1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:02,280 Speaker 1: We talked about this on the Tangent, but I want 2 00:00:02,279 --> 00:00:05,160 Speaker 1: to take it to the air here because well, well 3 00:00:05,760 --> 00:00:06,160 Speaker 1: it's not. 4 00:00:11,320 --> 00:00:14,240 Speaker 2: Booty holes. No no, no, no, no no. 5 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:21,800 Speaker 1: That's meant to discuss on there. Pauline is out today, 6 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 1: so no five to get text the same number be 7 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:27,840 Speaker 1: part of the show anytime. So this is a woman. 8 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:29,640 Speaker 1: If you if you didn't listen to the Tangent this week, 9 00:00:29,680 --> 00:00:33,000 Speaker 1: then whatever, then you have not heard this. 10 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 2: Maybe, but there's a woman. 11 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 1: That apparently has asked her husband if she can have 12 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:43,840 Speaker 1: sex with her ex one last time because she's dying. 13 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:47,320 Speaker 1: So a guy took to Reddit and he says that 14 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 1: his wife left him feeling ashamed and guilty as he 15 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:52,639 Speaker 1: struggles with whether or not to grant one of her 16 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 1: end of life wishes, which is to have sex for 17 00:00:55,160 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 1: the former partner. So the story is, it's a long story, 18 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:01,440 Speaker 1: but I'll try paraphrase here. I really need to say 19 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:03,840 Speaker 1: something about this. I have no one I can tell. 20 00:01:03,880 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 1: My wife has a terminal disease. She's projected to live 21 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:10,760 Speaker 1: at most nine months. I'm of course destroyed. We've been 22 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:13,520 Speaker 1: together for a decade. I don't remember life without her, 23 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:16,200 Speaker 1: and I don't know what I'm gonna do when she's gone. 24 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:18,200 Speaker 1: I have been doing my best to make the last 25 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:20,280 Speaker 1: days of her life good and grant whatever wish I can. 26 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:22,320 Speaker 1: The doctor said she's likely to need a wheelchair in 27 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 1: four to five months, and then my month eight she'll 28 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:29,400 Speaker 1: be bedridden for the last few weeks. So she recently 29 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 1: sat this guy down her husband and so that one 30 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:34,640 Speaker 1: of the last things she wanted to do was have 31 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 1: sex with a previous partner of hers. Oh, of course, 32 00:01:38,240 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 1: was shocked, and I want to know why she thinks 33 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 1: that her most physically compatible, satisfying lover with him, and 34 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 1: she's saying that to him. She gave a home monologue 35 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 1: about how sometimes it's just physical and how she's more 36 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:56,600 Speaker 1: emotionally fulfilled with him. Now that is offensive. I would 37 00:01:56,640 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 1: be like, Okay, So he put it down and tomorrow 38 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:11,280 Speaker 1: power out. I don't know, I'm crazy, Yeah I have. 39 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:17,320 Speaker 1: We're gonna miss her so bad. I mean, I would 40 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 1: be so insulted, like, yeah, the last guy he had 41 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:23,640 Speaker 1: that thang you you make me feel warm inside? Like, no, 42 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 1: no offense, But I don't. I think I'd rather have 43 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 1: that thing than make you feel warm inside. It sounds terrible, 44 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 1: but I mean, ideally you do both, right, but I mean, 45 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:35,520 Speaker 1: what the hell what would you do? 46 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 2: And we weren't able to take. 47 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 1: Calls on this because it was The Tangent, it was 48 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 1: our off air podcast. But I'm not sure that I 49 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:43,079 Speaker 1: even really got We kind of talked about it and 50 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:45,000 Speaker 1: then I don't remember what everybody's take was, but like, 51 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 1: definitively so I kind of want to go person by person. 52 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:51,920 Speaker 1: So your partner comes to you, you're married, you've been 53 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 1: together for a long time. This person is gonna die sadly, 54 00:02:54,919 --> 00:02:57,680 Speaker 1: very very sad, and they say, I would like to 55 00:02:57,720 --> 00:03:01,079 Speaker 1: get with my former partner one last time. 56 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 2: Now here's the thing. 57 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:04,520 Speaker 1: And this is brought up on the Tangent by one 58 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 1: of you guys or all of us. In eight months, 59 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 1: it's over, Sadly, it's over, she's gone, and then you 60 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: can go do whatever you want. 61 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:12,960 Speaker 2: Now here's the thing. 