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Speaker 1: Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King.

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Speaker 1: of the day. The first one Porscha Williams from the

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Speaker 1: Real Housewives of Atlanta twice divorced Porsche. Her first marriage

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Speaker 1: was Cordel Stewart. Her second marriage was Simon Gubadia. Porsche

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Speaker 1: rebuilt on Black Friday.

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Speaker 2: That listen.

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Speaker 1: She's dating this woman named Patrice Sway McKinney not to

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Speaker 1: be confused.

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Speaker 2: With Dennis mckinlee, her child's father. She made it. I'm

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Speaker 2: here on my Dustin so look.

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Speaker 1: They their relationship Instagram official and the Holiday Things photos

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Speaker 1: celebrating Sway's birthday, marking her first public relationship since her

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Speaker 1: divorce from Simon.

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Speaker 2: Now a lot of the girls are asking who is Sway?

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Speaker 2: Sway is the owner of a salon. She owns a

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Speaker 2: lot of salon sweet.

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Speaker 1: And that's what she does, and that's what we know

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Speaker 1: so far about her. Blue, you're up to back First,

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Speaker 1: what do you think about Porsia's new girlfriend sway? And

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Speaker 1: are you surprised that Porsche is dating women in this case?

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Speaker 3: I want me?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I think the comment that I wrote

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Speaker 4: under the hard launch was, Look, I lived in DC

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Speaker 4: for twelve years.

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Speaker 5: I get it.

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Speaker 4: If you know, you know it was a long winter.

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Speaker 5: Okay, they know me out there.

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Speaker 3: Put it together, y'all, Like y'all are really making it

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Speaker 3: hard tonight. God, so Blue, you.

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Speaker 2: Dated women before?

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Speaker 5: Look the studs are.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes the man that you need is a stud Okay,

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Speaker 4: and I I just.

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Speaker 5: They be tricking.

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Speaker 4: Their money be long, their tongues be long, they they

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Speaker 4: work out, they smell good.

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Speaker 3: You're confused? Okay?

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Speaker 5: Have I been turned out by DC stuff?

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Speaker 3: Maybe?

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Speaker 2: And maybe?

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Speaker 4: I mean yes, I mean to have a set right

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Speaker 4: it happened? What the kids call me on tiki talking

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Speaker 4: paying sexual? Now, apparently if a stuff confuses you, they

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Speaker 4: call you paying sexual. So I might be the wrong

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Speaker 4: person to ask who I too ended a relationship with

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Speaker 4: the Philly Nigga and ended up with a stud And

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Speaker 4: I didn't know what was happening, child, but my bills

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Speaker 4: were getting paid and everything smelled nice, So I get

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Speaker 4: a portion.

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Speaker 5: I too, what Atlanta and DC.

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Speaker 4: If you look at the wrong person's eyes for too long,

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Speaker 4: you might be questioning stuff.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna turn my lights on the back. Keep talking.

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Speaker 5: First of all, dark, okay, who you are?

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Speaker 3: For your what?

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Speaker 4: And also to when you have been treated poorly in

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Speaker 4: your mind, you want someone who is generous and gentle

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Speaker 4: and kind and who makes you feel adored and a

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Speaker 4: you know, A well it's a good combination.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes somebody said hood journalist, Hey rain Drop, they say

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Speaker 1: she went from paper to plan stick.

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Speaker 4: Oh, I mean that's not wrong, but still incredibly graphic.

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Speaker 5: It's not. It's sometimes the plastic cast paper though.

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Speaker 3: Mhm.

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Speaker 5: The girls be happy, child, Well look as.

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Speaker 1: That type of conversation, because this is why I'm so

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Speaker 1: glad you're odd, because well.

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Speaker 5: Because against me. That's why you're happy to have me

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Speaker 5: because I went mouf Diving's friends.

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Speaker 3: I don't I mean doesn't hurt.

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Speaker 1: But no, what I'm saying is I like to get

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Speaker 1: perspective because a lot of people it doesn't have seen this,

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Speaker 1: and I can't.

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Speaker 2: I can't wait to her dustin thoughts too. A lot

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Speaker 2: of people are saying.

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Speaker 1: That Portia is trolling, She's doing this for a storyline.

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Speaker 1: Listen as somebody who has worked on Atlanta House lives

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Speaker 1: doing the era of lesbian conversations and kiss seeing at club.

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Speaker 2: And all that stuff. What a great time, Alana, what

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Speaker 2: a great time. Thank you girls. I love y'all. Okay,

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Speaker 2: it's no secret that Porsche has to mete out with women.

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Speaker 2: It's no secret that Porsche likes women.

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Speaker 5: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 2: She revealed that she is now.

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Speaker 1: Dating this woman, and a lot of people are questioning

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Speaker 1: the validity of this. You know, they're saying, is she trolling?

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Speaker 1: Is this for a storyline? The reason why I want

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Speaker 1: to give more of your thoughts on this is because listen,

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Speaker 1: Porsche has from what we have known, has always dated

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Speaker 1: men exclusively. When I say date meaning relationships, right, this

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Speaker 1: is the first time that we're hearing that she is

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Speaker 1: maybe in a relationship with a woman. Is there's something

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Speaker 1: to be said about a woman after forty who has had,

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Speaker 1: you know, relationship with the men that did not work out,

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Speaker 1: but have fluid situations happening. Is it safe to say

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Speaker 1: at women, if you are attracted to other women in

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Speaker 1: terms of being kissy and flirty, should they also pursue

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Speaker 1: what could be a relationship with them that can surpass

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Speaker 1: just a flaty kiss.

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Speaker 4: This feels very pointed, he said, women over forty eating

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Speaker 4: the box loo what you think?

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Speaker 5: Okay?

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Speaker 4: Well, I will say that statistically speaking, there is a

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Speaker 4: trend of older women choosing other women because they run

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Speaker 4: out of men and they were a little fluid to

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Speaker 3: I do think sexuality, I.

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Speaker 4: Do think sexuality is fluid, but also people be getting tired,

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Speaker 4: and so I often wonder, is this, sincerely your sexual

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Speaker 4: orientation being given the freedom to present itself, or are

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Speaker 4: you just you know, looking for a look?

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Speaker 5: She did say give her some bail. She was dating

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Speaker 5: a man and a woman.

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Speaker 2: During culture con.

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Speaker 5: She said, Hey, I'm dating one of each and may

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Speaker 5: the best man win.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 4: So it could be a thing where she's bisexual or

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Speaker 4: she's sexually fluid and the woman just happened to be

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Speaker 4: the better suitor. I also do think, though it's dangerous

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Speaker 4: to treat being gay as something that is a trend,

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Speaker 4: because when they told me blew your pan sexual because

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Speaker 4: you didn't care. Right, Like, I met somebody that I

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Speaker 4: liked who happened to be a woman and I didn't care.

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Speaker 4: Pansexual means that I was open to it, but I

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Speaker 4: wasn't just doing it for a look, right. And so

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Speaker 4: I do think it's a little bit tricky because some

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Speaker 4: of the girls will try to be gay for pay

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Speaker 4: and pretend because it's a cute look. Like Ashley Darby.

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Speaker 4: I don't believe that one, respectfully, although she does look

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Speaker 2: How you doing.

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Speaker 4: But I think has shown a severe attraction to women

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Speaker 4: for a very long time. Her hugs linger, and so

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Speaker 4: I think if she's finally got into the place where

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Speaker 4: to be Earlier I said tired, White people who are

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Speaker 4: tired are more honest, she might have gotten tired about

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Speaker 4: the optics of the perfect man and said, well, if

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Speaker 4: I'm open to women, let me really be open to women.

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Speaker 4: So I'm hoping that Porsia sincerely enjoys women and is

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Speaker 4: exploring something real and not just using this for clout,

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Speaker 4: because being gay is not a cloud chase.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, Dustin Ross.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: So, first of all, I'm a gay man of a

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Speaker 6: certain age, you know what I'm saying. I grew up

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Speaker 6: in Flint, Michigan, and I've lived a lot of life,

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Speaker 6: so it's not being easy to be openly gay, you

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Speaker 6: know what I'm saying, and move around. You have to

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Speaker 6: think about violence against you. You have to think about

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Speaker 6: your safety. You have to run the risk of losing relationships,

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Speaker 6: family members, cutting you off, your friends not wanting to

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Speaker 6: fuck with you, no more of your straight friends when

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Speaker 6: they find out you're gay.

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Speaker 3: It's a lot of trauma.

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Speaker 6: It's a lot of sadness and a lot of bravery

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Speaker 6: attached to living your life as a gay person. I'm

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Speaker 6: sure it's the same for lesbians and people who identify

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Speaker 6: as bisexual too. So to see it be something that

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Speaker 6: is use as a novelty, as something that's played with

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Speaker 6: it pissed me off, you know what I'm saying, because

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Speaker 6: it ain't easy to live your life like that. Even

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Speaker 6: today at my big agent, I'm a person who's very comfortable,

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Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying. In my sexuality, I don't

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Speaker 6: lead with it, you know what I'm saying. That's not

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Speaker 6: what makes me like interesting, but it's not something I

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Speaker 6: it's something interchangeable, or even to see it framed that's

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Speaker 6: something that you can do because you tired of niggas

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Speaker 6: you're gonna switch to women. That's highly offensive to a

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Speaker 6: person like me who has had to fight the hard

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Speaker 6: getting respected, when it comes to you know, just a

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Speaker 6: simple regular things that people deserve in life. You have

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Speaker 6: to fight for it ten times harder. I'm also black,

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Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying. So I'm going to into

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Speaker 6: the world every day as a black man and as

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Speaker 6: a black gay man, you know what I'm saying. So

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Speaker 6: to see people play you like pushing, I'm sorry. If

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Speaker 6: you like women, you like women, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 6: But just stand in it and say that's what you like.

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Speaker 6: Don't frame it as something that you're doing because you've

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Speaker 6: had a bad run at dating men, or be playful

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Speaker 6: with it like it's something that it's not casual.

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 6: We would love for it to be casual, but unfortunately

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Speaker 6: we're not at a place in society where it's something

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Speaker 6: that can be played with or have fun with or

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Speaker 6: just other something. I'm doing it. Nah, motherfucker's getting killed

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Speaker 6: over that shit. You know what I'm saying. So hate

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Speaker 6: to take it dark and serious right now. You know

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Speaker 6: what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: I don't like that.

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Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying, Like it's not easy for

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Speaker 6: people like me and for a lot of other people

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Speaker 6: who have it even harder.

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Speaker 3: And so if you like women, you know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 3: much love do it?

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Speaker 6: Do it because I'm a fuck who I like too,

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Speaker 6: But just stand in it and make sure it's something

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Speaker 6: that you mean, and also show up. Porsche is a

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Speaker 6: person who we saw her do some incredible work during

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Speaker 6: the height of the Black Lives Matter movement. We saw

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Speaker 6: her do some incredible work with her platform, and I

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Speaker 3: Right now, trans women.

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Speaker 6: Could use her support, gays could use her support, lesbians

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Speaker 6: could use her support, and the rest of the bees.

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Speaker 6: You know, she's a bee rights. This is one time

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Speaker 6: we could call Portia a bee. She's bisexual, right, So

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Speaker 6: just staying in it, do some advocacy. Yeah, do some

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Speaker 6: advocacy work, like get in there and stand in the

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Speaker 2: Todd also said that.

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Speaker 1: In regards to the prenuptial agreement that he signed a

445
00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:29,240
Speaker 1: hit of their April twenty fourteen wedding, he suggested that

446
00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:35,240
Speaker 1: he was pressured to signing the prenup without proper legal representation.

447
00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:39,679
Speaker 1: Tod's attorney said that the agreement was presented to Todd

448
00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:45,400
Speaker 1: without Todd having counsel, even though Candy then counsel had

449
00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:51,800
Speaker 1: communicated previously with Tod's legal team regarding a potential prenuptial agreement.

450
00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:56,520
Speaker 1: Despite that knowledge, Candy's council presented the final agreement to

451
00:22:56,520 --> 00:23:01,520
Speaker 1: Todd for signature immediately before the wedding ceremony without any

452
00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:06,359
Speaker 1: knownice to or consitation with Toad's legal team, who was

453
00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:11,080
Speaker 1: engaged in that. Because of that, they're saying that these

454
00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:21,640
Speaker 1: circumstances raise substantial questions concerning the enforceability of the prenuptial agreement. Nevertheless,

455
00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:26,520
Speaker 1: Tom remains committed to working and good faith to resolve

456
00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:31,680
Speaker 1: this matter amicably and privately to the extent possible.

457
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:35,560
Speaker 2: Last, but not least, Todd.

458
00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:41,520
Speaker 1: Is demanding a division of all marital assets, both real

459
00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:49,679
Speaker 1: and personal, tangible and tangible between himself and Burris, and

460
00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:52,280
Speaker 1: possibly wants alimony.

461
00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:57,919
Speaker 3: Dustin, Yeah, well, would you like to tell you.

462
00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:00,720
Speaker 4: So?

463
00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:03,280
Speaker 3: Damn? Can you hear sirens in the background?

464
00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:04,680
Speaker 5: That's God?

465
00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:07,280
Speaker 6: Yeah, because I was trying to start cussing. So let

466
00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:13,920
Speaker 6: me reframe my thoughts here. Okay, first of all, what

467
00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:16,960
Speaker 6: we know about Candy right based on what we've seen

468
00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:19,960
Speaker 6: on the show when she said conflicts to result on

469
00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:24,240
Speaker 6: the show. If you are a subscriber to her YouTube channel,

470
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:27,040
Speaker 6: Candy Online, she has a series called On that Note

471
00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:31,200
Speaker 6: where she retells stories from her days as a where

472
00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:34,639
Speaker 6: she was primarily focused on songwriting and producing. She tells

473
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 6: stories about different situations she had with artists, and she's

474
00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:42,360
Speaker 6: always even in some of her conflicts that she had

475
00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:46,040
Speaker 6: with her former group member Latasha Scott in the Escape

476
00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:48,800
Speaker 6: Group the Confidence, the conflicts that they had that were

477
00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:52,399
Speaker 6: documented on the show, Candy has always played a fair hand.

