:54,280 --> 00:08:57,600 Speaker 1: three apartments because the owner is gay and just likes 177 00:08:57,640 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 1: having him in his building. And it's closet gay. He 178 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:01,840 Speaker 1: just looking at this really good looking dude. You know 179 00:09:01,920 --> 00:09:11,040 Speaker 1: your friend is Yeah, your friend is definitely why that's 180 00:09:11,080 --> 00:09:15,160 Speaker 1: okay if you're getting three apartment for three apartment, I 181 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:17,360 Speaker 1: think most people were in New York right, because it 182 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 1: is really high and he's getting income from it. Your 183 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 1: friend is not just getting that to be looked at. 184 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:23,560 Speaker 1: I just want to let you know that he's definitely 185 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 1: like buzzing a wide open that's fine to the white meet, 186 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 1: but the owner of the guy is married with three kids. 187 00:09:31,880 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 1: It's just money, so it is all right, Now, let's 188 00:09:35,160 --> 00:09:37,120 Speaker 1: talk a little bit about your history because I know 189 00:09:37,160 --> 00:09:39,840 Speaker 1: you used to be a ship club DJ. Ten years 190 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:41,200 Speaker 1: you were a strip club d J. And you did 191 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:45,400 Speaker 1: an article about, you know, dating a pole princess. Yes, yes, 192 00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:47,559 Speaker 1: and GJ and I were talking about it because DZ 193 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:49,840 Speaker 1: worked in the stip club as well. She probably hated 194 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:51,560 Speaker 1: it if she reread the article. Well, she didn't agree 195 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:53,560 Speaker 1: with something because the one thing that you said on 196 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 1: there was not to spend any money because then people 197 00:09:56,080 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 1: will look at you. So you were like, don't spending 198 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:02,320 Speaker 1: money because then she's gonna always look at you with 199 00:10:02,440 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 1: dollar signs. Absolutely, and she's going to disagree because she 200 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:08,199 Speaker 1: wants to make money as a dancer. Well, truth is it, 201 00:10:08,360 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 1: once you spend money, you are a customer and that's 202 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:13,360 Speaker 1: the end of it. There's no other way, there's no 203 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:16,760 Speaker 1: other logical statement. If you're spending money, you become a customer. 204 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:22,080 Speaker 1: What I did not know prior to meeting you was 205 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 1: that you were Caucasian and that you worked in the 206 00:10:24,520 --> 00:10:28,160 Speaker 1: Caucasian strip clubs. So it's different rules difference. Yes, there's 207 00:10:28,160 --> 00:10:30,640 Speaker 1: a whole different world. So I agree with the white 208 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:33,040 Speaker 1: girls because they're always going to be like, he's he's 209 00:10:33,040 --> 00:10:35,800 Speaker 1: my customer, he's my regular, you know, even if they 210 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 1: fake fall in love with you at the end of 211 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:40,680 Speaker 1: the day, So they're regular. Absolutely. Now in the black club, 212 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:42,959 Speaker 1: it's a whole different story, right, you gotta break a 213 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:45,559 Speaker 1: bit off not to get you ain't so if you 214 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:48,120 Speaker 1: ain't making the rain and and making sure she got 215 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:50,559 Speaker 1: deposits and ray bottoms, and guess what do they making rain? 216 00:10:50,600 --> 00:10:59,000 Speaker 1: And white ship clubs no make work. I would feel 217 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:01,560 Speaker 1: disrespected if somebody through money at me, like, yeah, in 218 00:11:01,559 --> 00:11:03,719 Speaker 1: a stroke club, what are they for sure? And they 219 00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 1: passed un bills and you go to champagne room. I 220 00:11:08,559 --> 00:11:11,240 Speaker 1: know that. Yeah, it happens, but not as much. Yea 221 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:13,280 Speaker 1: once in a while, and they don't call it makers. 222 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:18,280 Speaker 1: They call it a shower shower way nice. It's not 223 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:24,560 Speaker 1: going to take a bubble bath. Yeah, all right, So white, 224 00:11:25,040 --> 00:11:27,160 Speaker 1: what's another difference between a white strip club and a 225 00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:34,559 Speaker 1: black strip club. We're gonna take it away. The music 226 00:11:34,679 --> 00:11:36,720 Speaker 1: is like number one. The black strip club is more 227 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:39,240 Speaker 1: of a regular club with naked girls. And exactly like 228 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:44,320 Speaker 1: they have club, they have sushi, they have five stars 229 00:11:44,320 --> 00:11:49,000 Speaker 1: steak meals. Yeah, they have five star Bronx like since 230 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 1: that he has a really good stak level. There's the 231 00:11:52,360 --> 00:11:55,319 Speaker 1: truck stop one, but there are ones that which is hilarious. 232 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:58,080 Speaker 1: There are in like the Midwestern stuff that are strip 233 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:00,280 Speaker 1: clubs like behind a gas station, which yeah, the truck 234 00:12:00,320 --> 00:12:03,600 Speaker 1: stop one. Those are really hilarious. But there's there's something 235 00:12:03,640 --> 00:12:09,800 Speaker 1: that are connected to motels. In New Jersey. There's go Go, 236 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 1: so there's no strip clubs. They don't take the clothes. 237 00:12:12,760 --> 00:12:15,679 Speaker 1: Then there's either go go or completely and then and 238 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:19,560 Speaker 1: they can't if you can bring your own bottle, if 239 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:21,120 Speaker 1: the girls can get naked, but if the girls can 240 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:26,360 Speaker 1: get naked, then make your own bottles. Listen. The club 241 00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:28,839 Speaker 1: that I worked at the most of the time, when 242 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:31,319 Speaker 1: I was in the white Strip Clubs with cheerleaders, which 243 00:12:31,400 --> 00:12:34,360 Speaker 1: is actually on the same owner's own Vandy Grant, but 244 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:36,920 Speaker 1: that was when I worked there. It was a bikini bar, 245 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:39,360 Speaker 1: so we were not allowed to take our clothes off, 246 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:42,199 Speaker 1: but we were allowed to. I could see g working 247 00:12:42,400 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 1: easily on the white strip clubs, right, for sure, that's 248 00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:50,040 Speaker 1: for sure. There was more money in Magic City because 249 00:12:50,080 --> 00:12:51,840 Speaker 1: it was Magic City, right, because it was a really 250 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:55,560 Speaker 1: popular number one. Now, what about as far as tricks, 251 00:12:55,720 --> 00:12:58,280 Speaker 1: like do the white strippers do in the white strip clubs? 252 00:12:58,320 --> 00:13:00,360 Speaker 1: Do they do like the gez had her? That was 253 00:13:00,400 --> 00:13:06,640 Speaker 1: another difference for me and the Yeah, yeah, I like 254 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:09,960 Speaker 1: your working way too. You're working way. It's too hard 255 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 1: for sure, But like and another thing, um and the 256 00:13:13,960 --> 00:13:15,839 Speaker 1: clubs that I worked and they don't weren't allowed to 257 00:13:15,920 --> 00:13:19,920 Speaker 1: do floor work. We weren't. We could only wear like 258 00:13:19,960 --> 00:13:22,240 Speaker 1: we have to wear some bullshit. This is why all 259 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:24,200 Speaker 1: the white stripper is gonna get big tips because they 260 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:27,480 Speaker 1: just shake their booth. Yeah, you just be there like easy, 261 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 1: just like a little intro. We'd always the first thing 262 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 1: I would tell a girl when they got there. First 263 00:13:32,000 --> 00:13:36,600 Speaker 1: things no flooror no floor work at a floor? Who, well, 264 00:13:36,640 --> 00:13:38,840 Speaker 1: what's the point of that? Why not floor work? Yeah? 265 00:13:38,960 --> 00:13:40,319 Speaker 1: I don't know who came up with that rule, but 266 00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:43,200 Speaker 1: I was cool with it. That's trashy, it's trashy. Yeah, 267 00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:46,599 Speaker 1: your back and ship. I was in a club, was 268 00:13:46,640 --> 00:13:48,640 Speaker 1: working in a club in Jersey and the girl went 269 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:51,400 Speaker 1: up on the pole and flipped upside down, right, that's 270 00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:55,360 Speaker 1: InCred actually did it. Her wig fell off and her 271 00:13:55,640 --> 00:13:59,040 Speaker 1: bikini bottom fell off the bar. All of a sudden, 272 00:13:59,040 --> 00:14:04,680 Speaker 1: she was fired you're fired. She wasn't she got tipped. 273 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:09,079 Speaker 1: I think that's crazy because when I go to the 274 00:14:09,120 --> 00:14:11,280 Speaker 1: shipcome like if y'awlling on, do no po work and 275 00:14:11,360 --> 00:14:13,280 Speaker 1: be lazy and all of that. I can't even It's 276 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:15,679 Speaker 1: a different world because it's all about going into the 277 00:14:15,760 --> 00:14:20,280 Speaker 1: champagne room being thousands of dollars. Yeah, exactly. Again, we're 278 00:14:20,320 --> 00:14:24,680 Speaker 1: like planting around in gowns, like just as a very 279 00:14:24,720 --> 00:14:27,000 Speaker 1: simple thing you tell a girl when you're on stage, 280 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:29,840 Speaker 1: it's advertising, that's it. Well, they're gonna say, hey, look 281 00:14:29,880 --> 00:14:31,640 Speaker 1: at me, go take me. If we're gonna take you 282 00:14:31,640 --> 00:14:33,760 Speaker 1: to againt some lemon pepper wings, we're gonna take you 283 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:42,000 Speaker 1: to these white girls getting like fake butts now too. 284 00:14:42,080 --> 00:14:43,600 Speaker 1: And you know, I have not been in a strip 285 00:14:43,640 --> 00:14:45,440 Speaker 1: covered a long time, but I do hear that that's 286 00:14:45,520 --> 00:14:49,880 Speaker 1: very common. Now, Okay, now there's another thing I wanted 287 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 1: to talk about. We were looking at You're not gonna 288 00:14:52,720 --> 00:14:55,520 Speaker 1: know who she is Black China, right, and she's the 289 00:14:55,560 --> 00:14:58,240 Speaker 1: one that has a baby with Tiger and tigers dating 290 00:14:58,280 --> 00:15:00,920 Speaker 1: Kylie Jenner. But now she's dating future and that future 291 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:03,520 Speaker 1: is she's for sure's eating him right, Well, she got 292 00:15:03,560 --> 00:15:06,120 Speaker 1: his name tattooed on her hand. She had like but 293 00:15:06,240 --> 00:15:11,160 Speaker 1: maybe she was thinking like future. They were together, he 294 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:14,120 Speaker 1: got a tattoo, she was with her, she got and 295 00:15:14,240 --> 00:15:16,080 Speaker 1: she got the tattoo. And they've been seen in a 296 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:18,680 Speaker 1: couple of different cities, a couple of different part and everything. 