WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: Beatles Cover Band Bonanza

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<v Speaker 1>The second date of dates? Wouldn't it be cool if

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<v Speaker 1>on first dates, instead of picking where to go, you

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<v Speaker 1>could choose when, Like if you could take your date

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<v Speaker 1>back to sixteenth century France. Oh, Friday at six, you're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about actual time travel. Yeah, go back to France

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<v Speaker 1>in the sixteenth century. Watch an archery competition together, sip

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<v Speaker 1>some mead by a raging fire while they burn a

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<v Speaker 1>witch at the steak. Oh, I'm gonna go with the beheading.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, it's the Romantic period. And one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners says they kind of took a trip back

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<v Speaker 1>into time for their first date. I'm curious what that means.

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<v Speaker 1>But let's talk to Samantha. Samantha, welcome to the show. Hey, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you guys. I can't wait to hear what

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<v Speaker 1>time period you went back to. Ye first, tell us

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<v Speaker 1>about the guy that you time traveled with. What's his name?

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<v Speaker 1>His name is Eric? Okay you're laughing, yes, so I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. He might be Eric the surf the surf

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<v Speaker 1>like servant back in them. Okay, okay, older, let's tell

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<v Speaker 1>us more about Eric. Where did you meet? We met

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<v Speaker 1>actually on the dating app? Okay, so yeah, so that

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<v Speaker 1>is current. That's modern. Yeah, it's totally modern. And he

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<v Speaker 1>had a lot of photos on his app, and guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna tell you, you got to put a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of photos because Eric has just had nicest smile and

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<v Speaker 1>the kindest eyes. And I was just like his profile.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, yeah, why she was attracted to him? That's sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>How did it turn out in real life? Did he? Okay? So? Um,

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<v Speaker 1>it took us a few weeks to kind of connect

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<v Speaker 1>because we're both really busy. Okay, so we kind of

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<v Speaker 1>got to know each other online. But here's our date.

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<v Speaker 1>We went to a Beatles tribute band concert. Now is

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<v Speaker 1>this like late sixties Beatles or are we talking fifties?

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<v Speaker 1>You know? Like, yeah, these guys were amazing. They did

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<v Speaker 1>the whole thing. They started out as like the early Beatles,

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<v Speaker 1>like and Sullivan show kind of thing, and they kind

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<v Speaker 1>of went through and then they got their start and

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<v Speaker 1>Pepper out George Harrison just suddenly disappeared off the stage

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<v Speaker 1>at one point. Yeah, how realistic did they get? Come on?

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<v Speaker 1>They just started doing, you know, more and more drugs

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<v Speaker 1>as the show is what happened the beginning of the concert.

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<v Speaker 1>They were sober. I mean that sounds like it was

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<v Speaker 1>pretty fun. Did you and Eric have a good time

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<v Speaker 1>with that? I thought we did. I mean, he was

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<v Speaker 1>into it and we were having a great time. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean there were a mix of people there, I do

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<v Speaker 1>have to say, I mean there were a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>seniors going. Yeah. When I actually went to a Beatles concert,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh, well, I'm not I wasn't even born

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<v Speaker 1>at that point, but I would imagine the entire crowd

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<v Speaker 1>was pretty silver haired. Like, that's not that's not something

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<v Speaker 1>you got to with young people who's like, yeah, this

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<v Speaker 1>new band, I've done that before. I've got an autograph

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<v Speaker 1>from like a tribute band. You guys are gonna make it. Yeah. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so did the tribute band get the romantic feelings going? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know about romantic feelings, but we had a

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<v Speaker 1>really great time and we were jumping around and screaming

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<v Speaker 1>and everything, you know. Okay, so you had fun. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but that's a great way to spend a first dage.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm as you're having a good time, okay. Yeah. Well

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<v Speaker 1>here's the thing though. You were really close to the stage,

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<v Speaker 1>which was awesome, but at one point one of the

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<v Speaker 1>guys in the band actually brought me up on stage

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<v Speaker 1>during Twist and Shout and you know, had me dance

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<v Speaker 1>with them on the stage. And I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>that made Eric Chellis and didn't you I wasn't working shout. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>that would be weird to make somebody jealous, And I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like, if anything, that'd be a red flag for

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<v Speaker 1>you against him, not the other way around. And see

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<v Speaker 1>a guy getting jealous part of the performance. But you know, guy,

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<v Speaker 1>you know he's going to ask her to come backstage

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<v Speaker 1>and all that crap. At least she's wanted. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>the members of this band have to be like, as well,

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<v Speaker 1>finally come back to my green room, Lady, did they

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<v Speaker 1>hit on you? Did? I mean, did you feel like

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<v Speaker 1>there was aulterior motives there? No? I didn't feel anything

