1 00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 1: Two Teas in a pod with Teddy Mellencamp and camera judge. 2 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:12,920 Speaker 1: Hey guys, Happy New Year. Welcome to to Teas with 3 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:18,440 Speaker 1: me and tamra Hi Delores Hi, Tim. How is your 4 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:19,480 Speaker 1: new Year's all good? 5 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:25,079 Speaker 2: All good, Everything's good. I'm happy. I had a good 6 00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 2: week off. I am charged up, I am ready to go. Well, 7 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 2: you made a little under the weather, so I just 8 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 2: had a really good week off, really good. 9 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:39,920 Speaker 1: You look brested. 10 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:43,840 Speaker 2: You look Can I just tell you. I can't even 11 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:46,120 Speaker 2: tell you how much I love Sophia's boyfriend. 12 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 1: Oh I love them together. 13 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:50,320 Speaker 2: I'm really so cute. 14 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:51,240 Speaker 1: I'm a stalker. 15 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:54,360 Speaker 2: Do you know what he did for me? What he 16 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 2: got me a gift? 17 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:55,640 Speaker 1: Right? 18 00:00:55,880 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 2: And then he wrote me a three page letter. 19 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 1: Oh my god. He's an old soul, isn't he. 20 00:01:02,920 --> 00:01:04,760 Speaker 2: He's an old soul. He's a writer, and he just 21 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:06,440 Speaker 2: I mean, I I started crying. 22 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:09,479 Speaker 1: Can you tell me what it said? Just let me just. 23 00:01:09,480 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 2: Read one line, just to show you what a writer is. 24 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, don't. 25 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:14,320 Speaker 2: And I was crying, So I'm trying not to cry. 26 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:18,800 Speaker 2: Dear misjudge, I see you in the way, misjudge, mis judge, 27 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 2: I see you in the way. You live with steadiness, 28 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 2: with restraint, with a kind of strength that doesn't seek recognition. 29 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:31,959 Speaker 2: I was like bawling in the way you carry responsibility 30 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:36,280 Speaker 2: without making it heavy to those around you, in the way, 31 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:38,600 Speaker 2: oh my god, I'm trying to cry, in the way 32 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 2: giving pieces of yourself quietly, trusting that love does not 33 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:46,199 Speaker 2: need to be witnessed to be real. I mean, it's 34 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 2: just on and on and on and on. Being a 35 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 2: mother is only one part of who you are, but 36 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 2: it's a part that reveals the depths of your character. 37 00:01:56,320 --> 00:02:00,800 Speaker 2: He goes on, I know, I. 38 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 1: Mean, I he's gonna I. 39 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 2: And it went all about what job I did raising Sophia, 40 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:12,959 Speaker 2: what a good, you know person she is, and how 41 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:13,919 Speaker 2: caring she is. 42 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 1: And I was just like, could you imagine, Well, my 43 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:18,119 Speaker 1: own fucking. 44 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:19,280 Speaker 2: Kids don't write shit like that. 45 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:20,519 Speaker 1: You'll say it. 46 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:25,239 Speaker 2: Sophia does. Sophia, not to the links of that, but 47 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 2: she she does. She handwrites me things all the time. 48 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 2: I mean not all the time. I'm talking holidays, birthdays, 49 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:35,920 Speaker 2: Valentine's Days, things like that. She will always write me 50 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:39,640 Speaker 2: something or make me something. But they are just so 51 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 2: cute together and sow and love like I'm like scared, like, 52 00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:47,359 Speaker 2: oh shit, they've been together seven months now yesterday and 53 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:51,079 Speaker 2: I'm like, She's all, I'm gonna marry him? 54 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 1: Is that what she says? 55 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 2: This is her first real boyfriend. 56 00:02:56,240 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 1: I love this and I couldn't have picked. Like they're 57 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 1: like book ends, Like they go together, they. 58 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:02,079 Speaker 2: Look like I go, is it weird that you guys 59 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:02,960 Speaker 2: look like brother and sister. 60 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, there's just a thing that's that's their person. I 61 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: feel like i'd be I'd be disappointed and very surprised 62 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 1: and and that's hard to do on Maya and the 63 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 1: if something forbid happen. 64 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:18,880 Speaker 2: They come from two very different cultures. 65 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 1: Well what's his background? 66 00:03:20,639 --> 00:03:24,120 Speaker 2: Well, he's he's Mexican. His his family's from Guadalajara. And 67 00:03:24,160 --> 00:03:26,560 Speaker 2: it's weird because that's where Eddie's family and he's from. 68 00:03:26,600 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 2: That's where he's from. And they're very very very close 69 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:34,519 Speaker 2: knit family, very close knit, like you know, the family 70 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 2: is always together. They they just do a lot of 71 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 2: things together. And I think with us, it's it's not 72 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 2: we don't have a ton of traditions. Like he's like, 73 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:49,880 Speaker 2: it's New Year's do you guys have grapes? And I'm like, oh, yeah, 74 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 2: what do you do you have any tradition. No, he'll 75 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 2: bring them back. I know, I know. So she's learning 76 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 2: a lot from his family, and then he's learning a 77 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 2: lot from and. 78 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 1: His family likes her too, I'm sure. 79 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I have not met his mom. 80 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 1: Or dad seven months. It's still new. 81 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:09,760 Speaker 2: I met his sister. We took her to uh jingle Ball, 82 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 2: so she was there. She was really sweet. She connected 83 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 2: with Ava. My grand I saw they were playing. Yeah, 84 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:17,799 Speaker 2: and so now they do roadblocks together and they text 85 00:04:17,839 --> 00:04:19,040 Speaker 2: each other and all that kind of stuff. 86 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:21,880 Speaker 1: This is really good. It's all good. So I love 87 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:22,160 Speaker 1: to hear. 88 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 2: It just made me so happy to get to know 89 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:30,040 Speaker 2: him a little bit better at Big Bear, you know 90 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:32,040 Speaker 2: who were there for they were there for five days, 91 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 2: and just to see them interact in him, And you know, 92 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 2: you really get to know somebody when you travel with them, 93 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 2: even as couples, Like have you ever traveled with a 94 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 2: couple and go, oh, never again? 95 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 1: Yeah? 96 00:04:43,160 --> 00:04:45,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like that's what we always say, Like we 97 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:48,480 Speaker 2: have a couple, Pam and Bud. I've known her for 98 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 2: twenty something years. We can travel anywhere and have so 99 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:53,480 Speaker 2: much fun. And then there's other couples. 100 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 1: Do you meet her I met her, Nope, did you 101 00:04:57,600 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 1: meet me? Well, we went out to dinner with Oh, 102 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 1: that's oh Shelley. He's another one I love. 103 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's another one that I can amazing. And she's 104 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:08,359 Speaker 2: friends with Pan So that's how I met her. 105 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:09,119 Speaker 1: She's so cute. 106 00:05:09,400 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 2: This show The Valley Persian Style, it's really about tradition 107 00:05:13,240 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 2: and family. And and I'll tell you what after I 108 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:20,919 Speaker 2: watched them make that rice. Guess where I went, did you? 109 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:23,320 Speaker 2: I went to the Greek restaurant. I got some of 110 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 2: that rice. It looks so good. There's only a few 111 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:32,039 Speaker 2: places we eat around here, Dolores that is typhood when 112 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:37,239 Speaker 2: we go out Typhood, the stall will never and Greek food. 113 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 2: That's really I. 114 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:41,159 Speaker 1: Love Greek food. Paul will never, he won't. 115 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:43,600 Speaker 2: Really so good. 116 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 1: So a lot in the Middle Eastern culture and most 117 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 1: cultures is food is their love language. Yeah. And Mexican, 118 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:57,599 Speaker 1: Yeah right, Italians of course, of course Italians. I don't 119 00:05:57,600 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 1: see that so much. In the Irish culture, they like 120 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 1: to more well, drinking is from Irish. 