WEBVTT - Mon Part 2: Morgan Shares Relationship Update + Rough First Day Of School 0:00:00.960 --> 0:00:07.320 Wake Up, Wake of the Mall, and it's Alreadio and 0:00:07.400 --> 0:00:15.239 the Dodgers held lunch spots more get to the favorite out. 0:00:15.280 --> 0:00:16.079 It's trying to put you. 0:00:16.280 --> 0:00:17.320 Through the fog. 0:00:17.480 --> 0:00:19.479 He's running his Wig's Next Kit. 0:00:19.680 --> 0:00:20.840 And Bobby's on the box. 0:00:20.920 --> 0:00:21.880 So you know what this is? 0:00:25.440 --> 0:00:30.000 This the Bobby Bolls time for the news. 0:00:30.680 --> 0:00:36.000 Bobby's a fifteen year old kid who created a soap 0:00:36.640 --> 0:00:37.960 that could treat skin cancer. 0:00:38.680 --> 0:00:41.280 He's fifteen. Was named Time's twenty twenty four Kid of 0:00:41.320 --> 0:00:43.240 the Year. Whoa he may need to elevate. 0:00:43.240 --> 0:00:44.919 Where do we get the soap human of the Year. 0:00:45.200 --> 0:00:45.880 Yeah, I know. 0:00:46.360 --> 0:00:49.720 A teen who created the soap that could transform transform 0:00:49.760 --> 0:00:51.680 skin cancer treatment was chosen. 0:00:52.080 --> 0:00:53.000 He's from Virginia. 0:00:53.960 --> 0:00:57.280 He is a fifteen year old scientist quote who could 0:00:57.360 --> 0:00:58.800 change how we treat skin cancer. 0:00:58.880 --> 0:00:59.880 It's absolutely incredible. 0:01:00.040 --> 0:01:01.400 Think one day at bars so may be able to 0:01:01.400 --> 0:01:03.880 make a direct impact in somebody else's life. He said, 0:01:03.920 --> 0:01:05.720 that's the reason I started this all in the first place. 0:01:06.040 --> 0:01:08.200 The team was chosen after he created a soap that 0:01:08.280 --> 0:01:11.959 could be more accessible in delivering medication to treat skin cancers, 0:01:12.000 --> 0:01:12.960 including melanoma. 0:01:13.400 --> 0:01:14.160 That's from Yahoo. 0:01:14.520 --> 0:01:18.280 Dang fifteen, He's going to be so rich, is he 0:01:18.880 --> 0:01:23.520 or or or it's funny that's what you think's. 0:01:22.319 --> 0:01:25.400 Already like working so hard and smart at fifteen. Yeah, 0:01:25.440 --> 0:01:28.280 but my point is a lot of these professions. 0:01:29.040 --> 0:01:31.640 You can be a doctor, or you can you can 0:01:31.760 --> 0:01:34.280 go and be specifically into some kind of cant and 0:01:34.319 --> 0:01:35.920 you're not you can be fue well, but you're not 0:01:35.920 --> 0:01:36.640 gonna be so rich. 0:01:37.160 --> 0:01:40.080 I'm just saying he's already moving at something like at fifteen, 0:01:40.120 --> 0:01:41.360 what were we doing? I know, I hear you. 0:01:41.440 --> 0:01:43.399 But some of these kids that want to change the world, 0:01:43.400 --> 0:01:44.920 they don't choose careers that make them so rich. 0:01:44.959 --> 0:01:45.760 They change careers. 0:01:45.880 --> 0:01:48.360 They choose careers that change the world in a better 0:01:48.440 --> 0:01:51.160 place that oddly don't pay as much as like professional. 0:01:50.760 --> 0:01:52.840 Athletes, you're rich in another way. 0:01:53.000 --> 0:01:57.000 Sure, that's not what they're thinking. And they want to 0:01:57.040 --> 0:01:57.920 retire so bad. 0:01:58.160 --> 0:02:02.320 Yeah, they're going to be going to school. Yeah, like 0:02:02.440 --> 0:02:04.000 it's gonna take them till their fifties day. 0:02:04.320 --> 0:02:09.120 Scholarships to med school yeah, like full paid really Yeah. 0:02:09.120 --> 0:02:11.000 And then we've we've had stories on the show before 0:02:11.080 --> 0:02:14.160 where people have wiped medical debt like they're. 0:02:14.000 --> 0:02:15.440 Like, oh, we're going to just pay