1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:04,080 Speaker 1: First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury 2 00:00:04,120 --> 00:00:08,200 Speaker 1: Attorneys online at advocusla dot com. CHRISA is on the 3 00:00:08,200 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 1: phone today for a first day follow up and she's 4 00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:13,360 Speaker 1: getting ghosted by a guy named Charlie. So in a 5 00:00:13,400 --> 00:00:15,560 Speaker 1: few minutes we're gonna call him and see hotels why 6 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:18,759 Speaker 1: he's ghostinger, and maybe get her a second date. But first, Christa, 7 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:21,320 Speaker 1: how long has it been since you heard from Charlie? 8 00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 2: Hi? Yeah, it's been about six days, six days, texted twice. 9 00:00:29,640 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 3: Did you guys leave? Like, how did you leave the date? 10 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 3: Did you have a plan to see each other again? 11 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 2: I thought that we would. I guess it seems like 12 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:45,239 Speaker 2: there was yeah, potential for a call. I thought that 13 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:45,879 Speaker 2: it ended. 14 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:47,160 Speaker 4: As well, But then. 15 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:50,200 Speaker 2: Again, I don't know, maybe there's I made this well, 16 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 2: I kind of made a mass at the event that. 17 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 4: We what do you mean by that? 18 00:00:58,120 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 2: Okay, So, like so we met at this It was 19 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 2: actually really cool. There was this rooftop astronomy event thing, 20 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 2: like there were like all these telescopes and there was 21 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 2: like five chatz and wow, yeah that was amazing, And 22 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 2: there were like cocktails and peak in teapots and we 23 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:18,520 Speaker 2: were like taking cocktails of teacups. 24 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 4: It was really cute. 25 00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:22,480 Speaker 5: That's really super cute. 26 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:30,360 Speaker 2: I am not the most graceful person, and I uh, 27 00:01:30,800 --> 00:01:33,680 Speaker 2: I accidentally I was like looking through the telescope and 28 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:38,119 Speaker 2: I just accidentally knocked over this tray of the peak 29 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 2: cups and it landed. 30 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:43,199 Speaker 4: So there was this broaderberg guy there. 31 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 2: And it's basically I failed like a bunch of cocktails 32 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 2: over this like really fancy star chart that's just like 33 00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:58,520 Speaker 2: really commented yeah, and everyone saw and everyone gashed and 34 00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 2: it was really not cute, but actually, like it's funny 35 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 2: because Charlie was like really sweet about it and like 36 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 2: laughed about it and helped me clean it up with 37 00:02:09,240 --> 00:02:12,920 Speaker 2: you know these like meeker like cocktail napkins. 38 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:17,480 Speaker 4: It was so I mean, I think, you know, that was. 39 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 2: Not great, but I still thought that, you know, we 40 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 2: had like an infer home and I thought that things 41 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:24,919 Speaker 2: were going well. 42 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:26,520 Speaker 5: I'm glad he. 43 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 3: Helped you clean up, because what was he supposed to 44 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 3: be would be like, oh, I'm not with her. 45 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 2: Exactly. 46 00:02:33,320 --> 00:02:35,520 Speaker 3: That is really embarrassing, though, I'm sorry that happened to you. 47 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 2: Yes, me too, but it's like yeah, not the first time, 48 00:02:39,520 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 2: not the last, so. 49 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:45,200 Speaker 3: Sure, okay, did the day continue past the rooftop or 50 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 3: was that the spot? 51 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 1: Yeah? 52 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:53,359 Speaker 2: No, we we like talked after that super embarrasing incident, 53 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 2: and like, I don't know, we had an uber home. 54 00:02:57,440 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 2: We like talked about music, and I just I thought 55 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 2: that there was a spark. I mean, I know I 56 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 2: need a mess, but like I was really nervous and I'm, 57 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:08,400 Speaker 2: like I said, I'm kind of a consany person. 58 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 4: So I don't know. 59 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:12,239 Speaker 2: I just I think that I really hope he gives 60 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 2: me another chance. 