1 00:00:01,480 --> 00:00:07,920 Speaker 1: Five Rooking Jewels. Second date Update. Whenever somebody claims that 2 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:10,040 Speaker 1: they're sick and they can't go on a date with you, 3 00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 1: that's when you show up to their house to make sure. 4 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 1: You have to make sure that they're not faking it. 5 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:20,840 Speaker 1: And that's exactly what Andrea did. Who's on the phone 6 00:00:20,840 --> 00:00:24,040 Speaker 1: to do a second date update right now? She called 7 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 1: the dude out for being sick, and now he's not 8 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 1: calling her back. But apparently it worked out better than 9 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 1: what it sounds like. I'm saying, Andrea, what's up? How 10 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:35,239 Speaker 1: are you? Hey? Juwel hey, Brooke, Harry, y'all good. So 11 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 1: why don't you tell us a little bit about the 12 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:38,199 Speaker 1: guy that you want to call today? What's his name? 13 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:40,839 Speaker 1: His name is Mike? Mike okay, and how did you 14 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:43,640 Speaker 1: meet Mike? We work in separate places. We were just 15 00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:47,559 Speaker 1: at the same bar for an office happy hour, and 16 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:51,879 Speaker 1: you thought maybe you could help merge companies a little merger. 17 00:00:52,120 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 1: Huh maybe I was I was thinking more. You know, 18 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 1: he could just do a feature on our next pay 19 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 1: So what do you like about this guy? He had 20 00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:06,280 Speaker 1: a really sweet personality. I mean, he was just he 21 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:09,200 Speaker 1: was really smooth. He Uh, I went to order my 22 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:12,320 Speaker 1: drink at the bar and he just he's like split 23 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:15,039 Speaker 1: up next to me. He's like, after I said my drink, 24 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:16,400 Speaker 1: he told me his drink and he's like, oh and 25 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 1: put them together. All okay, So I just it was 26 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:20,960 Speaker 1: really sweet. Oh he might put him on the same tap. 27 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 1: I thought you meant he wanted you to mix drinks. 28 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:28,119 Speaker 1: I was like, that's weird. A merger, right, So anyway, 29 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:29,400 Speaker 1: he took care of your drinks. It seemed like a 30 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:32,000 Speaker 1: nice guy. Yeah, yeah, it seemed like a really nice guy. 31 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:35,200 Speaker 1: I mean we started talking and he's got really popping 32 00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 1: blue eyes. Total sucker for that. And by the end 33 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 1: of the night he asked me out. Okay, so in 34 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:44,480 Speaker 1: your email you mentioned something about him getting sick, so 35 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:47,560 Speaker 1: you needed to go over to his place. Okay. So 36 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 1: the day of the date he texted me and he 37 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 1: had to cancel because he said he was sick. Well 38 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 1: that sucks. Yeah, you know, I felt bad. I mean, 39 00:01:56,680 --> 00:02:00,320 Speaker 1: I'm a compassionate person, I'm nice. So I offer to 40 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 1: come over to his place as a care package, and 41 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 1: he agreed. Oh oh, well, that's really thoughtful of you, 42 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 1: especially for someone you haven't even actually gone out on 43 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 1: a date. With yet. Well, I did have a little 44 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:13,959 Speaker 1: bit of a double motive. I mean, I've I've been 45 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:16,240 Speaker 1: burned on a first date before, so I just wanted 46 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:20,640 Speaker 1: to make sure he was actually sick. Yeah, I mean 47 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:23,079 Speaker 1: I wanted to see if he was actually telling the truth. 48 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 1: What happened when you show it up? Um? I knocked 49 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:27,920 Speaker 1: on the door and he opened it. He was he 50 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 1: was actually sick. I mean, yeah, he looked, he looked terrible. 