121 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 2: I did not grow up with very I mean, obviously 122 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:07,920 Speaker 2: I'm not from Ireland, but my ancestors were. I did 123 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:10,440 Speaker 2: not grow up with a lot of traditions, and of 124 00:06:10,520 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 2: course we tend to eat healthy, and Sophia eats healthier 125 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:20,280 Speaker 2: than meat or eddie. She only eats protein, vegetables and 126 00:06:20,400 --> 00:06:27,280 Speaker 2: sometimes a complex car but doesn't have sugar. She's very, 127 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:28,159 Speaker 2: very very strang. 128 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 1: Eats to live, she doesn't live to eat, and that 129 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 1: is not my way of life. My kids are more 130 00:06:35,520 --> 00:06:36,120 Speaker 1: like that though. 131 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 2: I mean, it's all I want her to relax a 132 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 2: little bit. I'm like, I have a piece of cake 133 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 2: once in a while, but it's just not she don't 134 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 2: like it. She's just very strict on her food. 135 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:48,159 Speaker 1: Yeah. Good for her for it, and especially since you 136 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 1: guys have a history of stomach issues, so maybe she's 137 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 1: just better off all the way around for it. 138 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:54,680 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah. 139 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:57,720 Speaker 1: Good for her. But definitely in this culture, they seem 140 00:06:57,800 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 1: to enjoy their food. Yeah, and I really love I 141 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 1: have to say. I am so excited to see them 142 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:09,720 Speaker 1: back as adults. It's really different from the Valley Valley. Yeah, 143 00:07:09,720 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 1: the other Valley. It's totally different. 144 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:17,960 Speaker 2: I wonder if they're going to franchise this and have 145 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 2: like the Valley, Like, is this is this going to 146 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:23,720 Speaker 2: be it? Or are they going to have like the Valley. 147 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 2: I don't know if there's Italians there or whatever. Like 148 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:28,880 Speaker 2: they're going to have different show. 149 00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 1: Oh good, like almost like Housewives has different franchises, this 150 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 1: may be a different. Well, so far, we're off to 151 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:40,400 Speaker 1: a good start because they really are very emotional and 152 00:07:40,400 --> 00:07:43,400 Speaker 1: they're very passionate and that's something that has not changed 153 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:45,080 Speaker 1: since they started. 154 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 2: How long have they been off as a decade, right. 155 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 1: I'd say in a decade? Yeah. Now, I'm going to 156 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 1: tell you that's the first show I ever watched, first 157 00:07:57,960 --> 00:08:01,400 Speaker 1: reality show. Since two thousand in twenty one, they've been off. 158 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:04,960 Speaker 1: It's felt like longer because we missed them so much. 159 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:08,640 Speaker 1: So Rezza was always a star to me. Oh wait, 160 00:08:08,720 --> 00:08:11,960 Speaker 1: the mom loved him when I first met him over 161 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:14,160 Speaker 1: ten years ago when I first started. I did an 162 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:16,560 Speaker 1: event with him and I said to him, my mom 163 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 1: would love a signed autograph picture from you, and he 164 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:21,240 Speaker 1: sent it to her. 165 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 2: Aw. 166 00:08:22,440 --> 00:08:27,240 Speaker 1: So he's just amazing and real and you know, I 167 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:29,920 Speaker 1: just love them. So they're going to bring it and 168 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 1: I have a lot of faith, and you know, we 169 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:36,080 Speaker 1: can't do it without Mercedes. Mom. Mercedes, Oh my god, 170 00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:37,080 Speaker 1: she is an icon. 171 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:39,439 Speaker 2: Just like that shirt that Mercedes is wearing they said 172 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:41,000 Speaker 2: icon and had a picture of her mom on it. 173 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 2: Did you catch that? 174 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 1: No? I didn't see that. 175 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 2: But well, it starts out with the cast introductions. They 176 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 2: start with MJ and Tommy. MJ now is working for 177 00:08:49,840 --> 00:08:53,560 Speaker 2: the agency with Marie Maraci. We see that been married 178 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:57,560 Speaker 2: seven years. We see the demise of her relationship, her 179 00:08:57,600 --> 00:09:01,840 Speaker 2: marriage in the first couple episodes. Now you know, obviously 180 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 2: this was filmed probably eight months ago. Now she is 181 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:07,680 Speaker 2: going through a divorce. And then Gigi a mom of 182 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:08,560 Speaker 2: a five year old. 183 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 1: She she went through a lot to get pregnant. Now 184 00:09:13,960 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 1: she had this baby by herself, right, she didn't have 185 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 1: it with a man. She don't really been married twice 186 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:24,840 Speaker 1: now she's gone through two divorces and she's happy to 187 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 1: be single right now. But what she's not happy about. 188 00:09:28,600 --> 00:09:31,440 Speaker 1: She's currently looking for a home. And now you know 189 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 1: Resa and Adam are involved. They're realtors. Yeah, and they've 190 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 1: been married for ten years. But goldnessa which we'll get to, 191 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 1: is has to have a huge lifestyle wake up change. 192 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 2: What do you think about, because she's got to be 193 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:48,959 Speaker 2: well into her thirties, what do you think about parents 194 00:09:49,040 --> 00:09:53,400 Speaker 2: just bankrolling a child's life in them, the child not 195 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:54,080 Speaker 2: even working. 196 00:09:54,440 --> 00:09:56,599 Speaker 1: Well I wouldn't know that, but that you're going to 197 00:09:56,679 --> 00:10:00,560 Speaker 1: see the repercussion of that now, like Goldness is the 198 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 1: is the example of what happens when that child that 199 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:11,439 Speaker 1: has never had a job or responsibility, or a monetary 200 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:16,640 Speaker 1: responsibility or a financial responsibility is now has to have it. 201 00:10:16,640 --> 00:10:19,200 Speaker 1: It's not her fault that she's having a hard time 202 00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 1: with it. 203 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:23,040 Speaker 2: Well yeah, I mean you're not doing your child any 204 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 2: justice by you. And I have a rule, like I'm 205 00:10:27,480 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 2: more than happy to help out, Like I work so 206 00:10:29,960 --> 00:10:34,400 Speaker 2: I can help my family, and you know, whenever somebody's 207 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:38,760 Speaker 2: in need, and I work because I like my lifestyle 208 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 2: that I have. However, if I have a child that 209 00:10:42,480 --> 00:10:46,240 Speaker 2: is doing nothing for themselves and then I'm just giving 210 00:10:46,280 --> 00:10:50,040 Speaker 2: them money, I would not do that. I would not. 211 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:50,760 Speaker 1: Feel good about that. 212 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:54,200 Speaker 2: I feel like I was enabling that child. 213 00:10:54,400 --> 00:10:58,040 Speaker 1: Well here's the thing as parents, I know I did it. 214 00:10:58,120 --> 00:11:01,960 Speaker 1: When I came into I was married to an attorney, 215 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:05,400 Speaker 1: and you know, all of a sudden, I had things 216 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:09,200 Speaker 1: that I never had as a kid, Like I had nothing, 217 00:11:09,800 --> 00:11:13,960 Speaker 1: and I had love. I had I threw parties that 218 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:15,720 Speaker 1: they would shut down the street, and I would bring 219 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 1: in actual life size carnival rise. 220 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:20,520 Speaker 2: Mike, you're talking about when you're married to Frank. 221 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 1: When I was married to Frank and my kids were little, 222 00:11:22,679 --> 00:11:24,400 Speaker 1: I even brought it up in the divorce, Well this 223 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 1: is my lifestyle. The judge laughed at me, and you know, 224 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:31,840 Speaker 1: I gave them the party I didn't have. And I 225 00:11:31,880 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 1: feel like, you know, a lot of time parents want 226 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 1: to give to their children, especially when new money, they 227 00:11:39,280 --> 00:11:40,959 Speaker 1: want to give what they didn't have, make it easy, 228 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:43,719 Speaker 1: and it's not always the best idea. There still has 229 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 1: to come with responsibility with that and a concept of money, 230 00:11:49,320 --> 00:11:51,080 Speaker 1: and it's hard to do because you want to give 231 00:11:51,080 --> 00:11:52,840 Speaker 1: it because you worked so hard and you're proud of 232 00:11:52,880 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 1: yourself for it. So like I get that. But then 233 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:00,520 Speaker 1: you know, I love seeing the old casts as an 234 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 1: Adam together is great. And I love one thing about 235 00:12:06,160 --> 00:12:08,680 Speaker 1: the Persians. They respect their elders. That's always been a 236 00:12:08,679 --> 00:12:10,760 Speaker 1: big thing. Now you gotta understand, I've been watching I 237 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 1: watched this the show back when, and getting back to 238 00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:22,559 Speaker 1: Tommy and Mercedes. Mercedes Mom never liked him. Oh really, 239 00:12:22,679 --> 00:12:24,760 Speaker 1: I'm not going to bad mouth the guy. He's a 240 00:12:24,840 --> 00:12:27,680 Speaker 1: knock around guy. Sounds like he's from Brooklyn or something 241 00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:29,840 Speaker 1: he is. He says that he's from Brooklyn. 