61 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:15,960 Speaker 3: Well, how did he seem afterwards? Like in the ober 62 00:03:16,040 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 3: and staff? Was he being different with you? 63 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 2: No, we were like having like cute conversation and yeah, 64 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:25,640 Speaker 2: it felt very cute. I don't know. 65 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:27,519 Speaker 5: All right, well, we'll try to figure it out for you. 66 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 1: We'll play a song come back, and then call him 67 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 1: and see if I'll tell us why he's ghosting you 68 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 1: and maybe get you a second date. Okay, all right, 69 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 1: all right, we'll get your first day follow up next. 70 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 1: Right in the middle of your first day follow up 71 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 1: if you're just joining us, Chrisa is on the phone 72 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 1: and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Charlie. So 73 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 1: we're about to call him and see if he'll tell 74 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 1: us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her a 75 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 1: second date. But before we do that, Christo, why don't 76 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 1: you break down your situation for us. 77 00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 5: Again real quick. 78 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 2: Yeah. So I met Charlie at this astronomy event with 79 00:03:57,840 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 2: like tell us ghosts and all this stuff. 80 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 4: And while we were. 81 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 2: There, I like build a bunch of drinks over this 82 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 2: like star chart and maybe that was the reason, but like, 83 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 2: I don't know. We we just like clicked even after 84 00:04:11,880 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 2: that and took an uber home and like chatted and 85 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:17,839 Speaker 2: did this start. 86 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:18,559 Speaker 3: Chart any event? 87 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 2: I Oh god, I mean. 88 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:27,480 Speaker 4: I know that the. 89 00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 2: Guy who was like running it. 90 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:29,719 Speaker 4: Was really that. 91 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 2: Yeah. No, it was definitely like not the thing to do. 92 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:37,480 Speaker 1: All right, well we'll see if that is the reason. 93 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 1: Are you ready for us to call him? 94 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, let's shoot us. 95 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:51,600 Speaker 4: Hello. 96 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:54,479 Speaker 5: Hi, I'm asking to Charlie. Please Charlie. 97 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 1: Hey, Charlie, how are you? This is a radio show. 98 00:04:56,839 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 1: It's called the Jubil Show. 99 00:04:57,880 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 3: Hi, Charlie. 100 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 5: I'm Nina Victoria. My name is ju hol Us Up. 101 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:03,520 Speaker 4: Oh really how are you? 102 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 5: Yeah? 103 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:05,440 Speaker 4: I'm pretty good? 104 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:05,920 Speaker 2: Uh? 105 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:07,320 Speaker 4: When's the radio shirting me? 106 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:09,400 Speaker 1: We're calling you because we do a segment on the 107 00:05:09,400 --> 00:05:11,720 Speaker 1: show called the First Aid follow Up. That's where if 108 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:13,480 Speaker 1: you go out on a day with somebody and they 109 00:05:13,520 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 1: end up ghosting you, that person can email us to 110 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 1: get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. 111 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 1: So we got an email about you from somebody, Charlie, 112 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:23,840 Speaker 1: did you know? 113 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:26,360 Speaker 5: Do you know who it is? Or do you think 114 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:27,040 Speaker 5: you know who it is? 115 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:30,240 Speaker 4: I mean, I mean I've got a pretty good idea 116 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:30,800 Speaker 4: right now. 117 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 5: Really, who do you think it is? 118 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:33,560 Speaker 3: What? 119 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 4: Did it happen to be Krista but Champs? 