Speaker 1: A couple controversies from the weekend. We'll go with number
Speaker 1: one and I'll start with Dylan Marlow. And Dylan had
Speaker 1: the song.
Speaker 2: Hooding Boys back Home and bear No Song. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So he was playing a festival in Wisconsin and he
Speaker 1: was playing, and then I think Jake go and played
Speaker 1: and somebody else played after that. It's still daylight and
Speaker 1: the TikTok video just shows a massive security guard with
Speaker 1: a beard and he's got his hand grabbing Dylan Marlow's
Speaker 1: shirt and twisting it so that Dylan Marlow doesn't run away,
Speaker 1: and he's walking him out of the festival. And I
Speaker 1: saw it and I think Dylan's a great dude, and
Speaker 1: I thought brilliant, brilliant because it was going so viral
Speaker 1: on TikTok and we're supposed to believe that Dylan Marlow
Speaker 1: got kicked out of a festival that he played himself.
Speaker 1: So we were playing golf yesterday and we texted him
Speaker 1: and it was true. It was real, And so then
Speaker 1: he took the video down because it got so controversial.
Speaker 1: This security guard looked like I told douche back because
Speaker 1: he grabbed another man by the shirt, twisted and like
Speaker 1: walked him out Dylan Marlow had just played the show
Speaker 1: and they like kicked him out of like the sound
Speaker 1: booth area, and so he takes the video down and
Speaker 1: then I have his explanation as to what happened here,
Speaker 1: and this is Dylan Marlo.
Speaker 2: Go ahead, just a.
Speaker 3: Little quick backstory. Me and Dave. We're watching Jake's set
Speaker 3: from in front of house, just trying to stay out
Speaker 3: of the way. And front of house was like this tower,
Speaker 3: so there's like second story, first story of the of
Speaker 3: the booth, and so we're up up top watching and
Speaker 3: probably for ten or twelve minutes, this dude comes up
Speaker 3: and he says, uh, you know, we can't be there.
Speaker 3: So we were like very It started off very politely,
Speaker 3: you know, We're like, hey, we have these I still
Speaker 3: have my wristband on, like these are all access. So
Speaker 3: we kind of went back back and forth of like
Speaker 3: trying to explain to him that we had just played
Speaker 3: and we were trying to just watch Jake set stay
Speaker 3: out of the way, and he kept telling us like
Speaker 3: or I asked, somewhere else we could go then that
Speaker 3: will be out of the way, and kept saying the pit.
Speaker 3: But if we go in the pit during the middle
Speaker 3: of the day. It's kind to probably caused a little
Speaker 3: bit of a scene just because we just got off
Speaker 3: stage and we're in the same clothes. So last thing
Speaker 3: I want to do is try to make a scene
Speaker 3: during Jaco and set, because that, to me, is disrespectful
Speaker 3: during his set. So uh, after that, there was definitely
Speaker 3: a few heated words exchange to that guy. I just
Speaker 3: for what I believe in, what I'm trying to, like,
Speaker 3: get out there push the message. This isn't like the
Speaker 3: message I'm trying to push for myself or to anybody.
Speaker 1: And so it's like, you know what, And I went
Speaker 1: to church and I thought about it, and I took
Speaker 1: the video down. But this dude, the security guy, looks
Speaker 1: like a total douchebag. Now, you don't grab another adult
Speaker 1: man like that, especially one that has every credential. What
Speaker 1: happened was from this is me taking all my experiences
Speaker 1: around this type of guy who gets a little bit
Speaker 1: of power and then all of a sudden is the
Speaker 1: balancer of the whole festival. This is what I think
Speaker 1: happened based on experiences I've seen. The security guy goes, hey,
Speaker 1: you guys got to get out of there. Dylan goes,
Speaker 1: we don't because we have backstage passes. Well, security guys
Speaker 1: embarrassed because he just said to one of the artists,
Speaker 1: you got to get out of there, and also is
Speaker 1: like a big mask he'll do with a big beard,
Speaker 1: and he's like, I said get out of there. And
Speaker 1: Dylan's like, oh, we don't have to get out of here.
Speaker 1: So security guard now he's going to be like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get you out of here. Even though he
Speaker 1: knows he's wrong, he still wants to enforce the rule
Speaker 1: that he said because he's the guy with the power,
Speaker 1: not the person who's up. And so he grabs him
Speaker 1: by the shirt and other people have it up and
Speaker 1: you can hear as Jaco wants play, he's like Dylan
Speaker 1: Marlowe as the security guys walking him out.
Speaker 2: Dylan wasn't drunk or anything.
Speaker 1: Seems like that security guy seem like the biggest douchebag
Speaker 1: in the world who got a little bit of power
Speaker 1: and was using it and abusing it.
Speaker 2: I would have taken it down if I was Dylan.
Speaker 1: I thought it was such a good thing to post,
Speaker 1: meaning I thought it was a bit.
Speaker 4: Oh that's why you said brilliant.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she thought it was brilliant.
Speaker 1: I thought because George Bursch, who sings Zoo listens Cowboys songs.
Speaker 1: I was with him playing golf yesterday and he was like,
Speaker 1: you said that Dylan thing on TikTok, and I was like, yeah, brilliant.
Speaker 1: He goes, man, I wish I was good at that.
Speaker 1: I said that was awesome, Like, who knew that would
Speaker 1: catch on? And so he texted him. He's like, no,
Speaker 1: wasn't it. He goes, and I'm taking it down And
Speaker 1: then he posted that after he took it down.
Speaker 5: Wow, I love the we he said he went to church. Yeah,
Speaker 5: thought about it, take it down.
Speaker 2: I like that.
Speaker 1: That kind of guy, that security guard. I hate that
Speaker 1: kind of guy. You got a little bit of power.
Speaker 1: It's like the guy working outside the club, got a
Speaker 1: little bit of power. Don't let it go to your head.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I wonder what was up with that.
Speaker 2: He was like a jack dude too, with the big beard.
Speaker 4: You know, why can't you just say, oh, you've got
Speaker 4: all your credentials? Cool? Sorry my bad.
Speaker 1: He had him all on. He had his wristband on
Speaker 1: still because he was in his bus when he was
Speaker 1: doing that. Yeah, it's infuriate, infuriating, in fury in my
Speaker 1: tooth is still gone, dude, dentist vacation.
Speaker 2: Oh that's right, I infuriating.
Speaker 4: I didn't hear anything.
Speaker 1: Sometimes this morning would do the child infuriating. I do
Speaker 1: this and maybe you don't hear it, but I do
Speaker 1: hear it. Yeah, Okay, that's one controversy. The second one,
Speaker 1: so Josh Ross has I guess this song just went
Speaker 1: number one.
Speaker 2: He has a song single again. Are you familiar with
Speaker 2: the amy.
Speaker 4: Yes, but I cannot sing it to you right now
Speaker 4: because all I have in my head is seares to
Speaker 4: them boys back Home.
Speaker 1: Okay, fair enough, single again, single logat whatever. It's number
Speaker 1: one song this week. So the guy's from Canada. He's
Speaker 1: a Canadian guy. I don't know him. So I don't
Speaker 1: know him at all. I don't know him FM Man
Speaker 1: on the Moon. So I'm gonna say this one. I
Speaker 1: don't know him, the Man on the Moon. So Josh
Speaker 1: Ross gets up on stage and I understand his sentiment.
Speaker 1: But he gets up on stage at a festival and
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just play you his clip from the festival.
Speaker 1: It's him and he grabs an American flag, go ahead,
Speaker 1: fun fat, real quick.
Speaker 2: I'm Canadian.
Speaker 5: You want to know the bess fun fact is I
Speaker 5: move to the bed.
Speaker 2: In the worlds you with F, you with F.
