WEBVTT - Manifesting Cozy

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<v Speaker 1>Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio Podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Happy New Year, Happy New Year. And I know

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<v Speaker 2>we had an episode, but we had recorded it before

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<v Speaker 2>the New Year. Oh that's one of those where it's

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<v Speaker 2>so hard for me because I'm like, we can't really

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<v Speaker 2>say anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just be real, Happy new Year, New Year. How's

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<v Speaker 1>your New yearly started off? You know fine? I feel

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like usually that Monday, it's like, yes, everyone's

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<v Speaker 1>back to school, we're back to work, we're back. It

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't felt as that this year. Have you do you

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<v Speaker 1>feel that?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I'm the most and I you don't worry your

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<v Speaker 2>email's coming. But the amount of people that I said, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>just checking in, Hey, just like you know, Austin and

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<v Speaker 2>I are working on something like hey, Austin, we gotta

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<v Speaker 2>you know, it's I'm I'm you know. And then I'm

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<v Speaker 2>texting you know, Brian Hurtlinger and I had a big

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<v Speaker 2>old call. So it's like I'm so ready to be

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<v Speaker 2>like back in it, but my acting industry is not

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<v Speaker 2>so slow.

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<v Speaker 1>Well it's interesting because I'm usually so excited to get

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<v Speaker 1>back too, but I feel like, no, like it, no

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<v Speaker 1>one's there yet, No no one's there yet for some reason.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like they take off.

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<v Speaker 2>Two weeks before Christmas, and then they take off essentially

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<v Speaker 2>a week after that after year, and then they shut

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<v Speaker 2>down again for someday. And I'm just like, can can

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<v Speaker 2>anybody do any work? Because high, yeah, I would like

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<v Speaker 2>to work.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that it's felt Yeah, it's felt like a slower

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<v Speaker 1>like back to the new year work wise, and yeah

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<v Speaker 1>all the things.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but no, I was that annoying. Annoying Usually I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's funny because Alan wallwas book I'll text him

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<v Speaker 2>on Monday, so no Tuesday, like because people you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you want to wait the day. But now I'm like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>you're getting a text for me on Monday.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't gotten anything for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I don't even stand by. I'm making my list

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<v Speaker 2>of all crings that we have to check in on.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it, but I just I was. I was

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<v Speaker 2>very much like, hey, you know, because a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>people not a lot of people, but I had a

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<v Speaker 2>couple of producers reach out because they saw the my

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<v Speaker 2>Netflix movie and the you know, the Top five and

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<v Speaker 2>so which again I have.

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<v Speaker 1>That was insane. That was like for it was a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of weeks. Yeah, that was wild, wild.

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<v Speaker 2>And when I went two and then three and then

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<v Speaker 2>two and then you know, it was it was insane

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<v Speaker 2>how there was life after lifetime really with that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, yeah, so that was that was crazy and

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<v Speaker 2>I love glad everyone loved it. But it's just funny

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<v Speaker 2>because there's been a few producers that I have texted

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<v Speaker 2>with in the past and I'm like, hey, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>because I always want to keep in contact, so I'm like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>when's our next thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I just am that annoying person.

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<v Speaker 2>But you have to be top of mind for people absolutely,

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<v Speaker 2>because there's so many people out there that want a job.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm like, I gotta i gotta be on the

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<v Speaker 2>you know, on the you know, top of their mind.

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<v Speaker 2>So of course I've checked in with them, but then

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<v Speaker 2>when that movie came, they're like, oh, hey, we should

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<v Speaker 2>really get something. I'm like, I've been second but now

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<v Speaker 2>it's so that was interesting to me.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought that was kind of fun. That's fun to

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<v Speaker 1>see how that Yeah, I know, so we'll see. But

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<v Speaker 1>so that was cool.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, No, I started Monday off with like, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going my treadmill is broken.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, went for a run. It's been beautiful. It has,

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<v Speaker 1>but today today it feels a little Maybe that's what

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<v Speaker 1>it is because today's just Tuesday, right, Yeah, Today's only Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 1>We just started. So maybe Monday just didn't feel like

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<v Speaker 1>the Monday I thought it would be, and then today's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of gloomy. Yeah, but I was at the doctors

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<v Speaker 1>with my kids, you know how you do, like all

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<v Speaker 1>the like you know, all the appointments for the year,

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<v Speaker 1>like all the checkups, all the things. So I know

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<v Speaker 1>it's just yeah, but how's your new year. It's all good, though,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's been good.

