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Speaker 1: All from Daniel.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hello, what's up?

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Speaker 1: While?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, who's who? Dis?

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Speaker 1: No way?

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Speaker 2: This is Daniel new phone? Who dis you know that

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Speaker 2: I do? I have heard that this is Daniel.

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Speaker 1: Huh. Yeah, I didn't even get a call screen. Or

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Speaker 1: is that new?

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Speaker 3: Wait?

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Speaker 2: Have we spoken before, Daniel?

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Speaker 1: We have not.

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Speaker 2: Oh, well, what's up?

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Speaker 1: Man?

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Speaker 2: Is there anything that you wanted to talk about or

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Speaker 2: you just want to free ball it. I'm down to

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Speaker 2: free ball it, but I'm also doing to talk about stuff.

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Speaker 1: I've called you thousands and thousands of times, and this

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Speaker 1: is the first time I've gotten thirty. And that's crazy.

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Speaker 2: That's that's sweet, man. I got in those thousands and

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Speaker 2: thousands of times you've called me, like I have to

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Speaker 2: imagine I have to imagine you called a thousand times

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Speaker 2: for you had something in mind that was just such

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Speaker 2: a ruminating thought on your mind you had to I.

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Speaker 1: Mean, it changes like every day when I call you.

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Speaker 1: Like when I first started calling you early twenty twenty,

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Speaker 1: I was playing No Man Sky and I always wanted

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Speaker 1: to tell you that I played as a gek, which

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Speaker 1: was like the race that I played as. And I

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Speaker 1: didn't know if you knew that was a race on there.

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Speaker 2: No I didn't, but that's I heard. The game sucks.

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Speaker 1: It does, it's it's a big time suck. But currently

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Speaker 1: I'm living in a house of wayward children while their

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Speaker 1: parents are in jail, and I thought that would be

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Speaker 1: interesting to tell you.

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Speaker 2: Dude, what the hell is a wayward child?

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Speaker 1: I looked it up that way. I had an answer

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Speaker 1: for you when I knew you would ask that it's

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Speaker 1: a kid that is hard to manage, like unruly, they

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Speaker 1: don't like to listen to direction, stuff like that. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: my cousin's mom is in jail currently, and since then

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Speaker 1: she's been inviting all of her friends to live here,

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Speaker 1: which has grown to six to ten depending on the night.

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Speaker 1: They're all out of high school and just you know,

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Speaker 1: drinking and partying all night. So that's fun.

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Speaker 2: Now, why are what's your relation to these kids? Why

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Speaker 2: are you in this house?

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Speaker 1: So I moved here after a breakup, and my aunt

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Speaker 1: wasn't in jail when she's when I first got here,

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Speaker 1: but as soon as I got here, she got into

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Speaker 1: some legal trouble and went to jail. So it's my cousins.

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Speaker 1: I live with my two cousins and I'm basically quote

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Speaker 1: unquote the man of the house while she's in jail.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, are my cousins.

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Speaker 2: You should pitch this to HBO. This actually sounds pretty good.

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Speaker 1: There would be a boring show because all they do

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Speaker 1: is hit their vapes and stare at their phones in

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Speaker 1: the same room. I've walked into a room and they'll

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Speaker 2: It's funny, right, Euphoria makes it look like everyone's like

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Speaker 2: talking to each other and stuff. But what you described

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Speaker 2: it the wayward cousins, which would be an interesting name

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Speaker 2: for something anyway. All right, so it's you. So it's

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Speaker 2: you in a room with and your aunts in jail.

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Speaker 2: So it's so you literally are the like only adult

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I work a full time job, so I'm really home.

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Speaker 1: But when I am home, it's there's just a bunch

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Speaker 1: hit each other's nicotine.

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Speaker 2: And what's the deal with this? Are you like do

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Speaker 2: you have custody of these kids? Are you like their

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Speaker 1: My oldest cousins she's seventeen, so I mean technically I

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Speaker 1: isn't the first time that my aunt's been in legal trouble,

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Speaker 2: So if you get too high, they have legal The

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Speaker 2: grandparents have legal custody over you. Over over there, I

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Speaker 2: wish that.

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Speaker 1: Was an option. I get drug tested at my job

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Speaker 2: But all right, So the older cousin is all right,

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Speaker 2: So this two of them, one is seventeen and holds

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Speaker 2: like now? Now when you say way, that's what's gonna ask.

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Speaker 2: Now when you say way, word like, all right, they're

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Speaker 2: they're aren't they're well, where where are the parents? Uh?

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Speaker 1: The dad he lives in the same city, but he's

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Speaker 1: and my cousins don't really want to keep too much

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Speaker 1: the mom's in jail.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, okay, so the dad abandoned the family the mom.

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Speaker 2: The mom is in jail.

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Speaker 1: I see it the other way around. The kids kind

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Speaker 1: as like the cool guardian. Because I really don't care

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Speaker 2: So they so they're estranged from their dad just because

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Speaker 2: they don't like his wife. Did the wife like do

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Speaker 1: No, she did what honestly, any parent or me should

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Speaker 4: Uh.

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Speaker 1: They suggested that they that they wanted. The oldest one

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Speaker 1: So they suggested that she, you know, get her ged

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Speaker 2: Okay, So I'm like, is this dad like a just

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Speaker 2: a guy who abandoned his family or you or you

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Speaker 2: think he's a good guy.

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Speaker 1: He's a good guy. Now he's a good guy. My

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Speaker 1: dad's friends with him, they're you know, he's kind of

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Speaker 1: But he's a good guy. He's just like I said,

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Speaker 2: All right, And what's the mom and the mom? Okay,

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Speaker 2: so the mom, oh, oh, oh your aunt is I

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Speaker 2: got I got mom? I thought there was I thought

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Speaker 2: the aunt. I thought there was an aunt and a mom,

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Speaker 2: and I confused, Yeah, aunt is okay, mom is the aunt?

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Speaker 2: Is their mom? And what what I mean? You don't

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Speaker 2: you actually don't have to engage in this conversation. All

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Speaker 2: you can just hang up, but if you want to

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Speaker 2: what did what did she do? Why is she in jail?

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Speaker 1: Her ex wife? I don't know if they're even ex

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Speaker 1: wife at this point. They think they're still legally married.

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Speaker 1: She violated a restraining order that she had on her

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Speaker 1: by trying to contact her about their daughter that they

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Speaker 2: All right, so your your aunt is lesbian? Yes, and

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Speaker 2: she had it.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, that's a story right there. It's not even

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Speaker 2: That's well, that's really weird because like, I don't think

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Speaker 2: lesbians can have accidental children, Dude, there would have to

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Speaker 1: My aunt got my cousin to donate his sperm to

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Speaker 1: So technically the child is my cousin's daughter. It's it's

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Speaker 1: really that's what I'm saying. It's it's almost incest like.

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Speaker 1: But you know that he donated the sperm to her wife,

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Speaker 1: who isn't related to us at all. But I told

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Speaker 1: But yeah, you know the all right, that's just running

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Speaker 2: All right, go no further. What's your name again?

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Speaker 1: Daniel?

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Speaker 2: All right, Daniel're gonna do this very slowly, Okay, all right,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna I'm gonna here's I'm gonna try to explain it,

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Speaker 2: and then you stop me when I'm wrong. Yeah, your cousin,

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Speaker 2: who is your aunt's ex husband? Bins?

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Speaker 1: Uh, my aunt, My aunt is one of four sisters.

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Speaker 2: It's one of four sisters, got it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so one of her sister's children is my cousin.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so your cousin from another aunt, ye is it?

