WEBVTT - Call It Short & Sweet: Valentine's Edition! 0:00:01.000 --> 0:00:04.800 Call It What It Is with Jessica Capshaw and Camille Luddington, 0:00:05.240 --> 0:00:06.720 an iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:17.040 --> 0:00:22.080 Well hello, hello, Hello, hello everyone, and welcome to another 0:00:22.160 --> 0:00:25.120 episode of Call It Short and Sweet. 0:00:26.200 --> 0:00:30.240 Call It Short and Sweet, And this time it's maybe 0:00:30.280 --> 0:00:33.080 even sweeter. It is a little sweeter, That's what I'm saying. 0:00:33.080 --> 0:00:35.040 I was like, gonna add on to it, but I 0:00:35.080 --> 0:00:38.240 was like the Valentine's Day episode. 0:00:38.040 --> 0:00:42.120 Oh, it's so sweet delicious of Valentine's Day. 0:00:42.760 --> 0:00:46.800 Do you I'm surprised because there's something I thought that 0:00:46.920 --> 0:00:49.800 you were gonna be like maybe a little bit of 0:00:49.840 --> 0:00:54.160 a me. Yeah, like it's a consumer you know, one 0:00:54.160 --> 0:00:55.440 of those consumer you know. 0:00:56.280 --> 0:00:58.840 No, I'm into it. I well, okay, hold on, now 0:00:58.840 --> 0:00:59.560 I'm reflecting. 0:00:59.680 --> 0:01:01.800 I'm not into it for what. 0:01:01.760 --> 0:01:04.400 I imagine it probably was created for on the consumer 0:01:04.720 --> 0:01:07.600 consumption level, which is, yeah, you're right, I don't. I'm 0:01:07.600 --> 0:01:10.920 not like, oh, gooey gooey romance love, Valentine's Day is 0:01:10.959 --> 0:01:13.160 so amazing, and let's get a heart. 0:01:12.959 --> 0:01:15.960 Shaped box of chocolates or red roses. No, you're right, 0:01:16.080 --> 0:01:17.399 I'm not into it for that. 0:01:18.000 --> 0:01:21.360 I I don't think I ever minded it before. 0:01:21.440 --> 0:01:21.800 Kids. 0:01:22.640 --> 0:01:25.040 I didn't find it particularly romantic, and it was always 0:01:25.040 --> 0:01:26.560 when it was like a little it's like New Year's 0:01:26.560 --> 0:01:28.479 where it's like there's pressure to get a table somewhere 0:01:28.600 --> 0:01:30.480 nice or get something or whatever. 0:01:30.720 --> 0:01:31.360 But then when you. 0:01:31.280 --> 0:01:36.440 Have kids, Yeah, that's when I think it gets sweet. 0:01:36.600 --> 0:01:39.640 Wait, wait, I do want to let's talk. 0:01:39.400 --> 0:01:43.120 About like boyfriends back in the day, like high school. 0:01:43.200 --> 0:01:45.920 I do remember Valentine's Day in high school, and it 0:01:46.040 --> 0:01:50.840 was like it was a show for sure of if 0:01:50.840 --> 0:01:53.520 you had a boyfriend at the time, it's when's he 0:01:53.560 --> 0:01:54.600 going to bring the flowers? 0:01:54.800 --> 0:01:59.000 Whether bigger than Susie's. You know, there was a little 0:01:59.040 --> 0:02:03.320 bit of that going on, right, There's a little competitiveness 0:02:03.400 --> 0:02:06.960 when you're like in early dating days. You know it's like. 0:02:07.120 --> 0:02:11.760 Well Bob, oh, God, Bob came over and you know, 0:02:12.440 --> 0:02:16.920 got me the massage and cookwat there. 0:02:17.040 --> 0:02:18.839 I do think that there's a stage in your life 0:02:18.880 --> 0:02:20.839 where there is it's more high school, to be honest, 0:02:20.880 --> 0:02:24.480 but there was like that little competitiveness. 0:02:23.720 --> 0:02:28.560 Yeah, yeah, or at least comparison like who else got something? 0:02:29.160 --> 0:02:31.440 What did they get get? Yeah? Kind of thing. 0:02:31.600 --> 0:02:34.800 But you're right now, it's more I agree, because you know, 0:02:35.240 --> 0:02:37.320 I don't remember the last time I've made a reservation 0:02:37.560 --> 0:02:38.440 or anything. 