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<v Speaker 2>We did our vision boards the other night. I saw

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<v Speaker 2>that it was so cute. Jase still was just trying

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<v Speaker 2>to understand the concept a bit, but it was it

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<v Speaker 2>was super cute. We actually, so I have a.

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<v Speaker 1>Dream, and you know, I have a dream that you

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<v Speaker 1>know me.

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<v Speaker 2>I love water and I love lakes, and so I've

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<v Speaker 2>really wanted a lake house for I mean forever. I

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<v Speaker 2>grew up on a lake, right, So that's just like

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<v Speaker 2>in my Michigan DNA is to be by water and

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<v Speaker 2>a lake. So I'm like, let's go manifest, let's go

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<v Speaker 2>look at some properties or whatever and just speaking of Jace,

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<v Speaker 2>he was so cute because we took them with us

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<v Speaker 2>obviously because we want them to feel part of it

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<v Speaker 2>and excite, you know, get them excited too for the

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<v Speaker 2>potential that maybe that would happen. And so we had

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<v Speaker 2>a list of like ten to twelve showings, one of

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<v Speaker 2>which we had canceled because the guy was like, there's

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<v Speaker 2>a foundation issue. So I'm like out, you know, uh,

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<v Speaker 2>and so, but we would rate, so the second we

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<v Speaker 2>would get back in the car, we would rate, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>what the house was or whatever. So like I'd been like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'd give it like a six, and then we say

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<v Speaker 2>what we like and we don't like, but Jace's rating

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<v Speaker 2>like he didn't understand the rating scales.

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<v Speaker 1>So like the house that we all loved, he's.

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<v Speaker 2>Like four and we're like, buddy, why, like we all

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<v Speaker 2>gave it a nine. So but yeah, our vision boards

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<v Speaker 2>it was you know, it was it was super cute.

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<v Speaker 2>But that was really fun. And then oh, Starbucks delivery,

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks honey, did you get one for Catherine?

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<v Speaker 1>It's alan You're forgiven Starbucks order the same as ours.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I don't do oat milk, what do you do?

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<v Speaker 1>Just regular regular? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, but anyway, so vision boards was super fun and

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<v Speaker 2>then it just I'm I'm I'm actually I'm feeling excited.

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<v Speaker 1>Good. Were they excited about the possibility of a house, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>they were. That's fun.

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<v Speaker 2>But it was again hard for me to under So

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<v Speaker 2>they're like, so we were moving. We're like, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>like this would just be we would just go maybe

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<v Speaker 2>on the weekends. They're like, so then when we'd keep

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<v Speaker 2>our house And I'm like, yes, but again, like this

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<v Speaker 2>is just a dream, and we're just.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean two houses?

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<v Speaker 2>Understand we're envisioned, and then you know, we had to

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<v Speaker 2>kind of set their expectations too sure, because it's like,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, guys, this is a lake house, the cabin,

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<v Speaker 2>it's you know. And but they they were there for it.

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<v Speaker 2>They loved it, they loved the idea, and so it's

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<v Speaker 2>it was really fun to kind of dream that up.

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<v Speaker 1>And so TVD so, okay, let me know we've got

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<v Speaker 1>a place to go.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we we texted our neighbor because our neighbor also

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<v Speaker 2>has a place on the same lake, and they said, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>our neighbor's putting their house up for sale. Problem is

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<v Speaker 2>we're in a really we have to stay under a

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<v Speaker 2>certain other to I don't, you know, I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to stress about money.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>At the same time, I'm like, I want to have

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<v Speaker 2>some fun with it right too, and I want to

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<v Speaker 2>make memories. But apparently, like I didn't know this, on

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<v Speaker 2>a lake, you got to have the right depth of

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<v Speaker 2>water or you're not going to have good resale. So

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<v Speaker 2>the house that we really like isn't the best depth

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<v Speaker 2>of water. But our neighbor just sent to us his

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<v Speaker 2>property and we just saw it this morning, and I

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<v Speaker 2>think it's it's right in the right so you could

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<v Speaker 2>our neighbor's neighbor.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, oh fun, uh huh, so that you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we'd have someone that could like check on it. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's I mean it's tiny, tiny, tiny is it

