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Speaker 2: of an episode. Yeah it is Monday, Tuesday, if you're

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Speaker 2: listening to this. Yeah, the BT Awards just happened. M

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Speaker 2: maul and I just took over LA. Shut it down.

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Speaker 2: We didn't shut it No, LA was exactly the same

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Speaker 3: Nothing nothing changed, literally nothing at all.

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Speaker 2: But we are back here and excited for the week.

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Speaker 3: Good to be back home. How are you feeling I'm

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Speaker 3: good man. How are you feeling too bad?

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Speaker 2: This is bad acting as we're wearing the same clothes

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Speaker 2: from a previous episode. Of course is pre recording, of course,

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Speaker 2: and I are in la We actually might be at

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Speaker 2: the BET Awards on Monday night. We haven't really decided

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Speaker 2: if we're going to, like hit the carpet or not.

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Speaker 2: What's your carpet?

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Speaker 3: So talking to our future selves.

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Speaker 2: Yes, in the event that we decide outside of the weekend,

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Speaker 2: we would actually go to the awards. One, what are

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I have no idea. You think I

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Speaker 2: We're talking in the future from the past right now.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I don't know. Something comfortable and casual as always, okay,

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm trying to think BT Awards twenty twenty four

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Speaker 2: men Fashion Pause. It's casual, but there's people in suits here.

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Speaker 2: Usher was giving them the jeans blazer like Kamas. That's

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Speaker 3: Always has. Usher was always jeans blazer.

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Speaker 2: If we had to walk the carpet together, how would

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Speaker 2: you feel if I went full Gunna and did the

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Speaker 2: vest with the slacks. I would feel like with my

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Speaker 3: Like I'm ready to go home, ready to leave it

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Speaker 3: at right, you choose not to do it, you choose

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Speaker 2: You don't think I'll say Tank and I could wear

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Speaker 3: No, I don't. I don't think you and Tank could

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, that is something we have to think about.

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Speaker 2: If we are, in fact already been on the carpet.

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Speaker 2: Maybe they already saw us, and while they're listening to this,

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Speaker 2: they're like, we already saw Rory pull off the sleepless

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Speaker 2: face exactly, and then we saw them all exit, Sam.

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Speaker 3: Leave, because that's exactly what I'll be doing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but how's everyone feeling, Damaris? Can you talk to

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Speaker 2: your future self? How did your hosting go?

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Speaker 3: What amazing?

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Speaker 2: I love that we can also update on our Thursday

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Speaker 2: Friday episode. We'll have our predictions reviewed.

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Speaker 3: Okay, how did it go?

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Speaker 5: Ah?

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Speaker 3: Of course.

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Speaker 6: Nah, no, no more that Demarus is goode. No more

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Speaker 2: They didn't have my rider together.

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Speaker 3: Where did she go?

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Speaker 6: What Drake's aid alright, pe to the girl you used

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Speaker 6: to see. Those days are over, y'all. Don't remember that?

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Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, remember that? So I just talked about I

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Speaker 2: It was a rebirth on it's a rebirth.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I told y'all. So, okay, it's Monday, it's Tuesday. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: I already found my Stefan Diggs.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, found him. When we get to meet into existence?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, we're gonna meet him at your album release party.

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Speaker 2: No, but that could be. No, we need to meet

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Speaker 6: No, Cardi and him, I went around for a while.

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Speaker 6: They popped out of the next game. We're gonna pop

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Speaker 3: Got rid of him.

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Speaker 2: You had popped out with him before that though, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: He brought him to the last album release part it's true,

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Speaker 2: So you want to bring him to the new album release.

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Speaker 3: And yeah, I don't know this one.

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Speaker 6: This one, this one better. So we're gonna bring him

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Speaker 3: You, I've known him for forty hours.

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Speaker 6: You guys will all meet him and everything's in behod.

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Speaker 3: I didn't meet the last one, Yes, you did?

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Speaker 3: I did.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, he was at the well I threw the party

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Speaker 6: were just miserable. You were ready to go home. We

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Speaker 2: he was at the single real h definitely met him.

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Speaker 6: You was over in the corner talking to Diannay. I

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's cute.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just feel like it needs to happen before then.

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Speaker 2: If this guy is as good as you say, is

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Speaker 3: This is just steff on my stuff on.

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Speaker 2: Did he take you to brunch the next day or

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Speaker 2: did you just like recover?

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Speaker 3: Nah?

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Speaker 2: You know, I play coy like now. I have a

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and I also I'm moving this week.

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Speaker 3: So does he help you?

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Speaker 6: The new nigga I just met forty eight hours ago

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Speaker 6: in the future. No, I don't think he's moving. I

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Speaker 6: don't want him to know where I live yet. Okay,

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Speaker 6: I don't let niggas know where I lived to at

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Speaker 2: He definitely, he definitely got the lie off.

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Speaker 6: You tell a nigga where you live, Man, you could

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Speaker 6: live in Brooklyn. Suddenly a Bronx nigga riding through your neighborhood. No, man,

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Speaker 6: now you got an auntie over here. No, I don't

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Speaker 3: You think out a neighborhood.

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Speaker 2: You don't think I know anyone in Brooklyn?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Like yeah, but now you're in the neighborhood like you

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Speaker 6: was a Coney Island nigga before. What you're doing over

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Speaker 2: Move now. First of all, that's a super red flag.

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Speaker 2: I was in the neighborhood. What guy's doing that?

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Speaker 6: Well, I'm from a small town, So men did that.

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Speaker 6: A lot were from a small town. They're always in

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Speaker 3: Like if I run to the corner, I'm running patch.

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Speaker 2: Everyone's on the Bulevard.

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Speaker 3: We're all on the same street. We all live right here,

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Speaker 3: go to the same bar, the same barbershop, same club,

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Speaker 3: same restaurants. It's only what three date nighte spots you

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Speaker 3: I'm saying, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Just doing that period. It's creepy though in New York too.

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Speaker 2: You live in the Bronx and you just like, yo,

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Speaker 2: I'm in the neighborhood in Brooklyn.

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Speaker 3: You know, being in the neighborhood, Like yeah, at least

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Speaker 6: We got back to back episodes two Evergreens and a

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Speaker 6: Patreon can't make it.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, but you should.

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Speaker 2: Read the situation to begin with. If she would even

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, when a girl is like woul, she'd

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it's like now I knew I was when niggas

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Speaker 6: be like, yo, I mean your city, have fun, go

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Speaker 6: Statue can't help you, Like, I'm not helping you.

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Speaker 6: Be laying there with a full body full of hair,

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Speaker 3: Like everything gone twenty minutes. Yeah, I know, it's I know,

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Speaker 3: I know all about those days.

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Speaker 2: This is gonna sound sick, but it's just because we've

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Speaker 2: time you text that girl, I'm in your city, they

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Speaker 2: do exactly what Damarus just said. Every single time for

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Speaker 2: been in a relationship, every time I touch down, no

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Speaker 2: matter what month it is, what random day of the

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Speaker 2: week it is, why are you free all the time?

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Speaker 3: That's what you call a soldier ready for war? Like

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Speaker 3: you never even been in like a she ready for

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Speaker 3: war at all times? You never catch you she never

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Speaker 2: Because there's been like times where even chicks you've talked

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Speaker 2: to for that long, they'll be like months or years

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Speaker 2: where it's like I'm in a relationship now and like,

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Speaker 2: enjoy yourself. If you need something whatever, just hit me.

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Speaker 2: But I'm a relationship. I won't respect that. Cool. But

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Speaker 2: there's some girls that for a decade, every Tuesday, I

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Speaker 2: could just show up in Arizona and you ready ready.

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Speaker 3: That's what you call a soldier. Those are the no

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Speaker 3: limit soldiers right there.

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Speaker 2: And then you feel bad because in your head, you're like,

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Speaker 2: that girl could make a great girlfriend.

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Speaker 3: What is wrong?

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Speaker 2: Because you're only spending at most three days around her

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Speaker 2: at a time, you start to wonder what she's like

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Speaker 2: outside of those days. You've known her for ten years,

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Speaker 2: but only in three day increments, like what's her two weeks? Wag?

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Speaker 2: Well, that's I'm sure she's changed the number.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, it's still number. It's still find her email.

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Speaker 2: I know you're I know you're too cool, Damaris. When

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Speaker 6: Well? See, I haven't had to send an email because

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Speaker 6: I'm a cash app girl. I'm gonna I'm gonna request

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Speaker 3: I've only like people a couple like you can send

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Speaker 3: It's like four hundred.

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Speaker 6: Well, Rory, were you aware that you have that? Even

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Speaker 3: That I don't have nobody blocked. That's funny, really no.

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Speaker 6: I mean, if we were dating and you were to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I said what I said, stop playing. We're not

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Speaker 6: You don't have to block them.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't have to, like or.

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Speaker 6: Niggas said Rory say he done. Man, I know if

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Speaker 6: I call five times.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna get through and he'll come and he'll come

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Speaker 3: pick you up exactly. Sounds like a kind soul. He

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Speaker 2: I'm not I'm not a block and I'm not a

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Speaker 3: You've never blocked nobody.

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Speaker 2: I've only blocked like spam number like weird shit. I've

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Speaker 3: I just yeah. Never a nigga called wrong around me.

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Speaker 3: He blocked. I've been.

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Speaker 2: I've been blocked before, and I've done the email thing

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Speaker 2: and I always started like the same way every time. Oh,

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Speaker 2: I guess you're not into communication.

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Speaker 3: Mm hm.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I guess this is how you handle issues.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, someone's not being an adult yet. Yeah, I see you.

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Speaker 2: Run away from your problems instead of confront them. Exactly

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Speaker 2: how that's starting every email that way I've done. You

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I've definitely been blocked though, and I don't know why

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Speaker 3: because I don't blow phones up, but whatever.

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Speaker 2: unblocked it like I've never. If I go through my

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Speaker 3: I thought about changing my number.

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Speaker 6: You've had it for so long I've had I know

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Speaker 3: No, you have to have no mom. I'm saying like,

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Speaker 3: it's so many people that know not to hit my

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Speaker 2: Tho I did. I mean you guys, remember what I

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Speaker 2: because it was before I was just too many people

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Speaker 3: Trust me.

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Speaker 2: I encourage it.

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Speaker 3: It's changing it.

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Speaker 2: I would change that shit.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'm thinking about it. I'm really thinking about it.

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Speaker 2: At one point, I was doing it like once a year.

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Speaker 3: Nah, see that I can't.

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Speaker 6: My little sister does that once every six months.

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Speaker 2: Like well no, no. It started fucking with like business stuff

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Speaker 2: But I was switching my ship a lot because I

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Speaker 2: these people that get like that. I can understand that

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Speaker 3: Guy? Yeah? Can I get a break? Guys?

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Speaker 6: I was as I was telling y'all on the last episode,

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Speaker 6: and I said, I was gonna talk to y'all about

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Speaker 6: it on this one. When I get in a new relationship,

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna change my number. But I'm about to start

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Speaker 6: casual day And Maul said, that's how you become a whole.

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Speaker 6: But I realized I had a self for.

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Speaker 3: No, No, that's not I didn't say that's how you become

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Speaker 3: It's a different of what's the difference a difference? I

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Speaker 3: said what I.

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Speaker 6: Said, I do not feel like I'm about to become

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Speaker 6: a whole. But what I realized when I looked back

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Speaker 6: on my dating history, I only casually dated from eighteen

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Speaker 6: to as an adult, from eighteen to twenty three, twenty

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Speaker 6: two to twenty three, that was it since.

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Speaker 3: Twenty three, he was raised.

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Speaker 6: I have been in real relationships and then a very

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Speaker 6: toxic situationship. I have never just dated just like, oh

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Speaker 6: I have a date this.

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Speaker 3: Day and the date six situationship.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Like I haven't just been like oh I have

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Speaker 6: a date this week and then I have a date

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Speaker 6: like I don't date. Like I don't date. I don't

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Speaker 6: have sex with people who are already.

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Speaker 3: In love with me.

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Speaker 6: I caught one new body in the past seven years,

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Speaker 6: like I have to. I wasted my twenties in relationships.

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Speaker 3: So I want to get you what type of math

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Speaker 3: you're doing? What do you mean? So you caught one

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Speaker 3: new body?

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Speaker 6: One new body as in everybody.

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Speaker 3: Female bodies count. See this is this woman math, See

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Speaker 3: this this.

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Speaker 2: Is aunt is Yes, be prideful.

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Speaker 3: How many cats have you looked in the last seven years?

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Speaker 6: Okay, cancel each other out.

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Speaker 7: Zero.

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Speaker 6: I've entertained intimately one new male in the past seven years.

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Speaker 3: I've entertained That's why. That's what you sound like Jada. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: you sound like Jada at the red table, Like.

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Speaker 8: What.

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Speaker 3: Are you talking about?

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Speaker 6: I was, Yeah, I was you had.

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Speaker 3: Sex with one new guy in the last seven years?

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Speaker 6: Yes, okay, that's that's insane. Shead girl in her twenties.

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Speaker 2: No superhead said we collided mmm when somebody asked her, like,

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Speaker 2: did you fuck this personally? Well, we collided.

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Speaker 6: Our universe is collided.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we swapped energies.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So you also you're looking you're looking to get

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but I don't. I don't know how to do

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Speaker 6: it because I've never done it as an adult. I've

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think you're built how tough. I don't

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Speaker 6: You, but I don't really want to hole is like,

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Speaker 6: is there only really serial monogamous and whole? Is there

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Speaker 6: like no middle ground?

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Speaker 3: What is it? How?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 6: How do I get there?

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Speaker 2: Casual dating? Okay, I don't know if you're built for

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Speaker 6: I don't think I don't. I don't think I am either,

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Speaker 6: But I don't really have a choice. I can't go

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't. I wouldn't say go get into another relationship,

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Speaker 3: but you could have fun. You casually date, have fun.

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Speaker 3: It doesn't have to be. It doesn't have to be.

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Speaker 3: You don't have to be like intimate or physical to

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Speaker 3: to have sex with somebody to casually date, hang out,

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Speaker 3: flirt a little bit, you know, just to see what happens.

