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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Good Mon's Bad Choices.

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Speaker 2: I'm Erica and I'm Nila, and it's Wednesday, Happy Wednesday,

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Speaker 2: Happy hot Day.

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Speaker 1: It's still burning hot in the valley. It's it's actually hell.

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Speaker 3: It's like we actually I don't know how many of

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Speaker 3: our listeners live in southern California and are familiar with

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Speaker 3: San Fernando Valley, but it's hot as.

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Speaker 1: Fuck, and the devil just happens to live right next

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Speaker 1: door to Erica's very real. It's hot. Wait what is

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Speaker 1: my what? My baby Dady used to say, Oh wait, maybe.

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Speaker 3: It's as cold as penguin pussy, not hot as panga

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Speaker 3: pussy pain, penguin pussy pay, as cold as pinions, So

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Speaker 3: you gotta think of a better about it.

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Speaker 1: As hot as oh man, that's scared me. Hot as devil.

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Speaker 1: How the devil's himself, the Devil's.

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Speaker 4: Dick, the level of focus it requires to a HD bitches.

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Speaker 1: It's very hot.

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Speaker 3: My dog is very blond, and my nerves are on low,

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Speaker 3: very short.

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Speaker 1: Had a long week, and yeah, I'm ready for next year.

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Speaker 1: I know it's like what are you wearing?

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Speaker 3: You know what? We keep talking about next year? And

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Speaker 3: like I'm pretty sure it's not gonna be much different.

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Speaker 3: Like I don't want to rain on anyone's parade. But

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Speaker 3: I'm not saying it's gonna be bad. I'm just saying,

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Speaker 3: like December thirty first, the ball's gonna drop, and it

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Speaker 3: doesn't mean like yeah, like like.

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Speaker 1: The ship is doesn't mean tomorrow it's gonna be over.

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Speaker 1: So I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I'm ready for another vacation, honestly, Like that's what I

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Speaker 1: You do, I don't know what you're talking about.

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Speaker 1: I really felt like a mediator. Anyway, I love those bitches,

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Speaker 1: Help it's knows a little bit. Oh my god, I

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Speaker 1: hold on you guys. I ordered food and now they're

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Speaker 1: calling me.

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Speaker 4: Okay, sorry, that was very important because if I don't

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Speaker 4: eat soon, I'm gonna eat Erica's head off. I always

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Speaker 4: forget to eat and then I'm acting psycho and I'm like,

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Speaker 4: why am I so angry?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: I haven't eaten. That must be a cancer thing. It's

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Speaker 4: Okay, this is what works not gonna happen now that

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Speaker 4: you're dating a cancer man.

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Speaker 1: You're not gonna just.

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Speaker 4: Groo's happen in Erica now thinks she's like mother cancers.

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Speaker 1: She knows everything about the cancers. My guest friends of cancer,

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Speaker 1: my boyfriends of cancer, and you all do this. Y'all

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Speaker 1: are all fucking crazy whatever. Y'all are so particular about

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Speaker 1: weird shit. And also I am not particular about weird shit.

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Speaker 1: I'm actually the least particular person that I know. Is

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Speaker 1: that a hickey on your neck?

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Speaker 3: Is that?

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Speaker 1: I'm not kid? I don't even know you could get

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Speaker 1: pickies girl.

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Speaker 3: I am kicky easy whoa, Yeah, you're like fifteen again.

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Speaker 1: We're right, We're on a very ghetto episode.

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Speaker 3: I'm just trying to sage the room.

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Speaker 1: I can answer it. It's a FaceTime from fucking New York.

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Speaker 1: I don't know who that is. Okay, we're back after

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Speaker 1: four hundred interactions. Oh yes, I do get hickey. And

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Speaker 1: I got a hickey. I feel like sometimes my boyfriend's

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Speaker 1: doing it to kiss.

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Speaker 3: On me.

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Speaker 1: On you. It's a term you don't know me, like

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Speaker 1: like help dogs mark their territory. I don't I don't

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Speaker 1: know if I just you don't like that. I don't

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Speaker 1: like that term. Okay, well that's what it's that's what

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Speaker 1: it stands for me. I don't know you wanted to

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Speaker 1: piss on you anyway, so like in you real life,

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Speaker 1: So that's like, oh my god, speaking and pasting on people.

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Speaker 4: I asked him, like, have they repeat on him? Anyone

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Speaker 4: has the ever repeat on you? He's like, not on purpose.

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Speaker 4: Maybe the shower some We're in the shower and I'm

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Speaker 4: like he's He's like, scoop out and I had to peet.

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Speaker 1: I was like, when to try. Wait, did I pian

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Speaker 1: have a p on me? Oh? I said I had

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Speaker 5: No, no, it didn't turn me on either. That's like

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Speaker 5: how it was nice, Like it's almost as warm as

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Speaker 5: the shower. It's like, well, guys, let me cover that. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: that was basically how it went. I was like, are

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I've you know, recently discovered that I've just

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Speaker 3: been peeing all over the place.

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Speaker 1: But does it smell like pee? Does it smell like Karen?

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Speaker 3: You know sometimes sometimes I would say yes, but it's

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Speaker 1: But yeah, anyway, we've.

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Speaker 4: Got onto this topic of peace and how oh because

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Speaker 4: I said he hated me, he's marking his territory.

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Speaker 1: Also, he kind of I peed on him a little

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Speaker 1: bit in the shower. Didn't didn't really flow anybody's boat.

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Speaker 1: How's your relationship going on over there?

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Speaker 4: How is everything? I haven't seen you in three days.

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Speaker 4: I feel I haven't seen you in a week. What's

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Speaker 4: going on over there? It's happening, I mean, life changes.

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Speaker 4: Everything's good, you know.

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Speaker 3: I think, when how long have you been dating? Now

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Speaker 3: it's been April.

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Speaker 1: Can we can we can we pount the same?

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Speaker 3: Wait at the end of April, so may June to

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Speaker 3: lie It'll be four months at the end of this month,

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Speaker 3: so mine is like five months. Yeah, so everything's going well.

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Speaker 3: I think that I've just realized that.

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Speaker 1: I'm not girlfriend of the year. I am sure. It's

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Speaker 1: not that I'm not girlfriend of the year.

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Speaker 3: It's just like I think that I'm learning. I'm learning

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Speaker 3: someone totally new, totally different than you know, my previous relationships.

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Speaker 3: My other relationship needed attentiveness in a different way, and uh,

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Speaker 3: and it was in it was in more of an

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Speaker 3: unhealthy way. And in this relationship, like he gives me

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Speaker 3: so much attention and he he's so great, Like he

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Speaker 3: got some news that I wasn't ready to really discuss

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Speaker 3: to leave because I knew I couldn't.

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Speaker 1: Fake it and even if I did fake it, he

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Speaker 3: And that's scary, Like that's kind of scary to be

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Speaker 3: it's scary, but also like it's kind of I asked

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Speaker 3: for it because in my previous relationship, like I'd be like, hello,

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Speaker 3: can't you tell I'm fucking unhappy?

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Speaker 1: Can't you tell like something's wrong.

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Speaker 3: You're not gonna ask me, You're just gonna like let

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Speaker 3: it be like this, You're gonna just let You're just

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Speaker 3: not gonna ask me what's up. Cool, So my nig

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Speaker 3: now will not only ask me what's up, but like

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Speaker 3: I'm not feeling well, he'll like, you know, send a

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Speaker 3: Good to have, like a someone who doesn't know you,

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Speaker 4: I got into car accident and I was trying to

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Speaker 1: We asked you guys to.

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Speaker 3: Submit your best breakup stories, and you guys delivered as usual.

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Speaker 3: So this week we wanna share your guys' stories, and

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Speaker 3: one of ours. I think I have actually a pretty funny, well,

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Speaker 1: Share our breakup stories, our heartaches and triumphs.

439
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Speaker 4: Okay, this one, so this didn't happen to me, but

440
00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:36,359
Speaker 4: it was my brother who did this to one of

441
00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:40,200
Speaker 4: his baby mamas. The fact that this begins with one

442
00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:42,919
Speaker 4: of his baby mamas. No, I'm just gonna hear, mind you.

443
00:22:43,040 --> 00:22:45,840
Speaker 4: I think my brother has like fifteen children. Oh not kidding,

444
00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:49,520
Speaker 4: many of them the same age. Oh no, don't share

445
00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:55,120
Speaker 4: that please. Anyways, he was living with a woman who

446
00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:57,600
Speaker 4: had just had this baby. I think he just wasn't

447
00:22:57,680 --> 00:23:00,320
Speaker 4: feeling her, so he told the woman that he had

448
00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:01,840
Speaker 4: to leave the place he was running.

449
00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:06,800
Speaker 1: He packed the entire place up. She had literally just

450
00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:07,720
Speaker 1: given birth.

451
00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:10,600
Speaker 4: He put her in an extended living hotel and moved

452
00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:13,960
Speaker 4: all his stuff into storage. As soon as he got

453
00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:17,640
Speaker 4: her settled into the extended stay with their newborn infant,

454
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:21,080
Speaker 4: he moved all of his stuff right back into the

455
00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 4: place he was renting.

456
00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:25,320
Speaker 1: He did all that work just to get her out.

457
00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:28,760
Speaker 4: I've never realized the extent mangoes not to not be

458
00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:29,959
Speaker 4: honest with women.

459
00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:34,479
Speaker 1: And that was my own flesh and blood. Damn mo.

460
00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:37,200
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm not gonna lie. Okay, I've never done anything

461
00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:39,800
Speaker 3: bad drastic. But have you not, like when a nigga

462
00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:42,120
Speaker 3: will not leave your house, pact like you have to leave,

463
00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:43,920
Speaker 3: and then actually leave and then come back.