0:02:41.240 --> 0:02:44.639 Seriously, I honestly forget it's even the day. I think 0:02:44.680 --> 0:02:47.080 I probably was annoying in my earlier life. I think 0:02:47.120 --> 0:02:49.560 I'm well, actually i'm not. I don't think I'm sure. 0:02:49.919 --> 0:02:52.320 Oh, Jessica Capshaw, yeah, registry. 0:02:52.760 --> 0:02:55.959 There must have been oh yeah, yeah, I need Yeah, 0:02:56.120 --> 0:02:58.560 I wanted some jewelry or something like that on February fourteenth. 0:02:58.600 --> 0:03:01.519 I'm sure. I mean, I say no to some jewelry? 0:03:01.919 --> 0:03:03.760 Why would you say no? That would just be like 0:03:03.840 --> 0:03:08.040 you don't like yourself. I guess say, yes, you've loved yourself. 0:03:08.040 --> 0:03:11.200 Don't you love yourself? Don't you love yourself enough to 0:03:11.240 --> 0:03:15.200 have someone else buy you something for Hollide's Day. 0:03:16.760 --> 0:03:18.399 Jessica did send me, I don't know if you mind 0:03:18.440 --> 0:03:20.920 me saying this, did send me attacks of a necklace 0:03:20.960 --> 0:03:23.920 today that looked like the necklace in Titanic. 0:03:24.280 --> 0:03:27.040 I did, and she was like, this looks good. 0:03:27.040 --> 0:03:30.240 And I was like, yeah, that's that's probably in a museum, 0:03:30.600 --> 0:03:33.960 but sure, I got I. 0:03:33.919 --> 0:03:36.280 Pulled the picture from Instagram. It's a real life. 0:03:36.040 --> 0:03:39.920 Designer Smithsonian necklace that is on is part of your 0:03:39.920 --> 0:03:43.440 registery list, probably for your next birthday, and that's fine. 0:03:43.920 --> 0:03:51.120 It's only guarded by missionn impossible grade technology. Yeah, for sure, 0:03:51.120 --> 0:03:53.480 we can get you that. Well, we'll pull the money. 0:03:53.560 --> 0:03:55.360 It was I was dropping the hint, how much do 0:03:55.400 --> 0:03:57.760 you love me? Yeah, just you know. 0:03:58.680 --> 0:04:01.560 Diamond nine months in advance, eight months in advance, some 0:04:01.600 --> 0:04:02.360 months in advance. 0:04:04.080 --> 0:04:04.520 It's good. 0:04:04.600 --> 0:04:07.240 No so inh so Okay, So I don't even know 0:04:07.240 --> 0:04:08.680 where we're going with all this, but I would say 0:04:08.680 --> 0:04:11.320 that in high school, I probably yeah, I probably liked 0:04:11.320 --> 0:04:13.480 a little attention, but like I was fine, I wasn't 0:04:13.560 --> 0:04:18.000 super I wasn't birthday level registery aggressive, and then later 0:04:18.080 --> 0:04:19.920 on I would have taken some jewelry on that day 0:04:19.920 --> 0:04:22.800 that's sweet, maybe a couple, you know, dinners out, and 0:04:22.800 --> 0:04:24.440 then I think I probably got sick of it. 0:04:24.640 --> 0:04:27.760 I agree that it's about kids now, it's also I 0:04:27.760 --> 0:04:29.599 don't know if you have this. It's also that you 0:04:29.640 --> 0:04:32.680 got to get it for the classroom. There's the classroom 0:04:32.760 --> 0:04:34.480 Valentine's Day. It's you've got the kid. 0:04:34.400 --> 0:04:37.320 And you don't have to. But there's like you can't. 0:04:37.120 --> 0:04:40.039 Say, I'm gonna I'm gonna just I'm going to blow 0:04:40.080 --> 0:04:42.560 in the face of convention here and what you would 0:04:42.560 --> 0:04:45.440 expect me to say, which is I'm going to say 0:04:45.680 --> 0:04:48.920 that I'm not bringing Valentine's Day gifts for everyone, and 0:04:49.000 --> 0:04:49.360 I have. 0:04:49.600 --> 0:04:50.200 I've done it. 0:04:50.240 --> 0:04:54.279 I've filled up tiny little