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Speaker 2: What's up y'all?

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Speaker 3: Thank you for tuning in for a new episode or

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Speaker 3: we talked back. The show dedicated to you dreamers and chasers.

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Speaker 3: This is your co host a J Holiday.

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Speaker 2: What's up? Tam Bam, Big Tim, Big.

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Speaker 1: Booty, Tamm, Hey y'all, Green eggs.

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Speaker 2: And Hey, hey y'all. I love y'all. Hey, Hey J.

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Speaker 1: What's up girl? How was your weekend?

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Speaker 2: Eat? Nothing?

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Speaker 1: What you do this weekend?

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Speaker 2: I don't do shiit girl. Nothing of gaining weight. Gaining Wait,

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Speaker 2: that's what I've been doing this, so you get eating

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Speaker 2: eating good.

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Speaker 3: I did fast last week. But I just feel like, man,

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Speaker 3: I don't know what the fuck is happening?

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Speaker 2: Is it the winter? Like, what's happening?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's the winter?

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Speaker 2: Esus Christ.

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Speaker 3: Face started like a little box like.

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Speaker 1: Well, you know what to do? You know what to do?

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Speaker 1: Get back to it. Let me tell y'all what I did.

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Speaker 1: I had one of my good friends from Benedict. He

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Speaker 1: actually is like a I don't even a physical therapist.

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Speaker 1: I guess you would call him. He works with Shikari Richardson.

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Speaker 1: He works with a bunch of NFL players. He works

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Speaker 1: with like a lot of actresses and actors like doing

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Speaker 1: body work. And he came to Charlotte and he did

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Speaker 1: bodywork on me for three and a half hours straight.

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Speaker 2: Oh nice, like stretching and stuff like that.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't even stretching. It was like, well, I guess

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Speaker 1: kind of sorter. It was like he was using like

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Speaker 1: an ultrasound machine, a laser, some tools, some you know

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Speaker 1: that chiropractor thing that goes that little thing like that,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what it's called. And he literally went

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Speaker 1: in between each ribcage with that thing. I mean, he

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Speaker 1: just took his whole time and like really like just

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Speaker 2: And he like took Is he a chiropractor?

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Speaker 1: He's a physical therapist or so. I don't know exactly what.

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Speaker 1: He has a bunch of degrees, so he might exactly.

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Speaker 1: He might be a chiropractor. I don't know what to

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Speaker 1: call him. But baby, when I tell you, like my shit,

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Speaker 1: my neck fluid in my back is more fluid than

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Speaker 1: this been in a long time. I'm sore. I'm still

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Speaker 1: sore from all the work that he did, but I

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Speaker 1: he was like adjusting it. He cracked it this way,

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Speaker 1: cracked it that way, and then he put me in

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Speaker 1: the head like I was like, wait a minute, what

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Speaker 1: is nigga doing? And then he snatched and I could

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Speaker 1: feel like it just like cracked all the way up

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Speaker 1: my spine. Goodness, and I just really needed that. He

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Speaker 1: probably loosened up a lot of mucus. Maybe that's what.

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Speaker 1: Maybe that's why I feel bad right now. I do

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Speaker 1: feel a little under the weather, so maybe that has

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Speaker 1: something to do with it. But my body feels good.

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Speaker 1: My my neck and my throat came good right now.

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Speaker 1: Other than that, that was it. I didn't do much.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, I did one other thing, y'all. I did

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Speaker 1: one other thing. I went to this new place here

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Speaker 1: in Charlotte called Spice and it's African owned. I want

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Speaker 1: to say, uh, Ghanaian Ghanaian owned, and they have like

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Speaker 1: African menu, and you know, I know that's the whole continent,

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Speaker 1: but I just I don't know exactly what country. I

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Speaker 1: think it's Ghana, but you know, but the food is

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Speaker 1: so good, the vibes is nice, the nice it's down

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Speaker 1: If y'all in Charlotte, are you looking for a place

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Speaker 1: to go, definitely check out Spice when you come. You

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Speaker 1: like African food, I do, and I like African men too, So.

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Speaker 2: I mean, who doesn't like African men. Let's get very clear.

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Speaker 3: The food be so spicy though, likely I like spicy food,

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Speaker 3: but not like African spicy food. Like, I can't even

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Speaker 3: enjoy the food. My mouth burned into bad. No, I

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Speaker 3: can't do it, man, Like the soups.

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Speaker 2: My god, damn man, I'm out.

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Speaker 1: I be eating it. I love it.

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Speaker 3: That's good for your digestive system though, Like that's spicy.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, y'all check. But you know what, they didn't

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Speaker 1: American palette, honestly. So yeah, you can handle to try that.

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Speaker 1: You come on to town. Let's try there's some souya.

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Speaker 1: It's some niggles.

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Speaker 2: This place. I just saw the cellar there, the cellar, Oh, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's the name of it. Yes, nice, Yeah, I want

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Speaker 1: That's a nice place.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I saw that coming across my time underground.

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Speaker 1: You gotta go, you know, down into the cellar. But

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Speaker 1: it's it's nice, it's dark, nice spot. Let's get into

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Speaker 1: stupid internet news.

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Speaker 2: What happened, let's do it. What we got going on?

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Speaker 3: My girl, I did come across Jadas Chavez. Okay, last week, y'all,

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Speaker 3: we had a whole episode on what exactly is cheating? Okay,

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Speaker 3: what is infidelity? I think we only think about infidelity

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Speaker 3: when we're talking about marriage, but cheating the same shit. Right,

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Speaker 3: you're in a committed relationship with somebody cheats. So Jada

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Speaker 3: says she's never cheated in a relationship, but she has

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Speaker 3: done her dirt during a little break he break. Why

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Speaker 3: would it be considered dirt if you are no longer

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Speaker 3: in a relationship and y'all are on a break, Why

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Speaker 3: are you calling it?

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Speaker 1: Because men feel like your pussy still theirs even if

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Speaker 1: y'all on a break. That's why she said it that way.

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Speaker 2: Period.

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Speaker 1: But honestly, it ain't dirt. It's doing what the fuck

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Speaker 1: ye're single. Because a man wouldn't call it dirt. I

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Speaker 2: Break, Nope.

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Speaker 3: And half the time, the reason why y'all on a

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Speaker 3: break is because that nigga because she.

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Speaker 1: Was already dirty.

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Speaker 3: So basically what Jada is saying, every time little baby

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Speaker 3: cheat on me, we take a break and then and

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Speaker 3: I finally cheat back. But see, men don't respect that.

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Speaker 2: They don't.

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Speaker 3: They want you to be at the house crying until

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Speaker 3: y'all get back in a good space. Okay, So ladies

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Speaker 3: don't ever see no ship like that in public.

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Speaker 2: Bitch, I never did durham.

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Speaker 1: I never did no dirt. I despised.

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Speaker 2: I despised her disgusting.

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Speaker 3: And any of my friends that would ever do something

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Speaker 3: like that to their man, whether they're together today.

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Speaker 2: Or not, are wars.

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Speaker 3: Lot of these niggas ladies wake onp my life.

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Speaker 2: Like if a girl if a growl. Bitch, I ain't

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Speaker 2: never told you nothing before because the action, Mama, she

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Speaker 2: gonna tell you. Don't you tell that man the truth?

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Speaker 2: Are you stupid? None of his.

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Speaker 1: Business, y'all. Your break happened during that time is nobody's

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Speaker 1: business but your.

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Speaker 3: Own, right unless somebody come back with a break, baby,

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Speaker 3: Now that's a little different.

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Speaker 1: Shit get scheduled, that's a whole different ball game, all right.

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Speaker 1: So let me tell you this. I was scrolling this

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Speaker 1: weekend and I saw that Nick Cannon is putting out

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Speaker 1: a show called It's a Light Skin Versus Dark Skin,

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Speaker 1: and it's women. I could you know what, I don't

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Speaker 1: if it was men. But the fact that you're putting

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Speaker 1: light skinned women against dark skinned women is cringe for me.

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Speaker 1: So apparently this is going to be a Chocolate Goddesses

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Speaker 1: Versus Caramel Goddesses, a Zeus Network show. It's given disgusting.

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Speaker 1: What do you think?

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Speaker 4: AJ?

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Speaker 3: So they're saying that Networks has sense or moved the

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Speaker 3: fly because the original one said bad versus versus Wild

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Speaker 3: Last Vegas, light Skin versus Dark Skin. That's that fly

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Speaker 3: originally said. So now he's trying to spice it up

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Speaker 3: and make it nice. Nah, fuck you, Nick Cannon. Let's

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Speaker 3: be clear, this is disgusting, and we are like y'all.

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Speaker 3: I feel like he's been put in a position at

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Speaker 3: this point to play on all the negative stereotypes and

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Speaker 3: all the different things that just hold the black community back.

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Speaker 3: He's just playing into him, and he's allowing these people

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Speaker 3: to play in our fucking faces. These women, it's the

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Speaker 3: fucking inmates. Running the prison man, Why would y'all even

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Speaker 3: participate in some shit like this?

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Speaker 1: Why would you sign up for that?

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Speaker 3: As much as as much as Sukihanna be on the internet,

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Speaker 3: anytime somebody say something, she automatically assuming somebody got a

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Speaker 3: problem with her skin zone.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, it's not cool. I don't think it's

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Speaker 1: a good idea.

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Speaker 2: It's whack. It's very whack. It's whack as hell.

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Speaker 3: And so the thing is is that because of the Internet,

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Speaker 3: white people don't need to like know us no more.

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Speaker 2: They get these small little tip bits of bullshit.

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Speaker 3: And they create their whole like thought around who black

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's divisive as fuck. Honestly, you don't see any

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Speaker 1: like Irish against I don't even like know different. Is

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Speaker 2: White? Absolutely?

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Speaker 3: You know, Italians don't consider themselves white. We lump all

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Speaker 3: You have darker skinned Indians so like that they have

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Speaker 3: But it happens amongst many races, even.

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Speaker 1: When you want to see a show with white people,

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Speaker 1: Like that's stupid, absolutely dumb. So why are y'all doing

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Speaker 1: that black people? Because there's already an issue in our

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Speaker 1: community when it comes to colorism, So you're just playing

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Speaker 1: on that and that's just gross booting it cannon for that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like I don't like canceling people, but

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Speaker 3: this to me is grounds for cancelation him and these

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Speaker 3: two groups of women, Like I just don't want to

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Speaker 3: see them bitches no more.

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Speaker 2: I'm sick of him.

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Speaker 3: I just uh, I.

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Speaker 1: Don't want I don't like. I'm just I don't want

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Speaker 1: to cancel him for it because I mean, the show

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Speaker 1: wasn't released, but he needs to sit.

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Speaker 3: But y'all even think it's cool to put a flyer

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Speaker 3: out there that looks like that, like what's up?

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Speaker 1: Man?

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Speaker 2: What are we doing? What are we doing in twenty

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Speaker 2: twenty four because this year is over? What are we doing?

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Speaker 1: But I mean this is kind of we don't want

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Speaker 1: that stuff that Zeus Network puts out. You know, this

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Speaker 1: is right in line with the quality of their content.

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Speaker 3: So and I know in January of this year, for

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Speaker 3: New Year's I did ask to leave Zeus Network in

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Speaker 3: twenty twenty two, Like what happened?

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Speaker 2: Why? What wasn't? Why wasn't?

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Speaker 1: Because network is thriving on trash TV. That's why so

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Speaker 1: love with that. They're here to stay.

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Speaker 3: Look, we need to get on TV, bitch, that's what

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Speaker 3: needs to happen. They need to see us soon.

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Speaker 1: Come friends soon, come.

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Speaker 3: Excellent, excellent girl, Lala Lala sounds like she had to

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Speaker 3: get a podcast together.

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Speaker 1: We definitely need to have a conversation and we would

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Speaker 3: All n't y'all were back and we got a guest

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Speaker 3: when we talked back. This week, we have the host

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Speaker 3: of Set the Record Straight podcast, mister uh.

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Speaker 1: Big nig bandit the Big Big Band.