51 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 1: That's what you want to hear from somebody who's interested 52 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 1: in you. Man, you look terrible. Yeah, he looked. He 53 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 1: looked worse than terrible. So he wasn't lying to you? 54 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:46,080 Speaker 1: Then it was? It was bad, definitely not lying, probably 55 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:50,119 Speaker 1: actually kind of underplaying. And how long did you hang 56 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 1: out with him in his house while he was sick? Um? 57 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: You know, I offered to stay as long as you 58 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 1: liked him, and he seemed to really, you know, appreciate 59 00:02:57,400 --> 00:03:01,800 Speaker 1: the care package. So what was in the package? Lube? What? 60 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 1: No for the throat? Yeah? Yeah, I brought him some soup, 61 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:13,680 Speaker 1: some crackers, a little bit of candy, unique pretty pretty 62 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 1: kosher stuff, the normal get well stuff. Not Maybe that's 63 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:20,360 Speaker 1: where you went wrong. Maybe he's one of those guys 64 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 1: that likes a good lube to solve his cough. All right, Well, 65 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 1: I will keep that in mind next time he's sick. 66 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:29,840 Speaker 1: Nothing subes a wet cough like some lube. So how 67 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:32,800 Speaker 1: did things end with him? It actually ended a little 68 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 1: bit uncomfortable. Really, why? Yeah, so we seem to be 69 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 1: having a good time. You know. I asked her to 70 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 1: stay as long as he would like. I thought maybe 71 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 1: he'd like the company. Um, all of a sudden, he 72 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 1: kind of abruptly went, well I should rest, and you know, 73 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 1: really awkwardly, just like put on my shoes and said bye. 74 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 1: I mean okay, after you just brought him a get 75 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 1: well package. Yeah, so he just kind of killed and 76 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 1: I'm just like you're talking. He's like, I need to rest, 77 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 1: get out. It wasn't that rude, but he did motion 78 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 1: towards the door, like you need to leave. Wow. Okay. 79 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 1: Did you feel like he was angry or he was 80 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:18,920 Speaker 1: just uncomfortable because he was sick? Kind of afford to tell. 81 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:22,359 Speaker 1: I mean, he was sick, so I'm just hoping he 82 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 1: was in a bad mood. And have you talked to 83 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:28,680 Speaker 1: him since then? No, he hasn't texted, He hasn't called. 84 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 1: I mean, not even like a thank you for the 85 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:36,479 Speaker 1: care package. Nothing. So he's either blowing me off or 86 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 1: his sickness got worse and now he's dead. At least 87 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 1: you could take some solace in that, Like maybe it 88 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:48,560 Speaker 1: was a really bad cold and that's the reason he's 89 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 1: not calling you back, not because he did something wrong. 90 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 1: Yeah maybe. I mean, I'm just as confused as you are. 91 00:04:56,160 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 1: I mean, he asked me out right, and I choked 92 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:03,680 Speaker 1: himself the care package, and now I haven't heard from him. 93 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:06,160 Speaker 1: Oh no, okay, so weird. All right, Well we'll play 94 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:08,039 Speaker 1: a song, come back, call him and get your second 95 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:16,360 Speaker 1: date update. Okay, okay, all right, hang on brooking jubil 96 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 1: in the morning date. Today's second date update is less 97 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 1: of a second date update and more of a welfare check. 98 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:26,680 Speaker 1: Just called to see if this dude is still alive. 99 00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:29,920 Speaker 1: If you're just joining us. Andrea is on the phone 100 00:05:29,960 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 1: and she wants us to call a guy named Mike today. 101 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 1: They met at office happy hour, and then when they 102 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:37,560 Speaker 1: scheduled their date, he told her that he was sick 103 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:40,160 Speaker 1: and he couldn't meet up. Then she tested him and said, 104 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:42,480 Speaker 1: oh well, how about I bring you a care package? 105 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:45,480 Speaker 1: Because she thought one that he might have been lying, 106 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 1: and two it would be a nice gesture, and he 107 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 1: actually said yes. She brought over the care package and 108 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 1: he was really sick. They hung out for a little 109 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 1: while and eventually he said, hey, I need to get 110 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 1: some rest. You need to go, and that's the last 111 00:05:56,440 --> 00:05:59,120 Speaker 1: that she's heard from him. So, Andrew, if I call 112 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:01,920 Speaker 1: this number and somebody answers and asks me if I'm 113 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:05,039 Speaker 1: next of Ken, should I hang up then? Or oh 114 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:07,800 Speaker 1: my god, yes, please just hang out