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Speaker 4: All I love to do is hooting and holler. Like

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Speaker 4: Then you got if you want to if you want

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Speaker 3: It was being masculine too well, that's what I.

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Speaker 1: Well, then call me a nigga. Then I don't know

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Speaker 2: Period. What's up, y'all? Is your girl lex p And

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Speaker 4: Sober Thoughts.

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Speaker 2: We gotta guest today.

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Speaker 1: We gotta so, y'all. This episode has been highly highly requested,

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Speaker 1: like y'all have been begging us to have this beautiful

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Speaker 2: About it all the things. Give it up for my girl.

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Speaker 2: That cheeck angel joining us today. I was like, wait

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we love you, and then once I feel we

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Speaker 4: Literally because you know, I am such a fan of yours,

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Speaker 1: I was like, you're not going to go no, no,

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Speaker 2: You are so funny. Thank you. I am so serious.

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Speaker 1: And I always tell Lex Cybor who I always tell Lex, like,

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Speaker 4: Well, I think this is what it is, right and

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Speaker 1: it brings me so it genuinely, even if I wasn't

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00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:40,879
Speaker 1: like able to make a business out of it, it

439
00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:43,800
Speaker 1: brings me so much joy to have that like childlike

440
00:20:43,920 --> 00:20:46,520
Speaker 1: thing that we do. Like the world is so serious

441
00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:48,760
Speaker 1: it is, shit has fallen apart, left it right.

442
00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:51,239
Speaker 2: Sometimes I just let me do this little goofy thing,

443
00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:51,919
Speaker 2: which you please.

444
00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:54,520
Speaker 4: But I think all so good for people to see

445
00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:57,400
Speaker 4: y'all's content together like that, because couples content is usually

446
00:20:57,480 --> 00:21:00,240
Speaker 4: kind of cringey, yes, like can we just see people

447
00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:02,760
Speaker 4: having fun and being normal, not like, oh he bought

448
00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:05,800
Speaker 4: me this today? He does this mean, Oh my gosh,

449
00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:08,159
Speaker 4: I live a soft girl life. But I think what

450
00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:11,159
Speaker 4: you just said is showing like partnership. Yeah, like you

451
00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:13,760
Speaker 4: were like, okay, this is what we're doing over here.

452
00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:17,000
Speaker 4: This is why you need to be a like partnership.

453
00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:18,879
Speaker 4: Like it's good to see. Yeah what I'm saying.

454
00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:22,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, And we'll never be able to make cringey. I mean,

455
00:21:23,520 --> 00:21:25,719
Speaker 1: I see why people do it because as much as

456
00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:28,920
Speaker 1: people hate it, they still consume cringey shit. But he's

457
00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:31,720
Speaker 1: not that good of an actor. So like, for real,

458
00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:32,520
Speaker 1: he's not gonna.

459
00:21:32,280 --> 00:21:32,600
Speaker 2: Be able to.

460
00:21:34,400 --> 00:21:38,159
Speaker 1: No like I mean, what I mean is like his

461
00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:40,600
Speaker 1: emotions are on his face, so he's not gonna be

462
00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:45,200
Speaker 1: able to be like, oh gonna be like if you

463
00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:47,080
Speaker 1: don't get out of my face, I love you, but

464
00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:50,000
Speaker 1: get out of my face right now. So we would

465
00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:52,040
Speaker 1: never be able to fit in that genre anyways, because

466
00:21:52,040 --> 00:21:53,960
Speaker 1: he's just not gonna play that game. He loved me,

467
00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:56,640
Speaker 1: he loved me down. He just not about that corny shit.

468
00:21:56,840 --> 00:21:58,680
Speaker 1: So I'll be like, Okay, we'll do the stupid stuff

469
00:21:58,680 --> 00:21:58,879
Speaker 1: for me.

470
00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:00,000
Speaker 2: That makes sense. That makes sense.

471
00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:04,360
Speaker 1: And so speaking of other content that I love from

472
00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:06,639
Speaker 1: you on the internet, it's obviously I love you and

473
00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:08,439
Speaker 1: Kev's podcast here's the thing.

474
00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:10,400
Speaker 2: Thank you, it's so good.

475
00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:12,679
Speaker 1: So how did y'all's relationship come about? And how did

476
00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:15,840
Speaker 1: y'all can eage. So CAV doesn't remember when we first

477
00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:19,080
Speaker 1: met because he's a buster, but it's okay. We met

478
00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:22,080
Speaker 1: years ago, and God is very like, he talks to

479
00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:24,480
Speaker 1: me very clearly. And I met him when he was

480
00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:28,320
Speaker 1: still doing the Playmakers. That was him, his brother made

481
00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:32,560
Speaker 1: Rest in Peace and then Aunt and we met at

482
00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:35,280
Speaker 1: some conference and like, I said, you're gonna end up

483
00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:37,040
Speaker 1: working with one of them. I didn't know who, I

484
00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:40,200
Speaker 1: didn't know what, but I just remember distinctly hearing that. Now,

485
00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:44,600
Speaker 1: this was over a decade ago. Then, when Kevin was

486
00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:47,280
Speaker 1: working at All Deaf, one of the producers at All Deaf,

487
00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:50,479
Speaker 1: Meg Thompson, we went to tom excuse me, We went

488
00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:53,879
Speaker 1: to college together. She had asked me to come do

489
00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:55,440
Speaker 1: one of their shows because they had a hard time

490
00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:57,240
Speaker 1: finding female comedians to.

491
00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:57,880
Speaker 2: Come do their shows.

492
00:22:57,920 --> 00:22:59,359
Speaker 1: And I was like, I got you, so me and

493
00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:03,199
Speaker 1: him like that's when he really remembers meeting me, and

494
00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:07,080
Speaker 1: so he was like, I remember, thinking cause she's real funny.

495
00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:09,720
Speaker 1: So they had me come on All deafth Digital wasn't

496
00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:13,159
Speaker 1: really my demographic. They were just they were too ratchet

497
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:16,720
Speaker 1: over there, not ratchet and like like tark tark twork,

498
00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:20,520
Speaker 1: but like their their comments section was always roasting yeah

499
00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:24,480
Speaker 1: you know yeah, and I'm like, the fuck I don't

500
00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:26,720
Speaker 1: need these cycle fans Like if you don't like me,

501
00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:27,280
Speaker 1: don't like me.

502
00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:29,600
Speaker 2: Ohver up, Like you don't got to be I don't

503
00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:31,920
Speaker 2: want to hear it kill me? Yeah exactly.

504
00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:37,760
Speaker 1: So fast forward to keV leaving All Deaf Digital and

505
00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:39,520
Speaker 1: wanted to really start his own empire.

506
00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:40,320
Speaker 2: He d m me.

507
00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:42,800
Speaker 1: He was like, yo, I would love for you to

508
00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:45,200
Speaker 1: be a mainstay in some of my content.

509
00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:47,479
Speaker 2: And I was like, well, I believe in what you're building,

510
00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:50,480
Speaker 2: so I'm game. I was like, you ain't really gotta

511
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:51,800
Speaker 2: pay me. He was like, I want to pay you.

512
00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:54,560
Speaker 1: I said, well, just cover my babysitter because I got kids, Okay.

513
00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:56,920
Speaker 1: I was like just I was like, as long as

514
00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:59,160
Speaker 1: my babysitters covered, you got me for whatever you need

515
00:23:59,200 --> 00:23:59,439
Speaker 1: me for.

516
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 2: So I was doing content with him.

517
00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:05,399
Speaker 1: Then the pandemic happened and keV got into this space

518
00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:08,960
Speaker 1: of really wanting to elevate black women. He wanted to

519
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:12,800
Speaker 1: amplify their voices because he was realizing that he, as

520
00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:15,919
Speaker 1: a black man, did not understand what black women were

521
00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:19,280
Speaker 1: going through. His cousin kind of brought him into the

522
00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:21,119
Speaker 1: light of that. So one day he hit me up

523
00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:23,280
Speaker 1: and he was like, how can I amplify your voice?

524
00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:26,000
Speaker 1: And now I'm at home with a new born, the

525
00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:28,439
Speaker 1: world en closed down. I was like, listen, Nick, I

526
00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:30,879
Speaker 1: just need an editor. I just don't want to edit stuff.

527
00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:32,800
Speaker 1: And he was like, I mean I can get you

528
00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:33,359
Speaker 1: an editor.

529
00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:34,040
Speaker 2: Like what is that?

530
00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:36,520
Speaker 1: And then he called me back and he was like, yo,

531
00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:40,320
Speaker 1: I need a co host for my new podcast, which

532
00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:43,200
Speaker 1: you come on as my co host. And I was like, okay,

533
00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:44,880
Speaker 1: well tell me what type of co host you want.

534
00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:47,560
Speaker 1: Do you want just like a little sidekick to barely

535
00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:50,600
Speaker 1: talk or do you want me one hundred percent authentically?

536
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:52,280
Speaker 1: He was like, no, I want you to do you.

537
00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:56,800
Speaker 1: And I was like, okay, niggas you be cooking.

538
00:24:57,359 --> 00:25:02,600
Speaker 2: I still say fry bro.

539
00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:06,640
Speaker 4: You have so many moments. It's like, y'all's chemistry is.

540
00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:09,600
Speaker 1: It's a great chemistry, perfect that it is.

541
00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:12,119
Speaker 4: So it's so good, and I think that's important. But

542
00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 4: and I do want to give keV his flowers as well,

543
00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:17,480
Speaker 4: because you know, being a black woman in this space,

544
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:19,160
Speaker 4: you know a lot of stuff that we deal with

545
00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 4: that you probably deal with, and it's like we don't

546
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:24,240
Speaker 4: really talk about but like if you know, you know right,

547
00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:26,720
Speaker 4: So the fact that keV being a black man who's

548
00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:29,760
Speaker 4: like dominant in this space very much so, and he's

549
00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:32,440
Speaker 4: like amplifying us, Like every time we go do something

550
00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:35,159
Speaker 4: with Kev's like mel Mitchell is there. Yeah, like he

551
00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:37,960
Speaker 4: always makes sure we come through like everything, Like he's

552
00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:39,040
Speaker 4: always amplifying us.

553
00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:40,360
Speaker 2: So that's super important.

554
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:43,440
Speaker 1: No, he's real about that, and he's like a for real,

555
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:48,399
Speaker 1: like stand up dude. His respects for his wife in

556
00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:52,200
Speaker 1: their partnership. Let you know how he's gonna treat everybody else,

557
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:54,680
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So for me and even

558
00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:57,080
Speaker 1: for my husband, because my husband's like you always working

559
00:25:57,080 --> 00:25:59,320
Speaker 1: around niggas and he's not that he's not that dude,

560
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:02,640
Speaker 1: yeah where he's like yeah sure, no, no, he got

561
00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:04,840
Speaker 1: to make sure everything because he's he is the type

562
00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 1: that will nook if you but for whatever reason.

563
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 2: Period.

564
00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:10,440
Speaker 1: So the fact that keV is how he is, my

565
00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:13,520
Speaker 1: husband is completely like comfortable. Yeah that you know, we

566
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:16,679
Speaker 1: have a friendship. Yeah, like we're all we got friends.

567
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:17,080
Speaker 3: Yeah.

568
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 1: So like for me to go out on tour, I

569
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:20,680
Speaker 1: was on tour with just it was I was the

570
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:23,920
Speaker 1: only girl and so for my husband to be cool

571
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:26,359
Speaker 1: with that. Let you know, like the type of person

572
00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:28,800
Speaker 1: Kevin is, because my husband is not one to be like,

573
00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:31,439
Speaker 1: oh yeah, my wife is gone the whole week to

574
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:35,280
Speaker 1: be with some niggas. Like he's not God, you could

575
00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:37,439
Speaker 1: call it whatever you want to. He is not about

576
00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:41,080
Speaker 1: that life. But because keV really is who he says

577
00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:44,639
Speaker 1: he is online, that's never even been an issue for

578
00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:47,840
Speaker 1: my husband, Like for real, we love Yeah, we love

579
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:50,680
Speaker 1: keV and I wanted to say that too, because we

580
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:53,320
Speaker 1: love keV and a Sooth Charlemagne, Like those have been

581
00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:56,480
Speaker 1: two people in the industry with just being really nice

582
00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:59,440
Speaker 1: and just really genuine, you know, like every man is

583
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:02,919
Speaker 1: some weird niggas. Yes, in his industry, Yes, because I

584
00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:04,080
Speaker 1: know you touched on it a little.

585
00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:05,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, and he do be.

586
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:07,960
Speaker 1: But those are two people that Licks and I have

587
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:11,680
Speaker 1: had nothing but like great experiences with, so shout out

588
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:12,200
Speaker 1: to them.

589
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 3: Nothing but like pure love.

590
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:14,360
Speaker 2: Yeah.

591
00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:18,000
Speaker 4: Here, And he was trying to hurry up and sit

592
00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:19,879
Speaker 4: down because his butt crack was hanging.

593
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:24,399
Speaker 2: Out till time. He was like. Dre was like, do

594
00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 2: you have a belt on? He said, Dreamy, I gotta

595
00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:27,160
Speaker 2: belt on.

596
00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:32,760
Speaker 1: He got long, high butt cracked I didn't see that

597
00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 1: man's butt cracked the way too much. Too many I

598
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 1: have seen his now and his butt cracked so much.

599
00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 1: Oh hell, and I'm like, this is now. I'm gonna

600
00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:44,840
Speaker 1: go to HR because this is a bit this is

601
00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:45,480
Speaker 1: a bit much.

602
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:48,919
Speaker 4: You know, I feel I feel, you know, Cap with

603
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:50,840
Speaker 4: the butt crack is like, it's part of who he

604
00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 4: is at this point.

605
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 2: His identity.

606
00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:55,440
Speaker 3: It's his identity and you know what I'm saying, it's

607
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:55,959
Speaker 3: part of who.

608
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 1: We want to get him suspenders to keep them. Damn,

609
00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:00,720
Speaker 1: you know, his ass crack.

610
00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 3: We need to get caresl suspenders.

611
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 2: For his birthday. Yeah, what's birthday? Already past? But some

612
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:07,000
Speaker 2: good one.

613
00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:11,160
Speaker 1: They're like maybe like Gold played it with his initials Christmas. Yeah,

614
00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:17,119
Speaker 1: we will all appreciate that thing. To have one last

615
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:19,480
Speaker 1: question before we move on to the first.

616
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:25,280
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, I love it this time. We know we

617
00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:28,919
Speaker 2: love you girl. Yeah, I'm girl. We just get the

618
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:30,040
Speaker 2: chatty this.

619
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:34,480
Speaker 1: But you have built your whole brand around authenticity. So

620
00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:37,600
Speaker 1: have you ever felt the pressure to be to be

621
00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 1: something other than who you naturally are in this industry,

622
00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:43,800
Speaker 1: especially like with you being from LA and living in La.

623
00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:48,680
Speaker 2: No, I really don't. I feel like that is just

624
00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:49,920
Speaker 2: me in general? Though?

625
00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:53,080
Speaker 1: Is that I feel like I've always felt comfortable bringing

626
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:57,720
Speaker 1: one hundred percent me to whatever industry I'm in. I

627
00:28:57,760 --> 00:29:00,560
Speaker 1: get paid to acts, right, so that's the only time

628
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:03,600
Speaker 1: you're gonna see me bring somebody else to the plate.

629
00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 2: And I just feel like, how can I put it?

630
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:11,080
Speaker 1: I feel like, especially on social media, for me, it's

631
00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:13,240
Speaker 1: not just about entertaining. I do want to bring joy

632
00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:15,880
Speaker 1: to people, but I also want people to feel comfortable

633
00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 1: in their own skin, like they don't have to be

634
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 1: like me, they don't have to be like anybody else.

635
00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 1: If you are yourself, that is exactly how God made you,

636
00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:26,360
Speaker 1: and that's the best way you're gonna be able to

637
00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:29,600
Speaker 1: serve like the world is being one hundred percent you.

638
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:31,000
Speaker 2: So I feel like.

639
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 1: Living in LA it makes it even easier for me

640
00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 1: because so many people are fake and so many people

641
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 1: are putting on and I'd be like that look tiring,

642
00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:41,719
Speaker 1: Like how you able to keep up with that? I

643
00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:45,200
Speaker 1: just don't have the energy to so. And then nobody

644
00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:48,480
Speaker 1: can do a gotcha If I'm already who I am,

645
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:51,480
Speaker 1: you can't uncover some shit because I didn't already came

646
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:52,440
Speaker 1: to the table this way.

647
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 2: Hello, you know what I'm saying.

648
00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:57,000
Speaker 1: So no, but I can see how for some people

649
00:29:57,080 --> 00:30:00,640
Speaker 1: it is really difficult. So like one people, a lot

650
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:02,040
Speaker 1: of people are afraid of judgment.

651
00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:02,880
Speaker 2: And I get that.

652
00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:06,240
Speaker 1: I used to like shun that, like why would you care?

653
00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 1: But I get why people care now. But also if

654
00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:11,840
Speaker 1: it's so freeing to not care, it's so freeing to

655
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:13,120
Speaker 1: be like, oh you think I'm a bitch?

656
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:18,480
Speaker 2: What good for you? Congratulations, congrats, I can move on.

657
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 1: You're not You're not about to interrupt my space and

658
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 1: what I'm doing. So I think that's why in LA

659
00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:26,160
Speaker 1: a lot of people, you know, the fear of rejection,

660
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:28,520
Speaker 1: the fear of judgment. And not that I don't have

661
00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:32,200
Speaker 1: those moments at some points in time, but it's rare.

662
00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:35,160
Speaker 3: I love that you my hoot and holler and sister,

663
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:35,880
Speaker 3: oh yeah.

664
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 2: You and holler and I love it.

665
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:40,800
Speaker 4: And because you're so beautiful, and I feel like a

666
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:43,080
Speaker 4: lot of times when you're like you look a certain way,

667
00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:48,360
Speaker 4: people expect you to be like so this and that holland.

668
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I do I do, and it's so fun,

669
00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:55,240
Speaker 2: like I be like, join me, come on, it's a

670
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:59,560
Speaker 2: good time. Can we please, oh please, Yeah, all I

671
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 2: love doing hooting and holler.

672
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 4: Like my Mike poor a Wall he got to turn

673
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 4: it down. But it's I think it's a good time

674
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 4: and AUTI thing like, no, I think, I know. It's

675
00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 4: so appreciative to like people that look up to you

676
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:14,840
Speaker 4: because you've been doing this for so long. And so

677
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:16,959
Speaker 4: when I was first introduced to your content, I was like,

678
00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:18,880
Speaker 4: that's what I want to do, Like, I just want

679
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:21,120
Speaker 4: to be comfortable in being yourself. Because I'm glad that

680
00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 4: you asked that question, because I think I dealt.

681
00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 2: I struggled with that a lot, you.

682
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:28,320
Speaker 4: Know, like, oh, I'm supposed to be a battye, I

683
00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:30,000
Speaker 4: gotta be quiet. I'm not supposed.

684
00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:31,840
Speaker 2: Oh is that the definition of baddies are quiet?

685
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, batties like they don't say too much.

686
00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 2: They just be bad.

687
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:39,320
Speaker 1: And they created the definition of that though priarchy.

688
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 2: And then you got if you want to if you.

689
00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:47,040
Speaker 3: Want a certain type of man, you can't hoot and holler.

690
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:50,080
Speaker 2: Yeah you listen, And I think that's not Why was

691
00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:51,040
Speaker 2: that about that?

692
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:53,680
Speaker 3: It was being masculine too, well, that's what I said

693
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:54,280
Speaker 3: about all.

694
00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:55,720
Speaker 2: Well, then call me a nigga.

695
00:31:55,800 --> 00:32:01,920
Speaker 1: Then I don't know what to take you period. Absolutely,

696
00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:04,520
Speaker 1: And I don't feel like you will find some whoever

697
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:06,760
Speaker 1: is for you is for you, like you're gonna find

698
00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 1: somebody who like it. If that's the man that you

699
00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:10,280
Speaker 1: was supposed to be, well he not gonna have a

700
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 1: problem with you, right it way right. And I feel

701
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:15,800
Speaker 1: like obviously we see what you I love like I

702
00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:18,800
Speaker 1: love it. Yeah, he loved you, like I think there's

703
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:22,040
Speaker 1: something for him. There is something about like while he

704
00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:25,560
Speaker 1: always has my back and it's it's like that people

705
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:28,120
Speaker 1: that you don't know, Yeah, corner, that's who he is.

706
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 2: It's just like, oh you thought you were safe, but

707
00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:30,480
Speaker 2: now you not.

708
00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:30,840
Speaker 4: Ye.

709
00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:34,280
Speaker 1: He also loves that I handle my own He loves

710
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 1: that like he's reinforcement, you know what I mean that,

711
00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:40,480
Speaker 1: Like I'm not this damsel in distress at all times.

712
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:42,200
Speaker 2: Also, we raising for a god.

713
00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:45,240
Speaker 1: Dagon boys like, oh you don't have one girl, not

714
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:47,200
Speaker 1: a nerdy, a goddag on girl.

715
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:49,560
Speaker 2: Do you want more kids? No, I'm done. Oh you

716
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:50,000
Speaker 2: don't want to.

717
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:51,880
Speaker 4: Try to have a girl. Absolutely, because it's not coming.

718
00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:55,360
Speaker 4: I was gonna let you know, no, it's it's not

719
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:58,600
Speaker 4: right now. We got him fixed because one I'm fertile

720
00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:03,320
Speaker 4: myrtle because I am I'm very first. Yes, the the

721
00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 4: two in the middle or twins, oh wow, yeah yeah.

722
00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:10,240
Speaker 2: So with twins running your family or his family.

723
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:12,640
Speaker 1: They run in mind, but not enough for me to

724
00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:16,320
Speaker 1: think that shit was gonna happen, like that was my might.

725
00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 2: No, I did. Let me tell you what.

726
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:25,160
Speaker 1: That was my first viral video because of my husband's reaction.

727
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 1: I was like, I thought my my gynecologists was doing

728
00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:32,560
Speaker 1: like stand up, like telling jokes, and I was like,

729
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 1: are you are you here? And I was recording, like

730
00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:37,880
Speaker 1: I was recording. I was like, you know, I know,

731
00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:42,200
Speaker 1: I'm pregnant. And then he was like, there's one and

732
00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 1: then there's two. And I was like, I was like,

733
00:33:44,440 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 1: are you telling jokes?

734
00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:46,000
Speaker 2: Like what are you doing?

735
00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 1: And I was like, my husband about to be leave me.

736
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:50,200
Speaker 1: He's not gonna be able to say because it's expensive

737
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:52,240
Speaker 1: to live in LA and I'm not to tell you

738
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 1: you we're about to have two more kids.

739
00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 2: We were only supposed to have one more. So when

740
00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:57,520
Speaker 2: I went to.

741
00:33:57,480 --> 00:34:00,320
Speaker 1: His job, his good job at the time, I was

742
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:02,040
Speaker 1: like showing him the ultra sound. I was like, so

743
00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 1: that's baby number one and that's baby number two. He

744
00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:10,480
Speaker 1: was like, I know, you fucking line and I was like,

745
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:13,799
Speaker 1: I was like no. He was like, that's because your

746
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 1: eggs wanted.

747
00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:18,799
Speaker 3: Me love to have a mini them.

748
00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:21,839
Speaker 2: Pretty. He was like, I said, super sper.

749
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:25,480
Speaker 1: I was no, nigga, you're the only girl in the

750
00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:27,520
Speaker 1: house other than my dog. I had to get a

751
00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:32,439
Speaker 1: girl dog because I said I need some something else.

752
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:34,719
Speaker 2: Only girl. God, And I know they eat everything. How

753
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:35,640
Speaker 2: much is y'all grocery bill?