478
00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:55,520
Speaker 3: You know, she's taking accountability when it's.

479
00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:59,119
Speaker 6: Her part, and she has held people's feet to the

480
00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:02,160
Speaker 6: fire when it is appropriate. You know, we've seen her

481
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:05,719
Speaker 6: be fair on that show. It is my belief that

482
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 6: she will carry that way over with her into these

483
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:14,960
Speaker 6: negotiations for their divorce. Todd's saying that he signed that

484
00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:17,399
Speaker 6: his lawyers, I should say, saying that he signed the

485
00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:21,679
Speaker 6: prenup under pressure, and that she had initially passed the

486
00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:24,480
Speaker 6: first given his lawyers the first pass at the agreement

487
00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 6: and the end they gave him the final and without

488
00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:29,239
Speaker 6: seeking his counsel. That's not her job. It's not her

489
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 6: job to make sure that his counsel has that. It's

490
00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:34,080
Speaker 6: his job to make sure that he seeks legal counsel

491
00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:37,080
Speaker 6: and has him in place. We watched that shit play

492
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:40,080
Speaker 6: out on television, so all this looks like to me.

493
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 6: I'm no legal expert, Norman an attorney, but it seems

494
00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 6: to me that this is something that has to be

495
00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:49,880
Speaker 6: said or stated in order to open the negotiating floor

496
00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:53,360
Speaker 6: for what feels fair between both parties, and it's as

497
00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:55,480
Speaker 6: close to the original prenup as possible.

498
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Speaker 3: It seems like just.

499
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Speaker 6: The legal one two that you have to do to

500
00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:01,680
Speaker 6: get things to a place where we're now legally having

501
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:05,640
Speaker 6: a conversation and negotiating the terms of our divorce. Once

502
00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:08,359
Speaker 6: they do that again, I think any projects they worked

503
00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:11,520
Speaker 6: on collaboratively, I feel confident saying that Candy will be

504
00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:12,879
Speaker 6: fair and giving him.

505
00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:13,520
Speaker 3: His share of that.

506
00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:16,320
Speaker 6: I'm sure that's actually ironed out in their agreement based

507
00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:19,200
Speaker 6: on what we've seen earlier with their prenuptial agreement.

508
00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:21,080
Speaker 3: So this is the way it's got to go.

509
00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:23,600
Speaker 6: I wish things could be more seamless with the two

510
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:25,040
Speaker 6: of them and easier.

511
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:28,120
Speaker 3: But we here now, so fuck it. Let the lawyers fight.

512
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:32,200
Speaker 2: Glue to loose. What are your thoughts and rain drops?

513
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:33,840
Speaker 2: Let us go on your thoughts in the comments too.

514
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Speaker 4: I'm counting backwards from one hundred as a generous woman

515
00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:41,640
Speaker 4: who tends to make more than my partners, and then

516
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:44,800
Speaker 4: watch them show they're asked even when I'm trying to

517
00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:46,919
Speaker 4: be fair on the way out. So this is triggering

518
00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:49,359
Speaker 4: me because I'm usually the canny in their relationship. I

519
00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:53,040
Speaker 4: will say this. We watched that scene right before their

520
00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 4: wedding where she said, I've told you from jump, I've

521
00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:59,280
Speaker 4: never waivered that I wanted up, prenup.

522
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 5: Why are you fair? In confusion now, he hemmed and

523
00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:06,000
Speaker 5: hawed called his lawyer. His lawyer didn't pick up. She

524
00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:07,000
Speaker 5: calls her lawyer.

525
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 4: Her lawyer immediately picks up, and in the midst of

526
00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 4: a conversation, it's revealed that he had misled his counsel

527
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:17,640
Speaker 4: to not realize that she was already splitting their assets

528
00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 4: together with any joint ventures.

529
00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:22,160
Speaker 5: So on camera we've seen him.

530
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:25,719
Speaker 4: Get caught being duplicilous with live's of abmission to his

531
00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:28,600
Speaker 4: own counsel. If you can't even tell the truth to

532
00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:31,040
Speaker 4: your own lawyers, then you can't act like you're a

533
00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:33,880
Speaker 4: victim if you didn't do your due diligence when I've

534
00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:36,600
Speaker 4: been doing my due diligence and I've never wavered on

535
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 4: my stance. The point of contention for me is that

536
00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:41,679
Speaker 4: from what I've read, it seems that he's contesting the

537
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:45,040
Speaker 4: prenup as if he signed duress, when we with our

538
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:48,160
Speaker 4: own eyes saw her say there's no duress. I've never wavered,

539
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:52,399
Speaker 4: and so there's an implied dishonesty, and that that's already

540
00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:55,320
Speaker 4: pissing me off. I'm not going to argue by if

541
00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:57,639
Speaker 4: water is wet at this point, right, and what I

542
00:27:57,760 --> 00:28:00,640
Speaker 4: feel like and maybe because I'm a woman who said

543
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:02,359
Speaker 4: a lot of leos and was engaged with Leo and

544
00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:04,399
Speaker 4: Candy and Tart are literally copy and paste of me

545
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 4: and my exes.

546
00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:07,040
Speaker 5: He was from Philly.

547
00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:11,439
Speaker 4: Okay, He's a real dude, though, and so he was.

548
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:12,520
Speaker 5: Real I'm not even gonna lie.

549
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:16,800
Speaker 4: But like, despite that, though, whenever people would be like, yo,

550
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:19,360
Speaker 4: you don't feel a way that she's making more than you,

551
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:22,280
Speaker 4: I would often feel like I was being passive, aggressively

552
00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:24,960
Speaker 4: punished for his embarrassment. Mm hm.

553
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 3: Even a good man he's.

554
00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 4: Too fragile, will get a look back, right. And so

555
00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:33,480
Speaker 4: I don't think Todd's worried about Candy being fair. I

556
00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 4: feel like he wants to pound his chest a little

557
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:40,440
Speaker 4: bit because he's read the jokes. Damn if I know

558
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:43,160
Speaker 4: that I can taste it, I've experienced it too much

559
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:44,640
Speaker 4: where I know you good.

560
00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 5: But I don't like that they're playing with me like this.

561
00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 5: I got to show them.

562
00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:51,240
Speaker 4: That I'm still him, even if you're collateral damage. And

563
00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:54,240
Speaker 4: to Dustin's point, it's unnecessary with somebody who has a

564
00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:57,120
Speaker 4: long history of being reasonable, if not generous. Everybody I

565
00:28:57,120 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 4: know who's worked the Candy says, if Candy hears that

566
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:01,760
Speaker 4: you're thinking about doing something and she knows somebody who

567
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 4: can help you, she'll connect you. She's jealously well that

568
00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:07,120
Speaker 4: she's not even sleeping with them doing life with. So

569
00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:10,280
Speaker 4: you're with a chronologically generous person who has always been

570
00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:12,720
Speaker 4: fair to you, who has never wavered on the prenup,

571
00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 4: and now you're saying that you signed under duress. That

572
00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 4: is low key offensive to her character. She's never been

573
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:22,840
Speaker 4: that girl. So yeah, I don't like it. And It's

574
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:25,000
Speaker 4: making me look at him funny, and I feel like

575
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:28,440
Speaker 4: my Majoys was the right message, the wrong messenger, because

576
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:30,960
Speaker 4: you know, sometimes the mean old ladies in your family

577
00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:32,360
Speaker 4: be right, they just don't have good delivery.

578
00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:39,600
Speaker 6: Okay, I hate he's going out like that. I just

579
00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:42,760
Speaker 6: I wish I always talk about this on other shows

580
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:46,440
Speaker 6: I'll participate in. But just there's something to be said

581
00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:49,400
Speaker 6: about keeping shit pee, just keep it player, you know.

582
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 3: What I'm saying.

583
00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 6: Like everything that don't have to be a goddamn everything

584
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 6: doesn't have to be combative, you know what I'm saying.

585
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:59,400
Speaker 6: Everything doesn't have to be us fighting about week. They

586
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:03,959
Speaker 6: have two beautiful children together. They have four beautiful children

587
00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:06,960
Speaker 6: that they raised together, you know what I'm saying. Like

588
00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:10,800
Speaker 6: Candy has always expressed love for tids. Oh this daughter, Kayla.

589
00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:14,120
Speaker 6: We know Kayla loves Candy. I personally have seen Kayla

590
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 6: and Riley out in the club together in New York City.

591
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:18,720
Speaker 3: They are sisters, you know what I'm saying.

592
00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 6: And then they got two little kids that look just

593
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:26,360
Speaker 6: like Candy, and I just wish that they could find

594
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:29,040
Speaker 6: their way toward a friendship, you know what I'm saying.

595
00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:32,959
Speaker 6: Post their separation because Tyn and Candy always had a

596
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:36,000
Speaker 6: cool friendship vibe to me that I really would hate

597
00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:38,400
Speaker 6: to see them lose man, and I just hope that

598
00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 6: they can find their way once all this dust settles,

599
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 6: this legal dust.

600
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:43,600
Speaker 3: But I hate to see this shit.

601
00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 2: Well, I think listen.

602
00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:48,040
Speaker 1: One thing I will say is, and this is not

603
00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:51,239
Speaker 1: about Canon Tott in particular, this is just what I

604
00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 1: know a lot of people say special attorneys.

605
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:56,840
Speaker 2: The prenup is not for the person you marry, is

606
00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 2: for the person you're divorcing.

607
00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:01,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, anup is not for the person you're marrying, is

608
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:05,760
Speaker 1: for the person you're divorcing. So yes, I think when

609
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:09,200
Speaker 1: you look at somebody's life in the beginning, they were

610
00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 1: married for ten years and listen till this day, we listen,

611
00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:17,240
Speaker 1: we really don't know what happened. Candy did its site

612
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:19,080
Speaker 1: that it was.

613
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 3: What's the word blue?

614
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:27,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, and listen the most.

615
00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:30,080
Speaker 1: But I think we have to look at that because

616
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:34,880
Speaker 1: one of the things that is common is irreconcilable differences. Right,

617
00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 1: That's that's sort of like we just grew out of

618
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 1: love with each other. I think saying something was broken

619
00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:45,560
Speaker 1: sort of puts the vibe about that. There's more that

620
00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:51,560
Speaker 1: it's seen and I think tas contesting of certain things. Listen,

621
00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 1: he called it out. He said she travels for out

622
00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:58,240
Speaker 1: of state work obligations. There are people in the comments.

623
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:00,960
Speaker 1: There are people in the comments who are saying and

624
00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:04,080
Speaker 1: like they said last week, a lot of people are saying,

625
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 1: Candy's fair and she will be fair, like Dustin said.

626
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 1: There are people who are saying that Todd made sure

627
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:13,120
Speaker 1: to put that he was a daddy daycare on his Instagram.

628
00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:16,360
Speaker 1: They are saying that Toad's YouTube channel, that baby, when

629
00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 1: I say TiO TikTok belongs to Candy and Todd for.

630
00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:21,480
Speaker 3: The part, yes sir, yes, sir.

631
00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:23,520
Speaker 1: I can't go on TikTok without seeing Candy and Tod's

632
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:26,920
Speaker 1: YouTube channel. The wedding special Housewatch and Mama Joyce talking

633
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 1: about amant high enough and a dollar low enough formunigating your.

634
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:31,280
Speaker 2: Ass, baby.

635
00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:35,280
Speaker 1: They are saying that we have seen these things converse

636
00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 1: on the show. There is footage of Todd signing the

637
00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:43,120
Speaker 1: prenup the morning of his wedding.

638
00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:44,680
Speaker 5: Right.

639
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:50,320
Speaker 1: So the reason why a lot of people are now saying, okay, this,

640
00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 1: there's more that's that's about to happen, because now we

641
00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:59,160
Speaker 1: are being reminded of what we saw ten years ago

642
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:02,080
Speaker 1: on the show, and now that we saw what Toa's

643
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:08,000
Speaker 1: attorney contested on November twenty six, like Blue said, it

644
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:14,200
Speaker 1: is appearing that they're allegedly saying that this marriage. I'm

645
00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:17,120
Speaker 1: sorry the pre nat was signed under the rest allegedly

646
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:21,480
Speaker 1: allegedly allegedly and look, we're gonna see what has to

647
00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 1: happen now. Now I do know this going to the

648
00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:32,120
Speaker 1: w Andy K. Williams School of Law, I will say this,

649
00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:40,080
Speaker 1: Candy attorneys, they have to respond to Todd's request. What's

650
00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 1: going to happen next rain drops. Candy has to respond

651
00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:49,800
Speaker 1: to what Todd is saying, and that's going to obviously

652
00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:52,400
Speaker 1: tell us more.

653
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:56,080
Speaker 6: The timing of this is convenient for Todd, as he

654
00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:58,760
Speaker 6: said that Candy was going to be out of town

655
00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:01,239
Speaker 6: for months at a time for work, because we know

656
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:05,520
Speaker 6: she's getting ready to start a three month run on

657
00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:08,680
Speaker 6: and in the play and Juliette on Broadway.

658
00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:11,239
Speaker 3: I think she starts like next week or something like that.

659
00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:13,560
Speaker 6: She starts in a play, So she is going to

660
00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:15,960
Speaker 6: be in New York from December until I think she's

661
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:17,080
Speaker 6: at the end of March.

662
00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:19,759
Speaker 3: I think the announcement was and so the timing is.