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Speaker 3: But you don't have to, like, don't put that pressure

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Speaker 3: gonna want some pussy. We all know that.

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Speaker 2: It comes with it.

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Speaker 3: Yes, it comes with it. Like no matter how many

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Speaker 2: That cat, and in his head he's saying, damn, I

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Speaker 2: even ask her to come through, like I took her

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Speaker 3: But you know, just just just have fun. Don't put

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Speaker 3: don't put no expectation.

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Speaker 6: I don't like calling a nigga and he don't answer,

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Speaker 6: Like I haven't had to deal with that in a

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Speaker 6: Not okay, I've called him in and they don't answer,

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Speaker 6: But like I can't cuss you out for not answering,

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Speaker 6: Like I don't like that, but like I got to

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Speaker 6: and you don't have to explain to me what you're doing,

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Speaker 6: Like you don't have to like tell me like anything,

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Speaker 6: like you was just I was out. I was just out.

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Speaker 2: I can't That is the toughest part about going from

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Speaker 2: Your brain is wired for exactly what course. Like no,

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying you owe me that, but when you're

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Speaker 2: what you're doing where you're not even on like o yo,

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Speaker 2: what the fuck you're doing? You're just used to that

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Speaker 2: update Like let him not talking to somebody for a day,

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Speaker 2: You're like, wait, what the fuck?

444
00:17:46,000 --> 00:17:48,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, like me, like I don't know what word.

445
00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:50,000
Speaker 2: The psycho passing that degree, But.

446
00:17:50,080 --> 00:17:51,720
Speaker 3: Let him know, though, baby, Like let them. I'm not

447
00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:55,040
Speaker 3: pressing you. I'm not trying to be like flock carrier.

448
00:17:55,359 --> 00:17:58,000
Speaker 3: That's like leading with that. No, nobody let him know,

449
00:17:58,080 --> 00:18:00,280
Speaker 3: like I'm not it's not oppressed. I'm not saying, yo,

450
00:18:00,320 --> 00:18:02,639
Speaker 3: what you was doing, Like, I'm not pressing you. You

451
00:18:02,840 --> 00:18:04,960
Speaker 3: just like you know that's what you're used to. It's

452
00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:06,439
Speaker 3: just like you know you just okay.

453
00:18:07,520 --> 00:18:08,720
Speaker 6: How do I know that they like me?

454
00:18:09,720 --> 00:18:11,280
Speaker 3: How do you know if they like you like for me?

455
00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:14,280
Speaker 3: How do I know that I mean what you mean

456
00:18:14,320 --> 00:18:14,680
Speaker 3: for you?

457
00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:16,199
Speaker 6: How do I know if they like me for me?

458
00:18:16,280 --> 00:18:18,200
Speaker 6: Or if they're just trying to hit you?

459
00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:20,600
Speaker 3: You don't always trying. I just told you step on

460
00:18:21,240 --> 00:18:24,080
Speaker 3: a nigga is always trying to hit, Like, let's not

461
00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:24,920
Speaker 3: skip over step.

462
00:18:25,080 --> 00:18:27,040
Speaker 2: Also, that doesn't mean a bad thing. He could also

463
00:18:27,240 --> 00:18:28,600
Speaker 2: want to hit. But really like.

464
00:18:30,359 --> 00:18:32,439
Speaker 6: Difference between like I know, first of all, okay, let

465
00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:35,639
Speaker 6: me put like this. I've been loved by men, so

466
00:18:35,800 --> 00:18:38,480
Speaker 6: I know what it feels like to be loved by

467
00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:39,560
Speaker 6: men by men.

468
00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:41,160
Speaker 3: But if huh, nothing good.

469
00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:45,280
Speaker 6: But as far as the casual dating thing, the slow

470
00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:47,920
Speaker 6: growth of it all without running and jumping into a relationship,

471
00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:51,000
Speaker 6: how do I know, Like, I don't know, how do

472
00:18:51,040 --> 00:18:51,320
Speaker 6: I know.

473
00:18:51,400 --> 00:18:52,440
Speaker 3: That to take that time?

474
00:18:52,520 --> 00:18:55,440
Speaker 2: So you don't end up in a seven year toxic

475
00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:59,399
Speaker 2: situationship where you're both trying to prove and disprove that

476
00:18:59,400 --> 00:19:01,760
Speaker 2: you like each other. You actually have to take the

477
00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:04,320
Speaker 2: time in the beginning to do so instead of rushing

478
00:19:04,359 --> 00:19:06,520
Speaker 2: into what you know. I'm not judging you, because I've

479
00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:09,720
Speaker 2: done it a million times, of just immediately hopping into

480
00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:11,680
Speaker 2: a relationship with somebody that you just like at the time,

481
00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:13,639
Speaker 2: and then you don't really get to know each other

482
00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:16,560
Speaker 2: and it ends up being a toxic situation for years,

483
00:19:16,920 --> 00:19:18,919
Speaker 2: instead of taking the time to really get to know

484
00:19:18,960 --> 00:19:22,720
Speaker 2: them before you hop into anything. Getting to know somebody

485
00:19:22,760 --> 00:19:26,400
Speaker 2: that way in a relationship is where the toxic shit starts.

486
00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:29,600
Speaker 2: After two weeks, it's like, move in, you don't even

487
00:19:29,640 --> 00:19:32,320
Speaker 2: know that that be me, but you don't even know them.

488
00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:34,040
Speaker 2: That's why it turns into toxic shit because you don't

489
00:19:34,040 --> 00:19:35,720
Speaker 2: even know them. You're getting to know them once you've

490
00:19:35,720 --> 00:19:37,959
Speaker 2: already committed to somebody, but you don't even know.

491
00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:40,359
Speaker 3: Moving after two weeks is crazy, baby d So you

492
00:19:40,359 --> 00:19:40,879
Speaker 3: can't do that.

493
00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:43,800
Speaker 6: I moved in I think after two months two months,

494
00:19:43,840 --> 00:19:44,520
Speaker 6: I moved in.

495
00:19:44,680 --> 00:19:50,480
Speaker 3: Moved in with somebody. Yeah, that's wild. After two months.

496
00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:52,120
Speaker 6: It was we were in love.

497
00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:56,720
Speaker 3: We were in love. I okay, hmm, two months is crazy.

498
00:19:56,720 --> 00:19:58,000
Speaker 2: You're in love with the idea.

499
00:19:58,080 --> 00:20:00,359
Speaker 3: I don't think we really we really weren't living eventually.

500
00:20:00,440 --> 00:20:02,800
Speaker 6: Yes, yeah that didn't work, but we really were in

501
00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:04,639
Speaker 6: love with each other. But my thing is Okay, So

502
00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:06,240
Speaker 6: I was having this because I'm asking all my male

503
00:20:06,280 --> 00:20:08,440
Speaker 6: homeboys about this. Y'all are my male homeboys? I asked

504
00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:10,639
Speaker 6: reason about this, he said. I said, okay, So how

505
00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:14,359
Speaker 6: do I handle if I start having sex with someone

506
00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:17,760
Speaker 6: but like I'm casually dating and I start dating somebody else,

507
00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:20,200
Speaker 6: like obviously.

508
00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:28,239
Speaker 5: I'm not use oh use, oh I told you? Oh

509
00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:31,240
Speaker 5: oh no.

510
00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:33,200
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, baby. I just had a flash.

511
00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:39,280
Speaker 2: Bubba sparks as Ludo isn't Luda and Bubba though, go ahead.

512
00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:41,800
Speaker 3: They were trying to put the whites in the hip hop.

513
00:20:41,840 --> 00:20:43,359
Speaker 3: See yeah, I see Dungeon family.

514
00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:45,119
Speaker 6: I was just trying to figure out, like, Okay, if

515
00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:46,800
Speaker 6: you're sleeping with one you really like them, and then

516
00:20:46,840 --> 00:20:49,919
Speaker 6: you start liking another one, but you don't another one like.

517
00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:53,879
Speaker 2: Speak about us, You're like one of those objectives.

518
00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:56,760
Speaker 6: I don't operate in that environment, Like I don't know

519
00:20:56,840 --> 00:20:58,840
Speaker 6: how to like two people at one time, Like, what

520
00:20:58,960 --> 00:20:59,280
Speaker 6: do I do?

521
00:20:59,440 --> 00:21:01,400
Speaker 3: Yes, you do? You know, trying to fuck two people

522
00:21:01,440 --> 00:21:03,359
Speaker 3: at the same time. Okay, but yeah, but you know

523
00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:05,040
Speaker 3: how to like two people at the same If I'm.

524
00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:06,959
Speaker 6: Really really liking somebody, at first of all, I order

525
00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:07,959
Speaker 6: for me to sleep with you, I have to really

526
00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:09,320
Speaker 6: really like you. And then if I'm really really liking

527
00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:11,359
Speaker 6: you and really really liking the sex, how am I

528
00:21:11,400 --> 00:21:13,760
Speaker 6: going to continue to just casually date other people? I

529
00:21:13,840 --> 00:21:16,080
Speaker 6: don't know how to how to make my brain split?

530
00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:18,200
Speaker 3: Like, okay, So what you need to do is you

531
00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:23,919
Speaker 3: need to always remember this is just fun casually dating.

532
00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:27,800
Speaker 3: If you slip and fall into bed and he knocked

533
00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:30,000
Speaker 3: your head through the headboard, when you get up and

534
00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:31,880
Speaker 3: you go in a shower to get that warm rag,

535
00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:34,680
Speaker 3: we're looking in the mirror and say, this is just

536
00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:39,040
Speaker 3: fun to marriage. This is just not a long term relationship. Okay,

537
00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:42,080
Speaker 3: I'm still having fun. This is okay, I like him.

538
00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:44,000
Speaker 3: It's cool to like somebody. I'm not gonna say I

539
00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:47,719
Speaker 3: don't like nobody. I like him. Just keep your options,

540
00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:51,000
Speaker 3: you know, still keep walking. That's like this at the buffet,

541
00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:53,280
Speaker 3: you stop at the chicken tenders. But that's not all

542
00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:55,520
Speaker 3: you put on your plate. We love who doesn't love you?

543
00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:58,240
Speaker 3: Love chicken tenders? Of course you love the chicken tendors,

544
00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:02,520
Speaker 3: But you gotta move on down some sides. Get some greens,

545
00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:06,280
Speaker 3: some veggies, a salad, you know, get your whole spread gun.

546
00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:07,240
Speaker 2: Forty eight months realistics.

547
00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:10,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, that's what you gotta do. Have fun, love

548
00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:14,359
Speaker 3: your chicken tenders, but leave room on your plate for others,

549
00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:17,159
Speaker 3: is what I'm saying. Okay, that's all right.

550
00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:21,040
Speaker 2: Are you somebody that wants rigorous honesty in dating?

551
00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:26,760
Speaker 3: Swallowed your prideright? There? You hear how that motherfucker hit?

552
00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:29,400
Speaker 3: I heard that shit hit her belly button, that shit

553
00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:32,440
Speaker 3: went strict boom. Damn.

554
00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:36,040
Speaker 2: Women can't even did you swallowed the sneakery?

555
00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:40,760
Speaker 3: You heard that? Yo? Women can't swallow their pride at all.

556
00:22:42,119 --> 00:22:43,240
Speaker 3: I do, I do, I do.

557
00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:44,720
Speaker 6: I do want honesty.

558
00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:49,840
Speaker 2: I do. Okay, let's say we've been on two dates talking,

559
00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:52,760
Speaker 2: but honestly though the three let's say two weeks, two weeks,

560
00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:57,040
Speaker 2: two dates, talk whatever, And you say, hey, are you

561
00:22:57,520 --> 00:23:00,840
Speaker 2: free Tuesday? And I say no, I'm not. And you

562
00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:02,880
Speaker 2: just because we've just been talking back and forth? Oh okay,

563
00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:04,240
Speaker 2: like what you got going on I.

564
00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:06,920
Speaker 3: Got a date, I have a date? Is that the

565
00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:12,280
Speaker 3: type of honor with that honesty? That shit hurt?

566
00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:19,399
Speaker 6: I got PTSD. I would like for you, okay, I

567
00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:20,639
Speaker 6: would like for you to be honest. I want you

568
00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:22,800
Speaker 6: to feel like you can be honest. I don't want

569
00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:24,879
Speaker 6: you to feel like you have to be honest about that.

570
00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:26,399
Speaker 6: Like if I asked you.

571
00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:29,000
Speaker 3: You're not answering a question.

572
00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:34,040
Speaker 6: How okay? I want the honesty. I do want the honesty,

573
00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:36,600
Speaker 6: but I don't want I'm cool if I don't get

574
00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:38,560
Speaker 6: it either, Like I'm like, I'm like, if you just

575
00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:40,440
Speaker 6: tell me you busy and I don't ask a follow

576
00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:44,520
Speaker 6: up question, then that's fine in sce lie, but I'm

577
00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:46,119
Speaker 6: fine if you omit some shit, But I don't want

578
00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:47,760
Speaker 6: you to lie. Like if I asked you, hey, I

579
00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:49,840
Speaker 6: called you last night, where were you? And you're like, oh,

580
00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:50,520
Speaker 6: I was on a date.

581
00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:53,320
Speaker 3: I gotta eat that.

582
00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:55,800
Speaker 6: I gotta eat that. I gotta eat that. But I'm

583
00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:57,840
Speaker 6: probably not gonna I'm probably not gonna do the same.

584
00:23:58,119 --> 00:24:00,480
Speaker 6: I don't think that men can handle that same amout

585
00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:02,719
Speaker 6: of honesty. Men when they find out that other men

586
00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:05,679
Speaker 6: are entertaining you. There's from what I've experienced. There's two

587
00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:07,879
Speaker 6: different types of men. There's one that they see that

588
00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:10,280
Speaker 6: they have competition and they're gonna act like a lion

589
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:12,040
Speaker 6: and really go hard for it. And then there's someone

590
00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:14,000
Speaker 6: they see that they have competition. They're gonna fall back

591
00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:15,639
Speaker 6: and say, oh, I'm not about to be trying to

592
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:17,200
Speaker 6: woo you when another niggas trying to woo you.

