1 00:00:02,800 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Heydrey, 2 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 1: good morning, welcome to the program. How are you, good morning. 3 00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:12,760 Speaker 1: I'm doing all right. How are you? We're doing all 4 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 1: right as well in sech no how much. We're doing great. 5 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 1: But we want to see what's going on with this 6 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 1: woman Vanessa. Tell us the backstory though, how did you meet? 7 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:23,640 Speaker 1: We got to know about any dates that you've been 8 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 1: on and whatever other details you want to tell us, 9 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 1: and then what's going on right now? Sure? Yeah, so Vanessa. 10 00:00:30,040 --> 00:00:34,160 Speaker 2: I met Vanessa on hinge and I asked her out. 11 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:35,600 Speaker 1: So we go to get. 12 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:39,560 Speaker 2: Drinks and it's going really well. We get flirty, we're 13 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:43,600 Speaker 2: getting clothes. So I invite her back to my place 14 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:45,400 Speaker 2: right after the date. 15 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 1: So she comes over. Everything's still going. 16 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:52,800 Speaker 2: Great, vibing, we're making out, it's going further, it's getting 17 00:00:52,840 --> 00:00:57,000 Speaker 2: more intimate, and then she kind of just like left 18 00:00:57,880 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 2: to me pretty abruptly, like very abruptly, and she never 19 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 2: answered me again after that. I never talked to her 20 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:07,680 Speaker 2: after that, and I just I get them confused, and 21 00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:10,039 Speaker 2: I would love to help getting to the bottom of it. 22 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 1: Okay, because we hear this all the time. I mean, 23 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 1: people have a date that's so successful, and I usually 24 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 1: it wasn't successful. Let you wind up back at somebody's 25 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 1: house and things maybe are about to happen. But you 26 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:21,840 Speaker 1: this woman left, and I assume that you've texted her, 27 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:25,680 Speaker 1: that you've you've called her, tried to reach out and connect, 28 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:28,959 Speaker 1: and she's ghosting you, leaving you on read nothing correct. 29 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:29,639 Speaker 1: That is correct. 30 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:32,679 Speaker 2: I tried to reach out, haven't heard back. Don't understand 31 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 2: why whatsoever based on the the interaction we had. 32 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 1: All right, let's call Vanessa now, good luck, tray or 33 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:39,199 Speaker 1: thanks so much? 34 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 3: Hello? 35 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 1: Hi is this Vanessa? Heyessa, good morning. My name is Fred. 36 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 1: I'm calling for the Friend Show. The whole crew is here, 37 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:56,160 Speaker 1: and I do have to tell you that we are 38 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 1: on the radio right now, and I do need your 39 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 1: permission to continue with the calls if we chat for 40 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 1: just a second. 41 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 3: Oh oh my gosh, yes, okay, well. 42 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 1: Thank you. I know it's a little bit startling, but 43 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:11,200 Speaker 1: we're calling on behalf of a guy named Trey. He 44 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:13,880 Speaker 1: reached out to us and said that you guys had 45 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:15,959 Speaker 1: met on a on a dating app and went on 46 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:19,840 Speaker 1: a date recently. Do you remember this guy Trey? 47 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 3: Yeah? 48 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 1: I do, Okay, So why the hesitation Because he told 49 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:26,919 Speaker 1: us that he thought the date went really well, and 50 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 1: he did mention that you guys went back to his place, 51 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:32,800 Speaker 1: but that you left and then haven't responded to him 52 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 1: since then. So what happened and what's going on? 53 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 3: So we met on an app, Yeah, and he asked 54 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 3: me out. The date was fine. It was actually really 55 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 3: fun and I was absolutely down to go back to 56 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 3: his place. Seemed really sweet and normal. At first, we 57 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:55,959 Speaker 3: you know, started making out a little bit. But that's 58 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:59,360 Speaker 3: kind of when things got weird and I just saw 59 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:02,519 Speaker 3: something and you know, made me want to bolt. 60 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 1: What did you say? 61 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 3: Well, I was like, oh, excuse me for just a second. 62 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 3: I'm going to go to the bathroom, And in order 63 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:11,920 Speaker 3: to get to the bathroom, I have to walk past 64 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:14,200 Speaker 3: his bedroom. And as I'm walking past his bedroom, I 65 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:18,240 Speaker 3: see that there is a professional camera on a tripod 66 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:22,639 Speaker 3: pointed towards the bed. 67 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:26,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, now you weren't in the bedroom. You guys 68 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:30,240 Speaker 1: were doing your stuff in the other room, so you know, 69 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 1: he wasn't recording that. 70 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:35,120 Speaker 3: We don't think, no, no, no, But like if he 71 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 3: thought he was going to record this, like sorely mistaken. 