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Speaker 1: Back to back classics to get you through whatever you

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Speaker 1: need to today. Maybe it's a workout, maybe it's chores,

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Speaker 1: Maybe you just need a nap.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, By it's Brock and.

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Speaker 3: Jeffrey, and we love that you're here.

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Speaker 1: We appreciate it so much. We will have a brand

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Speaker 1: new episode this coming Monday.

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Speaker 4: But first comments, Christine Nicole said, first time ever commenting

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Speaker 4: because I finally listened to every single Second Date update

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Speaker 4: since the very beginning. I'm a career HMW nanny of

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Speaker 4: seventeen years and while absolutely loving my job, y'all's podcast

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Speaker 4: give me a little extra pep in my step, especially

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Speaker 4: for the four thirty a m.

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Speaker 2: Morning.

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Speaker 3: Yikes, what is a early morning? You got seventeen year

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Speaker 2: Of getting I reread it. I was like, did I

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Speaker 2: say that? Sorry? She's just been doing it for seventeen days.

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Speaker 5: It blows my mind how many people like no more

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Speaker 5: Second Dates than we do? Yeah, I don't more than.

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Speaker 6: Maybe fun you listen since before I worked?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, you're his story.

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Speaker 1: Yeah really truly, thank you so much for your dedication

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Speaker 1: and your insanity.

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Speaker 6: I lets the kids are good today.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let's get your back to back classics started right now.

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Speaker 5: You've probably heard the saying never order Spaghettian meatballs on

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Speaker 2: Is a good exception.

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Speaker 5: I've actually tried that with a chicken nugget once.

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Speaker 7: Really, that's very sure.

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Speaker 5: It did not work out as sexy as I thought

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Speaker 5: it would in my day. But anyway, look out because

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Speaker 5: there's a brand new food item you should absolutely avoid

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Speaker 5: ordering on any first date or you're probably gonna instantly

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Speaker 5: turn them off. Fortunately, one of our listeners did it,

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Speaker 5: and you're gonna hear what that was in your second

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Speaker 5: date update right after this.

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Speaker 8: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning second date updates.

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Speaker 5: There's a new trend that's happening right now where people

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Speaker 5: online are posting dating rapped videos.

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Speaker 1: Like you're Spotify rapped, but like, wait, how many matches

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Speaker 5: Yeah, like an end of the year recap of their

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Speaker 5: dating life from the past three hundred and sixty five days.

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Speaker 2: I feel like that could go really wrong.

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Speaker 6: It's like who you swipe on, what you don't like,

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Speaker 5: Yeah, It's just it's like a type of person, yeah,

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Speaker 5: or like the total amount of dates that you tried

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Speaker 5: for the past year, and you're patting yourself on the

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Speaker 7: Okay, it's not about the failure.

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Speaker 5: And today's caller, Kelly, mentioned in her email that she's

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Speaker 5: dated around a lot over the past year, so our

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Speaker 7: All right, so.

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Speaker 5: We're gonna hear that in a second. First, Kelly, welcome

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Speaker 9: Hi, thank you, thanks for having.

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Speaker 5: Me, Thanks for being on with us. We want to

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Speaker 5: hear about what's your dating rap briefly for us?

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Speaker 1: If you can't every time you say rap, I wanted

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Speaker 5: Yeah, don't.

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Speaker 7: You don't need this hypo.

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Speaker 2: That's what I wanted.

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Speaker 5: Just give me.

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Speaker 7: I can give you a beat if it would make

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Speaker 5: Way more for just a quick breakdown. What was your

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Speaker 9: Yeah, that's funny. I wish I could wrap my raps.

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Speaker 9: It was sixteen first dates total, mostly mostly Americans. I

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Speaker 5: sounds like you're keeping your options opened. Was there anything more?

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Speaker 9: Yeah? You know, like out of the sixteen, six made

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Speaker 9: Yeah. Now all the guys two flat out rejected me

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Speaker 2: Yeah, nothing you did wrong there other than go out

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Speaker 5: I suppose alexis looking back at her sixteen first dates,

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Speaker 9: And out of the sixteen, I only had to pay

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Speaker 9: Yeah, just how it was. And I cried over two

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Speaker 5: And I do make a lot of women cry when

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Speaker 5: tell me. None of the sixteen guys worked out. But

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Speaker 9: Yeah, there's a new guy. I was hopeful. I don't

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Speaker 2: Oh so you went out with them already.

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Speaker 9: We just got Cuban sandwiches from this little sandwich shop

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Speaker 5: Does that sound like a good date. First, Like, overall

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Speaker 6: Kids around, No, but the sandwiches.

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Speaker 6: Sandwich is okay. Honestly, the playground was empty.

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Speaker 9: That would be a fun date, that would be No.

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Speaker 9: It was really just kind of a lunch date really,

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Speaker 1: That means he's paying attention. You know, he's looking at you.

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Speaker 2: I'm not even joking.

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Speaker 3: When I met my husband, I didn't realize.