242 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:32,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, but he also like so I was judging him 243 00:12:32,600 --> 00:12:35,320 Speaker 2: a little bit, and then I saw the very end 244 00:12:35,480 --> 00:12:38,400 Speaker 2: of episode two where he said that he was from Brooklyn. 245 00:12:38,520 --> 00:12:41,280 Speaker 2: His mom died when he was a teenager, he didn't 246 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:44,319 Speaker 2: have a dad, and he was sleeping on a park bench. 247 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:47,760 Speaker 1: This is the product of what you married, Mercedes. He's 248 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:50,600 Speaker 1: not a bad guy. I don't think he's very rough 249 00:12:50,640 --> 00:12:51,520 Speaker 1: around the edges. 250 00:12:51,800 --> 00:12:53,680 Speaker 2: I mean, if he talked about shit one more time, 251 00:12:53,880 --> 00:12:55,080 Speaker 2: was I would have slapped him. 252 00:12:55,720 --> 00:12:59,040 Speaker 1: Who raised him? Though he raised himself. He raised himself right, 253 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:03,200 Speaker 1: raised very well considering the things that he could have been. 254 00:13:03,840 --> 00:13:05,679 Speaker 1: I respect him for who he is. 255 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 2: But he loves Mercedes. He loves, he loves, he does 256 00:13:09,800 --> 00:13:13,640 Speaker 2: and stuff out he's not. But I think I think 257 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:16,440 Speaker 2: part of the problem what I've heard is like he's 258 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:17,480 Speaker 2: not that motivated. 259 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:22,240 Speaker 1: That again, that's hard. That's where I fall off with him, 260 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:25,680 Speaker 1: That's where I fall off. But you can't teach We'll 261 00:13:25,720 --> 00:13:27,640 Speaker 1: get to that. You can't teach an old dog nutrixx 262 00:13:27,640 --> 00:13:29,400 Speaker 1: A man is who is by the time he's eighteen. 263 00:13:29,400 --> 00:13:31,760 Speaker 1: I don't care what you say, argue with me on it. 264 00:13:31,840 --> 00:13:32,920 Speaker 1: I will die on that hill. 265 00:13:33,040 --> 00:13:33,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I agree with you. 266 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:38,560 Speaker 1: But you know the new ones, Sky and Bamshad. 267 00:13:38,960 --> 00:13:42,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, now they're the ones that he's nineteen years older 268 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:45,360 Speaker 2: than her, right, yeah, and they have two they have twins. 269 00:13:45,840 --> 00:13:49,040 Speaker 1: They have the twins girl and a boy. Sky and Pamshad. 270 00:13:49,280 --> 00:13:54,080 Speaker 1: She's that's this is I feel like this is Persians. 271 00:13:54,120 --> 00:13:56,400 Speaker 1: You know, they talk to each other. They're very They're 272 00:13:56,559 --> 00:14:03,240 Speaker 1: very fourth coming, They're very like brash. I want I 273 00:14:03,240 --> 00:14:07,760 Speaker 1: don't want to say the wrong word. What's how They're 274 00:14:07,800 --> 00:14:10,000 Speaker 1: just they don't beat around the bush. They are a 275 00:14:10,040 --> 00:14:13,839 Speaker 1: culture that says exactly. There's no filter, there's no sugarcoating. 276 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:15,120 Speaker 2: They speak to. 277 00:14:15,080 --> 00:14:19,000 Speaker 1: Each other exactly the way the whole the whole culture, 278 00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:21,840 Speaker 1: the way they are there. There is zero filter in 279 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:26,800 Speaker 1: the culture. And and I'm okay with that. I love 280 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:30,640 Speaker 1: that actually, and I like watching it because in a 281 00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:33,680 Speaker 1: world where now we have to tip out, like Paul 282 00:14:33,680 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 1: would never tolerate me speaking to him like that in 283 00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:39,200 Speaker 1: front of people. And if I ever said anything about like, oh, 284 00:14:39,240 --> 00:14:41,680 Speaker 1: we didn't sleep together, he would not He'd be like, 285 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:44,440 Speaker 1: you don't talk tell our business like that. They're very 286 00:14:44,480 --> 00:14:47,000 Speaker 1: open about their business and this is the making of 287 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 1: a good show. Yes, I love it. That's what makes 288 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:54,000 Speaker 1: a good show is not talking shit about their family 289 00:14:54,080 --> 00:14:56,560 Speaker 1: or what's going on behind closed doors and not. So 290 00:14:57,120 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 1: they are So I'm here for it. Yeah. 291 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:01,680 Speaker 2: They they're really raw and. 292 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 1: They don't know they're so raw, and I get scared, 293 00:15:04,200 --> 00:15:06,280 Speaker 1: like I get nervous, like, oh shit, they're going to 294 00:15:06,400 --> 00:15:08,000 Speaker 1: kill each other in two minutes, and then they just 295 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:08,920 Speaker 1: go home and they're good. 296 00:15:17,600 --> 00:15:21,520 Speaker 2: How would you be able to handle Tommy like MJ did, 297 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:25,720 Speaker 2: where the fact that Tommy will not attend an event whatsoever. 298 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:29,680 Speaker 2: He does not like Reza. He basically said, like, these 299 00:15:29,800 --> 00:15:32,440 Speaker 2: people didn't were not there when our son was born. 300 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:37,160 Speaker 1: I know she had a really hard time. So here 301 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:42,720 Speaker 1: you go. So I think Tommy is listen, you have 302 00:15:42,800 --> 00:15:45,720 Speaker 1: to really know Brooklyn people, old school Brooklyn people, to 303 00:15:45,800 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 1: know that he's not going to let this go. Yeah, 304 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:50,400 Speaker 1: but he's also at this point it's not old school 305 00:15:50,440 --> 00:15:53,480 Speaker 1: Brooklyn anymore, Tommy, and I think that you could let 306 00:15:53,480 --> 00:15:55,280 Speaker 1: it go for the sake of the peace of your wife. 307 00:15:55,320 --> 00:15:58,480 Speaker 1: She wants you there personally, the way I would handle it, 308 00:15:58,520 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 1: I'd be like, all right, good don't come. You don't 309 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:03,520 Speaker 1: have to like these people. They're my friends. I like them, 310 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:07,080 Speaker 1: but at some point it does cause a wedge in 311 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:12,120 Speaker 1: your life with those relationships. So for the sake of 312 00:16:12,160 --> 00:16:14,600 Speaker 1: his wife and for peace in his family, and if 313 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:17,160 Speaker 1: you love your wife, you'll get over it. But he 314 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:20,760 Speaker 1: is very emotional and traumatized by almost losing his wife 315 00:16:20,840 --> 00:16:22,880 Speaker 1: while she had the baby. There was a picture of her. 316 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:24,280 Speaker 1: She looked like I didn't know. 317 00:16:24,280 --> 00:16:25,120 Speaker 2: I wasn't aware of that. 318 00:16:25,720 --> 00:16:27,400 Speaker 1: I knew she had a hard time. I did not 319 00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:30,800 Speaker 1: know the state that she was in. And here's a 320 00:16:30,840 --> 00:16:34,320 Speaker 1: guy who comes from nothing, he has no family. He 321 00:16:34,480 --> 00:16:35,840 Speaker 1: was watching his whole life go. 322 00:16:36,480 --> 00:16:39,960 Speaker 2: You know, there's a lot of personal story on this 323 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:43,800 Speaker 2: show so far. In the first couple episodes, where one 324 00:16:43,880 --> 00:16:48,800 Speaker 2: guy did lose his wife, another one watched his girlfriend 325 00:16:48,800 --> 00:16:51,280 Speaker 2: at the time now wife died in a car accident. 326 00:16:51,840 --> 00:16:54,840 Speaker 1: Tommy can't get over things that happened in the past 327 00:16:54,920 --> 00:16:59,200 Speaker 1: and they're unforgivable to him. But he's not stopped Here's 328 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:02,520 Speaker 1: where he's not wrong. Here's where I can accept this. 329 00:17:02,920 --> 00:17:04,480 Speaker 1: He's not stopping her from going. 330 00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:08,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I understand that. Like I mean, the stuff that 331 00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:15,080 Speaker 2: Reza had said to MJ years ago about you know guy, yeah, 332 00:17:15,280 --> 00:17:18,480 Speaker 2: about abortions and why she had struggles and all that stuff. 333 00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:20,879 Speaker 2: It's it's pretty dark. He obviously he said it in 334 00:17:20,920 --> 00:17:22,880 Speaker 2: a time where he was really pissed off. 335 00:17:23,160 --> 00:17:26,720 Speaker 1: But not the money comes from a culture where you 336 00:17:26,840 --> 00:17:29,680 Speaker 1: talk to each other like that, and then it's okay, okay. 337 00:17:29,720 --> 00:17:33,399 Speaker 2: Socially, Eddie's a little bit like Tommy, not not to 338 00:17:33,440 --> 00:17:38,320 Speaker 2: the extreme, but if you cross him, you're we're done. 339 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:42,200 Speaker 2: We're done. It takes a lot for him to be like, okay, well, 340 00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:43,760 Speaker 2: we're like why why do I want to. 341 00:17:43,760 --> 00:17:44,399 Speaker 1: Be around people? 342 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:45,919 Speaker 2: But then again, this is a different this is a 343 00:17:45,960 --> 00:17:48,280 Speaker 2: TV show. You're filming a TV show. In real life, 344 00:17:48,280 --> 00:17:52,399 Speaker 2: would you probably not? Probably not? You wouldn't hang out 345 00:17:52,440 --> 00:17:57,280 Speaker 2: with them. But why would Sky keep Gigi's ring for 346 00:17:57,359 --> 00:18:00,240 Speaker 2: nine months? And why would you allow that? 347 00:18:01,640 --> 00:18:03,479 Speaker 1: I don't know, because she didn't want to do it. 348 00:18:03,720 --> 00:18:10,119 Speaker 1: She put it aside, it wasn't important, and she's like 349 00:18:10,800 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 1: annoyed that the way the job that she did. So 350 00:18:14,320 --> 00:18:18,119 Speaker 1: she gets her bring back and she's like this looks 351 00:18:18,160 --> 00:18:21,320 Speaker 1: like shit, I didn't want it, and and basically Ski 352 00:18:21,560 --> 00:18:24,200 Speaker 1: was like, this was a waste of my time. I 353 00:18:24,240 --> 00:18:27,359 Speaker 1: do much bigger things than that. But see, Sky, I 354 00:18:27,400 --> 00:18:29,800 Speaker 1: don't like, I don't know you yet, so I'm gonna 355 00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:32,520 Speaker 1: give you not the benefit of that. I'm gonna I'm 356 00:18:32,520 --> 00:18:35,399 Speaker 1: gonna let this go. She's like, that was beneath me 357 00:18:35,440 --> 00:18:38,040 Speaker 1: to do, so I didn't feel like doing it. And 358 00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:41,399 Speaker 1: I do much bigger things than that. So that's like 359 00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:44,480 Speaker 1: somebody coming to me a very good friend. I don't 360 00:18:44,480 --> 00:18:46,399 Speaker 1: know how close they are. I don't know if they're friends. 