Speaker 1: So I think if he were able to go back
Speaker 1: and say it again, I think he would say, I'm
Speaker 1: from Canada. I love Canada, but I really love this
Speaker 1: country too, USA, because he was like a big deal
Speaker 1: in Canada and they supported him forever, and now he
Speaker 1: comes to America and it's like, this is.
Speaker 2: My favorite country.
Speaker 1: Now I'm my favorite country America, USA. We all love America,
Speaker 1: but you didn't have to piss off your home too.
Speaker 1: You literally could have said, you guys know, I'm Canadian,
Speaker 1: but man, living in America has been awesome. I like
Speaker 1: to shout out to all you guys because America rules USA. Instead,
Speaker 1: he's like, I'm now the greatest country in the world.
Speaker 2: Now we feel that way.
Speaker 1: But if your home country built you and like supported
Speaker 1: you and made you a star there first, and then
Speaker 1: you use that to propel yourself to come down here,
Speaker 1: and then you're like that country sucks compared to this country,
Speaker 1: there's just a better way to say that. Even if
Speaker 1: you felt that way. So now that you know he's Canadian.
Speaker 1: And this was at the Tailgate and Tall Boys Festival
Speaker 1: in Bloomington, Indiana. And this is just weeks before he's
Speaker 1: going to perform in Ottawa's Canada Day celebrations.
Speaker 2: Oh man, play it again. Fun fact, real quick, I'm Canadian.
Speaker 5: You want to know the best fun fact is.
Speaker 1: That the best.
Speaker 3: You with you? We that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he went hard, he went too hard. He didn't
Speaker 2: have to do that.
Speaker 1: I think America's best country in the world. But you
Speaker 1: can do both. You can say both. You didn't have
Speaker 1: to be like, I'm from Canada, but now I live
Speaker 1: in the best country in the world.
Speaker 2: Because you've got to go back home, like I wouldn't be.
Speaker 1: Here in Tennessee and be like, you know what, I
Speaker 1: moved Tennessee, but I'm from Arkansas. But Tennessee's the best
Speaker 1: freaking state ever. And then go back to Arkansas and
Speaker 1: feel like I'm gonna love me the same. I do
Speaker 1: have his apology. Would you like to hear his apology? Yes,
Speaker 1: because his apology is what made me go check out.
Speaker 2: The real story is.
Speaker 1: What's funny is that I didn't even know this was
Speaker 1: an issue until I saw his apology, and then on
Speaker 1: the bottom of tak talk where it tells you, you
Speaker 1: know whatever they're saying it said Josh Ross on stage.
Speaker 2: Like hating Canada or something like that. Here we go,
Speaker 2: here's an apology.
Speaker 6: Let me turn Hey, guys, I just wanted to jump
Speaker 6: on here and address the clip that's been going around
Speaker 6: from my performance at tail getting Tall Boys. I'm sorry
Speaker 6: to anybody who's offended by what.
Speaker 1: Oh, you can't be I'm sorry anybody who's offended. That's
Speaker 1: not a real sorry. You don't have to apologize, by
Speaker 1: the way, you can just not apologize. That's so I'm
Speaker 1: not even demanding an apology. I just thought it was
Speaker 1: kind of awkward. But if you ever go I'm sorry
Speaker 1: to anyone who was offended, that means you're not really
Speaker 1: that sorry. Like it's me going to my wife being like, eh,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry that hurt your feelings. No, because I'm sorry
Speaker 1: that hurt her feelings. I'm not sorry for what I did.
Speaker 1: There's no remorse for what I did. I'm sorry for
Speaker 1: how you took it. It's what that's saying.
Speaker 2: Hmm.
Speaker 6: I'm grateful I get the tour all over the world
Speaker 6: and I feel like I'm always representing Canada. No matter
Speaker 6: where I go.
Speaker 2: Raise in Canada, but been.
Speaker 6: Living in Nashville for the last five plus years.
Speaker 2: Half my family lives in Canada. The other half is
Speaker 2: here in the US.
Speaker 6: And I'm as proud of establishing myself in the US
Speaker 6: as i am being Canadian. Both sides were not communicated
Speaker 6: in the clip that you guys were seeing, and I'm
Speaker 6: sorry that that wasn't clear.
Speaker 2: Both sides were not communicated in the clip.
Speaker 5: You were saying.
Speaker 4: Did he say more at the festival? Liked he?
Speaker 2: I just want to do this apology for him. This
Speaker 2: is what he should have done. First of all, if
Speaker 2: you don't apologize, I don't apologize. Who cares?
Speaker 1: Like this is gonna go away in five seconds? Anyway,
Speaker 1: this is not real life. It doesn't matter. But if
Speaker 1: you're gonna apologize, this is how you do it. Hey,
Speaker 1: Josh Raw's here. I got up on stage and I
Speaker 1: was like, I'm from Canada, but this is the best
Speaker 1: country ever. First of all, America is awesome. It is
Speaker 1: an awesome country. But also I didn't mean to disrespect
Speaker 1: my home. I was just saying crap up on stage.
Speaker 1: You get caught up in the moment. I love Canada
Speaker 1: and I love my new home in the United States,
Speaker 1: So sorry about that.
Speaker 5: That's the apology, because honestly, I was thinking that, like,
Speaker 5: did he just get caught up on the in the
Speaker 5: moment and start pandering to the.
Speaker 1: Crowd, because they're all absolutely that could have been it.
Speaker 1: That's what I thought too, because he's like pumped in
Speaker 1: the crowd yelling he's just get his first number one.
Speaker 1: That's why that apology, if you're going to do one.
Speaker 1: I don't think anybody needs anology for everything. It needs
Speaker 1: to be different. It needs to be like, I just
Speaker 1: got caught up. Yeah, I love I love it here
Speaker 1: the USA. But also I didn't mean to say about Canada.
Speaker 1: I don't that came out wrong. Obviously I love home.
Speaker 1: So first of all, I'm not apologizing. If I'm him,
Speaker 1: it's gonna go away.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you drew a more attention to it, like for example,
Speaker 4: you wouldn't even you hadn't seen the stage and drew
Speaker 4: you to the escape stage one.
Speaker 1: So I don't think he meant what he said. I
Speaker 1: think he just got caught up. But his if you
Speaker 1: were offended, I'm sorry. That's not you saying you're sorry
Speaker 1: for what you did. That's I'm sorry that you took
Speaker 1: it in a way that was offensive to your hilarious. Also,
Speaker 1: this isn't this is nothing. This is nothing. Nobody cares,
Speaker 1: not in a bad way or a good way. But
Speaker 1: if I were him, my advice would be, don't getrapped
Speaker 1: up in it. Move on because everybody's gonna forget about
Speaker 1: it in six hours anyway. And if you feel like
Speaker 1: apologizing for real, apologize for real. If you don't move on,
Speaker 1: who cares? It doesn't matter. Everything's irrelevant.
Speaker 4: Like I'm trying to think of my favorite artists at
Speaker 4: the time, were to go to Canada, be like, you
Speaker 4: know some fact, I'm from America.
Speaker 2: But Canada, I don't.
Speaker 4: Okay, another fun fact, I moved to the greatest country
Speaker 4: ever Canada, Canada. I don't know that. I'm gonna be like, well,
Speaker 4: I'm never listening to their music.
Speaker 2: Are they playing Amy Fest next week?
Speaker 4: The true true that he's going to come back? I guess,
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 2: There's just a lot of crap happening in the world
Speaker 2: that matters.
Speaker 1: This doesn't matter. I think he got caught up. I
Speaker 1: don't think he loves America more than Canada. I think
Speaker 1: Canada's home, and he loves America. Now he's having success here.
Speaker 1: Let the guy live. But if you're going to apologize,
Speaker 1: just generally speaking, if you're going to apologize, really apologize
Speaker 1: or just don't. I don't give a crap either way,
Speaker 1: because there's stuff that I do. Sometimes I'm like, ah,
Speaker 1: I'm kind of sorry about that, but not enough. So
Speaker 1: then I don't because nobody cares. You're just going to
Speaker 1: relight the switch sometimes. But the apology is, oh, I
Speaker 1: got caught up, sorry about that.