62 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 1: It sounds like to the person who's emotionally unattached, that 63 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:19,600 Speaker 1: sounds like a great deal. But you love this person, 64 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 1: you had no intention of ever doing that. You're sad 65 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 1: this person is dying. Now they told you that you 66 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 1: suck in bed, so you're really kind of feeling bad 67 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:30,200 Speaker 1: about yourself. It's not necessarily as though you're looking at 68 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:32,079 Speaker 1: it like whoof in eight months? I can you know, 69 00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:34,560 Speaker 1: I can stick it to whomever like it's you're not 70 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 1: in that. You're not in that mode, so I don't 71 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 1: know that that's necessarily like the draw as well, fair 72 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 1: is fair? Instead your last memory, one of your last 73 00:03:43,280 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 1: memories of this person is they wanted to sleep with 74 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:45,640 Speaker 1: somebody else? 75 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:49,200 Speaker 2: Kiki? Oh what why? 76 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 1: Because you're the first in line when you know? What why? 77 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 1: Because it's what you do. 78 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 3: I already know nobody's gonna agree with me. Is gonna 79 00:03:57,440 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 3: be bad? You know, I am a hippope it okay, 80 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 3: so proclaimed so if Big Tim asks me this, he's 81 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 3: going to meet God right this moment, like this is 82 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:06,880 Speaker 3: in he's dead. 83 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 2: But we're going to graphics already. Okay, we don't wait 84 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 2: eight months. I don't want to. 85 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:17,719 Speaker 1: I don't want to see you for any longer. So 86 00:04:17,839 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 1: let me take care of this, right. Yeah awful. But 87 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 1: as a woman, as a woman, a kiky okay, I 88 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 1: was gonna say, are you speaking for here? 89 00:04:28,720 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 2: Are you speaking for yourself? 90 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:32,719 Speaker 3: I feel like like I'm about to die, bro, like, 91 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:34,239 Speaker 3: let me just live my life. 92 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:35,360 Speaker 2: I'm about to die. 93 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:38,479 Speaker 3: And we've had a long marriage, we've been everything's been great, 94 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 3: you know, and I love you. But let me just live, 95 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:47,159 Speaker 3: let me get this off. It's not that bad, you know, like. 96 00:04:48,279 --> 00:04:48,919 Speaker 4: To die. 97 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 1: This is so not surprising and entirely unbrand. But Big 98 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:58,680 Speaker 1: Tim couldnot do. This is awful and it's the end 99 00:04:58,720 --> 00:05:00,839 Speaker 1: of his He's going to premature passed away. I have 100 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 1: no idea what happened, but the disease, it really got 101 00:05:03,080 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 1: him faster. The doctors had no idea how aggressive it was. 102 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 1: He told me he wanted anti freeze in his. 103 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 2: That's what he said he wanted. I gave it to him. 104 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:16,560 Speaker 2: That's what he asked for. Thanks. 105 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:21,559 Speaker 1: But you, on the other hand, can justify it because 106 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:23,479 Speaker 1: it's like, look, it's this is the end of my life. 107 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:24,120 Speaker 2: It is what it does. 108 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 3: Yes, And you have to like, don't how selfish are 109 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 3: you that? Like you're you're worried about how you feel. 110 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 2: I'm about to die. You got right, Let me ask 111 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:35,920 Speaker 2: you that, how selfish are you? I'm dying? 112 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 3: So like, when I die, You're gonna date other women, 113 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:41,360 Speaker 3: You're gonna have another relationship, you might get married again. 114 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:45,440 Speaker 3: There's more out there for you. I got nine months, bro, Like, 115 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:46,920 Speaker 3: let me just live. 116 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:51,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, but the ghost of Key's gonna haunt him forever. 117 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:53,280 Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. He's gonna try to hook 118 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:56,279 Speaker 4: up with his ex. Yeah, you're gonna be in the room. 119 00:05:56,520 --> 00:05:59,240 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, I'm in the room. I'm in the calm 120 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 3: wherever he is. I do not That's one thing. Like, 121 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 3: don't get at my funeral and say, you know she 122 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 3: would want you to be happy and live on. 123 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:05,720 Speaker 2: No, I don't. 124 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:09,040 Speaker 3: I want you to be miserable, saying you not to 125 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 3: come meet me? Yes, so, yes. 126 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:18,599 Speaker 2: I love you Calin. Okay, So I need a little 127 00:06:18,640 --> 00:06:19,159 Speaker 2: more info. 128 00:06:19,279 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 5: I need to know have I been wiping your ass 129 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:23,320 Speaker 5: for the last six months or do we just find 130 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 5: out today that you've got nine months? 131 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 1: That's another very interesting point. And even if you haven't 132 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:29,719 Speaker 1: been up until this point, at some point it sounds 133 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:31,760 Speaker 1: like you're going to be. So am I expected to 134 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:34,560 Speaker 1: care for you? Yeah, because then stand by you while 135 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:36,920 Speaker 1: you also go get with your ex? Like, how can 136 00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:38,200 Speaker 1: I be expected to do both? 137 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:40,440 Speaker 2: No, I've helped be a caretaker for It's a lot 138 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:40,680 Speaker 2: of work. 139 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 5: So no, if I am, I am wiping your ass 140 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:44,360 Speaker 5: and changing your catheter or whatever you need me to do, 141 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 5: and you want to go rub one out. 142 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:48,600 Speaker 2: No, the answer is no, deuces. 