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<v Speaker 1>to me how many people have actually been ditched in

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<v Speaker 1>the middle of a date at a restaurant to Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god. As a former server, I've seen it and

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<v Speaker 1>it's m for everyone involved, even us. Oh yeah. Over

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<v Speaker 1>the years, we've talked with a lot of them, people wondering,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, what did I do wrong? Right? Was it

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<v Speaker 1>that my hair was messed up? Did my breath stink?

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<v Speaker 1>You know? Just because I pulled it out doesn't mean

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<v Speaker 1>they need to run away. Okay, that's I don't. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think you're talking about your spoon, are you. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, wait, wait a minute. And usually when we

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<v Speaker 1>talk to those people, the person who needs our help

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<v Speaker 1>is the ditchy yeah, not the ditcher. But today it's

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit different. That's who's on the phone with

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<v Speaker 1>us for a second date update. The person that walked

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<v Speaker 1>out is on the phone? Who her name is, Jocelyn?

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<v Speaker 1>And Jocelyn, you're basically admitting that you're a total backstabbing ditch. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not admitting that. I'm admitting that I disched someone,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'll tell you why. Yeah, you got a hard

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<v Speaker 1>heel to climb up. Right now, Jocelyn, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>tell you that there's a lot of people who are

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<v Speaker 1>already judging. Yeah, so tell us the name of the

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<v Speaker 1>guy you were being a ditch too? Was don't say it?

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<v Speaker 1>Who did you leave at the restaurant? Jocelyn. Well, the

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<v Speaker 1>guy's name is Grant, and I met him through a

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<v Speaker 1>friend of a friend. Okay, yeah, but that's even worse

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<v Speaker 1>because that gets dicey, right, friend of a friends. Who

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<v Speaker 1>if you ditch someone on a date and they're a

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<v Speaker 1>friend of a friend, did you also ruin friendships? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot on the line for you right now, Jocelyn, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it hasn't gone that far yet. This only happened a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of days ago, so we'll see, all right, So

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<v Speaker 1>tell us about your date. What happened? Well, when we met,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we were writing back and forth, and then

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<v Speaker 1>he asked me to dinner, and I really didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>him very well. I just thought, you know, he's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of pre screened because we know people are in common

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, and we were having a good time,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I didn't know whether we would have anything to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about. But it turns out that we're both runners.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, you ran right out of that restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what it is. She was proven into how fast

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<v Speaker 1>she was, so sorry, keep going. What else happened? Okay, Well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we bonded over that and how much we like it.

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<v Speaker 1>And so then Grant said that he has to use

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<v Speaker 1>the bathroom. Okay, and up until this point, you're thinking, oh, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>this is going great. Yes, but let me tell you

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<v Speaker 1>what happened when he said he had to go to

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<v Speaker 1>the bathroom. Okay, it was weird because from where I

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<v Speaker 1>was sitting, I could see him talking to someone in

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<v Speaker 1>the doorway of the bathroom, but I couldn't see who

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<v Speaker 1>it was that he was talking to. Okay, so he's

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<v Speaker 1>talking to another person over by the bathroom. Yeah, which

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of weird because I didn't think we knew

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<v Speaker 1>anybody there. But anyway, then when he came back to

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<v Speaker 1>the table, he was different. He was like all sweaty

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<v Speaker 1>and nervous, and I tried to start up the conversation again,

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<v Speaker 1>but he was so distracted, and then he had to

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<v Speaker 1>go use the bathroom again. Okay, I mean my first

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<v Speaker 1>thought is actually he has like some sort of bowel issue,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, food poisoning something. No, you were right when

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<v Speaker 1>you said the drug deal, I think, because then he

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<v Speaker 1>was talking to another person again. I mean, they passed

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<v Speaker 1>something back and forth to each other, and I thought,

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<v Speaker 1>for guests, this is he using our date to cover

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<v Speaker 1>up a drug deal. Oh, you're being serious. You see

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<v Speaker 1>why I walked out because I've had issues in the