361 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:48,600 Speaker 1: That's like somebody coming to me and saying, can you 362 00:18:48,640 --> 00:18:51,400 Speaker 1: do me a favor? And I'm like, no, I don't 363 00:18:51,400 --> 00:18:54,720 Speaker 1: do I don't post for things like that. That's like 364 00:18:54,800 --> 00:18:57,240 Speaker 1: beneath me. If a friend asked me for a favor, 365 00:18:57,280 --> 00:19:03,120 Speaker 1: I do it, you know. So that's that's not for everybody. Yeah, 366 00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:06,480 Speaker 1: I can't falter for it. But that was like Sky 367 00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:09,240 Speaker 1: where Jury's out with Sky right now? 368 00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:11,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, well when is it? 369 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:12,040 Speaker 1: Tannin? 370 00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:15,720 Speaker 2: Is that how you pronounce her name? Yeah, Tannon, she's gorgeous. 371 00:19:15,920 --> 00:19:17,560 Speaker 2: Tannon and Sky go to the Jury store to meet 372 00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 2: before heading to lunch. Tannon and Sky are best friends 373 00:19:20,600 --> 00:19:25,680 Speaker 2: and they do everything together. Tannon and Sky admit they 374 00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:30,119 Speaker 2: each have their own rooms and don't sleep with their husbands. Now, 375 00:19:30,280 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 2: would you ever do a sleep divorce? 376 00:19:34,520 --> 00:19:39,320 Speaker 1: Well, during metopause that almost happened and we really stuck 377 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:43,600 Speaker 1: through it. But I don't think it's great. I don't. 378 00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:45,440 Speaker 2: I don't think it's good for a relationship. 379 00:19:45,800 --> 00:19:48,159 Speaker 1: Listen. I know a lot of people who don't sleep together. 380 00:19:48,280 --> 00:19:50,600 Speaker 1: And I get it if somebody snores or if somebody 381 00:19:50,600 --> 00:19:55,359 Speaker 1: needs a different temperature, and I mean, you can't try 382 00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 1: not to do that, right, I mean, but they also 383 00:19:59,560 --> 00:20:03,879 Speaker 1: joked saying like, yeah, I say that's why, but I 384 00:20:03,960 --> 00:20:05,560 Speaker 1: just don't want to sleep in the same room with them. 385 00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 1: You guys laughing at that. Your husband's done to see that, 386 00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:11,680 Speaker 1: and you know you're new on the show. You don't 387 00:20:11,720 --> 00:20:14,520 Speaker 1: know the repercussions of what you're saying. You're gonna find out. 388 00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:18,199 Speaker 1: Fuck around and find out because you want to giggle 389 00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:21,520 Speaker 1: about not sleeping with your husband and saying, oh, yeah, 390 00:20:21,560 --> 00:20:24,320 Speaker 1: that's the excuse because he snores. And then it's funny 391 00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:26,240 Speaker 1: because later on he's like, well you're the snorer too. 392 00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:31,360 Speaker 1: I know that's funny, but yeah, no one holds back here, 393 00:20:31,760 --> 00:20:34,840 Speaker 1: just another And then there's Natasha and a mirror. They 394 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:38,280 Speaker 1: seemed pretty good together. He lost his first wife, which 395 00:20:38,359 --> 00:20:42,080 Speaker 1: was very like heart wrenching thinking about it. But you know, 396 00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:43,680 Speaker 1: we'll talk about that in a little while. They have 397 00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:46,720 Speaker 1: three kids under five, which isn't easy. But a lot 398 00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:49,119 Speaker 1: of them seem to be talking about like their sex 399 00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:52,080 Speaker 1: life as young people. They should be getting it on. 400 00:20:53,119 --> 00:20:54,439 Speaker 1: Young people are different today. 401 00:20:55,280 --> 00:20:57,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I mean they have three kids under five, 402 00:20:58,200 --> 00:21:00,240 Speaker 2: so it's not easy. 403 00:21:01,400 --> 00:21:01,960 Speaker 1: Yeah. 404 00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:06,680 Speaker 2: I couldn't even imagine. So the guys all meet at 405 00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:10,080 Speaker 2: Gregg's house for a boys not out while the girls 406 00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:10,679 Speaker 2: are at dinner. 407 00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:15,439 Speaker 1: You know, this isn't an easy conversation for Reza Adam 408 00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:18,840 Speaker 1: and Golnelsa because they're trying to help her get a house, 409 00:21:18,880 --> 00:21:22,480 Speaker 1: and now they have to explain to her you can't. 410 00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:25,800 Speaker 1: Your credit score sucks, which is a lot of people 411 00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:27,480 Speaker 1: make the mistake of screwing with their. 412 00:21:27,280 --> 00:21:28,800 Speaker 2: Credit and you have no income. 413 00:21:29,480 --> 00:21:34,600 Speaker 1: She's no income. And now her parents, because they're getting older, can't. 414 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:37,359 Speaker 1: They have to save their money for their life, so 415 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:39,800 Speaker 1: they can't do for her what they used to do. 416 00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:43,200 Speaker 2: And you've got to cut back on your marijuana three to. 417 00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:45,960 Speaker 1: Five thousand a month. I don't smoke wheat, so I 418 00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:47,919 Speaker 1: don't know, but that sounds like a really. 419 00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:50,520 Speaker 2: Law that seems like a lot. What do you think 420 00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:55,640 Speaker 2: her allowance is from her parents, because obviously she's paying 421 00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:58,920 Speaker 2: three to five thousand dollars a month from the money 422 00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:01,639 Speaker 2: she gets from her parents, and her dad obviously was 423 00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:03,960 Speaker 2: paying her rent and now he's like no more. 424 00:22:04,520 --> 00:22:07,760 Speaker 1: I think that she needs to do a lifestyle hall 425 00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:13,919 Speaker 1: on a lot of things. You know, I don't I 426 00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 1: like her very much, but I think it's a time 427 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:22,800 Speaker 1: of awakening for her. Your son, Elijah's five years old. 428 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:25,440 Speaker 1: You can't be smoking that much weed all the time. 429 00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:28,359 Speaker 1: You know, what does weed do for you? I've never 430 00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:28,959 Speaker 1: smoked it. 431 00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:33,159 Speaker 2: She drinks too, right, I don't know, because I think 432 00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:35,280 Speaker 2: there some reason I thought she was sober, but then 433 00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:36,720 Speaker 2: I thought I saw her drinking. 434 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:38,040 Speaker 1: So I don't know. 435 00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:40,439 Speaker 2: A lot of people that stop drinking will then go 436 00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:43,720 Speaker 2: on to do other things like smoke weed or drink 437 00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:44,920 Speaker 2: it or I don't know, but. 438 00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:48,760 Speaker 1: I think Olnessa. They're saying she's time for her to 439 00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:52,760 Speaker 1: grow up. I don't. I don't want to say grow up. 440 00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:57,119 Speaker 1: I think it's lifestyle changes is imminent here. Yeah, but 441 00:22:57,840 --> 00:23:01,480 Speaker 1: she doesn't like to be bored because that girl's when 442 00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:05,040 Speaker 1: they were talking she seemed to step up the conversation. 443 00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:11,199 Speaker 1: So that's that was like, She's like, I'm so bored. 444 00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:13,760 Speaker 1: They were talking about girl going on a girl's trip, 445 00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:17,160 Speaker 1: and they were talking about different things, and she was like, yeah, 446 00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:21,280 Speaker 1: so let's talk about sucking cock because that's what makes 447 00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:22,440 Speaker 1: me have fun. 448 00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:25,840 Speaker 2: Like, well that kind of conversation, wasn't Sky the one 449 00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:30,280 Speaker 2: that was like, was it Sky? I can't remember guys, 450 00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:31,800 Speaker 2: I'm still trying to get to know the names. 451 00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:33,600 Speaker 1: But she the one who was saying she was putting 452 00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:34,240 Speaker 1: down the valley. 453 00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:37,520 Speaker 2: But was she also saying like you're kind of Gigi's 454 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:38,800 Speaker 2: a little class list. 455 00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:43,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Sky's gonna get her face punched in. I 456 00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:45,639 Speaker 1: don't know if she's got the memo. 457 00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:48,800 Speaker 2: Well, you know what, she's unfiltered, and I hope she 458 00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:52,120 Speaker 2: stays that way. It doesn't start censoring herself when viewers 459 00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:55,680 Speaker 2: start chiming in, because you know that that's what happens now. 460 00:23:55,760 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 2: GG says it's guy's snobby, Gigi's drinking. Everyone's so, yes 461 00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:03,160 Speaker 2: she is, she's trying to get drunk. Sky thinks she's 462 00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:08,320 Speaker 2: not classy. And then when Gigi says Sky needs a 463 00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:12,920 Speaker 2: zip code like a crackhead needs its pipe, basically saying 464 00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:14,479 Speaker 2: she needs to live in Beverly Hills. She doesn't want 465 00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:15,119 Speaker 2: to live in the valley. 466 00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:18,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, well she does though, right, she does live in 467 00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:18,480 Speaker 1: the valley. 468 00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:19,800 Speaker 2: I think she lives in Beverly Hills. 469 00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:24,119 Speaker 1: Still, they said they moved from bel Air. They moved 470 00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:27,840 Speaker 1: from bel Air during the during the pandemic. 