Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio Podcast.
Speaker 2: Okay, Happy New Year, Happy New Year. And I know
Speaker 2: we had an episode, but we had recorded it before
Speaker 2: the New Year. Oh that's one of those where it's
Speaker 2: so hard for me because I'm like, we can't really
Speaker 2: say anything.
Speaker 1: Let's just be real, Happy new Year, New Year. How's
Speaker 1: your New yearly started off? You know fine? I feel
Speaker 1: I feel like usually that Monday, it's like, yes, everyone's
Speaker 1: back to school, we're back to work, we're back. It
Speaker 1: hasn't felt as that this year. Have you do you
Speaker 1: feel that?
Speaker 2: Well, I'm the most and I you don't worry your
Speaker 2: email's coming. But the amount of people that I said, hey,
Speaker 2: just checking in, Hey, just like you know, Austin and
Speaker 2: I are working on something like hey, Austin, we gotta
Speaker 2: you know, it's I'm I'm you know. And then I'm
Speaker 2: texting you know, Brian Hurtlinger and I had a big
Speaker 2: old call. So it's like I'm so ready to be
Speaker 2: like back in it, but my acting industry is not
Speaker 2: so slow.
Speaker 1: Well it's interesting because I'm usually so excited to get
Speaker 1: back too, but I feel like, no, like it, no
Speaker 1: one's there yet, No no one's there yet for some reason.
Speaker 1: It's like they take off.
Speaker 2: Two weeks before Christmas, and then they take off essentially
Speaker 2: a week after that after year, and then they shut
Speaker 2: down again for someday. And I'm just like, can can
Speaker 2: anybody do any work? Because high, yeah, I would like
Speaker 2: to work.
Speaker 1: Well that it's felt Yeah, it's felt like a slower
Speaker 1: like back to the new year work wise, and yeah
Speaker 1: all the things.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but no, I was that annoying. Annoying Usually I don't.
Speaker 2: And it's funny because Alan wallwas book I'll text him
Speaker 2: on Monday, so no Tuesday, like because people you know,
Speaker 2: you want to wait the day. But now I'm like, no,
Speaker 2: you're getting a text for me on Monday.
Speaker 1: I haven't gotten anything for me.
Speaker 2: Well, I don't even stand by. I'm making my list
Speaker 2: of all crings that we have to check in on.
Speaker 2: I love it, but I just I was. I was
Speaker 2: very much like, hey, you know, because a lot of
Speaker 2: people not a lot of people, but I had a
Speaker 2: couple of producers reach out because they saw the my
Speaker 2: Netflix movie and the you know, the Top five and
Speaker 2: so which again I have.
Speaker 1: That was insane. That was like for it was a
Speaker 1: couple of weeks. Yeah, that was wild, wild.
Speaker 2: And when I went two and then three and then
Speaker 2: two and then you know, it was it was insane
Speaker 2: how there was life after lifetime really with that. Yeah,
Speaker 2: you know, yeah, so that was that was crazy and
Speaker 2: I love glad everyone loved it. But it's just funny
Speaker 2: because there's been a few producers that I have texted
Speaker 2: with in the past and I'm like, hey, you know,
Speaker 2: because I always want to keep in contact, so I'm like, hey,
Speaker 2: when's our next thing.
Speaker 1: I just am that annoying person.
Speaker 2: But you have to be top of mind for people absolutely,
Speaker 2: because there's so many people out there that want a job.
Speaker 2: So I'm like, I gotta i gotta be on the
Speaker 2: you know, on the you know, top of their mind.
Speaker 2: So of course I've checked in with them, but then
Speaker 2: when that movie came, they're like, oh, hey, we should
Speaker 2: really get something. I'm like, I've been second but now
Speaker 2: it's so that was interesting to me.
Speaker 1: I thought that was kind of fun. That's fun to
Speaker 1: see how that Yeah, I know, so we'll see. But
Speaker 1: so that was cool.
Speaker 2: But yeah, No, I started Monday off with like, I'm like,
Speaker 2: I'm going my treadmill is broken.
Speaker 1: So yeah, went for a run. It's been beautiful. It has,
Speaker 1: but today today it feels a little Maybe that's what
Speaker 1: it is because today's just Tuesday, right, Yeah, Today's only Tuesday.