754
00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:37,600
Speaker 1: Because you know grocery I don't even pay those We

755
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:42,440
Speaker 1: just buy the groceries. I don't even know, right, we

756
00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:44,640
Speaker 1: just bottom got tago groceries and tell them leave me

757
00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:45,240
Speaker 1: the hell alone.

758
00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:47,240
Speaker 2: Yes, I have four boys.

759
00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:49,879
Speaker 1: Each boy was an attempt to get a girl from

760
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:50,680
Speaker 1: the first one to you.

761
00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:53,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's quick. Yeah, I said, I'm not doing this.

762
00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:57,520
Speaker 1: Yeah I had a friend like that, You've done your duty.

763
00:34:57,719 --> 00:34:59,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I had a friend like that. But it's for

764
00:34:59,719 --> 00:34:59,960
Speaker 3: a girl.

765
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:02,480
Speaker 2: Girls like they're not getting the book.

766
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:07,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean they gave up, but I'm it's probably yeah, no,

767
00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:09,520
Speaker 1: we're not doing it no more. Like I was like,

768
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:11,840
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be stupid. I mean, I love, I

769
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:12,640
Speaker 1: love my baby.

770
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:13,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, I love.

771
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:16,920
Speaker 2: I actually enjoy being pregnant, but I was like this, no,

772
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:19,960
Speaker 2: I'm not. Yes, even that last one.

773
00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:22,200
Speaker 1: I be thinking the fact I got one about to

774
00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:23,839
Speaker 1: go to college, and then I got one going into

775
00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:24,520
Speaker 1: the second grade.

776
00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:30,279
Speaker 2: I'm like, this is the Yeah, I've seen the.

777
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:33,719
Speaker 4: Baby trying to sing Matt the whole time. And then

778
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:35,400
Speaker 4: after he's like, I forgot I had.

779
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:37,799
Speaker 2: A great time, Like it's got that one.

780
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:41,640
Speaker 1: Daddy just always looking like he's hating everything, and he's like, no,

781
00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 1: it was cool, and I'm like, and enjoyed yourself.

782
00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:49,080
Speaker 2: No, no, my goodness. Okay, So first, yeah, we want

783
00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:50,840
Speaker 2: to get into what are we drinking.

784
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:55,000
Speaker 3: We ain't even started the episode.

785
00:35:57,600 --> 00:35:59,120
Speaker 2: All of the drinks, so what are we drinking?

786
00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:05,480
Speaker 6: See true fashion for our girl Angel hang out one.

787
00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:08,279
Speaker 6: We're gonna call this one one margarita. Of course, it

788
00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:11,320
Speaker 6: has some tequila in there. We have some Grand Marnier

789
00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:14,120
Speaker 6: or orange of Core, whichever you have at home. We

790
00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 6: have some lime juice, we have some passion fruit agave,

791
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:20,000
Speaker 6: and then I went ahead and I floated some watermelon

792
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:21,640
Speaker 6: syrup at the bottom. So that's what's giving us that

793
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:25,480
Speaker 6: cute little color and garnish it with a skewered lime wheel.

794
00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:32,359
Speaker 4: So this is delicious, per usual about watermelon, so it's nutritious.

795
00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, all the fruits, all the fruits.

796
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:40,279
Speaker 1: Okay, So now it's time for us to finally get

797
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:44,520
Speaker 1: into topic numbers, right, okay already because we've been cutting

798
00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:49,240
Speaker 1: up already. So we gonna talk about natural hair debates. Okay,

799
00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 1: how do you feel about women shaming other women that

800
00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:56,600
Speaker 1: don't wear their natural hair often? Because I feel like

801
00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:59,480
Speaker 1: you wear a lot of natural hairstyles and protective hairstyles.

802
00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:02,040
Speaker 1: How do you feel about other women they're trying to

803
00:37:02,080 --> 00:37:05,239
Speaker 1: shame women who don't necessarily embrace their natural hair as much.

804
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:08,400
Speaker 1: It's a lot of work to wear a natural hairstyle.

805
00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:12,000
Speaker 1: I don't know what anybody's lying to other people about.

806
00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:15,520
Speaker 1: It's also a lot of work to wear a lace front, Like,

807
00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:17,600
Speaker 1: I don't know how y'all do. That's how That's how

808
00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:21,080
Speaker 1: I referenced y'all. I was like Kevin, I was like,

809
00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:28,080
Speaker 1: the gorgeous lace front. Baddies are all up inside that, definitely,

810
00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:31,320
Speaker 1: And it looked good. What are you talking about? It

811
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:32,320
Speaker 1: looked good enough to me.

812
00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:36,960
Speaker 3: Shout out to an editor at the time and did

813
00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:37,520
Speaker 3: what he had to do.

814
00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:41,239
Speaker 1: He worked his magic, worked that Hey, because it wasn't

815
00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:43,719
Speaker 1: just y'all too well you didn't have on one, but

816
00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:46,880
Speaker 1: uh it was. There was another girl there from Atlanta

817
00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:49,360
Speaker 1: who also had on a lace front, and I was

818
00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 1: just like, how they get that girl the way I'd

819
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:54,960
Speaker 1: be having hot flashes, that ship would be off of

820
00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:55,359
Speaker 1: my head.

821
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:59,400
Speaker 2: They're awful. I don't know how anybody's able to do it.

822
00:37:59,440 --> 00:37:59,960
Speaker 3: They're awful.

823
00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:03,040
Speaker 1: They lived like we did. So I had a summer

824
00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:06,399
Speaker 1: where I did try. I attempted to try to wear them,

825
00:38:06,719 --> 00:38:08,239
Speaker 1: and I wore it for like two three months.

826
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:08,799
Speaker 2: Number one, he.

827
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 1: Pulled my edges out at the sea and pulled my

828
00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:14,400
Speaker 1: edges out. And then number two it was just so

829
00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:18,480
Speaker 1: difficult trying to keep it down with the Atlanta Georgia heat.

830
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:21,480
Speaker 2: Yeah I can't. I don't know how. So like, hats off,

831
00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:24,120
Speaker 2: weeks off, whatever to the ladies who are able to

832
00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:24,400
Speaker 2: do that.

833
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:26,040
Speaker 3: They're not able to do it.

834
00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:27,560
Speaker 2: What do you mean?

835
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:29,360
Speaker 4: I live in Atlanta. They're not able to do it

836
00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:30,600
Speaker 4: because I've seen them in person.

837
00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:33,960
Speaker 2: You know how you used to put Almos's blue on

838
00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 2: your head as a child and it stopped. That's what

839
00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:37,520
Speaker 2: it looked like.

840
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:40,439
Speaker 1: Hey take it off when they be saying what lace

841
00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:42,799
Speaker 1: you could see it in person that like that lace?

842
00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:44,720
Speaker 2: I can't.

843
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:51,960
Speaker 4: I told you that, right, And this is what I

844
00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:55,160
Speaker 4: have to say too, because I'm like natural hair too.

845
00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:56,120
Speaker 4: Though it's hard to take.

846
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:58,320
Speaker 2: It's very hard to take care of.

847
00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:00,920
Speaker 4: I had somebody leave a comment was like, let you

848
00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:03,239
Speaker 4: have all this beautiful hair, well come pay for me

849
00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:04,279
Speaker 4: to get it done every week.

850
00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:04,759
Speaker 2: Yeah.

851
00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:08,600
Speaker 1: No, it's not no easy breezy beautiful cover girls come

852
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:10,640
Speaker 1: on like to keep natural hair and for that shit

853
00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:13,680
Speaker 1: not to snap off because it can be so sensitive. Yes,

854
00:39:14,360 --> 00:39:17,320
Speaker 1: that's why I've been in these little ittybitdy ass twists

855
00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:19,759
Speaker 1: for I don't know, like six months, because I'm trying

856
00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:22,000
Speaker 1: to not have to deal with my natural hair as

857
00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:22,719
Speaker 1: much as I love it.

858
00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:23,080
Speaker 2: Yeah.

859
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:26,840
Speaker 1: So at the end of the day, like I you know,

860
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:29,200
Speaker 1: everybody want to be better than everybody else. That's what

861
00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:30,280
Speaker 1: it sometimes feels.

862
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:30,360
Speaker 7: It.

863
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:34,479
Speaker 1: It's like, oh, because I'm natural like it, Well, bitch, okay,

864
00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:37,880
Speaker 1: you get a cookie like it doesn't It doesn't really matter.

865
00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:40,319
Speaker 2: It's not the hair is not on your head.

866
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:42,680
Speaker 1: So when whatever somebody else does with their own hair,

867
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:45,640
Speaker 1: I don't think it's a determining factor of how they

868
00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:49,520
Speaker 1: value themselves or see themselves as a black woman, because

869
00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 1: I think that's what people equated. Yes, yeah, you're not

870
00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:53,760
Speaker 1: proud of yourself.

871
00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:58,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, you hate yourself, sister, you hate yourself. You want

872
00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:04,160
Speaker 2: to be a white milk queen when the mother lane right?

873
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:08,160
Speaker 2: Why he changed woman? No, I feel like you do

874
00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:10,640
Speaker 2: whatever works for you.

875
00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:11,359
Speaker 4: Yeah.

876
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:14,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean there's probably some people who have some

877
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:16,440
Speaker 2: self hate when it comes to hair. I'm sure. I

878
00:40:16,520 --> 00:40:17,040
Speaker 2: know my mama.

879
00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:19,319
Speaker 1: She'd be like, I just wish right here was shiny. Nope,

880
00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:21,160
Speaker 1: you got that four seed. Yeah, it's not gonna have

881
00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:23,080
Speaker 1: no shine, So you can go ahead and slap on

882
00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:23,399
Speaker 1: your wig.

883
00:40:23,760 --> 00:40:25,080
Speaker 5: Yes, is that okay?

884
00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:27,560
Speaker 2: Little oil? She ain't a little African Friday? Right.

885
00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:29,560
Speaker 4: But it is some people who have for sea that

886
00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:30,840
Speaker 4: they know how to do it. They know how to

887
00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:32,440
Speaker 4: freaking and twerking and it looks good.

888
00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:32,600
Speaker 1: Me.

889
00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:35,040
Speaker 3: I don't want to do my hair at all.

890
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:38,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, like shot to my hairstyle and she gives me

891
00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:40,279
Speaker 4: styles and she's like, look, this is all you have

892
00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:42,239
Speaker 4: to do and then roll it up, put it in

893
00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:46,839
Speaker 4: the bonnet and you can wake up and go. If

894
00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:49,640
Speaker 4: I can wake up and go, that's what works for me.

895
00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:52,359
Speaker 4: But I mean, if we're being honest and we're talking

896
00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:55,160
Speaker 4: about our white counterparts, I wouldn't want.

897
00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:55,680
Speaker 2: That hair either.

898
00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:58,759
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, there's no hair that I really want if

899
00:40:58,800 --> 00:41:00,520
Speaker 3: I look good, bald, I got a nugget.

900
00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:04,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I got a motherfucking twelve. You gotta kid too.

901
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:08,800
Speaker 2: What in my mind? So I wouldn't go what would happened?

902
00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:14,239
Speaker 2: Right here? You can feel somebody somebody you're like she

903
00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 2: was giving them a head, pulled it out, saying when

904
00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 2: you have a d e your head, it means that like.

905
00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:24,200
Speaker 1: What I mean, you see them all but they be

906
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:26,800
Speaker 1: saying it meaning like your dad was like fucking or

907
00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:28,440
Speaker 1: somebody was fuking your mom and it was.

908
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:34,320
Speaker 2: Here, Okay, Okay, Barbara was throwing it back. Okay.

909
00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:36,399
Speaker 3: No, I have a big ass head for the people

910
00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:36,960
Speaker 3: that don't know.

911
00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:38,960
Speaker 1: A right.

912
00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:43,239
Speaker 2: That's so. That's so I have a big head too.

913
00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:45,400
Speaker 2: So okay, I gotta do what I gotta do to

914
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:46,359
Speaker 2: cover this dome up.

915
00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:47,640
Speaker 3: I mean, that's what I'm saying.

916
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 5: Now.

917
00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:51,399
Speaker 1: Everybody looks good, Baul. I'm not one, and my hair

918
00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:55,680
Speaker 1: is very thick. It's very it's thicker to me. So

919
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:57,520
Speaker 1: I just feel like I don't want to have to

920
00:41:57,600 --> 00:41:59,600
Speaker 1: get up, do this, do that, do that. It's a

921
00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:02,600
Speaker 1: lot of braids is my favorite hairstyle. But you know

922
00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:04,759
Speaker 1: they say like, oh, when I have braisen, I don't

923
00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:06,760
Speaker 1: feel like a baddie ship.

924
00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:07,920
Speaker 2: It mustn't.

925
00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:10,080
Speaker 3: It's not the braids that's not making you a bed.

926
00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:16,040
Speaker 2: Go deeper inside, deeper, and there's more things that does

927
00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:16,800
Speaker 2: not qualify.

928
00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:17,719
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying.

929
00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:21,000
Speaker 2: But you know what, I ain't gonna lie. Sometimes y'all

930
00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:21,640
Speaker 2: can't tell me.

931
00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:24,440
Speaker 1: It'd be certain outfits that you be in feeling like

932
00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:27,160
Speaker 1: a bus down middle park would look better than the braid.

933
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:29,240
Speaker 3: This looks like a bus park middle down, though.

934
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:33,560
Speaker 1: It du But sometimes I'd be like, I don't know,

935
00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:36,520
Speaker 1: a little bus down, a little bob just eat middle

936
00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:39,000
Speaker 1: with some outfits. Now I was that I love a

937
00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:41,680
Speaker 1: braid though, Okay, I will say there are I'll say

938
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:44,200
Speaker 1: that for bob's busting. I feel like what you said

939
00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:46,520
Speaker 1: like this is it looks like a bus down, but

940
00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:50,600
Speaker 1: a bob. Yeah, sometimes a bob gives that bitch like

941
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:53,840
Speaker 1: like vibe that but drag got that.

942
00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:56,480
Speaker 2: Face for a bob too. Not everybody can do a bob.

943
00:42:56,600 --> 00:43:02,239
Speaker 2: I love a bob, yeah, I not ever I try

944
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:04,680
Speaker 2: to Bob one time. You would look cute. I would

945
00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:05,160
Speaker 2: love a Bob.

946
00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:07,120
Speaker 1: I can't fit under the wig because my hair and

947
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:08,719
Speaker 1: my head is too big, Like I have to have

948
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 1: a special wig made.

949
00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:13,520
Speaker 2: Because this is a big yeah.

950
00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:17,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, but we all be both saying that y'all got bcads.

951
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:20,759
Speaker 1: I feel like maybe it's because y'all have the hair

952
00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:23,239
Speaker 1: on top, but I can't. I don't look at y'all

953
00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:25,640
Speaker 1: and be like, oh, that's a big kid. My hair

954
00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:28,960
Speaker 1: is came leofage. And the fact of this bowling ball

955
00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:30,520
Speaker 1: on my neck, I cannot.

956
00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:36,160
Speaker 2: Tell, girl, it's terrible. It's big. This is a big ass, really, girl, I.

957
00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:38,080
Speaker 1: Swear, angel, I cannot see it like it looks like

958
00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:39,480
Speaker 1: you have a normal size here.

959
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:42,600
Speaker 2: It's not. I can't even I can't.

960
00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:45,480
Speaker 1: I have to go like, uh, what's that Lane Bryant

961
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:51,640
Speaker 1: shop to put on to get hats and listen, that's

962
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:53,320
Speaker 1: where that's where I could get hats at and not

963
00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:57,640
Speaker 1: have a headache. So when y'all they ever say that,

964
00:43:57,760 --> 00:43:59,720
Speaker 1: because like when y'all get my hair done, they always

965
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:02,759
Speaker 1: be like, wall, you have a really small They never

966
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:05,640
Speaker 1: said that to me, never ever said that to me.

967
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:08,799
Speaker 2: They'd be like yeah, how much passing had you brought me? Yeah? Yeah,

968
00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:13,000
Speaker 2: exactly shook. They be like you got ten packs? No way, Yes,

969
00:44:13,920 --> 00:44:14,919
Speaker 2: this head is big.

970
00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:16,800
Speaker 3: Where you get that?

971
00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:20,400
Speaker 2: You camera flazzy? Really really coming from a big head

972
00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:22,439
Speaker 2: to when she turned to the side, you saw that ship.

973
00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:27,960
Speaker 2: I see, I feel you though my big hands. I'm

974
00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:29,560
Speaker 2: gonna be a I'm gonna be a get girl.

975
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:31,960
Speaker 1: That's why I got a whole crew, because they were

976
00:44:32,040 --> 00:44:34,279
Speaker 1: just like, girl, Yo, tummy is sating out here on

977
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:38,560
Speaker 1: top of your muffin tie see d drag got all.

978
00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:41,680
Speaker 4: I saw you've seen them. I saw you know how

979
00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:42,760
Speaker 4: nickname is little Abby.

980
00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:47,799
Speaker 2: I saw she stood up and said can I get

981
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:50,960
Speaker 2: a reef? Yeah? On the drawing, I was like, is.

982
00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:55,000
Speaker 4: Sexy a Yeahnold Schwarzenegger has been shook?

983
00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:58,920
Speaker 2: Should she came? He had? We heard a pee. That's

984
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:03,080
Speaker 2: why you're safe over We're rolling up okay, but no

985
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:07,960
Speaker 2: one is here, you know, thank you ladies. I saw

986
00:45:08,040 --> 00:45:10,600
Speaker 2: the hand. I was like, something is happening. Oh my

987
00:45:10,880 --> 00:45:13,440
Speaker 2: stomach got it. Girl be doing a bunch of things.

988
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 2: It usually be me. It usually be me. No kids,

989
00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:20,000
Speaker 2: look like I have four Mama, You're body both of

990
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:21,160
Speaker 2: y'all's body is teeth.

991
00:45:21,400 --> 00:45:23,719
Speaker 1: That's not y'all come out of that New York show

992
00:45:23,760 --> 00:45:26,840
Speaker 1: and I said, just disrespectful.

993
00:45:26,960 --> 00:45:30,800
Speaker 2: Angel. I can't stop talking and you I can't stop.

994
00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:31,799
Speaker 3: And you should sho.

995
00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:32,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, they love it.

996
00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:35,439
Speaker 4: It's like I don't know what happens. I was like, Okay,

997
00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:37,640
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna drink tonight. I'm not gonna do this.

998
00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:41,680
Speaker 4: I'm gonna be very focused because you know what people

999
00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:44,840
Speaker 4: being like Lex was drunk. That's because I do. I

1000
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:46,279
Speaker 4: be drunk Angel.

1001
00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:50,840
Speaker 2: More than one first and foremost.

1002
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:54,839
Speaker 1: But whenever Lex be like I'm not drinking today, I'm

1003
00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:56,799
Speaker 1: gonna have one shot. I just always be looking at

1004
00:45:56,840 --> 00:45:59,240
Speaker 1: her like beach Flea, Right, why are you lying to yourself?

1005
00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:02,000
Speaker 1: It's never gonna be one shot, right, It's never gonna be.

1006
00:46:02,040 --> 00:46:03,440
Speaker 3: One Marguerite, I'll be trying.

1007
00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:06,360
Speaker 2: You know you could do it when you get older.

1008
00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:10,080
Speaker 2: I'm older. I'm here, shit, no, you ain't there yet.

1009
00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:11,040
Speaker 2: Why do you deal with.

1010
00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:13,359
Speaker 4: People because I know you on tour right now, how

1011
00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:15,040
Speaker 4: do you deal with people like hitting you up, asking

1012
00:46:15,040 --> 00:46:18,000
Speaker 4: you for tickets that like you know you're supposed to

1013
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:19,879
Speaker 4: be supporting. Because we were talking about keV like keV

1014
00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:21,280
Speaker 4: be buying tickets does.

1015
00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:24,480
Speaker 2: Yeah? Real? You know what? I think?

1016
00:46:24,520 --> 00:46:28,200
Speaker 1: People know me well enough, they don't they know I

1017
00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:31,239
Speaker 1: make my mother had to buy a ticket. So if

1018
00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:33,080
Speaker 1: my mom and a woman who birthed me up outtle

1019
00:46:33,400 --> 00:46:35,759
Speaker 1: what had to buy a ticket. Yeah, you're gonna have

1020
00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 1: to buy.

1021
00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:38,480
Speaker 3: A ticket, buy a ticket to a People been trying

1022
00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:39,920
Speaker 3: me and it's been upsetting me.

1023
00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:41,239
Speaker 2: I'm sorry for that.

1024
00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:43,680
Speaker 1: I mean, and I get it because you all shows

1025
00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:45,719
Speaker 1: have sold out, so I get them hitting you up.

1026
00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:47,839
Speaker 1: Maybe then when it's like I can't click the button,

1027
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:51,640
Speaker 1: they saying there's no more. But like if tickets are available,

1028
00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:54,520
Speaker 1: this is my job. If you were if somebody was

1029
00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 1: a real ajor and they were one of my friends

1030
00:46:57,239 --> 00:46:58,919
Speaker 1: was a realator and they were helping me buy a home,

1031
00:46:59,000 --> 00:47:01,080
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be like, can you do it without

1032
00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:03,440
Speaker 1: getting commissioned? And I'm gonna make sure you get your

1033
00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:05,960
Speaker 1: money because you're doing your job. Yes, Oh it's the

1034
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:07,680
Speaker 1: same for me. Y'all know, this is my This is

1035
00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:10,120
Speaker 1: not a goddamn hobby, I think.

1036
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:11,840
Speaker 4: And that's what people think it is just because content

1037
00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:15,439
Speaker 4: creation it looks fun, but it's still a job.

1038
00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:16,120
Speaker 2: Job.

1039
00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:20,120
Speaker 1: We gotta pay these views like this set. I'm sure

1040
00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:24,160
Speaker 1: it wasn't free, didn't build itself, you know this set was?

1041
00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:26,680
Speaker 2: It was expensive. Well, I believe it. It's very cute.

1042
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:28,320
Speaker 2: Thank you girl, thank you.

1043
00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:32,360
Speaker 4: Okay, So we don't get into topic too, yes, okay,

1044
00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:35,520
Speaker 4: I was like looking at the times we even jen

1045
00:47:36,040 --> 00:47:37,080
Speaker 4: I love you so bad?

1046
00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:38,479
Speaker 3: We okay.

1047
00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:43,120
Speaker 4: So the topic too is it's a little like are

1048
00:47:43,200 --> 00:47:44,759
Speaker 4: we losing recipes? Right?

1049
00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:47,880
Speaker 2: Do we need to switch more when we walk? Okay?

1050
00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:51,280
Speaker 4: Because there's a girl on Instagram, like like she walks

1051
00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:54,880
Speaker 4: and she be switching that booty be moving and everybody.

1052
00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:57,400
Speaker 4: I think it's like half and half half of the

1053
00:47:57,480 --> 00:47:59,440
Speaker 4: audience be kind of laughing and making fun of her.

1054
00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:02,880
Speaker 3: But other hal is like period tea. Yeah, are we

1055
00:48:03,080 --> 00:48:04,480
Speaker 3: losing recipes.

1056
00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:07,320
Speaker 4: By not switching whenever we walk? I can't switch on

1057
00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:11,239
Speaker 4: pigeon toad. You can't switch, No, and my ass is

1058
00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:14,759
Speaker 4: so big. But I watch her videos to teach me.

1059
00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:17,760
Speaker 4: So I was like getting a little better ass switching.

1060
00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:19,360
Speaker 4: You have a natural switch?

1061
00:48:19,920 --> 00:48:22,680
Speaker 2: Well I was making that face because you be watching

1062
00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:30,879
Speaker 2: her videos. I don't.

1063
00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:35,719
Speaker 1: I'm gonna put those videos to teach you.

1064
00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:41,920
Speaker 2: Is crazy. I think it's good looking for it is.

1065
00:48:43,840 --> 00:48:47,000
Speaker 4: If you are switching, though, a switch is usually kind

1066
00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:49,520
Speaker 4: of like you trying to show that ass.

