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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Happy New Year, Happy New Year. And I know

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Speaker 2: we had an episode, but we had recorded it before

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Speaker 2: the New Year. Oh that's one of those where it's

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Speaker 2: so hard for me because I'm like, we can't really

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Speaker 2: say anything.

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Speaker 1: Let's just be real, Happy new Year, New Year. How's

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Speaker 1: your New yearly started off? You know fine? I feel

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Speaker 1: I feel like usually that Monday, it's like, yes, everyone's

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Speaker 1: back to school, we're back to work, we're back. It

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Speaker 1: hasn't felt as that this year. Have you do you

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Speaker 1: feel that?

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm the most and I you don't worry your

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Speaker 2: email's coming. But the amount of people that I said, hey,

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Speaker 2: just checking in, Hey, just like you know, Austin and

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Speaker 2: I are working on something like hey, Austin, we gotta

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Speaker 2: you know, it's I'm I'm you know. And then I'm

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Speaker 2: texting you know, Brian Hurtlinger and I had a big

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Speaker 2: old call. So it's like I'm so ready to be

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Speaker 2: like back in it, but my acting industry is not

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Speaker 2: so slow.

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Speaker 1: Well it's interesting because I'm usually so excited to get

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Speaker 1: back too, but I feel like, no, like it, no

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Speaker 1: one's there yet, No no one's there yet for some reason.

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Speaker 1: It's like they take off.

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Speaker 2: Two weeks before Christmas, and then they take off essentially

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Speaker 2: a week after that after year, and then they shut

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Speaker 2: down again for someday. And I'm just like, can can

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Speaker 2: anybody do any work? Because high, yeah, I would like

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Speaker 2: to work.

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Speaker 1: Well that it's felt Yeah, it's felt like a slower

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Speaker 1: like back to the new year work wise, and yeah

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Speaker 1: all the things.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but no, I was that annoying. Annoying Usually I don't.

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Speaker 2: And it's funny because Alan wallwas book I'll text him

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Speaker 2: on Monday, so no Tuesday, like because people you know,

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Speaker 2: you want to wait the day. But now I'm like, no,

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Speaker 2: you're getting a text for me on Monday.

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Speaker 1: I haven't gotten anything for me.

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't even stand by. I'm making my list

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Speaker 2: of all crings that we have to check in on.

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Speaker 2: I love it, but I just I was. I was

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Speaker 2: very much like, hey, you know, because a lot of

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Speaker 2: people not a lot of people, but I had a

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Speaker 2: couple of producers reach out because they saw the my

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Speaker 2: Netflix movie and the you know, the Top five and

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Speaker 2: so which again I have.

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Speaker 1: That was insane. That was like for it was a

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Speaker 1: couple of weeks. Yeah, that was wild, wild.

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Speaker 2: And when I went two and then three and then

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Speaker 2: how there was life after lifetime really with that. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you know, yeah, so that was that was crazy and

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Speaker 2: I love glad everyone loved it. But it's just funny

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Speaker 2: because there's been a few producers that I have texted

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Speaker 2: because I always want to keep in contact, so I'm like, hey,

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Speaker 2: when's our next thing.

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Speaker 1: I just am that annoying person.

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Speaker 2: But you have to be top of mind for people absolutely,

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Speaker 2: because there's so many people out there that want a job.

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Speaker 2: So I'm like, I gotta i gotta be on the

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Speaker 2: you know, on the you know, top of their mind.

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Speaker 2: So of course I've checked in with them, but then

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Speaker 2: when that movie came, they're like, oh, hey, we should

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Speaker 2: really get something. I'm like, I've been second but now

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Speaker 2: it's so that was interesting to me.

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Speaker 1: I thought that was kind of fun. That's fun to

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Speaker 1: see how that Yeah, I know, so we'll see. But

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Speaker 1: so that was cool.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, No, I started Monday off with like, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: So yeah, went for a run. It's been beautiful. It has,

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Speaker 1: but today today it feels a little Maybe that's what

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Speaker 1: We just started. So maybe Monday just didn't feel like

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Speaker 1: kind of gloomy. Yeah, but I was at the doctors

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Speaker 1: like all the checkups, all the things. So I know

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Speaker 1: it's just yeah, but how's your new year. It's all good, though,

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's been good.

