1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:03,600 Speaker 1: Hi, this is Jorlan's Victoria. Thanks so much for listening 2 00:00:03,600 --> 00:00:07,200 Speaker 1: to the podcast and thanks for supporting the ministry. We 3 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 1: believe you're going to have an awesome twenty twenty four, healthy, productive, 4 00:00:11,320 --> 00:00:15,680 Speaker 1: and favor filled. God bless you today and enjoy the message. Well, 5 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:18,800 Speaker 1: God bless you said joy to come into your homes. 6 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:21,560 Speaker 1: We love you, and we know God has great things 7 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:23,959 Speaker 1: in store for each one of you. He rewards the 8 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 1: people that seek after him. I know that's you. You 9 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 1: wouldn't be watching today or you wouldn't have taken time 10 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 1: to come out. But thank you so much, and we're 11 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:33,280 Speaker 1: just believing two thousand and seven, it's going to be 12 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 1: a great year in your life. Amen. I like to 13 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:37,880 Speaker 1: start with something funny each week. And I heard about 14 00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:40,559 Speaker 1: this college professor. He was going to prove to his 15 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:43,320 Speaker 1: class that God wasn't real, And so he said, God, 16 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 1: if you're real, knock me off of this platform, and 17 00:00:46,479 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 1: I'll give you fifteen minutes to do it. With every 18 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 1: minute that went by, he kind of laughed and said, God, 19 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 1: I'm still waiting here. I am the last minute. A 20 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 1: three hundred pound football player walking down the hall heard 21 00:00:57,360 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 1: what he was saying. He came charging into the room, 22 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:02,960 Speaker 1: lowd his shoulder with full force. He hit the professor 23 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:06,320 Speaker 1: and he went flying off the platform. The professor got up, 24 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 1: kind of dazed and confused, that what in the word 25 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:10,960 Speaker 1: you do that for? The football player replied, God said 26 00:01:10,959 --> 00:01:15,640 Speaker 1: he was busy, so he sent me, all right, hold 27 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:18,600 Speaker 1: up your bible. Say it like you mean it. This 28 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:21,320 Speaker 1: is my Bible. I am what it says I am. 29 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:24,399 Speaker 1: I have what it says I have. I can do 30 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 1: what it says I can do. Today I will be 31 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:31,319 Speaker 1: taught the word of God. I boldly confess. My mind 32 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:34,920 Speaker 1: is alert, my heart is receptive. I will never be 33 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:40,119 Speaker 1: the same. I am about to receive the incorruptible, indestructible, 34 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 1: ever living seed of the Word of God. I'll never 35 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 1: be the same, never, never, never, I'll never be the same. 36 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:52,760 Speaker 1: In Jesus' name, God bless you. I want to talk 37 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 1: to you today about how to deal with your weaknesses. 38 00:01:56,520 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: Every one of us has areas that we struggle in. 39 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:02,160 Speaker 1: There may be a lot right with us, but we 40 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 1: all have things that are trying to hold us back. 41 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:08,640 Speaker 1: Things in our character, things in our behavior that just 42 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:12,359 Speaker 1: won't go away. It's a weakness. You could even call 43 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:16,720 Speaker 1: it a persistent temptation. It's something that just keeps coming back, 44 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:20,239 Speaker 1: and it's different with every person. It may be something 45 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 1: seemingly small, being impatient, being jealous, having to control everything, 46 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 1: a lack of focus. Or maybe it's a weakness with 47 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 1: your temper, a weakness with alcohol, a weakness with the 48 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:37,800 Speaker 1: opposite sex, a weakness with what you watch. We all 49 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 1: have things that just won't go away. You can't defeat 50 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:44,080 Speaker 1: a weakness one time and then you're done. It keeps 51 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 1: coming back again and again. And this is where so 52 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 1: many people just give in and say, well, I've tried, 53 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:53,080 Speaker 1: I've failed so many times. This is just who I am. No, 54 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 1: we just have to learn to deal with our weaknesses 55 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 1: in the correct way. And I don't know so much 56 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:01,640 Speaker 1: that we even overcome a weakness as much as we 57 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:05,080 Speaker 1: learn to control them. I know one of my weaknesses 58 00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:09,359 Speaker 1: is being impatient. I've dealt with this practically my whole lifetime, 59 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 1: and I'm pretty good at controlling it now, but I 60 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:15,520 Speaker 1: still have the temptation. I still have a tendency to 61 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 1: want to be impatient. In fact, last week, two lanes 62 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:21,760 Speaker 1: of the freeway were closed, and what normally would take 63 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 1: me five minutes took me thirty minutes. I must have 64 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 1: had a thousand negative thoughts come to my mind, telling me, 65 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 1: get upset, this isn't right, You're going to be late, 66 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 1: this is ruining your day. See, the temptation to be 67 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 1: impatient still comes, and I've learned that's an area