Speaker 1: Hi, Carolina, Why are you looking so cute today? I
Speaker 1: had a lot of work to do today that required
Speaker 1: me to show my face. That's why did you? Did
Speaker 1: it require the high pony with the little hair wrapped
Speaker 1: around because you know you can't show off that elastic band.
Speaker 1: You know, this is my Arianna pane. It's so cute.
Speaker 1: Did you hear Ariana Grande just bought a fourteen million
Speaker 1: dollar house. I didn't see that, but I did see
Speaker 1: she unfollowed Starbucks? Why oh wait? What happened with with that? Well,
Speaker 1: the whole Black Lives Matter you know fiasco where they
Speaker 1: said that none of their employees were going to be
Speaker 1: allowed to wear anything black Lives Matter? I thought they
Speaker 1: changed that though. Was it because of people like Arianna?
Speaker 1: They changed it? But she's not with it, so she
Speaker 1: deleted them. She was like, unfollowed, I had enough in life.
Speaker 1: You just wait until she needs like an ice green
Speaker 1: tea this summer, and then we're gonnas gonna be a
Speaker 1: whole different story. Oh, welcome to life in Spanglish, Honey German.
Speaker 1: It has only been a week, and I feel like
Speaker 1: it's been a year since the last time I spoke
Speaker 1: to you. It's so crazy, Carolina, because it's just like
Speaker 1: so much happens in one week in my in my
Speaker 1: life has had things like ever moved this fast. I'm
Speaker 1: talking like I went outside and people were like, Corona
Speaker 1: is gone. Like okay, I watched your Instagram story. I've
Speaker 1: been hanging out at home. You said that. And then,
Speaker 1: funny enough, there was a headline or a article written
Speaker 1: by Time magazine and it said America is done with
Speaker 1: COVID nineteen. They are nineteen is not done with America.
Speaker 1: And it's like, if that's not the truth, it is
Speaker 1: it really is. Carolina listened. I was outside, right, I
Speaker 1: was outside in Jersey, in the Bronx in uptown, in
Speaker 1: Midtown and going on a tour. Yeah, I wanted to
Speaker 1: see how people were moving this weekend, Carolina. People outside,
Speaker 1: no no wonder. Cuomo was like, I'm gonna lock atasses
Speaker 1: back up. Not everyone, but a lot of people are
Speaker 1: done with Corona. I was on like I was in Midtown.
Speaker 1: I went through the village. I'm talking like hundreds of
Speaker 1: people outside of the bars drinking and hanging out like
Speaker 1: just like whatever, like people are done with COVID nineteen.
Speaker 1: Like they're like I'm ready to get back to my
Speaker 1: regular life. I'm going to risk it all. But that's
Speaker 1: the thing. It's like, you know, we've spoken about this
Speaker 1: at length over the past couple of episodes, you know,
Speaker 1: and I don't want to spend too much more time
Speaker 1: on it because I feel like there's like quarantine fatigue,
Speaker 1: there's COVID fatigue. But like, I definitely believe that there
Speaker 1: is something. I think New Yorkers I do have to
Speaker 1: pick us up right now because I think we crushed
Speaker 1: it as far as like the social distancing and staying home.
Speaker 1: I really do. I think the numbers show it. I
Speaker 1: think the behavior shows it. I think that now we're
Speaker 1: getting a little to relax, and that's why, as you said,
Speaker 1: with Cuomo, he's like kind of whipping us into shape.
Speaker 1: But my hope is that we did the good work
Speaker 1: in the beginning. We did. We really did an amazing job.
Speaker 1: First of all, aparently know the fact that they were
Speaker 1: able to lack down New York for like two full
Speaker 1: and then people weren't outside like boycotting, and like while
Speaker 1: now like because of the pandemic and because of the lockdown,
Speaker 1: that's huge. I almost I almost regret not taking a
Speaker 1: trip into the city at that point to see how
Speaker 1: beautiful it was without anyone, without the hustle and bustle
Speaker 1: as we know it. Well, you know, guys, Okay, so
Speaker 1: we're gonna let you in on a little secret right now.
Speaker 1: So earlier, well, you know what the secret is. Earlier today,
Speaker 1: we got an email from our you know, from our
Speaker 1: company saying, you know, we're expecting to move back into
Speaker 1: the offices on such and such date. And you know,
Speaker 1: a little part of me, a little tiny part of me,
Speaker 1: was like, oh man, But then there was that other
Speaker 1: part where it's like I get to be me again.
Speaker 1: I get to go back to the city. I get
Speaker 1: to start really getting back into my routine of who
Speaker 1: I am and how I move. And it's like, I'm
Speaker 1: I'm looking forward to it, but I definitely have that
Speaker 1: re entry anxiety. And we're gonna keep you guys posted
Speaker 1: and let you know how things go for us, like
Speaker 1: along the way, you know, But how did you feel
Speaker 1: when you saw it? Um, I wasn't expecting anything sooner.
Speaker 1: Labor Day was kind of like my my own you know,
Speaker 1: cut off, like Okay, this is the time, and then
Speaker 1: maybe I'll get back into the into the train, and
Speaker 1: then I was like, Okay, you know things are starting
Speaker 1: to reopen, so maybe working from home right that bad
Speaker 1: once I can go outside because working from home, you know,
Speaker 1: while I've been blessed and and and happy to have
Speaker 1: a job being at home and only doing one thing,
Speaker 1: which was working, and then maybe like it's been a
Speaker 1: lot for me, like it really has. And the other
Speaker 1: day I was like, well my life back, Like I
Speaker 1: really feel like my whole entire core of who I was,
Speaker 1: how I moved, where I went, like it was all stripped.
Speaker 1: But don't you think that says something about us though,
Speaker 1: that like our work defines us. Like I was thinking
Speaker 1: about this too, because in the past, I would be
Speaker 1: like I was that person that was overscheduled, and you
Speaker 1: know that. I mean you would see my hand and
Speaker 1: you know we're all over scheduled. Though I'm not just
Speaker 1: saying it for myself. I feel like you You're worth
Speaker 1: was put into how much time you had left right like,
Speaker 1: oh I can, I'm just so busy. I don't have
Speaker 1: time for this or that, you know, And so I
Speaker 1: think that this is every set that really was both
Speaker 1: of us. Though I'm not even gonna lie to you.
Speaker 1: Every time, you would look at like you were doing
Speaker 1: something I could barely like, I'm like walking talk walk
Speaker 1: and talk like we were both heading somewhere as soon
Speaker 1: as we finished. But I'm always out of breath. You know.
