1 00:00:00,880 --> 00:00:05,840 Speaker 1: The truth is everyone has a price. So Brooke, let 2 00:00:05,840 --> 00:00:08,039 Speaker 1: me ask, how much would it take for you to 3 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:10,799 Speaker 1: leave your husband and your children to start a whole 4 00:00:10,840 --> 00:00:20,159 Speaker 1: new life. Dollars a billion, A Bogo cubeon to the 5 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:26,640 Speaker 1: country buffet with the nacho cheese fountain. Okay, well we 6 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 1: were thinking about it. Well, one of our listeners faced 7 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:34,240 Speaker 1: a similar dilemma recently where he had to choose either 8 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: a life changing, insane amount of money or his family. 9 00:00:39,920 --> 00:00:40,920 Speaker 2: What day. 10 00:00:41,720 --> 00:00:44,000 Speaker 1: You would think that'd be a pretty easy decision, but 11 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:46,519 Speaker 1: it wasn't. You're going to find out what happened in 12 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 1: a brand new closure call coming up next. Quick history 13 00:00:51,159 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 1: lesson this segment started when Brooke suggested we do something 14 00:00:55,240 --> 00:01:00,320 Speaker 1: called foreclosure calls. She wanted us to call in low 15 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:03,320 Speaker 1: income families and tell them they're getting evicted, while she 16 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:06,679 Speaker 1: laughed in the background. It's a terrible. 17 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:09,319 Speaker 2: Idea, you say something like this, I have to do 18 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:10,320 Speaker 2: more charity work. 19 00:01:10,440 --> 00:01:15,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's kind of what we adjusted this segment to 20 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 1: closure calls, which is helping people. And I know Brooke 21 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 1: didn't like that idea as much, but management did. 22 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 3: So your mortgage was to deny. 23 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 1: I love that, but we're trying to help our listeners 24 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:33,279 Speaker 1: get some answers and much needed closure about an issue 25 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:35,120 Speaker 1: or a question that's been eating away at them for 26 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:35,520 Speaker 1: a while. 27 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 2: I love this segment. 28 00:01:36,680 --> 00:01:38,680 Speaker 1: And today we're talking to a guy named David who 29 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 1: reached out to us about his mom. Oh hopefully he's 30 00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 1: not foreclosing on her, but David, welcome to the show man. 31 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:46,640 Speaker 4: Hey guys, thanks for having me. 32 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, it always makes me so sad when people have 33 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 2: terrible relationships with your mom? 34 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 3: Are you assuming? 35 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't even know anything. 36 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:56,640 Speaker 2: If he hasn't talked to her, isn't that the whole 37 00:01:56,640 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 2: point of closure call? It's always like someone that you 38 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:00,520 Speaker 2: need closure with, Let's. 39 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 1: Ask him, what's going on with your mom? David? 40 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, so I did have a falling out with my 41 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 4: mom like three months ago. 42 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:10,919 Speaker 2: Is really good that it's in the title of the segment. 43 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 5: You can say, like, I'm talking to my mom, we 44 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 5: have an issue with my sister or something. 45 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 1: Why did you and your mom have a falling out? 46 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:21,399 Speaker 4: So it's all over this inheritance from my grandpa. 47 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:23,120 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, cut. 48 00:02:22,919 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 1: The mom out there, you go, That's exactly what I 49 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:31,639 Speaker 1: would do. I don't know what is going on with. 50 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:36,079 Speaker 4: So my grandpa lives in South America, and honestly, I've 51 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:37,400 Speaker 4: met a couple of times. 