1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:06,240 Speaker 1: This is the almost famous podcast with iHeartRadio. Hey, everybody, 2 00:00:06,280 --> 00:00:08,760 Speaker 1: I'm really excited for today's interview. I'm going to be 3 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:12,799 Speaker 1: talking today with Melissa Redcroft Strickland. She was on Jason 4 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:16,880 Speaker 1: mesnixt season and if you didn't watch back then maybe 5 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:19,480 Speaker 1: you should go watch because it's one of the most 6 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:23,320 Speaker 1: dramatic episodes ever. I know that's very overused, but and 7 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:25,599 Speaker 1: it's all Chris Harrison's thing, and I'm not Chris Harrison, 8 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:30,640 Speaker 1: but it still is. It was an incredible season, and 9 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:33,559 Speaker 1: you know, since then, Molly and Jason have gone on 10 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 1: to have a very happy family, as has Melissa. I'm 11 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:40,680 Speaker 1: very happy for her and Ty who they've been married. Actually, 12 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 1: I don't know how long they've been married for maybe 13 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:47,640 Speaker 1: fifteen at least ten years. Actually they have a twelve 14 00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:52,240 Speaker 1: year old, so probably like thirteen, fourteen, fifteen years. I'm 15 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:55,000 Speaker 1: really excited to talk to her. It's been a very 16 00:00:55,080 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 1: long time since we've seen each other, but I'm excited 17 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 1: to chat. So let's bring her in. 18 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 2: How are you. 19 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 3: Okay? 20 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 4: I mean, summer as chaotic in your house as it 21 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 4: is in mine. I'm like, I don't know what day 22 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 4: it is. Time schedules changed daily, and I just you know, 23 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:15,840 Speaker 4: I get it. 24 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:17,760 Speaker 3: I love it, I hate it, I get it. I 25 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 3: get it. 26 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:19,399 Speaker 2: I know I get it. 27 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:21,559 Speaker 3: And but I'm so excited that you're here. 28 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:24,360 Speaker 1: I am so happy to welcome you to the almost 29 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:27,039 Speaker 1: famous ogs podcast, because that's of course what you are. 30 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:30,120 Speaker 1: And I know you know all about podcasting because you've 31 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:31,160 Speaker 1: been doing it for a while. 32 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 3: So I'm just so excited to be able to chat. 33 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:35,119 Speaker 3: It's been a long time. 34 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 4: It has been a very long time. I think it 35 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:42,960 Speaker 4: was that old show Bachelor Pad. I'm pretty sure that 36 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:43,640 Speaker 4: was the last time. 37 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 1: But actually I think it was Dancing with the Stars 38 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 1: the Well, let's see which one was first or second 39 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 1: or I So I know that we were both there 40 00:01:57,800 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 1: for the episode, right maybe. 41 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 4: Oh, I don't know what's first, that chicken or leg 42 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 4: You were at the hundredth episodes, right. 43 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 1: Yes, you were at one hundredth episode. Yeah, so where 44 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:15,960 Speaker 1: they had like a cake in the middle of the 45 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 1: ballroom and a big we took a big picture, yes, yeah, yeah, yes, okay, okay, 46 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:26,920 Speaker 1: so maybe that was the last maybe either or but yes, 47 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 1: it's been regardless, it's been it's been a while. It's 48 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:36,120 Speaker 1: been three kids later, and for you a bottle. A 49 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 1: lot of life changes. How is life? 50 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 4: Life is good, Life is good. It's we are in 51 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:47,400 Speaker 4: summertime right now. I've got three of them, seven, nine, 52 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 4: and twelve. So it's just it's chaos. But I got 53 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 4: really emotional at the start of summers. I'm like, I 54 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 4: only have like five or six more with my daughter. 55 00:02:56,919 --> 00:03:01,919 Speaker 4: Oh less, I know, it's like it's a weird thing 56 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:03,840 Speaker 4: when it hits you. So I told my husband Ty, 57 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 4: I was like, I want to travel this summer. I 58 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 4: want to start making memory and you know because before 59 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:12,280 Speaker 4: long she's going to invite a friend and then vacation 60 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:15,240 Speaker 4: changes and so but it did hit me. I went, 61 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:18,640 Speaker 4: how did we get here? Like, how do I? I? 62 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:20,799 Speaker 1: Oh, I just went on, I just got back from 63 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:24,640 Speaker 1: a mother daughter trip to a friend's cabin or like 64 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 1: big barn that they just built and tell your ride. 65 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:29,799 Speaker 3: And it was, you know, the moms and. 66 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 1: The daughters, and the daughters of course, just mainly hung 67 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 1: out with the daughters. So you know, I was hoping 68 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:40,760 Speaker 1: for a little bit more time with her, but I 69 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 1: was also happy that she was happy and having fun. 70 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 3: You know. 71 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 1: So she's fourteen and Matt held Max is fifteen. So 72 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:54,800 Speaker 1: we are we so and the chaos of like summer 73 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 1: for me right now is we are currently trying to 74 00:03:57,120 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 1: sell our house and move to Denver and go They're 75 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:03,320 Speaker 1: going to be going to a new school. But in 76 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 1: changing schools, it's really sinking in because we consistently are saying, well, 77 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 1: we only have four more years with Blakesley here, so 78 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 1: we could live in a house that you know is 79 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 1: close to school. Blah blah blah, you know all of 80 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 1: those things. But so it really sinks in like it has. 81 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:21,800 Speaker 1: It has definitely sunk in for me lately. 82 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:24,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, Like every time I think about it, I just 83 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:26,839 Speaker 4: get the goosebumps of like, oh, I'm not ready. 84 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 1: I'm not I know, I know, And and your boys 85 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:31,839 Speaker 1: like what is everyone into? 86 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 3: I believe it's ava right? 87 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 1: Your daughter yes, and she's a dancer, does answer. 