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Speaker 2: That's what he said.

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Speaker 3: We need, We need proof period and after the next

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Speaker 2: What I'm saying, Yeah, we got we got Vaughn Reel.

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Speaker 2: You had an only fan.

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Speaker 4: No, I'm just bullshit. I retired from that.

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Speaker 2: I ain't never paying to see no dick, That's what

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Speaker 4: You'd be surprised. Who though I had a few celebrities

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to find this website right quick, because earlier

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Speaker 2: For only fans.

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Speaker 3: People basically post people's only fans shipped on this free website.

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Speaker 3: Natalie Natalie None. I'm like, nigga, I do not want

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Speaker 4: I heard about that. It's like you get to see

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Speaker 3: So it led me to believe that that fucking battie

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Speaker 1: Now now, he None actually looks good as of lately,

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Speaker 1: nearly no. She, oh that's not. She has lost a

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Speaker 4: She that was the biggest fill of Chris Brown careers

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Speaker 4: That's how she got on by dating him when putting

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Speaker 1: That, wasn't she It was on Bad Girls Club?

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Speaker 4: Was that after? In the mixture after? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Really? But she definitely got them girls eat and her coochie.

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Speaker 3: Does not look bad. Her body does look nice. She

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Speaker 4: Man, well separated straight. It's like an uncensored show. We

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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. Some people agree, some people don't.

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Speaker 1: You know, So you ain't gonna just slide past you

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Speaker 1: and shot like you just say that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, who shot you?

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Speaker 2: Like what happened?

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Speaker 4: I mean, we ain't gonna get it all that, But yeah,

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Speaker 4: I had a real tragedy. I was shot twenty six

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Speaker 4: you got.

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Speaker 1: Shot, you took you took in your body. Twenty six bullets?

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Speaker 1: Are they shot at you?

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Speaker 4: Twenty six? Show for sure? M hmm?

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Speaker 2: What what kind of bullets was?

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Speaker 3: There must have been a bb gun with God's over

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Speaker 3: here man, the grace of God.

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Speaker 4: I was in at the time. I was in the

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Speaker 1: But I'm here, Alexi, play Tupac back real quick right now,

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Speaker 1: God damn have raised the Lord.

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Speaker 2: Praise the Lord the second.

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Speaker 1: Amen. Amen.

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Speaker 3: You know we talked about this a little bit during

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Speaker 3: I passed judgment a lot. Okay, So Cardi B and

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Speaker 3: Offset they've been broken up for a while. She's online

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, men like that ship, but do you

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Speaker 3: Tammy suggested for us to get a man on the show.

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Speaker 2: So we got von Rae. You can't fell housewife th

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Speaker 3: Let's be clear, Okay, So I believe you can a

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Speaker 1: I think it was her sick of his ship, not

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Speaker 2: I think it might be a combination of things. You

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Speaker 3: So you she was popping when they got together. That

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Speaker 3: they aren't young. You know what I'm saying. He has

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Speaker 3: I know, I'll set with like about thirty two young young, young, young,

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. Temptations is crazy.

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Speaker 3: Mm hmmm. I'm sick of seeing her ass. So maybe

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Well, I'm gonna tell you right now that I'm not

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Speaker 4: But I can't say I do feel like every woman

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Speaker 2: Like, first of all, let me, I'm gonna be honest

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Speaker 3: I bet I have been a whole and well over

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Speaker 4: Be woman has had a whole phase, That's what I'm

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Speaker 4: So maybe it's like, I really don't even think it

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Speaker 4: y'all really got to keep me out in conversations and

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Speaker 4: I don't want to know y'all business because I'm like,

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Speaker 4: you this shit and it really probably ain't got nothing.

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Speaker 4: It really ain't got nothing to do with no tworking.

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Speaker 4: I guarantee you it's because he always been cheating on her.

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Speaker 4: Let's be real, it's not about her tworking. I believe

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Speaker 4: Cardiby is a good wife. She ain't never probably made

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Speaker 4: He just don't know how to keep it digging his pants,

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Speaker 4: and that's just what it is. Let's be real, y'all

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Speaker 1: Man that's not just rappers, that's a lot of men.

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Speaker 1: Can we be honest when you're in when you are

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Speaker 4: I ain't gonna say that. I ain't gonna say that.

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Speaker 4: It's it's the right woman can make you settle down.

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Speaker 4: I'm not gonna lie if you If a man really

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Speaker 4: he'll be scared to mess that up. And if he

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Speaker 4: He gonna cheat with somebody that's just lowered a barrel,

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Speaker 4: even if she say so. But everything just put on

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Speaker 1: There's something new, something different.

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Speaker 4: The right man that know he got a good woman

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Speaker 4: and he's scared to lose her. He will not mess

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Speaker 4: he gonna make sure you don't find out. And it's

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Speaker 4: gonna be with somebody that you won't even believe he

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Speaker 1: Y'all see that.

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Speaker 4: It always that's the truth.

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Speaker 3: Dog Listen, That ship fucks with a woman's self esteem

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Speaker 3: because it's almost like, why are you don't be ma,

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Speaker 4: And if you do get caught, it's like it don't

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Speaker 4: she ain't really nothing. You know, she has signed. But

439
00:22:18,680 --> 00:22:21,200
Speaker 4: a lot of times niggas get disrespectful, they get lazy,

440
00:22:21,240 --> 00:22:23,000
Speaker 4: and they really don't care about the girl. They really

441
00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:25,840
Speaker 4: like that. They just tolerate her, whether they got kids together,

442
00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:29,119
Speaker 4: and they just cheat just to do it, and they

443
00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:31,080
Speaker 4: don't care to clean up behind themselves. You know what

444
00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:36,040
Speaker 4: I'm saying. That's just a nigga that don't really why

445
00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:39,320
Speaker 4: don't they leave like like they say, it's cheaper to

446
00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:42,080
Speaker 4: keep us. Sometimes he might got kids with her, you know,

447
00:22:42,119 --> 00:22:43,879
Speaker 4: he might be married to her, got a lot of

448
00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:46,480
Speaker 4: time invested. And you know what I'm saying, y'all, damned,

449
00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:48,880
Speaker 4: they'll leave with halving plus more of a nigga. That's

450
00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:50,879
Speaker 4: just how it be. It's cheaper to keep some women.

451
00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:53,360
Speaker 1: See this, all of this makes me want to kill

452
00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:54,440
Speaker 1: me a nigga right before.

453
00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:57,720
Speaker 2: I know, like right now, I feel like blood pressure

454
00:22:58,160 --> 00:22:58,680
Speaker 2: a little bit.

455
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:03,919
Speaker 4: I'm being honest with y'all. That's the wrongs why.

456
00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:05,680
Speaker 3: I always say, you gotta give him something to deal

457
00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:08,120
Speaker 3: with Because men, we know, we always say this, They

458
00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:10,480
Speaker 3: marry the easy going women and then they cheat.

459
00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:12,679
Speaker 2: With the bad bitches on the side. Right if you

460
00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:16,400
Speaker 2: keep this nigga on his toes, I'm not easy going.

461
00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:20,359
Speaker 3: I'm gonna give you problems. We give you something, I'm

462
00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:24,040
Speaker 3: gonna give you something that's not true. That's not true.

463
00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:27,800
Speaker 4: That's the way to what you should do is let

464
00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:30,480
Speaker 4: me give you some advice. Do not give him problem.

465
00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:32,879
Speaker 2: No, no, no, not problems like that. But don't do no

466
00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:35,080
Speaker 2: ship you don't want me doing. That's what I mean.

467
00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:38,480
Speaker 4: But what I'm trying to tell you is don't give

468
00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:40,920
Speaker 4: him problems. You beat a hole for your man.

469
00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:45,240
Speaker 3: It don't matter, It doesn't matter. Come on that shit

470
00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:45,840
Speaker 3: don't matter.

471
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:46,639
Speaker 4: You can do.

472
00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:48,600
Speaker 3: You can push the pop on a handstand for a

473
00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:51,879
Speaker 3: man and it's still gonna be some ship because some

474
00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:52,960
Speaker 3: man is like.

475
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:55,879
Speaker 1: You could lick that nigga, but he will take that

476
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:58,880
Speaker 1: butt right back outside and be up in another bitch

477
00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:01,000
Speaker 1: face and somebody else.

478
00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 4: Listen. My best advice is be a hope for your man.

479
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:10,640
Speaker 4: Talk treat him like he wants, Like, make your man

480
00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:12,359
Speaker 4: comfortable enough that he could talk to you how he

481
00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:14,960
Speaker 4: talked to his homeboy, and vice versa. You could talk

482
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 4: to him how you talk to your girls. Because a

483
00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:19,440
Speaker 4: lot of women they be a totally different person when

484
00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:24,399
Speaker 4: they run their homegirls and the You know what I'm saying,

485
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:29,240
Speaker 4: you're around your man, But like I said, you gotta

486
00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:31,119
Speaker 4: be in a good enough relationship where y'all got that

487
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:34,080
Speaker 4: connection for real, to where you could be your comfortable self.

488
00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:36,560
Speaker 4: I be telling a lot of my homeboys and men,

489
00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 4: I know you don't really know who your wife is

490
00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:41,320
Speaker 4: for real, you don't. She won't even tell you she

491
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,640
Speaker 4: got smashed by the whole football team, and that had

492
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:45,639
Speaker 4: trains ran on her because you would lose your mind.

493
00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:48,440
Speaker 4: You've been to beat the girl up and being domestic

494
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:50,400
Speaker 4: all these cases because you don't find out she even

495
00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:52,679
Speaker 4: sniffed a bit. You know what I'm saying, Like, you

496
00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:55,000
Speaker 4: gotta let her comfortable, bro Like, don't be all the

497
00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:58,040
Speaker 4: connect for real, because they not women will shut down

498
00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:00,760
Speaker 4: and put themselves in a box around their man just

499
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:04,560
Speaker 4: because he'd be so crazy about she can't do nothing,

500
00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:06,720
Speaker 4: but you fell in love with her because she was a.

501
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:10,160
Speaker 1: Free No man can handle knowing that his woman's mashed

502
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:12,960
Speaker 1: the whole football team. No man will sitting there.

503
00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:17,960
Speaker 4: Actually, I mean that's not true though. It's men out

504
00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:19,879
Speaker 4: here that like to see they like he did. He

505
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:21,880
Speaker 4: liked to see his woman get puleased by another man.

506
00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:23,879
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, When you start opening up

507
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:25,960
Speaker 4: Pandora's box, you never know what your man gonna be.

508
00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:29,600
Speaker 2: And that's why you don't open Pandora's box.

509
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:32,560
Speaker 3: If you are uncomfortable about you know, if you're uncomfortable

510
00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:36,960
Speaker 3: doing shit, you're just doing stuff for your man. That's

511
00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:40,480
Speaker 3: you opening Pandora's box. And I from my from experience

512
00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:41,880
Speaker 3: and never fucking stops.

513
00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:43,120
Speaker 2: They gonna keep.

514
00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:45,680
Speaker 3: Pushing the totem pole like he gonna keep pushing the

515
00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:48,119
Speaker 3: envelope to see how much more he can get up

516
00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:48,760
Speaker 3: out of your eyes.

517
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:52,240
Speaker 1: And next thing you know, he's flying Big Black Dixie

518
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:53,200
Speaker 1: to come.

519
00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:57,119
Speaker 4: I ain't gonna lie. You do. Gotta do it for

520
00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:59,439
Speaker 4: yourself too, Like you gotta do it. You gotta be

521
00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:01,639
Speaker 4: comfortable with what you're doing. That's when you end up

522
00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:03,760
Speaker 4: in cases like Diddy, because she wasn't even comfortable. She

523
00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:05,879
Speaker 4: was just doing it for that nigga. That's like you

524
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:06,240
Speaker 4: got to.

525
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:09,320
Speaker 3: Ray J and Princess. You remember she said that she

526
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:11,440
Speaker 3: was like, you know it just it never stopped.

527
00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:12,199
Speaker 2: Like they was he was.

