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Speaker 1: your favorite store. Fucking jewels. Second date update. It's crazy
Speaker 1: to me how many people have actually been ditched in
Speaker 1: the middle of a date at a restaurant to Oh
Speaker 1: my god. As a former server, I've seen it and
Speaker 1: it's m for everyone involved, even us. Oh yeah. Over
Speaker 1: the years, we've talked with a lot of them, people wondering,
Speaker 1: you know, what did I do wrong? Right? Was it
Speaker 1: that my hair was messed up? Did my breath stink?
Speaker 1: You know? Just because I pulled it out doesn't mean
Speaker 1: they need to run away. Okay, that's I don't. I
Speaker 1: don't think you're talking about your spoon, are you. I
Speaker 1: was like, wait, wait a minute. And usually when we
Speaker 1: talk to those people, the person who needs our help
Speaker 1: is the ditchy yeah, not the ditcher. But today it's
Speaker 1: a little bit different. That's who's on the phone with
Speaker 1: us for a second date update. The person that walked
Speaker 1: out is on the phone? Who her name is, Jocelyn?
Speaker 1: And Jocelyn, you're basically admitting that you're a total backstabbing ditch. Well,
Speaker 1: I'm not admitting that. I'm admitting that I disched someone,
Speaker 1: but I'll tell you why. Yeah, you got a hard
Speaker 1: heel to climb up. Right now, Jocelyn, I'm going to
Speaker 1: tell you that there's a lot of people who are
Speaker 1: already judging. Yeah, so tell us the name of the
Speaker 1: guy you were being a ditch too? Was don't say it?
Speaker 1: Who did you leave at the restaurant? Jocelyn. Well, the
Speaker 1: guy's name is Grant, and I met him through a
Speaker 1: friend of a friend. Okay, yeah, but that's even worse
Speaker 1: because that gets dicey, right, friend of a friends. Who
Speaker 1: if you ditch someone on a date and they're a
Speaker 1: friend of a friend, did you also ruin friendships? Like,
Speaker 1: there's a lot on the line for you right now, Jocelyn, Well,
Speaker 1: it hasn't gone that far yet. This only happened a
Speaker 1: couple of days ago, so we'll see, all right, So
Speaker 1: tell us about your date. What happened? Well, when we met,
Speaker 1: you know, we were writing back and forth, and then
Speaker 1: he asked me to dinner, and I really didn't know
Speaker 1: him very well. I just thought, you know, he's kind
Speaker 1: of pre screened because we know people are in common
Speaker 1: and you know, and we were having a good time,
Speaker 1: Like I didn't know whether we would have anything to
Speaker 1: talk about. But it turns out that we're both runners.
Speaker 1: And you know, you ran right out of that restaurant.
Speaker 1: That's what it is. She was proven into how fast
Speaker 1: she was, so sorry, keep going. What else happened? Okay, Well, yeah,
Speaker 1: we bonded over that and how much we like it.
Speaker 1: And so then Grant said that he has to use
Speaker 1: the bathroom. Okay, and up until this point, you're thinking, oh, wow,
Speaker 1: this is going great. Yes, but let me tell you
Speaker 1: what happened when he said he had to go to
Speaker 1: the bathroom. Okay, it was weird because from where I
Speaker 1: was sitting, I could see him talking to someone in
Speaker 1: the doorway of the bathroom, but I couldn't see who
Speaker 1: it was that he was talking to. Okay, so he's
Speaker 1: talking to another person over by the bathroom. Yeah, which
Speaker 1: was kind of weird because I didn't think we knew
Speaker 1: anybody there. But anyway, then when he came back to
Speaker 1: the table, he was different. He was like all sweaty
Speaker 1: and nervous, and I tried to start up the conversation again,
Speaker 1: but he was so distracted, and then he had to
Speaker 1: go use the bathroom again. Okay, I mean my first
Speaker 1: thought is actually he has like some sort of bowel issue,
Speaker 1: but yeah, food poisoning something. No, you were right when
Speaker 1: you said the drug deal, I think, because then he
Speaker 1: was talking to another person again. I mean, they passed
Speaker 1: something back and forth to each other, and I thought,
Speaker 1: for guests, this is he using our date to cover
Speaker 1: up a drug deal. Oh, you're being serious. You see
Speaker 1: why I walked out because I've had issues in the
Speaker 1: path and my X was a drug addict. I don't
Speaker 1: need to get involved with any of that. So wait,
Speaker 1: so wait, he's at the bathroom and you see him
Speaker 1: pass something to somebody else, and that's when you're just like,
Speaker 1: screw it and left right. It just gave me a
Speaker 1: really bad feeling. I don't want any part of that,
Speaker 1: and I just thought, you know, that's just not normal,
Speaker 1: and I just went outside and ducked into a nearby store.