471 00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:33,960 Speaker 2: Any one of them has an over the top fancy house. No, no, no, 472 00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:34,560 Speaker 2: no one of them. 473 00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:38,760 Speaker 1: No they don't. But listen, we'll see. I don't think 474 00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:40,919 Speaker 1: Sky is going to give a shit, to be honest 475 00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:44,280 Speaker 1: with you, she's pretty brazen. I don't think she's going 476 00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:47,600 Speaker 1: to care about the social media backlash on any of 477 00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:49,080 Speaker 1: this at all. 478 00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:51,200 Speaker 2: Well, you don't know until you know, that's for sure. 479 00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:53,159 Speaker 1: I could tell you what she's going to care about 480 00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,440 Speaker 1: when Gigi goes off on her, because I could see that. 481 00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:58,200 Speaker 1: I'm going to make a prediction. 482 00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:03,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh well, duh. 483 00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:06,359 Speaker 1: I think she's gonna get it good. She's not used. Listen, 484 00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:11,760 Speaker 1: Skuy's used to talking to her easygoing husband. A lot 485 00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:15,359 Speaker 1: of women that talk to their husband like shit, I 486 00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:17,320 Speaker 1: think they could talk to other people like that. So 487 00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:20,080 Speaker 1: you're talking to the wrong girls. 488 00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:24,280 Speaker 2: I'll tell you one thing I do admire about Gigi. Okay, so, yes, 489 00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:27,120 Speaker 2: her parents paid for a lifestyle. Her first paycheck ever 490 00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:31,639 Speaker 2: was on Shaw's, which was quite a while ago. But 491 00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:37,679 Speaker 2: she's admitting to the public that I don't have any money. 492 00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:42,119 Speaker 2: I don't have a job. I like, she's open about it. 493 00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:44,800 Speaker 2: It's not like she's trying to pretend like she's some 494 00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:47,480 Speaker 2: rich girl. She comes from a rich family and she's 495 00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 2: got all this and she doesn't need to work. No, 496 00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:53,280 Speaker 2: She's like, no, I've never had a job. Credits bucked up, 497 00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:56,480 Speaker 2: I rent, I don't want a house. 498 00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:59,200 Speaker 1: So you got to give her some grace for this, That's. 499 00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:00,480 Speaker 2: What I'm saying. I give her a little bit of 500 00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:00,960 Speaker 2: grace for that. 501 00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:05,760 Speaker 1: She's acknowledging. And you know, when people do that, you evolve. 502 00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:07,720 Speaker 2: And Resa was a good friend. When he talked to 503 00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:11,240 Speaker 2: her about her finances, it's like, it's time for you 504 00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:14,480 Speaker 2: to grow up. You need to scale back on your spending, 505 00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:18,240 Speaker 2: you know. And Gigi, of course frustrated and storms off. 506 00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:21,679 Speaker 1: It's a hard pill to take. Yeah, it is really 507 00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:24,560 Speaker 1: like put that in your pipe and smoke it because 508 00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:27,639 Speaker 1: it's not it's not a good feeling. It is not 509 00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:33,040 Speaker 1: a good feeling, so I think that she'll be okay. Yeah, 510 00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:34,080 Speaker 1: I like her. 511 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:40,440 Speaker 2: I'm sorry I let you go on to the Persian party. 512 00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:43,159 Speaker 2: So Tommy telling MJ not to drink when he drops 513 00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:46,040 Speaker 2: her off, I just had to laugh when she's just. 514 00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:47,040 Speaker 1: Like, I'll do it more. 515 00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:50,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, that just makes me want to do it more. 516 00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:53,199 Speaker 1: Well, she was upset that he's not being evolved, but 517 00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:56,760 Speaker 1: she should be. Listen, you can't calm that guy down 518 00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:59,199 Speaker 1: once he goes off, and he's still mad about it. 519 00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:01,680 Speaker 1: He's still emotions. Only started crying talking about her in 520 00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:04,640 Speaker 1: the hospital that he goes friends of thirty years, Look 521 00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:10,480 Speaker 1: where you were? Where were they? So that guy loves her, 522 00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:14,480 Speaker 1: he's mad for her. He's a lot of things. Tommy's 523 00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:16,840 Speaker 1: a lot of things, but he loves his wife, like 524 00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:19,200 Speaker 1: you said, he loves his kid, and he even loves 525 00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:20,919 Speaker 1: his mother in law, who busted his balls from the 526 00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:23,919 Speaker 1: minute he got on the scene. So do yourself a 527 00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:27,160 Speaker 1: favorite MJ and keep him away from your friends because 528 00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:30,600 Speaker 1: he's gonna wind up killing somebody right, Well, would likes 529 00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:31,440 Speaker 1: for him to stay away. 530 00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:36,400 Speaker 2: We get to meet Reza Jackson. Now he claims he's 531 00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:37,840 Speaker 2: a retired party guy. 532 00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:42,600 Speaker 1: He looked like Connor McGregor to me, Like on am I. 533 00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:45,920 Speaker 2: Roight a darker version of him? 534 00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:49,600 Speaker 1: Maybe there was something about him that reminded me of Connor. 535 00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:54,240 Speaker 1: Oh anyway, go ahead, So what yah, Yeah, so he's there, 536 00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:56,040 Speaker 1: he's gonna meet the girl. 537 00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:58,639 Speaker 2: He's gonna meet the Sophia or Sophia or whatever her 538 00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:04,960 Speaker 2: name was, Fia yeap. And so they're all discussing Gigi's 539 00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:07,320 Speaker 2: house hunt. When she arrives at the door. 540 00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:10,399 Speaker 1: The second she walks, Oh my god, MJ. 541 00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:12,320 Speaker 2: But she shut it up. 542 00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:15,160 Speaker 1: Man, she's not a cast member, that girl, Like it's 543 00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:19,000 Speaker 1: a one night thing. So when yeah, so so Galanessa 544 00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:21,560 Speaker 1: gets there, they're all talking about her before she walks 545 00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:25,439 Speaker 1: in the party, as housewives do, and then Mercedes is 546 00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:28,200 Speaker 1: like goes and starts to tell her we were just 547 00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:30,240 Speaker 1: just to let you know, like she goes, could you 548 00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:31,760 Speaker 1: at least kiss me before you me? 549 00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:34,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's right, she's right, told me. 550 00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:37,800 Speaker 1: It was just the way it was presented. I think 551 00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:40,080 Speaker 1: she could have eased into it a little bit. A 552 00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:41,240 Speaker 1: little lube would have been. 553 00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:44,760 Speaker 2: Nice, just a little bit, just a little. 554 00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:48,040 Speaker 1: A little but it kind of goes downhill from there. 555 00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:50,160 Speaker 1: And then as the party goes on, we get to 556 00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:53,520 Speaker 1: see Sky and how brazen she is because when they're 557 00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:56,840 Speaker 1: sitting at the party, at the table, it kind of 558 00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:59,280 Speaker 1: like shifts from the mood of we thought it was 559 00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:02,040 Speaker 1: going to be all about out goalnessa getting shitt on 560 00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:04,960 Speaker 1: during the party, but then it like shifts, which I loved, right, 561 00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:09,000 Speaker 1: doesn't It Like the mood shifts to like Gonessa's ready 562 00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:11,160 Speaker 1: to like pop off and leave. But they get to 563 00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:14,800 Speaker 1: the table and then Resid doesn't take two minutes to 564 00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:18,800 Speaker 1: say that that Sky was saying that you and your 565 00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:23,200 Speaker 1: your Bombshed don't sleep together. And then I thought she 566 00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:25,920 Speaker 1: was gonna deny it and be like, oh stop or Resid, 567 00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:29,160 Speaker 1: why would you She's like, yeah, we all you suck. 568 00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:32,360 Speaker 1: You come to bed like you're like it's a big announcement. 569 00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:34,560 Speaker 1: And I was like, oh my god. 570 00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:36,120 Speaker 2: Why don't think her husband was too happy about that? 571 00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:37,640 Speaker 1: She didn't care. 572 00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:40,560 Speaker 2: I mean, Sky and Bombshed make MJ and Tommy look 573 00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:52,240 Speaker 2: like a happy couple at this point. So the next episode, 574 00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:57,640 Speaker 2: this is episode two of the Valley Persian Style, Natasha 575 00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:00,760 Speaker 2: and Gig take their kids to the slime store someplace. 