No, I'm not 0:02:15.520 --> 0:02:18.720 talking about that though, because like whenever I was going 0:02:18.760 --> 0:02:21.160 to school, I knew if I did not get a 0:02:21.200 --> 0:02:22.799 great score on my ACT I would not be able 0:02:22.840 --> 0:02:26.720 to go to college. So started working hard. Seventh grade 0:02:27.080 --> 0:02:29.120 nailed it, which is pretty young to nail it. I 0:02:29.120 --> 0:02:31.200 was pretty good at taking those standardized tests. Got to 0:02:31.280 --> 0:02:33.560 the point where that's how I got into whatever school 0:02:33.560 --> 0:02:34.720 I was going to go to. I ended up going 0:02:34.760 --> 0:02:38.560 to school that was near my radio job. So, but 0:02:38.639 --> 0:02:41.440 I understand that scholarship. Let's say you finish all of 0:02:41.520 --> 0:02:43.799 your undergrad you're going to med school. You're going to 0:02:44.680 --> 0:02:47.360 Harvard as med school, right, I assume, yeah, probably, Well 0:02:47.360 --> 0:02:49.160 they give you a full scholarship to med school. 0:02:49.200 --> 0:02:49.720 I've never heard of. 0:02:49.840 --> 0:02:51.200 I'm not saying there isn't, but I've never heard of 0:02:51.200 --> 0:02:53.080 anyone go got a full med scholarship. 0:02:53.160 --> 0:02:55.160 I always here, got to pay off my med debt. 0:02:55.919 --> 0:02:57.320 Yeah, I think they do. 0:02:58.000 --> 0:03:01.040 I think for yeah, some Why would you not have 0:03:01.160 --> 0:03:03.519 opportunities for people that are very bright that maybe can't 0:03:03.560 --> 0:03:03.919 afford it? 0:03:05.120 --> 0:03:06.520 I agree with that, why but I. 0:03:07.680 --> 0:03:13.280 Oh, yeah, all right, moving on the Journal of Economic Entomology. 0:03:13.480 --> 0:03:15.519 Sounds super boring, But they say, whatever you're using to 0:03:15.560 --> 0:03:17.560 kill cockroaches. You're buying its store and not really working. 0:03:17.720 --> 0:03:18.200 Like raid. 0:03:18.840 --> 0:03:21.400 If you use bug spray to kill cockroaches, you're wasting 0:03:21.440 --> 0:03:24.440 your money. Experts they consumer roach sprays are mostly ineffective, 0:03:24.760 --> 0:03:27.600 little to no value. Scientists found that roach spray is 0:03:27.600 --> 0:03:29.480 available to the public kill less than twenty percent of 0:03:29.520 --> 0:03:32.399 the pests, which makes sense because they're like, if there's 0:03:32.400 --> 0:03:35.400 a nuclear boom, you know what lives the roaches? 0:03:36.120 --> 0:03:36.720 Oh, they say that. 0:03:38.040 --> 0:03:40.160 So they say, if you do have a roach problem, 0:03:42.240 --> 0:03:45.800 it is even better with your finances to hire somebody 0:03:46.080 --> 0:03:47.480 than to deal with roach spray over at four or 0:03:47.480 --> 0:03:48.920 five six months because it's not gonna work. 0:03:49.080 --> 0:03:49.360 Okay. 0:03:49.720 --> 0:03:51.520 So this is like the one where you spray the 0:03:52.000 --> 0:03:53.760 edges of your wall to make sure they don't come 0:03:53.800 --> 0:03:54.160 back in it. 0:03:54.160 --> 0:03:55.960 You'd be like, because I was gonna say, when you 0:03:56.000 --> 0:03:57.920 spray it on them, man, I see that thing flip right. 0:03:57.880 --> 0:04:03.200 Over and I'm drowning that you can do that with anyone. Yeah, yeah, 0:04:03.440 --> 0:04:05.520 I think you spray wind decks any of that stuff. 