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Speaker 1: Guy?

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Speaker 2: And he jizzed in a cup and used it to

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Speaker 2: impregnate your aunt's ex wife.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean not directly impregnator, but yeah, ages in

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Speaker 2: Okay. So so so it's a little it's so it

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Speaker 2: because it's like, yeah, it's your aunt family DNA going

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Speaker 1: Right on paper, it's it's definitely not incest, but from

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Speaker 2: I mean when you just when you just kind of

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Speaker 2: it makes sense. But when you say it impregnated my aunt,

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Speaker 2: it's yeah, it sounds a little incesty. Okay, Now why

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Speaker 2: did why? Why did? Why was there a restraining order?

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Speaker 1: There was a a physical interaction that got because they

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Speaker 1: were split up when I moved in and then the

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Speaker 2: The see. See. Another reason this would be a great

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Speaker 2: You don't ask everyone. As long as you as long

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Speaker 2: Well you're really you're really living it up, man. Congratulations.

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Speaker 2: I hope you live. I hope, I expe I hope

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Speaker 2: if I ever come to Kansas City, I want to

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Speaker 2: I've tried to find that. You're not gonna be able

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Speaker 2: Way, By the way, by the way, I'll know it's you.

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Speaker 2: I can tell what you look like already.

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Speaker 3: Oh.

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Speaker 1: Thanks, Okay, one question you have, who would you have

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Speaker 2: Oh? You know that guy a mer from college humor?

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Speaker 1: No, I okay, I'll look him up as soon as

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Speaker 2: What's your name again, Daniel? Daniel? Is anything else you

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Speaker 1: Keep calling? Don't give up, because, like I said, I've

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Speaker 1: give a shout out to my best friend Chavitz. That's

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Speaker 1: But I'm gonna tell him to watch this or listen

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Speaker 2: Chavis, your friend move in with you.

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Speaker 1: Oh he he will. I really appreciate talking to you, man,

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Speaker 1: I'm a big fan. I've literally listened to you since

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Speaker 2: Help Thanks man. Thanks man. I'm gonna manifest you move

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Speaker 2: listening to this moving to if everyone listening to this

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Speaker 2: if if all the if, all the people, dude, if

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Speaker 2: It doesn't rain. The tent city, tent City, tent City

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Speaker 2: I take care, man.

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Speaker 1: You could thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: That place would smell like shit. No offense. Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 2: who is this?

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Speaker 1: Hi?

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Speaker 2: This is Jade. Tell me, tell me what's up? Jade?

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Speaker 2: What is it you wanted to talk about today? On

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Speaker 2: the on the Stupid Gecko Podcast.

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Speaker 4: On the Stupid Gecko Podcast. Okay, so recently my life

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Speaker 4: me and everything, so I kind of just I'm here

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00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:23,800
Speaker 4: trying to find a job. I'm living with a friend

441
00:22:24,320 --> 00:22:28,680
Speaker 4: and like rediscovering myself. It's pretty crazy and scary.

442
00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:35,639
Speaker 2: Okay, how old are you? I'm twenty four, you're twenty four? Okay?

443
00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:38,120
Speaker 2: How long were you with this guy you were living with?

444
00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:42,359
Speaker 4: We've been together for like five years but only married

445
00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:42,920
Speaker 4: for two.

446
00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:46,199
Speaker 3: Yeah.

447
00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:50,800
Speaker 2: How how long had had he been financially supporting you for?

448
00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:52,040
Speaker 4: For the entire time?

449
00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:59,320
Speaker 2: So he'd been financially supporting you since you were nineteen?

450
00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:03,000
Speaker 4: Pretty much? Yeah, I was in school and in a

451
00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:08,280
Speaker 4: really bad family situation, and so he kind of like

452
00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:10,359
Speaker 4: let me move in and let me use his car

453
00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:13,919
Speaker 4: and all of these things. While I was finishing my degrees,

454
00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:16,359
Speaker 4: and I, as someone who was coming from like a

455
00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:19,960
Speaker 4: very unstable background, I was like, yes, this sounds great,

456
00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:22,919
Speaker 4: give me a break from like feeling stressed and like

457
00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:24,240
Speaker 4: finally feeling secure.

458
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:29,200
Speaker 2: And what what did you study in school?

459
00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:30,760
Speaker 4: I studied social work.

460
00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:34,159
Speaker 2: Did he pay your tuition or did you go into

461
00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:36,800
Speaker 2: debt for that? No?

462
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:40,399
Speaker 4: I did not. I definitely have a lot of student loans.

463
00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:44,600
Speaker 2: Okay, did you graduate, Yes.

464
00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:46,520
Speaker 4: I have a bachelor' seen a master's degree.

465
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:49,879
Speaker 2: When when did you get your master's degree?

466
00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:53,600
Speaker 4: I got my master's degree when I was twenty one.

467
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:58,440
Speaker 2: Okay, And so did you get a For the past

468
00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:02,280
Speaker 2: three years, have you had had a job at all?

469
00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:03,479
Speaker 1: So?

470
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 4: I had. I actually was working as a therapist and

471
00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:10,600
Speaker 4: burnt out really fast because I was not really taking

472
00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:13,479
Speaker 4: care of myself and I was coming right from school

473
00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:15,360
Speaker 4: and I was kind of jumping into this position where

474
00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:18,399
Speaker 4: I had like zero guidance, and so I kind of

475
00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 4: had a big breakdown in like January of twenty twenty one,

476
00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:26,880
Speaker 4: and my mental health kind of went down. The drain,

477
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:30,560
Speaker 4: and I just was trying to recover for like an

478
00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:34,600
Speaker 4: entire year, and then recently I've just been working part time.

479
00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:38,320
Speaker 2: What are you doing part time?

480
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:40,240
Speaker 4: I'm a nanny?

481
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:45,040
Speaker 2: Okay, cool, that's yeah, that's like that's the purest form

482
00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:45,840
Speaker 2: of social work.

483
00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:50,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, for sure. I definitely like I can still

484
00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:53,199
Speaker 4: use it on my resume that I've been giving to

485
00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:56,520
Speaker 4: everyone and putting out there and it still looks good,

486
00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:57,879
Speaker 4: like it's still so what.

487
00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:02,200
Speaker 2: What what went What went wrong? That's a tongue twister.

488
00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:08,200
Speaker 2: What went wrong? What went wrong with your partners?

489
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:18,360
Speaker 4: Well? I kind of decided to blow up our marriage

490
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:24,000
Speaker 4: by speaking to someone else just in a grab for attention,

491
00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:26,760
Speaker 4: and he found out about it.

492
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:36,399
Speaker 2: What does that mean?

493
00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:40,520
Speaker 4: I didn't sleep with anyone, but I was definitely like

494
00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 4: messaging this person on like social media and like just

495
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:52,120
Speaker 4: flirting with them. I it was not really like anything

496
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:52,439
Speaker 4: to me.

497
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:56,520
Speaker 1: Yeah.

498
00:25:56,560 --> 00:25:58,919
Speaker 4: So he found out about that and was very upset.

499
00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:02,119
Speaker 4: But I would say that our relationship was kind of

500
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:05,600
Speaker 4: going down the drain for a while and we probably

501
00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 4: shouldn't have like even gotten married.

502
00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:11,879
Speaker 2: Well, it sounds like you felt like you weren't getting

503
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:14,840
Speaker 2: adequate enough attention from him. And it was causing you

504
00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:16,200
Speaker 2: to want to seek attention elsewhere.