1067
00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:51,240
Speaker 2: I don't. I disagree.

1068
00:48:51,239 --> 00:48:53,479
Speaker 1: I feel like some people just have a nasty walk,

1069
00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:56,279
Speaker 1: you know how You see some women and you you

1070
00:48:56,360 --> 00:48:59,360
Speaker 1: got a nasty walk. But she not really trying to

1071
00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:02,440
Speaker 1: hips you switch when she walk and they do what

1072
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:05,680
Speaker 1: they do and they move in that be seeming for.

1073
00:49:07,760 --> 00:49:11,239
Speaker 2: I don't know. I know you haven't seen it.

1074
00:49:13,080 --> 00:49:16,080
Speaker 1: No, I've never You've never seen her. Okay, so she's

1075
00:49:16,120 --> 00:49:20,279
Speaker 1: got a loose booty. Now her walk from the front

1076
00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:24,759
Speaker 1: is terrible. From the back, it's doing its action packed.

1077
00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:27,160
Speaker 2: I like, it don't look so bad, but some.

1078
00:49:27,239 --> 00:49:30,640
Speaker 3: Of them, but this is my girl, Okay, this is

1079
00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:31,640
Speaker 3: the one that went viral.

1080
00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:36,720
Speaker 1: I never seen you never seen her, and viral viorral

1081
00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:38,960
Speaker 1: every time. I mean, it's a lot of movement.

1082
00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:42,520
Speaker 2: There's a lot of movement back now. But when I

1083
00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:44,320
Speaker 2: think of a switch, I think of more of like

1084
00:49:44,440 --> 00:49:51,040
Speaker 2: a natural. Yeah, that's that's the one that went viral.

1085
00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:51,919
Speaker 2: That's the one I seen.

1086
00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:55,920
Speaker 1: She's not need which is also very interesting, is the

1087
00:49:56,000 --> 00:49:58,080
Speaker 1: worst thing you can ever be in line Listen and hello,

1088
00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:02,040
Speaker 1: I'm there, you're not I stand up you're not not

1089
00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:04,080
Speaker 1: because I just need it.

1090
00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:09,200
Speaker 2: You're not not, I am, I promise you. I just

1091
00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:11,279
Speaker 2: noticed that. I am so I kind of I.

1092
00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:13,799
Speaker 3: That's why I know you're not not need not need.

1093
00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:18,120
Speaker 1: You can't correct, oh girl, I'll be turning it out, clicking,

1094
00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:19,560
Speaker 1: and yes, you're not.

1095
00:50:19,880 --> 00:50:22,839
Speaker 2: Me and all my unfortunately, all my sons, they are

1096
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:30,160
Speaker 2: not generational angels. Yeah, I didn't have that ship down

1097
00:50:31,040 --> 00:50:34,840
Speaker 2: a Yeah you hearing you, hearing the rustle of the

1098
00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:40,000
Speaker 2: thighs swishing together, the knees knocking. Yeah, no, it's not cute.

1099
00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:46,000
Speaker 2: I don't like her switch like it. It's very forced. Yeah, yeah,

1100
00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:48,120
Speaker 2: I don't like it. Yeah, I don't like it.

1101
00:50:48,320 --> 00:50:51,440
Speaker 1: I do think we have lost the plot and that

1102
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:54,440
Speaker 1: there should be especially because we're in the age of BBL.

1103
00:50:54,640 --> 00:50:56,200
Speaker 2: So if you're gonna have an ass you should be

1104
00:50:56,239 --> 00:50:57,640
Speaker 2: able to move it. You are going to.

1105
00:50:57,760 --> 00:51:00,160
Speaker 1: But if you just bought it, if you should have been,

1106
00:51:00,239 --> 00:51:01,520
Speaker 1: you could have worked on it before you got it.

1107
00:51:02,080 --> 00:51:03,440
Speaker 1: You could have been putting it in the works so

1108
00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:05,719
Speaker 1: that once it got on you, that you can move

1109
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:08,880
Speaker 1: that ship the way it's supposed to. That necess is

1110
00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:12,240
Speaker 1: not necessarily what I would consider a switch.

1111
00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:17,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, A good nice nasty. Yeah, I don't that. She

1112
00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:21,200
Speaker 2: just is making her butt vibrate by stomping a little bit.

1113
00:51:21,719 --> 00:51:22,560
Speaker 2: That's not a switch.

1114
00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:25,319
Speaker 4: That's how I'll be trying to make my ass move

1115
00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:28,319
Speaker 4: because it don't it don't move it not because it's

1116
00:51:28,360 --> 00:51:30,399
Speaker 4: notiggly like when I'm dancing and move.

1117
00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:32,720
Speaker 2: But when I walk, I'm pigeon toed.

1118
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:35,600
Speaker 3: And I got a bad bag. So I be walking

1119
00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:36,960
Speaker 3: like this a lot of time.

1120
00:51:37,200 --> 00:51:39,680
Speaker 1: Yo, ass got a jiggle for you to have a

1121
00:51:39,840 --> 00:51:42,240
Speaker 1: nasty walk, Like I feel like I have a nasty

1122
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:44,480
Speaker 1: but my booty.

1123
00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:47,800
Speaker 2: Don't do that in that video. It's more and so

1124
00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:50,279
Speaker 2: the way it's more so the hips.

1125
00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:53,600
Speaker 1: Is like that's what I con is the hips moving,

1126
00:51:53,719 --> 00:51:56,120
Speaker 1: not the vibration of the butt. So being not need

1127
00:51:57,440 --> 00:52:00,680
Speaker 1: can you switch with it? So you be switching, yeah,

1128
00:52:00,680 --> 00:52:03,440
Speaker 1: because it's about the hip, about the rhythm of the

1129
00:52:03,560 --> 00:52:06,080
Speaker 1: movement of the hips, not the My ass is gonna

1130
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:07,680
Speaker 1: jiggle regardless period.

1131
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:10,359
Speaker 2: I see that. Yeah, I got I got a booty bad, Yeah,

1132
00:52:10,560 --> 00:52:13,040
Speaker 2: a lot. It's good. That's why I said, body te.

1133
00:52:13,680 --> 00:52:17,399
Speaker 1: You, I appreciated. There's something's manufactured, but other things not break.

1134
00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:25,920
Speaker 1: I've got some original parts, but uh, dude, listen it okay? Uh,

1135
00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:27,960
Speaker 1: but that I wouldn't consider a switch.

1136
00:52:28,200 --> 00:52:28,880
Speaker 2: I'm beingest.

1137
00:52:29,080 --> 00:52:32,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, well I don't need to watch her videos any longer. No,

1138
00:52:32,280 --> 00:52:33,439
Speaker 4: I don't know why you ever thought.

1139
00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:34,960
Speaker 2: I just thought I had to.

1140
00:52:35,120 --> 00:52:39,000
Speaker 4: I don't because y'all, I have a not my nasty walk.

1141
00:52:39,120 --> 00:52:41,279
Speaker 4: I have a disgusting walk, but not in a good way.

1142
00:52:41,880 --> 00:52:42,840
Speaker 4: What look on my diaper?

1143
00:52:42,920 --> 00:52:43,200
Speaker 3: Fool?

1144
00:52:43,440 --> 00:52:44,640
Speaker 2: Oh? What? Really?

1145
00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:46,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't walk good.

1146
00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:47,840
Speaker 2: I have a horrible walk.

1147
00:52:48,080 --> 00:52:49,839
Speaker 4: Now, when I'm in heels, it gets a little better

1148
00:52:49,880 --> 00:52:51,200
Speaker 4: because when you're in the heels, you have to walk

1149
00:52:51,239 --> 00:52:52,080
Speaker 4: a certain way heels.

1150
00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:52,840
Speaker 3: When I'm in the.

1151
00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:54,480
Speaker 2: Hills, my walk is okay.

1152
00:52:55,239 --> 00:52:58,719
Speaker 4: But in flats sneakers, which I'm wearing most of the time,

1153
00:52:59,040 --> 00:53:00,080
Speaker 4: they'd be like, damn, what's.

1154
00:53:00,440 --> 00:53:00,960
Speaker 2: She got a ship?

1155
00:53:01,120 --> 00:53:03,720
Speaker 1: Now, let's let's be honest. Though my walk is terrible

1156
00:53:03,760 --> 00:53:05,680
Speaker 1: most of the time. I walk like somebody's mama. I

1157
00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:09,120
Speaker 1: like I'm on my way to whoop somebody's ass most.

1158
00:53:08,920 --> 00:53:10,960
Speaker 2: Of the time. Okay, that's okay because you probably do.

1159
00:53:11,080 --> 00:53:14,319
Speaker 1: Be Yes, I'm all ready to beat up somebody, whether

1160
00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:16,200
Speaker 1: it be my child or another adult. But then, like,

1161
00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:18,160
Speaker 1: if it's just me and my husband, we going somewhere

1162
00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:19,839
Speaker 1: I know how to like clicking too.

1163
00:53:20,280 --> 00:53:21,680
Speaker 2: Let me just have a QB. Yeah.

1164
00:53:22,040 --> 00:53:24,160
Speaker 4: I think that's the only time I'll like pay attention

1165
00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:25,879
Speaker 4: to my walk is when I'm in the hills going

1166
00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:26,879
Speaker 4: to dinner with my man.

1167
00:53:27,000 --> 00:53:28,320
Speaker 3: Like, that's when I kind of pay attention.

1168
00:53:28,440 --> 00:53:29,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

1169
00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:30,239
Speaker 3: But most of the time, I'm like this.

1170
00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:33,680
Speaker 1: Girl, you gotta get where you're going. I know, I

1171
00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:36,640
Speaker 1: get where you're going, but not lemping no, well no

1172
00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:37,160
Speaker 1: are you?

1173
00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:38,000
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1174
00:53:38,360 --> 00:53:40,440
Speaker 2: I mean she could be looking like she got the

1175
00:53:40,560 --> 00:53:45,359
Speaker 2: youth leave and I don't. So what's crazy? What I've

1176
00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:46,120
Speaker 2: been this way?

1177
00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:48,439
Speaker 3: Even when I remember in junior high.

1178
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:51,480
Speaker 4: I okay, so in junior high, we used to have

1179
00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:53,400
Speaker 4: like in the morning, you know, you go sit in

1180
00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:54,680
Speaker 4: the gym before school starts.

1181
00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:55,520
Speaker 2: That's what we used to do.

1182
00:53:56,080 --> 00:53:58,400
Speaker 4: So the seventh graders will sit on one side and

1183
00:53:58,480 --> 00:54:00,759
Speaker 4: the eighth graders will sit on the other side, y'all.

1184
00:54:00,800 --> 00:54:03,520
Speaker 4: I remember I was in seventh grade and I'm looking

1185
00:54:03,600 --> 00:54:05,560
Speaker 4: across and it was like a group of boys and

1186
00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:06,880
Speaker 4: they were mimicking my walk.

1187
00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:12,359
Speaker 2: Oh no, what man? Well, how you watch just walk? Bad?

1188
00:54:13,400 --> 00:54:16,480
Speaker 3: Even in diapers, I had a ship and it never

1189
00:54:16,520 --> 00:54:17,000
Speaker 3: went away.

1190
00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:19,200
Speaker 1: Now, see that was because one of my pet peeves

1191
00:54:19,320 --> 00:54:21,640
Speaker 1: is seeing older black people walk with a limp because

1192
00:54:21,640 --> 00:54:23,239
Speaker 1: I'm like, what the fuck did you get checked out

1193
00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:23,600
Speaker 1: in time?

1194
00:54:24,080 --> 00:54:27,200
Speaker 2: Because I feel like there's something that you could have fixed.

1195
00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:30,759
Speaker 2: I was free now I got it can't be as

1196
00:54:30,800 --> 00:54:32,439
Speaker 2: bad as what is it bad?

1197
00:54:33,080 --> 00:54:34,279
Speaker 3: It's bad? No, it's bad.

1198
00:54:34,600 --> 00:54:35,440
Speaker 2: It's all right. You can tell.

1199
00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:39,480
Speaker 1: The truth has a tendency to over exaggerate. Okay, So

1200
00:54:39,719 --> 00:54:43,040
Speaker 1: it's not as bad as you probably thinking. Okay, because

1201
00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:45,439
Speaker 1: she got me thinking, She's like, no, I mean, I'm

1202
00:54:45,440 --> 00:54:48,080
Speaker 1: not as bad as you probably thinking. But she could

1203
00:54:48,120 --> 00:54:52,719
Speaker 1: have got more, you know, say, but you know I

1204
00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:56,239
Speaker 1: used to have big He did you reduced your tip? Yeah?

1205
00:54:56,280 --> 00:54:57,840
Speaker 2: I reduced them. I had to reduce them to what

1206
00:54:58,680 --> 00:55:02,800
Speaker 2: ha bad? I be hungry? Oh god, and when you

1207
00:55:03,080 --> 00:55:07,080
Speaker 2: hungry they grow back. Okay, God bless you. Yeah.

1208
00:55:07,320 --> 00:55:09,160
Speaker 3: So when when they I don't know what.

1209
00:55:09,360 --> 00:55:11,960
Speaker 2: But because like I said, I've been having bad postious teenage.

1210
00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:14,279
Speaker 1: No, no, no, you're walking that bad because I watched

1211
00:55:14,320 --> 00:55:17,280
Speaker 1: when you were walking up on a stage you spoke

1212
00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:20,560
Speaker 1: at somebody's conference in Dallas.

1213
00:55:20,840 --> 00:55:22,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, you'll be paying attention.

1214
00:55:22,560 --> 00:55:24,839
Speaker 4: Okay, because I've made it a thing in my mind

1215
00:55:24,920 --> 00:55:28,080
Speaker 4: to work on my wall in that moment, like when

1216
00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:28,880
Speaker 4: the cameras are on.

1217
00:55:29,280 --> 00:55:31,360
Speaker 1: You got that ship together, Well, then that's all you

1218
00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:34,319
Speaker 1: need to worry about. Like on your record day life,

1219
00:55:34,440 --> 00:55:35,719
Speaker 1: go ahead and drag your left foot.

1220
00:55:35,840 --> 00:55:37,440
Speaker 2: Don't got to catch me when I be in when

1221
00:55:37,480 --> 00:55:46,600
Speaker 2: I be in public, let catch me. Okay, Well, I'll

1222
00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:50,440
Speaker 2: remember that song by them Dallas. The Dallas already is

1223
00:55:50,600 --> 00:55:53,840
Speaker 2: I would I walked with a deal? I walked with

1224
00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:54,439
Speaker 2: a deal.

1225
00:55:54,680 --> 00:55:55,080
Speaker 4: That was me.

1226
00:55:55,239 --> 00:55:57,600
Speaker 2: I walked with a motherfucker. My back hurt right now?

1227
00:55:57,840 --> 00:56:00,680
Speaker 2: Oh no, legs. I'm so sorry.

1228
00:56:00,840 --> 00:56:01,879
Speaker 3: You know her, I'm just lying.

1229
00:56:03,520 --> 00:56:06,480
Speaker 2: That's all right, okay, Doran. When we got next, we

1230
00:56:06,719 --> 00:56:12,439
Speaker 2: just checked. We love to check. You want another dream?

1231
00:56:12,840 --> 00:56:19,280
Speaker 2: Hell yeah, yeah. It's our homegirl Angel. It's our family period.

1232
00:56:19,719 --> 00:56:20,880
Speaker 2: You have to pull up to the la.

1233
00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:22,840
Speaker 1: We about to put her name in our phones, and

1234
00:56:23,000 --> 00:56:24,960
Speaker 1: that homegirl Angel in the country.

1235
00:56:25,280 --> 00:56:26,040
Speaker 2: I will be there.

1236
00:56:26,200 --> 00:56:28,359
Speaker 4: Oh where would y'all go to vacation? We like, where

1237
00:56:28,400 --> 00:56:30,080
Speaker 4: do you go after tour? Because I want to take

1238
00:56:30,080 --> 00:56:31,600
Speaker 4: a good vacation this year after tour?

1239
00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:32,040
Speaker 2: Okay.

1240
00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:35,840
Speaker 1: So me and my husband's wedding anniversary is July fourteenth,

1241
00:56:35,880 --> 00:56:38,759
Speaker 1: so we're usually always out of the country. Okay, but

1242
00:56:38,920 --> 00:56:40,759
Speaker 1: we right now are like, we need to be near

1243
00:56:40,880 --> 00:56:44,800
Speaker 1: a beach typically not one of these US beaches.

1244
00:56:45,000 --> 00:56:50,279
Speaker 2: Okay, Like we've done Turks and Caicos. We've done We've

1245
00:56:50,320 --> 00:56:54,520
Speaker 2: done the Dominican, We've done Saint Thomas, We've.

1246
00:56:54,400 --> 00:56:56,920
Speaker 1: Done a lot of the damn Islands. So I don't

1247
00:56:56,920 --> 00:56:59,239
Speaker 1: know if we're gonna go a little further, Like, I

1248
00:56:59,360 --> 00:56:59,919
Speaker 1: have no idea.

1249
00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:02,719
Speaker 2: It's his year. We go back and forth. It's his

1250
00:57:02,880 --> 00:57:04,160
Speaker 2: year of the plan. Okay.

1251
00:57:04,560 --> 00:57:06,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've been looking at like Meek and all of

1252
00:57:07,000 --> 00:57:09,680
Speaker 1: it because we meeking houses nice.

1253
00:57:09,719 --> 00:57:12,800
Speaker 4: And I've been looking at Italy. So Italy has some

1254
00:57:12,920 --> 00:57:13,600
Speaker 4: good beaches.

1255
00:57:13,960 --> 00:57:18,280
Speaker 1: You should do Grease first, start off with grease. Yeah, okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, Yeah.

1256
00:57:19,240 --> 00:57:21,840
Speaker 2: We love Turks, but we was like we never going

1257
00:57:21,880 --> 00:57:22,760
Speaker 2: back with our mean.

1258
00:57:23,640 --> 00:57:25,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, we spent so much.

1259
00:57:25,440 --> 00:57:28,760
Speaker 2: People don't talk about how we went on a girl's troup.

1260
00:57:30,040 --> 00:57:34,280
Speaker 2: No thanks, never need that man, yeah yeah that man.

1261
00:57:34,400 --> 00:57:35,760
Speaker 3: I am not an independent woman.

1262
00:57:35,960 --> 00:57:39,680
Speaker 2: You said, where's where's my book? So much? Where is

1263
00:57:39,800 --> 00:57:44,640
Speaker 2: he at? So now it's time to get into the beach.

1264
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:49,560
Speaker 2: Bow the bow about a bow bow bow.

1265
00:57:50,760 --> 00:57:54,320
Speaker 1: Now y'all know her usual the bed segment is brought

1266
00:57:54,400 --> 00:57:57,320
Speaker 1: to you by Startic, So y'all know, we love us

1267
00:57:57,320 --> 00:57:59,400
Speaker 1: some Startic Soul. If you want to make sure that

1268
00:57:59,520 --> 00:58:03,000
Speaker 1: who ain't rank, get you some salt X sout. It's

1269
00:58:03,000 --> 00:58:06,919
Speaker 1: gonna keep that pH balance. It's all natural ingredients. And yes,

1270
00:58:07,040 --> 00:58:09,000
Speaker 1: when you do have that one margarita and you open

1271
00:58:09,080 --> 00:58:13,000
Speaker 1: your legs, it's gonna smell fresh. And that's what you need,

1272
00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:15,800
Speaker 1: I'm trying to tell you. And then when you want

1273
00:58:15,840 --> 00:58:18,600
Speaker 1: to go, they also have the travel size, so you

1274
00:58:18,720 --> 00:58:20,560
Speaker 1: need to get that and put that in your carry on.

1275
00:58:20,760 --> 00:58:24,200
Speaker 1: It is TSA approved, and it's so many other products y'all.

1276
00:58:24,400 --> 00:58:27,120
Speaker 1: Like she has the jewel oil, which Les and I

1277
00:58:27,240 --> 00:58:31,080
Speaker 1: both love because it helps keep those ingrowns and hyper

1278
00:58:31,160 --> 00:58:33,520
Speaker 1: pigmentation and all of that that bay. And then now

1279
00:58:33,560 --> 00:58:36,360
Speaker 1: they also have a probiotic which has cranberry you need too,

1280
00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:37,600
Speaker 1: which is good for your uti.

1281
00:58:37,800 --> 00:58:39,920
Speaker 2: I mean we'll not hopefully you don't got no uti,

1282
00:58:40,080 --> 00:58:42,640
Speaker 2: but sometimes it's good for your urinary track so that

1283
00:58:42,720 --> 00:58:43,320
Speaker 2: you don't get in.

1284
00:58:43,600 --> 00:58:46,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, so yeah, I love that. Do you use feminine

1285
00:58:46,160 --> 00:58:48,280
Speaker 4: wellness products? Uh huh, Okay, well.

1286
00:58:48,160 --> 00:58:51,840
Speaker 3: We're gonna send you home with a little period, Okay.

1287
00:58:52,000 --> 00:58:53,600
Speaker 2: So what I want you to do.

1288
00:58:53,760 --> 00:58:54,120
Speaker 3: Angel.

1289
00:58:54,280 --> 00:58:56,400
Speaker 4: You gotta be honest, though, I want you to use

1290
00:58:56,480 --> 00:58:58,960
Speaker 4: these products, okay, and then give us a review.

1291
00:59:00,160 --> 00:59:01,280
Speaker 2: Know how you feel. So this is for you.

1292
00:59:01,480 --> 00:59:04,760
Speaker 3: Okay, set this to the side for you. Shout out

1293
00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:07,200
Speaker 3: to salt X so we got you you know, a

1294
00:59:07,240 --> 00:59:09,040
Speaker 3: little one too, and then you can take it on it.

1295
00:59:09,320 --> 00:59:10,040
Speaker 2: You can take it on the go.

1296
00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:12,480
Speaker 4: They got travel size when you and Bago on vacation,

1297
00:59:13,160 --> 00:59:14,000
Speaker 4: and you can use them too.

1298
00:59:14,240 --> 00:59:15,200
Speaker 2: They worked well for me.

1299
00:59:15,520 --> 00:59:18,400
Speaker 3: Okay, period, period, all right, what we got?

1300
00:59:18,720 --> 00:59:21,160
Speaker 2: Where we going? We even realized how pretty you all are?

1301
00:59:21,640 --> 00:59:22,840
Speaker 2: Oh woitmen, somebody say, come.

1302
00:59:22,760 --> 00:59:27,240
Speaker 3: On in, oh I got it dragon mine of course.

1303
00:59:27,440 --> 00:59:29,680
Speaker 2: But to answer your question, yes, I think they do,

1304
00:59:30,040 --> 00:59:34,400
Speaker 2: okay because they y'all are really pretty, you know what.

1305
00:59:34,880 --> 00:59:36,680
Speaker 2: And it's the same for you.

1306
00:59:36,960 --> 00:59:38,480
Speaker 4: I think a lot of time when you see people

1307
00:59:38,640 --> 00:59:42,360
Speaker 4: like on social media and then we're not watching things

1308
00:59:42,440 --> 00:59:45,840
Speaker 4: on screen anymore. Yeah, and we're watching on this small

1309
00:59:45,880 --> 00:59:48,439
Speaker 4: screen right. So honestly I felt the same way seeing

1310
00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:50,240
Speaker 4: you in person for the first time, and I was like, damn,

1311
00:59:50,360 --> 00:59:54,520
Speaker 4: she is sunny fa Also, my best friend be Lynn,

1312
00:59:54,640 --> 00:59:56,720
Speaker 4: she came out with a horror film like a short

1313
00:59:56,760 --> 00:59:58,840
Speaker 4: horror film last night and I was actually watching on

1314
00:59:58,920 --> 00:59:59,360
Speaker 4: my screen.