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<v Speaker 1>path and my X was a drug addict. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>need to get involved with any of that. So wait,

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<v Speaker 1>so wait, he's at the bathroom and you see him

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<v Speaker 1>pass something to somebody else, and that's when you're just like,

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<v Speaker 1>screw it and left right. It just gave me a

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<v Speaker 1>really bad feeling. I don't want any part of that,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just thought, you know, that's just not normal,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just went outside and ducked into a nearby store.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Oh my god, I don't. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>much about how drug deals work, but I do know

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<v Speaker 1>a lot about what happens inside restaurant bathrooms, so this

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<v Speaker 1>checks out. This definitely checks out, Jocelyn. I think for

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<v Speaker 1>sure he was doing drugs, either doing it or selling

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<v Speaker 1>it or whatever. And I saw him out there looking

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<v Speaker 1>for me, and I just stayed hidden until I saw

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<v Speaker 1>him leave. And you know, he's been texting me a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Am I okay? And what happened? And honestly, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what to tell him. Well, I mean, we're all

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<v Speaker 1>assuming it's a drug deal, but I don't know. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>his special seasoning that he wanted to put on his

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<v Speaker 1>there could be another plausible thing. That's all I'm saying, like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I thought too, that there could be some

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<v Speaker 1>other explanation. It's just if you guys could have seen

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<v Speaker 1>what I saw when he came back. He was like

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<v Speaker 1>a different person. He was like shaky and sweating, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was really weird. That's what's weird. Well, he may

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<v Speaker 1>have just been nervous for being on a great date

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<v Speaker 1>with you, But how are you not nervous off the

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<v Speaker 1>get go right or nervous through the date. It's probably off, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>I Mean, there's a lot of signs that are pointing

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<v Speaker 1>against him right now? Yes? Are you wanting to hear

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<v Speaker 1>him out? You wanting to accuse him? What is our

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<v Speaker 1>what's our plan of attack here? Hey crackhead? Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>really want you guys to help me figure out what

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<v Speaker 1>to do. Like should I hear him out? Should I

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<v Speaker 1>never talk to him again? Should I ask him straight up?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what happened? Why are you acting like that? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I think we're gonna have to talk to him again

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<v Speaker 1>if we want to continue with the second date up. So,

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<v Speaker 1>if it's not the drug deal, would you consider giving

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<v Speaker 1>him another shot? I think I might, but I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what explanation it's gonna be. I mean, you never know,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm open to the possibility. All right, Well, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna play a song, give this guy a call, and

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<v Speaker 1>then get your second date up date. Okay, thank you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, hold on rooking Jubil in the morning. Second

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<v Speaker 1>updates If you're just tuning in for today's second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>We've got Joscelyn on the phone. And Jocelyn walked out

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<v Speaker 1>on her date Grant halfway through dinner because she's pretty

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<v Speaker 1>sure she may have seen him possibly buying drugs over

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<v Speaker 1>by the restaurant bathrooms. And if I've learned anything from

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<v Speaker 1>the DARE program, it's that drugs are bad bad. That

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<v Speaker 1>DARE program didn't sorry, may have changed it since I

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<v Speaker 1>was in How long ago that was? But anyway, Jocelyn

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<v Speaker 1>ditched him after that. She hasn't responded to any of

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<v Speaker 1>his calls or texts yet. Instead, she wants us to

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<v Speaker 1>reach out to him and figure out what was really

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<v Speaker 1>happening that night. Jocelyn, are you ready to do this? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready. And you know, he could have been selling

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<v Speaker 1>drugs too, could have been the other way around. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he would have paid for your dinner, Jocelyn, you just

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get him a chance to do it. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think that's better, okay. I mean I think this will

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<v Speaker 1>be good because you'll be able to hear him talking

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<v Speaker 1>to us, and you'll be able to tell if he's

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<v Speaker 1>lying or not unless he's on drugs. People on drugs

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<v Speaker 1>are usually not very smart, Jeffrey, you would know, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're gonna call Grant here in a second. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you ready, Jocelyn? I'm ready. I'm love you for hearing

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<v Speaker 1>him out. Okay, I'm gonna doubt the phone number. Right

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<v Speaker 1>now here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to

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<v Speaker 1>Grant please? This is Grant. Took you while to remember that. Hey, Grant,

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<v Speaker 1>my name's young Jeffrey. I worked for a radio station

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<v Speaker 1>called Brook and Jewel in the morning. Him. Why are

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<v Speaker 1>you calling? We're hoping you could sell us something. No, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we need to know something. Yes, Um, sure nice, Sorry, Grant.