Speaker 1: It's like I always sound like I ran a marathon,
Speaker 1: don't look like it, but I always felt like I'm like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I gotta go here. Okay. Yeah, so you know, but
Speaker 1: like now this has really made me pause and take
Speaker 1: a moment and like really digest what's going on and
Speaker 1: also try to see how I can continue some of
Speaker 1: these good practices that I've picked up along the way,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like to be present and
Speaker 1: to put the phone down, to not be so locked
Speaker 1: into social media and stuff. So um but no, speaking
Speaker 1: of which, you posted a meme today and I was
Speaker 1: crying when I saw it, and it's talking about all
Speaker 1: of the fantasies you had as a kid, when your
Speaker 1: parents would be mad at you, not when my parents
Speaker 1: were mad at me, when my be the living ship
Speaker 1: out of me. Were you making plans? I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna run away from home. I'm gonna run
Speaker 1: away and they are gonna miss me, and I'm gonna
Speaker 1: show them. And by the way, I was like nine, okay, Earlina,
Speaker 1: I was that kid that used to say, I wish
Speaker 1: I wish I was never born, Like that's dramatic. I
Speaker 1: was like, that is drama. You know. I actually look
Speaker 1: exactly like my dad. And I even accused them, I'm
Speaker 1: not from this family. I don't believe. I don't believe
Speaker 1: I belong in this family. Yeah, but Latino parents, like
Speaker 1: growing up, it was just accustomed to like beat your kids,
Speaker 1: you know, like yeah, maybe not all families, but I
Speaker 1: got whipped. I got whipped like at least once a week.
Speaker 1: Like my mother wanted to see blood if I if
Speaker 1: I cursed. My mother needed to bust my lip, like
Speaker 1: I needed to go to sleep, you know, with the
Speaker 1: whole like yeah, yeah, you can't catch your breathe. So
Speaker 1: but trust me, every time I would get that beat down,
Speaker 1: I would be like, nah, I gotta escape this family.
Speaker 1: I gotta figure out where I and you know what,
Speaker 1: I used to go live with my grandmother at times.
Speaker 1: Sometimes I would live with my grandmother for like six months.
Speaker 1: Sometimes I would go live with my dad for like
Speaker 1: a year. She would give you a sabbatical. That's that's
Speaker 1: like literally a sabbatical. My mom would not let us escape,
Speaker 1: and she was like no, no, no, no, you stay
Speaker 1: here someone I cannot again, you know, like she was
Speaker 1: just not playing with letting us escape to anybody else's house. No,
Speaker 1: my mother wanted a break from me. I was a
Speaker 1: really really bad kid, like that that kid that you're like, wow,
Speaker 1: this kid is gonna put me in the early grade.
Speaker 1: That was me. But my mom explains a lot of
Speaker 1: things to me now that makes sense, and she's just like,
Speaker 1: you know, you were reading when you were like two
Speaker 1: and a half years old. She was like, you were
Speaker 1: just mentally very mature. So we wanted to discipline you
Speaker 1: and tell you how to do things. You already thought
Speaker 1: you were an adult because you were so far advanced mentally.
Speaker 1: So we clashed a lot because when I was ten,
Speaker 1: I probably had the mentality of fifteen year old. So
Speaker 1: it was just like, I'm ten years old, but don't
Speaker 1: tell me what to do it, don't tell me how
Speaker 1: to dress, don't tell me what to sit. So of
Speaker 1: course that don't sit right with any parents. No, no,
Speaker 1: of course, Well right now I'm going through with my
Speaker 1: two I said to my son, No, uh, I go
Speaker 1: you know, last week of distance learning, we did it.
Speaker 1: You can do this. I have like a big present
Speaker 1: for them for the last day of school, Oh for sure, Yeah,
Speaker 1: because I wanted to just celebrate them. They rocked it,
Speaker 1: you know. And so I said to him the other day, said,
Speaker 1: come on, buddy, you can do this. You know, we gotta.
Speaker 1: He goes, mom, I don't even know why you're making
Speaker 1: me do this. I already know all this stuff. Okay.
Speaker 1: I go, well, no, there's a whole lot that you
Speaker 1: don't know. And uh and he goes, Mommy, come on,
Speaker 1: And I said, but it's like he's very serious when
Speaker 1: he says, like he truly believes that he knows, you know.
Speaker 1: But it's like I have a different way of parenting,
Speaker 1: and so for him, I'm just like, well, you might
Speaker 1: know a lot, but there's always something to learn, you know,
Speaker 1: something's not even as adults. You know. I love teaching,
Speaker 1: but I also love learning. And can I tell you
Speaker 1: one thing, Carolina. The other days, I felt like I
Speaker 1: need an older person in my life, and that if
Speaker 1: that makes sense, like somebody I can go to, because
Speaker 1: I've become the go to person for everybody else. And
Speaker 1: you know, I'm using my mom more. Now I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: you know what, let me just use my mom more.
Speaker 1: But I at the beginning, I disassociated herself. You know,
Speaker 1: I disassociated like me from being able to go to
Speaker 1: her because I felt like, Okay, she's my mom. I
Speaker 1: can't really like tell her the things I want to say,
Speaker 1: or she's not going to understand. You know, she's sixty.
Speaker 1: It's like she's not going to get it. But now
Speaker 1: it's like I've turned to her during the pandemic and
Speaker 1: I find that she's there, I can use her, and
Speaker 1: I asked her these questions, and for like twenty years,
Speaker 1: I haven't resorted to her for anything. That's growth. That's
Speaker 1: growth for both of you, you know. I mean, I
Speaker 1: think I found that space with my mom because I
Speaker 1: didn't necessarily get along with my mother growing up either,
Speaker 1: And I think that might be like maybe I don't
Speaker 1: know if it's a woman thing because I don't have daughters,
Speaker 1: but you know, I definitely clashed with my mother, maybe
Speaker 1: because we're both very motivated, hardheaded or stubborn, however you
Speaker 1: want to put it. But like, I definitely found that
Speaker 1: space with my mom later on in my twenties and
Speaker 1: I think eventually you do find that, you know, like
Speaker 1: you you find a way to go back to them
Speaker 1: for that advice or you know, for their input. Whereas
Speaker 1: before I never wanted to know what she thought. You know,
Speaker 1: I didn't need it my mom. In my mind, my
Speaker 1: mom did not exist when it came to like seeking
Speaker 1: advice or what does she know? Exactly, Like I don't
Speaker 1: want to talk to my mom about my marriage problems.