593
00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:21,399
Speaker 3: No, I don't. Well, for myself, I was at a

594
00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:24,120
Speaker 3: girl's house. We were just just friends, like just just home,

595
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:27,320
Speaker 3: I'm sure, And I was at her crib and we

596
00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:31,000
Speaker 3: was chilling, rolling up, smoking, right, and she was like, yeah,

597
00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:33,760
Speaker 3: you know this, this guy was about to pull up

598
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:36,359
Speaker 3: whatever whatever, we're about to come through. He's supposed to

599
00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:42,560
Speaker 3: do something for whatever, right, respected the honesty, gangster right now.

600
00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:45,680
Speaker 3: I never saw her again after that, Like I never

601
00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:49,320
Speaker 3: never help after that, But I respect the honesty though,

602
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:52,879
Speaker 3: Like all right, cool, Like let me get about your space,

603
00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:54,600
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. I was at her crib chilling,

604
00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:58,000
Speaker 3: you know, rolling up, smoking talk and shit, just chilling.

605
00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:00,840
Speaker 3: She's like, yeah, you know, friends about to pull up

606
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:03,200
Speaker 3: in the feud that Uh, she just let me know

607
00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:06,120
Speaker 3: like basically like you know, so we got to wrap

608
00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 3: this up. I respected it. Never saw again after that,

609
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:17,440
Speaker 3: never went to a crib after that. Why I'm I

610
00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:21,359
Speaker 3: don't know, if I'm being honest, It wasn't because it

611
00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:24,240
Speaker 3: wasn't again with just homies. It wasn't nothing like you know,

612
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:27,240
Speaker 3: wasn't trying to really do nothing. But if there's other

613
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:30,560
Speaker 3: men actively coming to your crib to like kicking and

614
00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:32,320
Speaker 3: chill and hang out, I don't need to be in

615
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:35,480
Speaker 3: that rotation, not me, like you could take me out

616
00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:37,719
Speaker 3: of that. You could. I'll go over here, I'll take

617
00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:40,639
Speaker 3: myself out of the rotation. I took myself out the rotation.

618
00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:43,960
Speaker 6: But if and that's why I say, that's why sometimes

619
00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 6: women lie, because I do know that men feel You're

620
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:47,639
Speaker 6: not the only man that I know feels like that

621
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:50,000
Speaker 6: as far as coming to my cribin always coming to

622
00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:51,440
Speaker 6: my crib, but as far as just you know, like

623
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:54,520
Speaker 6: if you feel like you're in a rotation, a lot

624
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:56,440
Speaker 6: of men don't like feeling like that, so they'll take

625
00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:59,080
Speaker 6: themselves out of the rotation. Whereas it's like the whole

626
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:01,399
Speaker 6: purpose of cash rule dating is like this shit a

627
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 6: rat race whire you gonna see who the fuck make

628
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 6: it to the finish line.

629
00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:06,399
Speaker 3: So but but you could win. No, no, no, no,

630
00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:08,440
Speaker 3: because you know why I took myself out of rotation

631
00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:13,560
Speaker 3: Because other men can't handle knowing that a girl has

632
00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:16,840
Speaker 3: a rotation. So now this dude pull up, I'm near chilling,

633
00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:19,960
Speaker 3: say we just our times just overlap. He pull up

634
00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:21,520
Speaker 3: sooner than he was supposed to.

635
00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:23,600
Speaker 6: Yes, that's dangerous.

636
00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:25,800
Speaker 3: You understand what I'm saying. So that's why I take

637
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 3: myself out of the question, because I know other dudes

638
00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:31,280
Speaker 3: can't handle. I'm fine with it. I'm cool, like I'm

639
00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:34,760
Speaker 3: not tripping, But I know other dudes can't. You know,

640
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:37,000
Speaker 3: they can't handle that. They get mad when they know

641
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:39,359
Speaker 3: that the girl that they like is, you know, entertaining

642
00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:41,320
Speaker 3: other guys that they even if the guy is just

643
00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:44,720
Speaker 3: literally just chilling like they don't they're not gonna take that. Well,

644
00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:47,600
Speaker 3: and then I don't take and asking getting you know,

645
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:50,399
Speaker 3: asked questions well, like you're not gonna question me like

646
00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:51,959
Speaker 3: I'm walking off, yo. Who you fancy?

647
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:52,240
Speaker 4: Now?

648
00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:58,120
Speaker 3: Talk to her? Don't ask me nothing. I don't ask

649
00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:00,560
Speaker 3: me where I'm from, who I can't aim to see

650
00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:03,760
Speaker 3: how long we've been knowing each other? Don't ask me nothing.

651
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:07,480
Speaker 3: Talk to her, she'd give you the rundown, and that's

652
00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:10,320
Speaker 3: between y'all. I'm out. And that's why I take myself

653
00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:12,920
Speaker 3: out of that because again I know what comes with

654
00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 3: that with other men, like they can't handle that. But

655
00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:18,560
Speaker 3: I would say to you, keep your options open though,

656
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:20,800
Speaker 3: have fun. Let him know listen, I'm not looking for

657
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:24,200
Speaker 3: nothing too heavy, too serious. I'm having fun getting to

658
00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:24,760
Speaker 3: know people.

659
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:27,000
Speaker 2: But when you say that, that tell A guy can

660
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 2: say like, I have a date tonight and say he

661
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:33,160
Speaker 2: says that, I know how pedy you are. The way

662
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:33,840
Speaker 2: that's happened to.

663
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:36,240
Speaker 6: Me, it's gonna be a PTech on the story in

664
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:37,119
Speaker 6: five seconds, like what.

665
00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:39,520
Speaker 2: Are you saying the next day? Like oh, how is

666
00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:40,120
Speaker 2: your little date?

667
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:42,880
Speaker 6: Like, oh, I'm for sure, like oh how was your day?

668
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:44,879
Speaker 6: Oh that's what's up? She smell good, That's what's up.

669
00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:50,359
Speaker 2: What it depends its anytime a woman has said that,

670
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:52,560
Speaker 2: I said, oh, my phone is on when you want

671
00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:55,720
Speaker 2: to come through after I've said that, and it's worked

672
00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:57,199
Speaker 2: more than once my phone as well.

673
00:27:57,280 --> 00:28:00,680
Speaker 6: If a nigga said that to me, I might I

674
00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 6: might be in.

675
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:03,840
Speaker 2: My phone is on for what you want to come

676
00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 2: through after thinking I'm out after she left a date

677
00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:08,680
Speaker 2: as I know, it's not I know she's gonna like

678
00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 2: me better.

679
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:11,359
Speaker 6: Oh that's what you meant. I thought you meant, like

680
00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:13,119
Speaker 6: after you lead the date, see if I want to

681
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:13,720
Speaker 6: come through after.

682
00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:13,960
Speaker 7: No, no, no.

683
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:15,440
Speaker 2: If a woman says she's gone on the date, like

684
00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:17,320
Speaker 2: she went out to dinner with a guy, all right,

685
00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:21,679
Speaker 2: when dinner's done, hit me, I'll let you know how

686
00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:21,840
Speaker 2: I go.

687
00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 3: No, I don't let me know how your date went.

688
00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:28,120
Speaker 3: You ain't got to tell me, Like don't, I don't.

689
00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:31,199
Speaker 2: But I'm said, like, that's a win or lose situation.

690
00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:34,080
Speaker 2: There's no gray area with that one, because when she

691
00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:37,359
Speaker 2: don't hit you, you're gonna feel away, like, oh so

692
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:38,400
Speaker 2: they did ship after that?

693
00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:40,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, but he hitting something.

694
00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:45,560
Speaker 2: But it's been the biggest confidence booster when after dinner, Yeah,

695
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:48,000
Speaker 2: where you at? Then I know what tom it is.

696
00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:50,360
Speaker 2: But that time, that time, it's a risk.

697
00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:53,080
Speaker 3: When she pull up after the date and she's telling

698
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 3: you about the date and how whack it was while

699
00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 3: she taking her clothes off. Oh that's I mean, God,

700
00:28:57,480 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 3: bless your heart.

701
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:02,120
Speaker 2: I've had like the situationship in cabs.

702
00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:07,920
Speaker 3: He got your cabs and dropped you off. You got

703
00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:09,720
Speaker 3: your favorite Martine to get you in that movie.

704
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 1: Yo.

705
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:13,000
Speaker 6: Man, see, y'all gonna make people afraid to date.

706
00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:15,680
Speaker 3: Don't do that. I'm gonna make people. I'm just giving

707
00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:17,959
Speaker 3: them what's out there. Some of y'all be dropping her

708
00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:22,200
Speaker 3: off at the nigga crib. That's wow. It's a fact. Though.

709
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 3: You can be on a day with a girl like Yo,

710
00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:26,600
Speaker 3: you're going now, I'm going to my friend's house. I'll

711
00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:30,680
Speaker 3: drop you off. She ain't say what friend it was.

712
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 3: She just says she was going on her friend's house.

713
00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:33,040
Speaker 3: And here you are pulling up.

714
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 6: You shouldn't even have no nigga knowing where the nigga.

715
00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:36,719
Speaker 6: Just people not raised right.

716
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:41,960
Speaker 3: He upstairs on GTA nine hours. You done spend four hundred.

717
00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 2: She got underwear, ant tooth brush there.

718
00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:45,040
Speaker 3: Stop.

719
00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:48,200
Speaker 6: Y'all gonna make people afraid of women who okay, but

720
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:49,280
Speaker 6: there are women who don't.

721
00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:51,040
Speaker 2: It's happened to everybody both ways.

722
00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:52,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's women that don't, but it's women that do.

723
00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:55,160
Speaker 3: That's all we speaking to the women that do. Don't

724
00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 3: you be one of those women that do? Though, Baby, No,

725
00:29:57,240 --> 00:29:57,680
Speaker 3: I don't.

726
00:29:57,720 --> 00:29:57,960
Speaker 6: I don't.

727
00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:00,160
Speaker 3: I don't. That's not but it's good that you being

728
00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:02,480
Speaker 3: back out there though, getting back out on the dating scene,

729
00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:04,520
Speaker 3: and you know, seeing what's out there.

730
00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:08,760
Speaker 6: I'm either going to be back celibate by August or

731
00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:10,440
Speaker 6: in a relationship by September.

732
00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:11,400
Speaker 2: Get Rich of d Trump.

733
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 3: If y'all know me, y'all know me.

734
00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:14,280
Speaker 6: I'm either gonna be back celibate by August or in

735
00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:15,600
Speaker 6: a relationship by fining Rich.

736
00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:18,120
Speaker 2: By twenty six I'll be beater in jail. Yeah, yeah,

737
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 2: so why are you putting out? But don't put that

738
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 2: much see though, you can't put that much pressure on it.

739
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:25,640
Speaker 6: Though, I just know myself. I'm very I'm trying to

740
00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:28,720
Speaker 6: break my patterns, but I'm very aware of my patterns.

741
00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 6: I've gotten rid of my other patterns. Those patterns are blocked,

742
00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 6: but my patterns tend to be I tend to end

743
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:36,600
Speaker 6: up in a relationship. Or I'll go on one date

744
00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:38,920
Speaker 6: and hate men so much that I'll be like I'm cool,

745
00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:40,920
Speaker 6: Like one day, go bad for me. I can't handle

746
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:42,240
Speaker 6: a bad day. I'd be like, oh, I'm cool, I.

747
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:42,719
Speaker 3: Just one day.

748
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 2: But you shouldn't deal it that way though I know

749
00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:46,400
Speaker 2: that was just the right person.

750
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 6: I'm trying to be better.

751
00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:50,440
Speaker 2: I mean, don't I know you're not going to spend

752
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:54,360
Speaker 2: the block on the toxic relationship. But nothing is more

753
00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:57,360
Speaker 2: fun when you've had a situation like that that wasn't

754
00:30:57,400 --> 00:31:00,520
Speaker 2: toxic and you're still cool with her and she's actively

755
00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:03,760
Speaker 2: telling you about her dating life, like going one on

756
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:06,400
Speaker 2: a date and show you know, y'all not fucking nothing anymore.

757
00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 2: But she'll text you like, oh this this was bad

758
00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:11,000
Speaker 2: whatever one of the ten year things I was talking about.

759
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:14,560
Speaker 2: I've had these conversations with nothing boost your ego more.

760
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:16,680
Speaker 2: When she goes on a bunch of dates in their

761
00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 2: trash and she she thought she was a piece of shit,

762
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:23,960
Speaker 2: but y'all still cool. Death roat don't look so bad now,

763
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:27,479
Speaker 2: I'll do it. These guys is boring, Huh, that's why. Yeah, Now,

764
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:29,120
Speaker 2: this is what comes with the territory. I may be

765
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:30,200
Speaker 2: a piece of shit, but I'm fun.

766
00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:33,160
Speaker 6: I had to stop dating. I went on a date

767
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:37,360
Speaker 6: one time and called my old shit crying. I said,

768
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:41,800
Speaker 6: I hate it out here. I'm coming back. These niggas

769
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:45,200
Speaker 6: tried to make me take up fucking trained back home

770
00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:48,760
Speaker 6: from a date. I hate it here. I can't live

771
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:51,239
Speaker 6: like this. Come stop being a hole and just let

772
00:31:51,320 --> 00:31:53,920
Speaker 6: me love you. Crying.

773
00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:54,200
Speaker 7: Yo.

774
00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:56,320
Speaker 6: I was like, I cannot get back out here, but

775
00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 6: fuck it.

776
00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:59,400
Speaker 3: I'm not going here now. What's up? See back outside.

777
00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 6: I'm trying to find niggas. I've been cuffed up too long.

778
00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:04,960
Speaker 6: Let me remind niggas. Yeah, CARDI, that.

779
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 3: Spoke to your soul. Huh, it's gonna speak to your I'm.

780
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 6: I'm speed dating and find some holes.

781
00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:14,360
Speaker 3: Meal I'm down.

782
00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:15,320
Speaker 6: You don't for real?

783
00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:16,479
Speaker 3: Would you go speed day?

784
00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:19,200
Speaker 6: Okay, I'm gonna finding the ones with bad I'm not

785
00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 6: looking for nobody at the speed day.