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Speaker 2: We did our vision boards the other night. I saw

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Speaker 2: that it was so cute. Jase still was just trying

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Speaker 2: was super cute. We actually, so I have a.

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Speaker 1: Dream, and you know, I have a dream that you

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Speaker 2: I love water and I love lakes, and so I've

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Speaker 2: really wanted a lake house for I mean forever. I

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Speaker 2: grew up on a lake, right, So that's just like

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Speaker 2: in my Michigan DNA is to be by water and

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Speaker 2: a lake. So I'm like, let's go manifest, let's go

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Speaker 2: look at some properties or whatever and just speaking of Jace,

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Speaker 2: obviously because we want them to feel part of it

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Speaker 2: potential that maybe that would happen. And so we had

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Speaker 2: a list of like ten to twelve showings, one of

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Speaker 2: and so, but we would rate, so the second we

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Speaker 2: would get back in the car, we would rate, you know,

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Speaker 2: what the house was or whatever. So like I'd been like,

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Speaker 2: I'd give it like a six, and then we say

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Speaker 2: what we like and we don't like, but Jace's rating

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Speaker 2: like he didn't understand the rating scales.

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Speaker 1: So like the house that we all loved, he's.

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Speaker 2: Like four and we're like, buddy, why, like we all

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Speaker 2: gave it a nine. So but yeah, our vision boards

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Speaker 2: it was you know, it was it was super cute.

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Speaker 2: But that was really fun. And then oh, Starbucks delivery,

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Speaker 2: Thanks honey, did you get one for Catherine?

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Speaker 1: It's alan You're forgiven Starbucks order the same as ours.

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Speaker 1: Now I don't do oat milk, what do you do?

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Speaker 2: Yes, but anyway, so vision boards was super fun and

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Speaker 2: then it just I'm I'm I'm actually I'm feeling excited.

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Speaker 1: Good. Were they excited about the possibility of a house, Yes,

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Speaker 2: But it was again hard for me to under So

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Speaker 2: they're like, so we were moving. We're like, no, no, no,

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Speaker 2: like this would just be we would just go maybe

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Speaker 2: on the weekends. They're like, so then when we'd keep

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Speaker 2: our house And I'm like, yes, but again, like this

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Speaker 1: What do you mean two houses?

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Speaker 2: Understand we're envisioned, and then you know, we had to

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Speaker 2: all right, guys, this is a lake house, the cabin,

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Speaker 2: it's you know. And but they they were there for it.

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Speaker 2: it was really fun to kind of dream that up.

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Speaker 1: And so TVD so, okay, let me know we've got

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Speaker 2: Well, we we texted our neighbor because our neighbor also

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Speaker 2: has a place on the same lake, and they said, hey,

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Speaker 2: our neighbor's putting their house up for sale. Problem is

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Speaker 2: we're in a really we have to stay under a

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Speaker 2: certain other to I don't, you know, I don't want

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: At the same time, I'm like, I want to have

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Speaker 2: make memories. But apparently, like I didn't know this, on

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Speaker 2: a lake, you got to have the right depth of

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Speaker 2: water or you're not going to have good resale. So

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Speaker 2: the house that we really like isn't the best depth

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Speaker 2: our neighbor's neighbor.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh fun, uh huh, so that you know,

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Speaker 1: we'd have someone that could like check on it. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: But it's I mean it's tiny, tiny, tiny is it

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Speaker 2: Uh we're gonna I mean it's one of those where

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Speaker 2: you don't have any side tables in a bed, you know.

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Speaker 1: But it's okay, who cares about that? Cares? That's my thing.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I when you go to a lake house

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Speaker 2: like I envision because like one of the houses that

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Speaker 2: I loved, and Alan was like Jana, it's looks like

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Speaker 2: and this is I don't want to get hate for this,

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Speaker 2: but I know. But he goes, this looks like a

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Speaker 2: trailer house in a mountain, and I go and I

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Speaker 2: love it. Yeah, I think it's amazing. I'm like, you

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't want. We walked into this one

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Speaker 2: Knew because I was like, it's boring and it has

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Speaker 1: Like it's I don't want. What do you think it's funny?

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Speaker 1: I do. I think that's funny just in general. I

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Speaker 1: mean it's cool. I just feel like I would be like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I love that about you.