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Speaker 1: I carried so much food on my face until I

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Speaker 1: No one else before him ever said anything.

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Speaker 5: How the women on this show can spin anything for

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Speaker 3: Heard the odds, Jeff, I don't think that's bad.

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Speaker 7: I mean, how'd you guys end it?

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Speaker 9: After we ate, we were just kind of like, oh,

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Speaker 5: Go get it, Go get your date.

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Speaker 9: I mean I got no, but it got a little awkward.

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Speaker 9: You know, I was really hoping he'd say, like, you

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Speaker 2: I mean, he didn't even bring a frisbee.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying that I don't think he's getting hit

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Speaker 2: A good ride.

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Speaker 5: I'm sure it's the man's fault somehow, but let's prove it.

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Speaker 1: When we come back.

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Speaker 5: We're gonna call Steve for you and try and get

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Speaker 8: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning second date updates.

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Speaker 5: I feel like in the first part we definitely miss

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Speaker 5: hurt all of that and says, Nope, the guy is

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Speaker 5: a bad date planner. I bet no women want to

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Speaker 1: No, I didn't say no women. I just said I

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Speaker 1: don't think that he's as wanted as she thinks. I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to hype her up. Okay, she has something to

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Speaker 1: maybe he was too intimidated by how awesome she is.

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Speaker 5: whole thing is Kelly really liked the guy that she

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Speaker 5: met up with, Steve. They did a casual date in

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Speaker 5: I mean they weren't sure what else to do. It

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Speaker 5: was short though. Yeah, and so now afterwards she's hoping

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Speaker 2: Yeah, have you heard from him at all, Kelly?

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Speaker 9: Maybe I was I grossed him out.

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Speaker 1: The mason that you had going into that sandwich is

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Speaker 8: Is really good understanding.

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Speaker 5: If you could do that to a sandwich, just imagine what.

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Speaker 1: Else you could that is, right, Jeffrey, we are here

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Speaker 5: Sandwich. Yeah it's disgusting, all right, that's not what he says.

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Speaker 5: But here we go with Doll's number. We'll see what

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Speaker 5: he has to say. Let's do it. Hey, we're looking

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Speaker 5: in the morning.

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Speaker 11: How you doing man, Uh, you're from the radio.

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Speaker 2: And podcasts podcast.

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Speaker 5: To Yeah, yeah, we got a good podcast.

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Speaker 1: We are multifaceted here.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we're in the future with our entertainment, but we're

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Speaker 5: focused on you, right now because one of our listeners

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Speaker 5: went on a date with you the other day and

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Speaker 5: really had a good time. He wants to see you again,

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Speaker 5: but that hasn't quite happened yet, and she's not sure why.

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Speaker 5: Her name's Kelly ah Man. Okay, Okay, oh Man.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, it's.

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Speaker 5: The fact that you're not reaching out for another date

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Speaker 5: not sure if that's true or not. We want to

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Speaker 5: know what you think about Kelly.

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Speaker 11: Uh, she's very nice, Like, Kelly's cool, but you know,

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Speaker 11: I just don't think it's going to work out.

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Speaker 7: Okay, is there is there a reason?

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Speaker 1: I mean, did you went into it thinking that it

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 11: Yeah, I mean definitely, But you know, like we got

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Speaker 11: some food and then we went to the park and

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Speaker 11: it just it started to get a little weird. But like,

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Speaker 11: like I don't even know you guys.

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Speaker 5: So see, we didn't hear anything like weird. She said

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Speaker 1: Maybe that's weird to him, you know, like maybe it's

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Speaker 11: No, no, actually I thought that was kind of cute.

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Speaker 7: See I thought you guys turn off.

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Speaker 5: What was the issue? You said it was weird?

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Speaker 11: Yeah yeah, I'm like, so, you know, we were sitting

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she randomly mentioned that to us too.

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Speaker 11: Yeah yeah, and she so there's like a bunch of

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, So she was describing a nightmare, right, Like

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Speaker 2: Our life would be.

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Speaker 11: She sounded thrilled.

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Speaker 7: Oh thrilled.

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Speaker 11: Yeah yeah, I mean, like I've known you for like

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Speaker 1: In her defense, I will say it sounds like maybe

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Speaker 5: Could you understand that point of view, maybe, Steve, I

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Speaker 5: mean I guess I could.

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Speaker 11: But she started getting like really into it. Oh, she

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Speaker 11: was like naming them.

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Speaker 12: Oh.

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Speaker 11: There was like another one we were saying where she

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Speaker 11: he's not playing nice. You would put him for an option.

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Speaker 5: Okay, she's obviously kidding. Well, that should be a positive

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Speaker 7: That many, you would only have seven.

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Speaker 5: There you go.

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Speaker 3: She'd say she was a good mother, just a mother.