individual cellophane bags. 0:04:53.880 --> 0:04:56.000 With all the cute stuff and blah blah blah blah blah. 0:04:56.040 --> 0:04:57.760 And I look back on that former self and that 0:04:57.880 --> 0:05:01.560 former behavior, and I think, I'm I'm I'm happy to 0:05:01.600 --> 0:05:02.600 report that it's done. 0:05:03.279 --> 0:05:06.640 You don't feel the way anymore. I'm not a I'm 0:05:06.640 --> 0:05:08.240 not a I'm not filling up. 0:05:08.120 --> 0:05:11.359 The love hearts in a baggie or anything. I'm just 0:05:11.600 --> 0:05:16.760 ordering the bulk Amazon. You know, slime, you put it 0:05:16.760 --> 0:05:18.360 in a bag, you got to pick it out. 0:05:18.480 --> 0:05:23.160 That's it. You're welcome, move along. I'm there. 0:05:23.640 --> 0:05:28.719 That's my version seeing I'm at you get nothing. 0:05:28.200 --> 0:05:31.039 You get a living, you know, I kid because life 0:05:31.040 --> 0:05:31.560 gets hard. 0:05:32.640 --> 0:05:35.840 Yeah, no slime for you this year. 0:05:36.120 --> 0:05:40.520 A slime for you, No candy for you, because life's hard. 0:05:40.880 --> 0:05:43.599 So get used to it. What do you do for 0:05:43.640 --> 0:05:45.479 your kiddos? One on Valentine's Day? 0:05:45.680 --> 0:05:48.680 Okay, so about three or four years ago, I got 0:05:48.880 --> 0:05:54.080 a red wig. I know it's kind of crazy, and 0:05:54.320 --> 0:05:58.320 I have a like a bucket that I put all 0:05:58.360 --> 0:06:01.040 my Valentine's Day things in it, and I replenish every year. 0:06:01.080 --> 0:06:05.320 But I get heart shaped paper plates and those like 0:06:05.360 --> 0:06:07.560 paper straws that have little hearts on them, and then 0:06:07.640 --> 0:06:11.600 like little bubble wands with little heart shaped bubbles. And 0:06:11.920 --> 0:06:14.760 I just get a box of heart shaped shit. And 0:06:14.800 --> 0:06:16.600 then I put on a red wig. And when I 0:06:16.640 --> 0:06:18.400 wake up the kids in the morning, I've got my 0:06:18.480 --> 0:06:21.560 red wig because it's Valentine's Day, and I've decorated the 0:06:22.120 --> 0:06:24.800 kitchen where they sit in eat breakfast with just all 0:06:24.839 --> 0:06:26.240 sorts of Valentine's Day shit. 0:06:26.720 --> 0:06:34.400 That is so adorable. That is so oot. Oh my god. Okay, 0:06:34.440 --> 0:06:36.200 well we got a post on Instagram. You in the 0:06:36.279 --> 0:06:37.360 red wig this year? 0:06:37.760 --> 0:06:40.360 Oh absolutely, I've gotten. I'll have I'll have many years 0:06:40.360 --> 0:06:40.839 past as well. 0:06:40.880 --> 0:06:42.080 I've ever seen a picture of this? 0:06:42.360 --> 0:06:42.640 Oh? 0:06:42.760 --> 0:06:45.840 Yes? Wow? Does she have a name? 0:06:46.000 --> 0:06:50.200 This like lady this Valentine's Day, Lady Valentine's Day Vivian. 0:06:50.279 --> 0:06:50.880 No, I don't. 0:06:51.200 --> 0:06:53.240 I don't know when we can name her if you 0:06:53.279 --> 0:06:55.320 want to, we can, I mean just red, maybe it's 0:06:55.320 --> 0:06:56.680 just red red shows up. 0:06:56.760 --> 0:06:58.800 Yeah, that's adorable. 0:06:58.920 --> 0:07:02.240 I don't do that, Matt and I just do like 0:07:02.880 --> 0:07:05.640 we present a little bouquet of flowers to each kid, 0:07:05.760 --> 0:07:07.800 and then they each get their own little heart. They 0:07:07.800 --> 0:07:11.800 do get the old fashioned heart chocolate in the box. 0:07:12.440 --> 0:07:15.120 Oh yeah, and then that's what they get. And then 0:07:15.320 --> 0:07:17.080 you know, then the slimee comes out and goes to 0:07:17.080 --> 0:07:19.000 school with them, and that's sad. 0:07:19.600 --> 