297 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:21,240 Speaker 1: They've been seen together, like together. And he put on 298 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 1: Twitter earlier today, I'm single. Oh, you know, I don't 299 00:15:24,640 --> 00:15:27,560 Speaker 1: mean these. I don't pay attention to the gossip. I'm single. 300 00:15:27,680 --> 00:15:29,920 Speaker 1: I don't like rumors. Yeah, I don't like y'all know, 301 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:32,680 Speaker 1: he said, y'all know, I don't like rumors. Right now, 302 00:15:32,840 --> 00:15:35,600 Speaker 1: let's talk about tattoos, because they say that's kind of 303 00:15:35,720 --> 00:15:38,560 Speaker 1: like the it's a jinx when you get somebody it is. 304 00:15:38,640 --> 00:15:41,240 Speaker 1: I agree with that tattoo. Do you have anybody's name? Tattoos? 305 00:15:41,360 --> 00:15:45,120 Speaker 1: Have three? Oh my god, I have three of the same. 306 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:51,760 Speaker 1: Stop after Stephanie holds on one second. Stephanie, first, you 307 00:15:52,400 --> 00:15:55,440 Speaker 1: already know we're gonna get to and half a second. 308 00:15:55,640 --> 00:15:59,800 Speaker 1: I got my son's father's name. Um um, it's covered. 309 00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 1: Is on the back of my neck. I have my 310 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:05,440 Speaker 1: ex boyfriend on my finger, and then I had my 311 00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:10,440 Speaker 1: other ex boyfriend on my ribs. Let me see this one. Yeah, 312 00:16:10,640 --> 00:16:14,200 Speaker 1: they're they're not all visible. The one probably the least visible. 313 00:16:14,280 --> 00:16:16,840 Speaker 1: This one is ask your question, My gosh, how long 314 00:16:16,920 --> 00:16:19,080 Speaker 1: were you dating before you said, okay, I'm gonna do this. Okay, 315 00:16:19,120 --> 00:16:21,080 Speaker 1: this one, I was with him. I was with him 316 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:23,280 Speaker 1: for like a year. I was within him for like 317 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:26,480 Speaker 1: a year. I was adea no before I did. We 318 00:16:26,560 --> 00:16:31,840 Speaker 1: were probably dating like ten months. The Ribs one, I 319 00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:34,000 Speaker 1: know him since I was a kid. I know him 320 00:16:34,040 --> 00:16:37,480 Speaker 1: since I was like, you know, we were dating? We 321 00:16:37,560 --> 00:16:40,320 Speaker 1: were Yeah, we were dating for like a year. Any minute? 322 00:16:40,360 --> 00:16:42,200 Speaker 1: Does that mean that my name is tattooed on your ribs? 323 00:16:42,320 --> 00:16:47,560 Speaker 1: Your name is Ralph? Yeah? Yes, I got his first 324 00:16:47,640 --> 00:16:50,080 Speaker 1: that last name. I got his first and last name. 325 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:53,400 Speaker 1: You guys hooked up and my son's father, you already 326 00:16:53,400 --> 00:16:56,160 Speaker 1: have his name also my son's father for eight years, 327 00:16:56,280 --> 00:16:58,200 Speaker 1: and I actually got after we broke off. If we 328 00:16:58,600 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 1: only date guys named Ralph, forget now. I'm covering this 329 00:17:01,880 --> 00:17:04,480 Speaker 1: stupid outside swammering ribs up. I already made the appointment. 330 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:06,800 Speaker 1: I'm covering it up in a covering it up. He's 331 00:17:06,800 --> 00:17:08,680 Speaker 1: in jail right now. By the way, he's in jail. 332 00:17:14,320 --> 00:17:15,920 Speaker 1: She's like no, no, no, please don't come home again. 333 00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:20,920 Speaker 1: I'm sure he's not. Let's talk about your tattoos. You 334 00:17:21,080 --> 00:17:23,600 Speaker 1: covered some up though I covered too. There's still one left. 335 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:26,240 Speaker 1: You have three, yes, so she covered two, but they're 336 00:17:26,240 --> 00:17:29,359 Speaker 1: all of the same person, the same dude. Yeah, it 337 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:31,239 Speaker 1: was bad. I don't think the first one I got 338 00:17:31,280 --> 00:17:34,600 Speaker 1: after eight months, it was to prove my loyalty. He 339 00:17:34,720 --> 00:17:37,679 Speaker 1: made you do it. That's the one of my fingers. 340 00:17:37,880 --> 00:17:39,880 Speaker 1: It's just the guy's idea. I want you to tattoo 341 00:17:39,920 --> 00:17:42,639 Speaker 1: yourself to show up. No, it was my way of 342 00:17:42,720 --> 00:17:44,760 Speaker 1: moving to him that I was here to stay. I 343 00:17:44,840 --> 00:17:46,920 Speaker 1: got that one of my wrists, and then after I 344 00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:49,560 Speaker 1: got it, I saw a different design and I'm like, funk, 345 00:17:49,640 --> 00:17:51,560 Speaker 1: I should have got that. So for his birthday that 346 00:17:51,720 --> 00:17:53,320 Speaker 1: same year, I surprised him with that. That one was 347 00:17:53,359 --> 00:17:56,520 Speaker 1: also on my ris. But and then I was getting 348 00:17:56,560 --> 00:17:58,719 Speaker 1: something tattoos because I just have a million of them, 349 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:01,280 Speaker 1: And he mentioned, and you're always getting some fucking in 350 00:18:01,400 --> 00:18:02,680 Speaker 1: you need to get my name again. You're like, I 351 00:18:02,760 --> 00:18:04,720 Speaker 1: have it twice. So I'm like, yeah, I have it twice, 352 00:18:04,720 --> 00:18:06,160 Speaker 1: why would I get it again? And he's like, we'll 353 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:09,200 Speaker 1: get something. So I got his initials on the back 354 00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:11,959 Speaker 1: of my neck. So when we broke up, I covered 355 00:18:12,240 --> 00:18:13,919 Speaker 1: the one on my wrists with the picture of myself, 356 00:18:14,040 --> 00:18:16,399 Speaker 1: a portrait of me as a geisha. And then I 357 00:18:16,520 --> 00:18:18,280 Speaker 1: covered the second one of my red with the black 358 00:18:18,359 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 1: rose for his doll love. And then the one on 359 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:22,320 Speaker 1: the back of my neck. I never covered it because 360 00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:23,640 Speaker 1: I don't have to look at it, and nobody sees 361 00:18:23,680 --> 00:18:25,280 Speaker 1: it because my hair is long, so I don't care. 362 00:18:25,359 --> 00:18:28,600 Speaker 1: Now covered, now you're back together, But then we're back together, right, 363 00:18:30,040 --> 00:18:32,480 Speaker 1: So now, what would you get another one? Once I've 364 00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:36,239 Speaker 1: become mrs once y'all get married. Yeah, that's what I'm 365 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:38,119 Speaker 1: going to get. If I get his name is then 366 00:18:38,160 --> 00:18:39,840 Speaker 1: it's going to have Mrs in front of it. I 367 00:18:39,920 --> 00:18:41,960 Speaker 1: mean the one on my son's father. I did it 368 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:44,480 Speaker 1: for um my son's father and we were together for 369 00:18:44,520 --> 00:18:47,040 Speaker 1: almost eight years. You have your son's name tattooed on you? No, 370 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:51,520 Speaker 1: I have his birthday tato. Yeah. No, that the first 371 00:18:51,560 --> 00:18:56,000 Speaker 1: time I got. No, the first time I got yeah, 372 00:18:56,160 --> 00:18:59,360 Speaker 1: just for the record, No, the first time I got 373 00:18:59,560 --> 00:19:02,280 Speaker 1: um my one of my boyfriend's tattooed on me at 374 00:19:02,320 --> 00:19:04,960 Speaker 1: the same time I did my son. Okay, because I 375 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:07,200 Speaker 1: just feel like, if if I'm going to do that 376 00:19:07,359 --> 00:19:09,159 Speaker 1: for a guy, I should do it. You get your 377 00:19:09,480 --> 00:19:12,520 Speaker 1: father covered up. I got up, he's covered up. Yeah, 378 00:19:12,720 --> 00:19:14,680 Speaker 1: I got covered. Now I don't have no tattoos. I'm 379 00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:18,040 Speaker 1: getting the one on my finger removed and I'm covering. 380 00:19:18,080 --> 00:19:20,200 Speaker 1: I'm covering up this one in like a week. I'm 381 00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:22,800 Speaker 1: just waiting for those tattoo artists. Never as a man, 382 00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:25,399 Speaker 1: if you're dating a woman and she has her exit 383 00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:28,360 Speaker 1: name tattooed on her, I think I'm gonna she's You're 384 00:19:28,359 --> 00:19:30,000 Speaker 1: both gonna hate me for saying this, but I'm gonna 385 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:32,399 Speaker 1: be honest. I think the girl's an idiot when they 386 00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:34,560 Speaker 1: get a tattoo, and I think so too. I don't 387 00:19:34,560 --> 00:19:38,960 Speaker 1: hate to say that. That's the true. Yeah, I don't hate. Yeah, 388 00:19:39,000 --> 00:19:42,200 Speaker 1: I don't tell you the first two. The first two 389 00:19:42,240 --> 00:19:45,720 Speaker 1: I got, I surprised the guys. The last one he 390 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:48,879 Speaker 1: knew I was getting. I told him. I was like, 391 00:19:48,920 --> 00:19:54,240 Speaker 1: I'm getting a tattoo. If you left her and she's crazy, 392 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:56,359 Speaker 1: it's not They should know me good enough to know 393 00:19:56,560 --> 00:19:59,800 Speaker 1: that I would not want that, but you know what 394 00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:03,639 Speaker 1: you would look at that? It's like it was his 395 00:20:03,800 --> 00:20:09,360 Speaker 1: BBM icon for a long his BlackBerry messenger. Remember, yes, 396 00:20:09,560 --> 00:20:11,639 Speaker 1: I remember, I'm gonna go down. This is just a 397 00:20:11,720 --> 00:20:14,800 Speaker 1: black white thing that I don't probably probably know why 398 00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:17,639 Speaker 1: that all the time, like whenever they do, it's just 399 00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:19,600 Speaker 1: I just look at it. It's it's a negative thing 400 00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:22,919 Speaker 1: unless it if it's your son's name, something that's never 401 00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:25,960 Speaker 1: going to change. I understand that you are married, like 402 00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:32,520 Speaker 1: how you know, maybe ten year anniversary. Fine, I just 403 00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:34,840 Speaker 1: don't understand it. It's just like I was listening to 404 00:20:34,960 --> 00:20:38,800 Speaker 1: your episode with me Isabel okay and you guys talking 405 00:20:38,840 --> 00:20:42,560 Speaker 1: about how it's just accepted to be a side piece, 406 00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:46,040 Speaker 1: the term. I don't understand that said, you've never been 407 00:20:46,040 --> 00:20:51,879 Speaker 1: a sece, being an open relationship where whatever happens happens, 408 00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:55,119 Speaker 1: or you're committed one or the other don't interest except 409 00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:56,639 Speaker 1: oh my man's cheating once in a while. But you 410 00:20:56,720 --> 00:20:58,680 Speaker 1: know what it is ro for you guys, is that 411 00:20:59,640 --> 00:21:02,400 Speaker 1: man guys want everybody to be loyal to them while 412 00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:04,800 Speaker 1: they go out and break But if you but they 413 00:21:04,880 --> 00:21:06,159 Speaker 1: try to do stuff and you don't know and then 414 00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:09,280 Speaker 1: you find out, but you see the you never seen it. 415 00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:12,800 Speaker 1: I've cheated once twenty years ago. Now in my life. 416 00:21:12,880 --> 00:21:14,680 Speaker 1: If i'm not happy, I break up with the girl. 417 00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:17,720 Speaker 1: End of story. If you're not happy, why are you 418 00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:20,439 Speaker 1: only doing It's very selfish. You're doing it for yourself. 