Speaker 2: I don't actually mean that. That's it. Five second long.
Speaker 2: My bad. That's on me. That's on me. Big dog
Speaker 2: here takes that one, big dog takes.
Speaker 4: This is the problem.
Speaker 2: Love them both. He needs apologize for his apology. Now,
Speaker 2: that's the thing. Now he needs to apologize for his apology.
Speaker 2: He should apologize for his apology. That's funny. Imax is
Speaker 2: the Odyssey.
Speaker 1: The tickets sell out in about an hour a year
Speaker 1: before its release, and now tickets are selling for four
Speaker 1: hundred dollars. What and so the person who's doing the homer, yeah,
Speaker 1: the iliad you're familiar with that?
Speaker 2: Did you have to read them?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: I don't know what's about.
Speaker 1: But Christopher Nolan's doing the movie. Christopher Nolan of The
Speaker 1: Dark Knight, Christopher Nolan of.
Speaker 7: The Dream movie inception Interstellar Interstellar Shimer.
Speaker 1: Yeah, The Odyssey is set for release. Tickets to the
Speaker 1: Imax version of the film one on sal Soldo quickly.
Speaker 1: Nolan's version of the classic Greek myths during Matt Damon
Speaker 1: as the eternal hero Odysseus, is being shot entirely on
Speaker 1: Imax film cameras, a first for a commercial feature. Within
Speaker 1: an hour hour of going on cell, ninety five percent
Speaker 1: of seats were snapped up. Now they're showing up on
Speaker 1: third party resellers for as much as four hundred bucks.
Speaker 7: What do you think, Mike, Yeah, I tried to get one.
Speaker 7: They're sold out, but there's only one showtime right now.
Speaker 7: And the reason it's so like interesting is because Oppenheimer
Speaker 7: was only filmed like twenty five percent in Imax. So
Speaker 7: the entire time this movie is gonna be huge like
Speaker 7: I in Oppenheimer, only like the bomb scene was an Imax,
Speaker 7: like fully Imax. So this is the whole movie, all big,
Speaker 7: entire time was f one filmed Imax, not the whole
Speaker 7: thing like Imax film is like the best quality you
Speaker 7: can get. There's only like twenty theaters in the world
Speaker 7: that you can go see like that, oddly enough, ones
Speaker 7: right here downtown.
Speaker 1: The last time I went to an IMAX movie was
Speaker 1: the Old Museum in Austin, not old but the museum,
Speaker 1: the Bobble Museum.
Speaker 5: Yeah, the Texas Texas History Museum is a bubble. Yeah,
Speaker 5: babble like Texas Museum.
Speaker 2: We're going to the museum.
Speaker 1: And they had a humongous Imax the year and I
Speaker 1: like watched a movie there, but I haven't been to imax, And.
Speaker 7: The one you watch probably like shorter, right because whenever
Speaker 7: like those big Imax movies where you're like, oh, you're
Speaker 7: immersive completely underseas either like ten minutes because it's so
Speaker 7: expensive a film like that.
Speaker 2: Oh, I didn't know that.
Speaker 1: So you're telling me the movie wasn't all big screen.
Speaker 1: It was mostly big screen with like pops of it.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Would they ever show though the movie just on Imax
Speaker 1: screen and make it massive?
Speaker 7: Sometimes they stretch it, But if you watch it, if
Speaker 7: you watch certain movies, you'll see it go different ratios.
Speaker 7: You'll see it go like kind of wide screen, then
Speaker 7: kind of full and go kind of back. But for
Speaker 7: this time. It's the entire screen the whole time.
Speaker 5: So the sale the tickets that were sold is probably
Speaker 5: just like the first week or something, or.
Speaker 7: The first showing, first showing, like one PM, good pr
Speaker 7: for the movie.
Speaker 1: What I would have done is bought all the tickets
Speaker 1: for the first showing when I put them out if
Speaker 1: I'm the movie company, and then go they're all sold out,
Speaker 1: and then get the new story. But then who goes
Speaker 1: to it? No, it doesn't matter. It's the first showing.
Speaker 1: Who gives a crap? But no one shows up because
Speaker 1: you bought them. Now they'll end up being able to
Speaker 1: be sold back. Yeah, but you do this and you
Speaker 1: buy them all so you can have the new story
Speaker 1: if they're all bought.
Speaker 2: It's like there are bands at times.
Speaker 1: If they know, like an A and R person is
Speaker 1: going to come and watch them, they will sell out
Speaker 1: their entire arena and then pay people to come as
Speaker 1: extras because you can hire extras through companies. And then
Speaker 1: an ar person gets there and sees the crowd so
Speaker 1: high and like, oh my god. It's harder to do
Speaker 1: it now because that's been something that has been now
Speaker 1: discovered that people do.
Speaker 4: Do The people that are I guess, filling the seats
Speaker 4: if they're being hired to be there, do they Are
Speaker 4: they allowed to say that at any point?
Speaker 2: I don't think you really talk.
Speaker 4: I guess it doesn't really map. I guess it's just like, oh.
Speaker 1: Hey, who are you gonna tell that's gonna be affected
Speaker 1: by it because the whole room is full of either
Speaker 1: ticket buyers or those people, and then like an A
Speaker 1: and R person And it's not like they're going to
Speaker 1: go for that one A and R person to be like,
Speaker 1: we bought tickets here.
Speaker 4: I don't know. I was just thinking. People make videos
Speaker 4: on TikTok and be like, hey, I went to this.
Speaker 4: It was totally full, looked sold out. But guess what
Speaker 4: half of us are paid people to be there?
Speaker 1: Oh I think the bands end up doing that because
Speaker 1: they they won't only I know about it. Are bands
Speaker 1: telling the story about how they did that? Oh, okay,
Speaker 1: in order so I don't know. But the bands are like, yeah,
Speaker 1: we paid for a room to be filled, and that
Speaker 1: we knew there were people coming to watch us, like
Speaker 1: a showcase, and so we paid. It looked like people
Speaker 1: were buying a bunch of tickets, but that's happened. Even
Speaker 1: in the nineties, artists used to go and buy all
Speaker 1: their albums from store regionally to show sales. It was
Speaker 1: kind of an investment. So they go and buy a
Speaker 1: bunch of CDs at the best Buy and that town
Speaker 1: that best Buy would report, Man, I think three doors
Speaker 1: Down did this. We sold that at three doors Down
Speaker 1: CDs and so people would be like, dang, three doors
Speaker 1: Down is really selling well in this market. We should
Speaker 1: They should be played on the radio, even though they
Speaker 1: have a record deal. They get played on the radio
Speaker 1: next thing, you know, Like it's all an investment up
Speaker 1: and game in the system, but in illegal way. And
Speaker 1: I'm all for game in the system, but you know what,
Speaker 1: all those times I've gained the system, I'd like to
Speaker 1: apologize for everybody that's.
Speaker 2: Been offended by it.
Speaker 5: I'm sorry you offended them.
Speaker 1: That CEO from the Coldplay kiss cam did resign. This
Speaker 1: happened on Friday, Wow, And so my thought is they
Speaker 1: made him resign. But I don't think somebody's personal life
Speaker 1: that's not illegal should affect their job.
Speaker 4: I wonder if it was because she was in the car.
Speaker 4: Are they allowed to date ceo allowed to day hr?
Speaker 1: They never said they weren't, so they never said I
Speaker 1: it's the divorce and the embarrassing part of it from
Speaker 1: what I read, because I thought the same thing. There
Speaker 1: was a rule that said you couldn't date in the office.