464
00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:47,240
Speaker 4: I'll text you, yeah for sure, if anyone to get

465
00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:48,760
Speaker 4: the hint if you had, if you didn't know, this

466
00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:50,840
Speaker 4: was what you do if someone won't leave your house,

467
00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:52,440
Speaker 4: You pretend like you have somewhere to go, drop around

468
00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:53,480
Speaker 4: the block, pull back up.

469
00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:58,600
Speaker 3: But damn your own baby. But my whole thing is

470
00:23:58,680 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 3: you born. I don't want to move when I have

471
00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:03,960
Speaker 3: to move. That's a lot like you packed up all

472
00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:09,720
Speaker 3: your shit in your apartment and moved my nigga. How

473
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:13,600
Speaker 3: that is. I hope you got movers because that shit

474
00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:17,240
Speaker 3: is a lot of stress. Just I mean, there'd be

475
00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:20,840
Speaker 3: no other way for you to get her to leave,

476
00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:23,640
Speaker 3: because I would be like, I just had your baby,

477
00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:25,080
Speaker 3: I'm not going anywhere.

478
00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:25,960
Speaker 1: Why wouldn't you.

479
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:28,640
Speaker 4: Just go somewhere for the extended say like, why don't

480
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:29,479
Speaker 4: you get the fuck up?

481
00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:32,280
Speaker 1: If you just say? God, that was like you got

482
00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:33,200
Speaker 1: to move all your shit.

483
00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:37,359
Speaker 4: I mean, honestly, that just proves in all reality, like

484
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:42,359
Speaker 4: fuck boys genuinely do just exist. You had no reason

485
00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 4: to go to that that was That's ridiculous, And then

486
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:46,560
Speaker 4: the other information is just too much.

487
00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:47,920
Speaker 3: God.

488
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:51,560
Speaker 1: I wonder if she ever found out, like the baby mom.

489
00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:54,280
Speaker 4: She had to know, because who would even drive back

490
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:56,200
Speaker 4: over there to see because you would just assume.

491
00:24:56,760 --> 00:24:59,840
Speaker 1: But like where like you have a you share a child,

492
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:02,880
Speaker 1: never gonna see where this nigga is going or lives

493
00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:04,560
Speaker 1: like I don't know.

494
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:11,280
Speaker 3: That's that's that's fucked up, guys. Okay, so here's the

495
00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:14,960
Speaker 3: next one, Hi, ladies. I have an epic breakup story

496
00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:15,280
Speaker 3: to share.

497
00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:17,879
Speaker 1: I was in a relationship with someone for almost seven years.

498
00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:20,679
Speaker 3: We met in college, stayed together after he graduated, and

499
00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:23,679
Speaker 3: moved in together. At some point during our relationship, I

500
00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:26,199
Speaker 3: since my partner was not being faithful. I felt the

501
00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:27,720
Speaker 3: need to go through his phone and found out he

502
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:30,240
Speaker 3: was still in contact with his ex. I confronted him

503
00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:32,520
Speaker 3: and he denied it. He confessed he entertained her, but

504
00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:36,879
Speaker 3: nothing happened. Niggas, oh said, Marriott got the fuck up anyway,

505
00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:40,720
Speaker 3: For all the men that actually like that is true,

506
00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:42,800
Speaker 3: All your niggas have fucked it up for you.

507
00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:44,600
Speaker 1: I will never believe in nigga that says that.

508
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:48,520
Speaker 3: Anyway, we continued our relationship even though in my heart

509
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:49,440
Speaker 3: I knew he had cheated.

510
00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:50,760
Speaker 1: I feel you, girl.

511
00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:52,840
Speaker 3: I started a new job and I was feeling a

512
00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:55,159
Speaker 3: little low about myself. I lost my self esteem, I

513
00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:57,920
Speaker 3: lost my I had lost some self esteem. At my

514
00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:01,000
Speaker 3: new job, I surprisingly had a lot of my bet

515
00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:04,359
Speaker 3: a girl. I found myself giving in and having sexual

516
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 3: relationships with them because they were making me feel really

517
00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:09,520
Speaker 3: good about myself, something I was not getting from my partner.

518
00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:12,440
Speaker 3: I noticed I never really felt guilty about cheating on him.

519
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:15,159
Speaker 3: At this job, I met a really nice guy. He

520
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:17,399
Speaker 3: was hard working, and that was a turn on. I

521
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:19,359
Speaker 3: didn't want to make him a fling like the other guys,

522
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:21,520
Speaker 3: and I obviously didn't want to cheat once again on

523
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:24,000
Speaker 3: my partner. One night, as we were going to sleep,

524
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 3: I had a very vivid dream. I dreamt me and

525
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 3: my partner were getting married, but I didn't have a

526
00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:30,280
Speaker 3: wedding dress and he didn't have a ring.

527
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:34,480
Speaker 1: I was so upset and confused. I had another dream.

528
00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:36,879
Speaker 3: Same night where I was swimming and noticed there was

529
00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:39,800
Speaker 3: a drowning baby. I was trying to swim down to

530
00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:42,280
Speaker 3: save them and I couldn't. Those dreams, to me, were

531
00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 3: messages that I needed to get out of my very

532
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:47,560
Speaker 3: comfortable relationship. I woke up and he asked me what

533
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:50,240
Speaker 3: our plan should be for Valentine's Day. I said, I

534
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:51,040
Speaker 3: don't want to spend it.

535
00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:51,639
Speaker 1: With you anymore.

536
00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:54,639
Speaker 3: He was so shocked, but we both knew it was

537
00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:58,440
Speaker 3: over our Valentine's On Valentine's Day, I took my work

538
00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:00,800
Speaker 3: crush to balance to a Valentine Times Day concert in

539
00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:03,320
Speaker 3: San Francisco with Melanie Fiona at the mezzanine.

540
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:04,640
Speaker 1: Shout out to Melanie.

541
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:09,080
Speaker 3: Her songs about cheating hit me so hard. I ended

542
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:11,920
Speaker 3: up getting drunk so romantic, I know, and me and

543
00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:14,960
Speaker 3: my work crush ended up stopping in a parking lot.

544
00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:16,119
Speaker 1: Coming home and getting it on.

545
00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:18,920
Speaker 3: Eight weeks later, I'm pregnant with a man I don't

546
00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:21,800
Speaker 3: really know, after getting out of a seven year relationship.

547
00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:25,160
Speaker 1: We have three kids and are still together to this day.

548
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:27,959
Speaker 3: My ex later emailed me to confess that he did

549
00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:29,880
Speaker 3: cheat on me and that he knew I had also

550
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 3: cheated on him. We made peace and said our goodbyes

551
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 3: for good. That is my breakup story that ended up

552
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:37,920
Speaker 3: and happily ever after.

553
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 1: Damn wait, I want to be clear.

554
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 4: She broke up my boyfriend aftere Melanie Fiona concert.

555
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 1: So she decided after this dream that she had her post.

556
00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:50,959
Speaker 3: So basically the dream was that she was they were

557
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 3: getting married, but she had no wedding dress and she

558
00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:54,840
Speaker 3: had no wedding ring. And then she had another dream

559
00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:57,080
Speaker 3: that same night where there was a drowning baby and

560
00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:59,000
Speaker 3: like she couldn't was it that she couldn't save him

561
00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:02,040
Speaker 3: or something she couldn't get to him, and like basically

562
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:03,840
Speaker 3: she took it as a sign that she needed to

563
00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 3: end it. She woke up, he was like, are you

564
00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 3: gonna Are we gonna send balance? What are we going

565
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:08,959
Speaker 3: to do for Valentine's Day? She's like, We're not doing

566
00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:11,879
Speaker 3: Valentine's Day. And instead she spent her Valentine's Day with

567
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:14,359
Speaker 3: her work buddy who she was feeling and they got

568
00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:17,600
Speaker 3: pregnant that night and she didn't even.

569
00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 1: Really know him.

570
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:21,280
Speaker 3: But you know, they have three kids now and are

571
00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:24,960
Speaker 3: still married and so it ended up working out. And

572
00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:27,200
Speaker 3: then the nigga email ran said, yep, I did cheat

573
00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:27,399
Speaker 3: on you.

574
00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:31,640
Speaker 1: Well, ladies, go with your gun. Yeah, go with your gun. Yeah,

575
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:34,800
Speaker 1: that's a true story of you know, some don't ignore

576
00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:35,400
Speaker 1: the signs.

577
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 3: If you're having dreams about drowning babies and naked ringless husband's,

578
00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:43,720
Speaker 3: specifically ringless husbands.

579
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:46,720
Speaker 1: It's probably not going to work out.

580
00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:50,920
Speaker 4: The nigga's a hud, You're not a dream decipher over.

581
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:53,320
Speaker 3: I should be could ride and I'd be like bitch

582
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:58,040
Speaker 3: in this dream and nigga was homing and you you

583
00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:00,800
Speaker 3: were falling and said stop wait what happened.

584
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:04,080
Speaker 1: You saw an eagle fly over. Yet for sure the

585
00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 1: nigga was cheating. Oh, it's niggas cheating.

586
00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 4: Answer is it's a nigga's always the answer, no matter

587
00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 4: what the dream is, Niggas are cheating.

588
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:15,880
Speaker 1: Pick up story number three.

589
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 4: So I dated this guy who was already an ex

590
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:24,400
Speaker 4: from high school and college years after college. Wait started

591
00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 4: an X from high school and college years after college.

592
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:29,280
Speaker 4: He had his own place on the South side of Atlanta,

593
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 4: and I had then, and I had mine in the city.

594
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:32,320
Speaker 1: So here we come.

595
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:35,720
Speaker 4: So here he come, talking good game about how he

596
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:38,680
Speaker 4: wants to be together and live together and pay rent,

597
00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:40,959
Speaker 4: and all I have to do is worry about the bills.

598
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 1: Lies.