143 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:50,280 Speaker 5: I will still show up to your funeral, but I'm 144 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:53,680 Speaker 5: not planning anything, cleaning anything, you know. 145 00:06:53,960 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 1: So one person is like, get your legal This is 146 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:58,360 Speaker 1: some of the comments on Reddit. Get your legal affairs 147 00:06:58,400 --> 00:07:01,360 Speaker 1: in order and just say goodbye. Now, just be like, hey, 148 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:04,840 Speaker 1: you know what, do what do you got another? You 149 00:07:04,839 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 1: got eight months left? I don't I don't approve of 150 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 1: what you want to do with the rest of your life, 151 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 1: but I care about you enough that like, I'm just 152 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 1: gonna let I'm gonna let it go now. 153 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 2: Oh my death bit. Yeah, why waste your time if 154 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 2: you're trying to with. 155 00:07:16,280 --> 00:07:20,880 Speaker 3: Your ex, because I still want you. I love you. 156 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:23,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, Rocky mount and climbing and then. 157 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 1: Which is what her ex's name is. It's a weird name, 158 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 1: but yeah, no, I remember when Tim sang about. 159 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:36,360 Speaker 2: That, and you can go do that, honey, but I 160 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 2: will not be there. 161 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 3: Yeah. 162 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:40,120 Speaker 1: It's like, hey, I it was a good ride. I 163 00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 1: wish you well do what you gotta do, but I'm 164 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 1: not going to be there at the end. Wheel in 165 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 1: your ass around. 166 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:46,200 Speaker 5: I'd also be like, why were you with me if 167 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:48,080 Speaker 5: you can't stop thinking about how your ex hits it, 168 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:49,720 Speaker 5: Like that's what's annoying. 169 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 3: Another thing Like you, guys, when somebody's dying, you don't 170 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 3: know what mental state they go through, and they probably 171 00:07:55,880 --> 00:07:57,400 Speaker 3: haven't thought about the X and years. 172 00:07:57,680 --> 00:08:00,559 Speaker 2: It's good. I thought about it every day, like you're dead. 173 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 3: If I'm dead, what does it matter? Like, I'll let 174 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 3: you hit it last. I just need to get him. 175 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:14,320 Speaker 2: Well, that'll be funny. I'm I just got done. I 176 00:08:14,360 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 2: can't feel. 177 00:08:17,160 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 1: I just got done with the feeding too. But now 178 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:21,640 Speaker 1: you're gonna tell me I can hit it. I think 179 00:08:21,680 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 1: I make you feel good in your heart because I 180 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 1: know I didn't make you feel good any other way 181 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 1: because you told me that. Hey Danny, Hi, Danny, how 182 00:08:28,840 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 1: you doing, Danny? What are your thoughts here? 183 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 2: Yeah? 184 00:08:32,080 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 1: Just if you're just tuning in and you're not. But 185 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 1: if someone's just tuning in. This woman went to her 186 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:38,760 Speaker 1: husband of ten years and after they find out that 187 00:08:38,800 --> 00:08:40,760 Speaker 1: you had eight months to live, and she said, hey, 188 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:43,359 Speaker 1: look I love you and you make me feel good emotionally, 189 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 1: but my ex was physically the best sex I ever had, 190 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:49,000 Speaker 1: and I'd like to go be with him one more 191 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 1: time before I die, Danny, what say you? What's going 192 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 1: to happen? 193 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 2: Absolutely not, I would not. 194 00:08:55,559 --> 00:08:58,360 Speaker 6: I mean it's not I mean, I'm not saying i'd 195 00:08:58,440 --> 00:09:02,360 Speaker 6: be selfish, but it's like and I mean, yeah, she. 196 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:07,520 Speaker 2: Goes, she goes to six feet under under the ground, 197 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:12,199 Speaker 2: and then you're over there sitting there like like, geez. 198 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:16,560 Speaker 1: Is probably I would have a little more to say 199 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:20,840 Speaker 1: than that, Danny. But yeah, yeah, So you're saying, no, 200 00:09:21,040 --> 00:09:21,839 Speaker 1: you're not going for this. 201 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:25,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, o kids, I mean then then you have to 202 00:09:25,320 --> 00:09:30,240 Speaker 2: think about now the reds your future significant other ones 203 00:09:30,920 --> 00:09:34,240 Speaker 2: are like, you're going to overthink about it now. 204 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:37,199 Speaker 1: Oh, like, is the X person gonna make me wipe 205 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:38,800 Speaker 1: their butt and sleep with their X two? 206 00:09:39,080 --> 00:09:39,440 Speaker 2: Yeah? 207 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:41,599 Speaker 1: Or I don't know, maybe maybe you should get some 208 00:09:41,640 --> 00:09:43,880 Speaker 1: instructional videos or something for the next one. It sounds 209 00:09:43,880 --> 00:09:45,840 Speaker 1: like maybe maybe get some books online or watch them 210 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:49,840 Speaker 1: tape or something. Review the tape, you know, Yeah, yeah, 211 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:54,040 Speaker 1: I mean yeah, yeah, Danny, you're the best man. Have 212 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 1: a good day. Appreciate that too. 213 00:09:56,280 --> 00:09:56,960 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah. 214 00:09:57,000 --> 00:09:58,679 Speaker 1: No, So he's worried that he would be started for 215 00:09:58,760 --> 00:09:59,720 Speaker 1: the rest of his life. 216 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:05,000 Speaker 3: The rest of your life, my life is over? 217 00:10:05,559 --> 00:10:09,600 Speaker 1: Well, another one you're going to heaven, I would assume. 