1315
00:59:59,360 --> 01:00:00,040
Speaker 3: I'm gonna send it to you.

1316
01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:01,040
Speaker 2: Take a watch, peez.

1317
01:00:01,720 --> 01:00:03,160
Speaker 3: Y'all need to do some stuff together.

1318
01:00:05,640 --> 01:00:06,120
Speaker 2: Anyways.

1319
01:00:06,360 --> 01:00:09,600
Speaker 3: But I was like, damn, she looks gorgeous when you

1320
01:00:09,720 --> 01:00:10,880
Speaker 3: watch things on the screen.

1321
01:00:11,120 --> 01:00:11,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, it looks.

1322
01:00:12,240 --> 01:00:14,480
Speaker 3: It looks so different between people in person.

1323
01:00:14,560 --> 01:00:16,600
Speaker 1: And I was like, damn, y'all are I mean, y'all

1324
01:00:16,600 --> 01:00:18,840
Speaker 1: are I'm looking at your lashes these but I wish

1325
01:00:18,920 --> 01:00:22,640
Speaker 1: I had bottom lashes, thank you. I yes, my man

1326
01:00:22,720 --> 01:00:24,640
Speaker 1: scare that I use on the top end and bottom girl,

1327
01:00:24,680 --> 01:00:25,720
Speaker 1: I might have one in my car.

1328
01:00:25,800 --> 01:00:26,560
Speaker 2: I'm gonna give you one.

1329
01:00:26,920 --> 01:00:30,520
Speaker 1: I mean, your lashes is everything. And your brows, I

1330
01:00:30,640 --> 01:00:34,439
Speaker 1: am pissed off. Yeah, my brows don't look like God,

1331
01:00:34,560 --> 01:00:36,800
Speaker 1: don't this is from these at real?

1332
01:00:37,040 --> 01:00:38,480
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't give a God damn, but you

1333
01:00:38,560 --> 01:00:40,640
Speaker 2: know what, that's how I feel like. I feel like

1334
01:00:41,200 --> 01:00:42,120
Speaker 2: God gave.

1335
01:00:42,120 --> 01:00:46,920
Speaker 3: Dre everything, gave her ass lashes, hair, No wayte.

1336
01:00:46,880 --> 01:00:49,080
Speaker 2: I mean, what are you talk about? But you know

1337
01:00:49,120 --> 01:00:49,480
Speaker 2: what I mean?

1338
01:00:50,400 --> 01:00:55,360
Speaker 1: But noel girl, girl, because little no, because I'm gonna

1339
01:00:55,360 --> 01:00:55,560
Speaker 1: tell you.

1340
01:00:55,680 --> 01:00:57,640
Speaker 2: Got all the things to all of it. My niece.

1341
01:00:57,720 --> 01:00:59,840
Speaker 1: When I told her, I was like, yeah, I'm gonna go.

1342
01:01:00,000 --> 01:01:01,760
Speaker 1: I'm going to Atlanta to do poor mindes. First of all,

1343
01:01:01,800 --> 01:01:06,040
Speaker 1: her mouth dropped to the really, she dropped to the floor.

1344
01:01:06,160 --> 01:01:08,000
Speaker 1: She was like, angel, how did this happen?

1345
01:01:08,520 --> 01:01:11,000
Speaker 2: I was like, they invited me and.

1346
01:01:12,640 --> 01:01:13,960
Speaker 3: And then I hit them back and they.

1347
01:01:13,920 --> 01:01:14,640
Speaker 2: Said yeah, come on.

1348
01:01:15,080 --> 01:01:17,960
Speaker 1: But she was talking about Joe body. She said, let

1349
01:01:18,440 --> 01:01:22,200
Speaker 1: these bodies. She said, it is everything I said. I

1350
01:01:22,280 --> 01:01:26,680
Speaker 1: saw it in person. Girl, y y'all can I tell y'all?

1351
01:01:26,680 --> 01:01:28,600
Speaker 4: So before we get to the bed topic, I was

1352
01:01:28,680 --> 01:01:33,120
Speaker 4: so shamed because there was a scene in airport where

1353
01:01:33,280 --> 01:01:35,800
Speaker 4: like Kel was like, Okay, y'all are blocking me from

1354
01:01:35,840 --> 01:01:38,480
Speaker 4: getting to the front. He posted this clip, so we're

1355
01:01:38,520 --> 01:01:40,560
Speaker 4: all like trying to block him from getting to the front.

1356
01:01:40,600 --> 01:01:43,800
Speaker 4: So I'm like stretching and I'm like blocking him from

1357
01:01:43,800 --> 01:01:45,640
Speaker 4: getting to the front. And mind you, this is a

1358
01:01:45,840 --> 01:01:48,080
Speaker 4: this is a church going marry me, and everybody in

1359
01:01:48,120 --> 01:01:52,480
Speaker 4: comments like durymn next fat, I'm like, oh please.

1360
01:01:52,240 --> 01:01:52,680
Speaker 2: I want.

1361
01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:58,000
Speaker 4: Everybody in the comments was talking about how fat my

1362
01:01:58,160 --> 01:02:03,000
Speaker 4: ass was. It's they wasn't wrong, but that's what I was.

1363
01:02:03,160 --> 01:02:07,080
Speaker 4: I had on a sweat, I literally wore like baggy

1364
01:02:07,160 --> 01:02:08,600
Speaker 4: clothes on perfect.

1365
01:02:08,240 --> 01:02:14,760
Speaker 2: He thought it was gone, like, there's no cad even

1366
01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:16,080
Speaker 2: when we did. What was the other one?

1367
01:02:16,960 --> 01:02:21,240
Speaker 4: I'm CHURCHI not churchie, the one that face save space.

1368
01:02:21,680 --> 01:02:24,560
Speaker 4: I wore a baggy Why would you do that? Because

1369
01:02:24,600 --> 01:02:26,800
Speaker 4: I try to appeal to the church crowd to let

1370
01:02:26,840 --> 01:02:27,160
Speaker 4: them know I.

1371
01:02:27,240 --> 01:02:28,120
Speaker 2: Used to go to church too.

1372
01:02:28,480 --> 01:02:31,760
Speaker 1: You think the church folk looking at ass they got,

1373
01:02:31,800 --> 01:02:34,680
Speaker 1: they look exactly they got.

1374
01:02:35,080 --> 01:02:38,480
Speaker 3: Dress y'ounce dresses, the dresses that bounce.

1375
01:02:38,920 --> 01:02:41,320
Speaker 4: They'd be going boul right now. They're like the church ladies.

1376
01:02:41,600 --> 01:02:43,400
Speaker 4: It's in like a different sector of the church. You

1377
01:02:43,480 --> 01:02:45,280
Speaker 4: know what I'm talking about, the bounced dresses. I'm gonna

1378
01:02:45,280 --> 01:02:45,680
Speaker 4: show y'all.

1379
01:02:45,760 --> 01:02:48,800
Speaker 2: I believe it's a bounced this intrigue.

1380
01:02:49,320 --> 01:02:51,960
Speaker 4: They're they're low key Q And I was like, I

1381
01:02:52,120 --> 01:02:54,160
Speaker 4: want to wear one for a live show. But I'm like,

1382
01:02:55,000 --> 01:02:57,560
Speaker 4: I'm probably gonna get canceled because it's the church. Because

1383
01:02:57,560 --> 01:03:00,560
Speaker 4: it's a bounced dress for church and they're not trying

1384
01:03:00,600 --> 01:03:01,840
Speaker 4: to like bounce that ass.

1385
01:03:02,520 --> 01:03:05,840
Speaker 2: Yes they do. Let me show, y'all. Let me show

1386
01:03:05,840 --> 01:03:07,040
Speaker 2: you before we move on.

1387
01:03:07,200 --> 01:03:08,640
Speaker 3: Let me show y'all the bounced dress.

1388
01:03:09,640 --> 01:03:17,000
Speaker 2: Well, hold on, hold on, here she goes, here, she goes. No,

1389
01:03:17,200 --> 01:03:17,960
Speaker 2: I never seen that.

1390
01:03:19,560 --> 01:03:21,240
Speaker 3: They wear them in charts and the dresses.

1391
01:03:21,320 --> 01:03:23,040
Speaker 2: Don't wear that to a live I know. I was

1392
01:03:23,040 --> 01:03:27,720
Speaker 2: about to say a short one mm hmm, okay, all right,

1393
01:03:27,800 --> 01:03:35,720
Speaker 2: what's the bed? Yeah, bring it down to me, y'all? Alright,

1394
01:03:35,920 --> 01:03:38,480
Speaker 2: I tried. Okay the zoo.

1395
01:03:39,040 --> 01:03:42,240
Speaker 1: Is love making different when you're strictly trying to please

1396
01:03:42,480 --> 01:03:44,280
Speaker 1: versus when you're trying to reach your beat?

1397
01:03:44,360 --> 01:03:50,720
Speaker 2: Oh to what to reach you? Like, I won't say

1398
01:03:50,760 --> 01:03:55,080
Speaker 2: the word orgasm? Yeah, let me see is a different.

1399
01:03:55,680 --> 01:04:00,160
Speaker 2: I feel like when it's love making, why aren't you doing? Oh?

1400
01:04:00,240 --> 01:04:04,560
Speaker 1: So I agree, Like I feel like pleasing is like

1401
01:04:04,760 --> 01:04:08,360
Speaker 1: a part of what like enhances the experience to know

1402
01:04:08,480 --> 01:04:11,440
Speaker 1: that you're doing that shit that you know it's like

1403
01:04:11,840 --> 01:04:17,160
Speaker 1: got your dude like on the like Cliff. But at

1404
01:04:17,200 --> 01:04:20,680
Speaker 1: the same time, like for me, I guess because sex

1405
01:04:20,840 --> 01:04:24,200
Speaker 1: is so mental. If I'm not like in that move

1406
01:04:24,320 --> 01:04:26,640
Speaker 1: to like please you, I'm not gonna reach my big

1407
01:04:26,720 --> 01:04:30,200
Speaker 1: go anywhare like I got to have both happening at

1408
01:04:30,240 --> 01:04:31,280
Speaker 1: the same time.

1409
01:04:31,440 --> 01:04:33,400
Speaker 2: I agree because I'm like, how the help?

1410
01:04:33,760 --> 01:04:36,480
Speaker 4: But I think they've taught us to be performative. Ever,

1411
01:04:36,600 --> 01:04:42,040
Speaker 4: so I was like, oh, is that what's happening?

1412
01:04:42,480 --> 01:04:43,440
Speaker 2: That's what I used to do.

1413
01:04:49,240 --> 01:04:53,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, performing, and I'm doing all this stuff, but I'm

1414
01:04:53,360 --> 01:04:54,400
Speaker 4: not really enjoying it.

1415
01:04:54,880 --> 01:04:56,320
Speaker 2: But they always tell you, oh.

1416
01:04:56,280 --> 01:04:58,880
Speaker 3: That thing ain't not good if he not if he

1417
01:04:58,960 --> 01:05:01,840
Speaker 3: ain't came, I oh, five minutes and it's not good.

1418
01:05:01,960 --> 01:05:04,080
Speaker 4: And you're supposed to show out. But I always say

1419
01:05:04,120 --> 01:05:06,360
Speaker 4: this if you look at like in the ninth I

1420
01:05:06,440 --> 01:05:08,720
Speaker 4: grew up in the night. I was born in the eighties. Okay,

1421
01:05:09,000 --> 01:05:10,760
Speaker 4: so when you grow up in the nineties, you check

1422
01:05:10,760 --> 01:05:12,120
Speaker 4: it out in the magazine. What do you see on

1423
01:05:12,160 --> 01:05:15,080
Speaker 4: the magazines? How to please your man, ten ways, how

1424
01:05:15,120 --> 01:05:17,040
Speaker 4: to turn him out if you want.

1425
01:05:16,920 --> 01:05:18,840
Speaker 2: To Yeah, Cosmo magazines do that a lot.

1426
01:05:18,920 --> 01:05:20,240
Speaker 4: Oh if you want to turn your man out, if

1427
01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:21,840
Speaker 4: you want to keep your man at home, this is

1428
01:05:21,880 --> 01:05:22,880
Speaker 4: what you need to do in bed.

1429
01:05:23,120 --> 01:05:23,320
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1430
01:05:23,480 --> 01:05:26,840
Speaker 4: So I think it's always been focused on us to

1431
01:05:27,520 --> 01:05:29,760
Speaker 4: make the sex enjoyable when it really needs to be

1432
01:05:29,880 --> 01:05:32,760
Speaker 4: about us. Men are so easy to please, I know

1433
01:05:33,320 --> 01:05:33,720
Speaker 4: very much.

1434
01:05:33,800 --> 01:05:35,600
Speaker 2: So you ain't got to do a whole lot. I

1435
01:05:35,720 --> 01:05:39,439
Speaker 2: got lucky. My husband is a freak. So his what's

1436
01:05:39,480 --> 01:05:43,560
Speaker 2: your sign? He's a cancer? What's your sign? I'm not sorry,

1437
01:05:43,760 --> 01:05:48,520
Speaker 2: flip flop, I've been drinking. I'm a cancer. Okay, he's

1438
01:05:48,560 --> 01:05:53,920
Speaker 2: an Aquarius. Okay, hey, that's an interesting period. That is Sorry,

1439
01:05:54,040 --> 01:05:56,240
Speaker 2: I was like, what did I just say? I've been drinking.

1440
01:05:58,040 --> 01:06:01,320
Speaker 2: He is always about very much so pleasing. That is

1441
01:06:01,440 --> 01:06:02,080
Speaker 2: his jam.

1442
01:06:02,520 --> 01:06:05,439
Speaker 1: Okay, that's his. But what sucks is that we're both

1443
01:06:05,520 --> 01:06:07,760
Speaker 1: about that. So we're both like, what do you want?

1444
01:06:07,920 --> 01:06:10,120
Speaker 1: What do you Yeah you won't what do you want?

1445
01:06:10,400 --> 01:06:12,720
Speaker 2: So one of us has to like relent, like to

1446
01:06:13,280 --> 01:06:15,640
Speaker 2: to like submit to let me just tell you what

1447
01:06:15,760 --> 01:06:16,640
Speaker 2: I want. Okay.

1448
01:06:16,920 --> 01:06:19,040
Speaker 1: This is a part of your journey too, is knowing

1449
01:06:19,160 --> 01:06:23,200
Speaker 1: exactly what I want and doing exactly what I want.

1450
01:06:23,720 --> 01:06:28,520
Speaker 1: Our teamwork and every aship. Yeah yeah, no, so I

1451
01:06:28,640 --> 01:06:32,840
Speaker 1: don't have He's not selfish when it comes to the bedroom,

1452
01:06:32,880 --> 01:06:33,520
Speaker 1: which I'm.

1453
01:06:33,800 --> 01:06:34,520
Speaker 2: Very grateful for.

1454
01:06:34,840 --> 01:06:39,680
Speaker 1: Yes, he treats us, but I can only imagine what

1455
01:06:39,840 --> 01:06:41,400
Speaker 1: it would be like if it was just a dude

1456
01:06:41,400 --> 01:06:43,400
Speaker 1: who was just like, what I do is what I do,

1457
01:06:43,680 --> 01:06:46,440
Speaker 1: and it been ain't good enough for you, then you

1458
01:06:46,520 --> 01:06:48,200
Speaker 1: got to figure it out. But I think that's a

1459
01:06:48,280 --> 01:06:50,479
Speaker 1: really good point, Like you hit the nail on the head,

1460
01:06:50,640 --> 01:06:53,240
Speaker 1: because that's the main component. It's having a man who's

1461
01:06:53,360 --> 01:06:55,840
Speaker 1: not that way, like a man who's focused on pleasing you.

1462
01:06:56,440 --> 01:06:58,880
Speaker 1: I think a lot of women are in relationships, are

1463
01:06:58,920 --> 01:07:01,360
Speaker 1: have men that they're not their main focus, Like they

1464
01:07:01,440 --> 01:07:02,480
Speaker 1: worried about getting theirs.

1465
01:07:02,480 --> 01:07:05,520
Speaker 2: They don't care if you would, it is said, because

1466
01:07:05,560 --> 01:07:07,760
Speaker 2: it really does not take a whole lot for them. Yeah,

1467
01:07:08,080 --> 01:07:09,160
Speaker 2: it really does not.

1468
01:07:09,480 --> 01:07:12,000
Speaker 4: I always say this. If there is a hole in

1469
01:07:12,000 --> 01:07:16,400
Speaker 4: the ground, that's well enough. Yeah, what's attached to a raccoon,

1470
01:07:17,320 --> 01:07:20,280
Speaker 4: a tree, a taco bell burrito?

1471
01:07:20,560 --> 01:07:22,120
Speaker 2: Let me tell you how. I know that's the truth.

1472
01:07:22,520 --> 01:07:24,720
Speaker 1: The Bible wouldn't have to have in there to tell

1473
01:07:24,760 --> 01:07:26,600
Speaker 1: the men to stop having sex with animals if they

1474
01:07:26,640 --> 01:07:27,400
Speaker 1: weren't having sex with.

1475
01:07:28,920 --> 01:07:34,160
Speaker 2: Do y'all know that's how because there was a I don't.

1476
01:07:34,440 --> 01:07:37,600
Speaker 2: I think they said, I don't want to We're just

1477
01:07:37,720 --> 01:07:40,160
Speaker 2: gonna say that's what some somebody, somebody.

1478
01:07:40,360 --> 01:07:42,760
Speaker 4: I don't want to blame Christopher Columbus, but I think

1479
01:07:42,800 --> 01:07:47,160
Speaker 4: it was his white ass. He was having sex with animals,

1480
01:07:47,840 --> 01:07:50,480
Speaker 4: or somebody in the history was having sex with animals,

1481
01:07:50,760 --> 01:07:51,080
Speaker 4: and then.

1482
01:07:52,680 --> 01:07:53,000
Speaker 1: It was.

1483
01:07:55,520 --> 01:07:59,520
Speaker 2: Brought Yeah, like quite literally in the Bible, God had

1484
01:07:59,560 --> 01:08:01,480
Speaker 2: to say they have sex with.

1485
01:08:01,600 --> 01:08:05,120
Speaker 4: That's a beatle baby, that's a beatle get out of

1486
01:08:05,160 --> 01:08:06,960
Speaker 4: all beetles.

1487
01:08:07,400 --> 01:08:13,800
Speaker 2: It was a white man. Ye, let me pull this. Yeah,

1488
01:08:13,920 --> 01:08:15,200
Speaker 2: not the beatle on the money.

1489
01:08:15,400 --> 01:08:15,640
Speaker 1: Hey.

1490
01:08:16,680 --> 01:08:18,439
Speaker 4: But I mean I say all that to say I

1491
01:08:18,520 --> 01:08:21,000
Speaker 4: think we should have sex. That's more, you know, focus

1492
01:08:21,080 --> 01:08:23,240
Speaker 4: on women's needs. But I think that's the thing about it.

1493
01:08:23,720 --> 01:08:24,920
Speaker 4: You made a great point.

1494
01:08:25,360 --> 01:08:26,800
Speaker 2: Women. We have to have both.

1495
01:08:27,320 --> 01:08:29,600
Speaker 4: We're trying to satisfy them, but we're also trying to

1496
01:08:29,680 --> 01:08:31,680
Speaker 4: reach the big Oh. A lot of times men they

1497
01:08:31,720 --> 01:08:33,880
Speaker 4: don't care if they're satisfying satisfying us.

1498
01:08:34,120 --> 01:08:35,559
Speaker 2: They just want to reach the big O and they

1499
01:08:35,640 --> 01:08:38,160
Speaker 2: gonna reach it. Oh. Crazy to me that any dude

1500
01:08:38,160 --> 01:08:39,160
Speaker 2: will be okay with that.

1501
01:08:39,439 --> 01:08:40,479
Speaker 3: Oh, they're very okay.

1502
01:08:42,120 --> 01:08:42,320
Speaker 2: Okay.

1503
01:08:42,400 --> 01:08:45,080
Speaker 4: That's why every time they gonna clip this, they're gonna

1504
01:08:45,080 --> 01:08:48,920
Speaker 4: clip this. Yeah, and it's gonna be about two hundred

1505
01:08:49,000 --> 01:08:51,639
Speaker 4: three hundred maybe even more men like Oh, I never

1506
01:08:51,760 --> 01:08:58,519
Speaker 4: had that problem they And I need men to understand

1507
01:08:58,560 --> 01:09:01,360
Speaker 4: that women be We all lie.

1508
01:09:01,479 --> 01:09:03,600
Speaker 1: They will put on a girl, will put on a

1509
01:09:03,760 --> 01:09:07,000
Speaker 1: performance for your ego, and it ain't got nothing to do.

1510
01:09:07,120 --> 01:09:08,880
Speaker 2: With what you actually doing.

1511
01:09:10,840 --> 01:09:14,799
Speaker 1: Do y'all think that you could be a good partner

1512
01:09:14,840 --> 01:09:17,519
Speaker 1: but be a selfish lover because I don't think so.

1513
01:09:17,920 --> 01:09:20,479
Speaker 1: Like they go hand in hand, Like you need to

1514
01:09:20,520 --> 01:09:22,800
Speaker 1: be a good lover in the bedroom, to be a

1515
01:09:22,920 --> 01:09:23,559
Speaker 1: good partner.

1516
01:09:24,000 --> 01:09:26,800
Speaker 2: But some people feel like the two are you know,

1517
01:09:26,960 --> 01:09:27,799
Speaker 2: different entities.

1518
01:09:28,240 --> 01:09:32,040
Speaker 1: Well, I know, like sexuality is a spectrum, so there

1519
01:09:32,040 --> 01:09:34,040
Speaker 1: are on the spectrum there are people who are like

1520
01:09:34,160 --> 01:09:37,760
Speaker 1: more asexual, so sex is not important right at all,

1521
01:09:37,960 --> 01:09:40,120
Speaker 1: And so I would say maybe in that type of

1522
01:09:40,200 --> 01:09:42,840
Speaker 1: relationship you can have somebody that's maybe more of a

1523
01:09:43,880 --> 01:09:47,200
Speaker 1: selfish lover because sex is not important for their other,

1524
01:09:48,160 --> 01:09:49,760
Speaker 1: the other half of their relationship.

1525
01:09:50,360 --> 01:09:56,880
Speaker 2: But I would say on average, sex is important in

1526
01:09:57,000 --> 01:09:58,120
Speaker 2: most relationships.

1527
01:09:58,479 --> 01:10:01,240
Speaker 1: So I do feel like somebody gonna be not satisfied

1528
01:10:01,320 --> 01:10:04,040
Speaker 1: if both people aren't willing to be I don't want

1529
01:10:04,080 --> 01:10:06,960
Speaker 1: to say selfless, but at least consider it when it

1530
01:10:07,080 --> 01:10:09,240
Speaker 1: comes to like pleasing somebody.

1531
01:10:09,400 --> 01:10:13,600
Speaker 4: Look separate churches state you can't separate this pus it

1532
01:10:13,680 --> 01:10:13,960
Speaker 4: from my.

1533
01:10:14,080 --> 01:10:16,439
Speaker 2: Love, Okay, But I feel like that why che didn't

1534
01:10:16,479 --> 01:10:22,599
Speaker 2: happen so much in relationships because well I'm not even

1535
01:10:22,720 --> 01:10:25,240
Speaker 2: just talking about me, and I'm talking about with women too,

1536
01:10:25,560 --> 01:10:27,880
Speaker 2: because they are selfish lovers.

1537
01:10:27,960 --> 01:10:31,200
Speaker 1: Because yes, I feel like if the if you're not

1538
01:10:31,320 --> 01:10:34,599
Speaker 1: being pleased on the physical end, like yes, this person

1539
01:10:34,680 --> 01:10:37,240
Speaker 1: might show up emotionally and they might be there for you,

1540
01:10:37,400 --> 01:10:38,920
Speaker 1: and they might take care of all the things that

1541
01:10:39,000 --> 01:10:40,519
Speaker 1: a man is supposed to take care of me if

1542
01:10:40,520 --> 01:10:42,880
Speaker 1: he's a selfish lover and you're not happy in a bedroom.