528
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:14,040
Speaker 3: She was doing it threesomes with him, thinking that would

529
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 3: stop him from cheating, and he just kept wanting to

530
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 3: do more and more.

531
00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 1: Shit.

532
00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:20,680
Speaker 2: It never stops.

533
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:23,240
Speaker 3: So, Nah, I would not suggest to women to be

534
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:25,240
Speaker 3: doing anything just because your man wants to do it.

535
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:27,800
Speaker 3: If you aren't comfortable with him, that's not already your nature.

536
00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:30,600
Speaker 3: Don't be fucking around because it's never going to be enough.

537
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 3: It's not going to keep a man.

538
00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:35,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, you got to tell these man, tell these men

539
00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:37,560
Speaker 4: to find women that like that. Find the women that

540
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:39,480
Speaker 4: want the threesomes. But that's the thing.

541
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:44,280
Speaker 3: They don't want to go get one that act. So

542
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:48,640
Speaker 3: let's talk about that, because that's that's the problem. Men

543
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:50,840
Speaker 3: want to be the ones to conhurse people into doing

544
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:53,960
Speaker 3: bullshit they don't want you. I had a whole conversation

545
00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:57,800
Speaker 3: with somebody this morning and I asked him, like, you know,

546
00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:01,040
Speaker 3: would you marry somebody who was a self proclaimed hole?

547
00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:05,240
Speaker 3: Oh no, sorry, this is the other topic. Fucking on

548
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:08,359
Speaker 3: the first date? Right, he just said he would not

549
00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 3: fuck with her. He'll fuck her, right, but if a woman,

550
00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:13,720
Speaker 3: if he were out with a woman and she was like,

551
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:17,400
Speaker 3: pull your dick out, that's like a turn off of him.

552
00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:20,640
Speaker 2: He'll still fuck her, but he wouldn't fuck with her, right.

553
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:23,400
Speaker 3: But if he initiated the sex on the first date,

554
00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:27,040
Speaker 3: it's cool. He might fuck run a wife her. So

555
00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 3: the man has to feel like he's in control of

556
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:31,840
Speaker 3: the situation. But it's the truth though, That's just I

557
00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:32,240
Speaker 3: men R.

558
00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 2: That's why we can't be honest with men about who

559
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:35,960
Speaker 2: we are.

560
00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:39,480
Speaker 1: Imagine being like pull your dick out with a nigga,

561
00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:42,040
Speaker 1: you just live. That's kind of wild, Like what is

562
00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:43,639
Speaker 1: what is too aggressive?

563
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 4: But the thing is the thing though, when even with

564
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:54,320
Speaker 4: stuff like that being said, they'll say stuff like, I

565
00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:56,520
Speaker 4: want a woman to know what she wants. You got

566
00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:58,360
Speaker 4: a woman that says she know what she won't right,

567
00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 4: So why you mad if she telling you what she wants.

568
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 4: She know what she came to this dinner for. You

569
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 4: can to eat and get big. But y'all want to

570
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 4: treat a certain type of way. This is the thing

571
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:10,720
Speaker 4: that gets me about niggas. Right when a man see

572
00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:12,840
Speaker 4: a woman he liked, the first thing we think about.

573
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:15,920
Speaker 4: We don't care about how you doing, We don't care

574
00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:17,800
Speaker 4: about how your day being. The first thing that come

575
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 4: to my mind is, damn, I want to fuck. Right.

576
00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:24,000
Speaker 4: But you niggas be mad when she gives you the

577
00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:24,880
Speaker 4: pussy too soon.

578
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:27,800
Speaker 2: Like, niggas, that not what you wanted in this situation exactly.

579
00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 4: I'm just be grateful that she giving you the pussy.

580
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:33,359
Speaker 4: And I'll be trying to tell niggas, but the way

581
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 4: y'all talk about girls giving up pussy too quick, she

582
00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:37,320
Speaker 4: a hope of doing this and a hope of doing that,

583
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:39,920
Speaker 4: y'all really just be talking y'allself out of more pussy,

584
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:42,000
Speaker 4: because now she's gonna make you waiting longer, and she

585
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:44,880
Speaker 4: know that's your mentality because you're gonna look at her crazy.

586
00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 1: I just feel like giving up your pussy too fast

587
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 1: is like giving up your infinity stone, Like you just

588
00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 1: relinquishing your power right away when you fuck too quickly,

589
00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:57,600
Speaker 1: fuck you are? I feel like men be like.

590
00:28:57,720 --> 00:28:59,479
Speaker 4: What's the quickest you ever gave some pussy up?

591
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:00,480
Speaker 1: Minutes?

592
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 4: I'm joking, but goddamn did you? I'm joking. I've gone out.

593
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:21,320
Speaker 1: On a day and it ended in six, especially my twenties,

594
00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 1: but not now. It won't because I just need to

595
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 1: know a man. Everybody that I'm seeing right now is

596
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:30,320
Speaker 1: a potential husband. That's how I feel, and fucking right

597
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:33,600
Speaker 1: away is just relinquishing my power. And oftentimes you might

598
00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:35,800
Speaker 1: fuck somebody really quickly and then find out you don't

599
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 1: even like them as a person later, So I just

600
00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 1: wait at this point, Yeah.

601
00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 3: But you don't waited, And now I fell in love

602
00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:46,600
Speaker 3: with whack dick, Like the relationship ain't gonna work if

603
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:50,080
Speaker 3: that dick whack. So I'm not saying wait ninety days,

604
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 3: you know, wild shit like that whenever it's comfortable, because

605
00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:56,479
Speaker 3: in between dating, y'all should be having conversations. Right, So

606
00:29:56,720 --> 00:29:58,360
Speaker 3: even if I agree to go on a date with

607
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:02,080
Speaker 3: a guy, we have had conversation conversation in between time

608
00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:02,480
Speaker 3: at least.

609
00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:02,640
Speaker 1: Now.

610
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 3: Remember I told y'all a couple of weeks ago, I

611
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:07,040
Speaker 3: went out with a nigga and he's straight up was like,

612
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:08,680
Speaker 3: just let me know if I got a chance to

613
00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:11,040
Speaker 3: fuck the night or not, And like, once I said no,

614
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 3: the fucking date was over with. But we hadn't really

615
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:16,360
Speaker 3: had any conversations in between, which was made it even

616
00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:19,120
Speaker 3: more wild, Like you would even ask you about some pussy, nigga,

617
00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:21,960
Speaker 3: I don't even know you for real. At least when

618
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 3: you do go on a first or second date, y'all

619
00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:26,280
Speaker 3: would have had some conversations in between.

620
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 2: So you might be anticipating a dick like y'all might be.

621
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:31,240
Speaker 2: It's exciting to get a new dick.

622
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:34,280
Speaker 1: I feel like if you if you like a guy,

623
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:38,160
Speaker 1: even his bad dick is good. You don't feel like that.

624
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:40,400
Speaker 2: I tell you hate that nigga, that's.

625
00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 1: When that's when it started being bad. But if you

626
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 1: really like intune him as a person, the sex be

627
00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:49,080
Speaker 1: good because of who it is, not because of his parts.

628
00:30:49,200 --> 00:30:51,360
Speaker 1: I feel like that's typical when you don't have a

629
00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:54,640
Speaker 1: connection at all, then it's just about the dick, you know,

630
00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:59,040
Speaker 1: Like I was in love with I was in love

631
00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:01,600
Speaker 1: with some trash diic. I love that train dude down,

632
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:03,200
Speaker 1: loved him down.

633
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 2: At it and the trash.

634
00:31:06,080 --> 00:31:09,400
Speaker 4: Years herd one have been married for twenty years and

635
00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 4: they still say their husband. Wait, so that's that's That

636
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:13,680
Speaker 4: just means you probably ain't really had no good dick

637
00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:14,720
Speaker 4: for real, right right?

638
00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 2: She probably with him since high school.

639
00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:18,720
Speaker 3: She she ain't know what dick's But let me tell you,

640
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:20,920
Speaker 3: them bitches be fucking on vacation now, them bitches who

641
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:23,000
Speaker 3: been married since they was twenty, they're going to them

642
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:25,080
Speaker 3: all girl vacations with their homegirls.

643
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:27,520
Speaker 2: They're definitely the main ones getting dicked down.

644
00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 3: So she know what good dick is and it ain't

645
00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:33,000
Speaker 3: at home, so she can't wait for the next trip.

646
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:42,640
Speaker 2: Girl were going to off with her A k A. Friends,

647
00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:43,360
Speaker 2: we're just joking.

648
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:47,920
Speaker 4: I did not understand why dj Envy wife went out

649
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 4: of town for a whole month. I said, boy, she

650
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 4: would a whole other country with somebody I know, a whole.

651
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 1: Were not putting that out there on that this is a.

652
00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:02,600
Speaker 2: Holeless stick a retreat.

653
00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:08,000
Speaker 4: Hey, I know that, y'all friends. Though, I'm sorry, I'm

654
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:08,920
Speaker 4: just y. I'm just doing it.

655
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:13,040
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I don't know nothing. Listen whatever, people what

656
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:13,680
Speaker 2: people do?

657
00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 4: They do?

658
00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:17,560
Speaker 1: So you would you if you went out with a woman,

659
00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:20,479
Speaker 1: y'all had a good time, y'all went to like dinner,

660
00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:23,440
Speaker 1: then y'all went to a bar, music was flowing, y'all drinking,

661
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:26,240
Speaker 1: and then it turns into sex. You could potentially make

662
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:29,640
Speaker 1: her your girl or does it fizzle out?

663
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:34,280
Speaker 4: Nah? That's that's if the connection is. There is nothing else,

664
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:37,600
Speaker 4: no love loss. I feel like, honestly, if somebody in

665
00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 4: my past, if somebody gave it to me too soon,

666
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:42,440
Speaker 4: I'm such an arrogant ass nigga. I'll be like, nah,

667
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:45,160
Speaker 4: it's she really ain't like that. She just wanted to

668
00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:48,440
Speaker 4: give it me like that. And I would make myself

669
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 4: believe that because I don't want to judge you like

670
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:52,600
Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying. That's just what it is.

671
00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:54,600
Speaker 4: And in my mind too, you got about two weeks

672
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:55,160
Speaker 4: to give it to me.

673
00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 1: Before two weeks that's it.

674
00:32:57,360 --> 00:33:01,600
Speaker 4: God damn yeah, because then my ego is gonna be shot.

675
00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:03,480
Speaker 4: I'd be like, damn, how many niggas. She probably fucked

676
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:05,320
Speaker 4: on the first day, first week, and she making me

677
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 4: wait longer than two So then I'm really like, damn,

678
00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:09,480
Speaker 4: you're giving them niggas more than what you're giving me.

679
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:11,280
Speaker 1: That's not crazy at all.

680
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:18,240
Speaker 4: Is that bad? Or is that just me?

681
00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:20,440
Speaker 1: But guess what if you meet a woman who's like

682
00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:22,800
Speaker 1: got a vow with God, like Lord, I'm waiting for

683
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 1: my husband and I really want to make something real happen,

684
00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:28,160
Speaker 1: and I'm trying to get to know everybody that and

685
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:30,840
Speaker 1: be intentional, and then you only give it a little bit.

686
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:32,960
Speaker 1: You got about forty eight more hours to give me

687
00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:34,240
Speaker 1: this pussy and then I'm out.

688
00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:38,120
Speaker 4: I'm gonna be honestly be intentional on this dick too.

689
00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:42,040
Speaker 4: I'm with all that God stuff too, like be real intentional,

690
00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:45,720
Speaker 4: Like yeah, like, don't make don't make me wait. You

691
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 4: ain't make the mother niggas wait how you know right?

692
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:50,680
Speaker 1: You don't know what she did.

693
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:53,719
Speaker 4: I'm just saying you're trying to take the pussy off

694
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:55,640
Speaker 4: of the market and you thirty two, Like, girl, stop

695
00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:58,440
Speaker 4: the niggas that been in the past, ain't gonna have

696
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 4: nothing over my head. That's just me, you know, Like

697
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:03,000
Speaker 4: I feel like anything a woman has given a man.