Speaker 1: We just started. So maybe Monday just didn't feel like
Speaker 1: the Monday I thought it would be, and then today's
Speaker 1: kind of gloomy. Yeah, but I was at the doctors
Speaker 1: with my kids, you know how you do, like all
Speaker 1: the like you know, all the appointments for the year,
Speaker 1: like all the checkups, all the things. So I know
Speaker 1: it's just yeah, but how's your new year. It's all good, though,
Speaker 1: I mean, it's been good.
Speaker 2: We did our vision boards the other night. I saw
Speaker 2: that it was so cute. Jase still was just trying
Speaker 2: to understand the concept a bit, but it was it
Speaker 2: was super cute. We actually, so I have a.
Speaker 1: Dream, and you know, I have a dream that you
Speaker 1: know me.
Speaker 2: I love water and I love lakes, and so I've
Speaker 2: really wanted a lake house for I mean forever. I
Speaker 2: grew up on a lake, right, So that's just like
Speaker 2: in my Michigan DNA is to be by water and
Speaker 2: a lake. So I'm like, let's go manifest, let's go
Speaker 2: look at some properties or whatever and just speaking of Jace,
Speaker 2: he was so cute because we took them with us
Speaker 2: obviously because we want them to feel part of it
Speaker 2: and excite, you know, get them excited too for the
Speaker 2: potential that maybe that would happen. And so we had
Speaker 2: a list of like ten to twelve showings, one of
Speaker 2: which we had canceled because the guy was like, there's
Speaker 2: a foundation issue. So I'm like out, you know, uh,
Speaker 2: and so, but we would rate, so the second we
Speaker 2: would get back in the car, we would rate, you know,
Speaker 2: what the house was or whatever. So like I'd been like,
Speaker 2: I'd give it like a six, and then we say
Speaker 2: what we like and we don't like, but Jace's rating
Speaker 2: like he didn't understand the rating scales.
Speaker 1: So like the house that we all loved, he's.
Speaker 2: Like four and we're like, buddy, why, like we all
Speaker 2: gave it a nine. So but yeah, our vision boards
Speaker 2: it was you know, it was it was super cute.
Speaker 2: But that was really fun. And then oh, Starbucks delivery,
Speaker 2: Thanks honey, did you get one for Catherine?
Speaker 1: It's alan You're forgiven Starbucks order the same as ours.
Speaker 1: Now I don't do oat milk, what do you do?
Speaker 1: Just regular regular? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yes, but anyway, so vision boards was super fun and
Speaker 2: then it just I'm I'm I'm actually I'm feeling excited.
Speaker 1: Good. Were they excited about the possibility of a house, Yes,
Speaker 1: they were. That's fun.
Speaker 2: But it was again hard for me to under So
Speaker 2: they're like, so we were moving. We're like, no, no, no,
Speaker 2: like this would just be we would just go maybe
Speaker 2: on the weekends. They're like, so then when we'd keep
Speaker 2: our house And I'm like, yes, but again, like this
Speaker 2: is just a dream, and we're just.
Speaker 1: What do you mean two houses?
Speaker 2: Understand we're envisioned, and then you know, we had to
Speaker 2: kind of set their expectations too sure, because it's like,
Speaker 2: all right, guys, this is a lake house, the cabin,
Speaker 2: it's you know. And but they they were there for it.
Speaker 2: They loved it, they loved the idea, and so it's
Speaker 2: it was really fun to kind of dream that up.
Speaker 1: And so TVD so, okay, let me know we've got
Speaker 1: a place to go.
Speaker 2: Well, we we texted our neighbor because our neighbor also
Speaker 2: has a place on the same lake, and they said, hey,
Speaker 2: our neighbor's putting their house up for sale. Problem is
Speaker 2: we're in a really we have to stay under a
Speaker 2: certain other to I don't, you know, I don't want
Speaker 2: to stress about money.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: At the same time, I'm like, I want to have
Speaker 2: some fun with it right too, and I want to
Speaker 2: make memories. But apparently, like I didn't know this, on
Speaker 2: a lake, you got to have the right depth of
Speaker 2: water or you're not going to have good resale. So
Speaker 2: the house that we really like isn't the best depth
Speaker 2: of water. But our neighbor just sent to us his
Speaker 2: property and we just saw it this morning, and I
Speaker 2: think it's it's right in the right so you could
Speaker 2: our neighbor's neighbor.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh fun, uh huh, so that you know,
Speaker 1: we'd have someone that could like check on it. Yeah.