Speaker 1: You know, Oh my god, I don't. I don't know
Speaker 1: much about how drug deals work, but I do know
Speaker 1: a lot about what happens inside restaurant bathrooms, so this
Speaker 1: checks out. This definitely checks out, Jocelyn. I think for
Speaker 1: sure he was doing drugs, either doing it or selling
Speaker 1: it or whatever. And I saw him out there looking
Speaker 1: for me, and I just stayed hidden until I saw
Speaker 1: him leave. And you know, he's been texting me a lot.
Speaker 1: Am I okay? And what happened? And honestly, I don't
Speaker 1: know what to tell him. Well, I mean, we're all
Speaker 1: assuming it's a drug deal, but I don't know. Maybe
Speaker 1: his special seasoning that he wanted to put on his
Speaker 1: there could be another plausible thing. That's all I'm saying, like, well,
Speaker 1: that's what I thought too, that there could be some
Speaker 1: other explanation. It's just if you guys could have seen
Speaker 1: what I saw when he came back. He was like
Speaker 1: a different person. He was like shaky and sweating, and
Speaker 1: it was really weird. That's what's weird. Well, he may
Speaker 1: have just been nervous for being on a great date
Speaker 1: with you, But how are you not nervous off the
Speaker 1: get go right or nervous through the date. It's probably off, exactly.
Speaker 1: I Mean, there's a lot of signs that are pointing
Speaker 1: against him right now? Yes? Are you wanting to hear
Speaker 1: him out? You wanting to accuse him? What is our
Speaker 1: what's our plan of attack here? Hey crackhead? Well, I
Speaker 1: really want you guys to help me figure out what
Speaker 1: to do. Like should I hear him out? Should I
Speaker 1: never talk to him again? Should I ask him straight up?
Speaker 1: You know what happened? Why are you acting like that? Well,
Speaker 1: I think we're gonna have to talk to him again
Speaker 1: if we want to continue with the second date up. So,
Speaker 1: if it's not the drug deal, would you consider giving
Speaker 1: him another shot? I think I might, but I don't
Speaker 1: know what explanation it's gonna be. I mean, you never know,
Speaker 1: so I'm open to the possibility. All right, Well, we're
Speaker 1: gonna play a song, give this guy a call, and
Speaker 1: then get your second date up date. Okay, thank you guys.
Speaker 1: All right, hold on rooking Jubil in the morning. Second
Speaker 1: updates If you're just tuning in for today's second date update.
Speaker 1: We've got Joscelyn on the phone. And Jocelyn walked out
Speaker 1: on her date Grant halfway through dinner because she's pretty
Speaker 1: sure she may have seen him possibly buying drugs over
Speaker 1: by the restaurant bathrooms. And if I've learned anything from
Speaker 1: the DARE program, it's that drugs are bad bad. That
Speaker 1: DARE program didn't sorry, may have changed it since I
Speaker 1: was in How long ago that was? But anyway, Jocelyn
Speaker 1: ditched him after that. She hasn't responded to any of
Speaker 1: his calls or texts yet. Instead, she wants us to
Speaker 1: reach out to him and figure out what was really
Speaker 1: happening that night. Jocelyn, are you ready to do this? Yes,
Speaker 1: I'm ready. And you know, he could have been selling
Speaker 1: drugs too, could have been the other way around. Maybe
Speaker 1: he would have paid for your dinner, Jocelyn, you just
Speaker 1: didn't get him a chance to do it. I don't
Speaker 1: think that's better, okay. I mean I think this will
Speaker 1: be good because you'll be able to hear him talking
Speaker 1: to us, and you'll be able to tell if he's
Speaker 1: lying or not unless he's on drugs. People on drugs
Speaker 1: are usually not very smart, Jeffrey, you would know, all right.