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Speaker 5: Okay, but that it sounds like it was all that

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Speaker 13: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I mean you know, yeah, but if she was joking,

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Speaker 5: Yeah. And there's a perfect person to find out whether

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Speaker 5: or not it was a joke. That's Kelly, who's on

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Speaker 5: Wait a yeah, Kelly and her seven children say hi.

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Speaker 2: Oh did she give another one up for adoption or

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Speaker 2: wed out of six?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Ever since she heard that Kelly there.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, Steve, it's Kelly. I am I like fuming, I'm

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Speaker 9: so offended. Yes, because and you know what this is

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Speaker 9: why and how I realized why I had sixteen unsuccessful

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Speaker 9: like emotionally an intellectual.

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Speaker 7: Why are you upset?

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Speaker 2: Why are you so mad?

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Speaker 11: Yeah?

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Speaker 9: Because, my god, Brooke, you were totally right, Steve. You

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Speaker 9: stock a planning a date.

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Speaker 3: I'm just trying to hype you up, not tear it down.

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Speaker 5: What happened?

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Speaker 9: Listen, if you even had like an ounce of a

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Speaker 11: But you would think I would reach you.

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Speaker 9: For forty minutes and suddenly want to have your babies.

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Speaker 5: All right, well, all right, okay, I think we're I

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Speaker 5: go down any farther we were. You weren't happy with

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Speaker 5: Steve's response. There, Steve, are you there?

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 11: Yeah, you're here barely, but I'm still here.

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Speaker 5: Would you like to respond to any of the allegations

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Speaker 1: I thought you guys were all gonna have a big

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Speaker 1: laugh about how it was a miscommunication, Steve.

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Speaker 9: Bottom line, you planned a boring date and now I'm

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Speaker 9: paying a price for it.

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Speaker 5: Okay, that's nut, Steve. You see your data.

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Speaker 9: Being and I'm not going to go for just the

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Speaker 9: looks like I thought you were super.

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Speaker 2: Cute too much.

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Speaker 13: What kind of radio show is this?

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Speaker 11: You just trash, dude.

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Speaker 5: It depends on how many drinks Brooks.

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Speaker 1: I was just trying to make her feel better about

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Speaker 2: I think that this was already happening and I didn't

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Speaker 11: You know, you don't have to tear somebody else down

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Speaker 3: Batter That's a good life lesson, Steve.

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Speaker 2: I agree with you, all right. I wasn't trying to

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Speaker 7: I don't think you said anything wrong, Steve.

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Speaker 5: Those are thoughts that should have happened before you said

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Speaker 11: It is, well me either, I'm just being on it.

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Speaker 5: Okay, everybody be honest with everybody. This is a good

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Speaker 5: chance to have Steve admit that maybe he didn't plan

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Speaker 5: the best first date. Yeah he did, Okay, okay, And

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Speaker 5: maybe Kelly didn't make the best conversation trying to invent

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Speaker 9: That Kelly owned that, Well, I'm sorry that I was

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Speaker 5: Okay, that was an apology.

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Speaker 1: You could have imagined the kids in like a sweatshop

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Speaker 5: Brook's trying to get her business planned. So Steve, if

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Speaker 5: you're hearing what I'm here, and then you probably see

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Speaker 5: And that's why we would be delighted to send you

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Speaker 5: I don't same day messy sandwiches and all. Put it

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Speaker 2: Yep.

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Speaker 5: Sure, what do you say?

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Speaker 11: No, no, no, I'm not going out with her yet.

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Speaker 11: I don't know what you're talking about.

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Speaker 9: You went on.

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Speaker 11: Sixteen failed dates like what? Like this? This woman is

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm sorry for someone will get your humor someday.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, No, it's okay, Brooke.

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Speaker 9: You know you're absolutely right. This guy knows nothing about

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Speaker 9: planning and you should absolutely own this.

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Speaker 5: God girls, if you hope for all women, congratulations not

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Speaker 5: what I meant, Brook and.

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Speaker 8: Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 5: That call was a great example of the power that

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Speaker 2: I don't know what what went so wrong.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how I went from trying to hype

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Speaker 1: She was feeling self conscious because she's like, this is

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, nah, the guy doesn't even bring a

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Speaker 5: She immediately hopped onto Brooks opinion, blew up into a

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Speaker 5: it's a good reminder that we and when I say we,

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Speaker 1: I just was trying to make her feel better, jeff

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Speaker 1: How many times do I have to tell you that.

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Speaker 5: Don't It's not worth it let other people feel sad.

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Speaker 2: I don't care.

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Speaker 5: Everybody says low as Brooks are and your dating life

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Speaker 5: couldn't possibly be bad. We're just saying we can try

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Speaker 5: and help you with your date life. Email the show

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Speaker 8: You back brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 5: Ladies, I have a question, why aren't there more of

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Speaker 3: For you, Alexis, why aren't you more helpless?

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Speaker 5: Making us look bad. But recently one of our listeners

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Speaker 5: we're gonna try to find out what happened in your

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Speaker 5: second date update. Right after this.

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Speaker 8: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning second date updates.