Speaker 1: But it's I mean it's tiny, tiny, tiny is it
Speaker 1: that everybody?
Speaker 2: Uh we're gonna I mean it's one of those where
Speaker 2: you don't have any side tables in a bed, you know.
Speaker 1: But it's okay, who cares about that? Cares? That's my thing.
Speaker 2: I'm like, I when you go to a lake house
Speaker 2: like I envision because like one of the houses that
Speaker 2: I loved, and Alan was like Jana, it's looks like
Speaker 2: and this is I don't want to get hate for this,
Speaker 2: but I know. But he goes, this looks like a
Speaker 2: trailer house in a mountain, and I go and I
Speaker 2: love it. Yeah, I think it's amazing. I'm like, you
Speaker 2: don't understand. I grew up with this, Like I'm like,
Speaker 2: look at, you know, my grandma's house on the lake.
Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't want. We walked into this one
Speaker 2: house and they're like the realtors like, oh, this is bread.
Speaker 2: Knew because I was like, it's boring and it has
Speaker 2: zero character and I don't like it.
Speaker 1: Like it's I don't want. What do you think it's funny?
Speaker 1: I do. I think that's funny just in general. I
Speaker 1: mean it's cool. I just feel like I would be like, oh,
Speaker 1: it's new, great, and you're like, it has no character.
Speaker 1: I love that about you.
Speaker 2: It had like, I mean, all new cat. I was like,
Speaker 2: this is so boring, it's like our house on a lake.
Speaker 2: I want give me rough like and the realtor looks
Speaker 2: at me like I was crazy. He goes, You're you're
Speaker 2: just throwing me for a loop. I go, well, what
Speaker 2: did you think? He goes, I didn't expect you for
Speaker 2: an old soul? And I said on a lake. Give
Speaker 2: me an old household like I want cozy and I
Speaker 2: want just like yeah, I don't want it to look new, yeah,
Speaker 2: or pretty honestly okay, because you can make it pretty
Speaker 2: bone the balls on a lake is for sure. All
Speaker 2: I need is a view, Yeah, give me a view
Speaker 2: and a bed that I can rest my head on.
Speaker 2: And it's like, well, I ne'd rather spend you're spending
Speaker 2: all your time outside, well.
Speaker 1: And you'd rather spend more money on getting the right view,
Speaker 1: the right set upright then? Like a brand new house, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I get that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I was like we should probably go look
Speaker 2: at it because he just like facetimed us and it
Speaker 2: was like.
Speaker 1: Like how small, like in a thousand okay, but is
Speaker 1: there like enough bedrooms for your family? Yeah? That was
Speaker 1: a big bump bedroom.
Speaker 2: Perfect.
Speaker 1: That's all you need. Is there enough room for us
Speaker 1: to go for a girls trip? That's all I need
Speaker 1: to know. They got two porches, great porches at it's great.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so good. Yeah that's all we need. But you know,
Speaker 2: like you know, for a first lake house, it's all
Speaker 2: you it's all you really need. Anyways, it's just a dream.
Speaker 2: It's been a dream on my so when I got divorced,
Speaker 2: my therapist and I we wrote where do we want
Speaker 2: to be in five years? And so I said, in
Speaker 2: a healthy relationship, I'd like a lake house. And so
Speaker 2: it made me think of that because I want to.
Speaker 2: I want to revisit because I know she still has it.
Speaker 1: How long? How long has it been? Almost five years?
Speaker 1: Almost five? Yeah, like a divorce in twenty one, right, crazy? Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's crazy. Oh I know, yeah, almost five So you
Speaker 1: might you might.
Speaker 2: Hit it, I know so, but it would be great
Speaker 2: and who knows, but if you have to. My thing
Speaker 2: this year is I'm like, let's just put it out there, universe.
Speaker 2: It'd be so fun because you know me, I want
Speaker 2: I want us to all go there, come on, wind
Speaker 2: down listeners, come to that we need, We'll do.
Speaker 1: A little do something with us, come to.
Speaker 2: The lake with us, with us. But no, it's been
Speaker 2: a good start to the year.
Speaker 1: I'm proud of you what for doing that, because I
Speaker 1: feel like you're one who will dream about that. But
Speaker 1: just when this happens or when this when X win
Speaker 1: Z and ten years and what you know or whatever.