Speaker 1: So we're gonna call Grant here in a second. Are
Speaker 1: you ready, Jocelyn? I'm ready. I'm love you for hearing
Speaker 1: him out. Okay, I'm gonna doubt the phone number. Right
Speaker 1: now here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to
Speaker 1: Grant please? This is Grant. Took you while to remember that. Hey, Grant,
Speaker 1: my name's young Jeffrey. I worked for a radio station
Speaker 1: called Brook and Jewel in the morning. Him. Why are
Speaker 1: you calling? We're hoping you could sell us something. No, yeah,
Speaker 1: we need to know something. Yes, Um, sure nice, Sorry, Grant.
Speaker 1: We're doing something called the second date update. Have you
Speaker 1: ever heard about that before? I mean, yeah, maybe that's solid.
Speaker 1: We'll take it just as a reminder in case you
Speaker 1: haven't heard it. It's where if you go out with
Speaker 1: someone and then afterwards you can't get a hold of them,
Speaker 1: we'll call and try and figure out why. All right,
Speaker 1: This one's kind of different though. Yeah. The weird thing
Speaker 1: is in this scenario you are actually reaching out to
Speaker 1: the person, so it's a little bit backwards. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: person not being clear? No, the person who ditched you, Grant,
Speaker 1: contacted us. They haven't been contacting you right as you
Speaker 1: can tell. This is confusing. The whole point is, do
Speaker 1: you know what we're talking about? We don't know what
Speaker 1: I'm talking about. U. I think I know what you're
Speaker 1: talking about. Um, Jocelyn, Yes see we got there, You
Speaker 1: get me, grant, I probably would have gotten there a
Speaker 1: lot quicker if you just said her name at the beginning. Okay,
Speaker 1: you're right, you're right. The thing is, Jocelyn wanted us
Speaker 1: to reach out to you because we want to know
Speaker 1: what happened from your perspective on that date. Yeah, I've
Speaker 1: been trying to call her to ask her about it.
Speaker 1: But did she tell you why she left? She kind
Speaker 1: of hinted at it, But it would I think it
Speaker 1: would really help us if we got your perspective on
Speaker 1: what happened. First. Okay, she was really nice and like
Speaker 1: really pretty, and I thought it was going well, Like
Speaker 1: we talked about travel and runners both run, which you know.
Speaker 1: I thought I was going really well. And I came
Speaker 1: back from from the bathroom and then she was gone.
Speaker 1: But she said that you went to the bathroom twice. Sure,
Speaker 1: she mentioned that you did look kind of nervous and
Speaker 1: sweaty after you would make a trip to the restroom. God,
Speaker 1: I can't believe it. I mean, in her words, you
Speaker 1: came back and you were a totally different person after
Speaker 1: you into the bathroom. You came back, you were nervous.
Speaker 1: It was weird. Ye Oh my god, you'd try to
Speaker 1: do something good for someone and it blows up in
Speaker 1: your face. What does what does that mean? I wish
Speaker 1: I could have talked to her a few days ago.