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Speaker 5: We got an email from one of our listeners who

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Speaker 5: says he's been living his life by a dating philosophy

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Speaker 5: that's been circulating on the internet now for about two decades.

456
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Speaker 5: For decades, it's called the Tow of Steve, that is

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Speaker 5: Tao of Steve. And I've not heard anything about this,

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Speaker 5: but according to him, it involves three basic rules that

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Speaker 5: men must live by. Number one, be desireless.

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Speaker 1: Number two nobody wants you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm good at that one. I'm not sure. I

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Speaker 5: guess we'll find out. Number two is be excellent and

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Speaker 5: number three be gone. And if you can live by

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Speaker 5: all three of those rules as a man, you will

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Speaker 5: become irresistible to any woman on earth, even married women. Brooks,

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Speaker 5: So look out. Maybe get your ear plugs ready before

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Speaker 5: we talk to him.

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Speaker 2: I love those gone boys.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we're gonna learn more in a second. First, let's

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Speaker 5: say hello to Bobby, who needs our spiritual guidance today. Bobby,

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Speaker 5: welcome to the show.

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Speaker 13: Hey, guys, how you doing.

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Speaker 1: I wanted you to be Steve, the originator of all

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Speaker 1: of this, but barely you're Bobby.

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Speaker 2: That works too.

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Speaker 13: Oh it can't be everything. I guess all the time.

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Speaker 13: I'm doing my best here, I'm doing my best.

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Speaker 2: Isn't isn't calling our show?

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Speaker 1: Breaking rules one in three already.

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Speaker 13: Of your expect Yeah, you guys are on to me.

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Speaker 13: But it's a desperate situation.

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Speaker 9: I need you.

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Speaker 2: That's rule number four. Be desperate. Jeffer just didn't get

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Speaker 2: to it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, So tell us who's this woman that's making you

486
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Speaker 5: go against everything you believe in. Her name is Tory.

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Speaker 13: She's super hot and she's super nice and we just

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Speaker 13: had an amazing day and like, I don't know, normally

489
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Speaker 13: a woman would respond to all these philosophical things I've done,

490
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Speaker 13: but it's completely backfiring on me.

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Speaker 14: Now, because if you're excited about someone and it's like

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Speaker 14: the first time you've ever felt this way, like lean

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Speaker 14: into it, Like life's too short to be desireless.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you could tell sometimes if someone's like purposely waiting

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Speaker 4: till you try to.

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Speaker 5: Do it, Like, yeah, next thing, you know, you end

497
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Speaker 5: up on this show and you hit your rock bottom.

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Speaker 5: So wow, Bobby, tell us, how did you get to

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Speaker 5: this point? Like, tell us about your date with Tori?

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Speaker 2: How did you know her? Is it an online thing

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Speaker 2: or no?

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Speaker 13: No, I met her at a bar. I just kind

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Speaker 13: of bumped into her. And it had to be desirefull

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Speaker 13: in the beginning, and then you be desire less.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's how it works.

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Speaker 5: Okay, it makes sense.

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Speaker 13: I'm in the phase between desireless and be excellent. And uh,

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Speaker 13: we're waiting outside the restaurant because it's like a popular place,

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Speaker 13: you know. Okay, so I had my opportunity to be

510
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Speaker 13: just come upon me.

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Speaker 10: It was awesome.

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Speaker 5: What are you excellent at?

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Speaker 11: Friend?

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Speaker 1: Oh, I'm excited what this opportunity was.

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Speaker 5: What happened?

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Speaker 13: So this foreign family, I'm not sure where they were from.

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Speaker 13: I didn't speak whatever language they like. Vaguely I can

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Speaker 13: tell they're looking for a specific museum, like a really

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Speaker 13: famous ranger.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so they're like tourists in the area and they

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Speaker 1: need some help.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, exactly. Okay, they weren't understanding my directions, so I

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Speaker 13: was just like with my fingers, I was like, I

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Speaker 13: will walk you there, you know, like little like walking

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Speaker 13: man fingers.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Interesting.

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Speaker 1: Most people would pull out Google Translate on their phone.

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Speaker 6: And pull it up on their phone on Google Maps.

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Speaker 13: Yeah but okay, yeah, but Google Maps is an excellent

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Speaker 13: I want.

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Speaker 1: To be You're gonna leave your date standing in front

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Speaker 1: of the restaurant while you walk this family?

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Speaker 13: Absolutely not. I took her with me.

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Speaker 5: So now you're demonstrating that you're a guy who's willing

536
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Speaker 5: to help strangers. You know your way around the neighborhood

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Speaker 5: generally a lot of excellent quality.

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Speaker 2: You know what a museum is, yes, you know exactly.

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Speaker 5: So did you go straight to the bedroom from the museum?

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Speaker 5: Did you have to do more?

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Speaker 13: Well, you know, if you have the chance to be

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Speaker 13: excellent twice, let's do it twice. And luckily for your

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Speaker 13: boy here, he was excellent twice in one night.