663
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:22,200
Speaker 6: Kind of convenient in saying that, you know, she travels

664
00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:25,360
Speaker 6: for work for long periods of time. Ty knows the

665
00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:29,120
Speaker 6: kind of where Candy does that. Just she's not this

666
00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:33,520
Speaker 6: detached woman who is, you know, out living a really

667
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 6: busy life away from her children. She is busy, but

668
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:39,720
Speaker 6: you always see Candy with her damn kids all the time,

669
00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:43,759
Speaker 6: especially after she left and no longer was participating in

670
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:46,160
Speaker 6: the households of Atlanta.

671
00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:48,040
Speaker 3: I just I hate to see.

672
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:49,680
Speaker 6: People try to, like, now that y'all mad at each other,

673
00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:52,160
Speaker 6: you want to paint the other one as this monster. Know,

674
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:55,280
Speaker 6: and even though he did say she's a loving parent,

675
00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:58,680
Speaker 6: you know, it was just a very passive aggressive The

676
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 6: wording of it was very passive aggressive. And I don't know,

677
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:05,320
Speaker 6: I just hope they can cut through all of that bullshit,

678
00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:12,319
Speaker 6: get the rules and determinations in place, and just move

679
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:14,440
Speaker 6: forward in peace. Don't either one of them need to

680
00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 6: be distracted by arguing and fighting over some shit that

681
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:20,200
Speaker 6: they're gonna have to work out because their children are little,

682
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:23,200
Speaker 6: so they gotta figure it out, you know what I'm saying.

683
00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:25,359
Speaker 3: So it's nasty work.

684
00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:27,760
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, it's nasty work that you, as a grown

685
00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:31,160
Speaker 4: man who has built an empire with her, so you

686
00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:33,439
Speaker 4: have your own stand on. You don't have to act

687
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:36,080
Speaker 4: like a man who drives his girlfriend's car when she's

688
00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:36,479
Speaker 4: at work.

689
00:35:36,640 --> 00:35:38,319
Speaker 5: But you are progressing to that right now.

690
00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:41,400
Speaker 4: But you built an empire with this woman, and you

691
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:44,520
Speaker 4: are coming after her hustle that you've been benefited from

692
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:47,720
Speaker 4: from fourteen years, right before the holidays, that she's about

693
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:50,479
Speaker 4: to barking a new career adventure, that you, of all people,

694
00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:53,040
Speaker 4: know how important it is to her. There's so much

695
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:56,880
Speaker 4: nastness and there's such a violation of intimacy just in

696
00:35:56,920 --> 00:36:00,480
Speaker 4: the premise that his lawyers are setting up embarrass you

697
00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:02,920
Speaker 4: as a grown ass man. Forget the lawyers for a second,

698
00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:04,960
Speaker 4: as a grown ass man, how are you not embarrassing

699
00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:05,800
Speaker 4: a shame of yourself.

700
00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:07,399
Speaker 5: It's nasty work.

701
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 4: I can't see either of you going through a breakup

702
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:13,080
Speaker 4: and doing this to your apartners, even with our kids involved.

703
00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:17,200
Speaker 3: No, come on down the street with another nigga. To

704
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:17,919
Speaker 3: be honest with.

705
00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:22,040
Speaker 6: You, nine and you heard me nine time.

706
00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:28,799
Speaker 3: Anyway, you know what I'm saying. Somebody bless that's it.

707
00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:31,840
Speaker 1: Let's have a conversation and I'm gonna move on to Potomac. Okay,

708
00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:34,200
Speaker 1: so we listen. We all have hard house, not in

709
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:40,719
Speaker 1: so dustin what I want to dustin if you are,

710
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:44,880
Speaker 1: Because I think the bigger thing is this, there's a

711
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:48,360
Speaker 1: lot of rain drops who are the bread winners in

712
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 1: their relationships? Right, there's a lot of rain drops who

713
00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:55,080
Speaker 1: are what do you do? Because look, I think we

714
00:36:55,160 --> 00:36:57,879
Speaker 1: all looked at it like, Candy did the right thing, she.

715
00:36:57,880 --> 00:36:58,560
Speaker 2: Got a breinup.

716
00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:05,040
Speaker 1: We're raised as business professionals who are who are blessed

717
00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:08,359
Speaker 1: to make money that our parents have never seen. That's

718
00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:12,160
Speaker 1: a blessing to have. Candy did the right thing, she

719
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:16,120
Speaker 1: got a prenup. That's the that's the thing that you're

720
00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:20,479
Speaker 1: told as you're rising up the corporate ladder. But what

721
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:26,880
Speaker 1: does happen when you are in a relationship and as

722
00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:34,000
Speaker 1: as real as it sounds, where the person just isn't

723
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:37,680
Speaker 1: matching your income level, not saying they're here, you're there.

724
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:41,040
Speaker 1: Even if they're here and you're there, it's still not matching.

725
00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:45,359
Speaker 1: What are you supposed to do to protect yourself? When

726
00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:48,360
Speaker 1: you did the right thing, You consulted attorney, you have

727
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:52,279
Speaker 1: the prenup and now when the prenup is being contested,

728
00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:57,800
Speaker 1: what do you do a situation? Because Dustin you you

729
00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 1: you're very successful, and there has not been There hasn't

730
00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:05,839
Speaker 1: been a man that I've seen out with Dustin who

731
00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:08,719
Speaker 1: dustn't baby dust getting make he wants your child?

732
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:14,399
Speaker 2: God is good? But what what has never been told

733
00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:15,920
Speaker 2: like I don't want your child? I love that for

734
00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:16,440
Speaker 2: my friends.

735
00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:19,720
Speaker 5: The sweets me talking. That's uh huh.

736
00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:20,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, so we all know that's true.

737
00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:23,080
Speaker 1: But like, justin, what what would you do if you

738
00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:24,960
Speaker 1: are with somebody who you've fell in love with and

739
00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:28,960
Speaker 1: you said I did the my thing and they're not

740
00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:30,840
Speaker 1: on the financial.

741
00:38:31,080 --> 00:38:31,600
Speaker 3: You know what?

742
00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:35,319
Speaker 6: Then you you manage it when you are approaching the

743
00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:38,000
Speaker 6: dissolution of your relationship, right you?

744
00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:38,239
Speaker 3: You?

745
00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:42,040
Speaker 6: Yes, you the same focus that you put in and

746
00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:44,759
Speaker 6: in the beginning, excuse me of the relationship and got

747
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:47,359
Speaker 6: that prenum sign You get them lawyers back on deck,

748
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 6: make sure that the prenum is enforced, and you you

749
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:53,279
Speaker 6: just you just pay attention to every detail and you

750
00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:56,480
Speaker 6: get things cleared up. This cannot be something that you

751
00:38:56,600 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 6: handle from a place of emotion. It can't be something

752
00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:03,120
Speaker 6: that you have handle irrationally. This is quite literally business.

753
00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 6: This is why people say marriage is not even about love.

754
00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:08,279
Speaker 6: It's a business arrangement because at the end of the day,

755
00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:10,879
Speaker 6: here we go again. You know what I'm saying. People

756
00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:12,719
Speaker 6: can talk all the shit they want about Yandy and

757
00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:15,040
Speaker 6: man DC out there, you know, and all that other shit,

758
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:17,280
Speaker 6: but look at Coldy Horn and Kurt Russell.

759
00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:19,360
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, some of the some people

760
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:26,480
Speaker 3: who literally have Yeah, yep.

761
00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:28,200
Speaker 6: She might have had the wrong a hat on, but

762
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:31,040
Speaker 6: she had the right mind when she decided to you

763
00:39:31,080 --> 00:39:33,799
Speaker 6: know what I'm saying, keep it separate. That's a that's

764
00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:36,920
Speaker 6: a rock song. You got to keep it separated, damn,

765
00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:40,239
Speaker 6: and you got to keep it separated sometimes, you know

766
00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:40,840
Speaker 6: what I'm saying.

767
00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:45,280
Speaker 3: And this is where you're handling. Your business comes into play.

768
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 6: So sometimes you got to just use your You gotta

769
00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:51,120
Speaker 6: use your mind instead of your heart. And it gets

770
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:53,720
Speaker 6: tough when you really love somebody, you know what I'm saying.

771
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:56,760
Speaker 6: But it's two little kids that still gotta be raised,

772
00:39:56,800 --> 00:40:00,640
Speaker 6: still have to have their educations handled and provided. They

773
00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:03,600
Speaker 6: still have needs, so they have to figure out the

774
00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:08,360
Speaker 6: business of being co parents and separating their business affairs

775
00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:11,520
Speaker 6: as married married people they have to figure that part out,

776
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:14,800
Speaker 6: So get them feelings out of it, focus on them kids,

777
00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:17,239
Speaker 6: get a fair agreement and going down the street.

778
00:40:17,520 --> 00:40:18,600
Speaker 5: I know those scam though.

779
00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:20,000
Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell you because you're not dated a lot

780
00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:24,920
Speaker 4: of people who anyways, the scam. What you know the

781
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:27,440
Speaker 4: scam is you put stuff in your mama's name.

782
00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:37,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, serious. Then Shakira's ex husband do that? Wasn't

783
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:38,200
Speaker 3: it just some shit?

784
00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:41,120
Speaker 6: It was just some ship in the news Shakira. I

785
00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:44,359
Speaker 6: believe her either estranged or now ex husband. I don't

786
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:46,560
Speaker 6: know the status, but I think he had put a

787
00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:48,879
Speaker 6: bunch of his assets in his mama's name, and there

788
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:51,200
Speaker 6: was Michael.

789
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 4: His mama's name, and so when he got divorced, she

790
00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:55,160
Speaker 4: couldn't get nothing because that.

791
00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:55,880
Speaker 5: Was his mama stuff.

792
00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:56,800
Speaker 3: Yeah.

793
00:40:57,160 --> 00:40:59,880
Speaker 6: So I don't know, But do you even want to

794
00:40:59,920 --> 00:41:01,759
Speaker 6: be married to a motherfucker that you have to go

795
00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:05,080
Speaker 6: that far? You know what I'm saying, to ensure your

796
00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:07,879
Speaker 6: safety financially, that's what I'm saying. We could just fuck

797
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:10,879
Speaker 6: and hang out and do you know what I'm saying, dude,

798
00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 6: we do. We don't have to be married. If I

799
00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:17,560
Speaker 6: don't trust you enough to feel secure, you know what

800
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 6: I'm saying, and trusting you with the fact that we're

801
00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:22,160
Speaker 6: gonna do this thing right if we break up or

802
00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:23,799
Speaker 6: we're gonna you know what I'm saying. I don't want

803
00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:26,239
Speaker 6: to have to lay down every night next to somebody

804
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:28,120
Speaker 6: who I feel is gonna flip a switch on me.

805
00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:30,759
Speaker 3: That don't look like peace in my home to me.

806
00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:32,640
Speaker 5: But you're not toxic.

807
00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:34,920
Speaker 4: Enough to understand, Dustin, because you're a healthy, abundant mindset

808
00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:35,319
Speaker 4: black man.

809
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:35,919
Speaker 5: All that good stuff.

810
00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:38,640
Speaker 4: It's amazing right now. Everybody has a little hope in

811
00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:38,959
Speaker 4: the front.

812
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:40,440
Speaker 3: I'll trying.

813
00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:42,200
Speaker 5: What a's up happening is.

814
00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 4: The phrase is, don't ever marry somebody that you wouldn't

815
00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:49,080
Speaker 4: feel comfortable divorcing. And people don't listen to that because

816
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:52,480
Speaker 4: when you're in La la land, you like that he's possessive.

817
00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:54,799
Speaker 4: You like that he said, ain't no way you ever

818
00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:58,279
Speaker 4: leaving me. All that toxic shit is sexy the first year.

819
00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:00,560
Speaker 4: It's the same thing that bites you in the but

820
00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:02,040
Speaker 4: when you're trying to leave and he really meant that

821
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:03,719
Speaker 4: shit respectfully.

822
00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:08,520
Speaker 2: And closing, I'll say this, bring jobs.

823
00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:09,840
Speaker 3: Whether you're married or not.

824
00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:12,799
Speaker 2: Divorced or not, I will say this.

825
00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 1: Always remember when you're getting married, it is a business.

826
00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:20,440
Speaker 1: And my advice to everybody, I don't care how much

827
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:23,120
Speaker 1: money you make, you make a dollar. Getting married is

828
00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:26,440
Speaker 1: a business. That's why a lot of people aren't married

829
00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 1: because they don't want to incur the man they loves death.

830
00:42:30,160 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 1: You know, if he has child support, death and he

831
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:35,719
Speaker 1: has a lot of other things. You just remind yourselves

832
00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:38,720
Speaker 1: that the fairy tale wedding is cute.

833
00:42:39,280 --> 00:42:40,960
Speaker 2: But marriage is a business.

834
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:44,360
Speaker 1: And that's why I'll always tell people when you are

835
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:48,960
Speaker 1: in a relationship, you have to treat it like a business.

836
00:42:49,239 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 1: You have to work hard to make sure you want

837
00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:54,480
Speaker 1: this forever, and you're going to have to you know,

838
00:42:55,440 --> 00:43:01,560
Speaker 1: have a performance review. I've had for pformance reviews. Yes, no,

839
00:43:01,680 --> 00:43:06,560
Speaker 1: I'm I'm a healed libra. In my relationship, I'm a

840
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:07,200
Speaker 1: hilled libra.

841
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:09,280
Speaker 3: I have performance reviews.

842
00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:10,920
Speaker 2: I have performance reviews.

843
00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:13,480
Speaker 1: Every couple of months, I sit my partner down, I'm like, so,

844
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:15,280
Speaker 1: what's working in our relationship?

845
00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 2: What isn't working?