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Speaker 2: It had like, I mean, all new cat. I was like,

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Speaker 2: this is so boring, it's like our house on a lake.

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Speaker 2: I want give me rough like and the realtor looks

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Speaker 2: did you think? He goes, I didn't expect you for

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Speaker 2: an old soul? And I said on a lake. Give

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Speaker 2: me an old household like I want cozy and I

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Speaker 2: want just like yeah, I don't want it to look new, yeah,

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Speaker 2: or pretty honestly okay, because you can make it pretty

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Speaker 2: bone the balls on a lake is for sure. All

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Speaker 2: I need is a view, Yeah, give me a view

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Speaker 2: and a bed that I can rest my head on.

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Speaker 2: And it's like, well, I ne'd rather spend you're spending

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Speaker 2: all your time outside, well.

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Speaker 1: And you'd rather spend more money on getting the right view,

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Speaker 1: the right set upright then? Like a brand new house, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I get that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I was like we should probably go look

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Speaker 2: at it because he just like facetimed us and it

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Speaker 1: Like how small, like in a thousand okay, but is

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Speaker 1: there like enough bedrooms for your family? Yeah? That was

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Speaker 1: a big bump bedroom.

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Speaker 2: Perfect.

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Speaker 1: That's all you need. Is there enough room for us

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Speaker 1: to go for a girls trip? That's all I need

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Speaker 1: to know. They got two porches, great porches at it's great.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so good. Yeah that's all we need. But you know,

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Speaker 2: like you know, for a first lake house, it's all

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Speaker 2: you it's all you really need. Anyways, it's just a dream.

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Speaker 2: It's been a dream on my so when I got divorced,

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Speaker 2: my therapist and I we wrote where do we want

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Speaker 2: to be in five years? And so I said, in

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Speaker 2: a healthy relationship, I'd like a lake house. And so

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Speaker 2: it made me think of that because I want to.

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Speaker 2: I want to revisit because I know she still has it.

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Speaker 1: How long? How long has it been? Almost five years?

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Speaker 2: We're missing KB because she's in New York right now

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Speaker 2: still dancing in the caption of her January third Instagram

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Speaker 2: post New Friends, new memories, and new beginnings to start

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Speaker 2: off the New year. Words can't describe how amazing this

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Speaker 2: trip was. Listen, I hear that Saint Bart's during New

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Speaker 2: Year's is a time, is it? Apparently so? Having said that,

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Speaker 2: though Bethany Franklin.

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Speaker 1: I was about to say, well what she like, came

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Speaker 1: back with some like fungal infection something she.

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Speaker 2: Was talking about, you know, she hated dislike the fact

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Speaker 2: that people would be at a club being or at

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Speaker 2: a beach club being like, but this isn't the one

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Speaker 2: I need to be at I need to be at

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Speaker 2: this beach club.

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Speaker 1: She's just like, can you just enjoy where we're at? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: You know, I could not do that. No, listen. Was

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Speaker 1: it a new couple alert or just in New Year's

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Speaker 1: Eve hookup? Who knows? Who knows? But I'm here for it.

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Speaker 1: Good on you, Good on you. Listen. They're both cute.

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Speaker 2: Do what you want to do single, that's the thing,

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Speaker 2: open man, care, Go have fun.

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Speaker 1: You know. That's a great thing about when you're newly single.

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Speaker 1: Go have fun. I can't imagine, and I mean you've

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Speaker 1: had to do it, but I can't imagine though, just

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Speaker 1: going and having fun and having everyone's opinions and people

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Speaker 1: seeing and knowing and like, let me just date and

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Speaker 1: see who I want to date, you know, or have

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Speaker 1: fun with and see if we're going to date. You know?

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Speaker 1: That would be hard. Yeah, not that you haven't done

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Speaker 1: that before.

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Speaker 2: Timothy Shallamey thanks partner of three years, Kylie Jenner, a

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Speaker 2: mid twenty twenty six Critics Choice Awards win. He basically said,

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Speaker 2: thank you to my partner of three years. Thank you

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Speaker 2: for our foundation.