Speaker 1: I want to talk to my girlfriends. But then I
Speaker 1: started realizing I'm like, Okay, I am the girlfriend that
Speaker 1: gives the advice, Like who advising me? And who better
Speaker 1: than Vena that's been married three times? Like I mean
Speaker 1: you're Carryan's okay, you need rent and Aulita you need one.
Speaker 1: It's like we need to start a business, you know,
Speaker 1: killa Um, Well, you know what, I just think that
Speaker 1: now as we've grown out of this whole situation, I
Speaker 1: think that's the beautiful thing. And we had mentioned this
Speaker 1: in the last podcast, is that your family, you guys,
Speaker 1: have become even more bond. Your bond is stronger, you
Speaker 1: become more connected, and that's always a beautiful thing, you know,
Speaker 1: at least for me, I think it's wonderful to find
Speaker 1: those inroads with people because that's gonna last. You know,
Speaker 1: it's good, it's good. I feel like the most amazing
Speaker 1: thing to come out of all of this has been
Speaker 1: my ability to reconnect with my family, Like we're all
Speaker 1: we're all gonna go like see my mom for her birthday,
Speaker 1: Like we've never done that. I'm talking like that's awesome.
Speaker 1: That's like, Oh, we're gonna surprise Mom. It's like I've
Speaker 1: told you, you know, in all of our life and
Speaker 1: spanquished listeners that you know, some people reach out to
Speaker 1: me like I have a very complicted relationship with my
Speaker 1: mom just like you do. And I want whoever is
Speaker 1: listening that has this situation to know that there can
Speaker 1: be a resolution, that that there can be a change.
Speaker 1: Like I really thought like I am going to die
Speaker 1: with a bad relationship with my mom. But these months
Speaker 1: it's gotten so much better. And it's like we no
Speaker 1: longer argue now. It's like we joke around. I'm like, Mom,
Speaker 1: did you see Trump? Oh? See to be local, you know,
Speaker 1: and we go back and forth. So it's like that's
Speaker 1: that's something, but something I'm proud of. Actually, that's amazing
Speaker 1: and there's common ground there and you found it, you know,
Speaker 1: like and despite like the circumstances, which I'm sure you
Speaker 1: wish they would have been better, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: like that you didn't have to find it in this way.
Speaker 1: But I think it's just it's wonderful. And you know
Speaker 1: what I you need to cultivate that and make sure
Speaker 1: that it continues. Now, we got a problem on our
Speaker 1: hands because most around Father's Day is coming up on
Speaker 1: each other. Carolina And okay, so I did the most
Speaker 1: on this Father's Day because I couldn't go to stores. Now,
Speaker 1: mind you, I told you before. Mark is very different
Speaker 1: from Noony. He does not want anything. He does not
Speaker 1: want me to buy him things. He doesn't want shoes,
Speaker 1: He's not There isn't anything that I could buy this
Speaker 1: guy that he would be like. This is amazing. Other
Speaker 1: than a dog, Okay, that's all this man wants. He
Speaker 1: wants a dog. No girl, he doesn't want just a dog.
Speaker 1: He wants a fucking German shepherd. Okay, listen, that's my
Speaker 1: dream dog. Don't get me. Oh my gosh, I'm talking
Speaker 1: to the wrong person. Then, so I stupidly said no, no,
Speaker 1: I said to my girlfriends, I said, all right, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna call I'm gonna get this ball rolling. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: try to get this dude to dog because like that
Speaker 1: is just as mine. First of all, all the shelters
Speaker 1: are closed. Even if the shelters were open, all of
Speaker 1: the dogs have been adopted or rescued because quarantine time.
Speaker 1: Because I said I would get him a German Shepherd mix.
Speaker 1: I I rescued my last baby, my my little girl,
Speaker 1: my Chihuahua mix, and UM, and I always try to
Speaker 1: go to the rescues first, you know, because I do
Speaker 1: think that there are some really incredible dogs. So no,
Speaker 1: I got shut down by um three of the ones
Speaker 1: that are around here. So I said, all right, well
Speaker 1: let me reach out to some breeders. I had a
Speaker 1: breeder laugh at me on the phone, and she said,
Speaker 1: you wanna what I said I would like, I'm inquiring
Speaker 1: about a puppy. She said, well, you're going to need
Speaker 1: to wait until December at this point because people are
Speaker 1: dog crazy. Who knew? Who knew that? Like everybody has
Speaker 1: been going for these dogs, right and so um, I
Speaker 1: found one that said that she might have a litter
Speaker 1: in July or something that where somebody might drop out.
Speaker 1: I said, can you put me on a list? She goes, well,
Speaker 1: you're like tenth on the list. So I said, this
Speaker 1: is just like so anyway, I oh, ship, hold on,
Speaker 1: let's decline that. Okay, Um, are they going to hear
Speaker 1: that on the podcast? Oh no, I'm gonna edit out.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say leave it. Who cares? People need to
Speaker 1: know we're like doing this on our computer. Leave it.
Speaker 1: Make your life easier. So then I asked his mom
Speaker 1: to send me like a million pictures of him with
Speaker 1: his father. My husband's father passed the year after we
Speaker 1: were married, so he never got to meet our sons.
Speaker 1: He was, I mean, honey, it's a really beautiful thing.
Speaker 1: Like I was looking through these pictures of my husband
Speaker 1: with his dad when he was a kid. The look
Speaker 1: in his dad's eyes of adoration and just love, you know,
Speaker 1: it was it was so incredible to just do that.
Speaker 1: So I made a photo album for him to share
Speaker 1: with our boys, because our boys always asked about his dad,
Speaker 1: and he doesn't really talk about him. I don't know
Speaker 1: if it's a guy thing. I don't know if it
Speaker 1: makes them sad. You know, Mark is just like a
Speaker 1: steel trap, Like he just doesn't really so I'm really
Speaker 1: hoping I get some tears on this Father's Day. I said,
Speaker 1: that's that's yeah. Yeah, so I record it. Make sure
Speaker 1: you record it when he opens up the video, even
Speaker 1: I mean the album, even if it's just for you.
Speaker 1: I record a lot of stuff. I'm the person that
Speaker 1: records everything, like yeah, but then I don't know what
Speaker 1: to do with it, Like what do I do? My
Speaker 1: memory is full, honey, where do I put this ship?