846
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:20,720
Speaker 1: And we we have uncomfortable conversations to the point where

847
00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:23,120
Speaker 1: we low key don't speak for a few hours because

848
00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:26,480
Speaker 1: we low key read each other. But the intention is

849
00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:30,400
Speaker 1: I would like to know and we have what it

850
00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:34,080
Speaker 1: takes to spend the next six months together. So rain drops.

851
00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:38,000
Speaker 1: My advice to y'all is to have performance reviews in

852
00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:41,959
Speaker 1: your relationship. See what's working on not working, and don't

853
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:46,879
Speaker 1: waste your time being with somebody that in the end.

854
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:51,440
Speaker 2: Yeah so so so that's that. Okay, we got a

855
00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:51,919
Speaker 2: few minutes.

856
00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:55,560
Speaker 1: Oh Lord Jesus, stuff in your mama's dame, y'all.

857
00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:55,840
Speaker 5: I'm just.

858
00:43:59,520 --> 00:43:59,680
Speaker 3: Ken.

859
00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:05,960
Speaker 2: I love it. I love it, I love it. Those

860
00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:06,399
Speaker 2: are my girls.

861
00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:10,000
Speaker 1: You forgot to take this serious leer okay, real haus

862
00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:10,640
Speaker 1: up atomacs.

863
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:15,240
Speaker 2: So listen, we gotta get into the Stacey show. Baby

864
00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:18,480
Speaker 2: Stacey is raiding the girls left and right. She is

865
00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:20,960
Speaker 2: taking over this show. Stacey.

866
00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:27,719
Speaker 1: Stacey went after Kana. Look chaw Chap made an appearance.

867
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:34,600
Speaker 1: Chap is a O G housewife.

868
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 2: That's it. Cherise is a thread to.

869
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:40,719
Speaker 6: The show, always starting ships. Soon as she came back

870
00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:43,920
Speaker 6: on the screen, what she do? Hey, Chris is es

871
00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:47,920
Speaker 6: so I'm filming and did she or did she not?

872
00:44:48,160 --> 00:44:50,759
Speaker 6: Chris said, man, I don't know nothing about that ship.

873
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:51,560
Speaker 3: That bullshit.

874
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:55,440
Speaker 6: Okay, thank you and hung up starting all that she

875
00:44:55,520 --> 00:44:58,040
Speaker 6: as soon as she came back on the scene starting ship.

876
00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:00,960
Speaker 4: She means a spiritual colonna. She just feels like a

877
00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:02,480
Speaker 4: little beat of sweat, like she just needs.

878
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:02,920
Speaker 2: To get purged.

879
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:06,640
Speaker 6: And she got half in her divorce settlement. Charisse made

880
00:45:06,680 --> 00:45:09,320
Speaker 6: out like a bandite. She got half, so she good.

881
00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:13,279
Speaker 6: Why you ain't happy, Well, you're not bringing happy.

882
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:15,400
Speaker 5: She's not holding the cherry blossom. That's why.

883
00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:18,200
Speaker 6: Now you see, Cynthia Bailey, that's how you come back

884
00:45:18,239 --> 00:45:21,560
Speaker 6: as a friend. Cynthia came back happy, life good. She

885
00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:24,600
Speaker 6: cool with everybody in the mix, doing her things. She's

886
00:45:24,640 --> 00:45:27,720
Speaker 6: a friend to the show and to the cast member.

887
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:30,759
Speaker 6: Charisse came back to start ship, so maybe that's a

888
00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:31,320
Speaker 6: new position.

889
00:45:32,719 --> 00:45:36,239
Speaker 4: She wants to be Gazelle. She always thought that she

890
00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:37,840
Speaker 4: was going to be the Gaselle of the show. And

891
00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:43,400
Speaker 4: she's never recovered from happening. Yeah, oh you can have

892
00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:44,959
Speaker 4: a come on, Carlos, I'll still say it again.

893
00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:50,240
Speaker 2: Well, she referred to the show Charise.

894
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:54,280
Speaker 5: Note your name is Charisse, right, Okay, okay.

895
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:58,480
Speaker 2: So look, the gag is best. Okay, let's just talk

896
00:45:58,480 --> 00:45:59,040
Speaker 2: about it.

897
00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:02,640
Speaker 1: Charise helped cast the show the way Nimi helped cast

898
00:46:02,680 --> 00:46:03,680
Speaker 1: Atlanta Housewives.

899
00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:07,080
Speaker 2: Charise has a shitload.

900
00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:10,680
Speaker 1: Of money, when they were casting the show, Charise referred

901
00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:15,000
Speaker 1: a lot of the girls because they wanted to allegedly

902
00:46:15,040 --> 00:46:18,160
Speaker 1: because I gotta keep a cute. They wanted to allegedly

903
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:22,920
Speaker 1: build a show Charis because she had the wealth. So

904
00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:25,040
Speaker 1: that's why I'm laughing at you saying Charise wanted to

905
00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:26,000
Speaker 1: be the just Zell of the show.

906
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:27,719
Speaker 2: I don't know that to be true. Charies, you want

907
00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:29,000
Speaker 2: to come off and tell us.

908
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:37,600
Speaker 5: But id and she's Scharise instead, you're Scharise.

909
00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:42,440
Speaker 6: But she did exactly what was her, what caused her,

910
00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:45,520
Speaker 6: what it was to her own detriment. Right, she came

911
00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:48,120
Speaker 6: back on as soon as she had some sort of

912
00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:51,360
Speaker 6: problem that she could find some kind of way with

913
00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:54,000
Speaker 6: a magnifying glass, right, because it wasn't even a real problem.

914
00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:56,200
Speaker 3: But as soon as she got pissed with Stacy, let

915
00:46:56,239 --> 00:46:58,480
Speaker 3: me tell you what she did when we was hanging out.

916
00:46:58,760 --> 00:47:01,520
Speaker 6: When we was hanging out, though, when we was hanging out,

917
00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:03,560
Speaker 6: when we was hanging out, she was these guys and

918
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:05,120
Speaker 6: one of them, what's married?

919
00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:06,880
Speaker 3: She said, what got to do with me?

920
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:09,879
Speaker 6: Well, you just now telling us that now that you're

921
00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:12,360
Speaker 6: mad at her and you was out with her kicking it,

922
00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:14,080
Speaker 6: I'm sure you didn't get up from the table and

923
00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:14,880
Speaker 6: say this.

924
00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:17,240
Speaker 3: Is against my morals and principles. I am out.

925
00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:19,799
Speaker 6: She didn't do that, you know what I'm saying. She

926
00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:23,160
Speaker 6: said there and put it in her in a roller decks.

927
00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:26,239
Speaker 6: And that's what I mean about people like that. You know,

928
00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:28,560
Speaker 6: it makes it great to be but like, don't be

929
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:30,600
Speaker 6: around me if you're gonna just do if you just

930
00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:32,480
Speaker 6: gonna come back later with this ship. I don't want

931
00:47:32,480 --> 00:47:34,719
Speaker 6: to know motherfuckers like that around me at all.

932
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:37,600
Speaker 4: She main characters is almost like that baby. Main characters

933
00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:39,960
Speaker 4: don't move like that. It's giving sidekick energy.

934
00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:47,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Well, speaking of main character, I thought doctor

935
00:47:47,480 --> 00:47:51,640
Speaker 1: Wendy gave merr I thought doctor Wendy gave main character

936
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:57,640
Speaker 1: when she clocked Angel. Angel called mercurial which rain drops.

937
00:47:57,680 --> 00:48:00,160
Speaker 1: Gizelle did not know what it meant. But I I

938
00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:02,839
Speaker 1: will read the definition to y'all in terms of what

939
00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:05,440
Speaker 1: the word actually means.

940
00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:11,200
Speaker 3: That it's word.

941
00:48:13,840 --> 00:48:18,880
Speaker 1: Subject to sudden or unpredictable changes of mood or mine.

942
00:48:19,719 --> 00:48:22,440
Speaker 2: There you go. Other things were scientific. But with that

943
00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:23,920
Speaker 2: being said, but that being.

944
00:48:24,800 --> 00:48:26,120
Speaker 5: You called her moody. You thought you were having a

945
00:48:26,120 --> 00:48:27,240
Speaker 5: moman calling this bitch moody.

946
00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:29,920
Speaker 3: Are you serious that nothing's connecting?

947
00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 6: And this is a prime example, even like in this

948
00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:34,279
Speaker 6: episode when she was looking out the window with them

949
00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:35,400
Speaker 6: damn binoculars.

950
00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:37,680
Speaker 3: Where is he driving with those kids?

951
00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:42,319
Speaker 6: You don't you don't be using those binoculars, angel, and

952
00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:48,399
Speaker 6: you don't use mercurial in your in your vernacular. Okay, yeah,

953
00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:50,280
Speaker 6: you could have just said that that's the problem.

954
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:51,400
Speaker 3: And she was talking about it.

955
00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:51,840
Speaker 2: She was.

956
00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:54,920
Speaker 6: And I watched the after show this week and she

957
00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:57,080
Speaker 6: was talking to k about something. She was like, yeah,

958
00:48:57,120 --> 00:48:58,080
Speaker 6: but then she wants.

959
00:48:57,840 --> 00:48:59,680
Speaker 3: To castigate you.

960
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:02,879
Speaker 6: I know what it means to castigate someone, right, most

961
00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:10,840
Speaker 6: people don't and thank you, thank you, And your angel

962
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:13,440
Speaker 6: is not connecting, you know what I'm saying with everybody

963
00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:15,600
Speaker 6: she I looked at her the other day she was

964
00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:18,520
Speaker 6: doing press. She had an overcoad on on top of

965
00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:20,240
Speaker 6: it was like part of her look, but it wasn't

966
00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:21,640
Speaker 6: like hanging on her.

967
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:23,239
Speaker 3: It was like she was wrapping it up.

968
00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:25,200
Speaker 6: And so I thought about some of the conversations we

969
00:49:25,280 --> 00:49:28,239
Speaker 6: had about her not being comfortable and stuff, and I

970
00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:30,880
Speaker 6: think that that's spilling over into her performance on the

971
00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:33,919
Speaker 6: show because it just ain't It's absolutely not happened when

972
00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:37,160
Speaker 6: I saw her pick up the binoculars and make sure

973
00:49:37,200 --> 00:49:39,840
Speaker 6: that the camera caught her looking out that window. I

974
00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:42,759
Speaker 6: went to the bathroom. I just let it, I just

975
00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:44,400
Speaker 6: let that scene play. I went on and went to

976
00:49:44,440 --> 00:49:47,360
Speaker 6: the bathroom. I'm tired of hearing the words Colorado home

977
00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:50,520
Speaker 6: home in Colorado, house Colorado, Colorado home home Colorado, our

978
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:56,600
Speaker 6: home in Colorado, Hou's Colorado, Colorado home, tired Colorado, apparently

979
00:49:57,640 --> 00:49:58,960
Speaker 6: color Molado.

980
00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 4: Do y'all know Manza from selling Sunset. She's given a

981
00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:06,520
Speaker 4: really hard on those outfits and they never had. You

982
00:50:06,560 --> 00:50:10,200
Speaker 4: worked really hard to look stupid, and people.

983
00:50:09,960 --> 00:50:12,040
Speaker 5: Be telling them themselves. She will sound to Claudia.

984
00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:13,880
Speaker 4: I think it might have been Claudia where she was

985
00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:16,320
Speaker 4: talking to her and she mentioned the girl. The girls

986
00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:19,719
Speaker 4: clearly read the comments to get their their their their

987
00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:21,720
Speaker 4: barbs and their clips from you just told them yourself.

988
00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:27,360
Speaker 6: You just talking about you're looking in the wrong place, sweetheart.

989
00:50:28,040 --> 00:50:30,239
Speaker 6: You look into the That's why nothing is working, because

990
00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:32,440
Speaker 6: you're trying to play to the comments and get the fast,

991
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:35,160
Speaker 6: not how you get the fans on your side. People

992
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:38,200
Speaker 6: like you because you're authentic and original and there's ship

993
00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:40,600
Speaker 6: that you do the way you do it. I'm talking

994
00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:42,000
Speaker 6: about when people like someone.

995
00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:44,840
Speaker 3: Oh okay, people like someone, they like you because of that.

996
00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:47,840
Speaker 6: Nobody none of that. I don't think Angela is connecting.

997
00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:50,640
Speaker 6: I would say, don't nobody like her, but I'm not

998
00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:51,160
Speaker 6: gonna say it.

999
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:53,080
Speaker 5: I would be like her because he invested thirty k.

1000
00:50:57,520 --> 00:50:58,400
Speaker 3: So on the show.

1001
00:50:58,719 --> 00:51:02,279
Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying, She's break her back and

1002
00:51:03,560 --> 00:51:07,919
Speaker 6: she's not connecting man with nobody and it's boring man.

1003
00:51:08,280 --> 00:51:11,320
Speaker 3: And then to me, she's making it even harder for

1004
00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:12,560
Speaker 3: my girl, Keiana. Right.

1005
00:51:12,680 --> 00:51:14,799
Speaker 6: I know I'm in the minority here. I see all

1006
00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:17,799
Speaker 6: the comments, I see the conversations. I know that y'all

1007
00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:21,440
Speaker 6: are not happy with the choices that Keana is making.

1008
00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:23,920
Speaker 6: But I like her, and I don't give a fuck. Okay,

1009
00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:28,000
Speaker 6: I like and I like her brother. Her her brother is.

1010
00:51:28,239 --> 00:51:30,600
Speaker 6: That's a beautiful family. I don't want to disrespect him

1011
00:51:30,600 --> 00:51:32,120
Speaker 6: because I don't know. You know what I'm saying, But

1012
00:51:32,440 --> 00:51:35,520
Speaker 6: I have a beautiful family. They have a beautiful friend.