1543
01:10:42,960 --> 01:10:44,920
Speaker 1: Sometimes I feel like that's why cheatdn't happen.

1544
01:10:45,160 --> 01:10:47,240
Speaker 2: Really, I don't know.

1545
01:10:47,720 --> 01:10:51,280
Speaker 1: I wonder how many like I have never polled cheaters up.

1546
01:10:51,840 --> 01:10:54,799
Speaker 1: Did you cheat because you needed something else in the bedroom.

1547
01:10:54,880 --> 01:10:57,920
Speaker 1: I feel like people cheat out of curiosity and out

1548
01:10:57,960 --> 01:11:01,639
Speaker 1: of being selfish. Not so much I need new Dick,

1549
01:11:02,200 --> 01:11:05,320
Speaker 1: but just I want something different. Yeah, you know what

1550
01:11:05,400 --> 01:11:08,040
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I'm curious to know what else is out there.

1551
01:11:09,439 --> 01:11:11,479
Speaker 1: And I think that's just a personality trait.

1552
01:11:11,640 --> 01:11:14,720
Speaker 2: I don't know, always searching for something better, right, Yeah,

1553
01:11:14,880 --> 01:11:16,040
Speaker 2: I don't know if it's always.

1554
01:11:16,240 --> 01:11:19,880
Speaker 1: This person could have given them more or given them

1555
01:11:19,920 --> 01:11:21,479
Speaker 1: more attention that would have made them stay.

1556
01:11:21,560 --> 01:11:23,040
Speaker 2: I think some people are just.

1557
01:11:24,680 --> 01:11:31,320
Speaker 1: Either selfish, curious, or Yeah, they might be missing something

1558
01:11:31,520 --> 01:11:32,479
Speaker 1: in their own relationship.

1559
01:11:32,520 --> 01:11:34,200
Speaker 2: But you still don't got a cheat? You just leave?

1560
01:11:34,640 --> 01:11:37,120
Speaker 2: I agree, I think you should leave. Yeah, for sure.

1561
01:11:37,640 --> 01:11:41,200
Speaker 1: I've never polled cheaters, but I have had conversations with them,

1562
01:11:41,840 --> 01:11:45,640
Speaker 1: and I do feel like sometimes it's lack of fulfillment,

1563
01:11:45,800 --> 01:11:48,120
Speaker 1: like they be feeling like they have told the person

1564
01:11:48,200 --> 01:11:51,040
Speaker 1: what they were missing, and then they still didn't try

1565
01:11:51,200 --> 01:11:53,280
Speaker 1: to make up for it or try to change it,

1566
01:11:53,479 --> 01:11:55,080
Speaker 1: and so they ended up cheating.

1567
01:11:54,960 --> 01:11:56,200
Speaker 3: Because it wasn't my fault.

1568
01:11:56,760 --> 01:12:00,400
Speaker 1: Okay, oh well, I want to talk about it, but

1569
01:12:01,040 --> 01:12:03,960
Speaker 1: you know we have had conversation, Oh you been out

1570
01:12:04,000 --> 01:12:04,680
Speaker 1: here cheating? No?

1571
01:12:05,040 --> 01:12:05,639
Speaker 2: Not no more.

1572
01:12:05,920 --> 01:12:10,040
Speaker 4: In my younger days, I definitely did. But that's why

1573
01:12:10,080 --> 01:12:12,080
Speaker 4: I say I don't speak for all women. I could

1574
01:12:12,080 --> 01:12:14,479
Speaker 4: just speak from him the time that I did cheat,

1575
01:12:14,920 --> 01:12:17,120
Speaker 4: because I was like, I kept saying, this is what

1576
01:12:17,240 --> 01:12:18,000
Speaker 4: I wanted more of.

1577
01:12:18,479 --> 01:12:21,080
Speaker 2: And he was just not He wasn't willing and he

1578
01:12:21,120 --> 01:12:22,000
Speaker 2: didn't feel comfortable.

1579
01:12:23,360 --> 01:12:25,240
Speaker 4: I think in the moment, I felt like I needed

1580
01:12:25,320 --> 01:12:28,800
Speaker 4: him because of the place I was in life. It

1581
01:12:28,920 --> 01:12:30,560
Speaker 4: was like I was very like depending on him for

1582
01:12:30,560 --> 01:12:32,400
Speaker 4: a lot of things. I'm not even talking about finance

1583
01:12:32,439 --> 01:12:35,080
Speaker 4: because he wasn't doing that period. But I just felt like, oh,

1584
01:12:35,200 --> 01:12:37,040
Speaker 4: this is who I'm supposed to be with, this is

1585
01:12:37,120 --> 01:12:39,880
Speaker 4: what is the trajectory of my life. Because he had

1586
01:12:39,960 --> 01:12:42,600
Speaker 4: manipulated me in a way to believe that, and so

1587
01:12:42,800 --> 01:12:44,360
Speaker 4: I was just like, Okay, well, you don't want to

1588
01:12:44,400 --> 01:12:45,920
Speaker 4: do what I need to do. So I'm gonna go

1589
01:12:45,960 --> 01:12:48,240
Speaker 4: over there to this guy who in the moment made

1590
01:12:48,280 --> 01:12:52,000
Speaker 4: me feel loved and I thought, and then honestly, both

1591
01:12:52,040 --> 01:12:53,320
Speaker 4: of them got on my nerves. I had to leave

1592
01:12:53,360 --> 01:12:55,599
Speaker 4: them both. I'm looking at I hate.

1593
01:12:55,400 --> 01:12:57,400
Speaker 3: When a side nigga don't know you aside nigga.

1594
01:12:57,680 --> 01:13:01,880
Speaker 2: Oh oh, the main We thought that he was the

1595
01:13:02,000 --> 01:13:04,400
Speaker 2: lobster and it was giving you as the rice. Oh

1596
01:13:12,880 --> 01:13:15,600
Speaker 2: he was, and honestly, looking back, he was barely the

1597
01:13:15,720 --> 01:13:16,320
Speaker 2: ranch sauce.

1598
01:13:16,439 --> 01:13:19,439
Speaker 4: My dang, just the just the little kale on the

1599
01:13:19,520 --> 01:13:22,479
Speaker 4: side might have been the salt. Oh no, come on,

1600
01:13:22,600 --> 01:13:23,679
Speaker 4: now it gets real bad.

1601
01:13:24,000 --> 01:13:26,120
Speaker 2: But you know, I love to see at least Celtic sauce.

1602
01:13:27,000 --> 01:13:31,040
Speaker 2: I don't know what he wasn't he said table. Yeah,

1603
01:13:31,360 --> 01:13:33,519
Speaker 2: he was the girl with the umbrella.

1604
01:13:34,120 --> 01:13:35,000
Speaker 3: That's what he was.

1605
01:13:35,720 --> 01:13:41,560
Speaker 2: Morton, Morton's bitch, Morton's But I said that, I love that.

1606
01:13:41,760 --> 01:13:44,920
Speaker 4: Hindsight is twenty twenty. Yeah, I have lived and I've

1607
01:13:44,960 --> 01:13:47,240
Speaker 4: learned so much. I could never be in that situation

1608
01:13:47,400 --> 01:13:48,840
Speaker 4: now never.

1609
01:13:50,120 --> 01:13:54,559
Speaker 1: But society makes us centered means pleasure more than our own.

1610
01:13:54,920 --> 01:13:58,000
Speaker 2: Absolutely that that starts, even like with porn. Porn is

1611
01:13:58,160 --> 01:13:58,840
Speaker 2: very male sense.

1612
01:13:58,960 --> 01:14:02,320
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, like it will have you completely messed

1613
01:14:02,360 --> 01:14:04,760
Speaker 1: up in the mind about what a sexual experience can

1614
01:14:04,880 --> 01:14:07,560
Speaker 1: be like because it is very much so from a

1615
01:14:07,760 --> 01:14:13,120
Speaker 1: male centered, pleasurable type of and then also just patriarchy wise,

1616
01:14:13,960 --> 01:14:16,760
Speaker 1: we as like women, we don't really get to have

1617
01:14:16,880 --> 01:14:20,479
Speaker 1: those type of conversations growing up. Like I'm not saying

1618
01:14:20,520 --> 01:14:23,360
Speaker 1: the guys are having conversations with their dads about sex

1619
01:14:23,520 --> 01:14:26,400
Speaker 1: for real, yeah, but we definitely ain't having conversations with

1620
01:14:26,520 --> 01:14:27,640
Speaker 1: our mama's about like.

1621
01:14:28,320 --> 01:14:32,040
Speaker 2: So like what should it feel like? Right? What are

1622
01:14:32,160 --> 01:14:34,400
Speaker 2: areas that I should be focused on?

1623
01:14:34,640 --> 01:14:37,880
Speaker 1: We just discovering shit on our own, making stuff up,

1624
01:14:37,920 --> 01:14:41,080
Speaker 1: making it up, and then not realizing until we like

1625
01:14:41,560 --> 01:14:44,200
Speaker 1: are more grown that like, oh it's this should have

1626
01:14:44,240 --> 01:14:47,360
Speaker 1: felt like this, right, I'm telling you that's a good point.

1627
01:14:47,800 --> 01:14:50,400
Speaker 2: My mama, we never had no conversations about six world.

1628
01:14:50,439 --> 01:14:52,640
Speaker 1: And my mom was an urn and she used to

1629
01:14:52,720 --> 01:14:55,840
Speaker 1: have all of these medical encyclopedias at our house.

1630
01:14:56,200 --> 01:14:58,400
Speaker 2: So she would open the encyclopedia and be like, this,

1631
01:14:58,520 --> 01:15:00,640
Speaker 2: what's gonna happen to you? You have six And it

1632
01:15:00,680 --> 01:15:02,120
Speaker 2: would be like clemia.

1633
01:15:01,680 --> 01:15:04,639
Speaker 1: In her resource, Oh look at those lessons and those

1634
01:15:04,680 --> 01:15:07,160
Speaker 1: are the only conversations that we was having down six.

1635
01:15:07,479 --> 01:15:09,960
Speaker 2: So when do you feel like you learned like, Okay,

1636
01:15:10,120 --> 01:15:12,640
Speaker 2: this is what I want my sex life to be like.

1637
01:15:14,439 --> 01:15:16,519
Speaker 2: To be honest, probably when I turned thirty.

1638
01:15:17,280 --> 01:15:20,360
Speaker 1: My whole twenties, I was just winging it and I

1639
01:15:20,479 --> 01:15:23,479
Speaker 1: thought I was having pleasurable six until I turned thirty

1640
01:15:24,000 --> 01:15:26,160
Speaker 1: and I feel it loved and I was like, this

1641
01:15:26,439 --> 01:15:28,439
Speaker 1: is good, you said, all, this is what this is

1642
01:15:28,479 --> 01:15:31,080
Speaker 1: what it's supposed to be. Like, I thought that I

1643
01:15:31,200 --> 01:15:33,000
Speaker 1: was really doing something, but I wasn't really doing it,

1644
01:15:33,080 --> 01:15:35,200
Speaker 1: and I was being performedive you just making.

1645
01:15:37,439 --> 01:15:39,599
Speaker 2: What was the thing that how how does this sound

1646
01:15:39,800 --> 01:15:41,120
Speaker 2: when you're pleasure? You said?

1647
01:15:41,160 --> 01:15:48,439
Speaker 4: It was like, yeah, she was getting into it. But

1648
01:15:48,560 --> 01:15:50,639
Speaker 4: I think that's a great point for the world.

1649
01:15:51,200 --> 01:16:00,880
Speaker 5: No, but also, yeah, this pill on right here, go

1650
01:16:01,000 --> 01:16:01,400
Speaker 5: to jail.

1651
01:16:02,080 --> 01:16:05,040
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, he got to go to jail. What are

1652
01:16:05,080 --> 01:16:05,479
Speaker 2: you doing?

1653
01:16:06,200 --> 01:16:10,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, But even conversations with married women, they feel like,

1654
01:16:11,840 --> 01:16:14,200
Speaker 4: we can't have conversations with married women because it's like,

1655
01:16:14,200 --> 01:16:15,960
Speaker 4: oh my gosh, you're so taboo. But married men they

1656
01:16:16,040 --> 01:16:19,360
Speaker 4: gonna have conversations with their homeboys and be like, oh,

1657
01:16:19,520 --> 01:16:21,720
Speaker 4: she ain't doing this if she ain't doing that. But

1658
01:16:21,960 --> 01:16:24,760
Speaker 4: we can't talk to Mary. Everything is taboo for women

1659
01:16:24,800 --> 01:16:25,799
Speaker 4: when it comes to sex.

1660
01:16:26,040 --> 01:16:31,000
Speaker 2: The moral of the story, more of the story. Look

1661
01:16:31,120 --> 01:16:35,000
Speaker 2: that leg fin the gold. See we don't drink too goddamn.

1662
01:16:35,840 --> 01:16:38,960
Speaker 2: The moral of the story is this, make sure that

1663
01:16:39,280 --> 01:16:41,599
Speaker 2: man is pleasing.

1664
01:16:41,080 --> 01:16:44,800
Speaker 1: You period and not teasing you. Oh yeah, I feel like,

1665
01:16:46,120 --> 01:16:47,839
Speaker 1: do you feel like it took you to your thirties?

1666
01:16:48,080 --> 01:16:48,360
Speaker 1: You know what?

1667
01:16:48,439 --> 01:16:51,200
Speaker 4: I think I figured it out maybe a little bit

1668
01:16:51,320 --> 01:16:54,519
Speaker 4: earlier because I started rubbing at Kuchie huh. And once

1669
01:16:54,560 --> 01:16:57,200
Speaker 4: I rubbed that Kuchie, I said, oh, this is what

1670
01:16:57,320 --> 01:17:00,840
Speaker 4: it's supposed to feel like. So once I started really

1671
01:17:00,920 --> 01:17:04,040
Speaker 4: getting into that arena and having sex, I'm like, this

1672
01:17:04,400 --> 01:17:06,320
Speaker 4: feels way better than having sex.

1673
01:17:06,960 --> 01:17:09,360
Speaker 2: How can I make sex feel like this?

1674
01:17:09,920 --> 01:17:12,000
Speaker 4: So once I started doing that, and I started being

1675
01:17:12,080 --> 01:17:14,120
Speaker 4: more vocal, and I was like, this doesn't feel good,

1676
01:17:14,479 --> 01:17:17,160
Speaker 4: this is whack, this is not good. And once I

1677
01:17:17,240 --> 01:17:20,880
Speaker 4: got vocal and started really telling men like your dick

1678
01:17:21,040 --> 01:17:22,800
Speaker 4: is not good, that's when it got better for me.

1679
01:17:22,840 --> 01:17:28,720
Speaker 2: Because I used to lie I was a performer, you know,

1680
01:17:29,439 --> 01:17:30,760
Speaker 2: I was, I was performing.

1681
01:17:30,920 --> 01:17:32,280
Speaker 4: So once I got to the point to where I

1682
01:17:32,439 --> 01:17:34,519
Speaker 4: was like, no, it's not good, that's when it became

1683
01:17:34,760 --> 01:17:37,200
Speaker 4: enjoyable to me, and I think we as women, we

1684
01:17:37,360 --> 01:17:38,439
Speaker 4: have to stop doing that.

1685
01:17:40,360 --> 01:17:44,320
Speaker 1: The hard habit to quit. But like as you get

1686
01:17:44,360 --> 01:17:47,439
Speaker 1: older and stop giving a damn yep, it becomes easier

1687
01:17:47,520 --> 01:17:53,360
Speaker 1: to be like that, don't feel good, my leg hurts.

1688
01:17:53,360 --> 01:17:55,639
Speaker 3: Stop trying to put it behind my back hurt.

1689
01:17:58,360 --> 01:17:59,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, But I do think it takes a little bit

1690
01:18:00,120 --> 01:18:02,679
Speaker 1: of confidence that I think it's hard to like hone

1691
01:18:02,720 --> 01:18:06,000
Speaker 1: into in your twenties to be like yep, I don't

1692
01:18:06,280 --> 01:18:08,800
Speaker 1: get No, you're not doing it right at all.

1693
01:18:09,560 --> 01:18:12,040
Speaker 2: Ge honest, ladies, Okay, I agree.

1694
01:18:12,200 --> 01:18:14,360
Speaker 1: Well I do I have one more question, And this

1695
01:18:14,439 --> 01:18:16,519
Speaker 1: is kind of like a little sidebar because it doesn't

1696
01:18:16,560 --> 01:18:18,800
Speaker 1: really have anything to do with what we were just

1697
01:18:18,920 --> 01:18:21,000
Speaker 1: talking about. But I know we were just talking about

1698
01:18:21,040 --> 01:18:23,720
Speaker 1: like parents having conversations with their kids about six. So

1699
01:18:23,880 --> 01:18:26,280
Speaker 1: like with you having a son who is about to

1700
01:18:26,360 --> 01:18:29,320
Speaker 1: go to college, now, how did you and your husband

1701
01:18:29,400 --> 01:18:32,240
Speaker 1: navigate having that conversation with him about women in six

1702
01:18:32,360 --> 01:18:34,760
Speaker 1: like when he was in high school and stuff? Oh? Girl,

1703
01:18:34,800 --> 01:18:37,639
Speaker 1: we started that coming out of elementary Oh okay, uh huh,

1704
01:18:37,800 --> 01:18:41,519
Speaker 1: so we did so when he was coming into fifth grade,

1705
01:18:41,560 --> 01:18:43,680
Speaker 1: coming out this is when the pandemic happens. So he

1706
01:18:43,760 --> 01:18:46,680
Speaker 1: was in fifth grade when the pandemic hit. We got

1707
01:18:46,720 --> 01:18:49,400
Speaker 1: a book for him and he read a chapter every

1708
01:18:49,479 --> 01:18:51,040
Speaker 1: day and we discussed the chapter.

1709
01:18:51,160 --> 01:18:51,400
Speaker 2: Listen.

1710
01:18:51,520 --> 01:18:52,800
Speaker 1: I was like, because I need you to know where

1711
01:18:52,840 --> 01:18:55,200
Speaker 1: everything is on your body and where it is on

1712
01:18:55,280 --> 01:18:58,200
Speaker 1: other people's day. So that's when he learned what actual

1713
01:18:58,479 --> 01:19:01,920
Speaker 1: sex meant, Like he didn't have any clue what that meant,

1714
01:19:02,040 --> 01:19:06,160
Speaker 1: that it was two bodies in our life. Right then,

1715
01:19:07,000 --> 01:19:08,920
Speaker 1: the public school system did a terrible job when he

1716
01:19:09,040 --> 01:19:12,160
Speaker 1: was in the seventh grade of explaining sex further. I

1717
01:19:12,280 --> 01:19:14,960
Speaker 1: mean it was and they did a terrible job. So

1718
01:19:15,080 --> 01:19:18,840
Speaker 1: we ended up random improv to having a whole set,

1719
01:19:19,120 --> 01:19:22,880
Speaker 1: having a whole session with him talking about what's oral sex,

1720
01:19:23,360 --> 01:19:26,920
Speaker 1: what's aintal sex, what's vaginals. And he was only like

1721
01:19:27,040 --> 01:19:30,479
Speaker 1: maybe twelve, and he looked like a little baby, and

1722
01:19:30,600 --> 01:19:33,840
Speaker 1: we're having this conference. I was just like okay, but

1723
01:19:34,160 --> 01:19:35,720
Speaker 1: like we had it in a way that it was

1724
01:19:35,880 --> 01:19:39,000
Speaker 1: like chill, and I was like, are you uncomfortable having

1725
01:19:39,040 --> 01:19:41,160
Speaker 1: this conversation? He was like, no, it's just a lot

1726
01:19:41,240 --> 01:19:43,720
Speaker 1: to process. And then we kind of told him what

1727
01:19:44,240 --> 01:19:47,200
Speaker 1: our thoughts were from like a moral aspect. We were

1728
01:19:47,320 --> 01:19:49,640
Speaker 1: just like, you know, we want whenever you make that

1729
01:19:49,720 --> 01:19:54,400
Speaker 1: decision to have sex with someone, that you're more equipped

1730
01:19:54,400 --> 01:19:58,400
Speaker 1: to deal with the consequences that or results that might happen.

1731
01:19:58,479 --> 01:20:02,320
Speaker 1: Because I was like, so, here are some of the results,

1732
01:20:02,479 --> 01:20:04,240
Speaker 1: the good and the bad. We want you to be

1733
01:20:04,320 --> 01:20:11,160
Speaker 1: able to be able to handle that mentally. Right Then,

1734
01:20:11,240 --> 01:20:14,920
Speaker 1: as he got older, we started having a conversation about consent,

1735
01:20:16,120 --> 01:20:19,559
Speaker 1: and I was very much so like, let me tell

1736
01:20:19,560 --> 01:20:21,200
Speaker 1: you something. I said, ain't nobody else is going to

1737
01:20:21,240 --> 01:20:23,160
Speaker 1: tell you this. I said, you have to wait for

1738
01:20:23,439 --> 01:20:28,639
Speaker 1: enthusiastic consent. Hello, I said, not bashful consent. I said,

1739
01:20:28,680 --> 01:20:32,400
Speaker 1: you know how my son loves sweet potato pie. I said,

1740
01:20:32,439 --> 01:20:33,760
Speaker 1: you know how if I asked you if you want

1741
01:20:33,800 --> 01:20:36,400
Speaker 1: a slice of sweet potato pie, you're like yes. I said,

1742
01:20:36,520 --> 01:20:38,680
Speaker 1: that's how you need a chick to respond to you

1743
01:20:38,920 --> 01:20:41,559
Speaker 1: when it comes to whether or not y'all intimate.

1744
01:20:41,960 --> 01:20:44,040
Speaker 2: It got to be like you are a sweet potato pie.

1745
01:20:44,240 --> 01:20:44,439
Speaker 1: Yes.

1746
01:20:44,840 --> 01:20:48,320
Speaker 2: There can't be no confusion about it. You're not reading signals.

1747
01:20:48,560 --> 01:20:51,719
Speaker 1: It needs to be a goddamn billboard that she wants

1748
01:20:51,840 --> 01:20:57,000
Speaker 1: to interact with you in this way and checking in

1749
01:20:58,520 --> 01:21:01,559
Speaker 1: so to make sure that she doesn't say, she might

1750
01:21:01,600 --> 01:21:04,800
Speaker 1: be like, actually I'm not hungry right now, and you

1751
01:21:04,920 --> 01:21:06,960
Speaker 1: gotta be okay with And I was like, and you

1752
01:21:07,120 --> 01:21:09,640
Speaker 1: also have the right to be like, I'm actually not

1753
01:21:09,760 --> 01:21:12,080
Speaker 1: hungry right now. I was like, just because you're a guy,

1754
01:21:12,200 --> 01:21:15,320
Speaker 1: you ain't got to want every piece of assess thrown

1755
01:21:15,360 --> 01:21:15,560
Speaker 1: at you.

1756
01:21:15,680 --> 01:21:15,840
Speaker 2: Yep.

1757
01:21:16,280 --> 01:21:19,000
Speaker 1: I was like, that's not you know what ass is plentiful,

1758
01:21:19,280 --> 01:21:22,160
Speaker 1: trust and believe you'll find another one. I was like,

1759
01:21:22,400 --> 01:21:26,120
Speaker 1: so our biggest thing was we don't want you. I

1760
01:21:26,280 --> 01:21:28,960
Speaker 1: was like, any girl that's not willing to be completely

1761
01:21:29,120 --> 01:21:32,400
Speaker 1: blatant that she's trying to get down with you in

1762
01:21:32,479 --> 01:21:35,280
Speaker 1: a certain way, you don't want to go down that pass.