218 00:10:09,640 --> 00:10:11,080 Speaker 1: I hope you know you're going to heaven, and then 219 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:13,680 Speaker 1: you get this, yeah, all. 220 00:10:13,679 --> 00:10:15,959 Speaker 2: Right, wait you're going downstairs if you're trying to bang 221 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:16,360 Speaker 2: your ex. 222 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:19,640 Speaker 1: Basically almost every other meassine say everybody, But most of 223 00:10:19,679 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 1: the feedback here is okay. If that's what she wants, 224 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:24,280 Speaker 1: that's fine. Just and the marriage and let her live 225 00:10:24,320 --> 00:10:26,480 Speaker 1: out the rest of her life however she wants. You 226 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:28,680 Speaker 1: had a nice run, you know, and if she wants 227 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:29,920 Speaker 1: to go out there and do that, you don't have 228 00:10:29,960 --> 00:10:30,880 Speaker 1: to stand by and watch. 229 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 2: Sorry about your luck, but go on see you. Yeah, 230 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 2: I think so too. 231 00:10:34,360 --> 00:10:36,920 Speaker 1: A bunch of texts in regards to the lady who 232 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:38,679 Speaker 1: wants to get with her ex before she dies, how 233 00:10:38,720 --> 00:10:41,960 Speaker 1: does she know the ex is available for her to 234 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:42,880 Speaker 1: mess around with? Now? 235 00:10:42,920 --> 00:10:43,720 Speaker 2: That is shady. 236 00:10:43,960 --> 00:10:46,280 Speaker 5: I would agree she should have checked first, because what 237 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:47,560 Speaker 5: if the excess know what. 238 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:50,439 Speaker 1: It sounds like, Maybe maybe she knows for a fact 239 00:10:50,440 --> 00:10:52,319 Speaker 1: that this person would be you know what I mean? 240 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:53,440 Speaker 2: Maybe sounds like. 241 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:56,479 Speaker 1: There's you know, she's trying to clear her conscience. Conscience, 242 00:10:56,640 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 1: maybe she already knows the answer. Money if it's a 243 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 1: miracle and she doesn't die. Yeah, lives longer than predicted. 244 00:11:05,080 --> 00:11:14,800 Speaker 4: Oh how can keithy Kekey even speak such a double standard? 245 00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:16,319 Speaker 2: Said that. I know she. 246 00:11:16,360 --> 00:11:20,240 Speaker 1: Basically told you I'm about to express a double So 247 00:11:20,320 --> 00:11:24,760 Speaker 1: thank you for that feed back. The way that she 248 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:27,480 Speaker 1: said it is so offensive. I'd be like, Okay, my 249 00:11:27,559 --> 00:11:29,280 Speaker 1: dying wife was like, I want to mess around with 250 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:31,080 Speaker 1: some people before I die. Yeah, I mean, yeah, that's 251 00:11:31,120 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 1: the thing. The way that that whole thing like, well, 252 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:35,840 Speaker 1: I love your insides, but your. 253 00:11:35,679 --> 00:11:40,599 Speaker 2: Thing ain't thing. You thing ain't thing. Yeah, so I 254 00:11:40,640 --> 00:11:42,760 Speaker 2: don't know, you get insulted the same. 255 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:46,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, that would probably hurt me more than the physical. 256 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 1: I mean, I wouldn't like either one. But I'm like, okay, 257 00:11:48,960 --> 00:11:51,040 Speaker 1: so you're telling me the last ten years, I just 258 00:11:51,080 --> 00:11:52,840 Speaker 1: make you feel warm and fuzzy inside. 259 00:11:53,280 --> 00:11:57,960 Speaker 2: That's it. Hell no, my thanks sagging, Yes, get out 260 00:11:57,960 --> 00:11:58,680 Speaker 2: of here right. 261 00:11:58,800 --> 00:12:02,120 Speaker 1: And I called the divorce a turn going Maury, just 262 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:06,439 Speaker 1: make sure my kids are mine blogs, audio journals, like 263 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:07,360 Speaker 1: we're writing in our diaries. 264 00:12:07,400 --> 00:12:09,320 Speaker 2: Kaylin's got one go, dear blog. 265 00:12:09,520 --> 00:12:14,560 Speaker 5: So I'm sensing some shenanigans are going on. Yeah, there's 266 00:12:14,679 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 5: there's a turn in the punch bowl. A hair in 267 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:18,600 Speaker 5: the butter if you will. What's going on? 268 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:19,120 Speaker 2: Okay? 269 00:12:19,720 --> 00:12:24,200 Speaker 5: So I am going back to Detroit today after the show. 270 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:26,760 Speaker 5: That's where I'm from, if you're a new listener for 271 00:12:26,800 --> 00:12:30,040 Speaker 5: an engagement party. And every time I go, I stay 272 00:12:30,080 --> 00:12:34,840 Speaker 5: at my mom's house obviously, and my sister is home 273 00:12:35,200 --> 00:12:35,880 Speaker 5: for the summer. 274 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:38,200 Speaker 2: She's nineteen. She goes to Michigan State, but she's home 275 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:38,760 Speaker 2: for the summer. 276 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:43,560 Speaker 5: My parents, Uh, every weekend have been going up to 277 00:12:43,720 --> 00:12:45,080 Speaker 5: our new cabin they bought recently. 