WEBVTT - Might As Well with Von Rhe'

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<v Speaker 1>Talk Talk, Talk to We're just two unapologetically black women

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<v Speaker 1>with an opinion who talks.

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<v Speaker 2>What's up y'all?

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you for tuning in for a new episode or

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<v Speaker 3>we talked back. The show dedicated to you dreamers and chasers.

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<v Speaker 3>This is your co host a J Holiday.

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<v Speaker 2>What's up? Tam Bam, Big Tim, Big.

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<v Speaker 1>Booty, Tamm, Hey y'all, Green eggs.

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<v Speaker 2>And Hey, hey y'all. I love y'all. Hey, Hey J.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up girl? How was your weekend?

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<v Speaker 2>Eat? Nothing?

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<v Speaker 1>What you do this weekend?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't do shiit girl. Nothing of gaining weight. Gaining Wait,

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<v Speaker 2>that's what I've been doing this, so you get eating

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<v Speaker 2>eating good.

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<v Speaker 3>I did fast last week. But I just feel like, man,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what the fuck is happening?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it the winter? Like, what's happening?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's the winter?

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<v Speaker 2>Esus Christ.

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<v Speaker 3>Face started like a little box like.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you know what to do? You know what to do?

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<v Speaker 1>Get back to it. Let me tell y'all what I did.

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<v Speaker 1>I had one of my good friends from Benedict. He

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<v Speaker 1>actually is like a I don't even a physical therapist.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess you would call him. He works with Shikari Richardson.

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<v Speaker 1>He works with a bunch of NFL players. He works

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<v Speaker 1>with like a lot of actresses and actors like doing

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<v Speaker 1>body work. And he came to Charlotte and he did

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<v Speaker 1>bodywork on me for three and a half hours straight.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh nice, like stretching and stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't even stretching. It was like, well, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>kind of sorter. It was like he was using like

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<v Speaker 1>an ultrasound machine, a laser, some tools, some you know

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<v Speaker 1>that chiropractor thing that goes that little thing like that,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what it's called. And he literally went

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<v Speaker 1>in between each ribcage with that thing. I mean, he

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<v Speaker 1>just took his whole time and like really like just

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<v Speaker 1>like adjusted my back and my neck.

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<v Speaker 2>And he like took Is he a chiropractor?

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<v Speaker 1>He's a physical therapist or so. I don't know exactly what.

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<v Speaker 1>He has a bunch of degrees, so he might exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>He might be a chiropractor. I don't know what to

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<v Speaker 1>call him. But baby, when I tell you, like my shit,

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<v Speaker 1>my neck fluid in my back is more fluid than

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<v Speaker 1>this been in a long time. I'm sore. I'm still

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<v Speaker 1>sore from all the work that he did, but I

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<v Speaker 1>feel so much better. Like he took my neck and

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<v Speaker 1>he was like adjusting it. He cracked it this way,

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<v Speaker 1>cracked it that way, and then he put me in

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<v Speaker 1>the head like I was like, wait a minute, what

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<v Speaker 1>is nigga doing? And then he snatched and I could

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<v Speaker 1>feel like it just like cracked all the way up

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<v Speaker 1>my spine. Goodness, and I just really needed that. He

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<v Speaker 1>probably loosened up a lot of mucus. Maybe that's what.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe that's why I feel bad right now. I do

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<v Speaker 1>feel a little under the weather, so maybe that has

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<v Speaker 1>something to do with it. But my body feels good.

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<v Speaker 1>My my neck and my throat came good right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Other than that, that was it. I didn't do much.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, I did one other thing, y'all. I did

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<v Speaker 1>one other thing. I went to this new place here

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<v Speaker 1>in Charlotte called Spice and it's African owned. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to say, uh, Ghanaian Ghanaian owned, and they have like

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<v Speaker 1>African menu, and you know, I know that's the whole continent,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just I don't know exactly what country. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's Ghana, but you know, but the food is

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<v Speaker 1>so good, the vibes is nice, the nice it's down

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<v Speaker 1>uptown Charlotte yeah, is a vibe. So if y'all are looking.

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<v Speaker 1>If y'all in Charlotte, are you looking for a place

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<v Speaker 1>to go, definitely check out Spice when you come. You

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<v Speaker 1>like African food, I do, and I like African men too, So.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, who doesn't like African men. Let's get very clear.

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<v Speaker 3>The food be so spicy though, likely I like spicy food,

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<v Speaker 3>but not like African spicy food. Like, I can't even

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<v Speaker 3>enjoy the food. My mouth burned into bad. No, I

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<v Speaker 3>can't do it, man, Like the soups.

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<v Speaker 2>My god, damn man, I'm out.

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<v Speaker 1>I be eating it. I love it.

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<v Speaker 3>That's good for your digestive system though, Like that's spicy.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, y'all check. But you know what, they didn't

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<v Speaker 1>make the food too spicy. They made it for an

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<v Speaker 1>American palette, honestly. So yeah, you can handle to try that.

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<v Speaker 1>You come on to town. Let's try there's some souya.

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<v Speaker 1>It's some niggles.

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<v Speaker 2>This place. I just saw the cellar there, the cellar, Oh, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that's the name of it. Yes, nice, Yeah, I want

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<v Speaker 2>to go there.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a nice place.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I saw that coming across my time underground.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta go, you know, down into the cellar. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's nice, it's dark, nice spot. Let's get into

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<v Speaker 1>stupid internet news.

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<v Speaker 2>What happened, let's do it. What we got going on?

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<v Speaker 3>My girl, I did come across Jadas Chavez. Okay, last week, y'all,

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<v Speaker 3>we had a whole episode on what exactly is cheating? Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>what is infidelity? I think we only think about infidelity

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<v Speaker 3>when we're talking about marriage, but cheating the same shit. Right,

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<v Speaker 3>you're in a committed relationship with somebody cheats. So Jada

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<v Speaker 3>says she's never cheated in a relationship, but she has

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<v Speaker 3>done her dirt during a little break he break. Why

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<v Speaker 3>would it be considered dirt if you are no longer

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<v Speaker 3>in a relationship and y'all are on a break, Why

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<v Speaker 3>are you calling it?

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<v Speaker 1>Because men feel like your pussy still theirs even if

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<v Speaker 1>y'all on a break. That's why she said it that way.

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<v Speaker 2>Period.

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<v Speaker 1>But honestly, it ain't dirt. It's doing what the fuck

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<v Speaker 1>you want to do because you're not in a relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>ye're single. Because a man wouldn't call it dirt. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like if they're on a.

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<v Speaker 2>Break, Nope.

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<v Speaker 3>And half the time, the reason why y'all on a

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<v Speaker 3>break is because that nigga because she.

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<v Speaker 1>Was already dirty.

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<v Speaker 3>So basically what Jada is saying, every time little baby

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<v Speaker 3>cheat on me, we take a break and then and

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<v Speaker 3>I finally cheat back. But see, men don't respect that.

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<v Speaker 2>They don't.

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<v Speaker 3>They want you to be at the house crying until

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<v Speaker 3>y'all get back in a good space. Okay, So ladies

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<v Speaker 3>don't ever see no ship like that in public.

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<v Speaker 2>Bitch, I never did durham.

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<v Speaker 1>I never did no dirt. I despised.

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<v Speaker 2>I despised her disgusting.

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<v Speaker 3>And any of my friends that would ever do something

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<v Speaker 3>like that to their man, whether they're together today.

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<v Speaker 2>Or not, are wars.

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<v Speaker 3>Lot of these niggas ladies wake onp my life.

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<v Speaker 2>Like if a girl if a growl. Bitch, I ain't

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<v Speaker 2>never told you nothing before because the action, Mama, she

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<v Speaker 2>gonna tell you. Don't you tell that man the truth?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you stupid? None of his.

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<v Speaker 1>Business, y'all. Your break happened during that time is nobody's

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<v Speaker 1>business but your.

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<v Speaker 3>Own, right unless somebody come back with a break, baby,

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<v Speaker 3>Now that's a little different.

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<v Speaker 1>Shit get scheduled, that's a whole different ball game, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>So let me tell you this. I was scrolling this

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<v Speaker 1>weekend and I saw that Nick Cannon is putting out

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<v Speaker 1>a show called It's a Light Skin Versus Dark Skin,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's women. I could you know what, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think I would be upset like I am about it

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<v Speaker 1>if it was men. But the fact that you're putting

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<v Speaker 1>light skinned women against dark skinned women is cringe for me.

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<v Speaker 1>So apparently this is going to be a Chocolate Goddesses

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<v Speaker 1>Versus Caramel Goddesses, a Zeus Network show. It's given disgusting.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think?

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<v Speaker 4>AJ?

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<v Speaker 3>So they're saying that Networks has sense or moved the

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<v Speaker 3>fly because the original one said bad versus versus Wild

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<v Speaker 3>Last Vegas, light Skin versus Dark Skin. That's that fly

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<v Speaker 3>originally said. So now he's trying to spice it up

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<v Speaker 3>and make it nice. Nah, fuck you, Nick Cannon. Let's

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<v Speaker 3>be clear, this is disgusting, and we are like y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like he's been put in a position at

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<v Speaker 3>this point to play on all the negative stereotypes and

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<v Speaker 3>all the different things that just hold the black community back.

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<v Speaker 3>He's just playing into him, and he's allowing these people

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<v Speaker 3>to play in our fucking faces. These women, it's the

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<v Speaker 3>fucking inmates. Running the prison man, Why would y'all even

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<v Speaker 3>participate in some shit like this?

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<v Speaker 1>Why would you sign up for that?

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<v Speaker 3>As much as as much as Sukihanna be on the internet,

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<v Speaker 3>anytime somebody say something, she automatically assuming somebody got a

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<v Speaker 3>problem with her skin zone.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know, it's not cool. I don't think it's

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<v Speaker 1>a good idea.

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<v Speaker 2>It's whack. It's very whack. It's whack as hell.

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<v Speaker 3>And so the thing is is that because of the Internet,

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<v Speaker 3>white people don't need to like know us no more.

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<v Speaker 2>They get these small little tip bits of bullshit.

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<v Speaker 3>And they create their whole like thought around who black

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<v Speaker 3>people are because of TV and social media.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's divisive as fuck. Honestly, you don't see any

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<v Speaker 1>like Irish against I don't even like know different. Is

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<v Speaker 1>there different hues of white pale against tan?

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<v Speaker 2>White? Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, Italians don't consider themselves white. We lump all

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<v Speaker 3>of them in a group, but Italians don't consider themselves white.

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<v Speaker 3>You have darker skinned Indians so like that they have

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<v Speaker 3>like they try to act like it's only happening amongst

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<v Speaker 3>black people, where you got the light skinned, dark skinned things,

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<v Speaker 3>But it happens amongst many races, even.

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<v Speaker 1>When you want to see a show with white people,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's stupid, absolutely dumb. So why are y'all doing

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<v Speaker 1>that black people? Because there's already an issue in our

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<v Speaker 1>community when it comes to colorism, So you're just playing

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<v Speaker 1>on that and that's just gross booting it cannon for that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I feel like I don't like canceling people, but

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<v Speaker 3>this to me is grounds for cancelation him and these

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<v Speaker 3>two groups of women, Like I just don't want to

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<v Speaker 3>see them bitches no more.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sick of him.

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<v Speaker 3>I just uh, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't want I don't like. I'm just I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to cancel him for it because I mean, the show

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't released, but he needs to sit.

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<v Speaker 3>But y'all even think it's cool to put a flyer

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<v Speaker 3>out there that looks like that, like what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>Man?

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<v Speaker 2>What are we doing? What are we doing in twenty

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<v Speaker 2>twenty four because this year is over? What are we doing?

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean this is kind of we don't want

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<v Speaker 1>that stuff that Zeus Network puts out. You know, this

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<v Speaker 1>is right in line with the quality of their content.

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<v Speaker 3>So and I know in January of this year, for

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<v Speaker 3>New Year's I did ask to leave Zeus Network in

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<v Speaker 3>twenty twenty two, Like what happened?

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<v Speaker 2>Why? What wasn't? Why wasn't?

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<v Speaker 1>Because network is thriving on trash TV. That's why so

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<v Speaker 1>love with that. They're here to stay.

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<v Speaker 3>Look, we need to get on TV, bitch, that's what

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<v Speaker 3>needs to happen. They need to see us soon.

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<v Speaker 1>Come friends soon, come.

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<v Speaker 3>Excellent, excellent girl, Lala Lala sounds like she had to

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<v Speaker 3>get a podcast together.

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<v Speaker 4>Girl.

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<v Speaker 3>She had a room full of women in the back

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<v Speaker 3>asking the question whether or not it's okay to have

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<v Speaker 3>sex on the first date.

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<v Speaker 1>We definitely need to have a conversation and we would

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<v Speaker 1>y'all popping y'all pussy for a real nigga wit. We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna talk about it when we get.

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<v Speaker 3>All n't y'all were back and we got a guest

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<v Speaker 3>when we talked back. This week, we have the host

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<v Speaker 3>of Set the Record Straight podcast, mister uh.

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<v Speaker 1>Big nig bandit the Big Big Band.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what he said.

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<v Speaker 3>We need, We need proof period and after the next

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<v Speaker 3>you know.

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<v Speaker 2>What I'm saying, Yeah, we got we got Vaughn Reel.

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<v Speaker 2>You had an only fan.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I'm just bullshit. I retired from that.

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<v Speaker 2>I ain't never paying to see no dick, That's what

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<v Speaker 2>I do know.

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<v Speaker 4>You'd be surprised. Who though I had a few celebrities

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<v Speaker 4>pray when I was doing my thing on that really

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<v Speaker 4>what you were doing whatever they wanted me to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Also only fans Yeah yeah, yeah, wow, I didn't know that.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm trying to find this website right quick, because earlier

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<v Speaker 3>this week my homeboy sent me like a little side website.

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<v Speaker 2>For only fans.

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<v Speaker 3>People basically post people's only fans shipped on this free website.

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<v Speaker 3>Natalie Natalie None. I'm like, nigga, I do not want

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<v Speaker 3>to see that bitch naked. Okay, spongebobs your pans.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm cool.

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<v Speaker 4>I heard about that. It's like you get to see

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<v Speaker 4>all that ship for free. Type.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So it led me to believe that that fucking battie

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<v Speaker 3>ship ain't nothing but a bunch of bitches selling pussy

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<v Speaker 3>on TV and the internet.

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<v Speaker 1>Now now, he None actually looks good as of lately,

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<v Speaker 1>nearly no. She, oh that's not. She has lost a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of ways and.

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<v Speaker 4>She that was the biggest fill of Chris Brown careers

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<v Speaker 4>dating her at one point and let her get.

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<v Speaker 2>Out of this ground.

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<v Speaker 4>That's how she got on by dating him when putting

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<v Speaker 4>that out, and she put it out in the media

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<v Speaker 4>a little while years ago to do.

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<v Speaker 1>That, wasn't she It was on Bad Girls Club?

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<v Speaker 4>Was that after? In the mixture after? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Really? But she definitely got them girls eat and her coochie.