1763
01:21:35,479 --> 01:21:37,000
Speaker 3: That's the perfect analogy.

1764
01:21:37,080 --> 01:21:37,880
Speaker 2: I think so too.

1765
01:21:38,040 --> 01:21:40,479
Speaker 1: That's gonna help so many parents out there, I feel like,

1766
01:21:40,600 --> 01:21:44,200
Speaker 1: navigate having that conversation with their kids. But you also

1767
01:21:44,280 --> 01:21:45,960
Speaker 1: got a good point, because I don't know why men

1768
01:21:46,120 --> 01:21:47,880
Speaker 1: be thinking that they got to have sex with everybody.

1769
01:21:47,920 --> 01:21:50,280
Speaker 1: Because the amount of men that I have been cool

1770
01:21:50,360 --> 01:21:52,599
Speaker 1: with over the years who have told me that they

1771
01:21:52,640 --> 01:21:55,400
Speaker 1: have had sex with women who COUCHI was thanky, and.

1772
01:21:55,439 --> 01:21:58,080
Speaker 2: They kept going because they said they felt like they

1773
01:21:58,160 --> 01:22:00,080
Speaker 2: had to keep going. They had to see it through.

1774
01:22:00,560 --> 01:22:02,400
Speaker 3: Or even when you talk to a lot about who.

1775
01:22:05,800 --> 01:22:07,000
Speaker 2: He laughed too loud.

1776
01:22:07,680 --> 01:22:09,280
Speaker 4: But a lot of men will say, even when you

1777
01:22:09,400 --> 01:22:12,599
Speaker 4: talk to men about how they lost their virginity, nine

1778
01:22:12,640 --> 01:22:14,840
Speaker 4: times out of ten it was like a situation where

1779
01:22:14,880 --> 01:22:17,280
Speaker 4: they necessarily were too young, and they were it was

1780
01:22:17,320 --> 01:22:19,120
Speaker 4: an older woman and they didn't want to lose it.

1781
01:22:19,920 --> 01:22:21,679
Speaker 4: It'd be a lot of them conversations. So I'm glad

1782
01:22:21,720 --> 01:22:25,679
Speaker 4: that you even said that, because they make men feel

1783
01:22:25,760 --> 01:22:28,960
Speaker 4: like if you turned down some kuchie you gave or

1784
01:22:29,040 --> 01:22:31,280
Speaker 4: you're just like, oh my gosh, you softer.

1785
01:22:31,400 --> 01:22:31,840
Speaker 3: X y Z.

1786
01:22:32,040 --> 01:22:32,519
Speaker 2: That's true.

1787
01:22:32,960 --> 01:22:34,840
Speaker 1: I was like, it's twenty twenty six. You ain't got

1788
01:22:34,880 --> 01:22:36,400
Speaker 1: worried about that. If you don't want it, you ain't

1789
01:22:36,400 --> 01:22:38,080
Speaker 1: got to take it. You ain't got to take it,

1790
01:22:38,160 --> 01:22:39,920
Speaker 1: don't matter how it's being offered. It could be on

1791
01:22:40,000 --> 01:22:41,640
Speaker 1: a platter, a gold platter. If you don't want it,

1792
01:22:42,000 --> 01:22:42,559
Speaker 1: you ain't.

1793
01:22:42,320 --> 01:22:42,760
Speaker 2: Got to have it.

1794
01:22:42,840 --> 01:22:48,080
Speaker 1: But also if she is not Rob Rob wanted to

1795
01:22:48,160 --> 01:22:50,160
Speaker 1: do it with you, leave that girl alone.

1796
01:22:50,400 --> 01:22:58,040
Speaker 2: I'm telling you compromising. Yeah, it gets real sticky, it can,

1797
01:22:58,400 --> 01:22:58,640
Speaker 2: and I.

1798
01:22:58,800 --> 01:23:00,800
Speaker 1: Know it's a part of it is is because we

1799
01:23:00,960 --> 01:23:03,639
Speaker 1: still are under this guise that we can't be very

1800
01:23:03,720 --> 01:23:06,240
Speaker 1: blatant about what we want, and we gotta kind of

1801
01:23:06,280 --> 01:23:08,240
Speaker 1: be bashful so that we're not thought of as like

1802
01:23:08,320 --> 01:23:10,680
Speaker 1: a whole to be like I was horny when I

1803
01:23:10,800 --> 01:23:14,719
Speaker 1: was a teenager, like period, There's no reason that I needed.

1804
01:23:14,520 --> 01:23:16,439
Speaker 2: To be like I mean, I'm not sure, No, I

1805
01:23:16,600 --> 01:23:18,400
Speaker 2: was sure. I was sure.

1806
01:23:18,960 --> 01:23:24,840
Speaker 1: We was all laying under their falsey food, right, trying

1807
01:23:24,880 --> 01:23:26,400
Speaker 1: to pretend like you don't want it.

1808
01:23:26,560 --> 01:23:29,040
Speaker 2: No, if you won't, it be very clear I would like.

1809
01:23:29,120 --> 01:23:31,479
Speaker 3: To, right, And I think that's fair.

1810
01:23:31,520 --> 01:23:34,800
Speaker 4: I think, like again, I say, everybody having sex, why

1811
01:23:34,880 --> 01:23:36,960
Speaker 4: can't we talk about it? Why did y'all act like

1812
01:23:37,040 --> 01:23:39,479
Speaker 4: sex and soul tap? Like, oh my good, Yeah, we

1813
01:23:39,560 --> 01:23:41,160
Speaker 4: can't talk about it. But I think that's why the

1814
01:23:41,280 --> 01:23:45,160
Speaker 4: issue is a lot of these women and men aren't

1815
01:23:45,200 --> 01:23:48,360
Speaker 4: talking to their children right, and they're making it seem

1816
01:23:48,479 --> 01:23:50,920
Speaker 4: like we're not having sex. Oh we're so No, we

1817
01:23:51,120 --> 01:23:53,080
Speaker 4: having sex, and this is how you should have sex

1818
01:23:53,200 --> 01:23:54,160
Speaker 4: because it's gonna happen.

1819
01:23:54,320 --> 01:23:56,880
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, have to prepare your kids, like I will say.

1820
01:23:56,960 --> 01:23:59,000
Speaker 1: My mom she definitely used to show me the scary

1821
01:23:59,080 --> 01:24:02,040
Speaker 1: stuff about having but once I got to high school,

1822
01:24:02,120 --> 01:24:04,240
Speaker 1: she was like, oh, you're getting on breath control because.

1823
01:24:04,080 --> 01:24:04,800
Speaker 2: I don't have no time.

1824
01:24:06,320 --> 01:24:08,040
Speaker 1: She was just like, you're gonna do what you want

1825
01:24:08,080 --> 01:24:10,120
Speaker 1: to do regard least, and I just want to prevent

1826
01:24:10,240 --> 01:24:13,080
Speaker 1: you having a teen pregnancy because my I'm adopted, but

1827
01:24:13,240 --> 01:24:15,720
Speaker 1: my biological mom had me as a team. Okay, So

1828
01:24:15,840 --> 01:24:18,559
Speaker 1: she was just like, yeah, we're breaking the generational cursy

1829
01:24:18,960 --> 01:24:19,960
Speaker 1: not happening with you, so.

1830
01:24:20,120 --> 01:24:22,320
Speaker 2: You getting because I know you're gonna do what you

1831
01:24:22,400 --> 01:24:24,479
Speaker 2: want to do. And I was fucking you know.

1832
01:24:26,240 --> 01:24:29,760
Speaker 1: It was it was yeah, I wasn't until college, but

1833
01:24:29,880 --> 01:24:33,400
Speaker 1: once the once, once like I was and I had

1834
01:24:33,439 --> 01:24:35,560
Speaker 1: somebody that I was doing it with. It was just

1835
01:24:35,680 --> 01:24:38,640
Speaker 1: like whenever we wanted to, we wanted to. It's not

1836
01:24:38,760 --> 01:24:41,479
Speaker 1: a conversation that my mother had with me. She's trying

1837
01:24:41,520 --> 01:24:43,040
Speaker 1: to send my older sister to talk to me, and

1838
01:24:43,080 --> 01:24:44,320
Speaker 1: they did a terrible job.

1839
01:24:44,560 --> 01:24:45,679
Speaker 2: What was the teen girl?

1840
01:24:46,000 --> 01:24:48,800
Speaker 1: My older sister was like, I mean, if you want

1841
01:24:48,840 --> 01:24:51,519
Speaker 1: me to take you to see, like to the porn shops,

1842
01:24:51,560 --> 01:24:52,880
Speaker 1: so if you want to see like.

1843
01:24:53,600 --> 01:24:56,360
Speaker 2: I mean, it was so right, what the hell she

1844
01:24:56,560 --> 01:24:56,920
Speaker 2: was doing?

1845
01:24:57,360 --> 01:24:59,360
Speaker 1: She was just sent to talk to me while my

1846
01:24:59,479 --> 01:25:02,080
Speaker 1: other sister, to write under her in age, was just like,

1847
01:25:02,600 --> 01:25:03,599
Speaker 1: are you having sex.

1848
01:25:04,240 --> 01:25:04,720
Speaker 2: Are you like?

1849
01:25:04,920 --> 01:25:05,479
Speaker 1: What? Like?

1850
01:25:05,680 --> 01:25:09,240
Speaker 2: Is that how we're broaching this subject? Literally? Like this

1851
01:25:09,439 --> 01:25:10,120
Speaker 2: this is you think?

1852
01:25:10,160 --> 01:25:12,040
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna be open and honest with you right

1853
01:25:12,080 --> 01:25:14,680
Speaker 1: now because it already feels like you're judging me. It

1854
01:25:14,840 --> 01:25:18,360
Speaker 1: already feels like So I didn't want that for my boys.

1855
01:25:18,439 --> 01:25:21,519
Speaker 1: And I just know the pressure, especially with with men

1856
01:25:21,600 --> 01:25:23,320
Speaker 1: in general, and with boys, I know a lot of

1857
01:25:23,360 --> 01:25:26,200
Speaker 1: the times the onus is put on them to understand consent,

1858
01:25:26,800 --> 01:25:29,840
Speaker 1: where I'm just like, also put the onus on the

1859
01:25:29,920 --> 01:25:33,160
Speaker 1: girl to make sure she tells you she's consented, Like

1860
01:25:34,080 --> 01:25:35,920
Speaker 1: she got to be fully clear with you so that

1861
01:25:36,040 --> 01:25:39,040
Speaker 1: you can feel confident and comfortable about how you all

1862
01:25:39,080 --> 01:25:40,559
Speaker 1: are moving forward, you know what I'm saying.

1863
01:25:40,640 --> 01:25:43,599
Speaker 2: So so I gotta do that three more times.

1864
01:25:43,840 --> 01:25:46,960
Speaker 1: But the first one went okay, Okay, So we gonna

1865
01:25:47,000 --> 01:25:49,360
Speaker 1: see and I already know. And college is about to

1866
01:25:49,400 --> 01:25:50,240
Speaker 1: be a whole nother.

1867
01:25:50,600 --> 01:25:54,240
Speaker 4: That's a whole nother ball game. Yeah, are you gonna cry?

1868
01:25:54,560 --> 01:25:57,280
Speaker 2: Oh? Absolutely, he plans on coming out here for college.

1869
01:25:57,320 --> 01:25:58,120
Speaker 2: He'll be in Atlanta.

1870
01:25:58,320 --> 01:26:02,680
Speaker 1: Okay, Anna, I got your thak please, But as long

1871
01:26:02,720 --> 01:26:05,040
Speaker 1: as he's having a good time, like you know, his

1872
01:26:05,160 --> 01:26:06,680
Speaker 1: daddy was a bit of a freak out here in

1873
01:26:06,720 --> 01:26:12,519
Speaker 1: the streets, and his dad has been very honest about that. Luckily,

1874
01:26:12,640 --> 01:26:14,240
Speaker 1: my son is a little bit more like me, so

1875
01:26:14,320 --> 01:26:17,360
Speaker 1: I won't I hopefully won't have no grandkids, so it's

1876
01:26:17,400 --> 01:26:21,320
Speaker 1: a little bit more slower moving. But you know, I'm

1877
01:26:21,360 --> 01:26:26,640
Speaker 1: also like just you know, be safe, you know, very communicative.

1878
01:26:27,600 --> 01:26:31,160
Speaker 1: It's a part of human development. And I love that

1879
01:26:31,240 --> 01:26:33,639
Speaker 1: we have these conversations because I think about this stuff

1880
01:26:33,640 --> 01:26:35,200
Speaker 1: all the time because I don't have kids yet, but

1881
01:26:35,280 --> 01:26:37,920
Speaker 1: I do think about when I do, how I'm gonna

1882
01:26:37,960 --> 01:26:41,040
Speaker 1: have these conversations with them, And like, I just look

1883
01:26:41,160 --> 01:26:42,800
Speaker 1: back on me when I was in high school, Like

1884
01:26:42,840 --> 01:26:46,200
Speaker 1: I remember I had this boyfriend and his parents would

1885
01:26:46,200 --> 01:26:48,120
Speaker 1: be so cool with me coming over to the house.

1886
01:26:48,520 --> 01:26:50,200
Speaker 2: We will be upstairs in his room.

1887
01:26:50,640 --> 01:26:53,080
Speaker 1: They didn't care because they just felt like, yeah, they

1888
01:26:53,200 --> 01:26:55,560
Speaker 1: was like trying to create this safe space. And like,

1889
01:26:55,720 --> 01:26:59,720
Speaker 1: looking back on it, that's so harmful because anything could

1890
01:26:59,760 --> 01:27:03,160
Speaker 1: have had anything, But they was so cool at the

1891
01:27:03,200 --> 01:27:07,560
Speaker 1: time because my parents wouldn't have an issue, wouldn't. No.

1892
01:27:08,640 --> 01:27:11,519
Speaker 1: Hell no, and some ship go down and they're like,

1893
01:27:11,600 --> 01:27:15,800
Speaker 1: and it happened at my house. I'm killing everybody. No, No,

1894
01:27:16,280 --> 01:27:19,040
Speaker 1: thank you, so hopefully my son, I feel like he's

1895
01:27:19,080 --> 01:27:21,640
Speaker 1: at the he is really comfortable talking to me and

1896
01:27:21,760 --> 01:27:22,400
Speaker 1: telling me shit.

1897
01:27:22,960 --> 01:27:24,680
Speaker 2: I try not to judge. I just be trying to

1898
01:27:24,720 --> 01:27:25,479
Speaker 2: give him advice.

1899
01:27:25,640 --> 01:27:28,519
Speaker 1: So hopefully, you know, he'll still feel that way, or

1900
01:27:28,600 --> 01:27:31,439
Speaker 1: he'll transition to talking to his dad about stuff when

1901
01:27:31,479 --> 01:27:32,200
Speaker 1: he goes to college.

1902
01:27:32,320 --> 01:27:34,120
Speaker 2: Because he's the oldest. He ain't got no older brothers

1903
01:27:34,200 --> 01:27:34,640
Speaker 2: to talk to you.

1904
01:27:34,840 --> 01:27:36,799
Speaker 3: Yes, that's so that's gonna make it a little different.

1905
01:27:37,160 --> 01:27:39,040
Speaker 1: And we didn't want his stupid friends giving him advice.

1906
01:27:39,080 --> 01:27:41,080
Speaker 1: I was like, they dumb as fuck, So don't please,

1907
01:27:41,120 --> 01:27:43,400
Speaker 1: don't don't talk to you. Yeah, they gonna have you

1908
01:27:43,520 --> 01:27:48,000
Speaker 1: up here looking stupid. Hello, I'm not facilitating the space though, No, have.

1909
01:27:49,680 --> 01:27:50,479
Speaker 2: You listen.

1910
01:27:50,560 --> 01:27:53,800
Speaker 1: In state of California, miners do not have the legal uh,

1911
01:27:54,120 --> 01:27:55,400
Speaker 1: the legal ability to consent.

1912
01:27:55,520 --> 01:27:56,920
Speaker 2: So you ain't doing that ship in my house.

1913
01:27:57,080 --> 01:28:01,280
Speaker 1: Ye in the South, he be fucking down. And then

1914
01:28:01,560 --> 01:28:07,400
Speaker 1: then people based me. We did, I mean, Addie, it

1915
01:28:07,560 --> 01:28:11,960
Speaker 1: was somewhere, but it was like a little trap door

1916
01:28:12,040 --> 01:28:14,040
Speaker 1: that you could go through to the attic. We used

1917
01:28:14,080 --> 01:28:19,160
Speaker 1: to be in there smoking and having and I used

1918
01:28:19,200 --> 01:28:20,760
Speaker 1: to be going home. My daddy would be like, so

1919
01:28:21,040 --> 01:28:29,439
Speaker 1: did you have fun. Yes, I had a ball, not

1920
01:28:29,600 --> 01:28:30,640
Speaker 1: just about balls and.

1921
01:28:32,160 --> 01:28:36,439
Speaker 2: Balls. Okay, So now it's time to get into the

1922
01:28:36,640 --> 01:28:42,760
Speaker 2: bop about.

1923
01:28:43,240 --> 01:28:46,320
Speaker 1: So bop of the Week is whatever song and music

1924
01:28:46,400 --> 01:28:49,960
Speaker 1: you've been jamming this week, Okay. So I'm gonna give

1925
01:28:49,960 --> 01:28:51,040
Speaker 1: you a little time to think about it.

1926
01:28:51,120 --> 01:28:53,960
Speaker 4: It could be old school, news school, whatever, whatever it is, like,

1927
01:28:54,400 --> 01:28:58,160
Speaker 4: that's you know, that's your bob. So I'm I always

1928
01:28:58,200 --> 01:29:01,759
Speaker 4: do new songs, but I'm gonna do a throwback because

1929
01:29:03,479 --> 01:29:05,439
Speaker 4: I just feel like this person has been coming up

1930
01:29:05,479 --> 01:29:08,200
Speaker 4: in conversations a lot lately, and I just feel like

1931
01:29:08,240 --> 01:29:10,519
Speaker 4: it's a sign that she's about to come on the show.

1932
01:29:11,560 --> 01:29:14,240
Speaker 4: Because we went to the Cardi concert and Missy Elliott

1933
01:29:14,280 --> 01:29:14,720
Speaker 4: popped out.

1934
01:29:15,000 --> 01:29:17,840
Speaker 2: Okay, y'all did talk about her recently, yes, and.

1935
01:29:18,000 --> 01:29:19,960
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I almost had to melt down.

1936
01:29:20,040 --> 01:29:23,120
Speaker 4: Dre was like, bitch, please calm down, like please relax,

1937
01:29:23,200 --> 01:29:24,599
Speaker 4: but I can't cause it's Missy Elliott.

1938
01:29:24,720 --> 01:29:24,880
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1939
01:29:25,000 --> 01:29:25,160
Speaker 1: Man.

1940
01:29:26,640 --> 01:29:30,040
Speaker 4: So then we went on nessa show in New York

1941
01:29:30,120 --> 01:29:32,200
Speaker 4: and she was like, oh talking about my love for

1942
01:29:32,320 --> 01:29:34,920
Speaker 4: Missy Elliott, And I wanted to make this my Bop

1943
01:29:35,000 --> 01:29:36,640
Speaker 4: of the week because I feel like people kind of

1944
01:29:36,680 --> 01:29:38,840
Speaker 4: low key slept on this song, but it was like

1945
01:29:38,920 --> 01:29:41,559
Speaker 4: a TikTok You know how TikTok dances go viral. Yeah,

1946
01:29:41,680 --> 01:29:43,240
Speaker 4: this was like one of the first times I saw

1947
01:29:43,320 --> 01:29:46,519
Speaker 4: a dance go viral. Do y'all remember Gossip Folks with

1948
01:29:47,000 --> 01:29:48,240
Speaker 4: her feature and Ludacris.

1949
01:29:49,120 --> 01:29:52,479
Speaker 3: Everybody was doing that dance like it was a moment

1950
01:29:52,600 --> 01:29:53,080
Speaker 3: in time.

1951
01:29:53,240 --> 01:29:54,679
Speaker 2: It was the little white girl in the video.

1952
01:29:54,960 --> 01:29:57,320
Speaker 4: Yes, she did the work at video and then she

1953
01:29:57,439 --> 01:30:00,200
Speaker 4: brought her back for Gossip Folks. And I when I

1954
01:30:00,320 --> 01:30:03,000
Speaker 4: tell you, like, we was all doing that dance in

1955
01:30:03,080 --> 01:30:06,240
Speaker 4: high school. No reason for me, in my white kind

1956
01:30:06,240 --> 01:30:08,639
Speaker 4: of part, I couldn't be doing that dance, but we did.

1957
01:30:09,080 --> 01:30:11,120
Speaker 4: And I feel like Missy is such an innovator and

1958
01:30:11,200 --> 01:30:14,080
Speaker 4: I love her down. So I have a throwback this week,

1959
01:30:14,479 --> 01:30:17,439
Speaker 4: Missy Elliott Gossip Folks featuring Luther Chris. Y'all know Ludi

1960
01:30:17,479 --> 01:30:19,840
Speaker 4: Chris is that nigga You just dropped the song too

1961
01:30:20,640 --> 01:30:23,400
Speaker 4: and a video and it's fire. He did win, yes,

1962
01:30:23,760 --> 01:30:26,720
Speaker 4: like two weeks ago, because you know t I came

1963
01:30:26,760 --> 01:30:29,800
Speaker 4: out and everybody was jammy loved it. Can I say

1964
01:30:29,840 --> 01:30:32,080
Speaker 4: something real quick too? They've been laughing able to talk

1965
01:30:32,080 --> 01:30:34,000
Speaker 4: about Oh this is the Auntie music. But this is

1966
01:30:34,000 --> 01:30:36,120
Speaker 4: why music is so bad these days, because y'all hear

1967
01:30:36,240 --> 01:30:39,360
Speaker 4: quality music and y'all calling it auntie music, AI music

1968
01:30:39,400 --> 01:30:44,040
Speaker 4: and bad music. Ta released a quality song to show y'all,

1969
01:30:44,200 --> 01:30:45,800
Speaker 4: this is what music sounds like.

1970
01:30:46,280 --> 01:30:47,400
Speaker 2: It's fucking for real.

1971
01:30:48,560 --> 01:30:53,120
Speaker 4: Show some respect, whole ass niggas. You kids have got

1972
01:30:53,240 --> 01:30:56,040
Speaker 4: to start listening to some real music. We gotta take

1973
01:30:56,080 --> 01:30:58,120
Speaker 4: y'all to school. Go listen to the Missy albums. Go

1974
01:30:58,200 --> 01:31:00,640
Speaker 4: listen to the g Z albums. Listen to the jay

1975
01:31:00,720 --> 01:31:03,640
Speaker 4: Z album so you can understand what good music sounds like.

1976
01:31:03,880 --> 01:31:06,000
Speaker 1: That was saying that on the internet. They was saying

1977
01:31:06,080 --> 01:31:07,840
Speaker 1: all the unks loved their tr song.

1978
01:31:08,000 --> 01:31:20,040
Speaker 2: Let them know because it's yeah, it was. It was

1979
01:31:20,560 --> 01:31:25,000
Speaker 2: five brought us back to the old day. Don't miss

1980
01:31:25,640 --> 01:31:27,320
Speaker 2: ever like stop it ever.

1981
01:31:28,160 --> 01:31:31,080
Speaker 4: So shout out to the old heads they I don't

1982
01:31:31,120 --> 01:31:32,679
Speaker 4: give a fuck, they're still making good music.

1983
01:31:33,000 --> 01:31:35,519
Speaker 3: And the younger generation y'all could take a little note

1984
01:31:35,560 --> 01:31:35,800
Speaker 3: to two.

1985
01:31:36,080 --> 01:31:38,320
Speaker 2: Yeah you know what you got.