52 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 2: Okay, and this is your mom's dad, right, yeah, okay. 53 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 4: Okay, but he really likes me. You know. Actually, when 54 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:45,320 Speaker 4: I graduated from high school, he sent me a check 55 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:46,400 Speaker 4: for five thousand dollars. 56 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:46,799 Speaker 1: Day. 57 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:50,920 Speaker 5: Oh wow, day, I think I got a pizza party 58 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 5: for three I was. 59 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 2: Of money, but how old I was? So yeah, I 60 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:56,840 Speaker 2: got eighteen bucks. 61 00:02:58,080 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 1: So your grandpa is pretty well off. 62 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, he's not doing bad, or he wasn't doing bad. 63 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 4: It just felt like me and him connected when we 64 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 4: did meet. He passed away. 65 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 2: Wouldn't that make your mom happy though, that he passed away, 66 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:13,480 Speaker 2: that they had a good relationship. 67 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:20,959 Speaker 4: There's more to the story. Okay, all right, So when 68 00:03:20,960 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 4: he passed, I got a letter in the mail. It 69 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 4: was you know, it was actually sit at my mom's house, 70 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 4: but it was addressed to me, and it was from 71 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 4: my grandpa's lawyer saying that in the will I was mentioned. Okay, yeah, 72 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 4: So Grandpa, what he did in the will is he 73 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 4: basically gave me two options. You know, I could split 74 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:42,880 Speaker 4: the inheritance with my mom and my two older sisters, 75 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 4: or I could keep the whole thing. 76 00:03:45,800 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 2: What a position to put you in choice. Do you 77 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 2: know how much money they were talking about right from 78 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 2: the beginning, I. 79 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 4: Know the amount it was. It was a lot of money. 80 00:03:59,040 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, that is a big decision, Like what where was 81 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 1: your head at? 82 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:05,240 Speaker 4: So of course my first thought is like, let me 83 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:08,520 Speaker 4: split it evenly with everybody, you know. But then I 84 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 4: started to think about it more, like my sisters are 85 00:04:11,600 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 4: older than me, like well older older than me. They're 86 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:16,440 Speaker 4: already married, one has a kid, the other ones working 87 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 4: with the job she loves. I mean, they're set financially. 88 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 3: Their established. 89 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 1: They don't need more money. 90 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:27,360 Speaker 2: I cannot believe your grandpa left that decision to you. 91 00:04:27,640 --> 00:04:29,600 Speaker 2: I mean, that's just a decision that's going to tear 92 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:31,280 Speaker 2: people apart no matter what. 93 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 1: What's your financial situation. 94 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:36,359 Speaker 4: So, like, I just finished college. I don't have a 95 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 4: job right now. You know, I still got a bunch 96 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:39,600 Speaker 4: of student loans coming in. 97 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 3: Didn't the five thousand dollars cover that? 98 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:44,040 Speaker 1: Yeah? 99 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:47,680 Speaker 4: Yeah maybe in the sixties, not now. Yeah, Okay, So 100 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 4: I got a lot of student loans, and you know, 101 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 4: I also have dreams. You know, I wanted to travel 102 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:54,920 Speaker 4: the world, and I felt like that was my grandpa 103 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:56,400 Speaker 4: basically giving me that shot. 104 00:04:56,560 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 2: I chant, he just turned you into a trust fund kid. 105 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 2: You can do those things. 