Speaker 1: Needs up? There? Your damn phone? Talking about your memory
Speaker 1: is like listen, I record everything I'm gonna tell you.
Speaker 1: During the pandemic Nooni's best friend Covide, and this man
Speaker 1: really thought he was gonna die and he was being
Speaker 1: a real big baby, and I recorded him every single
Speaker 1: time on face time, and I have those videos that
Speaker 1: I'm going to share them with him one day. Oh
Speaker 1: my gosh. That's so thoughtful, though, Like I just don't
Speaker 1: think that way. While they would be on face time,
Speaker 1: I would record Neonie's phone so that he can have
Speaker 1: these videos later on, because he was really like I'm
Speaker 1: gonna die. Like that's so scary. Though, that is so scary,
Speaker 1: But it's like that's the bottom, Like this is your
Speaker 1: worst moment in your life, and like you can have
Speaker 1: a video, you can watch it and you can see
Speaker 1: what you dodged on that person. Look, you were being
Speaker 1: a drama king. Okay, so now I'm gonna just throw
Speaker 1: this back at you so you can realize how extra
Speaker 1: you were being. Um No, but talking about our husbands.
Speaker 1: You had Noonie on your Instagram live and I was
Speaker 1: on your story. Honey, you need to be nicer to NOONI.
Speaker 1: I'm he was. He was angry, you were. You were
Speaker 1: busting on him. He was just trying to drink his
Speaker 1: sun kissed in peace, and you darken on me. You listen,
Speaker 1: you don't even understand what this man as hung Greek.
Speaker 1: I'm just hungry. I'm starving, and I'm like, O, can
Speaker 1: we go here? No, I'm hungry. Like I'm saying, I
Speaker 1: don't feed this man. Things do not neutralize and calm down.
Speaker 1: But now are you responsible for that? Now even more
Speaker 1: because of the pandemic, Like have you been feeding this man?
Speaker 1: Like you're responsible for breakfast, lunch and dinner for breakfast
Speaker 1: and then I'm responsible for like lunch and dinner. And
Speaker 1: but now you know what's crazy, Carolan, Like the first
Speaker 1: month and a half. We were like crazy in the kitchen.
Speaker 1: Now it's just like I'm tired of eating. I am
Speaker 1: tired of cooking. Get a pizza at Albis and put
Speaker 1: it in the oven, like I'm not doing this anymore.
Speaker 1: Those five course meals, rasta pasta, you know, Chinese fool
Speaker 1: because those are gone. Out Door dining is open. I'm
Speaker 1: about to go to Ruoney's one a weekend, get a
Speaker 1: table by the corner, and like, oh my god, this
Speaker 1: man's made. I gave my kids Lucky Charms the other
Speaker 1: night for dinner because I am a cool mom. I'm
Speaker 1: not a regular mom. I said to them, I go,
Speaker 1: you know what, are you hungry? They said yeah, and
Speaker 1: I was like, there's leftovers. They're like, we don't want leftovers.
Speaker 1: And I said, you know what we're gonna do? They
Speaker 1: said what I go, I'm gonna give you guys a treat.
Speaker 1: I said, it's Lucky Charms night. They lost their minds.
Speaker 1: One of them took his shirt off. He was swinging
Speaker 1: his shirt around. I'm not even kidding. The little one
Speaker 1: he took a shot. He was like lucking sharms like
Speaker 1: They're like, mom has completely lost its Mama is sick.
Speaker 1: And tired. How about that? I said, That's what I said.
Speaker 1: I was like, you can have leftovers. There's some pizza.
Speaker 1: It was like on a Tuesday, the pizza was left
Speaker 1: over from Friday, so you know, it was like not
Speaker 1: even good anywhere refresh. But like that's the thing I said,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna release myself of any of the like pressure judgments.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let them have those moments, pancakes for dinner,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, because it's like those are
Speaker 1: the memories that they're gonna remember. Yeah, no, they are,
Speaker 1: and it's listened. They already locked up, like we were
Speaker 1: like we can talk about this forever, like being pretty
Speaker 1: much like our house. Arrest for the past few months
Speaker 1: has been hard on adults, but it's been even harder
Speaker 1: on kids because it's like people that are working, It's
Speaker 1: like those kids are ignored to half the time because
Speaker 1: you don't have time to be coddling them and talking
Speaker 1: to them all day long. It's like, now, I do
Speaker 1: you do? Yeah, but tell me don't like, of course,
Speaker 1: thank god you do. Imagine being stressed out with a
Speaker 1: boss all day long, demanding your attention from nine am
Speaker 1: to five pm. How do you even like take care
Speaker 1: of the kids, homeschool them. Talk to my heart. My
Speaker 1: heart hurts for one of my dearest friends. She is
Speaker 1: a she's uh seven to seven or that's what I say,
Speaker 1: seven am in the morning until seven o'clock at night.
Speaker 1: You know, that was like her commute. She would leave
Speaker 1: at seven o'clock in the morning and be back by
Speaker 1: seven with her kids. And so her boss doesn't understand
Speaker 1: the limitations. So this girl has been doing it all
Speaker 1: and I feel for her, I really really do, because
Speaker 1: I said, you know, I get to turn it off
Speaker 1: after ten and my meetings and whatever. I get to
Speaker 1: be fully present for my kids like that. It's not everybody,
Speaker 1: and it's not lost on me, man, you know, it's
Speaker 1: it's a good And then I think a lot of
Speaker 1: people are very afraid of losing their jobs during this pandemic,
Speaker 1: so they're not wanting to set any boundaries. It's just
Speaker 1: like I can't say no, I can't not jump on calls,
Speaker 1: I cannot not jump on meetings because people are very
Speaker 1: fearful that like, you know, if you lose your job, now,
Speaker 1: when can you possibly be employed again? And it's like,
Speaker 1: you know, you have people right now taking advantage of
Speaker 1: the extra six hundred dollars that are coming in through
Speaker 1: the stimulus package. But that's only two July thirty one.
Speaker 1: After July thirty one, you're on your own. There's no
Speaker 1: more thousand dollars a week. What is this? What is
Speaker 1: this vacation stimulus that you were talking about though, or
Speaker 1: that power posted earlier today, there's some type of four
Speaker 1: thousand dollars check or something. Is this for certain people?