278 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 2: It was my mom's dream before she turned sixty. So 279 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:49,680 Speaker 2: they go up there every weekend. They will not be home. Okay. 280 00:12:50,600 --> 00:12:52,960 Speaker 5: So I get a text from my sister yesterday who 281 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:54,679 Speaker 5: just found out I was coming home, and she says, 282 00:12:54,960 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 5: are you sleeping here? 283 00:12:55,840 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 2: This is all she said. 284 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:04,280 Speaker 5: And I go, yeah, it's my house, my friend Shelby 285 00:13:04,280 --> 00:13:05,959 Speaker 5: and I will be sleeping there. She goes, and then 286 00:13:06,040 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 5: this is all she says back both days, question. 287 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:15,880 Speaker 2: Mark, She got to move some things around. Yeah, you guys, 288 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 2: ex I'm. 289 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:19,360 Speaker 5: Starting to feel like I'm geting kicked out of my 290 00:13:19,400 --> 00:13:23,600 Speaker 5: own house. I go, yeah, why, she goes, because I'm 291 00:13:23,640 --> 00:13:26,320 Speaker 5: having people over and I just want to see. 292 00:13:26,679 --> 00:13:31,200 Speaker 2: People people or person. Oh, no, she's trying to have 293 00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:44,880 Speaker 2: a party. Oh yeah, because answer, she's throwing a rager. Kid, 294 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:45,640 Speaker 2: that's a component. 295 00:13:46,320 --> 00:13:48,600 Speaker 1: Couldn't you be there for a party if it weren't 296 00:13:48,640 --> 00:13:50,960 Speaker 1: you know a little bit scenanigans. 297 00:13:50,480 --> 00:13:52,320 Speaker 2: Because I'm an adult and I think i'm. 298 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:55,600 Speaker 5: You know, Jack and her sweat And I said, girl, like, 299 00:13:56,240 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 5: I know, I've seen it all, I know it all. 300 00:13:58,400 --> 00:14:00,680 Speaker 5: I just but I am going to be fully removed, 301 00:14:00,679 --> 00:14:02,559 Speaker 5: like she needs to make sure this house is cleaned 302 00:14:02,600 --> 00:14:03,640 Speaker 5: up by the time my parents. 303 00:14:03,679 --> 00:14:05,840 Speaker 2: I am not taking any of this on, like I 304 00:14:05,880 --> 00:14:06,559 Speaker 2: don't feel well. 305 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:09,719 Speaker 5: I have a fully packed weekend, like she's got to 306 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:12,640 Speaker 5: keep all. So now I'm like, well, ma'am, where can 307 00:14:12,679 --> 00:14:15,120 Speaker 5: I sleep? Like there's like, am I kicked out of 308 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:15,520 Speaker 5: my room? 309 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 2: Oh no, isn't she in your room? 310 00:14:17,280 --> 00:14:19,600 Speaker 1: Now? Oh? Well she yes, So she got the big 311 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:22,200 Speaker 1: room because you left. So now you're in her little room. 312 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 5: I'm in Harry Potter's closet and it's the smallest room 313 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:27,200 Speaker 5: in the house. There's no bathroom nothing. Yeah, So I'm like, 314 00:14:27,280 --> 00:14:29,200 Speaker 5: can I even sleep on you know, on the upstairs 315 00:14:29,200 --> 00:14:30,000 Speaker 5: floor or all the room? 316 00:14:30,120 --> 00:14:32,560 Speaker 2: Like you know? So yeah, I am jacking her style. 317 00:14:32,920 --> 00:14:35,520 Speaker 5: There's gonna be project acts happening at my house apparently, 318 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:37,320 Speaker 5: which I do not want to deal with. My poor 319 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:39,640 Speaker 5: friend Shelby, who's never met her, never been to my house, 320 00:14:39,760 --> 00:14:41,320 Speaker 5: is going to be like what the hell you said? 321 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:43,320 Speaker 5: You had a nice place to stay, And there's gonna 322 00:14:43,320 --> 00:14:44,080 Speaker 5: be kids, you. 323 00:14:44,040 --> 00:14:47,080 Speaker 2: Know, all over like the stiffler's mom of the house. 324 00:14:47,120 --> 00:14:48,600 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I don't want to. 325 00:14:51,920 --> 00:14:57,360 Speaker 1: Sorry, Bella's so yeah that too, you know. 326 00:14:57,640 --> 00:14:59,600 Speaker 2: Listen, you guys a rich environment. 327 00:15:04,440 --> 00:15:11,680 Speaker 5: I'm not buying you guys alcohol. I'm not you know, 328 00:15:11,760 --> 00:15:15,280 Speaker 5: responding if the cops come. I'm not cleaning anything. So 329 00:15:15,640 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 5: just picture you don't see me. You don't see me there. 330 00:15:18,520 --> 00:15:20,680 Speaker 5: So that's what I'm to consider a hotel. Just so 331 00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 5: you have nothing to do with this. 332 00:15:22,280 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 2: I have a free, wonderful place to say. Why am 333 00:15:24,640 --> 00:15:27,040 Speaker 2: I getting kicked out of my own shoes? Wonderful? Anymore? 334 00:15:29,760 --> 00:15:34,640 Speaker 1: Likes trinking boons for farmering off ice. 335 00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:37,800 Speaker 5: God knows what We're back because I'm going to a 336 00:15:37,880 --> 00:15:40,600 Speaker 5: rager apparently college. 337 00:15:40,800 --> 00:15:43,800 Speaker 1: You're chapering a ranger waiting by the phone's next Beth, 338 00:15:43,880 --> 00:15:46,000 Speaker 1: you are one of my favorite teachers of the hour. 339 00:15:46,280 --> 00:15:49,400 Speaker 6: I have to tell you, Oh my gosh, thank you 340 00:15:49,480 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 6: so much. 341 00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:53,280 Speaker 1: You're amazing and you are a special education teacher. And 342 00:15:53,320 --> 00:15:55,160 Speaker 1: I'm reading what you said in but it would be 343 00:15:55,160 --> 00:15:57,000 Speaker 1: better if you would tell us. So tell us who 344 00:15:57,000 --> 00:15:59,600 Speaker 1: you can teach, who you work with, and why what 345 00:15:59,640 --> 00:16:00,280 Speaker 1: it means to you. 346 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:05,280 Speaker 6: Absolutely, I am a special education teacher. I work with 347 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 6: kids from kindergarten through fifth grade ins either going to 348 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:11,960 Speaker 6: classrooms and work with them in there, or I pull 349 00:16:12,000 --> 00:16:12,920 Speaker 6: them out and work with them in. 350 00:16:12,880 --> 00:16:13,440 Speaker 2: My own room. 351 00:16:14,360 --> 00:16:17,600 Speaker 6: And it's just so rewarding to work with all of 352 00:16:17,600 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 6: these children. They're amazing and to watch them overcome different 353 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:25,920 Speaker 6: things that that are they're working through and struggling through 354 00:16:25,960 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 6: and to get it is just the highlight of my 355 00:16:28,640 --> 00:16:29,520 Speaker 6: day every day. 356 00:16:30,360 --> 00:16:31,640 Speaker 1: You talk about in this in this note that you 357 00:16:31,720 --> 00:16:34,960 Speaker 1: said this about working with some kids who have behavioral issues. 