where 68 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 1: I have to stay on guard, with prayer, with discipline, 69 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 1: with the right attitude. I know I can control it 70 00:03:45,440 --> 00:03:47,800 Speaker 1: and not let it control me. But what I want 71 00:03:47,840 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 1: you to see is it's not realistic to think I'm 72 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 1: going to get rid of this once and for all 73 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 1: and never have to deal with it again. No, most 74 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 1: of the time, a weakness doesn't totally go away. You 75 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 1: may still we'll have the desire, the temptation may come 76 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 1: your whole lifetime. But our attitude should be I know 77 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 1: I can control this weakness and not let it control me. Now, 78 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:13,840 Speaker 1: I would encourage you to know what your weaknesses are. 79 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 1: You cannot conquer something that you don't confront. You need 80 00:04:18,480 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 1: to examine your life, know the areas that you struggle in. 81 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 1: What are the things that are consistently trying to hold 82 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:30,280 Speaker 1: you back? Do you have persistent temptation in a particular area, 83 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 1: could be with your temper you're constantly tempted to lose 84 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 1: your coup, could be in your morals you're consistently tempted 85 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:41,520 Speaker 1: to be unfaithful, to compromise, or maybe even in your 86 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 1: self image. You have to consistently deal with thoughts of 87 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:49,479 Speaker 1: low self esteem and inferiority. Well, get to know yourself. 88 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 1: Be familiar with your weaknesses, not in a condemning way, 89 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:56,720 Speaker 1: but so you can be aware of what you need 90 00:04:56,760 --> 00:04:59,560 Speaker 1: to work on. I mean, too many people today live 91 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 1: and deny. One of the main reasons why a person 92 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 1: with a drug or alcohol addiction never gets any help 93 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:09,400 Speaker 1: is because they don't think they really have a problem, 94 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 1: and we tend to overlook the obvious and to downplay things. 95 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 1: But if you really want to be your best, you 96 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 1: need to know the areas that you struggle in. Take 97 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:21,920 Speaker 1: an honest look at your life and just call it 98 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 1: like it is. For instance, if every time I see 99 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:29,400 Speaker 1: someone that's more successful than me, instead of being happy 100 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:32,360 Speaker 1: for them, I start to find fault and to be critical, 101 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:34,480 Speaker 1: then I need to be honest enough to say, you 102 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 1: know what, I'm just jealous. That's a weakness. I need 103 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 1: to work on it. If I'm always giving into pure 104 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:43,360 Speaker 1: pressure and just doing what my friends want me to do. 105 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 1: I need to be honest enough to say I'm a 106 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:49,120 Speaker 1: people pleaser. I've got to work on that. I know 107 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:51,720 Speaker 1: people that have a weakness when it comes to sweets. 108 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 1: If they eat one chocolate, they got to eat the 109 00:05:53,880 --> 00:05:57,480 Speaker 1: whole box. A lady told me, Joe, I'm so undisciplined 110 00:05:57,520 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 1: in my spending. If I go to the mall and 111 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:02,520 Speaker 1: see something on sale, I can't help it. I just 112 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:06,480 Speaker 1: buy it. We have to recognize those are all weaknesses. 113 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 1: That's an area you have to stay on guard and 114 00:06:09,279 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 1: really fight the good fight of faith and understand you 115 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:15,760 Speaker 1: are not a bad person just because you struggle with something. 116 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 1: We all have things to deal with. Don't sit there 117 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 1: feeling condemned, thinking, man, if they only knew what I 118 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 1: struggled with. No, I don't know of too many perfect people, 119 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:30,359 Speaker 1: just myself and Johnny, and lately I've been having my 120 00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:34,600 Speaker 1: doubts about him. But when I say, know what your 121 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 1: weakness is are, it's not so you'll feel bad about yourself, 122 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 1: but rather this is an area I know I need 123 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:42,039 Speaker 1: to work on. This is an area where I have 124 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 1: to stay on guard. One of the main keys to 125 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 1: controlling a weakness. A key to overcoming temptation is you 126 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:52,479 Speaker 1: have to learn to pray ahead of time to not 127 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:55,760 Speaker 1: give in to that temptation. That's what the scripture says 128 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:59,479 Speaker 1: here Matthew twenty six, forty one. The spirit is willing, 129 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:03,599 Speaker 1: but the flesh is weak. Pray that you don't come 130 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:08,440 Speaker 1: into the temptation. Notice the spirit is willing. That means 131 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:12,040 Speaker 1: we all have good intentions. I have no doubt. If 132 00:07:12,080 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 1: you could, you'd give up that addiction, you give up 133 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:18,240 Speaker 1: a bad attitude, you'd give up being impatient. We all 134 00:07:18,280 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 1: want to do what's right down in here. But it's 135 