Speaker 1: I never saw that, and I looked at through four
Speaker 1: different articles. The company issued a statement emphasizing its commitment
Speaker 1: to accountability and confirm the co founder, Pete de Joy,
Speaker 1: will serve as interim CEO during the strip the search
Speaker 1: for a permanent replacement. Our leaders are expected to set
Speaker 1: the standard. Astronomer said they did not meet those expectations.
Speaker 1: See it never says anything about company handbook, guidelines and
Speaker 1: a company handbook. My assumption would be the board got together,
Speaker 1: they were humiliated because the name of the company was
Speaker 1: out there and said you must resign. I think if
Speaker 1: you're not doing anything illegal, I don't think that should
Speaker 1: really affect your work if you're good at your job,
Speaker 1: unless you have a front facing job, meaning if you're
Speaker 1: like us, for example, we can embarrass our company because
Speaker 1: people know who we are.
Speaker 2: People don't know that dude, Yeah he is a CEO.
Speaker 4: Yeah, astronomer.
Speaker 2: I didn't know what it was. When they said astronomer,
Speaker 2: I literally thought he was in a Stronomer for for
Speaker 2: six hours. I was like wow, I was like, what
Speaker 2: a gig? Yeah, Astronomy away.
Speaker 5: But now we know that Astronomer is a tech company
Speaker 5: because of that, and now a segment that's so amy,
Speaker 5: she has her own theme song, hit.
Speaker 4: It Amy all the time, Amy all the time.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay.
Speaker 4: Here are seven things that neuroscience says we should be
Speaker 4: telling ourselves every day to live our best lives.
Speaker 2: Let's see if I tell myself anything like this number.
Speaker 4: Seven, today is a new opportunity.
Speaker 2: When do I say that? Like when I wake up?
Speaker 4: I mean sure, when you wake up, or if you're
Speaker 4: facing a challenge, or the day before was a kind
Speaker 4: of a struggle day, like you'd be like, today's a
Speaker 4: new opportunity. What this does It activates our brain's hope
Speaker 4: and goal motivation circuits.
Speaker 1: Mostly when I wake up, I do this. Oh that's all?
Speaker 1: Oh god, here waking up?
Speaker 2: All right?
Speaker 4: Next one, my presence matters.
Speaker 2: I kind of feel like my presence doesn't matter.
Speaker 4: See, you need not tell yourself that you need I
Speaker 4: not you need not you.
Speaker 1: This is like the belly goat gruff, like you shall
Speaker 1: not cross the bridge Okay.
Speaker 4: Then you for you definitely need to say my presence
Speaker 4: matters over and over and over because you need to
Speaker 4: rewire that.
Speaker 2: Okay, number five.
Speaker 4: My thoughts are not facts. This helps with emotional regulation
Speaker 4: because a lot of times our thoughts get in the
Speaker 4: driver's seat, and really our thoughts should be in the
Speaker 4: passenger seat.
Speaker 1: What should be in the driver's seat? Uh, like exactly?
Speaker 4: No, I know, but well, more of your rational brain.
Speaker 4: Like sometimes if you get too emotional or you lead
Speaker 4: with your exact feeling in that moment or emotion and
Speaker 4: you don't pause, like that part of you that pauses
Speaker 4: that's in the driver's seat. I don't know what we
Speaker 4: call that part.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't have any emotion like that. I'm never
Speaker 2: led by emotion.
Speaker 4: Uh do you think sometimes you are when you give
Speaker 4: like silent treatment?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 1: I think I understand. I can get more done if
Speaker 1: I just shut that bow off.
Speaker 4: See that that sounds like that sound that's like a
Speaker 4: thing you that's your survival mode.
Speaker 2: No, okay, yeah, stand off, I thought all the time. Okay,
Speaker 2: go ahead, go ahead, go ahead.
Speaker 4: Okay. Another thing you should say to yourself to live
Speaker 4: your best life is mistakes or how I grow.
Speaker 1: I feel like you have to say that after you
Speaker 1: make mistakes to kind of justify the mistake.
Speaker 4: Right, sure, I mean you've said something similar. I mean
Speaker 4: you have a whole book about it. Fail until you
Speaker 4: don't like your failures are part of your growth.
Speaker 3: M hm.
Speaker 1: I feel like having that mindset is good if you
Speaker 1: have a pre if you're always making it after, I
Speaker 1: feel like it's an excuse so long as you go
Speaker 1: into it with that mindset, like, look, almost screw it.
Speaker 1: This is I'm taking on something big and for me
Speaker 1: to get better at it, There's going to be some
Speaker 1: times that I go backward sometimes that it doesn't work out,
Speaker 1: sometimes that I just gain a little one.
Speaker 2: I want to gain a lot.
Speaker 1: I feel like though, every time if I were to
Speaker 1: crash you out, I'd be like, well, you know what,
Speaker 1: crashes are just part of it. I feel like I
Speaker 1: would know I was making excuses for myself.
Speaker 2: Do that makes sense?
Speaker 4: Yeah, it makes sense, But it also makes sense that
Speaker 4: you could remind yourself mistakes are how I grow, and
Speaker 4: like have a growth mindset, So like the little asterisk,
Speaker 4: there would be like I'm saying this, but I'm not
Speaker 4: using it as an excuse. I'm using it so that
Speaker 4: I don't get stuck in this failure, and then I'll
Speaker 4: continue trying.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the problem is then i'd go double asterisk. That's
Speaker 1: probably an excuse that I just did that. I'd probably
Speaker 1: put a second ASTERI there.
Speaker 4: What about this next one? And do you ever say
Speaker 4: to yourself? I am enough?
Speaker 1: Now I feel like I'm never enough? Actually, right, you
Speaker 1: ask me the question.
Speaker 4: I know, but let's focus on that one. Okay, this one,
Speaker 4: this one is what you also need to say, because
Speaker 4: this will help you with the other ones. I can
Speaker 4: change my brain.
Speaker 2: I do believe that.
Speaker 4: Okay, good, good, good. So you know that you could
Speaker 4: be enough, You know that you could be enough, and
Speaker 4: you could know that your presence matters.
Speaker 1: I don't think anything matters, is the problem. It's not
Speaker 1: just my presence. This world's gonna come and go, and
Speaker 1: a million years are gonna go by, and nobody's heck,
Speaker 1: three hundre years gona by, nobody'snna be anything we ever did.
Speaker 4: So that sounds like an excuse to me.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, I just feel like we put too
Speaker 1: much value in things that don't matter, and really the
Speaker 1: things that matter are either the things that are super important,
Speaker 1: close to us, intimate to us. We value things that
Speaker 1: don't matter at all, like so much so when reality
Speaker 1: nothing matters.
Speaker 2: That's how I feel.
Speaker 1: Nothing matters, and that should give you the courage and
Speaker 1: the strength to go and do whatever you want, try
Speaker 1: whatever you want because nothing matters, so have about it,
Speaker 1: go get it. That should give you all the confidence
Speaker 1: in the world this Since nothing matters, it doesn't matter
Speaker 1: if you screw up, just attack.
Speaker 4: Were you talking about like new things people are trying.
Speaker 4: I'm not talking about relationships.
Speaker 1: I feel like nothing matters so much that you shouldn't
Speaker 1: be you shouldn't be ashamed if it doesn't work.
Speaker 4: Right, Okay, but it's good to know you believe in
Speaker 4: neuroplasticity because that is what is happening with I can
Speaker 4: change my brain.
Speaker 2: On that one.
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, we're moving to the final one.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 4: I am safe right now?
Speaker 2: Yeah, no chance.
Speaker 4: Do you ever feel safe?
Speaker 1: When I put my head under the pillow and put
Speaker 1: the pillow right, I can't see any light.
Speaker 2: Sometimes I feel safe.
Speaker 4: M Okay, Well you can tell yourself that, you can
Speaker 4: tell you.
Speaker 1: But then I know my body is still vulnerable to
Speaker 1: an attacker even though my head has a pillow over it.