72 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 3: My guy, like, absolutely not. 73 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 1: He simply he works at sears, he does family portraits. 74 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:45,800 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't see an issue with this whatsoever 75 00:03:46,320 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 1: on video. Let me bring uh, there's a lot of 76 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 1: like to say that there's let me bring Trey in, Vanessa, 77 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 1: I feeled him in and that he is here. I'm 78 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 1: so forgetful, Tray, what's up with the camera in the 79 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:04,839 Speaker 1: bedroom pointing towards the bed? 80 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 2: Wait wait, wait, wait, okay, that's just not Vanessa. I 81 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 2: just want to say, I what I use that camera. 82 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 1: With somebody else. 83 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 2: I would never ever ever ask you Vanessa to film well, 84 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:23,040 Speaker 2: I mean it said whatever. I mean, it's my apartment 85 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:25,479 Speaker 2: and it's my prerogative. Like I didn't do anything with 86 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 2: Vanessa that without asking that is that's not cool that 87 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 2: you would judge me for that. 88 00:04:29,680 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 1: That's my choice. I do a lot of solo content. 89 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 1: It's not just with other people. I use it all 90 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 1: the time. Sounds like my boys, Yeah, I have a 91 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:46,719 Speaker 1: good time. I mean, hey, you know, Vanessa, how do 92 00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 1: you think he paid it? Sounds like you have a 93 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 1: good time. How do you think he paid for that date? 94 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, little side Hustle's got going on, 95 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 1: so Vanessa. This, it explains himself. He's he's doing it 96 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 1: with other people and recording it, and he does it 97 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:02,000 Speaker 1: to him with him self and records it. Not you, 98 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:04,039 Speaker 1: Not you though, Yeah? 99 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 3: I think maybe not shit, put your such camera away 100 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 3: when you have somethingy over it that they're not aware. 101 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:13,479 Speaker 3: I forgot. 102 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:16,479 Speaker 1: I mean it was like set up, you had the 103 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:19,520 Speaker 1: lighting going on. I mean, I mean, what was the reason, 104 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 1: my bro? Yeah, I mean I would think you'd put 105 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:24,720 Speaker 1: that away because it's going I mean, anybody who walks 106 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 1: in there is going to think that's what it's like, 107 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:29,800 Speaker 1: your little set, you know, a little reclining studio. 108 00:05:29,640 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 2: Look my mind, I didn't think were it took my mind. 109 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:35,600 Speaker 2: I had used it recently. I know it put my mind. 110 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:39,400 Speaker 1: Huh. It's a big slip, does it thin? Sound? Okay? 111 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, he would like to subscribe. 112 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 1: Trying to what the quality of the production is here. 113 00:05:47,400 --> 00:05:49,280 Speaker 1: You have like boom mic set up to you know 114 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:50,480 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. You want to know if he needs 115 00:05:50,480 --> 00:05:55,920 Speaker 1: a are you trying to be the crew production? Okay, 116 00:05:56,279 --> 00:05:59,719 Speaker 1: it sounds like he doesn't mean that. Sound he's not covered. 117 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:04,359 Speaker 1: I'll cover yeah, all right, Hey look Vanessa, so this 118 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:07,839 Speaker 1: look Hey, This is no big deal. He records content 119 00:06:07,920 --> 00:06:11,359 Speaker 1: with other people and himself. You weren't gonna have to 120 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 1: be part of it if he didn't want so. Yeah, yeah, 121 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:19,920 Speaker 1: so it's not weird at all. Right, would you consider 122 00:06:19,960 --> 00:06:22,839 Speaker 1: another date with Tray Vanessa? If he puts the camera away. 123 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:24,799 Speaker 3: I'm gonna have to pass. 124 00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry for her dog. All right, Hey, Trey, Look, honestly, 125 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:33,240 Speaker 1: i'd put the camera away. It's going to give anybody 126 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:36,640 Speaker 1: who's not involved in your little production the wrong impression. 127 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:39,839 Speaker 1: I know. Now next time I will, I know, because yeah, 128 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 1: it's suck. 129 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:41,719 Speaker 2: They can't see Vanessa again. 130 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 1: I mean, bring me a learned okay, all right, hey Vanessa, 131 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 1: thank you for your time. Good luck to you, Tray, 132 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:49,600 Speaker 1: best of luck to you with with all of it.