1986
01:31:43,439 --> 01:31:47,120
Speaker 1: Right, came out with like three albums, and he did

1987
01:31:47,400 --> 01:31:50,920
Speaker 1: and like forty songs is a lot of songs, it is,

1988
01:31:51,080 --> 01:31:54,080
Speaker 1: you know, And I've listened to all three albums over

1989
01:31:54,160 --> 01:31:54,439
Speaker 1: the past.

1990
01:31:54,560 --> 01:31:56,160
Speaker 2: It took me two weeks. I'm not gonna lie.

1991
01:31:56,280 --> 01:31:59,160
Speaker 1: You listen to all three, yes, because but it took

1992
01:31:59,240 --> 01:32:02,439
Speaker 1: me two weeks. Okay, I would have I would thank Yeah,

1993
01:32:03,439 --> 01:32:06,200
Speaker 1: it's meaning to get through them all.

1994
01:32:06,720 --> 01:32:09,120
Speaker 2: But I do have some songs that I like. So

1995
01:32:09,360 --> 01:32:16,800
Speaker 2: like hibib ti habibit okay, hbidi yeah, my love and

1996
01:32:17,240 --> 01:32:22,400
Speaker 2: haabidi habidi it means my love to a woman. Okay, okay,

1997
01:32:22,520 --> 01:32:24,360
Speaker 2: see I didn't even know what it means. Now we

1998
01:32:24,520 --> 01:32:25,200
Speaker 2: learning something.

1999
01:32:25,280 --> 01:32:26,080
Speaker 3: So that's what you like.

2000
01:32:26,280 --> 01:32:29,320
Speaker 1: So I like w n b A, I like Slapped

2001
01:32:29,360 --> 01:32:34,120
Speaker 1: the City. I like Classic that's really a good song.

2002
01:32:34,400 --> 01:32:38,200
Speaker 1: And then I also like some songs on the other

2003
01:32:38,320 --> 01:32:43,080
Speaker 1: album too. I like I like Shebang that was, Yes,

2004
01:32:44,880 --> 01:32:47,200
Speaker 1: that's the one. Yes, I like shut Up Jennis, that's

2005
01:32:47,200 --> 01:32:47,439
Speaker 1: the one.

2006
01:32:47,560 --> 01:32:52,680
Speaker 2: I mean the other album which I can't remember what

2007
01:32:52,800 --> 01:32:57,439
Speaker 2: that one is called. Do y'all know nobody did Bridesmaid Women.

2008
01:32:57,840 --> 01:33:02,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's the one that was. It was called

2009
01:33:02,320 --> 01:33:04,120
Speaker 1: made of Honor. Yet made of honor, there we go.

2010
01:33:04,240 --> 01:33:11,320
Speaker 1: I've made around, but y'all, uh huh, thing made of honor?

2011
01:33:11,400 --> 01:33:14,200
Speaker 1: I mean yeah, it was like maybe one of two

2012
01:33:14,280 --> 01:33:15,960
Speaker 1: songs on it that I liked. But I really liked

2013
01:33:16,000 --> 01:33:17,640
Speaker 1: Ice Men and Hobbs.

2014
01:33:18,720 --> 01:33:21,479
Speaker 4: But how do you feel about the projects as a whole.

2015
01:33:21,520 --> 01:33:23,479
Speaker 4: Do you think Drake still got it?

2016
01:33:24,360 --> 01:33:26,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think Drake can lose it, but I

2017
01:33:26,880 --> 01:33:29,520
Speaker 1: do more so think like, at least from my understanding,

2018
01:33:30,120 --> 01:33:33,120
Speaker 1: he came out with all three of these albums at

2019
01:33:33,200 --> 01:33:35,280
Speaker 1: one time because he's trying to get out of his

2020
01:33:35,720 --> 01:33:39,040
Speaker 1: deal his Contray Mood. Yeah, so I think he just

2021
01:33:39,200 --> 01:33:41,240
Speaker 1: released them and released a whole bunch of music so

2022
01:33:41,320 --> 01:33:43,280
Speaker 1: that he could be done with his label.

2023
01:33:43,960 --> 01:33:44,680
Speaker 2: But I don't know.

2024
01:33:45,040 --> 01:33:46,760
Speaker 1: I'm a little bias, So I feel like Drake is

2025
01:33:47,040 --> 01:33:49,759
Speaker 1: probably like one of the greatest rappers of our generation.

2026
01:33:49,880 --> 01:33:51,280
Speaker 2: I don't really think he can lose it.

2027
01:33:51,920 --> 01:33:54,600
Speaker 1: Now, there's a song I was on the plane on

2028
01:33:54,720 --> 01:33:57,720
Speaker 1: the way here, and only the songs that were downloaded

2029
01:33:57,800 --> 01:34:00,240
Speaker 1: to my phone would play because I didn't have internet right,

2030
01:34:01,280 --> 01:34:03,280
Speaker 1: And it's the most random songs that I don't know

2031
01:34:03,360 --> 01:34:06,519
Speaker 1: why certain songs are saved to my phone, so I

2032
01:34:06,720 --> 01:34:09,000
Speaker 1: just let it play. So obviously I had all the

2033
01:34:09,080 --> 01:34:11,280
Speaker 1: Beyonce's albums saved to my phone, so I.

2034
01:34:11,280 --> 01:34:14,360
Speaker 2: Can run I can run through Okay, I can run

2035
01:34:14,439 --> 01:34:18,320
Speaker 2: through all of us. Okay. Lemonade all of them like,

2036
01:34:19,000 --> 01:34:20,160
Speaker 2: but for something.

2037
01:34:20,200 --> 01:34:22,639
Speaker 1: When I got out of Beyonce, all of a sudden,

2038
01:34:22,680 --> 01:34:25,800
Speaker 1: a song play that I hadn't heard in a long time.

2039
01:34:26,240 --> 01:34:35,479
Speaker 2: What was the chopper style? They won't chop chop, they

2040
01:34:35,560 --> 01:34:40,880
Speaker 2: won't shop chop, they won't shop chop. And so because

2041
01:34:41,760 --> 01:34:44,280
Speaker 2: this is me and my want of some fine woman

2042
01:34:44,360 --> 01:34:48,439
Speaker 2: with some she even got a lot of work with her. Yeah,

2043
01:34:49,000 --> 01:34:55,040
Speaker 2: that was a he wow, that's me on the planet.

2044
01:34:55,600 --> 01:34:57,479
Speaker 2: I know that people were like, what is wrong with her?

2045
01:34:57,720 --> 01:34:58,040
Speaker 1: I was.

2046
01:35:00,320 --> 01:35:02,040
Speaker 2: What was fine?

2047
01:35:03,080 --> 01:35:03,280
Speaker 5: Y'all?

2048
01:35:03,320 --> 01:35:11,360
Speaker 2: Remember chopping was up? That's a bob.

2049
01:35:11,840 --> 01:35:18,320
Speaker 4: I was literally like, oh, you know you took it

2050
01:35:19,040 --> 01:35:22,960
Speaker 4: that that song can still get played right now? Ye

2051
01:35:23,400 --> 01:35:25,000
Speaker 4: shaking eggs and I'm sweat.

2052
01:35:25,479 --> 01:35:28,720
Speaker 2: I'm giving everything I got. And I literally was on

2053
01:35:28,960 --> 01:35:31,520
Speaker 2: the plane causing.

2054
01:35:31,280 --> 01:35:36,200
Speaker 1: Turbulence and I know you had that plane ride was

2055
01:35:36,280 --> 01:35:37,600
Speaker 1: and I know them people were looking at me like

2056
01:35:37,720 --> 01:35:40,639
Speaker 1: what is going I'm They were like, OK, yes, where

2057
01:35:40,760 --> 01:35:41,320
Speaker 1: is her handler?

2058
01:35:41,439 --> 01:35:46,840
Speaker 2: And I was like I love it? Yeah, So Chopping

2059
01:35:46,880 --> 01:35:49,320
Speaker 2: starf for the summer.

2060
01:35:49,400 --> 01:35:51,400
Speaker 1: It just needs to come back in rotation a little

2061
01:35:51,439 --> 01:35:53,519
Speaker 1: bit because it does get the vibes.

2062
01:35:54,400 --> 01:35:54,599
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2063
01:35:55,240 --> 01:35:57,160
Speaker 4: Well, before we move on, I'm just gonna say, really,

2064
01:35:57,240 --> 01:36:00,519
Speaker 4: quickly and quietly. I like Drake's albums, listened to them

2065
01:36:00,520 --> 01:36:01,280
Speaker 4: straight through, and you.

2066
01:36:01,400 --> 01:36:10,960
Speaker 2: Like, al right, shocked Drake Flander. Oh I liked him.

2067
01:36:11,000 --> 01:36:14,719
Speaker 2: You like all so you don't even have like no note.

2068
01:36:15,320 --> 01:36:17,760
Speaker 4: It's like I don't feel like I didn't take I

2069
01:36:18,000 --> 01:36:23,479
Speaker 4: feel like it's it's summer music. I think, okay, it's summer.

2070
01:36:24,200 --> 01:36:26,479
Speaker 2: I was popping pussy in my room.

2071
01:36:26,800 --> 01:36:30,439
Speaker 4: Yeah okay, and that's all he needed to do all

2072
01:36:30,520 --> 01:36:33,880
Speaker 4: this going back and forth with Kendrick, you lost, That's okay,

2073
01:36:34,880 --> 01:36:36,439
Speaker 4: we still want to pop pussy.

2074
01:36:36,840 --> 01:36:37,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2075
01:36:37,320 --> 01:36:40,320
Speaker 1: I think each album serves its purpose though, like each

2076
01:36:40,400 --> 01:36:44,200
Speaker 1: album is that's a different vibe. So it was one

2077
01:36:44,240 --> 01:36:46,680
Speaker 1: it's like vacation when it's like you're gonna turn up

2078
01:36:46,680 --> 01:36:51,120
Speaker 1: on a nigga yeah future, It's like it was giving

2079
01:36:51,200 --> 01:36:53,519
Speaker 1: egg future and I'm glad they made it.

2080
01:36:54,720 --> 01:36:57,720
Speaker 2: When I saw that he was on, I was like you,

2081
01:36:58,120 --> 01:36:58,599
Speaker 2: I love.

2082
01:37:00,080 --> 01:37:00,200
Speaker 5: Up.

2083
01:37:01,240 --> 01:37:03,400
Speaker 3: We can't break the bad bitches up? Come on?

2084
01:37:04,040 --> 01:37:05,719
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah for the people.

2085
01:37:06,479 --> 01:37:11,400
Speaker 3: I do like the albums, Kendrick, what you think I.

2086
01:37:11,439 --> 01:37:12,679
Speaker 2: Loved all three? Yeah?

2087
01:37:15,920 --> 01:37:18,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I never only was on Iceman. I don't be

2088
01:37:18,880 --> 01:37:20,360
Speaker 1: having a lot of time and I was like get

2089
01:37:20,840 --> 01:37:23,040
Speaker 1: yeah and then I just end up. So I'm listened

2090
01:37:23,040 --> 01:37:24,080
Speaker 1: to use.

2091
01:37:25,400 --> 01:37:27,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a lot. I just listen.

2092
01:37:27,680 --> 01:37:30,000
Speaker 4: I'm getting ready, like so when I'm getting ready, that's

2093
01:37:30,000 --> 01:37:32,000
Speaker 4: when I listen to albums that people tell me to review.

2094
01:37:32,080 --> 01:37:33,519
Speaker 4: Something I'm getting ready, let me listen to it. And

2095
01:37:33,560 --> 01:37:35,360
Speaker 4: I found myself.

2096
01:37:35,200 --> 01:37:42,920
Speaker 1: Bob and my mother fucking heads Brown Chris Brown album.

2097
01:37:42,720 --> 01:37:44,679
Speaker 2: And then you don't drop on three times a year.

2098
01:37:46,240 --> 01:37:48,520
Speaker 2: So now we got one hundred and twenty.

2099
01:37:50,040 --> 01:37:52,360
Speaker 1: Break got he listened. He's trying to make it funny.

2100
01:37:52,560 --> 01:37:56,160
Speaker 1: He another song, Please take a break you got he

2101
01:37:56,439 --> 01:37:57,639
Speaker 1: got more kids than you ain't.

2102
01:37:59,560 --> 01:38:03,000
Speaker 2: He's like each album for a child, the Bay Money.

2103
01:38:04,200 --> 01:38:08,280
Speaker 1: Oh okay, So now I'm get into our favorite favorite

2104
01:38:08,520 --> 01:38:10,400
Speaker 1: segment of the show, which is pour your heart out.

2105
01:38:10,640 --> 01:38:12,280
Speaker 1: You know, if you have any questions, you can always

2106
01:38:12,320 --> 01:38:14,840
Speaker 1: send them to ask poor Minds at gmail dot com.

2107
01:38:14,960 --> 01:38:18,280
Speaker 1: That's ask P O U R and my NDAs at

2108
01:38:18,640 --> 01:38:21,560
Speaker 1: gmail dot com. Now I feel like I don't have

2109
01:38:21,640 --> 01:38:21,960
Speaker 1: to ask you.

2110
01:38:22,040 --> 01:38:23,600
Speaker 2: Do you give good advices? I feel like I know

2111
01:38:23,680 --> 01:38:26,960
Speaker 2: you give good advice. I try to got a great advice.

2112
01:38:27,000 --> 01:38:30,080
Speaker 2: You did? You got some good gyms. Okay, so let's

2113
01:38:30,120 --> 01:38:32,759
Speaker 2: get into question number one. Hey, ladies.

2114
01:38:32,800 --> 01:38:34,559
Speaker 1: I love y'all so much and can't wait to see

2115
01:38:34,640 --> 01:38:37,600
Speaker 1: y'all on tour in Chicago. My question is I just

2116
01:38:37,640 --> 01:38:40,719
Speaker 1: got back from a cruise for my sister's birthday. Before

2117
01:38:40,720 --> 01:38:42,880
Speaker 1: I left, I asked my boyfriend for two hundred dollars

2118
01:38:42,960 --> 01:38:45,040
Speaker 1: because I had use some of my trip money to

2119
01:38:45,120 --> 01:38:47,800
Speaker 1: buy gifts for both of our mothers for Mother's Day. Now,

2120
01:38:47,840 --> 01:38:50,559
Speaker 1: we're splitting payments on new furniture, and I still owe

2121
01:38:50,640 --> 01:38:54,439
Speaker 1: him my half, plus forty dollars extra. He's been hounding

2122
01:38:54,520 --> 01:38:56,920
Speaker 1: me about paying him back, but I found out he

2123
01:38:57,000 --> 01:38:59,439
Speaker 1: sent one hundred dollars to someone else. When I brought

2124
01:38:59,479 --> 01:39:01,920
Speaker 1: it up, he got mad and said, I'm only upset

2125
01:39:02,000 --> 01:39:04,599
Speaker 1: because I owe him money. What bothers me is I've

2126
01:39:04,640 --> 01:39:06,920
Speaker 1: done plenty for him financially and have never made him

2127
01:39:06,960 --> 01:39:09,680
Speaker 1: feel bad about it. We've been together three years, have

2128
01:39:09,760 --> 01:39:12,120
Speaker 1: a two year old daughter, and are moving into a

2129
01:39:12,240 --> 01:39:15,360
Speaker 1: new home. Am I wrong for not paying him back immediately?

2130
01:39:15,479 --> 01:39:19,759
Speaker 1: He's forty three and I am thirty one? What? Okay,

2131
01:39:19,840 --> 01:39:21,920
Speaker 1: wait a minute, Okay, I'm trying to fish it up.

2132
01:39:22,600 --> 01:39:24,160
Speaker 1: There's so many Did he ever give her the two

2133
01:39:24,280 --> 01:39:26,320
Speaker 1: hundred that she asked for? Once she got the two

2134
01:39:26,840 --> 01:39:27,679
Speaker 1: gifts for the mama.

2135
01:39:27,960 --> 01:39:31,080
Speaker 2: No exactly, that's what I was stuck, right, that's what

2136
01:39:31,240 --> 01:39:31,680
Speaker 2: I know.

2137
01:39:31,920 --> 01:39:33,880
Speaker 1: It says I asked him for two hundred dollars because

2138
01:39:33,880 --> 01:39:35,519
Speaker 1: I had used some of my trip money to buy

2139
01:39:35,600 --> 01:39:38,120
Speaker 1: gives for our mothers for Mother's Day, and I were

2140
01:39:38,160 --> 01:39:39,919
Speaker 1: splitting payments on new furniture.

2141
01:39:39,960 --> 01:39:43,080
Speaker 2: And I still owe him. I have plus forty dollars extion.

2142
01:39:43,040 --> 01:39:44,920
Speaker 4: No, you don't owe him, y'all half plus forty because

2143
01:39:44,920 --> 01:39:47,120
Speaker 4: you paid the two hundred dollars for his mama.

2144
01:39:47,240 --> 01:39:51,400
Speaker 1: Took right, And also like I don't know, this is

2145
01:39:51,479 --> 01:39:53,120
Speaker 1: just me and my husband, maybe because we've been together

2146
01:39:53,200 --> 01:39:55,880
Speaker 1: for so long and we got together so young, like

2147
01:39:56,240 --> 01:39:57,520
Speaker 1: all that doing mathematics.

2148
01:39:57,560 --> 01:40:01,040
Speaker 2: Shit, I'm not here for it, Like who got the

2149
01:40:01,080 --> 01:40:04,519
Speaker 2: motherfucker money? Pay it? Come on, likes we in this

2150
01:40:04,680 --> 01:40:06,559
Speaker 2: together or no, like I don't.

2151
01:40:06,640 --> 01:40:08,599
Speaker 1: And especially for no niggas to be trying to put

2152
01:40:08,680 --> 01:40:13,760
Speaker 1: some math on your ass, like, oh, no, you ain't

2153
01:40:13,800 --> 01:40:14,920
Speaker 1: really trying to be in here with me.

2154
01:40:15,000 --> 01:40:16,840
Speaker 2: You trying to make sure you have a clean exit,

2155
01:40:18,840 --> 01:40:19,599
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying?

2156
01:40:19,760 --> 01:40:22,160
Speaker 1: Like that feels very clean exit, Like I can get

2157
01:40:22,160 --> 01:40:23,920
Speaker 1: out of here and make sure I didn't lose any

2158
01:40:23,960 --> 01:40:28,200
Speaker 1: of my own No, my husband leave me, you gonna lose.

2159
01:40:28,479 --> 01:40:31,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, you are going to lose.

2160
01:40:31,200 --> 01:40:34,400
Speaker 1: Like there's no untangling us easily and we are messingly

2161
01:40:34,520 --> 01:40:36,800
Speaker 1: tangled because we don't plan on leaving each other. Yes,

2162
01:40:37,120 --> 01:40:39,439
Speaker 1: that sound like some if I got to go at

2163
01:40:39,520 --> 01:40:41,560
Speaker 1: least I got all my shit, I spent my I

2164
01:40:41,640 --> 01:40:42,760
Speaker 1: only spent my half on.

2165
01:40:43,880 --> 01:40:44,639
Speaker 2: I'm like, I agree.

2166
01:40:44,680 --> 01:40:46,879
Speaker 4: I feel like when you're in partnership, even with friends,

2167
01:40:47,040 --> 01:40:49,560
Speaker 4: like it'd be so many times Drail pay for me,

2168
01:40:50,439 --> 01:40:56,000
Speaker 4: more times Drill pay for me. Well, I'm saying, like

2169
01:40:56,080 --> 01:40:57,920
Speaker 4: it be stuff now or we be like it don't

2170
01:40:57,960 --> 01:40:58,559
Speaker 4: mask you don't.

2171
01:40:58,640 --> 01:41:00,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, we don't keep tabbing. We don't keep.

2172
01:41:00,720 --> 01:41:04,320
Speaker 4: Tabs on stuff because it literally does not matter, right

2173
01:41:04,520 --> 01:41:07,600
Speaker 4: because not only are you know we make money, but

2174
01:41:07,680 --> 01:41:09,919
Speaker 4: even if you're not making money, we're in this together.

2175
01:41:10,200 --> 01:41:10,400
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2176
01:41:10,600 --> 01:41:13,080
Speaker 4: So I think even speaking from a French I mean

2177
01:41:13,200 --> 01:41:16,439
Speaker 4: a relationship point of view, like every times where like

2178
01:41:17,600 --> 01:41:19,519
Speaker 4: you know the person I'm there, he'll be paying for stuff,

2179
01:41:19,520 --> 01:41:20,960
Speaker 4: paying for something and be like, okay, let me do

2180
01:41:21,120 --> 01:41:23,080
Speaker 4: something nice fan, But it's not like oh but I

2181
01:41:23,200 --> 01:41:25,760
Speaker 4: paid for this, can you pay for this for me? Now? Yeah,

2182
01:41:26,720 --> 01:41:28,479
Speaker 4: we're in our thirty and this man is forty three

2183
01:41:28,560 --> 01:41:31,080
Speaker 4: years old. He knows exactly what he's doing. Yeah, and

2184
01:41:31,160 --> 01:41:34,599
Speaker 4: you're thirty one. So he's doing a gro not great

2185
01:41:34,680 --> 01:41:36,960
Speaker 4: job because I don't want to he's manipulating you.

2186
01:41:37,240 --> 01:41:39,160
Speaker 2: Oh absolutely, unless his nigga's a CPA.

2187
01:41:39,320 --> 01:41:41,600
Speaker 1: I'm not sure what a hell is going on with

2188
01:41:41,760 --> 01:41:46,639
Speaker 1: this to where he's hell been on getting his half

2189
01:41:46,880 --> 01:41:49,280
Speaker 1: like that sounds to be like crazy when it's time

2190
01:41:49,400 --> 01:41:50,560
Speaker 1: to get separated.

2191
01:41:51,280 --> 01:41:53,360
Speaker 2: We know whose half is what half? And I don't

2192
01:41:53,400 --> 01:41:55,640
Speaker 2: have I don't he has saved everything. I don't like that.

2193
01:41:56,479 --> 01:41:58,600
Speaker 1: And you also can never pay me for carrying a

2194
01:41:58,760 --> 01:42:00,960
Speaker 1: child in birthy, you always gonna be in the deficit

2195
01:42:01,040 --> 01:42:03,120
Speaker 1: because they got a two year old exactly so.

2196
01:42:03,360 --> 01:42:04,280
Speaker 2: She birthed that baby.

2197
01:42:04,400 --> 01:42:07,760
Speaker 1: Baby, You're never there's never amount of money you're gonna

2198
01:42:07,760 --> 01:42:09,040
Speaker 1: be able to pay me to catch up to what

2199
01:42:09,160 --> 01:42:09,560
Speaker 1: you owe me.

2200
01:42:10,000 --> 01:42:14,120
Speaker 2: I agree, Mmm, I don't know, And like we're talking

2201
01:42:14,120 --> 01:42:16,920
Speaker 2: about are we talking about two hundred dollars? Because I'm

2202
01:42:16,920 --> 01:42:17,559
Speaker 2: trying to figure.

2203
01:42:17,360 --> 01:42:20,160
Speaker 1: Out what's the amount that she's saying she owe him, right,

2204
01:42:20,360 --> 01:42:23,280
Speaker 1: because I don't think she say like, is it like

2205
01:42:23,360 --> 01:42:24,600
Speaker 1: a red flag that it is?

2206
01:42:24,960 --> 01:42:27,800
Speaker 2: It is because this is petty. So the audition should

2207
01:42:27,840 --> 01:42:28,840
Speaker 2: what's your what should she do?