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Speaker 5: Whoa at the museum? So many directions back to the restaurant?

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Speaker 2: Wow, what did you do the second time?

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Speaker 13: So second time we're having dinner. Dinner is like pretty

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Speaker 13: much finishing up, and you could just tell like someone

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Speaker 13: dined and dash, someone hadn't paid their billh yeah, like

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Speaker 13: the waiters were all huddling together and stuff, and like

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Speaker 13: it was an expensive bill.

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Speaker 8: It was a big deal.

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

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Speaker 13: I took care of the bill and I tipped the waiter,

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Speaker 13: just kind of nonchalant.

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Speaker 5: Like, oh wow, super nice bro.

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Speaker 1: I thought you're going to go to hero mode and

557
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Speaker 1: tackle the dining and dasher, but you just took care

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Speaker 1: of it.

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Speaker 13: I mean, I think tackling the dining and dasher is cool,

560
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Speaker 13: but it's even cooler to be nonchalo.

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Speaker 5: How do you be nonchalant after just going over and

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Speaker 5: paying someone else's bill? Like, what do you say to

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Speaker 5: Torri when you come back to the table.

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Speaker 13: Well, the thing is you say nothing, and you wait

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Speaker 13: for her to question you what was that?

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Speaker 9: And then you.

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Speaker 1: Reveal, wow, did she fall into that ploy?

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Speaker 10: She was like, what was that?

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Speaker 13: I was like, I just took care of it.

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Speaker 5: A little shoulder shrug.

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Speaker 1: No, biggie, no, while you're checking your bake, stage me

572
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Speaker 1: to make sure it doesn't bounce.

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Speaker 10: These things.

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Speaker 13: These are investments.

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Speaker 5: Okay, you are investing though, because you know she's gonna

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Speaker 5: think about little things.

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Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, it's a gentleman thing to do.

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Speaker 5: We're all impressed. Did it work on Tory?

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Speaker 13: If you had asked me in the moment, I was like,

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Speaker 13: couldn't be better. I walked her home, we hugged, I

581
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Speaker 13: gave her a peck on the cheeks, said, we talked, dude.

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Speaker 13: And then it turns out she goned me.

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Speaker 7: Oh no, yeah, the gonner got gone.

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Speaker 13: You never hit me up.

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Speaker 1: How long did you wait before you contacted her after

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Speaker 1: the date?

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Speaker 13: Well, I mean, like, according to the rules I live

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Speaker 13: by and trying to be gone, So I was trying

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Speaker 13: to be gone for a while.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I just that's your answer right there.

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Speaker 12: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Do you think she thought she got ghosts?

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Speaker 10: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: You don't hear from someone after a first date, you're

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Speaker 6: not yea.

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Speaker 5: So maybe your rules are playing against you if you're

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Speaker 5: sticking to them.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, but like after like four or five days, I

599
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Speaker 13: just couldn't take it anymore and I just started texting

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Speaker 13: her and I was absolutely desireful, not excellent, and I

601
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Speaker 13: was pregnant.

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Speaker 8: Man, she broke you.

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Speaker 5: I tell you, Steve would be so disappointed in your

604
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Speaker 5: behavior when.

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Speaker 1: I tell myself I'm going to eat healthy and then

606
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Speaker 1: what do you know, a whole box of oreos ends up.

607
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Speaker 2: In my mouth.

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Speaker 5: And now you're reaching out to us, which I think

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Speaker 5: breaks your first rule of like be desireless, because now

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Speaker 5: you're asking a radio show to show how much you

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Speaker 5: want to hang out.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, I mean all the rules are out of the

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Speaker 13: window at this point. I want Tori so bad.

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Speaker 5: We're throwing every rule that we know out the window.

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Speaker 5: When we come back and call Tory for you and

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Speaker 5: try to get her to agree to abide by the

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Speaker 5: tow of Bobby and give you one more chance with

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Speaker 5: your second date update right after this hold on.

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Speaker 8: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning. Second date updates.

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Speaker 5: You know you're in a good place when you find

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Speaker 5: yourself abandoning your entire belief system to score a date

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Speaker 5: with a woman. I've abandoned my belief six times since

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Speaker 5: I got to work today. Oh, and it feels great.

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Speaker 1: I don't know we could call a dating strategy your

625
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Speaker 1: belief system.

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Speaker 2: That he's a little dramatic.

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Speaker 5: Well, that's what Bobby says. He told us he used

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Speaker 5: to live by a dating philosophy called the taw of Steve, which,

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Speaker 5: if you didn't hear, it's basically three rules about demonstrating

630
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Speaker 5: your value while also not coming across as desperate or

631
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Speaker 5: too available. Okay, so he's stuck to those very strictly

632
00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:51,680
Speaker 5: until he met Tory Yeah, and said, screw it, Tory's

633
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:53,320
Speaker 5: way too hot. I need to know why she's not

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00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:54,560
Speaker 5: calling me back right now.