0:04:05.960 --> 0:04:06.200 True. 0:04:06.680 --> 0:04:08.960 Watching five hours a day of TV increases the risk 0:04:09.040 --> 0:04:12.520 of dementia by nearly fifty percent. Watching too much television 0:04:12.560 --> 0:04:14.920 does increase of people who watch more than five hours 0:04:14.960 --> 0:04:15.760 of TV a day. 0:04:16.080 --> 0:04:17.840 And I'm assuming this is not over one day, it's 0:04:17.839 --> 0:04:18.960 over a long period of time. 0:04:19.000 --> 0:04:19.240 Am I go? 0:04:19.320 --> 0:04:22.600 Word if you're reading close captions though too, because like 0:04:22.720 --> 0:04:24.039 then you're working in your brain. 0:04:24.520 --> 0:04:26.600 Oh, literature, you would say watch time. 0:04:27.720 --> 0:04:30.600 Researchers say high TV viewing time over the years does 0:04:30.720 --> 0:04:33.840 increase the risk of various brain related disorders. But I 0:04:33.880 --> 0:04:35.720 would say it's not so cut and dry as a 0:04:35.760 --> 0:04:38.760 doctor myself that if you're spending that much time watching television, 0:04:38.760 --> 0:04:41.800 you're probably not spending to other time doing things that 0:04:41.839 --> 0:04:45.000 would be effective for your brain, mind and body. So 0:04:45.120 --> 0:04:48.160 it's not just watching the TV as probably, it's probably, yeah, 0:04:48.160 --> 0:04:50.560 the other things you're not doing it would help. Oh 0:04:50.600 --> 0:04:55.440 by the way, tomorrow, on Tuesday reviewesday where we review 0:04:55.440 --> 0:04:59.840 all of our shows, we definitely bene something over the 0:04:59.839 --> 0:05:01.560 wekend over two days. 0:05:01.600 --> 0:05:03.719 We spent over five hours a day watching Oh wow, 0:05:04.080 --> 0:05:06.000 it is a good one. I got a new one, and. 0:05:06.040 --> 0:05:08.599 I've never heard anybody talk about the show. But tomorrow 0:05:08.640 --> 0:05:09.919 I'm about to give you a show that you're going 0:05:09.960 --> 0:05:11.359 to want to watch in a day or two. Okay, 0:05:11.440 --> 0:05:13.440 it's rare to get a Benji. When you get a Benji, 0:05:14.040 --> 0:05:15.840 you feel so lucky, like I love it so much 0:05:15.880 --> 0:05:17.960 on a binge it all right? 0:05:18.160 --> 0:05:19.640 Didn't it great to have the feeling of it? 0:05:19.839 --> 0:05:21.520 Oh yeah yeah, look forward to you. 0:05:21.800 --> 0:05:23.720 Just identify a benji and you can't always do it 0:05:25.200 --> 0:05:27.000 calling it a benji. I just made that up. 0:05:27.160 --> 0:05:30.200 It's like something you want to binge a benji. I 0:05:30.320 --> 0:05:32.960 want to play this voicemail. This is Marcy from Illinois. 0:05:33.200 --> 0:05:36.400 This morning, on my way to church, I got pulled 0:05:36.600 --> 0:05:39.680 over for rolling through a staff sign. And while I 0:05:39.960 --> 0:05:43.880 was waiting for the policeman to check out my identification, etc. 0:05:44.400 --> 0:05:47.800 I turned on the radio and I'm happy to say 0:05:47.960 --> 0:05:51.640 Chicago has Bobby Bones back. I didn't know this. I'm 0:05:51.720 --> 0:05:54.720 so excited. Even though I didn't get a ticket, I 0:05:54.760 --> 0:05:57.640 got a warning. So two things happened to me that 0:05:57.720 --> 0:05:58.599 were absolutely great. 0:05:58.640 --> 0:05:59.320 I'm so happy. 0:05:59.520 --> 0:06:02.360 Welcome back to Chicago. I'm so glad that you're one 0:06:02.400 --> 0:06:04.480 of two point three Welcome. 0:06:04.160 --> 0:06:05.039 Back to Chicago. 