576 00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:03,560 Speaker 2: I'm so glad. I'm never gonna have to go to Yeah, 577 00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:05,000 Speaker 2: thank god, hopefully. 578 00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:07,240 Speaker 1: And then they I thank god they weren't talking about 579 00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:09,560 Speaker 1: kids stuff. They start talking about like the lack of 580 00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:13,440 Speaker 1: sex life and the whole bed and it's fine. And 581 00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:17,520 Speaker 1: because like in Gigi's mind, she doesn't really have a relationship. 582 00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:19,360 Speaker 1: She's like, you guys have three hundred five. You guys 583 00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:23,040 Speaker 1: must bang like rabbits and she's like, not really, so 584 00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:27,800 Speaker 1: three kids, but at least honest. Again, at least, at 585 00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:30,880 Speaker 1: least Natasha was honest. And then we have the other 586 00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:36,719 Speaker 1: marriage talking about Mercedes and Tommy, and you know, Mercedes 587 00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:39,720 Speaker 1: is they're having a nice conversation, like she talks to 588 00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:43,000 Speaker 1: him like a friend. Still she does, I know, they 589 00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:46,320 Speaker 1: have like deep rooted issues, and it looks like Mercedes 590 00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:49,200 Speaker 1: is kind of like growing out of this marriage. But 591 00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:53,280 Speaker 1: she does confide in him about Golnessa's relationship with her sister, 592 00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:57,960 Speaker 1: So Goldnessa has that going on, like not getting her. 593 00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:00,800 Speaker 1: She can't like lean on her sister at this point. 594 00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:03,040 Speaker 1: But what's the sister Layla's lifestyle? 595 00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:05,760 Speaker 2: I don't I don't know, I don't even remember her. 596 00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:08,960 Speaker 1: Does she have a different lifestyle than Gigi? Does she work? 597 00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:12,880 Speaker 1: Does she support herself. Does she also get in along 598 00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:15,120 Speaker 1: with like what's that going on? But I mean I 599 00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:16,960 Speaker 1: want to look into that. I kind of want to know, 600 00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:20,080 Speaker 1: just just because I want to know. And then Sky's 601 00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:23,280 Speaker 1: hanging out with Babshad and they're just talking like he 602 00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:25,680 Speaker 1: like does tell her. He's like, I'm upset about you 603 00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:29,600 Speaker 1: bringing up our our business the other night, and she's like, yeah. 604 00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:30,840 Speaker 2: Our personal life. 605 00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:32,760 Speaker 1: I know. 606 00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:37,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, how long before they announce their divorcing and a 607 00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:40,400 Speaker 2: season I get a bad vibe from that. Then MG 608 00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:42,600 Speaker 2: and Tommy go on a date for their anniversary MJS 609 00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:45,640 Speaker 2: is it? Tommy teases her too much, and she's scared 610 00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:50,560 Speaker 2: because her son is being he's mimicking Tommy's behavior. Is hey, asshole, 611 00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:54,240 Speaker 2: Like this kid's swearing like a sailor and he's like 612 00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:57,160 Speaker 2: five years old. I mean, I don't care, it's not the. 613 00:31:57,040 --> 00:32:00,959 Speaker 1: Worst thing, but but he is. He's gonna mimic his 614 00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:05,600 Speaker 1: dad and and I think the things that he's no 615 00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:08,280 Speaker 1: different than he ever was Tommy. But now she's looking 616 00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:10,400 Speaker 1: at her son and she's like, but even if you 617 00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:13,880 Speaker 1: get divorced, you have less control if you get divorced 618 00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:15,600 Speaker 1: over because you say you don't want your son to 619 00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:18,719 Speaker 1: mimic his dad. Now you have less control over that. 620 00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:21,320 Speaker 1: If you're separated and then your son goes and sees 621 00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:23,640 Speaker 1: him right without. 622 00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:26,600 Speaker 2: You, Oh for sure, that would be even more scary. Well, 623 00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:30,960 Speaker 2: MJ looks at Tommy with disgust every time he it's 624 00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:32,680 Speaker 2: just he's an. 625 00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:34,760 Speaker 1: Out of him. 626 00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:38,600 Speaker 2: I mean talking about taking a dump at dinner, like 627 00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:39,440 Speaker 2: what are you doing? 628 00:32:39,560 --> 00:32:40,000 Speaker 1: Dude? 629 00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:42,320 Speaker 2: Like this is going to be a huge learning lesson 630 00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:46,640 Speaker 2: for him to see himself. I hope, you know. I 631 00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:49,239 Speaker 2: bet MJ loved doing traders. She was away from him 632 00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:53,600 Speaker 2: for thirty days. Well, it was like a vacation. She 633 00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:58,400 Speaker 2: got to sleep by herself without Tommy. He didn't about shit. 634 00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:01,880 Speaker 1: Maybe they're just not for each other anymore. At one 635 00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:05,280 Speaker 1: time she loved him, she married him, her mother told 636 00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:08,040 Speaker 1: her not to her mother fall with him. Yeah, she 637 00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:10,120 Speaker 1: had to find out on her own. And that's okay. 638 00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:13,160 Speaker 2: We make betweenes three times to get married. I figure 639 00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:13,520 Speaker 2: it out. 640 00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:17,640 Speaker 1: I hope for Tommy and Mercedes. Now there was a 641 00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:21,840 Speaker 1: thing she had she was He went after her a 642 00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:24,440 Speaker 1: few months ago on social media. You didn't know that, 643 00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:26,160 Speaker 1: do you remember seeing I did see that. 644 00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:28,360 Speaker 2: I know that she was on Jeff Lewis and they 645 00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:29,720 Speaker 2: had discussed something. 646 00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:32,880 Speaker 1: Something about him as a father and so don't even 647 00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:34,320 Speaker 1: don't even. 648 00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:37,080 Speaker 2: Oh, they shouldn't be doing that. And then it went 649 00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:39,320 Speaker 2: to Tommy said something ugly but I don't I didn't. 650 00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:40,720 Speaker 2: I don't think. 651 00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:43,080 Speaker 1: Had something to do with they knocked him as a 652 00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:46,600 Speaker 1: dad and he went he did not sit back and 653 00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:50,080 Speaker 1: take that lightly. I don't remember what it was. Maybe 654 00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:52,400 Speaker 1: she was wrong, maybe she was right. Whatever it was, 655 00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:56,040 Speaker 1: you know, it is what it is that I hope, 656 00:33:56,280 --> 00:33:57,880 Speaker 1: whatever it is, at the end of the day, they 657 00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:00,400 Speaker 1: are close and they become friends and their parents together. 658 00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:04,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, and and that makes life a lot easier. Now 659 00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:07,080 Speaker 2: the new the New Presa goes on a date with 660 00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:12,160 Speaker 2: the non cast member Sophia and she called him right out, 661 00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:16,200 Speaker 2: is she Persian too? Yes, there you go. 662 00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:19,520 Speaker 1: I'm assumings right out now. Fuckboy, fuck boy, are you done? 663 00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:22,560 Speaker 1: Are you done playing? And he was like, whatever it was, 664 00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:24,880 Speaker 1: he didn't like her, so that didn't work well. 665 00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:28,760 Speaker 2: He reminds me of the Persian Jack's Taylor. 666 00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:34,000 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I can see that two eyes. 667 00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:36,319 Speaker 2: Not the other stuff that went on with Jack's, but 668 00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:41,120 Speaker 2: just the attitude, like I don't know, very sure of himself. 669 00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:43,880 Speaker 2: I don't know. He's only been on you know, a 670 00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:47,279 Speaker 2: little bit. Let's I should make any judgment just yet, 671 00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:49,480 Speaker 2: just but just from the first couple and him showing 672 00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:51,319 Speaker 2: all the pictures of him partying and. 673 00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:53,560 Speaker 1: Listen, dude, I don't know how old you are, but 674 00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:56,560 Speaker 1: you're not getting any younger and you wind up alone 675 00:34:57,280 --> 00:34:59,399 Speaker 1: and in a bad place if you don't start. You're 676 00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:02,920 Speaker 1: getting to the age. Now i'd say he's in his thirties. 677 00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:04,920 Speaker 1: I want to say he's not in his twenties. 