786
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna that has the bad bitches.

787
00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:24,440
Speaker 6: Speed d ain't be have bad bitches.

788
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:26,960
Speaker 3: I don't know. I've never but bad regular women though,

789
00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 3: like the like the j cole fans, All right.

790
00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:32,760
Speaker 2: Hold on with speed dating is like cuckdating To me,

791
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:37,280
Speaker 2: how are you just watching the girl you like talk

792
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:38,680
Speaker 2: to fifty men in one second?

793
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 6: It's not fifty, it'd be like twelve. And it's for

794
00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:42,080
Speaker 6: like sixty seconds.

795
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:45,240
Speaker 2: And like imagine if you because the girls move or

796
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 2: the guys move.

797
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:51,240
Speaker 6: The girls move, No, the guys move, the guys move, Okay.

798
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:53,320
Speaker 2: But you're still in the same rotation, right, Like what

799
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 2: if I don't even know more, but he's ahead of me.

800
00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:57,239
Speaker 2: And like, the whole time I'm trying to date, all

801
00:32:57,240 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 2: I can hear is him making every girl laugh after

802
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:04,959
Speaker 2: I didn't make her laugh. You're not weird that much,

803
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 2: feel That's why speed dating would be rough.

804
00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:10,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, you got it so much going on, it's a lot.

805
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:12,280
Speaker 3: That's a lot. I mean, I'm down to go just

806
00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:12,960
Speaker 3: to have fun with you.

807
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:15,680
Speaker 2: But and then the girl that doesn't like the girl

808
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:18,000
Speaker 2: doesn't move. She can hear the other guy use the

809
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:22,040
Speaker 2: same lines one table over like there's no winning in

810
00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 2: that entire thing.

811
00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:24,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, see, I'm I'm, but I'm I would be a

812
00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:26,720
Speaker 3: bad speed data because if I'm hitting up with my

813
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:29,360
Speaker 3: funnies and she ain't laughing, like, look she laughed, I

814
00:33:29,440 --> 00:33:31,640
Speaker 3: think she's the one, Like, yeah, she laughed, she thought

815
00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:32,840
Speaker 3: I was. She thought I was great.

816
00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:33,720
Speaker 6: Number three thought I was.

817
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:35,440
Speaker 3: She thought I was great, Like, I don't know why

818
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 3: you not laughing? But whatever?

819
00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:38,720
Speaker 2: And so do you exchange numbers? How does it work?

820
00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:40,800
Speaker 6: I think if you like him at the end, you

821
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:43,480
Speaker 6: like exchange so you get sixty seconds to get your ship.

822
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:45,200
Speaker 2: Off sixty seconds again, that's how people get I'm coming

823
00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:46,560
Speaker 2: in hot, coming to what you're.

824
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:48,440
Speaker 6: Saying, come on, do it right now. Sixty seconds we

825
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:49,720
Speaker 6: starting now.

826
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:54,880
Speaker 3: Favorite position? Have you fucked on the first day before?

827
00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:58,440
Speaker 3: How long did it last? Did you like it? Mom?

828
00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:03,200
Speaker 3: Fit a swallow fucking yeah. You gotta get sixty seconds.

829
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:07,320
Speaker 2: We're only ten seconds in. I'm looking at the clock.

830
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:09,160
Speaker 3: You gotta go to it.

831
00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:12,120
Speaker 6: I'm not comfortable answering any of those questions, sir, why

832
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 6: are you here? Because I'm trying to get in a relationship.

833
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 6: I'm not just trying to fuck.

834
00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:17,440
Speaker 3: Okay, So you're trying in a relationship. What are you

835
00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:17,800
Speaker 3: looking for?

836
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:21,919
Speaker 6: I'm looking for a guy that's like nice, sweet, honest.

837
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:24,440
Speaker 3: At a speed date. Yeah, nobody's honest at a speed day.

838
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:25,440
Speaker 3: We got sixty seconds to lie.

839
00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:26,759
Speaker 6: Nobody's fucking at a speed date.

840
00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:29,120
Speaker 3: I fucked at a speed Dad. I'm here every month.

841
00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 3: You gotta get your shit off. You gotta get your

842
00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:35,879
Speaker 3: shit over. Ry.

843
00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:38,880
Speaker 2: You guys have ten more seconds. You gotta get your

844
00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:39,239
Speaker 2: shit off.

845
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:40,719
Speaker 6: I think I think you're a serial killer, and I

846
00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:42,400
Speaker 6: think I'm okay, But I did enjoy this time with you.

847
00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:43,640
Speaker 3: You were funny, So.

848
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:48,040
Speaker 2: Switch all right, bye, here's the thing. Let's say there's

849
00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:53,560
Speaker 2: twenty girls there mal is definitely for just by sheer numbers.

850
00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:56,480
Speaker 2: He's fucking three girls from there based off that, Oh

851
00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:59,640
Speaker 2: my for sure. God, I didn't say all, but there's

852
00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:02,279
Speaker 2: definitely three girls that are definitely into that exact.

853
00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:05,600
Speaker 3: Shore knocking three shots now that might go through with

854
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:08,200
Speaker 3: that energy three for twelve, but I'm not leaving here

855
00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 3: with anything in my book bag. Three is crazy. Three

856
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:12,920
Speaker 3: for twelve. I went three for twelve to night coach

857
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:15,040
Speaker 3: put me in all.

858
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,240
Speaker 2: Right, but did that that probably left more of an impression,

859
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:19,400
Speaker 2: even if it was a creepy one or hyper sexual

860
00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:19,719
Speaker 2: one to.

861
00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:21,400
Speaker 3: Everybody will be talking about me.

862
00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:23,359
Speaker 2: Let's let's start the clock.

863
00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:27,719
Speaker 3: Now. What's your name, Tamaris?

864
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:28,600
Speaker 1: Oh?

865
00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:29,600
Speaker 2: Like, what are you going?

866
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:29,799
Speaker 7: So?

867
00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 3: Like?

868
00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:31,440
Speaker 2: What type of stuff do you like to do?

869
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 6: I like to read, I like to dance, I like

870
00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:36,239
Speaker 6: to cook. I like to entertain my friends. I'm a

871
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:37,319
Speaker 6: family orientated person.

872
00:35:37,640 --> 00:35:38,600
Speaker 3: How about you? Okay?

873
00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:42,480
Speaker 2: I like outdoor sports and you know, like I'm really

874
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 2: into reading as well. Like last he's gay, Like, what

875
00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:52,640
Speaker 2: is leaving a lasting impression? What my bullshit or what

876
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:56,399
Speaker 2: he did? Because he's you're gonna wonder about him after

877
00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:57,399
Speaker 2: speed dating is over.

878
00:35:57,560 --> 00:36:00,359
Speaker 3: There's a wow there's a middle browne.

879
00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:02,919
Speaker 2: You're gonna look him up online to like really find

880
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:03,200
Speaker 2: that guy?

881
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:05,359
Speaker 3: What was wrong? You'll be mad you didn't take my number?

882
00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 6: No, I'm coming in hot.

883
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:07,239
Speaker 3: What time is it?

884
00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:08,719
Speaker 6: We're starting at thirty six?

885
00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:11,560
Speaker 3: Hold on? So why are you here?

886
00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 6: Because you way too fine to be single?

887
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:18,439
Speaker 2: Talking to me or the guy next to me. There's

888
00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:22,279
Speaker 2: too many people can talking to you.

889
00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 6: To me, I'm talking to you. See you got you

890
00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:30,399
Speaker 6: got nervous.

891
00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:32,120
Speaker 2: All right, so me all right?

892
00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:34,960
Speaker 3: Okay, three, two one go?

893
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:35,760
Speaker 6: Okay?

894
00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:36,279
Speaker 3: So you wait?

895
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:37,799
Speaker 6: Too fine to be single? What you're doing here?

896
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:40,680
Speaker 2: You probably said that to the last three guys. Does

897
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:43,359
Speaker 2: it matter she said the same thing? Does it matter

898
00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:43,920
Speaker 2: if I'm saying it?

899
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:44,880
Speaker 3: Do you right now? What's up?

900
00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:46,759
Speaker 2: But you said it one minute to go to somebody else?

901
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:48,799
Speaker 6: Doesn't matter? Why do you keep worrying about him when

902
00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:49,480
Speaker 6: I'm right here? How?

903
00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:50,279
Speaker 3: Because we sit in.

904
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:50,839
Speaker 2: Thought of thought?

905
00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:51,719
Speaker 6: What's your name?

906
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:53,160
Speaker 2: My name is Rory.

907
00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 3: Do you have any kids? Yes?

908
00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:55,920
Speaker 6: Can you show me a picture of her?

909
00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:58,960
Speaker 3: Fuck? No? Do you want any more?

910
00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:02,520
Speaker 2: Now with somebody that says the same thing the last

911
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:02,959
Speaker 2: three guys?

912
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 6: Why did you come to speed day? And if you're

913
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:07,279
Speaker 6: so worried about what the other men need somebody here

914
00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:07,680
Speaker 6: for him?

915
00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:08,880
Speaker 3: No, I'm not.

916
00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 2: We're just happy to be sitting next to each other.

917
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:13,240
Speaker 6: He's too nervous.

918
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:13,920
Speaker 3: He's shaken.

919
00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:16,040
Speaker 6: I got him shaky. He blushing and ship like.

920
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 2: Come on now, yes, I would like kids eventually you would?

921
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:21,800
Speaker 1: So?

922
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:24,000
Speaker 6: Are you interested in like casual dating? Are you looking

923
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:25,440
Speaker 6: for something serious like what prompted you?

924
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:28,840
Speaker 2: I'm looking for casual into serious?

925
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 6: Nine two?

926
00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:32,960
Speaker 8: Yeah?

927
00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 3: Wait, that got the number? Yo?

928
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:36,960
Speaker 6: Man?

929
00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:41,440
Speaker 3: See you didn't think my rent to bo he's a

930
00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:46,080
Speaker 3: serial killer. You can't get nas nazi. That's why I

931
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:48,520
Speaker 3: can't go speed in because I'll yell at but he

932
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 3: got your number? Nah? Come on? What's funny?

933
00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:54,000
Speaker 2: Is I would? I'd probably call her.

934
00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:58,359
Speaker 3: No, you wouldn't. That's not the girl you want? Why

935
00:37:58,520 --> 00:37:59,000
Speaker 3: is hey?

936
00:37:59,200 --> 00:37:59,759
Speaker 6: What the fuck?

937
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:01,359
Speaker 3: Why is that not the girl you want?

938
00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 8: No?

939
00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 3: You don't want that girl?

940
00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:02,799
Speaker 2: Why?

941
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:03,560
Speaker 6: What's wrong with me?

942
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 3: Ma?

943
00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:04,200
Speaker 8: No?

944
00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:06,480
Speaker 3: Nothing is not you. Nothing is wrong with you. And

945
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:08,440
Speaker 3: I'm just saying you don't want the girl that a

946
00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:10,279
Speaker 3: conversation like that, You don't want her number?

947
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:11,239
Speaker 6: Oh?

948
00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:12,640
Speaker 2: I do, because that's hilarious.

949
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 3: See he's weird. I forget why you don't like smooth

950
00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:19,080
Speaker 3: women more. That was that was funny, smooth.

951
00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 6: That was just because you made it awkward. I was

952
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:24,080
Speaker 6: rising you up and you kept being cleared. I was

953
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:25,200
Speaker 6: smooth saying you too fine.

954
00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:26,400
Speaker 2: Here is not rising it up.

955
00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:28,960
Speaker 3: You too fond to be here. I ain't never seen

956
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:29,759
Speaker 3: you around here.

957
00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:33,560
Speaker 2: Before where you come from, because I really would have

958
00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:35,320
Speaker 2: met that if we were being serious, I would have

959
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:38,359
Speaker 2: met that with whired you here. You don't think highly

960
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:38,840
Speaker 2: of yourself.

961
00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:40,560
Speaker 3: No, that's what you gotta say, because I knew you

962
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:44,760
Speaker 3: was here. See, I knew you was here. I don't.

963
00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:47,960
Speaker 2: Even have a reality.

964
00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:49,760
Speaker 3: I have reality.

965
00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:53,880
Speaker 2: I like that Thatch is cute at the party, and

966
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:56,239
Speaker 2: don't I can do that for fun for funzies at

967
00:38:56,280 --> 00:38:56,600
Speaker 2: the party.

968
00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:01,160
Speaker 6: I've never seen you give riz, will you be talking

969
00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:01,400
Speaker 6: a bit?

970
00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:02,160
Speaker 2: Just you be like you?

971
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:02,759
Speaker 3: Just like you.

972
00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:05,520
Speaker 6: They love you because you're like awkward, funny.

973
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:08,040
Speaker 3: Peach.

974
00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:09,239
Speaker 2: You've seen me in.

975
00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:26,719
Speaker 8: Action, remarkable, remarkable back like he's so good, man, he's

976
00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:27,279
Speaker 8: just so good.

977
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:28,600
Speaker 6: How does he do him?

978
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:29,799
Speaker 3: Man? Look at him? Go man.

979
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:31,960
Speaker 2: I was using that I feel like we've known each

980
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:35,359
Speaker 2: other line before. It was mainstream, like we've known each

981
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:37,000
Speaker 2: other forever. He was ended with that it's like it's

982
00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:44,000
Speaker 2: definitely grassroot. I was fat beats at that. I was

983
00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:47,560
Speaker 2: the raucus of that. Likely know each other at night.

984
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 2: I just feels like we've known each other forever. I'm

985
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 2: so comfortable around.

986
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:54,879
Speaker 3: You, Maul.

987
00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:57,399
Speaker 2: I am tired of seeing these ads where it looks

988
00:39:57,480 --> 00:39:59,040
Speaker 2: like it's a great price and then you get the

989
00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:02,040
Speaker 2: bill later and it is not what they advertise. But

990
00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:04,520
Speaker 2: that does not happen with Boost Mobile. You pay twenty

991
00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:07,799
Speaker 2: five dollars a month for ever verse.

992
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:09,160
Speaker 3: Did you say twenty five dollars a month?

993
00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:09,839
Speaker 2: Twenty five dollars?