505
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, for sure, and define why was it? Thought, but

506
00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:22,160
Speaker 4: I take accountability of my actions.

507
00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:27,720
Speaker 2: Why was it going downhill? Even before that?

508
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:32,679
Speaker 4: I think just based upon like the relationship that we

509
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:35,720
Speaker 4: had and how I was completely like codependent on him

510
00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:39,159
Speaker 4: and he was very completely codependent on me in a

511
00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:41,399
Speaker 4: lot of ways, and we just didn't really have our

512
00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:42,600
Speaker 4: own identities at all.

513
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:46,840
Speaker 2: Mhm. It sounds I was going to say this. I

514
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:49,240
Speaker 2: honestly was thinking this from the very beginning. When you

515
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:52,359
Speaker 2: said he was financially supporting you. I mean, it sounds

516
00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 2: like it's absolutely for the best that you guys are

517
00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:56,760
Speaker 2: not doing your thing anymore.

518
00:26:57,960 --> 00:26:58,200
Speaker 1: Yeah.

519
00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:04,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, look, especially if he was, I mean,

520
00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:06,879
Speaker 2: I I don't know, man, I guess I get it.

521
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:08,959
Speaker 2: If you it sounds like you came from a rougher

522
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:12,879
Speaker 2: family background, Yeah for sure.

523
00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:16,919
Speaker 4: Just yeah, I feel like I've I'm not trying to

524
00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 4: like make myself sound like a victim or anything, but

525
00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:24,040
Speaker 4: I definitely like I feel like I struggled my whole

526
00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:25,000
Speaker 4: life in a lot of ways.

527
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:29,119
Speaker 2: Well, it's not about it's not about you know, a

528
00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 2: label of victim or perpetrateor or anything like that. It's

529
00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:40,360
Speaker 2: just is life. Yeah, Okay, so do you still talk

530
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 2: to this guy or when's the last time?

531
00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 4: So yeah, So it was like last Monday or a

532
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:50,320
Speaker 4: few Mondays ago, he kicked me out. I went to

533
00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:55,400
Speaker 4: my best friend's house where I'm staying, and he decided

534
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:57,400
Speaker 4: like immediately that we were going to get a divorced

535
00:27:57,440 --> 00:28:01,639
Speaker 4: without speaking to me, and had almost like signed all

536
00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:04,679
Speaker 4: the paperwork, and then we went and sat down and

537
00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:08,320
Speaker 4: talked and talked and talked and talked and talked for

538
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:12,280
Speaker 4: hours and hours and hours and kind of came to

539
00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:14,840
Speaker 4: the conclusion that we are just going to be separated

540
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:18,359
Speaker 4: for a month and have no contact.

541
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:22,440
Speaker 2: Okay, how long ago is that?

542
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:26,720
Speaker 4: That was only about a week ago, and it's definitely

543
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:31,679
Speaker 4: been like pretty hard. I didn't realize that I was

544
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:35,120
Speaker 4: like such a co dependent person until I like had

545
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:36,719
Speaker 4: to not see my person.

546
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:40,920
Speaker 2: So you guys decided that you were going to get separate,

547
00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 2: so you're legally what legally separated, and.

548
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:48,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I'm not going to talk for a month. Yeah,

549
00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 4: just to kind of find ourselves and figure out like

550
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 4: what we actually want in the relationship, because it was

551
00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:59,360
Speaker 4: like we're not blind in some ways.

552
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:03,040
Speaker 2: Do you anticipate that you're going to want to get

553
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:05,480
Speaker 2: back together with this guy or even that he will

554
00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:06,520
Speaker 2: want to get back together with you.

555
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:11,240
Speaker 4: I don't know, and that is I guess. I know

556
00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:14,520
Speaker 4: that you don't give couples advice or relationship advice, but

557
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:17,920
Speaker 4: I mean possibly, just like discussing this could help me

558
00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 4: process if I want to or if I want to

559
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 4: just like cut it off clean. I'm just not really sure.

560
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:28,080
Speaker 4: And it feels like every day away from him is

561
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 4: super different, where like I'm struggling crying all day and

562
00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 4: then like the next day, I'm like, I'm an independent boss, bitched,

563
00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:40,520
Speaker 4: I can do this. I just like, you know, I

564
00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 4: don't know, hustling and stuff. So it just like changes

565
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:48,720
Speaker 4: every day. But I think that where we left was

566
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:52,520
Speaker 4: that he needed to figure out if he could trust

567
00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:55,320
Speaker 4: me again, and I needed to figure out what I

568
00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:56,720
Speaker 4: needed in a relationship.

569
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 2: That sounds f I mean, look, man, I have my thought.

570
00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:04,480
Speaker 2: I don't like telling the whole like, oh, I don't

571
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:06,400
Speaker 2: know if you give a relationship advice thing. I just

572
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:09,840
Speaker 2: you know, I've realized I've actually been doing a lot

573
00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:12,640
Speaker 2: and this is kind of genius on my behalf is

574
00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:16,600
Speaker 2: I'll say I don't like telling people what to do,

575
00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:20,000
Speaker 2: which is true, but then I'll tell people what to

576
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 2: do and also sometimes kind of enjoy doing that.

577
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:26,360
Speaker 4: That's okay, I'm here for it.

578
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:29,080
Speaker 2: This is why I call it pretty genius. It's pretty genius.

579
00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:31,960
Speaker 2: I mean, I know, I don't.

580
00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:32,320
Speaker 1: I don't.

581
00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:36,040
Speaker 2: I try to get through this podcast without telling people

582
00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:41,160
Speaker 2: what to do as much as possible. But like, I mean, dude,

583
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:52,240
Speaker 2: all right, what's your what's your dream? What's your name again, Jade?

584
00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:54,680
Speaker 2: What's your dream in life? Jade?

585
00:30:56,200 --> 00:31:00,240
Speaker 4: And that is something that I don't know at all.

586
00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:04,760
Speaker 4: I used to think that it was helping people, okay,

587
00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:07,720
Speaker 4: and I feel like maybe in my future it is,

588
00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:11,840
Speaker 4: but I think I was very much too giving of

589
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:14,680
Speaker 4: myself and so, like you now, I'm focusing on like

590
00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:18,480
Speaker 4: what fills me up. I think my dream is maybe

591
00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 4: like being a musician, but I've never really like believed

592
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:22,440
Speaker 4: that I could do that.

593
00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:29,520
Speaker 2: All right, So I mean a few thoughts, and I'm

594
00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:32,320
Speaker 2: sure these are all things you've thought about before. Is

595
00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 2: your boyfriend is wondering whether or not he can trust you,

596
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:37,080
Speaker 2: which is a good thing for him to be wondering,

597
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:45,320
Speaker 2: because you know, if you really like him. You understand

598
00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 2: that he does deserve to be with somebody that he

599
00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:54,080
Speaker 2: can trust, and in that understanding, would understand that you

600
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:57,600
Speaker 2: might not be the best person for him at this

601
00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:03,880
Speaker 2: time and all, so that a relationship and also he

602
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 2: might he's not probably not the best person for you

603
00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:10,240
Speaker 2: if the relationship was so unsatisfying for you that you

604
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:19,760
Speaker 2: felt the need to, you know, find attention in other places. Yeah,

605
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 2: at first glance, not really knowing a lot about you,

606
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:25,120
Speaker 2: not really knowing a lot about him, this seems like

607
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:30,240
Speaker 2: it was a good thing for both of you, guys.

608
00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:32,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I agree for sure.