Speaker 1: Or what is that about? So it's like it's going
Speaker 1: to be like a tax break, like four thousand dollars
Speaker 1: worth of tax break. So they're encouraging like for people
Speaker 1: to travel and then spend up to four thousand dollars
Speaker 1: and you put it on your taxes of like a
Speaker 1: tax break, like a travel tax break. That's what it is.
Speaker 1: And we're not getting a travel check, but gotcha, Yeah,
Speaker 1: we'll be I'm glad I read that article because I
Speaker 1: did not know you were going to ask me, But
Speaker 1: you know, my nose as was like, I'm sending me
Speaker 1: four thousand hours to go back to the r for
Speaker 1: a month because I need to know. I said to
Speaker 1: my husband, we were scheduled to go on vacation um,
Speaker 1: and I said to my husband, I go, the only
Speaker 1: way I will travel within the next six months is
Speaker 1: if they come up with a human sized condom for
Speaker 1: me to wear all over my body so that I
Speaker 1: can just strip that thing down. No, LU, by the way,
Speaker 1: because I'll just I'll take that shut off. I said.
Speaker 1: I am not trying right now to like get on
Speaker 1: any planes. You know, I've actually googled. This is how
Speaker 1: freaking crazy I am, Honey, I'm embarrassed to say this.
Speaker 1: I googled disposable seat covers, disposable trade covers. I have
Speaker 1: about seventy of them in my house. I already ordered
Speaker 1: them because I thought we were going to go on
Speaker 1: this vacation in Hawaii, so I was thinking, yeah, I
Speaker 1: was thinking, these kids are gonna get on this plane
Speaker 1: and be touching everything. Thank goodness, it got canceled, you know,
Speaker 1: because if they cancel the flight, you get your money back, right,
Speaker 1: but they get credit. I had two credits. I didn't
Speaker 1: get no money back from anybody. No, they can't. They
Speaker 1: straight up canceled the flight. So when they canceled it
Speaker 1: on this airline at least um on Hawaiian air, um,
Speaker 1: they give you your money back so because it was canceled.
Speaker 1: And so I said to market, what am I gonna
Speaker 1: do with seventy two? Trade that so much? It was Amazon,
Speaker 1: and I thought, you know, these kids are always putting
Speaker 1: their fingers and stuff all over the place. I'm just gonna, like,
Speaker 1: you know, cover the whole thing in these trade table covers.
Speaker 1: But like for meal, like what is it gonna take.
Speaker 1: I saw somebody, a reporter on a plane, and I'm
Speaker 1: not even exaggerating, wearing goggles, wearing a mask. I think
Speaker 1: I saw that. Did you see that? It was on
Speaker 1: NBC Nightly News, right, Okay, So this guy went on.
Speaker 1: He was wearing goggles that were like suction to his eyes,
Speaker 1: he was wearing a mask, he had um, he said
Speaker 1: that he had on gloves, He wiped down the seats,
Speaker 1: he did all of that. I just I don't know
Speaker 1: how long it's going to be until I get out
Speaker 1: and about again like that. I'm traveling in like two weeks.
Speaker 1: Stop it, Where are you going? I'm done, Carolina. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna chem clean you if Carolina, I'm over it. And
Speaker 1: so many people that I know have been traveling during
Speaker 1: the pandemic, like to Aarga, to Florida and they they're
Speaker 1: proud of the problem, that's the spike. Yeah, but they
Speaker 1: don't have Corona and they never caught Corona. So it's weird,
Speaker 1: you know. So it's like I need I need to
Speaker 1: break I need to break a scenery. I need to
Speaker 1: like get out of my house. Where are you going?
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to Miami. Left on my um my
Speaker 1: brother lives in Miami, and I'm just gonna go work
Speaker 1: from there. Be good for you, good for you. Listen.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be out and about. I'm gonna go home.
Speaker 1: I mean, he's I'm I'm negative. He's negative, and I'm
Speaker 1: just gonna go down there and just you don't change
Speaker 1: my scenery. I've been in this house since March. I
Speaker 1: am going crazy when I don't blame you. No, you
Speaker 1: need that mental sanity. You need the mental sanity. I
Speaker 1: mean for me, I'm you know, I don't want to
Speaker 1: say I'm stuck here, but I am going to be
Speaker 1: here with my kids like camp and all that. So
Speaker 1: you take a little bit different. It's like for me,
Speaker 1: it's like, Okay, I'm gonna go work for Miami for
Speaker 1: two weeks. Like nobody's gonna care and what's good for you.
Speaker 1: I I applaud it. I think it's wonderful. I want
Speaker 1: you to burn the clothes that you go and wear
Speaker 1: some old, nasty ass clothes that when you just you
Speaker 1: don't play with me. I got new clothes to go
Speaker 1: to Miami. You are not impressing anybody on that plane, honey, German.
Speaker 1: You wear clothes that you will throw away on the plane.
Speaker 1: First of all, the plane the middle row. Nobody gets
Speaker 1: to sit in it, so like it's only like window
Speaker 1: and asle okay, okay, uh huh. And I don't know.
Speaker 1: It's like I started to feel like New York was
Speaker 1: like the epicenter of the of the Corona. It's like
Speaker 1: where else can I go that could be worse than
Speaker 1: New York right now? Florida or Arizona. No, you know
Speaker 1: what it is. I just think like this is a
Speaker 1: time where you have to really be non judgmental. And
Speaker 1: I swear to you, I'm not judging you. I actually
Speaker 1: am a little bit envious because my whole family is
Speaker 1: in Florida, and I am in Florida too. I said
Speaker 1: to my sister. They all got together this past week
Speaker 1: and they were sending pictures and I was like, Pomo,
Speaker 1: I said, you know, I'm just so sad that I
Speaker 1: can't be there with you guys, But I do know
Speaker 1: the best place for me to be right now is
Speaker 1: to stay put and to like be here with my kids.
Speaker 1: You know, you know that brings me to this Caroline,
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel I see a lot of
Speaker 1: people just judging so much, and it's like, yeah, everybody
Speaker 1: knows when it's going to be right for them to
Speaker 1: go outside, everybody knows when it's gonna be okay for
Speaker 1: them to travel. But I just see like, all my god,
Speaker 1: people are outside. My god, this person went here. It's
Speaker 1: like such an individual thing, and it's like, Okay, if
Speaker 1: you decide you want to stay in your house through September,
Speaker 1: like go for it. They're people that they're mental requires
Speaker 1: that they step outside. They don't want to go to
Speaker 1: a park or they want to Like I went to
Speaker 1: the beach and it was amazing, like just looking at
Speaker 1: the ocean and hearing the waves and the birds and
Speaker 1: the sunshine, like it actually helped me spiritually, mentally, emotionally.