then like it 115 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:11,160 Speaker 1: ever happened. Okay, do you I mean, do you feel 116 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 1: pretty foolish that you basically accused him in your mind 117 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 1: of lying and then you were wrong? Um? Yeah, I 118 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 1: mean I was definitely surprised he was actually sick. But 119 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 1: I mean there's no reason to not call me back, 120 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 1: you know, for another date, yeah, or at least just 121 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 1: to say thank you, because he didn't even thank you 122 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 1: for the care pact exactly. I'm just really confused. Okay, Well, 123 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 1: I'm gonna dial his phone ub right now and see 124 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:44,400 Speaker 1: if we can get your answer. Okay, Okay, here we're going. Hello, 125 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 1: can I speak to Mike please? This is Mike. Oh good, 126 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 1: you're feeling better. I've been so worried about you, Mike, 127 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:56,640 Speaker 1: in this cold you had. Who is this? Oh? This 128 00:06:56,720 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 1: is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. How 129 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:03,480 Speaker 1: are you doing? Um? I'm okay. What's broken? Jubil in 130 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 1: the Morning. It's a good question. I don't really know, 131 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 1: but according to most people, it's a radio show. Yeah, okay, 132 00:07:11,840 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 1: and we're calling you today because we got an email 133 00:07:14,400 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 1: about you from one of our listeners. Sorry, what are 134 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 1: you talking about? Well, we do a segment on our show. 135 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:22,720 Speaker 1: It's called the second Date Update. It's where if you 136 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 1: go out on a date with somebody and then end 137 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 1: up not calling them after they email us to see 138 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 1: if we can get you on the phone and find 139 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:31,240 Speaker 1: out what happened. Technically, you didn't really go on a 140 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 1: date with this person, but they're still wondering why you 141 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 1: aren't calling them back. Okay, that sounds pretty messed up. 142 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:45,119 Speaker 1: But her name is Andrea. Okay, okay, you remember Andrew. 143 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:46,960 Speaker 1: She brought you a care package when you were sick. 144 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 1: I guess, yeah, I guess you could say that. What 145 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 1: do you mean? I guess you could say that wasn't 146 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:53,960 Speaker 1: it filled with things to make you feel better? When 147 00:07:53,960 --> 00:08:00,640 Speaker 1: you're sick. Yeah, it was technically, I don't know. If 148 00:08:00,640 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 1: somebody says I want to make you a care package, 149 00:08:03,560 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 1: you kind of expect a bit of care in that package. 150 00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 1: And she came over and it was literally a paper 151 00:08:12,120 --> 00:08:17,800 Speaker 1: grocery bag with can soup in it and like salting 152 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 1: crackers and like candy, but not even real brand name candy. 153 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:30,040 Speaker 1: Like what a care package? No, I'm just saying that, 154 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 1: you know, it's clear that she said I want to 155 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:34,480 Speaker 1: bring you a care package and then stopped at the 156 00:08:34,520 --> 00:08:37,160 Speaker 1: store and literally grabbed the first thing she saw it. 157 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:40,240 Speaker 1: And that's what a care package is. She stopped by 158 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 1: the store, I got you things you needed. Yeah, but 159 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:43,880 Speaker 1: if you're going to go out of your way to 160 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 1: do a thing for a person, I'm just saying, you know, 161 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:48,640 Speaker 1: either put some thought in it or wait till our 162 00:08:48,679 --> 00:08:50,679 Speaker 1: first date. I don't even know this girl. And this 163 00:08:50,760 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 1: is the first impression. For the second impression that I'm 164 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 1: getting is like, here's some stuff that I like, I 165 00:08:57,440 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 1: have in my house. Is that why you're not calling 166 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:03,800 Speaker 1: her back because of the little effort she put into 167 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:06,920 Speaker 1: a care package for you? Well, no, it's not just 168 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:11,600 Speaker 1: that that. I mean that was disappointing to say the least. 169 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 1: But then the thing is, like the energy was so weird. 