609
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:40,120
Speaker 2: Okay, So and and look, people are emotional and make

610
00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 2: stupid decisions plenty, and so I'm not going to say

611
00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 2: that you're undeserving of love or happiness ever again for

612
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:50,320
Speaker 2: the rest of your life at the age of twenty four.

613
00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:53,960
Speaker 2: But you're in a moment right now where I think

614
00:32:54,040 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 2: you should focus on yourself. I mean, you've been with

615
00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 2: this guy who's it's been financially supporting you for six years,

616
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:09,760
Speaker 2: just six years, right, five years?

617
00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:13,280
Speaker 4: Six years whatever, Yeah, it's like five coming on, it's

618
00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:13,800
Speaker 4: a long time.

619
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:16,960
Speaker 2: It's like you're you're gonna be a lot it's gonna

620
00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:19,400
Speaker 2: it'll be it's gonna be difficult. It's a difficult transition,

621
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:21,800
Speaker 2: but I think you'll be a lot happier if you

622
00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:26,960
Speaker 2: go on the journey of building a genuine agency in

623
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:27,840
Speaker 2: your own life.

624
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:32,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, for sure. Yeah, I agree with everything that

625
00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:36,280
Speaker 4: you're saying. I think my emotions just like getting the way,

626
00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:38,800
Speaker 4: and same with him, Like when we're together, he's like,

627
00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:42,959
Speaker 4: I just weird, like still in love, but also just

628
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:46,880
Speaker 4: like it doesn't feel like we're compatible because yeah, like

629
00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:49,680
Speaker 4: I said, like I don't know if we even like

630
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:53,080
Speaker 4: should have gone through with marriage or any of those

631
00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:53,640
Speaker 4: things like that.

632
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:57,720
Speaker 2: I mean, here's the thing, and here's the thing. I

633
00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 2: genuinely believe that different things make and this is why

634
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 2: this is my this is why I don't like telling

635
00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:07,560
Speaker 2: people what to do. Is because different things make different

636
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 2: people happy. They just do for some there are there

637
00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:14,320
Speaker 2: are I'm sure there are plenty of people out there

638
00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:16,960
Speaker 2: who got married when they were twenty one and they're

639
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:21,120
Speaker 2: still together at at thirty two and are really happy.

640
00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:23,080
Speaker 2: And there's also plenty of people out there that got

641
00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:27,680
Speaker 2: married at twenty one and are just fucking absolutely miserable.

642
00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:31,239
Speaker 2: And so and I don't know the difference between those

643
00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 2: two couples. I don't know what that X factor is.

644
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:37,000
Speaker 2: So some things that work for some people don't work

645
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:41,000
Speaker 2: for other people. But I mean, in talking to you specifically,

646
00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:45,200
Speaker 2: I think like it seems as though you didn't get

647
00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 2: that much of a chance to develop yourself as as

648
00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:50,960
Speaker 2: a person on your own.

649
00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:52,120
Speaker 1: You know.

650
00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:53,680
Speaker 4: Yeah.

651
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:56,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, And also it wasn't like you were stoked in

652
00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:59,839
Speaker 2: this relationship. Yeah.

653
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:02,840
Speaker 4: I definitely feel like at least the last like nine

654
00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:06,480
Speaker 4: months have been not great in that relationship, and there

655
00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 4: were like multiple times that I asked for what I

656
00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:11,800
Speaker 4: needed and did not get that. So I definitely also

657
00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:14,480
Speaker 4: feel like I don't know if I could enter back

658
00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:16,520
Speaker 4: into that because I feel like I've also like grieved

659
00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:19,400
Speaker 4: the relationship in the last like eight months. Okay, so

660
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:21,800
Speaker 4: I felt all of those emotions.

661
00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:25,400
Speaker 2: What is it that you wanted to Are there any

662
00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:32,239
Speaker 2: things I'm besides just having sex with other people that

663
00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:35,000
Speaker 2: you wanted to do while you were in a relationship

664
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:37,920
Speaker 2: that you didn't do or haven't done.

665
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:42,080
Speaker 4: Yeah for sure, Yeah, for sure. I mean just in general,

666
00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:46,439
Speaker 4: like my I guess we could say like ex partner now,

667
00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 4: he was like he's pretty like introverted, like homebody kind

668
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:56,840
Speaker 4: of thing. It like I was definitely like the person

669
00:35:56,880 --> 00:36:00,120
Speaker 4: who was like playful and like let loose and I

670
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:02,760
Speaker 4: just like sometimes don't want to frolic in a fucking

671
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 4: field and he's looking over down for that ever, it's

672
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 4: like I want to have fun in my relationship and

673
00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:12,440
Speaker 4: not always like be serious or be the one initiating

674
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:15,000
Speaker 4: that fun. That was definitely like a big thing.

675
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 2: Okay, uh, what what are some like manifesting What are

676
00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:25,359
Speaker 2: some ways that you can now manifest that in your life?

677
00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 2: And I'm by manifest I mean like things you can

678
00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:37,279
Speaker 2: do that are manifestations of your outgoingness, you know, like

679
00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:39,160
Speaker 2: do you want to do you want to travel places?

680
00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:42,400
Speaker 2: Do you want to go to the club? I don't know,

681
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:45,319
Speaker 2: just and anything at all that devolves putting yourself out there.

682
00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:49,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think just like letting my I found that

683
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:52,200
Speaker 4: I have. I come from a back room with like

684
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 4: a lot of religion and stuff, and so I feel

685
00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:58,400
Speaker 4: like I have a lot of just comfort, just like

686
00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:00,640
Speaker 4: being in my body and moving my body. So I've

687
00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:03,600
Speaker 4: actually been getting into dancing, which is like not like me,

688
00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 4: I don't like that, but now I do because I'm

689
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:11,759
Speaker 4: discovering like it's okay to move your body and it's

690
00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 4: okay to be comfortable in your body, and you don't

691
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:16,400
Speaker 4: have to do like hiding that and it's not like

692
00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:22,359
Speaker 4: an inherently like sexualized thing. So definitely that.

693
00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:23,640
Speaker 1: Yeah.

694
00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:25,239
Speaker 2: Do you know, do you know the macarena?

695
00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:27,840
Speaker 4: No, I don't.

696
00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:31,680
Speaker 2: Nobody's ever sexual. I don't think the macarena. I think

697
00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:35,480
Speaker 2: is probably one of the least sexual dances that exist

698
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:40,560
Speaker 2: in the uh in the in the dance lexicon. But anyway,

699
00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 2: what else anything else?

700
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:46,239
Speaker 4: I want to start riding horses again, and something that

701
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:47,279
Speaker 4: I did when I was a kid.

702
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 1: I don't know if I.

703
00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:50,200
Speaker 4: Can afford it, because course they're so expensive, but like,

704
00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:53,160
Speaker 4: I just want to do it once just to like,

705
00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:55,920
Speaker 4: I don't know, going back and like doing things that

706
00:37:55,960 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 4: I used to love and just kind of have not

707
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:02,160
Speaker 4: done anymore. Same with like music stuff, Like I literally

708
00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:06,680
Speaker 4: have a keyboard, I just don't use it. So I

709
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:08,840
Speaker 4: guess doing all of these things that I've wanted to

710
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:09,799
Speaker 4: do for so long.

711
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:15,880
Speaker 2: Well, so then it sounds like you it sounds like

712
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:19,839
Speaker 2: just leave this guy alone and go figure out your

713
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 2: own life.