Speaker 2: But like, right now we're all here, we'll protect.
Speaker 4: You'd be like, I'm safe.
Speaker 2: Protect me.
Speaker 1: I would be all you guys have. If a murderer
Speaker 1: came in, I wouldn't none of you guys would.
Speaker 5: But if the murder is trying to kill you, not us.
Speaker 1: You don't think you guys are run like yeah, right,
Speaker 1: you guys are run like little tinkerbells. We want you
Speaker 1: to feel safe now, No, no, okay, I feel you.
Speaker 4: I don't think this statement alone. It calms your amygdala
Speaker 4: and it activates your parasympathic parasympathetic nervous system, and that
Speaker 4: is exactly what you need in these moments like Bobby,
Speaker 4: when you're feeling like shutting down or doing different things
Speaker 4: like you're you're being reactionary, but in your own safe way.
Speaker 4: It doesn't mean that you can't grow out of that,
Speaker 4: like I do think that you.
Speaker 2: I don't want to grow out of it.
Speaker 4: You don't want to grow out of like silent treatment.
Speaker 2: No hum, okay, why would I write?
Speaker 1: I can grinte anything I want to grow out of
Speaker 1: because I think my brain can change. But I have
Speaker 1: tools and weapons to do things at high level and
Speaker 1: I think I can block things out there.
Speaker 4: That's interesting.
Speaker 2: You call it weapons, tools and weapons both. Yeah, yeah, and.
Speaker 1: Especially if there are other people attached to me and
Speaker 1: I need to eliminate something for the greater sake of
Speaker 1: everyone involved, no problem.
Speaker 2: I can cut anything for the greater, greater good.
Speaker 4: Huh. Okay, I'm not to tell myself I'm safe right now.
Speaker 4: I am safe right now, my presence matter.
Speaker 2: Are we ever really safe?
Speaker 1: Think about if somebody really wanted to murder you, think,
Speaker 1: get in your house right now and kill you have
Speaker 1: no problem.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So I don't feel like there's ever real safety either.
Speaker 5: I mean, Lunchbol's got me with a water gun, like
Speaker 5: I didn't even see him coming.
Speaker 2: There's there is.
Speaker 1: There's never real safety unless you're in a bunker. But
Speaker 1: then you know what's going to get you cancer, yeah,
Speaker 1: or lack of oxygen. Yes, that there's never a real safety.
Speaker 1: I don't believe in safety really, but you've the feeling
Speaker 1: of safe is which is talking I think be said.
Speaker 4: But I also think that this isn't referring to murders
Speaker 4: and robberies alone, like it's also referring to some people
Speaker 4: just don't feel even safe. Being vulnerable and opening up
Speaker 4: to other people and even feeling safe with their partner.
Speaker 4: And I don't mean like physically or any type of
Speaker 4: abuse obviously that's a totally different thing, but just feeling
Speaker 4: safe to be themselves and not have this guard up
Speaker 4: and use weapons that they Oh.
Speaker 1: I think that's different than because I wasn't talking about that.
Speaker 1: I'm talking about just general safety.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I don't feel safe from from death period. Yeah, I
Speaker 2: don't ever.
Speaker 4: That this is a mantra that you say for a murderer,
Speaker 4: you know, when you're going you can't change that, Like
Speaker 4: it's literally for like, do you feel safe with people?
Speaker 2: I feel safe with my wife?
Speaker 4: Okay, that's great.
Speaker 1: You that's why I don't fart on her because you
Speaker 1: feel safe?
Speaker 2: Yeah, around her?
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I feel so safe, I won't fart on
Speaker 1: her because I know I don't even like.
Speaker 2: That is your fart a weapon? It could be.
Speaker 1: Like I feel so safe that I don't need to
Speaker 1: prove how safe I am, and I will respectfully not
Speaker 1: fart on her.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Well, don't you know seven things neuroscience says you
Speaker 4: could tell yourself daily to live your best life.
Speaker 1: That's a lot of saying stuff back though in the
Speaker 1: morning or if we just what are I just gonna
Speaker 1: work on one of those which one I will not
Speaker 1: be murdered as not the fos to day in the morning,
Speaker 1: wake up and go I will not be murdered today. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm yeah, I'm not a big, big believer and you
Speaker 1: could ever be think about if the gun. What's hilarious
Speaker 1: to me are these people who are like, and again
Speaker 1: I have guns, but like, I gotta get my guns
Speaker 1: in case the government turns on us.
Speaker 2: Brot. We got bees in Japan.
Speaker 1: They can now go in your house and be freaking
Speaker 1: cameras and drones that are the size of birds that
Speaker 1: can blow you up. Like there is no safety. There
Speaker 1: is a the false thought that I'm physically safe. Y'all right,
Speaker 1: get you a little bunker hide out and then you
Speaker 1: know it gets you lupus oh every time. Yeah, I'll
Speaker 1: send you autoimmune starts ripping on you. That's right, Amy,
Speaker 1: thank you for that. That's a really uplifting segment.
Speaker 4: We just did it.
Speaker 1: Apparently physical appearance doesn't matter as much to dater's as
Speaker 1: much as financial stability. Now, this whole thing was the
Speaker 1: New York Post, so basically, it's they don't care how
Speaker 1: good you look as long as you have some money.
Speaker 1: I mean your thoughts on that, just surface wise.
Speaker 4: I think there has to be we talk about this
Speaker 4: all the time, that there has to be some sort
Speaker 4: of physical attraction. There also is attraction in safety if
Speaker 4: you don't have your own money for whatever reason, but
Speaker 4: you got to be physically attracted.
Speaker 1: Did you see the guy who got on tender and
Speaker 1: he swiped like a million times and got one date,
Speaker 1: and they he tells the story, no one would match
Speaker 1: with him. And he's not like super ugly, He's not
Speaker 1: ugly at all.
Speaker 2: He's just a normal dude. He's even got a fish
Speaker 2: in one of his pictures. Oh that's cool, and women
Speaker 2: like that.
Speaker 1: I thought he just looks like a normal dude, must
Speaker 1: low go tee, you know, probably ten to fifteen pounds overweight,
Speaker 1: like normal, not that tall, probably five to seven or
Speaker 1: five eight. And he's like, I had to swipe almost
Speaker 1: a million times. He said, I matched with occasional people,
Speaker 1: but they never they always stood me up, and he
Speaker 1: finally got one date.
Speaker 2: That's him right there. Look, Oh, normal looking dude. Hey
Speaker 2: is his name? Twenty six years old? Oh, wipe forever.
Speaker 1: One date, I need to look at his page, though
Speaker 1: he probably have the right stuff up on his page. So,
Speaker 1: according to a new survey of two thousand gen z
Speaker 1: and millennial Americans, dater say several traits are more important
Speaker 1: than physical appearance. What traits are more important physical appearance?
Speaker 1: Financial stability is one of them. They put that ahead
Speaker 1: of looks what else you got there?
Speaker 4: Amy, kindness, compassion, good communicator, empathetic?
Speaker 2: Wow, how do you know all that? Though? For at
Speaker 2: the beginning, I guess would be my question, Well, I guess.
Speaker 4: Those are all traits you need to get to know.
Speaker 4: So like, are these traits on paper that you don't
Speaker 4: can't verify? For tue, is that what we're looking for?
Speaker 4: Because traits on paper might be just like, I mean,
Speaker 4: success can look a lot of different ways. Is not
Speaker 4: just financial, But it's like are they motivated? Are they hardworking?
Speaker 4: Do they have a good work ethic? Do they care
Speaker 4: about family?
Speaker 1: I feel like this whole thing is about how it's
Speaker 1: very it feels very female.
Speaker 2: Dudes just want a hot.
Speaker 1: Chick and then they work backward Like it starts there,
Speaker 1: like what's the hottest chick I can get? And then
Speaker 1: I'll figure everything else out after. Because we are cape men.