599
00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:45,280
Speaker 4: This nigga moves in and when I asked him for

600
00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:47,680
Speaker 4: the rent money, he tells me he just moved and

601
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:49,560
Speaker 4: doesn't feel like he should have to pay the rent

602
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:54,400
Speaker 4: the first month. Nigga, what okay? So he ends up

603
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:56,600
Speaker 4: paying the rent late when I tell you, he moved

604
00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:57,960
Speaker 4: in on the first of June and we.

605
00:29:58,040 --> 00:29:59,640
Speaker 1: Were broken up by the thirtieth.

606
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:03,680
Speaker 4: Things that led us to breaking up were he expected

607
00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 4: me to drop it, drop him off to work on

608
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:10,000
Speaker 4: the South Side, and pick him up every day.

609
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 1: Jamie Lyn knows that ain't no right around the corner situation.

610
00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:17,280
Speaker 1: It's really not. And I was writing a hooptie at

611
00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:17,600
Speaker 1: the time.

612
00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 4: Then he kept dismantling my ancestor altar, which is which

613
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 4: is a big no no oh hell no yeah, talking

614
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:27,920
Speaker 4: about I'm praying to dead people without having any education,

615
00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 4: and refusing to read literature.

616
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 1: I gave him day after day, niggas don't read.

617
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:40,720
Speaker 4: Some niggas read. Niggas don't men reading. He was a

618
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:45,320
Speaker 4: drink Wayne. He wasn't Jyrhovah's witness, but wasn't witness and shit.

619
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:48,800
Speaker 4: So he broke up and it takes him a full

620
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 4: thirty days to move out. He takes only some of

621
00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:54,240
Speaker 4: his things, leaving his bed, which I totally fucked.

622
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:55,320
Speaker 1: True True.

623
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:58,440
Speaker 4: Boo On comes back three weeks later, and when I

624
00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:00,239
Speaker 4: told him he would have to wait until I got

625
00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:02,240
Speaker 4: off of work that night to get the remainder of

626
00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:05,200
Speaker 4: his things, he proceeded to break into my apartment and

627
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:08,720
Speaker 4: take his things and most of mine. Tossed all of

628
00:31:08,840 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 4: my books on the floor, obviously not read, realizing the

629
00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:14,040
Speaker 4: work of the books over the ikea bookshelf, took my

630
00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 4: guitar my radio and are things of personal value. So

631
00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:22,160
Speaker 4: I call this man who doesn't pick up, and tell

632
00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 4: him I'm going to call nine on one on his

633
00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:27,920
Speaker 4: ass and that's currently that he's currently on probation if

634
00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:30,520
Speaker 4: he doesn't return my things. I wake up two days

635
00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:33,680
Speaker 4: later and open and upon leaving my apartment for work,

636
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:40,160
Speaker 4: all of my things. I wait, wait, fucking you keep

637
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:43,600
Speaker 4: writing shit down next to me. Okay, I tell hi,

638
00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:45,000
Speaker 4: I'm going to call nine on one on his ass

639
00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:47,960
Speaker 4: that's currently on probation if he doesn't return my things.

640
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:50,960
Speaker 4: I wake up two days later, and upon leaving my

641
00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:53,719
Speaker 4: apartment for work, all of my things, with the exception

642
00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:56,960
Speaker 4: of my radio, was in front of my apartment. Nevertheless,

643
00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:59,240
Speaker 4: I put his ass on ice and ask spirit to

644
00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:01,840
Speaker 4: never ever ever ever.

645
00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 1: See him again.

646
00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:08,040
Speaker 4: And I haven't the end intros maya case of the X.

647
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:24,080
Speaker 4: You thought she'd be coming in with the party, right, saying.

648
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:25,800
Speaker 3: Not in my head?

649
00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:29,480
Speaker 1: That was that was a good one.

650
00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:32,680
Speaker 4: Wait, so she put his sh out No, he stole

651
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:34,920
Speaker 4: her ship. She called him and said, Niga, you don't

652
00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:37,800
Speaker 4: bring my ship back. You're on probation. I'm calling the police.

653
00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 4: And he brought it, but not the radio because niggas

654
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:42,640
Speaker 4: ain't sh the radio.

655
00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:53,200
Speaker 1: But like who damn, oh.

656
00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:59,120
Speaker 4: My goodness, damn sure, it's just any nigga that steals

657
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 4: breaks and in her steals.

658
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:02,600
Speaker 6: Oh my god.

659
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:07,480
Speaker 1: Okay, I kind of just remembered one. Okay, oh my god.

660
00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:12,160
Speaker 1: This is this is scary. It's a story. It is

661
00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:15,160
Speaker 1: kind of I guess. Okay, I don't know this will

662
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 1: qualify as a breakup story. This is like a stalker story. Okay.

663
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:26,160
Speaker 4: So I broke up with my ex and made him

664
00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:29,720
Speaker 4: move out obviously, and like maybe we were still move out,

665
00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 4: but like dabbling, going back and forth whatever, but obviously

666
00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:37,720
Speaker 4: not together. So just like many I must have done

667
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:41,360
Speaker 4: after something intense, you just do weird shit. You just

668
00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:45,760
Speaker 4: fucking you just try and rebounding, rebounding. Has this nigga

669
00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 4: at my house? I'm pretty sure I just like found

670
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:54,160
Speaker 4: him from like junior high in a DM weird ass guy.

671
00:33:54,320 --> 00:33:57,880
Speaker 1: I'm like, nothing's weirder than being alone.

672
00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:06,520
Speaker 4: By and we're chilling drinking, and like I'm already really

673
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:09,960
Speaker 4: paranoid because this person was already hyper stalking me on

674
00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:13,320
Speaker 4: a regular basis in the relationship. So like after relationship,

675
00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:16,520
Speaker 4: he would like call me hundreds of times, sex hundred times.

676
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:19,879
Speaker 4: And I lived in a two story building, and I thought,

677
00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:23,719
Speaker 4: for sure, you know, every little noise I heard, I thought,

678
00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:24,799
Speaker 4: you know, he was at the door.

679
00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 1: I was always at the.

680
00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 4: Window, closing blinds, turning off lights, clocking doors. Anyway, we're

681
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:33,920
Speaker 4: sitting on the bed and smoking. And so the way

682
00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:36,120
Speaker 4: my apartment is set up, I'm on the second floor.

683
00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:39,239
Speaker 4: There's not even anyone belieth me. There's just a gate

684
00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:39,800
Speaker 4: or something.

685
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:41,839
Speaker 1: And I just hear the gate.

686
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:44,719
Speaker 4: I hear it, and something tells me this is this

687
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:49,320
Speaker 4: can't be good. And you literally there's no You have

688
00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:51,319
Speaker 4: to scale a wall. You have to be Spider Man

689
00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 4: to get to this window. And this grown ass man

690
00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:58,239
Speaker 4: somehow Spider Man to the second floor. And I heard

691
00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:00,640
Speaker 4: the gate. He must have climbed on the gate. So

692
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:03,880
Speaker 4: I tell this other nigga get on the floor. So

693
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:06,600
Speaker 4: we get on the floor and I start crawling to

694
00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:07,439
Speaker 4: the guest room.

695
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 1: So we crawled to the guest room because I just

696
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:13,080
Speaker 1: got scared because there's a window in my bedroom, not

697
00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:16,640
Speaker 1: thinking what's gonna happen if he climbs through your window?

698
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 1: Bitch me. And this nigga was a random nigger in

699
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 1: the other room, and I hear the window open, and

700
00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:28,800
Speaker 1: I must be froze. I'm like, what the fuck is

701
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 1: about to happen? So the nigga just gets up walks

702
00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:35,359
Speaker 1: to the other room. I just stuck. I was just stuck.

703
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:37,840
Speaker 1: Walks in the other room, open to the shit, you know.

704
00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:38,479
Speaker 4: He just opened.

705
00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:42,239
Speaker 1: He's like, what's she doing, my nigga? That's all you're here? Yeah,

706
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:44,880
Speaker 1: I was saying, man, what she doing my nigga? This

707
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:48,520
Speaker 1: is crazy. You look crazy right now.

708
00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:50,600
Speaker 4: He's like, this is my house. He's like, but you're

709
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:56,200
Speaker 4: at the wind you in the window. I shook it

710
00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:58,800
Speaker 4: in the other room, nigga, I just tart. The niggera

711
00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:02,319
Speaker 4: like fall down. He closed the window and then, oh

712
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:07,400
Speaker 4: my god, I was such I was such so scared

713
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:09,680
Speaker 4: that the next day.

714
00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:12,799
Speaker 1: I text him. First, I called my friend.

715
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:14,480
Speaker 4: I was like, act like you were at my house

716
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:17,640
Speaker 4: last night, just in case, blah blah blah ass.

717
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:18,560
Speaker 1: I called him.

718
00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:21,919
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh my god, please tell me you didn't

719
00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:23,880
Speaker 4: climb up the window and try and break in the

720
00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:27,840
Speaker 4: house last night. Because I gave Staycy my key and

721
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:30,680
Speaker 4: she took she took on her niggas there and she

722
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:32,880
Speaker 4: they told me that someone climbed in the window.

723
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:36,400
Speaker 1: You made him feel so did you believe that?

724
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:39,560
Speaker 3: I don't know, kinda, but that was you know what,

725
00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:42,320
Speaker 3: I'm a queen of a like making you look stupid

726
00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:46,080
Speaker 3: because I yeah, because I fucked up bag my cheating

727
00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:47,560
Speaker 3: dings after we said.

728
00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:49,560
Speaker 1: All this shit about niggas, niggas, niggas, weird niggas.

729
00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:49,920
Speaker 4: Yeah.

730
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 1: So okay, that was my one of my not so

731
00:36:57,760 --> 00:36:59,360
Speaker 1: strong points of my breakup stories.

732
00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:03,880
Speaker 3: Okay, here is another breakup submission. So I broke up

733
00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:06,280
Speaker 3: with my first boyfriend because I wanted to date other people.