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<v Speaker 1>that everybody?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh we're gonna I mean it's one of those where

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<v Speaker 2>you don't have any side tables in a bed, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's okay, who cares about that? Cares? That's my thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I when you go to a lake house

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<v Speaker 2>like I envision because like one of the houses that

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<v Speaker 2>I loved, and Alan was like Jana, it's looks like

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<v Speaker 2>and this is I don't want to get hate for this,

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<v Speaker 2>but I know. But he goes, this looks like a

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<v Speaker 2>trailer house in a mountain, and I go and I

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<v Speaker 2>love it. Yeah, I think it's amazing. I'm like, you

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<v Speaker 2>don't understand. I grew up with this, Like I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>look at, you know, my grandma's house on the lake.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I don't want. We walked into this one

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<v Speaker 2>house and they're like the realtors like, oh, this is bread.

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<v Speaker 2>Knew because I was like, it's boring and it has

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<v Speaker 2>zero character and I don't like it.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's I don't want. What do you think it's funny?

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<v Speaker 1>I do. I think that's funny just in general. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it's cool. I just feel like I would be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>it's new, great, and you're like, it has no character.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that about you.

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<v Speaker 2>It had like, I mean, all new cat. I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>this is so boring, it's like our house on a lake.

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<v Speaker 2>I want give me rough like and the realtor looks

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<v Speaker 2>at me like I was crazy. He goes, You're you're

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<v Speaker 2>just throwing me for a loop. I go, well, what

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<v Speaker 2>did you think? He goes, I didn't expect you for

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<v Speaker 2>an old soul? And I said on a lake. Give

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<v Speaker 2>me an old household like I want cozy and I

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<v Speaker 2>want just like yeah, I don't want it to look new, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>or pretty honestly okay, because you can make it pretty

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<v Speaker 2>bone the balls on a lake is for sure. All

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<v Speaker 2>I need is a view, Yeah, give me a view

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<v Speaker 2>and a bed that I can rest my head on.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's like, well, I ne'd rather spend you're spending

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<v Speaker 2>all your time outside, well.

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<v Speaker 1>And you'd rather spend more money on getting the right view,

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<v Speaker 1>the right set upright then? Like a brand new house, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I get that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I was like we should probably go look

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<v Speaker 2>at it because he just like facetimed us and it

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<v Speaker 2>was like.

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<v Speaker 1>Like how small, like in a thousand okay, but is

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<v Speaker 1>there like enough bedrooms for your family? Yeah? That was

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<v Speaker 1>a big bump bedroom.

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<v Speaker 2>Perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all you need. Is there enough room for us

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<v Speaker 1>to go for a girls trip? That's all I need

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<v Speaker 1>to know. They got two porches, great porches at it's great.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so good. Yeah that's all we need. But you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like you know, for a first lake house, it's all

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<v Speaker 2>you it's all you really need. Anyways, it's just a dream.

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<v Speaker 2>It's been a dream on my so when I got divorced,

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<v Speaker 2>my therapist and I we wrote where do we want

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<v Speaker 2>to be in five years? And so I said, in

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<v Speaker 2>a healthy relationship, I'd like a lake house. And so

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<v Speaker 2>it made me think of that because I want to.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to revisit because I know she still has it.

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<v Speaker 1>How long? How long has it been? Almost five years?

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<v Speaker 1>Almost five? Yeah, like a divorce in twenty one, right, crazy? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's crazy. Oh I know, yeah, almost five So you

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<v Speaker 1>might you might.

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<v Speaker 2>Hit it, I know so, but it would be great

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<v Speaker 2>and who knows, but if you have to. My thing

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<v Speaker 2>this year is I'm like, let's just put it out there, universe.

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<v Speaker 2>It'd be so fun because you know me, I want

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<v Speaker 2>I want us to all go there, come on, wind

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<v Speaker 2>down listeners, come to that we need, We'll do.

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<v Speaker 1>A little do something with us, come to.

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<v Speaker 2>The lake with us, with us. But no, it's been

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<v Speaker 2>a good start to the year.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm proud of you what for doing that, because I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like you're one who will dream about that. But

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<v Speaker 1>just when this happens or when this when X win

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<v Speaker 1>Z and ten years and what you know or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>Proud of you for like taking the step to just

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<v Speaker 1>like it's just going to be sitting there when we're dead,

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<v Speaker 1>you might as well spend it.