698
00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:06,600
Speaker 4: You gotta give me times teams like I'm sorry, that's

699
00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:09,520
Speaker 4: just how if I'm gonna take you serious? Like if

700
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:11,200
Speaker 4: you fucked him on the first week, you got about

701
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:13,400
Speaker 4: three days if you gave how would you even know?

702
00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:17,239
Speaker 1: How would you even know that? There's no like they're

703
00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:19,600
Speaker 1: not walking around with Let me check.

704
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:22,000
Speaker 2: Out, let me get that dick fact.

705
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:25,759
Speaker 4: Ask those questions. I asked those questions. I'm a very

706
00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:28,040
Speaker 4: open and open minded person. I'm gonna ask those questions.

707
00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:29,680
Speaker 4: How many men you've been with? Well, how long y'all?

708
00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:31,520
Speaker 4: How many times y'all did this? How long you make him? Wait,

709
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:34,600
Speaker 4: I'm gonna ask those type of questions. It may be

710
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:37,200
Speaker 4: a little manipulation plot to where I'm just trying to get.

711
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:39,840
Speaker 2: I'm a lot to you ask for my own game, period,

712
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:40,600
Speaker 2: I'm lying.

713
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:42,680
Speaker 1: Everybody's lying.

714
00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:46,280
Speaker 3: Look y'all, you know I suggest lying on we talked back. Listen, ladies,

715
00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 3: don't tell these niggas the truth about ship.

716
00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:48,840
Speaker 2: Bitch.

717
00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:51,959
Speaker 3: Baby daddy ain't in your life, ain't in your kid's

718
00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:53,720
Speaker 3: life that nigga is dead.

719
00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:54,320
Speaker 2: Bitch.

720
00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:58,759
Speaker 3: Do not tell that man. Do not tell this new

721
00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:01,960
Speaker 3: man that your baby dad just as nigga because you're

722
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:04,640
Speaker 3: just out here letting bum ass niggas coming you.

723
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:06,279
Speaker 2: So just tell him that niggas dead.

724
00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:07,840
Speaker 1: He in the air force.

725
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:12,680
Speaker 4: He don't tell him he in jail. Don't say he

726
00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:16,359
Speaker 4: did propably at the house knocking on the door and

727
00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:18,760
Speaker 4: the new boyfriend get beat up by the baby daddy.

728
00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:20,880
Speaker 4: Don't He's not.

729
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 2: In that child's life at all.

730
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 1: It's a zombie at the door.

731
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:30,439
Speaker 2: Niggas the walking dead.

732
00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 4: Oh my god, he just popped up like out of

733
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:40,759
Speaker 4: the grade. That is gonna make seen'll don't think that.

734
00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:41,760
Speaker 2: Ain't mean that's my twin.

735
00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:43,640
Speaker 1: Y'all remember that on Cheaters.

736
00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:45,720
Speaker 2: That ain't me, that's my twin.

737
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 4: That's not a good lie. Women, do not listen to that.

738
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:59,320
Speaker 1: All know I'm with you on that. Just tell the truth.

739
00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:02,200
Speaker 1: I'm a firm believer, and tell the truth on that one,

740
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:06,960
Speaker 1: because that lies on your years ago. That lie is

741
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 1: gonna come back to haunt you. Them kids ain't going nowhere.

742
00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:11,640
Speaker 1: That man gonna eventually decide he might want to be

743
00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 1: a good dad one day. And now did hear go

744
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:18,759
Speaker 1: this nigga like I thought he was dead dead.

745
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:22,960
Speaker 4: I'm over here being stepdaddy. I'm over here buying sneakers

746
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 4: and PS five.

747
00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:26,600
Speaker 3: But a whidow was better than a baby mama, Like

748
00:36:26,760 --> 00:36:29,400
Speaker 3: a widow is better than a baby mama. That's all

749
00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:32,960
Speaker 3: I'm saying is perception is key.

750
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:34,600
Speaker 2: Tell me you have a fucked on the first night?

751
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:38,280
Speaker 1: You ever fucking the first night? Tammy? You're just gonna

752
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:41,479
Speaker 1: ask me that in front of everybody.

753
00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:43,880
Speaker 4: And then you know, the nigga in the house that

754
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:45,239
Speaker 4: she just got done argument.

755
00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:47,319
Speaker 1: With, ain't nobody here? That was door dash baby. There

756
00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:49,279
Speaker 1: was nikking too much noise. I was like, get out,

757
00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:55,399
Speaker 1: drop the ship off and go. Have I ever had

758
00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 1: sex on the first night? Yeah? I did. Like I

759
00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:01,800
Speaker 1: said in my twenties, I definitely popped my pulsel for

760
00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:06,280
Speaker 1: a real nigga back then. But now but now I won't.

761
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:08,080
Speaker 1: I don't care how much fun we have. Man, I'm

762
00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:11,439
Speaker 1: not giving you no cooochie right away. Besides, I don't

763
00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:13,799
Speaker 1: want your penis that quick either, because I might get

764
00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:17,680
Speaker 1: bored real quick, like, oh that was fun?

765
00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:17,840
Speaker 4: Go?

766
00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:18,600
Speaker 2: You know?

767
00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 1: So I just want to wait. I just want to

768
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:25,120
Speaker 1: fill everything out slow and steady. I don't want no

769
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:27,320
Speaker 1: instant dick, right.

770
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:29,880
Speaker 3: And it's important to make men wait, man, sometimes niggas

771
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 3: have talked themselves out the pussy. Make him wait long

772
00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:33,960
Speaker 3: enough and you realize why you ain't gave him the

773
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:36,719
Speaker 3: pussy yet. This is for the young girls, okay, so

774
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:39,680
Speaker 3: we you know, live vicariously through us. We popped that

775
00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:43,120
Speaker 3: pussy young and now you know why it's more important

776
00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:46,080
Speaker 3: toil weight. So this clown can show up because you're

777
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:49,960
Speaker 3: meeting this nigga representative until he get that pussy for sure.

778
00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:55,839
Speaker 2: Turned into right.

779
00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:57,400
Speaker 4: Let me tell you a good.

780
00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 1: A good way to get some is it for me?

781
00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:03,439
Speaker 1: Is tell some jokes. You would laugh me if y'all

782
00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 1: laughed right out of my draws.

783
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:14,359
Speaker 4: Laugh laughing draws, not right away. And these girls, I'm

784
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 4: from South Carolina for real, born and raised Columbia, South Carolina.

785
00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:19,960
Speaker 4: I know these type of women like I know how

786
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:25,160
Speaker 4: to finss to South Carolina and girls at Bennedict what

787
00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:27,560
Speaker 4: pull up in the box, sad me with the with

788
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:30,440
Speaker 4: the twenty six is on it and it's done, so

789
00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:34,080
Speaker 4: I already know what's going on. I used to run

790
00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:35,080
Speaker 4: streets back in the day.

791
00:38:35,640 --> 00:38:37,880
Speaker 3: I definitely had a nigga with a crown vicing twenty

792
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:41,719
Speaker 3: six inches. Okay, come on, come on, and you know

793
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:43,120
Speaker 3: what song was out at the time.

794
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:47,399
Speaker 2: I'm gonna call you my shot girl. You couldnt tell

795
00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:48,960
Speaker 2: me I wasn't shot.

796
00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:51,799
Speaker 4: Where he at?

797
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:52,040
Speaker 1: Now?

798
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:54,239
Speaker 4: Come on, man, where he at?

799
00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:57,719
Speaker 3: Stellar Columbia? Bitch do with the baby mama. That's what

800
00:38:57,840 --> 00:39:00,920
Speaker 3: the fuck I was talking to this morning out He

801
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:01,600
Speaker 3: don't want no bit.

802
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:12,640
Speaker 1: Out all right? So Varne Ray, do you have any

803
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:17,600
Speaker 1: advice for the ladies with their box and dating.

804
00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:21,600
Speaker 4: Makes Yes, make sure it's clean, it smelled good. It's

805
00:39:21,640 --> 00:39:22,719
Speaker 4: always good to.

806
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:28,120
Speaker 1: Use no sentence, nigga, we don't want that advice, miss me.

807
00:39:28,200 --> 00:39:33,000
Speaker 1: With that, I'm talking about advice or not.

808
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:35,840
Speaker 3: Actually, men need to stop using sentence open their dicks

809
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:38,040
Speaker 3: because they're the ones who are causing women to get

810
00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:39,760
Speaker 3: all types of couchy issues.

811
00:39:40,120 --> 00:39:42,480
Speaker 1: We don't need no high giene advice from yours.

812
00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:46,239
Speaker 4: But I'm talking about tell you what it is like.

813
00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:50,080
Speaker 4: You asked for my advice. You can't. You can't do

814
00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:51,080
Speaker 4: what I'm gonna tell you.

815
00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 1: Just got to I'm not receiving that.

816
00:39:53,120 --> 00:40:02,400
Speaker 4: It's crazy when it hit the dog coaches that with

817
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:04,400
Speaker 4: somebody talking about.

818
00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:09,200
Speaker 1: You know, we don't we know how to take care

819
00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:13,800
Speaker 1: of our bodies. What I'm saying is like women sharing

820
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:14,719
Speaker 1: their body with me.

821
00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 4: By right, share it, who share it, who you want

822
00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:20,840
Speaker 4: to share with you. You should have been more pacific

823
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:22,360
Speaker 4: because I was gonna get to all of that and

824
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:25,000
Speaker 4: I was around. But share who you want to share

825
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:26,640
Speaker 4: it with. If you if you want to be outside,

826
00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:30,240
Speaker 4: be outside. If you want to be inside, be inside.

827
00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:32,319
Speaker 4: But when you inside, know it's lonely in there, get

828
00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:34,400
Speaker 4: real lonely and cold.

829
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:37,080
Speaker 2: You got to be outside inside.

830
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:40,680
Speaker 4: One foot, one foot in, one out. But I just

831
00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:43,360
Speaker 4: feel like there's no shuch thing as a whole. I

832
00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:47,040
Speaker 4: feel like you can't judge somebody. People gonna be the

833
00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:49,200
Speaker 4: way they are sooner or later she's gonna be somebody

834
00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:51,839
Speaker 4: husband and the hoes get wife or quicker. That's all

835
00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:53,880
Speaker 4: I got to say. Because they know how to be

836
00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 4: a hope for their man, cooking that too. Yeah.

837
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:02,680
Speaker 1: Oh, I don't know about this advice this time.

838
00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 4: I just.

839
00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:13,719
Speaker 1: Man, do with it what you will. Ladies. You know

840
00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:15,839
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't give advice to be a whobe

841
00:41:15,880 --> 00:41:19,239
Speaker 1: of our racist, be a whole for your man, right.

842
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:21,080
Speaker 4: I didn't say that. I didn't say that. I said

843
00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:22,440
Speaker 4: be a hobe of your man. I feel like we're

844
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:24,800
Speaker 4: in a new age of people, men and women. We

845
00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:26,160
Speaker 4: have to be sexually liberated.

846
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:26,319
Speaker 1: Man.

847
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:28,439
Speaker 4: We got to understand what we like, what we wanted,

848
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:30,680
Speaker 4: how we want it. And when you get to that point,

849
00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:32,719
Speaker 4: you will enjoy sex or life better. You enjoy your

850
00:41:32,719 --> 00:41:34,400
Speaker 4: life a lot better. You won't fill in a box

851
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 4: and you can do what you want to do and

852
00:41:35,640 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 4: that feel like you ain't being judged.

853
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:40,399
Speaker 2: There's consequences though, to do what you want to do.

854
00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 3: There's illegitimate that, there's STDs, there's all types of ship.

855
00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:49,600
Speaker 3: And if you want a man, what I want vonn

856
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 3: and say is if you want a man to take

857
00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:53,920
Speaker 3: you serious for real, you can't pop that Listen, as

858
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:55,440
Speaker 3: much as you want to pop that pussy on the

859
00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 3: first night, you gotta have some self control a little bit, Ladies,

860
00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:04,839
Speaker 3: at least second, because it's a shot in the dark.