734
00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:09,360
Speaker 3: He also kind of cheated by asking my friend for sex,

735
00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:15,520
Speaker 3: which was convenient. That's definitely cheating, right, Yea, It is

736
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:17,160
Speaker 3: that cheating or is that just your fucked up Is

737
00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:18,399
Speaker 3: it cheating the actual act?

738
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:22,160
Speaker 1: Or is that cheating? It is cheating because had she

739
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:24,640
Speaker 1: said yes, you would have fucked her. Right.

740
00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:29,000
Speaker 3: I just want to be clear, crystal clear, guys. But

741
00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:30,719
Speaker 3: then I realized, if I'm going to go out into

742
00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:33,000
Speaker 3: the world of wolves, I didn't want to go a virgin.

743
00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 3: So I went back, gave him my virginity, and then

744
00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:36,959
Speaker 3: broke up with him again.

745
00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:40,200
Speaker 1: It was kind of like breaking myself open for the

746
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:44,799
Speaker 1: world cracked the egg cock yourself. Disclaimer.

747
00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:47,200
Speaker 3: This method of breakup may lead him on, make your

748
00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:51,320
Speaker 3: ex think you're getting back together because entanglements expression is advised.

749
00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:55,560
Speaker 1: So basically, if she was like, I want to break I.

750
00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:57,640
Speaker 3: Want to break my virginity or lose my virginity with

751
00:37:57,719 --> 00:38:01,319
Speaker 3: someone I know and trust, and then done and didn't

752
00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:03,080
Speaker 3: move on, this kind.

753
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 1: Of leads me to my breakup story. Except I wasn't

754
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:11,879
Speaker 1: the virgin. Oh my god. I remember I was dating

755
00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:12,600
Speaker 1: this guy and.

756
00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 3: He was just he was so sweet, and I was

757
00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:19,440
Speaker 3: in I was in high school and he was older

758
00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 3: than me, and so you know, when you're in high

759
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:24,160
Speaker 3: school you're dating someone older, you think like, I don't know,

760
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:26,680
Speaker 3: you're doing something or some shit. But he was still

761
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 3: a virgin, and I don't know, it just wasn't we

762
00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:34,560
Speaker 3: just he just was a little more behind than I was.

763
00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:39,920
Speaker 3: I just I wasn't feeling the vibes. And but I

764
00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:44,239
Speaker 3: had never taken anyone's virginity and that was kind of

765
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:48,240
Speaker 3: on my bucket list, and so I took his virginity.

766
00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:50,719
Speaker 3: It was at your bucket list. It takes someone's virgin nice,

767
00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:52,880
Speaker 3: and you know what, at the time, like I had

768
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:55,719
Speaker 3: lost my virginity in high school as well to like

769
00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:57,960
Speaker 3: this guy that I was in love with forever. Of course,

770
00:38:58,040 --> 00:38:59,880
Speaker 3: you know, if you lose your virginity someone, it's like,

771
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:02,600
Speaker 3: God's the end of the world if they you just

772
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:04,960
Speaker 3: aren't with you and you're not gonna be together. But

773
00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:08,160
Speaker 3: he was such an asshole, and I was like he

774
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:10,400
Speaker 3: just it was like he took my virginity and just.

775
00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:12,399
Speaker 1: Like abandoned me. And I was like, fuck this, I'm

776
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:14,239
Speaker 1: gonna take someone's virginity. I'm gonna take a man, I'm

777
00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:17,000
Speaker 1: gonna take a niggas virginity. So I did that.

778
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:18,600
Speaker 3: I was like, you know what, I'm gonna take your

779
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 3: virginity and I'm gonna bring it up with you, but

780
00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:22,440
Speaker 3: I'm gonna do you a favor because you he wanted

781
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:25,520
Speaker 3: to lose his virginity, like he was like really was

782
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:27,800
Speaker 3: like ready to lose it, and I was like, you

783
00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:29,560
Speaker 3: know what, I'm gonna give him the best sex that

784
00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:32,240
Speaker 3: he's ever had, you know, like the best seventeen year old.

785
00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:36,120
Speaker 1: Sex I could maybe like actually it was probably sixteen six,

786
00:39:36,239 --> 00:39:39,600
Speaker 1: maybe fifteen, Oh God Jesus Christ, fifteen year old sex.

787
00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:42,120
Speaker 3: I give you the best fifteen year old sex that

788
00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:43,799
Speaker 3: you ever fucking had.

789
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:46,880
Speaker 1: You're gonna thank me later. I should hit him up.

790
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:48,759
Speaker 1: I still have. I have his instagram. I'm gonna ask him.

791
00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, change your life right cracked, you open like

792
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:55,320
Speaker 1: a little clamp as you do as you tend to do,

793
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:56,080
Speaker 1: as you know.

794
00:39:56,239 --> 00:39:58,880
Speaker 4: If you've if you've listened to our ex episode, Eric

795
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:01,160
Speaker 4: attends to op people have like a clam.

796
00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:04,440
Speaker 1: I need to go back and we listen to that episode.

797
00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:05,800
Speaker 1: I know, I think I do too. We did this

798
00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:09,880
Speaker 1: episode with where we interviewed our ex exes and it

799
00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:13,000
Speaker 1: was it was interesting. It was very interesting. One of

800
00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:15,640
Speaker 1: Jamila's exes in her clearly don't like each other. I

801
00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:18,439
Speaker 1: was like, you guys don't like each other, like at all. Still,

802
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:21,239
Speaker 1: you were like, shut up, you're lying. You loved me?

803
00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:23,080
Speaker 1: She did she still does.

804
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:29,279
Speaker 4: I feel like we give you part two. I'm like,

805
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:33,000
Speaker 4: how many more exes can I dig up? Okay, okay,

806
00:40:33,120 --> 00:40:37,360
Speaker 4: so there's another one. But this one I asked my.

807
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:39,120
Speaker 1: I asked in venture Bay.

808
00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:42,320
Speaker 4: I was like, what's he asked me, what's the craziest

809
00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:46,840
Speaker 4: shit you've ever done? And I had to really think, uh, nothing,

810
00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:48,680
Speaker 4: because I.

811
00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:49,600
Speaker 1: Don't love these hoes.

812
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:53,440
Speaker 4: No, but honestly, I really don't do crazy shit like that.

813
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:55,840
Speaker 4: I'm like way more logical. I don't know, I just

814
00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:56,880
Speaker 4: do you not?

815
00:40:57,160 --> 00:41:00,120
Speaker 1: You don't just like lie to people that come to

816
00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:04,719
Speaker 1: your window and make up story. Lying. Lying is one

817
00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:07,080
Speaker 1: thing when I like when this, when you have when

818
00:41:07,120 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 1: you when you feel like you have to move, I

819
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:12,080
Speaker 1: don't go like slip tires. I'm not coming knocking on

820
00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:13,400
Speaker 1: your crazy as a spectrum.

821
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:13,720
Speaker 3: Guys.

822
00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:15,280
Speaker 1: He is a spectrum.

823
00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:19,759
Speaker 4: Okay, so I'm not crazy anyway, I asked him. I said, well,

824
00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:23,080
Speaker 4: what is the craziest thing you've ever done? And this

825
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:26,840
Speaker 4: nigga here says, I'm actually still frightened. I'm still frightened

826
00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:27,759
Speaker 4: about it. You know you did?

827
00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:29,680
Speaker 1: You called me like should I be worried? Like I

828
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:32,320
Speaker 1: don't know, like you were really worried. And I was

829
00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:34,759
Speaker 1: throwing myself that I wasn't in line.

830
00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:36,960
Speaker 4: I was like, this story is going to top of this,

831
00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:41,320
Speaker 4: this is this can't happen. So he tells me that

832
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 4: when in this twenty was like fucking fifteen years ago.

833
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 4: Thank god that he found out this girl he was

834
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:50,759
Speaker 4: dating was cheating on him. He followed her because she

835
00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:53,239
Speaker 4: was getting too cute to just go to her sister's house.

836
00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:57,319
Speaker 4: He followed her and she wasn't going to her sister's house.

837
00:41:57,600 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 4: She was going to her ex's house.

838
00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:06,200
Speaker 1: So this nigga went to her house, took her dogs,

839
00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:09,160
Speaker 1: get break in the house. I don't I don't know.

840
00:42:09,239 --> 00:42:11,640
Speaker 1: I didn't remember. Maybe he had a key.

841
00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:13,440
Speaker 3: Maybe, think I'm gonna need you to know that part

842
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:15,360
Speaker 3: of the story. Okay, his nigga's breakaway.

843
00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:18,120
Speaker 1: Seven weeks later, I'm gonna be like, he's picking locks

844
00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:18,759
Speaker 1: seven weeks I.

845
00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:19,560
Speaker 4: Was like, what have got time?

846
00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:21,799
Speaker 1: He told me that story four weeks ago.

847
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:26,799
Speaker 4: I was just dying to now it's one little detail. Well,

848
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:28,960
Speaker 4: actually I do need to know that now, thanks the

849
00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:33,400
Speaker 4: fucking lie. So he goes to her house and I

850
00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:37,040
Speaker 4: guess she had a small dog. He took this small

851
00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:39,520
Speaker 4: dogs ship. He took a plastic bag, took the ship

852
00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:43,480
Speaker 4: and smeared it all over her closet and in her shoes,

853
00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:45,719
Speaker 4: in her shoes.

854
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:48,960
Speaker 1: All like like. He he told me like, he was like,

855
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:50,280
Speaker 1: did you have gloves on? He said.

856
00:42:51,719 --> 00:42:51,959
Speaker 4: Ship?

857
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:55,279
Speaker 1: I don't know. But I was like, oh, this nigg

858
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:58,480
Speaker 1: is crazy. Oh my, it was a long time ago.

859
00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:01,680
Speaker 1: But also I wondered, I want to know what her

860
00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:05,160
Speaker 1: reaction was. But she scared and he called the police.