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:24,280 Speaker 1: not enough to just have the desire. It's saying you 136 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 1: have to pray so that your spirit man will become 137 00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 1: strong in that area. You have to get your inner 138 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:34,240 Speaker 1: man stronger than your outer man. And the only way 139 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:37,480 Speaker 1: that's going to happen is through prayer. It's through asking 140 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 1: God to help you. This means if you have a 141 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 1: weakness with your temper, then you need to pray every 142 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 1: morning before you leave the house. God, I'm asking you 143 00:07:47,400 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 1: to help me not get upset, help me to not 144 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:54,120 Speaker 1: give in to the temptation to lose my core. See, 145 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:57,720 Speaker 1: don't wait until you're already in the situation. Your emotions 146 00:07:57,760 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 1: are running high, everything's out of Contrykra. The key is 147 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:04,040 Speaker 1: to pray ahead of time. You've got to get your 148 00:08:04,080 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 1: inner man built up. Maybe you struggle with depression discouragement 149 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:10,640 Speaker 1: where you can't wait till you've been depressed three days 150 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 1: before you decide to ask God to help you. Now 151 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 1: stay on the offensive on your good days, when you're happy, 152 00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:19,600 Speaker 1: when you're encouraged. You need to be praying God, help 153 00:08:19,680 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 1: me to control my thought life, help me to resist 154 00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:27,240 Speaker 1: the temptation to dwell on negative, discouraging thoughts. When you 155 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:31,000 Speaker 1: do that, you're building your inner man up. For instance, 156 00:08:31,040 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 1: if you know every Monday tends to be a more 157 00:08:34,360 --> 00:08:37,440 Speaker 1: difficult day for you at the office, You've got more 158 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:40,560 Speaker 1: to do and your traffic is worse, and normally you 159 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:43,640 Speaker 1: come home more stressed out, you tend to be short 160 00:08:43,679 --> 00:08:46,560 Speaker 1: with your family, then you need to pray ahead of 161 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:50,360 Speaker 1: time on Thursday, on Friday, on Saturday. God, I know 162 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:54,000 Speaker 1: Monday's about to roll around and that same temptation to 163 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 1: be stressed and uptight is going to come. So I'm 164 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:58,720 Speaker 1: asking you right now in advance, to give me the 165 00:08:58,760 --> 00:09:01,440 Speaker 1: grace to resist it, give me the strength to stay 166 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:06,440 Speaker 1: in peace. What's happening. You're strengthening your spirit man. Remember, 167 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:09,600 Speaker 1: the spirit is willing, the flesh is weak. If you 168 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:12,559 Speaker 1: can get your spirit man built up to where it's 169 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:16,000 Speaker 1: stronger than that temptation, then you will be much more 170 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 1: likely to overcome. Now, I'm not saying the temptation won't come, 171 00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:23,920 Speaker 1: but because you took time to pray, because you acknowledge God, 172 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 1: he will give you the strength to not give into it. 173 00:09:27,960 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 1: This is just what Jesus did when he was about 174 00:09:30,360 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 1: to be crucified. He knew what was up ahead, He 175 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:36,400 Speaker 1: knew there were difficult days, how he was going to 176 00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:39,280 Speaker 1: be mocked and ridiculed. So what did he do. He 177 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:43,000 Speaker 1: took time to pray. He said, Father, if you will 178 00:09:43,200 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 1: take this cup away from me, but not my will, 179 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 1: your will be done. Notice he was asking his father 180 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:53,960 Speaker 1: for his help. Here he was the son of God, 181 00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 1: yet he was saying, God, I can't do this on 182 00:09:57,120 --> 00:10:00,760 Speaker 1: my own. I'm tempted to give in. To not go 183 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:05,080 Speaker 1: through with it, God, I need your strength. The scripture says, 184 00:10:05,559 --> 00:10:10,080 Speaker 1: after he prayed, an angel came and strengthened him. In 185 00:10:10,120 --> 00:10:13,200 Speaker 1: other words, God heard his prayer and gave him the 186 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:16,400 Speaker 1: strength and the power he needed to not give in 187 00:10:16,440 --> 00:10:19,120 Speaker 1: to that temptation. God will do the same thing for 188 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:21,959 Speaker 1: each one of us. If you'll pray ahead of time, 189 00:10:22,280 --> 00:10:26,199 Speaker 1: God will give you supernatural strength to overcome. But too 190 00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:29,239 Speaker 1: often we try to do things in our own ability. 191 00:10:29,640 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 1: I've had people tell me, Joel, I'm trying to break 192 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:35,080 Speaker 1: this bad habit. I'm determined, I'm persistent, but I just 193 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:39,920 Speaker 1: keep giving in no will, power and determination alone are 194 00:10:39,920 --> 00:10:43,320 Speaker 1: not enough. If desire was all we needed, we would 195 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 1: all be free. You got to start asking God for 196 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:49,880 Speaker 1: his help every day. Pray about the areas you struggle in. 197 00:10:50,160 --> 00:10:53,760 Speaker 1: Pray about that temper, Pray about a negative attitude, Pray 198 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:57,120 Speaker 1: about a critical spirit. Ask God to help you not 199 00:10:57,280 --> 00:11:00,839 Speaker 1: give in to that temptation. I was talking to a 200 00:11:00,920 --> 00:11:04,480 Speaker 1: high school student. She told how she does very well 201 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:07,240 Speaker 1: in school all through the year. It's very smart, she 202 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 1: makes good grades. But she said, Joel, every time finals 203 00:11:10,800 --> 00:11:13,920 Speaker 1: come around, it seems like I just panic. I get 204 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 1: all up tight, and I can't remember the things I've studied. 