714
00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, And that's the advice I've definitely been getting

715
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:30,040
Speaker 4: I again think it's just like really hard with emotions

716
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:32,799
Speaker 4: and like especially if he like decides he wants to

717
00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:35,600
Speaker 4: work it out and he's willing to like work on

718
00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:38,040
Speaker 4: these things that I've been asking for for like the

719
00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:43,320
Speaker 4: whole relationship, Like I'm I want to be with that person,

720
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:43,920
Speaker 4: like because that.

721
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:45,759
Speaker 2: Is his I don't know, you know, I don't know

722
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:48,360
Speaker 2: if the look if the guy can't I'm trying to

723
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:50,040
Speaker 2: think about this. I mean, if the guy came to

724
00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:52,480
Speaker 2: te back to you and was like, hey, I know

725
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:54,600
Speaker 2: there's been some problems and I want to work it out.

726
00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:56,920
Speaker 2: I don't I don't know. I don't know this. This

727
00:38:56,960 --> 00:38:58,120
Speaker 2: is why I'm not going to tell you what to

728
00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:01,640
Speaker 2: do because okay, and listen, here's the thing. People are

729
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:04,480
Speaker 2: listening to this are gonna be like, you know, fuck you.

730
00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:06,800
Speaker 2: But and then another person's going to comment under the

731
00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 2: person who wrote fuck you. Then they're gonna write noble

732
00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:12,480
Speaker 2: fuck you. And everyone's gonna argue. But at the end

733
00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:13,920
Speaker 2: at the but at the end of the day, not

734
00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:17,319
Speaker 2: me or anyone listening to that knows what's gonna make

735
00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:24,880
Speaker 2: you or this guy happy. Yes, but I got a

736
00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:30,799
Speaker 2: hunch that you guys should just go live your own

737
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:32,400
Speaker 2: fucking lives.

738
00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:36,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, for sure. And then like we did an accident,

739
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:39,360
Speaker 4: will check in like one weekend where like he called

740
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:41,480
Speaker 4: me and I was like, oh no, it isn't an emergency,

741
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:43,840
Speaker 4: and he's like, I'm doing really well, and I was like,

742
00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:46,799
Speaker 4: that's good. I like to hear that. So yeah, maybe

743
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:49,600
Speaker 4: you're right. Maybe that's like a sign that like he's

744
00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 4: doing well, I'm doing well, Like we can both do well,

745
00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:54,480
Speaker 4: just separately.

746
00:39:56,160 --> 00:40:00,239
Speaker 2: What's your name again, Jade? Jade? Is there any else

747
00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:01,680
Speaker 2: you want to say to the people of the computer

748
00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:02,239
Speaker 2: before we go?

749
00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:13,000
Speaker 4: I don't know. Just listen to your gut instincts and be.

750
00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:14,080
Speaker 3: True to yourself.

751
00:40:17,520 --> 00:40:18,640
Speaker 2: I have a good night, Jane.

752
00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:20,640
Speaker 4: Thanks you do.

753
00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:26,160
Speaker 2: For some reason, whenever I ask people, uh, if there's

754
00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:28,400
Speaker 2: anything else they want to say, they always end with advice.

755
00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:33,399
Speaker 2: Why I why not? Like I want a good next Hey,

756
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:35,200
Speaker 2: if you're listening to this and you ever call in

757
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:37,160
Speaker 2: and you ever hear me, say, do you have anything

758
00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:38,720
Speaker 2: else you want to say to the people of the computer,

759
00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:41,960
Speaker 2: don't do it. Don't don't give any advice, say something,

760
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:45,560
Speaker 2: do something cool, like even just like a give me

761
00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:48,839
Speaker 2: like a go Ravens or something. I don't know. There's

762
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:55,840
Speaker 2: too much advice on this show. Uh more post call thoughts.

763
00:40:56,280 --> 00:41:00,359
Speaker 2: Uh Look, people listening to this are gonna have their

764
00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:05,080
Speaker 2: ideas of no, you shouldn't do this, and you shouldn't

765
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:08,560
Speaker 2: do that, and I have my ideas of that as well.

766
00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:11,360
Speaker 2: But I think the one thing, after talking to so

767
00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:16,759
Speaker 2: many different people and both onto this show and in

768
00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:22,600
Speaker 2: real life, is that you just is exactly what I said.

769
00:41:23,040 --> 00:41:31,080
Speaker 2: Different things make different people happy, and people's brain chemistries

770
00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:36,840
Speaker 2: are wired differently, and I sort of think that, you know,

771
00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 2: if I'm on the phone with somebody and I'm talking

772
00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:41,960
Speaker 2: to them for a long time, I can, you know,

773
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:45,880
Speaker 2: you can get an idea of maybe how they are wired,

774
00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:49,640
Speaker 2: and once you have that information, form an idea of

775
00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:55,440
Speaker 2: what might work well for them based on the information

776
00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:57,959
Speaker 2: you have about them as a person. But then also

777
00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:00,920
Speaker 2: you got you got people who are being like, well, no,

778
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:04,319
Speaker 2: they're brainwashed, and sometimes they are and sometimes they are.

779
00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:06,279
Speaker 2: And I guess what I'm trying to say is that

780
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:11,799
Speaker 2: I don't know anything. All right, Hey guys, it's Lyle here.

781
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:15,040
Speaker 2: I'm about to do some ad reads. But if you're

782
00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:18,319
Speaker 2: a premium member of the podcast, you will not hear them.

783
00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:22,040
Speaker 2: Premium members, or gek Legends, as I like to call them,

784
00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:26,120
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785
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Speaker 2: They also get bonus episodes, recordings for my live shows,

786
00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:33,200
Speaker 2: members only streams, and they support my ability to keep

787
00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:36,000
Speaker 2: doing this show for a long time, do it in cooler,

788
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:40,720
Speaker 2: more interesting places, and also eat food, which is important.

789
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:42,759
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Speaker 2: go to Therapy Gecko dot supercast dot com to become

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00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:50,960
Speaker 2: a gek Legend, or find the link in the episode description.

792
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:53,920
Speaker 2: All right, let's do some ads.

793
00:42:55,640 --> 00:42:55,799
Speaker 1: Hi.

794
00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:56,279
Speaker 2: Who's this?

795
00:42:57,360 --> 00:42:57,600
Speaker 3: Justin?

796
00:42:58,160 --> 00:42:58,840
Speaker 2: Justin? What's going on?

797
00:42:59,000 --> 00:42:59,120
Speaker 3: Man?

798
00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:03,040
Speaker 2: It's going alright? I actually feel pretty good right now

799
00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:06,680
Speaker 2: in this moment. Dude, it's okay if it's not. But

800
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:09,080
Speaker 2: is there anything in particular you want to talk about?

801
00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:14,719
Speaker 3: Well? Nothing, nothing in particular. Just been listening to the

802
00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:18,759
Speaker 3: stream and this is the first time I caught alive.

803
00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:19,960
Speaker 3: One figured i'd call in.

804
00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:23,640
Speaker 2: Well do you say? Your name is Jason?

805
00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:23,880
Speaker 3: Right?

806
00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:29,560
Speaker 2: Justin? Okay, But you know what, I'm not. I'm not

807
00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:34,279
Speaker 2: even gonna I'm not gonna try anymore. Just Jay, What's

808
00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:36,120
Speaker 2: what are you doing right now? What did you do today?

809
00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:39,360
Speaker 3: What did I do today? I went to work today

810
00:43:39,719 --> 00:43:43,719
Speaker 3: and took a nap, took a good nap today, and

811
00:43:44,360 --> 00:43:45,160
Speaker 3: it's been about it.

812
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:46,400
Speaker 2: What do you do for?