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<v Speaker 1>like that. But that's the only thing I can think

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<v Speaker 1>of that it might have done something that he wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>contact me. But I mean, he drove me home and

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<v Speaker 1>we hugged before he left, and I said, hey, let's

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<v Speaker 1>dunch sometime and he said sure. And ever since then,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been you know, texting him and trying to nail

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<v Speaker 1>down the time, and he's been really vague and I

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<v Speaker 1>just don't know why. Maybe he had a silver haired

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<v Speaker 1>fox while you Maybe so. The only thing that you

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<v Speaker 1>can think went wrong is when you got pulled up

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<v Speaker 1>on stage as part of the tribute band's performance. There

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<v Speaker 1>was no other weird moments. I don't know if that's

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<v Speaker 1>that went wrong, but that's the only thing I can

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<v Speaker 1>think of that would be different from us just going

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<v Speaker 1>and having a good time. Let's help you figure this out.

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to play a song, we'll come back, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>call Eric for you, and we'll try and get you

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update. Okay, thank you, awesome. Hold one,

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<v Speaker 1>you're in the middle of a second date update update,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing

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<v Speaker 1>right after you here part two. If you're hearing this

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<v Speaker 1>music wondering what's going on, don't worry. You're not listening

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<v Speaker 1>to the wrong radio station. Oh well you might be, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>But if you're thinking that, it's supposed to be entertaining.

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<v Speaker 1>But the reason I'm playing Beatles music right now is

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<v Speaker 1>because that's where one of our listeners dates happened. It

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<v Speaker 1>was at a concert for a Beatles tribute band. The

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<v Speaker 1>Samantha doesn't hear in this bring you back to a

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<v Speaker 1>week ago when times were much happier. You're doing the

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<v Speaker 1>hand jive together with Eric. It does. We had an

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<v Speaker 1>awesome time and I just thought it was completely romantic,

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<v Speaker 1>the whole thing. But maybe he didn't. Yeah, well, he's

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<v Speaker 1>not calling you back, so I think he did be bright.

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever asked, was the Beatles thing your idea or

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<v Speaker 1>his idea? It was my idea. I actually have been

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<v Speaker 1>a Beatles fan my whole life. Yeah, idea, ya, so

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<v Speaker 1>this is my idea. Um, here's the funny thing though,

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<v Speaker 1>I actually learned to read by following along with the

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<v Speaker 1>lyrics on the back of Beatles album. So okay, yeah, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, why that's possible? You did mention you thought

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<v Speaker 1>the one maybe weird part of it was when they

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<v Speaker 1>brought you up on stage during part of the performance

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<v Speaker 1>and you were worried. Maybe Eric got jealous of that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And I was having a fabulous time with the band members,

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<v Speaker 1>Jude a shout dance and all that, and he files

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<v Speaker 1>and he seems to be having a good time. But

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, maybe he was jealous of Hi. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and come on, obviously you're going to be the one

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<v Speaker 1>they pull up on stage all the other ladies would

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<v Speaker 1>not be able to take those stairs with their heads yet.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's do this. We're gonna dial Eric's phone number right now.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna try and get your second date update. You ready, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello? Hi? Is this Eric? Yeah? Who's calling? Hey? Eric?

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<v Speaker 1>My name's jeff from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. How are you doing? Um, I'm okay.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you guys? Oh that's no one ever asks

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<v Speaker 1>us that that is so nice? Well, I'm pretty depressed. Eric.

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<v Speaker 1>We're doing a segment on our show called a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. Are you familiar with that? All? Um? Not

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<v Speaker 1>really a second date update? That's right. So the way

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<v Speaker 1>it works is if you go out with someone and afterwards,

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<v Speaker 1>if that person isn't calling you back, you can email

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<v Speaker 1>our show to reach out to them for you to

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<v Speaker 1>help you figure out the reason why. Cool odd like

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<v Speaker 1>use a radio show to do a date follow up? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>sort of a last resort because this person feels like

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<v Speaker 1>they're having a hard time getting in touch with you.

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<v Speaker 1>And her name is Samantha. Oh, um, no, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>she's you know, she was sweet. I mean we had

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<v Speaker 1>a cool time. Cool time. You don't sound stuged about

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<v Speaker 1>it at all. No, I mean we're hoping that maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you'd be willing to tell us a little bit about

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<v Speaker 1>what happened at the concert or why you're not wanting

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<v Speaker 1>to see Samantha again. Yeah, because she told us about

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<v Speaker 1>the Beatles cover band or whatever that you guys went

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<v Speaker 1>and saw. To be honest, I mean, I I enjoyed

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<v Speaker 1>her company and whatnot, but it was kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit out of my wheelhouse music wise. Yeah, you're

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<v Speaker 1>a big Beatles No, I mean I know some of

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<v Speaker 1>those songs. I mean, it's the Beatles. Who doesn't. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's like she knew like every lyric to every song.