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<v Speaker 1>We're doing something called the second date update. Have you

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<v Speaker 1>ever heard about that before? I mean, yeah, maybe that's solid.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll take it just as a reminder in case you

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<v Speaker 1>haven't heard it. It's where if you go out with

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<v Speaker 1>someone and then afterwards you can't get a hold of them,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll call and try and figure out why. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>This one's kind of different though. Yeah. The weird thing

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<v Speaker 1>is in this scenario you are actually reaching out to

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<v Speaker 1>the person, so it's a little bit backwards. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>person not being clear? No, the person who ditched you, Grant,

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<v Speaker 1>contacted us. They haven't been contacting you right as you

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<v Speaker 1>can tell. This is confusing. The whole point is, do

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<v Speaker 1>you know what we're talking about? We don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about. U. I think I know what you're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about. Um, Jocelyn, Yes see we got there, You

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<v Speaker 1>get me, grant, I probably would have gotten there a

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<v Speaker 1>lot quicker if you just said her name at the beginning. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you're right, you're right. The thing is, Jocelyn wanted us

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<v Speaker 1>to reach out to you because we want to know

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<v Speaker 1>what happened from your perspective on that date. Yeah, I've

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<v Speaker 1>been trying to call her to ask her about it.

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<v Speaker 1>But did she tell you why she left? She kind

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<v Speaker 1>of hinted at it, But it would I think it

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<v Speaker 1>would really help us if we got your perspective on

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<v Speaker 1>what happened. First. Okay, she was really nice and like

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<v Speaker 1>really pretty, and I thought it was going well, Like

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<v Speaker 1>we talked about travel and runners both run, which you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought I was going really well. And I came

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<v Speaker 1>back from from the bathroom and then she was gone.

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<v Speaker 1>But she said that you went to the bathroom twice. Sure,

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<v Speaker 1>she mentioned that you did look kind of nervous and

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<v Speaker 1>sweaty after you would make a trip to the restroom. God,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe it. I mean, in her words, you

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<v Speaker 1>came back and you were a totally different person after

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<v Speaker 1>you into the bathroom. You came back, you were nervous.

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<v Speaker 1>It was weird. Ye Oh my god, you'd try to

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<v Speaker 1>do something good for someone and it blows up in

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<v Speaker 1>your face. What does what does that mean? I wish

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<v Speaker 1>I could have talked to her a few days ago.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it didn't have to reach this level. But

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<v Speaker 1>this is a little ridiculous. Okay, well, look, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to tell us what the situation is. Maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't mind just telling Jocelyn. That's what I've been trying

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<v Speaker 1>to do, but she doesn't want to talk to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, well you you're actually going to have an

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<v Speaker 1>opportunity to talk to her right now because she's been

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone listening this whole time. What are you kidding? No,

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<v Speaker 1>she's there, Jocelyn Grant. This is Jocelyn. Oh my god. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>why haven't you been returning my call? I's been calling

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<v Speaker 1>you endlessly. You know, I just I thought that something

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<v Speaker 1>shady was going on. I didn't know what you were doing,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, I have a history with an X

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<v Speaker 1>who was into drugs, and I thought maybe something like

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<v Speaker 1>that was going on, and I just it just freaked

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<v Speaker 1>me out, all right. I mean, if if you had

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<v Speaker 1>answered your phone, I could have explained this, just like

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<v Speaker 1>it could have been between us, and there couldn't be