358 00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:37,560 Speaker 1: I mean, how do you how do you not get 359 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:39,960 Speaker 1: frustrated when when it maybe feels sometimes like you're not 360 00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:42,520 Speaker 1: getting through to them, Like do you just is it 361 00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 1: just your holding out hope that eventually something that you 362 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:46,040 Speaker 1: do will we'll connect. 363 00:16:47,160 --> 00:16:52,640 Speaker 6: Absolutely that and they become your favorite kids. They are 364 00:16:52,680 --> 00:16:56,280 Speaker 6: my favorite kids to work with because so many times 365 00:16:56,320 --> 00:17:01,040 Speaker 6: they're told no, or that something's not the something wrong 366 00:17:01,240 --> 00:17:02,760 Speaker 6: or all of that, and you just got to give 367 00:17:02,760 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 6: them a little bit of positivity. And you know that 368 00:17:05,000 --> 00:17:07,680 Speaker 6: they're coming from a place of frustration and you're there 369 00:17:07,680 --> 00:17:08,600 Speaker 6: to help them work through it. 370 00:17:08,960 --> 00:17:10,680 Speaker 1: See, and we've been saying this for a couple of weeks. 371 00:17:10,720 --> 00:17:12,600 Speaker 1: I'm sorry to interrupt you back, but listen to the way 372 00:17:12,640 --> 00:17:14,879 Speaker 1: she talks about this, like not anybody could do this job, 373 00:17:15,280 --> 00:17:17,920 Speaker 1: like I mean, not everybody has the patience and the nurturing, 374 00:17:18,080 --> 00:17:21,840 Speaker 1: you know, capability qualities. You know, to look at it 375 00:17:21,840 --> 00:17:23,120 Speaker 1: that way, and you you do. 376 00:17:24,800 --> 00:17:26,320 Speaker 2: Thank you any do. 377 00:17:26,560 --> 00:17:29,240 Speaker 6: I wanted to be a teacher forever, so there was 378 00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:29,920 Speaker 6: no other pack. 379 00:17:30,240 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, did you have an inspiring teacher? We've been hearing 380 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:34,479 Speaker 1: that for the last couple of weeks that it's a 381 00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:36,440 Speaker 1: lot of a lot of the folks that we've spoken 382 00:17:36,480 --> 00:17:39,600 Speaker 1: with had somebody in their lives, a teacher in their 383 00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:42,280 Speaker 1: lives that inspired them to want to follow this path. 384 00:17:43,600 --> 00:17:46,879 Speaker 6: Absolutely, it was my third grade teacher, missus Anderson. She 385 00:17:47,040 --> 00:17:50,399 Speaker 6: was my inspiring teacher. She just made learning fun and 386 00:17:50,440 --> 00:17:52,240 Speaker 6: you wanted to go to school, and you wanted to 387 00:17:52,240 --> 00:17:54,359 Speaker 6: do all the things. And I kind of want to 388 00:17:54,359 --> 00:17:56,879 Speaker 6: do the same thing when I got older. I wanted 389 00:17:56,920 --> 00:17:59,320 Speaker 6: to make school fun because it was a fun place 390 00:17:59,359 --> 00:17:59,680 Speaker 6: for me. 391 00:18:00,280 --> 00:18:02,040 Speaker 1: And bet does she know that have you been able 392 00:18:02,040 --> 00:18:03,560 Speaker 1: to connect with her? Is she's still around, that you're 393 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:05,359 Speaker 1: able to tell her that she inspired you to do 394 00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:07,240 Speaker 1: this and that you followed in her footsteps. 395 00:18:08,280 --> 00:18:08,600 Speaker 2: I have. 396 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:11,160 Speaker 6: In fact, her husband actually taught at the same school 397 00:18:11,400 --> 00:18:15,560 Speaker 6: I went to a really small school, and so we've 398 00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:17,480 Speaker 6: gotten to see them. And he was my other favorite 399 00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:20,639 Speaker 6: teacher in eighth grade, and so it was one of 400 00:18:20,680 --> 00:18:22,200 Speaker 6: those things where it's like I got to tell both 401 00:18:22,240 --> 00:18:24,320 Speaker 6: of them when I came back to visit, and I 402 00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:28,159 Speaker 6: actually did some pre teaching stuff at that school, and 403 00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:29,840 Speaker 6: I got to tell them how much they inspired me 404 00:18:29,880 --> 00:18:31,639 Speaker 6: and some other teachers there, which I thought was pretty 405 00:18:31,640 --> 00:18:33,080 Speaker 6: cool to go back and be able to do that. 406 00:18:33,280 --> 00:18:33,800 Speaker 2: I love that. 407 00:18:33,840 --> 00:18:36,160 Speaker 1: And you said in your note here that you on 408 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:40,240 Speaker 1: your list your wish list for your classroom sensory items 409 00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:42,639 Speaker 1: that are very costly generally, and that you get a 410 00:18:42,640 --> 00:18:44,960 Speaker 1: small budget, but it goes, you know, really quickly. 411 00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:46,880 Speaker 2: I didn't know that. 412 00:18:46,960 --> 00:18:48,320 Speaker 1: So it's a lot of these items that you need 413 00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:54,040 Speaker 1: for your special education classroom are are more expensive than others. 414 00:18:53,320 --> 00:18:57,520 Speaker 6: Yes, they are. For example, I got some stools that 415 00:18:57,600 --> 00:19:00,840 Speaker 6: help kids wiggle when they're sitting that we all tap 416 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:04,360 Speaker 6: or moving our chair, and by Dad was like, I'll 417 00:19:04,359 --> 00:19:07,480 Speaker 6: buy you one, and then he's like, they're seventy five 418 00:19:07,520 --> 00:19:09,760 Speaker 6: dollars a stool. I'm not buying you a seventy five 419 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:13,520 Speaker 6: dollars stool. So things like that where you have multiple needs, 420 00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:16,439 Speaker 6: but the amount is so great for just one of 421 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:20,119 Speaker 6: those things. So yes, we are always we try and 422 00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:22,440 Speaker 6: make some of the things, but as you know, they 423 00:19:22,440 --> 00:19:25,280 Speaker 6: don't last as long and stuff like that. So a 424 00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:28,280 Speaker 6: little our budget goes as much as we can strutch 425 00:19:28,280 --> 00:19:30,560 Speaker 6: it to get everything we need for our students. 