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<v Speaker 3>Does not look bad. Her body does look nice. She

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<v Speaker 3>doesn't look bad at all. She got a nice body.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm here for it, y'all, So tell us a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit about set the record straight. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 3>just get straight into our topic. I want our listeners

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<v Speaker 3>to also know who Vaughn Ray is and what you

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<v Speaker 3>got going on.

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<v Speaker 4>Man, well separated straight. It's like an uncensored show. We

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<v Speaker 4>have so many broad topics we talk about. We talk

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<v Speaker 4>about the relationships, sexuality, gage straight, it's a bunch of

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<v Speaker 4>different topics. We talk about sexual assault. It's like anything

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<v Speaker 4>under the world. When I came up with this podcast,

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<v Speaker 4>I was recovering from being shot and it was just

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<v Speaker 4>an idea I had and for some reason I just

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<v Speaker 4>fully executed when I had the opportunity when I was recovering,

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<v Speaker 4>and it's been going up since then. That's really what

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<v Speaker 4>it is. It's like effortless at this point because it's

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<v Speaker 4>just a passion of mine. I self taught myself. I

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<v Speaker 4>wrote an ebook as well, The Secrets to a Successful

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<v Speaker 4>Podcast that's available, and it really was no secrets. It

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<v Speaker 4>was just my journey on how I taught myself how

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<v Speaker 4>to do this and being able to get traction by

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<v Speaker 4>my he if I ain't have no help, I just

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<v Speaker 4>was able to reach out to the people I know

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<v Speaker 4>as far as guests and just put my bullshit out.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what I'm saying. Some people agree, some people don't.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, So you ain't gonna just slide past you

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<v Speaker 1>and shot like you just say that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, who shot you?

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<v Speaker 2>Like what happened?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, we ain't gonna get it all that, But yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I had a real tragedy. I was shot twenty six

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<v Speaker 4>times last year in twenty twenty two, and I was

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<v Speaker 4>still here to talk about it. So it's crazy. Yeah

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<v Speaker 4>you got.

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<v Speaker 1>Shot, you took you took in your body. Twenty six bullets?

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<v Speaker 1>Are they shot at you?

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<v Speaker 4>Twenty six? Show for sure? M hmm?

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<v Speaker 2>What what kind of bullets was?

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<v Speaker 3>There must have been a bb gun with God's over

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<v Speaker 3>here man, the grace of God.

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<v Speaker 4>I was in at the time. I was in the

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<v Speaker 4>best shape of my life. And I can say that

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<v Speaker 4>I was in the best shape of my life. I

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<v Speaker 4>was working out like a mug. I was looting weights,

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<v Speaker 4>and you know, when you put your body through that

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<v Speaker 4>type with trauma of always working out, I was able

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<v Speaker 4>to survive it. You know, I was probably on my

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<v Speaker 4>last leg, but you know I made it through. Lost

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of weight, a lot of time off, laying

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<v Speaker 4>in the bed and recovering.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm here, Alexi, play Tupac back real quick right now,

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<v Speaker 1>God damn have raised the Lord.

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<v Speaker 2>Praise the Lord the second.

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<v Speaker 1>Amen. Amen.

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<v Speaker 3>You know we talked about this a little bit during

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<v Speaker 3>stupid Internet news, but I like, you know, y'all know

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<v Speaker 3>I passed judgment a lot. Okay, So Cardi B and

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<v Speaker 3>Offset they've been broken up for a while. She's online

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<v Speaker 3>crying in the dark on live and I suggested to

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<v Speaker 3>Tammy that the reason why they probably breaking up is

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<v Speaker 3>because Offset is tied of a twerking wife, like he

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<v Speaker 3>probably sick of seeing that ass on the fucking internet.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm like, men like that ship, but do you

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<v Speaker 3>want to always? Like do you want that to be

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<v Speaker 3>your wife? So then you know we got into the

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<v Speaker 3>can't you turn a hole into a housewife conversation, and

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<v Speaker 3>Tammy suggested for us to get a man on the show.

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<v Speaker 2>So we got von Rae. You can't fell housewife th

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<v Speaker 2>without hole.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's be clear, Okay, So I believe you can a

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<v Speaker 3>housewife because a whole was subjective.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even honestly before we get's opinion, I don't believe.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't believe it was him that left the situation.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was her sick of his ship, not

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<v Speaker 1>him sick of her.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it might be a combination of things. You

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<v Speaker 2>know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 3>So you she was popping when they got together. That

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<v Speaker 3>they aren't young. You know what I'm saying. He has

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<v Speaker 3>five kids now they have two together, right or three?

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<v Speaker 4>Two or three?

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<v Speaker 3>They got two together and she got two with him. Yeah, exactly,

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<v Speaker 3>they were married young. I think Cardi is what thirty.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, I'll set with like about thirty two young young, young, young,

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<v Speaker 3>having kids, got money.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying. Temptations is crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>Mm hmmm. I'm sick of seeing her ass. So maybe

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<v Speaker 3>that's why I'm a little biased.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I'm gonna tell you right now that I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>sick of seeing it, y'all, We're not sick of seeing it.

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<v Speaker 4>But I can't say I do feel like every woman

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<v Speaker 4>has a whole phase, and potentially a lot of you

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<v Speaker 4>used to be wholes are our wives. But at the

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<v Speaker 4>same time, it's like you can't be a wife and

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<v Speaker 4>also try to raise kids and be working for the

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<v Speaker 4>internet for every man to see. But in Carti's deep defense,

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<v Speaker 4>it's like she entertainer, so she gotta do that in

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<v Speaker 4>some aspects, whether she on stage or she ain't got

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<v Speaker 4>to do it on man, she choose you to that,

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<v Speaker 4>but she performing on stage what they come to see

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<v Speaker 4>see what it's men or women. So I feel like

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<v Speaker 4>you can turn the hole into the house white because

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of y'all used to be host you know,

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<v Speaker 4>y'all y'all too too.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, first of all, let me, I'm gonna be honest

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<v Speaker 2>with y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>I bet I have been a whole and well over

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<v Speaker 3>a decade and a half, let's.

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<v Speaker 4>Be woman has had a whole phase, That's what I'm

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<v Speaker 4>trying to tell y'all. Been through that stage or y'all

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<v Speaker 4>was doing stuff that y'all would never do right.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, absolutely, But and Cardi's defense, you know who you married,

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<v Speaker 1>you know who you you married? Her talking and people.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't like she used to talk and she changed

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<v Speaker 1>and then y'all got married. No, she been the same

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<v Speaker 1>person the whole time.

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<v Speaker 4>So maybe it's like, I really don't even think it

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<v Speaker 4>got nothing to do with tking, Like I'm really in Atlanta,

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<v Speaker 4>So I really at this point when we do this

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<v Speaker 4>podcast stuff, we really journalists at this point, you know

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<v Speaker 4>what I'm saying. The way podcasts has looking over like media.

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<v Speaker 4>People come to the podcast sector and before they listen

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<v Speaker 4>to CNN to see what the news is on YouTube.

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<v Speaker 4>So at this one, we like journalists. I hear a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of shit, and I be trying to tell people

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<v Speaker 4>that I know, and I be knowing these people. It's like,

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<v Speaker 4>y'all really got to keep me out in conversations and

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to know y'all business because I'm like,

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<v Speaker 4>you this shit and it really probably ain't got nothing.

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<v Speaker 4>It really ain't got nothing to do with no tworking.

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<v Speaker 4>I guarantee you it's because he always been cheating on her.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's be real, it's not about her tworking. I believe

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<v Speaker 4>Cardiby is a good wife. She ain't never probably made

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<v Speaker 4>him feel no type of way as far as loyalty.

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<v Speaker 4>He just don't know how to keep it digging his pants,

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<v Speaker 4>and that's just what it is. Let's be real, y'all

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<v Speaker 4>know how these rappers are.

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<v Speaker 1>Man that's not just rappers, that's a lot of men.

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<v Speaker 1>Can we be honest when you're in when you are

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<v Speaker 1>in your twenties and thirties, sometimes into late thirties, it's

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<v Speaker 1>hard for y'all to just be with one.

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<v Speaker 4>I ain't gonna say that. I ain't gonna say that.

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<v Speaker 4>It's it's the right woman can make you settle down.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not gonna lie if you If a man really

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<v Speaker 4>love you and he's scared to lose you, and he

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<v Speaker 4>know what he got and you bring value to his life,

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<v Speaker 4>he'll be scared to mess that up. And if he

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<v Speaker 4>do cheat, he gonna make sure you don't find out.

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<v Speaker 4>He gonna cheat with somebody that's just lowered a barrel,

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<v Speaker 4>even if she say so. But everything just put on

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<v Speaker 4>the side.

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<v Speaker 1>It don't even have to be quality bringing anything.

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<v Speaker 4>That's why he'd be cheating.

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<v Speaker 1>There's something new, something different.

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<v Speaker 4>The right man that know he got a good woman

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<v Speaker 4>and he's scared to lose her. He will not mess

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<v Speaker 4>that up. He will if he do cheat on you,

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<v Speaker 4>he gonna make sure you don't find out. And it's

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<v Speaker 4>gonna be with somebody that you won't even believe he

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<v Speaker 4>cheated with. She may be that's why.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all see that.

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<v Speaker 4>It always that's the truth.

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<v Speaker 3>Dog Listen, That ship fucks with a woman's self esteem

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<v Speaker 3>because it's almost like, why are you don't be ma,

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<v Speaker 3>you with somebody that's comparable as opposed to you fucking

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<v Speaker 3>with a.

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<v Speaker 4>Wallrus Nah, But it don't it don't be you. It

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<v Speaker 4>just be easy and it just be something he can do.

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<v Speaker 4>And if you do get caught, it's like it don't

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<v Speaker 4>niggas be thinking. It won't make your confidence down because

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<v Speaker 4>she ain't really nothing. You know, she has signed. But

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of times niggas get disrespectful, they get lazy,

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<v Speaker 4>and they really don't care about the girl. They really

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<v Speaker 4>like that. They just tolerate her, whether they got kids together,

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<v Speaker 4>and they just cheat just to do it, and they

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<v Speaker 4>don't care to clean up behind themselves. You know what

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<v Speaker 4>I'm saying. That's just a nigga that don't really why

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<v Speaker 4>don't they leave like like they say, it's cheaper to

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<v Speaker 4>keep us. Sometimes he might got kids with her, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>he might be married to her, got a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>time invested. And you know what I'm saying, y'all, damned,

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<v Speaker 4>they'll leave with halving plus more of a nigga. That's

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<v Speaker 4>just how it be. It's cheaper to keep some women.

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<v Speaker 1>See this, all of this makes me want to kill

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<v Speaker 1>me a nigga right before.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, like right now, I feel like blood pressure

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm being honest with y'all. That's the wrongs why.

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<v Speaker 3>I always say, you gotta give him something to deal

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<v Speaker 3>with Because men, we know, we always say this, They

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<v Speaker 3>marry the easy going women and then they cheat.

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<v Speaker 2>With the bad bitches on the side. Right if you

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<v Speaker 2>keep this nigga on his toes, I'm not easy going.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna give you problems. We give you something, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>gonna give you something that's not true. That's not true.

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<v Speaker 4>That's the way to what you should do is let

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<v Speaker 4>me give you some advice. Do not give him problem.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, not problems like that. But don't do no

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<v Speaker 2>ship you don't want me doing. That's what I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>But what I'm trying to tell you is don't give

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<v Speaker 4>him problems. You beat a hole for your man.

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<v Speaker 3>It don't matter, It doesn't matter. Come on that shit

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<v Speaker 3>don't matter.

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<v Speaker 4>You can do.

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<v Speaker 3>You can push the pop on a handstand for a

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<v Speaker 3>man and it's still gonna be some ship because some

0:23:52.040 --> 0:23:52.960
<v Speaker 3>man is like.

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<v Speaker 1>You could lick that nigga, but he will take that

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<v Speaker 1>butt right back outside and be up in another bitch

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<v Speaker 1>face and somebody else.

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<v Speaker 4>Listen. My best advice is be a hope for your man.

0:24:06.880 --> 0:24:10.640
<v Speaker 4>Talk treat him like he wants, Like, make your man

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<v Speaker 4>comfortable enough that he could talk to you how he

0:24:12.400 --> 0:24:14.960
<v Speaker 4>talked to his homeboy, and vice versa. You could talk

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<v Speaker 4>to him how you talk to your girls. Because a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of women they be a totally different person when

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<v Speaker 4>they run their homegirls and the You know what I'm saying,

0:24:25.440 --> 0:24:29.240
<v Speaker 4>you're around your man, But like I said, you gotta

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<v Speaker 4>be in a good enough relationship where y'all got that

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<v Speaker 4>connection for real, to where you could be your comfortable self.

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<v Speaker 4>I be telling a lot of my homeboys and men,

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<v Speaker 4>I know you don't really know who your wife is

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<v Speaker 4>for real, you don't. She won't even tell you she

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<v Speaker 4>got smashed by the whole football team, and that had

0:24:43.680 --> 0:24:45.639
<v Speaker 4>trains ran on her because you would lose your mind.

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<v Speaker 4>You've been to beat the girl up and being domestic

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<v Speaker 4>all these cases because you don't find out she even

0:24:50.440 --> 0:24:52.679
<v Speaker 4>sniffed a bit. You know what I'm saying, Like, you

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<v Speaker 4>gotta let her comfortable, bro Like, don't be all the

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<v Speaker 4>connect for real, because they not women will shut down

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<v Speaker 4>and put themselves in a box around their man just

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<v Speaker 4>because he'd be so crazy about she can't do nothing,

0:25:04.600 --> 0:25:06.720
<v Speaker 4>but you fell in love with her because she was a.

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<v Speaker 1>Free No man can handle knowing that his woman's mashed

0:25:10.200 --> 0:25:12.960
<v Speaker 1>the whole football team. No man will sitting there.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually, I mean that's not true though. It's men out

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<v Speaker 4>here that like to see they like he did. He

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<v Speaker 4>liked to see his woman get puleased by another man.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what I'm saying, When you start opening up

0:25:23.920 --> 0:25:25.960
<v Speaker 4>Pandora's box, you never know what your man gonna be.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's why you don't open Pandora's box.

0:25:29.640 --> 0:25:32.560
<v Speaker 3>If you are uncomfortable about you know, if you're uncomfortable

0:25:32.600 --> 0:25:36.960
<v Speaker 3>doing shit, you're just doing stuff for your man. That's

0:25:37.240 --> 0:25:40.480
<v Speaker 3>you opening Pandora's box. And I from my from experience

0:25:40.600 --> 0:25:41.880
<v Speaker 3>and never fucking stops.

0:25:42.200 --> 0:25:43.120
<v Speaker 2>They gonna keep.

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<v Speaker 3>Pushing the totem pole like he gonna keep pushing the

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<v Speaker 3>envelope to see how much more he can get up

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<v Speaker 3>out of your eyes.