Speaker 1: Women I feel like want other things first. It's great
Speaker 1: if they also look hot and there has to be
Speaker 1: something there. They don't want to vomit while they're making
Speaker 1: out with you, but there's got to be something there.
Speaker 4: Like we want sense of humor, we want.
Speaker 1: Like, we want all that too, Guys. She's got to
Speaker 1: be hot first, and I'm talking about guys just general
Speaker 1: across the board, guys.
Speaker 5: And then you've got to make sure she's not like, yeah, crazy.
Speaker 1: She can only be as crazy right one notch blow
Speaker 1: how hot she is, like, the hot has still got
Speaker 1: to be a little above the crazy.
Speaker 4: That whole crazy hot matrix.
Speaker 1: They put at potential's partner's kindness and emotional maturity up there,
Speaker 1: as well as financial stability ahead of looks.
Speaker 2: This has got to be just women getting pulled.
Speaker 5: If you're doing a dating app profile, can you write
Speaker 5: kind everything? Amy said, yeah, but I believe that if
Speaker 5: someone wrote all of that, let me prove my emotional
Speaker 5: maturity to your love family.
Speaker 4: Eddie, I thought you were saying, like, can you put
Speaker 4: that that's what you're seeking, But yeah, it would be
Speaker 4: kind of weird if that's what you put what you are.
Speaker 4: You're like the guy empathetic, like the guy.
Speaker 5: That couldn't get any matches, Like could he write like hie.
Speaker 2: I promise, I'm kind?
Speaker 1: And have you ever dated a guy an ugly guy?
Speaker 2: Have you ever dated an ugly guy?
Speaker 4: Well, not to me and not not ugly to me?
Speaker 5: I know of what were you thought? Like where you
Speaker 5: were just like he's not really that good looking.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like physically doesn't do it, but other traits are there,
Speaker 1: and I want to give that a shot to see
Speaker 1: if I find him more attractive.
Speaker 4: Then I don't.
Speaker 8: Ah, No, I feel like her computer, like it's well
Speaker 8: spinning right now. I think there's our computer you can't
Speaker 8: get to the next I will.
Speaker 4: Say this like I did go on a Hinge date,
Speaker 4: but and I knew within the first five minutes that
Speaker 4: his pictures looked very different than he did in person
Speaker 4: and that it wasn't gonna work. But I don't know
Speaker 4: if it's just because his pictures were so deceiving and
Speaker 4: I'm like what the or if like he was also
Speaker 4: shorter than I thought, And then I don't know, just
Speaker 4: our personalities weren't really clicking, but which came first there,
Speaker 4: because like, would I have liked his personality more if
Speaker 4: I'd walked in and it matched more of what he
Speaker 4: presented online? Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: Would he have been.
Speaker 1: Able to be so funny and kind to talk you
Speaker 1: out of thinking he was ugly?
Speaker 4: I don't. I don't want to use the word ugly,
Speaker 4: but I don't know that it would have I would have.
Speaker 4: I don't think we would have made it to that point.
Speaker 4: I mean he would have to like that stuff would
Speaker 4: have had to present quick, so he needed to be hot. Yeah,
Speaker 4: because I think our day ended up lasting about forty
Speaker 4: five minutes.
Speaker 2: WHOA you stayed forty five minutes?
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, but I supposed to do leave, but I
Speaker 4: had I had a work event to go to. I
Speaker 4: I lined up.
Speaker 6: Ye.
Speaker 4: No, I really, this is what I would do because
Speaker 4: I hated getting ready, and so if I was going
Speaker 4: to go do anything, I would always schedule something when
Speaker 4: I had something else because I'd be getting ready anyways.
Speaker 4: So boom. It takes care of having to get ready
Speaker 4: more than you want to, and then also you have
Speaker 4: an out in case you need it. So in this case,
Speaker 4: it was a win win for me.
Speaker 2: Did he hit you out? Like, hey, do you think
Speaker 2: I'm ugly?
Speaker 4: He did hit me up asking me out again. No,
Speaker 4: he didn't say yo. He's like, hey, I had a
Speaker 4: great time. I love to go out again. And I
Speaker 4: replied with a very mature I think I've been shared
Speaker 4: with you all. My response, like I tried to give
Speaker 4: a very like thoughtful rate up my friends because I hadn't.
Speaker 4: I hadn't had been in this situation before where I
Speaker 4: was sort of saying no, I would not like to
Speaker 4: go out again over text, and I wanted to be
Speaker 4: very mature and transparent, so I said that and he
Speaker 4: never replied back. He didn't even double tap it with
Speaker 4: a thumbs up or a hart.
Speaker 2: He just got cut off.
Speaker 4: Trying to well, that's fine, okay.
Speaker 2: If he wants to not fine, listen to how much.
Speaker 4: Because I'm not done with the story.
Speaker 2: You're still agger about it?
Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, I'm not. I'm letting you know that.
Speaker 4: He didn't reply, which I was like, okay, that's fine.
Speaker 4: But then six or seven months later he replied, okay,
Speaker 4: that's cool.
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
Speaker 1: That was that was a hey, I'm just going to
Speaker 1: reappear in case you have reconsidered.
Speaker 4: Oh, I just didn't. And then I didn't reply to
Speaker 4: that because I'm like, what, why? Why? I know it
Speaker 4: was very bizarre.
Speaker 2: He was still thinking about her.
Speaker 1: I would imagine. I want to play the scenario in
Speaker 1: my head. Either she came across something on a social
Speaker 1: media page, he heard her on the radio, or something
Speaker 1: made him think of her and then thought, huh, let
Speaker 1: me reply and say got it to see if she
Speaker 1: has reconsidered, because it gives her an opening to come
Speaker 1: back if she wants to.
Speaker 4: Mm hmmm.
Speaker 2: That would be did he know you were on the radio? Aavy?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Well I didn't think he did, but those are the
Speaker 4: worst I had those. Then I did, then I could
Speaker 4: Then I did you know.
Speaker 2: He lied about it?
Speaker 4: I don't know if he lied about it.
Speaker 2: It wasn't your hinge picture like you intro a micro
Speaker 2: on the cave, not at all in the background.
Speaker 4: No, And I didn't even list my profession anything like,
Speaker 4: I didn't say media, I didn't say entertained. I just
Speaker 4: like literally left that part blank. So there was nothing.
Speaker 4: But I was able to figure some stuff out, So
Speaker 4: that's fine.
Speaker 2: Rush over that. What do you mean I was just
Speaker 2: able to figure some stuff out?
Speaker 4: I can't remember exactly what it was. But you know, Bobby,
Speaker 4: you know, like you said, I've been there, Like it's
Speaker 4: just you. You're like, oh, okay, I can't remember exactly
Speaker 4: what detail led me to know that he knew, And
Speaker 4: if I really really were to think about it, I
Speaker 4: think it had something to do with you.
Speaker 1: Like Bobby, what's Bobby really like?
Speaker 2: Is that what he asked you?
Speaker 4: I feel like I had it do with Arkansas like sports.
Speaker 2: But everybody's grunting. We don't know even know what that means.
Speaker 2: But you know, I kind of like him. Now I'm
Speaker 2: up for him. I'm like, no, I think he's a
Speaker 2: great dude.
Speaker 4: Bobby's like, wait a second, or Razor bags?
Speaker 2: So where was that?
Speaker 1: So you found out that he wasn't being honest of
Speaker 1: what he already knew about you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but that part didn't. I was already not interested,
Speaker 4: so it was okay. I just was like, oh, and
Speaker 4: I didn't. I didn't make it a big deal like
Speaker 4: oh you listen or you know who we are. I
Speaker 4: just was like, oh, interesting, it's.
Speaker 1: Not even that because I think that's fine. It's being
Speaker 1: honest about it.