0:07:31.920 Yeah. 0:07:33.320 --> 0:07:35.920 The gift that they get is a pair of pajamas 0:07:36.360 --> 0:07:39.960 that's really cute, like a Valentine's Da themed kind of pair, 0:07:40.080 --> 0:07:41.960 or just like a cute like a pair of pajamas 0:07:41.960 --> 0:07:44.960 with or like you know when you're I I found 0:07:44.960 --> 0:07:47.640 a oh you know those fleece onesies that zip up 0:07:47.680 --> 0:07:50.760 the front but from the gap, and it was white 0:07:50.760 --> 0:07:52.520 and it had like little red hearts all of it 0:07:52.560 --> 0:07:56.120 for Josie. And then I got her monogram. 0:07:56.120 --> 0:08:00.240 Well that's cute. Wow wow, Red goes all out. 0:08:00.440 --> 0:08:03.360 But now the girls, the teenagers now, well the teenager 0:08:03.400 --> 0:08:06.720 and the almost teenager, they're like and they see it 0:08:06.760 --> 0:08:08.960 coming from a mile away because it was like three 0:08:09.040 --> 0:08:10.520 days ago where all of a sudden they get they 0:08:10.520 --> 0:08:12.320 get real sweet and they sit right next to me. 0:08:12.320 --> 0:08:14.560 And they're like, hey, Mom, can I show you something? 0:08:14.640 --> 0:08:15.840 And I'm like, yeah, what are you looking at it? 0:08:15.840 --> 0:08:16.400 What do you want? To look at. 0:08:16.440 --> 0:08:18.239 They're like, can I shee your phone for a second? Surely, 0:08:18.280 --> 0:08:20.280 what do we see next thing? You know, wham bam, 0:08:20.360 --> 0:08:22.360 thank you, ma'am. I'm on the skims dot com and 0:08:22.400 --> 0:08:26.720 I'm looking at hearts hard by the way, Risks gay 0:08:27.280 --> 0:08:29.640 this year's skims and by the way, they're already all 0:08:29.680 --> 0:08:30.400 sold out of them. 0:08:30.720 --> 0:08:36.840 Yeah, little like brawlts where is the heart cut out 0:08:36.880 --> 0:08:39.920 in the front. There's a T shirt with a heart 0:08:39.920 --> 0:08:41.440 cut out in the little shoulder. 0:08:43.360 --> 0:08:46.040 And then oh, this was a big debate between my 0:08:46.160 --> 0:08:49.200 daughters because one of them was like, ew and the 0:08:49.200 --> 0:08:51.000 other one was like, I think it's kind of cute. 0:08:51.440 --> 0:08:54.760 Was underwear where there's a heart shape cut out in 0:08:54.760 --> 0:08:56.319 the front, you know what. 0:08:56.440 --> 0:08:58.480 And we talked about this, that's what you could bring 0:08:58.520 --> 0:09:00.040 that into the waxer and you could be like. 0:09:00.480 --> 0:09:05.160 Just it's almost like a stencil. One of them was like, 0:09:05.240 --> 0:09:09.240 well what if you know? One of them brought up 0:09:09.280 --> 0:09:10.199 the things that could happen. 0:09:11.160 --> 0:09:16.160 Well, yeah, I do remember going one Valentine's Day with Matt. 0:09:16.280 --> 0:09:18.640 I was like, you know what, let's do something sexy 0:09:19.480 --> 0:09:25.800 and we went to Victorious and this so chic. I mean, 0:09:25.800 --> 0:09:27.679 this is this is a way back a little bit. 0:09:27.960 --> 0:09:31.079 This is a little while. Okay, now he's lucky if 0:09:31.160 --> 0:09:34.640 you know, he's not. I'm in a onesie. 0:09:35.000 --> 0:09:38.000 So we went there and I was like, yeah, no, 0:09:38.040 --> 0:09:40.720 there's no holes in that, just on like the sleeves 0:09:40.720 --> 0:09:41.800 and the legs, do you know what I mean? 0:09:41.800 --> 0:09:48.120 There's like no access. So we go into that. 0:09:48.240 --> 0:09:50.360 We go in there and I'm like, oh my god, 0:09:50.559 --> 0:09:52.000 I'm like trying to be all hot, and I'm like, 0:09:52.120 --> 0:09:54.720 let's go over here to like the broads where like 0:09:54.760 --> 0:09:56.559 you know, the nipples just cut out, like I don't 0:09:56.600 --> 0:10:00.120 even know why, Like it's confusing to me, but I 0:10:00.200 --> 0:10:02.800 that's what I was hooking up. And this chick comes 0:10:02.800 --> 0:10:08.600 over to me that works out there at Victoria's Secret. 