861
00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:08,399
Speaker 1: He said, call the police. Well, this is what really

862
00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:11,640
Speaker 1: scared me. Well, he said, I well, I thought about

863
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:13,359
Speaker 1: what can I do. I'm not gonna go to jail.

864
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:17,240
Speaker 1: Can you not? That's that's that's a damaging personal property.

865
00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:19,400
Speaker 1: I don't fucking know. But can they prove it? Her

866
00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:21,920
Speaker 1: sister called him and he was like, he didn't. When

867
00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:23,399
Speaker 1: I looked at his face when you tell the story,

868
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:26,640
Speaker 1: it just looks like he had anymore. And I got

869
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 1: I thoroughly got frightened.

870
00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:28,719
Speaker 4: I did. I called.

871
00:43:28,760 --> 00:43:30,880
Speaker 1: It was like, oh my god, I'm gonna tell you something.

872
00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:33,680
Speaker 1: Just girl, listen. I think she was in Mexican. You

873
00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:37,120
Speaker 1: were in mexicost She called me with like spotty reception.

874
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:39,040
Speaker 3: Can you.

875
00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:45,960
Speaker 1: Back again? I gotta get better, but literally like I'm

876
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:52,359
Speaker 1: gonna go outside. Doctor he love me? Listen, I don't.

877
00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:54,680
Speaker 1: I don't think that's flat.

878
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:56,279
Speaker 3: I was like, if that's the case, nigga should be

879
00:43:56,320 --> 00:43:58,440
Speaker 3: terrified of me, because I don't killed niggas in my sleep,

880
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:00,200
Speaker 3: in my dreams and are not little.

881
00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:01,879
Speaker 1: And well, I guess in my dreams, not in real life.

882
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:04,520
Speaker 1: But I don't know. I mean, I just feel like

883
00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:08,799
Speaker 1: I just feel like maybe she deserved it. I would

884
00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:10,200
Speaker 1: you know, there's a lot of things I wish I

885
00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:12,160
Speaker 1: would act more on. I do wish I was crazier.

886
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:14,920
Speaker 3: I wish that I would be crazier because, like I

887
00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:17,680
Speaker 3: actually get I was excited to know, like what it's like.

888
00:44:17,719 --> 00:44:18,920
Speaker 1: To like do something crazy.

889
00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:21,480
Speaker 3: It just follow, like get in my car, turn my

890
00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:24,680
Speaker 3: headlights off. Follow when they get around the block, like

891
00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:26,160
Speaker 3: just camp out.

892
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:30,040
Speaker 1: Wait, you know what I kind of want to do it.

893
00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:33,359
Speaker 1: I would get I get too crazy. If I catch

894
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 1: you doing something, I don't know what's gonna happen to you.

895
00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:37,560
Speaker 1: I'm going to black out.

896
00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:40,719
Speaker 4: It's best that I take a step back and because

897
00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:44,200
Speaker 4: and reevaluate how I feel, because you don't want me

898
00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:44,960
Speaker 4: to pull up on you.

899
00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:51,080
Speaker 1: We don't want that. Oh god, Oh adventure Bay. I know,

900
00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:55,120
Speaker 1: adventure Bay. Adventure Bay. I need to ask poetry Bay,

901
00:44:55,200 --> 00:44:58,239
Speaker 1: what is craziest break up story? This is very important? Yeah,

902
00:44:58,320 --> 00:44:59,560
Speaker 1: but you know, at least one thing.

903
00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:01,359
Speaker 6: I did a bit about it. I was like, well,

904
00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:04,160
Speaker 6: one thing's your show is Nigga ain't lying? This is

905
00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:07,239
Speaker 6: a true story that I would have been embarrassed to share.

906
00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:09,640
Speaker 6: But I'm so glad that we're being honest here. I

907
00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:11,640
Speaker 6: will never lie to you ever.

908
00:45:12,760 --> 00:45:13,120
Speaker 4: No, but.

909
00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:21,920
Speaker 1: Well, my next breakup story is I was lied too.

910
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:25,799
Speaker 3: So I met my boyfriend, this boyfriend that I dated

911
00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:27,520
Speaker 3: who was absolutely crazy.

912
00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:32,359
Speaker 1: In New York. He was like I should have known, Actually, yeah,

913
00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:32,719
Speaker 1: I should have.

914
00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:36,320
Speaker 3: He was like on the corner like selling what's the

915
00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:39,279
Speaker 3: fucking ship? Where like you like put give money to

916
00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:40,520
Speaker 3: kids in Africa.

917
00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 1: Like give money to different kids. It was like children.

918
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:48,960
Speaker 1: I met him on the corner children like No, it

919
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:50,400
Speaker 1: was like a group of them and they were like,

920
00:45:50,440 --> 00:45:51,520
Speaker 1: hath of these notebooks?

921
00:45:51,680 --> 00:45:53,520
Speaker 3: Show me a picture. He's like had the gift of gab.

922
00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:56,120
Speaker 3: I would give him that he's a Dominican from New York.

923
00:45:56,160 --> 00:46:01,680
Speaker 1: Okay, fast I met him. I met him in on

924
00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:02,160
Speaker 1: a trip.

925
00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:03,880
Speaker 3: I was out there with my mom or something and

926
00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:06,600
Speaker 3: I met him. Have like fell in love like he

927
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:08,560
Speaker 3: he oh. He also told me that he was a

928
00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:12,520
Speaker 3: model for Adulchang Gabana and he showed me, even showed

929
00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:15,360
Speaker 3: me in pictures and they were all like side profile pictures,

930
00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:17,160
Speaker 3: so like it looked.

931
00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:20,959
Speaker 1: Like him like someone else. He had this portfolio ready

932
00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:22,160
Speaker 1: to he was showing me.

933
00:46:22,200 --> 00:46:23,840
Speaker 3: He was like, yeah, like I bought my model for

934
00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:26,560
Speaker 3: adulcea gabana, Like this is my side hustle because I

935
00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:27,640
Speaker 3: care about the kids so much.

936
00:46:28,239 --> 00:46:29,759
Speaker 1: I have an apartment. Oh you look, you're from La.

937
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:31,479
Speaker 1: Oh I have an apartment in La, like just gift

938
00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:32,719
Speaker 1: of gap. I was like, oh my god, there's an

939
00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 1: apartment in LA. He's a model. He cares about the kids.

940
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:38,040
Speaker 1: He'd be like, he like might we went to Starbucks.

941
00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:42,600
Speaker 1: He sat down held were I was like eighteen, okay,

942
00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:48,960
Speaker 1: and so anyway, so this is at the time. I

943
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:49,919
Speaker 1: what was I doing?

944
00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:50,200
Speaker 3: Oh?

945
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:53,880
Speaker 1: I was working? Oh my god, I was working. We

946
00:46:54,000 --> 00:46:57,200
Speaker 1: started dating. Oh I wasn't working. I get in records yet.

947
00:46:57,880 --> 00:47:00,000
Speaker 1: And that's where I met my ex that we interviewed.

948
00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:04,040
Speaker 1: But uh, which he gets into the story too. Wha wait,

949
00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:06,279
Speaker 1: this is New York year. I was living here.

950
00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:07,040
Speaker 4: He was in me.

951
00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:09,360
Speaker 3: The thing I'm talking about that lives to me was

952
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:10,920
Speaker 3: living in New York. I was on a trip and

953
00:47:11,000 --> 00:47:13,040
Speaker 3: I met him and I like made him my boyfriend

954
00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:15,040
Speaker 3: on that trip. You know, you do ship like that,

955
00:47:16,160 --> 00:47:17,480
Speaker 3: like you go to six Flags.

956
00:47:18,920 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 1: Together. Yeah, I don't see each other like four.

957
00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:24,800
Speaker 3: Weeks, no, like four months, three months, maybe never again,

958
00:47:25,239 --> 00:47:27,680
Speaker 3: because like I have a boyfriend though, like legit, like

959
00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:29,759
Speaker 3: man him and.

960
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:31,359
Speaker 1: We talk of the phone every night for I will

961
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:36,480
Speaker 1: fight you. We only met once. I will fucking fight you, bitch.

962
00:47:37,239 --> 00:47:42,200
Speaker 1: He's coming out here, so like I yeah, anyway, So

963
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:44,640
Speaker 1: my dumb asked, like what was I doing, Like I

964
00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:47,360
Speaker 1: think I I don't know. I had a little bit

965
00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:47,680
Speaker 1: of money.

966
00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 3: I was like working somewhere at the time, and I

967
00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:52,440
Speaker 3: was started, like he always had a reason why you

968
00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:54,560
Speaker 3: couldn't buy a ticket out to LA and so I

969
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:57,760
Speaker 3: was like buying me. I was like, sugar mama, I'm sorry, Cuddy.

970
00:47:57,840 --> 00:48:01,120
Speaker 3: I fucked up before Cuddy. I'm being his sugar mama.

971
00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:03,200
Speaker 3: And like I was flying him out whenever I could,

972
00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:06,919
Speaker 3: like scrapping up my coins. Like I remember, I asked

973
00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:08,560
Speaker 3: my mom if he could stay with us, and she

974
00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:11,920
Speaker 3: was like what the fuck hell no, And I was

975
00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:15,320
Speaker 3: so upset. I was like, why it was my boyfriend.

976
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:17,279
Speaker 3: They'll sleep on the couch. She wouldn't even sleep in

977
00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:20,880
Speaker 3: my room. I'm eighteen now, mom, She.

978
00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:25,640
Speaker 1: Was like, hey, visiting the fuck no anyway, Like I

979
00:48:25,880 --> 00:48:27,520
Speaker 1: did that a few times. You were in like oh

980
00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:30,600
Speaker 1: my god, his Dick was so big. He was short.

981
00:48:30,680 --> 00:48:34,040
Speaker 1: He was like five seven, I'm short five seven, light

982
00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:34,759
Speaker 1: skin like.