170 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:21,360 Speaker 1: So I'm sick, right, and she comes over and, you know, 171 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:25,679 Speaker 1: instead of kind of like hanging out and maybe getting 172 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:29,280 Speaker 1: to know me, like the first question, she's asking really 173 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:33,120 Speaker 1: specific questions about how sick I am. And she asked 174 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:37,880 Speaker 1: me if I get sick often, and like what my 175 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:42,680 Speaker 1: symptoms were, and like it felt kind of I felt 176 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:44,960 Speaker 1: like I was on trial a bit, like or that 177 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 1: you're at the doctor, yeah, or that I was at 178 00:09:47,640 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 1: the doctor, but neither of us are doctors, so I 179 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 1: don't I didn't know what her angle was, you know, like, 180 00:09:55,120 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 1: how paranoid are you? What are you testing me? You 181 00:09:57,360 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 1: want to see if my genetics are good? I don't 182 00:09:59,320 --> 00:10:01,840 Speaker 1: get sick that often twice a year, Thank you very much. 183 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:04,680 Speaker 1: That's kind of what it felt like. But did you 184 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:07,080 Speaker 1: I mean, it could have been that she was nervous 185 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:09,600 Speaker 1: and it's the first time you guys have hung out 186 00:10:09,640 --> 00:10:13,320 Speaker 1: without alcohol and she didn't know what else to talk about. Well, 187 00:10:13,360 --> 00:10:16,560 Speaker 1: it just seemed to me that she didn't totally believe 188 00:10:16,679 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 1: that I was sick, Like I had to answer all 189 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:23,040 Speaker 1: these questions about how I was sick and how sick 190 00:10:23,080 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 1: I really was, and I felt like they kept going on. 191 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:28,200 Speaker 1: If it was one or two questions, that would be 192 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:31,120 Speaker 1: one thing. But at a certain point I was like, 193 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:35,559 Speaker 1: do you want a doctor's note? He should have supplied 194 00:10:35,559 --> 00:10:39,160 Speaker 1: her with one, I guess so. So it was her 195 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 1: careless package, not a care package, and her constant grilling 196 00:10:44,360 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 1: you about being sick that made you not want to 197 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:49,079 Speaker 1: call her again. Oh well, I just yeah, I gotta 198 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 1: I gotta kind of possessive sense about her, and I'm 199 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 1: not into that. You know, I don't get that sense 200 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:57,120 Speaker 1: about her at all. And she's actually on the other 201 00:10:57,160 --> 00:10:58,640 Speaker 1: line listening and wants to talk to you, so we 202 00:10:58,640 --> 00:11:01,200 Speaker 1: could ask her if she's possessive like that. Wait, she's 203 00:11:01,240 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 1: been listening to this whole thing. Yeah, Andrea, Hi, how 204 00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:10,280 Speaker 1: are you doing? Oh my god, I'm I'm so sorry. 205 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:14,240 Speaker 1: I didn't know you were listening at all. Um. Yeah, 206 00:11:14,280 --> 00:11:16,839 Speaker 1: I did hear everything, Mike, and it's really interesting to 207 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:20,840 Speaker 1: hear your take on how things happened. Um well, I 208 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:24,680 Speaker 1: just you should know. That's how I felt at the time. 209 00:11:24,800 --> 00:11:28,599 Speaker 1: And I was called by a radio show, which apparently 210 00:11:28,679 --> 00:11:32,440 Speaker 1: you send an email to, which doesn't help my general 211 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:37,280 Speaker 1: feeling about the whole thing. I mean, I was just 212 00:11:37,440 --> 00:11:41,880 Speaker 1: really confused because it seems like, you know, I thought 213 00:11:41,960 --> 00:11:44,040 Speaker 1: I had, you know, reached out and did a really 214 00:11:44,120 --> 00:11:47,560 Speaker 1: nice thing for you, but apparently it didn't quite come 215 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:52,559 Speaker 1: off as kindly as it was intended. Well, your intentions 216 00:11:52,559 --> 00:11:55,880 Speaker 1: weren't very clear to me, you know, And if you 217 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:59,160 Speaker 1: do this in the future, maybe put a little more 218 00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 1: thought into that so it won't seem like you just 219 00:12:01,960 --> 00:12:03,920 Speaker 1: showed up with a bag in order to get into 220 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 1: the door and find out some information. Wow. I mean, 221 00:12:09,240 --> 00:12:11,800 Speaker 1: when you've been lied to once, sometimes you're going to 222 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:15,280 Speaker 1: see how many liars are out there. Okay, So you 223 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:20,240 Speaker 1: were testing me, so I was right. I just wanted 224 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:23,280 Speaker 1: to see if you were all right and make sure 225 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:25,880 Speaker 1: you know there wasn't any red flags, you know, immediately 226 00:12:25,960 --> 00:12:27,680 Speaker 1: up front. I mean, if you like me and we 227 00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:31,439 Speaker 1: haven't even gone on our first date, Yeah, our first date, 228 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:34,680 Speaker 1: So probably best not to take the time when I'm 229 00:12:34,760 --> 00:12:39,920 Speaker 1: sick to grill me and find out whether I've killed anybody. 