106 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:02,719 Speaker 4: But then you know my mom, she's divorced from my 107 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:05,919 Speaker 4: dad too, and she does work a couple jobs. But honestly, 108 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 4: I don't know what she would even use the money for. 109 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:12,680 Speaker 1: Maybe so that she wouldn't have to work two jobs, yeah, 110 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:16,360 Speaker 1: very simple. 111 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:18,200 Speaker 4: But you know, my mom is just one of those 112 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 4: ladies who work just because they enjoy working. 113 00:05:21,440 --> 00:05:23,880 Speaker 3: You know, Yeah, I know what you mean, no matter what. 114 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 1: Who likes working just for work? Could you say that? 115 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 2: But how do you know that? I mean, obviously she 116 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:33,080 Speaker 2: couldn't put you through college. She probably works because she 117 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:33,600 Speaker 2: has to. 118 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:36,040 Speaker 1: I mean, so big decision here. What did you decide 119 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 1: to do? 120 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 4: I decided to keep the full inheritance? 121 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:44,360 Speaker 1: What I was kidding, dude, that's kind of a rough 122 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:45,919 Speaker 1: move to do to your family. 123 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:46,719 Speaker 3: Wow. 124 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:48,840 Speaker 4: My mom kept asking me too. She was like, what 125 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:50,840 Speaker 4: did the letter say that Grandpa sent you? 126 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 1: You know she didn't know? 127 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I didn't tell her. 128 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 1: Why wouldn't you at least talk to your mom about that, 129 00:05:57,200 --> 00:05:58,240 Speaker 1: like talk to someone. 130 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:00,120 Speaker 4: Well, like I said, I didn't tell her, But now 131 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 4: I feel like she does know. 132 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:04,719 Speaker 2: Why why do you say that, because a couple. 133 00:06:04,560 --> 00:06:06,839 Speaker 4: Of days later, I get a text from my mom saying, 134 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 4: you need to come by the house. You got to 135 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:10,040 Speaker 4: pick up all your stuff. I put it in the 136 00:06:10,040 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 4: boxes out in the garage. 137 00:06:12,160 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 1: She kicked you out. 138 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:16,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, and you know it didn't Honestly, it made me 139 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 4: feel bad. I tried to talk to her. I even 140 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:20,479 Speaker 4: went over and knocked on the door, but you know, 141 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:22,159 Speaker 4: she doesn't answer, she won't come to the door. 142 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 1: Okay, so this is the falling out with your mom? 143 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:27,080 Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, yeah, it's been a few months since 144 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:27,560 Speaker 4: it happened. 145 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:29,680 Speaker 2: You know, you haven't talked to her at all. 146 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:32,080 Speaker 4: No, not for the last few months. 147 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:37,279 Speaker 2: Wait, though, like that's how do you know that she knows? 148 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 2: Like it could be another reason, like how would she 149 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 2: find out about the inheritance? 150 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:43,840 Speaker 4: I mean, it's the only reason I could think that 151 00:06:43,880 --> 00:06:46,080 Speaker 4: she threw all my stuff in the box in the 152 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:46,920 Speaker 4: garage for. 153 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:48,919 Speaker 3: No reason, because it was normal issues. 154 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 1: She would talk to you, right, And so this has 155 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:52,400 Speaker 1: been a few months now, what what made you reach 156 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:54,480 Speaker 1: out to us, like to get some closure? 