983
00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:37,520
Speaker 3: He was like, this is when you're still your lights. Yeah,

984
00:48:37,560 --> 00:48:39,000
Speaker 3: this is when I was still light skin and he

985
00:48:39,200 --> 00:48:41,719
Speaker 3: was so he was he was pretty fine at the time.

986
00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:47,040
Speaker 3: And uh, actually he just sort of following us.

987
00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:50,759
Speaker 1: On Instagram recently show I need to see it. I

988
00:48:51,680 --> 00:48:53,759
Speaker 1: saw him start following us, and I was like, oh no,

989
00:48:54,640 --> 00:48:58,920
Speaker 1: why in this relationship last it was like nine months?

990
00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:05,560
Speaker 1: Oh like that, Oh god, what is this hair?

991
00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:08,120
Speaker 3: What is that is that him?

992
00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:13,920
Speaker 1: Yes? Oh no, buppy, Okay, that's time. But he had

993
00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:18,200
Speaker 1: like a city. He was ripped anyway, So not only

994
00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:20,000
Speaker 1: throughout like throughout the relationship.

995
00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:22,040
Speaker 3: I had just tried to realize that he was very

996
00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:23,879
Speaker 3: much a liar, Like he would just lie about show

997
00:49:23,880 --> 00:49:25,520
Speaker 3: all the time. He did not have an apartment in La,

998
00:49:25,640 --> 00:49:28,200
Speaker 3: Like there was always a reason why, like we couldn't

999
00:49:28,239 --> 00:49:30,520
Speaker 3: stay there, Like whenever he'd come out here and be like,

1000
00:49:30,560 --> 00:49:31,799
Speaker 3: oh I'm renting it out to like.

1001
00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:35,680
Speaker 1: Other models or like just dumb shit other model. Yeah,

1002
00:49:35,800 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 1: like it looks like a con artist. He didn't look

1003
00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:41,319
Speaker 1: like it used to be fine. Yes he was finer. No, yes,

1004
00:49:41,800 --> 00:49:46,600
Speaker 1: I promised, crowing, because I have to.

1005
00:49:46,680 --> 00:49:49,439
Speaker 3: Go deep, bitch, I was eighteen. You gotta go deep, deep,

1006
00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:52,759
Speaker 3: like way deep. Anyway, there was no Instagram deep. He

1007
00:49:52,880 --> 00:49:58,640
Speaker 3: was more chiseled than skinny, Okay, so I uh he

1008
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:01,399
Speaker 3: I realized that he was like a liar and pretty

1009
00:50:01,480 --> 00:50:03,320
Speaker 3: much also that like it was very I started to

1010
00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:04,360
Speaker 3: realize that that adult chick of.

1011
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:06,600
Speaker 1: Bona ad probably was not real either. Okay.

1012
00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:09,520
Speaker 3: So throughout our relationship, he had this friend and he

1013
00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:12,480
Speaker 3: this girlfriend and when it was like his best girlfriend,

1014
00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:15,560
Speaker 3: and like he was always with her, and every time

1015
00:50:15,560 --> 00:50:17,080
Speaker 3: I went to New York, she happened to be out.

1016
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:18,600
Speaker 1: Of town and like she couldn't meet up with us.

1017
00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:21,080
Speaker 1: But he always assured me, like she doesn't trust me,

1018
00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:22,920
Speaker 1: like she's not my time at all.

1019
00:50:23,040 --> 00:50:26,840
Speaker 3: In fact, she is missing an arm. She told me

1020
00:50:26,920 --> 00:50:30,759
Speaker 3: she was missing in armady. Like that was like how

1021
00:50:30,840 --> 00:50:33,080
Speaker 3: much he wanted me to like just understand that it

1022
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:35,279
Speaker 3: was just friends. Like there's no way he would date

1023
00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:36,160
Speaker 3: a bitch with one arm.

1024
00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:39,520
Speaker 1: So it's just definitely not it, ain't it.

1025
00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:45,600
Speaker 3: So at some point, like I knew it was like

1026
00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:48,799
Speaker 3: we our relationship became very like volatile.

1027
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:51,400
Speaker 1: We would argue all the time. He didn't trust me.

1028
00:50:51,680 --> 00:50:55,080
Speaker 1: I didn't trust him. At some point we got engaged.

1029
00:50:57,680 --> 00:51:00,799
Speaker 1: Wait actually, like yeah, it was a like eighteen.

1030
00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:02,080
Speaker 3: Like maybe nineteen at this time, Like I think I

1031
00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:06,320
Speaker 3: had my birthday, but like because my mom was like

1032
00:51:06,360 --> 00:51:08,280
Speaker 3: another time I got mad at my mom, she wouldn't

1033
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:08,799
Speaker 3: let him stay.

1034
00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:11,239
Speaker 1: So we stayed at my girlfriend, my girlfriend Gigi's house.

1035
00:51:11,239 --> 00:51:13,800
Speaker 3: Shout out to Gig and she had her own apartment

1036
00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:16,279
Speaker 3: at the time, and so I just remember like she

1037
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:18,680
Speaker 3: left and like we were fucking on the couch.

1038
00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:20,600
Speaker 1: And like he was on top of me and he

1039
00:51:20,719 --> 00:51:22,240
Speaker 1: was like we were just having sex.

1040
00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:25,759
Speaker 3: And he was like, marry me, marry me, and I

1041
00:51:25,880 --> 00:51:29,040
Speaker 3: was like yes, And then he pulled out the ring

1042
00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:31,799
Speaker 3: like he had a ring, you guys, he had.

1043
00:51:32,200 --> 00:51:33,879
Speaker 1: I still had the ring. Oh my god, I'm gonna

1044
00:51:33,880 --> 00:51:35,799
Speaker 1: post it on Patreon. I'm gonna show you the ring.

1045
00:51:35,880 --> 00:51:36,120
Speaker 4: Guys.

1046
00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:38,040
Speaker 1: It is like you need to show him this picture.

1047
00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:41,560
Speaker 1: He's not fine. And I scrolled to the bottom and

1048
00:51:41,680 --> 00:51:44,640
Speaker 1: he's still not fine. Okay, it's like you gotta post

1049
00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:47,680
Speaker 1: this one. Particularly Oh god, so that's not a good one.

1050
00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:50,000
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, none of them were good. Shut up. Anyway.

1051
00:51:50,320 --> 00:51:54,239
Speaker 3: The ring, it was like this tiny, the tiniest speckle

1052
00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:58,080
Speaker 3: of a diamond, like the tiniest Yes, I still have.

1053
00:51:58,160 --> 00:52:00,360
Speaker 1: It, just just for fuck's sake. I'm actually glad I

1054
00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:04,120
Speaker 1: kept it now. But yeah, I remember, like.

1055
00:52:04,160 --> 00:52:07,440
Speaker 3: I brought my friends to dinner to tell them we

1056
00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:09,600
Speaker 3: were engaged, Jessica.

1057
00:52:09,480 --> 00:52:10,960
Speaker 1: And my friend Natalie.

1058
00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:12,480
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I think I kind of now remember this

1059
00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:15,319
Speaker 3: story now, yeah, And they were yeah, And I was like, you.

1060
00:52:15,360 --> 00:52:18,360
Speaker 1: Guys, I brought you here to tell you that we

1061
00:52:18,760 --> 00:52:21,000
Speaker 1: are engaged. And they were like, we're gonna go to

1062
00:52:21,040 --> 00:52:22,359
Speaker 1: the bathroom and we'll be right back.

1063
00:52:22,480 --> 00:52:24,520
Speaker 3: And they both left to go to the bathroom, like

1064
00:52:24,600 --> 00:52:27,200
Speaker 3: these bitches are going to talk shit about me, and

1065
00:52:28,160 --> 00:52:32,239
Speaker 3: they did. And anyway, I at some point, like in

1066
00:52:32,280 --> 00:52:34,640
Speaker 3: the relationship started going just it wasn't healthy, and I

1067
00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:38,800
Speaker 3: started working at Geffen Records, which is now was acquired

1068
00:52:38,800 --> 00:52:40,879
Speaker 3: by Interscope whatever. I was an intern there, and that's

1069
00:52:40,880 --> 00:52:44,360
Speaker 3: how I'm at my my ex boyfriend and he was

1070
00:52:44,400 --> 00:52:46,400
Speaker 3: my boss, and I ended up I started cheating on

1071
00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:48,200
Speaker 3: my boyfriend with him, and.

1072
00:52:49,120 --> 00:52:50,719
Speaker 1: He wasn't a real boyfriend to begin with, because he

1073
00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:50,880
Speaker 1: was a.

1074
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:53,000
Speaker 3: Real boyfriend, and also because he didn't live here, and

1075
00:52:53,040 --> 00:52:56,480
Speaker 3: also because he was lying they were and that's what

1076
00:52:56,600 --> 00:53:00,399
Speaker 3: you do. Yeah, so can you realize you it wasn't

1077
00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:01,440
Speaker 3: an adulta in goodband?

1078
00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:02,560
Speaker 2: Oh my, you know what?

1079
00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:05,719
Speaker 1: Also this thing I gave you an STD Oh no,

1080
00:53:06,560 --> 00:53:09,960
Speaker 1: we're definitely posting hist That was the end of the line. Actually,

1081
00:53:10,000 --> 00:53:11,680
Speaker 1: that was where it ended. That was like the end

1082
00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:14,600
Speaker 1: of our relationship for sure. Chlamydia is I don't have

1083
00:53:14,719 --> 00:53:17,760
Speaker 1: it anymore time. She's a survivor.

1084
00:53:17,840 --> 00:53:20,799
Speaker 3: If I'm a survivor of chlamydia, no, I know there's

1085
00:53:20,800 --> 00:53:23,279
Speaker 3: a lot of you out there. I feel you in

1086
00:53:23,400 --> 00:53:25,400
Speaker 3: solidarity with THEIA survivors.