994
00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:11,000
Speaker 3: I thought you said thirty fives.

995
00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:13,040
Speaker 2: Not with Boost it's twenty five every single time.

996
00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:15,920
Speaker 3: No hidden fees. Five G speeds not available into all

997
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:19,840
Speaker 3: areas after thirty GB, customers may experience slower speeds. Customers

998
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:21,680
Speaker 3: will pay twenty five dollars a month as long as

999
00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:23,919
Speaker 3: they remain active on the Boost Unlimited plan.

1000
00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:32,520
Speaker 2: We didn't talk about it last week because I didn't

1001
00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 2: really want to give it too much light because I

1002
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:37,400
Speaker 2: know it is a rumor of Vanessa Bryant being pregnant

1003
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:40,520
Speaker 2: and people were tweeting how upset they were about it.

1004
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:44,000
Speaker 2: I don't care to talk about that rumor because it

1005
00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:48,760
Speaker 2: was false, even down to like people saying Lauren London

1006
00:40:48,840 --> 00:40:52,520
Speaker 2: was dating just that topic in general, Why are people

1007
00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:55,200
Speaker 2: so upset after so many years that people would move

1008
00:40:55,239 --> 00:41:00,360
Speaker 2: on with their lives. Like I could't even speak to it.

1009
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:02,840
Speaker 2: In my family, my cousin passed when I was fifteen.

1010
00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:05,600
Speaker 2: She was married at the time. I went to her

1011
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 2: husband's wedding. M h, I mean it was years and

1012
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:12,680
Speaker 2: years and years later. But like people are supposed to

1013
00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:17,520
Speaker 2: just forever be alone, Like I don't get that. Like

1014
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:21,480
Speaker 2: me and my family all went to my cousin's husband's

1015
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:25,720
Speaker 2: new wedding, and like, we love his wife. She's amazing.

1016
00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:30,120
Speaker 2: She treats us great respectfully to her daughter, Alexandria, She's

1017
00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:34,600
Speaker 2: an amazing step mother. Like what it's people move on?

1018
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:37,120
Speaker 3: Like, you know, I think with this one is just

1019
00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:40,960
Speaker 3: because obviously, you know it being one of the greatest

1020
00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:46,279
Speaker 3: athletes of our time, and then the way in which

1021
00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:48,919
Speaker 3: he passed, and you know, his daughter and everybody else

1022
00:41:49,960 --> 00:41:55,160
Speaker 3: that day. I think, you know, again, fans just being

1023
00:41:55,320 --> 00:42:00,640
Speaker 3: fans and fanatics and wanting to attach themselves too much

1024
00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:04,800
Speaker 3: to the situation, and you know, the family just expressing

1025
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:07,560
Speaker 3: themselves and feeling like, you know, Vanessa Bryant should still

1026
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:10,840
Speaker 3: be in mourning and you know she should never move on.

1027
00:42:11,280 --> 00:42:15,120
Speaker 3: You know, even though Kobe is passed, she should never

1028
00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:17,799
Speaker 3: move on and find love again to be happy. That's

1029
00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:22,560
Speaker 3: just that's just not realistic. That's not reality. Even if

1030
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 3: Vanessa Bryant has moved on, and even if she is pregnant,

1031
00:42:26,400 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 3: you know, that's you know, that's it's her life. She

1032
00:42:28,680 --> 00:42:30,800
Speaker 3: has to move on, she has to her life continues,

1033
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:35,960
Speaker 3: should carry her daughter and her husband with her forever

1034
00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:37,879
Speaker 3: and the memory of them, in the spirit of them.

1035
00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:41,040
Speaker 3: But you know, she should, she should find happiness and

1036
00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:44,120
Speaker 3: you know, helpful because we don't think about her enough

1037
00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:46,800
Speaker 3: mentally where she was losing a daughter and her husband

1038
00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:51,280
Speaker 3: and the way they passed, you know, such a tragic accident.

1039
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:54,320
Speaker 3: So for her to even find herself back in a

1040
00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:58,600
Speaker 3: position where you know, she's dating or you know, she

1041
00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:03,200
Speaker 3: she she's looking for love again or companionship or whatever,

1042
00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:07,400
Speaker 3: people should be happy about that to some capacity, you

1043
00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:09,960
Speaker 3: know what I mean. Like, and again, people just need

1044
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:13,280
Speaker 3: to stop being so involved, like that's none of our business.

1045
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:16,160
Speaker 3: Like if she moved on, great, if she's pregnant, congrats

1046
00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:18,960
Speaker 3: you know, God bless but you know, just just fans

1047
00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:20,840
Speaker 3: being fans and feeling like they have a platform to

1048
00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:24,319
Speaker 3: voice their opinions and you know, just to talk shit.

1049
00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:27,239
Speaker 3: It's stupid, but you know, either way, life goes on.

1050
00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:32,920
Speaker 3: People die, and you know, tragically, but you know this,

1051
00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:37,799
Speaker 3: the widow should be allowed to move on at some point.

1052
00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:42,400
Speaker 2: I mean, I think what Dame and his current wife

1053
00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:47,000
Speaker 2: have is great because I see Dame honor a Leah constantly,

1054
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:51,080
Speaker 2: especially on her birthday day of or passing. I see

1055
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:54,960
Speaker 2: Dame's wife honor her as well, like you.

1056
00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:56,960
Speaker 3: Still love the person, you still love them forever. But

1057
00:43:57,000 --> 00:43:58,279
Speaker 3: it's just life goes on.

1058
00:43:58,480 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 7: Man.

1059
00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:00,880
Speaker 3: We got to move forward. Life. Life is going to continue,

1060
00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 3: Life is going to happen.

1061
00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:04,560
Speaker 2: And okay, but from beyond the grave. I don't think

1062
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:05,279
Speaker 2: you'd be cool with it.

1063
00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:09,520
Speaker 3: We spoke beyond the grave. We spoke about that already. Now,

1064
00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:14,839
Speaker 3: you single forever day I died, the day I die,

1065
00:44:15,560 --> 00:44:20,000
Speaker 3: I'm taking that pussy with me. Oh yeah, my old

1066
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:21,000
Speaker 3: school baby. Do you hear me?

1067
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:22,080
Speaker 2: You would try to haunt them?

1068
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:24,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure?

1069
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:26,920
Speaker 6: What if he oh my god, I can't imagine if

1070
00:44:26,960 --> 00:44:28,920
Speaker 6: he clapping from the back and like he slapped your

1071
00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:31,200
Speaker 6: ass a specific way, and it's like, damn, this remind

1072
00:44:31,239 --> 00:44:31,759
Speaker 6: me of mall.

1073
00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:36,680
Speaker 3: That's a different type of evil, Like that thought was

1074
00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:38,960
Speaker 3: being really weird. Yo, that was like you just took

1075
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:41,680
Speaker 3: that to like a whole real ear like drop out

1076
00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 3: your eye like damn, scare like that. Yeah, like this,

1077
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:47,799
Speaker 3: look how you what's wrong with you? How would your

1078
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:50,960
Speaker 3: mind even go to that somebody after your husband?

1079
00:44:51,400 --> 00:44:53,600
Speaker 6: Because some things have familiar Like what if he got

1080
00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:55,440
Speaker 6: your cologne on? Like I go on a first day,

1081
00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:56,960
Speaker 6: he go to kiss me, he got he got your

1082
00:44:57,000 --> 00:44:57,440
Speaker 6: cologne on?

1083
00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:00,760
Speaker 3: You should start breaking down, having emotional down crying.

1084
00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:03,120
Speaker 6: I am, But what if I really like that cologne

1085
00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:04,600
Speaker 6: on you used to really like turn me on like

1086
00:45:04,640 --> 00:45:06,040
Speaker 6: it he's supposed to turn me on on him.

1087
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:06,600
Speaker 3: It's not on me.

1088
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 2: Would that be a sign that you shouldn't be there

1089
00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:09,640
Speaker 2: or that you should.

1090
00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:11,320
Speaker 3: A sign that you should?

1091
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:12,920
Speaker 6: I think that would be I would take that as

1092
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:14,520
Speaker 6: a sign that I was supposed to be there the.

1093
00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:18,040
Speaker 3: Baby, but as the man that's on the date devil,

1094
00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:19,840
Speaker 3: I would the devil.

1095
00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:22,960
Speaker 6: If I'm a man of and it's reminding me of

1096
00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:25,440
Speaker 6: somebody I love, like damn, like this makes me feel comfort.

1097
00:45:25,520 --> 00:45:27,520
Speaker 6: This makes me feel safe, like how mall used to.

1098
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:29,960
Speaker 2: Okay, if you told me that on the first day

1099
00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:32,200
Speaker 2: or even we were saying we were a year and

1100
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:35,719
Speaker 2: year you told me you brought that up again, really

1101
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:36,200
Speaker 2: creeped out.

1102
00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:37,840
Speaker 3: I would never tell you, like, wait, so do you

1103
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:38,160
Speaker 3: like it?

1104
00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:40,719
Speaker 2: Am I here? Because I had that Colonne on and

1105
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:42,320
Speaker 2: I'm the replacement.

1106
00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:45,040
Speaker 6: Thinking that just the cologne is what kept me and

1107
00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:47,320
Speaker 6: ended up me in a relationship with you is insane.

1108
00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:48,680
Speaker 2: But that could be grief.

1109
00:45:49,280 --> 00:45:51,160
Speaker 6: That could be a positive sign, like, oh my god,

1110
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:53,360
Speaker 6: he smells like ma he smells like he's comforting me.

1111
00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:56,040
Speaker 6: Like yeah, I feel like that's a good sign.

1112
00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:00,560
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not more. I would want my significant

1113
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:01,640
Speaker 2: other to eventually move on.

1114
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:04,320
Speaker 3: Yeah you have know I would. I'm joking. You have

1115
00:46:04,440 --> 00:46:06,040
Speaker 3: to move on. Life goes on. But like.

1116
00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:12,920
Speaker 2: If it was within two years, like I'm definitely i'moulda

1117
00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:14,719
Speaker 2: be sitting there with Jesus, Like, yo, look at.

1118
00:46:14,600 --> 00:46:16,320
Speaker 3: This whole I'm thinking you're gonna be with Jesus, crazy

1119
00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:18,480
Speaker 3: like me and Jesus be like on. But now you

1120
00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:20,520
Speaker 3: gotta be careful now because there are some sick people

1121
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:25,560
Speaker 3: out here, and you know, somebody like a Vanessa Bryant

1122
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:28,280
Speaker 3: could meet a sick guy who just want the clout

1123
00:46:28,360 --> 00:46:31,719
Speaker 3: of being the guy that Vanessa Bryant was with after Kobe.

1124
00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:34,040
Speaker 6: Like, I don't even think Vanessa Bryant would run into

1125
00:46:34,160 --> 00:46:35,120
Speaker 6: I get what you're saying.

1126
00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:37,120
Speaker 3: What happens, don't think it, don't I'm sure it does.

1127
00:46:37,280 --> 00:46:40,880
Speaker 6: But I'm pretty sure that she has enough people around her.

1128
00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:42,320
Speaker 6: I'm pretty sure she has the discernment.

1129
00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:44,800
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm just saying not her in particular, but

1130
00:46:45,160 --> 00:46:49,120
Speaker 2: women in her position, Like gotta be careful because absolutely

1131
00:46:49,200 --> 00:46:51,960
Speaker 2: guys would clout chase and be like they would want

1132
00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:53,880
Speaker 2: to be in that position, like because they know they

1133
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:56,279
Speaker 2: know what comes with that, like everything that's happening on

1134
00:46:56,360 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 2: the internet now.

1135
00:46:57,440 --> 00:46:58,279
Speaker 3: They know what comes with that.

1136
00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:00,640
Speaker 2: Unfortunately, like with her moving over there life. Not that

1137
00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:02,279
Speaker 2: I want to make it clear, I don't think Vanessa

1138
00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:05,400
Speaker 2: Briant would even look my way, but that in that

1139
00:47:05,520 --> 00:47:10,040
Speaker 2: scenario would intimidate me, Like I don't I know what

1140
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:12,279
Speaker 2: comes with that, Like we're saying, I don't know if

1141
00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:15,520
Speaker 2: i'd want to date the widow of COVID, Like even

1142
00:47:15,560 --> 00:47:17,239
Speaker 2: if we got along, I still that's that's a lot

1143
00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:20,560
Speaker 2: of what's going on there. Yeah, I feel awkward even

1144
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:23,200
Speaker 2: going on the first Let's say we had mutual friends,

1145
00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:25,160
Speaker 2: like you guys would get along. She's ready to get

1146
00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:27,439
Speaker 2: back out there, Like I think, I'm cool.

1147
00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:30,439
Speaker 3: She's been a lot. It's definitely heavy. It's a heavy

1148
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:32,360
Speaker 3: it's a heavy thing to kind of take into account,

1149
00:47:32,480 --> 00:47:35,120
Speaker 3: you know what I mean. But listen, man, life goes on. Man,

1150
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:37,200
Speaker 3: we all got to move forward. And if Vanessa Brian

1151
00:47:37,320 --> 00:47:38,440
Speaker 3: is happy, that's all that matters.

1152
00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:41,360
Speaker 6: Well. I hope she. I hope she. I hope this

1153
00:47:41,640 --> 00:47:44,600
Speaker 6: is I mean, obviously this shit isn't true, but I

1154
00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:46,120
Speaker 6: do hope that she finds happiness.

1155
00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:48,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, it is absolutely she deserves it. She deserves to

1156
00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:52,000
Speaker 3: be happy. Or know what we're about to say.

1157
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:54,000
Speaker 2: Have you guys had any of these type of situations

1158
00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:57,440
Speaker 2: in your families or lives where that's happened.

1159
00:47:59,080 --> 00:47:59,239
Speaker 7: Uh.

1160
00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:05,439
Speaker 6: When my grandfather died, my grandmother uh started dating again.

1161
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:08,880
Speaker 6: She was at her older ages, and it was, you know,

1162
00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:12,319
Speaker 6: we all wanted the best for her. I think our

1163
00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:15,160
Speaker 6: thing was just kind of like constantly comparing him to

1164
00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:17,880
Speaker 6: my grandfather. It was just kind of like my grandfather

1165
00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:20,680
Speaker 6: was like that, and like this ain't that you know,

1166
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:23,400
Speaker 6: Like but she but she's you were a little bit.