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<v Speaker 1>And next thing you know, he's flying Big Black Dixie

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<v Speaker 1>to come.

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<v Speaker 4>I ain't gonna lie. You do. Gotta do it for

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<v Speaker 4>yourself too, Like you gotta do it. You gotta be

0:25:59.480 --> 0:26:01.639
<v Speaker 4>comfortable with what you're doing. That's when you end up

0:26:01.640 --> 0:26:03.760
<v Speaker 4>in cases like Diddy, because she wasn't even comfortable. She

0:26:03.760 --> 0:26:05.879
<v Speaker 4>was just doing it for that nigga. That's like you

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<v Speaker 4>got to.

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<v Speaker 3>Ray J and Princess. You remember she said that she

0:26:09.440 --> 0:26:11.440
<v Speaker 3>was like, you know it just it never stopped.

0:26:11.440 --> 0:26:12.199
<v Speaker 2>Like they was he was.

0:26:12.200 --> 0:26:14.040
<v Speaker 3>She was doing it threesomes with him, thinking that would

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<v Speaker 3>stop him from cheating, and he just kept wanting to

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<v Speaker 3>do more and more.

0:26:19.560 --> 0:26:19.800
<v Speaker 1>Shit.

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<v Speaker 2>It never stops.

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<v Speaker 3>So, Nah, I would not suggest to women to be

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<v Speaker 3>doing anything just because your man wants to do it.

0:26:25.280 --> 0:26:27.800
<v Speaker 3>If you aren't comfortable with him, that's not already your nature.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't be fucking around because it's never going to be enough.

0:26:31.400 --> 0:26:32.560
<v Speaker 3>It's not going to keep a man.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you got to tell these man, tell these men

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<v Speaker 4>to find women that like that. Find the women that

0:26:37.600 --> 0:26:39.480
<v Speaker 4>want the threesomes. But that's the thing.

0:26:39.520 --> 0:26:44.280
<v Speaker 3>They don't want to go get one that act. So

0:26:44.400 --> 0:26:48.640
<v Speaker 3>let's talk about that, because that's that's the problem. Men

0:26:48.720 --> 0:26:50.840
<v Speaker 3>want to be the ones to conhurse people into doing

0:26:50.880 --> 0:26:53.960
<v Speaker 3>bullshit they don't want you. I had a whole conversation

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<v Speaker 3>with somebody this morning and I asked him, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>would you marry somebody who was a self proclaimed hole?

0:27:02.200 --> 0:27:05.240
<v Speaker 3>Oh no, sorry, this is the other topic. Fucking on

0:27:05.240 --> 0:27:08.359
<v Speaker 3>the first date? Right, he just said he would not

0:27:09.440 --> 0:27:12.000
<v Speaker 3>fuck with her. He'll fuck her, right, but if a woman,

0:27:12.040 --> 0:27:13.720
<v Speaker 3>if he were out with a woman and she was like,

0:27:14.720 --> 0:27:17.400
<v Speaker 3>pull your dick out, that's like a turn off of him.

0:27:17.640 --> 0:27:20.640
<v Speaker 2>He'll still fuck her, but he wouldn't fuck with her, right.

0:27:20.680 --> 0:27:23.400
<v Speaker 3>But if he initiated the sex on the first date,

0:27:23.920 --> 0:27:27.040
<v Speaker 3>it's cool. He might fuck run a wife her. So

0:27:27.280 --> 0:27:29.800
<v Speaker 3>the man has to feel like he's in control of

0:27:29.840 --> 0:27:31.840
<v Speaker 3>the situation. But it's the truth though, That's just I

0:27:31.920 --> 0:27:32.240
<v Speaker 3>men R.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why we can't be honest with men about who

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<v Speaker 2>we are.

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<v Speaker 1>Imagine being like pull your dick out with a nigga,

0:27:39.520 --> 0:27:42.040
<v Speaker 1>you just live. That's kind of wild, Like what is

0:27:42.280 --> 0:27:43.639
<v Speaker 1>what is too aggressive?

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<v Speaker 4>But the thing is the thing though, when even with

0:27:51.400 --> 0:27:54.320
<v Speaker 4>stuff like that being said, they'll say stuff like, I

0:27:54.359 --> 0:27:56.520
<v Speaker 4>want a woman to know what she wants. You got

0:27:56.520 --> 0:27:58.360
<v Speaker 4>a woman that says she know what she won't right,

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<v Speaker 4>So why you mad if she telling you what she wants.

0:28:01.200 --> 0:28:02.800
<v Speaker 4>She know what she came to this dinner for. You

0:28:02.960 --> 0:28:05.520
<v Speaker 4>can to eat and get big. But y'all want to

0:28:05.520 --> 0:28:07.600
<v Speaker 4>treat a certain type of way. This is the thing

0:28:07.640 --> 0:28:10.720
<v Speaker 4>that gets me about niggas. Right when a man see

0:28:10.720 --> 0:28:12.840
<v Speaker 4>a woman he liked, the first thing we think about.

0:28:13.040 --> 0:28:15.920
<v Speaker 4>We don't care about how you doing, We don't care

0:28:15.920 --> 0:28:17.800
<v Speaker 4>about how your day being. The first thing that come

0:28:17.880 --> 0:28:21.000
<v Speaker 4>to my mind is, damn, I want to fuck. Right.

0:28:21.640 --> 0:28:24.000
<v Speaker 4>But you niggas be mad when she gives you the

0:28:24.040 --> 0:28:24.880
<v Speaker 4>pussy too soon.

0:28:25.000 --> 0:28:27.800
<v Speaker 2>Like, niggas, that not what you wanted in this situation exactly.

0:28:27.920 --> 0:28:31.000
<v Speaker 4>I'm just be grateful that she giving you the pussy.

0:28:31.040 --> 0:28:33.359
<v Speaker 4>And I'll be trying to tell niggas, but the way

0:28:33.440 --> 0:28:35.600
<v Speaker 4>y'all talk about girls giving up pussy too quick, she

0:28:35.680 --> 0:28:37.320
<v Speaker 4>a hope of doing this and a hope of doing that,

0:28:37.680 --> 0:28:39.920
<v Speaker 4>y'all really just be talking y'allself out of more pussy,

0:28:39.920 --> 0:28:42.000
<v Speaker 4>because now she's gonna make you waiting longer, and she

0:28:42.080 --> 0:28:44.880
<v Speaker 4>know that's your mentality because you're gonna look at her crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel like giving up your pussy too fast

0:28:47.240 --> 0:28:49.760
<v Speaker 1>is like giving up your infinity stone, Like you just

0:28:50.480 --> 0:28:54.120
<v Speaker 1>relinquishing your power right away when you fuck too quickly,

0:28:54.560 --> 0:28:57.600
<v Speaker 1>fuck you are? I feel like men be like.

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<v Speaker 4>What's the quickest you ever gave some pussy up?

0:29:00.240 --> 0:29:00.480
<v Speaker 1>Minutes?

0:29:00.640 --> 0:29:17.800
<v Speaker 4>I'm joking, but goddamn did you? I'm joking. I've gone out.

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<v Speaker 1>On a day and it ended in six, especially my twenties,

0:29:21.320 --> 0:29:24.600
<v Speaker 1>but not now. It won't because I just need to

0:29:24.640 --> 0:29:27.000
<v Speaker 1>know a man. Everybody that I'm seeing right now is

0:29:27.000 --> 0:29:30.320
<v Speaker 1>a potential husband. That's how I feel, and fucking right

0:29:30.360 --> 0:29:33.600
<v Speaker 1>away is just relinquishing my power. And oftentimes you might

0:29:33.640 --> 0:29:35.800
<v Speaker 1>fuck somebody really quickly and then find out you don't

0:29:35.800 --> 0:29:38.600
<v Speaker 1>even like them as a person later, So I just

0:29:38.720 --> 0:29:41.680
<v Speaker 1>wait at this point, Yeah.

0:29:41.440 --> 0:29:43.520
<v Speaker 3>But you don't waited, And now I fell in love

0:29:43.560 --> 0:29:46.600
<v Speaker 3>with whack dick, Like the relationship ain't gonna work if

0:29:46.600 --> 0:29:50.080
<v Speaker 3>that dick whack. So I'm not saying wait ninety days,

0:29:50.280 --> 0:29:53.000
<v Speaker 3>you know, wild shit like that whenever it's comfortable, because

0:29:53.040 --> 0:29:56.479
<v Speaker 3>in between dating, y'all should be having conversations. Right, So

0:29:56.720 --> 0:29:58.360
<v Speaker 3>even if I agree to go on a date with

0:29:58.400 --> 0:30:02.080
<v Speaker 3>a guy, we have had conversation conversation in between time

0:30:02.120 --> 0:30:02.480
<v Speaker 3>at least.

0:30:02.520 --> 0:30:02.640
<v Speaker 1>Now.

0:30:02.640 --> 0:30:05.080
<v Speaker 3>Remember I told y'all a couple of weeks ago, I

0:30:05.160 --> 0:30:07.040
<v Speaker 3>went out with a nigga and he's straight up was like,

0:30:07.200 --> 0:30:08.680
<v Speaker 3>just let me know if I got a chance to

0:30:08.680 --> 0:30:11.040
<v Speaker 3>fuck the night or not, And like, once I said no,

0:30:11.160 --> 0:30:13.600
<v Speaker 3>the fucking date was over with. But we hadn't really

0:30:13.640 --> 0:30:16.360
<v Speaker 3>had any conversations in between, which was made it even

0:30:16.400 --> 0:30:19.120
<v Speaker 3>more wild, Like you would even ask you about some pussy, nigga,

0:30:19.120 --> 0:30:21.960
<v Speaker 3>I don't even know you for real. At least when

0:30:21.960 --> 0:30:24.280
<v Speaker 3>you do go on a first or second date, y'all

0:30:24.360 --> 0:30:26.280
<v Speaker 3>would have had some conversations in between.

0:30:26.320 --> 0:30:28.840
<v Speaker 2>So you might be anticipating a dick like y'all might be.

0:30:29.400 --> 0:30:31.240
<v Speaker 2>It's exciting to get a new dick.

0:30:32.040 --> 0:30:34.280
<v Speaker 1>I feel like if you if you like a guy,

0:30:34.880 --> 0:30:38.160
<v Speaker 1>even his bad dick is good. You don't feel like that.

0:30:38.280 --> 0:30:40.400
<v Speaker 2>I tell you hate that nigga, that's.

0:30:40.240 --> 0:30:42.880
<v Speaker 1>When that's when it started being bad. But if you

0:30:43.000 --> 0:30:46.000
<v Speaker 1>really like intune him as a person, the sex be

0:30:46.080 --> 0:30:49.080
<v Speaker 1>good because of who it is, not because of his parts.

0:30:49.200 --> 0:30:51.360
<v Speaker 1>I feel like that's typical when you don't have a

0:30:51.400 --> 0:30:54.640
<v Speaker 1>connection at all, then it's just about the dick, you know,

0:30:56.360 --> 0:30:59.040
<v Speaker 1>Like I was in love with I was in love

0:30:59.080 --> 0:31:01.600
<v Speaker 1>with some trash diic. I love that train dude down,

0:31:02.160 --> 0:31:03.200
<v Speaker 1>loved him down.

0:31:03.320 --> 0:31:04.840
<v Speaker 2>At it and the trash.

0:31:06.080 --> 0:31:09.400
<v Speaker 4>Years herd one have been married for twenty years and

0:31:09.400 --> 0:31:11.760
<v Speaker 4>they still say their husband. Wait, so that's that's That

0:31:11.920 --> 0:31:13.680
<v Speaker 4>just means you probably ain't really had no good dick

0:31:13.720 --> 0:31:14.720
<v Speaker 4>for real, right right?

0:31:14.760 --> 0:31:16.320
<v Speaker 2>She probably with him since high school.

0:31:16.360 --> 0:31:18.720
<v Speaker 3>She she ain't know what dick's But let me tell you,

0:31:18.760 --> 0:31:20.920
<v Speaker 3>them bitches be fucking on vacation now, them bitches who

0:31:20.960 --> 0:31:23.000
<v Speaker 3>been married since they was twenty, they're going to them

0:31:23.000 --> 0:31:25.080
<v Speaker 3>all girl vacations with their homegirls.

0:31:25.080 --> 0:31:27.520
<v Speaker 2>They're definitely the main ones getting dicked down.

0:31:27.640 --> 0:31:30.240
<v Speaker 3>So she know what good dick is and it ain't

0:31:30.240 --> 0:31:33.000
<v Speaker 3>at home, so she can't wait for the next trip.

0:31:33.880 --> 0:31:42.640
<v Speaker 2>Girl were going to off with her A k A. Friends,

0:31:42.680 --> 0:31:43.360
<v Speaker 2>we're just joking.

0:31:45.400 --> 0:31:47.920
<v Speaker 4>I did not understand why dj Envy wife went out

0:31:47.960 --> 0:31:49.640
<v Speaker 4>of town for a whole month. I said, boy, she

0:31:49.680 --> 0:31:55.280
<v Speaker 4>would a whole other country with somebody I know, a whole.

0:31:56.480 --> 0:31:59.440
<v Speaker 1>Were not putting that out there on that this is a.

0:31:59.440 --> 0:32:02.600
<v Speaker 2>Holeless stick a retreat.

0:32:05.720 --> 0:32:08.000
<v Speaker 4>Hey, I know that, y'all friends. Though, I'm sorry, I'm

0:32:08.000 --> 0:32:08.920
<v Speaker 4>just y. I'm just doing it.

0:32:09.600 --> 0:32:13.040
<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, I don't know nothing. Listen whatever, people what

0:32:13.240 --> 0:32:13.680
<v Speaker 2>people do?

0:32:13.760 --> 0:32:14.040
<v Speaker 4>They do?

0:32:14.720 --> 0:32:17.560
<v Speaker 1>So you would you if you went out with a woman,

0:32:17.640 --> 0:32:20.479
<v Speaker 1>y'all had a good time, y'all went to like dinner,

0:32:20.720 --> 0:32:23.440
<v Speaker 1>then y'all went to a bar, music was flowing, y'all drinking,

0:32:23.720 --> 0:32:26.240
<v Speaker 1>and then it turns into sex. You could potentially make

0:32:26.240 --> 0:32:29.640
<v Speaker 1>her your girl or does it fizzle out?

0:32:31.320 --> 0:32:34.280
<v Speaker 4>Nah? That's that's if the connection is. There is nothing else,

0:32:34.400 --> 0:32:37.600
<v Speaker 4>no love loss. I feel like, honestly, if somebody in

0:32:37.640 --> 0:32:39.600
<v Speaker 4>my past, if somebody gave it to me too soon,

0:32:40.400 --> 0:32:42.440
<v Speaker 4>I'm such an arrogant ass nigga. I'll be like, nah,

0:32:42.440 --> 0:32:45.160
<v Speaker 4>it's she really ain't like that. She just wanted to

0:32:45.160 --> 0:32:48.440
<v Speaker 4>give it me like that. And I would make myself

0:32:48.480 --> 0:32:50.440
<v Speaker 4>believe that because I don't want to judge you like

0:32:50.480 --> 0:32:52.600
<v Speaker 4>you know what I'm saying. That's just what it is.