0:10:08.960 --> 0:10:12.760 It was so obvious that like what we were in 0:10:12.840 --> 0:10:14.199 there for, do you know what I mean? Like, I'm 0:10:14.240 --> 0:10:16.640 not wearing that to drop off like we're supposed it's 0:10:16.679 --> 0:10:17.920 supposed to be a sexy thing. 0:10:18.280 --> 0:10:18.600 I did. 0:10:18.760 --> 0:10:18.960 I do? 0:10:19.120 --> 0:10:20.320 And I remember putting on the bra. 0:10:20.400 --> 0:10:21.760 I'm just gonna say, I remember thinking of the bra 0:10:22.360 --> 0:10:25.040 and the nipples were like the cutout nipples. 0:10:24.679 --> 0:10:27.920 And just being like this doesn't even look good. Of 0:10:27.920 --> 0:10:32.400 course it doesn't, like why I don't even know if 0:10:32.400 --> 0:10:35.560 Matt I thought it was cute. I think he was like, 0:10:36.080 --> 0:10:36.720 I think. 0:10:36.480 --> 0:10:38.920 That they took a horribly wrong turn when they started 0:10:38.960 --> 0:10:41.880 cutting things out of our lingerie. I mean, but what 0:10:41.920 --> 0:10:44.120 I'm trying to say is that I do actually think 0:10:44.120 --> 0:10:46.400 that lingerie can be very sexy, and I think there's 0:10:46.440 --> 0:10:49.079 a lot of play that can be involved in different 0:10:49.360 --> 0:10:52.240 lingerie situations. And I like a little push up, I 0:10:52.280 --> 0:10:54.160 like a little corset, I like a little. 0:10:54.240 --> 0:10:55.080 That kind of stuff. 0:10:55.200 --> 0:10:58.840 Great, But whose idea was it to start cutting hold 0:10:58.880 --> 0:10:59.120 in it? 0:10:59.200 --> 0:11:01.840 That doesn't I don't know. It's not sexy. 0:11:01.880 --> 0:11:04.000 That's not I mean, obviously it is to somebody, I guess, 0:11:04.000 --> 0:11:08.280 but I don't get it. I don't want a nipple 0:11:08.320 --> 0:11:10.559 coming out of the middle of my. 0:11:12.120 --> 0:11:14.719 I don't know, but listen, that's what I bought that day, 0:11:14.760 --> 0:11:16.839 and that day it was not. 0:11:16.840 --> 0:11:19.440 My favorite day to get recognized from the show. That's 0:11:19.480 --> 0:11:21.600 all I'm saying. At least she knew you still had 0:11:21.640 --> 0:11:24.880 it exactly you know what it did got mis Yeah, 0:11:24.920 --> 0:11:26.400 I was like, this is just a regular day. I 0:11:26.440 --> 0:11:28.720 don't want No. It was like probably on the fourteenth, 0:11:28.760 --> 0:11:32.440 like just so tragic. You and I have actually been 0:11:32.440 --> 0:11:37.120 in the lingerie section together. M we have, We've walked 0:11:37.120 --> 0:11:40.679 through it. We walked through a beautiful displays. We were 0:11:40.679 --> 0:11:44.600 in Paris displays of gorgeous you know bra cutouts. They 0:11:44.640 --> 0:11:46.320 were not the cutout. Do you remember what you said 0:11:46.320 --> 0:11:46.520 to me? 0:11:49.520 --> 0:11:53.400 Well, we got on the subject of sex, and I 0:11:53.480 --> 0:11:57.960 said to you, because we're, you know, so close, I said, listen, 0:11:58.000 --> 0:11:58.840 I've got some moves. 0:12:02.760 --> 0:12:05.840 And that insulting. 