Speaker 1: Proud of you for like taking the step to just
Speaker 1: like it's just going to be sitting there when we're dead,
Speaker 1: you might as well spend it.
Speaker 2: And enjoying us too, though, where it's like it's so,
Speaker 2: you know, because of course you look at the ones
Speaker 2: We're like, this is running right, but I'm not trying
Speaker 2: to downsize this house and that. So it's like, yeah,
Speaker 2: I wouldn't we wouldn't get hit right as hard exactly.
Speaker 1: That makes sense. Yes, I love it, Pratty. Thanks.
Speaker 2: We're missing KB because she's in New York right now
Speaker 2: that it's fun of this recording, she's in New York.
Speaker 2: I do we have anything to whine about it? I
Speaker 2: did write something down, but I just pull it up, you.
Speaker 1: Know, my only current wine right now, and it's whining
Speaker 1: it myself a little bit too, but kind of follows
Speaker 1: what we were talking about, is like, we've got to
Speaker 1: get back to taking girls' trips.
Speaker 2: I put it on my vision board. Did you okay
Speaker 2: if I am our girlfriend getaways? Yeah, like we used
Speaker 2: to be so.
Speaker 1: I know we've talked about that on here, but we
Speaker 1: used to be so good about it. And I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm one of the worst. I'm not saying I mean
Speaker 1: I'm usually pretty down to go, but I am also
Speaker 1: so very busy. But I am always the first one
Speaker 1: to be like, yeah, let's go. But we're all just
Speaker 1: so freaking busy and not making it a priority that
Speaker 1: it's like making me mad, like it myself and everybody.
Speaker 1: I'm like, let's just do it. Yeah, let's just go.
Speaker 1: Let's just get out of here. And I understand that
Speaker 1: not everybody has the ability to just get up and leave.
Speaker 1: And I understand that there's a lot of people listening
Speaker 1: that would love the chance to be able to just
Speaker 1: be able to go somebody.
Speaker 2: So why do you think I'm trying to get a
Speaker 2: lake house? Because all we'd have to do is drive
Speaker 2: two hours because a lot of times it's yeah it's
Speaker 2: expensive to fly here or go there. You know, yeah
Speaker 2: that could be a fun little girls, yes, and.
Speaker 1: We won't have I mean, yes, being busy is an excuse,
Speaker 1: but there's like not other excuses. So right, I know
Speaker 1: it is on the vision board. Okay, good. I haven't
Speaker 1: done a vision board for this year, but it would
Speaker 1: be on it if I did.
Speaker 2: That's what.
Speaker 1: It's a small wine. But I am it's like one
Speaker 1: of those where I'm like, okay, like I couldn't make
Speaker 1: the walk the other day, legitimately was still in church,
Speaker 1: had to do stuff with the kids, couldn't make it.
Speaker 1: But I'm like, all right, this is the stuff we've
Speaker 1: talked about, we've whined about, but it's only on ourselves,
Speaker 1: you know, and just like making those things.
Speaker 2: Happen, putting it to fruition, yes, yes, instead of just
Speaker 2: talking about it, yes, exactly.
Speaker 1: But that's not a big wine. Otherwise, I'm you know,
Speaker 1: everything's good. How about you?
Speaker 2: I do have a small husband wine. Oh good, I
Speaker 2: love these, But it might be I don't know if
Speaker 2: it's a husband thing or because this could be you too, right,
Speaker 2: But when the other day, like probably every other mom
Speaker 2: January one and two, I purged cleaned. I mean I
Speaker 2: got rid of so much stuff and organized everything. I
Speaker 2: mean my little counter thing, a jigger, makeup, it looks
Speaker 2: just great. Got rid of so much. Have a little
Speaker 2: bag for when my niece comes or my mom comes
Speaker 2: and they want ceerums and stuff, so I put like
Speaker 2: all that in a bag for them. But I don't
Speaker 2: know if it's a husband thing or a man thing.
Speaker 2: But what I have found to be true is that
Speaker 2: they put things behind chairs to die.
Speaker 1: Huh. Okay, does yours. Do you find a bunch of
Speaker 1: stuff behind chairs? Oh?
Speaker 2: Like every little every single chair that we like, a
Speaker 2: little sitting chair in our room, was there's something behind
Speaker 2: there that was his. And then I go to the
Speaker 2: other one and there was some and I'm like, let's
Speaker 2: find a home for this. And then I had to
Speaker 2: show him where I made the home for all these things.