157 00:06:55,120 --> 00:06:57,600 Speaker 4: Honestly, because I've been rethinking it and I'm you know, 158 00:06:57,640 --> 00:07:00,599 Speaker 4: maybe I should probably split it up. But my mom 159 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:03,400 Speaker 4: is not talking to me, and my two sisters know 160 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:06,600 Speaker 4: nothing about it. So since I can't reach my mother, 161 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 4: maybe I can use some help. 162 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:11,800 Speaker 2: I just can't imagine money, Like this isn't worth money, right, 163 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 2: like losing your relationship with your mom depends on how 164 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 2: much momy. 165 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 1: Everybody's got a price. It could be known on a 166 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:25,520 Speaker 1: private island. So obviously you know how this works. David. 167 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 1: You've already been working with our producer to come up 168 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 1: with four questions that we sent to your mom. I 169 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:33,720 Speaker 1: will tell you, David, she wrote back to us, and 170 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:36,560 Speaker 1: hopefully when I read it to you coming up here, 171 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 1: it's going to give you a little bit of closure. 172 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 1: My god, but it's going to cost you some money. Okay, 173 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:49,560 Speaker 1: I think legally I can. But when we come back, 174 00:07:49,640 --> 00:07:52,200 Speaker 1: we'll read what your mom had to say and do 175 00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 1: your closure call right after this. Man, this is crazy. 176 00:07:56,760 --> 00:07:59,040 Speaker 1: We've been talking about it off the air, about what 177 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 1: we would do if we were in David's shoes, where 178 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:05,040 Speaker 1: you have the option to take an entire inheritance just 179 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 1: for yourself or split it amongst your family. 180 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:11,760 Speaker 2: Members, Like it's a sick joke that your grandpa left 181 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 2: you with. 182 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:16,560 Speaker 3: Honestly, everybody's laughing from a. 183 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:21,680 Speaker 1: It's a big moral dilemma though, and David chose not 184 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 1: to split it with his mom and his two sisters. 185 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:27,120 Speaker 1: He wanted to keep the whole bag for himself, which 186 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 1: it was his decision, that was what his grandpa wanted 187 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:32,480 Speaker 1: him to make. This is what we didn't discuss though, 188 00:08:32,520 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 1: in the first part, is transparency, Like should he have 189 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:39,600 Speaker 1: told his mom his decision of what was going on, 190 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:41,840 Speaker 1: because it sounds like he tried to keep it all 191 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 1: secret from her and then she found out later and 192 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:45,880 Speaker 1: then got upset about. 193 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:48,199 Speaker 5: And that's what I agree with. No matter what you choose, 194 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 5: it's a hard decision. I would at least sit my 195 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:53,680 Speaker 5: family down and say, look, mom, dad, I don't think 196 00:08:53,679 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 5: you guys need it as much as I do, or whatever, 197 00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:58,880 Speaker 5: but I at least tell everybody as a family. 198 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:01,080 Speaker 1: Brook, are you telling your family that you're holding onto 199 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:02,800 Speaker 1: the whole whole inheritance? 200 00:09:02,880 --> 00:09:05,560 Speaker 2: I know I have inherited in my family. To be 201 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 2: honest with you, I'm just having a really hard time 202 00:09:08,160 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 2: having sympathy for you because it's like, these are the 203 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 2: choices you made. Not only did you cut them out, 204 00:09:13,840 --> 00:09:16,600 Speaker 2: but then you didn't tell them, and then you get 205 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:19,000 Speaker 2: kicked out of your mom's house like duh. 206 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 1: You can call her a name, David, that's okay. And 207 00:09:21,559 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 1: she's just jealous of you that you know you're richer 208 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:24,360 Speaker 1: than her. 209 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:27,960 Speaker 4: You know, I'm just I'm just waiting for these answers. 