813
00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:47,320
Speaker 3: What do you do today?

814
00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:52,160
Speaker 2: I'm a plumber, You're a plumber. What doll I do?

815
00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:58,279
Speaker 2: Let's see what the fuck did I do today? I

816
00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:01,520
Speaker 2: woke up, I edited something, I spent a lot of

817
00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:10,040
Speaker 2: time setting up my little super cast page thing. I

818
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:16,920
Speaker 2: ate some chicken and rice. I had deep existential thoughts

819
00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:20,520
Speaker 2: about if I need to change the way that I

820
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:26,680
Speaker 2: live every day, and then I abandoned those thoughts because

821
00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:32,719
Speaker 2: they would have required me to overhaul my brain chemistry

822
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:36,560
Speaker 2: and habitual nature to make a change, which is too

823
00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:42,040
Speaker 2: intimidating a task to even begin to face.

824
00:44:42,160 --> 00:44:43,319
Speaker 1: And I.

825
00:44:45,040 --> 00:44:50,080
Speaker 2: Looked at Reddit instead and saw that Timothy Shalome and

826
00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:56,279
Speaker 2: Kylie Jenner are now dating, and that me and me

827
00:44:56,440 --> 00:45:00,360
Speaker 2: looking at that image is a part of my life forever.

828
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:03,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, it's a shame when things like that

829
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:05,440
Speaker 3: come up and then you're just kind of stuck with

830
00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:06,840
Speaker 3: that burned into your brain.

831
00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:11,680
Speaker 2: You know, Yeah, what's the last image that you feel

832
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:16,560
Speaker 2: like you saw that really burned in your brain? Oh?

833
00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:20,040
Speaker 3: My wife, he's watching the vander Pump Show, and it

834
00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:26,359
Speaker 3: drives me absolutely insane. So every rules, yeah, I just yeah,

835
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:29,640
Speaker 3: I can't see that kind of stuff. Just yeah to me,

836
00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:30,799
Speaker 3: it's brain rot, you.

837
00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:34,200
Speaker 2: Know, yeah, yeah, my just I think my sister used

838
00:45:34,239 --> 00:45:37,319
Speaker 2: to watch it. My fam My sister and my dad

839
00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:43,200
Speaker 2: are both very into reality TV. But I've never been

840
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:45,919
Speaker 2: a fan. What what was the latest thing you saw

841
00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:47,600
Speaker 2: on vander Pump Rules.

842
00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:53,960
Speaker 3: It was like some dudes he's like talking with the

843
00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 3: lady about some wine or some shit like that, and

844
00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:01,680
Speaker 3: I said, can you turn there's ship off? And she

845
00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:03,960
Speaker 3: goes to be a little nicer about it.

846
00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:08,840
Speaker 2: That's that's That's an episode of that is exactly what

847
00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:10,960
Speaker 2: an episode of vander Pump Rules is like, is some

848
00:46:11,200 --> 00:46:14,640
Speaker 2: lady is talking to some fucking guy about some wine.

849
00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:18,120
Speaker 2: But yet but you know it's funny is when I

850
00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:22,160
Speaker 2: think about these kinds of things, is I would never,

851
00:46:22,280 --> 00:46:26,640
Speaker 2: like you would, I would never watch that show. And

852
00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:28,759
Speaker 2: I'm not saying that like to be cool, because like,

853
00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:32,279
Speaker 2: I would never watch that show, but I respect it

854
00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:39,760
Speaker 2: because thousands and thousands and thousands and thousands and thousands

855
00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:45,880
Speaker 2: of people do watch that show, do find enjoyment in it,

856
00:46:47,080 --> 00:46:51,840
Speaker 2: And that's actually abuse. That's actually inspiring to me, you know.

857
00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:55,360
Speaker 3: I mean, you know, there's there's certain shows in that

858
00:46:56,120 --> 00:46:58,960
Speaker 3: that realm that I would watch, but that is one

859
00:46:59,000 --> 00:47:01,040
Speaker 3: that I just can't get behind. You know, back in

860
00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:05,799
Speaker 3: the day a Jersey Shore, I definitely found myself watching episodes,

861
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:08,000
Speaker 3: but this vander Pump it is just not something I

862
00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:08,760
Speaker 3: can get behind.

863
00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:11,000
Speaker 2: What shows do you watch?

864
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:16,040
Speaker 3: Well, you know, we've been going for a little wholesome lately,

865
00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:18,319
Speaker 3: and I've been watching some Ted Lasso, you know, try

866
00:47:18,360 --> 00:47:21,200
Speaker 3: and uplift my mood and you know, just get some nice,

867
00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:24,520
Speaker 3: nice wholesome feels in What is Ted?

868
00:47:24,640 --> 00:47:26,920
Speaker 2: I keep seeing it? What the hell is Ted?

869
00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:27,239
Speaker 3: Last?

870
00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:29,680
Speaker 2: So? I know it's got that guy in it who's

871
00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 2: in stuff.

872
00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:36,759
Speaker 3: It's it's a guy who's just kind of like a

873
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:40,560
Speaker 3: just a good old guy who was a football coach

874
00:47:40,640 --> 00:47:44,040
Speaker 3: and then he went to coach soccer overseas and someone

875
00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:47,640
Speaker 3: really likes him because he's just, you know, an American

876
00:47:47,719 --> 00:47:51,239
Speaker 3: football coach and knows nothing about soccer and just a

877
00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:53,800
Speaker 3: lot of like cheesy, feel good type stuff in it.

878
00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:57,520
Speaker 2: You know, Okay, is there? Should I watch it?

879
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:04,000
Speaker 3: And it was good right off the bat. I'm slowly

880
00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:06,640
Speaker 3: fading out of it, though I don't know if that's

881
00:48:06,680 --> 00:48:09,359
Speaker 3: what I'm getting stuck back in the scrolling on my home.

882
00:48:10,200 --> 00:48:13,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, scrolling on your phone is compelling. Scrolling on your

883
00:48:13,719 --> 00:48:17,799
Speaker 2: phone is compelling. I was thinking about that. I might

884
00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:19,400
Speaker 2: have talked about this before. But I have a friend

885
00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:26,399
Speaker 2: who told me that he will watch TikTok intentionally, which

886
00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:28,400
Speaker 2: all which blew my mind. And what okay, And what

887
00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:32,359
Speaker 2: I mean by that is when you TV. I'm trying

888
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:34,560
Speaker 2: to go like, I'm trying to get behind, like, what's

889
00:48:34,600 --> 00:48:37,320
Speaker 2: the difference betwet teens spending time watching TV and spending

890
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 2: time scrolling through TikTok? And I think it's about the

891
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:44,640
Speaker 2: intention because you sit down, you pick ted Lasso and

892
00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:48,040
Speaker 2: you sit and you watch and it's like you, You're

893
00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:50,640
Speaker 2: it feels like you when you're watching it, you like

894
00:48:50,800 --> 00:48:54,080
Speaker 2: made that decision to sit down and watch it. Whereas

895
00:48:54,360 --> 00:49:00,120
Speaker 2: you find yourself on TikTok learning the details about with

896
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:05,319
Speaker 2: the Shallomet and Kylie Jenner and you're you're now, you're now,

897
00:49:05,400 --> 00:49:07,360
Speaker 2: you're in this loop that you didn't even you're not

898
00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:10,279
Speaker 2: even you're not behind the wheel of this. But I

899
00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:12,959
Speaker 2: had a friend who said they'll watch TikTok until he'll

900
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:16,120
Speaker 2: be like, I'm blocking out an hour to sit down

901
00:49:16,200 --> 00:49:19,919
Speaker 2: and watch TikTok? Who the fuck does that? You could?