419 00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:22,480 Speaker 1: If you're cheating on a girl, if you're not happy, 420 00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:24,760 Speaker 1: you either discuss it or you break up the end 421 00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:27,119 Speaker 1: of story. Because some people say, oh, men cheat, No, 422 00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:29,639 Speaker 1: I don't believe that. I don't believe that either. How 423 00:21:29,680 --> 00:21:32,000 Speaker 1: many of me are thinking about cheating. I'm either going 424 00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:34,280 Speaker 1: to have a conversation, break up with the girl, or 425 00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:36,119 Speaker 1: tell the girl we gotta start doing threesomes. One of 426 00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:39,320 Speaker 1: those three percent it was nice. A good one percent 427 00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:41,159 Speaker 1: is wise. How many men you think cheat? I think 428 00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:43,240 Speaker 1: it's probably the same for men and women you think, 429 00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:45,760 Speaker 1: I think more men cheat than women. Men cheat when 430 00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:47,480 Speaker 1: they think they can get away with it. Women cheat 431 00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:50,119 Speaker 1: when they're missing something from the relationship. That's the end 432 00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:51,720 Speaker 1: of it. But I think that it's harder for women 433 00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:55,040 Speaker 1: to cheat when they have kids. Like No, I think 434 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:57,239 Speaker 1: for women it's harder because I have friends that used 435 00:21:57,240 --> 00:21:59,280 Speaker 1: to cheat so much and then once they had a baby, 436 00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:01,720 Speaker 1: like when they're not when they're not at work, I'm 437 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:03,359 Speaker 1: with my kids. I don't even have What does that 438 00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:05,360 Speaker 1: say about the person be If you meet a guy 439 00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:08,480 Speaker 1: and he already has someone else, right, and he's cheating 440 00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:10,479 Speaker 1: on that girl with you, and then you start dating them, 441 00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:13,800 Speaker 1: it's just gonna happen again. How you keep him? And 442 00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:16,080 Speaker 1: I don't understand any of that. Just to me, it 443 00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:18,120 Speaker 1: makes no sense. So what about it? Do you want 444 00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:19,480 Speaker 1: to be in a monogo? I want to be. I 445 00:22:19,560 --> 00:22:21,680 Speaker 1: definitely would love to be married and have kids. But 446 00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:23,639 Speaker 1: until that happens, I'm not going to stay home and 447 00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:27,360 Speaker 1: twitter my thumbs. So you haven't gotten anybody pregnant every never? Well, actually, 448 00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:30,520 Speaker 1: when I was a kid, like kids, I was dating 449 00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:33,720 Speaker 1: for about three years while she while I was wearing 450 00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:35,560 Speaker 1: a condom, got pregnant. It may not have been mine 451 00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:37,119 Speaker 1: for all I know. Yeah, if you had on a 452 00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:41,399 Speaker 1: condom and it didn't condoms break, I have six break. Okay, 453 00:22:43,280 --> 00:22:45,119 Speaker 1: I would say that we got an abortion. That was 454 00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:48,160 Speaker 1: the only time it ever happened, and I still was mine. 455 00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:50,359 Speaker 1: But whatever, I was dating here at times, so I 456 00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:53,639 Speaker 1: took the ownage that probably mine and got her. But 457 00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:55,440 Speaker 1: since then, I have not a sex without a condom 458 00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:57,760 Speaker 1: in twenty years. You haven't had six without a condom, 459 00:22:57,840 --> 00:23:07,000 Speaker 1: And amen to you. And when I have threesomes, it's 460 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:09,680 Speaker 1: the gentlemanly thing to do. Respect, but what a gentleman. 461 00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:11,840 Speaker 1: And it's funny because afterwards you just see like it 462 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:16,000 Speaker 1: looks like a condom store vomited on my floor everywhere. 463 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:18,959 Speaker 1: So you can bust and then go again, and then 464 00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:21,720 Speaker 1: bust again and then do it easily twice in an hour. 465 00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:24,239 Speaker 1: But I would usually I wouldn't come right away. If 466 00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:25,800 Speaker 1: I'm with two women, I'm gonna make it last as 467 00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:28,440 Speaker 1: long as possible. Okay, all right, So is it for 468 00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:32,040 Speaker 1: you girls right now? So is it like a real 469 00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:34,120 Speaker 1: compliment to a woman if you don't last long, because 470 00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:35,920 Speaker 1: some people say if I don't last long, that's a 471 00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:38,679 Speaker 1: compliment to you. No, I think that's a cop out 472 00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:41,520 Speaker 1: for guys that come too quickly. Yeah, I think so. 473 00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:44,080 Speaker 1: But you never had that happened when you chat happen on. 474 00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:46,119 Speaker 1: My favorite story ever was back when I was deting 475 00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:49,000 Speaker 1: in a strip club. There was this gorgeous Brazilian girl 476 00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:52,439 Speaker 1: that I was like infatuated with, five eleven long hair, 477 00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:56,959 Speaker 1: just gorgeous, And we go into uh, my car at 478 00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:58,560 Speaker 1: the end of the ship, go into my car and 479 00:23:58,640 --> 00:24:00,800 Speaker 1: we start filling around and I so turned on my 480 00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:03,440 Speaker 1: hair and before this is so embarrassing, but whoever, who 481 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:07,040 Speaker 1: gives a ship? I came before anything happened. I came, 482 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:14,080 Speaker 1: you didn't even had I acted like I got morals. 483 00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:16,119 Speaker 1: I said, you know what, we're going to do this. 484 00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:18,400 Speaker 1: I wanted to take time, let's go out to dinner. 485 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:20,600 Speaker 1: I know you were so mad at your dick, but 486 00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:22,159 Speaker 1: I pulled it off and then we ended up going 487 00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:23,960 Speaker 1: on a date. And you know then she never knew, 488 00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:26,800 Speaker 1: and your pants were all she couldn't see. It was 489 00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:28,320 Speaker 1: like late at night. It just happened. It's just something 490 00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:30,720 Speaker 1: that happened that is so crazy that you busted off 491 00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:33,920 Speaker 1: before falling around. I licked someone's penis and he came. 492 00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:36,720 Speaker 1: That's awesome, that's great. I'm not gonna lie. When I 493 00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:38,399 Speaker 1: was younger, I did. I was making out with a 494 00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:40,040 Speaker 1: guy and he came before we we didn't even have 495 00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:41,960 Speaker 1: sex or anything. And not only did he come, but 496 00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:45,120 Speaker 1: it hit him in the chin. That's great. I pulled around. 497 00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:50,520 Speaker 1: He did. I was going to go down while I 498 00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:52,359 Speaker 1: was pulling a girl's pants down. She came before I 499 00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:58,560 Speaker 1: even got Oh, yeah, it was in fiction. Do you 500 00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:00,320 Speaker 1: have you ever had it? We were like going at it, 501 00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:02,520 Speaker 1: and I was ready to, you know, and I grabbed 502 00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:04,240 Speaker 1: it and I like, sometimes I like to go from 503 00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:05,760 Speaker 1: the and work my way up and then go back 504 00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:08,040 Speaker 1: down too much anticipation. And then I went and I 505 00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:13,240 Speaker 1: got and then I up and he was like, I've 506 00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:18,080 Speaker 1: ruined it. Party over, everybody go home. Grand open and 507 00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:21,840 Speaker 1: grand could say, look, give me ten minutes, I'll be 508 00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:24,720 Speaker 1: good to go against. We we we rolled over with 509 00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:26,640 Speaker 1: the sleep and we never tried to have sex again. 510 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:29,040 Speaker 1: I know. He was like, I just give me one 511 00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:32,240 Speaker 1: moek now. I don't know if you guys saw this booked. 