Speaker 1: I just felt better, Like you need to do that,
Speaker 1: then then you need to do that for you. There
Speaker 1: are people who do I saw you at the beach,
Speaker 1: You're gonna catch No, you're not. No, you're not. You
Speaker 1: can't be going out looking on cute though without a
Speaker 1: mask because I did call you out on that picture.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna take the picture with the mask. I
Speaker 1: was never the person that took the picture with the mask.
Speaker 1: Like everybody selfies with the mask. I'm like, Okay, here
Speaker 1: we go. Do we want to understand I've seen like
Speaker 1: three dollars any of these selfies with the stupid masks.
Speaker 1: You don't want my d I y um person duster,
Speaker 1: It's over if you didn't do the mask with Oh
Speaker 1: my god, I cannot wait. I cannot wait to start
Speaker 1: posting all of my my homemade masks. And you know what,
Speaker 1: I want to talk a little bit about posting on
Speaker 1: social media, Carolina, because I keep talking to different people
Speaker 1: and they don't know like what to post, or if
Speaker 1: they can post, or if they can post about their life.
Speaker 1: And you know that people are like in in weird spaces,
Speaker 1: Like I was talking to Ashley. You know, she's a
Speaker 1: makeup influencer, like a beating and her and like other
Speaker 1: influencers are like do people really want to see me
Speaker 1: post my makeup right now? Like, considering the climate and
Speaker 1: everything that's happening with Black Lives Matter, where people dying
Speaker 1: with grown up with police brutality, and you know, social
Speaker 1: media is a weird space right now. I'll tell you
Speaker 1: your tone, what you post, how you look. Here's the
Speaker 1: issue you Okay, So I don't know what advice you
Speaker 1: gave Ashley, but me knowing Ashley and what a sincere
Speaker 1: and beautiful person she is, my advice to her would
Speaker 1: be too preface whatever video she's going to be doing
Speaker 1: by saying like, hey, guys, I know there's a lot
Speaker 1: going on right now. I you know, but um, I
Speaker 1: thought maybe it might be time for me to share
Speaker 1: something positive with you guys. That might be helpful. But
Speaker 1: the problem is people don't listen. People just scroll through.
Speaker 1: They tapped through, and then they would they would miss
Speaker 1: that and only get Oh, I can't believe that Ashley
Speaker 1: is supposed to make up videos right now? You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So it's like, even with the best
Speaker 1: of intentions, that's why I think you just got to
Speaker 1: be true to you. She has to be true to herself,
Speaker 1: and she's doing such an amazing job, both her and Bella.
Speaker 1: They've been posting like beauty brands owned by black women,
Speaker 1: black owned. I've seen it. But they're trying so hard
Speaker 1: to like really give back and in a genuine way,
Speaker 1: like they really want to help, they really want to
Speaker 1: be involved, they really want to bring awareness. But a
Speaker 1: lot of people are stuck on, like is it appropriate
Speaker 1: for me to continue? And I saw this one influence her,
Speaker 1: Like people were like trashing her because she posted something.
Speaker 1: She's like, listen, guys, I'm contracted. I was paid for
Speaker 1: these these posts. I can't no longer do my job.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get suited, Like I understand, and I want
Speaker 1: to support. And the problem is bigger than me and
Speaker 1: my bathing suit because it was like a picture in
Speaker 1: a bathing suit for Fashion Nova or something. She please
Speaker 1: understand me also. But one thing I did realize is
Speaker 1: that people welcome you know, when I posted like a
Speaker 1: video of me bathing my dog, like some people were like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, you're so mean to her. You were
Speaker 1: so mean to Roxy. I was so mad at you.
Speaker 1: I was like, leave her alone. No, she she has rights,
Speaker 1: she has rights. She was cold. Yeah, she she's always trembling.
Speaker 1: She's not dramatic. The water's warm, she's getting a bubble bad.
Speaker 1: She don't towel. Nobody does that for me. Carol bumping
Speaker 1: up a couple of degrees, Honey, I mean you pay
Speaker 1: for the water that the water was. They look so
Speaker 1: cold that poor baby, like her little nails were coming out.
Speaker 1: I was like, my baby, Oh my gosh, she made
Speaker 1: it through. But listen when Moost in the video, some
Speaker 1: people were like, oh my god, that's so cute, or
Speaker 1: you made me laugh, or you took my mind off
Speaker 1: of like all this other like heavy heavy stuff that's happening.
Speaker 1: So don't underestimate, you know, you talking to your followers
Speaker 1: that discussing going on, or you know, even me, Like
Speaker 1: sometimes I my guys, I'm gonna take it a day
Speaker 1: to like really disconnect because I do a lot, like
Speaker 1: I post a lot, I bring a lot of awareness.
Speaker 1: I do a lot of articles on power. It's like
Speaker 1: we want to make sure everyone is is super woke
Speaker 1: and everyone is getting the justice that they need. So
Speaker 1: sometimes I have to like recharge my battery and I
Speaker 1: tell them I'm like, good for you. I'm gonna I'm
Speaker 1: gonna back off, like today, I'm not really gonna be on,
Speaker 1: and that's Saturday's. Saturday's I barely post and I barely
Speaker 1: go on social media good. Social media is a weird
Speaker 1: place right now, and you know, I just fall off.
Speaker 1: I don't need to make the announcement. I'm like bye,
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'll be back when I'm back, you know.
Speaker 1: I just I don't And I need to say this
Speaker 1: because I think it's important for people to hear. I
Speaker 1: don't care about getting new followers and things like that.
Speaker 1: I care about the followers that I have, that have
Speaker 1: been with me, that ride with me, that understand why
Speaker 1: I take days off or why I don't come on,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So it's like there's a
Speaker 1: big difference between people who are influencers. I'm not um
Speaker 1: and I I just value my relationship with the people
Speaker 1: who do follow me, and I think that there needs
Speaker 1: to be authenticity there and they know it, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. So, like for this influencer, for example,
Speaker 1: that you said got dragged because she posted her swimsuits, personally,
Speaker 1: I'll tell you I had a program that was through
Speaker 1: the station. I reached out to the account executive and
Speaker 1: I said, I I'm writing this to you. I hope
Speaker 1: you're well. I hope your family as well. We have
Speaker 1: a program coming up. I don't think it's in our
Speaker 1: best interest to post things like this of this nature
Speaker 1: right now, given the you know, current situation in the
Speaker 1: news and how everybody's feeling. Um, you know, please let
Speaker 1: the company know that these are my thoughts. I'd love
Speaker 1: to hear where they want to go with it. And
Speaker 1: luckily the company was receptive to that, and they said,
Speaker 1: you know what, great point, you know, but it's like,
Speaker 1: you can't fall this young lady. You don't know the
Speaker 1: behind the scenes. She may well have written to these
Speaker 1: people and said, look, I can't do this right now.