205 00:11:17,360 --> 00:11:20,520 Speaker 1: It's just pulling my grades down. I told her what 206 00:11:20,559 --> 00:11:23,800 Speaker 1: I'm telling you today, you need to start praying right now, 207 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:26,800 Speaker 1: a couple of months in advance. God, I'm asking you 208 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:30,199 Speaker 1: to help me resist that temptation to panic, to get 209 00:11:30,280 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 1: up tight. God, I'm asking you to bring back to 210 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 1: my memory everything that I've studied, give me clarity of thought. See, 211 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:39,320 Speaker 1: you've got to learn to pray ahead of time, get 212 00:11:39,360 --> 00:11:42,280 Speaker 1: your inner man built up. I know an area that 213 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:45,079 Speaker 1: I struggle in is it's easy for me to get 214 00:11:45,280 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 1: up tight and to feel pressured. This is a persistent temptation, 215 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:52,440 Speaker 1: especially toward the end of the week when I'm going 216 00:11:52,480 --> 00:11:54,520 Speaker 1: to be preparing my sermon. Of course, I want it 217 00:11:54,559 --> 00:11:56,600 Speaker 1: to be good, I want it to be helpful. And 218 00:11:56,640 --> 00:12:00,120 Speaker 1: so every week when Thursday or Friday rolls around, I 219 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:04,319 Speaker 1: can feel this same temptation to be pressured, to be stressed, 220 00:12:04,640 --> 00:12:06,800 Speaker 1: to not have the joy and peace that I should have. 221 00:12:07,400 --> 00:12:09,720 Speaker 1: And I didn't really realize it was happening just the 222 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:13,640 Speaker 1: way it was. One day, Victoria said something out of 223 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:15,640 Speaker 1: the blue. She said, boy Joel, toward the end of 224 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 1: the week, you sure do bring a lot of pressure 225 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:20,800 Speaker 1: into the house. And that day it was like a 226 00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:24,400 Speaker 1: light turned on. I thought, she is exactly right. I'm 227 00:12:24,440 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 1: allowing myself to get up tight and stressed, and I'm 228 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:29,880 Speaker 1: not going to live this way. And so I started 229 00:12:29,880 --> 00:12:33,400 Speaker 1: praying ahead of time early in the week. God, help 230 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:36,880 Speaker 1: me resist that temptation. Help me to not get stressed 231 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:40,920 Speaker 1: and uptight. I started making plans on Monday, on Tuesday, 232 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:43,720 Speaker 1: on Wednesday, to enjoy the rest of the week, to 233 00:12:43,800 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 1: be calm, to be relaxed. Every morning, Father, thank you 234 00:12:47,760 --> 00:12:50,079 Speaker 1: that your yoke is easy and your burden is light. 235 00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:52,960 Speaker 1: Thank you that I have a calm and relax, easy 236 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:56,760 Speaker 1: going attitude. Do you know today I hardly ever get stressed. 237 00:12:56,920 --> 00:12:59,440 Speaker 1: I don't even worry about it, and sure the temptation 238 00:12:59,600 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 1: still comes. This is something I've got to do on 239 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:07,240 Speaker 1: a regular basis. I found some weaknesses will not go away. 240 00:13:07,920 --> 00:13:11,000 Speaker 1: I believe God even leaves us with certain things, so 241 00:13:11,120 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 1: we'll always have to depend on him. So I can't 242 00:13:14,040 --> 00:13:16,040 Speaker 1: just say, well I beat it one time, that's it. No. 243 00:13:16,200 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 1: I know still every day in the morning, God helped 244 00:13:18,800 --> 00:13:22,160 Speaker 1: me to resist that temptation to be stressed. Something we 245 00:13:22,240 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 1: have to do on a regular basis needs to be 246 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:28,560 Speaker 1: an ongoing process. We've all heard the same We're only 247 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:32,559 Speaker 1: as strong as our weakest link. Normally that's talking about 248 00:13:32,559 --> 00:13:36,679 Speaker 1: a team, but it's also true even individually. You can 249 00:13:36,679 --> 00:13:40,160 Speaker 1: be a kind, loving person. You can control your temper, 250 00:13:40,760 --> 00:13:45,320 Speaker 1: be disciplined, be focused, and yet you struggle with being jealous, 251 00:13:45,920 --> 00:13:49,920 Speaker 1: or you struggle with low self esteem. That's a weak link. 252 00:13:50,480 --> 00:13:53,280 Speaker 1: And I found most of the times it's not the 253 00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 1: big things that keep people back in life, it's just 254 00:13:55,960 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 1: the small things. I would encourage you to find your 255 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:04,040 Speaker 1: weakest links and start really praying and asking God to 256 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:07,560 Speaker 1: help you come up higher in those areas. Many times, 257 00:14:07,640 --> 00:14:12,000 Speaker 1: if you'll make a small adjustment, correct a wrong attitude, 258 00:14:12,640 --> 00:14:16,160 Speaker 1: not hang out with a bad influence, develop better eating 259 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:19,560 Speaker 1: or spending habits. Very often, if you'll make a minor 260 00:14:19,720 --> 00:14:24,320 Speaker 1: adjustment and correct your weak link, you'll see a major improvement. 261 00:14:24,680 --> 00:14:27,560 Speaker 1: Your whole life will come up higher, and some of 262 00:14:27,600 --> 00:14:29,880 Speaker 1: you are so close to go into a new level. 