512 00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:35,240 Speaker 1: They did, like an unauthorized biography about Rita Aura, and 513 00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:37,840 Speaker 1: she talked about when she was fourteen years old she 514 00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:40,159 Speaker 1: had sex for the first time with the guy who 515 00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:44,320 Speaker 1: was twenty six, and she was like, listen, I don't 516 00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:46,600 Speaker 1: feel like anything was wrong with that. I don't feel 517 00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:48,800 Speaker 1: like anything. I wanted it, you know, I felt sexy 518 00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:52,560 Speaker 1: about it, no issue, no problem. I've been in Yeah, 519 00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:55,800 Speaker 1: I lost my virginity around the same age. I think fourteen, 520 00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:59,840 Speaker 1: fifteen years old and my boyfriend was like, I think 521 00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:03,080 Speaker 1: I was fifteen and he was three. But I know, 522 00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:06,520 Speaker 1: I mean now today we were the same age. I 523 00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:08,960 Speaker 1: didn't lose my virginity to someone that old, but I 524 00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:12,560 Speaker 1: was having a sexual I lost my virginity when I 525 00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:14,359 Speaker 1: was that young. I was fifteen or sixteen, and he 526 00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:19,240 Speaker 1: was the same age and normal. But honestly, today, you know, 527 00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:22,639 Speaker 1: as a mother and an adult, I don't think that's okay. 528 00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:24,639 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think. I don't think a fourteen 529 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:28,520 Speaker 1: year old girl should be having such I think not okay. 530 00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:31,760 Speaker 1: And you know, back then, had my parents or somebody 531 00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:33,800 Speaker 1: found out, they could have pressure you and all of that. 532 00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:35,560 Speaker 1: But how about this, the flips out of that coin 533 00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:39,960 Speaker 1: is he and no pun intended and stilled a lot 534 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:45,240 Speaker 1: in me, still a lot of me, be a lot 535 00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:48,320 Speaker 1: about being a woman and being that it's not right. 536 00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:54,240 Speaker 1: It's all He's slightly responsible for making me into the 537 00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:56,639 Speaker 1: woman I am today. As bad as that situation was, 538 00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:58,679 Speaker 1: if it wasn't for the relationship that me and him 539 00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:00,000 Speaker 1: had and the things that he taught me and told 540 00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:02,520 Speaker 1: me as a young woman, I wouldn't be the same thing. 541 00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:04,520 Speaker 1: So this is a guy that was like, Okay, guy's 542 00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:06,720 Speaker 1: got to spend money, he's got to do this, He's 543 00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:09,080 Speaker 1: got to take care of you. Don't never let to 544 00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:14,159 Speaker 1: play you. You're worth so much more than I mean. 545 00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:16,440 Speaker 1: I just think that's so weird. It was very weird. 546 00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:22,840 Speaker 1: I think after eighteen better off at the age of 547 00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:26,280 Speaker 1: twenty two for me. I honestly, I don't think that 548 00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:29,280 Speaker 1: eighteen and thirty four is okay. I think anything over 549 00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:32,399 Speaker 1: eighteen is fine on both standing okay with it. I 550 00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:35,480 Speaker 1: don't think so. Daughter, And if she came home telling 551 00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:38,440 Speaker 1: me she was thinking somebody that was like I would 552 00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:45,080 Speaker 1: three and nine and now that's too, but like twenty 553 00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:47,280 Speaker 1: five or older, I would feel like I would be. 554 00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:51,760 Speaker 1: I think seven for a nineteen year old is no good. 555 00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:58,720 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. If that's my opinion. If every 556 00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:00,879 Speaker 1: if you're smart enough to make your own decisions, you 557 00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:03,000 Speaker 1: can vote, you could, you know, do everything else. I 558 00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:06,800 Speaker 1: think it's totally on your own as long as you're 559 00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:09,879 Speaker 1: not mentally challenged. You know, at that point you make 560 00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:12,080 Speaker 1: your own decisions now. But if you are mentally challenged. 561 00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:17,840 Speaker 1: A friend, I have a friend who is the we're around. 562 00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:20,240 Speaker 1: She's actually a couple of years older than me, and 563 00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:22,320 Speaker 1: she has a daughter that's around the same age as 564 00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:25,320 Speaker 1: my daughter, and we just recently via social media found 565 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:26,960 Speaker 1: out that her daughter was dating a guy that was 566 00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:35,520 Speaker 1: in his forties, and and y'all have you know, we 567 00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:39,160 Speaker 1: just made sure the mom didn't know. Another one of 568 00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:42,400 Speaker 1: my friends found found out and you know, confronted the 569 00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:44,240 Speaker 1: mom and told her, like, listen, if she was on 570 00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:45,920 Speaker 1: the other foot, I want to know that my daughter 571 00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:48,040 Speaker 1: is messing with somebody that's old, and especially because he's 572 00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:49,720 Speaker 1: a creed, right, you know, and I know him, and 573 00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:51,320 Speaker 1: I know he's a creed. What is the you know, 574 00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:52,800 Speaker 1: I mean, you know she had to talk with her 575 00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:55,479 Speaker 1: daughter or whatever, and you know, whatever the mon misstanding him. 576 00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:59,040 Speaker 1: If you want to date a girl, if you're up 577 00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:01,960 Speaker 1: forty five, right, If I'm dating a girl that's nine team, 578 00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:04,480 Speaker 1: that is definitely weird. If I end up having sex 579 00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:07,680 Speaker 1: with the girl's nine team for fun, an, I don't 580 00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:13,400 Speaker 1: think that's terrible things to say legal, but I mean, 581 00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:19,400 Speaker 1: you know that girl, you might just be t you're 582 00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:21,560 Speaker 1: you're the girl I'm gonna married. Don't like even if 583 00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:25,880 Speaker 1: even if you have daughters that are listen to me, listen, 584 00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:27,960 Speaker 1: liten to what I'm saying nineteen years ago to du buy, 585 00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:32,320 Speaker 1: I'm just saying no, but let's and listen, listen, let's listen. 586 00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:35,040 Speaker 1: It's just at nineteen years old, you could you're going 587 00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:37,600 Speaker 1: with the flow. It's yes, everything, you know what I mean, 588 00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:40,000 Speaker 1: Everything is cool, But when you go home you think 589 00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:42,200 Speaker 1: about it, you know, like as a as a female 590 00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:44,120 Speaker 1: young girl, I've been there, you know what I mean, 591 00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:47,560 Speaker 1: Like it's okay in the night time, when you wake 592 00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:49,600 Speaker 1: up in the morning, it wasn't okay. But there's some 593 00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:54,760 Speaker 1: nineteen years I was that nineteen year old. However, my 594 00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:59,720 Speaker 1: daughter is not. When I was very innocent, she is 595 00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:08,440 Speaker 1: like my ex he had. But my boyfriend told me 596 00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:11,240 Speaker 1: that he had a threesome with two women. One was 597 00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:15,120 Speaker 1: nineteen and the other one was twenty two. And I 598 00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:19,080 Speaker 1: told him, you're disgusting, like you're nasty, and I'm like, um, 599 00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:21,760 Speaker 1: like what did y'all do? Like like where was she 600 00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:23,440 Speaker 1: like sitting on your face? And the other one like 601 00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:25,200 Speaker 1: why did you And he's like no, they were like 602 00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:27,440 Speaker 1: he was like no, they were like taking a turn 603 00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:31,520 Speaker 1: sucking my dick. It was like it was like a contest. 604 00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:33,760 Speaker 1: And he's like, yah, one of them was in love 605 00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:36,000 Speaker 1: with me, but you know she's a horror and all 606 00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:38,720 Speaker 1: of that, and I'm like, you see like, that's like, 607 00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:42,480 Speaker 1: that's a steak. That's the woman's mistake. The man loves 608 00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:46,400 Speaker 1: its guy. Here's the thing. If a guy is honest 609 00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:49,720 Speaker 1: and says this is for fun, I'm dating other people, 610 00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:52,880 Speaker 1: then it's fine if they make that decision. It is fine. 611 00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:55,840 Speaker 1: If you lie to a girl to get them in bed, 612 00:30:56,040 --> 00:31:00,560 Speaker 1: that's wrong. I agree, And I think after nineteen eighteen, 613 00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:04,200 Speaker 1: it's legal by by American New York standards. You cannot 614 00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:06,520 Speaker 1: get arrested. There's nothing wrong with it. I was just saying, 615 00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:08,200 Speaker 1: I said I had when I turned forty. It was 616 00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:10,320 Speaker 1: my goal. I had sex with two twenty year olds 617 00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:13,160 Speaker 1: on my birthday, which is New Year's Eve. And then 618 00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:14,560 Speaker 1: and then you were like, I'm going to the club. 619 00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:18,680 Speaker 1: You can't get in that little one time. This is horrible. 620 00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:21,240 Speaker 1: I had sex twice in my life. Four girls in 621 00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:24,480 Speaker 1: me right, and we were walking. This is when the 622 00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:28,440 Speaker 1: first time Obama got elected. It was like a big celebration. 