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Speaker 1: I mean he lasted four days until he started incessantly

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Speaker 1: texting her.

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Speaker 7: Exactly yeah, with no response.

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00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:01,720
Speaker 5: Now, Bobby, I'm assuming you don't want us to tell

639
00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:04,560
Speaker 5: Tory about your mantra and the rules that you follow,

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00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:06,919
Speaker 5: unless how you already told her, did you?

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Speaker 13: No? No, No, I didn't tell her my philosophy. Don't

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00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:12,480
Speaker 13: tell her, that's part of it.

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00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:13,199
Speaker 5: You don't say it.

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00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:15,080
Speaker 4: But also, do you assume most singles out there try

645
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Speaker 4: to do the same general thing, play hard to get,

646
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:18,359
Speaker 4: not be too available.

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00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:20,880
Speaker 7: It's pretty com be excellent.

648
00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:25,679
Speaker 13: Yeah yeah, yeah, but like this is my secret sauce.

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00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 13: Tell them the secret sauce.

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Speaker 5: I think it's admirable that as a plan, because mine

651
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:31,720
Speaker 5: is just drink a lot and hope for the best.

652
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:35,119
Speaker 5: So in a better spot than a lot of people.

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Speaker 2: And we've all seen you after you drink a lot.

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Speaker 2: It's not.

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Speaker 5: What she's a crier to.

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00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, well that's exactly right.

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00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:45,720
Speaker 5: Let's call Tory. We'll see what she has to say.

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00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 5: Why she's not calling you back. Hopefully she picks up,

659
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 5: and I'm dialing your number right now here we go

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00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:50,880
Speaker 5: pick up for us?

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00:28:50,880 --> 00:29:00,400
Speaker 10: How is she? Hello?

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00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 5: Hey, we're looking to speak with toy.

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00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 10: Can I ask you's calling?

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Speaker 5: Yes? You can. We're a radio show. We're called Brook

665
00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:08,640
Speaker 5: and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:10,360
Speaker 7: Hey, Torri also here.

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Speaker 10: I'm sorry, what's going on?

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00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:16,480
Speaker 5: We're doing a segment on our show called the Second

669
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Speaker 5: Date Update where we're trying to help out one of

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Speaker 5: our listeners get in touch with you after you already

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00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:22,960
Speaker 5: went on one day with him.

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Speaker 10: It's just like some internet thing or no.

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Speaker 5: No, it's much more disgraceful.

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Speaker 7: It's a radio thing, yeah, but it's also a podcast.

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Speaker 5: Focus on the radio part. That's the cool bit of this,

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00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 5: because we're just trying to get some answers for Bobby

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Speaker 5: about why you're not hanging out again or even talking

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Speaker 5: to him at all.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it was a date, okay, I mean you

680
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Speaker 1: could see. It's probably pretty obvious that it's driving him

681
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Speaker 1: nuts not knowing why you're not calling because.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, I mean, it's kind of just felt like I

683
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Speaker 10: was on a date with someone who was giving attention

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Speaker 10: to everyone and everything else except me.

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Speaker 1: Why do you say that?

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Speaker 10: Even when we first got to the restaurant, we were

687
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Speaker 10: waiting and he offered to show some people that were

688
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Speaker 10: lost the way to the museum. But that's nice, Yeah,

689
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Speaker 10: but I was starving and we lost our reservation, so

690
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Speaker 10: we had to wait another thirty minutes.

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Speaker 5: No, because you were gone.

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Speaker 1: Oh I could see that happening actually, And I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: not only that if she's in heels, like it's not

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Speaker 1: comfortable to walk.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So you don't value helping people, you value material.

696
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Speaker 7: Things like, don't come at her like that.

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Speaker 5: Oh, I'm trying to understand where your thought processes.

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Speaker 10: I mean that was just one part of the date. Like,

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Speaker 10: even when we were inside he would compliment the weight staff,

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Speaker 10: But how dare he never once complimented me in Oh.

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Speaker 5: That's important, like the focus of the whole night. Told

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Speaker 5: the weight staff to compliment you for going to do

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Speaker 5: it directly, it's so beautiful? Could you also relay that

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Speaker 5: to her?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they didn't compliment you, because I mean he gushed

706
00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:06,400
Speaker 1: about you to us, about and lovely and nice you were.

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Speaker 1: He never said anything like that to you.

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Speaker 10: No, I mean even when I was in the middle

709
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Speaker 10: of a story. I was telling him about my vacation

710
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Speaker 10: to Europe, and he got up in the middle of

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00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 10: it and went and picked up a nap and somebody

712
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Speaker 10: else dropped at another table.

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Speaker 5: He's almost like, it's gonna sound funny. He's almost like

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Speaker 5: too nice.

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Speaker 6: Guys, you think she cares about things that she does.

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Speaker 4: Like, guys think girls are impressed by those things, not

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Speaker 4: just listening to them, you know.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, And like even at the end, he held the

719
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Speaker 10: door up in for someone else and then went out

720
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Speaker 10: behind them, not holding the door for me.