263 00:14:30,120 --> 00:14:33,680 Speaker 1: If you'll really get serious and start being diligent to 264 00:14:33,720 --> 00:14:37,600 Speaker 1: control these weaknesses and to overcome that temptation, you'll begin 265 00:14:37,640 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 1: to see great things in your life and understand we're 266 00:14:41,200 --> 00:14:45,760 Speaker 1: always tempted in the area of our greatest weakness. I'm 267 00:14:45,800 --> 00:14:49,360 Speaker 1: not tempted to be lazy, I'm not tempted with drugs 268 00:14:49,360 --> 00:14:52,280 Speaker 1: and alcohol. That's not a weakness for me. But I 269 00:14:52,320 --> 00:14:55,240 Speaker 1: am tempted to be impatient. I am tempted to live 270 00:14:55,320 --> 00:14:59,920 Speaker 1: stressed out. It's because that weakness is an open door 271 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:03,480 Speaker 1: to the enemy. It's what the scripture calls a foothold 272 00:15:03,840 --> 00:15:07,040 Speaker 1: that indicates it may not be something big, just something 273 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:10,320 Speaker 1: small that we haven't been diligent to deal with and 274 00:15:10,360 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 1: get under control. You need to be aware of your 275 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:18,400 Speaker 1: weak links. Any area where you're having persistent temptation, that's 276 00:15:18,440 --> 00:15:21,840 Speaker 1: a weakness, that's a possible foothold. And again I would 277 00:15:21,960 --> 00:15:25,600 Speaker 1: encourage you to really concentrate on those areas because that's 278 00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:28,400 Speaker 1: what's going to hold you back. I know people they're 279 00:15:28,520 --> 00:15:31,600 Speaker 1: very faithful in their marriage, they're excellent in their career, 280 00:15:32,120 --> 00:15:35,840 Speaker 1: they're patient, they're giving, They've got all these great qualities, 281 00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:40,120 Speaker 1: yet they can't control their mouth. They go around saying negative, critical, 282 00:15:40,320 --> 00:15:43,840 Speaker 1: hurtful things. That's the weakness. They really need to focus 283 00:15:43,880 --> 00:15:47,520 Speaker 1: on all these great qualities. Yet we're only as strong 284 00:15:47,600 --> 00:15:50,960 Speaker 1: as our weakest link. The mistake we make many times 285 00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 1: is we just keep strengthening our strengths and we ignore 286 00:15:54,640 --> 00:15:58,560 Speaker 1: our weaknesses. We overlook the problem areas, but where in 287 00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 1: fact those are the things instead of going to try 288 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:03,240 Speaker 1: to take us back. I know in my life I 289 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:07,600 Speaker 1: don't have any problem being focused, being disciplined. That's easy. 290 00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 1: And if I'm not careful, I'll pour all my energy 291 00:16:10,120 --> 00:16:13,200 Speaker 1: into improving in those areas, which is fine. But the 292 00:16:13,240 --> 00:16:16,520 Speaker 1: problem is if I have this weak link that I'm 293 00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:19,200 Speaker 1: not dealing with. All these good qualities are trying to 294 00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:22,720 Speaker 1: take me higher. But this weak link could be jealousy, 295 00:16:22,840 --> 00:16:26,520 Speaker 1: could be in patience, how I treat people, compromise, a 296 00:16:26,560 --> 00:16:30,200 Speaker 1: negative attitude. That weak link is always going to hold 297 00:16:30,280 --> 00:16:33,320 Speaker 1: us back. So important that we deal with our weaknesses. 298 00:16:33,880 --> 00:16:36,960 Speaker 1: This is what David did twice in the Book of Psalms. 299 00:16:37,200 --> 00:16:40,600 Speaker 1: He prayed that God would help him control his mouth. 300 00:16:41,240 --> 00:16:42,880 Speaker 1: I don't know, he must have had a problem with 301 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:46,040 Speaker 1: saying the wrong things. And here David was a great leader. 302 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:50,480 Speaker 1: He was disciplined, focused, wise, yet he knew this simple 303 00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:54,160 Speaker 1: secret that we're only as strong as our weakest link. 304 00:16:54,720 --> 00:16:58,080 Speaker 1: So he prayed in Psalm one one, God set a 305 00:16:58,160 --> 00:17:01,440 Speaker 1: guard over my mouth. Notice he was doing just what 306 00:17:01,480 --> 00:17:06,639 Speaker 1: we're talking about, praying ahead of time. He was basically saying, God, 307 00:17:06,720 --> 00:17:09,240 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna allow this weakness to keep me from 308 00:17:09,240 --> 00:17:12,600 Speaker 1: your best I'm asking you to help me control my tongue. 309 00:17:12,960 --> 00:17:15,479 Speaker 1: Help me to speak words that are loving and kind, 310 00:17:15,760 --> 00:17:19,280 Speaker 1: words that build up, not words that tear down. See, 311 00:17:19,359 --> 00:17:23,679 Speaker 1: don't ignore your weaknesses. Stay on the offensive, and every 312 00:17:23,800 --> 00:17:26,760 Speaker 1: day ask God to help you not give in in 313 00:17:26,840 --> 00:17:31,040 Speaker 1: those areas. Remember we're only as strong as our weakest link. 314 00:17:31,480 --> 00:17:34,240 Speaker 1: Maybe you have a problem with your weight and you 315 00:17:34,640 --> 00:17:37,960 Speaker 1: have a weakness when it comes to overeating. You want 316 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:40,000 Speaker 1: to stop, you know you should, but normally you just 317 00:17:40,040 --> 00:17:43,600 Speaker 1: give in. Then you feel guilty, go around condemned for 318 00:17:43,640 --> 00:17:45,959 Speaker 1: three days, think of well, I've already blown it, might 319 00:17:45,960 --> 00:17:49,679 Speaker 1: as well eat everything in sight. No, start asking God 320 00:17:49,800 --> 00:17:51,679 Speaker 1: to help you. You got to get your inner man 321 00:17:51,920 --> 00:17:55,480 Speaker 1: built up. If you know Friday afternoon they're having a 322 00:17:55,480 --> 00:17:58,120 Speaker 1: big party at the office with cake and ice cream, 323 00:17:58,160 --> 00:18:01,240 Speaker 1: all kinds of desserts. You cannot wait until you're standing 324 00:18:01,359 --> 00:18:04,200 Speaker 1: in front of that feast with your mouth watering to pray, 325 00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:09,240 Speaker 1: God help me. That's too late. You better start Monday morning. God, 326 00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:12,000 Speaker 1: do you know what's coming Friday afternoon. I'm asking you 327 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:14,360 Speaker 1: to help me stand strong. I'm asking you to help 328 00:18:14,400 --> 00:18:17,720 Speaker 1: me resist that temptation. When you pray, what happens. Here 329 00:18:17,760 --> 00:18:21,320 Speaker 1: comes the angel with the strength that you need. Sometimes 330 00:18:21,320 --> 00:18:24,040 Speaker 1: when the food really looks good, you better pray. God 331 00:18:24,119 --> 00:18:26,960 Speaker 1: send me a big angel. This is gonna be serious. 332 00:18:26,960 --> 00:18:31,119 Speaker 1: This may take Gabrael. The way you keep your inner 333 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:34,200 Speaker 1: man strong after you pray is all through the day. 334 00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:38,679 Speaker 1: Meditate on God's word. Don't go around thinking I can't 335 00:18:38,680 --> 00:18:42,560 Speaker 1: do it thoughts. Learn to think power thoughts. In other words, God, 336 00:18:42,600 --> 00:18:44,800 Speaker 1: I pray, God, I ask you for your help. Now 337 00:18:44,840 --> 00:18:47,040 Speaker 1: I just want to declare I can do all things 338 00:18:47,119 --> 00:18:49,960 Speaker 1: through Christ. I am more than a conquer I am 339 00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:53,399 Speaker 1: a victor. Nothing's too hard for me. When you do that, 340 00:18:53,520 --> 00:18:57,040 Speaker 1: your inner man is getting stronger. You're preparing for victory. 341 00:18:57,680 --> 00:18:59,920 Speaker 1: I found a lot of times we'll take a minute 342 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:02,680 Speaker 1: to pray to overcome, but then we'll spend the next 343 00:19:02,680 --> 00:19:05,480 Speaker 1: three days negative. Well, I can't do this. I know 344 00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:08,960 Speaker 1: I'll give in on Friday. Just can't control my appetite. No, 345 00:19:09,119 --> 00:19:12,960 Speaker 1: that's just draining all your strength. That's weakening your inner man. 346 00:19:13,480 --> 00:19:16,920 Speaker 1: Stay in an atmosphere of faith and victory. Keep that 347 00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:21,320 Speaker 1: inside man strong. I think about Peter. He had weaknesses. 