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<v Speaker 2>And enjoying us too, though, where it's like it's so,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, because of course you look at the ones

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<v Speaker 2>We're like, this is running right, but I'm not trying

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<v Speaker 2>to downsize this house and that. So it's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't we wouldn't get hit right as hard exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>That makes sense. Yes, I love it, Pratty. Thanks.

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<v Speaker 2>We're missing KB because she's in New York right now

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<v Speaker 2>that it's fun of this recording, she's in New York.

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<v Speaker 2>I do we have anything to whine about it? I

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<v Speaker 2>did write something down, but I just pull it up, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, my only current wine right now, and it's whining

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<v Speaker 1>it myself a little bit too, but kind of follows

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<v Speaker 1>what we were talking about, is like, we've got to

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<v Speaker 1>get back to taking girls' trips.

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<v Speaker 2>I put it on my vision board. Did you okay

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<v Speaker 2>if I am our girlfriend getaways? Yeah, like we used

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<v Speaker 2>to be so.

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<v Speaker 1>I know we've talked about that on here, but we

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<v Speaker 1>used to be so good about it. And I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm one of the worst. I'm not saying I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I'm usually pretty down to go, but I am also

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<v Speaker 1>so very busy. But I am always the first one

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<v Speaker 1>to be like, yeah, let's go. But we're all just

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<v Speaker 1>so freaking busy and not making it a priority that

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<v Speaker 1>it's like making me mad, like it myself and everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, let's just do it. Yeah, let's just go.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just get out of here. And I understand that

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<v Speaker 1>not everybody has the ability to just get up and leave.

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<v Speaker 1>And I understand that there's a lot of people listening

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<v Speaker 1>that would love the chance to be able to just

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<v Speaker 1>be able to go somebody.

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<v Speaker 2>So why do you think I'm trying to get a

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<v Speaker 2>lake house? Because all we'd have to do is drive

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<v Speaker 2>two hours because a lot of times it's yeah it's

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<v Speaker 2>expensive to fly here or go there. You know, yeah

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<v Speaker 2>that could be a fun little girls, yes, and.

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<v Speaker 1>We won't have I mean, yes, being busy is an excuse,

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<v Speaker 1>but there's like not other excuses. So right, I know

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<v Speaker 1>it is on the vision board. Okay, good. I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>done a vision board for this year, but it would

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<v Speaker 1>be on it if I did.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a small wine. But I am it's like one

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<v Speaker 1>of those where I'm like, okay, like I couldn't make

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<v Speaker 1>the walk the other day, legitimately was still in church,

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<v Speaker 1>had to do stuff with the kids, couldn't make it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm like, all right, this is the stuff we've

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<v Speaker 1>talked about, we've whined about, but it's only on ourselves,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and just like making those things.

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<v Speaker 2>Happen, putting it to fruition, yes, yes, instead of just

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<v Speaker 2>talking about it, yes, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's not a big wine. Otherwise, I'm you know,

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<v Speaker 1>everything's good. How about you?

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<v Speaker 2>I do have a small husband wine. Oh good, I

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<v Speaker 2>love these, But it might be I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>it's a husband thing or because this could be you too, right,

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<v Speaker 2>But when the other day, like probably every other mom

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<v Speaker 2>January one and two, I purged cleaned. I mean I

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<v Speaker 2>got rid of so much stuff and organized everything. I

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<v Speaker 2>mean my little counter thing, a jigger, makeup, it looks

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<v Speaker 2>just great. Got rid of so much. Have a little

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<v Speaker 2>bag for when my niece comes or my mom comes

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<v Speaker 2>and they want ceerums and stuff, so I put like

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<v Speaker 2>all that in a bag for them. But I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know if it's a husband thing or a man thing.

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<v Speaker 2>But what I have found to be true is that

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<v Speaker 2>they put things behind chairs to die.

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<v Speaker 1>Huh. Okay, does yours. Do you find a bunch of

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<v Speaker 1>stuff behind chairs? Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Like every little every single chair that we like, a

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<v Speaker 2>little sitting chair in our room, was there's something behind

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<v Speaker 2>there that was his. And then I go to the

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<v Speaker 2>other one and there was some and I'm like, let's

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<v Speaker 2>find a home for this. And then I had to

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<v Speaker 2>show him where I made the home for all these things.