426 00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:35,840 Speaker 1: Jason is get out the checkbook. You know what to do. 427 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:37,920 Speaker 1: You know what to do. Get out the checkbook. We're 428 00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:40,760 Speaker 1: gonna buy the damn's tools or whatever else. That's because 429 00:19:40,800 --> 00:19:41,480 Speaker 1: you deserve it. 430 00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:45,119 Speaker 6: Oh, you all are fantastic. Thank you so much. 431 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:47,680 Speaker 1: We're not doing anything. We're just sitting around, you know, 432 00:19:47,720 --> 00:19:49,520 Speaker 1: talking it up, drinking coffee. You're the one out there 433 00:19:49,520 --> 00:19:51,480 Speaker 1: doing the hard work. And we're inspired by you and 434 00:19:51,960 --> 00:19:53,960 Speaker 1: all the teachers that we've spoken to, and so many 435 00:19:53,960 --> 00:19:55,760 Speaker 1: of them that we haven't been able to talk to 436 00:19:55,840 --> 00:19:58,760 Speaker 1: who who's wishless are up at freshradio dot com. But 437 00:19:58,880 --> 00:20:01,240 Speaker 1: thank you Beth for being you and uh, we'll get 438 00:20:01,280 --> 00:20:02,840 Speaker 1: you some dough so you can buy some of this 439 00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:05,560 Speaker 1: stuff and tell you tell your daddy to cheapskate. 440 00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:09,440 Speaker 2: We bailed them out, I will will. 441 00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:11,359 Speaker 6: You guys are the reason we get through in the morning. 442 00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:13,679 Speaker 6: Well help me know that. So as much as you're 443 00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:16,040 Speaker 6: sitting around drinking coffee, I'm the one listening to you 444 00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:16,800 Speaker 6: guys in the building. 445 00:20:16,960 --> 00:20:19,479 Speaker 1: Well, thank you boss so much, Thank you Bet, and 446 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:21,520 Speaker 1: thanks for all that you do. And have a great 447 00:20:21,520 --> 00:20:23,960 Speaker 1: school year. Hang out one second, and Jason, you know, 448 00:20:24,480 --> 00:20:26,760 Speaker 1: to get the pen gets. Get Shelley's check book out. 449 00:20:26,840 --> 00:20:28,600 Speaker 1: She's the only one who has one left. So yeah, 450 00:20:29,160 --> 00:20:31,040 Speaker 1: hang on, Beth. Have a great day, great weekend, great 451 00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:31,560 Speaker 1: school year. 452 00:20:32,680 --> 00:20:33,520 Speaker 6: Thank you you too. 453 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:36,080 Speaker 2: Okay, good today? Right there? Fred Show is on. 454 00:20:36,359 --> 00:20:43,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, Friend's Fun fact Fred Fun. 455 00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:54,280 Speaker 1: Learn so much you guys, rats rats will laugh out 456 00:20:54,640 --> 00:20:56,520 Speaker 1: loud if you tickle them. 457 00:20:57,760 --> 00:21:01,080 Speaker 2: What that's right, that's right. Don't try this at home. 458 00:21:01,440 --> 00:21:04,160 Speaker 1: Don't try to any kind of random rat okay, because 459 00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:05,919 Speaker 1: I don't want you to hear in these streets, you know, 460 00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:08,640 Speaker 1: Pet and rats and then getting rabies. But they laugh 461 00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:11,479 Speaker 1: when they're tickled, just like humans. They have ticklish spots 462 00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:15,080 Speaker 1: that can bring out their high pitched laughter. It's so 463 00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 1: high pitched apparently you wouldn't be able to hear it. 464 00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:22,480 Speaker 1: But if you tickle a rat, it will laugh, even 465 00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:25,280 Speaker 1: a three leg you're rat. They try to bust up Kaylin. Oh, 466 00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:28,520 Speaker 1: the one that the downstairs in the building. He was 467 00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:31,040 Speaker 1: laughing at kailin the whole time. She didn't even have 468 00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:31,440 Speaker 1: to tickle. 469 00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:37,640 Speaker 2: He was laughing. More Fred Show. Next, there's that. Yeah, 470 00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:38,920 Speaker 2: they talk better than they. 471 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:43,639 Speaker 1: These are the radio blogs on the Fred Shot like 472 00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:45,680 Speaker 1: writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud. 473 00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:47,800 Speaker 7: We call them blogs a roof. He's got one though, 474 00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:52,480 Speaker 7: thank you, dear blog. What do I say, let's see 475 00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:57,679 Speaker 7: your blog? Is he actually is growing up? He starts 476 00:21:57,720 --> 00:22:02,200 Speaker 7: school on Wednesday. He will be a preschooler the first 477 00:22:02,280 --> 00:22:02,879 Speaker 7: day of school. 478 00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:07,000 Speaker 4: And I just got a comment like we took him 479 00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:10,159 Speaker 4: back to school shopping the other day, and I remember 480 00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:13,280 Speaker 4: as a kid, like it was fun, like you pick 481 00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:15,280 Speaker 4: out this, you pick out that, Like I know there's 482 00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:16,800 Speaker 4: a list that you have to to get, you know, 483 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:20,439 Speaker 4: for your teacher gives you the list, but these people 484 00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:25,440 Speaker 4: are savages nowadays, Like they're just picking up all kinds 485 00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:25,760 Speaker 4: of things. 486 00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:27,720 Speaker 2: And the eye, I'm like, the eye looks like it 487 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:30,760 Speaker 2: was just destroyed. Oh you know what I'm saying, It 488 00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:31,840 Speaker 2: looks like a hurricane. 489 00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:34,920 Speaker 4: Like this is like the only store that sells school supplies, 490 00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:36,200 Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying. 491 00:22:36,480 --> 00:22:38,320 Speaker 2: Like, if they don't got the market, you're gonna freak out. 492 00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:40,800 Speaker 4: I'm like, it's like, obviously the absence list is a 493 00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:41,359 Speaker 4: lot different. 494 00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:44,000 Speaker 2: He's a preschooler. There's not a lot of things. He 495 00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:46,600 Speaker 2: doesn't even folders or epperate keepers or notebooks. 