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Speaker 1: It's the Fresh Show. This is what's trending. He's abstracted exactly.

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Speaker 1: And you, Kaitlin, I'm currently still married, unfortunately, but spiritually single. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: I've heard that one before.

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Speaker 2: That's not fully single, dude.

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Speaker 3: You know when you're married, you are married, you know,

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Speaker 3: like he's oh, we're separated. Maybe where's the documents I

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Speaker 3: need to see? Thank you mark you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: No, boy, that's right.

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Speaker 1: But technically you're single? Yes?

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Speaker 3: Me, technically yes, I am single. I have no rings,

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Speaker 3: I have no paperwork. If I go tomorrow, Big Tim,

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Speaker 3: can I pick out my dress for the funeral? Like

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Speaker 3: it's serious? We are we're friends, homies, partners.

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Speaker 1: If you haven't heard about this before, she lives with

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Speaker 1: a man, Big Tim, she lives with him, he lives

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Speaker 1: with her. Well, I always say it wrong. He lives

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Speaker 1: in your house with you. You've been together with dwell,

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Speaker 1: you've been homies and for how long?

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Speaker 3: Like six and a half years.

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Speaker 1: Six and a half years you've been homies and roommates. Yes,

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Speaker 1: and yet there's no ring on your finger.

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Speaker 3: That's right?

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Speaker 1: So you consider yourself single?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 3: When I file my taxes, it says, well, that's that okay,

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Speaker 3: that is the definition. I know, I know, but we

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Speaker 3: are technically cool friends.

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Speaker 2: Do you get any cool friends? So even if he

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Speaker 2: puts a ring on it, you're so single married?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: No, no, I'm engaged. Okay, I'm engaged.

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Speaker 1: So until you are married and walked down the aisle,

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Speaker 1: then you are you technically could just do what you want.

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Speaker 3: Technically, yes, I could technically, But.

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Speaker 1: Are you getting any inkling that that's coming?

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Speaker 3: Friends? Six years in? It's an inkling every three months?

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Speaker 3: The inklings don't mean a thing, Okay?

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Speaker 1: Do you do you say to him like, hey, we

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Speaker 1: are we doing this? Like you don't say a word.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm doing talking. No, you know, that's that's between

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Speaker 3: him and who whoever he prayed to, and whenever he decides,

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Speaker 3: you know, if I'm still around, cool, if I meet

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Speaker 3: my husband tomorrow, sorry to that man. That's how it works.

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Speaker 1: But you you've had marriage conversations.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, okay every three months?

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Speaker 1: Yes, all right? And you'll say to how does it

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Speaker 3: So he'll go, you know, at our wedding blah blah blah, Joe, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: he'll joke with me my brother. He'll sell my brother

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Speaker 3: like you're not in the wedding, like it's it's you know,

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Speaker 3: it's a joke. I don't think it's cruel. I think

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Speaker 3: he really has intentions on marrying me or getting it together.

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Speaker 3: But when you live together and you've been together so

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Speaker 3: long you're comfortable. It's like, do you regret letting him

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Speaker 3: move in? No? No, how much money I save?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I I I'm trying to get a home.

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Speaker 1: I'd be cool with a cool homie.

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Speaker 3: I cannot afford to be single in the city.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly, cool homie would would It's kind of perfect actually,

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Speaker 1: except in this case one of the cool homies wants

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Speaker 1: to be more the Klobe's and wow, it's okay, well yeah,

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Speaker 1: so all that.

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Speaker 3: You know, we're married, but we're separated spiritually or you know,

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Speaker 3: I just live with her for the kids. Like, no,

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Speaker 3: you're still married, so the paperwork is what does it

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Speaker 3: for you? Absolutely? Okay.

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Speaker 2: So you think that's stronger than your word of not

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Speaker 2: hooking up with other people?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god? Yes, okay, okay, yes, Well.

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Speaker 1: What I mean about because you said you're comfortable and

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Speaker 1: what I'm curious about is if do you do you

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Speaker 1: think maybe if he hadn't moved in, or if you,

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Speaker 1: that it might have moved faster.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, And I give advice to young women if you

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Speaker 3: if you really want marriage, never move in with a man.

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Speaker 3: He's going to get comfortable, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: Why by the what they say the cow if you

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Speaker 3: get the milk for free, Yeah, that's a real thing.

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Speaker 3: But you know, once you're once, you're already in it.

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's just okay, thug life. I chose.

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Speaker 2: I always say you should live together before you get married,

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Speaker 2: because if you get married and you never live with

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Speaker 2: that person, you're in for a whole world of you

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Speaker 2: don't know what they're like living with them.

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Speaker 1: Well, there's two schools have thought on that, because there

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Speaker 1: then that you weren't that into it or you're not

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Speaker 1: willing to fight that hard for the relationship. Like people

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Speaker 1: and then you're sort of like it's almost like you're

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Speaker 1: forced to work through issues because you're married now. But

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Speaker 1: that's not how people look at marriage anymore. I don't

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Speaker 1: so it's like, why not move in and just make

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Speaker 1: find out there's just something about them that you just

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Speaker 1: you just are going to get over, well, then don't

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm not against what you're saying, Rufio. I'm

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Speaker 3: just I just know that you can move in and

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Speaker 3: get comfortable. Yeah, Like it's like you a while, you

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Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, because once you move in, you

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Speaker 3: got you start living like you're married. You're you're splitting

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Speaker 3: bills or you're you're sharing things. And you know, the

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Speaker 3: money he had for the ring, not the water heat

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Speaker 3: went out, and the lord of the money you have

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Speaker 3: for the ring. Now your mama need a kidney. I

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Speaker 3: don't know, but it's just like.

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Speaker 1: You got Yeah, I start having nobody wants it that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I will. I will say.