623 00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:32,400 Speaker 1: Everyone's in a I was walking into a nightclub with 624 00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:34,920 Speaker 1: these four girls, not knowing that one of them was 625 00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:37,280 Speaker 1: nineteen and she couldn't get in the club. So it 626 00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:39,120 Speaker 1: was a very hot club. We all walk in and 627 00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:41,560 Speaker 1: one of them waits outside. We're inside. It was like, 628 00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:43,240 Speaker 1: where's where's the other girl? And I'm like, I don't 629 00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:45,240 Speaker 1: we're outside. I'm like, why are you not in here? 630 00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:47,200 Speaker 1: She's like I can't get in? Why not? I did 631 00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:48,600 Speaker 1: it in front of like a hundred people trying to 632 00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:51,800 Speaker 1: get it when your nineteen and the whole place started laughing. 633 00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:58,880 Speaker 1: Obama need to change these laws. Get into the club now. 634 00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:00,719 Speaker 1: Are there things that you like now that you never 635 00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:02,560 Speaker 1: would have thought you would have liked in the bedroom 636 00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:04,880 Speaker 1: when you were younger? Oh? Of course. I think everybody 637 00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:06,720 Speaker 1: changes that they get older. You know, when you're when 638 00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:08,560 Speaker 1: you're a kid, you're just happy to be near a vagina. 639 00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:11,520 Speaker 1: But as you get older, You's just like in life. 640 00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:12,880 Speaker 1: Maybe when you were a kid, you go to a 641 00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:15,760 Speaker 1: Delhi you order a turkey sandwich and you're just happy 642 00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:18,280 Speaker 1: with whatever comes. But as you get older, like I 643 00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:21,600 Speaker 1: wanted the low sodium turkey, I want Dijon mustard. I 644 00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:25,560 Speaker 1: want it only lightly toasted. Because changed, right, do you 645 00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:28,040 Speaker 1: start to learn what you like and dislike. I remember 646 00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:31,120 Speaker 1: at twenty three, the first time a girl put her 647 00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:34,360 Speaker 1: finger in my ass, I freaked the I'm not gay Clinton, 648 00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:37,840 Speaker 1: She's like, no, no, it's gonna feel good, I promise you, like, 649 00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:40,640 Speaker 1: I don't want to find out. I want to love 650 00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:46,840 Speaker 1: it now. I'm all for it, right, I believe we 651 00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:51,080 Speaker 1: got a man who would that they don't like that 652 00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:54,200 Speaker 1: is uh, they definitely has some homophobia. Well, they haven't 653 00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:57,760 Speaker 1: tried it because I said, where the nerve endings are 654 00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:02,440 Speaker 1: that if if, if, if gay guys were miserable having 655 00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:10,440 Speaker 1: anal sex, they wouldn't do it do this, So I'm 656 00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:12,160 Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna assume that has to do with getting 657 00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:15,880 Speaker 1: your asshole like as well. I think this is a 658 00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:23,200 Speaker 1: this is a lip service first yes, yeah, and never 659 00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:27,440 Speaker 1: first white guy that's been on the show. I don't 660 00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:33,760 Speaker 1: think that's why. Yeah, that's why. The two blacks are 661 00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:35,640 Speaker 1: way cooler than me. They just look so good looking. 662 00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:40,400 Speaker 1: But I'll tell you this, don't get but I have 663 00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:42,840 Speaker 1: to say. I have to say, um, you know I don't. 664 00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:45,800 Speaker 1: I don't have sex with white guys. I like Puerto 665 00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:48,640 Speaker 1: Rican guys and black guys. You've never said to a 666 00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:51,040 Speaker 1: white guy ever, I have. It's just not my taste 667 00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:56,040 Speaker 1: with almost every race. Yeah, no, it's good, but you 668 00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:59,320 Speaker 1: know I prefer a Latino man or a black man, 669 00:33:59,800 --> 00:34:02,560 Speaker 1: I have to say. It's it's the black guys that like, 670 00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:04,600 Speaker 1: you know what, they like fingers in the ass. The 671 00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:07,480 Speaker 1: black guys that I've been with, they're not gonna they're 672 00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:15,160 Speaker 1: gonna admophobia like they're like, it's for me. Puerto Rican 673 00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:18,680 Speaker 1: guys are really really gay or really really straight. There's 674 00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:21,560 Speaker 1: no in between. For Puerto Rican guys. You can't like, 675 00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:23,640 Speaker 1: you can't play with a Puerto Rican guys. Asked if 676 00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:25,560 Speaker 1: he thinks that he's not gay, why don't you like 677 00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:29,880 Speaker 1: white guys? I just, um, I just prefer I like 678 00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:36,840 Speaker 1: dark as alright, alright, since we're on lip service, I 679 00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:40,000 Speaker 1: could be honest. I like the way black dick looks. 680 00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:44,319 Speaker 1: Like the color of it, you know what I mean? Yeah, 681 00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:46,640 Speaker 1: I really like what is the guy? But his penis 682 00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:49,600 Speaker 1: is a darker like even the lighter skinned guys that 683 00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:52,600 Speaker 1: I've been with have a darker penis. You know, I 684 00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:57,400 Speaker 1: like a darker penis. WHOA, what if they might I 685 00:34:57,520 --> 00:35:02,480 Speaker 1: might be into that. Give me about three weeks at 686 00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:06,000 Speaker 1: a tenning sal I'm gonna put some black over everything. 687 00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:07,719 Speaker 1: But I can't say that I'm not I can't say 688 00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:09,600 Speaker 1: that I'm not attracted to white guys, because there's a 689 00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:11,880 Speaker 1: lot of white guys that I think are gorgeous, you 690 00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:13,640 Speaker 1: know what I mean. White guy's faster, you thing to 691 00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:16,960 Speaker 1: eat pussy and everything, because that's the rumor they say 692 00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:21,560 Speaker 1: white guys are faster to eat pussy. I love it. 693 00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:24,600 Speaker 1: I think from my personal experience, white guys are more 694 00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:27,800 Speaker 1: open sexually, you know what. I love any girl that 695 00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:30,799 Speaker 1: I date that pushes the boundaries, that wants to do things, 696 00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:32,920 Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, well, let's try this. I'm a 697 00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:36,000 Speaker 1: big fan of that. Okay, like try this? Like what 698 00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:38,319 Speaker 1: Well the one time I said, no, I was dating 699 00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:41,319 Speaker 1: this really beautiful blonde chick and she not only wanted 700 00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:44,160 Speaker 1: to fund me with a strap on, which but she 701 00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:46,520 Speaker 1: also wanted me to wear stockings and our heels. And 702 00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:50,839 Speaker 1: I said she and her name was John. No, I'm 703 00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:54,759 Speaker 1: just about that was too much for See what it's 704 00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:56,200 Speaker 1: a funk you with a strap on? How do you 705 00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:58,919 Speaker 1: even approach somebody? And when she was a wild chick, 706 00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:01,440 Speaker 1: really wile, but we her only job in life for 707 00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:03,320 Speaker 1: the first like six months we were dating was finding 708 00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:06,120 Speaker 1: other girls for me to have sex with, which was amazing. 709 00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:13,440 Speaker 1: So it almost felt like obligated me. So much, Vagina said, 710 00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:15,520 Speaker 1: you know, I just couldn't do it. Woman. Yeah, she 711 00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:17,560 Speaker 1: was not only more than a wing woman because she 712 00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:20,080 Speaker 1: was involved, so she was like the best wing woman 713 00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:21,960 Speaker 1: on the planet. What if she was like I just 714 00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:23,640 Speaker 1: went to like, while you're having said me to suck 715 00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:25,879 Speaker 1: on this do though I could do that. That's fine. 716 00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:29,919 Speaker 1: Doesn't make me game oh ship, But I'm glad he's 717 00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:33,879 Speaker 1: very open. Like you said, what's gay about that? I'll 718 00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:35,640 Speaker 1: suck on a pan. I'll suck on a both of them. 719 00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:40,319 Speaker 1: That's what you want, baby, It means nothing. I used 720 00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:43,440 Speaker 1: to want to a nonsense with me. You know, I 721 00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:46,080 Speaker 1: find hilarious that you're oh, oh my god, I'm tied 722 00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:50,560 Speaker 1: to a bed. There's no danger right hopefully no, But 723 00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:53,160 Speaker 1: you know it's it's it's very refreshing to me a 724 00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:56,759 Speaker 1: man who's you know, not insecure about his sexuality, Well, 725 00:36:56,800 --> 00:37:05,520 Speaker 1: thank you, that's very refreshing. Helped him half Spanish. So 726 00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:07,640 Speaker 1: where does it stand now for you, Ralph? What's the 727 00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:10,480 Speaker 1: goals now in relationships? What? Like what is going to 728 00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:13,000 Speaker 1: make you want to settle down? Like what does a 729 00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:15,879 Speaker 1: woman have to have the beginning of dating? Like when 730 00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:18,720 Speaker 1: we there's always I always believe this a The first 731 00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:23,520 