902
00:49:20,120 --> 00:49:22,360
Speaker 2: That actually could be productive. You could sit there. You

903
00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:25,520
Speaker 2: could sit there and take notes. You could take note.

904
00:49:25,560 --> 00:49:27,880
Speaker 2: There's like people there actually is a lot. I mean,

905
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:30,120
Speaker 2: there's a lot of bullshit then you know, Candy Crush,

906
00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:33,479
Speaker 2: Family Guy clip shit. But this is people talking about

907
00:49:33,760 --> 00:49:35,719
Speaker 2: valuable stuff on there. And if you actually, if you

908
00:49:35,800 --> 00:49:37,960
Speaker 2: sat there and like whatever, took notes or something, you

909
00:49:38,080 --> 00:49:42,279
Speaker 2: actually probably learn something. But that's not how that works really.

910
00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:46,200
Speaker 3: No, Well, I guess it depends on the type of

911
00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:48,160
Speaker 3: scroll and you're doing. I don't normally whip out a

912
00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:51,480
Speaker 3: notepacket paper when I'm getting some deep scrolling in. Yeah,

913
00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:54,000
Speaker 3: that'd be But if I did, I could be really

914
00:49:54,080 --> 00:49:56,040
Speaker 3: gathering some some good information.

915
00:49:57,320 --> 00:50:00,360
Speaker 2: Okay, you watched Ted last, I just watch I just

916
00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:02,240
Speaker 2: watched like Family Guy in south.

917
00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:06,359
Speaker 3: Park, little the classics there.

918
00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:11,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't remember. I don't remember the last time

919
00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:17,120
Speaker 2: I got it. I really got deep into, uh, like

920
00:50:17,200 --> 00:50:24,560
Speaker 2: a drama series or something. There's this one TV one TV.

921
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:27,000
Speaker 3: Show usually just rewatching old shows.

922
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:29,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, wait, what are you? What are you rewatching?

923
00:50:32,120 --> 00:50:35,040
Speaker 3: I'd go to for me, he's always Entourage. Entourage is

924
00:50:35,120 --> 00:50:38,920
Speaker 3: just a classic that I could just throw on. Gotta

925
00:50:38,960 --> 00:50:39,480
Speaker 3: get back in.

926
00:50:40,320 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 2: That's cool. You know what I watched recently this is

927
00:50:42,760 --> 00:50:45,799
Speaker 2: kind of I watched the pilot of Curb Your Enthusiasm

928
00:50:48,440 --> 00:50:51,239
Speaker 2: where he stand up. Yeah, the pilot, the one where

929
00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:53,359
Speaker 2: he's putting on a stand up special. It's pretty good.

930
00:50:54,000 --> 00:50:57,640
Speaker 2: There's this one TV show it's not even really it's

931
00:50:57,680 --> 00:50:59,600
Speaker 2: not even really like a TV show, but this is

932
00:50:59,640 --> 00:51:03,440
Speaker 2: one TV show that I've been showing everyone, like, every

933
00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:05,600
Speaker 2: time I meet a new person, I'll show it to them.

934
00:51:06,920 --> 00:51:09,600
Speaker 2: I found it's a It's the coolest thing I've ever seen.

935
00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:13,279
Speaker 2: It's called Off the Air. I don't know if I've

936
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:16,040
Speaker 2: talked about it on here before, but it's on HBO Max.

937
00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:21,600
Speaker 2: It's an adult swim show and it's this like compilation

938
00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:28,000
Speaker 2: of video art. It's all centered around one theme, so

939
00:51:28,080 --> 00:51:31,719
Speaker 2: there be there'll be like a color episode, and you know,

940
00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:34,520
Speaker 2: ten different artists make videos about color and they're kind

941
00:51:34,560 --> 00:51:38,120
Speaker 2: of collaged together. It's like, if you're an adult swim fan,

942
00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:41,480
Speaker 2: it's like the coolest adult swim thing. Ude.

943
00:51:41,480 --> 00:51:43,960
Speaker 3: Adult swim was one of those things for me. Like

944
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:46,680
Speaker 3: as a kid when you throw that on late night,

945
00:51:46,760 --> 00:51:49,040
Speaker 3: it was like, all right, we're getting into some shit

946
00:51:49,200 --> 00:51:52,920
Speaker 3: right now, Like Robot Chicken comes out around twelve to thirty,

947
00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:54,400
Speaker 3: shit hitting the fan.

948
00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:57,320
Speaker 2: You know, Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's a great It's a

949
00:51:58,080 --> 00:51:59,840
Speaker 2: It used to come on at like four o'clock in

950
00:51:59,840 --> 00:52:02,319
Speaker 2: the morning, but check that out off the air, it's

951
00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:05,839
Speaker 2: on YouTube, it's on HBO. But I'm all right, sore,

952
00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:06,920
Speaker 2: are you going to get a divorce?

953
00:52:09,160 --> 00:52:13,120
Speaker 3: Dude? I've been only married two months now, so probably

954
00:52:13,200 --> 00:52:15,200
Speaker 3: not yet, you know, going to try and ride this

955
00:52:15,320 --> 00:52:15,879
Speaker 3: out for a while.

956
00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:20,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I almost. I'm wondering. I'm like, it's two months

957
00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:24,600
Speaker 2: too soon to get a divorce? Or are you kind

958
00:52:24,600 --> 00:52:26,240
Speaker 2: of cutting it off? I don't think it gets.

959
00:52:26,120 --> 00:52:28,680
Speaker 3: Headline on that. You know, you just kind of know

960
00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:30,480
Speaker 3: like you're either in or you're out.

961
00:52:31,760 --> 00:52:33,000
Speaker 2: Do how do you feel to feel in?

962
00:52:35,040 --> 00:52:37,200
Speaker 3: I'm in, you know. I think that's why I went

963
00:52:37,239 --> 00:52:39,320
Speaker 3: through the whole, you know, marriage process. I think that

964
00:52:39,400 --> 00:52:41,600
Speaker 3: was kind of like the testament to me being in.

965
00:52:41,960 --> 00:52:48,000
Speaker 2: You know, were you one hundred percent sure? I was a.

966
00:52:48,120 --> 00:52:53,360
Speaker 3: Thousand percent sure, but you know, after ten years, you

967
00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:56,160
Speaker 3: know it was it was the right decision. To be made.

968
00:52:56,920 --> 00:52:58,480
Speaker 2: That's fucking cool man. How old are you?

969
00:52:58,680 --> 00:52:58,840
Speaker 1: You know?

970
00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:02,000
Speaker 3: I also biased at all. You know. I have the

971
00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:04,400
Speaker 3: view of, hey, yes, I want to be with this

972
00:53:04,520 --> 00:53:07,200
Speaker 3: girl for the rest of my life. But I don't

973
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:13,000
Speaker 3: fully agree with I think marriage is or or what

974
00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:17,160
Speaker 3: it is now. It's not about just being with that person.

975
00:53:17,239 --> 00:53:20,200
Speaker 3: It's a whole money grab from all these people, like, oh,

976
00:53:20,280 --> 00:53:22,520
Speaker 3: you got to buy this ring, you gotta buy that ring,

977
00:53:22,600 --> 00:53:24,719
Speaker 3: you gotta rent this place, you got to spend all

978
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:28,480
Speaker 3: this money. You know, crazy craziness.