0:12:05.120 --> 0:12:07.960 Reaction that you just gave now is exactly what happened 0:12:07.960 --> 0:12:10.240 on the day. I don't understand why you can't picture 0:12:10.280 --> 0:12:13.800 that I have moves, because what is it about me 0:12:13.880 --> 0:12:14.959 that screams that I don't? 0:12:16.920 --> 0:12:20.040 Why do you think my laughter insinuates that you that 0:12:20.080 --> 0:12:21.480 I'm questioning the moves? 0:12:21.640 --> 0:12:22.680 I'm just laughing at. 0:12:22.800 --> 0:12:25.679 Because I feel like if Angelina Joe Lee was walking 0:12:25.800 --> 0:12:28.160 through the laundry section and she said I have moves, 0:12:28.200 --> 0:12:30.000 she'd be like, yeah, you do, Angie, but. 0:12:30.040 --> 0:12:34.600 With me, you like literally peed your pants in the middle. 0:12:34.600 --> 0:12:36.880 And I was like, what's so funny? 0:12:37.320 --> 0:12:41.520 Definitely pants, good thing, my underwid And. 0:12:41.360 --> 0:12:44.320 Well then but then you were like quizzing me, You're like, 0:12:44.360 --> 0:12:47.920 what moves? I was like, don't worry about what they are. 0:12:48.240 --> 0:12:49.120 You don't have MEAs. 0:12:52.480 --> 0:12:54.280 I was like, don't worry. 0:12:54.320 --> 0:12:56.320 I'm not I'm not doing them to you. Don't worry 0:12:56.320 --> 0:13:00.520 about it. But they're there, and they happened. Hold On, 0:13:00.640 --> 0:13:04.800 let me explain my laughter. My laughture was not about 0:13:04.840 --> 0:13:07.080 whether or not I questioned that you had the moves. 0:13:07.120 --> 0:13:11.760 It was more that you called them moves, and then 0:13:11.920 --> 0:13:17.280 I did actually imagine that they were moves, that it 0:13:17.400 --> 0:13:19.560 was a pop quiz. I got stressed. I was like 0:13:19.640 --> 0:13:21.320 sweating when you started asking me about it. 0:13:21.360 --> 0:13:23.920 But I was envisioning them being like like like like 0:13:24.000 --> 0:13:26.320 figure skinning moves, like you do a triple sal cow 0:13:26.559 --> 0:13:29.160 or something in bed well. 0:13:29.200 --> 0:13:31.079 I don't know how else I would describe it. I 0:13:31.120 --> 0:13:34.079 was like a double axle with a rotating let's have 0:13:34.280 --> 0:13:35.200 done that. Cough. 0:13:36.080 --> 0:13:39.560 Listen on Valentine's Day, a double axel might come out. 0:13:39.679 --> 0:13:45.280 You never know. That's the joy of the day. I yes. Anyway, 0:13:45.600 --> 0:13:48.120 Jess loves telling this up. She's like, you've got moves, 0:13:50.240 --> 0:13:51.560 She's got moves people. 0:14:05.040 --> 0:14:08.360 Okay, let's go to the crew, let's go to these submissions. Yeah, 0:14:08.480 --> 0:14:11.640 this is a best and worst Valentine's Day gifts. Lily 0:14:11.720 --> 0:14:14.640 wrote in and she said the best putting thought into it, 0:14:14.760 --> 0:14:16.880 the worst, grabbing whatever is easiest. 0:14:17.120 --> 0:14:21.320 I have had to do a quick grab at CBS 0:14:21.360 --> 0:14:21.600 from that. 0:14:22.040 --> 0:14:25.000 Yeah, everyone's been there. We've all been there. Donna said, 0:14:25.080 --> 0:14:27.840 a wee can get away? Are you kidding? Yes, that's 0:14:27.880 --> 0:14:32.320 the best. Yeah, I love that and experience that an experience. 0:14:33.040 --> 0:14:36.960 Emily or Emily who knows said, my now ex boyfriend 0:14:36.960 --> 0:14:42.920 got me a gym membership for Valentine's Day straight up 0:14:42.960 --> 0:14:45.000 told me, quote, you need it. 0:14:46.040 --> 0:14:49.720 Wow guys by guys. 0:14:49.880 --> 0:14:54.480 Wow, Gosh, I bet I'm gonna bet that guy's still alone. 0:14:55.360 --> 0:14:57.760 Yeah, yeah, hopefully. 