0:32:52.720 --> 0:32:54.600
<v Speaker 4>And in my mind too, you got about two weeks

0:32:54.600 --> 0:32:55.160
<v Speaker 4>to give it to me.

0:32:55.160 --> 0:32:56.640
<v Speaker 1>Before two weeks that's it.

0:32:57.360 --> 0:33:01.600
<v Speaker 4>God damn yeah, because then my ego is gonna be shot.

0:33:01.640 --> 0:33:03.480
<v Speaker 4>I'd be like, damn, how many niggas. She probably fucked

0:33:03.520 --> 0:33:05.320
<v Speaker 4>on the first day, first week, and she making me

0:33:05.360 --> 0:33:07.760
<v Speaker 4>wait longer than two So then I'm really like, damn,

0:33:07.760 --> 0:33:09.480
<v Speaker 4>you're giving them niggas more than what you're giving me.

0:33:09.960 --> 0:33:11.280
<v Speaker 1>That's not crazy at all.

0:33:16.440 --> 0:33:18.240
<v Speaker 4>Is that bad? Or is that just me?

0:33:18.320 --> 0:33:20.440
<v Speaker 1>But guess what if you meet a woman who's like

0:33:20.560 --> 0:33:22.800
<v Speaker 1>got a vow with God, like Lord, I'm waiting for

0:33:22.840 --> 0:33:25.520
<v Speaker 1>my husband and I really want to make something real happen,

0:33:25.840 --> 0:33:28.160
<v Speaker 1>and I'm trying to get to know everybody that and

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<v Speaker 1>be intentional, and then you only give it a little bit.

0:33:30.920 --> 0:33:32.960
<v Speaker 1>You got about forty eight more hours to give me

0:33:33.000 --> 0:33:34.240
<v Speaker 1>this pussy and then I'm out.

0:33:34.760 --> 0:33:38.120
<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna be honestly be intentional on this dick too.

0:33:38.480 --> 0:33:42.040
<v Speaker 4>I'm with all that God stuff too, like be real intentional,

0:33:42.400 --> 0:33:45.720
<v Speaker 4>Like yeah, like, don't make don't make me wait. You

0:33:45.760 --> 0:33:49.160
<v Speaker 4>ain't make the mother niggas wait how you know right?

0:33:49.600 --> 0:33:50.680
<v Speaker 1>You don't know what she did.

0:33:50.960 --> 0:33:53.719
<v Speaker 4>I'm just saying you're trying to take the pussy off

0:33:53.720 --> 0:33:55.640
<v Speaker 4>of the market and you thirty two, Like, girl, stop

0:33:56.520 --> 0:33:58.440
<v Speaker 4>the niggas that been in the past, ain't gonna have

0:33:58.480 --> 0:34:00.440
<v Speaker 4>nothing over my head. That's just me, you know, Like

0:34:00.480 --> 0:34:03.000
<v Speaker 4>I feel like anything a woman has given a man.

0:34:03.480 --> 0:34:06.600
<v Speaker 4>You gotta give me times teams like I'm sorry, that's

0:34:06.640 --> 0:34:09.520
<v Speaker 4>just how if I'm gonna take you serious? Like if

0:34:09.520 --> 0:34:11.200
<v Speaker 4>you fucked him on the first week, you got about

0:34:11.239 --> 0:34:13.400
<v Speaker 4>three days if you gave how would you even know?

0:34:14.080 --> 0:34:17.239
<v Speaker 1>How would you even know that? There's no like they're

0:34:17.239 --> 0:34:19.600
<v Speaker 1>not walking around with Let me check.

0:34:19.480 --> 0:34:22.000
<v Speaker 2>Out, let me get that dick fact.

0:34:22.120 --> 0:34:25.759
<v Speaker 4>Ask those questions. I asked those questions. I'm a very

0:34:25.840 --> 0:34:28.040
<v Speaker 4>open and open minded person. I'm gonna ask those questions.

0:34:28.040 --> 0:34:29.680
<v Speaker 4>How many men you've been with? Well, how long y'all?

0:34:29.680 --> 0:34:31.520
<v Speaker 4>How many times y'all did this? How long you make him? Wait,

0:34:32.239 --> 0:34:34.600
<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna ask those type of questions. It may be

0:34:34.680 --> 0:34:37.200
<v Speaker 4>a little manipulation plot to where I'm just trying to get.

0:34:37.320 --> 0:34:39.840
<v Speaker 2>I'm a lot to you ask for my own game, period,

0:34:40.040 --> 0:34:40.600
<v Speaker 2>I'm lying.

0:34:40.800 --> 0:34:42.680
<v Speaker 1>Everybody's lying.

0:34:42.880 --> 0:34:46.280
<v Speaker 3>Look y'all, you know I suggest lying on we talked back. Listen, ladies,

0:34:46.280 --> 0:34:48.160
<v Speaker 3>don't tell these niggas the truth about ship.

0:34:48.480 --> 0:34:48.840
<v Speaker 2>Bitch.

0:34:49.560 --> 0:34:51.959
<v Speaker 3>Baby daddy ain't in your life, ain't in your kid's

0:34:52.040 --> 0:34:53.720
<v Speaker 3>life that nigga is dead.

0:34:53.920 --> 0:34:54.320
<v Speaker 2>Bitch.

0:34:54.480 --> 0:34:58.759
<v Speaker 3>Do not tell that man. Do not tell this new

0:34:58.840 --> 0:35:01.960
<v Speaker 3>man that your baby dad just as nigga because you're

0:35:02.040 --> 0:35:04.640
<v Speaker 3>just out here letting bum ass niggas coming you.

0:35:04.840 --> 0:35:06.279
<v Speaker 2>So just tell him that niggas dead.

0:35:06.880 --> 0:35:07.840
<v Speaker 1>He in the air force.

0:35:07.920 --> 0:35:12.680
<v Speaker 4>He don't tell him he in jail. Don't say he

0:35:12.760 --> 0:35:16.359
<v Speaker 4>did propably at the house knocking on the door and

0:35:16.719 --> 0:35:18.760
<v Speaker 4>the new boyfriend get beat up by the baby daddy.

0:35:18.800 --> 0:35:20.880
<v Speaker 4>Don't He's not.

0:35:20.800 --> 0:35:22.160
<v Speaker 2>In that child's life at all.

0:35:24.160 --> 0:35:25.560
<v Speaker 1>It's a zombie at the door.

0:35:29.080 --> 0:35:30.439
<v Speaker 2>Niggas the walking dead.

0:35:33.400 --> 0:35:35.680
<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, he just popped up like out of

0:35:35.719 --> 0:35:40.759
<v Speaker 4>the grade. That is gonna make seen'll don't think that.

0:35:40.680 --> 0:35:41.760
<v Speaker 2>Ain't mean that's my twin.

0:35:42.200 --> 0:35:43.640
<v Speaker 1>Y'all remember that on Cheaters.

0:35:44.480 --> 0:35:45.720
<v Speaker 2>That ain't me, that's my twin.

0:35:51.440 --> 0:35:53.680
<v Speaker 4>That's not a good lie. Women, do not listen to that.

0:35:53.680 --> 0:35:59.320
<v Speaker 1>All know I'm with you on that. Just tell the truth.

0:35:59.640 --> 0:36:02.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm a firm believer, and tell the truth on that one,

0:36:02.840 --> 0:36:06.960
<v Speaker 1>because that lies on your years ago. That lie is

0:36:07.000 --> 0:36:09.120
<v Speaker 1>gonna come back to haunt you. Them kids ain't going nowhere.

0:36:09.160 --> 0:36:11.640
<v Speaker 1>That man gonna eventually decide he might want to be

0:36:11.640 --> 0:36:14.520
<v Speaker 1>a good dad one day. And now did hear go

0:36:14.560 --> 0:36:18.759
<v Speaker 1>this nigga like I thought he was dead dead.

0:36:19.440 --> 0:36:22.960
<v Speaker 4>I'm over here being stepdaddy. I'm over here buying sneakers

0:36:22.960 --> 0:36:23.640
<v Speaker 4>and PS five.

0:36:23.760 --> 0:36:26.600
<v Speaker 3>But a whidow was better than a baby mama, Like

0:36:26.760 --> 0:36:29.400
<v Speaker 3>a widow is better than a baby mama. That's all

0:36:29.440 --> 0:36:32.960
<v Speaker 3>I'm saying is perception is key.

0:36:32.960 --> 0:36:34.600
<v Speaker 2>Tell me you have a fucked on the first night?

0:36:35.600 --> 0:36:38.280
<v Speaker 1>You ever fucking the first night? Tammy? You're just gonna

0:36:38.280 --> 0:36:41.479
<v Speaker 1>ask me that in front of everybody.

0:36:42.239 --> 0:36:43.880
<v Speaker 4>And then you know, the nigga in the house that

0:36:43.960 --> 0:36:45.239
<v Speaker 4>she just got done argument.

0:36:45.000 --> 0:36:47.319
<v Speaker 1>With, ain't nobody here? That was door dash baby. There

0:36:47.400 --> 0:36:49.279
<v Speaker 1>was nikking too much noise. I was like, get out,

0:36:50.520 --> 0:36:55.399
<v Speaker 1>drop the ship off and go. Have I ever had

0:36:55.440 --> 0:36:58.000
<v Speaker 1>sex on the first night? Yeah? I did. Like I

0:36:58.040 --> 0:37:01.800
<v Speaker 1>said in my twenties, I definitely popped my pulsel for

0:37:01.920 --> 0:37:06.280
<v Speaker 1>a real nigga back then. But now but now I won't.

0:37:06.320 --> 0:37:08.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't care how much fun we have. Man, I'm

0:37:08.120 --> 0:37:11.439
<v Speaker 1>not giving you no cooochie right away. Besides, I don't

0:37:11.440 --> 0:37:13.799
<v Speaker 1>want your penis that quick either, because I might get

0:37:13.840 --> 0:37:17.680
<v Speaker 1>bored real quick, like, oh that was fun?

0:37:17.800 --> 0:37:17.840
<v Speaker 4>Go?

0:37:18.400 --> 0:37:18.600
<v Speaker 2>You know?

0:37:18.800 --> 0:37:21.040
<v Speaker 1>So I just want to wait. I just want to

0:37:21.040 --> 0:37:25.120
<v Speaker 1>fill everything out slow and steady. I don't want no

0:37:25.360 --> 0:37:27.320
<v Speaker 1>instant dick, right.

0:37:27.360 --> 0:37:29.880
<v Speaker 3>And it's important to make men wait, man, sometimes niggas

0:37:29.880 --> 0:37:32.000
<v Speaker 3>have talked themselves out the pussy. Make him wait long

0:37:32.120 --> 0:37:33.960
<v Speaker 3>enough and you realize why you ain't gave him the

0:37:33.960 --> 0:37:36.719
<v Speaker 3>pussy yet. This is for the young girls, okay, so

0:37:36.760 --> 0:37:39.680
<v Speaker 3>we you know, live vicariously through us. We popped that

0:37:39.719 --> 0:37:43.120
<v Speaker 3>pussy young and now you know why it's more important

0:37:43.160 --> 0:37:46.080
<v Speaker 3>toil weight. So this clown can show up because you're

0:37:46.120 --> 0:37:49.960
<v Speaker 3>meeting this nigga representative until he get that pussy for sure.

0:37:51.560 --> 0:37:55.839
<v Speaker 2>Turned into right.

0:37:56.520 --> 0:37:57.400
<v Speaker 4>Let me tell you a good.

0:37:59.080 --> 0:38:00.480
<v Speaker 1>A good way to get some is it for me?

0:38:00.560 --> 0:38:03.439
<v Speaker 1>Is tell some jokes. You would laugh me if y'all

0:38:03.480 --> 0:38:05.200
<v Speaker 1>laughed right out of my draws.

0:38:05.719 --> 0:38:14.359
<v Speaker 4>Laugh laughing draws, not right away. And these girls, I'm

0:38:14.360 --> 0:38:17.160
<v Speaker 4>from South Carolina for real, born and raised Columbia, South Carolina.

0:38:17.239 --> 0:38:19.960
<v Speaker 4>I know these type of women like I know how

0:38:19.960 --> 0:38:25.160
<v Speaker 4>to finss to South Carolina and girls at Bennedict what

0:38:25.920 --> 0:38:27.560
<v Speaker 4>pull up in the box, sad me with the with

0:38:27.640 --> 0:38:30.440
<v Speaker 4>the twenty six is on it and it's done, so

0:38:30.560 --> 0:38:34.080
<v Speaker 4>I already know what's going on. I used to run

0:38:34.200 --> 0:38:35.080
<v Speaker 4>streets back in the day.

0:38:35.640 --> 0:38:37.880
<v Speaker 3>I definitely had a nigga with a crown vicing twenty

0:38:37.920 --> 0:38:41.719
<v Speaker 3>six inches. Okay, come on, come on, and you know

0:38:41.800 --> 0:38:43.120
<v Speaker 3>what song was out at the time.

0:38:43.600 --> 0:38:47.399
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna call you my shot girl. You couldnt tell

0:38:47.440 --> 0:38:48.960
<v Speaker 2>me I wasn't shot.

0:38:51.239 --> 0:38:51.799
<v Speaker 4>Where he at?

0:38:51.840 --> 0:38:52.040
<v Speaker 1>Now?

0:38:52.920 --> 0:38:54.239
<v Speaker 4>Come on, man, where he at?

0:38:54.520 --> 0:38:57.719
<v Speaker 3>Stellar Columbia? Bitch do with the baby mama. That's what

0:38:57.840 --> 0:39:00.920
<v Speaker 3>the fuck I was talking to this morning out He

0:39:00.960 --> 0:39:01.600
<v Speaker 3>don't want no bit.

0:39:03.200 --> 0:39:12.640
<v Speaker 1>Out all right? So Varne Ray, do you have any

0:39:12.719 --> 0:39:17.600
<v Speaker 1>advice for the ladies with their box and dating.

0:39:17.960 --> 0:39:21.600
<v Speaker 4>Makes Yes, make sure it's clean, it smelled good. It's

0:39:21.640 --> 0:39:22.719
<v Speaker 4>always good to.

0:39:24.280 --> 0:39:28.120
<v Speaker 1>Use no sentence, nigga, we don't want that advice, miss me.

0:39:28.200 --> 0:39:33.000
<v Speaker 1>With that, I'm talking about advice or not.

0:39:33.080 --> 0:39:35.840
<v Speaker 3>Actually, men need to stop using sentence open their dicks

0:39:35.880 --> 0:39:38.040
<v Speaker 3>because they're the ones who are causing women to get

0:39:38.200 --> 0:39:39.760
<v Speaker 3>all types of couchy issues.

0:39:40.120 --> 0:39:42.480
<v Speaker 1>We don't need no high giene advice from yours.

0:39:43.880 --> 0:39:46.239
<v Speaker 4>But I'm talking about tell you what it is like.