0:06:05.320 --> 0:06:07.080 Yay, Bobby Buns and crew. 0:06:07.520 --> 0:06:07.840 Thank you. 0:06:07.960 --> 0:06:10.360 That's how we feel too. Please tell your friends we 0:06:10.480 --> 0:06:13.160 need it. It's Chicago Lance Free Country ninety eight three 0:06:13.200 --> 0:06:15.560 and one O two three. Please tell your friends literally, 0:06:16.000 --> 0:06:19.360 please put my mom please. We went on to Chicago 0:06:19.440 --> 0:06:21.200 and Atlanta, and please tell your friends because they're going 0:06:21.240 --> 0:06:22.760 to rip us off if you don't. We'll be on 0:06:22.800 --> 0:06:24.280 there for like three days. And they're like, well, you 0:06:24.320 --> 0:06:25.840 didn't have everybody in the city. Time to get off 0:06:25.880 --> 0:06:29.000 the air. Please tell your friends, all right. Here's another one. 0:06:29.040 --> 0:06:30.840 A woman tries to run her boyfriend over with a 0:06:30.920 --> 0:06:32.200 car and route a couples therapy. 0:06:33.080 --> 0:06:35.800 Oh well, they were on their way to help wait 0:06:36.000 --> 0:06:39.200 for the therapy part. Or did you hit them a 0:06:39.200 --> 0:06:42.880 little too early because the therapy part. A thirty year 0:06:42.880 --> 0:06:44.680 old woman's a custody after an incident on the way 0:06:44.680 --> 0:06:48.640 to couples therapy. Veronica was arrested for second degree assault, 0:06:48.880 --> 0:06:51.039 criminal vehicular operation, a lot of stuff. 0:06:51.680 --> 0:06:54.920 They were driving a couple therapy with a boyfriend. They 0:06:55.000 --> 0:06:57.320 had been a couple for about a year. Hey, look though, 0:06:57.360 --> 0:06:59.559 they were as a boyfriend girlfriend a couple therapy. 0:07:00.400 --> 0:07:04.200 Like that's healthy, healthy, Yeah, I wonder how many boyfriend 0:07:04.240 --> 0:07:05.040 girlfriends do that. 0:07:05.640 --> 0:07:07.840 Well, they were look at them. I'm happy for him. 0:07:07.880 --> 0:07:08.880 It's not like they're gonna make it. 0:07:09.240 --> 0:07:10.280 Oh, hold on a minute. 0:07:10.640 --> 0:07:12.880 Yeah, While driving on the way to the therapist, the 0:07:12.880 --> 0:07:15.160 boyfriend announced he was breaking up their relationship and said, 0:07:15.240 --> 0:07:18.880 just take me home. Oh she didn't, stopped the car, 0:07:19.960 --> 0:07:22.480 demanded he get out of the car. He this is 0:07:22.520 --> 0:07:24.520 on him, walked in front of the car. Listen, bro, 0:07:24.840 --> 0:07:26.480 when you're demanding to get out of the car because 0:07:26.480 --> 0:07:28.000 there's a fight, do not walk in front of the car. 0:07:28.880 --> 0:07:31.040 Walk behind the car, walk the other direction. Do not 0:07:31.120 --> 0:07:33.280 walk in front of the car. And so then she 0:07:33.400 --> 0:07:35.640 nailed the gas pedal to run him over, which is 0:07:35.680 --> 0:07:38.280 also on her. But bro, you can't walk in front 0:07:38.280 --> 0:07:40.160 of the car whenever you break up with somebody, Okay 0:07:40.200 --> 0:07:43.360 who it is. He then smashed into the windshield, h 0:07:44.520 --> 0:07:47.320 rolled across the hood of the vehicle, shattered the windshield, 0:07:47.400 --> 0:07:49.960 only heard his elbow like glass red his elbow. When 0:07:49.960 --> 0:07:53.360 a custodies, she claimed her cracked windshield was caused by 0:07:53.400 --> 0:07:56.160 her boyfriend punching the glass, not his body weight. Bro, 0:07:56.280 --> 0:07:58.600 you gotta be able to jake paul that thing to 0:07:58.680 --> 0:08:01.760 punch through that glass. There's no way that glass is 0:08:01.840 --> 0:08:04.400 so hard you're not gonna punch their glass. That's from 0:08:04.560 --> 0:08:05.200 Fox News. 0:08:05.600 --> 0:08:05.920 A lot of. 0:08:05.960 --> 0:08:08.840 Mistakes are made here, but I do commend them for 0:08:08.880 --> 0:08:11.240 going to couples therapy as a boyfriend girlfriend for them. Yeah, 0:08:11.240 --> 0:08:12.840 good for them. I really feel like they can work 0:08:12.880 --> 0:08:14.360 this thing out. Have you ever walked out of the car. 0:08:15.240 --> 0:08:19.880 No, I've done it. I will just wait call the story. 