120 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:39,800 Speaker 1: Yes it is Christa? Yeah you got it right? You 121 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:43,839 Speaker 1: want nothing, I guess, but yes it is Christa. Do 122 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:45,880 Speaker 1: you mind telling us why you're ghosting Crystal? She's really 123 00:05:45,920 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 1: curious that she liked you a lot, but can't figure 124 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 1: it out. 125 00:05:48,520 --> 00:05:51,039 Speaker 4: I feel like this some sound weird without the context, 126 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 4: but she's just me in an uber and I just 127 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:58,799 Speaker 4: want any part of that. What wait, I have to explain? Okay, 128 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 4: we were taking an uber and she just starts just 129 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:08,000 Speaker 4: casually singing every lyric to this early two thousands boy 130 00:06:08,080 --> 00:06:12,599 Speaker 4: band song and saying, I mean, like every single line, 131 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:16,480 Speaker 4: she's doing the choreograph number and everything, and you know whatever, 132 00:06:16,839 --> 00:06:19,719 Speaker 4: I like myself she likes herself, that's cool. But in 133 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 4: the middle of it, I try answering her a question 134 00:06:21,920 --> 00:06:28,800 Speaker 4: and she just aggressively just like and I'm just I'm 135 00:06:28,800 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 4: not trying to date someone who's just comfortable disrespects me 136 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:33,720 Speaker 4: with like a violence, you know. 137 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:39,840 Speaker 1: Okay, if I'm disrespected with there's. 138 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:40,040 Speaker 4: A very disrespectful you know. 139 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess that's true. There are different ways you 140 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 3: can shish somebody. Yeah, and there's a disrespectful way for sure. 141 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:49,280 Speaker 4: Yeah. This was full, you know, finger up in the face, 142 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:53,040 Speaker 4: spit coming out of the mouth when she so it 143 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:54,360 Speaker 4: just wasn't a God looks. 144 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 5: So that's that's it. Though. 145 00:06:55,640 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 6: Other than that, it was good I mean before Yeah, 146 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:03,039 Speaker 6: but you know, I'm sure a lot of good things 147 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:05,640 Speaker 6: happened before terrible things happen, and you don't just look 148 00:07:05,680 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 6: back on the good things and. 149 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 4: Try to record the bad. So, you know, life for short, 150 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 4: and I'm not gonna tolerate that sort of things. 151 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, before you know, you could be married for 152 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:16,160 Speaker 1: years and then you think back, you're like, man, if 153 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 1: I would have just paid attention to. 154 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 4: That shit, I haven't spoken in fifteen years. 155 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 5: Hey, I'm walking proof. Don't let that happen to yourself. 156 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 5: I get it. 157 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:30,480 Speaker 1: Well, Charlie, thank you for being honest with us. Christa 158 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:33,640 Speaker 1: is actually on the phone and wants to talk to you. 159 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 4: Wait she's here. You mean she actually let me talk without. 160 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 2: Us? 161 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:46,560 Speaker 4: What? Oh my god? It wasn't that bad? Yes, hi, 162 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 4: oh here? Yeah? 163 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 2: My first stuff like for real, like, how are you 164 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:55,240 Speaker 2: gonna ghost me over singing a song? 165 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 4: I was just into it. 166 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 2: Do you know like music? 167 00:07:57,720 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 5: Like? 168 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:02,440 Speaker 4: Oh no, no, I like music. It's just you're really downplaying it. 169 00:08:02,480 --> 00:08:04,480 Speaker 4: You're saying you were just singing. You were just sol 170 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:08,280 Speaker 4: on choreography dance number like we were in a music video. 171 00:08:08,720 --> 00:08:11,120 Speaker 4: And look, I thought it was kind of cute. But 172 00:08:11,440 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 4: you shush me like your library on steroids or something. 173 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:18,360 Speaker 4: And again you spit like you just turn to do 174 00:08:18,360 --> 00:08:22,960 Speaker 4: a different person. And I said it was disrespectful. Well 175 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 4: it was bye bye bye. 176 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 2: Like honestly, dude, who tries to chat during an InSync classic? 177 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:32,080 Speaker 2: You know what I mean? Do you have like librarian. 178 00:08:31,520 --> 00:08:35,200 Speaker 4: Issues or like, what's the deal? Well, it made me 179 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:37,719 Speaker 4: want to say bye bye bye to you. Okay, it 180 00:08:37,800 --> 00:08:41,920 Speaker 4: was really disrespectful. It had made it has made the 181 00:08:42,120 --> 00:08:45,080 Speaker 4: quiet peasant energy to it and I just haven't been 182 00:08:45,280 --> 00:08:47,680 Speaker 4: just that way since third grade story time, so maybe 183 00:08:47,720 --> 00:08:49,440 Speaker 4: I do have some trauma that you're unlocking. 