861
00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:08,239
Speaker 3: It's a shot in the dark with men. Because a

862
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:12,000
Speaker 3: minute a man comes, he comes to his senses. Testostron

863
00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:15,440
Speaker 3: is down. Now he might look at you and not

864
00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 3: like you no more. You could have gave him the

865
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:21,680
Speaker 3: best pussy ever, like you thought. Anyway, you know what

866
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:24,600
Speaker 3: I'm saying, Maybe I'm gonna tell you like this, he

867
00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:27,000
Speaker 3: don't even match, and this man is totally different. The

868
00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:29,320
Speaker 3: next day with you, you risk that.

869
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:34,759
Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell you like this money first, and it

870
00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:36,719
Speaker 4: don't be that. It don't be that. I'm gonna be

871
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:38,799
Speaker 4: honest with you, whether you think your pussy good, whatever

872
00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:41,080
Speaker 4: it is. If he gonna rock what he's gonna rock

873
00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:42,839
Speaker 4: with you, whether you get it on the third month

874
00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:43,600
Speaker 4: or the first.

875
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:47,759
Speaker 1: Night or day, you can't know that they want.

876
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:49,479
Speaker 4: But it's always a risk.

877
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:53,160
Speaker 3: But you're gonna begas trying to figure that out.

878
00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:54,000
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

879
00:42:54,040 --> 00:42:57,239
Speaker 4: So but you don't have to do that. But what

880
00:42:57,280 --> 00:42:59,440
Speaker 4: I'm saying is if you make me wait ninety days,

881
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:02,279
Speaker 4: y'all may go to the ninety days. But at that point,

882
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:04,680
Speaker 4: I'm so aggravated with you. I'm a fucking still believe

883
00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:05,719
Speaker 4: your ass for making me wait.

884
00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:06,799
Speaker 2: We were talking about that.

885
00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:12,760
Speaker 1: I know there's some resentment like women, we are damned

886
00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:14,400
Speaker 1: if we do, are damned if we don't.

887
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:18,200
Speaker 4: It's at that point it's a whole hate fuck like

888
00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:20,319
Speaker 4: you ever took a girl A man never took you back,

889
00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:21,920
Speaker 4: and he really was just hate fucking you because he

890
00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:23,400
Speaker 4: really doesn't fuck with you like that no more. But

891
00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:25,120
Speaker 4: he took you back just to hit and then dish

892
00:43:25,200 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 4: you out again, like, don't make a nigga wait wait

893
00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:29,920
Speaker 4: that long. Like if he gonna fuck with you on

894
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:32,040
Speaker 4: the first night of ninety days, that means he just

895
00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:34,279
Speaker 4: fucked you. You a nice girltend on you.

896
00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:41,360
Speaker 1: The section fuck is crazy wild. I've never heard that

897
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:43,319
Speaker 1: term before, and it just really.

898
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:46,279
Speaker 4: You never So you're telling me you never broke up

899
00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:48,400
Speaker 4: with a dude that didn't do wrong, or y'all was

900
00:43:48,440 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 4: mad at each other, y'all broke up for a long

901
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:52,080
Speaker 4: period of time. He saw you outside on Instagram or

902
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 4: Facebook popping your ship with another nigga. Then that didn't

903
00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:57,399
Speaker 4: work out, and then you try to double back because

904
00:43:57,440 --> 00:43:59,160
Speaker 4: you see the grass ain't green on the other side,

905
00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:00,920
Speaker 4: and then he just smash. I really still don't want

906
00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:02,120
Speaker 4: to fuck with you.

907
00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:04,080
Speaker 1: No, I ain't never had no ship like that happened.

908
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:07,880
Speaker 1: That is crazy. He'd be hated playing with me.

909
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:12,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, he gonna do just enough to smash and he's

910
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:13,480
Speaker 4: gonna put you right back outside.

911
00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:14,080
Speaker 2: Ladies.

912
00:44:14,160 --> 00:44:16,440
Speaker 1: That's why I said, keep your vaginity yourself as long

913
00:44:16,440 --> 00:44:18,040
Speaker 1: as you can. They don't know how to treat you.

914
00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:21,640
Speaker 1: I hate fuck is wow. That there's even a term

915
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:22,960
Speaker 1: for that.

916
00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:25,200
Speaker 3: That's that nigga term. I don't think niggas calling it

917
00:44:25,239 --> 00:44:28,000
Speaker 3: a hate fuck. They just smashing dash for sure, though.

918
00:44:28,040 --> 00:44:31,040
Speaker 3: But I hate fuckers. Do you really hate the bitch

919
00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:31,520
Speaker 3: that bad?

920
00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:33,480
Speaker 2: You want to make her feel like it?

921
00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 4: Ain't You don't really hate her. It's just like some

922
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:39,080
Speaker 4: women think they can. Like when women go and see it,

923
00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:41,000
Speaker 4: they think the grass green. On the other side, they

924
00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:43,279
Speaker 4: think they can come back in and think they're gonna

925
00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:45,759
Speaker 4: have the same position as when they left. That's what

926
00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:48,520
Speaker 4: that really mean, Like, Oh, you went outside so that

927
00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:51,040
Speaker 4: these niggas really ain't ship and I'm really the nigga

928
00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 4: for you, and you think you're gonna come back in

929
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:55,759
Speaker 4: the same position. Hell no, You're gonna sing you right

930
00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:57,480
Speaker 4: back outside after we get done, and then you be

931
00:44:57,560 --> 00:44:59,839
Speaker 4: on about your way. That's how niggas is for real.

932
00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:02,759
Speaker 1: That's why I got a gun. I ain't playing with

933
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:04,200
Speaker 1: y'all no more. Don't do play with.

934
00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:10,839
Speaker 4: Me like that. But nah man that that first day,

935
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:13,919
Speaker 4: second day, first week, third man, that shit don't matter.

936
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:15,960
Speaker 4: He liked you, He gonna like you whether you give

937
00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:19,000
Speaker 4: it to him whenever, it don't matter. And if it's

938
00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:21,359
Speaker 4: good like you think it's good. He gonna recognize that,

939
00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:23,200
Speaker 4: and he gonna see all the other attributes you bring

940
00:45:23,239 --> 00:45:26,359
Speaker 4: to the table as well. That's why I say, in

941
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:28,719
Speaker 4: this new age, people have to be sex you liberated.

942
00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:31,960
Speaker 4: They have to embrace who they are, embrace what it is.

943
00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:34,359
Speaker 4: You're gonna make some mistakes along the line. You're gonna

944
00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:36,320
Speaker 4: make a lot of mistakes with niggas that you shouldn't

945
00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:38,640
Speaker 4: have probably gave it to. But you made all those

946
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:40,759
Speaker 4: mistakes to understand what not to do and what to

947
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:43,279
Speaker 4: do in the next go round and when you really

948
00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:44,120
Speaker 4: find a guy you like.

949
00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:47,959
Speaker 3: From my experience, what keeps a man around the same

950
00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:52,960
Speaker 3: way women cherish their vagina and you know, their bodies

951
00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:56,319
Speaker 3: women chair, I mean, men cherish their wallets in the

952
00:45:56,400 --> 00:45:59,400
Speaker 3: same way. So in order to keep a man around,

953
00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 3: he has to have had a made it. He has

954
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:06,640
Speaker 3: to have had made some type of investment in you, amen,

955
00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:11,960
Speaker 3: Like that's honestly what it is, right. So that's why like, no,

956
00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:15,080
Speaker 3: I'm not going to olive garden, you know what I'm saying,

957
00:46:15,160 --> 00:46:18,440
Speaker 3: Like they have like the man has to feel like

958
00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:20,880
Speaker 3: he has to get a return on that investment at

959
00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:22,839
Speaker 3: some point. So he's not going to be as quick

960
00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:26,200
Speaker 3: to leave you ask for money on the first date.

961
00:46:26,280 --> 00:46:33,479
Speaker 3: Ladies don't do that either, So let's let's go ahead

962
00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:35,240
Speaker 3: and make the shit awkward on both ends.

963
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:37,520
Speaker 2: If a man comes at you like that, ask for.

964
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:39,759
Speaker 1: Money, but then, but then that's prostitution.

965
00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:43,839
Speaker 2: It's not prostitution. How is that prostitution?

966
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 1: If you asking for money in exchange for your body

967
00:46:47,760 --> 00:46:48,480
Speaker 1: is prostitution?

968
00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:50,279
Speaker 3: Okay, how about you just pull up the phone and

969
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:53,440
Speaker 3: go go to those red Bottoms you've been wanting some

970
00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:55,880
Speaker 3: boot even wanting, and show him and see what happens.

971
00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:57,360
Speaker 3: Maybe he'll give you his debit card and let you

972
00:46:57,400 --> 00:47:00,760
Speaker 3: go ahead and order. Okay, maybe he if you don't

973
00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:01,600
Speaker 3: like cash.

974
00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:07,200
Speaker 4: Palm aj That mindset is why they got that why

975
00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:09,319
Speaker 4: women got this list out, and they say they won't

976
00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:11,440
Speaker 4: go to Ruby Tuesdays, they won't go to Olive Garden,

977
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:13,480
Speaker 4: And then wonder why a nigga want a fuck after

978
00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:16,399
Speaker 4: he take you to the steakhouse and spend three four

979
00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:17,799
Speaker 4: hundred dollars and he won't pussy there.

980
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:18,680
Speaker 2: No, I'm gonna tell you why.

981
00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:22,360
Speaker 3: Because men want whole prostitute type behavior out of regular

982
00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:26,319
Speaker 3: women instead of going to spend three hundred dollars on

983
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:29,160
Speaker 3: the bitch who literally sells pussy, y'all, rather try to

984
00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:32,759
Speaker 3: finesse regular women out of pussy and then treat them

985
00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:34,640
Speaker 3: some type of way. If they do happen to like

986
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:37,360
Speaker 3: you enough to give you the pussy, that's the problem.

987
00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:40,120
Speaker 3: Go ahead and pay upfront with the pussy, as opposed

988
00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:42,239
Speaker 3: to trying to finesse regular women and have them doing

989
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:43,000
Speaker 3: prostitute shit.

990
00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:47,160
Speaker 4: What I'm gonna be honest, paying three hundred dollars for

991
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:50,439
Speaker 4: dinner is not finessing pussy. That's that's if I'm paying

992
00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:52,600
Speaker 4: three hundred dollars for dinner, I'm not finissing you for

993
00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:54,319
Speaker 4: no pussy. You should want to get you.

994
00:47:54,920 --> 00:47:58,759
Speaker 3: Like we need food with our homegirls, Like, that's not

995
00:47:59,080 --> 00:47:59,680
Speaker 3: a flex.

996
00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:01,400
Speaker 2: It's not.

997
00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:05,400
Speaker 1: If you pay for a dinner that's three hundred dollars,

998
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:07,840
Speaker 1: I should want to have sex with you? Is crazy?

999
00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:11,360
Speaker 4: You know I'm saying if you if you're just meeting

1000
00:48:11,400 --> 00:48:14,200
Speaker 4: a guy, you should not expect him to take you

1001
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:17,360
Speaker 4: to the most extravagant restaurant. If y'all just trying to

1002
00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:19,520
Speaker 4: get to know each other, because then it's like, what

1003
00:48:19,560 --> 00:48:22,480
Speaker 4: are we really here for? Are we here to.

1004
00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:25,840
Speaker 3: That nigga who asked me to fuck took me to

1005
00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:30,360
Speaker 3: cheesecake factory. I am a woman who likes the cheesecake factory.

1006
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:33,000
Speaker 3: I even suggested it. But the nerve of you to

1007
00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:35,359
Speaker 3: think I go to cheesecake factory multiple times a week

1008
00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:37,160
Speaker 3: is set at the bar during happy hours. I love

1009
00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:40,480
Speaker 3: them my tie okay, and the crab one times. But

1010
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:42,880
Speaker 3: you asking me about some pussy after you take me

1011
00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:44,960
Speaker 3: to the cheesecake factory is fucking wild to me.

