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Speaker 1: to me how many people have actually been ditched in

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Speaker 1: the middle of a date at a restaurant to Oh

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Speaker 1: the years, we've talked with a lot of them, people wondering,

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Speaker 1: You know? Just because I pulled it out doesn't mean

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Speaker 1: don't think you're talking about your spoon, are you. I

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Speaker 1: And Jocelyn, you're basically admitting that you're a total backstabbing ditch. Well,

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Speaker 1: but I'll tell you why. Yeah, you got a hard

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Speaker 1: And you know, you ran right out of that restaurant.

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Speaker 1: what's our plan of attack here? Hey crackhead? Well, I

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Speaker 1: We've got Joscelyn on the phone. And Jocelyn walked out

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Speaker 1: sure she may have seen him possibly buying drugs over

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Speaker 1: happening that night. Jocelyn, are you ready to do this? Yes,

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Speaker 1: So we're gonna call Grant here in a second. Are

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Speaker 1: Grant please? This is Grant. Took you while to remember that. Hey, Grant,

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Speaker 1: my name's young Jeffrey. I worked for a radio station

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Speaker 1: called Brook and Jewel in the morning. Him. Why are

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Speaker 1: you calling? We're hoping you could sell us something. No, yeah,

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Speaker 1: This one's kind of different though. Yeah. The weird thing

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Speaker 1: what happened from your perspective on that date. Yeah, I've

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Speaker 1: I mean, it didn't have to reach this level. But

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Speaker 1: wouldn't mind just telling Jocelyn. That's what I've been trying

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Speaker 1: she's there, Jocelyn Grant. This is Jocelyn. Oh my god. Right,

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Speaker 1: why haven't you been returning my call? I's been calling

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Speaker 1: you endlessly. You know, I just I thought that something

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Speaker 1: So that's the color Brook? So Jocelyn, you believe him.

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Speaker 1: going to pay for candles, for another cake, but drugs.

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Speaker 1: You're not going to pay for either of those things.

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Speaker 1: But we will pay for a dinner. I definitely would

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Speaker 1: keep us updated on if you guys will go out

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Speaker 1: I guess such enthusiasms. No, you're you're very nice. I

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean? That would be amazing, all right, Jocelyn, Well,

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Speaker 1: sorry we couldn't get you a second date. And uh,

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Speaker 1: I guess happy birthday, Yeah, question mark broken jewel in

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