0:39:47.480 --> 0:39:50.080
<v Speaker 4>You asked for my advice. You can't. You can't do

0:39:50.280 --> 0:39:51.080
<v Speaker 4>what I'm gonna tell you.

0:39:51.120 --> 0:39:52.719
<v Speaker 1>Just got to I'm not receiving that.

0:39:53.120 --> 0:40:02.400
<v Speaker 4>It's crazy when it hit the dog coaches that with

0:40:02.880 --> 0:40:04.400
<v Speaker 4>somebody talking about.

0:40:05.239 --> 0:40:09.200
<v Speaker 1>You know, we don't we know how to take care

0:40:09.239 --> 0:40:13.800
<v Speaker 1>of our bodies. What I'm saying is like women sharing

0:40:13.880 --> 0:40:14.719
<v Speaker 1>their body with me.

0:40:15.600 --> 0:40:19.200
<v Speaker 4>By right, share it, who share it, who you want

0:40:19.200 --> 0:40:20.840
<v Speaker 4>to share with you. You should have been more pacific

0:40:20.880 --> 0:40:22.360
<v Speaker 4>because I was gonna get to all of that and

0:40:22.400 --> 0:40:25.000
<v Speaker 4>I was around. But share who you want to share

0:40:25.000 --> 0:40:26.640
<v Speaker 4>it with. If you if you want to be outside,

0:40:26.719 --> 0:40:30.240
<v Speaker 4>be outside. If you want to be inside, be inside.

0:40:30.320 --> 0:40:32.319
<v Speaker 4>But when you inside, know it's lonely in there, get

0:40:32.320 --> 0:40:34.400
<v Speaker 4>real lonely and cold.

0:40:35.280 --> 0:40:37.080
<v Speaker 2>You got to be outside inside.

0:40:37.960 --> 0:40:40.680
<v Speaker 4>One foot, one foot in, one out. But I just

0:40:40.680 --> 0:40:43.360
<v Speaker 4>feel like there's no shuch thing as a whole. I

0:40:43.360 --> 0:40:47.040
<v Speaker 4>feel like you can't judge somebody. People gonna be the

0:40:47.040 --> 0:40:49.200
<v Speaker 4>way they are sooner or later she's gonna be somebody

0:40:49.280 --> 0:40:51.839
<v Speaker 4>husband and the hoes get wife or quicker. That's all

0:40:51.840 --> 0:40:53.880
<v Speaker 4>I got to say. Because they know how to be

0:40:53.920 --> 0:40:59.960
<v Speaker 4>a hope for their man, cooking that too. Yeah.

0:41:00.080 --> 0:41:02.680
<v Speaker 1>Oh, I don't know about this advice this time.

0:41:05.680 --> 0:41:06.200
<v Speaker 4>I just.

0:41:09.640 --> 0:41:13.719
<v Speaker 1>Man, do with it what you will. Ladies. You know

0:41:13.960 --> 0:41:15.839
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't give advice to be a whobe

0:41:15.880 --> 0:41:19.239
<v Speaker 1>of our racist, be a whole for your man, right.

0:41:19.360 --> 0:41:21.080
<v Speaker 4>I didn't say that. I didn't say that. I said

0:41:21.080 --> 0:41:22.440
<v Speaker 4>be a hobe of your man. I feel like we're

0:41:22.440 --> 0:41:24.800
<v Speaker 4>in a new age of people, men and women. We

0:41:24.880 --> 0:41:26.160
<v Speaker 4>have to be sexually liberated.

0:41:26.160 --> 0:41:26.319
<v Speaker 1>Man.

0:41:26.360 --> 0:41:28.439
<v Speaker 4>We got to understand what we like, what we wanted,

0:41:28.480 --> 0:41:30.680
<v Speaker 4>how we want it. And when you get to that point,

0:41:30.719 --> 0:41:32.719
<v Speaker 4>you will enjoy sex or life better. You enjoy your

0:41:32.719 --> 0:41:34.400
<v Speaker 4>life a lot better. You won't fill in a box

0:41:34.440 --> 0:41:35.600
<v Speaker 4>and you can do what you want to do and

0:41:35.640 --> 0:41:37.000
<v Speaker 4>that feel like you ain't being judged.

0:41:37.640 --> 0:41:40.399
<v Speaker 2>There's consequences though, to do what you want to do.

0:41:40.880 --> 0:41:45.640
<v Speaker 3>There's illegitimate that, there's STDs, there's all types of ship.

0:41:46.880 --> 0:41:49.600
<v Speaker 3>And if you want a man, what I want vonn

0:41:49.640 --> 0:41:51.160
<v Speaker 3>and say is if you want a man to take

0:41:51.200 --> 0:41:53.920
<v Speaker 3>you serious for real, you can't pop that Listen, as

0:41:53.960 --> 0:41:55.440
<v Speaker 3>much as you want to pop that pussy on the

0:41:55.480 --> 0:41:59.000
<v Speaker 3>first night, you gotta have some self control a little bit, Ladies,

0:41:59.000 --> 0:42:04.839
<v Speaker 3>at least second, because it's a shot in the dark.

0:42:05.080 --> 0:42:08.239
<v Speaker 3>It's a shot in the dark with men. Because a

0:42:08.360 --> 0:42:12.000
<v Speaker 3>minute a man comes, he comes to his senses. Testostron

0:42:12.120 --> 0:42:15.440
<v Speaker 3>is down. Now he might look at you and not

0:42:15.960 --> 0:42:18.160
<v Speaker 3>like you no more. You could have gave him the

0:42:18.160 --> 0:42:21.680
<v Speaker 3>best pussy ever, like you thought. Anyway, you know what

0:42:21.719 --> 0:42:24.600
<v Speaker 3>I'm saying, Maybe I'm gonna tell you like this, he

0:42:24.640 --> 0:42:27.000
<v Speaker 3>don't even match, and this man is totally different. The

0:42:27.040 --> 0:42:29.320
<v Speaker 3>next day with you, you risk that.

0:42:29.760 --> 0:42:34.759
<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna tell you like this money first, and it

0:42:34.840 --> 0:42:36.719
<v Speaker 4>don't be that. It don't be that. I'm gonna be

0:42:36.760 --> 0:42:38.799
<v Speaker 4>honest with you, whether you think your pussy good, whatever

0:42:38.840 --> 0:42:41.080
<v Speaker 4>it is. If he gonna rock what he's gonna rock

0:42:41.120 --> 0:42:42.839
<v Speaker 4>with you, whether you get it on the third month

0:42:42.920 --> 0:42:43.600
<v Speaker 4>or the first.

0:42:43.440 --> 0:42:47.759
<v Speaker 1>Night or day, you can't know that they want.

0:42:47.800 --> 0:42:49.479
<v Speaker 4>But it's always a risk.

0:42:49.520 --> 0:42:53.160
<v Speaker 3>But you're gonna begas trying to figure that out.

0:42:53.239 --> 0:42:54.000
<v Speaker 2>That's what I'm saying.

0:42:54.040 --> 0:42:57.239
<v Speaker 4>So but you don't have to do that. But what

0:42:57.280 --> 0:42:59.440
<v Speaker 4>I'm saying is if you make me wait ninety days,

0:43:00.040 --> 0:43:02.279
<v Speaker 4>y'all may go to the ninety days. But at that point,

0:43:02.280 --> 0:43:04.680
<v Speaker 4>I'm so aggravated with you. I'm a fucking still believe

0:43:04.719 --> 0:43:05.719
<v Speaker 4>your ass for making me wait.

0:43:05.920 --> 0:43:06.799
<v Speaker 2>We were talking about that.

0:43:08.440 --> 0:43:12.760
<v Speaker 1>I know there's some resentment like women, we are damned

0:43:12.760 --> 0:43:14.400
<v Speaker 1>if we do, are damned if we don't.

0:43:16.160 --> 0:43:18.200
<v Speaker 4>It's at that point it's a whole hate fuck like

0:43:18.320 --> 0:43:20.319
<v Speaker 4>you ever took a girl A man never took you back,

0:43:20.320 --> 0:43:21.920
<v Speaker 4>and he really was just hate fucking you because he

0:43:21.960 --> 0:43:23.400
<v Speaker 4>really doesn't fuck with you like that no more. But

0:43:23.440 --> 0:43:25.120
<v Speaker 4>he took you back just to hit and then dish

0:43:25.200 --> 0:43:28.120
<v Speaker 4>you out again, like, don't make a nigga wait wait

0:43:28.200 --> 0:43:29.920
<v Speaker 4>that long. Like if he gonna fuck with you on

0:43:29.960 --> 0:43:32.040
<v Speaker 4>the first night of ninety days, that means he just

0:43:32.040 --> 0:43:34.279
<v Speaker 4>fucked you. You a nice girltend on you.

0:43:35.960 --> 0:43:41.360
<v Speaker 1>The section fuck is crazy wild. I've never heard that

0:43:41.520 --> 0:43:43.319
<v Speaker 1>term before, and it just really.

0:43:44.200 --> 0:43:46.279
<v Speaker 4>You never So you're telling me you never broke up

0:43:46.280 --> 0:43:48.400
<v Speaker 4>with a dude that didn't do wrong, or y'all was

0:43:48.440 --> 0:43:49.960
<v Speaker 4>mad at each other, y'all broke up for a long

0:43:50.000 --> 0:43:52.080
<v Speaker 4>period of time. He saw you outside on Instagram or

0:43:52.120 --> 0:43:55.000
<v Speaker 4>Facebook popping your ship with another nigga. Then that didn't

0:43:55.040 --> 0:43:57.399
<v Speaker 4>work out, and then you try to double back because

0:43:57.440 --> 0:43:59.160
<v Speaker 4>you see the grass ain't green on the other side,

0:43:59.200 --> 0:44:00.920
<v Speaker 4>and then he just smash. I really still don't want

0:44:00.920 --> 0:44:02.120
<v Speaker 4>to fuck with you.

0:44:01.360 --> 0:44:04.080
<v Speaker 1>No, I ain't never had no ship like that happened.

0:44:04.400 --> 0:44:07.880
<v Speaker 1>That is crazy. He'd be hated playing with me.

0:44:10.280 --> 0:44:12.239
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he gonna do just enough to smash and he's

0:44:12.239 --> 0:44:13.480
<v Speaker 4>gonna put you right back outside.

0:44:13.800 --> 0:44:14.080
<v Speaker 2>Ladies.

0:44:14.160 --> 0:44:16.440
<v Speaker 1>That's why I said, keep your vaginity yourself as long

0:44:16.440 --> 0:44:18.040
<v Speaker 1>as you can. They don't know how to treat you.

0:44:18.600 --> 0:44:21.640
<v Speaker 1>I hate fuck is wow. That there's even a term

0:44:21.719 --> 0:44:22.960
<v Speaker 1>for that.

0:44:22.960 --> 0:44:25.200
<v Speaker 3>That's that nigga term. I don't think niggas calling it

0:44:25.239 --> 0:44:28.000
<v Speaker 3>a hate fuck. They just smashing dash for sure, though.

0:44:28.040 --> 0:44:31.040
<v Speaker 3>But I hate fuckers. Do you really hate the bitch

0:44:31.080 --> 0:44:31.520
<v Speaker 3>that bad?

0:44:31.880 --> 0:44:33.480
<v Speaker 2>You want to make her feel like it?

0:44:33.520 --> 0:44:36.000
<v Speaker 4>Ain't You don't really hate her. It's just like some

0:44:36.080 --> 0:44:39.080
<v Speaker 4>women think they can. Like when women go and see it,

0:44:39.160 --> 0:44:41.000
<v Speaker 4>they think the grass green. On the other side, they

0:44:41.000 --> 0:44:43.279
<v Speaker 4>think they can come back in and think they're gonna

0:44:43.280 --> 0:44:45.759
<v Speaker 4>have the same position as when they left. That's what

0:44:45.800 --> 0:44:48.520
<v Speaker 4>that really mean, Like, Oh, you went outside so that

0:44:48.600 --> 0:44:51.040
<v Speaker 4>these niggas really ain't ship and I'm really the nigga

0:44:51.080 --> 0:44:53.200
<v Speaker 4>for you, and you think you're gonna come back in

0:44:53.239 --> 0:44:55.759
<v Speaker 4>the same position. Hell no, You're gonna sing you right

0:44:55.800 --> 0:44:57.480
<v Speaker 4>back outside after we get done, and then you be

0:44:57.560 --> 0:44:59.839
<v Speaker 4>on about your way. That's how niggas is for real.

0:45:01.040 --> 0:45:02.759
<v Speaker 1>That's why I got a gun. I ain't playing with

0:45:02.800 --> 0:45:04.200
<v Speaker 1>y'all no more. Don't do play with.

0:45:04.080 --> 0:45:10.839
<v Speaker 4>Me like that. But nah man that that first day,

0:45:10.960 --> 0:45:13.919
<v Speaker 4>second day, first week, third man, that shit don't matter.

0:45:14.080 --> 0:45:15.960
<v Speaker 4>He liked you, He gonna like you whether you give

0:45:15.960 --> 0:45:19.000
<v Speaker 4>it to him whenever, it don't matter. And if it's

0:45:19.040 --> 0:45:21.359
<v Speaker 4>good like you think it's good. He gonna recognize that,

0:45:21.440 --> 0:45:23.200
<v Speaker 4>and he gonna see all the other attributes you bring

0:45:23.239 --> 0:45:26.359
<v Speaker 4>to the table as well. That's why I say, in

0:45:26.360 --> 0:45:28.719
<v Speaker 4>this new age, people have to be sex you liberated.

0:45:28.760 --> 0:45:31.960
<v Speaker 4>They have to embrace who they are, embrace what it is.

0:45:32.239 --> 0:45:34.359
<v Speaker 4>You're gonna make some mistakes along the line. You're gonna

0:45:34.400 --> 0:45:36.320
<v Speaker 4>make a lot of mistakes with niggas that you shouldn't

0:45:36.320 --> 0:45:38.640
<v Speaker 4>have probably gave it to. But you made all those

0:45:38.760 --> 0:45:40.759
<v Speaker 4>mistakes to understand what not to do and what to

0:45:40.920 --> 0:45:43.279
<v Speaker 4>do in the next go round and when you really

0:45:43.280 --> 0:45:44.120
<v Speaker 4>find a guy you like.

0:45:44.640 --> 0:45:47.959
<v Speaker 3>From my experience, what keeps a man around the same

0:45:48.000 --> 0:45:52.960
<v Speaker 3>way women cherish their vagina and you know, their bodies

0:45:53.320 --> 0:45:56.319
<v Speaker 3>women chair, I mean, men cherish their wallets in the

0:45:56.400 --> 0:45:59.400
<v Speaker 3>same way. So in order to keep a man around,

0:46:00.400 --> 0:46:02.560
<v Speaker 3>he has to have had a made it. He has

0:46:02.600 --> 0:46:06.640
<v Speaker 3>to have had made some type of investment in you, amen,

0:46:06.840 --> 0:46:11.960
<v Speaker 3>Like that's honestly what it is, right. So that's why like, no,

0:46:12.040 --> 0:46:15.080
<v Speaker 3>I'm not going to olive garden, you know what I'm saying,

0:46:15.160 --> 0:46:18.440
<v Speaker 3>Like they have like the man has to feel like

0:46:18.560 --> 0:46:20.880
<v Speaker 3>he has to get a return on that investment at

0:46:20.880 --> 0:46:22.839
<v Speaker 3>some point. So he's not going to be as quick

0:46:22.880 --> 0:46:26.200
<v Speaker 3>to leave you ask for money on the first date.