1167
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:25,080
Speaker 3: That's how they go, That's how they gonna look at Homie.

1168
00:48:25,080 --> 00:48:29,160
Speaker 3: That's Daved, Vanessa Bryant. You ain't. You ain't Kobe Nigga.

1169
00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:30,280
Speaker 2: That's like everyone.

1170
00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:36,399
Speaker 3: You can't. It could be that you can't go left.

1171
00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:38,800
Speaker 3: You can't hear the free throw with a blown Achilles like.

1172
00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:39,200
Speaker 3: You can't.

1173
00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:42,080
Speaker 2: You can't do that, you know, imagine trying to date

1174
00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:44,160
Speaker 2: the person that dated Mama mentality.

1175
00:48:44,640 --> 00:48:45,200
Speaker 3: I don't have it.

1176
00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:48,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I don't have Mama mentality, have a sneakers

1177
00:48:49,239 --> 00:48:50,440
Speaker 6: so garden snake mentality.

1178
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:52,560
Speaker 3: Back to your grandmother dating. How old was your grandmother

1179
00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:53,400
Speaker 3: when she got back out there?

1180
00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:53,880
Speaker 7: She was.

1181
00:48:55,920 --> 00:48:59,880
Speaker 3: In her seventies late granny, Granny, Granny. I love you, Granny,

1182
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:04,440
Speaker 3: but cut the ship. You can't get they could be, yes,

1183
00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:07,320
Speaker 3: you'd be companionship at the in the seventies.

1184
00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:09,759
Speaker 6: You have the highest rates of chlamydia are in the

1185
00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:16,759
Speaker 6: nursing homes. Wait what the highest rates of chlamydia are

1186
00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:21,200
Speaker 6: in the nurse Chlamydia runs. Chlamydia runs rampant through nursing home.

1187
00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:24,439
Speaker 2: I think it's going way crazier in DC.

1188
00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:28,600
Speaker 3: But where and what the nursing homes in DC. Where

1189
00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:30,760
Speaker 3: and why do you have that information?

1190
00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:34,920
Speaker 6: Because I read that nursing homes tend to be very

1191
00:49:35,000 --> 00:49:36,919
Speaker 6: high at STDs, because I mean, you at that age,

1192
00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:38,240
Speaker 6: you ain't funing on no condo.

1193
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:40,360
Speaker 2: We fucking like, where where'd you get chlamydia?

1194
00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:44,000
Speaker 6: I don't really have nothing to lose, Like they're fucking,

1195
00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:47,840
Speaker 6: they be fucking and them people don't get checked, Beau.

1196
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:48,520
Speaker 3: Who got who got?

1197
00:49:49,160 --> 00:49:49,560
Speaker 1: She just had?

1198
00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:52,000
Speaker 3: You got the bigger things to worry about, the chlamydia,

1199
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:52,880
Speaker 3: she just had a stroke.

1200
00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:55,920
Speaker 2: And the amount of medication that they're taking in penicillin,

1201
00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:57,759
Speaker 2: Like the fact that the STD could survive in their

1202
00:49:57,800 --> 00:49:58,839
Speaker 2: body is crazy. Yeah.

1203
00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:01,200
Speaker 3: While specific up the minute data or I love when

1204
00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:02,919
Speaker 3: they say up to the minute, up to the minute data,

1205
00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:06,839
Speaker 3: committee rates in nursing homes by location is limited, it's

1206
00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:09,600
Speaker 3: clear that STIs including committee are on the rise among

1207
00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:13,000
Speaker 3: older adults, including those in nursing homes. The overall trend

1208
00:50:13,000 --> 00:50:16,240
Speaker 3: indicates that the number of COMMITTEA cases among those age

1209
00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:19,880
Speaker 3: sixty five and older has more than tripled between twenty

1210
00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:23,200
Speaker 3: ten and Oh that's because when they get older, they

1211
00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:24,480
Speaker 3: feel like they don't know how much time they got

1212
00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:26,080
Speaker 3: left the fuck. Yeah, they just fucking.

1213
00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:28,120
Speaker 2: So that doesn't mean that the highest rate of the

1214
00:50:28,160 --> 00:50:32,640
Speaker 2: clap is in there. It's just tripled sense. But I'm

1215
00:50:32,640 --> 00:50:35,040
Speaker 2: saying you always have to find the source. Like if

1216
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:37,360
Speaker 2: you ever watched the age documentaries where they try to

1217
00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:39,840
Speaker 2: find out exactly like who fucked who to get the

1218
00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 2: entire thing, what young bull fucked a granny.

1219
00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:46,560
Speaker 3: One of the male nurses in that it doesn't have

1220
00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:48,320
Speaker 3: to be that's probably many.

1221
00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:50,800
Speaker 6: Could have had chlamydia, or Grandpa could have had chlamydia,

1222
00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:52,800
Speaker 6: because you know, old niggas do not go to the doctor.

1223
00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:55,640
Speaker 6: Grandpa could have had chlamydia for fucking thirty years and

1224
00:50:55,800 --> 00:50:57,640
Speaker 6: he was only fucking his wife, so they both just

1225
00:50:57,719 --> 00:50:59,880
Speaker 6: had it and then she died and now he don't like.

1226
00:50:59,840 --> 00:51:00,440
Speaker 3: The common cold.

1227
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:06,840
Speaker 6: If you thinking niggas don't be having fucking STDs for

1228
00:51:07,200 --> 00:51:09,600
Speaker 6: twenty some years these older people, these older people ain't

1229
00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:11,480
Speaker 6: going to the doctors to get they dick swabbed bro

1230
00:51:12,000 --> 00:51:14,200
Speaker 6: especially if they're unsymptomatic or asymptomatic.

1231
00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:16,800
Speaker 3: They're not going to do that. They just got that ship.

1232
00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:21,600
Speaker 6: HPV syphilis, the philis before they know they even got syphilis.

1233
00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:24,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I guess at that age, you just happy

1234
00:51:24,360 --> 00:51:27,319
Speaker 3: your shit still work. Yeah, they don't give fuck. Yeah.

1235
00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:29,320
Speaker 2: If my ship work at that age, committee is the

1236
00:51:29,400 --> 00:51:31,160
Speaker 2: last thing in my mind, and it worked.

1237
00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:34,000
Speaker 6: Just because you older don't mean you stop missing companionship

1238
00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:34,359
Speaker 6: and love.

1239
00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:37,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, companionship and love is different. Committee is another thing.

1240
00:51:37,880 --> 00:51:40,960
Speaker 3: I would Why didn't say, I'm just saying that championship

1241
00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:43,759
Speaker 3: older people be fucking Okay, So Granny got back out there.

1242
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:45,360
Speaker 6: She Yeah, she had a little boyfriend.

1243
00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:48,759
Speaker 3: Okay, she needs somebody around the house. She needed that companionship,

1244
00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:50,359
Speaker 3: that company. She had a little b I ain't mad

1245
00:51:50,400 --> 00:51:53,719
Speaker 3: at that. Go ahead, Granny, What what.

1246
00:51:53,840 --> 00:51:55,440
Speaker 2: You gonna call him? Grandpa me?

1247
00:51:55,760 --> 00:52:00,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know that nigga my grandfather. To get

1248
00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:02,600
Speaker 3: all my love for respect that nigga? Who is that nigga?

1249
00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:03,480
Speaker 3: I don't know that nigga?

1250
00:52:04,600 --> 00:52:05,440
Speaker 2: Tell us about the war?

1251
00:52:06,800 --> 00:52:07,000
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1252
00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:11,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, bringing somebody to like to a holiday would be

1253
00:52:11,400 --> 00:52:12,080
Speaker 2: kind of crazy though.

1254
00:52:12,560 --> 00:52:15,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, your grandmother walking with a new boyfriend on the

1255
00:52:15,080 --> 00:52:19,520
Speaker 3: holiday after your grandfather died. It's like, what we're gonna do.

1256
00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:20,880
Speaker 3: We can't beat them, we can't jump them.

1257
00:52:21,600 --> 00:52:23,600
Speaker 2: And that's that's to be intimidating on the other side too,

1258
00:52:23,640 --> 00:52:26,200
Speaker 2: because like just dating somebody with a kid is a

1259
00:52:26,360 --> 00:52:30,440
Speaker 2: thing in itself. You got five kids, ten grandchildren, Like,

1260
00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:31,640
Speaker 2: I'm just walking into that shit.

1261
00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:33,880
Speaker 3: And they always fronting the other dudes, always from like

1262
00:52:33,880 --> 00:52:36,400
Speaker 3: they just take your grandmother to run errands. No, I

1263
00:52:36,520 --> 00:52:38,879
Speaker 3: just take it to go get her groceries. And yeah,

1264
00:52:39,000 --> 00:52:42,120
Speaker 3: you in there fucking my grandmothers. Shut up. You stopped

1265
00:52:42,400 --> 00:52:44,160
Speaker 3: making it seem like you just picked my grandmother up

1266
00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:46,520
Speaker 3: like you access a ride or something. Nigga, You take

1267
00:52:46,600 --> 00:52:49,480
Speaker 3: my grandmother to get her groceries and then go back

1268
00:52:49,520 --> 00:52:53,479
Speaker 3: and eat her groceries. It's not just bingo on Tuesdays. Yeah,

1269
00:52:53,920 --> 00:52:55,880
Speaker 3: she got new she got a new house. Dresses, She

1270
00:52:55,960 --> 00:52:56,960
Speaker 3: walking around in there all.

1271
00:52:57,000 --> 00:52:58,520
Speaker 2: Or a sudden, smelling different.

1272
00:52:58,640 --> 00:53:00,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, them slippers, I mean to say, same slippers you

1273
00:53:00,640 --> 00:53:03,719
Speaker 3: had on for the last three years. New slippers. She

1274
00:53:03,800 --> 00:53:06,360
Speaker 3: getting her head done, now, got them little pin curls

1275
00:53:06,360 --> 00:53:08,640
Speaker 3: in there all day, grandie. What you doing you in

1276
00:53:08,760 --> 00:53:13,399
Speaker 3: there fucking She got Hulu.

1277
00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:16,319
Speaker 2: The grandmother got a streaming service.

1278
00:53:16,440 --> 00:53:22,160
Speaker 3: Now, yeah, Grandy in there humping mister Fred. It's always

1279
00:53:22,160 --> 00:53:24,359
Speaker 3: a mister Fred too. He wants you to call him

1280
00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:26,920
Speaker 3: mister nigga. I'm not calling you mister Fred. Nigga.

1281
00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:27,800
Speaker 2: My thirties.

1282
00:53:28,320 --> 00:53:31,160
Speaker 3: I'm a grown fucking mister Fred. Get the fuck out.

1283
00:53:31,200 --> 00:53:33,480
Speaker 3: I think that was his name too. It's always a

1284
00:53:33,560 --> 00:53:34,160
Speaker 3: mister Fred.

1285
00:53:34,920 --> 00:53:38,520
Speaker 2: His name was Michael, but you called her Fred. I

1286
00:53:38,520 --> 00:53:40,359
Speaker 2: would want Granny to get fucked into her grave though,

1287
00:53:40,440 --> 00:53:40,960
Speaker 2: for sure.

1288
00:53:41,560 --> 00:53:43,279
Speaker 3: I mean that's what she wants. I don't want to

1289
00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:43,920
Speaker 3: see it, though.

1290
00:53:44,560 --> 00:53:45,640
Speaker 2: I'm not suggesting to see it.

1291
00:53:45,840 --> 00:53:47,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't want to. I don't want to see it.

1292
00:53:47,560 --> 00:53:49,320
Speaker 3: I don't even want to know about it. But have fun, Granny,

1293
00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:49,800
Speaker 3: do what you do.

1294
00:53:50,000 --> 00:53:52,440
Speaker 2: But like once she passed, like, you're not a part

1295
00:53:52,480 --> 00:53:52,640
Speaker 2: of this.

1296
00:53:54,120 --> 00:53:55,040
Speaker 3: You don't do that.

1297
00:53:55,160 --> 00:53:57,399
Speaker 2: You're not front row. You're not in the front peel.

1298
00:53:57,560 --> 00:53:58,080
Speaker 4: He has to be.

1299
00:53:58,160 --> 00:53:59,160
Speaker 3: That's family. Don't do that.

1300
00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:01,800
Speaker 2: You're not entitled.

1301
00:54:02,120 --> 00:54:04,919
Speaker 3: If your grandmother has a boyfriend and your grandmother passes away,

1302
00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:06,080
Speaker 3: he's allowed to come to the funeral.

1303
00:54:06,239 --> 00:54:07,920
Speaker 2: But no, no, he can go to the funeral. I

1304
00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:10,480
Speaker 2: never said that. You're not in the first family pew.

1305
00:54:11,160 --> 00:54:11,520
Speaker 3: Why not?

1306
00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:13,600
Speaker 2: It's gonna be pew pew. What the fuck are you

1307
00:54:13,680 --> 00:54:17,600
Speaker 2: talking about in the first pew? Yes, there are certain

1308
00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:19,160
Speaker 2: cousins that don't even make the first pew.

1309
00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:22,399
Speaker 3: That her grandmother's that's her her boyfriend. I was her man.

1310
00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:24,880
Speaker 3: He knew her intimately. Yeah, he was taking care of

1311
00:54:24,920 --> 00:54:26,680
Speaker 3: her the days you didn't want to go to Grandy's house.

1312
00:54:27,160 --> 00:54:29,200
Speaker 3: Mister Fred was the breakfast mister Fred.

1313
00:54:29,239 --> 00:54:30,080
Speaker 2: How long were they dating?

1314
00:54:30,719 --> 00:54:31,200
Speaker 6: Ten years?

1315
00:54:32,040 --> 00:54:32,200
Speaker 3: Oh?

1316
00:54:32,200 --> 00:54:36,520
Speaker 2: All right, that's why. No, No, ten years before because.

1317
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:37,960
Speaker 6: I even think five years. I think five years.