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Speaker 1: I love you. I can do this without you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you from the bottom of my heart, said during

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Speaker 2: Challame said during the awards, listen, oh did you see

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Speaker 2: the little comment that Amanda seyfrid Cifer. No, she wrote,

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Speaker 2: she goes, oh that's what it meant. She's like, I thought,

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Speaker 2: like a foundation, and I'm like, listen, that is the

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Speaker 2: healthiest thing a dude can say. I love it. Are

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Speaker 2: you kidding me to say thank you for our foundation?

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Speaker 1: What it like? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: That is the He's not like, yo, girl, love you

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Speaker 2: love our relationship? Like I think it's was. I thought

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Speaker 2: it was incredibly handsome of him to say because kids

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Speaker 2: not he's not a kid Jesus, he's thirty, but like

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Speaker 2: he does. But you know what I mean, it's for

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Speaker 2: him to say, I mean the knowledge of that man.

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Speaker 1: Boy to say man foundation.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because all great relationships are built on a great foundation.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Those very sweet. I loved it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know why people were like, what's that mean?

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Speaker 2: Why don't you figure that out and getting a better relationship?

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Speaker 1: You all know what it means than you find that

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Speaker 1: out of the best foundation.

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Speaker 2: I thought it was so cute. I think horrible there

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Speaker 2: So have you seen Marty Supreme? No great movie?

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Speaker 1: So good? I honestly, even being like a Kardashian. I

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Speaker 1: had no idea about this relationship I had. I knew nothing.

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Speaker 1: I knew nothing about it three years and then I

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Speaker 1: just saw this and I was like, oh, they're so sweet.

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Speaker 1: I love it.

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Speaker 2: I knew they were dating. I've seen a few things

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Speaker 2: of them together, but they're not. Yes, super slumping it. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but I think it was Yeah, that was I loved that.

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Speaker 2: I think it is so super cute. This is interesting.

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Speaker 2: Do you think it's unfair fans that think of Kylie

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Speaker 2: as not smart enough or not artistic enough for Timothy?

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Speaker 2: Does she get a bad rap because of her family's reputation, So.

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Speaker 1: That's always kind of bothered me. Like she built a

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Speaker 1: billion dollar company by the age, right, that's always bothered me.

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Speaker 1: It's like there's just you know, the even just the

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Speaker 1: comment of they're just famous for being famous, Like I

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Speaker 1: get that it started that way in a show, but

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Speaker 1: like they have all been very successful and have built businesses.

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Speaker 1: So I don't think that's fair.

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Speaker 2: I think they're the cutest coupling together. I love it.

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Speaker 2: I they're the they're the hot couple. Want to say,

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Speaker 2: if they're smart enough to I know, Well, apparently everybody

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Speaker 2: has an opinion like we do.

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Speaker 1: True, I do have strong opinions, so that's fair.

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Speaker 2: I'm a new mom to a six week old, and

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Speaker 2: while I'm so grateful for our baby, the adjustment has

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Speaker 2: been really hard. Especially I'm my husband. The night wake

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Speaker 2: ups are wearing him down and he's exhausted and struggling

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Speaker 2: with a lack of sleep. I want to support him,

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Speaker 2: but I'm also depleted and worried about resentment building. How

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Speaker 2: can we handle the night wake ups more fairly and

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Speaker 2: protect our relationship during this exhausting stage of new parenthood.

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Speaker 1: Well, so I saw that, and I'm very curious, like

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Speaker 1: what the schedule already is if they're already, but it

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Speaker 1: sounds like they're kind of switching off or you know,

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Speaker 1: helping each other out. But then it asks what could

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Speaker 1: be more fair? So I I kind of need more information.

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Speaker 2: So more information, and I think, if you're you're breastfeeding,

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Speaker 2: I get, well I don't get it because I didn't breastfeed,

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Speaker 2: But if there's a way for you to have you

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Do women have enough then to put

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Speaker 2: it in a bottle so the husband can be.

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Speaker 1: It depends on the situation, but some and a lot

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Speaker 1: of times if they're breastfeeding, they'll have the dad like

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Speaker 1: bring the.

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Speaker 2: Baby to them, bringing the baby to them, right, and

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Speaker 2: then see that's a whole other like and I feel

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Speaker 2: like where I got I was, my situation's different because

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Speaker 2: we bottle fed. So what I mean what I did

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Speaker 2: in the past with Julian Jace was I can't sleep

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Speaker 2: past eight o'clock.