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Speaker 2: When you do live with someone for a long time

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Speaker 2: and then you get engaged to get married, it's just

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Speaker 2: like after after the wedding, you're like, there's yeah, it's like.

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Speaker 1: What's the three right?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we're going back home.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there's no real newlywed face saying that. I will

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Speaker 2: agree with you on that. There's there's nothing spontaneous about

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Speaker 1: Which is why it's amazing to me that people will

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Speaker 1: how like house way because nothing, there's nothing different, you know,

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Speaker 1: And it's like something changes mentally, something changes in people's

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Speaker 1: exactly the same. I would get it if you lived

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Speaker 1: and you realize, Okay, I don't know this isn't working

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Speaker 1: people who've lived together for a decade, done everything, and

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Speaker 1: then they get married and then eighteen months later it's over.

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Speaker 2: And it's like, how I mean you still have to

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Speaker 2: try in your relationship after you get married, Like I say,

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Speaker 2: like nothing changes, but you still have to try. You

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Speaker 2: still have to be you still have to be in

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Speaker 1: You have to try in your relationship every day.

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Speaker 3: And sometimes in those cases when they've been together forever

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Speaker 3: and then they go get married, that's their last ditch

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Speaker 3: effort to save the relationship, just like a lot of

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Speaker 3: in those cases sometimes that's the issue, Like they got

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Speaker 3: just marry I'm tired of here, I'm out. I just

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Speaker 1: You know some of the stuff I've heard over the years,

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Speaker 1: in the last couple of years, I've heard yeah, let's

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Speaker 1: it's not working. Let's go have a baby. One I

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Speaker 1: that'll fix things like what. Yeah, I don't know. This

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Speaker 1: here for, I'm here to live, you know, I'm here

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Speaker 1: you never know. I guess you just never know anymore.

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Speaker 1: But I've held back now for almost a year. I've

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Speaker 1: I got that I got body by Gideon, you know. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I've lost forty two pounds. I mean, I'm ready to go.

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Speaker 3: Let's go to that pool. You pay for that?

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Speaker 1: We should, yeah, we should do? You know how much?

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Speaker 1: Do you know how much each visit is going to cost?

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Speaker 1: For a while, Like based on what I pay to

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Speaker 1: I mean, basically, I've been zero times in like three years,

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Speaker 1: or something like. I'd mean, it's ridiculous. All right, guys, now,

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Speaker 1: review and I have decided. Now it's time Powerball one

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Speaker 1: point two to three billion. I'm ready vcs it. I'm

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Speaker 1: buying a ticket. Did you buy a thing yesterday? No,

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Speaker 1: I wasn't ready. I wasn't ready. I thought I was ready.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't ready yet. I just in my mind, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: it's not quite enough. But now I didn't no need

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Speaker 1: to be greeting. So Saturday night's to drawing five hundred

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Speaker 1: and ninety five million dollars is the cash option, So

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Speaker 1: I don't know whatever that wants it being for the

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Speaker 1: three seventy five something after all the taxes or whatever

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Speaker 1: one point two to three billion dollars in the power

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Speaker 1: Ball on Saturday. The California lawmaker wants to make it

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Speaker 1: illegal for your boss to regularly contact you after hours

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Speaker 1: unless it's an emergency or to address work schedule issues.

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Speaker 1: It's going to be called the Right to disconnect law,

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Speaker 1: and if the bill becomes law, an employer that violates

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Speaker 1: it would face find it up to one hundred dollars

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Speaker 1: per offense. So it's the right to disconnect. The argument

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Speaker 1: for the law. Workers are more connected than ever and

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Speaker 1: often feel pressured to respond at all hours. The bill

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Speaker 1: has several steps and approvals to go through before landing

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Speaker 1: in front of the governor, who would have until September

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Speaker 1: you saw it. There's no more of this like I

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Speaker 2: I love that we have some coworkers that as soon

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Speaker 2: as whatever whatever time quitting time is here five five

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Speaker 1: I'm like, savage, check your piece.

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Speaker 3: But they did state it in that that it depends

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, because around here anything anybody needs is an emergency. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I know we have a process and I didn't follow it,

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Speaker 1: come on, jas, this is Jason's whole life. Jason's whole

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Speaker 1: And I can't even tell you how many emails a

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Speaker 1: Here you go again. I mean. The first person to

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Speaker 1: sixty two years old. He underwent the transplant about two

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Speaker 1: Leaving the hospital today with one of the clear bills

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Speaker 1: She's twenty one years old and she's six foot ten. Now,

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Speaker 1: you go, Jason, Mike, Mike, Mike, Mike, Mike, Mike, how

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Speaker 2: How's it going?

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Speaker 1: Is this Mike the mechanics you have.

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Speaker 3: To pose on the radio.

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Speaker 4: Mike's electrician.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, yeah, that's that's not Jason's partner, Mike the mechanic,

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Speaker 4: No, I just want to go off to what Key

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 4: You know, I bought her everything butter ing, two houses,

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Speaker 4: My parents are the same way kind of you know,

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Speaker 1: But are you sure she's okay with it? Like do

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Speaker 4: it's like is it I don't, I don't. I kind

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Speaker 4: of don't understand marriage in that way. I think it's

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Speaker 1: Certain you don't want to do it, you don't have.

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Speaker 4: To, Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. It's like to me, it's like,

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Speaker 3: Does she want that?

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Speaker 3: A small wedding, yeah, I have to have a big wedding.

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Speaker 3: But Lee, like I Google, they according to Google, you

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Speaker 1: And Mike, we gotta go. Uh. I appreciate you calling man,

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Speaker 1: have a great day. Well, thank you so much. And

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Speaker 3: Mean, if you want to buy me another house and

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