Speaker 2: But it made me think back. I'm like, Okay, I
Speaker 2: remember when that person is this a husband? Is this
Speaker 2: a man thing to hide to let things die behind
Speaker 2: a chair?
Speaker 1: Does he not remember that even put them there?
Speaker 2: I mean I think he just goes back to grab
Speaker 2: them like his compression boot.
Speaker 1: Oh, it's just like where they're like that store.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I'm like, behind a chair, it's not a home.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like Nick does that some Yeah, and
Speaker 1: I don't even though Yeah, I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's a man thing. I'm trying
Speaker 1: to think. I did find like a stack of blankets
Speaker 1: behind one of my chairs when I went to go
Speaker 1: clean up the other day, which I thought was interesting.
Speaker 1: He though mine is like his closet has become like
Speaker 1: it's not necessarily messy, but it's just like all the
Speaker 1: random stuff and it has found a home in the closet,
Speaker 1: but it's not really a home, like it's just like
Speaker 1: made it a mess, you know. So that's been frustrating.
Speaker 1: I couldn't live with someone that was messy. Yeah I'm
Speaker 1: kind of messy. I've gotten a lot better. But you
Speaker 1: said you've gotten better. Yeah, I've gotten a lot better.
Speaker 1: What do you do? Just not put it away? I
Speaker 1: used to be like really messy, Like you just leave it. Oh,
Speaker 1: I mean I used.
Speaker 2: To think that's so weird to me because I don't
Speaker 2: see that in your personality.
Speaker 1: I grew up that way, Like I wasn't really made
Speaker 1: to like clean my room and like got you see,
Speaker 1: So I just kind of grew up that way. So
Speaker 1: I've definitely gotten a lot lot better. So what do
Speaker 1: you do?
Speaker 2: Just like you place it there and then leave it?
Speaker 2: Is that kind of where it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, more or less. It's just like it used to
Speaker 1: be clothes more than anything. And that can still get
Speaker 1: to me, you know, Like I can like throw clothes
Speaker 1: in a closet and it's just like sitting there or whatever.
Speaker 1: But yeah, stuff will just or like the kids stuff
Speaker 1: when they don't put it away. Okay, we'll do this tomorrow.
Speaker 1: But then it piles up more, and then it piles
Speaker 1: up more, and then there's just kind of stuff all
Speaker 1: the time. So yeah, I can be kind of messy.
Speaker 1: I definitely have a lot of drunk drawers that I
Speaker 1: need to clean through. Junk drawers, yeah, yeah, I went.
Speaker 1: I had a couple of those. Yeah, but I did.
Speaker 1: They're organized junk drays. Yeah, mine are not organized. But
Speaker 1: when I get on an organizing kick, like I did
Speaker 1: like a bunch over the break, but there's still some
Speaker 1: more I need to do, I can get very organized.
Speaker 1: So it's just I don't know.
Speaker 2: It just depends how hard are you on the kids
Speaker 2: with organizing and putting their stuff away.
Speaker 1: Cleaning up. Pretty hard on them because I grew up
Speaker 1: not having that, so I'm decently hard on them. They
Speaker 1: are good at making messes, but they are very good
Speaker 1: at cleaning up, So I'm not like that night, it
Speaker 1: doesn't have to be done. Like Kristen couldn't live in
Speaker 1: my house, for sure, there's no way she could. I'm
Speaker 1: sure every night everything and I'm not that way, but
Speaker 1: I'll be like, Okay, tomorrow, you've got to you know,
Speaker 1: you need to clean your room. So I'm mid, you know,
Speaker 1: and I things will be messy for sure. It's actually
Speaker 1: very clean right now, but you if at certain times
Speaker 1: you come over, it would definitely be messy. But I
Speaker 1: also do make them clean it up. I guess now organized.
Speaker 2: Mmm.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say Emmy loves to have her room organized.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say the other kids rooms are necessarily organized.
Speaker 2: It's hard because the two homes. Yeah, that makes it
Speaker 2: a bit more vocal. Sometimes it's like I see because
Speaker 2: I try to. I'm not super on top, but I
Speaker 2: am at the same time where I'm like, you're not
Speaker 2: just throwing your clothes there. Yeah, you have a hamper, right,
Speaker 2: a nice hamper you open and close.