0:08:19.920 --> 0:08:20.880 I want to back to it. 0:08:21.080 --> 0:08:23.360 I want to come back to I will just wait 0:08:23.400 --> 0:08:25.400 because one, I don't want to get left. And then two, 0:08:25.480 --> 0:08:27.600 if they're like, let me out of the car, that's 0:08:27.640 --> 0:08:31.400 never happened to me either. I know that I'm so stubborn. 0:08:31.440 --> 0:08:34.240 I will drive off and then something will happen to them, 0:08:34.280 --> 0:08:35.800 and then I'll be on the hook for it. So 0:08:36.040 --> 0:08:39.560 I'm able to compartmentalize. You can think about this stuff. 0:08:39.600 --> 0:08:40.319 Those emotions. 0:08:40.480 --> 0:08:43.320 Yeah, rage only gets me when Arkansas loses the football game. 0:08:43.880 --> 0:08:44.120 That's it. 0:08:44.240 --> 0:08:46.600 That's the only time I see red in my eyes. 0:08:46.880 --> 0:08:54.320 All right, that's the news, Bobby. This is what's referred 0:08:54.360 --> 0:08:56.599 to as a band aid segment where I don't tease it, 0:08:57.240 --> 0:08:59.439 there's no build up to it. We just ripped the 0:08:59.480 --> 0:09:01.640 band aid off. I've never called it that until now, 0:09:01.679 --> 0:09:03.040 but if you ever hear of a band aid segment, 0:09:03.080 --> 0:09:04.520 that's what it's going to be for now on. Okay, Hey, 0:09:04.679 --> 0:09:06.679 I didn't before going into the segment, and tease anything 0:09:07.480 --> 0:09:10.000 band Aid segment, ready. 0:09:11.120 --> 0:09:16.000 Go ahead, man in uniform and I broke up. 0:09:16.880 --> 0:09:21.679 Oh, so that is Morgan didn't want to do a 0:09:21.720 --> 0:09:26.640 big bit build out lunchbox. Well, Morgan, also, I've known 0:09:26.760 --> 0:09:30.600 for a bit because I will try to make sure 0:09:31.120 --> 0:09:34.520 that the show doesn't migrate to going in on something, 0:09:35.080 --> 0:09:36.200 just to give her a little space. 0:09:36.760 --> 0:09:38.920 And so she was like, Hey, this happened, it's cool. 0:09:38.960 --> 0:09:40.280 I felt like it's my job to protect her for 0:09:40.320 --> 0:09:42.160 a little bit, so if it goes somewhere, I can 0:09:42.240 --> 0:09:44.320 boot it out until she's comfortable right a little behind 0:09:44.360 --> 0:09:48.000 the scenes, she did also come and say I would 0:09:48.080 --> 0:09:49.480 like to say it now and get it over with 0:09:49.920 --> 0:09:52.280 because it will be brought up again in normal discussion. 0:09:52.840 --> 0:09:55.520 And I commend her for that because she's looking out 0:09:55.520 --> 0:09:57.199 for herself by doing that. But this is always a 0:09:57.240 --> 0:09:59.720 hard segment. So I'm also vamping here to let her 0:09:59.720 --> 0:10:02.200 catch her breath again because I know that was hard 0:10:02.240 --> 0:10:04.480 for her to say. So We're gonna give you all 0:10:04.559 --> 0:10:08.559 the space that you want or need, and you can 0:10:10.040 --> 0:10:11.559 lead us in whichever direction you like. 0:10:11.640 --> 0:10:18.880 Morgan, I was completely blindsided. I didn't know this was coming. 0:10:19.000 --> 0:10:22.840 I didn't see it coming. I protected myself in every 0:10:22.840 --> 0:10:25.520 way that I possibly could, and thought that I had 0:10:25.679 --> 0:10:29.160 found somebody, that this was it. And you guys heard 0:10:29.200 --> 0:10:32.480 that in me talking about it on the show. But 0:10:33.120 --> 0:10:37.320 he uh, as we were about to move in together. 