1087
00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:29,920
Speaker 1: No, I've heard it's really bad. It's very like I

1088
00:53:30,000 --> 00:53:32,680
Speaker 1: don't even like I'm not. I just I didn't have

1089
00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:35,880
Speaker 1: any symptoms. Actually, I just went to go get a

1090
00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:39,359
Speaker 1: regular and found out that Oh my god.

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00:53:39,880 --> 00:53:40,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, so.

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00:53:42,000 --> 00:53:42,439
Speaker 1: Is that okay?

1093
00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:43,600
Speaker 4: I just want to know for the record, is that

1094
00:53:43,680 --> 00:53:45,520
Speaker 4: a story we could tell Lenna and Irie just to

1095
00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:46,120
Speaker 4: prevent them.

1096
00:53:46,239 --> 00:53:46,560
Speaker 1: Probably.

1097
00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:46,759
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1098
00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:48,759
Speaker 1: I'm for sure telling her about my CHIA story.

1099
00:53:48,800 --> 00:53:51,279
Speaker 3: And I think people need to, like, I feel like

1100
00:53:52,200 --> 00:53:56,240
Speaker 3: we need to destigmatize the shame of sexual transmittent disease

1101
00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:59,120
Speaker 3: because people are out here fucking and so somebody's getting

1102
00:53:59,120 --> 00:54:04,040
Speaker 3: this should happened. People will be reckless like this naked anyway,

1103
00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:07,040
Speaker 3: So we broke up, well, we broke up, and then

1104
00:54:07,920 --> 00:54:09,440
Speaker 3: he still was trying to get back He was still

1105
00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:11,160
Speaker 3: trying to get back together with me, and like my

1106
00:54:11,280 --> 00:54:14,040
Speaker 3: dumb ass was still like I don't know, entertaining it whatever.

1107
00:54:15,160 --> 00:54:16,960
Speaker 1: I get an email from this girl.

1108
00:54:16,880 --> 00:54:19,680
Speaker 3: And she's like, Hi, my name is blah blah blah.

1109
00:54:19,880 --> 00:54:25,840
Speaker 3: I'm best friends with your man's girlfriend and they've been

1110
00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:28,600
Speaker 3: they've been in a relationship for a year and a half,

1111
00:54:29,000 --> 00:54:33,319
Speaker 3: and you know, she has told her that you guys

1112
00:54:33,360 --> 00:54:37,279
Speaker 3: are just friends and that like, and I was like, what, No,

1113
00:54:37,440 --> 00:54:40,120
Speaker 3: we've been together for nine months. He told me that

1114
00:54:40,320 --> 00:54:48,400
Speaker 3: she has one arm and that they are just friends. No,

1115
00:54:48,680 --> 00:54:51,279
Speaker 3: he told her that you have one arm.

1116
00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:55,480
Speaker 1: The ship you can do before Instagram she told you.

1117
00:54:56,120 --> 00:54:59,160
Speaker 1: She told me her thing, you have one arm, and

1118
00:54:59,600 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 1: you just give him money. I was, I'm literally gonna

1119
00:55:02,680 --> 00:55:06,040
Speaker 1: d m him. Who the fuck thinks of the one arm?

1120
00:55:06,600 --> 00:55:08,200
Speaker 4: Like that's the worst thing you can come up with,

1121
00:55:08,960 --> 00:55:11,040
Speaker 4: that's gonna make that's gonna brings off her.

1122
00:55:11,840 --> 00:55:12,000
Speaker 2: Well.

1123
00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:13,440
Speaker 1: You know, men they always feel.

1124
00:55:13,239 --> 00:55:16,320
Speaker 3: Like if they downplay a woman's like physical physical and

1125
00:55:16,400 --> 00:55:17,919
Speaker 3: physicality to another woman.

1126
00:55:18,080 --> 00:55:20,160
Speaker 1: It's for sure guarantee that that means we're not they're

1127
00:55:20,280 --> 00:55:22,879
Speaker 1: a trial. They would have never fund that nobody had

1128
00:55:22,960 --> 00:55:26,440
Speaker 1: one arm. He totally made it up, totally made it up,

1129
00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:29,520
Speaker 1: just fucking just no one asked you to do this.

1130
00:55:29,840 --> 00:55:32,200
Speaker 1: So here's the thing, though, I guarantee and I also

1131
00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:34,160
Speaker 1: probably would have never found out about her.

1132
00:55:34,200 --> 00:55:36,040
Speaker 3: I mean, at some point I would have got this email,

1133
00:55:36,360 --> 00:55:37,920
Speaker 3: but like I, he could have just been in New

1134
00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:39,480
Speaker 3: York children with the bench, like I never would have

1135
00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:42,080
Speaker 3: even known, Like he didn't even have to do this live.

1136
00:55:42,200 --> 00:55:44,680
Speaker 1: It was just a dumb ass live. I guarantee you,

1137
00:55:45,239 --> 00:55:48,279
Speaker 1: wherever he is in the world, he still is a

1138
00:55:48,360 --> 00:55:49,200
Speaker 1: pathological life.

1139
00:55:49,280 --> 00:55:52,759
Speaker 3: So then that was that, the chamydia and then the

1140
00:55:53,280 --> 00:55:56,520
Speaker 3: one arm, the dual one arm and change.

1141
00:55:57,200 --> 00:55:58,680
Speaker 1: That was the end of it for me.

1142
00:55:58,880 --> 00:56:01,240
Speaker 3: We broke up, and then I and I jumped straight

1143
00:56:01,320 --> 00:56:05,640
Speaker 3: into my next a traumatizing relationship.

1144
00:56:06,920 --> 00:56:09,799
Speaker 1: Heaps I were here discussing all of our traumas every week.

1145
00:56:10,680 --> 00:56:14,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, and for years that guy stopped me, like heavily

1146
00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:17,520
Speaker 3: stopped me, would not leave me alone, flew out to La,

1147
00:56:17,600 --> 00:56:19,440
Speaker 3: showed up at my mom's house just.

1148
00:56:19,520 --> 00:56:21,520
Speaker 1: Like your mom's, and she was like, you wanted him

1149
00:56:21,520 --> 00:56:23,680
Speaker 1: to stay in my house, bitch. Yeah, like showed I like,

1150
00:56:23,760 --> 00:56:25,560
Speaker 1: I think I brought him there one time and he like,

1151
00:56:25,600 --> 00:56:28,400
Speaker 1: and that was like three years before, and he remembered

1152
00:56:28,400 --> 00:56:30,120
Speaker 1: where she lived. Three years later. It was like he

1153
00:56:30,239 --> 00:56:33,000
Speaker 1: came back three years later. Could hit my friends up

1154
00:56:33,040 --> 00:56:33,640
Speaker 1: for years.

1155
00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:37,719
Speaker 4: So you tell the one under girl's friend that he

1156
00:56:38,800 --> 00:56:41,160
Speaker 4: proposed to you, but you were actually engaged.

1157
00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:42,880
Speaker 1: Of course, of course I did. I think at some

1158
00:56:42,960 --> 00:56:45,319
Speaker 1: point too, I had. I said, you know what, I think,

1159
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:48,680
Speaker 1: this is like a promise ring. This is not an

1160
00:56:48,680 --> 00:56:52,920
Speaker 1: engagement ring. It's a promised ring. It was very small,

1161
00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:57,680
Speaker 1: and I could not accept this as my forever. And

1162
00:56:57,760 --> 00:56:59,320
Speaker 1: also you were crazy, but that day.

1163
00:56:59,280 --> 00:56:59,680
Speaker 2: Was so good.

1164
00:57:00,680 --> 00:57:04,239
Speaker 1: I'm minus the dirty dick's that I've seen him. I'm

1165
00:57:04,760 --> 00:57:05,680
Speaker 1: even more confused.

1166
00:57:05,760 --> 00:57:09,480
Speaker 3: I am gonna find the photo you have. Sebastian Spashion

1167
00:57:09,680 --> 00:57:11,520
Speaker 3: can vouch for me. He was a mine back ben

1168
00:57:11,960 --> 00:57:12,400
Speaker 3: he was.

1169
00:57:12,600 --> 00:57:16,480
Speaker 1: He was smaller and he was chiseled, and he just

1170
00:57:16,720 --> 00:57:17,720
Speaker 1: was like got it, know, he.

1171
00:57:17,800 --> 00:57:20,000
Speaker 3: Was just so.

1172
00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:22,440
Speaker 4: If you want to see Erica's other half to this

1173
00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:27,000
Speaker 4: epic breakup, go to patreon dot com backslash Good Mom's

1174
00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:31,760
Speaker 4: Bad Choices. We're gonna call Sebastian live, get his response.

1175
00:57:32,120 --> 00:57:36,600
Speaker 4: Live to these looks, this engagement ring and this overall relationship.

1176
00:57:37,240 --> 00:57:37,720
Speaker 1: That's right.

1177
00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:41,640
Speaker 4: Go to patreon dot com backslash good Mom's bad Choices

1178
00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:43,480
Speaker 4: so you can see what this fool looks like.

1179
00:57:45,600 --> 00:57:48,320
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, Fash, you better not for me. Negga,

1180
00:57:49,840 --> 00:57:50,840
Speaker 1: don't want to do it right now.

1181
00:57:51,320 --> 00:57:51,960
Speaker 4: I need to know.

1182
00:57:53,360 --> 00:58:01,560
Speaker 1: Well, that was entertaining. Yeah, so breakaps are not always great.

1183
00:58:02,840 --> 00:58:05,400
Speaker 4: While we were sitting here doing breakups, I came up

1184
00:58:05,480 --> 00:58:08,720
Speaker 4: with like three other episodes. We need to get everybody's

1185
00:58:08,800 --> 00:58:12,680
Speaker 4: best cheating stories and the dumbest shit you ever did

1186
00:58:12,720 --> 00:58:18,000
Speaker 4: for some pussy or something like Erica accepting as a

1187
00:58:18,120 --> 00:58:20,479
Speaker 4: very tiny ring on the couch of her friend's house.