1013
00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:39,160
Speaker 6: You can say, you know what I'm saying, But like

1014
00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:42,239
Speaker 6: they have, they're a beautiful family. And she gets that

1015
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:45,239
Speaker 6: smoldering glance from her player, like.

1016
00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:46,920
Speaker 3: From her mama. You know what I'm saying.

1017
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:49,400
Speaker 6: They're a beautiful family and I like her, and I

1018
00:51:49,440 --> 00:51:53,759
Speaker 6: think that the addition of Angel is taking Keana down

1019
00:51:53,840 --> 00:51:57,160
Speaker 6: because them two together don't help each other.

1020
00:51:58,120 --> 00:52:00,320
Speaker 2: I'll say that. I think, think.

1021
00:52:01,719 --> 00:52:04,000
Speaker 1: I agree with you, but I'll disagree with you when

1022
00:52:04,040 --> 00:52:06,279
Speaker 1: I say this. I don't.

1023
00:52:06,760 --> 00:52:08,400
Speaker 2: I think they're taking each.

1024
00:52:08,160 --> 00:52:11,440
Speaker 3: Other down, Yeah, the wrong road.

1025
00:52:11,680 --> 00:52:17,279
Speaker 1: I think Kyana, Okay, I'm gonna say this, and I

1026
00:52:17,320 --> 00:52:19,640
Speaker 1: hope you guys understand when I say this that this

1027
00:52:19,719 --> 00:52:21,800
Speaker 1: is when I'm only being producer.

1028
00:52:21,520 --> 00:52:22,680
Speaker 3: And I'm gonna be honest.

1029
00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:24,120
Speaker 2: I'm a big producer. When I say this is not

1030
00:52:24,200 --> 00:52:24,560
Speaker 2: a viewer.

1031
00:52:25,280 --> 00:52:29,120
Speaker 1: I think Kana is trying too hard in these scenes

1032
00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:35,080
Speaker 1: and it's hard to register. And I think Angel, who

1033
00:52:35,200 --> 00:52:38,239
Speaker 1: doesn't have somebody on the show that is a bet,

1034
00:52:39,239 --> 00:52:42,560
Speaker 1: doesn't have somebody to tell her don't do that, because

1035
00:52:42,600 --> 00:52:46,040
Speaker 1: nobody's telling Keana, okay, girl, calm down, simmer down the bed.

1036
00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:50,040
Speaker 2: Even when Keyanna was reading Stacey.

1037
00:52:50,560 --> 00:52:55,080
Speaker 1: And it was yah ya and I was like, Okay, Kiana,

1038
00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:58,120
Speaker 1: I live for you, baby, but that wasn't again. I

1039
00:52:59,440 --> 00:53:02,880
Speaker 1: would have loved if I was there as the producer,

1040
00:53:02,960 --> 00:53:06,799
Speaker 1: and I'm pretty sure the produces her to be like.

1041
00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:10,640
Speaker 3: Simmer down, like all that.

1042
00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:11,840
Speaker 2: I'll do all that.

1043
00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:15,120
Speaker 1: And I think Angel, I think in Angels defense, she's

1044
00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:17,520
Speaker 1: walking to the twilight zone with no direction.

1045
00:53:19,680 --> 00:53:22,240
Speaker 3: Didn't have no Ninnie, didn't have a O G.

1046
00:53:22,239 --> 00:53:25,680
Speaker 6: Giselle, didn't have nobody to mentor her, Karen Huger didn't

1047
00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:26,640
Speaker 6: have nobody to mentor her.

1048
00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:33,279
Speaker 3: But they were that.

1049
00:53:31,840 --> 00:53:38,319
Speaker 6: Season changed, but reality has something was different when they

1050
00:53:38,360 --> 00:53:40,239
Speaker 6: came on too. I'm sorry you ain't gonna get no

1051
00:53:40,280 --> 00:53:42,440
Speaker 6: pass for me say that saying that you could give

1052
00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:46,319
Speaker 6: a better performance if somebody who was there could guide you. No,

1053
00:53:46,920 --> 00:53:49,279
Speaker 6: you are you're a housewife. This is a show that

1054
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:52,440
Speaker 6: is about you. It's not about you being advised and

1055
00:53:52,520 --> 00:53:54,719
Speaker 6: guided in the way. No, you get in there and

1056
00:53:54,800 --> 00:53:58,120
Speaker 6: you show your personality and you if you're interesting, you're interested.

1057
00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:00,920
Speaker 3: If you're not, you're not. I find Colorado.

1058
00:54:01,120 --> 00:54:02,600
Speaker 4: Is there no Wi Fi in Colorado? But she could

1059
00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:04,640
Speaker 4: have just watched the show like the rest of us.

1060
00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:09,560
Speaker 1: And she told Laudia Cobble on their show Accidentally Uninformed

1061
00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:13,879
Speaker 1: accormed Girl Erica.

1062
00:54:14,120 --> 00:54:15,960
Speaker 2: She told him on the show that she watched a

1063
00:54:15,960 --> 00:54:16,520
Speaker 2: little bit of it.

1064
00:54:16,800 --> 00:54:25,640
Speaker 3: I call bs on it episode. Okay, Angel, you are.

1065
00:54:25,480 --> 00:54:27,000
Speaker 2: This is why it's challenging.

1066
00:54:27,200 --> 00:54:30,879
Speaker 1: Right, it's because if we look at the facts, I

1067
00:54:30,920 --> 00:54:35,480
Speaker 1: think reality TV has changed a lot in the past

1068
00:54:35,920 --> 00:54:37,240
Speaker 1: three to five years.

1069
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:37,799
Speaker 3: Right.

1070
00:54:38,200 --> 00:54:40,840
Speaker 1: Gone are the days of a Kenya Moore and a

1071
00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:44,160
Speaker 1: Porsche coming into a season five and taking over the show.

1072
00:54:44,320 --> 00:54:45,320
Speaker 2: Let's have a real conversation.

1073
00:54:49,520 --> 00:54:50,280
Speaker 5: Ta is amazing.

1074
00:54:50,320 --> 00:54:53,480
Speaker 4: I agree, disagree because Tia is amazing, but but let's

1075
00:54:53,480 --> 00:54:58,360
Speaker 4: be crazy is amazing.

1076
00:54:58,960 --> 00:55:01,759
Speaker 2: But you guys aren't listening. Wendy was not great her

1077
00:55:01,760 --> 00:55:02,320
Speaker 2: first season.

1078
00:55:02,800 --> 00:55:05,560
Speaker 3: No, no, Saty was.

1079
00:55:05,520 --> 00:55:08,960
Speaker 1: Not great her first season. She was con So hear

1080
00:55:08,960 --> 00:55:11,920
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. What I'm saying it took a minute,

1081
00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:14,640
Speaker 1: Okay for the first season the housewife in the past

1082
00:55:14,680 --> 00:55:18,319
Speaker 1: three to five years, namely one housewife on Atlanta or

1083
00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:22,000
Speaker 1: Potomac where the first season in the last three to

1084
00:55:22,080 --> 00:55:25,000
Speaker 1: five years they came out the gate killing it.

1085
00:55:25,680 --> 00:55:29,440
Speaker 2: I think it. I think it takes a minute. If

1086
00:55:29,480 --> 00:55:30,160
Speaker 2: I'm wrong, I'm wrong.

1087
00:55:30,200 --> 00:55:31,680
Speaker 1: But can you name anybody in the three in the

1088
00:55:31,680 --> 00:55:34,080
Speaker 1: past three to five years that killed it the first season?

1089
00:55:34,200 --> 00:55:34,279
Speaker 7: Go.

1090
00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:38,000
Speaker 4: I think the one producer that we're forgetting to mention,

1091
00:55:38,080 --> 00:55:40,080
Speaker 4: which I think is the reason why Keiana is struggling,

1092
00:55:40,520 --> 00:55:42,600
Speaker 4: is that and this is my own personal theory.

1093
00:55:42,760 --> 00:55:45,200
Speaker 2: Just sorry, Blue, I'm sorry, Blue.

1094
00:55:45,320 --> 00:55:53,439
Speaker 1: Somebody said ya, Yeah, Jesus carried the show on her back.

1095
00:55:53,640 --> 00:56:06,360
Speaker 6: She stole, she stole the.

1096
00:56:07,239 --> 00:56:10,479
Speaker 4: Here's the thing, y'all, Mia is the gift that keeps

1097
00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:14,680
Speaker 4: on giving, isn't she with Bobby Vick?

1098
00:56:14,719 --> 00:56:15,400
Speaker 5: Okay, we shut up.

1099
00:56:15,600 --> 00:56:15,680
Speaker 2: No.

1100
00:56:15,840 --> 00:56:18,320
Speaker 4: I think my theory is that Karen Huger being missing

1101
00:56:18,400 --> 00:56:20,080
Speaker 4: is what's happening, because you have to think about it.

1102
00:56:20,120 --> 00:56:21,879
Speaker 5: Karen Huger takes these girls under her wing.

1103
00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:25,800
Speaker 4: Every season people talk about how Karen is the silent producer.

1104
00:56:26,000 --> 00:56:27,799
Speaker 4: I think Karen being in lockup is while we're getting

1105
00:56:27,800 --> 00:56:30,279
Speaker 4: this horrible season from this girl, because Karen was like

1106
00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:33,240
Speaker 4: a mother to her, who was advising her. Without Karen,

1107
00:56:33,280 --> 00:56:36,799
Speaker 4: all we got is third party information from Cookie Monster. Sorry, right,

1108
00:56:37,120 --> 00:56:40,719
Speaker 4: So without Karen being there, I think if Karen was there,

1109
00:56:40,880 --> 00:56:43,480
Speaker 4: Karen would be helping Kiana, and Kiana could then have

1110
00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:45,840
Speaker 4: a drip down effect to Angel. I think the absence

1111
00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:48,359
Speaker 4: of Karen is why this is so cringe, and y'all

1112
00:56:48,400 --> 00:56:50,719
Speaker 4: cannot convince me otherwise because Ms.

1113
00:56:50,719 --> 00:56:54,160
Speaker 8: Hugar is look with that that's actually good and listen.

1114
00:56:54,640 --> 00:56:56,640
Speaker 8: I sent a lance up atomy because I'm not gonna

1115
00:56:56,680 --> 00:56:59,960
Speaker 8: have this conversation about the Black Housewives versus the shows

1116
00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:07,399
Speaker 8: because yes, because yes, Monica Garcia killed it her first season, like.

1117
00:57:07,840 --> 00:57:10,400
Speaker 2: She she to me it was Kenya.

1118
00:57:10,640 --> 00:57:14,480
Speaker 1: So I'm saying a Lance and Potomac specifically, but a

1119
00:57:14,480 --> 00:57:17,280
Speaker 1: lot of people are agree with Dustin saying Angela Oakley,

1120
00:57:17,560 --> 00:57:21,919
Speaker 1: and I would have to say Angela Oakley was stellar. Yeah,

1121
00:57:22,040 --> 00:57:24,720
Speaker 1: So again I want to I wanted it to be

1122
00:57:24,800 --> 00:57:26,960
Speaker 1: a situation where you could correct me, so I will

1123
00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:29,920
Speaker 1: say Angela Oakley for sure, So I stand corrected.

1124
00:57:32,120 --> 00:57:34,160
Speaker 3: I see your boy for sure.

1125
00:57:34,880 --> 00:57:37,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, so listen, we will see with that. What I

1126
00:57:37,680 --> 00:57:41,120
Speaker 1: want to get into is what are your thoughts on

1127
00:57:42,480 --> 00:57:47,240
Speaker 1: KK meeting with her mom and her brother, and this

1128
00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:50,840
Speaker 1: is a conversation that we low key talked about ten

1129
00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:56,280
Speaker 1: minutes ago. Her boyfriend Greg decided to buy her condo

1130
00:57:57,040 --> 00:57:59,520
Speaker 1: instead of getting her a ring after three years of

1131
00:57:59,600 --> 00:58:01,240
Speaker 1: dating Blue.

1132
00:58:02,640 --> 00:58:05,560
Speaker 4: I think it's dangerous when black women are delusional and

1133
00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:07,840
Speaker 4: don't realize that wife and wife he are two different.

1134
00:58:07,560 --> 00:58:08,360
Speaker 5: Words for a reason.

1135
00:58:09,560 --> 00:58:11,880
Speaker 4: I think the first time that Kiarana realized that she

1136
00:58:11,920 --> 00:58:13,680
Speaker 4: wasn't a wife of when she said to Stacy, I

1137
00:58:13,680 --> 00:58:15,320
Speaker 4: wouldn't trust you with my husband, and Stacy had to

1138
00:58:15,320 --> 00:58:18,400
Speaker 4: remind her she didn't have one. And so I think

1139
00:58:18,520 --> 00:58:21,080
Speaker 4: Greg has been gaslighting her successfully for quite.

1140
00:58:20,920 --> 00:58:24,840
Speaker 5: A while, and that to be that stunning right her

1141
00:58:24,880 --> 00:58:25,880
Speaker 5: face is a work of heart.

1142
00:58:26,120 --> 00:58:28,440
Speaker 4: To be that stunning, and to be giving up the

1143
00:58:28,480 --> 00:58:31,560
Speaker 4: best years of your life to someone so painfully mediocre.

1144
00:58:32,800 --> 00:58:35,840
Speaker 4: It's I hate to see it, but it also might

1145
00:58:35,880 --> 00:58:38,840
Speaker 4: explain why she feels the need to make up for

1146
00:58:38,880 --> 00:58:41,800
Speaker 4: it with other storylines that don't include her, because if

1147
00:58:41,800 --> 00:58:43,680
Speaker 4: Monique don't care, why do you care so much?