0:46:26.280 --> 0:46:33.479
<v Speaker 3>Ladies don't do that either, So let's let's go ahead

0:46:33.520 --> 0:46:35.240
<v Speaker 3>and make the shit awkward on both ends.

0:46:35.480 --> 0:46:37.520
<v Speaker 2>If a man comes at you like that, ask for.

0:46:37.480 --> 0:46:39.759
<v Speaker 1>Money, but then, but then that's prostitution.

0:46:40.560 --> 0:46:43.839
<v Speaker 2>It's not prostitution. How is that prostitution?

0:46:44.960 --> 0:46:47.640
<v Speaker 1>If you asking for money in exchange for your body

0:46:47.760 --> 0:46:48.480
<v Speaker 1>is prostitution?

0:46:48.640 --> 0:46:50.279
<v Speaker 3>Okay, how about you just pull up the phone and

0:46:50.320 --> 0:46:53.440
<v Speaker 3>go go to those red Bottoms you've been wanting some

0:46:53.560 --> 0:46:55.880
<v Speaker 3>boot even wanting, and show him and see what happens.

0:46:55.880 --> 0:46:57.360
<v Speaker 3>Maybe he'll give you his debit card and let you

0:46:57.400 --> 0:47:00.760
<v Speaker 3>go ahead and order. Okay, maybe he if you don't

0:47:00.600 --> 0:47:01.600
<v Speaker 3>like cash.

0:47:01.640 --> 0:47:07.200
<v Speaker 4>Palm aj That mindset is why they got that why

0:47:07.280 --> 0:47:09.319
<v Speaker 4>women got this list out, and they say they won't

0:47:09.320 --> 0:47:11.440
<v Speaker 4>go to Ruby Tuesdays, they won't go to Olive Garden,

0:47:11.480 --> 0:47:13.480
<v Speaker 4>And then wonder why a nigga want a fuck after

0:47:13.520 --> 0:47:16.399
<v Speaker 4>he take you to the steakhouse and spend three four

0:47:16.440 --> 0:47:17.799
<v Speaker 4>hundred dollars and he won't pussy there.

0:47:17.800 --> 0:47:18.680
<v Speaker 2>No, I'm gonna tell you why.

0:47:18.719 --> 0:47:22.360
<v Speaker 3>Because men want whole prostitute type behavior out of regular

0:47:22.440 --> 0:47:26.319
<v Speaker 3>women instead of going to spend three hundred dollars on

0:47:26.320 --> 0:47:29.160
<v Speaker 3>the bitch who literally sells pussy, y'all, rather try to

0:47:29.200 --> 0:47:32.759
<v Speaker 3>finesse regular women out of pussy and then treat them

0:47:32.840 --> 0:47:34.640
<v Speaker 3>some type of way. If they do happen to like

0:47:34.680 --> 0:47:37.360
<v Speaker 3>you enough to give you the pussy, that's the problem.

0:47:37.400 --> 0:47:40.120
<v Speaker 3>Go ahead and pay upfront with the pussy, as opposed

0:47:40.160 --> 0:47:42.239
<v Speaker 3>to trying to finesse regular women and have them doing

0:47:42.280 --> 0:47:43.000
<v Speaker 3>prostitute shit.

0:47:45.200 --> 0:47:47.160
<v Speaker 4>What I'm gonna be honest, paying three hundred dollars for

0:47:47.360 --> 0:47:50.439
<v Speaker 4>dinner is not finessing pussy. That's that's if I'm paying

0:47:50.440 --> 0:47:52.600
<v Speaker 4>three hundred dollars for dinner, I'm not finissing you for

0:47:52.640 --> 0:47:54.319
<v Speaker 4>no pussy. You should want to get you.

0:47:54.920 --> 0:47:58.759
<v Speaker 3>Like we need food with our homegirls, Like, that's not

0:47:59.080 --> 0:47:59.680
<v Speaker 3>a flex.

0:48:00.160 --> 0:48:01.400
<v Speaker 2>It's not.

0:48:02.600 --> 0:48:05.400
<v Speaker 1>If you pay for a dinner that's three hundred dollars,

0:48:05.520 --> 0:48:07.840
<v Speaker 1>I should want to have sex with you? Is crazy?

0:48:08.719 --> 0:48:11.360
<v Speaker 4>You know I'm saying if you if you're just meeting

0:48:11.400 --> 0:48:14.200
<v Speaker 4>a guy, you should not expect him to take you

0:48:14.239 --> 0:48:17.360
<v Speaker 4>to the most extravagant restaurant. If y'all just trying to

0:48:17.360 --> 0:48:19.520
<v Speaker 4>get to know each other, because then it's like, what

0:48:19.560 --> 0:48:22.480
<v Speaker 4>are we really here for? Are we here to.

0:48:22.760 --> 0:48:25.840
<v Speaker 3>That nigga who asked me to fuck took me to

0:48:26.040 --> 0:48:30.360
<v Speaker 3>cheesecake factory. I am a woman who likes the cheesecake factory.

0:48:30.400 --> 0:48:33.000
<v Speaker 3>I even suggested it. But the nerve of you to

0:48:33.040 --> 0:48:35.359
<v Speaker 3>think I go to cheesecake factory multiple times a week

0:48:35.400 --> 0:48:37.160
<v Speaker 3>is set at the bar during happy hours. I love

0:48:37.239 --> 0:48:40.480
<v Speaker 3>them my tie okay, and the crab one times. But

0:48:40.560 --> 0:48:42.880
<v Speaker 3>you asking me about some pussy after you take me

0:48:42.920 --> 0:48:44.960
<v Speaker 3>to the cheesecake factory is fucking wild to me.

0:48:46.880 --> 0:48:48.480
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he out of pocket for that, but he ain't

0:48:48.480 --> 0:48:50.759
<v Speaker 4>spending three hundred at the cheesecake factory. We talking about

0:48:50.760 --> 0:48:51.239
<v Speaker 4>the places that.

0:48:51.280 --> 0:48:53.279
<v Speaker 3>Don't matter what these niggas spend the money at. These

0:48:53.560 --> 0:48:55.560
<v Speaker 3>trying to fuck, they're still trying to fuck. No matter

0:48:55.600 --> 0:48:59.560
<v Speaker 3>what he's spending money at, they still think you for

0:48:59.640 --> 0:49:00.400
<v Speaker 3>dinner and pussy.

0:49:01.400 --> 0:49:03.640
<v Speaker 1>You can't put a monetary value on my body. I

0:49:03.719 --> 0:49:05.480
<v Speaker 1>feel like when I talk to me and I tell

0:49:05.520 --> 0:49:08.480
<v Speaker 1>him make me feel special, make me feel special. It

0:49:08.520 --> 0:49:10.920
<v Speaker 1>does not have a dollar amount on it, because that

0:49:11.239 --> 0:49:13.400
<v Speaker 1>when you think of it that way, but it becomes

0:49:13.440 --> 0:49:16.520
<v Speaker 1>too transactional. I don't like it like that, Like, just

0:49:16.560 --> 0:49:18.759
<v Speaker 1>make me feel special, and if you go out your

0:49:18.800 --> 0:49:21.120
<v Speaker 1>way to make me feel special. Then eventually you will

0:49:21.160 --> 0:49:24.719
<v Speaker 1>get some eventually, And that's that's the bottom line. Once

0:49:24.760 --> 0:49:27.000
<v Speaker 1>you start talking about, oh I spent this much or

0:49:27.160 --> 0:49:30.080
<v Speaker 1>I spent this little, it's just too prostituting.

0:49:30.680 --> 0:49:38.239
<v Speaker 4>Prostituting women. I don't think so women made it that

0:49:38.280 --> 0:49:41.400
<v Speaker 4>way to where men we're always thinking about money, because'

0:49:41.600 --> 0:49:43.960
<v Speaker 4>all y'all care about is what a nigga spend where

0:49:43.960 --> 0:49:46.719
<v Speaker 4>he taking you? Before people used to have dates walking

0:49:46.760 --> 0:49:48.439
<v Speaker 4>through the park and just to get to know each other.

0:49:49.080 --> 0:49:51.040
<v Speaker 4>Now we got to do the most to even get

0:49:51.040 --> 0:49:53.120
<v Speaker 4>you too, like less for us to be a potential.

0:49:53.280 --> 0:49:55.319
<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's not true, that's not true.

0:49:55.680 --> 0:49:57.960
<v Speaker 3>This is why men should go on dates with women

0:49:58.120 --> 0:50:01.520
<v Speaker 3>who actually are showing and in them. The problem is

0:50:01.640 --> 0:50:03.360
<v Speaker 3>a lot of men who have a couple of dollars,

0:50:03.360 --> 0:50:05.239
<v Speaker 3>they might go on five different dates because they're gonna

0:50:05.239 --> 0:50:07.239
<v Speaker 3>eat anyway, So you got five different.

0:50:06.960 --> 0:50:09.000
<v Speaker 2>Women, you take it out. It gets expensive to date.

0:50:09.239 --> 0:50:11.759
<v Speaker 3>Why don't you date people who actually like you and

0:50:11.800 --> 0:50:15.799
<v Speaker 3>stop dating for the end goal to be pussy? Date

0:50:15.840 --> 0:50:17.719
<v Speaker 3>women who actually just already want to give you the

0:50:17.719 --> 0:50:20.160
<v Speaker 3>pussy because they like who you are, you adding you

0:50:20.239 --> 0:50:23.399
<v Speaker 3>adding money for instant swag because you don't have any.

0:50:23.640 --> 0:50:27.080
<v Speaker 3>You can't get the pussy without the bag. So now

0:50:27.280 --> 0:50:29.000
<v Speaker 3>that's a whole other topic of discussion.

0:50:29.640 --> 0:50:32.440
<v Speaker 1>And then another thing is that then don't want to

0:50:32.480 --> 0:50:34.560
<v Speaker 1>be creative no more. They just want to take you

0:50:34.600 --> 0:50:37.799
<v Speaker 1>to a restaurant. You use your brain taking a girl

0:50:37.840 --> 0:50:40.760
<v Speaker 1>on a picnic and actually planning a picnic and making

0:50:40.760 --> 0:50:42.960
<v Speaker 1>it nice and cue. A woman would love that. I

0:50:43.000 --> 0:50:47.080
<v Speaker 1>would love that, would you not? Aj Yes, absolutely absolutely.

0:50:47.800 --> 0:50:51.000
<v Speaker 1>Men don't try. There's no effort. We just gonna go

0:50:51.040 --> 0:50:53.640
<v Speaker 1>to this restaurant, Mitch, I spend three hundred dollars on

0:50:53.680 --> 0:50:57.080
<v Speaker 1>their state. Give me the like, now, oh you pussy

0:50:57.160 --> 0:51:00.000
<v Speaker 1>is crazy. Here go the money back, sir, right, because

0:51:00.320 --> 0:51:02.040
<v Speaker 1>I come here here by myself.

0:51:03.160 --> 0:51:08.200
<v Speaker 4>So yeah, I think y'all just got to take that

0:51:08.360 --> 0:51:10.560
<v Speaker 4>take a lot. A lot of men don't have it

0:51:10.600 --> 0:51:13.000
<v Speaker 4>to where they can take you to these expensive, extravagant

0:51:13.040 --> 0:51:15.480
<v Speaker 4>restaurants like that. You got to be understanding, like women

0:51:15.520 --> 0:51:18.239
<v Speaker 4>are winning more in the money aspect of life right now.

0:51:18.400 --> 0:51:20.640
<v Speaker 4>A lot of black women and women period, y'all are

0:51:20.680 --> 0:51:23.919
<v Speaker 4>winning and having money and having successful businesses and being

0:51:23.920 --> 0:51:27.359
<v Speaker 4>more successful than black men and men period. So it's

0:51:27.440 --> 0:51:30.799
<v Speaker 4>like the average guy that you are. Regular women may

0:51:30.920 --> 0:51:34.759
<v Speaker 4>running too because they are going to meet a woman

0:51:34.800 --> 0:51:37.520
<v Speaker 4>that probably got more than them. The girls that we

0:51:37.560 --> 0:51:40.080
<v Speaker 4>see on Instagram and all that they probably already chasing

0:51:40.120 --> 0:51:43.120
<v Speaker 4>at the ball players and all these other guys that

0:51:43.520 --> 0:51:45.600
<v Speaker 4>they not even making a time for. A regular guy.

0:51:45.840 --> 0:51:49.400
<v Speaker 3>Know your hollow level, your hollow level, because there's a

0:51:49.560 --> 0:51:52.440
<v Speaker 3>there's regular women out here who's okay with the places

0:51:52.440 --> 0:51:55.919
<v Speaker 3>you like to frequent and the places you can afford. Right,

0:51:56.280 --> 0:51:59.959
<v Speaker 3>But men are way more shallow than women. Men want

0:52:00.080 --> 0:52:03.120
<v Speaker 3>attend when they're two. Y'all want to talk about numbers

0:52:03.120 --> 0:52:07.239
<v Speaker 3>and rating women. Men literally are way more shallow. You

0:52:07.239 --> 0:52:10.720
<v Speaker 3>do not see fine ass dudes with basic bitches. Okay,

0:52:11.120 --> 0:52:14.440
<v Speaker 3>You always catch the basic nigga with a fine ass woman,

0:52:14.600 --> 0:52:15.840
<v Speaker 3>right because he got him the money.

0:52:15.920 --> 0:52:17.760
<v Speaker 2>So it's just in the exchange.

0:52:18.360 --> 0:52:18.560
<v Speaker 4>Right.

0:52:19.440 --> 0:52:23.240
<v Speaker 3>If you cannot stop going after women you can't afford

0:52:23.239 --> 0:52:25.239
<v Speaker 3>and then trying to make them come down to where

0:52:25.280 --> 0:52:27.680
<v Speaker 3>you are, that's fucked up. You wouldn't want that for

0:52:27.719 --> 0:52:31.960
<v Speaker 3>your daughter. Your daughter can't bring that nigga to your house.

0:52:32.280 --> 0:52:36.080
<v Speaker 3>Let's be very clear that you got to give her money.

0:52:36.840 --> 0:52:40.200
<v Speaker 4>I'm trying to impress her. He always trying to impress

0:52:40.200 --> 0:52:41.520
<v Speaker 4>his check way out.

0:52:41.400 --> 0:52:43.000
<v Speaker 1>He leaves, yes, leave her alone.