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Speaker 2: And didn't what the heck do you think? Here's the thing?

722
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Speaker 1: Obviously he's a kind person. Do you think that he

723
00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 1: was just nervous and maybe that's why those things didn't

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Speaker 1: happen for you.

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Speaker 10: He didn't seem nervous, and he was super nice, polite

726
00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:55,640
Speaker 10: talking with everyone else.

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, But a lot of times guys don't want to, like,

728
00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:02,120
Speaker 5: seem too desperate in front of a girl and won't

729
00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 5: say the thing that they're feeling because it don't make

730
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:08,960
Speaker 5: them seem you know, beta, which is a thing that

731
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:11,520
Speaker 5: it's a complex that guys.

732
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Speaker 1: Have and that's why they slam doors in their face.

733
00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:18,440
Speaker 5: Is But maybe he was just in his own head

734
00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:20,680
Speaker 5: too much and we should probably ask him about it,

735
00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:23,560
Speaker 5: because Bobby is waiting on the other line wanting to

736
00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:24,960
Speaker 5: compliment you profusely.

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Speaker 10: I'm sorry, what Yeah, he's.

738
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Speaker 5: Been listening to this call, Bobby.

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Speaker 12: You're there a coming in high little smooth lit there, Bobby,

740
00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:41,040
Speaker 12: anything you want to say to her?

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Speaker 13: Tory, you didn't like all those excellent things I did

742
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:48,720
Speaker 13: set you up there?

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Speaker 10: I mean, what was the point of me being there

744
00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:53,320
Speaker 10: if you weren't going to give any attention or participate

745
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:54,160
Speaker 10: in the date at all.

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Speaker 13: I mean, you didn't really give me a lot of

747
00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:00,320
Speaker 13: attention After the date you know, I gave you a

748
00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:02,160
Speaker 13: lot of texts and calls and stuff.

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Speaker 10: Why would I do that give attention to someone who

750
00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:08,000
Speaker 10: clearly didn't have the time of day for me.

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00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 13: No, uh, that's that's really that's for you.

752
00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:14,600
Speaker 5: That's not it.

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Speaker 13: Okay. So basically, Bobby, wait, wait, hold on, are you

754
00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 13: sure you want to do this?

755
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just like apologize.

756
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 5: And compliment her.

757
00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:28,000
Speaker 13: Yeah, but like you guys want me to lie there,

758
00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:29,719
Speaker 13: I don't want to lie there. I gotta be honest.

759
00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:34,959
Speaker 5: We say, compliment her, that's a lie, go for it.

760
00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:38,400
Speaker 5: Then clear your chest, man, then go for it.

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Speaker 10: Bobby, what do you have to tell me? But can

762
00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 10: you hurry up? But got things to do?

763
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 13: Okay, Okay, So like I live by these these philosophical rules,

764
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:50,360
Speaker 13: all of which you don't really need to know about.

765
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Speaker 13: But basically, like I was, I was trying to demonstrate

766
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:58,560
Speaker 13: value and be excellent for you two other people. You know.

767
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:01,520
Speaker 13: Maybe it came off as like I do care about you,

768
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:03,680
Speaker 13: but I was like trying to do these things to

769
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Speaker 13: show you what I'm capable of, like my potential and stuff.

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Speaker 5: I can pick up a napkin so fast, yes.

771
00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:12,920
Speaker 13: Yeah, exactly, I can pick up a napkin so fast.

772
00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 10: Yeah, right now, I don't even know what you're talking about.

773
00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:18,080
Speaker 10: Right now, Like, all you have to do is ask

774
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:20,960
Speaker 10: me questions and listen and compliment.

775
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:22,440
Speaker 7: That is a lot to ask for.

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00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:26,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, that is the thing is complimenting kind of goes

777
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:29,440
Speaker 5: against the philosophy that he believes in.

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Speaker 3: So well, that would be part of being excellent.

779
00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:34,279
Speaker 5: No, i'd be breaking desireless.

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Speaker 7: But yeah, but you do that.

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Speaker 1: He said after the first eight See, this is the

782
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:40,400
Speaker 1: whole thing with rules, Like they get so complicated. Why

783
00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:42,400
Speaker 1: don't you just be a normal human and have a

784
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 1: good conversation.

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00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:47,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, let's get rid of laws too, Jeff, that doesn't

786
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:49,160
Speaker 5: no structure.

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Speaker 13: I think I know what she's talking about. I think

788
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:54,280
Speaker 13: she just doesn't like people who do good things.

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Speaker 7: Here's a question, Tory.

790
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Speaker 1: If he would have done those things for the other

791
00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:04,439
Speaker 1: people well, and also listened and complimented you and asked

792
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:07,120
Speaker 1: you questions, how would you have felt?

793
00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:10,480
Speaker 10: I mean, it would have been better, But I'm not

794
00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:13,680
Speaker 10: sure why he needed to focus on everything else except

795
00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:15,480
Speaker 10: our date. But I can't.

