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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our chief love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. Ready, Steve, uh yeah, okay, thank you. This

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Speaker 1: is from April and Paramus. April writes, I hit my

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Speaker 1: husband's phone and I went walking in the neighborhood.

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Speaker 2: I wanted to see how he'd react.

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Speaker 1: He pulled up on me and accused me of trying

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Speaker 1: to check his calls and texts.

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Speaker 2: Why was he so mad? Is it a sign that

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Speaker 2: he's hiding something from me?

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Speaker 3: No, he pulled up on you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, what you're trying to do?

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Speaker 3: What's up?

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Speaker 4: But you know, ma'am ladies, you don't have to play

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Speaker 4: them games, but you know, but you're gonna hide the

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Speaker 4: man's phone? Why you go for a walk now, Don't

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Speaker 4: nobody want to be that long without a phone. It

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Speaker 4: ain't no sign or nothing. That's that's a sign that

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Speaker 4: you didn't hear this man's phone. Suppose somebody took your

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Speaker 4: phone and hid it while they went for a walk.

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Speaker 2: Come on, man, yeahs to me.

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Speaker 4: I got to have my phone on me, man, because

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Speaker 4: I got to stay in touch. Yeah, it's too much,

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Speaker 4: because my wife laid her phone down all over the house.

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Speaker 3: Just walk away from it. The kids already know.

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Speaker 4: Let me call daddy because he got he gonna have

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Speaker 4: his phone in his pocket.

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Speaker 3: Dad is mom there? Yeah, she here. She ain't answering

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Speaker 3: her phone, y'all already know. She just laid down, walk off.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she wants to know why was he so mad?

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Speaker 1: And you answered that for sure? Coelo, all right. Moving

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Speaker 1: on to Leon and Burbank, Leon writes, My wife and

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Speaker 1: I can argue and scream at each other, and an

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Speaker 1: hour later she's calling me baby and acting normal. I'm

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Speaker 1: usually still mad about whatever caused the argument, but she's not.

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Speaker 1: Why does my wife pick fights with me over noncent

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Speaker 1: rum bruh?

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Speaker 4: Listen to me if an hour later she over it

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Speaker 4: go enjoy your day.

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Speaker 3: But no, bro, you you you're the man. Let it go?

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Speaker 4: How you still mad? The fire in the house has

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Speaker 4: been put out. How it got put out? Don't worry

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Speaker 4: about that. Just go back in your house and enjoy

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Speaker 4: your peace. Now you want to stay mad? I don't understand.

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Speaker 4: I'm not finna out mad my wife. That's not what

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Speaker 4: I'm finna do. No, we have an argument and then

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Speaker 4: she come to me and let it go. You best

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Speaker 4: to know we're finnah.

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Speaker 3: Let this go.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because it could go really badly, right, she could

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Speaker 1: give you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, this moment and enjoy yourself fall. Yeah, there's no

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Speaker 4: way let it go.

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Speaker 3: I'm not I'm not. I'm just not gonna stay.

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Speaker 2: Mad, all right? Advice, Yeah, all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Robin in Milwaukee, Robin writes, I'm practically

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Speaker 1: I've practically begged my husband for sex the last five

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Speaker 1: times we've had it.

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Speaker 2: He said it's him and not me. If his sex.

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Speaker 1: Drive has decreased, I get it. But I've heard him

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Speaker 1: in the shower and everything seems fine with him.

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Speaker 2: So why doesn't he want sex?

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Speaker 3: He's doing it in a shower?

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Speaker 2: She answered her own questions. What's wrong, Steve, There's.

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Speaker 3: So many angles this could be coming.

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Speaker 4: From, you know, like he's telling you it's him, it's

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Speaker 4: not you, right, But you think he and the shower

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Speaker 4: doing something alone.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she says she's heard him there and everything thinks fine.

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Speaker 4: Well, then it's something he's doing alone.

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Speaker 3: It's better than when y'all together?

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Speaker 4: Wow ah, or or another option. Yeah, he's found a

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Speaker 4: better way to accomplish something.

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Speaker 3: And it's just but he's telling you it's not you.

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Speaker 4: It could be him because been know how long you've

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Speaker 4: been married, you know you could lose attraction for a person.

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Speaker 4: Here's what I heard the guy say one time, and

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Speaker 4: this is going to be horrible, lady, so I just

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Speaker 4: want to tell say it. A guy said one time,

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Speaker 4: he said, he man, you love your wife, right, And

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Speaker 4: the other guy said yeah. He said, so what's your

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Speaker 4: favorite meat? And the guy said steak. He said, cool,

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Speaker 4: you love steak? He said, yes, I do. He said

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Speaker 4: you don't want them on fish and chicken.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 2: He did not use meat to describe.

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Speaker 5: And I had to sit back. And that's a good one,

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Speaker 5: good horrible. You're right, told y'all. So I said, y'all,

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Speaker 5: don't hate you practiced it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah boom, I just said it was good.

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Speaker 3: But y'all, he said, you don't want no more fish

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Speaker 3: or ship?

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Speaker 1: God, what a dilemma.

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Speaker 2: So that's that's what you're saying. That's happening here, could

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Speaker 2: possibly no.

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Speaker 3: I was just using ass and nogic. I thought it was.

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Speaker 4: Very cute, calling to make it cute because she got

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Speaker 4: off the zoom.

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Speaker 2: You thought that was cute?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I thought it was very funny. You better be

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Speaker 3: killed for though. He gonna follow the next show later.

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Speaker 1: He could hold on right, all right, you're done with

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Speaker 1: that one, clo.

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Speaker 2: We're moving on. Okay, last one, last one. That's it.

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Speaker 3: That's all.

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Speaker 1: This is from Kenneth in Grand Prairie. Kenneth writes, my

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Speaker 1: girlfriend invited me to a wedding in Hawaii, and I

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Speaker 1: don't want to spend the money on the two airline tickets.

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Speaker 1: That's the only reason she invited me. Can I be

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Speaker 1: honest with her? Can I be honest and tell her

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Speaker 1: I don't want to spend the money or should I

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Speaker 1: lie to her?

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Speaker 4: Well, just say you don't want to spend the money, man,

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Speaker 4: tell the truth and that well, because this is easy,

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Speaker 4: because it's going to open up the conversation you need

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Speaker 4: to have. He feels as though the only reason she

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Speaker 4: invited him to this wedding in Hawaii is so he

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Speaker 4: could pay for these tickets. Now, all he got to

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Speaker 4: do is say, Hey, I ain't really that cool with

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Speaker 4: them people, and I don't want to go in the

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Speaker 4: hole trying to go over here and see these two

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Speaker 4: people get married.

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Speaker 3: I don't really know them like that. They ain't even

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Speaker 3: invite me.

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Speaker 4: They invited you and gave you the plus one, But

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Speaker 4: I don't want to go over there and spend that

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Speaker 4: kind of money. I don't really know these people, and

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Speaker 4: then she'll go. So you don't want to go with me? Now,

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Speaker 4: I don't want to go with you all the way

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Speaker 4: to Hawaii to go to they win, which I think

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Speaker 4: that's why you want me to go, so I can

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Speaker 4: pay for these tickets.

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Speaker 2: Oh lord, he mess, that's the truth. That's the truth.

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Speaker 4: I didn't say, don't ever tell me when the truth

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Speaker 4: fit you. Oh you don't need a never waste a

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Speaker 4: good lie.

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Speaker 3: I mean, why would he say I gotta work that

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Speaker 3: week and then waste a lot?

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Speaker 2: Where's the logic in that? Huh? Save you? Yes, really

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Speaker 2: truly need him? All right, you're listening Hard Morning Show