348 00:19:21,560 --> 00:19:23,719 Speaker 1: He was kind of hot headed, and from time to 349 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:26,439 Speaker 1: time he would say things that he shouldn't. And one 350 00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:29,879 Speaker 1: day Jesus was talking to his disciples about what was 351 00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:31,760 Speaker 1: going to happen in the days ahead and how he's 352 00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:34,480 Speaker 1: going to be crucified, and he said, you're gonna be 353 00:19:34,560 --> 00:19:37,639 Speaker 1: tempted to deny me and tempted to go the wrong way. 354 00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:40,399 Speaker 1: So here's what you need to do. Pray that you 355 00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:43,680 Speaker 1: don't give into this temptation. And you would think Peter, 356 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:46,640 Speaker 1: since he had some weaknesses, would be the first one 357 00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:48,600 Speaker 1: to say, you're right, Jesus, I'm going to take a 358 00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:52,600 Speaker 1: few extra minutes to pray. But no, Peter was proud. 359 00:19:53,119 --> 00:19:55,879 Speaker 1: He thought he could overcome in his own strength, and 360 00:19:55,920 --> 00:19:58,600 Speaker 1: he said, in effect, Jesus, what are you talking about. 361 00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:01,639 Speaker 1: I don't need to pray. I'm not gonna deny you. 362 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:05,000 Speaker 1: I know better than that. Jesus looked at him and said, Peter, 363 00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:09,080 Speaker 1: before the rooster crows, you'll deny me three times. You 364 00:20:09,119 --> 00:20:11,480 Speaker 1: know the story. He did just that, He not only 365 00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:14,880 Speaker 1: denied Christ, but he started cursing, having a fit, had 366 00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:17,920 Speaker 1: to lead their all guilty and condemned. And I don't know, 367 00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:21,760 Speaker 1: maybe this could have been avoided if Peter would have 368 00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:25,160 Speaker 1: just had a more humble attitude and said, you know what, Jesus, 369 00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:28,439 Speaker 1: You're right, this is gonna be difficult. I can't do 370 00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:30,640 Speaker 1: this in my own strength. I'm gonna take your advice 371 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:33,080 Speaker 1: and ask God to help me. I'm gonna spend an 372 00:20:33,119 --> 00:20:36,920 Speaker 1: extra few minutes in prayer. Think about it. If Jesus 373 00:20:36,960 --> 00:20:40,119 Speaker 1: prayed for what he was facing, if he encouraged us 374 00:20:40,160 --> 00:20:42,960 Speaker 1: to pray that we don't give into temptation. That lets 375 00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:46,000 Speaker 1: me know this should be a part of our everyday life, 376 00:20:46,560 --> 00:20:49,280 Speaker 1: especially in the areas that we struggle in. If you 377 00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:53,040 Speaker 1: struggle with a negative attitude every morning before you leave 378 00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:55,800 Speaker 1: the house, God helped me to not dwell on these 379 00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:59,560 Speaker 1: negative thoughts today. Maybe somebody at works not treating you right. 380 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:02,760 Speaker 1: You're getting all upset and offended well before you leave 381 00:21:02,760 --> 00:21:06,480 Speaker 1: the house each morning. God help me resist the temptation 382 00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:09,200 Speaker 1: to be offended. God help me to keep my cool today. 383 00:21:09,720 --> 00:21:12,879 Speaker 1: When you pray, just imagine, here comes the angel with 384 00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:15,679 Speaker 1: the strength you need. Some of you today are not 385 00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:19,080 Speaker 1: seeing the victory that you should simply because like Peter, 386 00:21:19,720 --> 00:21:22,479 Speaker 1: you're not taking time to ask God for his health. 387 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:25,719 Speaker 1: I know in my life when I consistently give in 388 00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:28,000 Speaker 1: to things that I know are not God's best and 389 00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:31,080 Speaker 1: just lets me know I'm not staying prayed up. I'm 390 00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:34,320 Speaker 1: not keeping my inner man strong enough. Because God has 391 00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:37,160 Speaker 1: promised there's not a temptation that will come to us 392 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:40,719 Speaker 1: that we cannot overcome. I was talking to a gentleman 393 00:21:40,800 --> 00:21:44,400 Speaker 1: last week. He had been addicted to cocaine for eleven years, 394 00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:47,960 Speaker 1: and today he has been cleaned for ninety two days. 395 00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:50,800 Speaker 1: This is as long as he's ever stopped during this 396 00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:55,719 Speaker 1: eleven year period, and I was kind of curious. I 397 00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:58,080 Speaker 1: asked him how he did it. He said, Your first 398 00:21:58,080 --> 00:22:01,040 Speaker 1: thing is I quit telling myself that I couldn't and 399 00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:04,359 Speaker 1: I started saying I can do all things through Christ. 400 00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:07,480 Speaker 1: Second thing is I've got a group of friends to 401 00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:10,600 Speaker 1: support me. They call me and encourage me. And the 402 00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:13,919 Speaker 1: third thing is every day I started praying God, I 403 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:17,359 Speaker 1: need your help. God. I'm asking for your strength. God, 404 00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:21,160 Speaker 1: give me the grace to resist this temptation. He said, 405 00:22:21,240 --> 00:22:23,880 Speaker 1: I've been amazed at how I've been able to resist 406 00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:27,560 Speaker 1: things that I could not resist before. I started praying 407 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:31,399 Speaker 1: what he couldn't do in his own strength for years. Now, 408 00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:33,840 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, he's able to do That's what 409 00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:36,800 Speaker 1: happens when you go to God with your weaknesses. That's 410 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:39,800 