1148
00:58:43,880 --> 00:58:46,080
Speaker 5: And one thing I will say about I'm.

1149
00:58:45,920 --> 00:58:48,400
Speaker 4: Just saying and Chris Samuel's penis, I didn't think it

1150
00:58:48,400 --> 00:58:52,080
Speaker 4: was gonna be a co star this season. I don't

1151
00:58:52,080 --> 00:58:55,280
Speaker 4: believe that anybody cares this much about the Chris storyline.

1152
00:58:55,440 --> 00:58:57,240
Speaker 4: I think he's a means to an end. They didn't

1153
00:58:57,240 --> 00:58:58,720
Speaker 4: care about him as much when he was on the show.

1154
00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:01,360
Speaker 5: Now y'all care about him so much in his penis.

1155
00:59:01,680 --> 00:59:04,320
Speaker 4: It's it's all so desperate. And I think the reason

1156
00:59:04,320 --> 00:59:07,280
Speaker 4: why Stacey is so amazing. I think the reason why

1157
00:59:07,320 --> 00:59:10,960
Speaker 4: Tita is so amazing is because they're in on the joke, right,

1158
00:59:11,280 --> 00:59:14,560
Speaker 4: Even Giselle, I have not always loved Jaselle, but Jaseelle

1159
00:59:14,560 --> 00:59:17,000
Speaker 4: looks sincerely confused when, uh.

1160
00:59:16,920 --> 00:59:19,600
Speaker 5: What's Doom? Doom's name? Not doing gloom? What's Boom's name?

1161
00:59:21,040 --> 00:59:21,160
Speaker 1: Uh?

1162
00:59:21,280 --> 00:59:23,920
Speaker 4: Angels Angel, Sorry my head, they're doing glooms. I don't

1163
00:59:23,920 --> 00:59:27,600
Speaker 4: be forgetting their names. When Gloom was crying, Jaselle looks

1164
00:59:27,640 --> 00:59:29,440
Speaker 4: sincerely confused. She was like, girl, thought we were just

1165
00:59:29,480 --> 00:59:31,680
Speaker 4: doing a scene. Ah you really, Oh you're really hurt?

1166
00:59:32,760 --> 00:59:32,960
Speaker 7: Oh?

1167
00:59:33,080 --> 00:59:34,479
Speaker 5: Okay, I guess girl.

1168
00:59:35,280 --> 00:59:37,040
Speaker 4: You know there's a camera, right, this is just work.

1169
00:59:37,160 --> 00:59:39,560
Speaker 4: And so I think the girls who are not in

1170
00:59:39,600 --> 00:59:41,840
Speaker 4: on the joke are getting dragged because they could joke

1171
00:59:41,880 --> 00:59:42,640
Speaker 4: to the wrong party.

1172
00:59:43,440 --> 00:59:45,800
Speaker 5: It's a show, baby, go back to Colorado after this.

1173
00:59:45,800 --> 00:59:50,440
Speaker 2: It's a show, like, y'all you adjusted are so best

1174
00:59:50,440 --> 00:59:51,960
Speaker 2: thing y'all. Don't keep her part.

1175
00:59:51,760 --> 00:59:52,080
Speaker 5: Of the co.

1176
00:59:54,240 --> 00:59:56,680
Speaker 6: Saying it. I'm so every episode we need. That's the

1177
00:59:56,760 --> 01:00:00,920
Speaker 6: drinking game all she says, only Colorado house. I got

1178
01:00:00,960 --> 01:00:02,960
Speaker 6: a Colorado host my home in Colorado home. Well, you know,

1179
01:00:03,000 --> 01:00:07,360
Speaker 6: our Colorado house for our Colorado home heads with Colorado. Like, man,

1180
01:00:07,400 --> 01:00:09,880
Speaker 6: if she said that fucking word one more time, man,

1181
01:00:10,040 --> 01:00:10,680
Speaker 6: I just drank.

1182
01:00:10,520 --> 01:00:11,960
Speaker 5: Every time he said Colorado. Now I'm drug.

1183
01:00:12,280 --> 01:00:16,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, see, so get you a.

1184
01:00:16,760 --> 01:00:19,080
Speaker 4: New something, and also to being mad at Wendy for

1185
01:00:19,480 --> 01:00:21,840
Speaker 4: not looking at you cannot be your entire storyline.

1186
01:00:24,400 --> 01:00:25,760
Speaker 2: Let's listen, Angel.

1187
01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:30,680
Speaker 1: I only know for you this episode because I feel

1188
01:00:30,720 --> 01:00:32,280
Speaker 1: like my my co host did a great.

1189
01:00:32,240 --> 01:00:33,160
Speaker 2: Job displaying there.

1190
01:00:33,920 --> 01:00:36,480
Speaker 1: My only note for Angel this episode was when I

1191
01:00:36,520 --> 01:00:40,480
Speaker 1: saw her checking Wendy, I'm like, you're angry at.

1192
01:00:40,320 --> 01:00:41,080
Speaker 3: The wrong person.

1193
01:00:41,280 --> 01:00:43,800
Speaker 2: You really are mad at Gazelle. Gazelle even said to you,

1194
01:00:43,840 --> 01:00:47,040
Speaker 2: I said cap Fish, not Wendy. Everybody said Gazelle said it.

1195
01:00:47,400 --> 01:00:49,040
Speaker 2: And for me, it was one of those things that

1196
01:00:49,120 --> 01:00:50,320
Speaker 2: in high school.

1197
01:00:50,480 --> 01:00:56,280
Speaker 1: When the popular girl did something and the other person,

1198
01:00:56,360 --> 01:00:58,640
Speaker 1: let's just call this person the victim, and this in

1199
01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:04,440
Speaker 1: the school has to confront her bully and she redirects,

1200
01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:09,080
Speaker 1: she misdirects the heat to somebody else on the Regina

1201
01:01:09,160 --> 01:01:09,920
Speaker 1: George squad.

1202
01:01:10,480 --> 01:01:11,480
Speaker 2: It made no sense to me.

1203
01:01:11,680 --> 01:01:16,520
Speaker 1: It's evident to me that Angel had no smoke prepared

1204
01:01:16,560 --> 01:01:20,240
Speaker 1: for her for Gazelle, because one thing that I've always

1205
01:01:20,280 --> 01:01:22,440
Speaker 1: said this, I don't and listen, unpopular, I don't give

1206
01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:26,160
Speaker 1: a ship. Everybody comes in wanting to be Gazelle friend,

1207
01:01:26,440 --> 01:01:28,560
Speaker 1: and we'll see I see a lot of that in

1208
01:01:28,640 --> 01:01:30,680
Speaker 1: this season. Already, and we're gonna see a lot of

1209
01:01:30,720 --> 01:01:34,840
Speaker 1: that in upcoming seasons. I think Giselle is the girl

1210
01:01:35,040 --> 01:01:37,320
Speaker 1: that all the girls on the show come in wanting

1211
01:01:37,360 --> 01:01:40,240
Speaker 1: to be friends with, and Angel has no smoke for Gazel.

1212
01:01:40,800 --> 01:01:44,880
Speaker 2: Wendy clocked it and was like you, we don't want you.

1213
01:01:44,880 --> 01:01:53,000
Speaker 6: Here, and her face I think when she did it too.

1214
01:01:53,040 --> 01:01:54,520
Speaker 3: Wendy looked good in that green dress.

1215
01:01:55,200 --> 01:01:57,760
Speaker 2: This season her best season.

1216
01:01:58,040 --> 01:02:02,080
Speaker 6: She's been looking good every mother fucking episode them confessionals,

1217
01:02:02,120 --> 01:02:04,560
Speaker 6: every look Wendy has been like stunning.

1218
01:02:04,760 --> 01:02:06,720
Speaker 5: I don't care she did it, y'all. Can we admit that.

1219
01:02:08,560 --> 01:02:15,000
Speaker 3: I don't care? Three Wendy, Yeah, free both.

1220
01:02:17,320 --> 01:02:20,040
Speaker 4: I'm a whole hashag movement because the thing is Wendy

1221
01:02:20,160 --> 01:02:21,880
Speaker 4: is that girl. And I think the reason why Angels

1222
01:02:21,880 --> 01:02:23,880
Speaker 4: not clocking is because Angels a wag y'a don't understand

1223
01:02:23,880 --> 01:02:25,880
Speaker 4: about the wags.

1224
01:02:25,920 --> 01:02:27,160
Speaker 2: In the Wags, the.

1225
01:02:27,280 --> 01:02:30,360
Speaker 4: Zel is very wag adjacent to who mother is in

1226
01:02:30,400 --> 01:02:33,240
Speaker 4: the wag world. And even when she tried to pull

1227
01:02:33,320 --> 01:02:35,320
Speaker 4: rank on Jazzy and was like, hey, you know, he's

1228
01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:37,640
Speaker 4: the starter for ten years and nobody gave a damn right.

1229
01:02:38,120 --> 01:02:42,360
Speaker 4: In wag culture, your man's status you get to benefit from.

1230
01:02:42,400 --> 01:02:44,720
Speaker 4: So if my man has started for ten years, I'm

1231
01:02:44,760 --> 01:02:46,800
Speaker 4: officially a bigger deal than you. If your man is

1232
01:02:46,840 --> 01:02:49,320
Speaker 4: on the bench, none of those wag rules are applied.

1233
01:02:49,320 --> 01:02:51,000
Speaker 4: We don't care that man gave me five K and

1234
01:02:51,120 --> 01:02:53,000
Speaker 4: use it to buy key change for twelve dollars at

1235
01:02:53,000 --> 01:02:54,680
Speaker 4: the radio shack, like when he want it out, Like

1236
01:02:54,720 --> 01:02:55,760
Speaker 4: nobody cares over here.

1237
01:02:56,720 --> 01:03:00,400
Speaker 6: And that's where she fucked up. Angel is being fake

1238
01:03:00,480 --> 01:03:03,640
Speaker 6: on the cameras. That's what's going on. Angel's not being herself.

1239
01:03:03,680 --> 01:03:06,880
Speaker 6: She's showing up the camera to seeing being fake, speaking

1240
01:03:06,920 --> 01:03:09,280
Speaker 6: in ways that she does not speak in her personal life,

1241
01:03:10,000 --> 01:03:13,040
Speaker 6: getting mad about ship that she shouldn't even get mad about,

1242
01:03:13,120 --> 01:03:14,600
Speaker 6: like and acting as if she's mad.

1243
01:03:14,640 --> 01:03:16,680
Speaker 3: She don't give a fuck about what they said about

1244
01:03:16,680 --> 01:03:18,640
Speaker 3: her pictures. She don't give a fuck.

1245
01:03:18,920 --> 01:03:21,920
Speaker 6: She she's looking for something to attach herself to to

1246
01:03:21,960 --> 01:03:25,439
Speaker 6: get her story going, and unfortunately she picked the wrong thing.

1247
01:03:26,560 --> 01:03:26,680
Speaker 1: Uh.

1248
01:03:27,080 --> 01:03:31,120
Speaker 6: Tia went to see Wendy, went to see Stacy and Timo.

1249
01:03:31,840 --> 01:03:34,480
Speaker 6: Right she went to see them, she was being fake

1250
01:03:34,800 --> 01:03:37,800
Speaker 6: when she got over there. Stacey caught on to Tia

1251
01:03:37,880 --> 01:03:41,320
Speaker 6: being fake and trying to pry and ask questions, and

1252
01:03:41,360 --> 01:03:43,439
Speaker 6: so Stacey started lying, being fake too.

1253
01:03:43,880 --> 01:03:45,960
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, that's what that was. Yeah,

1254
01:03:46,200 --> 01:03:47,800
Speaker 3: he gets back tomorrow. I don't know. He ain't gonna

1255
01:03:47,800 --> 01:03:50,400
Speaker 3: be here. I don't know, you know what I'm saying.

1256
01:03:51,400 --> 01:03:58,440
Speaker 6: Yeah, she did that ship because Tia went over there

1257
01:03:58,520 --> 01:04:01,160
Speaker 6: being fake in the first place. That's why Stacey did

1258
01:04:01,200 --> 01:04:03,640
Speaker 6: that shit, and so that's why they not you know

1259
01:04:03,640 --> 01:04:05,360
Speaker 6: what I'm saying, it's not working out for them. If

1260
01:04:05,400 --> 01:04:09,920
Speaker 6: Angel would have came on this show flossing her wag lifestyle,

1261
01:04:10,080 --> 01:04:11,919
Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying, Like, Yes, I'm gonna wag

1262
01:04:11,960 --> 01:04:13,800
Speaker 6: this how I do it. I don't really care if

1263
01:04:13,840 --> 01:04:15,920
Speaker 6: these women like me or not. I'm about to just

1264
01:04:16,000 --> 01:04:18,560
Speaker 6: live my life and do my thing. And Kay is

1265
01:04:18,600 --> 01:04:21,160
Speaker 6: my homegirl. We're finna have some fun. I'm gonna bring

1266
01:04:21,240 --> 01:04:23,880
Speaker 6: my sister on here. She liked to talk shit. If

1267
01:04:23,920 --> 01:04:26,720
Speaker 6: Angel would have brought all that to the show, you

1268
01:04:26,760 --> 01:04:29,280
Speaker 6: know what I'm saying, then we would have been onto something.

1269
01:04:29,520 --> 01:04:31,160
Speaker 6: But the minute you tried to come on this show,

1270
01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:34,960
Speaker 6: I'm no, I'm actually thinking about this, and it's caused

1271
01:04:34,960 --> 01:04:36,280
Speaker 6: our interactions.

1272
01:04:35,800 --> 01:04:39,960
Speaker 3: To devolve in a mercurial state. Don't nobody want to

1273
01:04:40,000 --> 01:04:40,400
Speaker 3: see that?