Speaker 4: Right because my my current boyfriend, like he listened to
Speaker 4: the show.
Speaker 2: Are you gonna have another boyfriend after him?
Speaker 4: Maybe because this one's current.
Speaker 2: My current boyfriend.
Speaker 4: I haven't had any other since.
Speaker 2: Have you guys seen that TikTok trend?
Speaker 1: Because it's a current wife thing, what you do is
Speaker 1: you the husband's doing anything to camera and their wife's
Speaker 1: in and it's like and look this is me, it's
Speaker 1: my current wife.
Speaker 2: And then they just keep going. That's what it reminded
Speaker 2: me of, what Amy.
Speaker 4: So, Yeah, So it doesn't matter that he was a listener.
Speaker 4: I think it's just there was a lot of things
Speaker 4: that were just little like, Okay, this is not going
Speaker 4: to work. So we'd never We hang out for like
Speaker 4: forty five minutes and I never saw him again.
Speaker 2: Well, thank you for sharing that with us.
Speaker 4: Amy, You're welcome.
Speaker 2: Long Eddie. What's happening?
Speaker 5: My wife texted me this morning said that the neighbors
Speaker 5: started working on their roof at six thirty in the morning.
Speaker 5: She's like it, whop the whole family up, Like, I
Speaker 5: guess they're getting their roof redone and they've got five
Speaker 5: workers out there bump bump, bump bump and talking like
Speaker 5: ere throw the shingles over here.
Speaker 2: That is loud. The talking's Yeah, that's singed at.
Speaker 5: Six thirty in the morning on a weekday. That's crazy.
Speaker 2: What's the rule.
Speaker 4: Gosh, it's summer and it's so hot. I could see
Speaker 4: why they want to start working early. And it's it's
Speaker 4: just a couple of days, Like it's this song. It
Speaker 4: takes to put a roof on.
Speaker 5: Usually they could do that one day. I think that's
Speaker 5: why they have the five dude it's repair. It's repair, Yeah,
Speaker 5: five dudes one day. But and I get it's hot.
Speaker 5: I do get it's hot, But six thirty in the
Speaker 5: morning is early.
Speaker 1: Six thirty feels a little aggressive, especially if they don't
Speaker 1: know what's coming. Like I would think it would be
Speaker 1: up to your neighbors to let everybody know. Put a
Speaker 1: note on the door. Hey it's gonna be one day
Speaker 1: or two days and they're going to start early, like
Speaker 1: they should have let you guys know that if because
Speaker 1: that's too early.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it would seven be okay, I mean on paper,
Speaker 2: seven sounds.
Speaker 4: I mean if it's it's if it's a during the
Speaker 4: school year, your kids would be up.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that doesn't mean everybody has to be up.
Speaker 1: I would say eight o'clock is universally accepted that sun
Speaker 1: gets That sounds pretty hot today.
Speaker 2: I'm not arguing ice droop houses. There's no argument from me.
Speaker 5: But but it's amy. It's not like they quit at noon,
Speaker 5: like they keep going all the way like five o'clock.
Speaker 5: It's an all day thing.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, well then yeah, not start at eight and
Speaker 4: go till seven o'clock.
Speaker 5: Hey, you start at two and then you can go
Speaker 5: into the nice little sunset.
Speaker 2: Now you can't be dark. So what what are the
Speaker 2: what are the rules then?
Speaker 1: For a loud people working on the house, what would
Speaker 1: you make them if you were the leader of the world.
Speaker 5: I think a week day you got to start, and
Speaker 5: I mean, let's go business hours man, nine am, oh
Speaker 5: hours until when when the sun goes down. You have
Speaker 5: until the sun goes down to do your work.
Speaker 1: So I fall into a bit of that, except I
Speaker 1: think when the sun comes up you can work, and
Speaker 1: when the sun goes down you have to stop working.
Speaker 4: So six thirty you can be working suns up if
Speaker 4: this is the.
Speaker 2: Sun all the way up.
Speaker 5: Yeah, hey, when the rooster crows.
Speaker 1: I think six thirty is too early, though, so I'm
Speaker 1: gonna go seven thirty, seven thirty to dark are the
Speaker 1: hours that I would allow people to work unless you
Speaker 1: leave a note and everybody's like, cool, have at it you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think something in like the seventy eight eight timeframe,
Speaker 4: which should be Okay, the.
Speaker 2: Heat is a thing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you can't have different rules for different parts
Speaker 1: of the country. If I'm the supreme leaders, the whole
Speaker 1: country has to fall under one rule.
Speaker 2: But you don't know how long they're gonna do it.
Speaker 5: No, I mean they're done. I think they're done to
Speaker 5: today because the when they did, because they worked on
Speaker 5: our roof one time and it was like a six
Speaker 5: hour deal, came in, all worked and then they were
Speaker 5: done six hours.
Speaker 2: What about the weekend.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know if someone starts mowing their yard at
Speaker 4: seven am on the weekend, that.
Speaker 5: Might be ten am.
Speaker 2: Wow, that's that's am.
Speaker 5: You got to sleep in on Saturdays.
Speaker 2: A supreme later.
Speaker 1: I think I make it eight thirty on the weekend,
Speaker 1: so it's.
Speaker 5: Just an hour. Yeah, our difference.
Speaker 2: A supreme later, Yes, I make it one hour difference
Speaker 2: on the weekends.
Speaker 1: But I think you have to stop it dark. What
Speaker 1: about neighbors playing loud music? When do you get annoyed
Speaker 1: and call the cops.
Speaker 5: If it's so loud, are you talking about in the morning?
Speaker 2: How are they?
Speaker 5: Can you play morning or night?
Speaker 4: I get annoyed when I'm trying to.
Speaker 1: Go to sleep exactly, So whindo neighbors have to like
Speaker 1: chill out and not play music.
Speaker 4: I mean, I think like if it's a weekend.
Speaker 2: Ten, oh, weekday nine.
Speaker 4: That would be nice.
Speaker 2: I can go with that.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I would say week day ten, weekend midnight. Yes,
Speaker 5: I agree with that.
Speaker 2: Dang party animals.
Speaker 5: Hey, we were all there once to do we have
Speaker 5: people over, put some music on.
Speaker 2: You're not living in an apartment complex.
Speaker 5: Right, banging the broomstick on the sun?
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're your neighbors. Your neighbors are playing music out.
Speaker 1: You're okay with that until midnight on the weekends. Yeah, Oh,
Speaker 1: I feel like I would be a cranky if someone's
Speaker 1: until midnight.
Speaker 2: I feel like I'd be tough.
Speaker 5: But it's like you said about you know, the roof neighbor, like,
Speaker 5: just send a little note, Hey, we're gonna have people over,
Speaker 5: maybe playing a little boom boom boom till midnight.
Speaker 2: I hope you're cool with that.
Speaker 4: Hope you're cool with that in this or not?
Speaker 6: I don't.
Speaker 5: Don't you always invite them too, like, hey, you're always
Speaker 5: walking to come over as well.
Speaker 2: Yep, I don't think.
Speaker 1: I don't think I could cuss A supreme leader doesn't
Speaker 1: lie that ten pm on weekends, nine pm on weeknights.
Speaker 2: I let us know how that goes, Okay, I mean
Speaker 2: win you Son's.
Speaker 4: Birthday August tenth, and is.
Speaker 2: He like Ray Mundo. Does he have a birthday list? Yes?
Speaker 4: He has been working on a birthday list for a while. Now.
Speaker 2: Did anybody start buying Raymunda's birthday list stuff?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 2: Or did we all just move on from that? I'm
Speaker 2: buying that. I moved on, but it's to have.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I did think about going and buying him that thing
Speaker 1: at West Elm, that six foot tall plant. I promise
Speaker 1: you I thought about it, but then I thought, how
Speaker 1: am I going to even transport it. I don't have
Speaker 1: a trunk.