Speaker 1: three months of dating someone is infactuation land. Everybody honeymoon here. 732 00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:26,799 Speaker 1: They all pretend they're great. They all think every three 733 00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:31,040 Speaker 1: three to four months is the zone say Okay, I'm 734 00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:33,919 Speaker 1: gonna date you exclusively. That first three or four months 735 00:37:34,000 --> 00:37:37,000 Speaker 1: it's we're just casually dating, and that's before you start arguing, 736 00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:39,239 Speaker 1: right everything at that point, if you like, I just 737 00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:42,319 Speaker 1: almost started dating this chick. We'd only been hanging out 738 00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:45,839 Speaker 1: with almost. We had a couple of times, and then 739 00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:48,440 Speaker 1: she flipped out on me for something that she saw 740 00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:50,640 Speaker 1: on Instagram that I wanted on a date with a 741 00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:54,440 Speaker 1: girl four months ago. Because she was going backtrack, Ben 742 00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:57,040 Speaker 1: freaked out on me. So I just I don't speak 743 00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:59,200 Speaker 1: to anymore because that's crazy. You're crazy person. That's a 744 00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:02,160 Speaker 1: bad indication. Has she been hitting you? Wept try because 745 00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:04,880 Speaker 1: I don't respond to Texas at all anymore. Is there 746 00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:07,480 Speaker 1: anything she could do to anything? No, it's not worth it. 747 00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:10,719 Speaker 1: She couldn't be like, no way, I'm sorry. I was 748 00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:14,239 Speaker 1: about to get my period at p MS. Normally I 749 00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:16,680 Speaker 1: don't act like that. I would say this, if you 750 00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:19,400 Speaker 1: want to just have sex, I will do that, and 751 00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:21,759 Speaker 1: I will be flat out about that. But if you are, 752 00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:24,319 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna get you. I'm not gonna do it too. 753 00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:26,839 Speaker 1: You're too crazy. I don't want that. It's an indication 754 00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:29,040 Speaker 1: of what's to come. I dated a girl once for 755 00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:31,120 Speaker 1: three or four months. On the fourth month, I found 756 00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:34,200 Speaker 1: out she was married for months and I slept at 757 00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:39,160 Speaker 1: our house. You know what, they were separated. How did 758 00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:40,880 Speaker 1: you find out she was married? Because all of a sudden, 759 00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:42,239 Speaker 1: I got a call from a guy that says, you're 760 00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:46,319 Speaker 1: fucking my wife. I'm going to kill you. She knew 761 00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:50,640 Speaker 1: my name, he knew where I worked. Matter was three 762 00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:53,840 Speaker 1: or four months. That's my minimum. The girl needs to 763 00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:55,919 Speaker 1: be by. The girl needs to be up for anal 764 00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:58,879 Speaker 1: once in a while, not always. And once we get 765 00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:01,239 Speaker 1: past that, if you go to six months, eight months, 766 00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:04,120 Speaker 1: I'm all about being serious. I'd love to commit. Why 767 00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:05,600 Speaker 1: does he have to be by, because you have to 768 00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:08,000 Speaker 1: have th reasons. I would say that my chances of 769 00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:12,040 Speaker 1: cheating are going to diminish immensely if she brings girls 770 00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:14,239 Speaker 1: in and enjoys it, if she's doing it for me. 771 00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:16,680 Speaker 1: I had a threesome two weeks ago, and it was 772 00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:18,640 Speaker 1: two girls that were literally lying on the bed next 773 00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:22,400 Speaker 1: to each other, not doing anything with each other, the 774 00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:24,400 Speaker 1: other this one blow me this one, but it was 775 00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:27,640 Speaker 1: it wasn't fun. It was just sucking. Kind of sounded 776 00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:34,840 Speaker 1: like fun. Yeah, that's a I mean everyone has to 777 00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:37,880 Speaker 1: be involved, and I don't like you sound like not 778 00:39:38,080 --> 00:39:46,719 Speaker 1: fun is fun. She's like it as fun as you 779 00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:49,279 Speaker 1: fucking one girl while the other girls going down on 780 00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:51,759 Speaker 1: the other. That fun. Two girls blowing you at once, 781 00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:54,880 Speaker 1: that's fun. I had a threesome and I was I 782 00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:57,719 Speaker 1: wasn't involved with the other girl with the girl, but 783 00:39:58,040 --> 00:40:02,440 Speaker 1: she was eating my pussy and that's pretty involved. But 784 00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:08,359 Speaker 1: we're doing it, were doing were every girl's a drunk 785 00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:11,640 Speaker 1: lesbian first, But no, I didn't go down on her. 786 00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:13,800 Speaker 1: Our kids are ill. I don't like girls to me 787 00:40:13,840 --> 00:40:15,360 Speaker 1: would be to me, it's a turn off if I 788 00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:17,839 Speaker 1: feel that the girls doing it to try and make 789 00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:20,560 Speaker 1: me happy, and I think I wasn't doing it to 790 00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:22,600 Speaker 1: trying to make my man happy. I was just doing 791 00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:24,640 Speaker 1: it because she was like giving me like awesome, had 792 00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:32,120 Speaker 1: it like it was really good? Yes, okay. I would 793 00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:34,919 Speaker 1: imagine if I fall in love, she we get married, 794 00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:37,000 Speaker 1: she has a kid, I would think at that point 795 00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:38,920 Speaker 1: when we have a child that I probably wouldn't have 796 00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:41,279 Speaker 1: that many. Three, a few just once in a while. 797 00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:44,879 Speaker 1: Can be with the women when you're not around you want. 798 00:40:45,200 --> 00:40:46,560 Speaker 1: She can be the round I'm not around. If I 799 00:40:46,560 --> 00:40:48,600 Speaker 1: could be a woman she's not around, that's fair. That 800 00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:52,480 Speaker 1: is fair. So what about having the other women like 801 00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:55,440 Speaker 1: live with you. I think it's hard to pull off, 802 00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:57,960 Speaker 1: but if it happens, and happens. I had a girl 803 00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:00,399 Speaker 1: say to me once when I said, you know, she said, 804 00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:02,800 Speaker 1: what I do with a woman is different than what 805 00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:04,839 Speaker 1: do you do with a woman, so it's not fair. 806 00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:07,600 Speaker 1: So I said, okay, I'll do with a woman what 807 00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:10,200 Speaker 1: you do with a woman? Is that fair? And that 808 00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:12,600 Speaker 1: didn't happen either. What if she's like, Okay, I'm down 809 00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:14,040 Speaker 1: and do the step with other women, but every now 810 00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:16,480 Speaker 1: and then I need another guy. No, and I'll tell 811 00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:20,200 Speaker 1: you why. It's very logical if you're getting enjoyment, if 812 00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:23,360 Speaker 1: you're truly bisexual, and you're getting enjoyment from being with 813 00:41:23,440 --> 00:41:26,600 Speaker 1: a girl, I'm not getting enjoyment with with the dude 814 00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:30,120 Speaker 1: in the room, so it's not fair. Okay, that makes sense. 815 00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:32,520 Speaker 1: You never want to watch No, it doesn't get and 816 00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:34,200 Speaker 1: it doesn't turn me out. Some guys it does, and 817 00:41:34,239 --> 00:41:38,000 Speaker 1: I always say that, Yes, I did swapping once with 818 00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:40,680 Speaker 1: another couple, Yeah, and I just didn't. I didn't. It 819 00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:42,080 Speaker 1: was like to me, it was just still I couldn't 820 00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:44,200 Speaker 1: do that with a girl that cared about. It was 821 00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:47,080 Speaker 1: some girl I didn't care about. Not be a weird situation. 822 00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:49,640 Speaker 1: But I tried to have a reason with my guy 823 00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:51,680 Speaker 1: and someone and I was really close friends with, and 824 00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:54,839 Speaker 1: I just it was awkward. Yeah, I love him too 825 00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:57,920 Speaker 1: much for day. And I also think this is it's 826 00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:00,480 Speaker 1: got to be somebody that you don't really So there 827 00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:02,640 Speaker 1: are two dudes in the room and there are like 828 00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:05,040 Speaker 1: five or six girls in the room, right, I bet 829 00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:07,520 Speaker 1: you if he asked the dudes, if you if your 830 00:42:07,560 --> 00:42:10,040 Speaker 1: girl is bisexual, would that be a good or bad? 831 00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:13,040 Speaker 1: Both guys are gonna say yes. But if you ask 832 00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:16,040 Speaker 1: the girls in the room, your guy's going to be bisexual? 