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<v Speaker 2>But it made me think back. I'm like, Okay, I

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<v Speaker 2>remember when that person is this a husband? Is this

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<v Speaker 2>a man thing to hide to let things die behind

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<v Speaker 2>a chair?

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<v Speaker 1>Does he not remember that even put them there?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I think he just goes back to grab

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<v Speaker 2>them like his compression boot.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, it's just like where they're like that store.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I'm like, behind a chair, it's not a home.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I feel like Nick does that some Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even though Yeah, I mean, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if it's a man thing. I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to think. I did find like a stack of blankets

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<v Speaker 1>behind one of my chairs when I went to go

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<v Speaker 1>clean up the other day, which I thought was interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>He though mine is like his closet has become like

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<v Speaker 1>it's not necessarily messy, but it's just like all the

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<v Speaker 1>random stuff and it has found a home in the closet,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's not really a home, like it's just like

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<v Speaker 1>made it a mess, you know. So that's been frustrating.

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't live with someone that was messy. Yeah I'm

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<v Speaker 1>kind of messy. I've gotten a lot better. But you

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<v Speaker 1>said you've gotten better. Yeah, I've gotten a lot better.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you do? Just not put it away? I

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<v Speaker 1>used to be like really messy, Like you just leave it. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I used.

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<v Speaker 2>To think that's so weird to me because I don't

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<v Speaker 2>see that in your personality.

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<v Speaker 1>I grew up that way, Like I wasn't really made

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<v Speaker 1>to like clean my room and like got you see,

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<v Speaker 1>So I just kind of grew up that way. So

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<v Speaker 1>I've definitely gotten a lot lot better. So what do

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<v Speaker 1>you do?

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<v Speaker 2>Just like you place it there and then leave it?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that kind of where it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, more or less. It's just like it used to

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<v Speaker 1>be clothes more than anything. And that can still get

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<v Speaker 1>to me, you know, Like I can like throw clothes

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<v Speaker 1>in a closet and it's just like sitting there or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, stuff will just or like the kids stuff

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<v Speaker 1>when they don't put it away. Okay, we'll do this tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 1>But then it piles up more, and then it piles

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<v Speaker 1>up more, and then there's just kind of stuff all

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<v Speaker 1>the time. So yeah, I can be kind of messy.

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely have a lot of drunk drawers that I

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<v Speaker 1>need to clean through. Junk drawers, yeah, yeah, I went.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a couple of those. Yeah, but I did.

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<v Speaker 1>They're organized junk drays. Yeah, mine are not organized. But

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<v Speaker 1>when I get on an organizing kick, like I did

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<v Speaker 1>like a bunch over the break, but there's still some

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<v Speaker 1>more I need to do, I can get very organized.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's just I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>It just depends how hard are you on the kids

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<v Speaker 2>with organizing and putting their stuff away.

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<v Speaker 1>Cleaning up. Pretty hard on them because I grew up

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<v Speaker 1>not having that, so I'm decently hard on them. They

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<v Speaker 1>are good at making messes, but they are very good

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<v Speaker 1>at cleaning up, So I'm not like that night, it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't have to be done. Like Kristen couldn't live in

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<v Speaker 1>my house, for sure, there's no way she could. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure every night everything and I'm not that way, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be like, Okay, tomorrow, you've got to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you need to clean your room. So I'm mid, you know,

0:17:09.960 --> 0:17:12.359
<v Speaker 1>and I things will be messy for sure. It's actually

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<v Speaker 1>very clean right now, but you if at certain times

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<v Speaker 1>you come over, it would definitely be messy. But I

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<v Speaker 1>also do make them clean it up. I guess now organized.

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<v Speaker 2>Mmm.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't say Emmy loves to have her room organized.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't say the other kids rooms are necessarily organized.

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<v Speaker 2>It's hard because the two homes. Yeah, that makes it

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<v Speaker 2>a bit more vocal. Sometimes it's like I see because

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<v Speaker 2>I try to. I'm not super on top, but I

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<v Speaker 2>am at the same time where I'm like, you're not

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<v Speaker 2>just throwing your clothes there. Yeah, you have a hamper, right,

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<v Speaker 2>a nice hamper you open and close.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. That drives me crazy, Like I they'll throw the

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<v Speaker 1>clothes right next to the hamper.