979
00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:31,399
Speaker 2: But is your wife? Is your wife into that? Does

980
00:53:31,480 --> 00:53:35,760
Speaker 2: your wife? Does your wife want like a real dream

981
00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:38,400
Speaker 2: wedding and a nice ring and just does she like

982
00:53:38,640 --> 00:53:39,320
Speaker 2: nice things?

983
00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:45,000
Speaker 3: Well, it wasn't about that, like the nice ring and stuff.

984
00:53:45,040 --> 00:53:45,640
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say.

985
00:53:45,640 --> 00:53:48,959
Speaker 3: I would say it was more just you know, having

986
00:53:49,040 --> 00:53:51,719
Speaker 3: that special day together with us and our family. You know.

987
00:53:52,000 --> 00:53:55,160
Speaker 3: I think that's that's the which. You know, that part

988
00:53:55,239 --> 00:53:59,000
Speaker 3: I did enjoy, But all this time and effort leading

989
00:53:59,120 --> 00:54:03,359
Speaker 3: up to it, boom gone like that. Yeah, happy face,

990
00:54:03,600 --> 00:54:04,200
Speaker 3: the day is over.

991
00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:07,000
Speaker 2: You seem happy? Sort of?

992
00:54:09,320 --> 00:54:11,680
Speaker 3: I am. I'm pretty happy most of the time, but

993
00:54:12,280 --> 00:54:16,480
Speaker 3: that comes with a certain days, you know, marriage or not.

994
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:19,000
Speaker 3: I think that's just a personal thing I deal with.

995
00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:23,280
Speaker 3: How old are you, man, I'm twenty nine.

996
00:54:23,680 --> 00:54:24,560
Speaker 2: Twenty okay cool?

997
00:54:24,880 --> 00:54:25,960
Speaker 3: How old are you? Cool? Cool?

998
00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:29,880
Speaker 2: I'm twenty five, okay cool.

999
00:54:35,400 --> 00:54:40,839
Speaker 3: But yeah, that's uh, that's about it. You know, I've

1000
00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:44,840
Speaker 3: been dealing with life and you know, taking it, taking

1001
00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:48,919
Speaker 3: it day by day, you know what I mean, trying

1002
00:54:48,960 --> 00:54:50,160
Speaker 3: to make the most of each day.

1003
00:54:51,280 --> 00:54:53,840
Speaker 2: That's cool. Did you what did you? Did you?

1004
00:54:54,320 --> 00:54:54,560
Speaker 1: All right?

1005
00:54:54,560 --> 00:54:55,840
Speaker 2: I allow to see this before we go. Do you

1006
00:54:55,960 --> 00:54:57,799
Speaker 2: do you feel like you made the most of this day?

1007
00:55:00,719 --> 00:55:02,680
Speaker 3: Uh? Well, it took like a three hour nap, so

1008
00:55:02,719 --> 00:55:07,040
Speaker 3: I would say no. But I was kept feeling pretty sick.

1009
00:55:07,040 --> 00:55:08,719
Speaker 3: I think I got a chest infection. I went to

1010
00:55:08,800 --> 00:55:10,640
Speaker 3: a concert and I think I got sick there.

1011
00:55:11,680 --> 00:55:12,640
Speaker 2: What concert.

1012
00:55:14,160 --> 00:55:14,200
Speaker 1: Was?

1013
00:55:14,760 --> 00:55:14,880
Speaker 3: Wait?

1014
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:18,799
Speaker 2: Let me guess, guess, Let me guess. I was gonna ask.

1015
00:55:19,000 --> 00:55:21,160
Speaker 2: Was it? Was it a ted Lasso concert?

1016
00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:28,920
Speaker 3: No, it was about a ted Lasso concert. It was

1017
00:55:29,080 --> 00:55:32,879
Speaker 3: some forty one simple plan in the offspring. It was sick?

1018
00:55:34,600 --> 00:55:37,680
Speaker 2: Well, what was it worth getting sick?

1019
00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:43,719
Speaker 3: Oh? I went with my brothers and it was badass.

1020
00:55:44,880 --> 00:55:48,839
Speaker 3: What if you both? What? What if I die? Well,

1021
00:55:48,920 --> 00:55:50,840
Speaker 3: I'll die with a great memory of being at a

1022
00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:51,880
Speaker 3: concert with my brothers.

1023
00:55:52,520 --> 00:55:55,520
Speaker 2: I like this fucking guy. I like this fucking guy.

1024
00:55:56,520 --> 00:56:01,839
Speaker 2: What's I like this guy? Justin? Yeah, okay, all right,

1025
00:56:01,960 --> 00:56:05,719
Speaker 2: see I remember your name. See that's that's actually that

1026
00:56:05,880 --> 00:56:07,480
Speaker 2: that's you want to hear the truth, Justin. I'll only

1027
00:56:07,520 --> 00:56:10,880
Speaker 2: tell I'm actually gonna cut off the broadcast and well,

1028
00:56:10,960 --> 00:56:14,560
Speaker 2: I'll just tell you this. I if I like you,

1029
00:56:14,680 --> 00:56:15,640
Speaker 2: I'll remember your name.

1030
00:56:17,400 --> 00:56:18,440
Speaker 3: Hey, I appreciate that.

1031
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:19,919
Speaker 2: No, I'm kidding.

1032
00:56:19,920 --> 00:56:20,160
Speaker 1: I don't.

1033
00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:20,520
Speaker 2: I don't.

1034
00:56:24,000 --> 00:56:26,399
Speaker 3: You don't like me, I get it, man, It's all good, dude,

1035
00:56:26,480 --> 00:56:28,759
Speaker 3: I don't. I'm still deciding if I like you. I

1036
00:56:28,840 --> 00:56:29,480
Speaker 3: guess too.

1037
00:56:31,320 --> 00:56:33,200
Speaker 2: Well, Jason is going to say to the people of

1038
00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:34,040
Speaker 2: the computer before we.

1039
00:56:34,040 --> 00:56:39,480
Speaker 3: Go, live every day like it's your last, because you

1040
00:56:39,640 --> 00:56:40,919
Speaker 3: never know if you're gonna die.

1041
00:56:44,400 --> 00:56:45,520
Speaker 2: What did you your wife just yet?

1042
00:56:45,600 --> 00:56:45,759
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1043
00:56:45,760 --> 00:56:47,080
Speaker 2: I just heard your wife yell something.

1044
00:56:48,440 --> 00:56:49,439
Speaker 3: What did you say?

1045
00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:51,279
Speaker 2: What your wife just yelled something?

1046
00:56:52,360 --> 00:56:54,560
Speaker 3: What you said you took a dapth today like I'm

1047
00:56:54,640 --> 00:56:56,080
Speaker 3: living every day like my last.

1048
00:56:57,760 --> 00:57:02,520
Speaker 2: That's cool, all right. You take take care of Justin.

1049
00:57:02,640 --> 00:57:05,680
Speaker 3: Go go go kill a bird, all right, man, have

1050
00:57:05,760 --> 00:57:06,439
Speaker 3: a good one, dude.

1051
00:57:06,880 --> 00:57:07,319
Speaker 2: Take care.

1052
00:57:10,360 --> 00:57:13,480
Speaker 3: The rep can goes on the line, taking your phone

1053
00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:14,400
Speaker 3: calls every.

1054
00:57:14,320 --> 00:57:17,520
Speaker 2: Night the repcon goes to and his night's teaching you

1055
00:57:17,680 --> 00:57:19,960
Speaker 2: cloud in the middle of your life. But he's not

1056
00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:21,520
Speaker 2: really an expert.