230 00:12:40,520 --> 00:12:42,120 Speaker 1: But Mike, I mean, you've got to listen to her 231 00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:45,760 Speaker 1: explanation right now, because it does kind of make sense. Yeah, 232 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:52,120 Speaker 1: it makes sense to a paranoid person. She's been burned 233 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:54,560 Speaker 1: a bunch, Mike, give her like a little bit of 234 00:12:54,559 --> 00:12:56,640 Speaker 1: a break. I mean, you're the jerk that's complaining about 235 00:12:56,640 --> 00:12:59,439 Speaker 1: the quality of care packages over here. She brought me 236 00:12:59,600 --> 00:13:03,200 Speaker 1: cam soup. I could go get canned soup from the store. 237 00:13:03,360 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 1: That's not care I didn't know if you were lying. 238 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:09,400 Speaker 1: I mean, if you're a liar, like you only get 239 00:13:09,440 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 1: caned soup, like I'm not going to pull out like 240 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:16,360 Speaker 1: my mom's homemade recipe like that takes four hours to 241 00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:21,080 Speaker 1: make for a little liar, I just didn't get a 242 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:23,920 Speaker 1: good first impression. So if I got to stick around 243 00:13:24,040 --> 00:13:27,280 Speaker 1: for the good soup, I don't know if that's worth it. Well, 244 00:13:27,320 --> 00:13:29,080 Speaker 1: let's see if it's worth it. Mike, would you like 245 00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:31,120 Speaker 1: to go out on a second date with Andrea? We 246 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:32,839 Speaker 1: will pay for it. Well, we'll buy the ingredients for 247 00:13:32,880 --> 00:13:38,240 Speaker 1: the soup that you can make. I can confidently say no, Yeah, 248 00:13:38,280 --> 00:13:43,200 Speaker 1: this is already way too nuts for me. Okay, okay. Well, 249 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:48,280 Speaker 1: knowing that, then I suppose would also like to not 250 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:51,640 Speaker 1: go out because apparently, no, Andrew, you can't do that. 251 00:13:51,760 --> 00:13:54,480 Speaker 1: You can't go back and say no. I'm saying no, Yeah, yes, 252 00:13:54,559 --> 00:13:59,000 Speaker 1: I can. I am saying no right now. Wow. Okay, Mike, 253 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:00,800 Speaker 1: you hear that you could have had a date, but 254 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:05,640 Speaker 1: now you don't get one because Andrea decided no, that's fine, 255 00:14:06,040 --> 00:14:09,600 Speaker 1: that's just fine with me. Did you hear me, Mike? 256 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:16,360 Speaker 1: I said no, yes, all right. Sorry you couldn't get 257 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:18,199 Speaker 1: you guys to go out again, but at least you 258 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:24,800 Speaker 1: both agree that Andreas said no. Texted at seven eighty 259 00:14:24,840 --> 00:14:27,440 Speaker 1: five to nine two says that guy's a pretentious douche 260 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:31,680 Speaker 1: with like a lot of osa talking about today's second 261 00:14:31,760 --> 00:14:33,960 Speaker 1: date update if you missed it. Andrea wanted to call 262 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:36,400 Speaker 1: this dude named Mike. He got sick when they were 263 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:37,960 Speaker 1: supposed to go on their dates, so she put him 264 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:39,720 Speaker 1: to the test and was like, well, I'll bring you 265 00:14:39,760 --> 00:14:42,440 Speaker 1: a care package, and he accepted because he was actually sick. 266 00:14:42,960 --> 00:14:44,960 Speaker 1: She really wanted to see if he was lying to her, 267 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:46,920 Speaker 1: and he wasn't. He was sick, but the reason that 268 00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:49,280 Speaker 1: he wasn't calling her back was because he didn't like 269 00:14:49,320 --> 00:14:53,160 Speaker 1: the care package that she brought over because it contained regular, 270 00:14:53,320 --> 00:14:57,560 Speaker 1: average canned soup and some candy that wasn't even like 271 00:14:57,680 --> 00:15:04,240 Speaker 1: special candy. Yeah, own candy. Ridiculous, So he wasn't into 272 00:15:04,280 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 1: it because of that, and then she got upset and 273 00:15:05,960 --> 00:15:07,560 Speaker 1: at the end turned it around on him. So we 274 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:08,800 Speaker 1: asked if they want to go on a second date, 275 00:15:08,840 --> 00:15:10,840 Speaker 1: update a second date like we always do, and he 276 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:12,520 Speaker 1: said no, but then she said no, you don't get 277 00:15:12,560 --> 00:15:15,400 Speaker 1: to say no. I'm saying no. No. I really think 278 00:15:15,480 --> 00:15:18,000 Speaker 1: if we back it up, this weirdly wouldn't have worked 279 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 1: out anyway because first date, and she's already like a 280 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:25,520 Speaker 1: private detective thinking he's like lying about being sick, and 281 00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:27,280 Speaker 1: that was his point too. He could tell that she 282 00:15:27,400 --> 00:15:29,360 Speaker 1: was testing him to see if he was actually sick, 283 00:15:29,400 --> 00:15:32,640 Speaker 1: so he wasn't into it. But she says, no, that's 284 00:15:32,680 --> 00:15:36,400 Speaker 1: all that's the most important part. Can't fire me. I quit. 285 00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:40,200 Speaker 1: Remember if you want to do a second date, update off, 286 00:15:40,200 --> 00:15:41,640 Speaker 1: you do his email the show and we will call 287 00:15:41,680 --> 00:15:45,440 Speaker 1: the person who didn't call you back.