0:10:38.400 --> 0:10:40.640 I guess you could say, as you what to move 0:10:40.679 --> 0:10:43.360 in together, we were about to move in together, had 0:10:43.520 --> 0:10:49.760 a epiphany man in uniform is Jewish and decided, because 0:10:50.000 --> 0:10:53.800 I'm not Jewish, that's not what he wanted. So we 0:10:53.920 --> 0:10:56.120 had multiple conversations about it. I thought we were on 0:10:56.200 --> 0:10:58.920 the same page, which is why I was completely blindsided. 0:10:59.360 --> 0:11:05.120 But I guess we weren't. And that's where we are now. 0:11:06.080 --> 0:11:08.400 Can I give you a Oh, it's such a light 0:11:09.040 --> 0:11:11.600 like fractional positive, But can I give you a fractional positive? 0:11:11.800 --> 0:11:13.679 You didn't pick a freaking loser. And I think that 0:11:13.800 --> 0:11:16.920 that for the first time, like as your friend, like, 0:11:17.000 --> 0:11:17.880 that's big growth. 0:11:17.960 --> 0:11:19.719 This sucks for now. No, I'm not taking away this 0:11:19.760 --> 0:11:22.280 sucks for you in any way, but I think that 0:11:22.400 --> 0:11:25.000 you're maturing and actually knowing what you want in a 0:11:25.080 --> 0:11:32.040 relationship and from our life with you, I think you 0:11:32.160 --> 0:11:36.079 have started to look for more quality guys and for 0:11:36.280 --> 0:11:38.480 what they stand for and believe in and I know 0:11:38.600 --> 0:11:41.640 right now it doesn't help you feel better, but like 0:11:41.800 --> 0:11:44.319 this was, this is a mild wind in your in 0:11:44.440 --> 0:11:48.440 your growth as a human that I totally get. If 0:11:48.480 --> 0:11:51.160 you guys aren't compatible on that level, don't go further 0:11:51.280 --> 0:11:53.000 at all. And I'm sure it hurts for both of 0:11:53.040 --> 0:11:58.600 you and sucks for both of you. And I'm gonna 0:11:58.600 --> 0:12:00.560 stop talking because I'm not even sure what I even ask, 0:12:00.960 --> 0:12:02.360 but that really sucks. 0:12:02.920 --> 0:12:03.959 I mean, you can ask that. 0:12:05.480 --> 0:12:08.560 I do feel good about the fact that I finally 0:12:09.600 --> 0:12:12.800 found someone who gave me hope that there are good 0:12:12.880 --> 0:12:16.360 men out there, but it sucks all the more because 0:12:16.400 --> 0:12:20.120 of that, again, because I was blindsided. 0:12:19.600 --> 0:12:21.839 In thinking that this was this was it? 0:12:22.480 --> 0:12:23.280 Did he want you convert? 0:12:24.320 --> 0:12:24.599 Was that it? 0:12:25.520 --> 0:12:25.559 No? 0:12:26.360 --> 0:12:29.360 You know, really like I don't think that would have mattered. 0:12:29.920 --> 0:12:30.120 Was he. 0:12:31.600 --> 0:12:34.200 Practicing or born or both? 0:12:34.400 --> 0:12:34.640 Born? 0:12:34.920 --> 0:12:37.280 Okay, so does he practice Judaism? 0:12:37.840 --> 0:12:40.120 Was that it was that's more the culture thing, not 0:12:40.200 --> 0:12:43.000 as much practicing, which is why, like when we had 0:12:43.040 --> 0:12:46.880 conversations about it, it kind of really threw me because. 0:12:46.600 --> 0:12:48.520 I didn't see that at all. 0:12:49.720 --> 0:12:51.800 And that's why when we were to have conversations about 0:12:51.800 --> 0:12:54.640 I thought we were on the same page. But as 0:12:54.920 --> 0:12:56.920 you know, we got more serious and stuff. It just 0:12:57.000 --> 0:12:59.960 became that that's going to be more important for him 0:13:00.200 --> 0:13:00.760 in the future. 0:13:01.120 --> 0:13:03.440 I suppose does he want to find a Jewish wife. 0:13:03.640 --> 0:13:10.760 Yeah, I think good job by him, because this definitely 0:13:10.800 --> 0:13:13.280 could have gone a lot farther and he could have 0:13:14.400 --> 0:13:16.520 pulled that thread a little later, which would have been 0:13:16.559 --> 0:13:17.040 even harder. 