88 00:04:39,160 --> 00:04:40,159 Speaker 4: She's kind of following up. 89 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 2: I know. 90 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:44,039 Speaker 4: But it makes me nervous too to get. 91 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:45,240 Speaker 3: That mine is true. 92 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, I love it. I was very adamant of like, 93 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:54,920 Speaker 4: I'm you find your own path, girlfriend, you know where 94 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:59,400 Speaker 4: I went. I will not push you. And she you know, 95 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 4: I worked with the Cowboys cheerleaders this past weekend and 96 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 4: I came home and she goes, Mom, do you think 97 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 4: I could make the team if I keep doing what 98 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 4: I'm doing? And I'm like, oh, that breaks, Yes you can. 99 00:05:09,880 --> 00:05:14,400 Speaker 4: But oh it's such I feel like I feel like 100 00:05:14,440 --> 00:05:16,839 Speaker 4: because she's chosen the past, she has, there's a high 101 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:19,599 Speaker 4: bar that, like she wants to be on Dancing with 102 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 4: the Stars, I'm like, baby, they ask you to be on. 103 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 4: You know what I mean? You can't audition and get 104 00:05:26,240 --> 00:05:30,480 Speaker 4: on Dancing with the Stars. And you know, twelve is 105 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 4: a hard age when they're coming into their own. But yes, 106 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:34,920 Speaker 4: she's a dancer. She loves it. This is what she 107 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:37,479 Speaker 4: wants to do when she grows up. And so I 108 00:05:37,520 --> 00:05:39,440 Speaker 4: was like, we'll put all our eggs in that basket, girl, 109 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 4: and I'll do whatever I can to help you fulfill 110 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:44,920 Speaker 4: that dream, whatever the dream may be. 111 00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:47,600 Speaker 3: You know, No, that's totally Blakesley too. 112 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:53,920 Speaker 1: She is all in and it's been it's it's it's hard, 113 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:57,599 Speaker 1: and it is so amazing to see. Like I don't 114 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:02,320 Speaker 1: know about about you, how you how your experiences, but 115 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 1: for me, I always say, like, she is so much 116 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:09,040 Speaker 1: more talented than I ever was, Like she is technically 117 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:11,280 Speaker 1: traditionally trained, like you know. 118 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 3: I was not. 119 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 1: I was just like I did the school thing, you know, 120 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:17,280 Speaker 1: like in high school and then in college and then 121 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 1: for my Miami heat Like I that was my path 122 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:25,480 Speaker 1: and her path is competitive, like technically trained, which just 123 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:28,719 Speaker 1: fills me with so much joy. But at the same time, 124 00:06:28,800 --> 00:06:31,039 Speaker 1: it makes me so nervous because I'm like, it's a 125 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 1: hard career to choose because you know, they're not very 126 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:39,919 Speaker 1: kind all the time. You know, at auditions, they're not 127 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 1: necessarily gonna just you know, tell you all the nice things. 128 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 1: They're gonna, you know, kind of beat you down. So yeah, 129 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 1: it is hard. 130 00:06:47,880 --> 00:06:50,920 Speaker 3: But I love that our girls both bound dance. I 131 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:51,320 Speaker 3: love it. 132 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:54,120 Speaker 2: That's a thing, you know, I will say. 133 00:06:54,240 --> 00:06:57,400 Speaker 4: I love that it's becoming dance is becoming more of 134 00:06:57,640 --> 00:07:00,200 Speaker 4: a quote unquote thing, if you will. We just had 135 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:02,599 Speaker 4: a girl that we grew up dancing with who got 136 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:06,119 Speaker 4: dance scholarships to Michigan State University, and I'm like, dance 137 00:07:06,160 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 4: scholarships didn't even exist back when on not that I 138 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:12,680 Speaker 4: ever got one, but that was people laughed at that, 139 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:14,520 Speaker 4: like what is a dance scholarship going to do? 140 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 3: Right? 141 00:07:15,320 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 4: So I do like that it's evolved a little bit, 142 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 4: and you know, I mean, there is some incentive to 143 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:22,080 Speaker 4: keep up with it, that there's there's more than what 144 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:24,880 Speaker 4: we had growing up as totally for them. 145 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:29,240 Speaker 1: And there's so many incredible schools with dance programs now 146 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 1: that I'm finding out, like I had, I had no 147 00:07:31,920 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 1: idea because it wasn't something that I necessarily wanted to 148 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:37,920 Speaker 1: study as a career. But yeah, so you so you 149 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:40,560 Speaker 1: spoke about the Dallas Cowboy Chailader thing. 150 00:07:40,600 --> 00:07:43,000 Speaker 3: Tell me about that, like, do they do? 151 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:45,880 Speaker 1: I know, I've caught it a couple times on TV. 152 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 1: I tell me the channel, tell me all the things 153 00:07:48,560 --> 00:07:49,239 Speaker 1: about what's. 154 00:07:49,080 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 3: Going on with that, and how long have you been 155 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:51,480 Speaker 3: doing it? 156 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:56,760 Speaker 4: Let's I think I've been on the judging side of 157 00:07:56,760 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 4: it for seven years now. 158 00:07:58,160 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 3: Amazing. 159 00:07:58,840 --> 00:08:01,280 Speaker 4: I get it mixed up with my timing. I'm very 160 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:03,200 Speaker 4: bad about that and I think it's been about seven 161 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 4: Everything is always two years ago for me. It's awesome 162 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:14,240 Speaker 4: being on the other side of a professional sports team, 163 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:16,880 Speaker 4: as you know, like being in one, and you kind 164 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:19,040 Speaker 4: of always want to know what's going on behind the scenes. 165 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 4: And now you know, I'm able to be a part 166 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 4: of the tryout process and the Cowboys cheerleaders have a 167 00:08:25,800 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 4: three month tryout process. 168 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 2: It's a pretty intense months. 169 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 3: Whoa and they follow it with camera. 170 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 4: We just is there a show they did? They did, 171 00:08:36,360 --> 00:08:39,839 Speaker 4: there was a show on CMT it it went away 172 00:08:40,120 --> 00:08:45,240 Speaker 4: two seasons ago. So now we're just just doing doing tryouts. Yeah, 173 00:08:45,320 --> 00:08:47,720 Speaker 4: just doing tryouts. But yeah, I mean it's I love 174 00:08:47,800 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 4: staying involved in the organization. I mean, I think that 175 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:52,800 Speaker 4: was a big reason why I was able to launch 176 00:08:53,040 --> 00:08:55,080 Speaker 4: kind of into the quasi career that I had. Ye, 177 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:58,480 Speaker 4: you know, and so you always go back and do 178 00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:00,600 Speaker 4: what you can to keep it going. 179 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:03,040 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, of course, it's so much fun. We just 180 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 1: had a Miami Heat reunion alumni reunion, and they had 181 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 1: really yes, they had a reunion and there were I 182 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 1: think there were seventy seventy five of us on the 183 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 1: court at the same time dancing. We and mind you, 184 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:21,600 Speaker 1: I'm fifty. So I was scrolling your Instagram just kind 185 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:24,640 Speaker 1: of checking out what you're doing lately, and I saw 186 00:09:24,679 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 1: you post on her fortieth birthday of the picture like 187 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 1: what was the old T shirt? 188 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:30,440 Speaker 4: Love that. 189 00:09:32,960 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 2: I feel like it's old. 190 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:36,120 Speaker 4: I know what you're talking about about, But. 191 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:40,160 Speaker 1: I'm now one of the old people essentially, And I 192 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 1: was like, but she's only. 193 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:46,760 Speaker 4: Forty, but still every time it hits you where you're like, oh, man, 194 00:09:46,880 --> 00:09:48,839 Speaker 4: you're old. Oh but we went to high school together. 195 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:49,959 Speaker 4: My bad never. 196 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:59,520 Speaker 1: Totally yes, So anyway, I definitely feel old. And when 197 00:09:59,600 --> 00:10:03,880 Speaker 1: they yes, oh, well, right back at you, right back 198 00:10:03,920 --> 00:10:07,559 Speaker 1: at you, thank you. I just they sent us like 199 00:10:07,679 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 1: choreography in like, you know, videos so that we could 200 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 1: do it from home. So we did if we didn't 201 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:16,960 Speaker 1: live in Miami, which a lot of us don't, and 202 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 1: I had to go to my I called the dance 203 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 1: director of my daughter's dance studio and I was like, 204 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:22,840 Speaker 1: can I please. 205 00:10:22,640 --> 00:10:23,319 Speaker 3: Use the studio? 206 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:26,160 Speaker 1: So she has like a TV up and I put 207 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 1: it on the TV, like learning this at my daughter's 208 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:31,120 Speaker 1: dance studio. Mind you, of course she's totally making fun 209 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:31,320 Speaker 1: of me. 210 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:34,720 Speaker 3: But I was like, oh my gosh, it's. 211 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 1: Been a long long time and it was so hard 212 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 1: but so much fun. 213 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 3: Have you gotten to do anything like that? 214 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:48,600 Speaker 4: They do alumni games every year, and it's always about 215 00:10:48,640 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 4: when our anniversary is and we're in Vegas, so I 216 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:56,120 Speaker 4: have mist like every alumni performance. But last year I 217 00:10:56,600 --> 00:10:58,480 Speaker 4: saw the routine. I was like, that's a they're doing 218 00:10:58,600 --> 00:11:04,840 Speaker 4: double pirouette. And jumps in the CLUMPI are you getting me? 219 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:07,199 Speaker 1: Thank goodness, they didn't ask me to do that. 220 00:11:07,440 --> 00:11:08,040 Speaker 3: Oh my goodness. 221 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:11,560 Speaker 4: It was unbelievable, and they were doing it, these fifty 222 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:14,480 Speaker 4: sixty seventy year old women. I was like, all right, girls, 223 00:11:14,600 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 4: get it, do your achievers. 224 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:20,040 Speaker 2: No, I'm not me, I know. 225 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:26,720 Speaker 3: Right, just meet me at the barn after thanks exactly whatever. 226 00:11:26,800 --> 00:11:29,200 Speaker 1: You totally could still do all that stuff. I definitely 227 00:11:29,920 --> 00:11:32,040 Speaker 1: oh no, no, no, no, I mean my flexibility is 228 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:36,440 Speaker 1: poop and yeah, I have definitely not kept up with it. 229 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:39,880 Speaker 3: So you said, Vegas. Do you go to Vegas every 230 00:11:39,960 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 3: year for your anniversary? 231 00:11:42,240 --> 00:11:44,880 Speaker 4: We go like four times a year. You do work 232 00:11:45,559 --> 00:11:50,199 Speaker 4: are really weird and that Vegas is our happy relaxation place. 233 00:11:50,600 --> 00:11:51,720 Speaker 2: Boys do we go to Vegas? 234 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:55,040 Speaker 4: Are y'all like crazy gamblers? Are you going to the clubs? 235 00:11:55,040 --> 00:11:58,440 Speaker 2: I'm like bed by eight thirty in Vegas? 236 00:11:58,480 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 4: Okay, I'm making a collect dinner reservations. We walk the 237 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:05,800 Speaker 4: strip home. It's it's like a one stop shop. You 238 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:09,040 Speaker 4: have pool, massages, shopping. It's the best people watching you 239 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:10,920 Speaker 4: will ever find in your entire library. 240 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:12,880 Speaker 3: That's so true. 241 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:13,839 Speaker 4: So we do, we go. 242 00:12:14,280 --> 00:12:16,959 Speaker 3: We go a lot that is amazing. 243 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:21,520 Speaker 1: I have never heard anyone explain to describe Vegas as 244 00:12:21,559 --> 00:12:23,720 Speaker 1: a like retreat. 245 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:28,240 Speaker 4: I mean, do it right, That's what I'm saying everybody else. 246 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:30,000 Speaker 4: While we're walking home and I see the lines for 247 00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:33,960 Speaker 4: the nightclub and there's you could say me money. 248 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:41,559 Speaker 3: No go into that night right, No, thank you? Uh uh. 249 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:43,520 Speaker 2: It can actually be a very relaxing place. 250 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 1: I mean, I guess if you like, go to the 251 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:52,160 Speaker 1: right hotels. They do have incredible restaurants, great shopping, great pools, 252 00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:53,000 Speaker 1: great spas. 253 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:53,640 Speaker 3: So you're right. 254 00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:56,920 Speaker 1: I just never thought about it like that. Ryan took 255 00:12:56,960 --> 00:12:59,959 Speaker 1: the kids one one year. I had a work trip 256 00:13:00,240 --> 00:13:03,079 Speaker 1: around spring break and so he was like, well then 257 00:13:03,160 --> 00:13:04,640 Speaker 1: I'm going to go somewhere, and he's like, where can 258 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:06,840 Speaker 1: I go? They went to Vegas and did like Blue 259 00:13:06,880 --> 00:13:09,640 Speaker 1: Man Group and you know, did the roller coaster rides 260 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:10,199 Speaker 1: and you. 261 00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:14,200 Speaker 4: Know, right, whole other part of Vegas that is not 262 00:13:14,960 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 4: Blackjack tables in my clothes And it's so true. 263 00:13:28,840 --> 00:13:32,320 Speaker 3: Okay, So Bachelor, do you used to watch? 264 00:13:33,679 --> 00:13:34,160 Speaker 4: I don't. 265 00:13:34,720 --> 00:13:37,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, that is not shocking. That's not shocking. I don't think. 266 00:13:37,840 --> 00:13:40,480 Speaker 1: I don't know a lot of people watch of ogk 267 00:13:40,760 --> 00:13:41,679 Speaker 1: of like the Ogs. 268 00:13:41,800 --> 00:13:44,000 Speaker 4: You know, I do feel like it works an explanation 269 00:13:44,040 --> 00:13:46,240 Speaker 4: because it sounds like you're bitter when you're like, no, 270 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 4: I don't watch, and I don't watch for any other 271 00:13:49,760 --> 00:13:52,800 Speaker 4: reason other than I just don't relate to anybody anymore. 272 00:13:52,880 --> 00:13:56,760 Speaker 4: You know, they're hot, even twenty year old that can't 273 00:13:56,800 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 4: settle down at twenty and I just am like, I 274 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:01,440 Speaker 4: just can't relate anymore. 275 00:14:01,480 --> 00:14:04,640 Speaker 2: I've aged out of you know, having this. 276 00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:10,040 Speaker 4: Oh and we try, I always try, and I fall out, 277 00:14:10,160 --> 00:14:13,160 Speaker 4: and I know I haven't watched a long time. 278 00:14:13,960 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 1: That's kind of like I am starting to feel that way, 279 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:20,520 Speaker 1: as like the first one. I have always said that 280 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:25,640 Speaker 1: I feel very maternal towards everyone on the show, just because, 281 00:14:27,600 --> 00:14:30,560 Speaker 1: like I've watched, I've watched everyone kind of go through 282 00:14:30,600 --> 00:14:33,960 Speaker 1: the same thing, and so I feel like I have 283 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:35,560 Speaker 1: an obligation in a way. 284 00:14:35,600 --> 00:14:37,320 Speaker 3: And now that I'm you know, have been. 285 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:39,800 Speaker 1: Doing this podcast, I feel like a little bit even 286 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:45,040 Speaker 1: though we just mainly talk to OG's. So I definitely 287 00:14:45,040 --> 00:14:50,400 Speaker 1: feel that way. And but recently I have been like, 288 00:14:50,480 --> 00:14:53,600 Speaker 1: oh gosh, like I just feel the same way. 289 00:14:53,960 --> 00:14:57,200 Speaker 3: These people are so young, like I could I could 290 00:14:57,280 --> 00:14:58,200 Speaker 3: be their mother. 291 00:14:59,600 --> 00:15:04,800 Speaker 4: Crazy yeah, and as their mother, I like twenty one, 292 00:15:05,040 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 4: you do not need to take this route right. 293 00:15:09,040 --> 00:15:13,560 Speaker 1: Right, So I definitely feel you I have. I do 294 00:15:13,600 --> 00:15:17,160 Speaker 1: watch Bachelor in Paradise, like I do love Bachelor in Paradise, 295 00:15:18,360 --> 00:15:19,440 Speaker 1: and I love the shows. 296 00:15:19,480 --> 00:15:20,720 Speaker 3: I mean, I am going to watch I'm going to 297 00:15:20,760 --> 00:15:21,000 Speaker 3: try to. 298 00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 1: Watch Charity season, which is the new Bachelorette that's going 299 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:26,240 Speaker 1: to be coming out. Actually I think it's on Monday. 300 00:15:26,280 --> 00:15:29,320 Speaker 1: I think it's coming out next week, but I. 301 00:15:29,280 --> 00:15:33,040 Speaker 3: Think it is. It's either next week or the week after. 302 00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:34,360 Speaker 3: I want to say it's next Monday. 303 00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:41,560 Speaker 1: So I didn't finish Zach season completely, so I didn't 304 00:15:41,600 --> 00:15:45,160 Speaker 1: see like her final episode. But I think that she's 305 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:48,960 Speaker 1: pretty strong in terms of like all things that I 306 00:15:48,960 --> 00:15:52,000 Speaker 1: personally feel like you need in terms of being a bachelorette. 307 00:15:52,160 --> 00:15:57,360 Speaker 1: But but who knows how long i'll watch, We'll see, right. 308 00:15:57,960 --> 00:15:59,360 Speaker 3: Do you still get recognized? 309 00:16:00,920 --> 00:16:01,440 Speaker 2: I do? 310 00:16:01,600 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 4: And you know what's funny is I feel like, as 311 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:07,160 Speaker 4: much stuff as I've done in my career, it's always 312 00:16:07,240 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 4: Bachelor really that they Yes, it's always Bachelor that I 313 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:13,720 Speaker 4: get recognized for. And Ty still gets the oh, you're 314 00:16:13,840 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 4: so much better than that other guy. And I'm like, 315 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:19,080 Speaker 4: y'all it's been nearly twenty years. 316 00:16:18,680 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 2: Like we've all we are all so where we're supposed 317 00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:23,160 Speaker 2: to be and we're. 318 00:16:23,080 --> 00:16:28,920 Speaker 4: Fine, like a lifetime ago. But our I don't even 319 00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:31,360 Speaker 4: know if you again, my timeline's all off. Like three 320 00:16:31,440 --> 00:16:34,880 Speaker 4: years ago, my season of The Bachelor came out on Netflix. 321 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:36,280 Speaker 4: Do you remember that? 322 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:37,560 Speaker 3: Well? 323 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:41,600 Speaker 1: They did, yes, during COVID they did like a best 324 00:16:42,200 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 1: uh best in show kind of thing, so Chris did 325 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:49,600 Speaker 1: like episodes. Actually they showed the entire series. I feel 326 00:16:49,640 --> 00:16:54,560 Speaker 1: like of some of them, mine was on same thing. 327 00:16:54,840 --> 00:16:56,320 Speaker 1: Like I think that's when it was because I know 328 00:16:56,360 --> 00:16:57,120 Speaker 1: it was during COVID. 329 00:16:57,200 --> 00:17:00,720 Speaker 4: It was it was weird, and now my daughter's friends 330 00:17:00,760 --> 00:17:02,760 Speaker 4: were watching it. I was like, ooh, I had kept 331 00:17:02,800 --> 00:17:06,720 Speaker 4: that a nice little secret for a while. It did that, 332 00:17:08,800 --> 00:17:10,119 Speaker 4: But I mean. 333 00:17:10,640 --> 00:17:13,119 Speaker 3: Do they do they think it's cool or do they 334 00:17:13,880 --> 00:17:15,040 Speaker 3: think it's because. 335 00:17:14,800 --> 00:17:17,760 Speaker 4: It's on TV. They don't even really care about the 336 00:17:17,800 --> 00:17:22,560 Speaker 4: story or what happened. It's you're on my TV. Let's 337 00:17:22,880 --> 00:17:23,320 Speaker 4: pat off. 338 00:17:23,359 --> 00:17:31,720 Speaker 2: I've got other things you can watch. Let's not watch that. Yeah, 339 00:17:31,960 --> 00:17:34,320 Speaker 2: it's yeah, yeah, it's just weird. 340 00:17:34,600 --> 00:17:37,119 Speaker 3: Do you regret doing the show? 341 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:40,280 Speaker 1: Because I'm interested to hear like your take, because I 342 00:17:40,320 --> 00:17:42,399 Speaker 1: have a I'll share my opinion in a second. 343 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:45,199 Speaker 4: I mean, I can't say I regret it because I 344 00:17:45,320 --> 00:17:48,480 Speaker 4: look at everything that happened in my life after, including 345 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:51,120 Speaker 4: the fact that I got back with my ex boyfriend 346 00:17:51,119 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 4: who became my home you know what I mean, Like 347 00:17:52,640 --> 00:17:57,080 Speaker 4: everything in my life changed case of that show, and 348 00:17:57,119 --> 00:17:59,280 Speaker 4: I really went on it. I had a friend, she 349 00:17:59,359 --> 00:18:01,479 Speaker 4: was a cheerleader with me or front. Her name was Natalie. 350 00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:03,280 Speaker 4: She's the one that nominated me. I don't even know 351 00:18:03,320 --> 00:18:05,800 Speaker 4: how they do the process anymore, but she submitted my 352 00:18:05,880 --> 00:18:10,520 Speaker 4: name and fogo online and I got this huge packet 353 00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:12,000 Speaker 4: in the mail and I went. 354 00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:12,520 Speaker 3: Well why not. 355 00:18:12,760 --> 00:18:15,120 Speaker 4: You know what, I'm not happy right now. I hate 356 00:18:15,160 --> 00:18:19,600 Speaker 4: my job. I'm not cheering anymore. And I just went, 357 00:18:19,680 --> 00:18:23,320 Speaker 4: let's just see what I Let's just see And so 358 00:18:23,440 --> 00:18:25,640 Speaker 4: I really went into it with a who knows what's 359 00:18:25,680 --> 00:18:27,399 Speaker 4: going to happen. I mean, you know, when we did this, 360 00:18:27,480 --> 00:18:30,280 Speaker 4: there's no social media. There was really no ulterior motive 361 00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:33,480 Speaker 4: for going on this show other than one with fits 362 00:18:33,480 --> 00:18:35,760 Speaker 4: finding love or two like what I was doing of like, 363 00:18:35,800 --> 00:18:38,000 Speaker 4: I just need something else. I'm not happy where I 364 00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:40,600 Speaker 4: am and I just need a change of scenery and 365 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:44,320 Speaker 4: to see if this could be it, and so because 366 00:18:44,359 --> 00:18:46,439 Speaker 4: of that, I don't regret it now. I hate what 367 00:18:46,640 --> 00:18:51,400 Speaker 4: happened for sure, but if it hadn't happened, I don't 368 00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:54,320 Speaker 4: know what would have happened after, And so I can't, 369 00:18:54,440 --> 00:18:57,480 Speaker 4: you know, I can't hate that totally. 370 00:18:57,600 --> 00:19:02,200 Speaker 1: That is that is my mentality for the people like obviously, 371 00:19:02,240 --> 00:19:05,840 Speaker 1: for me, I found my husband and we are still married, 372 00:19:05,920 --> 00:19:10,199 Speaker 1: and you know, so yes, for me, it's different. But 373 00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:13,080 Speaker 1: I feel like for the people who didn't have like 374 00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:16,280 Speaker 1: the happy ending that they wanted or maybe were looking for, 375 00:19:17,160 --> 00:19:20,199 Speaker 1: that it led you to where you are today, you know, 376 00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:23,399 Speaker 1: in some way, shape or form, hopefully you're happy now 377 00:19:23,640 --> 00:19:26,439 Speaker 1: and it led you to where you were today. So 378 00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:29,639 Speaker 1: you said that you hated what happened. What do you 379 00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:32,000 Speaker 1: for the people who need a little refresher? What do 380 00:19:32,040 --> 00:19:33,240 Speaker 1: you hate about what happened? 381 00:19:34,640 --> 00:19:35,200 Speaker 4: You really? 382 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:43,000 Speaker 1: I mean, I know everyone knows. Everyone knows, And it's 383 00:19:43,000 --> 00:19:45,960 Speaker 1: funny to me that people are like when they count 384 00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:50,760 Speaker 1: like successful relationships, they're like not Molly and Jason, which 385 00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:53,080 Speaker 1: is interesting to me because they met on the show, 386 00:19:53,320 --> 00:19:56,960 Speaker 1: you know, so even though things went down like they did, 387 00:19:58,520 --> 00:20:01,120 Speaker 1: that's just that's always interesting, you know, I. 388 00:20:01,080 --> 00:20:03,800 Speaker 4: Mean, here's here, Like, I've had so much time to 389 00:20:03,840 --> 00:20:06,359 Speaker 4: sit and reflect, and it really only took a couple 390 00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:08,960 Speaker 4: weeks of me sitting at home stirring before I realized 391 00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:12,480 Speaker 4: what happened. I legit think he got played as much 392 00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:14,920 Speaker 4: as I did, you know what I mean. I think 393 00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:17,320 Speaker 4: he was telling producers what he was doing and how 394 00:20:17,320 --> 00:20:20,639 Speaker 4: he was feeling behind the scenes. They told him not 395 00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:23,959 Speaker 4: to say anything, so he didn't say anything, and they 396 00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:26,280 Speaker 4: said wait for it on camera. Because I heard the 397 00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:30,200 Speaker 4: phrase the audience deserves to hear it, and so. 398 00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:33,720 Speaker 2: I know he was hearing that, and it ended up. 399 00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:40,920 Speaker 4: Making him look like a horrible villain and embarrassing me completely, 400 00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:42,720 Speaker 4: you know what I mean, Like all around, I think 401 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:46,960 Speaker 4: we were all victims in the production of the show. 402 00:20:47,119 --> 00:20:49,840 Speaker 2: Do I blame production? No, we know they're making the show. 403 00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:50,680 Speaker 2: I get that now. 404 00:20:50,800 --> 00:20:52,600 Speaker 4: Like when I was twenty two and twenty three, I 405 00:20:52,680 --> 00:20:55,840 Speaker 4: was mad, you know, when they approached Bachelorette, I was like, 406 00:20:55,920 --> 00:20:58,639 Speaker 4: absolutely not. You guys are psychos. I want nothing to 407 00:20:58,680 --> 00:20:59,400 Speaker 4: do with you or. 408 00:20:59,359 --> 00:21:02,480 Speaker 2: Your show right like you say you're Bachelor the bus. 409 00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:04,800 Speaker 4: I don't want to be a part of it. And 410 00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:07,560 Speaker 4: now being forty and seeing it. I'm like, they didn't 411 00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:12,280 Speaker 4: owe me anything, they didn't know Jason anything. They exactly 412 00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:16,840 Speaker 4: what they wanted when they put us on that stage together. 413 00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:20,160 Speaker 1: So so right, You're so right, And I think that's 414 00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:22,280 Speaker 1: so wise, such a wise way to look at it, 415 00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:25,040 Speaker 1: a mature way. You know, when you're when you're twenty two, 416 00:21:25,080 --> 00:21:28,200 Speaker 1: twenty three, twenty five, thirty whatever, going through it, it's hard, 417 00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:30,439 Speaker 1: especially when you're in the middle of it, I'm sure, 418 00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:35,080 Speaker 1: but I have always felt like, you know, I have 419 00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:40,359 Speaker 1: always told people I'm friends with the exec producers because. 420 00:21:40,359 --> 00:21:41,560 Speaker 3: I'm able to separate it. 421 00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:45,280 Speaker 1: I know that they're creating a show, right, and then 422 00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:48,399 Speaker 1: we also have this relationship. So as long as I 423 00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:52,400 Speaker 1: get that, then it's fine. Like for Ryan, it's different, 424 00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:55,640 Speaker 1: Like he just always reflects back to when we were 425 00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:59,040 Speaker 1: trying to plan the wedding and you know, people were 426 00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:04,480 Speaker 1: not being super kind so like from production and and 427 00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:06,439 Speaker 1: he so he reflects back to that and kind of 428 00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:08,280 Speaker 1: holds a grudge in a way. And I'm just kind 429 00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:09,760 Speaker 1: of like, they're producing a show. 430 00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:11,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's their job. 431 00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:13,520 Speaker 4: You know, I'll ever go back and be there for 432 00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:17,280 Speaker 4: it again. But they're gonna be right, Yeah, No, they're right, 433 00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:18,240 Speaker 4: there's definitely a lay. 434 00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:29,760 Speaker 3: Yeah. Have you talked to Jason? 435 00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:34,119 Speaker 2: No, you looks really funny. 436 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:38,240 Speaker 4: Seven or eight years ago, we were in talks Ty 437 00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:39,920 Speaker 4: and I were for a wife swap. Do you remember 438 00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:40,840 Speaker 4: that show on ABC? 439 00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:43,600 Speaker 1: Yes? Of course they asked us to do that too. 440 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:45,199 Speaker 1: That would have been fun if we would have swapped. 441 00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:49,879 Speaker 4: Going to the whole process and kinda like, let's whip ever, 442 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:53,200 Speaker 4: it's fun, it'll be fun. Well, some sweet producer at 443 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:55,840 Speaker 4: the very end of the whole casting process goes, I 444 00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:58,960 Speaker 4: just need to tell you, and I didn't even cross 445 00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:01,080 Speaker 4: my mind. How it didn't crossed my mind, I don't know. 446 00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:03,200 Speaker 4: But they're like, they're gonna switch you with Jason and Molly, 447 00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:06,480 Speaker 4: and I went yeah, no, yeah, And it was a 448 00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:09,560 Speaker 4: very quick note for so many reasons that where I'm like, 449 00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:11,080 Speaker 4: that's disrespectful to Mollie. 450 00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 2: She doesn't need me in her household first of all. 451 00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:17,280 Speaker 3: And your kids just every like all of everyone. 452 00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:19,240 Speaker 2: And she told me. 453 00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:22,359 Speaker 4: That this against sweet producer who wasn't supposed to tell me, 454 00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:26,040 Speaker 4: and like, I'm sorry, you just lost probably your job 455 00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:28,720 Speaker 4: for telling me. But she had said they want y'all 456 00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:32,679 Speaker 4: to have like this whole conversation of like closure, and 457 00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:35,720 Speaker 4: I went, there's no need for nobody's mad, there's no 458 00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:37,240 Speaker 4: need for that conversation. 459 00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:40,800 Speaker 2: Like, yes, I was hurt at the time, and I 460 00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:41,760 Speaker 2: was mad he didn't. 461 00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:44,960 Speaker 4: Tell me beforehand, but it only took a very small 462 00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:47,040 Speaker 4: amount of time for me to feel bad for him, 463 00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:49,800 Speaker 4: with all the badlash cot that he again was just 464 00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:51,680 Speaker 4: as much of a victim. I'm not mad at him. 465 00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:53,600 Speaker 4: I'm not mad at Molly. Mollie and I were really 466 00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:57,720 Speaker 4: good friends. Like people tend to think that there's like this. 467 00:23:57,760 --> 00:24:01,840 Speaker 2: Huge oh you would against Jason and Mille, Like, really, 468 00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:03,960 Speaker 2: there's some thing I would. 469 00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:05,760 Speaker 4: I'd say, I don't know, if we need to like 470 00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:07,840 Speaker 4: have double dates and stuff, probably. 471 00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:14,080 Speaker 1: Right, go to Vegas for your anniversaries, wife swap. I 472 00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:17,440 Speaker 1: cannot even imagine if that had happened. Oh my god, 473 00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:20,640 Speaker 1: if you had, if you had gone through with it 474 00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:23,560 Speaker 1: and no one had warned you, and you and you 475 00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:24,879 Speaker 1: got that, what would you have done? 476 00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:27,240 Speaker 2: I don't know, because you know how TV works. 477 00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:29,159 Speaker 4: When you've signed the contract, you're in, it's not like 478 00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:32,399 Speaker 4: you can turn around and no, I'm not, I don't 479 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:35,800 Speaker 4: I really don't know. It would have been so awkward 480 00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:41,040 Speaker 4: and uncomfortable and like and again producers of like what 481 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:41,680 Speaker 4: are you doing? 482 00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:43,439 Speaker 2: Like stop doing it? 483 00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:47,679 Speaker 4: So, but I have not talked to him since I 484 00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:49,679 Speaker 4: walked off the stage that day, Like there has not 485 00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:52,920 Speaker 4: been my gosh, yeah. 486 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:55,440 Speaker 1: It's shocking to me that you haven't like run into 487 00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:57,359 Speaker 1: each other at an event or something, do you know 488 00:24:57,400 --> 00:24:57,840 Speaker 1: what I mean? 489 00:24:58,080 --> 00:25:01,720 Speaker 4: Like, you know, I have not gotten invited to any 490 00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:08,280 Speaker 4: bachelor me neither. Lately. I'm like, ah down bachelorette pretty hardcore, 491 00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:10,640 Speaker 4: and I think that made them angry. I don't get. 492 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:13,080 Speaker 4: People are like, why weren't you at so and So's wedding. 493 00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:15,679 Speaker 4: I'm like, well, one, I don't know them, and two yea, 494 00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:21,360 Speaker 4: I didn't night. I don't know why I don't know them. 495 00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:24,600 Speaker 3: That's that you even have to say that. I mean, 496 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:25,679 Speaker 3: it's so true. 497 00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:30,480 Speaker 1: I remember going to Jane and Tanner's wedding and seeing 498 00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:35,919 Speaker 1: them like at the like pret reception like beforehand that 499 00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:38,560 Speaker 1: like you know, we're like hanging out before the wedding 500 00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:41,840 Speaker 1: like the day before or something, and I walked up 501 00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:44,000 Speaker 1: to her and I'm like, Hi, thanks so much for 502 00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:47,880 Speaker 1: inviting us, Like this is so weird that. 503 00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:50,160 Speaker 3: I'm just meeting you. But thank you. We're so excited 504 00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:50,959 Speaker 3: to celebrate you. 505 00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:54,720 Speaker 1: I mean only in Bachelor verse, you know, Firstachelor Nation. 506 00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:58,920 Speaker 4: Yeah it is, you all know each other. 507 00:25:59,240 --> 00:25:59,400 Speaker 3: Yeah. 508 00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:02,159 Speaker 4: I got asked Jason and Mollie's wedding. I was like, 509 00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:03,720 Speaker 4: are you kidding me? Is that really? 510 00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:07,280 Speaker 3: Are you kidding? Who asked you that? Stupid? 511 00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:10,960 Speaker 2: Probably we're so interestal going or not going? 512 00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:11,840 Speaker 3: Yes? 513 00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:13,920 Speaker 4: Come on, like. 514 00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:19,320 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but what Yeah, although I say that and 515 00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:21,840 Speaker 1: then I go back to you. 516 00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:24,439 Speaker 3: So I just did an episode about my wedding. 517 00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:27,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I don't know if you watched it, but 518 00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:31,840 Speaker 1: on and you don't, It's okay if you didn't watch it. 519 00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:36,960 Speaker 1: But Charlie, who was the runner up, like the second 520 00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:39,920 Speaker 1: guy that I didn't choose, he was the like commentator. 521 00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:41,679 Speaker 3: Do you remember did you watch it? 522 00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:42,679 Speaker 4: I don't remember. 523 00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:43,600 Speaker 2: I know I watched it. 524 00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:44,399 Speaker 4: I don't remember. 525 00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:49,040 Speaker 3: No, me too, I mean pretty much. 526 00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:53,760 Speaker 4: So I feel like bachelor relationships don't count if they 527 00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:55,520 Speaker 4: don't last past that engagement day. 528 00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:58,560 Speaker 2: Like I look, right, do all those guys you dated 529 00:26:58,680 --> 00:26:59,920 Speaker 2: really count as exes? 530 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:00,840 Speaker 4: I don't think so. 531 00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:04,960 Speaker 3: I don't think so either. But like so many people, 532 00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:10,119 Speaker 3: you know, joke about that. If whatever it is, what 533 00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:10,520 Speaker 3: it is. 534 00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:13,879 Speaker 1: But that's so that's embarrassing, like that I had my 535 00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:17,520 Speaker 1: ex boyfriend commentating at my wedding. 536 00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:18,760 Speaker 3: Like literally, he. 537 00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:20,760 Speaker 4: Is on. 538 00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:25,880 Speaker 1: Commentating at a wedding, and there's a whole reason behind it, 539 00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:28,240 Speaker 1: like people can tune into the episode where I talked 540 00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:31,760 Speaker 1: about the wedding. But so it wasn't like this decision 541 00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:36,399 Speaker 1: was made lightly. I knew full well that it was 542 00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:39,359 Speaker 1: going to be really weird, but there were reasons behind it. 543 00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:41,919 Speaker 3: It was just funny like he's commentating. He's in the 544 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:42,960 Speaker 3: room with. 545 00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:46,239 Speaker 1: Ryan and his dad as like, oh, let's tune in 546 00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:49,240 Speaker 1: Ryan and Bob's about to give Ryan some the last 547 00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:49,960 Speaker 1: minute advice. 548 00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:55,960 Speaker 3: Oh my god. It was so bad. So I just 549 00:27:56,119 --> 00:28:01,080 Speaker 3: can't like that was my wedding weird. Okay, so tell 550 00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:02,320 Speaker 3: me about the podcast. 551 00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:07,800 Speaker 4: So in your podcast, sorry figured, we talk about your 552 00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:13,399 Speaker 4: logically irrational time I do it. I think this is 553 00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:18,800 Speaker 4: your number five that we have been doing it, and amazing. 554 00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:22,000 Speaker 4: The idea just came one night we were watching TV 555 00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:25,560 Speaker 4: and we talk while we're we're big reality TV fans, 556 00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:28,760 Speaker 4: like just kind of love mindless television and how different 557 00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:30,080 Speaker 4: are takes on everything? 558 00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:30,359 Speaker 3: You know? 559 00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:32,439 Speaker 4: I was like, how can you even how are we 560 00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:34,359 Speaker 4: watching the same show and you think this, and I 561 00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:38,800 Speaker 4: think that podcasts we're still kind of new. At the time, 562 00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,760 Speaker 4: I had babies at home and so I went, this 563 00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:43,680 Speaker 4: could just be a fun way to still connect with 564 00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:46,800 Speaker 4: the audience without me having to travel and. 565 00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:49,400 Speaker 2: You know, working out stuff like that. 566 00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:52,440 Speaker 4: And it's it's been successful. It's been you know. I mean, 567 00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:55,360 Speaker 4: like I said, we're going into year five. It's exhausting. 568 00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:57,360 Speaker 4: I don't know how you feel about a podcast, but 569 00:28:57,520 --> 00:28:59,800 Speaker 4: like when you do it from top to bot, it's 570 00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:00,880 Speaker 4: it's it's a lot of work. 571 00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:02,600 Speaker 3: But I do and do I do everything. 572 00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:05,920 Speaker 1: I do, do all of that. You do everything, So yes, 573 00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:07,080 Speaker 1: it is exhausting. 574 00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:07,680 Speaker 3: I do get it. 575 00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:11,960 Speaker 4: So I'm a control so like from making our topics, 576 00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:14,280 Speaker 4: making the outline, I do the editing. I do it 577 00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:16,440 Speaker 4: all because I'm like, I kind of don't trust when 578 00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:18,000 Speaker 4: it's your voice, you know what I mean. And I'm like, 579 00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:20,520 Speaker 4: I don't want anybody to leave in a part. I 580 00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:24,680 Speaker 4: don't want or take out something that I like. So yeah, right, 581 00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:27,560 Speaker 4: it definitely is a lot, but I love it. And 582 00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:29,000 Speaker 4: it kind of is a time that Tay and I 583 00:29:29,040 --> 00:29:30,760 Speaker 4: we lock ourselves up in our room and we'll sit 584 00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:33,360 Speaker 4: up there for a couple hours and just kind of 585 00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:35,960 Speaker 4: go at it. So it's therapeutic in a way, I 586 00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:36,640 Speaker 4: guess for us. 587 00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:38,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure. 588 00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:44,480 Speaker 1: I had a podcast called Better et cetera. And I 589 00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:48,200 Speaker 1: had a company that I was working with, but basically 590 00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:51,520 Speaker 1: I was because I'm a control freak. Two, I was 591 00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:53,640 Speaker 1: doing all of the editing like they would have done it, 592 00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:56,960 Speaker 1: but I was like, I'll just edit it, I'll send 593 00:29:56,960 --> 00:29:57,440 Speaker 1: it to you. 594 00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:00,480 Speaker 3: I was the one who was booking guests, the one 595 00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:03,160 Speaker 3: who was you know, researching. 596 00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:05,960 Speaker 1: I was the one who was writing an outline and 597 00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:10,640 Speaker 1: doing the interview all by myself, and so I get that. 598 00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:12,520 Speaker 3: I took a break for a little while and I 599 00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:14,200 Speaker 3: was like, well, maybe I'll go back to it. 600 00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:18,920 Speaker 1: And then this opportunity came up with almost famous Ashley 601 00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:23,680 Speaker 1: I and Ben do it and I actually I think 602 00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:25,760 Speaker 1: we reached out to Sugarman. I'm sure you know Sugarman, 603 00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:29,200 Speaker 1: Well maybe you don't, but she's like, you know pr 604 00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:32,120 Speaker 1: person that a lot of us have crossed paths with 605 00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:36,440 Speaker 1: in Bachelor Nation, and I was talking to her and 606 00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:38,320 Speaker 1: trying to work something out with her, and Bob and 607 00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:41,239 Speaker 1: I did an interview together and we were like, this 608 00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:43,760 Speaker 1: is actually really fun, like we need to do something together. 609 00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:46,160 Speaker 1: We talked to her and that's when it happened. And 610 00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:50,040 Speaker 1: because it's like there's a production team you know that 611 00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:54,080 Speaker 1: basically does everything for this, I I you know, I 612 00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:56,239 Speaker 1: do a little bit of research on my own just 613 00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:59,680 Speaker 1: to be sure that I know who I'm talking to 614 00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:03,040 Speaker 1: when what's going on in their life prior, because I 615 00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:03,800 Speaker 1: feel like if you. 616 00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:08,360 Speaker 3: Don't, that's a little disrespectful. But I've been in interviews 617 00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:11,440 Speaker 3: with it. I have no idea what so my name? 618 00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:14,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, who are you again? 619 00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:18,640 Speaker 1: So anyway, I do that just because I feel like 620 00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:23,080 Speaker 1: it's important. But it's a whole different ballgame when someone 621 00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:25,680 Speaker 1: else is doing, you know, all the other stuff, and 622 00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:27,480 Speaker 1: I feel like I can fit it in and it's 623 00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:31,000 Speaker 1: so fun. I feel like for you too, like we 624 00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:33,640 Speaker 1: kind of did similar things, like I did you know 625 00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:36,560 Speaker 1: a lot of hosting gigs afterwards, so did you. I 626 00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:40,560 Speaker 1: just feel like after the show I was so drawn 627 00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:45,400 Speaker 1: to like media and like kind of like behind the 628 00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:48,880 Speaker 1: scenes are like on air talent kind of thing. But 629 00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:52,960 Speaker 1: just because the energy and like the people, like, I 630 00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:55,360 Speaker 1: just felt like it was fun, you know, it was 631 00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:59,800 Speaker 1: a fun job. And getting to talk, like I'm obviously 632 00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:03,320 Speaker 1: both of us are fine talking, especially for you, like 633 00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:05,960 Speaker 1: talking to your husband all the time, Like that's got 634 00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:08,080 Speaker 1: to be such a fun way to just connect. 635 00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:11,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, And you know, I do feel like, like I 636 00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:13,320 Speaker 4: hate to keep saying, but like back in our era 637 00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:17,240 Speaker 4: of reality TV, like the audience got to know us 638 00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:19,680 Speaker 4: as people, you know what I mean, Like that was yeah, 639 00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:24,080 Speaker 4: genuinely where everything that we did after that was us, 640 00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:26,960 Speaker 4: you know, Whereas now when you see people on social media, 641 00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:28,640 Speaker 4: you're like, that's a pretty picture, but I have no 642 00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:32,040 Speaker 4: idea who you are. So I do think that there 643 00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:34,280 Speaker 4: is that club of us that are about our age 644 00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:36,640 Speaker 4: that we're in reality TV at the time that we were, 645 00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:41,880 Speaker 4: that those people that still follow us follow us genuinely 646 00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:45,560 Speaker 4: for our life. They follow our kids, they follow our relationship, 647 00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:48,360 Speaker 4: and to me, I think that's very special because I 648 00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:50,200 Speaker 4: don't think that's there anymore. I look at my twelve 649 00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:52,000 Speaker 4: year old daughter on social media and I'm like, you 650 00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:55,760 Speaker 4: are so disconnected from everything. Every even though like you're 651 00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:57,920 Speaker 4: doing is like scrolling on TikTok, but you have no 652 00:32:58,040 --> 00:32:58,720 Speaker 4: real connection. 653 00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:01,240 Speaker 2: And I really feel a. 654 00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:03,880 Speaker 4: Genuine connection to these people that have followed me for 655 00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:06,520 Speaker 4: nearly twenty years, and I'm like, I kind of owe 656 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:08,600 Speaker 4: it to you to let's just keep the journey up. 657 00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:11,520 Speaker 4: And I do enjoy it, you know, And so yeah, 658 00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:13,480 Speaker 4: that's a big reason why I like to I like 659 00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:15,560 Speaker 4: to continue it. I feel like all of our audience 660 00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:17,520 Speaker 4: from our era is just very special. 661 00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:20,120 Speaker 3: I agree. I don't. 662 00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:22,520 Speaker 1: I'm sure you hear the same kind of things, but 663 00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:28,360 Speaker 1: we hear constantly about how our time on the show 664 00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:32,160 Speaker 1: was something that allowed them to connect with like a 665 00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:35,640 Speaker 1: significant other or their mother, or like they were having 666 00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:37,560 Speaker 1: a baby while they were watching our wedding in the 667 00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:38,840 Speaker 1: hospital or whatever. 668 00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:41,440 Speaker 3: So I definitely feel that. 669 00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:45,720 Speaker 1: I and there are multiple people that I have DMed 670 00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:49,959 Speaker 1: through Instagram over the years that I have never met before. 671 00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:54,000 Speaker 1: They were fans, and we just have connected and every 672 00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:56,520 Speaker 1: time they write, I'm writing them back, you know, like 673 00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:58,840 Speaker 1: it's a little it's a friendship, you know. 674 00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:00,120 Speaker 3: Even though we've never. 675 00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:06,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it. I love that. I agree. I agree. 676 00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:08,880 Speaker 1: Connection is the most important thing to me in life, 677 00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:12,520 Speaker 1: and it just makes life happy, whether it's with Ryan 678 00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:16,160 Speaker 1: or my kids, or my friends or Bachelor Nation, and 679 00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:19,799 Speaker 1: so yeah, I love it. I'm so thankful for it 680 00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:22,239 Speaker 1: and thankful that you are part of it and that 681 00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:26,200 Speaker 1: we got to connect again. It's been a long time, 682 00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:34,080 Speaker 1: and I feel like our life is so so similar. Yeah, 683 00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:37,640 Speaker 1: we definitely have done so many of the same things 684 00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:40,320 Speaker 1: and even like scrolling. So I was with a girlfriend 685 00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:45,120 Speaker 1: yesterday who lived in Texas. She lived in Austin, and 686 00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:48,640 Speaker 1: I was like, I have to prepare for this for 687 00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:49,720 Speaker 1: this interview tomorrow. 688 00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:52,040 Speaker 3: I just want to see you, like what Melissa's. 689 00:34:51,600 --> 00:34:54,240 Speaker 1: Up to these days, and so she was like scrolling 690 00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:57,160 Speaker 1: with me, Like as I'm scrolling, she's like watching, and 691 00:34:57,400 --> 00:34:59,720 Speaker 1: I just felt like, you know, her and I are friends. 692 00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:01,840 Speaker 1: I'm like, I feel like your friends could be friends 693 00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:07,200 Speaker 1: with my friends. And it was very cute, like because 694 00:35:07,239 --> 00:35:11,000 Speaker 1: Texas loves Colorado. I did see that you came to 695 00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:13,160 Speaker 1: some well actually what you went skin. 696 00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:15,880 Speaker 4: My brother actually, so we go to Denver Quite and 697 00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:20,319 Speaker 4: then stop. Yes, I know, so we're there all the time. Yes, 698 00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:23,000 Speaker 4: Parker Way, Yeah. 699 00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:26,400 Speaker 1: Is like very close to where my kids are going 700 00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:28,000 Speaker 1: to be going to school. So it's one of the 701 00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:33,440 Speaker 1: areas that we're looking that's hysterical. I'll have to I'll 702 00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:37,960 Speaker 1: have to like like actually see how he likes Parker, 703 00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:41,120 Speaker 1: Like if if you'd be okay with it, like connect 704 00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:43,560 Speaker 1: and see where they go to school. 705 00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:45,680 Speaker 3: Does he have kids, Yes. 706 00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:47,120 Speaker 4: He does. He's got two boys and they just had 707 00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:48,120 Speaker 4: another little baby boy. 708 00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:49,960 Speaker 3: And they're young, but they're younger. 709 00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:51,320 Speaker 2: You're younger. 710 00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:52,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, they're nine and seven. 711 00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:57,719 Speaker 3: H oh yeah, they're definitely younger. Anyway. Yeah, I just 712 00:35:57,760 --> 00:36:01,239 Speaker 3: love that we got to connect against the thing. Thank 713 00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:02,040 Speaker 3: you for having me. 714 00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:05,440 Speaker 4: This was fun to kind of hash it out with you. Yeah. 715 00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:06,240 Speaker 4: I love it. 716 00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:09,280 Speaker 3: I love I love just reconnecting with people. 717 00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:12,320 Speaker 1: Like I said, I feel very maternal towards everyone because 718 00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:15,200 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm the I'm the dinosaur, I'm the 719 00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:16,879 Speaker 1: I'm the mate. 720 00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:20,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you, thank you. 721 00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:21,280 Speaker 2: Very different. 722 00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:25,200 Speaker 3: So I just have like a. 723 00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:29,000 Speaker 1: You know, a special place in my heart for everybody, 724 00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:30,960 Speaker 1: including you. So thank you for coming. 725 00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:31,600 Speaker 3: Thank you. 726 00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:35,120 Speaker 4: I appreciate it. Thank you so much of course, till 727 00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:38,520 Speaker 4: tie hi and good luck with everything. 728 00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:40,520 Speaker 2: Thank You'll meet you in the Denver. 729 00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:45,000 Speaker 3: Okay, awesome, thanks me listening. 730 00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:45,400 Speaker 4: Thank you,