0:14:57.800 --> 0:15:02.000 Mister Charming I think is flying solo on pretty much 0:15:02.000 --> 0:15:03.280 every Valentine's Day. 0:15:04.320 --> 0:15:05.960 A Rose wrote, the. 0:15:05.840 --> 0:15:08.480 Worst gift is just flowers and chocolate because they didn't 0:15:08.520 --> 0:15:08.960 even try. 0:15:09.040 --> 0:15:12.080 It's basic. Oh man, I'm a little basic. 0:15:12.200 --> 0:15:15.920 I don't mind a little classical flower chocolate. 0:15:16.320 --> 0:15:17.760 Mm hmmm, I don't mind it. 0:15:18.280 --> 0:15:20.560 You have thoughts, oh, I know a little bit, like 0:15:21.040 --> 0:15:24.200 I mean, yeah, yeah, you're thinking about a Titanic necklace. 0:15:24.840 --> 0:15:27.320 I'm thinking of the Titanic necklace. I'm like, how did 0:15:27.320 --> 0:15:28.640 I give this chocolate and flowers? 0:15:28.720 --> 0:15:29.000 Yeah? 0:15:29.120 --> 0:15:31.960 Of course, also like I love flowers. Anyone who knows me, 0:15:32.000 --> 0:15:33.320 and those are how much I love flowers. 0:15:33.360 --> 0:15:37.440 But I think that the price inflation on Valentine's Day 0:15:37.480 --> 0:15:38.920 and all the other things, like give it to me 0:15:38.960 --> 0:15:40.440 next week, Give me some flowers next week. 0:15:40.520 --> 0:15:43.000 I don't need you to pay it. Okay, yeah, that's true, 0:15:43.040 --> 0:15:43.720 that's true. 0:15:44.080 --> 0:15:48.320 Sharon wrote in and said best is definitely a handwritten card. 0:15:47.920 --> 0:15:49.200 I love a letter. 0:15:50.200 --> 0:15:52.360 What's my love language? Words of affirmation and tell me 0:15:52.400 --> 0:15:53.240 how the ways you love me? 0:15:53.840 --> 0:15:57.120 Oh? A letter? A letter, She's a handwritten carca. It's 0:15:57.160 --> 0:15:59.560 a handwritten card. I am scoping out the room for 0:15:59.640 --> 0:16:03.000 where the Okay, I'm doing a scope. 0:16:03.160 --> 0:16:04.640 Well, I mean if it's a card that says like 0:16:04.920 --> 0:16:09.400 love Bob, then that would be yeah Bob was hopefully 0:16:09.600 --> 0:16:10.680 Bob has a gift. 0:16:10.480 --> 0:16:13.560 To back up the car. Yeah, or a poem. I 0:16:13.560 --> 0:16:16.280 would love a poem. Gosh, I used to get poems, 0:16:16.560 --> 0:16:19.800 did you? Yeah that much more high school? In college? Yeah? 0:16:19.880 --> 0:16:25.000 Yeah, yeahs says worse. My ex gave me a handful 0:16:25.080 --> 0:16:28.720 of seeds once he said he was allergic to flowers, 0:16:28.760 --> 0:16:32.080 so I could grow my own. They weren't even in 0:16:32.120 --> 0:16:33.000 a bag or anything. 0:16:33.000 --> 0:16:38.600 He took them out of his pocket. What that's like 0:16:38.680 --> 0:16:41.200 out of a movie. 0:16:41.320 --> 0:16:44.400 I mean, Juliana said, best is a spa day or 0:16:44.440 --> 0:16:47.920 a massage for one? She was one? 0:16:48.360 --> 0:16:51.760 Yeah, yeah, not a couples you know I respect that. 0:16:51.960 --> 0:16:58.880 Yeah, Alexandre said, worse the cliche engagement on Valentine's Day. 0:17:00.400 --> 0:17:07.040 Let's talk about it, Okay, how do I I gotta 0:17:07.040 --> 0:17:07.480 think about this. 0:17:07.560 --> 0:17:11.080 If I had been proposed to on Valentine's Day, I 0:17:11.080 --> 0:17:15.640 wouldn't hate it. You're being proposed to you, I don't. 0:17:15.680 --> 0:17:18.200 I don't know, I don't I what do you think 0:17:18.640 --> 0:17:19.960 we're thinking? I kind of don't. 0:17:20.000 --> 0:17:22.200 I'm like, I'm really drawn a blank with this one. 0:17:22.480 --> 0:17:26.840 Like potato potato at February fourteenth, February fifteen. Yeah, I 0:17:26.840 --> 0:17:28.920 mean you certainly wouldn't forget your engagement day. 0:17:29.119 --> 0:17:31.200 Would you rather be proposed to on Valentine's Day or 0:17:31.280 --> 0:17:34.160 not be proposed to? Exactly? Well? Do I want to be? 0:17:34.200 --> 0:17:35.840 If I want to be proposed to, I don't mind 0:17:35.880 --> 0:17:38.280 if it's again. If I want to be proposed to, 0:17:38.400 --> 0:17:40.719 I don't mind if it's February thirteen, fourteenth or fifteen. 