184 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:53,640 Speaker 2: Thank you too, I think you too. Oh my god, 185 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:56,800 Speaker 2: it was really meant to be a fun shoush like I. Really, 186 00:08:57,240 --> 00:09:00,000 Speaker 2: it's like you're acting to me, threw something at you 187 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:00,959 Speaker 2: like I. 188 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 4: It was like a sarcastic shush. It was a power shush. 189 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:07,959 Speaker 4: It felt like you were establishing dominant, like you were 190 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:09,360 Speaker 4: trying to be the alpha or something. 191 00:09:09,920 --> 00:09:11,040 Speaker 2: For me it was playful. 192 00:09:11,840 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 4: Well for me, it wasn't. And I think you were 193 00:09:14,520 --> 00:09:17,640 Speaker 4: staring the driver too. And also just remind you, I 194 00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:20,040 Speaker 4: was literally trying to ask you a question when you 195 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:23,960 Speaker 4: did this, and it was literally me trying to say, hey, 196 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:26,960 Speaker 4: I think our driver missed the turn, and you cut 197 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:31,400 Speaker 4: me off with a spitty shush. And honestly, like even 198 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:33,439 Speaker 4: the driver looked like he he gave me a look 199 00:09:33,640 --> 00:09:35,720 Speaker 4: as if to be like, I don't have an HR department, 200 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 4: but if I did, I'd be calling them right now. 201 00:09:39,040 --> 00:09:41,679 Speaker 4: That is like so dramatic. 202 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:43,479 Speaker 2: It was a polite. 203 00:09:43,160 --> 00:09:44,120 Speaker 4: Shush, okay. 204 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:47,559 Speaker 2: I just and also, by the way, the driver was 205 00:09:47,640 --> 00:09:50,880 Speaker 2: definitely vibing with me. He knew every word too. 206 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:52,800 Speaker 4: It was a whole thing. 207 00:09:53,400 --> 00:09:56,720 Speaker 2: I was setting a fun show. I was trying. 208 00:09:56,920 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, he knew every word because he was trying to 209 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:02,320 Speaker 4: tease you. He was scared, he was hoping. Oh maybe 210 00:10:02,320 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 4: if I sing along this crazy dur will stop my 211 00:10:05,200 --> 00:10:07,480 Speaker 4: windshield and make it so that I have to crash 212 00:10:07,520 --> 00:10:09,559 Speaker 4: the car because I can't see anything through it through 213 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:11,720 Speaker 4: this glob of saliva all over the world. 214 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:16,079 Speaker 1: Well, Charlie, would you like to go on another day 215 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 1: with Crystal? We'll pay for it. 216 00:10:18,080 --> 00:10:22,360 Speaker 4: Look, I don't like being disrespected. Nobody does. And throughout 217 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:24,040 Speaker 4: all of this I just heard a bunch of excuses. 218 00:10:24,080 --> 00:10:27,440 Speaker 4: I haven't heard any apologies or even any reasons why 219 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:29,839 Speaker 4: I should give you another chance. So tell you what. 220 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 4: If you can give me a reason and I'll let 221 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:36,120 Speaker 4: you speak without shushing you because I respect soul, then maybe, 222 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:37,679 Speaker 4: But if not, then I'm out. 223 00:10:37,920 --> 00:10:42,240 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, I'm Charlie. I'm very sorry for the 224 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:47,400 Speaker 2: power shush. I got lost in the moment with and 225 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:49,600 Speaker 2: think the beat took over me. 226 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:52,400 Speaker 4: Here is why you should. 227 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 2: Definitely take me out again. 228 00:10:54,160 --> 00:10:54,480 Speaker 4: Okay. 229 00:10:55,400 --> 00:11:00,640 Speaker 2: I make really good cookies, like hands, stop eating them cookies. 230 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:07,200 Speaker 2: I'm really Shelly, obviously and yes I do sometimes break out. 231 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:10,600 Speaker 2: It's just spontaneous stands break but that's kind of my 232 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:16,319 Speaker 2: love language. I have awesome relationships with both of my parents, 233 00:11:16,400 --> 00:11:20,200 Speaker 2: so I don't have any family drama. And I volunteer 234 00:11:20,280 --> 00:11:23,240 Speaker 2: at a rescue on weekends. So you know, if you 235 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:25,480 Speaker 2: have a pop, then we're basically sold me. 236 00:11:27,280 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 4: Charlie, I'm not gonna lie. That was pretty good, you know, 237 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 4: first cookies. Look, honestly, I might need to see the 238 00:11:34,920 --> 00:11:37,880 Speaker 4: therapist whatever happened to me in third grade, but uh, 239 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:41,800 Speaker 4: apology accepted. Look on the tradition, no more weaponized session 240 00:11:42,880 --> 00:11:45,760 Speaker 4: otherwise than I will be saying bye bye bye. So 241 00:11:46,960 --> 00:11:47,720 Speaker 4: second date it is 242 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:57,120 Speaker 1: Congratulations, Christopher the Winds First date follow up