Speaker 1: what happens when you take time to pray. Now, I'm 411 00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:42,720 Speaker 1: not saying that that temptation won't come back to him. 412 00:22:43,040 --> 00:22:45,280 Speaker 1: He may have to face it his whole lifetime. But 413 00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:47,840 Speaker 1: I know this, if he stays prayed up, if he 414 00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:50,320 Speaker 1: stays on guard, he will be able to resist it 415 00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:53,080 Speaker 1: and live a life of victory. You can too, but 416 00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:55,879 Speaker 1: you've got to keep your inner man strong. Now, I 417 00:22:55,920 --> 00:23:00,320 Speaker 1: would encourage you. Don't leave the house every morning without it, beast, 418 00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:03,200 Speaker 1: spend it a few minutes of quiet time with God, 419 00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:08,280 Speaker 1: read the scriptures, meditate on his promises, thank him for 420 00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:11,199 Speaker 1: his goodness in your life, and then ask him for 421 00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:13,479 Speaker 1: the help that you need. You got to keep that 422 00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:17,600 Speaker 1: inside man built up. Do you know your inner man 423 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:21,240 Speaker 1: is more important than your outer man. Sometimes we feed 424 00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:24,720 Speaker 1: our outer man three hot meals a day, we only 425 00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:28,160 Speaker 1: feed our inner man one cold snack a week. You're 426 00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:31,399 Speaker 1: not going to defeat persistent temptation. We're not going to 427 00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:35,520 Speaker 1: control our weaknesses if we're not taking steps to actively 428 00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:39,560 Speaker 1: keep our inner man strong. That means drive into work, 429 00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:42,680 Speaker 1: put on a good praise CD all through the day. 430 00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:46,040 Speaker 1: Keep your mind filled with thoughts of hope. Don't go 431 00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:49,200 Speaker 1: around worried, go around thinking about how God has you 432 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:51,200 Speaker 1: in the palm of his hand, and how He has 433 00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:55,280 Speaker 1: great things in store. When you're positive and hopeful, your 434 00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:58,920 Speaker 1: inner man is getting stronger, then when that temptation comes, 435 00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:02,399 Speaker 1: you'll be much more likely to resist it. Why because 436 00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:05,439 Speaker 1: you're preyed up because you took time to honor God. 437 00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:09,439 Speaker 1: The scripture says when you acknowledge God, he will crown 438 00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:13,520 Speaker 1: your efforts with success. Keeping our inner man strong should 439 00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:16,439 Speaker 1: be a priority. That's the only way we will defeat 440 00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:21,920 Speaker 1: persistent temptation. Another important key is don't focus on the temptation. 441 00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:25,960 Speaker 1: Don't let it dominate your thoughts, what you think about 442 00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:29,280 Speaker 1: you're drawn toward. If you've ever been standing at the 443 00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:32,560 Speaker 1: edge of a cliff overlooking it, it's almost like a 444 00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:35,320 Speaker 1: force is wanting to pull you over. Makes me want 445 00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:38,520 Speaker 1: to back up, and that's not unusual. That's a law 446 00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:41,879 Speaker 1: in human psychology. It says we move toward what we 447 00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:45,560 Speaker 1: focus on. The Other day, I was out running way 448 00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:47,639 Speaker 1: off in the distance. I could see a stop sign 449 00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:50,479 Speaker 1: must have been about five hundred yards away, and at 450 00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:52,960 Speaker 1: this time I wasn't even tired. I still had another 451 00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:56,320 Speaker 1: mile to go. But for some reason, I started really 452 00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:59,439 Speaker 1: focusing on the stop sign, and that word stop just 453 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:01,640 Speaker 1: jumped out me in my mind like a blinking red 454 00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:05,840 Speaker 1: light saying stop, stop, stop. And it's funny. The more 455 00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:07,879 Speaker 1: I focused on it, the more I begin to think, 456 00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:10,560 Speaker 1: I'm tired. I don't know if I can keep going. 457 00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:12,920 Speaker 1: I'm win it. I need to stop. I was drawn 458 00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:15,679 Speaker 1: toward what I was thinking about. Finally I realized I 459 00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:18,439 Speaker 1: have to change my focus. You cannot run forward with 460 00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:21,880 Speaker 1: the word stop blinking in your mind. I heard somebody 461 00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:26,600 Speaker 1: say what gets your attention will eventually get you. That 462 00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:30,399 Speaker 1: means you can't control a weakness by going around saying 463 00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:33,080 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna eat these donuts. God, please help me 464 00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:35,280 Speaker 1: not eat these donuts. I confess I will not eat 465 00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:38,359 Speaker 1: these donuts. So if you have donuts on your mind 466 00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:41,000 Speaker 1: all day long, you'll probably down about a dozen of them. 467 00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:45,640 Speaker 1: Change your focus. You won't control the weakness if it's 468 00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:48,600 Speaker 1: dominating your thought life. Yes, pray about it, ask God 469 00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:53,280 Speaker 1: to help you, but then go out thinking positive, hopeful thoughts. Friends, 470 00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:55,480 Speaker 1: you can control your weakness is you don't have to 471 00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:58,640 Speaker 1: let them control. You know the areas that you struggle in, 472 