1012
00:48:46,880 --> 00:48:48,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, he out of pocket for that, but he ain't

1013
00:48:48,480 --> 00:48:50,759
Speaker 4: spending three hundred at the cheesecake factory. We talking about

1014
00:48:50,760 --> 00:48:51,239
Speaker 4: the places that.

1015
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:53,279
Speaker 3: Don't matter what these niggas spend the money at. These

1016
00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:55,560
Speaker 3: trying to fuck, they're still trying to fuck. No matter

1017
00:48:55,600 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 3: what he's spending money at, they still think you for

1018
00:48:59,640 --> 00:49:00,400
Speaker 3: dinner and pussy.

1019
00:49:01,400 --> 00:49:03,640
Speaker 1: You can't put a monetary value on my body. I

1020
00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 1: feel like when I talk to me and I tell

1021
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:08,480
Speaker 1: him make me feel special, make me feel special. It

1022
00:49:08,520 --> 00:49:10,920
Speaker 1: does not have a dollar amount on it, because that

1023
00:49:11,239 --> 00:49:13,400
Speaker 1: when you think of it that way, but it becomes

1024
00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:16,520
Speaker 1: too transactional. I don't like it like that, Like, just

1025
00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:18,759
Speaker 1: make me feel special, and if you go out your

1026
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:21,120
Speaker 1: way to make me feel special. Then eventually you will

1027
00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:24,719
Speaker 1: get some eventually, And that's that's the bottom line. Once

1028
00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:27,000
Speaker 1: you start talking about, oh I spent this much or

1029
00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:30,080
Speaker 1: I spent this little, it's just too prostituting.

1030
00:49:30,680 --> 00:49:38,239
Speaker 4: Prostituting women. I don't think so women made it that

1031
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:41,400
Speaker 4: way to where men we're always thinking about money, because'

1032
00:49:41,600 --> 00:49:43,960
Speaker 4: all y'all care about is what a nigga spend where

1033
00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:46,719
Speaker 4: he taking you? Before people used to have dates walking

1034
00:49:46,760 --> 00:49:48,439
Speaker 4: through the park and just to get to know each other.

1035
00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:51,040
Speaker 4: Now we got to do the most to even get

1036
00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:53,120
Speaker 4: you too, like less for us to be a potential.

1037
00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:55,319
Speaker 2: Okay, that's not true, that's not true.

1038
00:49:55,680 --> 00:49:57,960
Speaker 3: This is why men should go on dates with women

1039
00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:01,520
Speaker 3: who actually are showing and in them. The problem is

1040
00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:03,360
Speaker 3: a lot of men who have a couple of dollars,

1041
00:50:03,360 --> 00:50:05,239
Speaker 3: they might go on five different dates because they're gonna

1042
00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:07,239
Speaker 3: eat anyway, So you got five different.

1043
00:50:06,960 --> 00:50:09,000
Speaker 2: Women, you take it out. It gets expensive to date.

1044
00:50:09,239 --> 00:50:11,759
Speaker 3: Why don't you date people who actually like you and

1045
00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:15,799
Speaker 3: stop dating for the end goal to be pussy? Date

1046
00:50:15,840 --> 00:50:17,719
Speaker 3: women who actually just already want to give you the

1047
00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:20,160
Speaker 3: pussy because they like who you are, you adding you

1048
00:50:20,239 --> 00:50:23,399
Speaker 3: adding money for instant swag because you don't have any.

1049
00:50:23,640 --> 00:50:27,080
Speaker 3: You can't get the pussy without the bag. So now

1050
00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:29,000
Speaker 3: that's a whole other topic of discussion.

1051
00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:32,440
Speaker 1: And then another thing is that then don't want to

1052
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:34,560
Speaker 1: be creative no more. They just want to take you

1053
00:50:34,600 --> 00:50:37,799
Speaker 1: to a restaurant. You use your brain taking a girl

1054
00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:40,760
Speaker 1: on a picnic and actually planning a picnic and making

1055
00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:42,960
Speaker 1: it nice and cue. A woman would love that. I

1056
00:50:43,000 --> 00:50:47,080
Speaker 1: would love that, would you not? Aj Yes, absolutely absolutely.

1057
00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:51,000
Speaker 1: Men don't try. There's no effort. We just gonna go

1058
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:53,640
Speaker 1: to this restaurant, Mitch, I spend three hundred dollars on

1059
00:50:53,680 --> 00:50:57,080
Speaker 1: their state. Give me the like, now, oh you pussy

1060
00:50:57,160 --> 00:51:00,000
Speaker 1: is crazy. Here go the money back, sir, right, because

1061
00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:02,040
Speaker 1: I come here here by myself.

1062
00:51:03,160 --> 00:51:08,200
Speaker 4: So yeah, I think y'all just got to take that

1063
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:10,560
Speaker 4: take a lot. A lot of men don't have it

1064
00:51:10,600 --> 00:51:13,000
Speaker 4: to where they can take you to these expensive, extravagant

1065
00:51:13,040 --> 00:51:15,480
Speaker 4: restaurants like that. You got to be understanding, like women

1066
00:51:15,520 --> 00:51:18,239
Speaker 4: are winning more in the money aspect of life right now.

1067
00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:20,640
Speaker 4: A lot of black women and women period, y'all are

1068
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:23,919
Speaker 4: winning and having money and having successful businesses and being

1069
00:51:23,920 --> 00:51:27,359
Speaker 4: more successful than black men and men period. So it's

1070
00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:30,799
Speaker 4: like the average guy that you are. Regular women may

1071
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:34,759
Speaker 4: running too because they are going to meet a woman

1072
00:51:34,800 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 4: that probably got more than them. The girls that we

1073
00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:40,080
Speaker 4: see on Instagram and all that they probably already chasing

1074
00:51:40,120 --> 00:51:43,120
Speaker 4: at the ball players and all these other guys that

1075
00:51:43,520 --> 00:51:45,600
Speaker 4: they not even making a time for. A regular guy.

1076
00:51:45,840 --> 00:51:49,400
Speaker 3: Know your hollow level, your hollow level, because there's a

1077
00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:52,440
Speaker 3: there's regular women out here who's okay with the places

1078
00:51:52,440 --> 00:51:55,919
Speaker 3: you like to frequent and the places you can afford. Right,

1079
00:51:56,280 --> 00:51:59,959
Speaker 3: But men are way more shallow than women. Men want

1080
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:03,120
Speaker 3: attend when they're two. Y'all want to talk about numbers

1081
00:52:03,120 --> 00:52:07,239
Speaker 3: and rating women. Men literally are way more shallow. You

1082
00:52:07,239 --> 00:52:10,720
Speaker 3: do not see fine ass dudes with basic bitches. Okay,

1083
00:52:11,120 --> 00:52:14,440
Speaker 3: You always catch the basic nigga with a fine ass woman,

1084
00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:15,840
Speaker 3: right because he got him the money.

1085
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:17,760
Speaker 2: So it's just in the exchange.

1086
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:18,560
Speaker 4: Right.

1087
00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:23,240
Speaker 3: If you cannot stop going after women you can't afford

1088
00:52:23,239 --> 00:52:25,239
Speaker 3: and then trying to make them come down to where

1089
00:52:25,280 --> 00:52:27,680
Speaker 3: you are, that's fucked up. You wouldn't want that for

1090
00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:31,960
Speaker 3: your daughter. Your daughter can't bring that nigga to your house.

1091
00:52:32,280 --> 00:52:36,080
Speaker 3: Let's be very clear that you got to give her money.

1092
00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:40,200
Speaker 4: I'm trying to impress her. He always trying to impress

1093
00:52:40,200 --> 00:52:41,520
Speaker 4: his check way out.

1094
00:52:41,400 --> 00:52:43,000
Speaker 1: He leaves, yes, leave her alone.

1095
00:52:43,280 --> 00:52:45,040
Speaker 3: I can get with that and stop trying to make

1096
00:52:45,080 --> 00:52:46,920
Speaker 3: the women feel like we're doing too much.

1097
00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:50,719
Speaker 1: I don't agree with that all the way, because a

1098
00:52:50,800 --> 00:52:53,560
Speaker 1: man can have potential and growing to something amazing, right,

1099
00:52:53,920 --> 00:52:56,279
Speaker 1: he can meet her at one place, as long as

1100
00:52:56,280 --> 00:52:58,080
Speaker 1: he got a plan and he got something that he

1101
00:52:58,120 --> 00:52:59,759
Speaker 1: can build. I don't see nothing wrong with.

1102
00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:05,080
Speaker 2: Every man I've ever been with had a fucking plan.

1103
00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:07,640
Speaker 3: I am talking about the high maintenance women that these

1104
00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:10,520
Speaker 3: men are on the internet complaining about why are you

1105
00:53:10,520 --> 00:53:12,640
Speaker 3: complaining about them? When there's a lot of regularized women

1106
00:53:13,239 --> 00:53:15,120
Speaker 3: right who are more on a level that you can

1107
00:53:15,200 --> 00:53:17,480
Speaker 3: be going, you can go and build with. But y'all

1108
00:53:17,480 --> 00:53:19,879
Speaker 3: a complaining about the women. You want them to bring

1109
00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:22,240
Speaker 3: the standards down so you can have more access to pussy.

1110
00:53:23,320 --> 00:53:24,759
Speaker 3: That is not how that works.

1111
00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:28,560
Speaker 4: Okay, that's fair, But I also feel like I feel

1112
00:53:28,560 --> 00:53:32,440
Speaker 4: like the men that's speaking is really the men that

1113
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:35,160
Speaker 4: was cornballs growing up, and now they got money and

1114
00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:40,880
Speaker 4: now they got a voice. So it's like, yeah, they

1115
00:53:40,920 --> 00:53:43,319
Speaker 4: got a voice and like you said, a mic, but

1116
00:53:43,480 --> 00:53:46,719
Speaker 4: growing up they was corny. They work so hard to

1117
00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:49,680
Speaker 4: be somebody. So now that they got it, they thinking

1118
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:53,319
Speaker 4: data is when it's really not that, like for real,

1119
00:53:53,400 --> 00:53:56,759
Speaker 4: for real, like and I get what you're saying. They're

1120
00:53:56,800 --> 00:53:59,600
Speaker 4: chasing something that they really are still out they lead

1121
00:53:59,680 --> 00:54:02,440
Speaker 4: because when when a girl pull up with you at

1122
00:54:02,440 --> 00:54:04,759
Speaker 4: the dinner with the homegirls and they looking for you

1123
00:54:04,800 --> 00:54:06,480
Speaker 4: to pay, and all of them girls looking like, man,

1124
00:54:06,520 --> 00:54:10,080
Speaker 4: this nigga, but he got the bag. I get I

1125
00:54:10,120 --> 00:54:13,359
Speaker 4: get it because I see it all the time. I've

1126
00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:17,440
Speaker 4: never been no tricking dude. I never paid for no homegirls.

1127
00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:20,839
Speaker 4: I've never done that. I'm not that like. I done

1128
00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:23,080
Speaker 4: been places where if y'all thinking I paid, I had

1129
00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:24,880
Speaker 4: already paid for me and who the chick out with.

1130
00:54:25,480 --> 00:54:28,000
Speaker 4: And by the time the tap, y'all tab come, y'all

1131
00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:29,880
Speaker 4: looking at me like, no, he got it. No, we

1132
00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:37,279
Speaker 4: already paid. A matter of fact, I'll pay and be like, hey,

1133
00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:40,160
Speaker 4: let's go back. You're right, let's get it. So about

1134
00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:43,080
Speaker 4: they figure out what they got going on. I'm not

1135
00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:44,840
Speaker 4: no trigger dude, I'm not doing Please.