0:52:43.280 --> 0:52:45.040
<v Speaker 3>I can get with that and stop trying to make

0:52:45.080 --> 0:52:46.920
<v Speaker 3>the women feel like we're doing too much.

0:52:47.960 --> 0:52:50.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't agree with that all the way, because a

0:52:50.800 --> 0:52:53.560
<v Speaker 1>man can have potential and growing to something amazing, right,

0:52:53.920 --> 0:52:56.279
<v Speaker 1>he can meet her at one place, as long as

0:52:56.280 --> 0:52:58.080
<v Speaker 1>he got a plan and he got something that he

0:52:58.120 --> 0:52:59.759
<v Speaker 1>can build. I don't see nothing wrong with.

0:53:02.760 --> 0:53:05.080
<v Speaker 2>Every man I've ever been with had a fucking plan.

0:53:05.320 --> 0:53:07.640
<v Speaker 3>I am talking about the high maintenance women that these

0:53:07.680 --> 0:53:10.520
<v Speaker 3>men are on the internet complaining about why are you

0:53:10.520 --> 0:53:12.640
<v Speaker 3>complaining about them? When there's a lot of regularized women

0:53:13.239 --> 0:53:15.120
<v Speaker 3>right who are more on a level that you can

0:53:15.200 --> 0:53:17.480
<v Speaker 3>be going, you can go and build with. But y'all

0:53:17.480 --> 0:53:19.879
<v Speaker 3>a complaining about the women. You want them to bring

0:53:19.880 --> 0:53:22.240
<v Speaker 3>the standards down so you can have more access to pussy.

0:53:23.320 --> 0:53:24.759
<v Speaker 3>That is not how that works.

0:53:25.280 --> 0:53:28.560
<v Speaker 4>Okay, that's fair, But I also feel like I feel

0:53:28.560 --> 0:53:32.440
<v Speaker 4>like the men that's speaking is really the men that

0:53:32.600 --> 0:53:35.160
<v Speaker 4>was cornballs growing up, and now they got money and

0:53:35.200 --> 0:53:40.880
<v Speaker 4>now they got a voice. So it's like, yeah, they

0:53:40.920 --> 0:53:43.319
<v Speaker 4>got a voice and like you said, a mic, but

0:53:43.480 --> 0:53:46.719
<v Speaker 4>growing up they was corny. They work so hard to

0:53:46.760 --> 0:53:49.680
<v Speaker 4>be somebody. So now that they got it, they thinking

0:53:50.360 --> 0:53:53.319
<v Speaker 4>data is when it's really not that, like for real,

0:53:53.400 --> 0:53:56.759
<v Speaker 4>for real, like and I get what you're saying. They're

0:53:56.800 --> 0:53:59.600
<v Speaker 4>chasing something that they really are still out they lead

0:53:59.680 --> 0:54:02.440
<v Speaker 4>because when when a girl pull up with you at

0:54:02.440 --> 0:54:04.759
<v Speaker 4>the dinner with the homegirls and they looking for you

0:54:04.800 --> 0:54:06.480
<v Speaker 4>to pay, and all of them girls looking like, man,

0:54:06.520 --> 0:54:10.080
<v Speaker 4>this nigga, but he got the bag. I get I

0:54:10.120 --> 0:54:13.359
<v Speaker 4>get it because I see it all the time. I've

0:54:13.440 --> 0:54:17.440
<v Speaker 4>never been no tricking dude. I never paid for no homegirls.

0:54:17.640 --> 0:54:20.839
<v Speaker 4>I've never done that. I'm not that like. I done

0:54:20.880 --> 0:54:23.080
<v Speaker 4>been places where if y'all thinking I paid, I had

0:54:23.120 --> 0:54:24.880
<v Speaker 4>already paid for me and who the chick out with.

0:54:25.480 --> 0:54:28.000
<v Speaker 4>And by the time the tap, y'all tab come, y'all

0:54:28.000 --> 0:54:29.880
<v Speaker 4>looking at me like, no, he got it. No, we

0:54:30.000 --> 0:54:37.279
<v Speaker 4>already paid. A matter of fact, I'll pay and be like, hey,

0:54:37.320 --> 0:54:40.160
<v Speaker 4>let's go back. You're right, let's get it. So about

0:54:40.200 --> 0:54:43.080
<v Speaker 4>they figure out what they got going on. I'm not

0:54:43.080 --> 0:54:44.840
<v Speaker 4>no trigger dude, I'm not doing Please.

0:54:44.600 --> 0:54:47.160
<v Speaker 3>Believe she do pre warn her homegirls. Look that nigga

0:54:47.160 --> 0:54:52.239
<v Speaker 3>ain't with that ship. He Yeah, money, we know who's

0:54:52.239 --> 0:54:54.839
<v Speaker 3>gonna pay for what? We know niggas coming to pay

0:54:54.840 --> 0:54:56.440
<v Speaker 3>for all the ship right.

0:54:58.440 --> 0:54:59.440
<v Speaker 1>That girl, bring money.

0:54:59.760 --> 0:55:02.439
<v Speaker 4>I tell you, I'm the nigga that if I ever play,

0:55:02.520 --> 0:55:05.360
<v Speaker 4>I'm looking for everybody went something from everybody living.

0:55:05.160 --> 0:55:06.319
<v Speaker 1>Here with something like this.

0:55:06.960 --> 0:55:07.800
<v Speaker 2>I'm living here.

0:55:07.680 --> 0:55:13.280
<v Speaker 4>With God, give me your kids, give me anything.

0:55:13.640 --> 0:55:15.560
<v Speaker 1>And everybody as on the way.

0:55:15.400 --> 0:55:25.960
<v Speaker 5>Out of the door, who who name?

0:55:26.360 --> 0:55:29.279
<v Speaker 2>That's how he had to at the door of the restaurant.

0:55:31.360 --> 0:55:35.359
<v Speaker 4>Real bigg buy YouTube drinks? What you going? You're right

0:55:35.440 --> 0:55:40.680
<v Speaker 4>with us. I'm not that nigga. I'm sorry, and that

0:55:40.760 --> 0:55:43.400
<v Speaker 4>just comes from my core. Like I never grew up

0:55:43.520 --> 0:55:46.360
<v Speaker 4>having problems getting women. I never was the guy that

0:55:46.520 --> 0:55:49.040
<v Speaker 4>wasn't cool. So it's like I see the difference when

0:55:49.040 --> 0:55:51.640
<v Speaker 4>I say this on my podcast. A lot like me

0:55:51.719 --> 0:55:54.560
<v Speaker 4>and some niggas are not the same. Like even though

0:55:54.600 --> 0:55:57.600
<v Speaker 4>this industry drives with a lot of people that probably

0:55:57.640 --> 0:56:00.319
<v Speaker 4>wasn't that grew up a different way and probably don't

0:56:00.360 --> 0:56:02.640
<v Speaker 4>probably had a hard time getting girls, didn't have many friends,

0:56:02.680 --> 0:56:05.719
<v Speaker 4>and now somebody, it'd be like, bruh, the way you

0:56:05.760 --> 0:56:08.520
<v Speaker 4>think and I think is different. Like it's totally different.

0:56:09.080 --> 0:56:11.400
<v Speaker 4>A lot of these niggas be pussy hungry at this

0:56:11.440 --> 0:56:13.520
<v Speaker 4>point in their life. Because they're just not coming into song.

0:56:13.800 --> 0:56:15.040
<v Speaker 2>They just now getting.

0:56:17.080 --> 0:56:20.839
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I don't need all that said.

0:56:20.920 --> 0:56:23.759
<v Speaker 1>Man, I've been getting pussy baby, don't play with me.

0:56:24.440 --> 0:56:28.080
<v Speaker 3>We're gonna find out, y'all. We're gonna find out right

0:56:28.120 --> 0:56:31.040
<v Speaker 3>after this break. We're gonna get a SIMP story out

0:56:31.080 --> 0:56:33.439
<v Speaker 3>of Vaughn Ray when we come back.

0:56:33.600 --> 0:56:37.080
<v Speaker 1>Stay tuned the big big bandit, y'all. SIP story coming

0:56:37.160 --> 0:56:37.600
<v Speaker 1>right up.

0:56:40.239 --> 0:56:49.200
<v Speaker 3>To say, sir, all right, man, listen, So you know

0:56:49.719 --> 0:56:53.880
<v Speaker 3>you probably listened to the show. Okay, hopefully we have

0:56:53.960 --> 0:56:58.040
<v Speaker 3>a segment on the show called dumb bitch Stories or

0:56:58.160 --> 0:57:02.600
<v Speaker 3>simp serious for the guys, I know you just pimped. Okay,

0:57:03.239 --> 0:57:06.319
<v Speaker 3>tell us about the time you got played though never

0:57:06.360 --> 0:57:09.279
<v Speaker 3>got played by no you know what I mean.

0:57:09.719 --> 0:57:13.279
<v Speaker 4>No, for sure, I didn't got played by plenty of women.

0:57:15.239 --> 0:57:18.760
<v Speaker 4>Y'all might know who I'm talking about when I say this. Right, So,

0:57:18.840 --> 0:57:22.680
<v Speaker 4>I was dating this chick, right, and this is the

0:57:22.680 --> 0:57:26.160
<v Speaker 4>first time I never really thought women had the capability

0:57:26.240 --> 0:57:28.520
<v Speaker 4>of like starting the argument just so y'all can break

0:57:28.600 --> 0:57:33.400
<v Speaker 4>up and then you catch her out she on front

0:57:33.480 --> 0:57:38.720
<v Speaker 4>row seats with a rapper and I'm like, we on

0:57:38.800 --> 0:57:42.280
<v Speaker 4>Instagram vibing all of that at this time, like everybody

0:57:42.320 --> 0:57:46.280
<v Speaker 4>know this my girl, people DM and me such and

0:57:46.400 --> 0:57:48.600
<v Speaker 4>such at the game with such and such, and I'm like,

0:57:49.360 --> 0:57:52.919
<v Speaker 4>and I'm blowing her phone up. Ain't answering going straight

0:57:52.960 --> 0:57:56.080
<v Speaker 4>the voicemail. I'm like, god, damn, she started. She did

0:57:56.120 --> 0:57:57.320
<v Speaker 4>all of that so I could say, you know what

0:57:57.880 --> 0:58:01.080
<v Speaker 4>with you no more bucket. But me being in my ego,

0:58:01.160 --> 0:58:03.360
<v Speaker 4>I'm thinking, like, you know, she gonna call me tomorrow.

0:58:03.400 --> 0:58:05.840
<v Speaker 4>We're gonna be good. Man. This girl did all that

0:58:05.960 --> 0:58:09.640
<v Speaker 4>just to go to a game with a rapper. My mind,

0:58:09.760 --> 0:58:13.080
<v Speaker 4>I said, yeah, women. She called the next day after

0:58:13.120 --> 0:58:15.760
<v Speaker 4>she got smashed and tried to come back. Did you

0:58:15.960 --> 0:58:18.120
<v Speaker 4>because he smashed and there he was like, yeah, I'm

0:58:18.120 --> 0:58:20.120
<v Speaker 4>going back to La So you know we had fun.

0:58:21.240 --> 0:58:22.880
<v Speaker 4>Nigga went on his way and she tried to come.

0:58:22.720 --> 0:58:24.160
<v Speaker 1>Back, and did you hate fuck her?

0:58:26.720 --> 0:58:28.800
<v Speaker 4>Come on, you know I already told you that. Of

0:58:28.800 --> 0:58:33.600
<v Speaker 4>course sent her after that that was left.

0:58:33.880 --> 0:58:36.360
<v Speaker 1>See that's where the hate fuck arrived. That was your

0:58:36.520 --> 0:58:38.040
<v Speaker 1>villain origin story right there.

0:58:39.600 --> 0:58:44.240
<v Speaker 4>Yeah. I invented that then because because it was such

0:58:44.240 --> 0:58:46.400
<v Speaker 4>a good timeline, because it was like, she went to

0:58:46.440 --> 0:58:48.400
<v Speaker 4>the game, she got smashed. The next day, she tried

0:58:48.400 --> 0:58:50.120
<v Speaker 4>to come back. Then I smashed, then I sent her

0:58:50.080 --> 0:58:52.200
<v Speaker 4>on her way. Then she felt horrible, like I'm making

0:58:52.240 --> 0:58:55.360
<v Speaker 4>so many bad decisions. This is crazy. I'm like, yeah, yeah,

0:58:55.400 --> 0:58:57.160
<v Speaker 4>I mean way.

0:58:57.000 --> 0:59:00.840
<v Speaker 1>That's definitely pussy mis management. Right up, two niggas in

0:59:00.880 --> 0:59:02.440
<v Speaker 1>a week and end up with no niggas.

0:59:02.480 --> 0:59:05.960
<v Speaker 2>They're math and mathing, baby, and just the tickets to again.

0:59:07.200 --> 0:59:10.160
<v Speaker 1>That Math is not mathing. You got another one.

0:59:10.240 --> 0:59:12.360
<v Speaker 4>And that's why I say it'd be crazy. It'd be

0:59:12.480 --> 0:59:15.600
<v Speaker 4>so diabolical when women, when y'all be ready to do

0:59:15.640 --> 0:59:17.640
<v Speaker 4>something because y'all think the grass on the other side,

0:59:17.720 --> 0:59:20.520
<v Speaker 4>y'all be plenty of your whole life with this new nigga. Y'all,

0:59:20.800 --> 0:59:22.520
<v Speaker 4>this is gonna be my man. We couldn't take trips.

0:59:22.520 --> 0:59:24.560
<v Speaker 4>He got money. We canna be doing this that y'all

0:59:24.560 --> 0:59:26.400
<v Speaker 4>be plenty of our whole life with a new nigga.

0:59:27.080 --> 0:59:29.680
<v Speaker 4>So y'all try to say, oh, this ain't working out,

0:59:29.680 --> 0:59:31.200
<v Speaker 4>we ain't got this going on and don't even know

0:59:31.360 --> 0:59:34.040
<v Speaker 4>like niggas still out here running game. He said just

0:59:34.160 --> 0:59:35.680
<v Speaker 4>enough to get you to do this, this and it

0:59:36.080 --> 0:59:37.280
<v Speaker 4>and wasn't that gonna come about it?

0:59:37.720 --> 0:59:38.240
<v Speaker 2>Nah?

0:59:38.840 --> 0:59:41.479
<v Speaker 3>Before that nigga even came about she was already wanting

0:59:41.480 --> 0:59:44.720
<v Speaker 3>to leave your ass. Honestly, Well, I just speaking for myself.

0:59:45.640 --> 0:59:47.880
<v Speaker 3>You can't get me off a man unless I'm ready

0:59:47.920 --> 0:59:48.480
<v Speaker 3>to get off.

0:59:48.320 --> 0:59:50.120
<v Speaker 2>Of him, period too.

0:59:50.280 --> 0:59:52.760
<v Speaker 3>Okay, and usually if I entertain somebody else, I've been

0:59:52.760 --> 0:59:53.800
<v Speaker 3>looking for your replacement.