678 00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:07,600 Speaker 2: I don't know. I can't remember. But Sophia thinking his 679 00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:09,439 Speaker 2: name was Nasa, not Reza. 680 00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:13,800 Speaker 1: Well we'll call him Nasa. That's how we differentiate him. 681 00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:16,719 Speaker 1: So you know, Nasa. I want to say, like, you 682 00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:18,440 Speaker 1: might want to reel it in if you meet a 683 00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:22,600 Speaker 1: nice girl, you might want to think about not being 684 00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:25,040 Speaker 1: a boy anymore, if that's what you are. But it's 685 00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:27,080 Speaker 1: but I feel like I saw a little bit of 686 00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:31,680 Speaker 1: interest in him, thinking maybe I should start settling down. 687 00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:35,839 Speaker 1: Because our Jay asked the boys Resa Jay Nasa Jay 688 00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:38,680 Speaker 1: as the boys how they keep the sparkle alive in 689 00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:41,920 Speaker 1: their partners, and Greg says that some claim relationships can 690 00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:44,640 Speaker 1: reach a point where intimacy's feels like a sister. 691 00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:47,680 Speaker 2: And I wanted to throw up at that moment because 692 00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:51,120 Speaker 2: that was a very bad analogy or reference, whatever you 693 00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:54,239 Speaker 2: want to call it. Like, don't don't talk about you're 694 00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:55,400 Speaker 2: in a relationship with your sister. 695 00:35:55,440 --> 00:36:00,200 Speaker 1: That's just gross, right, But then she could friend like 696 00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:03,400 Speaker 1: being with one of your best friends. But but but 697 00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:06,719 Speaker 1: people do refer to their relationship like that and that 698 00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:07,200 Speaker 1: they're done. 699 00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:11,440 Speaker 2: No, no buddy should ever refer to your relations I'm saying. 700 00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:15,640 Speaker 1: I don't agree with it, but I've heard people say 701 00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:18,000 Speaker 1: it's like living with my sister. It's like but they 702 00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:23,399 Speaker 1: mean by a better Yes, that's a better analogy, much 703 00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:26,920 Speaker 1: much better analogy. And then he goes on to say 704 00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:32,799 Speaker 1: about Tannin's tragic car accident that that's when they realized 705 00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:35,200 Speaker 1: he started to take life seriously. 706 00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:38,320 Speaker 2: You know, do you think that was a trauma bond marriage. 707 00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:41,759 Speaker 2: I do, Yeah, That's what I was thinking, because they don't. 708 00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:44,239 Speaker 1: I don't see the picture of car though. That was 709 00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:49,240 Speaker 1: some they had just met. He was like bouncing around 710 00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:54,360 Speaker 1: town and they were just going to Dubai. He the 711 00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:57,120 Speaker 1: person was driving crazy. I wonder I hope everybody lived 712 00:36:57,400 --> 00:36:58,160 Speaker 1: survived that car. 713 00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:00,279 Speaker 2: That's why I never went. If there's a lay over, 714 00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:04,200 Speaker 2: which happens sometimes, I never want to leave the airport. 715 00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:06,759 Speaker 2: What if something happens you can't get back in This 716 00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:07,520 Speaker 2: is the perfect I. 717 00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:10,040 Speaker 1: Probably wouldn't make it back. I know myself better enough, so. 718 00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:11,200 Speaker 2: I know you wouldn't make it. 719 00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:13,560 Speaker 1: And like a nine hour layover, and they were going 720 00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:14,200 Speaker 1: to go to have. 721 00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:16,600 Speaker 2: You missed missed in your life? 722 00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:17,160 Speaker 1: One? 723 00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:18,760 Speaker 2: Oh, that's it, I'm shocked. 724 00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:20,680 Speaker 1: No, two oh three? 725 00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:21,399 Speaker 2: Was it four? 726 00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:24,359 Speaker 1: No? No, it was two. And in the past year, 727 00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:26,960 Speaker 1: I didn't really miss the flight. I was checking in 728 00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:29,160 Speaker 1: too late to check my bags, so I didn't miss 729 00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:31,279 Speaker 1: the flight. The lady couldn't let me in. He just 730 00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:35,480 Speaker 1: took the next flight. Rude, I know, right, But you 731 00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:40,720 Speaker 1: know I think that's a trauma bond. Maybe yeah, we'll see. 732 00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:42,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 733 00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:44,600 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm saying that it's okay for him to 734 00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:48,319 Speaker 1: travel his wife to travel with her friend because he 735 00:37:48,360 --> 00:37:49,239 Speaker 1: can't afford to go. 736 00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:56,799 Speaker 2: I just she's so beautiful and so sweet, and he 737 00:37:57,080 --> 00:37:58,239 Speaker 2: is is. 738 00:37:58,200 --> 00:38:00,000 Speaker 1: He the one? Don't know if I would call her sweet. 739 00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:06,279 Speaker 2: I think she is. I think their relationship's not good. 740 00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:10,279 Speaker 2: He's Armenian, right, He's the one that's Armenian. Yeah, and 741 00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:14,000 Speaker 2: she's Persian. I dated Armenian for five years, and I said, 742 00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:19,680 Speaker 2: I did, And I will tell you girls are kind 743 00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:22,480 Speaker 2: of secondary. Guys go out, they do their thing, and 744 00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:25,520 Speaker 2: the girl is expected to just be home. That's how 745 00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:30,280 Speaker 2: I was treated, like, no, very jealous, very very jealous. 746 00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:32,000 Speaker 2: And was he the one that was saying he came 747 00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:35,359 Speaker 2: he came home and he got a text at two 748 00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:35,880 Speaker 2: in the morning. 749 00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:39,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, But you know in the next scene, Sky and 750 00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:42,800 Speaker 1: Tannin are hanging out and that she's you know, Tannon's 751 00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:45,719 Speaker 1: talking about her skincare company, and and then I love 752 00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:49,640 Speaker 1: that Tannin. I mean, Sky puts it on her dog. 753 00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:53,880 Speaker 1: But she in that scene, I don't know if you 754 00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:58,440 Speaker 1: noticed in that scene she talks about that she probably 755 00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:02,200 Speaker 1: wouldn't have taken her relationships seriously with Greg if that 756 00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:06,439 Speaker 1: accident didn't happen. So maybe you're right, you know, I mean, 757 00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:08,880 Speaker 1: I I think you might be right about that. Now, 758 00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:12,440 Speaker 1: kin a relationship like that last is that like, is 759 00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:16,040 Speaker 1: there longevity in a relationship like that or they've been together? 760 00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:16,520 Speaker 2: How long? 761 00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:17,719 Speaker 1: That quite a bit of time. 762 00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:19,680 Speaker 2: Well, it looks like they're kind of grown apart, and 763 00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:21,759 Speaker 2: I don't know, you know, we'll see, but a lot 764 00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:24,479 Speaker 2: of these relationships seem like they're like they. 765 00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:27,960 Speaker 1: Need a relationships counselor we're gonna call my an art 766 00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:32,200 Speaker 1: and green Span. She she's she lives in San Diego. 767 00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:34,200 Speaker 1: I should get her on the show. She's so one 768 00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:37,280 Speaker 1: with relationships and everything else. 769 00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:39,759 Speaker 2: But what I'm seeing the conversation with MJ and her 770 00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:44,760 Speaker 2: mom talking about Tommy. MJ has concerns about their marriage. 771 00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:47,440 Speaker 2: She doesn't appreciate the way he talks to her and 772 00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:50,120 Speaker 2: even says he still doesn't feel safe with him. 773 00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:53,080 Speaker 1: What does she mean not feel safe with him? I 774 00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:54,760 Speaker 1: mean a guy like that. 775 00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:57,200 Speaker 2: I don't know if it was like feel safe, like 776 00:39:57,360 --> 00:39:59,960 Speaker 2: they don't have a future like maybe that I mean 777 00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:03,040 Speaker 2: doesn't strike me as being like motivated anything like that. 778 00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:05,439 Speaker 2: But my god, her mom is not easy on her. 779 00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:09,640 Speaker 1: No, she's never been. Oh my god, Tamra, did you 780 00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:11,360 Speaker 1: ever watch Shaw'za Sunset? 781 00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:14,320 Speaker 2: I did, but I fell off like a watch. 782 00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:19,040 Speaker 1: Her mom does not pull punches. But again that's the culture. 783 00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:21,640 Speaker 1: Look at you know, and but I like that. I 784 00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:23,719 Speaker 1: don't know if it would have been easy to grow 785 00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:26,560 Speaker 1: up like that because my mom's so soft spoken and sweet. 