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<v Speaker 1>And I kind of felt bad because I'm like, okay, Cattle,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't recognize is the real problem? Just like you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have time to talk to her because she was

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<v Speaker 1>singing the whole time. Is that what you're saying. You

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get a chance to get to know her, right, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she was kind of more into the concert.

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of felt like a like a not necessarily

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<v Speaker 1>a date and more like just a tag along. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Well then if that's how you feel, that's okay, But

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<v Speaker 1>why not for your next date, get a chance to

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<v Speaker 1>know her and do something new. That's the issue because

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<v Speaker 1>she texts me and said, hey, you not a good time,

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<v Speaker 1>and of course I reply, you know hey, and she's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>we should do this again, and she gives me a

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<v Speaker 1>list of like all these cover band dates she wants

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<v Speaker 1>to do, and it's like beach Boys and climbing and

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<v Speaker 1>garth Uncle and Fleetwood. It's like oh ye, bridge over

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<v Speaker 1>Trouble Water, any of it. Just say words. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>she's already planting out your future dates and they're all

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<v Speaker 1>old cover bands exactly. Oh my god, break. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously she just thought you had a good time. So

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<v Speaker 1>you know, some people aren't very creative with date ideas,

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<v Speaker 1>so she's probably just sticking to the same thing that

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<v Speaker 1>she thought you enjoyed too. That's actually yeah. But like

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<v Speaker 1>the cool thing about dates is daring. Like if you

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<v Speaker 1>go do something your boyfriend or girlfriend wants to do

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<v Speaker 1>or your partner wants to do, then the next go

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<v Speaker 1>around it should be something that you want to do. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So why don't you give her a suggestion and ask

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<v Speaker 1>her out. Then, in fact, you can give her a

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<v Speaker 1>suggestion right now because she's on the other line listening

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<v Speaker 1>and wants to talk to you. Eric. Oh wait what

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<v Speaker 1>she's but hey? Well hey hey, um, how long have

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<v Speaker 1>you been How long you've been on the phone. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>she's pretty much been there since we started this phone call. Yeah, hi,

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<v Speaker 1>um are you Wow? You didn't say anything bad about her?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we heard a lot worse thing. I thought

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<v Speaker 1>you had a really good time at the concerts, so

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<v Speaker 1>I was suggesting other things that were similar, thinking that

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<v Speaker 1>you would enjoy it and if you want to do

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<v Speaker 1>something else, like go to dinner or something down for that.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I didn't want to hurt your feelings by

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<v Speaker 1>saying I wasn't really into the old school band thing,

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<v Speaker 1>so I kind of just didn't, you know, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know how to approach that and don't want upset you.

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<v Speaker 1>You seem like you're into it, and if you're not

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<v Speaker 1>into it, you could probably become more into it more

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<v Speaker 1>you come to see him with me. I mean that's weird.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like if someone's like, oh, I don't like city,

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<v Speaker 1>You're like, oh, why don't you eat as much sty

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<v Speaker 1>as you can? In that way, you'll like you if

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<v Speaker 1>you do something enough, then you'll learn to love it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it does kind of sound like it's coming off that way,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know if you mean it that way.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I already told you guys, I was so

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<v Speaker 1>into Beatles from like birth that if my parents hadn't

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<v Speaker 1>introduced it to me and like played it all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't be into it either. Yeah, Eric, if the

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<v Speaker 1>Beatles can teach Samantha how to read, maybe they can

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<v Speaker 1>teach you how to love. And sorry I should have

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<v Speaker 1>said the tribute band to the Beatles. At I've already

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<v Speaker 1>heard like two and a half hours of straight Beatles music.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I already know how to love at this point.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why you need to move on to the Beach

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<v Speaker 1>Boys so you can learn how to soak up those rays.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, Brian Wilson was a musical genius. Absolutely who

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<v Speaker 1>Brian Wilson. Brian Wilson was a musical genius, Samantha. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's great that you have that interest, But why

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<v Speaker 1>does the person you date also have to have the

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<v Speaker 1>same interest. I mean, he doesn't have to, but this

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<v Speaker 1>is classic stuff. I mean, he just has to experiencely

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<v Speaker 1>and he'll know this is just an amazing stress and

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<v Speaker 1>he'll love it. What it sounds like is you want

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<v Speaker 1>to change him. That's usually doesn't work. It isn't. They're

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<v Speaker 1>like a really old old movie or an old TV

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<v Speaker 1>show that you loved growing up and then you showed