Speaker 1: I mean, it didn't have to reach this level. But
Speaker 1: this is a little ridiculous. Okay, well, look, you don't
Speaker 1: have to tell us what the situation is. Maybe you
Speaker 1: wouldn't mind just telling Jocelyn. That's what I've been trying
Speaker 1: to do, but she doesn't want to talk to me.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, well you you're actually going to have an
Speaker 1: opportunity to talk to her right now because she's been
Speaker 1: on the phone listening this whole time. What are you kidding? No,
Speaker 1: she's there, Jocelyn Grant. This is Jocelyn. Oh my god. Right,
Speaker 1: why haven't you been returning my call? I's been calling
Speaker 1: you endlessly. You know, I just I thought that something
Speaker 1: shady was going on. I didn't know what you were doing,
Speaker 1: and you know, I have a history with an X
Speaker 1: who was into drugs, and I thought maybe something like
Speaker 1: that was going on, and I just it just freaked
Speaker 1: me out, all right. I mean, if if you had
Speaker 1: answered your phone, I could have explained this, just like
Speaker 1: it could have been between us, and there couldn't be
Speaker 1: you know, like a radio station involved like this. Wait, No,
Speaker 1: it wasn't drugs. Oh my god, And what happened? What
Speaker 1: was it? Okay? Our friend that set us up mentioned
Speaker 1: that it was your birthday, and I was like, talking
Speaker 1: to the waiter, we're gonna come and they were gonna
Speaker 1: give you a cake. And I had to go the
Speaker 1: back because they didn't have candles, and so I had
Speaker 1: to tip him. But get the candles and they're gonna
Speaker 1: do something nice for your birthday. We're gonna be like
Speaker 1: a whole cake and candles and they're gonna sing, and
Speaker 1: it was gonna be great. And you left that you
Speaker 1: were paying a waiter to give her a birthday cake
Speaker 1: and give her candles for the cake. No, they didn't
Speaker 1: have candles, like they had to go out and get them. Like,
Speaker 1: I feel awful. I had no idea. Wait, Jocelyn, do
Speaker 1: you believe him like a baggye of candles? You? I
Speaker 1: don't know, That's just what I visioned. I do believe him.
Speaker 1: I feel terrible. I'm so sorry. I I'm sorry because
Speaker 1: I heard it through in the past. I guess it
Speaker 1: just triggered something and I got really scared. I hope
Speaker 1: you can forgive me. I don't know, I'm a little frustrated,
Speaker 1: to be honest, dude, don't you have a right to
Speaker 1: be I just I hope maybe you can understand it.
Speaker 1: I really thought there was something shady because I don't
Speaker 1: know you very well. And that's so sweet that you
Speaker 1: were trying to do that for me. That's really sweet.
Speaker 1: I mean, just like the level of conclusions that you
Speaker 1: jumped to. Yeah, why would you jump straight to drugs, Jocelyn? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: we didn't at all. Like I said, I've been through
Speaker 1: that in the past, and I really thought that that's
Speaker 1: what was happening. I still kind of think it was
Speaker 1: what was happening. I don't know by the only like
Speaker 1: cynic over here, are you sure, Grant? I like people
Speaker 1: would have to bring in their own candles and flowers
Speaker 1: exactly like I probably could have prepared better going into it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but the restaurant's supposed to have candles? Am I wrong them?
Speaker 1: I guess? I mean, all right, what color candles were they? Brook?
Speaker 1: I just want to make sure do not buy it red? Reasonable,
Speaker 1: So that's the color Brook? So Jocelyn, you believe him.
Speaker 1: You you really believe that it was I do, I
Speaker 1: really believe. I'm glad I'm hearing this now. I feel
Speaker 1: really bad. All right. Well, in that case, if this
Speaker 1: is really what happened, we would like to send you
Speaker 1: guys out on a second date. If you'll both agree
Speaker 1: to go out again. We'll pay for it. We're not
Speaker 1: going to pay for candles, for another cake, but drugs.
Speaker 1: You're not going to pay for either of those things.
Speaker 1: But we will pay for a dinner. I definitely would
Speaker 1: like to, and I hope you will too, Grant. I
Speaker 1: hope we can just start over again. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I have to think about it. This is kind of
Speaker 1: a lot right now. Okay, Wow, I understand. I just
Speaker 1: I hope that you'll decide to go out. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm really I usually communicate much better than that. I
Speaker 1: just was really freaked out. I mean, seriously, Grant, you
Speaker 1: accused a guy one time of being a drug dealer,
Speaker 1: and then suddenly he doesn't want to go out with
Speaker 1: you again. I don't really get it. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: whatever you guys decide to do, just will you guys
Speaker 1: keep us updated on if you guys will go out
Speaker 1: again or not? Yeah? Sure, yeah, we'll keep you updated.
Speaker 1: I guess such enthusiasms. No, you're you're very nice. I
Speaker 1: like you. I mean, I'm very sorry. I hope we
Speaker 1: can get together again. I don't want you to call
Speaker 1: a fence if I have to go take a leak,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? That would be amazing, all right, Jocelyn, Well,
Speaker 1: sorry we couldn't get you a second date. And uh,
Speaker 1: I guess happy birthday, Yeah, question mark broken jewel in
Speaker 1: the morning.