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<v Speaker 2>They'll put it behind her dresser. M like to hide

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<v Speaker 2>it when she cleans, and I'm like, it's it's it's

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<v Speaker 2>the same distance.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, mind do that with their closets and it drives

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<v Speaker 1>me nuts.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And so then I then go to what do

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<v Speaker 2>you do with your Dad's the one on clean? So

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, okay, like this is not how we're doing

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<v Speaker 2>it here, right.

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<v Speaker 1>And that is hard because again, growing up in a

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<v Speaker 1>family where they kind of just ignored my room and

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<v Speaker 1>didn't make me clean it up, I had really you know,

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<v Speaker 1>bad habits of that. So then when I went and

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<v Speaker 1>lived with people, you know, I had a roommate who

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<v Speaker 1>was also really bad at that. Was it Beth?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, okay, because I was like I always thought Beth

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<v Speaker 2>was the messy one.

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<v Speaker 1>She's way messier than me. But the problem is is

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<v Speaker 1>that we lived together like right out of or like

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<v Speaker 1>I guess was it right out of college? During college?

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<v Speaker 1>So I was still pretty messy. So us together was detrimental,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it was awful. Like Nick was like I because

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<v Speaker 1>you know, when we were dating us was out of college.

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<v Speaker 1>He would come He'd like I cannot come there, like

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<v Speaker 1>it was so bad, and it was just stuff everywhere,

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<v Speaker 1>so like clothes and everything. Yeah, it was so bad.

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<v Speaker 1>So then when we started dating, he was a lot cleaner.

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<v Speaker 1>Now there's things now where I'm like, where are you

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<v Speaker 1>really that clean? But he was just a lot cleaner

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<v Speaker 1>than me, and so I like was like, I get

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<v Speaker 1>to get this together, like I got to get my

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<v Speaker 1>life together. Yeah, and so it's it actually bothers me now,

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<v Speaker 1>whereas before it never would have bothered me. I could

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<v Speaker 1>just live like that, right, But yeah, yeah, so it's

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<v Speaker 1>good to go ahead and tell them they're not going

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<v Speaker 1>to live that way and we can't live this way,

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<v Speaker 1>because then you get into a habit of it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's good because I started to think maybe I'm too

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I think so. I think that's good to

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<v Speaker 2>have a balance, A balance, A balance for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Alex Earl SHARE's cryptic message amid Tom Brady romance, I

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<v Speaker 2>say go for it, girl. She's rumor has it, We're

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<v Speaker 2>still dancing in the caption of her January third Instagram

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<v Speaker 2>post New Friends, new memories, and new beginnings to start

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<v Speaker 2>off the New year. Words can't describe how amazing this

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<v Speaker 2>trip was. Listen, I hear that Saint Bart's during New

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<v Speaker 2>Year's is a time, is it? Apparently so? Having said that,

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<v Speaker 2>though Bethany Franklin.

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<v Speaker 1>I was about to say, well what she like, came

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<v Speaker 1>back with some like fungal infection something she.

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<v Speaker 2>Was talking about, you know, she hated dislike the fact

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<v Speaker 2>that people would be at a club being or at

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<v Speaker 2>a beach club being like, but this isn't the one

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<v Speaker 2>I need to be at I need to be at

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<v Speaker 2>this beach club.

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<v Speaker 1>She's just like, can you just enjoy where we're at? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I could not do that. No, listen. Was

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<v Speaker 1>it a new couple alert or just in New Year's

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<v Speaker 1>Eve hookup? Who knows? Who knows? But I'm here for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Good on you, Good on you. Listen. They're both cute.

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<v Speaker 2>Do what you want to do single, that's the thing,

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<v Speaker 2>open man, care, Go have fun.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. That's a great thing about when you're newly single.

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<v Speaker 1>Go have fun. I can't imagine, and I mean you've

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<v Speaker 1>had to do it, but I can't imagine though, just

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<v Speaker 1>going and having fun and having everyone's opinions and people

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<v Speaker 1>seeing and knowing and like, let me just date and

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<v Speaker 1>see who I want to date, you know, or have

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<v Speaker 1>fun with and see if we're going to date. You know?

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<v Speaker 1>That would be hard. Yeah, not that you haven't done

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<v Speaker 1>that before.