833 00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:20,640 Speaker 1: Every maybe nine was any gonna say no? Right? Well, 834 00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:23,719 Speaker 1: you know, that's that's just how that's how, just how 835 00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:26,719 Speaker 1: it is. So for that reason, I think that you 836 00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:29,399 Speaker 1: want a girl to be bisexual, but you don't want 837 00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:32,279 Speaker 1: to because you don't get any enjoyment from a guy 838 00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:34,239 Speaker 1: in the room. It's just not fair if if the 839 00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:36,560 Speaker 1: girl said to me, look, once a year, I want 840 00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:39,160 Speaker 1: to suck another dude, But you can just go fuck 841 00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:41,919 Speaker 1: another girl. And that's that's just how it is. That's fine, 842 00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:45,960 Speaker 1: not just traditional. Yeah, me too. I feel like like 843 00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:48,759 Speaker 1: I can't be with a guy if he's with another woman. Now, 844 00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:54,279 Speaker 1: you can't. I don't do threesomes or understanding. I feel 845 00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:55,800 Speaker 1: like I feel like the guy that's gonna be with 846 00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:58,920 Speaker 1: me in a serious relationship needs to have that out 847 00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:05,560 Speaker 1: of his system already. You used to get three one 848 00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:07,439 Speaker 1: to ten. If you're a one and I'm a nine, 849 00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:10,000 Speaker 1: we would never get along. But if we're both five 850 00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:12,600 Speaker 1: to seven, we're probably gonna get on. For both one 851 00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:14,279 Speaker 1: and two, we're gonna get along. No, I think, and 852 00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:15,680 Speaker 1: I don't think it'll be very hard for you to 853 00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:18,920 Speaker 1: find someone because I'm very honest about it, and a 854 00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:21,480 Speaker 1: lot of the men wish that we had a guy 855 00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:27,040 Speaker 1: as honest as you, because even I want to have 856 00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:30,200 Speaker 1: three sons. Thing I want, you know, like this is 857 00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:32,720 Speaker 1: what I want, and this is whoever's gonna be serious 858 00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:34,800 Speaker 1: with me is gonna have to agree with this? Like 859 00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:37,839 Speaker 1: are you bisexual? No? Okay, we can't be serious, right. 860 00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:39,560 Speaker 1: We can have fun, but we don't have a good 861 00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:42,640 Speaker 1: time together, but we can't be serious. Absolutely, I've never 862 00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:45,279 Speaker 1: sent in my adult life. I've never lied to a 863 00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:47,560 Speaker 1: girl to get late. It's just there's no reason for it. 864 00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:50,760 Speaker 1: There's enough women in the universe you can go elsewhere. 865 00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:54,239 Speaker 1: Do you ever feel like there was when that got away? Yes, 866 00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:57,160 Speaker 1: I do. There's one specific one had very unique names, 867 00:43:57,200 --> 00:43:58,759 Speaker 1: so if I say it, there's probably not many of 868 00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:00,640 Speaker 1: these girls in the world. Their names to ownA And 869 00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:04,640 Speaker 1: it was about ten years ago, and everything. The weird 870 00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:07,160 Speaker 1: thing was this. For the six months that we were dating, 871 00:44:08,280 --> 00:44:10,319 Speaker 1: all she ever said to me was that she did 872 00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:12,799 Speaker 1: not want to have a serious relationship. She just wants 873 00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:15,239 Speaker 1: to have fun. She wants to enjoy. We had three 874 00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:18,040 Speaker 1: simps together. She was beautiful, it was a party time 875 00:44:18,360 --> 00:44:20,279 Speaker 1: and every time we together, she would always say, I 876 00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:21,960 Speaker 1: just want to keep it lighthearted. I don't want to 877 00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:24,280 Speaker 1: have it. But everything about it was to me incredible. 878 00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:27,400 Speaker 1: I would have definitely dated this girl seriously. After about 879 00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:30,839 Speaker 1: six months, she broke up with me because they never 880 00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:33,560 Speaker 1: asked her to be my girlfriend. Sounds like that just 881 00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:38,279 Speaker 1: doesn't make you right. And then she said, well, you 882 00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:41,000 Speaker 1: should have known that I was just saying that to 883 00:44:41,080 --> 00:44:43,759 Speaker 1: make you happen, right, because women feel like men don't 884 00:44:43,760 --> 00:44:45,440 Speaker 1: want relationships, so we have to act like we don't 885 00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:48,680 Speaker 1: want relationships because we don't want to scare you away. Nowadays, 886 00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:50,680 Speaker 1: how do I This was like ten years ago. Now, 887 00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:52,440 Speaker 1: as I'm a little older, I think I would have 888 00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:55,520 Speaker 1: been smart enough to realize that maybe that I should 889 00:44:55,520 --> 00:44:57,520 Speaker 1: at least pitch it out there because I was so 890 00:44:57,680 --> 00:44:59,880 Speaker 1: into it as this woman. I was trying to be 891 00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:02,120 Speaker 1: too cool and too cool for the room that I'm 892 00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:03,680 Speaker 1: not going to act like I really like this girl. 893 00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:05,600 Speaker 1: But I mean, you know what, you was just going 894 00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:07,920 Speaker 1: off for what she was saying. But I feel like 895 00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:10,319 Speaker 1: they always say that if somebody tells you something, listen 896 00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:13,640 Speaker 1: to it. I agree with a lot of times, you 897 00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:15,440 Speaker 1: mean to grow and she goes, oh, I'm crazy when 898 00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:20,399 Speaker 1: a girl just say, you know, but guys like crazy girls. 899 00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:23,360 Speaker 1: Let's there. I host this cruise. Every host too, like 900 00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:25,840 Speaker 1: rock and roll music cruises, which is like three or 901 00:45:25,880 --> 00:45:29,120 Speaker 1: four thousand people on a boat with ten bands. It's crazy. 902 00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:31,600 Speaker 1: But I was going with this girl that I barely knew, 903 00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:33,600 Speaker 1: and she kept saying me I'm a little crazy, a 904 00:45:33,640 --> 00:45:36,320 Speaker 1: little wild, like car, He's gonna be fun. Let's do 905 00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:40,919 Speaker 1: this game bang on the boats a day to where 906 00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:43,520 Speaker 1: I couldn't find her, and I look and she's literally 907 00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:47,759 Speaker 1: naked wrapped in toilet paper, by naked wrapped the toilet paper, 908 00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:52,399 Speaker 1: screaming and I had to remove her from my room, 909 00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:55,120 Speaker 1: remove her from like because I have a credit card, 910 00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:57,600 Speaker 1: all that she was embarrassing your out And I told 911 00:45:57,640 --> 00:45:59,920 Speaker 1: the guy that puts the cruise together, you could throw 912 00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:01,759 Speaker 1: off the bote if you have to, because she's no 913 00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:07,359 Speaker 1: longer part of me. Sounds like a good time. Yeah, 914 00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:12,480 Speaker 1: I'm hosting. I'm representing my brand, the toilet paper with me. 915 00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:14,120 Speaker 1: When I first got with a guy, I'm like, you know, 916 00:46:14,520 --> 00:46:18,160 Speaker 1: once we're girlfriend, have to let you know that I'm 917 00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:21,440 Speaker 1: a little crazy. I'm gonna get your names had too. 918 00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:25,919 Speaker 1: I'm a little annoying. I'm gonna I'm annoying and bother 919 00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:30,359 Speaker 1: you a lot. So just prepare yourself. And they're fine 920 00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:31,840 Speaker 1: with it. And they was totally fine with it. They 921 00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:38,640 Speaker 1: love it. Yes to everything. Yeah, my last boyfriend, I'll 922 00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:40,160 Speaker 1: be like, oh, I see, I told you I was annoying. 923 00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:44,600 Speaker 1: He was like, baby, I love that you're annoying. Forward 924 00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:47,840 Speaker 1: to six months from now, let's see what happened. But no, seriously, no, 925 00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:51,120 Speaker 1: I would annoy him, but you know he loved me, 926 00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:54,239 Speaker 1: so it didn't matter. Never if you also did this 927 00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:57,000 Speaker 1: whole thing about social media and like how to represent 928 00:46:57,120 --> 00:47:00,960 Speaker 1: yourself on social media to yeah for day. Okay, have 929 00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:03,680 Speaker 1: you met a lot of women? I mean only women online? 930 00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:06,399 Speaker 1: Because here's the thing. I'm a very large man, six 931 00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:09,480 Speaker 1: almost six six. I'm a little terrifying in person, right, 932 00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:13,480 Speaker 1: so I don't do well in a social situation. I 933 00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:16,279 Speaker 1: would think that would make you stand at women. I'm 934 00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:21,640 Speaker 1: like Frankensteiny. I'm not like too tall and too big. 935 00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:26,120 Speaker 1: I think you're fine, just like I've had stories where people, 936 00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:28,800 Speaker 1: like one time I went into a men's bathroom and 937 00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:31,200 Speaker 1: a guy literally peetle over himself to cover up and 938 00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:33,359 Speaker 1: get the funk out of the room because he didn't 939 00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:36,000 Speaker 1: want to be near me. Okay, every time I'm walking 940 00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:39,600 Speaker 1: like a bar or restaurant, I hear I hear people going, 941 00:47:39,640 --> 00:47:41,600 Speaker 1: holy sh it, look at that dude. Because I'm almost 942 00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:43,840 Speaker 1: six six. I'm a big dude, you know, so I 943 00:47:44,000 --> 00:47:47,959 Speaker 1: know that I have this imposing figure I do better 944 00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:52,280 Speaker 1: meeting women online, and because of that, I've perfected ways 945 00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:55,800 Speaker 1: to meet chicks online. Now, you said mentioned and take selfies. 