Speaker 4: Maybe they deliver it, ship it to his home.
Speaker 5: You really want to give him a gift, They probably deliver.
Speaker 2: They'll ship that thing from West Elm to Raise House.
Speaker 4: Yes, I would just order it. You could go order
Speaker 4: in person, or you could order it online and.
Speaker 2: Have it Ray text me your address.
Speaker 1: Okay, I will send you because I was near the
Speaker 1: mall and Ray came into my mind because Ray, if
Speaker 1: you missed the segment, Ray gave us a birthday list
Speaker 1: and it was like six hundred our sunglasses. It was
Speaker 1: like a cam Ward signed jersey. Those are like five
Speaker 1: or six hundred bucks. And then it was this six
Speaker 1: foot tall banana tree. I looked at it online and.
Speaker 2: Then I thought, there's no way I can fit that
Speaker 2: in my car. So for your birthday, I will ship
Speaker 2: you that tree. Yeah, just text me your address.
Speaker 5: And how old is Raid turning?
Speaker 2: Forty? Okay?
Speaker 5: And Amy's son.
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, he's gonna be fifteen.
Speaker 2: Fifteen fifteen. Yeah, what's his list?
Speaker 4: Well, he has, you know, new track shoes like stuff
Speaker 4: like that, some new shirts that he wants, and then
Speaker 4: he just added up a day.
Speaker 5: Nice Hey, those are easy to just put on.
Speaker 4: No, no, he doesn't want that kind No, no, no, on.
Speaker 2: Our top of the line built in. Yes.
Speaker 4: Well, we went to this restaurant when we were on vacation,
Speaker 4: and I guess he's been thinking about it ever since
Speaker 4: then because in the bathroom they had like the most
Speaker 4: amazing toilets ever, so much so he disappeared like three
Speaker 4: different times.
Speaker 2: Dinner in the world. I'd sit on a front word,
Speaker 2: I'd sit on a backward. I was sitting anywhere. I
Speaker 2: think square, Sir, I'll take off my birthday dude, No,
Speaker 2: that is not no guys. No.
Speaker 4: He came back and we're a dinner. I mean, we
Speaker 4: have like thirteen people in our party. We have this
Speaker 4: huge table and Stevenson comes back and our waiter is
Speaker 4: there trying to get everybody's order, and Stevenson just stops
Speaker 4: and was like, excuse me, sir, and the waiters like yes,
Speaker 4: and He's like, I just have to tell you your your
Speaker 4: bidday is ten out of ten. That was the best
Speaker 4: experience of my life. Like that, the seat is warm,
Speaker 4: it does just like all kinds of stuff and sure enough.
Speaker 4: So then everybody from the table had to go experience it.
Speaker 4: And then everybody goes and they come back and they're
Speaker 4: like sure enough. Like that toilet, it's not just that
Speaker 4: it was a bid day, it's just like a smart
Speaker 4: toilet that was just epic and awesome, like the light.
Speaker 2: So he wants the whole toilet.
Speaker 4: He was the whole shebang, which I'm sure I have
Speaker 4: no idea how much of the toilets are but thousands
Speaker 4: of dollars, I imagine. So I've already told him, you're
Speaker 4: not getting this bidet for your birthday. Ye just takes
Speaker 4: me as a dress, Bobby, you want to ship it
Speaker 4: to him?
Speaker 2: Uh?
Speaker 1: I think I might want one than that, Like if
Speaker 1: he's moved by it, I think I need one of these.
Speaker 1: They are game changers, a good bide. It's crazy that
Speaker 1: we in America don't think this is something that is
Speaker 1: kneed down toilets.
Speaker 2: Because you're like, oh, I'm getting sprayed in the butt
Speaker 2: with water. You're a cleaner, You're way cleaner.
Speaker 5: Question though, how do you dry off?
Speaker 2: They have the dress in them? Oh a dryer? Sometimes
Speaker 2: I go just for the dry Yeah.
Speaker 4: So I think for this toilet experience in general, like
Speaker 4: it wasn't just that it has the water and the like,
Speaker 4: the toilet was just insane, you know how?
Speaker 2: And you're not going to get him one of those
Speaker 2: just looks.
Speaker 4: Really sleek and cool too. No, I'm not no, what
Speaker 4: am I going to do uninstalled, like rip out the
Speaker 4: toilet that's in his bathroom?
Speaker 5: Will you get someone to do that?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 4: If you loved him, if okay, sorry, that's just like
Speaker 4: not going to be a gift for his fifteenth birthday.
Speaker 2: Did you ask the restaurant which one it was?
Speaker 4: It would be epic? No. I guess I could call
Speaker 4: just so that we could.
Speaker 2: Yeah, call because I'm curious. Will you just call and
Speaker 2: ask them what the toilet is?
Speaker 1: Yes, because I'm curious to know, just to quench my
Speaker 1: thirst of what was so awesome that everybody from the
Speaker 1: table had to go do it?
Speaker 2: Okay, because that feels like it must be a heck
Speaker 2: of an experience.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like if you can see a good movie,
Speaker 1: you go on a good roller coaster, you let your
Speaker 1: friends know a B day, Now, that must be a
Speaker 1: fantastic B day.
Speaker 4: I mean to come back and say ten out of
Speaker 4: ten best of the waiters of my life.
Speaker 3: Yes.
Speaker 1: Later regards to the chef on your bedet, I mean,
Speaker 1: what was your story?
Speaker 2: By the way, before we get out of.
Speaker 4: Here, the gen Z stare like give it to me. Well,
Speaker 4: it's just something that people are assigning to anyone ages
Speaker 4: thirteen to twenty eight right now is considered gen Z.
Speaker 4: And I guess they have this stare that they give
Speaker 4: people like when you ask them like, how's it going,
Speaker 4: or you try to engage in conversation. They don't really
Speaker 4: know how to do it because they have this stare
Speaker 4: like millennials some of us, you know, like we've got
Speaker 4: things assigned to us like avocado toast, and they have
Speaker 4: the gen z stare. I guess it's a look they give.
Speaker 4: And I feel like my daughter does have it sometimes.
Speaker 4: She's eighteen, so she's.
Speaker 2: Right confused with human interaction.
Speaker 4: I think it's just sometimes like how do we communicate
Speaker 4: face to face?
Speaker 5: I was reading that because like they were kind of
Speaker 5: they started working during COVID and they had to work
Speaker 5: from home, that they kind of their social life kind
Speaker 5: of got stunned, which I guess it happened to all
Speaker 5: of us, but with them a little more because they
Speaker 5: were in the growth.
Speaker 2: The professionally growth dunted.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's almost like saying hi to them?
Speaker 3: Is it?
Speaker 4: Also in the article I read, which was from the
Speaker 4: Washington Post, that it's like an inconvenience, Like you're inconveniencing them.
Speaker 4: They have to stop and be like, uh, what.
Speaker 2: Do I do here?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: What am I do here?
Speaker 4: So it's got a name that's called So if you
Speaker 4: encounter that with anyone ages thirteen to twenty eight. You
Speaker 4: are encountering the gin zy stair.
Speaker 2: There you go. We will end on that. Thank you. Guys.
Speaker 1: We have a new episode of twenty five Whistles up today.
Speaker 1: We'll be up quarterback for Vanderbilt. Diego Pavia is on
Speaker 1: with us for like forty five minutes.
Speaker 4: Diego, what.
Speaker 2: What was that?
Speaker 4: That was weird?
Speaker 2: I don't want to there was nothing to play.
Speaker 4: I know, I like his Diego Pablo. Yeah, no, oh,
Speaker 4: Diego Pavia. He's still got a good name.
Speaker 2: Yeah he's a quarterback.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, that's strange.
Speaker 1: All right, check out twenty five Whistles today. We'll see
Speaker 1: you guys tomorrow.
Speaker 2: Bye, everybody.