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<v Speaker 2>Timothy Shallamey thanks partner of three years, Kylie Jenner, a

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<v Speaker 2>mid twenty twenty six Critics Choice Awards win. He basically said,

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<v Speaker 2>thank you to my partner of three years. Thank you

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<v Speaker 2>for our foundation.

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<v Speaker 1>I love you. I can do this without you.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you from the bottom of my heart, said during

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<v Speaker 2>Challame said during the awards, listen, oh did you see

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<v Speaker 2>the little comment that Amanda seyfrid Cifer. No, she wrote,

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<v Speaker 2>she goes, oh that's what it meant. She's like, I thought,

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<v Speaker 2>like a foundation, and I'm like, listen, that is the

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<v Speaker 2>healthiest thing a dude can say. I love it. Are

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<v Speaker 2>you kidding me to say thank you for our foundation?

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<v Speaker 1>What it like? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>That is the He's not like, yo, girl, love you

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<v Speaker 2>love our relationship? Like I think it's was. I thought

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<v Speaker 2>it was incredibly handsome of him to say because kids

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<v Speaker 2>not he's not a kid Jesus, he's thirty, but like

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<v Speaker 2>he does. But you know what I mean, it's for

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<v Speaker 2>him to say, I mean the knowledge of that man.

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<v Speaker 1>Boy to say man foundation.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because all great relationships are built on a great foundation.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Those very sweet. I loved it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know why people were like, what's that mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Why don't you figure that out and getting a better relationship?

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<v Speaker 1>You all know what it means than you find that

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<v Speaker 1>out of the best foundation.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought it was so cute. I think horrible there

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<v Speaker 2>So have you seen Marty Supreme? No great movie?

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<v Speaker 1>So good? I honestly, even being like a Kardashian. I

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<v Speaker 1>had no idea about this relationship I had. I knew nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew nothing about it three years and then I

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<v Speaker 1>just saw this and I was like, oh, they're so sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it.

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<v Speaker 2>I knew they were dating. I've seen a few things

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<v Speaker 2>of them together, but they're not. Yes, super slumping it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but I think it was Yeah, that was I loved that.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it is so super cute. This is interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think it's unfair fans that think of Kylie

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<v Speaker 2>as not smart enough or not artistic enough for Timothy?

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<v Speaker 2>Does she get a bad rap because of her family's reputation, So.

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<v Speaker 1>That's always kind of bothered me. Like she built a

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<v Speaker 1>billion dollar company by the age, right, that's always bothered me.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like there's just you know, the even just the

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<v Speaker 1>comment of they're just famous for being famous, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>get that it started that way in a show, but

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<v Speaker 1>like they have all been very successful and have built businesses.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't think that's fair.

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<v Speaker 2>I think they're the cutest coupling together. I love it.

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<v Speaker 2>I they're the they're the hot couple. Want to say,

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<v Speaker 2>if they're smart enough to I know, Well, apparently everybody

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<v Speaker 2>has an opinion like we do.

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<v Speaker 1>True, I do have strong opinions, so that's fair.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a new mom to a six week old, and

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<v Speaker 2>while I'm so grateful for our baby, the adjustment has

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<v Speaker 2>been really hard. Especially I'm my husband. The night wake

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<v Speaker 2>ups are wearing him down and he's exhausted and struggling

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<v Speaker 2>with a lack of sleep. I want to support him,

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<v Speaker 2>but I'm also depleted and worried about resentment building. How

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<v Speaker 2>can we handle the night wake ups more fairly and

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<v Speaker 2>protect our relationship during this exhausting stage of new parenthood.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, so I saw that, and I'm very curious, like

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<v Speaker 1>what the schedule already is if they're already, but it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like they're kind of switching off or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>helping each other out. But then it asks what could

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<v Speaker 1>be more fair? So I I kind of need more information.

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<v Speaker 2>So more information, and I think, if you're you're breastfeeding,

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<v Speaker 2>I get, well I don't get it because I didn't breastfeed,

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<v Speaker 2>But if there's a way for you to have you

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. Do women have enough then to put

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<v Speaker 2>it in a bottle so the husband can be.

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<v Speaker 1>It depends on the situation, but some and a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of times if they're breastfeeding, they'll have the dad like

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<v Speaker 1>bring the.

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<v Speaker 2>Baby to them, bringing the baby to them, right, and

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<v Speaker 2>then see that's a whole other like and I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like where I got I was, my situation's different because

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<v Speaker 2>we bottle fed. So what I mean what I did

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<v Speaker 2>in the past with Julian Jace was I can't sleep

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<v Speaker 2>past eight o'clock.