Speaker 1: A contract is a contract, and business is business and
Speaker 1: people need to make money. And that company probably said,
Speaker 1: we need the eyeballs that you have on your account
Speaker 1: and we needed a post right now, you know. So
Speaker 1: I just think it's like a time for people to
Speaker 1: be a little more understanding, be a little more flexible,
Speaker 1: treat people how you would want to be treated. I know,
Speaker 1: it's the golden rule, it goes back to that, but
Speaker 1: it's it's really true though, you know, it really really is.
Speaker 1: Somebody's late fifteen minutes. Give him a break, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. I think that that's really kind of
Speaker 1: like where you have to understand that, you know, you're
Speaker 1: I had a situation too with like, you know, these
Speaker 1: car parades, these kids, you know, they have car parades,
Speaker 1: and you got to go and celebrate all these kids
Speaker 1: and you feel bad because it's their birthday and quarantine.
Speaker 1: I I swear to you, with everything that's been going on,
Speaker 1: I forgot about one entirely. I sent the in my opinion,
Speaker 1: the sincerest apology to the mother and I said, I
Speaker 1: I am so sorry. I did not rs VP. So
Speaker 1: I did not have it in my calendar. If it's
Speaker 1: not in my calendar, it's not happening, because that's just
Speaker 1: the way I live my life, you know. And I
Speaker 1: said a little gift and I said, you know, my
Speaker 1: sincerest apologies for us missing it. I hope she had
Speaker 1: a wonderful day, you know. But it's just like right now,
Speaker 1: there's just a hell of a lot going on, you know,
Speaker 1: so you just got to give people a break now.
Speaker 1: You have to, you have to, and and right now
Speaker 1: it's a weird it's a weird time. It's a very
Speaker 1: very very weird time. Everything is is is happening at once,
Speaker 1: you know, but I just really pray that, you know,
Speaker 1: the cha age continues to happen, because change is happening,
Speaker 1: like we is hype yesterday when they said there's not
Speaker 1: gonna be any more playing closed offices amongst in the
Speaker 1: clubs with us, like in our own space, eating with us,
Speaker 1: you know, watching what everybody's doing, like we were like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, that's it. No more dts. You know
Speaker 1: when they target a lot of like Inner City Black
Speaker 1: and Latino, what is the DT. Yeah, like the undercover detectives. Detectives,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, there will be addressed in like playing clothes,
Speaker 1: going to the same clubs that we go to, watching
Speaker 1: Pops Bottles, trying to figure out their Instagram to then
Speaker 1: target them and investigate them. So it's really, yeah, that's
Speaker 1: what they do. And then you have the hip hop police,
Speaker 1: like they're another set of problematic police officers that we've
Speaker 1: always dealt with here in New York. So for NYPP
Speaker 1: to say they are no longer going to be any
Speaker 1: more playing closed officers amongst minorities, you know, just just listen.
Speaker 1: Put them in cop close. Let us see that there's
Speaker 1: a cop there, don't me commit all types of crimes
Speaker 1: because it's it's kind of like a trickery if you
Speaker 1: if you ask me sold that it's it's hoodwinking. They're
Speaker 1: hoodwinking you exactly, and you know it probably a smoking
Speaker 1: and drinking and you know, the money on the table,
Speaker 1: and this guy next to us like, who are these people?
Speaker 1: Let's investigate them. We're not gonna have any more of that.
Speaker 1: And that's that's that's a win. And I think it's
Speaker 1: just I think, you know what, you you bring up
Speaker 1: a great point because we live in America and we
Speaker 1: have our rights and you know, and I think that
Speaker 1: that to a lot of people has been a violation
Speaker 1: of rights, and it's been a violation of you know,
Speaker 1: people's personal space or you know, just like you mentioned,
Speaker 1: if you're out in the club and you decide to
Speaker 1: do whatever it is that you want to do and
Speaker 1: somebody's they're monitoring you, waiting, it's almost like they're waiting
Speaker 1: for somebody to suck it up, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: so they can Yeah, it's crazy. Then with social media,
Speaker 1: it was just like, oh, I see him, he's spending
Speaker 1: all this money. Does anybody knows don't know his Instagram.
Speaker 1: Then they follow them, then they investigate, then they wrap
Speaker 1: them up, and then they wrap up the life, and
Speaker 1: then they it becomes a mess. I'm just happy if
Speaker 1: you're a cop. I want to see that your cop.
Speaker 1: I want to see you in your clothing. I want
Speaker 1: to understand that I shouldn't be doing anything faulty or
Speaker 1: crazy in front of you. So that's when for us
Speaker 1: here in New York, you know, people are talking a
Speaker 1: lot about defunding the police and you know, bringing like
Speaker 1: I saw I think with San Francisco where they're no
Speaker 1: longer going to use police officers for like incidents involving
Speaker 1: you know, people with mental health issues, homeless. Oh I
Speaker 1: did read about that. So the um that what they're
Speaker 1: trying to do is bring in more therapists and social
Speaker 1: workers to handle situations like that where beautiful where you
Speaker 1: have more specialized people who can address the issue rather
Speaker 1: than um just arresting. And this has been a thought
Speaker 1: in this country for a long long time. You know,
Speaker 1: a lot of the mental hospitals were shut down back
Speaker 1: in the day. And I can't give you the exact year,
Speaker 1: but I have seen a documentary about the treatment of
Speaker 1: people with mental health sickness in this country and how
Speaker 1: they've gotten lost in the shuffle and they get lost
Speaker 1: in the system. And you know, there are a number
Speaker 1: of different prisons that have been um you know, erected
Speaker 1: because they just don't have the capacity. And it's because
Speaker 1: we have not been dealing with a lot of the
Speaker 1: issues that you know, when a cop picks somebody up,
Speaker 1: they just throw them in jail and they don't ever
Speaker 1: fix or rehab or you know, deal with the problem.