1274
01:04:40,600 --> 01:04:40,840
Speaker 2: You know what?

1275
01:04:40,880 --> 01:04:43,800
Speaker 6: I'm saying, you're not even interesting and you always look sad.

1276
01:04:44,160 --> 01:04:46,360
Speaker 6: That's not interesting, you know what I'm saying. We want

1277
01:04:46,400 --> 01:04:50,280
Speaker 6: to see something else. So Angel, although she had the lifestyle,

1278
01:04:50,400 --> 01:04:52,720
Speaker 6: she had, the husband, she had the kids. Hell, her

1279
01:04:52,720 --> 01:04:55,360
Speaker 6: extended family was filming and when we met her, but

1280
01:04:55,400 --> 01:04:59,160
Speaker 6: then everything just went right down, you know what I'm saying,

1281
01:04:59,200 --> 01:05:01,880
Speaker 6: because he didn't just live and.

1282
01:05:01,960 --> 01:05:04,320
Speaker 3: Just be the wag. That's what she should have been.

1283
01:05:04,400 --> 01:05:08,080
Speaker 5: So and.

1284
01:05:08,360 --> 01:05:09,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, I hated it.

1285
01:05:09,800 --> 01:05:12,640
Speaker 1: Do you guys think about the scene with Wendy, uh

1286
01:05:12,880 --> 01:05:16,000
Speaker 1: doctor Wendy, her mom and you know the family.

1287
01:05:18,080 --> 01:05:20,400
Speaker 5: Now, I know why she had to allegedly.

1288
01:05:22,040 --> 01:05:24,240
Speaker 3: Look at me in my bag, look at me, you

1289
01:05:24,280 --> 01:05:25,000
Speaker 3: see my bag?

1290
01:05:25,480 --> 01:05:27,040
Speaker 5: Get your father, I get the money?

1291
01:05:27,120 --> 01:05:27,640
Speaker 2: Yay.

1292
01:05:27,840 --> 01:05:30,360
Speaker 5: I was like, oh no, Mama, like.

1293
01:05:32,320 --> 01:05:34,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, But I felt really bad though when they started

1294
01:05:34,640 --> 01:05:36,440
Speaker 6: talking about how their daddy don't give a fuck and

1295
01:05:36,480 --> 01:05:38,400
Speaker 6: ain't seen him in twenty years and what kind of

1296
01:05:38,360 --> 01:05:41,520
Speaker 6: ship is that? You know what I'm saying, Like, fuck him.

1297
01:05:41,960 --> 01:05:44,200
Speaker 6: That was horrible to me and I and that that

1298
01:05:44,280 --> 01:05:47,600
Speaker 6: pain was real that you've seen in Wendy's face. The

1299
01:05:47,680 --> 01:05:51,200
Speaker 6: sister Ivy, Ivy is her name, right, Yeah, her sister

1300
01:05:51,240 --> 01:05:51,960
Speaker 6: don't give a fuck.

1301
01:05:52,040 --> 01:05:54,720
Speaker 3: She like, you know, fuck him. But Wendy was kind

1302
01:05:54,720 --> 01:05:55,960
Speaker 3: of like, damn like that.

1303
01:05:56,040 --> 01:05:58,240
Speaker 6: You could tell it was really settling in on her

1304
01:05:58,800 --> 01:06:01,440
Speaker 6: the really where things were.

1305
01:06:01,480 --> 01:06:03,600
Speaker 3: With her father or whatever. So that was tough to see.

1306
01:06:04,080 --> 01:06:06,680
Speaker 3: But yeah, but.

1307
01:06:08,640 --> 01:06:11,600
Speaker 4: Her mother was your daddy, ain't ship. But I like

1308
01:06:11,640 --> 01:06:13,640
Speaker 4: this personal thank you. I was like, that is the.

1309
01:06:13,600 --> 01:06:15,840
Speaker 3: Wrong tone, very your wrong tone.

1310
01:06:17,240 --> 01:06:17,920
Speaker 5: No matriarch.

1311
01:06:17,920 --> 01:06:19,720
Speaker 4: You know how I feel about women who don't have matriarch.

1312
01:06:20,080 --> 01:06:21,080
Speaker 4: Things get tricky.

1313
01:06:22,120 --> 01:06:30,360
Speaker 6: Blue, I'm not going I'm not going there. I'm not

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna keep it on this network.

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Speaker 9: So yes, so Dusty and Blue, we got a few

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Speaker 9: minutes left. I want to get it to this thing

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01:06:41,520 --> 01:06:44,960
Speaker 9: with Monique and the girls. Some of it was sitting

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01:06:44,960 --> 01:06:50,160
Speaker 9: down with Keana, Ashley, Ben, Wendy and they're trying to

1319
01:06:50,200 --> 01:06:55,160
Speaker 9: figure out where did Chris Samuel's get this information that

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01:06:56,320 --> 01:07:02,080
Speaker 9: was told to him Stacy then a Rye and Stacy

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01:07:02,200 --> 01:07:05,480
Speaker 9: a woman after my own heart, the heart of a

1322
01:07:05,560 --> 01:07:09,200
Speaker 9: human and a producer. When she said I don't feel

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01:07:09,240 --> 01:07:11,440
Speaker 9: comfortable talking about this with these two sitting here.

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01:07:12,240 --> 01:07:15,880
Speaker 2: Was like, Stacey, who are you what I'm living? And

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01:07:15,920 --> 01:07:18,240
Speaker 2: then Keana gets up because of the bar and Stacy

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01:07:18,480 --> 01:07:20,760
Speaker 2: looked up as she like, you don't want to join her?

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Speaker 1: Okay, I appreciate the conversation that the girls had because

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01:07:26,240 --> 01:07:32,680
Speaker 1: Monique is like, look, I know my ex husband and

1329
01:07:32,800 --> 01:07:35,120
Speaker 1: the game of telephone paraphrase of course, but she talked

1330
01:07:35,120 --> 01:07:40,240
Speaker 1: about the game of telephone and how look, Chris could

1331
01:07:40,320 --> 01:07:43,520
Speaker 1: have put some hot sauce on it. Anybody could put

1332
01:07:43,520 --> 01:07:45,280
Speaker 1: some hot sauce on it. I know the man I

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01:07:45,360 --> 01:07:50,560
Speaker 1: was married to. Monika's calling him MESSI. Stacey proceeded to

1334
01:07:50,600 --> 01:07:54,960
Speaker 1: take out her phone and retext messages. He sent her

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01:07:55,040 --> 01:07:57,000
Speaker 1: picture of her on the cover of a magazine and

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01:07:57,040 --> 01:08:00,760
Speaker 1: her daughter and said beautiful. Stacey alleged she didn't respond

1337
01:08:00,800 --> 01:08:04,400
Speaker 1: to it. Chris allegedly responded and said thank you would

1338
01:08:04,400 --> 01:08:09,400
Speaker 1: be nice. Stacey allegedly paid it to show that I

1339
01:08:09,440 --> 01:08:13,600
Speaker 1: don't communicate with this man Ashley her and to be said,

1340
01:08:13,880 --> 01:08:16,280
Speaker 1: does it is Jesus Ashley her In to be said

1341
01:08:16,720 --> 01:08:19,840
Speaker 1: that we all know you can delete messages. Stacey does

1342
01:08:19,920 --> 01:08:24,240
Speaker 1: have a history of being untruthful. She was untruthful about

1343
01:08:24,360 --> 01:08:27,800
Speaker 1: the weed company that she did start. When she was

1344
01:08:27,840 --> 01:08:30,719
Speaker 1: confronted about it, she said, no, now she has one.

1345
01:08:31,080 --> 01:08:35,280
Speaker 2: Allegedly, you know this TJ thing was a farce and

1346
01:08:36,640 --> 01:08:41,240
Speaker 2: she just has this history. Dustin Ross, what were your.

1347
01:08:41,120 --> 01:08:44,400
Speaker 1: Thoughts on that scene and do you believe that Stacy

1348
01:08:45,400 --> 01:08:50,640
Speaker 1: was reading the accurate receipts between her and Chris Samuels.

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01:08:50,960 --> 01:08:53,599
Speaker 6: Yeah, I do, But I think that the biggest story

1350
01:08:53,640 --> 01:08:55,479
Speaker 6: is the fact that she had those messages in the

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01:08:55,479 --> 01:08:56,080
Speaker 6: first place.

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01:08:56,160 --> 01:08:58,040
Speaker 3: Right, we're all growing up.

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01:08:58,600 --> 01:09:02,240
Speaker 6: This is not the Da Vinci code, Right, Like they were,

1354
01:09:03,160 --> 01:09:05,320
Speaker 6: Stacey and Chris went out, they kicked it. You know

1355
01:09:05,320 --> 01:09:07,879
Speaker 6: what I'm saying. This shit ain't it's not rocket science.

1356
01:09:07,920 --> 01:09:10,000
Speaker 6: Like they was attracted to each other, they went out

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01:09:10,040 --> 01:09:12,360
Speaker 6: and kicked it. You know what I'm saying. It was

1358
01:09:12,439 --> 01:09:15,040
Speaker 6: what it was. They still cool, you know what I'm saying,

1359
01:09:15,320 --> 01:09:18,360
Speaker 6: y'all know what the relationships are. Like you hang out

1360
01:09:18,400 --> 01:09:21,000
Speaker 6: with somebody one time, you know, y'all y'all cool, y'all

1361
01:09:21,000 --> 01:09:23,160
Speaker 6: have a flirty banter and it is what it is.

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01:09:23,200 --> 01:09:25,640
Speaker 6: You might you know, do it or whatever, but like

1363
01:09:25,680 --> 01:09:28,680
Speaker 6: it's just a casual situation. That's what that is. You

1364
01:09:28,720 --> 01:09:31,120
Speaker 6: know what I'm saying. We've seen them photograph together. We

1365
01:09:31,200 --> 01:09:34,120
Speaker 6: know they've spent time together. She admitted it. And when

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01:09:34,120 --> 01:09:37,680
Speaker 6: they were away wherever they were, and she said that

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01:09:37,720 --> 01:09:39,120
Speaker 6: they had went out and spent time together.

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01:09:39,160 --> 01:09:40,960
Speaker 3: It is what it is. They was attracted to each other.

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01:09:41,080 --> 01:09:43,160
Speaker 6: She ain't fucking with him right now because she's into

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01:09:43,560 --> 01:09:47,120
Speaker 6: her ex husband or estranged husband or whatever their status is.

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01:09:47,439 --> 01:09:49,320
Speaker 6: So I don't know why people are trying to act

1372
01:09:49,360 --> 01:09:53,240
Speaker 6: like there's something to expose here when it's already exposed. Yes,

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01:09:54,000 --> 01:09:56,840
Speaker 6: they went out on a date, maybe more than one. Yes,

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01:09:57,439 --> 01:10:00,280
Speaker 6: who knows what else happened. They're consenting adults, you know

1375
01:10:00,360 --> 01:10:02,439
Speaker 6: what I'm saying. There's nothing wrong with whatever kind of

1376
01:10:02,520 --> 01:10:05,240
Speaker 6: time they spent together. Because she wasn't friends with Monique,

1377
01:10:05,280 --> 01:10:07,599
Speaker 6: And that's why I'm glad Monique is doing what keeping

1378
01:10:07,640 --> 01:10:11,000
Speaker 6: it player okay and being like, oh baby, we grown.

1379
01:10:11,040 --> 01:10:12,880
Speaker 6: I don't give a fuck about whui dating like it's

1380
01:10:12,880 --> 01:10:15,559
Speaker 6: all good. Just be careful, mama, you know what I'm saying.

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01:10:15,640 --> 01:10:16,880
Speaker 3: That's that's how you do it.

1382
01:10:17,000 --> 01:10:19,519
Speaker 2: What did you take about that? Though? But she she

1383
01:10:19,680 --> 01:10:22,240
Speaker 2: kept it firing. Be careful, be careful.

1384
01:10:22,280 --> 01:10:23,559
Speaker 3: And look.

1385
01:10:23,680 --> 01:10:25,880
Speaker 1: Allegedly, I almost say an allegedd because we didn't see

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01:10:25,880 --> 01:10:30,000
Speaker 1: the text messages. After getting no response from Stacy, Chris

1387
01:10:30,360 --> 01:10:33,920
Speaker 1: does allegedly say I heard my name came up and

1388
01:10:33,920 --> 01:10:35,000
Speaker 1: filming what's going on?

1389
01:10:35,760 --> 01:10:36,120
Speaker 3: What?

1390
01:10:36,800 --> 01:10:40,400
Speaker 1: And desine, you watch again, you're the historic of reality.

1391
01:10:40,560 --> 01:10:41,519
Speaker 1: What are your thoughts about that?

1392
01:10:41,560 --> 01:10:44,160
Speaker 2: I thought. I was very like, be careful, be careful.

1393
01:10:44,200 --> 01:10:46,160
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, what it's about to happen?

1394
01:10:47,080 --> 01:10:50,599
Speaker 3: Nothing. All that was was you had her, that's still

1395
01:10:50,640 --> 01:10:51,479
Speaker 3: my ex husband.

1396
01:10:51,800 --> 01:10:53,360
Speaker 6: And at the end of the day, I don't like

1397
01:10:53,439 --> 01:10:55,880
Speaker 6: the fact that I'm talking to another woman about my

1398
01:10:55,920 --> 01:10:56,479
Speaker 6: ex husband.

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Speaker 3: So I'm gonna get a jab in. That's what that was. Oh,

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01:11:00,320 --> 01:11:01,040
Speaker 3: that's what that was.