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<v Speaker 1>I just couldn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but like my ex could, so he would take

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<v Speaker 2>the basically eleven to three, right, so twelve one two

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<v Speaker 2>three like whatever. I'd go to bed around ten, So

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<v Speaker 2>eleven twelve, one two three, I'm then waking up three

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<v Speaker 2>four o'clock in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>He goes to bed at four.

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<v Speaker 2>So I had like a five six solid, five six

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<v Speaker 2>hour solid stretch. That's that was good. Yeah, for those couple,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, a couple of weeks or whatever. And then

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<v Speaker 2>I would take that instead of But again I didn't breastfeed,

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<v Speaker 2>so I didn't have to do you have to unmilk

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<v Speaker 2>yourself during what is that when you would pump? No,

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<v Speaker 2>not pump, but I mean because you have to get

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<v Speaker 2>it out bress.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, if you're like have like mestitis.

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<v Speaker 2>Or something, no, but don't if your boobs are big,

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<v Speaker 2>you have to let the milk come out.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, they should just breastfeed and be able to just

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<v Speaker 1>come out. I know what I'm saying, like instead of

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<v Speaker 1>going to sleep. Oh do you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Like she can't sleep through that because her words are

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<v Speaker 2>going to be hurting, right right, So that's that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell me he did a breastfeed for we're both like, sorry, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I did for a little while. But yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I think breastfeeding and then maybe pumping a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of times the women have to pump also, But

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<v Speaker 1>I think that there's ways for him to bring the baby.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like he's helping a lot though, it does,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's and he's tired, so maybe figuring out a

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<v Speaker 1>system where he gets a little bit longer. So I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I did exactly what you did, and I took the shift.

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<v Speaker 1>And so if they're not bottle feeding, that's just a

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<v Speaker 1>different yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And I will say you say he's or yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>think it's a little little boy, maybe it's a little girl.

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<v Speaker 2>But six weeks, by eight weeks, the baby should be.

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<v Speaker 2>My baby started sleeping between six and eight weeks theame,

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<v Speaker 2>but again ours was bottle.

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<v Speaker 1>And we and I I know I'm gonna probably.

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<v Speaker 2>Get pay for this, but I did start the sleep training,

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<v Speaker 2>oh yeah at about four weeks. Yeah, and that helped

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<v Speaker 2>because between six and eight weeks is when they started

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<v Speaker 2>sleeping a seven eight hour stretch.

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<v Speaker 1>Ye. I'm the same and so and I do think

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<v Speaker 1>that that's where it's like it's coming. It's such a

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<v Speaker 1>short lived time, even though when you're in the middle

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<v Speaker 1>of it. But there are people whose babies don't sleep

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<v Speaker 1>through the night for a year and I wouldn't have

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<v Speaker 1>survived that. So oh, no, nap when you can, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe listen.

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<v Speaker 2>I know night nurses are very expensive, but even if

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<v Speaker 2>you just do one a week, yeah, just to give

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<v Speaker 2>yourself a night sleep, because I mean, we did it

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<v Speaker 2>two times a week and it was Maybe it would

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<v Speaker 2>be that was amazing. Maybe it would be.

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<v Speaker 1>Helpful if y'all are switching off now to take an

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<v Speaker 1>approach where like one person gets one full night rest

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<v Speaker 1>to like kind of catch up and then like switch

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<v Speaker 1>off that way, Maybe try both ways and see what works.

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<v Speaker 1>Would it be better for someone to get a full

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<v Speaker 1>night sleep and then the next night be up the

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<v Speaker 1>whole time? I don't just try different things to see

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<v Speaker 1>what helps get more sleep. And you're so close, it's

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<v Speaker 1>almost there.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys, sorry about that for the mothers that I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>don't you like push though, I mean, I just apologies

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<v Speaker 2>for not knowing the breastfeeding world. But if you're going

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<v Speaker 2>to bottle feed, get a baby Breza.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, the thing was amazing, so good.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I feel like we touched on a touched on

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<v Speaker 2>a lot, and uh, I'm excited.

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<v Speaker 1>See what's what's coming. Yeah. I love you, guys, love you.

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<v Speaker 1>Bye bye,