0:13:17.360 --> 0:13:20.920 I think good job by you by picking somebody that 0:13:21.080 --> 0:13:21.760 was worth the crap. 0:13:23.160 --> 0:13:25.679 It still very much sucks, and I'm very sorry because 0:13:25.679 --> 0:13:30.360 I know you were, like you're fundamentally you are excited 0:13:30.360 --> 0:13:34.319 about the future, and that's you'll look back at this 0:13:34.520 --> 0:13:37.480 as big time growth, big time growth. You can't write 0:13:37.520 --> 0:13:38.600 that sucks, It really sucks. 0:13:38.640 --> 0:13:41.319 I'm sorry. Yeah, there's. 0:13:42.679 --> 0:13:46.360 Not a lot of people out there that can relate 0:13:46.440 --> 0:13:50.520 to this particular topic, which also makes it harder and 0:13:51.040 --> 0:13:53.040 really hard for me to understand. 0:13:55.600 --> 0:13:55.959 But I do. 0:13:56.160 --> 0:13:56.319 I do. 0:13:56.800 --> 0:14:00.079 I am really happy that one day I can't and 0:14:00.200 --> 0:14:03.720 look at this scenario and know that I found somebody 0:14:03.800 --> 0:14:07.560 that was good and I now can see out. 0:14:07.440 --> 0:14:08.720 There that there is going to be good. 0:14:11.160 --> 0:14:13.600 I think this is actually something that happens more than 0:14:13.600 --> 0:14:19.680 you think. And I'm not saying you're specific Jewish and 0:14:19.760 --> 0:14:24.480 Christian but I think there are a lot of couples 0:14:24.560 --> 0:14:30.240 that struggle with again I'll use the word like fundamental foundation, 0:14:31.960 --> 0:14:35.600 that they don't come from that same spiritual background or 0:14:35.640 --> 0:14:37.520 even same religion, and they have to figure a way 0:14:37.560 --> 0:14:39.240 to make it work. I have very close friends that 0:14:39.280 --> 0:14:42.280 have gone through some extremely difficult times because they do 0:14:42.400 --> 0:14:43.960 have like a they even call. 0:14:43.840 --> 0:14:44.560 It like a split. 0:14:46.160 --> 0:14:49.800 I think interfaith, and it's it's it's it's difficult, but 0:14:50.440 --> 0:14:52.880 it's again, it's really great that you guys identified that 0:14:53.000 --> 0:14:55.000 now because it just works. 0:14:55.800 --> 0:14:58.440 It's been way, way, way, way harder, and then you're 0:14:58.480 --> 0:14:59.200 sharing right now. 0:14:59.320 --> 0:15:02.400 Even as hard as as it is, it may prompt 0:15:02.560 --> 0:15:05.680 conversations that other people need to have, like hearing this, 0:15:06.040 --> 0:15:10.120 like even though it's painful and hard, somebody listening right 0:15:10.160 --> 0:15:11.840 now is going to be encouraged of like, oh, this 0:15:12.000 --> 0:15:14.160 is a conversation that I haven't had yet in my 0:15:14.320 --> 0:15:16.600 relationship and I maybe need to do it, and it 0:15:16.720 --> 0:15:20.440 may help them get through either whatever direction they're. 0:15:20.280 --> 0:15:20.560 Going to go. 0:15:20.680 --> 0:15:22.560 It's a conversation that sometimes people. 0:15:24.080 --> 0:15:27.280 Avoid or realize untill it gets too late and they're like, oh, shoot, 0:15:27.560 --> 0:15:29.400 we didn't discuss this, and what if we want to 0:15:29.440 --> 0:15:31.440 have kids, and then how are we going to raise them? 0:15:31.520 --> 0:15:33.240 And you know it's snowballs. 0:15:33.320 --> 0:15:37.000 So is there a chance you guys have a discussion 0:15:37.040 --> 0:15:39.120 about it later and change your minds? 0:15:40.760 --> 0:15:41.560 I don't think so. 0:15:42.880 --> 0:15:46.720 We had a follow up conversation after the breakup happened, 0:15:46.760 --> 0:15:51.800 and he seemed very sure in his decision. So I 0:15:51.920 --> 0:15:54.240 don't think there's anything that I could have done or 0:15:54.320 --> 0:15:58.640 could do differently for him, And that sucks for me. 