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<v Speaker 1>it to your significant other hoping that they would love

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<v Speaker 1>it too. I don't know. My husband loves Jason Mraz

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<v Speaker 1>like a lot. Yeah, just still not on board. I

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<v Speaker 1>can appreciate that he loves that, and you've been next

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<v Speaker 1>to that music, but it's just not my jam. Like seven,

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<v Speaker 1>I've met an appreciation for it. You just said it's

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<v Speaker 1>more of a tolerance appreciation. Well what about that, Eric,

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<v Speaker 1>how about we build up a tolerance to this. We

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<v Speaker 1>would love to send you out on a second date

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<v Speaker 1>to help you build up that tolerance, and we'll pay

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<v Speaker 1>for it. Does that sound good? It sounds painful, Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>You're doing a terrible job of selling this. Every time

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<v Speaker 1>you guys go to an old school concert, he can

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<v Speaker 1>take you to a new school than one of his

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<v Speaker 1>artists that he likes. I would be okay with that.

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<v Speaker 1>Look at that, Eric, Do you do you have any

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<v Speaker 1>artists you like? I mean, yeah, Bruno, mars and and

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<v Speaker 1>Sooconic like what those guys are doing. I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>great and it's got a little bit of old school

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<v Speaker 1>to it. Yeah, Bruno's got a little fun to him. Samantha,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you feel about Bruno? I actually don't know much,

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<v Speaker 1>a little much, but I'm willing to listen. Okay. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe if you guys stay together and you guys listen

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<v Speaker 1>long enough, you can go to the Bruno Mars tribute

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<v Speaker 1>and won't pay for that. That's yeah, yeah, So what

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<v Speaker 1>do you say, guys, come on, give it one more

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<v Speaker 1>shot and we're gonna pay for that date. Eric, what

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<v Speaker 1>do you think? Uh? Yeah, sure, I mean I'll give

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<v Speaker 1>it a trial. Why not? Okay? Never man, the road

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<v Speaker 1>to tolerance starts with one. Yes, Yes, congratulation. You got

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<v Speaker 1>another day. I'm looking forward to it. And maybe we'll

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<v Speaker 1>do dinner this time so we can talk about I've

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<v Speaker 1>never heard dinner. Is that like a seventies It sounds

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<v Speaker 1>very nice diner. Oh sorry, I always get those confused

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<v Speaker 1>Broke and Jeffrey in the morning. That was a second

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<v Speaker 1>eight update from a few months back, and now Eric

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<v Speaker 1>and Samantha have reached out to the show because apparently

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<v Speaker 1>they have a little bit of an update on their situation.

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on? Guys? Hey, hi, Eric, are you just

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<v Speaker 1>call it in to talk about how you're now a

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<v Speaker 1>like huge sixties music fan? No? Okay, is he on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone? Does he talk? Oh? Yeah, absolutely? I think

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<v Speaker 1>she's just a little bit more excited about it than

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<v Speaker 1>I am. But what is why are you more excited, Samantha?

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<v Speaker 1>It's working out so well, and you know, um, it's

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<v Speaker 1>funny you talk about the music stuff because we actually

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<v Speaker 1>found a workaround. Oh okay, what do you mean. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a little unconventional, but we actually asked the third person

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<v Speaker 1>to join our relationship. Oh you're a ruffle now. Oh no, no, no, no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not sexual. Here's what we did. We tried to

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<v Speaker 1>take each other the concerts and stuff like that. He

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<v Speaker 1>took me to um, Jack Harland, Yeah, Jack Harlan. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you say Jack Harland? Yeah, Jack Harland. No, it's Jack Harlow. Okay, okay. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't working out, I mean yea, so we went

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<v Speaker 1>on Craigslist and we found a concert guy who loves

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<v Speaker 1>both styles of music. And so wait or you, Samantha, Eric,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you? Eric? What are your thoughts? Listen. I

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<v Speaker 1>love it. It's it's actually better than what it was before.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, for example, I wanted to go see twenty

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<v Speaker 1>one Savage and she obviously wasn't aware who that was. So,

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<v Speaker 1>do you guys have friends just this guy who absolutely

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<v Speaker 1>loves music and it's just like the perfect person to

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<v Speaker 1>go to concert. We just guys like my plug. To

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<v Speaker 1>be honest, I don't know whatever occasion. Last question, do

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<v Speaker 1>you pay for concert guys? Tickets? Yeah? Kay, okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>assume this guy's gonna love any band your teacher. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad. It sounds like it's working out for you, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>So good luck. Keep us updated on your relationship. All right, Well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll see on the next show. No matter where we go,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you you'll be there. You'll touch a

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<v Speaker 1>guy broken Jeffrey in the morning.