210 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 1: Okay, I am. I'm curious before we get to the answers, 211 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:33,200 Speaker 1: have you spent any of the money yet? Just for fun? 212 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:36,400 Speaker 4: No, No, none of the money has come through yet. 213 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:39,000 Speaker 4: I don't know if it's tied up in paperwork or something. 214 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 4: But he was. 215 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:42,720 Speaker 3: America, so maybe it's harder to transfer. 216 00:09:42,880 --> 00:09:44,680 Speaker 2: I don't know, it doesn't come through a money order. 217 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 1: So we're going to read your mom's answers here. How 218 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 1: you feeling, man, You nervous, excited. 219 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:54,520 Speaker 4: Like I'm probably a little anxious, you know. Like I said, 220 00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:56,440 Speaker 4: I'm I don't want it to be mad at me, 221 00:09:56,480 --> 00:09:59,000 Speaker 4: so I'm trying to figure this out. So I don't know. 222 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:01,920 Speaker 1: Okay, we've already sent these four questions to your mom. 223 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:04,120 Speaker 1: You worked with our producer on him. The first question 224 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:07,319 Speaker 1: that we sent her was, Mom, why are you so 225 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:09,360 Speaker 1: mad at me to the point you kicked me out 226 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:12,200 Speaker 1: of your house. Okay, that's good because we don't know. 227 00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:14,720 Speaker 1: We don't know if she knew about his decision with 228 00:10:14,760 --> 00:10:16,959 Speaker 1: the inheritance. We just assumed that, And that's what you 229 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:18,479 Speaker 1: wanted to ask, right David. 230 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's number one. Well I need to know why 231 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 4: she's mad before we go further. 232 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:24,960 Speaker 1: Okay, yes, true. 233 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:27,240 Speaker 3: Because if she doesn't know, did she explain? 234 00:10:27,440 --> 00:10:32,199 Speaker 1: She said, because David, you were given a big decision 235 00:10:32,280 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 1: to be selfish or consider anybody other than yourself, and 236 00:10:36,880 --> 00:10:44,200 Speaker 1: you chose yourself. I thought I raised you better. How 237 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:46,880 Speaker 1: does that feel, David? I don't know. 238 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:49,600 Speaker 4: I don't feel like I need to give her any 239 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:51,319 Speaker 4: of the money if she's coming at me like that. 240 00:10:51,640 --> 00:10:53,959 Speaker 3: Right, Oh, did you not hear what she said? 241 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:57,440 Speaker 2: She's talking about the money, she's talking about your you 242 00:10:57,559 --> 00:10:59,679 Speaker 2: being selfish, only thinking of yourself. 243 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:02,199 Speaker 4: No. I feel like if that was the case, that's 244 00:11:02,240 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 4: a conversation we could have had in person, and she 245 00:11:04,920 --> 00:11:07,240 Speaker 4: could have told me, hey, you maybe you're being selfish. 246 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:10,719 Speaker 4: But nah, right now I'm here and she's jealous. 247 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 1: Really, oh man, it was kind of a rude answer 248 00:11:13,880 --> 00:11:14,680 Speaker 1: back from a mom. 249 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:17,960 Speaker 5: So with you, Brooke did mention earlier? She has been 250 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 5: very passive aggressive by not saying anything. 251 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:21,000 Speaker 3: And just kicking you out. 252 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:22,520 Speaker 1: I know, I think you're. 253 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:25,360 Speaker 5: Both a little bit could be handling it in different ways. 254 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:27,920 Speaker 1: But that is why we do these calls. I try 255 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:30,440 Speaker 1: and help get some answers and hopefully get closure. Let's 256 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:33,560 Speaker 1: go to the second question, which was, I'm assuming you 257 00:11:33,640 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 1: know about my decision with Grandpa's inheritance. 