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:03.040 But I do still believe he's a great human, which 0:16:03.080 --> 0:16:03.760 also sucks. 0:16:04.480 --> 0:16:06.000 And two things can be true at the same time. 0:16:06.200 --> 0:16:07.040 One this is just sucks. 0:16:07.040 --> 0:16:10.320 I'm really sorry because it sucks and your heart hurts 0:16:10.560 --> 0:16:12.720 and hates that for you as a person. But it also, 0:16:12.800 --> 0:16:15.360 I think is a good thing that it happened now 0:16:15.480 --> 0:16:17.120 and not later after you lived with each other and 0:16:17.160 --> 0:16:18.840 made it even harder, which would then make if you 0:16:18.920 --> 0:16:20.920 did decide to get married and keep hunting it kicking 0:16:20.960 --> 0:16:23.560 the can God dang, yeah. 0:16:24.280 --> 0:16:25.520 Could have made it so much worse. 0:16:25.600 --> 0:16:26.760 So I am thankful for that. 0:16:27.800 --> 0:16:31.960 Well, well, he hurts really bad, right, I'm sure it does. 0:16:32.040 --> 0:16:36.480 Sorry, Morgan, And I know Lunchbox his eyes got big 0:16:36.480 --> 0:16:38.200 because it was gonna be like love Bomb told you 0:16:38.280 --> 0:16:39.000 but it wasn't that at all. 0:16:39.000 --> 0:16:41.400 And then you know, his eyes got lowered, you know, 0:16:41.480 --> 0:16:43.120 an he lowered his head down real quick because yeah, 0:16:43.120 --> 0:16:44.200 he's saying anything. 0:16:44.400 --> 0:16:45.440 I got a couple theories. 0:16:46.440 --> 0:16:50.040 There are theories to have she told you what happened. 0:16:50.160 --> 0:16:52.080 No, this is I don't even know that. 0:16:52.160 --> 0:16:52.760 I don't even know. 0:16:52.920 --> 0:16:55.240 It's too soon. This is why, right at the beginning, 0:16:55.240 --> 0:16:56.880 I'm like, lunchbox. I looked at him, and I was like, 0:16:56.960 --> 0:16:57.320 lunch fox. 0:16:57.440 --> 0:17:00.000 No, maybe that's why he looks That's why I looked. 0:16:59.880 --> 0:17:02.320 At She's clearly in pain. 0:17:02.440 --> 0:17:05.320 Right now. Yeah, right at the beginning, did you see 0:17:05.359 --> 0:17:07.639 I looked back and I go lunchbox because I. 0:17:07.680 --> 0:17:12.160 Knew he was about to just like go in, what's 0:17:12.200 --> 0:17:13.000 one what's happen? 0:17:13.359 --> 0:17:16.119 What's one of the theories, Well, part of mine, just 0:17:16.200 --> 0:17:19.440 hearing her talk, okay, is he got cold feet about 0:17:19.440 --> 0:17:22.040 the moving in because she said we were about to 0:17:22.080 --> 0:17:24.200 move in together, and so he looked for the one 0:17:24.320 --> 0:17:25.400 thing that he knew. 0:17:25.640 --> 0:17:27.760 He could use as the excuse because she. 0:17:27.840 --> 0:17:31.119 Said they had multiple conversations about it and they were 0:17:31.160 --> 0:17:32.000 on the same page. 0:17:32.200 --> 0:17:35.280 So I think the moving in like freaked him out. 0:17:35.359 --> 0:17:38.720 Well, let's go to Morgan Morgan, your theory, your thoughts 0:17:38.800 --> 0:17:39.399 on that theory. 0:17:40.240 --> 0:17:42.040 I don't think it was that because he's the one 0:17:42.080 --> 0:17:45.159 who brought it up. I was never I was never 0:17:45.480 --> 0:17:46.040 pursuing that. 0:17:46.200 --> 0:17:50.120 That was never something that I pushed, and it came 0:17:50.280 --> 0:17:53.080 very naturally into the conversation and he was very consistent. 0:17:53.240 --> 0:17:55.639 There was even like a moment where I was like, 0:17:55.840 --> 0:17:56.760