1318
00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:44,600
Speaker 3: He deserves five years. No, you start years five Christmas,

1319
00:54:45,400 --> 00:54:49,000
Speaker 3: she's seventy five. She only got five years. She's dead.

1320
00:54:49,080 --> 00:54:53,279
Speaker 3: She only full last five years. You're pew three.

1321
00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:55,839
Speaker 2: And if my grandfather is still alive, he's pew one.

1322
00:54:56,040 --> 00:54:56,960
Speaker 3: You're disrespectful.

1323
00:54:57,400 --> 00:54:59,320
Speaker 2: He can't see a Paul Barret five years in.

1324
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:00,120
Speaker 3: He can't care.

1325
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:04,800
Speaker 7: Already know, goddamn cascular. He will be to sam funeral

1326
00:55:04,920 --> 00:55:09,520
Speaker 7: next week? Can't he be a he gonna do that bullshit?

1327
00:55:09,600 --> 00:55:13,000
Speaker 7: Now that she died, I'm dying, you just oh, I

1328
00:55:13,080 --> 00:55:13,680
Speaker 7: had to go with it.

1329
00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:16,320
Speaker 3: I had to go ahead. Yeah, I had to go

1330
00:55:16,440 --> 00:55:18,239
Speaker 3: with her. I had to go with my had Okay, but.

1331
00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:20,080
Speaker 2: You know that's part of the back of the Paul Bear.

1332
00:55:21,280 --> 00:55:22,800
Speaker 2: You don't really have to carry anything. You could just

1333
00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:25,360
Speaker 2: be there for show. I've been to Paul Bear enough times.

1334
00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:28,040
Speaker 3: I know what you know he walks behind the casket.

1335
00:55:28,360 --> 00:55:32,640
Speaker 3: He walked around five years fucking up here.

1336
00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:37,120
Speaker 2: You with the amount of cousins uncles, I'm gon keep.

1337
00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:38,520
Speaker 6: It roal cho, I'm gonnakeep it roch too. Your grandmother

1338
00:55:38,520 --> 00:55:41,520
Speaker 6: didn't Your grandmother died, did bless her? So I guarantee you, Shane,

1339
00:55:41,600 --> 00:55:43,120
Speaker 6: fuck with seventy five percent of your cousins.

1340
00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:46,520
Speaker 2: And you know that true.

1341
00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:49,600
Speaker 6: I guarantee you she love her.

1342
00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:51,800
Speaker 2: My grandmother and my grandfather pulled me aside when I

1343
00:55:51,920 --> 00:55:55,000
Speaker 2: was like twenty, when I was at Saint Peter's. No,

1344
00:55:55,120 --> 00:55:56,520
Speaker 2: it was right before I got kicked out in nineteen,

1345
00:55:57,160 --> 00:56:02,960
Speaker 2: and said, it's really just up to you. I swear

1346
00:56:03,080 --> 00:56:06,440
Speaker 2: to God. Both my grandparents are dead, and thank god,

1347
00:56:06,560 --> 00:56:10,040
Speaker 2: they paus died like Paul's died together. I don't know where.

1348
00:56:10,040 --> 00:56:13,040
Speaker 2: There was a pause there, and there was not a

1349
00:56:13,200 --> 00:56:16,280
Speaker 2: mister Fred anywhere around, but they really pulled me aside

1350
00:56:16,360 --> 00:56:17,360
Speaker 2: and said, it's really up to you.

1351
00:56:18,080 --> 00:56:19,280
Speaker 3: Your grandparents died together.

1352
00:56:19,880 --> 00:56:23,920
Speaker 2: No, like a week or two. So my grandfather died

1353
00:56:24,239 --> 00:56:27,000
Speaker 2: during COVID. He fell down the steps and then COVID happened.

1354
00:56:27,040 --> 00:56:29,279
Speaker 2: He wasn't able to see anybody, so like his health

1355
00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:33,719
Speaker 2: deteriorated right away and he passed. And then my only

1356
00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:36,040
Speaker 2: Republican uncle was like, they're just folding him into the

1357
00:56:36,160 --> 00:56:40,120
Speaker 2: COVID numbers. I was like, Uncle Paul, now is like

1358
00:56:40,600 --> 00:56:42,279
Speaker 2: of all the times that you want to talk about

1359
00:56:42,280 --> 00:56:44,719
Speaker 2: your Republican bullshit, Like, can we just not do this

1360
00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:48,280
Speaker 2: right now? So my grandmother had Alzheimer's and my grandfather

1361
00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:50,560
Speaker 2: refused to ever go to a home. That's why he

1362
00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:54,200
Speaker 2: fell down the steps. Prideful Irish guy. Grandma had Alzheimer's,

1363
00:56:54,280 --> 00:56:58,719
Speaker 2: was taking care of her. She went from uncle aunt

1364
00:56:58,800 --> 00:57:01,080
Speaker 2: house to house and it got too crazy, so she

1365
00:57:01,200 --> 00:57:04,000
Speaker 2: went to a home and the doctor said the only

1366
00:57:04,040 --> 00:57:07,360
Speaker 2: reason she stayed alive was because of her Alzheimer's, because

1367
00:57:07,400 --> 00:57:11,480
Speaker 2: every day she forgot that he died. And then we

1368
00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:14,120
Speaker 2: were talking to the doctor when she passed and he

1369
00:57:14,280 --> 00:57:16,920
Speaker 2: was like, it takes a while with patients from Alzheimer's

1370
00:57:17,480 --> 00:57:19,480
Speaker 2: for their body to set in that the person was gone.

1371
00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:23,360
Speaker 2: I was like, oh wow, that was like deeply fucking romantic, doc, Wow,

1372
00:57:23,760 --> 00:57:26,080
Speaker 2: But yeah, Alzheimer's can keep because they were together since

1373
00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:28,560
Speaker 2: they were nineteen. My grandfather died when he was ninety three.

1374
00:57:29,080 --> 00:57:31,960
Speaker 2: My grandmother died when she was ninety one ninety two crazy,

1375
00:57:32,560 --> 00:57:35,640
Speaker 2: and he was like, yeah, Alzheimer's makes them forget that shit.

1376
00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:37,760
Speaker 2: And it took her body more time to figure that

1377
00:57:37,800 --> 00:57:39,600
Speaker 2: shit out. And then I was like, yeah, my grandfather

1378
00:57:39,680 --> 00:57:41,919
Speaker 2: was wearing that out. If it took her body some time,

1379
00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:43,280
Speaker 2: we never needed.

1380
00:57:43,320 --> 00:57:48,640
Speaker 3: Mister Fred knocked the memory out of it. All right, Okay,

1381
00:57:50,480 --> 00:57:51,200
Speaker 3: I'm sorry.

1382
00:57:51,160 --> 00:57:53,800
Speaker 2: But with that said, if my grandmother dated somebody else

1383
00:57:53,880 --> 00:57:55,640
Speaker 2: five years, no, even if she didn't fuck with my

1384
00:57:55,640 --> 00:57:57,480
Speaker 2: cousins that don't even come around and check on anybody.

1385
00:57:57,480 --> 00:58:00,439
Speaker 2: They're a Paul Bearer before mister Fred for sure.

1386
00:58:01,400 --> 00:58:03,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't get to be a poor bro. You

1387
00:58:03,480 --> 00:58:05,640
Speaker 3: could walk behind the casket, the right behind the casket.

1388
00:58:06,760 --> 00:58:06,920
Speaker 6: Three.

1389
00:58:07,000 --> 00:58:09,560
Speaker 3: That was my girlfriend. That was my lady. He loved her.

1390
00:58:10,040 --> 00:58:13,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, we don't even know, like did you claim her

1391
00:58:13,200 --> 00:58:14,440
Speaker 2: like that? Like I don't even know what you else?

1392
00:58:14,480 --> 00:58:16,479
Speaker 3: Stay than how you how.

1393
00:58:16,440 --> 00:58:19,680
Speaker 6: You claim people when you old? Like how you like

1394
00:58:19,760 --> 00:58:20,680
Speaker 6: y'all go to church together?

1395
00:58:20,920 --> 00:58:22,560
Speaker 3: No, you do what Cardi and steff on there you

1396
00:58:22,640 --> 00:58:23,520
Speaker 3: post each other on it.

1397
00:58:27,120 --> 00:58:28,320
Speaker 2: There's a lot of women that are show up to

1398
00:58:28,320 --> 00:58:29,960
Speaker 2: a funeral plane they was a girlfriend.

1399
00:58:29,680 --> 00:58:31,920
Speaker 3: Too, and they wasn't well, not even p. Three, that

1400
00:58:32,240 --> 00:58:34,160
Speaker 3: that happens. That that happened, and they've been dating for

1401
00:58:34,240 --> 00:58:36,439
Speaker 3: fifteen years. Yeah, that happened. So you find out somebody

1402
00:58:36,480 --> 00:58:39,320
Speaker 3: got to kids. You ain't even know you living fifteen years,

1403
00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:44,280
Speaker 3: but you got kids. You was with her for fifteen years.

1404
00:58:44,400 --> 00:58:48,120
Speaker 3: You know you got kids. I see some crazy shit

1405
00:58:48,160 --> 00:58:51,880
Speaker 3: at funerals, Man, funerals, It's gonna come out. I'm dead

1406
00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:54,160
Speaker 3: and gone. Fuck it, y'all do what y'all want. I

1407
00:58:55,000 --> 00:58:56,680
Speaker 3: I have anxiety from the grave.

1408
00:58:56,920 --> 00:59:01,120
Speaker 6: Please Lord, please, please, don't let nobody sit next to

1409
00:59:01,160 --> 00:59:03,560
Speaker 6: each other. Don't let nobody talk. You know, niggas be

1410
00:59:03,600 --> 00:59:06,600
Speaker 6: at the repass talking about good times. Time start overlapping,

1411
00:59:07,680 --> 00:59:11,360
Speaker 6: time start seven years, seven years.

1412
00:59:12,120 --> 00:59:13,120
Speaker 3: It's always seven.

1413
00:59:13,240 --> 00:59:17,200
Speaker 2: It's always five or seven, depending on what it is,

1414
00:59:17,320 --> 00:59:18,640
Speaker 2: it's five or seven, five or seven.

1415
00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:22,600
Speaker 3: Always it's always seven, seven years ago? Seven which years ago?

1416
00:59:22,920 --> 00:59:25,080
Speaker 2: Which side of y'all family are you more worried about

1417
00:59:25,120 --> 00:59:30,280
Speaker 2: with funerals as far as what shit being exposed or

1418
00:59:30,280 --> 00:59:30,960
Speaker 2: how it's going to go.

1419
00:59:31,440 --> 00:59:35,440
Speaker 3: My mom's side, my DAD'SI my mom's side of the

1420
00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:41,160
Speaker 3: family is certified crazy, certified. Some shit gonna happen at

1421
00:59:41,160 --> 00:59:42,360
Speaker 3: a funeral in my mom's side.

1422
00:59:42,960 --> 00:59:45,840
Speaker 2: My dad's side is going to be louder and more obnoxious,

1423
00:59:47,160 --> 00:59:50,280
Speaker 2: maybe more physical, but everything is going to be fine.

1424
00:59:50,680 --> 00:59:53,480
Speaker 2: My mother's side scares me more because it'll be like yo,

1425
00:59:53,520 --> 00:59:55,680
Speaker 2: you know you touch kids right like, it'll be the

1426
00:59:55,880 --> 01:00:00,920
Speaker 2: very subtle, weird shit that they'll hold. I'm more terrified

1427
01:00:00,920 --> 01:00:02,600
Speaker 2: at my mother's side when it comes to funerals, More

1428
01:00:02,920 --> 01:00:05,480
Speaker 2: more insane shit is gonna come out on her side.

1429
01:00:05,840 --> 01:00:07,840
Speaker 2: My dad's side is gonna be loud, angry, drunk people,

1430
01:00:08,240 --> 01:00:10,200
Speaker 2: and every gonna be fine. After you're gonna hear some

1431
01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:12,960
Speaker 2: dark ship like nobody brought this up when he was alive.

1432
01:00:14,000 --> 01:00:16,320
Speaker 3: I don't know why you ain't here crying about Uncle Teddy.

1433
01:00:17,200 --> 01:00:18,280
Speaker 3: You know what he used to do. You know what?

1434
01:00:20,880 --> 01:00:21,720
Speaker 2: That's my mom's side.

1435
01:00:21,840 --> 01:00:22,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I could see that.

1436
01:00:23,080 --> 01:00:24,720
Speaker 2: I thought we're here to honor him, not bring out

1437
01:00:24,760 --> 01:00:27,240
Speaker 2: his deepest dark you know he's been at every Thanksgiving.

1438
01:00:27,320 --> 01:00:27,760
Speaker 3: What the fuck?

1439
01:00:29,360 --> 01:00:32,200
Speaker 2: So either way, stay away from mister Fred.

1440
01:00:33,160 --> 01:00:35,280
Speaker 3: Nah. Shout out to mister Fred's around the world. Shout

1441
01:00:35,280 --> 01:00:39,640
Speaker 3: out to m taking care of grandmother's in their ladys

1442
01:00:39,680 --> 01:00:49,920
Speaker 3: after this spouse passed away. You've got mail, all right?

1443
01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:52,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, that got dark. Let's let's get to voicemails. Let's

1444
01:00:52,480 --> 01:00:57,000
Speaker 2: do it and of course sponsored by Row Row Sparks

1445
01:00:57,200 --> 01:01:01,120
Speaker 2: ro helps you grow. Can't spell ory without Rowe. I

1446
01:01:01,240 --> 01:01:03,959
Speaker 2: was going crazy and I la with the row Really

1447
01:01:04,440 --> 01:01:07,760
Speaker 2: they was called me Row and it was like, is

1448
01:01:07,760 --> 01:01:09,280
Speaker 2: like no, no, no, it's different. You don't understand.

1449
01:01:09,920 --> 01:01:14,400
Speaker 3: Okay, five, Hey.