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Speaker 1: I just couldn't.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but like my ex could, so he would take

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Speaker 2: the basically eleven to three, right, so twelve one two

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Speaker 2: three like whatever. I'd go to bed around ten, So

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Speaker 2: eleven twelve, one two three, I'm then waking up three

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Speaker 2: four o'clock in the morning.

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Speaker 1: He goes to bed at four.

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Speaker 2: So I had like a five six solid, five six

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Speaker 2: hour solid stretch. That's that was good. Yeah, for those couple,

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Speaker 2: you know, a couple of weeks or whatever. And then

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Speaker 2: I would take that instead of But again I didn't breastfeed,

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Speaker 2: so I didn't have to do you have to unmilk

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Speaker 2: yourself during what is that when you would pump? No,

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Speaker 2: not pump, but I mean because you have to get

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Speaker 2: it out bress.

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Speaker 1: Oh, if you're like have like mestitis.

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Speaker 2: Or something, no, but don't if your boobs are big,

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Speaker 2: you have to let the milk come out.

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Speaker 1: Well, they should just breastfeed and be able to just

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Speaker 1: come out. I know what I'm saying, like instead of

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Speaker 1: going to sleep. Oh do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Like she can't sleep through that because her words are

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Speaker 2: going to be hurting, right right, So that's that's.

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Speaker 1: Tell me he did a breastfeed for we're both like, sorry, guys,

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Speaker 1: I mean I did for a little while. But yes,

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Speaker 1: I mean I think breastfeeding and then maybe pumping a

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Speaker 1: lot of times the women have to pump also, But

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Speaker 1: I think that there's ways for him to bring the baby.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like he's helping a lot though, it does,

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Speaker 1: and that's and he's tired, so maybe figuring out a

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Speaker 1: system where he gets a little bit longer. So I mean,

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Speaker 1: I did exactly what you did, and I took the shift.

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Speaker 1: And so if they're not bottle feeding, that's just a

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Speaker 1: different yeah.

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Speaker 2: And I will say you say he's or yeah, I

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Speaker 2: think it's a little little boy, maybe it's a little girl.

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Speaker 2: But six weeks, by eight weeks, the baby should be.

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Speaker 2: My baby started sleeping between six and eight weeks theame,

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Speaker 2: but again ours was bottle.

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Speaker 1: And we and I I know I'm gonna probably.

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Speaker 2: Get pay for this, but I did start the sleep training,

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Speaker 2: oh yeah at about four weeks. Yeah, and that helped

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Speaker 2: because between six and eight weeks is when they started

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Speaker 2: sleeping a seven eight hour stretch.

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Speaker 1: Ye. I'm the same and so and I do think

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Speaker 1: that that's where it's like it's coming. It's such a

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Speaker 1: short lived time, even though when you're in the middle

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Speaker 1: of it. But there are people whose babies don't sleep

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Speaker 1: through the night for a year and I wouldn't have

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Speaker 1: survived that. So oh, no, nap when you can, yes,

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Speaker 1: and maybe listen.

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Speaker 2: I know night nurses are very expensive, but even if

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Speaker 2: you just do one a week, yeah, just to give

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Speaker 2: yourself a night sleep, because I mean, we did it

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Speaker 2: two times a week and it was Maybe it would

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Speaker 2: be that was amazing. Maybe it would be.

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Speaker 1: Helpful if y'all are switching off now to take an

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Speaker 1: approach where like one person gets one full night rest

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Speaker 1: to like kind of catch up and then like switch

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Speaker 1: off that way, Maybe try both ways and see what works.

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Speaker 1: Would it be better for someone to get a full

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Speaker 1: night sleep and then the next night be up the

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Speaker 1: whole time? I don't just try different things to see

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Speaker 1: what helps get more sleep. And you're so close, it's

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Speaker 1: almost there.

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Speaker 2: Guys, sorry about that for the mothers that I'm like,

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Speaker 2: don't you like push though, I mean, I just apologies

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Speaker 2: for not knowing the breastfeeding world. But if you're going

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Speaker 2: to bottle feed, get a baby Breza.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, the thing was amazing, so good.

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Speaker 2: Well, I feel like we touched on a touched on

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Speaker 2: a lot, and uh, I'm excited.

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Speaker 1: See what's what's coming. Yeah. I love you, guys, love you.

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Speaker 1: Bye bye,