258 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 2: Okay, we already got that answer. 259 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:41,960 Speaker 1: What would you have done in my shoes? I guarantee 260 00:11:42,280 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 1: you wouldn't have split the money evenly. 261 00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:46,200 Speaker 3: Oh wow, that's coming in hot. 262 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 4: Yeah. 263 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 2: I mean, now that's almost sounded like an accusation. Is 264 00:11:49,240 --> 00:11:50,360 Speaker 2: that how you meant it? David? 265 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:53,200 Speaker 4: You know it feels fine. After that first answer, she 266 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:56,480 Speaker 4: got up, Yeah, well. 267 00:11:56,440 --> 00:11:59,760 Speaker 1: She did answer that, and she wrote a quote quote 268 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 1: sent to a quotation, and it says, greed is a 269 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:07,200 Speaker 1: fat demon with a small mouth, and whatever you feed it, 270 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:08,240 Speaker 1: it's never enough. 271 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:09,800 Speaker 2: Is that a comment? 272 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:12,400 Speaker 4: Does she call me? Does she just call me fat? 273 00:12:12,400 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 1: I don't even know I've been greed. Greed is the 274 00:12:16,640 --> 00:12:17,600 Speaker 1: fat demon, not you. 275 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:19,720 Speaker 5: I feel like we're getting answers here, but we're not 276 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:22,359 Speaker 5: making progress, Like on either side. 277 00:12:23,160 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 3: He still seems like. 278 00:12:24,440 --> 00:12:26,600 Speaker 2: I think the mom is just disappointed. 279 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:29,400 Speaker 4: What what's she disappointed about? I mean she has a 280 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:30,480 Speaker 4: lot more money than I do. 281 00:12:31,080 --> 00:12:38,520 Speaker 2: I mean, your whole life provided for you. 282 00:12:38,679 --> 00:12:40,720 Speaker 1: Still a little tense. Maybe things will get better. 283 00:12:40,920 --> 00:12:42,640 Speaker 4: I hope she puts that quote on her wall. 284 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:52,560 Speaker 1: Okay, next to love Fan. Let's hopefully make the mood 285 00:12:52,559 --> 00:12:55,679 Speaker 1: a little better with question three. It says, it's been 286 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:58,960 Speaker 1: three months and I haven't seen any money from the inheritance. 287 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:01,880 Speaker 1: Are you blocking my inheritance? Or do you know what's 288 00:13:01,920 --> 00:13:04,960 Speaker 1: going on with it? So you you suspect your mom 289 00:13:05,040 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 1: is the one that's blocking you. 290 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:08,400 Speaker 4: I mean she's blocked me out of the house. 291 00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:11,480 Speaker 2: I thought we were doing this. So try to repair 292 00:13:11,520 --> 00:13:14,360 Speaker 2: your relationship with your mother, David, not to attack her. 293 00:13:14,400 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 3: Find out where your money is. 294 00:13:16,679 --> 00:13:19,839 Speaker 4: Attack her. I'm asking, does she know anything about it? 295 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:23,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's quoting Rihanna, you better have my money. 296 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:24,320 Speaker 2: What did she say? 297 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:27,959 Speaker 1: You asked if she's blocking the inheritance, and she wrote 298 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:31,840 Speaker 1: back the same quote as before, this time in all caps. 299 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:35,560 Speaker 1: Greed is a fat demon with a small mouth, and 300 00:13:35,640 --> 00:13:40,720 Speaker 1: whatever your feed it, it's never enough. Wow, she's doubling down. 301 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:43,000 Speaker 4: To you guys for the help. Man. All I'm getting 302 00:13:43,040 --> 00:13:48,720 Speaker 4: is bathroom quotes. Oh, I think I should charge her 303 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:50,040 Speaker 4: for my school loans after this. 304 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:53,200 Speaker 1: Oh, that's a battle smooth things over? 305 00:13:53,600 --> 00:13:56,160 Speaker 2: How responsible for that? You know? 306 00:13:56,360 --> 00:13:57,560 Speaker 3: I mean, we can't control how. 307 00:13:57,640 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 2: It sounds like you're turning into the little fat demon 308 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:01,480 Speaker 2: who's never. 