1136
00:54:44,600 --> 00:54:47,160
Speaker 3: Believe she do pre warn her homegirls. Look that nigga

1137
00:54:47,160 --> 00:54:52,239
Speaker 3: ain't with that ship. He Yeah, money, we know who's

1138
00:54:52,239 --> 00:54:54,839
Speaker 3: gonna pay for what? We know niggas coming to pay

1139
00:54:54,840 --> 00:54:56,440
Speaker 3: for all the ship right.

1140
00:54:58,440 --> 00:54:59,440
Speaker 1: That girl, bring money.

1141
00:54:59,760 --> 00:55:02,439
Speaker 4: I tell you, I'm the nigga that if I ever play,

1142
00:55:02,520 --> 00:55:05,360
Speaker 4: I'm looking for everybody went something from everybody living.

1143
00:55:05,160 --> 00:55:06,319
Speaker 1: Here with something like this.

1144
00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:07,800
Speaker 2: I'm living here.

1145
00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:13,280
Speaker 4: With God, give me your kids, give me anything.

1146
00:55:13,640 --> 00:55:15,560
Speaker 1: And everybody as on the way.

1147
00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:25,960
Speaker 5: Out of the door, who who name?

1148
00:55:26,360 --> 00:55:29,279
Speaker 2: That's how he had to at the door of the restaurant.

1149
00:55:31,360 --> 00:55:35,359
Speaker 4: Real bigg buy YouTube drinks? What you going? You're right

1150
00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:40,680
Speaker 4: with us. I'm not that nigga. I'm sorry, and that

1151
00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:43,400
Speaker 4: just comes from my core. Like I never grew up

1152
00:55:43,520 --> 00:55:46,360
Speaker 4: having problems getting women. I never was the guy that

1153
00:55:46,520 --> 00:55:49,040
Speaker 4: wasn't cool. So it's like I see the difference when

1154
00:55:49,040 --> 00:55:51,640
Speaker 4: I say this on my podcast. A lot like me

1155
00:55:51,719 --> 00:55:54,560
Speaker 4: and some niggas are not the same. Like even though

1156
00:55:54,600 --> 00:55:57,600
Speaker 4: this industry drives with a lot of people that probably

1157
00:55:57,640 --> 00:56:00,319
Speaker 4: wasn't that grew up a different way and probably don't

1158
00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:02,640
Speaker 4: probably had a hard time getting girls, didn't have many friends,

1159
00:56:02,680 --> 00:56:05,719
Speaker 4: and now somebody, it'd be like, bruh, the way you

1160
00:56:05,760 --> 00:56:08,520
Speaker 4: think and I think is different. Like it's totally different.

1161
00:56:09,080 --> 00:56:11,400
Speaker 4: A lot of these niggas be pussy hungry at this

1162
00:56:11,440 --> 00:56:13,520
Speaker 4: point in their life. Because they're just not coming into song.

1163
00:56:13,800 --> 00:56:15,040
Speaker 2: They just now getting.

1164
00:56:17,080 --> 00:56:20,839
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't need all that said.

1165
00:56:20,920 --> 00:56:23,759
Speaker 1: Man, I've been getting pussy baby, don't play with me.

1166
00:56:24,440 --> 00:56:28,080
Speaker 3: We're gonna find out, y'all. We're gonna find out right

1167
00:56:28,120 --> 00:56:31,040
Speaker 3: after this break. We're gonna get a SIMP story out

1168
00:56:31,080 --> 00:56:33,439
Speaker 3: of Vaughn Ray when we come back.

1169
00:56:33,600 --> 00:56:37,080
Speaker 1: Stay tuned the big big bandit, y'all. SIP story coming

1170
00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:37,600
Speaker 1: right up.

1171
00:56:40,239 --> 00:56:49,200
Speaker 3: To say, sir, all right, man, listen, So you know

1172
00:56:49,719 --> 00:56:53,880
Speaker 3: you probably listened to the show. Okay, hopefully we have

1173
00:56:53,960 --> 00:56:58,040
Speaker 3: a segment on the show called dumb bitch Stories or

1174
00:56:58,160 --> 00:57:02,600
Speaker 3: simp serious for the guys, I know you just pimped. Okay,

1175
00:57:03,239 --> 00:57:06,319
Speaker 3: tell us about the time you got played though never

1176
00:57:06,360 --> 00:57:09,279
Speaker 3: got played by no you know what I mean.

1177
00:57:09,719 --> 00:57:13,279
Speaker 4: No, for sure, I didn't got played by plenty of women.

1178
00:57:15,239 --> 00:57:18,760
Speaker 4: Y'all might know who I'm talking about when I say this. Right, So,

1179
00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:22,680
Speaker 4: I was dating this chick, right, and this is the

1180
00:57:22,680 --> 00:57:26,160
Speaker 4: first time I never really thought women had the capability

1181
00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:28,520
Speaker 4: of like starting the argument just so y'all can break

1182
00:57:28,600 --> 00:57:33,400
Speaker 4: up and then you catch her out she on front

1183
00:57:33,480 --> 00:57:38,720
Speaker 4: row seats with a rapper and I'm like, we on

1184
00:57:38,800 --> 00:57:42,280
Speaker 4: Instagram vibing all of that at this time, like everybody

1185
00:57:42,320 --> 00:57:46,280
Speaker 4: know this my girl, people DM and me such and

1186
00:57:46,400 --> 00:57:48,600
Speaker 4: such at the game with such and such, and I'm like,

1187
00:57:49,360 --> 00:57:52,919
Speaker 4: and I'm blowing her phone up. Ain't answering going straight

1188
00:57:52,960 --> 00:57:56,080
Speaker 4: the voicemail. I'm like, god, damn, she started. She did

1189
00:57:56,120 --> 00:57:57,320
Speaker 4: all of that so I could say, you know what

1190
00:57:57,880 --> 00:58:01,080
Speaker 4: with you no more bucket. But me being in my ego,

1191
00:58:01,160 --> 00:58:03,360
Speaker 4: I'm thinking, like, you know, she gonna call me tomorrow.

1192
00:58:03,400 --> 00:58:05,840
Speaker 4: We're gonna be good. Man. This girl did all that

1193
00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:09,640
Speaker 4: just to go to a game with a rapper. My mind,

1194
00:58:09,760 --> 00:58:13,080
Speaker 4: I said, yeah, women. She called the next day after

1195
00:58:13,120 --> 00:58:15,760
Speaker 4: she got smashed and tried to come back. Did you

1196
00:58:15,960 --> 00:58:18,120
Speaker 4: because he smashed and there he was like, yeah, I'm

1197
00:58:18,120 --> 00:58:20,120
Speaker 4: going back to La So you know we had fun.

1198
00:58:21,240 --> 00:58:22,880
Speaker 4: Nigga went on his way and she tried to come.

1199
00:58:22,720 --> 00:58:24,160
Speaker 1: Back, and did you hate fuck her?

1200
00:58:26,720 --> 00:58:28,800
Speaker 4: Come on, you know I already told you that. Of

1201
00:58:28,800 --> 00:58:33,600
Speaker 4: course sent her after that that was left.

1202
00:58:33,880 --> 00:58:36,360
Speaker 1: See that's where the hate fuck arrived. That was your

1203
00:58:36,520 --> 00:58:38,040
Speaker 1: villain origin story right there.

1204
00:58:39,600 --> 00:58:44,240
Speaker 4: Yeah. I invented that then because because it was such

1205
00:58:44,240 --> 00:58:46,400
Speaker 4: a good timeline, because it was like, she went to

1206
00:58:46,440 --> 00:58:48,400
Speaker 4: the game, she got smashed. The next day, she tried

1207
00:58:48,400 --> 00:58:50,120
Speaker 4: to come back. Then I smashed, then I sent her

1208
00:58:50,080 --> 00:58:52,200
Speaker 4: on her way. Then she felt horrible, like I'm making

1209
00:58:52,240 --> 00:58:55,360
Speaker 4: so many bad decisions. This is crazy. I'm like, yeah, yeah,

1210
00:58:55,400 --> 00:58:57,160
Speaker 4: I mean way.

1211
00:58:57,000 --> 00:59:00,840
Speaker 1: That's definitely pussy mis management. Right up, two niggas in

1212
00:59:00,880 --> 00:59:02,440
Speaker 1: a week and end up with no niggas.

1213
00:59:02,480 --> 00:59:05,960
Speaker 2: They're math and mathing, baby, and just the tickets to again.

1214
00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:10,160
Speaker 1: That Math is not mathing. You got another one.

1215
00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:12,360
Speaker 4: And that's why I say it'd be crazy. It'd be

1216
00:59:12,480 --> 00:59:15,600
Speaker 4: so diabolical when women, when y'all be ready to do

1217
00:59:15,640 --> 00:59:17,640
Speaker 4: something because y'all think the grass on the other side,

1218
00:59:17,720 --> 00:59:20,520
Speaker 4: y'all be plenty of your whole life with this new nigga. Y'all,

1219
00:59:20,800 --> 00:59:22,520
Speaker 4: this is gonna be my man. We couldn't take trips.

1220
00:59:22,520 --> 00:59:24,560
Speaker 4: He got money. We canna be doing this that y'all

1221
00:59:24,560 --> 00:59:26,400
Speaker 4: be plenty of our whole life with a new nigga.

1222
00:59:27,080 --> 00:59:29,680
Speaker 4: So y'all try to say, oh, this ain't working out,

1223
00:59:29,680 --> 00:59:31,200
Speaker 4: we ain't got this going on and don't even know

1224
00:59:31,360 --> 00:59:34,040
Speaker 4: like niggas still out here running game. He said just

1225
00:59:34,160 --> 00:59:35,680
Speaker 4: enough to get you to do this, this and it

1226
00:59:36,080 --> 00:59:37,280
Speaker 4: and wasn't that gonna come about it?

1227
00:59:37,720 --> 00:59:38,240
Speaker 2: Nah?

1228
00:59:38,840 --> 00:59:41,479
Speaker 3: Before that nigga even came about she was already wanting

1229
00:59:41,480 --> 00:59:44,720
Speaker 3: to leave your ass. Honestly, Well, I just speaking for myself.

1230
00:59:45,640 --> 00:59:47,880
Speaker 3: You can't get me off a man unless I'm ready

1231
00:59:47,920 --> 00:59:48,480
Speaker 3: to get off.

1232
00:59:48,320 --> 00:59:50,120
Speaker 2: Of him, period too.

1233
00:59:50,280 --> 00:59:52,760
Speaker 3: Okay, and usually if I entertain somebody else, I've been

1234
00:59:52,760 --> 00:59:53,800
Speaker 3: looking for your replacement.

1235
00:59:54,280 --> 00:59:57,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, the mind leave first with women, then to pussy.

1236
00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:01,360
Speaker 4: I agree, you might be right.

1237
01:00:02,640 --> 01:00:07,480
Speaker 1: Are you being faithful to this woman? Hell no, at

1238
01:00:07,480 --> 01:00:10,040
Speaker 1: the time that one month.

1239
01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:13,760
Speaker 4: I'm gonna be honest. That probably was my calmra man.

1240
01:00:13,800 --> 01:00:17,160
Speaker 4: I probably you know what I'm saying. That's why I

1241
01:00:17,160 --> 01:00:20,440
Speaker 4: say anytime something like that happened to me, it's probably

1242
01:00:20,480 --> 01:00:22,160
Speaker 4: not what I did in the moment. It's probably something

1243
01:00:22,200 --> 01:00:23,760
Speaker 4: I did in the past to somebody else. You know

1244
01:00:23,840 --> 01:00:27,120
Speaker 4: what I'm saying. Be calm, Just be calmer, man. I

1245
01:00:27,120 --> 01:00:29,520
Speaker 4: didn't even call the girl. I done called a girl

1246
01:00:29,600 --> 01:00:31,360
Speaker 4: to act one of my partners, and I couldn't do

1247
01:00:31,400 --> 01:00:33,480
Speaker 4: nothing but just going to the room, put my head in

1248
01:00:33,520 --> 01:00:38,280
Speaker 4: the pillow and cry. That's all I could do. So

1249
01:00:38,440 --> 01:00:41,440
Speaker 4: hurt that it was college that was your girl, though

1250
01:00:43,920 --> 01:00:45,880
Speaker 4: I thought it was shit. I was. I thought I

1251
01:00:45,920 --> 01:00:47,600
Speaker 4: was in love. That was straight out of high school.