Speaker 1: Yeah. That drives me crazy, Like I they'll throw the
Speaker 1: clothes right next to the hamper.
Speaker 2: They'll put it behind her dresser. M like to hide
Speaker 2: it when she cleans, and I'm like, it's it's it's
Speaker 2: the same distance.
Speaker 1: Yeah, mind do that with their closets and it drives
Speaker 1: me nuts.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And so then I then go to what do
Speaker 2: you do with your Dad's the one on clean? So
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, like this is not how we're doing
Speaker 2: it here, right.
Speaker 1: And that is hard because again, growing up in a
Speaker 1: family where they kind of just ignored my room and
Speaker 1: didn't make me clean it up, I had really you know,
Speaker 1: bad habits of that. So then when I went and
Speaker 1: lived with people, you know, I had a roommate who
Speaker 1: was also really bad at that. Was it Beth?
Speaker 2: Yes, okay, because I was like I always thought Beth
Speaker 2: was the messy one.
Speaker 1: She's way messier than me. But the problem is is
Speaker 1: that we lived together like right out of or like
Speaker 1: I guess was it right out of college? During college?
Speaker 1: So I was still pretty messy. So us together was detrimental,
Speaker 1: Like it was awful. Like Nick was like I because
Speaker 1: you know, when we were dating us was out of college.
Speaker 1: He would come He'd like I cannot come there, like
Speaker 1: it was so bad, and it was just stuff everywhere,
Speaker 1: so like clothes and everything. Yeah, it was so bad.
Speaker 1: So then when we started dating, he was a lot cleaner.
Speaker 1: Now there's things now where I'm like, where are you
Speaker 1: really that clean? But he was just a lot cleaner
Speaker 1: than me, and so I like was like, I get
Speaker 1: to get this together, like I got to get my
Speaker 1: life together. Yeah, and so it's it actually bothers me now,
Speaker 1: whereas before it never would have bothered me. I could
Speaker 1: just live like that, right, But yeah, yeah, so it's
Speaker 1: good to go ahead and tell them they're not going
Speaker 1: to live that way and we can't live this way,
Speaker 1: because then you get into a habit of it.
Speaker 2: That's good because I started to think maybe I'm too
Speaker 2: I mean, I think so. I think that's good to
Speaker 2: have a balance, A balance, A balance for sure.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Alex Earl SHARE's cryptic message amid Tom Brady romance, I
Speaker 2: say go for it, girl. She's rumor has it, We're
Speaker 2: still dancing in the caption of her January third Instagram
Speaker 2: post New Friends, new memories, and new beginnings to start
Speaker 2: off the New year. Words can't describe how amazing this
Speaker 2: trip was. Listen, I hear that Saint Bart's during New
Speaker 2: Year's is a time, is it? Apparently so? Having said that,
Speaker 2: though Bethany Franklin.
Speaker 1: I was about to say, well what she like, came
Speaker 1: back with some like fungal infection something she.
Speaker 2: Was talking about, you know, she hated dislike the fact
Speaker 2: that people would be at a club being or at
Speaker 2: a beach club being like, but this isn't the one
Speaker 2: I need to be at I need to be at
Speaker 2: this beach club.
Speaker 1: She's just like, can you just enjoy where we're at? Yeah?
Speaker 1: You know, I could not do that. No, listen. Was
Speaker 1: it a new couple alert or just in New Year's
Speaker 1: Eve hookup? Who knows? Who knows? But I'm here for it.
Speaker 1: Good on you, Good on you. Listen. They're both cute.
Speaker 2: Do what you want to do single, that's the thing,
Speaker 2: open man, care, Go have fun.
Speaker 1: You know. That's a great thing about when you're newly single.
Speaker 1: Go have fun. I can't imagine, and I mean you've
Speaker 1: had to do it, but I can't imagine though, just
Speaker 1: going and having fun and having everyone's opinions and people
Speaker 1: seeing and knowing and like, let me just date and
Speaker 1: see who I want to date, you know, or have
Speaker 1: fun with and see if we're going to date. You know?
Speaker 1: That would be hard. Yeah, not that you haven't done
Speaker 1: that before.
Speaker 2: Timothy Shallamey thanks partner of three years, Kylie Jenner, a
Speaker 2: mid twenty twenty six Critics Choice Awards win. He basically said,
Speaker 2: thank you to my partner of three years. Thank you
Speaker 2: for our foundation.