1401
01:11:01,320 --> 01:11:04,200
Speaker 6: Where even though I'm taking the high roll and even

1402
01:11:04,240 --> 01:11:07,240
Speaker 6: though I'm going to keep it player about this, you

1403
01:11:07,400 --> 01:11:10,200
Speaker 6: still a hole that was dealt with my ex husband

1404
01:11:10,200 --> 01:11:13,160
Speaker 6: and my baby father actually in some kind of way.

1405
01:11:13,280 --> 01:11:15,400
Speaker 3: So I am gonna throw a little jab in here.

1406
01:11:15,439 --> 01:11:16,240
Speaker 3: And that's all that was.

1407
01:11:16,240 --> 01:11:19,959
Speaker 6: Because it positioned her as a person with more information,

1408
01:11:20,040 --> 01:11:23,120
Speaker 6: of the person who knew better in the situation and

1409
01:11:23,280 --> 01:11:25,599
Speaker 6: was able to give that advice or give a warning

1410
01:11:25,600 --> 01:11:28,920
Speaker 6: to heat because you're more knowledgeable. It positioned her in

1411
01:11:28,960 --> 01:11:31,839
Speaker 6: the situation as the one and that was the intention

1412
01:11:31,920 --> 01:11:32,479
Speaker 6: of the comment.

1413
01:11:32,680 --> 01:11:34,800
Speaker 3: It's cool, that's what people do. I'm gonna throw a

1414
01:11:34,840 --> 01:11:35,280
Speaker 3: little jab.

1415
01:11:36,240 --> 01:11:36,680
Speaker 5: I like that.

1416
01:11:36,960 --> 01:11:39,519
Speaker 4: Nuance because I got something similar. But what I felt

1417
01:11:39,520 --> 01:11:42,960
Speaker 4: from it was that a Stacey. I know for a

1418
01:11:42,960 --> 01:11:44,800
Speaker 4: fact that Chris a liar. I know for a fact

1419
01:11:44,800 --> 01:11:46,880
Speaker 4: that Cookie talking about she Chuck Brown's daughter, she a

1420
01:11:46,960 --> 01:11:49,000
Speaker 4: damn liar. And I didn't tell me you a liar,

1421
01:11:49,320 --> 01:11:51,880
Speaker 4: justin catch you all fucking lie in. Be careful, right?

1422
01:11:52,000 --> 01:11:52,200
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1423
01:11:53,880 --> 01:11:56,200
Speaker 4: Can we talk about Stacey woman, because you know she's

1424
01:11:56,240 --> 01:12:00,080
Speaker 4: my favorite crazy person and I love her. Okay, a

1425
01:12:00,360 --> 01:12:02,080
Speaker 4: Q coach, we all can have a cheap meals. Stacy's

1426
01:12:02,120 --> 01:12:06,080
Speaker 4: my cheap mill. When Stacey was like, shay, your means joy,

1427
01:12:06,960 --> 01:12:09,920
Speaker 4: I was like, okay, interesting, it wasn't to When he said, no,

1428
01:12:10,000 --> 01:12:15,439
Speaker 4: honey means happy. She's so happy at these gummies and

1429
01:12:15,439 --> 01:12:18,639
Speaker 4: then name the ship happy, that's the moment I fell

1430
01:12:18,680 --> 01:12:19,000
Speaker 4: in love.

1431
01:12:19,120 --> 01:12:20,679
Speaker 5: Okay, toxic toxic love.

1432
01:12:25,439 --> 01:12:29,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, she called the gummies appyety, how do you not

1433
01:12:29,880 --> 01:12:30,439
Speaker 4: stand for her?

1434
01:12:30,720 --> 01:12:34,000
Speaker 5: The audacity?

1435
01:12:34,120 --> 01:12:36,680
Speaker 3: Look you what this comment they said it was a

1436
01:12:36,800 --> 01:12:37,800
Speaker 3: chein chick. That's see.

1437
01:12:37,800 --> 01:12:42,160
Speaker 6: That's how you know what I'm saying Like, it was

1438
01:12:42,240 --> 01:12:44,639
Speaker 6: very much one of these don't say that's an.

1439
01:12:46,320 --> 01:12:49,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, are so buddy?

1440
01:12:49,280 --> 01:12:51,840
Speaker 2: So look ray drop that concludes our show.

1441
01:12:52,080 --> 01:12:54,519
Speaker 1: Listen, this is this was a good episode. This is

1442
01:12:54,520 --> 01:12:58,519
Speaker 1: a good episode. But Tooma listen, I want to go

1443
01:12:58,600 --> 01:13:02,120
Speaker 1: on record say this because if it was the opposite,

1444
01:13:02,120 --> 01:13:03,160
Speaker 1: I would say the opposite.

1445
01:13:03,280 --> 01:13:03,400
Speaker 3: Right.

1446
01:13:05,280 --> 01:13:08,160
Speaker 1: I really have been enjoying the last couple of episodes

1447
01:13:08,160 --> 01:13:13,600
Speaker 1: of Atomac because to me, it's spicy but fun and

1448
01:13:13,680 --> 01:13:18,320
Speaker 1: it's not dark, and I think I finally feel like

1449
01:13:18,560 --> 01:13:22,960
Speaker 1: all the girls have settled in their position on the show.

1450
01:13:23,400 --> 01:13:25,080
Speaker 2: At the beginning, I was like, I don't know, y'all

1451
01:13:25,080 --> 01:13:25,960
Speaker 2: trying to all be jasel.

1452
01:13:26,479 --> 01:13:28,920
Speaker 1: I will say this episode made me look at each

1453
01:13:29,120 --> 01:13:33,160
Speaker 1: individual housewife and friend of the show as people who

1454
01:13:33,280 --> 01:13:38,680
Speaker 1: work well in this puzzle. So I really had a

1455
01:13:38,880 --> 01:13:41,479
Speaker 1: fantastic time enjoying this episode.

1456
01:13:41,520 --> 01:13:41,920
Speaker 3: I loved.

1457
01:13:42,080 --> 01:13:43,400
Speaker 2: I loved every minute of it.

1458
01:13:43,439 --> 01:13:45,479
Speaker 6: I really do they having a good season, And shout

1459
01:13:45,520 --> 01:13:48,639
Speaker 6: out to whoever is editing these episodes because the pacing

1460
01:13:48,920 --> 01:13:53,200
Speaker 6: is impeccable. Nigga, Like these episodes are so well paced.

1461
01:13:53,640 --> 01:13:56,160
Speaker 6: There's not really any lulls, Like they having a great season.

1462
01:13:56,240 --> 01:14:02,200
Speaker 6: Over there, I'll been miscellaneous. Okay, it is right, Oh yeah,

1463
01:14:02,280 --> 01:14:07,679
Speaker 6: my bad. Even though it's miss show. What I'm saying,

1464
01:14:08,280 --> 01:14:09,760
Speaker 6: they having a good season this year.

1465
01:14:09,800 --> 01:14:11,439
Speaker 3: They are. It's entertaining it's good.

1466
01:14:11,680 --> 01:14:16,559
Speaker 1: So so brain drops. We will be back next Monday.

1467
01:14:16,720 --> 01:14:19,040
Speaker 1: I really do hope you all had a great holiday weekend.

1468
01:14:20,760 --> 01:14:26,599
Speaker 1: My recapin Mariti Mediciners with Doctor Heavenly on Patreon. Check

1469
01:14:26,640 --> 01:14:31,240
Speaker 1: out blues Conversation with Friends of the show Mouse Jones. Yes,

1470
01:14:32,200 --> 01:14:37,400
Speaker 1: she's about the complexities of women who date men who

1471
01:14:37,520 --> 01:14:38,720
Speaker 1: don't make as much as them.

1472
01:14:38,760 --> 01:14:42,439
Speaker 2: That's on Patreon. Blue Listen. You all know she's a

1473
01:14:42,479 --> 01:14:43,439
Speaker 2: scholar and she did.

1474
01:14:43,360 --> 01:14:47,719
Speaker 1: A great job talking to a straight black man about

1475
01:14:47,800 --> 01:14:49,240
Speaker 1: dating in his day and age.

1476
01:14:48,960 --> 01:14:52,840
Speaker 2: And it was a great conversation. Yes, So so check

1477
01:14:52,920 --> 01:14:58,000
Speaker 2: that out and you'll catch us again. I love you all. Yeah,

1478
01:14:58,280 --> 01:15:01,519
Speaker 2: And Dustin, is there any othernnouncements you have when it comes.

1479
01:15:01,320 --> 01:15:05,080
Speaker 6: To the fact that, Yeah, on tour Thursday This Thursday,

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01:15:05,160 --> 01:15:08,160
Speaker 6: December fourth, I'll be in Miami at the Miami Improv.

1481
01:15:08,280 --> 01:15:10,680
Speaker 6: I can't wait to show my ass in Miami. So

1482
01:15:11,080 --> 01:15:12,880
Speaker 6: if you are going to be in Miami for our

1483
01:15:12,920 --> 01:15:15,679
Speaker 6: Baslin you'll be there Thursday. You can go to Dustin

1484
01:15:15,960 --> 01:15:19,519
Speaker 6: Ross Live just like it sounds Dustin Rosslive at dot

1485
01:15:19,600 --> 01:15:22,000
Speaker 6: com and get tickets. Pull up on me on Thursday

1486
01:15:22,040 --> 01:15:27,120
Speaker 6: in Miami, and yao, pull up on me yes, and

1487
01:15:27,280 --> 01:15:32,200
Speaker 6: Detroit on December nineteenth, So see you go home, Yes, ma'am.

1488
01:15:32,560 --> 01:15:34,599
Speaker 6: So if anybody's in Detroit, let me know. But yeah,

1489
01:15:34,920 --> 01:15:36,760
Speaker 6: see y'all Thursday in Miami. You can go buy it's

1490
01:15:36,760 --> 01:15:38,639
Speaker 6: a few tickets left. You can go buy tickets.

1491
01:15:39,320 --> 01:15:42,000
Speaker 3: Dustin Rosslive dot com can't wait to talk shit Thursday

1492
01:15:43,040 --> 01:15:44,040
Speaker 3: and Blue there's.

1493
01:15:43,880 --> 01:15:45,200
Speaker 2: A comic Where can I follow Blue?

1494
01:15:45,240 --> 01:15:47,760
Speaker 3: I need to hear her every damn day, right.

1495
01:15:47,880 --> 01:15:49,920
Speaker 4: I just want to say that Dustin doing comedy is

1496
01:15:49,920 --> 01:15:51,120
Speaker 4: the scariest thing in the industry.

1497
01:15:51,200 --> 01:15:53,639
Speaker 5: So I'm so in of of anybody who does.

1498
01:15:53,560 --> 01:15:54,400
Speaker 2: What you're doing right now.

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01:15:54,760 --> 01:15:58,879
Speaker 3: Thank you, Thank you so much, because.

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01:15:58,680 --> 01:16:02,960
Speaker 4: If y'alln't laugh, I'm crying and walk Fuck me on

1501
01:16:03,200 --> 01:16:06,840
Speaker 4: YouTube at Blue Centric, where I talk my ish all

1502
01:16:06,920 --> 01:16:10,160
Speaker 4: the time, and for anybody who has seen me on

1503
01:16:10,240 --> 01:16:11,880
Speaker 4: Carls the Show, you know that I'm constantly giving you

1504
01:16:11,880 --> 01:16:14,880
Speaker 4: guys shout outs over on my YouTube page because.

1505
01:16:14,760 --> 01:16:16,360
Speaker 5: They know that if I'm not over there, I'm over

1506
01:16:16,400 --> 01:16:16,920
Speaker 5: here with y'all.

1507
01:16:17,439 --> 01:16:18,640
Speaker 4: I say no to a lot of people, but I

1508
01:16:18,640 --> 01:16:21,040
Speaker 4: will always say yes to y'all because I sincerely enjoy it,

1509
01:16:21,120 --> 01:16:22,040
Speaker 4: and then my face won't.

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01:16:21,920 --> 01:16:26,200
Speaker 2: Let me lie. Now listen.

1511
01:16:26,680 --> 01:16:29,400
Speaker 1: I love you guys, and I'm happy that we get

1512
01:16:29,439 --> 01:16:32,160
Speaker 1: to do this together. And listen, I'll see you all

1513
01:16:32,280 --> 01:16:34,599
Speaker 1: next week. Half a great day.

1514
01:16:35,040 --> 01:16:41,120
Speaker 2: And listen. And the words up, Angel have a material.

1515
01:16:43,520 --> 01:16:52,240
Speaker 3: Don't evolve into a mercurious expeditiously right right.

1516
01:16:52,640 --> 01:16:54,880
Speaker 6: I said not, And I'm not saying fuck you Angel

1517
01:16:54,920 --> 01:16:57,440
Speaker 6: at all. I'm just saying if I was that conversation,

1518
01:16:57,520 --> 01:17:00,560
Speaker 6: I would be like, are you talking about you know

1519
01:17:01,400 --> 01:17:01,880
Speaker 6: why you're.

1520
01:17:01,760 --> 01:17:03,479
Speaker 5: Laughing, Wendy. We get why Wendy laughed so much. She's like,

1521
01:17:03,479 --> 01:17:04,360
Speaker 5: I know what those words.

1522
01:17:04,160 --> 01:17:07,559
Speaker 3: Actually mean, hope, Like Wendy was rolling the entire.

1523
01:17:11,760 --> 01:17:12,640
Speaker 5: To enjoy the.

1524
01:17:12,720 --> 01:17:21,439
Speaker 2: View with your modculars until ve job. Oh I can't,

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01:17:21,560 --> 01:17:25,120
Speaker 2: I can't think it off. I love.

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Speaker 1: Reality with the King is executive produced by me Carlos King,

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Speaker 1: produced by Lizzie Nimitz, and a partnership with the Lack

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Speaker 1: Effect Network. You can also find us on my YouTube

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Speaker 1: channel at the Carlos King Underscore