309 00:14:01,840 --> 00:14:06,640 Speaker 4: Never answers question for with that quote. I don't know 310 00:14:06,679 --> 00:14:07,200 Speaker 4: what the hell. 311 00:14:07,160 --> 00:14:10,800 Speaker 1: We We made zero progress. We only have one question 312 00:14:10,880 --> 00:14:13,240 Speaker 1: less but keeps getting worse. Maybe we should just get 313 00:14:13,240 --> 00:14:17,400 Speaker 1: through it. Question four. It doesn't know we wrote. I 314 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:19,760 Speaker 1: know you're not talking to me right now, but I 315 00:14:19,800 --> 00:14:21,480 Speaker 1: do regret how things went down. 316 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:24,400 Speaker 2: Mom, Okay, a little remorse. 317 00:14:24,440 --> 00:14:26,640 Speaker 1: Can I please call you so we can talk this 318 00:14:26,680 --> 00:14:27,120 Speaker 1: thing out. 319 00:14:27,560 --> 00:14:28,600 Speaker 3: Yes, that's great. 320 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:30,640 Speaker 1: That's a good olive branch. 321 00:14:30,960 --> 00:14:33,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm the only good person between us. 322 00:14:35,280 --> 00:14:37,600 Speaker 2: I would have I would have recommended leading with that 323 00:14:37,720 --> 00:14:40,760 Speaker 2: question and then maybe taken out the first three. 324 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:43,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll tell you, David. She didn't write back with 325 00:14:43,400 --> 00:14:47,720 Speaker 1: the same quote. That's the good news. Yes, here's what 326 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 1: she said, and I'll warn you it's a little bit shocking. 327 00:14:52,880 --> 00:14:53,680 Speaker 1: Are you ready for this? 328 00:14:55,240 --> 00:14:55,640 Speaker 4: Let's go? 329 00:14:56,120 --> 00:15:00,840 Speaker 1: She says, maybe you should call your grand instead. 330 00:15:01,520 --> 00:15:02,360 Speaker 2: I thought he died. 331 00:15:03,960 --> 00:15:07,360 Speaker 1: She says, he didn't really die. But he did want 332 00:15:07,400 --> 00:15:09,280 Speaker 1: to test you to see if you'd make the right 333 00:15:09,360 --> 00:15:13,560 Speaker 1: choice and put your family first. 334 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:17,160 Speaker 4: Got to be a joke. 335 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:21,280 Speaker 1: No, I'm serious, man, She says, you didn't, and now 336 00:15:21,520 --> 00:15:25,680 Speaker 1: we all know the answer. So you've been effectively removed 337 00:15:25,760 --> 00:15:30,640 Speaker 1: from Grandpa's will going forward. 338 00:15:30,920 --> 00:15:33,960 Speaker 4: I don't believe that. I think she lost her mind. 339 00:15:33,160 --> 00:15:36,960 Speaker 1: I'm telling you, I'm reading her answers right here. She says, 340 00:15:36,960 --> 00:15:39,880 Speaker 1: there's no money coming to you. If you're wondering, you 341 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:46,120 Speaker 1: reap what you sew. I don't know. 342 00:15:46,360 --> 00:15:48,200 Speaker 4: We might have to throw her in a facility. 343 00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:53,520 Speaker 2: I don't know, you don't have money to pay for 344 00:15:53,560 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 2: a facility in your mind? 345 00:15:57,040 --> 00:15:59,280 Speaker 4: Well, what's that called? When the when the police just 346 00:15:59,320 --> 00:16:02,600 Speaker 4: get her? Then, because we have to follow one, really. 347 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:04,880 Speaker 5: Take your advice and call your grandpa and once he 348 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:05,880 Speaker 5: answers your. 349 00:16:05,720 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 2: Timore though, I was like, why would a grandpa put 350 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 2: that in a in a will? That's crazy? Pretty it 351 00:16:15,360 --> 00:16:15,960 Speaker 2: makes sense. 352 00:16:16,280 --> 00:16:18,280 Speaker 4: I don't believe her, and I honestly, I don't think 353 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:20,240 Speaker 4: you guys should believe her. I think she died and 354 00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:22,960 Speaker 4: she's just like holding on to my check at the house. 355 00:16:23,080 --> 00:16:27,760 Speaker 2: Oh make awkward. Tuesday phone calls to South America. I 356 00:16:28,440 --> 00:16:29,400 Speaker 2: want to call her grandpa. 357 00:16:29,440 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 1: I don't want to get any deeper involved into this 358 00:16:31,680 --> 00:16:32,560 Speaker 1: family situation. 359 00:16:32,680 --> 00:16:35,359 Speaker 3: It was messy, this was amazing. 360 00:16:35,440 --> 00:16:37,800 Speaker 1: I hope it got you a little bit of closure there, David. 361 00:16:37,880 --> 00:16:39,200 Speaker 1: I don't I don't know. 362 00:16:39,160 --> 00:16:41,960 Speaker 4: If it's I don't know, like I don't believe it. 363 00:16:42,040 --> 00:16:43,960 Speaker 1: Make sure you keep in touch with us and let 364 00:16:44,040 --> 00:16:47,320 Speaker 1: us know what happens with the Yeah, I guess say 365 00:16:47,520 --> 00:16:51,200 Speaker 1: to your grandpa for us. 366 00:16:52,760 --> 00:16:53,400 Speaker 2: Apologies. 367 00:16:53,560 --> 00:16:57,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's your closure calls. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in 368 00:16:57,840 --> 00:16:58,200 Speaker 1: the morning. 369 00:16:58,800 --> 00:17:00,360 Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.