496 00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:49,800 Speaker 4: But I'm like, like people fighting over glue sticks. I'm like, 497 00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:52,879 Speaker 4: what is like, Like there's more to come, you know 498 00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:54,200 Speaker 4: what I'm saying, Like it's at the end of the 499 00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:55,800 Speaker 4: world if you don't get the three pack of glo 500 00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:57,359 Speaker 4: sticks from this place. 501 00:22:57,440 --> 00:22:59,879 Speaker 2: I'm like, there's probably another store that has one. 502 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:02,119 Speaker 1: Say I'm glad you're shopping in an actual store, but 503 00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:06,120 Speaker 1: there's also a thing called Amazon and any other many 504 00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:08,520 Speaker 1: places where you could buy anything you might need delivered 505 00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:08,920 Speaker 1: to your home. 506 00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:11,080 Speaker 4: Right, Like, I thought it was gonna be a fun time, 507 00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 4: and I was just like nopeh man. I was like asking, 508 00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:15,639 Speaker 4: just go play with the toys. Go look at the toys. 509 00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:21,600 Speaker 4: Dad's gonna go in here and right to get whatever. 510 00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:25,520 Speaker 2: I'm doing this for. You love you son, And then 511 00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:28,520 Speaker 2: you got like parents was like, good do big pack 512 00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:32,520 Speaker 2: of Margarets. I'm like, who you yelling at here? Calmed down, 513 00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:35,439 Speaker 2: We're here for the same thing. But it's just like 514 00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:36,720 Speaker 2: the place was destroyed. 515 00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:38,720 Speaker 4: I'm like, I felt so bad for the employees because 516 00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:40,520 Speaker 4: I've got to clean it all up. But I'm just like, 517 00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:42,000 Speaker 4: there's mom's complaining. 518 00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:45,880 Speaker 2: Oh, where's this worse. I'm like, just okay, calm down here. 519 00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:49,719 Speaker 1: My mom used to bribe me back to school shopping 520 00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:51,360 Speaker 1: was it was basically a free for all. I could 521 00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:53,359 Speaker 1: have whatever I wanted because she just wanted me to 522 00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:55,280 Speaker 1: be excited about school. It was so much fun, and 523 00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:57,760 Speaker 1: so we'd go and it was basically like have at it. 524 00:23:58,000 --> 00:23:59,680 Speaker 1: You know, you can have basically whatever you want because 525 00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:01,520 Speaker 1: she she knew I didn't want to go back to school. 526 00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:03,440 Speaker 1: No kid does, really, and so she try and get 527 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:05,880 Speaker 1: me pumped up with like new stuff that lasted about 528 00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:11,439 Speaker 1: a week before I then wasn't wanting to go, but yeah, 529 00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:13,600 Speaker 1: I remember that back to school shopping was fun. 530 00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:16,080 Speaker 3: Did you used to get the back to school outfit 531 00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:17,680 Speaker 3: that you would lay out the night before? 532 00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:21,359 Speaker 2: I sleep next to it. The drift, Yeah, yeah, I 533 00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:23,399 Speaker 2: came in so hot every year. Yeah, I need to 534 00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:24,040 Speaker 2: look at me. 535 00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:26,400 Speaker 1: For like three or four days, I had brand new 536 00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:28,000 Speaker 1: drip and then it was back to the old. 537 00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:30,320 Speaker 4: You had to be like, yeah, I got my guys 538 00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:31,440 Speaker 4: sharpened his pencil again. 539 00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:32,160 Speaker 2: Are you gonna be. 540 00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:35,639 Speaker 3: Going for the whole class my pencil? 541 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:36,400 Speaker 2: Show off my fit. 542 00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:38,520 Speaker 5: I brought that up to my family, and my mom's 543 00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:41,119 Speaker 5: like that was only you, I know. I was like, okay, 544 00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:42,879 Speaker 5: thank you, but we both like attention. 545 00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:43,400 Speaker 2: That's yeah. 546 00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:46,000 Speaker 5: I was like I was like I thought everyone when 547 00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:47,600 Speaker 5: they had like a fresh fin on went up to 548 00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:49,560 Speaker 5: the pencil sharpener and was like, this. 549 00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:52,199 Speaker 4: Is the days when like Jay's were readily available at 550 00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:53,399 Speaker 4: your local full locker everything. 551 00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:57,359 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, right, No problem, No, that 552 00:24:57,480 --> 00:24:59,639 Speaker 1: was if I wanted stuff. That was when I cashed in. 553 00:24:59,800 --> 00:25:01,280 Speaker 1: Was it beginning of the school year, because again it 554 00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:03,240 Speaker 1: was like I wasn't verb of I wasn't. I was 555 00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:05,199 Speaker 1: kind of an average student at best, and so it 556 00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:07,720 Speaker 1: was like I don't know you want new clothes, you want, 557 00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:09,600 Speaker 1: you want, you know, all the stuff in the office 558 00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:11,760 Speaker 1: supply so you can have whatever you want, like because 559 00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:14,919 Speaker 1: she wanted to make me smile and not realize that 560 00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:18,200 Speaker 1: I was I was headed for a life of mediosity.