Speaker 1: I love you. I can do this without you.
Speaker 2: Thank you from the bottom of my heart, said during
Speaker 2: Challame said during the awards, listen, oh did you see
Speaker 2: the little comment that Amanda seyfrid Cifer. No, she wrote,
Speaker 2: she goes, oh that's what it meant. She's like, I thought,
Speaker 2: like a foundation, and I'm like, listen, that is the
Speaker 2: healthiest thing a dude can say. I love it. Are
Speaker 2: you kidding me to say thank you for our foundation?
Speaker 1: What it like? Yeah?
Speaker 2: That is the He's not like, yo, girl, love you
Speaker 2: love our relationship? Like I think it's was. I thought
Speaker 2: it was incredibly handsome of him to say because kids
Speaker 2: not he's not a kid Jesus, he's thirty, but like
Speaker 2: he does. But you know what I mean, it's for
Speaker 2: him to say, I mean the knowledge of that man.
Speaker 1: Boy to say man foundation.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because all great relationships are built on a great foundation.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Those very sweet. I loved it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know why people were like, what's that mean?
Speaker 2: Why don't you figure that out and getting a better relationship?
Speaker 1: You all know what it means than you find that
Speaker 1: out of the best foundation.
Speaker 2: I thought it was so cute. I think horrible there
Speaker 2: So have you seen Marty Supreme? No great movie?
Speaker 1: So good? I honestly, even being like a Kardashian. I
Speaker 1: had no idea about this relationship I had. I knew nothing.
Speaker 1: I knew nothing about it three years and then I
Speaker 1: just saw this and I was like, oh, they're so sweet.
Speaker 1: I love it.
Speaker 2: I knew they were dating. I've seen a few things
Speaker 2: of them together, but they're not. Yes, super slumping it. Yeah,
Speaker 2: but I think it was Yeah, that was I loved that.
Speaker 2: I think it is so super cute. This is interesting.
Speaker 2: Do you think it's unfair fans that think of Kylie
Speaker 2: as not smart enough or not artistic enough for Timothy?
Speaker 2: Does she get a bad rap because of her family's reputation, So.
Speaker 1: That's always kind of bothered me. Like she built a
Speaker 1: billion dollar company by the age, right, that's always bothered me.
Speaker 1: It's like there's just you know, the even just the
Speaker 1: comment of they're just famous for being famous, Like I
Speaker 1: get that it started that way in a show, but
Speaker 1: like they have all been very successful and have built businesses.
Speaker 1: So I don't think that's fair.
Speaker 2: I think they're the cutest coupling together. I love it.
Speaker 2: I they're the they're the hot couple. Want to say,
Speaker 2: if they're smart enough to I know, Well, apparently everybody
Speaker 2: has an opinion like we do.
Speaker 1: True, I do have strong opinions, so that's fair.
Speaker 2: I'm a new mom to a six week old, and
Speaker 2: while I'm so grateful for our baby, the adjustment has
Speaker 2: been really hard. Especially I'm my husband. The night wake
Speaker 2: ups are wearing him down and he's exhausted and struggling
Speaker 2: with a lack of sleep. I want to support him,
Speaker 2: but I'm also depleted and worried about resentment building. How
Speaker 2: can we handle the night wake ups more fairly and
Speaker 2: protect our relationship during this exhausting stage of new parenthood.
Speaker 1: Well, so I saw that, and I'm very curious, like
Speaker 1: what the schedule already is if they're already, but it
Speaker 1: sounds like they're kind of switching off or you know,
Speaker 1: helping each other out. But then it asks what could
Speaker 1: be more fair? So I I kind of need more information.
Speaker 2: So more information, and I think, if you're you're breastfeeding,
Speaker 2: I get, well I don't get it because I didn't breastfeed,
Speaker 2: But if there's a way for you to have you
Speaker 2: I don't know. Do women have enough then to put
Speaker 2: it in a bottle so the husband can be.
Speaker 1: It depends on the situation, but some and a lot
Speaker 1: of times if they're breastfeeding, they'll have the dad like
Speaker 1: bring the.
Speaker 2: Baby to them, bringing the baby to them, right, and
Speaker 2: then see that's a whole other like and I feel
Speaker 2: like where I got I was, my situation's different because
Speaker 2: we bottle fed. So what I mean what I did
Speaker 2: in the past with Julian Jace was I can't sleep
Speaker 2: past eight o'clock.