796
00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:18,960
Speaker 13: I can't do all those things. I was already tired

797
00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:20,000
Speaker 13: doing the other stuff.

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Speaker 2: It's a lot, man, So it's one or the other.

799
00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:24,760
Speaker 2: Fore you you're either.

800
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:27,680
Speaker 5: Fully thinking, strategizing, or you're doing nothing.

801
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:28,879
Speaker 2: He's not a multitasker.

802
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:32,560
Speaker 13: Yeah, like, I'm sorry for being excellent.

803
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:37,480
Speaker 7: That's not the apology that she stepped in before that.

804
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:41,880
Speaker 5: But the one thing that he is focused on right now, Tori,

805
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:44,920
Speaker 5: his only focus is getting another date with you. That

806
00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:47,440
Speaker 5: is why he reached out to a radio show to

807
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:50,400
Speaker 5: get a hold of you and arrange a second meetup.

808
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:52,360
Speaker 5: And we would pay for it if you're willing to

809
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:53,400
Speaker 5: give him a second chance.

810
00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:56,680
Speaker 10: I think I'm good. I don't want to be with

811
00:35:56,800 --> 00:35:58,640
Speaker 10: someone who just likes to grandstand.

812
00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:01,680
Speaker 5: But remember, Bobby's not good, he's excellent, So you could

813
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:02,520
Speaker 5: level up.

814
00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:05,879
Speaker 1: I mean now he knows right like now, the expectations

815
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:08,280
Speaker 1: of what you're looking for out there, Like you might.

816
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:10,359
Speaker 3: As well give him a chance to make that happen.

817
00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:10,680
Speaker 2: Don't you think.

818
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:15,160
Speaker 13: Yeah, I'm listening out. Look, you're hot, and I'll pick

819
00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:17,680
Speaker 13: up your napkin and like you want me to ask

820
00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:20,320
Speaker 13: you questions? What are you doing next Friday? Let's get dinner.

821
00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:24,000
Speaker 2: That was actually the smoothest thing he's ever done.

822
00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:27,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, Tory, what do you think I'm gonna pass.

823
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:32,000
Speaker 10: We did our best, honestly, he just he came on

824
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:33,640
Speaker 10: way too strong at the end.

825
00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:43,720
Speaker 15: And oh, Bobby, you're back to square one, dude.

826
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 13: These rules just like don't work for some people, like

827
00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:51,320
Speaker 13: I'm desireless, doesn't work, I'm desireful, it doesn't work. I'm excellent,

828
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:54,000
Speaker 13: I'm too excellent, I'm gone, I'm too gone.

829
00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:56,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, welcome to dating women, buddy. It's gonna be a

830
00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:57,080
Speaker 5: long road.

831
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Speaker 4: Nobody said too excellent but yourself.

832
00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:03,879
Speaker 8: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

833
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:07,520
Speaker 5: You know, after thousands of second date calls, I'm starting

834
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:12,319
Speaker 5: to notice a trend. Sometimes men don't listen very good.

835
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:15,839
Speaker 2: Wait are you just now hearing that?

836
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:19,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm thousands. I don't know if anybody saw this,

837
00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:22,080
Speaker 5: but even when guys get here like beating over the

838
00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:26,000
Speaker 5: head with good information, sometimes it just doesn't register for guys.

839
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:29,920
Speaker 5: We're also sometimes information doesn't register.

840
00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:33,000
Speaker 2: Like it's hard to sometimes change right?

841
00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:33,959
Speaker 7: What this guy?

842
00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:35,600
Speaker 10: Sorry?

843
00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:36,200
Speaker 5: What were you saying?

844
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:39,759
Speaker 1: This guy was so like stuck on his plan that

845
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 1: when it was the problem, he couldn't like he could

846
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:44,240
Speaker 1: ship pivot?

847
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:49,840
Speaker 5: What is Brooks saying? I don't know. Next time you

848
00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 5: get angry at a man for not listening. Maybe turn

849
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:55,680
Speaker 5: your attention to God from making us that way.

850
00:37:55,960 --> 00:37:57,960
Speaker 7: It's I see, it's it's God's fault.

851
00:37:58,200 --> 00:37:59,000
Speaker 5: Thanks a lot God.

852
00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:00,800
Speaker 7: God's fault put us in a bad.

853
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:03,080
Speaker 5: Spot over here, But we can put you into a

854
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:04,759
Speaker 5: good spot in your dating life. If you want some

855
00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 5: help with that. At least we'll try email the show.

856
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:09,400
Speaker 5: We'll call that person who's not calling you back, and

857
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 5: two out of the.

858
00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:11,319
Speaker 2: Four of us will actually hear what you said.

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00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:14,040
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, maybe on a good day. I'm just happy

860
00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:15,520
Speaker 5: to be here. Go check out all of our second

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Speaker 5: Day podcast wherever you get yours at Brook and Jeffrey