00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:01,240 Speaker 1: and then learn to pray ahead of time for God 473 00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:04,960 Speaker 1: to help you, especially when you know something difficult coming out. 474 00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:08,680 Speaker 1: Remember we're only as strong as our weakest link. Don't 475 00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:12,119 Speaker 1: ignore your weaknesses. Be diligent to come up higher in 476 00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:15,280 Speaker 1: those areas. And if you'll do your part and keep 477 00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:18,240 Speaker 1: your inner man strong and keep asking God for his health, 478 00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:20,800 Speaker 1: then I know God will do his part. He'll not 479 00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:23,760 Speaker 1: only help you resist the temptation. He'll not only send 480 00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:26,160 Speaker 1: the angel with the strength you need, but God will 481 00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:29,240 Speaker 1: pour out his blessings his favor. You'll live the life 482 00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:31,760 Speaker 1: of victory he has in story. Amen, do you receive 483 00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:36,919 Speaker 1: it today? We never like to close our broadcast without 484 00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:39,600 Speaker 1: giving you an opportunity to make Jesus the lord of 485 00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:44,200 Speaker 1: your life. Would you pray with me? Just say, Lord Jesus, 486 00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:49,399 Speaker 1: I'll repent of my sins. Come into my heart. I 487 00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:53,440 Speaker 1: make you my lord and savior. Friends, if you prayed 488 00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:56,800 Speaker 1: that simple prayer, we believe you got born again. Get 489 00:26:56,800 --> 00:27:00,080 Speaker 1: in a good Bible based church, Keep God first. Play. 490 00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:02,800 Speaker 1: He's going to take your places that you've never dreamed of. 491 00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:08,840 Speaker 2: What if what you imagine came to pass what if 492 00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:12,280 Speaker 2: what you asked for turned out greater than what you 493 00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:13,680 Speaker 2: can see? 494 00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:14,960 Speaker 1: What if you. 495 00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:18,040 Speaker 2: Could plan for God's best in your life. 496 00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:21,240 Speaker 1: We all have hopes and dreams and things we're believing for, 497 00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:24,320 Speaker 1: but what God has in store for you is more 498 00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:27,120 Speaker 1: than you can imagine. When you start the year off 499 00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:30,600 Speaker 1: in faith, believing for greater things, that's when God will 500 00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:34,399 Speaker 1: exceed your expectations. We love to send you our twenty 501 00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:37,880 Speaker 1: twenty five More to Imagine planner. You can write down 502 00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:40,840 Speaker 1: your dreams and goals, plus use it for your everyday 503 00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:42,560 Speaker 1: activity and reminders. 504 00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:45,520 Speaker 3: It is so important to feed yourself hope and faith 505 00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:48,960 Speaker 3: on a daily basis. This planner is not only a calendar, 506 00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:52,040 Speaker 3: but it's filled with inspiration and scripture to help you 507 00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:55,160 Speaker 3: stay encouraged and keep believing for what God has put 508 00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:55,800 Speaker 3: in your heart. 509 00:27:56,080 --> 00:27:59,080 Speaker 1: He sees your faithfulness, how you're being your best each day. 510 00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:01,560 Speaker 1: You're going to see the goodness of God in new 511 00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:03,240 Speaker 1: ways in twenty twenty five. 512 00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:06,480 Speaker 2: As you support the ministry this month with a special 513 00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:09,119 Speaker 2: year end gift of any amount, we would like to 514 00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:12,440 Speaker 2: bless you with the More to Imagine twenty twenty five planner. 515 00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:15,680 Speaker 2: With a new planner, you can start each day writing 516 00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:19,440 Speaker 2: down the fresh vision God gives you, whether it's appointments, 517 00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:23,360 Speaker 2: daily tasks, or long term desires in your heart. Let 518 00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:27,399 Speaker 2: each note be a testament to your faith. Included our 519 00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:31,840 Speaker 2: handpicked scriptures end uplifting reflections to empower you as you 520 00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:35,600 Speaker 2: walk this faith journey with Jesus one day at a time. 521 00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:38,320 Speaker 3: Joel and I are standing in faith with you that 522 00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:40,760 Speaker 3: twenty twenty five will be a year of far and 523 00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:42,680 Speaker 3: beyond favor for you and your family. 524 00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:45,480 Speaker 1: We pray for you every day for God's very best, 525 00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:48,240 Speaker 1: and we want to thank you for your prayer and support, 526 00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:52,200 Speaker 1: especially your year in gifts. You are impacting people all 527 00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:55,760 Speaker 1: over the world. Remember you can watch the services online 528 00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:59,920 Speaker 1: every Sunday morning, download our daily podcast, listen on Serious 529 00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:03,760 Speaker 1: We'll watch our YouTube channel and the new Joel Ostein 530 00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:07,560 Speaker 1: streaming television network twenty four hours a day until we 531 00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:10,800 Speaker 1: see you next time. Have a very merry Christmas. 532 00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:13,800 Speaker 2: Be sure to request your copy of the More to 533 00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:18,720 Speaker 2: Imagine twenty twenty five planner today. Visit Joelostein dot com 534 00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:29,920 Speaker 2: or call us toll free