Speaker 1: I just couldn't.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but like my ex could, so he would take
Speaker 2: the basically eleven to three, right, so twelve one two
Speaker 2: three like whatever. I'd go to bed around ten, So
Speaker 2: eleven twelve, one two three, I'm then waking up three
Speaker 2: four o'clock in the morning.
Speaker 1: He goes to bed at four.
Speaker 2: So I had like a five six solid, five six
Speaker 2: hour solid stretch. That's that was good. Yeah, for those couple,
Speaker 2: you know, a couple of weeks or whatever. And then
Speaker 2: I would take that instead of But again I didn't breastfeed,
Speaker 2: so I didn't have to do you have to unmilk
Speaker 2: yourself during what is that when you would pump? No,
Speaker 2: not pump, but I mean because you have to get
Speaker 2: it out bress.
Speaker 1: Oh, if you're like have like mestitis.
Speaker 2: Or something, no, but don't if your boobs are big,
Speaker 2: you have to let the milk come out.
Speaker 1: Well, they should just breastfeed and be able to just
Speaker 1: come out. I know what I'm saying, like instead of
Speaker 1: going to sleep. Oh do you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: Like she can't sleep through that because her words are
Speaker 2: going to be hurting, right right, So that's that's.
Speaker 1: Tell me he did a breastfeed for we're both like, sorry, guys,
Speaker 1: I mean I did for a little while. But yes,
Speaker 1: I mean I think breastfeeding and then maybe pumping a
Speaker 1: lot of times the women have to pump also, But
Speaker 1: I think that there's ways for him to bring the baby.
Speaker 1: It sounds like he's helping a lot though, it does,
Speaker 1: and that's and he's tired, so maybe figuring out a
Speaker 1: system where he gets a little bit longer. So I mean,
Speaker 1: I did exactly what you did, and I took the shift.
Speaker 1: And so if they're not bottle feeding, that's just a
Speaker 1: different yeah.
Speaker 2: And I will say you say he's or yeah, I
Speaker 2: think it's a little little boy, maybe it's a little girl.
Speaker 2: But six weeks, by eight weeks, the baby should be.
Speaker 2: My baby started sleeping between six and eight weeks theame,
Speaker 2: but again ours was bottle.
Speaker 1: And we and I I know I'm gonna probably.
Speaker 2: Get pay for this, but I did start the sleep training,
Speaker 2: oh yeah at about four weeks. Yeah, and that helped
Speaker 2: because between six and eight weeks is when they started
Speaker 2: sleeping a seven eight hour stretch.
Speaker 1: Ye. I'm the same and so and I do think
Speaker 1: that that's where it's like it's coming. It's such a
Speaker 1: short lived time, even though when you're in the middle
Speaker 1: of it. But there are people whose babies don't sleep
Speaker 1: through the night for a year and I wouldn't have
Speaker 1: survived that. So oh, no, nap when you can, yes,
Speaker 1: and maybe listen.
Speaker 2: I know night nurses are very expensive, but even if
Speaker 2: you just do one a week, yeah, just to give
Speaker 2: yourself a night sleep, because I mean, we did it
Speaker 2: two times a week and it was Maybe it would
Speaker 2: be that was amazing. Maybe it would be.
Speaker 1: Helpful if y'all are switching off now to take an
Speaker 1: approach where like one person gets one full night rest
Speaker 1: to like kind of catch up and then like switch
Speaker 1: off that way, Maybe try both ways and see what works.
Speaker 1: Would it be better for someone to get a full
Speaker 1: night sleep and then the next night be up the
Speaker 1: whole time? I don't just try different things to see
Speaker 1: what helps get more sleep. And you're so close, it's
Speaker 1: almost there.
Speaker 2: Guys, sorry about that for the mothers that I'm like,
Speaker 2: don't you like push though, I mean, I just apologies
Speaker 2: for not knowing the breastfeeding world. But if you're going
Speaker 2: to bottle feed, get a baby Breza.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, the thing was amazing, so good.
Speaker 2: Well, I feel like we touched on a touched on
Speaker 2: a lot, and uh, I'm excited.
Speaker 1: See what's what's coming. Yeah. I love you, guys, love you.
Speaker 1: Bye bye,