946 00:47:56,080 --> 00:48:00,320 Speaker 1: Absolutely absolutely not. I kind of agree with that they're 947 00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:03,080 Speaker 1: a little weird for men when it's cool when girls 948 00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:05,160 Speaker 1: do it, because we've been in here taking selfies all day. 949 00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:10,319 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, but born for us. But when guys 950 00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:12,879 Speaker 1: say selfies, it's like weird. You know what's the worst. 951 00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:18,879 Speaker 1: When they take a picture in the mirror is better 952 00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:22,239 Speaker 1: than the like four camera facing. So I think the 953 00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:27,799 Speaker 1: worst male selfie is when male plus one front. If 954 00:48:27,840 --> 00:48:32,279 Speaker 1: you're not a selfie, selfie means self with someone else, 955 00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:36,600 Speaker 1: it's at very least it's a group. If it's two people, 956 00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:42,120 Speaker 1: two people is s it's a hussy. Right now, you 957 00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:44,960 Speaker 1: also said you shouldn't take pictures with women like just one. 958 00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:47,200 Speaker 1: My brother is very funny. I have a twin brother, 959 00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:51,080 Speaker 1: but we look nothing alike. He's five seven seven had 960 00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:54,040 Speaker 1: a crazy note, I said five. I was born New 961 00:48:54,080 --> 00:48:57,480 Speaker 1: Year's Eve. He was born four minutes later in January 962 00:48:57,520 --> 00:49:01,200 Speaker 1: one New Year's Day. Were twins, different days, different years, 963 00:49:01,400 --> 00:49:08,160 Speaker 1: different decades. We look nothing alike, but he always puts 964 00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:11,279 Speaker 1: up pictures with a girl, not like a group him 965 00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:14,400 Speaker 1: and a girl, different girls, And I think it definitely 966 00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:19,640 Speaker 1: affects his dating attractability. He's a play Absolutely it does, 967 00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:21,919 Speaker 1: because I um, when I'm dating a guy, I don't 968 00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:24,440 Speaker 1: want him in a picture with any girl, right. And 969 00:49:24,520 --> 00:49:26,640 Speaker 1: if I made a guy and I see that he's 970 00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:28,880 Speaker 1: in pictures with a lot of girls, it's automatic like 971 00:49:29,680 --> 00:49:32,120 Speaker 1: you lost at least a lot of any girl that 972 00:49:32,200 --> 00:49:35,080 Speaker 1: you're attracting when you have all those photos, it's probably 973 00:49:35,120 --> 00:49:38,040 Speaker 1: not a girl you want to date seriously, right, Like, Okay, 974 00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:40,520 Speaker 1: he gets with the ladies, And it's one thing. If 975 00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:41,920 Speaker 1: you're looking for a girl just to have fun with, 976 00:49:42,040 --> 00:49:43,759 Speaker 1: that's fun. But if you looking for a girl to 977 00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:45,880 Speaker 1: have to be serious with, and she sees you in 978 00:49:45,920 --> 00:49:48,680 Speaker 1: a photo with thirty girls, like a weekend with this 979 00:49:48,760 --> 00:49:51,080 Speaker 1: girl somewhere, a weekend with that girl somewhere. If you 980 00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:55,359 Speaker 1: are a girl that finds that attractive, then you're sus Now, 981 00:49:55,480 --> 00:49:58,200 Speaker 1: how do you meet women on? Like? What tips would 982 00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:00,279 Speaker 1: you give to these guys? My number one trip trick, 983 00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:02,560 Speaker 1: not say tip trick, whatever you wanna call it, And 984 00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:05,319 Speaker 1: it works so well. And I'm gonna say, I don't 985 00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:06,799 Speaker 1: know if you guys are single? Are you guys single? 986 00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:11,160 Speaker 1: Both single? Cold? So you use Tinder, right, and Tinder 987 00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:15,360 Speaker 1: is looked at as for creeps. If you're you're on Tinder, 988 00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:18,520 Speaker 1: people looking at you like, oh my god, what a creeper. 989 00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:21,040 Speaker 1: You're trying to suck me? Right, But that being said, 990 00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:23,880 Speaker 1: everyone's on Tinder at least once they signed in just 991 00:50:24,040 --> 00:50:26,080 Speaker 1: to check it out. Okay, so that's a given. I've 992 00:50:26,120 --> 00:50:28,719 Speaker 1: never been on Tinder. Give it three months, we'll see 993 00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:32,200 Speaker 1: what happens. Okay, I do have friends on Tinder, and 994 00:50:32,239 --> 00:50:34,359 Speaker 1: I'll go look just to see what's happening. So, oh 995 00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:38,520 Speaker 1: you do. I do have friends. My best friend is you. 996 00:50:38,840 --> 00:50:42,240 Speaker 1: So what happens is Tinder will show you your common 997 00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:45,800 Speaker 1: friends on Facebook. Right, So what you do is you 998 00:50:45,960 --> 00:50:48,080 Speaker 1: don't swipe right on them on Tinder, which means you 999 00:50:48,160 --> 00:50:51,000 Speaker 1: like them. You find them on Facebook. Now you know 1000 00:50:51,080 --> 00:50:54,440 Speaker 1: they're single. You add them on Facebook. Don't swipe right 1001 00:50:54,480 --> 00:50:58,120 Speaker 1: on Tinder, then you know they're single. And if they 1002 00:50:58,200 --> 00:51:01,360 Speaker 1: add you, you're just you're in over you. You know 1003 00:51:01,520 --> 00:51:04,080 Speaker 1: she's single, she's looking. She doesn't know you found her 1004 00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:06,440 Speaker 1: on Tinder. You just say it on Facebook. So we 1005 00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:08,480 Speaker 1: had some common friends. I thought i'd add you. Is 1006 00:51:08,520 --> 00:51:11,320 Speaker 1: it intimidating like women who have too many followers? No, 1007 00:51:11,400 --> 00:51:13,160 Speaker 1: I don't sure about that because some people are just 1008 00:51:13,160 --> 00:51:15,560 Speaker 1: trying to make you know, instan famous nonsense. But I 1009 00:51:15,600 --> 00:51:17,640 Speaker 1: would say that your likelihood of if you look at 1010 00:51:17,680 --> 00:51:20,160 Speaker 1: a girl on Instagram, she has ten thousand followers, she's 1011 00:51:20,160 --> 00:51:22,680 Speaker 1: probably adding you because she just wants more followers, right, 1012 00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:26,320 Speaker 1: it doesn't want baby, But that trick has worked for 1013 00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:29,000 Speaker 1: me so many times. And then also, if you don't 1014 00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:32,160 Speaker 1: have a good face, if you don't add me on Facebook, 1015 00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:34,200 Speaker 1: and then that's a little bit. You find me on tender, 1016 00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:38,160 Speaker 1: don't add me, don't then we're creeps. Just just go 1017 00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:40,800 Speaker 1: on Facebook and you think it's a real kind on 1018 00:51:40,920 --> 00:51:43,360 Speaker 1: Facebook or Tender. So you're the wrong person asked. But 1019 00:51:44,440 --> 00:51:48,399 Speaker 1: let's say I got a lot of favorite. Often girls 1020 00:51:48,440 --> 00:51:51,160 Speaker 1: will put their Instagram account link to their tender, right, 1021 00:51:51,520 --> 00:51:54,280 Speaker 1: So if you go to their Instagram, it's very common 1022 00:51:54,400 --> 00:51:57,680 Speaker 1: that they will put their full name underneath your Tinder 1023 00:51:57,880 --> 00:52:00,799 Speaker 1: their Instagram. So then you just look up that name 1024 00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:04,880 Speaker 1: on Facebook and add that and it works so often 1025 00:52:05,000 --> 00:52:07,680 Speaker 1: it's ridiculous. Wow, So listen too, So don't just go 1026 00:52:07,840 --> 00:52:12,200 Speaker 1: straight on Tinder, you guys, get a Tinder. Do you 1027 00:52:12,280 --> 00:52:17,440 Speaker 1: guys have tender? Has nothing? Okay? Do you not at Facebook? 1028 00:52:17,560 --> 00:52:19,759 Speaker 1: Is this what's going on? I have it, I just 1029 00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:25,399 Speaker 1: don't use it. I don't have a Facebook, no way, 1030 00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:32,400 Speaker 1: Jesus looking great, God damn it. Well, listen, we had 1031 00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:33,800 Speaker 1: a great time with you. I think I learned a 1032 00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:38,719 Speaker 1: lot today to about honesty. Yes, yes, freshmen, I'm gonna 1033 00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:40,759 Speaker 1: say this one thing. I'm holding all three of you 1034 00:52:40,840 --> 00:52:44,880 Speaker 1: to this. If we don't go to a black Star 1035 00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:46,600 Speaker 1: before the end of the year, we got to promise, 1036 00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:49,279 Speaker 1: all right, we're going to I don't want everyone to come. 1037 00:52:49,280 --> 00:52:51,040 Speaker 1: We should be taking you guys should come to Vady 1038 00:52:51,080 --> 00:52:52,520 Speaker 1: Grand It might be a little bit too okay, she 1039 00:52:52,719 --> 00:52:57,839 Speaker 1: works at the one fail. We'll go to sid City. 1040 00:52:57,840 --> 00:52:59,640 Speaker 1: I think the one in the Bronxton City is the best. 1041 00:52:59,680 --> 00:53:02,879 Speaker 1: You get a good meal, and you you could. I'm 1042 00:53:02,960 --> 00:53:05,560 Speaker 1: sitting here with that place, right, So we're gonna go 1043 00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:07,440 Speaker 1: to here as closely. Yeah, I'm out taking, but I'm 1044 00:53:07,560 --> 00:53:12,680 Speaker 1: down to take a little film in the champagne room. 1045 00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:15,120 Speaker 1: I'll go to filming. I can't probably set that up 1046 00:53:15,120 --> 00:53:17,680 Speaker 1: for you. There you go. We're going to fall back 1047 00:53:20,400 --> 00:53:22,600 Speaker 1: more than listen. If Luke got his things like in 1048 00:53:22,600 --> 00:53:24,040 Speaker 1: the champagne room, then I'm sure you can get you. 1049 00:53:24,520 --> 00:53:27,239 Speaker 1: Thank God, and ladies, and Penis is darker than the 1050 00:53:27,320 --> 00:53:31,319 Speaker 1: rest of his body. I want to say a couple 1051 00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:34,799 Speaker 1: of quick things. It's I am Ralph Sutton on social media, 1052 00:53:34,840 --> 00:53:38,080 Speaker 1: which is Facebook, Instagram, everywhere else as I am Ralph 1053 00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:41,200 Speaker 1: Sutton Twitter, okay, and also the str Show. Please listen 1054 00:53:41,200 --> 00:53:44,600 Speaker 1: to the sr show dot com or my radio show, 1055 00:53:44,600 --> 00:53:46,640 Speaker 1: the Tour Bus at the tour bus dot com. And 1056 00:53:46,719 --> 00:53:48,319 Speaker 1: I want to say this, thank you girls so much 1057 00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:51,080 Speaker 1: for having me. I feel like I learned a lie. 1058 00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:53,839 Speaker 1: Thank you, one of the great ones. I'm trying get 1059 00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:58,640 Speaker 1: all your pants later. No, no, no, we're going to 1060 00:53:58,680 --> 00:54:01,759 Speaker 1: film that movie for sure. And then you canna say, hey, 1061 00:54:01,800 --> 00:54:04,319 Speaker 1: I was hi. I don't know what I blacked out. 1062 00:54:06,320 --> 00:54:10,920 Speaker 1: It's a vodka like rousa. And thank you, thank you, 1063 00:54:11,040 --> 00:54:11,279 Speaker 1: thank you,