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like a radio station involved like this. Wait, No,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't drugs. Oh my god, And what happened? What

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<v Speaker 1>was it? Okay? Our friend that set us up mentioned

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<v Speaker 1>that it was your birthday, and I was like, talking

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<v Speaker 1>to the waiter, we're gonna come and they were gonna

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<v Speaker 1>give you a cake. And I had to go the

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<v Speaker 1>back because they didn't have candles, and so I had

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<v Speaker 1>to tip him. But get the candles and they're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>do something nice for your birthday. We're gonna be like

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<v Speaker 1>a whole cake and candles and they're gonna sing, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was gonna be great. And you left that you

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<v Speaker 1>were paying a waiter to give her a birthday cake

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<v Speaker 1>and give her candles for the cake. No, they didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have candles, like they had to go out and get them. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel awful. I had no idea. Wait, Jocelyn, do

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<v Speaker 1>you believe him like a baggye of candles? You? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, That's just what I visioned. I do believe him.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel terrible. I'm so sorry. I I'm sorry because

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<v Speaker 1>I heard it through in the past. I guess it

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<v Speaker 1>just triggered something and I got really scared. I hope

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<v Speaker 1>you can forgive me. I don't know, I'm a little frustrated,

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest, dude, don't you have a right to

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<v Speaker 1>be I just I hope maybe you can understand it.

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<v Speaker 1>I really thought there was something shady because I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know you very well. And that's so sweet that you

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<v Speaker 1>were trying to do that for me. That's really sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, just like the level of conclusions that you

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<v Speaker 1>jumped to. Yeah, why would you jump straight to drugs, Jocelyn? Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't at all. Like I said, I've been through

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<v Speaker 1>that in the past, and I really thought that that's

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<v Speaker 1>what was happening. I still kind of think it was

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<v Speaker 1>what was happening. I don't know by the only like

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<v Speaker 1>cynic over here, are you sure, Grant? I like people

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<v Speaker 1>would have to bring in their own candles and flowers

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<v Speaker 1>exactly like I probably could have prepared better going into it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but the restaurant's supposed to have candles? Am I wrong them?

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<v Speaker 1>I guess? I mean, all right, what color candles were they? Brook?

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to make sure do not buy it red? Reasonable,

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<v Speaker 1>So that's the color Brook? So Jocelyn, you believe him.

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<v Speaker 1>You you really believe that it was I do, I

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<v Speaker 1>really believe. I'm glad I'm hearing this now. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>really bad. All right. Well, in that case, if this

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<v Speaker 1>is really what happened, we would like to send you

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<v Speaker 1>guys out on a second date. If you'll both agree

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<v Speaker 1>to go out again. We'll pay for it. We're not

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<v Speaker 1>going to pay for candles, for another cake, but drugs.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not going to pay for either of those things.

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<v Speaker 1>But we will pay for a dinner. I definitely would

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<v Speaker 1>like to, and I hope you will too, Grant. I

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<v Speaker 1>hope we can just start over again. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to think about it. This is kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a lot right now. Okay, Wow, I understand. I just

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<v Speaker 1>I hope that you'll decide to go out. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really I usually communicate much better than that. I

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<v Speaker 1>just was really freaked out. I mean, seriously, Grant, you

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<v Speaker 1>accused a guy one time of being a drug dealer,

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<v Speaker 1>and then suddenly he doesn't want to go out with

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<v Speaker 1>you again. I don't really get it. All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever you guys decide to do, just will you guys

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<v Speaker 1>keep us updated on if you guys will go out

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<v Speaker 1>again or not? Yeah? Sure, yeah, we'll keep you updated.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess such enthusiasms. No, you're you're very nice. I

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<v Speaker 1>like you. I mean, I'm very sorry. I hope we

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<v Speaker 1>can get together again. I don't want you to call

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<v Speaker 1>a fence if I have to go take a leak,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean? That would be amazing, all right, Jocelyn, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>sorry we couldn't get you a second date. And uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess happy birthday, Yeah, question mark broken jewel in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning.