1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,200 Speaker 1: Come on, Paulina's getting married. I don't know if you 2 00:00:02,200 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 1: guys knew this, Paulina hey four seven. He's listening Alina 3 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:09,639 Speaker 1: talking about your wedding. Yeah, well she will in October 4 00:00:09,640 --> 00:00:12,240 Speaker 1: after she has her wedding. But you're getting married. I 5 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:15,160 Speaker 1: am getting married. Your fiance Hobby proposed what about six 6 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:16,000 Speaker 1: months ago? Was it? 7 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 2: That's so funny a June So. 8 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 1: Actually on a year ago? Oh my god, a year ago, 9 00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:24,000 Speaker 1: almost a year ago. And if you don't know about 10 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 1: Paulina's promised, then you can go back in the in 11 00:00:27,240 --> 00:00:29,160 Speaker 1: the history of the show and listen. Then you'll understand 12 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:31,920 Speaker 1: why she's engaged exactly and why that was a transformational 13 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 1: moment for her personal life. Last yeah, yeah, for everybody. Yeah, 14 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:41,960 Speaker 1: but Slate dot com I thought of you when I 15 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:44,159 Speaker 1: saw this. This is basically a list from the editors 16 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:47,600 Speaker 1: of this website of the of the new rules of 17 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:50,760 Speaker 1: the American wedding in twenty twenty three. Like this is 18 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 1: what the people are saying on the low about, like 19 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 1: this is what this is how people want it to go. 20 00:00:58,440 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 1: And you can get tri I mean, carll us if 21 00:00:59,920 --> 00:01:01,480 Speaker 1: you one to eighty five five five n one one 22 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 1: oh three five to get text the same number, But like, 23 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:06,840 Speaker 1: what do you wish fundamentally changed about weddings these days? 24 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:10,680 Speaker 1: For example, this is from their list, no more engagement parties. 25 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 1: Nobody wants to go to an engagement party. He had one, 26 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:17,520 Speaker 1: so I agree, which was like a wedding already. That's 27 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:19,560 Speaker 1: what I st people's point is I got to go 28 00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:21,679 Speaker 1: to an engagement party, and then I got to go 29 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:24,960 Speaker 1: to a shower or a bachelorette party, yeah, or a 30 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 1: or a bachelor party. You know what I'm saying. No, 31 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:31,560 Speaker 1: probably a shower than a bachelor yhrasceret party. Maybe multiple showers, 32 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:34,440 Speaker 1: depending on you know who's throwing what. Correct, Then I 33 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 1: got to go to the wedding. 34 00:01:35,440 --> 00:01:36,319 Speaker 2: Right, it's a whole production. 35 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 1: It's probably a lot a lot of times that was 36 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 1: destination wedding. So now I going to do all that. 37 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:41,959 Speaker 1: So that's a lot of stuff. I mean, I'm committing 38 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 1: to like seven events, yes, one hundred percent. 39 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:46,680 Speaker 3: So the engagement party, I do think that's fun. I 40 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:48,480 Speaker 3: think I did it kind of opposite though it's supposed 41 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 3: to be small from like what Etiquett says, it's supposed 42 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 3: to be like twenty thirty people. I had one hundred 43 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 3: and twenty people and it was a Halloween costume party though, 44 00:01:55,800 --> 00:01:57,680 Speaker 3: so like that's what made it kind of like, in 45 00:01:57,760 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 3: my opinion, kind. 46 00:01:58,520 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 1: Of like different. 47 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 3: But back, that's what you were saying, though, I don't 48 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 3: want anything after this, and people yell at me, they're like, 49 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 3: we're throwing you a bridal shower and we're doing the 50 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 3: whole Miami Girl's Gone wild thing. No we're not, Like, 51 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:10,920 Speaker 3: I don't spend your money on that. Just come to 52 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 3: the wedding. It's all I care about. Yeah, yeah, I 53 00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 3: would change that. 54 00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 1: I thought I was fairly certain that you were just 55 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 1: gonna get married at that engagement party. I thought that 56 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 1: was going to be the wedding. 57 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 2: We started that rumor you know who okay. 58 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 1: Down the street. Yeah, always struck. But but in fairness, 59 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:32,680 Speaker 1: she convinced me. One of our colleagues convinced me that 60 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:35,520 Speaker 1: it was going to happen. And I got nervous because 61 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:37,399 Speaker 1: I mean, I was like, can't we got a goal? 62 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:40,080 Speaker 1: They wants to show up seven hours later this thing. 63 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:41,720 Speaker 1: I'm like, we gotta go, are you kidding? 64 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 2: There was a parade. 65 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 1: I had to people to get to you. You're seven 66 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 1: hours late and I was like, we're going to miss 67 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:48,760 Speaker 1: her wedding. Kaitlin. 68 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:51,920 Speaker 3: No, I was like, fam, I wouldn't get married like that. 69 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 3: I mean, it's kind of now I look back at it, 70 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 3: I probably should have because this is just costing too. 71 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 1: Much money at this point. 72 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 3: But I wouldn't have done that to you guys, because like, yeah, 73 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 3: what if somebody didn't show up or could. 74 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:06,920 Speaker 1: I was there so early early. You and Jason, I 75 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:08,800 Speaker 1: know we showed up. You were like, way y'all been. 76 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:14,519 Speaker 1: I were wearing this super I thought my god was 77 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:19,800 Speaker 1: getting married. I got a bouquet. And the thing was, 78 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:21,360 Speaker 1: I don't know if you remember, but I was supposed 79 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 1: to be with my niece that weekend, and so I 80 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 1: was going to miss the engagement party. And then I thought, 81 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:27,640 Speaker 1: oh my god, if she gets married and I missed it, 82 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 1: oh my god. It was a big thing. Other rules, 83 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 1: these are these are the things that people want to, 84 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:35,120 Speaker 1: you know, the weddings trend to to sort of think about. 85 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 1: According to this website, no outdoor summer weddings, thank you. 86 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 1: I've gone to one or two in Texas in the 87 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 1: middle of the summer, and I'm wearing a suit and 88 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:47,800 Speaker 1: I'm sweating through the damn thing, like, why do you 89 00:03:47,840 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 1: do this to people? And I said, bride, do you 90 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:52,160 Speaker 1: really want to wear all that? It's horrible. I was 91 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 1: a bridesmaiden one that was outside and my heels was 92 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 1: sinking the entire time in the grass. Did you have 93 00:03:57,360 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 1: like an actual room fan that you held up? Next year, 94 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 1: I know you had the hand fans, Like, did you 95 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 1: hold up like a room fan? They didn't even allow 96 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 1: my fan and the photos hard. It's very upset your 97 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:11,880 Speaker 1: closest friends. Not you should control the guest list? What 98 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 1: uh oh no, what interesting? No? Yeah, I don't know 99 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:21,720 Speaker 1: about that. But I also would say that it can 100 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 1: We've talked about this before, but it can become very 101 00:04:24,520 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 1: comp The guest list can become very complicated, Yes, depending 102 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 1: on who's paying for it. And then you know, even 103 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 1: if you're not paying for it, Mom and dad, well 104 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 1: you know uncle soone so has to be there. There's 105 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:36,240 Speaker 1: not really your uncle, you know, yeah, the kind of thing, 106 00:04:36,240 --> 00:04:39,120 Speaker 1: and you're like, well, you know, or my client has 107 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:40,719 Speaker 1: to be at this wedding. It's like, but I don't 108 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 1: know them. Yeah, and those are two seats that could 109 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 1: be filled by someone I do know. 110 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, when Marsa wants to invite like her boss from 111 00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:47,840 Speaker 3: like two years ago or something. 112 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 2: Doesn't even work there anymore. 113 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:51,239 Speaker 3: I'm like, Mom, like, I love it, but we don't 114 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 3: need that, and. 115 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 1: You have to pay for that, correct, But which is 116 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 1: why your parents, your parents Rufio covered the cost of 117 00:04:57,839 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 1: their guests. 118 00:04:58,720 --> 00:05:00,760 Speaker 4: Right, everyone paid for our our own guests. So Jess 119 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 4: and I paid for all of our guests. My parents 120 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 4: pay for theirs. Jess's parents pay for them. And it 121 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 4: was fine. 122 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 1: I'm fine with that. 123 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, but you want Uncle so and so, you you 124 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:12,120 Speaker 4: you pay for Uncle so and. 125 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 1: So because my sister, you know, my mom and dad 126 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:16,160 Speaker 1: paid for her wedding and and and they were like, well, 127 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 1: we have to invite so and so. And my mom's 128 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:20,400 Speaker 1: like are my sister's like, I don't know them, we're 129 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:21,880 Speaker 1: paying for it, so we're going to invite them. And 130 00:05:21,920 --> 00:05:24,280 Speaker 1: then some of those people didn't show up even and 131 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:27,360 Speaker 1: that means that actual friends of Amanda's in Collins couldn't go. 132 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:30,040 Speaker 1: But you know, what was my sister supposed to say? 133 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:34,040 Speaker 1: It wasn't her money. It's entirely fine to deny anyone 134 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:36,160 Speaker 1: a plus one for any reason. I agree with that 135 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:39,360 Speaker 1: I've been told it's rude to ask if you get 136 00:05:39,360 --> 00:05:41,360 Speaker 1: a plus one, but I guess I would rather ask 137 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:43,599 Speaker 1: if I have a plus one than not be sure 138 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:47,000 Speaker 1: and bring one only to find out that that wasn't intended. 139 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:53,039 Speaker 5: It's on the invite though, yeah, Chris Frederick in guests, Yeah, 140 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:53,480 Speaker 5: it's not. 141 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:55,120 Speaker 6: On the first thing they send out to save the day. 142 00:05:55,160 --> 00:05:58,279 Speaker 5: But it's always on the invite actually, because sometimes I 143 00:05:58,320 --> 00:05:59,040 Speaker 5: haven't seen that. 144 00:05:59,080 --> 00:06:01,039 Speaker 1: But it will say have a line for you to 145 00:06:01,040 --> 00:06:03,679 Speaker 1: fill in how many are attending. So sometimes the invitation 146 00:06:03,720 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 1: will come to me and then you open the RSVP 147 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:08,160 Speaker 1: and it will say how many are attending, and then 148 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:11,200 Speaker 1: you you write in one or two. But my thing is, 149 00:06:11,960 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 1: what if I write too, and you thought I was 150 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 1: only bringing one? 151 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 6: Well, if they ask you, then I think you're getting 152 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 6: a plus one obviously, I guess. 153 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 1: But I thought everyone got the same rs VP cards, 154 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 1: So I don't know anyway you. 155 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 4: Could say no, like I said, normally, if it's addressed 156 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:27,200 Speaker 4: to you plus a guest, do you know what I'm saying? 157 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I don't look at that. Skip the Bridle 158 00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:35,240 Speaker 1: Party people are saying, yes, please script it. Yeah, that 159 00:06:35,520 --> 00:06:39,159 Speaker 1: can be a little weird what I like. Yeah, I 160 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:41,599 Speaker 1: don't know. That's another's that's another one that causes thing. 161 00:06:41,920 --> 00:06:44,840 Speaker 1: But like you, Calin has eighty seven friends, and I 162 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 1: don't know whoever you marry might have, Like what if 163 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 1: you married me, I have like four people that I 164 00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:51,599 Speaker 1: could five. Maybe I could honestly say, should stand up 165 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 1: the friends. 166 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:53,760 Speaker 2: We'll double up that you have one on you shark. 167 00:06:53,800 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 1: That's what I'm doing. 168 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:57,039 Speaker 2: Yeah, Jason and Jonathan are about to hold. 169 00:06:56,880 --> 00:06:59,840 Speaker 1: On eighty seven. I still got to come up with forty. 170 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 2: Hey, we'll figure out. 171 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:03,599 Speaker 1: We'll fix. If you have a bridle party, you pay 172 00:07:03,640 --> 00:07:09,040 Speaker 1: for costs incurred. That's interesting, So don't don't make your 173 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 1: if it's I would love that. That would make people 174 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 1: think twice. Honestly, that would make people think twice about 175 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 1: a bridle party. If it's like the new trend is 176 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:19,360 Speaker 1: if you want people to come to your destination wedding 177 00:07:19,400 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 1: and wear your dress or wear a specific outfit or 178 00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 1: stay at a hotel or whatever, that I have to 179 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 1: build that into the budget. And that's an interesting twist. 180 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:31,280 Speaker 6: My best friend paid for my dress just out of 181 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 6: the kindness of her heart. She was like, I just 182 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:34,880 Speaker 6: want to treat you to your dress so nice. 183 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, it is very Yeah, it was. 184 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 6: Really nice, and of course I was very uncomfortable, but 185 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:39,240 Speaker 6: she was like, shut up, I'm doing it. 186 00:07:39,240 --> 00:07:41,480 Speaker 2: So that's why I chose thirty dollars outfits for my bride. 187 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:42,280 Speaker 2: I love that about you. 188 00:07:42,560 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 3: It's just like power suits. They're pink, they're little, they're fun. 189 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:47,640 Speaker 3: What is Jason wearing. We're still figuring that out. I've 190 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 3: almost convinced Hobby to let everybody wear Elvis outfits to it. 191 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:55,040 Speaker 2: She can't pick an out for to save his life. 192 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 2: So I'm sitting here shirt. 193 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:57,880 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, let me do the rest of these 194 00:07:57,920 --> 00:08:00,960 Speaker 1: quickly and then we'll move on. That's okay. Never say 195 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:04,040 Speaker 1: black tie optional, just choose. I agree, because most people 196 00:08:04,040 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 1: will go the more casual route, or they'll go overly formal, 197 00:08:06,800 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 1: and then everyone feels stupid because no one's in the middle. 198 00:08:09,560 --> 00:08:11,560 Speaker 1: It's fine to skip a wedding for any reason, but 199 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 1: r s VP no kids, and if there is a 200 00:08:15,320 --> 00:08:17,080 Speaker 1: kid needed for the ceremony, there should be a way 201 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:20,559 Speaker 1: for them to leave. What According to this, just because 202 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:22,400 Speaker 1: they invited you to their bachelor part of your wedding 203 00:08:22,440 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 1: doesn't mean that you have to invite them to yours. 204 00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:26,280 Speaker 1: According to these people, these are the new rules of 205 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 1: a wedding, no wedding favors. Do them on arrival on 206 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:33,679 Speaker 1: Friday and make them edible if you do. According to 207 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 1: this person, if you travel from out of town, you 208 00:08:35,520 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 1: don't have to get the couple of gift. No, that's controversy. 209 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:42,560 Speaker 1: That's controversial. No, I said it. 210 00:08:42,640 --> 00:08:43,200 Speaker 3: Don't give me. 211 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:48,240 Speaker 1: As I'm traveling from I'm not gonna be able to 212 00:08:48,280 --> 00:08:50,240 Speaker 1: do no more garters. 213 00:08:50,280 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 2: That's weird. 214 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:52,800 Speaker 1: Oh and the cake in the face thing. You just 215 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:56,680 Speaker 1: got married already, We're not doing that. Fred's show is 216 00:08:56,679 --> 00:09:02,680 Speaker 1: on Chris. Yeah, they talk better then. These are the 217 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:06,800 Speaker 1: radio blogs on the Fred show. I guess one of 218 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:09,720 Speaker 1: our one of our folks, one of our family members, 219 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 1: the thirteen went to Lascarola last night. Oh ya, asked 220 00:09:13,360 --> 00:09:17,640 Speaker 1: the waiter, do you know Fred from Kiss FM? Where's 221 00:09:17,679 --> 00:09:20,600 Speaker 1: his picture? The guy said, he's never heard of me. 222 00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 1: Then he talked to Armando, the owner. Armando's had never 223 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 1: heard of him. What I mean he's in the bathroom, 224 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 1: the pictures in the bathroom, I mean that's Armando. If 225 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:31,560 Speaker 1: you've been to Westcarola, that's Armando. Like you and then 226 00:09:31,559 --> 00:09:33,760 Speaker 1: the person goes, I ended up looking stupid because I 227 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:39,160 Speaker 1: thought you guys were celebrities. But that was your first 228 00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:39,839 Speaker 1: mistake was. 229 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:43,080 Speaker 6: I literally saw him on the street the other day 230 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:44,679 Speaker 6: and he's like, where's Fred. I'm like, you do know, 231 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:46,760 Speaker 6: we don't travel everywhere together. 232 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:51,200 Speaker 1: Everywhere I go, if somebody's like, you know, one of 233 00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:54,720 Speaker 1: the Thirteen's like, oh, it's Fred, immediately it's where's Rufio, 234 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:59,079 Speaker 1: where's Caeln, where's Paulina? Where's she? I'm like, currently, I 235 00:09:59,080 --> 00:10:01,920 Speaker 1: don't have a lisha to but normally I you bet, 236 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:04,720 Speaker 1: I'm not. But somebody did do that to me at 237 00:10:04,720 --> 00:10:06,680 Speaker 1: the Jewels the other day. They go, where's Fred. I'm like, 238 00:10:06,679 --> 00:10:08,680 Speaker 1: he's in a parking lot, he's parking a car. 239 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:12,200 Speaker 4: And who do you think set this table up? It's like, 240 00:10:12,200 --> 00:10:14,360 Speaker 4: I'm in Plainfield right now. It's not going to be 241 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:14,719 Speaker 4: out here. 242 00:10:14,720 --> 00:10:20,000 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I love Plainfield too. I go to Plainfield 243 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:23,480 Speaker 1: all the time. I always hang out audio journals like 244 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 1: for running in our diaries. We call them blogs, and as. 245 00:10:27,480 --> 00:10:30,480 Speaker 3: One go, oh, thank you so much, dear blog. So 246 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:35,600 Speaker 3: I did the unthinkable yesterday. I'm a little clown, so 247 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:37,600 Speaker 3: you never think it's gonna happen to you until it does. 248 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 3: And I was on a zoom call, right, So it's 249 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:43,360 Speaker 3: like a meaning for this like nonprofit that I help 250 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 3: out with some of their like fundraising things whatever they 251 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:47,720 Speaker 3: do this thing for Hispanic carriage a month. 252 00:10:47,920 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 2: It's great. Life is great. So I took a zoom call. 253 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:52,720 Speaker 2: But you know me, when I'm at home, I don't 254 00:10:52,760 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 2: like to wear pants. 255 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:56,920 Speaker 3: Oh no, you guys, No, I don't like that Jason 256 00:10:56,960 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 3: seeing me take on my pants many of times for 257 00:10:58,800 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 3: no reason. 258 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:01,120 Speaker 1: I just don't like pants. Do you just walk in 259 00:11:01,160 --> 00:11:03,160 Speaker 1: the house and take your pants off? Kind of yeah, 260 00:11:03,160 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 1: I kind to be honest, but then I put But 261 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:09,520 Speaker 1: then I put like like basketball shorts on or something, 262 00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:11,600 Speaker 1: because I do have the same fear that I'm gonna 263 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:13,400 Speaker 1: open the door for a DoorDash driver or I'm just 264 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 1: gonna go down and get my mail one day and 265 00:11:14,920 --> 00:11:18,280 Speaker 1: not realize I'm just wearing boxer briefs exactly. Okay, so 266 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 1: that's what. So what happened? So you go in the 267 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:21,560 Speaker 1: house no pants on, you're on a zoom call. I 268 00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:23,679 Speaker 1: assume no pants, no pants, and then what on the 269 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:24,240 Speaker 1: zoom call? 270 00:11:24,559 --> 00:11:27,480 Speaker 3: So then I hear benzol like barking whatever. So I'm like, 271 00:11:27,920 --> 00:11:30,040 Speaker 3: I'm gonna stand up because I'm gonna. 272 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:32,040 Speaker 1: Let him out. She was the restroom. 273 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 3: Mean, yeah, your girl stood up with just like a 274 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:37,000 Speaker 3: shirt in Tony's. 275 00:11:37,280 --> 00:11:38,680 Speaker 1: Manned the bluestyle over here. 276 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 2: Literally, I know I said anything on this call. 277 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:43,679 Speaker 3: I think everybody was just either too shocked or they 278 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:46,079 Speaker 3: were like, let's just ignore this and happened. 279 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 2: That's the thing. 280 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 3: So it is long, your girl getting a couple pounds here, 281 00:11:49,440 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 3: So I don't think it's as long as it like 282 00:11:51,280 --> 00:11:51,600 Speaker 3: used to. 283 00:11:51,600 --> 00:11:54,000 Speaker 1: Be, you know, I think so. 284 00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:57,680 Speaker 3: I think wearing so they they were just like boy 285 00:11:57,720 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 3: shorts like Schmeggler, regular Shmeggler. 286 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:01,959 Speaker 2: Nothing too sexy for the call. 287 00:12:03,440 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 1: For the non profit calls, so they may have thought. 288 00:12:05,720 --> 00:12:08,520 Speaker 1: It's possible that they thought, yeah, that they were like 289 00:12:08,600 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 1: workout short to something. Maybe maybe I'm hoping I was. 290 00:12:15,960 --> 00:12:17,920 Speaker 1: They were take a screenshots and the moment. 291 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:22,679 Speaker 3: I pray because no one said anything and somebody else 292 00:12:22,760 --> 00:12:24,160 Speaker 3: was speaking, so we were kind of like listening to 293 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 3: this person talk. Anyway, I'm hoping that nobody paid attention 294 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:30,360 Speaker 3: maybe to a coffee break during that time, maybe looking 295 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:31,760 Speaker 3: at the slide show. I don't know, I'm just praying 296 00:12:31,760 --> 00:12:34,280 Speaker 3: to God. Nobody looked. But the point is, just wear pants, 297 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 3: people and zoom calls, because that's the biggest fear of 298 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:37,680 Speaker 3: thing a lot of people have from like work from 299 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:39,880 Speaker 3: home or you're just really comfy in your house and 300 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:41,520 Speaker 3: then you stand up and then you got like. 301 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:44,319 Speaker 1: But she's showing thank you for that public shore. You're 302 00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:46,360 Speaker 1: very welcome. At least you weren't wearing like a thong 303 00:12:46,520 --> 00:12:48,480 Speaker 1: or nothing. That's what I'm saying. You could have stood 304 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 1: up and like hello. 305 00:12:49,600 --> 00:12:51,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, so just just wear pants. 306 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:58,079 Speaker 1: We get to see the whole nonprofit. Ever been left 307 00:12:58,200 --> 00:13:02,880 Speaker 1: waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Daniel, good morning, 308 00:13:02,920 --> 00:13:05,400 Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. How are you all right? How 309 00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:08,760 Speaker 1: are you great? Thank you? Tell us about Tiffany, how 310 00:13:08,800 --> 00:13:11,000 Speaker 1: you met, about any dates that you've been on, and 311 00:13:11,120 --> 00:13:12,280 Speaker 1: kind of where things are now. 312 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:16,439 Speaker 7: Yeah, we met on hims, got her number, started texting. 313 00:13:17,480 --> 00:13:21,320 Speaker 7: We were, you know, flirting, planning our date, and then 314 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:23,760 Speaker 7: she went dark. 315 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:25,960 Speaker 1: I have been pre ghosted. 316 00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:30,120 Speaker 7: We never even went out and she disappeared. So I 317 00:13:30,120 --> 00:13:33,160 Speaker 7: don't know how I screw something up before I met 318 00:13:33,160 --> 00:13:33,600 Speaker 7: this girl. 319 00:13:34,080 --> 00:13:36,560 Speaker 1: Wow. Yeah, so we've heard about this happening a few 320 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:38,679 Speaker 1: times a few weeks ago it happened. But so you 321 00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:41,600 Speaker 1: guys never even went out, like, you never met this person. 322 00:13:41,800 --> 00:13:45,840 Speaker 7: You just texted, Yeah, we were just planning our first date, 323 00:13:46,040 --> 00:13:48,200 Speaker 7: and then she stopped responding. 324 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:49,600 Speaker 1: So it's like, how do you screw up a date 325 00:13:49,640 --> 00:13:50,520 Speaker 1: before it even happens? 326 00:13:50,640 --> 00:13:53,880 Speaker 7: Is the questions like a deep metaphysical question, man. 327 00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:57,440 Speaker 1: A deep metaphysical I gotta go look that up and 328 00:13:57,480 --> 00:13:59,280 Speaker 1: think about it. Let me just marinate on that for 329 00:13:59,280 --> 00:14:01,800 Speaker 1: a minute. But okay, so we're gonna play a song. 330 00:14:01,840 --> 00:14:04,240 Speaker 1: Come back in a couple of minutes. We'll call Tiffany 331 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:06,200 Speaker 1: Steve if we can get her on the phone, We'll 332 00:14:06,200 --> 00:14:08,160 Speaker 1: ask these questions and hopefully we can straighten things out 333 00:14:08,200 --> 00:14:09,760 Speaker 1: and set you guys up on a day it's a 334 00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:12,800 Speaker 1: first date and pay for it. All right, let's see 335 00:14:12,800 --> 00:14:14,560 Speaker 1: what happens to Nice in part two of Waiting about 336 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:17,440 Speaker 1: the Phone after Steven Sanchez, we're back in two minutes 337 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 1: on The Fred Show. Stephen Sanchez, The Fred Show, he's on, 338 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:23,560 Speaker 1: Good Morning. We'll do the entertainer of ports show is 339 00:14:23,560 --> 00:14:26,360 Speaker 1: Shelley eight hundred bucks new player. Both in the next 340 00:14:26,360 --> 00:14:30,040 Speaker 1: fifteen minutes. Hey, Daniel, all right, let's call Tiffany. You 341 00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:33,560 Speaker 1: guys matched on a dating app it was Hinge, and 342 00:14:34,120 --> 00:14:36,440 Speaker 1: you texted and you were flirting and you were planning 343 00:14:36,480 --> 00:14:39,480 Speaker 1: a date all via text, but she ghosted you before 344 00:14:39,520 --> 00:14:42,560 Speaker 1: the date could ever happen. So it's like, how do 345 00:14:42,640 --> 00:14:46,160 Speaker 1: you how do you get ghosted? But you never went 346 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:48,360 Speaker 1: out with somebody? Like, how does that happen? So let's 347 00:14:48,880 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 1: call her and see if we can figure out what's up. 348 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:52,360 Speaker 1: Good luck, Daniel, thank you? 349 00:14:59,120 --> 00:14:59,320 Speaker 7: Hello. 350 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:04,560 Speaker 1: Hi's is Tiffany, Tiffany? Good morning. My name is Fred 351 00:15:04,600 --> 00:15:06,200 Speaker 1: called from the Fred Show and I have to tell 352 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:07,960 Speaker 1: you that we are on the radio right now. I 353 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:10,000 Speaker 1: need your consent to continue with the calls and okay, 354 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:15,880 Speaker 1: if witch chat for a second, okay, thank you very much. 355 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:18,000 Speaker 1: I know it's weird, but we're calling on behalf of 356 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:20,520 Speaker 1: a guy named Daniel, who I guess you matched with 357 00:15:21,080 --> 00:15:23,280 Speaker 1: unhins the dating app and you texted a little bit 358 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:26,280 Speaker 1: but never wound up going out because you disappeared before that. 359 00:15:26,360 --> 00:15:27,320 Speaker 1: Do you remember all of this? 360 00:15:29,600 --> 00:15:29,800 Speaker 4: Yeah? 361 00:15:29,960 --> 00:15:30,840 Speaker 2: I remember Daniel? 362 00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:34,120 Speaker 1: Okay, so what is going on? Because you know he 363 00:15:34,200 --> 00:15:36,360 Speaker 1: reached out to unsty was like, look, I thought things 364 00:15:36,360 --> 00:15:38,040 Speaker 1: were going well. We were planning a date and then 365 00:15:38,080 --> 00:15:40,200 Speaker 1: I don't hear from her anymore. So why. 366 00:15:42,800 --> 00:15:46,800 Speaker 8: Well, I think so many people know like dating after exacting, 367 00:15:47,120 --> 00:15:49,320 Speaker 8: and he starts to see when he's been on there. 368 00:15:49,200 --> 00:15:49,640 Speaker 1: For a while. 369 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:53,880 Speaker 8: But there's certain I guess I'd say troats of people 370 00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:59,640 Speaker 8: and Daniel fit one. We started texting and I wasn't interested. 371 00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:02,400 Speaker 1: Okay, well what did he do? Though? I mean, because 372 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:04,560 Speaker 1: this guy's calling us going, hey, you know, can you 373 00:16:04,600 --> 00:16:06,520 Speaker 1: figure out why I got ghosted? So he wants to 374 00:16:06,560 --> 00:16:10,320 Speaker 1: know exactly why, and we're trying to help him. What happened? 375 00:16:10,320 --> 00:16:11,560 Speaker 1: What did he do? Well? 376 00:16:11,560 --> 00:16:14,000 Speaker 8: We were trying to make plans and I was very excited. 377 00:16:14,000 --> 00:16:15,960 Speaker 7: We did have a really good vanter and I was 378 00:16:16,440 --> 00:16:17,160 Speaker 7: pumped about it. 379 00:16:17,200 --> 00:16:20,120 Speaker 8: And then as we were making plans, he kept trying 380 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:26,360 Speaker 8: to basically plan right near his apartment. All the dinner options, 381 00:16:26,480 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 8: all of the bar options, everything was just like by 382 00:16:28,680 --> 00:16:32,160 Speaker 8: him and it was not considering me at all. But 383 00:16:32,840 --> 00:16:35,200 Speaker 8: forgett even that part. It's like there is the person 384 00:16:35,320 --> 00:16:38,720 Speaker 8: that only tries to make plans near them, so that 385 00:16:38,920 --> 00:16:40,600 Speaker 8: in theory, you know, you show up to dinner and 386 00:16:40,640 --> 00:16:43,200 Speaker 8: they're like, actually, let's just like give dinner and then 387 00:16:43,240 --> 00:16:44,960 Speaker 8: said come back to my apartment, and that's not what 388 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:45,360 Speaker 8: I'm into. 389 00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:48,880 Speaker 1: I'm okay somebody. So not only was it like, hey, 390 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:51,480 Speaker 1: you got to come to me wherever I am, but 391 00:16:51,680 --> 00:16:54,480 Speaker 1: also you're thinking it's close to my house, so it's like, hey, 392 00:16:54,520 --> 00:16:56,520 Speaker 1: maybe we can slip on in the c o at 393 00:16:56,560 --> 00:16:58,240 Speaker 1: my house. I can't believe it. My house is right 394 00:16:58,280 --> 00:17:00,760 Speaker 1: here exactly, that's crazy. I didn't. 395 00:17:01,960 --> 00:17:04,119 Speaker 8: Yeah, they fell into my home conveniently. 396 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:05,919 Speaker 7: That's what it felt like. 397 00:17:06,160 --> 00:17:07,960 Speaker 1: I'm not going to say I've never done this, Tiffany, 398 00:17:08,359 --> 00:17:13,040 Speaker 1: but I will say that like it, but but I 399 00:17:13,080 --> 00:17:15,639 Speaker 1: don't like this is hold on, I didn't do this. 400 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:17,840 Speaker 1: I didn't do this for sexual reason. So like like 401 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:20,680 Speaker 1: this week, for example, I had a date with somebody. 402 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:25,520 Speaker 1: This person got off work while I was in an appointment, okay, 403 00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:27,920 Speaker 1: and so she was off work and she was driving, 404 00:17:28,320 --> 00:17:30,280 Speaker 1: and so I was like, hey, if you want to 405 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:34,120 Speaker 1: meet at this time, then come near me because I'll 406 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:35,960 Speaker 1: be in my thing. And then when I'm out of 407 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:38,639 Speaker 1: my deal, then we'll meet, as opposed to me getting 408 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:40,760 Speaker 1: out of my thing, getting in my car driving across 409 00:17:40,760 --> 00:17:42,439 Speaker 1: town and then we don't wind up starting the date 410 00:17:42,480 --> 00:17:43,840 Speaker 1: for two hours. We did not go back to my 411 00:17:43,840 --> 00:17:46,399 Speaker 1: house by the way. But we talked about that. I 412 00:17:46,440 --> 00:17:47,920 Speaker 1: told her what I was doing. 413 00:17:48,920 --> 00:17:51,920 Speaker 8: Right, Well, A you were more communicative, which is probably helpful, 414 00:17:52,320 --> 00:17:54,880 Speaker 8: and you were saying, look, I want to spend more 415 00:17:54,920 --> 00:17:56,879 Speaker 8: time with you, and so this will give us actually 416 00:17:56,880 --> 00:17:57,320 Speaker 8: more time. 417 00:17:57,359 --> 00:17:57,960 Speaker 1: That's a very. 418 00:17:57,840 --> 00:18:01,200 Speaker 8: Different situation then, of all the time in the world. 419 00:18:01,440 --> 00:18:03,520 Speaker 8: Is the first date I can see if we get 420 00:18:03,520 --> 00:18:06,119 Speaker 8: to your area or even somewhere between us. But actually 421 00:18:06,160 --> 00:18:08,680 Speaker 8: I'm going to sist me and fist over and over 422 00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:12,399 Speaker 8: and over again to have a spot nearby were over 423 00:18:12,440 --> 00:18:13,040 Speaker 8: and over again. 424 00:18:13,200 --> 00:18:14,320 Speaker 2: I think that's a red flag. 425 00:18:14,400 --> 00:18:17,040 Speaker 6: Anytime a dude won't come to you, that's just my hotage. 426 00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:18,560 Speaker 1: And if you're not going to communicate it, I will 427 00:18:18,600 --> 00:18:20,720 Speaker 1: say I'm defending myself here. But I did say, hey, 428 00:18:20,720 --> 00:18:22,960 Speaker 1: next time I come to you wherever you want. Yeah, 429 00:18:23,480 --> 00:18:25,880 Speaker 1: but I laid that whole out. I didn't just say, 430 00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:28,280 Speaker 1: oh my god, I can't believe it. We're eating at a 431 00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:33,640 Speaker 1: hot dog stands right in front of my house. I'm 432 00:18:33,680 --> 00:18:37,520 Speaker 1: not wearing pants, you know. Let me get the kids. Yeah, yeah, 433 00:18:37,520 --> 00:18:41,639 Speaker 1: I didn't wear pants, but it's in a bunch, yeah, 434 00:18:41,920 --> 00:18:45,600 Speaker 1: in a box. Let me bring Daniel and Daniel pretty 435 00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:48,760 Speaker 1: inconsiderate dude, sounds like you were trying to, you know, 436 00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:50,879 Speaker 1: go for location here. You were trying to go for 437 00:18:51,320 --> 00:18:52,480 Speaker 1: proximity to the house. 438 00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:55,960 Speaker 7: I mean, this is instane first, so I didn't insist 439 00:18:56,080 --> 00:18:58,880 Speaker 7: on anything. But what is wrong with the girl come 440 00:18:58,960 --> 00:19:02,400 Speaker 7: into the guy? But it's twenty twenty three, We got 441 00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:05,680 Speaker 7: feminism now, you know, like what does the guy always 442 00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:06,600 Speaker 7: have to travel to her? 443 00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:08,320 Speaker 1: What? What is wrong? Like? 444 00:19:08,400 --> 00:19:11,600 Speaker 7: Hey, I know these places are good because they're right nearby. 445 00:19:11,880 --> 00:19:13,640 Speaker 1: Why don't you come check them out? What is wrong 446 00:19:13,680 --> 00:19:17,200 Speaker 1: with that? Yeah? 447 00:19:17,240 --> 00:19:20,480 Speaker 8: Exactly. First of all, let's not just like way of feminism, 448 00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:23,320 Speaker 8: why like to flaggering here? But it's also like they're 449 00:19:23,359 --> 00:19:24,280 Speaker 8: setting a precedent. 450 00:19:24,640 --> 00:19:26,240 Speaker 7: There's the gesture that counts. 451 00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:27,520 Speaker 1: This is the first date. 452 00:19:28,119 --> 00:19:30,400 Speaker 8: The least you could do is be like, hey, Tiffany, 453 00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:31,919 Speaker 8: what are you feeling? 454 00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:34,440 Speaker 1: What works just for you? Would you like to take 455 00:19:34,480 --> 00:19:35,159 Speaker 1: a spot in your me? 456 00:19:35,640 --> 00:19:37,520 Speaker 8: Would you like to cut like we want to slip 457 00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 8: the tweet us? That's actually feminism, FYI? 458 00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:42,040 Speaker 7: Do you want to like you know what. 459 00:19:42,160 --> 00:19:43,200 Speaker 1: Is best for you? 460 00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:46,919 Speaker 8: And instead of just like blaboring, you must come to me. 461 00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:50,160 Speaker 8: You must come to because all I hear is selfishness 462 00:19:50,200 --> 00:19:52,000 Speaker 8: of like me, me, me, and then as we kept 463 00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:54,200 Speaker 8: pushing it, it did feel like you at some point 464 00:19:54,240 --> 00:19:56,440 Speaker 8: we're probably like pull the rug out out from undereath 465 00:19:56,440 --> 00:19:58,399 Speaker 8: me and be like, actually come to my apartment. Like 466 00:19:58,440 --> 00:19:59,200 Speaker 8: it actually did. 467 00:19:59,119 --> 00:20:01,440 Speaker 1: Have that vibe. I appreciate Daniel, if you just straight 468 00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:03,359 Speaker 1: up said like, yeah, I wanted to be close to 469 00:20:03,400 --> 00:20:05,640 Speaker 1: my house so we could, you know, maybe slip back 470 00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:08,399 Speaker 1: into the house later into the crib, Like was that 471 00:20:08,440 --> 00:20:09,080 Speaker 1: your intent? 472 00:20:10,400 --> 00:20:12,959 Speaker 7: What is wrong with skipping dinner to hook up if 473 00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:20,160 Speaker 7: you're both feeling this, Oh, I know the restaurants here, 474 00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:21,120 Speaker 7: but my bed. 475 00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:26,240 Speaker 1: That was gonna work. There are. 476 00:20:27,040 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 7: Look she's telling me like a troope. I'm saying, we're 477 00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:33,200 Speaker 7: obviously both attracted to each other. We picked each other. 478 00:20:33,119 --> 00:20:33,680 Speaker 1: On the thing. 479 00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:36,120 Speaker 7: I'm saying, Hey, I know a good restaurant, why don't 480 00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:37,840 Speaker 7: you come here? Then if we were to meet and 481 00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:40,720 Speaker 7: she's like, hey, you're good looking, maybe we do something 482 00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:41,280 Speaker 7: else first. 483 00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:43,680 Speaker 1: I don't know about it. I mean, it's one thing 484 00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:45,480 Speaker 1: to take him to dinner and then hey, is this close. 485 00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:48,119 Speaker 1: Maybe that'll work for you, but like going for the 486 00:20:48,160 --> 00:20:50,800 Speaker 1: whole thing. But it's like, yeah, we're not eating at 487 00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:57,200 Speaker 1: that restaurant. We're reading at Shade Danielle, which is my bedroom. 488 00:20:57,480 --> 00:21:00,200 Speaker 1: Let me come on man. And by the way, wait, 489 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:01,840 Speaker 1: if it were that, if it was going to be 490 00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:05,359 Speaker 1: that transactional, I figure you would have had that conversation. 491 00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:07,560 Speaker 1: I had time and you would you would have just 492 00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:10,439 Speaker 1: skipped dinner all together, which that happens too. So I 493 00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:11,800 Speaker 1: don't I don't think you're that slick. 494 00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:14,159 Speaker 7: Okay, Look, I wasn't going to go up with like 495 00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:17,359 Speaker 7: a cartoon butterfly net and scoop her up and like 496 00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:20,760 Speaker 7: race back to my house. I figured we'd see what happened. 497 00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:23,640 Speaker 7: This girl is like calling me a trope, calling me inconsiderate. 498 00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 7: All I did was say, hey, here are a few 499 00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:28,800 Speaker 7: good places by me. So it sounds like I guess 500 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:29,960 Speaker 7: we're just not a manage. 501 00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:32,120 Speaker 1: Well and in fairness, Tiffany, And I'm not defending him, 502 00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:35,240 Speaker 1: but I guess you probably could have said, hey, I'm 503 00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 1: not I know what you're doing. I'm not gonna do that, 504 00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:39,919 Speaker 1: like either come to me or we made in the middle. 505 00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:44,560 Speaker 8: But looks like he clearly Look he literally just admitted, 506 00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:46,520 Speaker 8: but that is exactly what he was playing. So you 507 00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:49,000 Speaker 8: know how I trusted my son my son knew that 508 00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:50,760 Speaker 8: he was that type of curson, Like, why would I 509 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:53,160 Speaker 8: waste my energy trying to convince somebody to not. 510 00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:57,880 Speaker 1: I get that. I get that. So look, Tiffany, I don't. 511 00:21:58,119 --> 00:22:00,600 Speaker 1: I mean i'll ask, but no, no eight with this guy, 512 00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:03,879 Speaker 1: We'll pay for it. I mean, no, thank you, Okay, 513 00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:07,280 Speaker 1: not gonna happen. Daniel, I don't know. It didn't work out. 514 00:22:08,040 --> 00:22:13,840 Speaker 1: I mean it wasn't that smooth, but hey, I guess it. 515 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:16,840 Speaker 7: I I'm glad it didn't work. This girl has a 516 00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:30,280 Speaker 7: major attitude. 517 00:22:19,640 --> 00:22:26,240 Speaker 1: Or all right, like not a match. Guys, I appreciate 518 00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:27,639 Speaker 1: your time. Best of luck to both of you.