Speaker 1: So I think that's great. I think the shift in
Speaker 1: thinking is what I'm most celebrating. You know, the fact
Speaker 1: that we're going to sit down and look at policies
Speaker 1: and that there's a receptive nous to change. That's what
Speaker 1: I think is a win right now, you know, And
Speaker 1: we can't let up, Like the team are happening right now?
Speaker 1: Are We've been waiting for this. This is history. No,
Speaker 1: this is history. You are not realizing, like what's happening
Speaker 1: right now, Like things are changing finally, the people are
Speaker 1: being heard. And you know, much respect all of our
Speaker 1: you know gen Z, all of our millennials, they are
Speaker 1: out here. Let me, they are in the forefront. They're
Speaker 1: the ones that are at these marches, at these protests,
Speaker 1: organizing them, getting their friends together, grassroots exactly. So don't
Speaker 1: say that they're lazy and they don't have anything better
Speaker 1: to do. Listen, I take it back. I saw a
Speaker 1: meme and I was like, these gen z and these
Speaker 1: millennials are really making me proud right about now. I'm
Speaker 1: doing my part. You know, I'm not out there in
Speaker 1: the crowd, but I'm doing my part. Did you trust me?
Speaker 1: I'm doing a lot. I think there is a feeling
Speaker 1: of people who can't do enough, and I'm one of
Speaker 1: those people. I don't feel like I can do enough.
Speaker 1: I think that I'm very limited in my um scope
Speaker 1: of contribution, and that bothers me. Um, you know, monetarily.
Speaker 1: I have given to several different organizations. Um that I
Speaker 1: speak about it, but but you know what it's like,
Speaker 1: there is that part of me. And I even said
Speaker 1: to Mark, you know, we watched the Sume Street Racism, yeah,
Speaker 1: and the the town hall on racism and we watched
Speaker 1: the one on COVID nine two with our kids too,
Speaker 1: and I said to Mark, I go, you know, if
Speaker 1: this pandemic we're not out here right now, I would
Speaker 1: love to take the boys to a protest in the
Speaker 1: middle of the day, a peaceful protests to help them
Speaker 1: understand why this is such a monumental thing that's happening
Speaker 1: right now, because this is legitimately we're living through history,
Speaker 1: because the changes have needed to happen. There have been
Speaker 1: ways that different administrations have glossed over Republican Democrat, I
Speaker 1: don't care who you talked to, but they both have
Speaker 1: done it. They've glossed over the race issue. And I
Speaker 1: think the time is now. So I'm very, very excited
Speaker 1: about what is to come. You know, I think that
Speaker 1: it's been a long time coming. And there was something
Speaker 1: that I heard um on to Tupac, I think a
Speaker 1: long time ago. He was talking about how the black
Speaker 1: people in America it's not just about rest of tuition.
Speaker 1: It's about and I'm paraphrasing what he said, you know
Speaker 1: they we've been here. He said, you know, we've been here,
Speaker 1: We've been your friends. And it's a wonderful quote, and
Speaker 1: I wish I knew it off the top of my head.
Speaker 1: But he was talking about how black people have given
Speaker 1: so much to this country and and it's time for
Speaker 1: them to just just give us our rights, and Tupac
Speaker 1: was saying, this is a ninety what and what year
Speaker 1: are we in? Now? It's you know, So I apologize
Speaker 1: for the rambling. I wish I remembered the quote better,
Speaker 1: but you can look it up or I'll find it
Speaker 1: for you. But do you know what I'm talking about?
Speaker 1: Do you remember what he was? Did you ever see
Speaker 1: that interview where he was talking about how black people
Speaker 1: aren't looking for forty acres in a mule anymore? Our
Speaker 1: restitution is of a different kind. It's a very He's
Speaker 1: just he was just unbelievable that, you know what's crazy?
Speaker 1: Today's his birthday and he was such a dope soul here.
Speaker 1: Today is his birthday. Today's his Birthday's crazy that you
Speaker 1: bring it up. Oh wow, Well, you know Tupac, he
Speaker 1: may he rest in peace, you know, but like at
Speaker 1: least his words are still resonating really years decades later,
Speaker 1: And that's why I thought it was like so crazy
Speaker 1: that you know today of all days. Wow, that's nuts. Um, well,
Speaker 1: I mean, well we'll leave it at that then, I mean,
Speaker 1: I guess we wrap it up after that. Oh, Carolina,
Speaker 1: before we go, did you start watching Queen of the South, Okay,
Speaker 1: I did, and you're gonna be so proud of me. Okay,
Speaker 1: so I watched Okay, So to be fair, I've only
Speaker 1: watched two episodes, but only because Mark wants to watch
Speaker 1: it with me. This is exciting. So he yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: he said, He goes, wait, don't watch the third episode
Speaker 1: without me, and I was like, come on, I want
Speaker 1: to binge this, like I I want to catch up.
Speaker 1: There's like three or four seasons, no, like four seasons
Speaker 1: you guys booked. Well, he's only we only on the
Speaker 1: second or the third episode, and he said, don't watch
Speaker 1: it without me. He's like, because then I don't want
Speaker 1: to have to catch up. I said, okay, So now tonight,
Speaker 1: what's tonight? Uh? Yeah, tonight, we're gonna watch it because
Speaker 1: then he has late nights coming up later on in
Speaker 1: the week. So I told him, I said, we better
Speaker 1: get like two or three under our belt. At least
Speaker 1: watch two or three. You're gonna you're gonna love it.
Speaker 1: You see people listen I posted about it. They left
Speaker 1: me like four comments. Are really our followers love? Did
Speaker 1: you see them? And they love voted to wait till
Speaker 1: everything on folds You'll love boted too. Don't worry about
Speaker 1: it right now. You might hate him, but you're gonna
Speaker 1: love him later. Okay. I will let you know my
Speaker 1: thoughts and I of course will keep you guys posting. Listen.
Speaker 1: You can always reach out to us on social work
Speaker 1: at allies Spanglish, and also you can reach out to
Speaker 1: me personally. I'm at the Real Carolina and I am
Speaker 1: Honey German. That's the Instagram. Hit me on there. I'll
Speaker 1: make sure I try to get back to everyone looking
Speaker 1: all cute, all right, and you know that I didn't
Speaker 1: even have my video on because I look busted, but
Speaker 1: I made all the faces you needed and I gave
Speaker 1: you all the SIF seat that and all the you.
Speaker 1: Thank you, dab, I love you, Bye bye