1188
00:58:20,760 --> 00:58:24,080
Speaker 1: Engagement type shit. I mean, he literally asked me to

1189
00:58:24,120 --> 00:58:25,640
Speaker 1: marry him while he was inside of me.

1190
00:58:25,800 --> 00:58:29,640
Speaker 3: I feel like that is just fucking that's just really manipulative,

1191
00:58:31,000 --> 00:58:33,440
Speaker 3: And of course I'm gonna say yes. I probably was

1192
00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:35,280
Speaker 3: like mid orgasm too. I don't even know if I

1193
00:58:35,280 --> 00:58:37,000
Speaker 3: said yes to him or the ring.

1194
00:58:37,080 --> 00:58:45,200
Speaker 1: I have no idea, but either way, still unweed to

1195
00:58:45,400 --> 00:58:47,600
Speaker 1: engagement so true.

1196
00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:51,560
Speaker 3: I've been engaged twice and don't you do modern day

1197
00:58:51,560 --> 00:58:59,680
Speaker 3: Elizabeth Taylor. Anyway, you guys, we are having our first

1198
00:59:00,080 --> 00:59:04,880
Speaker 3: meet up since COVID. We are having a social distancing

1199
00:59:04,960 --> 00:59:10,040
Speaker 3: meetup in downtown LA on September fourth. It's a driving movie, y'all. Yeah,

1200
00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:14,600
Speaker 3: we're gonna go watch next Friday. And you guys definitely

1201
00:59:14,640 --> 00:59:16,400
Speaker 3: want to come. I know you guys have been dying

1202
00:59:16,440 --> 00:59:19,040
Speaker 3: to get out. You guys are supposed to stay.

1203
00:59:18,880 --> 00:59:21,080
Speaker 1: In your car, so you know, be safe, do that.

1204
00:59:22,120 --> 00:59:27,040
Speaker 3: And there's also contactless food service and the food service.

1205
00:59:27,080 --> 00:59:29,160
Speaker 3: If you guys have in La, you've probably heard of

1206
00:59:29,200 --> 00:59:34,440
Speaker 3: Comfort La Bomb Black Owned, Yeah so good Bomb Soul

1207
00:59:34,480 --> 00:59:39,240
Speaker 3: Food Restaurant, and who else. Oh there's a Mexican restaurant.

1208
00:59:39,800 --> 00:59:40,439
Speaker 3: What are they called?

1209
00:59:41,120 --> 00:59:41,880
Speaker 1: Fuck, I'm forgetting.

1210
00:59:41,960 --> 00:59:45,840
Speaker 3: It's on the website and Mama Soul is going to

1211
00:59:45,880 --> 00:59:48,400
Speaker 3: be baking and having all of her delicious cakes. You've

1212
00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:51,800
Speaker 3: probably seen us post about it. But it's an outdoor

1213
00:59:51,920 --> 00:59:56,520
Speaker 3: cinema event. These events are gonna be happening throughout LA,

1214
00:59:56,760 --> 01:00:01,160
Speaker 3: I mean throughout downtown LA, and it's just a really

1215
01:00:01,280 --> 01:00:03,000
Speaker 3: dope experience.

1216
01:00:03,040 --> 01:00:05,040
Speaker 1: I'm really excited. You know, I've never been to a

1217
01:00:05,120 --> 01:00:05,440
Speaker 1: drive in.

1218
01:00:05,560 --> 01:00:06,200
Speaker 4: You haven't know.

1219
01:00:06,640 --> 01:00:08,080
Speaker 1: There used to be one in the valley years ago,

1220
01:00:08,080 --> 01:00:10,880
Speaker 1: there were still two in LA. You need to really

1221
01:00:10,960 --> 01:00:14,320
Speaker 1: do that. I am about to. Oh yeah, I'm shocked

1222
01:00:14,360 --> 01:00:15,960
Speaker 1: that this is your first son. I know, and I

1223
01:00:16,080 --> 01:00:17,760
Speaker 1: love Next Friday, so we're not bringing kids?

1224
01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:21,240
Speaker 3: Hell, okay, okay, yeah, let's be clear, guys, probably don't

1225
01:00:21,240 --> 01:00:24,840
Speaker 3: bring your kids because it's next Friday and I'm gonna

1226
01:00:24,840 --> 01:00:25,520
Speaker 3: be smoking weed.

1227
01:00:25,800 --> 01:00:27,720
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be hot boxing the fuck out of my car.

1228
01:00:27,920 --> 01:00:30,160
Speaker 3: Sounds like a great plan, right, I'm gonna have snacks

1229
01:00:30,200 --> 01:00:34,439
Speaker 3: and shit and ordering food. Yeah, so it's gonna be fun.

1230
01:00:35,040 --> 01:00:37,840
Speaker 3: Comes and it's like our first meetup in months. Yes,

1231
01:00:38,000 --> 01:00:40,320
Speaker 3: I know, if you guys like, we usually do monthly

1232
01:00:40,400 --> 01:00:42,400
Speaker 3: meetups sometimes we try to.

1233
01:00:42,520 --> 01:00:43,360
Speaker 1: Sometimes we even do two.

1234
01:00:43,920 --> 01:00:45,680
Speaker 3: The last one we had was in New York and

1235
01:00:45,760 --> 01:00:49,000
Speaker 3: it was so amazing. I'm actually like, if we were

1236
01:00:49,040 --> 01:00:51,000
Speaker 3: gonna end at all meetups, I'm glad it ended on

1237
01:00:51,080 --> 01:00:53,280
Speaker 3: that one because we have met with some of our

1238
01:00:53,640 --> 01:00:56,160
Speaker 3: New York tribes and we had the best dinner.

1239
01:00:56,120 --> 01:00:58,640
Speaker 1: And like the best time. Yeah, we had so much

1240
01:00:58,720 --> 01:01:01,880
Speaker 1: fun with them. We went Dan say yeah afterwards, it

1241
01:01:02,000 --> 01:01:04,400
Speaker 1: was just it was just fire. So I'm trying to

1242
01:01:04,520 --> 01:01:08,440
Speaker 1: like relive that slash top that this time, So come through.

1243
01:01:08,800 --> 01:01:12,840
Speaker 3: Hang out, roll your joints, bring your wines, bring your friends,

1244
01:01:13,080 --> 01:01:14,120
Speaker 3: build that car up.

1245
01:01:14,520 --> 01:01:16,640
Speaker 1: Go to Instagram and get our discount code.

1246
01:01:17,040 --> 01:01:20,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, if you check out our link in our bio,

1247
01:01:22,080 --> 01:01:25,640
Speaker 3: there is the link right there, and the discount lasts

1248
01:01:25,880 --> 01:01:29,480
Speaker 3: until this Friday, So you definitely want to go out

1249
01:01:30,080 --> 01:01:32,560
Speaker 3: and purchase those tickets before.

1250
01:01:32,320 --> 01:01:35,600
Speaker 1: Then Friday, the twenty first August the twenty first, twenty twenty.

1251
01:01:35,760 --> 01:01:40,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, and they're almost sold out, so I highly suggest

1252
01:01:40,840 --> 01:01:43,080
Speaker 3: that you get your your tickets now because I think

1253
01:01:43,200 --> 01:01:46,200
Speaker 3: last time I checked, they were already at fifty percent capacity.

1254
01:01:46,640 --> 01:01:50,160
Speaker 1: Because obviously it is a social distancing event and we

1255
01:01:50,240 --> 01:01:57,920
Speaker 1: need space. Yep. Anyway, you guys, I hope.

1256
01:01:57,680 --> 01:01:59,880
Speaker 3: You have oh wonderful We.

1257
01:02:01,480 --> 01:02:03,800
Speaker 2: Hope you're not cheating or getting cheated on. But if

1258
01:02:03,840 --> 01:02:09,960
Speaker 2: you are, life goes on, sorry or good for you,

1259
01:02:12,200 --> 01:02:12,960
Speaker 2: Life does go on.

1260
01:02:13,320 --> 01:02:17,840
Speaker 1: Just open the relationship up. And if you haven't yet,

1261
01:02:17,920 --> 01:02:20,120
Speaker 1: if you could, please do us the favor and go

1262
01:02:20,400 --> 01:02:23,360
Speaker 1: and rate and review us on Apple podcast. It just

1263
01:02:23,440 --> 01:02:26,000
Speaker 1: takes five seconds. Give us that five star rating.

1264
01:02:26,400 --> 01:02:29,800
Speaker 4: Don't assume our content if you're not, you know, just

1265
01:02:29,880 --> 01:02:31,280
Speaker 4: at least saying hey, I liked it.

1266
01:02:31,480 --> 01:02:34,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's very we're asking very little of you. Yeah,

1267
01:02:35,200 --> 01:02:39,000
Speaker 1: there's like a good amount of thousands of people listening

1268
01:02:39,120 --> 01:02:43,440
Speaker 1: right now. Please just take one second. It would make

1269
01:02:43,440 --> 01:02:45,720
Speaker 1: a big difference for us today. Just do it today.

1270
01:02:46,560 --> 01:02:48,200
Speaker 4: Scroll all the way down to the bottom of the

1271
01:02:48,240 --> 01:02:51,960
Speaker 4: Apple iTunes whatever the fuck Apple podcasts, keep scrolling and

1272
01:02:52,040 --> 01:02:53,000
Speaker 4: at the bottom.

1273
01:02:53,120 --> 01:02:54,880
Speaker 1: I think it says rating with you. Boom.

1274
01:02:55,240 --> 01:02:58,760
Speaker 3: It's that easy, thank you in advance. All right, Well,

1275
01:02:58,960 --> 01:02:59,920
Speaker 3: we'll catch you guys next week.

1276
01:03:03,440 --> 01:03:05,600
Speaker 1: The boots from a cup of

1277
01:03:08,840 --> 01:03:14,360
Speaker 4: Her luck again again he La