1252
01:00:47,640 --> 01:00:49,560
Speaker 4: You think you so in love with somebody. This the

1253
01:00:49,560 --> 01:00:51,440
Speaker 4: first time you outside of your comforty or was on

1254
01:00:51,560 --> 01:00:53,800
Speaker 4: your parents and you know, to make the baddest chick

1255
01:00:53,840 --> 01:00:57,080
Speaker 4: on campus. And you just like, man, I love this girl.

1256
01:00:57,120 --> 01:00:58,600
Speaker 4: You think you fel the mary hand, be well for

1257
01:00:58,600 --> 01:01:01,640
Speaker 4: the rest of your life. Man came in, came in

1258
01:01:01,680 --> 01:01:04,520
Speaker 4: our little apartment. Man heard some hollering. I'm like, they're

1259
01:01:04,520 --> 01:01:07,680
Speaker 4: doing his thing. He got I walked in the road.

1260
01:01:07,720 --> 01:01:09,960
Speaker 4: I said, could we share the room? Like you know

1261
01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:12,720
Speaker 4: what I'm saying. You in college, I said, hold up,

1262
01:01:13,840 --> 01:01:16,000
Speaker 4: I can flip the lights on. I'm over there flipping

1263
01:01:16,000 --> 01:01:18,400
Speaker 4: over dresses and lamps and all type of ship about

1264
01:01:18,480 --> 01:01:19,080
Speaker 4: trying to fight.

1265
01:01:19,760 --> 01:01:22,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, because that's your home. That was your homeboy, he

1266
01:01:22,880 --> 01:01:24,800
Speaker 1: knew that was your He adn't care.

1267
01:01:26,160 --> 01:01:28,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, he knew. But this is the thing back then,

1268
01:01:28,720 --> 01:01:31,520
Speaker 4: you know when you homies like it's just like she going,

1269
01:01:31,600 --> 01:01:33,320
Speaker 4: she going there, you can't be mad at me. And

1270
01:01:33,360 --> 01:01:35,720
Speaker 4: I wasn't mad at him. I was just hurt, you

1271
01:01:35,720 --> 01:01:36,280
Speaker 4: know what I'm saying.

1272
01:01:36,720 --> 01:01:38,800
Speaker 1: So damn, that's how y'all operate. That's how I men

1273
01:01:38,840 --> 01:01:39,320
Speaker 1: to operate.

1274
01:01:40,000 --> 01:01:43,160
Speaker 4: If she going, she going, Yeah, that's that South Carolina. No,

1275
01:01:43,320 --> 01:01:45,400
Speaker 4: that's around the world.

1276
01:01:46,640 --> 01:01:51,360
Speaker 2: Your home boy tried me talking to your ass, Yeah, because.

1277
01:01:53,240 --> 01:01:55,320
Speaker 1: Right to make him feel like that's okay.

1278
01:01:57,120 --> 01:01:58,800
Speaker 4: So y'all gonna sit here and at like y'all ain't

1279
01:01:58,800 --> 01:02:00,400
Speaker 4: never smashed somebody home before.

1280
01:02:00,680 --> 01:02:05,920
Speaker 2: I didn't know, I didn't know they was friends, Okay, exactly.

1281
01:02:05,480 --> 01:02:07,640
Speaker 4: So stop, let's keep it real on this podcast today.

1282
01:02:07,680 --> 01:02:09,600
Speaker 4: Y'all may do all the other people with everybody else,

1283
01:02:09,840 --> 01:02:10,840
Speaker 4: but let's be real, y'all.

1284
01:02:12,440 --> 01:02:15,320
Speaker 1: Not no, not on like not knowing they were homeboys.

1285
01:02:15,360 --> 01:02:15,840
Speaker 1: Hell no.

1286
01:02:16,760 --> 01:02:19,120
Speaker 3: And half the time niggas always trying to call somebody

1287
01:02:19,160 --> 01:02:21,400
Speaker 3: their homeboy once they find out you with that person,

1288
01:02:21,400 --> 01:02:22,560
Speaker 3: like nigga, what's his mama name?

1289
01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:25,120
Speaker 2: What's this new phone number? You don't even know this nigga?

1290
01:02:25,200 --> 01:02:27,720
Speaker 2: No more, this is not your friend. You're just saying that.

1291
01:02:27,760 --> 01:02:28,920
Speaker 2: They try to make me feel.

1292
01:02:28,680 --> 01:02:34,160
Speaker 4: Like it's a different level of what men But no,

1293
01:02:34,400 --> 01:02:36,640
Speaker 4: it's a different level of what men say friends is,

1294
01:02:36,640 --> 01:02:39,600
Speaker 4: and how y'all women think friends is. Like I may

1295
01:02:39,760 --> 01:02:41,520
Speaker 4: know the nigga and every time we see each other,

1296
01:02:41,560 --> 01:02:44,920
Speaker 4: it's like, what's up, my nigga? That's considered friends to us?

1297
01:02:45,960 --> 01:02:49,000
Speaker 4: That's not all that's.

1298
01:02:47,960 --> 01:02:49,400
Speaker 1: Y'all, that's enough point.

1299
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Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying, you just know of that name.

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Speaker 3: Think about it differently, y'all, think about it differently when

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Speaker 3: it comes to women.

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Speaker 4: Y'all.

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Speaker 3: Don't think about this nigga no other time until he's

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01:03:01,120 --> 01:03:02,439
Speaker 3: fucking on something that you had.

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Speaker 4: Right, Yes, but what about you? Who homeboy?

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Speaker 1: I did it? I did all right? Well, let me listen.

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Speaker 1: This was at Benedict and they wasn't homeboys when I

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01:03:19,400 --> 01:03:22,200
Speaker 1: was dealing with one of them, and then I dealt

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Speaker 1: with the other one, and then they became friends. I

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Speaker 1: walked in Denny's. They were sitting at the table together.

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I ain't even hungry no more.

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Speaker 4: My god, they with each other.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure they did. I'm sure they did.

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Speaker 4: We was young.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure they did compare and they was like, I

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01:03:42,480 --> 01:03:44,440
Speaker 1: want that back. Both of them was probably like that.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure that's crazy, but that is there weren't that

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01:03:49,440 --> 01:03:52,520
Speaker 1: wasn't friends when it happened, Like neither one of them

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01:03:52,560 --> 01:03:55,160
Speaker 1: were friends like when I was dealing with either one

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Speaker 1: of them. Honestly, they became friends later in life. And

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Speaker 1: that's just a bad.

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Speaker 4: Both of them.

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Speaker 1: After that, No nout them both off. It was we

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Speaker 1: were in college it was young. It wasn't nothing, it

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01:04:11,360 --> 01:04:17,120
Speaker 1: didn't have any substance. It was just you know, well

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Speaker 1: one of them.

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Speaker 4: What about you? Now?

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Speaker 3: That's why I said cousins because my my ex swears

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Speaker 3: up and down. First of all, I knew his cousin

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Speaker 3: wayed ten years prior to knowing him, right, And when

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01:04:32,160 --> 01:04:36,520
Speaker 3: I met him, I was asking my ex, the cousin,

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Speaker 3: if he knew this guy, right, because I'm trying to

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01:04:39,560 --> 01:04:42,920
Speaker 3: get this scoop on him. Right, I'm far moved, were

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Speaker 3: not fucking wein't have sex and years I met this

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Speaker 3: new guy, I'm asking the old nigga like like we

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01:04:47,560 --> 01:04:49,920
Speaker 3: friends like that, I'm asking him about this nigga, right,

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Speaker 3: So the old nigga knew the whole time that I'm

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Speaker 3: with this person now, right, this nigga goes to my

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01:04:56,840 --> 01:05:00,560
Speaker 3: motherfucking Facebook page back to two thousand and I didn't

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01:05:00,560 --> 01:05:03,080
Speaker 3: meet this motherfuckerun til twenty sixteen. Why the hell you

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Speaker 3: and my shit all the way back to two thousand

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Speaker 3: and nine, and he saw like, uh, this bitch was

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01:05:09,920 --> 01:05:13,520
Speaker 3: stalking me on Facebook about the other nigga, like she

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01:05:13,640 --> 01:05:15,440
Speaker 3: was stalking me at the time. So he saw like

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Speaker 3: the arguments between me and the girl. What led him,

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Speaker 3: you know, to.

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Speaker 1: Know that I were fucking my cousin?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'm like, nigga, that is not your cousin.

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Speaker 3: What is his mama name? What's his siblings names? You

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01:05:28,800 --> 01:05:31,680
Speaker 3: don't even know that nigga like that? No more so,

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Speaker 3: I don't consider no.

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Speaker 2: Home boy them niggas is not blood.

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Speaker 3: And furthermore, that family done fucked on both sides multiple times,

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Speaker 3: everybody related on both sides of the family.

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Speaker 2: Anyway.

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Speaker 1: Look, Charleston, Columbia is small. What could you do?

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Speaker 2: I know, my bad, nigga. I didn't know you existed

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Speaker 2: until now. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: Right, Columbia a town?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, born and raised?

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Speaker 4: What high school you went too?

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Speaker 1: A Flora?

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Speaker 4: Okay? I want to spring it out.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry to hear that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's crazy.

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Speaker 2: Alright, y'all.

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Speaker 3: Look, if you're fucking on the first date, wrap it up.

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Speaker 3: That's have fun, keep your regrets to minimum. Fire these

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01:06:29,200 --> 01:06:32,920
Speaker 3: niggas when they ain't acting right, okay, and the men.

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Speaker 2: Fire the bitches. Whatever y'all want to do. Just be safe.

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Speaker 3: You don't want to get forty years old and be

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01:06:39,360 --> 01:06:43,040
Speaker 3: trying to subtract dicks. This one. Don't count, and don't come.

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Speaker 3: If I if I didn't come, it don't count. You

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Speaker 3: don't want to be having to do these things right,

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Speaker 3: So have some discernment with your pussy. That's all I

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01:06:51,480 --> 01:06:53,919
Speaker 3: got to say. You got some advice for these these

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Speaker 3: women and these young men.

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Speaker 1: Tom, Yes, don't listen to nothing, Vaughn said on the show, y'all,

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Speaker 1: don't listen to none of that ship advice. We're glad,

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Speaker 1: y'all listen to all of this, but just let it go, okay,

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01:07:11,720 --> 01:07:13,480
Speaker 1: as soon as it's over, just let that shit go.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 4: Listen, fly like a bird, be sexually liberated, love yourself,

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01:07:20,280 --> 01:07:23,040
Speaker 4: respect yourself, and just do what you want to do. Ladies,

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Speaker 4: I'm not gonna judge you, and then shouldn't judge you

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01:07:26,160 --> 01:07:27,760
Speaker 4: if you want to give it up or however you

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01:07:27,840 --> 01:07:29,960
Speaker 4: want to give it up. I feel like nobody should

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Speaker 4: be judged. That's all I'm saying. But y'all follow me

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Speaker 4: now set the Regis Straight podcast on all platforms.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you were a great guest.

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Speaker 2: This is for guest.

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Speaker 3: All right, y'all listen if you enjoyed this content. Okay,

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Speaker 3: oh bitch, tell me we got live T shirts and

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Speaker 3: ship now Okay, everything's.

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Speaker 1: Like, oh, we live okay, yeah, y'all go by.

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Speaker 3: My website is live anyway, y'all can get to the

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Speaker 3: YouTube page. From there you can get to all the

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Speaker 3: different streaming fact platforms and we talk back dot Com.

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Speaker 3: Thank y'all, Thank y'all, Thank y'all for tuning in. Much gratitude.

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Speaker 2: This is your co host AJ Holiday Kick.

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Speaker 1: It tam y'all. It's official Tambama on Instagram. Y'all follow

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Speaker 1: me please, I love y'all. Remember speak now and never

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Speaker 1: hold your peace.