0:59:54.280 --> 0:59:57.240
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, the mind leave first with women, then to pussy.

0:59:59.320 --> 1:00:01.360
<v Speaker 4>I agree, you might be right.

1:00:02.640 --> 1:00:07.480
<v Speaker 1>Are you being faithful to this woman? Hell no, at

1:00:07.480 --> 1:00:10.040
<v Speaker 1>the time that one month.

1:00:10.680 --> 1:00:13.760
<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna be honest. That probably was my calmra man.

1:00:13.800 --> 1:00:17.160
<v Speaker 4>I probably you know what I'm saying. That's why I

1:00:17.160 --> 1:00:20.440
<v Speaker 4>say anytime something like that happened to me, it's probably

1:00:20.480 --> 1:00:22.160
<v Speaker 4>not what I did in the moment. It's probably something

1:00:22.200 --> 1:00:23.760
<v Speaker 4>I did in the past to somebody else. You know

1:00:23.840 --> 1:00:27.120
<v Speaker 4>what I'm saying. Be calm, Just be calmer, man. I

1:00:27.120 --> 1:00:29.520
<v Speaker 4>didn't even call the girl. I done called a girl

1:00:29.600 --> 1:00:31.360
<v Speaker 4>to act one of my partners, and I couldn't do

1:00:31.400 --> 1:00:33.480
<v Speaker 4>nothing but just going to the room, put my head in

1:00:33.520 --> 1:00:38.280
<v Speaker 4>the pillow and cry. That's all I could do. So

1:00:38.440 --> 1:00:41.440
<v Speaker 4>hurt that it was college that was your girl, though

1:00:43.920 --> 1:00:45.880
<v Speaker 4>I thought it was shit. I was. I thought I

1:00:45.920 --> 1:00:47.600
<v Speaker 4>was in love. That was straight out of high school.

1:00:47.640 --> 1:00:49.560
<v Speaker 4>You think you so in love with somebody. This the

1:00:49.560 --> 1:00:51.440
<v Speaker 4>first time you outside of your comforty or was on

1:00:51.560 --> 1:00:53.800
<v Speaker 4>your parents and you know, to make the baddest chick

1:00:53.840 --> 1:00:57.080
<v Speaker 4>on campus. And you just like, man, I love this girl.

1:00:57.120 --> 1:00:58.600
<v Speaker 4>You think you fel the mary hand, be well for

1:00:58.600 --> 1:01:01.640
<v Speaker 4>the rest of your life. Man came in, came in

1:01:01.680 --> 1:01:04.520
<v Speaker 4>our little apartment. Man heard some hollering. I'm like, they're

1:01:04.520 --> 1:01:07.680
<v Speaker 4>doing his thing. He got I walked in the road.

1:01:07.720 --> 1:01:09.960
<v Speaker 4>I said, could we share the room? Like you know

1:01:10.000 --> 1:01:12.720
<v Speaker 4>what I'm saying. You in college, I said, hold up,

1:01:13.840 --> 1:01:16.000
<v Speaker 4>I can flip the lights on. I'm over there flipping

1:01:16.000 --> 1:01:18.400
<v Speaker 4>over dresses and lamps and all type of ship about

1:01:18.480 --> 1:01:19.080
<v Speaker 4>trying to fight.

1:01:19.760 --> 1:01:22.800
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because that's your home. That was your homeboy, he

1:01:22.880 --> 1:01:24.800
<v Speaker 1>knew that was your He adn't care.

1:01:26.160 --> 1:01:28.640
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he knew. But this is the thing back then,

1:01:28.720 --> 1:01:31.520
<v Speaker 4>you know when you homies like it's just like she going,

1:01:31.600 --> 1:01:33.320
<v Speaker 4>she going there, you can't be mad at me. And

1:01:33.360 --> 1:01:35.720
<v Speaker 4>I wasn't mad at him. I was just hurt, you

1:01:35.720 --> 1:01:36.280
<v Speaker 4>know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>So damn, that's how y'all operate. That's how I men

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<v Speaker 1>to operate.

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<v Speaker 4>If she going, she going, Yeah, that's that South Carolina. No,

1:01:43.320 --> 1:01:45.400
<v Speaker 4>that's around the world.

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<v Speaker 2>Your home boy tried me talking to your ass, Yeah, because.

1:01:53.240 --> 1:01:55.320
<v Speaker 1>Right to make him feel like that's okay.

1:01:57.120 --> 1:01:58.800
<v Speaker 4>So y'all gonna sit here and at like y'all ain't

1:01:58.800 --> 1:02:00.400
<v Speaker 4>never smashed somebody home before.

1:02:00.680 --> 1:02:05.920
<v Speaker 2>I didn't know, I didn't know they was friends, Okay, exactly.

1:02:05.480 --> 1:02:07.640
<v Speaker 4>So stop, let's keep it real on this podcast today.

1:02:07.680 --> 1:02:09.600
<v Speaker 4>Y'all may do all the other people with everybody else,

1:02:09.840 --> 1:02:10.840
<v Speaker 4>but let's be real, y'all.

1:02:12.440 --> 1:02:15.320
<v Speaker 1>Not no, not on like not knowing they were homeboys.

1:02:15.360 --> 1:02:15.840
<v Speaker 1>Hell no.

1:02:16.760 --> 1:02:19.120
<v Speaker 3>And half the time niggas always trying to call somebody

1:02:19.160 --> 1:02:21.400
<v Speaker 3>their homeboy once they find out you with that person,

1:02:21.400 --> 1:02:22.560
<v Speaker 3>like nigga, what's his mama name?

1:02:22.640 --> 1:02:25.120
<v Speaker 2>What's this new phone number? You don't even know this nigga?

1:02:25.200 --> 1:02:27.720
<v Speaker 2>No more, this is not your friend. You're just saying that.

1:02:27.760 --> 1:02:28.920
<v Speaker 2>They try to make me feel.

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<v Speaker 4>Like it's a different level of what men But no,

1:02:34.400 --> 1:02:36.640
<v Speaker 4>it's a different level of what men say friends is,

1:02:36.640 --> 1:02:39.600
<v Speaker 4>and how y'all women think friends is. Like I may

1:02:39.760 --> 1:02:41.520
<v Speaker 4>know the nigga and every time we see each other,

1:02:41.560 --> 1:02:44.920
<v Speaker 4>it's like, what's up, my nigga? That's considered friends to us?

1:02:45.960 --> 1:02:49.000
<v Speaker 4>That's not all that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all, that's enough point.

1:02:49.800 --> 1:02:51.600
<v Speaker 2>But that's what I'm saying, you just know of that name.

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<v Speaker 3>Think about it differently, y'all, think about it differently when

1:02:56.280 --> 1:02:57.680
<v Speaker 3>it comes to women.

1:02:57.960 --> 1:02:58.160
<v Speaker 4>Y'all.

1:02:58.160 --> 1:03:01.120
<v Speaker 3>Don't think about this nigga no other time until he's

1:03:01.120 --> 1:03:02.439
<v Speaker 3>fucking on something that you had.

1:03:03.440 --> 1:03:09.480
<v Speaker 4>Right, Yes, but what about you? Who homeboy?

1:03:10.320 --> 1:03:12.360
<v Speaker 1>I did it? I did all right? Well, let me listen.

1:03:14.320 --> 1:03:18.680
<v Speaker 1>This was at Benedict and they wasn't homeboys when I

1:03:19.400 --> 1:03:22.200
<v Speaker 1>was dealing with one of them, and then I dealt

1:03:22.240 --> 1:03:24.600
<v Speaker 1>with the other one, and then they became friends. I

1:03:24.640 --> 1:03:26.640
<v Speaker 1>walked in Denny's. They were sitting at the table together.

1:03:26.720 --> 1:03:28.680
<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, I ain't even hungry no more.

1:03:31.280 --> 1:03:35.560
<v Speaker 4>My god, they with each other.

1:03:37.840 --> 1:03:39.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure they did. I'm sure they did.

1:03:39.560 --> 1:03:40.040
<v Speaker 4>We was young.

1:03:40.080 --> 1:03:42.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure they did compare and they was like, I

1:03:42.480 --> 1:03:44.440
<v Speaker 1>want that back. Both of them was probably like that.

1:03:44.560 --> 1:03:49.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure that's crazy, but that is there weren't that

1:03:49.440 --> 1:03:52.520
<v Speaker 1>wasn't friends when it happened, Like neither one of them

1:03:52.560 --> 1:03:55.160
<v Speaker 1>were friends like when I was dealing with either one

1:03:55.160 --> 1:03:59.200
<v Speaker 1>of them. Honestly, they became friends later in life. And

1:03:59.240 --> 1:04:00.120
<v Speaker 1>that's just a bad.

1:04:00.800 --> 1:04:01.200
<v Speaker 4>Both of them.

1:04:01.200 --> 1:04:08.080
<v Speaker 1>After that, No nout them both off. It was we

1:04:08.080 --> 1:04:11.320
<v Speaker 1>were in college it was young. It wasn't nothing, it

1:04:11.360 --> 1:04:17.120
<v Speaker 1>didn't have any substance. It was just you know, well

1:04:17.160 --> 1:04:17.760
<v Speaker 1>one of them.

1:04:17.960 --> 1:04:20.160
<v Speaker 4>What about you? Now?

1:04:20.200 --> 1:04:23.400
<v Speaker 3>That's why I said cousins because my my ex swears

1:04:23.480 --> 1:04:27.920
<v Speaker 3>up and down. First of all, I knew his cousin

1:04:28.560 --> 1:04:32.120
<v Speaker 3>wayed ten years prior to knowing him, right, And when

1:04:32.160 --> 1:04:36.520
<v Speaker 3>I met him, I was asking my ex, the cousin,

1:04:37.200 --> 1:04:39.560
<v Speaker 3>if he knew this guy, right, because I'm trying to

1:04:39.560 --> 1:04:42.920
<v Speaker 3>get this scoop on him. Right, I'm far moved, were

1:04:42.920 --> 1:04:45.000
<v Speaker 3>not fucking wein't have sex and years I met this

1:04:45.040 --> 1:04:47.440
<v Speaker 3>new guy, I'm asking the old nigga like like we

1:04:47.560 --> 1:04:49.920
<v Speaker 3>friends like that, I'm asking him about this nigga, right,

1:04:50.000 --> 1:04:53.520
<v Speaker 3>So the old nigga knew the whole time that I'm

1:04:53.520 --> 1:04:56.800
<v Speaker 3>with this person now, right, this nigga goes to my

1:04:56.840 --> 1:05:00.560
<v Speaker 3>motherfucking Facebook page back to two thousand and I didn't

1:05:00.560 --> 1:05:03.080
<v Speaker 3>meet this motherfuckerun til twenty sixteen. Why the hell you

1:05:03.160 --> 1:05:05.600
<v Speaker 3>and my shit all the way back to two thousand

1:05:05.640 --> 1:05:09.880
<v Speaker 3>and nine, and he saw like, uh, this bitch was

1:05:09.920 --> 1:05:13.520
<v Speaker 3>stalking me on Facebook about the other nigga, like she

1:05:13.640 --> 1:05:15.440
<v Speaker 3>was stalking me at the time. So he saw like

1:05:15.480 --> 1:05:19.560
<v Speaker 3>the arguments between me and the girl. What led him,

1:05:19.920 --> 1:05:20.840
<v Speaker 3>you know, to.

1:05:20.880 --> 1:05:22.920
<v Speaker 1>Know that I were fucking my cousin?

1:05:23.160 --> 1:05:25.920
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and I'm like, nigga, that is not your cousin.

1:05:25.960 --> 1:05:28.760
<v Speaker 3>What is his mama name? What's his siblings names? You

1:05:28.800 --> 1:05:31.680
<v Speaker 3>don't even know that nigga like that? No more so,

1:05:31.880 --> 1:05:36.840
<v Speaker 3>I don't consider no.

1:05:35.040 --> 1:05:37.000
<v Speaker 2>Home boy them niggas is not blood.

1:05:37.080 --> 1:05:42.640
<v Speaker 3>And furthermore, that family done fucked on both sides multiple times,

1:05:44.080 --> 1:05:46.400
<v Speaker 3>everybody related on both sides of the family.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, Charleston, Columbia is small. What could you do?

1:05:51.480 --> 1:05:55.560
<v Speaker 2>I know, my bad, nigga. I didn't know you existed

1:05:56.360 --> 1:05:57.520
<v Speaker 2>until now. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, Columbia a town?

1:06:04.080 --> 1:06:05.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, born and raised?

1:06:05.560 --> 1:06:06.919
<v Speaker 4>What high school you went too?

1:06:07.160 --> 1:06:07.880
<v Speaker 1>A Flora?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay? I want to spring it out.

1:06:10.680 --> 1:06:11.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry to hear that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>Alright, y'all.

1:06:21.680 --> 1:06:24.400
<v Speaker 3>Look, if you're fucking on the first date, wrap it up.

1:06:24.880 --> 1:06:29.120
<v Speaker 3>That's have fun, keep your regrets to minimum. Fire these

1:06:29.200 --> 1:06:32.920
<v Speaker 3>niggas when they ain't acting right, okay, and the men.

1:06:32.760 --> 1:06:35.920
<v Speaker 2>Fire the bitches. Whatever y'all want to do. Just be safe.

1:06:37.040 --> 1:06:39.280
<v Speaker 3>You don't want to get forty years old and be

1:06:39.360 --> 1:06:43.040
<v Speaker 3>trying to subtract dicks. This one. Don't count, and don't come.

1:06:43.080 --> 1:06:45.400
<v Speaker 3>If I if I didn't come, it don't count. You

1:06:45.480 --> 1:06:48.120
<v Speaker 3>don't want to be having to do these things right,

1:06:48.840 --> 1:06:51.480
<v Speaker 3>So have some discernment with your pussy. That's all I

1:06:51.480 --> 1:06:53.919
<v Speaker 3>got to say. You got some advice for these these

1:06:53.960 --> 1:06:55.200
<v Speaker 3>women and these young men.

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<v Speaker 1>Tom, Yes, don't listen to nothing, Vaughn said on the show, y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>don't listen to none of that ship advice. We're glad,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all listen to all of this, but just let it go, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>as soon as it's over, just let that shit go.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Listen, fly like a bird, be sexually liberated, love yourself,

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<v Speaker 4>respect yourself, and just do what you want to do. Ladies,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not gonna judge you, and then shouldn't judge you

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<v Speaker 4>if you want to give it up or however you

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<v Speaker 4>want to give it up. I feel like nobody should

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<v Speaker 4>be judged. That's all I'm saying. But y'all follow me

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<v Speaker 4>now set the Regis Straight podcast on all platforms.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, you were a great guest.

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<v Speaker 2>This is for guest.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, y'all listen if you enjoyed this content. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>ship now Okay, everything's.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank y'all, Thank y'all, Thank y'all for tuning in. Much gratitude.

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<v Speaker 2>This is your co host AJ Holiday Kick.

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<v Speaker 1>me please, I love y'all. Remember speak now and never

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<v Speaker 1>hold your peace.