786 00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:28,640 Speaker 2: I don't think i'd like that because then you'd feel 787 00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:33,480 Speaker 2: like you're always trying to, you know, get approval from people, 788 00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:34,879 Speaker 2: or get an approval from your mom. 789 00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:38,719 Speaker 1: Dad wasn't easy. He's hard on me. But I mean, 790 00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:40,600 Speaker 1: I think it molds you. I think it makes you 791 00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:43,600 Speaker 1: tougher for this world. It makes you ready to not 792 00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:46,160 Speaker 1: be coddled because the world does not coddle you. When 793 00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:48,680 Speaker 1: you get to work and things don't always go your 794 00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:51,799 Speaker 1: way in our business, how would you be able to 795 00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:54,080 Speaker 1: handle it? You know your mom? I love when your 796 00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:56,000 Speaker 1: mom said you look like you fell off your motorcycle 797 00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:58,840 Speaker 1: with your face like, I like that. If you didn't 798 00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:00,560 Speaker 1: have a mom that was a little bit hard on 799 00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:02,560 Speaker 1: you at times, would you be able to handle your 800 00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:03,560 Speaker 1: job right now? 801 00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:08,080 Speaker 2: No? No, not grow up loving, but like in a 802 00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:11,120 Speaker 2: very loving like it was in a lovey, lovey relationship. 803 00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:12,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was a total time. 804 00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:19,080 Speaker 2: But MJ's mom is can be kind of harsh. 805 00:41:18,800 --> 00:41:21,760 Speaker 1: But in her own way. That me that's her showing 806 00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:24,600 Speaker 1: her love. You know you could you could not show 807 00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:27,279 Speaker 1: love by being sweet but not really giving a shit. 808 00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:30,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I know, I know there's a way. 809 00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:34,360 Speaker 1: I mean, kids see through that. Don't use it for 810 00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:36,360 Speaker 1: an excuse later on in life. Because you talk to 811 00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:39,600 Speaker 1: me this way, I'm I'm a bump. Please. 812 00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:42,160 Speaker 2: I think we already talked a little bit about this. Oh, 813 00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:46,600 Speaker 2: Greg and Tannon have their date night and he talks about. 814 00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:49,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, this is where the phone call you were talking 815 00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:52,960 Speaker 1: about comes up, and he was just offering to be helpful, 816 00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:55,240 Speaker 1: but he didn't want any trouble, so he showed. 817 00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:56,919 Speaker 2: A shit, my husband is not going to give any 818 00:41:57,000 --> 00:42:00,640 Speaker 2: random girls his phone number, and then text him baby, 819 00:42:00,880 --> 00:42:03,880 Speaker 2: you don't. No girl just goes hey baby. There's got 820 00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:05,879 Speaker 2: to be a reason why they said the thing. 821 00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:08,839 Speaker 1: Here's the well, yeah, some people talk like that. It's 822 00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:11,920 Speaker 1: not okay, but but you know, you're opening yourself up 823 00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:15,319 Speaker 1: for trouble. Yeah, when you do that. But I don't 824 00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:18,799 Speaker 1: know that Tannan's given her husband that much attention. She's 825 00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:21,560 Speaker 1: the breadwinner in the family. She goes away mostly with 826 00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:26,520 Speaker 1: her girlfriend Sky. Maybe he looks for attention by showing 827 00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:28,759 Speaker 1: her like, look, somebody else might like me. Do you 828 00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:30,840 Speaker 1: want to give me a little more attention? I don't know. 829 00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:34,200 Speaker 2: I'm just saying I'm speaking out of he's controlling he 830 00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:36,080 Speaker 2: is very controlling. How is he controlling? 831 00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:38,400 Speaker 1: She's allowed to go away with her friend? Controlling guys 832 00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:39,760 Speaker 1: don't let you go away with your friend. 833 00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:41,680 Speaker 2: I don't know. I just feel like he seemed like 834 00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:44,160 Speaker 2: the way he talked to her was a little bit controlling, 835 00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:45,840 Speaker 2: like I can do it, but you can't. You do 836 00:42:45,880 --> 00:42:47,360 Speaker 2: it a little too much, But you do it and 837 00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:49,600 Speaker 2: you come home. Well, I know what happens. Well, if 838 00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:53,120 Speaker 2: you know what happens, and you're probably doing something shady there, Greg, 839 00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:55,320 Speaker 2: you're probably giving a limon. 840 00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:56,759 Speaker 1: Say Tannan wears the. 841 00:42:56,719 --> 00:42:58,640 Speaker 2: Pants you think, so, okay, Well we'll see. 842 00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:02,120 Speaker 1: I'm going out on. I mean, either they agreed that 843 00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:04,279 Speaker 1: they need to work on their communication, that's for sure. 844 00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:07,359 Speaker 1: Most people do. I think we probably all do well. 845 00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:10,920 Speaker 2: It ends on an interesting note when MJ's mother, Vida, 846 00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:16,759 Speaker 2: grabs coffee with Tommy and Vita tells Tommy that MJ 847 00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:21,279 Speaker 2: doesn't feel safe in their marriage, and it was it 848 00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:24,239 Speaker 2: was a very raw, open conversation. 849 00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:27,640 Speaker 1: Would you want your mother in law to get involved 850 00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:28,320 Speaker 1: in your marriage? 851 00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:31,319 Speaker 2: No, it does. I don't have a mother in law. 852 00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:37,920 Speaker 1: Okay, well Tommy doesn't have a mom, and Vida is 853 00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:42,160 Speaker 1: the mom really to both of them. And I think 854 00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:48,640 Speaker 1: that it's okay for her to speak like right now. 855 00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:51,239 Speaker 1: It's I don't think she's trying to hurt the marriage 856 00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:54,160 Speaker 1: that she never wanted for her daughter anyway. I think 857 00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:57,520 Speaker 1: she's trying to let him know that maybe he needs 858 00:43:57,560 --> 00:44:00,120 Speaker 1: to change, and he doesn't want to hear it. And 859 00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:03,880 Speaker 1: he isn't. This guy is not capable of changing. He 860 00:44:04,040 --> 00:44:07,040 Speaker 1: is what he is is the die is cast. You know, 861 00:44:07,160 --> 00:44:11,120 Speaker 1: he hasn't had an easy life. He this is the 862 00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:12,560 Speaker 1: product of that he is. 863 00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:14,640 Speaker 2: And after saying tom you get emotional, do you see 864 00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:17,279 Speaker 2: him differently, because I definitely saw him differently after he 865 00:44:17,320 --> 00:44:20,600 Speaker 2: got a little bit emotional and we saw flashbacks of 866 00:44:20,640 --> 00:44:23,000 Speaker 2: his mom and his mom passing away and he said 867 00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:24,920 Speaker 2: he was sleeping on a park bench and all that. 868 00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:29,200 Speaker 1: It hurts me for a little boy. But as an adult, 869 00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:32,480 Speaker 1: you have to you have to give Tommy. You have 870 00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:36,960 Speaker 1: to move well, you have to you have to polish 871 00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:40,319 Speaker 1: yourself up and you do especially for your child. We 872 00:44:40,360 --> 00:44:43,360 Speaker 1: all have to turn into something better for our children. 873 00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:45,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, And he's. 874 00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:47,200 Speaker 1: Saying, but I'm not a bad guy, like he comes 875 00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:50,200 Speaker 1: from a place where people are really bad. And he's saying, 876 00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:53,239 Speaker 1: but I'm not a bad guy, and he doesn't really 877 00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:55,640 Speaker 1: want to hear it, so that's he needs to find 878 00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:58,440 Speaker 1: somebody maybe more like him. 879 00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:03,080 Speaker 2: I agree, I agree. It's just I mean, we'll see 880 00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:04,319 Speaker 2: more as time goes on, and. 881 00:45:04,320 --> 00:45:06,279 Speaker 1: I want them all to be okay. I want them 882 00:45:06,320 --> 00:45:09,960 Speaker 1: to for their kid's sake. But I think we're going 883 00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:13,960 Speaker 1: to see some real life lessons in this show. I 884 00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:14,520 Speaker 1: really do. 885 00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:15,799 Speaker 2: I think it's going to be good. 886 00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:19,160 Speaker 1: And I'm so happy to see Reza and MJ and 887 00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:22,839 Speaker 1: Golnessa and Adam, my sweetheart. I love to see them 888 00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:25,759 Speaker 1: all again together. I'm very, very excited for this. 889 00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:28,040 Speaker 2: Thanks guys for tuning in to another episode of Two 890 00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:31,640 Speaker 2: Teas in a Pod, and that is the Valet Persia Valley. 891 00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:36,360 Speaker 1: Yes, jump on the Valley bandwagon and join us next 892 00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:39,560 Speaker 1: week for episode three. You only have to watch episode 893 00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:44,120 Speaker 1: one and two if you haven't already by guys,