2208
01:42:31,200 --> 01:42:33,120
Speaker 1: I think she should let him know, like I have

2209
01:42:33,280 --> 01:42:36,000
Speaker 1: your child, right, And then you sent somebody else one

2210
01:42:36,080 --> 01:42:39,599
Speaker 1: hundred dollars, so clearly you got money. Because that that's

2211
01:42:39,640 --> 01:42:41,600
Speaker 1: the part, the sending somebody else one hundred dollars and

2212
01:42:41,640 --> 01:42:44,200
Speaker 1: her bringing it up and him being upset about it. Yeah,

2213
01:42:44,439 --> 01:42:46,760
Speaker 1: because at first I was like, well, maybe the nigga's neurodivergent,

2214
01:42:47,080 --> 01:42:49,600
Speaker 1: and he's very much so about these numbers. Got a

2215
01:42:49,640 --> 01:42:51,920
Speaker 1: line up, Okay. Then it's just like, okay, well you

2216
01:42:52,000 --> 01:42:53,920
Speaker 1: knew that was the type of nigga. Yeah, And this

2217
01:42:54,080 --> 01:42:56,800
Speaker 1: is like a pet peeve. It's not so much about manipulating.

2218
01:42:56,880 --> 01:42:59,880
Speaker 1: It's like very much so the numbers gotta be even, right.

2219
01:43:00,080 --> 01:43:02,240
Speaker 1: But if he's sending money to other people, nah, this

2220
01:43:02,360 --> 01:43:05,160
Speaker 1: ain't no, this ain't no. My brain work a certain way.

2221
01:43:05,280 --> 01:43:07,880
Speaker 1: This feel very much so manipulative. Yeah, because I could

2222
01:43:07,880 --> 01:43:09,800
Speaker 1: see if he was just a stingy nigga, Because if

2223
01:43:09,800 --> 01:43:11,600
Speaker 1: he was a stingy nigga, he wouldn't have sent one

2224
01:43:11,680 --> 01:43:14,840
Speaker 1: hundred dollars to nobody. And that's a whole different topic.

2225
01:43:14,960 --> 01:43:17,960
Speaker 1: That's a whole different issue. He don't seem stingy. He

2226
01:43:18,160 --> 01:43:20,400
Speaker 1: just seemed like, like you said, he keeping telling of

2227
01:43:20,479 --> 01:43:22,840
Speaker 1: what y'all do in y'all relationship.

2228
01:43:22,880 --> 01:43:25,479
Speaker 2: And I don't like that because it is giving escape plan.

2229
01:43:25,800 --> 01:43:27,800
Speaker 4: Yes, I didn't even think about it like that. He's

2230
01:43:27,800 --> 01:43:31,160
Speaker 4: to them old and he forty three and you started

2231
01:43:31,240 --> 01:43:33,680
Speaker 4: the age gap. And that's not a bad age gap

2232
01:43:33,680 --> 01:43:35,719
Speaker 4: because I always say this, I feel like once people

2233
01:43:35,800 --> 01:43:37,920
Speaker 4: hit thirty, you kind of know what's going on and

2234
01:43:38,000 --> 01:43:40,479
Speaker 4: you know what. But I feel like men that are older,

2235
01:43:40,560 --> 01:43:44,160
Speaker 4: even women too, when they date somebody was a substantial

2236
01:43:44,200 --> 01:43:45,800
Speaker 4: age gap, they know what they're trying to do.

2237
01:43:45,960 --> 01:43:50,360
Speaker 1: They Yeah, I've dated somebody that was twelve years older

2238
01:43:50,400 --> 01:43:52,120
Speaker 1: than me. They know what theyre trying to do.

2239
01:43:52,800 --> 01:43:56,719
Speaker 2: Lex you, I didn't know, like cheeriot, but you didn't.

2240
01:43:57,320 --> 01:44:02,000
Speaker 4: Now, but you didn't let that you You you you're

2241
01:44:02,120 --> 01:44:05,439
Speaker 4: smarter than the average woman or not even woman. Person.

2242
01:44:06,160 --> 01:44:09,080
Speaker 4: Let me say that person. So it ended up working

2243
01:44:09,080 --> 01:44:12,000
Speaker 4: out in your favor. And that's not what always happens

2244
01:44:12,600 --> 01:44:13,760
Speaker 4: for young men.

2245
01:44:15,520 --> 01:44:18,400
Speaker 1: Manipulation, And yes it was. You just gotta be careful.

2246
01:44:19,479 --> 01:44:21,040
Speaker 1: Let me tell you this is how me and my

2247
01:44:21,160 --> 01:44:25,960
Speaker 1: husband feel. Any man that is dating anyone that significantly

2248
01:44:26,120 --> 01:44:29,840
Speaker 1: younger than them is doing it with the purpose of

2249
01:44:30,040 --> 01:44:31,120
Speaker 1: being able to manipulate.

2250
01:44:32,439 --> 01:44:34,800
Speaker 2: He was like, because eventually, like, what the fuck y'all

2251
01:44:34,800 --> 01:44:35,400
Speaker 2: got in common?

2252
01:44:35,520 --> 01:44:38,720
Speaker 1: Like there's gonna be such a generational gap, that's got

2253
01:44:38,800 --> 01:44:41,320
Speaker 1: to be something else, Like obviously your gorgeous.

2254
01:44:40,920 --> 01:44:44,800
Speaker 2: And all of that, but after the beauty, Like, yeah,

2255
01:44:45,240 --> 01:44:47,639
Speaker 2: what what? What the fuck else we got in common?

2256
01:44:47,880 --> 01:44:50,800
Speaker 1: Look, because when Shoppastyle came out, you was in the

2257
01:44:50,840 --> 01:44:52,360
Speaker 1: club and I was in fourth grade?

2258
01:44:53,479 --> 01:44:55,799
Speaker 2: What you want with me? Exactly?

2259
01:44:56,000 --> 01:44:58,360
Speaker 4: If I put on Gap band and you said Charlie

2260
01:44:58,400 --> 01:45:00,760
Speaker 4: Wilson was in the gap, we don't have nothing to

2261
01:45:00,760 --> 01:45:03,040
Speaker 4: double up. Come on, if you don't know that Charlie

2262
01:45:03,040 --> 01:45:05,320
Speaker 4: Wilson was in the Gap band, come on, I don't

2263
01:45:05,360 --> 01:45:06,520
Speaker 4: want to have a conversation.

2264
01:45:06,200 --> 01:45:08,080
Speaker 2: With you, right, and somebody twelve years younger than you

2265
01:45:08,120 --> 01:45:08,800
Speaker 2: would not know that.

2266
01:45:09,280 --> 01:45:12,120
Speaker 1: Right, Right, Let's stay an old ass whole, which is

2267
01:45:12,200 --> 01:45:13,400
Speaker 1: not what we're dealing with right now?

2268
01:45:13,640 --> 01:45:15,960
Speaker 4: I agree, All right, do we want to do the

2269
01:45:16,000 --> 01:45:18,160
Speaker 4: last question or we want to No, yeah, you can

2270
01:45:18,200 --> 01:45:18,880
Speaker 4: do it, Okay, Okay, we.

2271
01:45:18,880 --> 01:45:21,240
Speaker 3: Got one mouth HOI y'all. I just want to say

2272
01:45:21,280 --> 01:45:21,840
Speaker 3: I love y'all.

2273
01:45:21,880 --> 01:45:24,439
Speaker 4: I'm nineteen and I've been with my boyfriend for almost

2274
01:45:24,600 --> 01:45:25,320
Speaker 4: two years.

2275
01:45:25,680 --> 01:45:28,679
Speaker 3: Our friend group had a game night and things got crazy.

2276
01:45:29,200 --> 01:45:32,080
Speaker 4: After we were drinking, I walked in on my boyfriend

2277
01:45:32,160 --> 01:45:36,840
Speaker 4: having a threesome with my two friends, what one being

2278
01:45:36,880 --> 01:45:37,360
Speaker 4: a stud.

2279
01:45:38,200 --> 01:45:39,760
Speaker 2: Since then, he.

2280
01:45:39,840 --> 01:45:42,080
Speaker 4: Gets annoyed and upset when I bring it up and

2281
01:45:42,200 --> 01:45:46,519
Speaker 4: refuses to reassure me, even after promising he changed to

2282
01:45:46,600 --> 01:45:47,599
Speaker 4: stop sucking dick.

2283
01:45:47,680 --> 01:45:48,160
Speaker 3: I'm just paying.

2284
01:45:48,200 --> 01:45:53,280
Speaker 2: I just know, Okay, sorry, sorry.

2285
01:45:53,800 --> 01:45:56,320
Speaker 4: When I bring it up, he refuses to reassure me,

2286
01:45:56,400 --> 01:45:59,479
Speaker 4: even after promising he changed and do better. After losing

2287
01:45:59,560 --> 01:46:01,760
Speaker 4: my true us, it's hard for me to let go.

2288
01:46:02,000 --> 01:46:04,960
Speaker 4: So I need advice because my heart hurts and I

2289
01:46:05,040 --> 01:46:08,280
Speaker 4: feel like I can't leave without hurting even more.

2290
01:46:08,960 --> 01:46:11,280
Speaker 2: She's nineteen. Want to hold her hand?

2291
01:46:11,760 --> 01:46:11,920
Speaker 5: Yeah?

2292
01:46:12,200 --> 01:46:14,840
Speaker 1: When I tell this young girl she's being a dumb

2293
01:46:14,920 --> 01:46:17,800
Speaker 1: bitch and I love her and I want to hold

2294
01:46:17,840 --> 01:46:18,719
Speaker 1: her in my bosom.

2295
01:46:19,400 --> 01:46:22,960
Speaker 2: The baby, the relationship was over. It was it's over.

2296
01:46:23,720 --> 01:46:26,280
Speaker 3: Why he had a threes while you were in the house.

2297
01:46:26,120 --> 01:46:29,559
Speaker 1: And they be saying the studs, you got good pussy,

2298
01:46:29,640 --> 01:46:33,720
Speaker 1: They saying they got good stussysy.

2299
01:46:35,040 --> 01:46:37,559
Speaker 2: I mean the type of betrayal for that I don't

2300
01:46:37,600 --> 01:46:40,519
Speaker 2: even like niggas, don't like nigga.

2301
01:46:41,960 --> 01:46:44,920
Speaker 3: I don't know what he was in that room because

2302
01:46:45,000 --> 01:46:48,439
Speaker 3: studs they do they be pregnant.

2303
01:46:50,160 --> 01:46:54,080
Speaker 2: Look niggas, not by artificial like give me that all

2304
01:46:54,240 --> 01:46:54,880
Speaker 2: natural meat.

2305
01:46:56,200 --> 01:46:59,840
Speaker 1: No, baby, I don't understand when the sentence continued and

2306
01:47:00,200 --> 01:47:02,479
Speaker 1: now he gets upset, baby, why is there it in

2307
01:47:02,600 --> 01:47:03,960
Speaker 1: now with this nigga still in it?

2308
01:47:04,120 --> 01:47:07,880
Speaker 4: He missed many fresh, she won't many fresh bad? He

2309
01:47:08,040 --> 01:47:09,519
Speaker 4: missed that free.

2310
01:47:09,720 --> 01:47:15,640
Speaker 1: Yes is we don't mention him too many times in

2311
01:47:15,680 --> 01:47:16,640
Speaker 1: stood conversation.

2312
01:47:17,160 --> 01:47:19,479
Speaker 2: You know what said joke? He like it, He laughs

2313
01:47:19,560 --> 01:47:21,920
Speaker 2: at it, he laughs.

2314
01:47:21,960 --> 01:47:25,559
Speaker 1: I don't ask the baby nineteen and all that shit

2315
01:47:25,680 --> 01:47:26,920
Speaker 1: is happening at a game night.

2316
01:47:27,080 --> 01:47:28,439
Speaker 2: Oh girl, you live in life.

2317
01:47:28,960 --> 01:47:30,519
Speaker 3: Imagine what he gonna do if y'all turn.

2318
01:47:30,920 --> 01:47:34,560
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. Also, the man that you're attracted.

2319
01:47:34,160 --> 01:47:35,920
Speaker 4: To at nineteen is not gonna be the same type

2320
01:47:35,920 --> 01:47:37,799
Speaker 4: of man you like when you really become the woman.

2321
01:47:37,640 --> 01:47:40,519
Speaker 2: That you are though. Yeah, girl, let that nigga go.

2322
01:47:40,880 --> 01:47:43,160
Speaker 4: You think you're gonna be hurting more because you let

2323
01:47:43,280 --> 01:47:45,040
Speaker 4: him go. You're gonna hurt more if you stay.

2324
01:47:45,439 --> 01:47:48,519
Speaker 1: Abs the fucking loly because he's gonna get that stud pregnant,

2325
01:47:48,840 --> 01:47:51,160
Speaker 1: and now you help him to babysit your man.

2326
01:47:52,280 --> 01:47:55,240
Speaker 2: Thud baby, mama's child, like.

2327
01:47:55,840 --> 01:47:58,599
Speaker 1: You don't have the babysit to stay the right the state,

2328
01:47:59,360 --> 01:48:07,840
Speaker 1: the way the staby. Maybe the stud baby, yes, say

2329
01:48:08,800 --> 01:48:10,760
Speaker 1: oh she's gonna be the staby.

2330
01:48:10,560 --> 01:48:11,840
Speaker 2: Mama, that's what sad.

2331
01:48:13,600 --> 01:48:14,400
Speaker 3: Leave girl.

2332
01:48:14,600 --> 01:48:18,439
Speaker 2: I never had a game night in that way, and

2333
01:48:18,520 --> 01:48:22,599
Speaker 2: I've had them in a lot of different ways. Thumb,

2334
01:48:22,720 --> 01:48:24,080
Speaker 2: What the fuck are y'all? What happened to.

2335
01:48:25,760 --> 01:48:29,920
Speaker 3: Little Domino? Little karaoke as play?

2336
01:48:30,040 --> 01:48:34,680
Speaker 2: I don't understand doing what? How did we get there?

2337
01:48:34,920 --> 01:48:37,479
Speaker 2: What were they drinking? Maybe that was saying a little twist.

2338
01:48:38,560 --> 01:48:40,519
Speaker 3: They was give me one.

2339
01:48:41,760 --> 01:48:44,560
Speaker 2: He said, I'm gonna put it in your your dusk. Yeah, Like,

2340
01:48:46,720 --> 01:48:51,160
Speaker 2: oh my god, I'm even start with this st But

2341
01:48:51,360 --> 01:48:52,920
Speaker 2: I do I feel like this.

2342
01:48:53,120 --> 01:48:55,679
Speaker 4: I think a lot of times when you're young, you're

2343
01:48:55,760 --> 01:48:58,400
Speaker 4: already hurting. You're already hurting.

2344
01:48:58,560 --> 01:49:01,400
Speaker 2: Just leave, Yeah, girl, you'll be fine.

2345
01:49:01,840 --> 01:49:03,040
Speaker 3: You'll I promise you.

2346
01:49:03,040 --> 01:49:06,680
Speaker 1: You'll meet a baristat Starbucks that don't turn you out,

2347
01:49:06,800 --> 01:49:09,760
Speaker 1: that's gonna turn bring little potato egg bites and turn

2348
01:49:09,880 --> 01:49:13,559
Speaker 1: you out. Yes, yes, that's it, that's all you need.

2349
01:49:13,720 --> 01:49:16,920
Speaker 1: Let this nigga up that nigga in a dirt bro.

2350
01:49:17,000 --> 01:49:18,920
Speaker 3: We went way over time today, but it doesn't matter.

2351
01:49:19,760 --> 01:49:23,880
Speaker 2: I have a good time. I love this age, so

2352
01:49:24,000 --> 01:49:25,800
Speaker 2: we don't pull up on you. But you gotta pull

2353
01:49:25,840 --> 01:49:29,040
Speaker 2: up on us for our live lee yeah in l

2354
01:49:29,120 --> 01:49:31,160
Speaker 2: Age seventeen.

2355
01:49:31,439 --> 01:49:33,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, well I need I'm gonna need all your dates

2356
01:49:33,360 --> 01:49:35,080
Speaker 1: because if for some reason we're not in the country,

2357
01:49:35,080 --> 01:49:38,200
Speaker 1: I'll just fly to one of y'all's other shows. We'll

2358
01:49:38,200 --> 01:49:40,200
Speaker 1: send it to you, will send it to Yeah, let.

2359
01:49:40,160 --> 01:49:42,160
Speaker 2: Me know where they can get tickets to you and

2360
01:49:42,240 --> 01:49:44,640
Speaker 2: your husband's live show. All that goodness. But y'all just

2361
01:49:44,720 --> 01:49:46,559
Speaker 2: come listen. Y'all ain't got it, don't need no tickets,

2362
01:49:46,600 --> 01:49:47,080
Speaker 2: y'all just come.

2363
01:49:47,360 --> 01:49:49,240
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be like keV. I'm gonna buy some tickets.

2364
01:49:49,640 --> 01:49:52,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, I gotta support Ope, thank you, I appreciate it.

2365
01:49:52,479 --> 01:49:53,519
Speaker 1: We're gonna have a good time with y'all.

2366
01:49:53,560 --> 01:49:55,080
Speaker 2: Can't wait. Y'all gonna do self portraits.

2367
01:49:55,240 --> 01:49:58,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, I said, I'm gonna show up drunk anyway because

2368
01:49:58,439 --> 01:50:00,720
Speaker 4: that's how I am per fixed. So you you can

2369
01:50:00,760 --> 01:50:03,360
Speaker 4: save a little bit on the budget. I got you,

2370
01:50:03,520 --> 01:50:05,720
Speaker 4: I know, but it's price gonna pull up.

2371
01:50:05,880 --> 01:50:07,800
Speaker 2: Show up drunk. I got you, girl, I love it.

2372
01:50:08,000 --> 01:50:09,880
Speaker 2: I love it. So let people know where they can

2373
01:50:09,920 --> 01:50:10,240
Speaker 2: find you.

2374
01:50:10,280 --> 01:50:11,080
Speaker 3: At all that good stuff.

2375
01:50:11,320 --> 01:50:14,920
Speaker 2: Which what's my camera? Seven? Five women? No, there's no five,

2376
01:50:15,040 --> 01:50:16,200
Speaker 2: it's the middle one.

2377
01:50:16,280 --> 01:50:18,679
Speaker 1: Hi, y'all, y'all can find me at that chick angel

2378
01:50:18,760 --> 01:50:22,559
Speaker 1: almost across every single platform and in every single platform

2379
01:50:22,560 --> 01:50:24,240
Speaker 1: I'm on. You just go to link in the bio

2380
01:50:24,640 --> 01:50:26,320
Speaker 1: and you can get tickets to come see our show.

2381
01:50:26,360 --> 01:50:29,240
Speaker 1: We'll be in Atlanta on June third, sorry, Chicago on

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Speaker 1: June first, LA on June fifth, and then, like I said,

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Speaker 1: at the end of the month, on the twenty third,

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Speaker 1: will be in Philly, and on the twenty fourth will

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Speaker 1: be in DC. But if you can't come Tony shows,

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Speaker 1: just follow me. Were gonna have a good time period period.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much for joining listen.

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Speaker 1: I was like, I want to have a good time

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Speaker 1: and I don't want to feel like I'm the old

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Speaker 1: mother Hubbard sitting on my out.

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Speaker 2: That's why your name we're not that.

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Speaker 3: We're not that fast.

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Speaker 2: I got a good time with y'all too.

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Speaker 4: I love this down and y'all make sure y'all tune

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Speaker 4: in to love XP every Monday at ten am.

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Speaker 2: Y'all shop Music Collections dot Com and we'll see y'all

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Speaker 2: next week.

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Speaker 3: Y'all world, This is Angel and the Wings.

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Speaker 2: Hey, I love you, Okay, I love me. I like

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Speaker 2: it already? Hold up? Am I really? Yes? I am?

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Speaker 5: I am?

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01:51:26,000 --> 01:51:31,360
Speaker 2: Hold up? I gotta hold up. I've been drinking watermelone. Yeah,

2403
01:51:32,640 --> 01:51:33,519
Speaker 2: here we go, Here we go.

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01:51:34,920 --> 01:51:35,400
Speaker 5: Hold up.

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01:51:35,680 --> 01:51:38,400
Speaker 2: They don't love you like I love you. Sold down?

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01:51:38,640 --> 01:51:41,640
Speaker 2: They don't love you. I love you. Back up. They

2407
01:51:41,680 --> 01:51:44,559
Speaker 2: don't love you like I love you. They're down. They

2408
01:51:44,600 --> 01:51:47,160
Speaker 2: don't love you like I love you. Did you see?

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Speaker 2: That's a love mad above? What a wicked way the

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01:51:50,600 --> 01:51:53,559
Speaker 2: street that go that loves you? Hold up? They don't

2411
01:51:53,600 --> 01:51:56,479
Speaker 2: love you like I love you? Sold down? They don't

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01:51:56,479 --> 01:51:57,640
Speaker 2: love you. Alack. I love you.

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Speaker 7: Because it ain't right, especially coming up at the midnight.

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Speaker 7: I say a secret that I'm not too perfect ever

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Speaker 7: work how they come out of this Dow York call this.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to lose my pride, but I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: fuck me up a bitch. And I kept this sexy.

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01:52:16,560 --> 01:52:19,360
Speaker 2: You know that I kept it. That's something that I'm missing.

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01:52:19,439 --> 01:52:24,599
Speaker 2: Maybe my head for one and jealous so crazy, jealous

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Speaker 2: so crazy or like being waterlover lately, water lately. Alright, baby,

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Speaker 2: Hold up, they don't love you like I love you,

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Speaker 2: so don't. They don't love you like I love you.

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Speaker 2: Back up. They don't love you like I love you. Don't. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I love you. Can you see that's no other man

2425
01:52:46,680 --> 01:52:51,040
Speaker 2: of you want a wicked way love you? Hold up.

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01:52:51,320 --> 01:52:55,800
Speaker 2: They don't love your life. I love you, they love you.

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Speaker 1: Let me that you never made a name or man,

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Speaker 1: I'm a wealth and that it has be had you

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Speaker 1: labeled as a king. Never made it after cas like

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Speaker 1: that moving in the street, never had the baddest woman

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Speaker 1: in the game up in yo? She would they be

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Speaker 1: down on the ride? No, they used to hide from you,

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Speaker 1: lie to you. But y'all know we were.

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Speaker 2: Made for each other. So I find you and told

2435
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Speaker 2: you say, hold up, they don't love you. I love you.

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01:53:22,600 --> 01:53:26,040
Speaker 2: So they don't love you like I love you. Back up.

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Speaker 3: They don't love your life.

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Speaker 2: I love you. We'll stepped out. They don't love y'a

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Speaker 2: like I love you. You see. I love you with

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Speaker 2: your way to seek the girl, I love you. Hold up.

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Speaker 2: They don't love you like I love you. So they

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Speaker 2: don't love you. It's such a shame to let them go.

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Speaker 2: Love the ways I always give that five s top to.

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Speaker 1: Make.

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Speaker 2: They would have make, they would have Hollywood, the boulevard.

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Speaker 2: What's her being gento? It's so crazy and gems lady

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Speaker 2: out or like you walking over late last I'd rather

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Speaker 2: be crazy or I'm.

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Speaker 1: Like like, I love you.

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Speaker 2: All, love you like I love you, love you like

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Speaker 2: I love you, and just see here's a mother man

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Speaker 2: above you, joy you like I love you. So I

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Speaker 2: love you like it's turned my side. I look in

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Speaker 2: the mirror and say, what's up, what's up?

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Speaker 3: What's up?

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Speaker 2: What's up? Who? Who? Who? I have about the bed

2457
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Speaker 2: it's the fleas. I look seeing the mirror and say,

2458
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Speaker 2: what's up, what's up, what's up?

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Speaker 5: What's up?

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Speaker 2: What's up? Yes? And that's on Angel and the Wing. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I say, you know there was someone else like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: we had just my time. I said, hold on leaving

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Speaker 2: up for anything on the red you know it was

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Speaker 2: the lyrics over there, and she knows how the words

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Speaker 2: I was reading. I said, she got the good brain

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Speaker 2: that's absorbed everything.