0:17:41.240 --> 0:17:44.560 I also got proposed to on a holiday that probably 0:17:44.600 --> 0:17:46.840 other people would find cliche, which is new Year's Eve, 0:17:47.280 --> 0:17:50.239 but I also had, like, you know, a one and 0:17:50.240 --> 0:17:52.000 a half year old at the time, so it wasn't 0:17:52.160 --> 0:17:52.960 super shocking. 0:17:54.440 --> 0:17:55.760 We were sort of ready in it. 0:17:58.560 --> 0:17:59.080 Do I reel? 0:17:59.119 --> 0:17:59.199 Like? 0:17:59.240 --> 0:18:01.960 Okay, I feel like I can't fully I can't really 0:18:02.000 --> 0:18:02.360 hate on. 0:18:02.359 --> 0:18:08.040 Valentine's yet what? Yeah? 0:18:08.200 --> 0:18:11.240 Okay, Gretchen best flowers worst, the little candy hearts that 0:18:11.280 --> 0:18:12.160 had the words on them. 0:18:12.520 --> 0:18:13.359 I kind of like those. 0:18:14.119 --> 0:18:16.280 Yeah, I don't like the American ones, but we have 0:18:16.320 --> 0:18:17.280 Sweethearts in England. 0:18:17.320 --> 0:18:18.160 I think they taste better. 0:18:18.680 --> 0:18:21.560 Karen said one time, my boyfriend decorated my room in 0:18:21.680 --> 0:18:24.119 Gray's theme and had a romantic table. 0:18:24.200 --> 0:18:27.440 That's sweet. That's that's that's a partner who knows who 0:18:27.480 --> 0:18:30.439 knows you? I love that. Actually, that's really cute. I 0:18:30.520 --> 0:18:31.040 like that too. 0:18:31.119 --> 0:18:33.960 Yeah, lou worst take into a football game. I don't 0:18:33.960 --> 0:18:34.520 like football. 0:18:34.840 --> 0:18:37.160 Yep, that would be bad. That's not a gift. That's 0:18:37.320 --> 0:18:38.880 just you're along full of ride. 0:18:39.119 --> 0:18:42.720 Mary has written in something very controversial. Mary, I don't 0:18:42.760 --> 0:18:45.919 know you, but I'm not sure we have the same philosophy. 0:18:46.800 --> 0:18:49.880 Mary says no gift is a bad gift. There are 0:18:49.880 --> 0:18:53.840 bad gifts, or is she saying the lack. 0:18:53.680 --> 0:18:55.760 Of a gift is a bad gift. 0:18:56.160 --> 0:18:58.520 Oh well, then I'm in completely and I'm completely in 0:18:58.880 --> 0:18:59.280 step with it. 0:18:59.520 --> 0:19:02.120 Let's let's do it like the lack of a gift. Yeah, 0:19:02.160 --> 0:19:04.040 that sucks. Yeah, if you don't get a gift, that's 0:19:04.040 --> 0:19:04.680 a very bad gift. 0:19:04.760 --> 0:19:08.160 Let's also take it as there can't be a bad gift, 0:19:08.560 --> 0:19:10.800 which I don't think she's saying, because clearly there can. 0:19:11.040 --> 0:19:18.439 You know, best, Mariel said, best a little locker for 0:19:18.520 --> 0:19:20.879 the fridge. So my favorite food can't be eaten by 0:19:20.920 --> 0:19:27.200 my always hungry husband, so he bought you a lock. 0:19:27.600 --> 0:19:30.000 So we want to eat your food. Oh, we need 0:19:30.040 --> 0:19:30.800 to get onto the next one. 0:19:31.400 --> 0:19:35.240 Okay, okay, Felicia best. One year, I did a thong 0:19:35.320 --> 0:19:39.360 exchange with my friends. So like Secretsana with panties, secret panties. 0:19:40.440 --> 0:19:44.920 I've never heard of secret panties. But okay, great love 0:19:45.000 --> 0:19:46.000 that Lily. 0:19:46.359 --> 0:19:48.879 I wasn't seeing anyone at the time, but I received 0:19:48.920 --> 0:19:51.320