1450
01:01:14,320 --> 01:01:16,720
Speaker 4: What's going on? And Marris I enjoyed the show. I'm

1451
01:01:16,720 --> 01:01:21,320
Speaker 4: gonna keep this anonymous. Two part question one, what is

1452
01:01:21,640 --> 01:01:25,959
Speaker 4: the dumbest argument you've had at a relationship? And while

1453
01:01:26,000 --> 01:01:30,320
Speaker 4: I express my dumbest part of argument relationship, let me

1454
01:01:30,400 --> 01:01:34,080
Speaker 4: know if I'm in the right or wrong. So my

1455
01:01:34,240 --> 01:01:36,600
Speaker 4: job got rid of the teleorworks. I go in five

1456
01:01:36,640 --> 01:01:39,320
Speaker 4: years a week now and it just makes sense to

1457
01:01:39,400 --> 01:01:42,320
Speaker 4: join the gym at my job, and ever since I've joined,

1458
01:01:42,720 --> 01:01:44,080
Speaker 4: I go to the gym at least four times a

1459
01:01:44,120 --> 01:01:46,760
Speaker 4: week now. My wife hit me up the other day

1460
01:01:46,880 --> 01:01:48,440
Speaker 4: and was just like, you know, I think you need

1461
01:01:48,520 --> 01:01:51,040
Speaker 4: to either slow down or just stop so you can

1462
01:01:51,080 --> 01:01:55,240
Speaker 4: allow me sometimes just to catch up. But my problem

1463
01:01:55,400 --> 01:02:00,360
Speaker 4: is she has been motivated to work out. Granted I

1464
01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:02,800
Speaker 4: have to stop working out myself, but you know, it

1465
01:02:02,960 --> 01:02:05,400
Speaker 4: was just like, you know, I don't know if there's

1466
01:02:05,640 --> 01:02:07,960
Speaker 4: any type of insecurities for why she would want me

1467
01:02:08,120 --> 01:02:11,000
Speaker 4: to stop or slow down, and yet she's not doing

1468
01:02:11,040 --> 01:02:15,200
Speaker 4: anything herself. I understand that women. I would love Demerius's

1469
01:02:16,120 --> 01:02:18,320
Speaker 4: perspective on this as well, but I understand, you know,

1470
01:02:18,400 --> 01:02:22,760
Speaker 4: women can have some insecurities. I still find my wife's attractive, beautiful,

1471
01:02:23,160 --> 01:02:26,440
Speaker 4: all that, but you know, we definitely bump hands with

1472
01:02:26,560 --> 01:02:28,560
Speaker 4: it because I haven't stopped, but yet she hasn't started,

1473
01:02:29,280 --> 01:02:31,280
Speaker 4: and I just want to know who was in the

1474
01:02:31,360 --> 01:02:33,280
Speaker 4: right or wrong and I have. You know, we do

1475
01:02:33,440 --> 01:02:36,200
Speaker 4: go walking together as a couple. That's good, you know,

1476
01:02:36,240 --> 01:02:37,680
Speaker 4: a couple of times a week when I come home

1477
01:02:37,720 --> 01:02:39,920
Speaker 4: from work, but that's where it stops. So am I

1478
01:02:40,040 --> 01:02:40,560
Speaker 4: right wrong?

1479
01:02:41,080 --> 01:02:42,920
Speaker 3: Let me know ya?

1480
01:02:43,280 --> 01:02:44,480
Speaker 2: Women are the fucking worst.

1481
01:02:44,520 --> 01:02:46,960
Speaker 6: Yeah, you're You're not wrong at all, I know, they say,

1482
01:02:47,160 --> 01:02:49,120
Speaker 6: now I am. Demeris says women are always right, which

1483
01:02:49,120 --> 01:02:51,280
Speaker 6: is not true. But you're not wrong at all. You're

1484
01:02:51,320 --> 01:02:53,680
Speaker 6: doing was best for you and what's best for your body.

1485
01:02:55,400 --> 01:02:57,680
Speaker 6: If she's feeling insecure because you getting finer, and she

1486
01:02:57,760 --> 01:02:59,320
Speaker 6: doesn't like the way that she looked, and that's her

1487
01:02:59,440 --> 01:03:01,120
Speaker 6: problem is she needs to work on that. You can

1488
01:03:01,480 --> 01:03:03,640
Speaker 6: as long as you're being encouraging to her and loving

1489
01:03:03,720 --> 01:03:05,640
Speaker 6: her like you said that you are, which you probably

1490
01:03:05,680 --> 01:03:08,000
Speaker 6: don't even care. If she lose weight that's her thing,

1491
01:03:08,600 --> 01:03:10,960
Speaker 6: then you're doing everything right that you can. You should

1492
01:03:11,040 --> 01:03:13,479
Speaker 6: not stop working out because she hasn't gotten her ass

1493
01:03:13,600 --> 01:03:15,160
Speaker 6: up to do it. Now, if you want to go

1494
01:03:15,320 --> 01:03:17,760
Speaker 6: be super super boyfriend, you can come up with some

1495
01:03:17,880 --> 01:03:20,120
Speaker 6: creative way to motivate her. But that's not your job

1496
01:03:20,160 --> 01:03:22,160
Speaker 6: and that's not on your plate. Nobody is gonna make

1497
01:03:22,200 --> 01:03:24,680
Speaker 6: her lose weight for her, so she needs to get

1498
01:03:24,720 --> 01:03:26,000
Speaker 6: in the gym and do what the fuck she has

1499
01:03:26,080 --> 01:03:28,120
Speaker 6: to do or a risk getting her nigga snatched by

1500
01:03:28,120 --> 01:03:29,360
Speaker 6: it's one of them fine bitches at the gym.

1501
01:03:29,480 --> 01:03:32,920
Speaker 3: I don't know. I'm just saying, if you making it.

1502
01:03:33,720 --> 01:03:35,600
Speaker 6: Sorry, but if you were that worried about him and

1503
01:03:35,720 --> 01:03:39,040
Speaker 6: him looking fine, that's motivation. My motivation is, oh my god,

1504
01:03:39,320 --> 01:03:41,600
Speaker 6: my nigga look mad good. Somebody might snatch him from me.

1505
01:03:41,680 --> 01:03:43,560
Speaker 6: Now I'm getting my ass up and hitting that treadmill.

1506
01:03:44,080 --> 01:03:44,680
Speaker 3: But that's just me.

1507
01:03:44,840 --> 01:03:45,240
Speaker 6: She ain't.

1508
01:03:45,480 --> 01:03:47,880
Speaker 3: She don't want it badly enough, and.

1509
01:03:47,960 --> 01:03:50,080
Speaker 2: I feel like if roles were reversed, she would bring

1510
01:03:50,160 --> 01:03:52,400
Speaker 2: that up in an argument that she'd be at the

1511
01:03:52,440 --> 01:03:54,200
Speaker 2: gym looking great, and you just don't be doing shit.

1512
01:03:55,440 --> 01:03:58,640
Speaker 2: Women suck, I mean, I mean also, you know, maybe

1513
01:03:58,680 --> 01:04:01,480
Speaker 2: he just need to find a way to come to start.

1514
01:04:01,560 --> 01:04:03,720
Speaker 2: Maybe instead of going to the gym, start right then

1515
01:04:03,720 --> 01:04:06,400
Speaker 2: in the house or yeah, at the time that they

1516
01:04:06,480 --> 01:04:08,760
Speaker 2: do their walks, maybe do something a bit more.

1517
01:04:08,640 --> 01:04:11,160
Speaker 3: Than bring the bring the work out to the crib,

1518
01:04:11,240 --> 01:04:14,960
Speaker 3: do something, you know. I mean, but again, when you're

1519
01:04:15,040 --> 01:04:17,520
Speaker 3: married and this is your partner, sure you know what

1520
01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:19,560
Speaker 3: I'm saying. Sometimes you recognize your partner's a little bit

1521
01:04:19,600 --> 01:04:21,880
Speaker 3: of a rut, maybe a little bit of a depression.

1522
01:04:22,520 --> 01:04:24,320
Speaker 3: It's your job to kind of like, you know, ease

1523
01:04:24,360 --> 01:04:26,000
Speaker 3: them out of that, help them out of that, find

1524
01:04:26,040 --> 01:04:28,400
Speaker 3: their way again, find their get their foot up, their

1525
01:04:28,440 --> 01:04:31,520
Speaker 3: footing underneath them again. Maybe she don't want to go

1526
01:04:31,680 --> 01:04:33,800
Speaker 3: to the gym. Maybe that's a stretch, So bring the

1527
01:04:33,880 --> 01:04:35,600
Speaker 3: gym to her, work out in the house, do some

1528
01:04:35,680 --> 01:04:38,640
Speaker 3: things around the house then that to go into you know,

1529
01:04:38,720 --> 01:04:41,080
Speaker 3: let's go for a walk or they doing walk, let's

1530
01:04:41,080 --> 01:04:44,560
Speaker 3: go for a run now. Maybe get the Apple watches

1531
01:04:44,640 --> 01:04:47,880
Speaker 3: and kind of like challenge each other weekly, you know,

1532
01:04:48,000 --> 01:04:49,760
Speaker 3: things like that kind of you know, just just just

1533
01:04:49,840 --> 01:04:51,320
Speaker 3: to let her know, like you're listen, like you know,

1534
01:04:51,680 --> 01:04:53,400
Speaker 3: you're my wife, I love you, you look great. I'm

1535
01:04:53,480 --> 01:04:56,320
Speaker 3: still attracting to you. But like, let's challenge ourselves to like,

1536
01:04:56,400 --> 01:04:59,920
Speaker 3: you know, transition and transform into you know, get a

1537
01:05:00,040 --> 01:05:01,840
Speaker 3: getting into the best shape that we've probably ever been

1538
01:05:01,920 --> 01:05:04,400
Speaker 3: in our lives. Like I think that's you know, there's

1539
01:05:04,440 --> 01:05:07,520
Speaker 3: ways to do it. Maybe it's getting her to actually

1540
01:05:07,640 --> 01:05:09,919
Speaker 3: go to the gym is too much of a jump

1541
01:05:10,040 --> 01:05:13,200
Speaker 3: right now, So reeling in a little bit, start working

1542
01:05:13,240 --> 01:05:13,600
Speaker 3: on their own.

1543
01:05:13,720 --> 01:05:16,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a bunch of apps and sit on YouTube,

1544
01:05:16,120 --> 01:05:17,520
Speaker 2: like just pull that shit up on the TV and

1545
01:05:18,080 --> 01:05:20,720
Speaker 2: start there, Like, just got back from work, Let's take

1546
01:05:20,880 --> 01:05:22,480
Speaker 2: fifteen twenty minutes of most and do this.

1547
01:05:22,600 --> 01:05:24,640
Speaker 3: Because the gym can be intimidating to some people, Like

1548
01:05:24,720 --> 01:05:26,760
Speaker 3: they go, yeah, for sure, and you know it's just

1549
01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:29,160
Speaker 3: like everybody else is in shape and people, you know,

1550
01:05:29,200 --> 01:05:32,360
Speaker 3: are lifting heavier weights and doing more reps and not

1551
01:05:32,560 --> 01:05:34,320
Speaker 3: breathing as heavy as you are and things like that.

1552
01:05:34,960 --> 01:05:37,440
Speaker 3: So yeah, so you know, you start starting starting the

1553
01:05:37,520 --> 01:05:40,400
Speaker 3: house where nobody can see you, Nobody can see you struggling,

1554
01:05:40,440 --> 01:05:42,440
Speaker 3: nobody can see how you look right now, nobody, And

1555
01:05:42,640 --> 01:05:45,360
Speaker 3: then you know, you open it up to getting into

1556
01:05:45,400 --> 01:05:47,280
Speaker 3: the gym and changing it and then do maybe do

1557
01:05:47,440 --> 01:05:50,120
Speaker 3: some fun workouts with her, like maybe go to like,

1558
01:05:50,240 --> 01:05:55,040
Speaker 3: you know, a cool you know, hot yoga class, go

1559
01:05:55,200 --> 01:05:59,480
Speaker 3: to some you know cycling classes. You know they try

1560
01:05:59,520 --> 01:06:01,080
Speaker 3: to make the work got experience fund, go to some

1561
01:06:01,160 --> 01:06:04,560
Speaker 3: cool pilates whatever, something like that. Just make it something

1562
01:06:04,680 --> 01:06:06,720
Speaker 3: that you know, you think your women would be interested

1563
01:06:06,760 --> 01:06:08,560
Speaker 3: in as well, and not just feel like she's going

1564
01:06:08,600 --> 01:06:10,960
Speaker 3: to the gym to work out because she's out of shape.

1565
01:06:11,000 --> 01:06:13,720
Speaker 3: Make it feel like a fun activity, but it's also

1566
01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:15,320
Speaker 3: you know, stringing with some of the body.

1567
01:06:15,560 --> 01:06:17,880
Speaker 6: If you have the extra funds, if you have it,

1568
01:06:17,960 --> 01:06:20,720
Speaker 6: I know most people just don't. But if you have

1569
01:06:20,800 --> 01:06:22,880
Speaker 6: the extra funds, get her a personal trainer as a gift.

1570
01:06:23,520 --> 01:06:29,080
Speaker 3: See hold on, time out what a woman personal trainer?

1571
01:06:30,600 --> 01:06:32,800
Speaker 6: Mall, come on, bro, it doesn't matter a good.

1572
01:06:32,800 --> 01:06:35,840
Speaker 3: It does matter? Does it matter because these personal trainers

1573
01:06:35,840 --> 01:06:36,320
Speaker 3: are nasty?

1574
01:06:36,800 --> 01:06:39,440
Speaker 2: I'm not against you there. Yes, there are a lot

1575
01:06:39,480 --> 01:06:44,960
Speaker 2: of weird, pervy personal trainers. Yeah, never woman, nobody, but

1576
01:06:46,000 --> 01:06:48,760
Speaker 2: personal trainer is a fucking perverse I'm not saying every

1577
01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:50,080
Speaker 2: I'm saying there's.

1578
01:06:49,880 --> 01:06:51,360
Speaker 3: There's definitely I don't even want to say.

1579
01:06:51,400 --> 01:06:55,480
Speaker 2: There's there's the photographers and the the personal trainers. Yes,

1580
01:06:55,560 --> 01:06:57,040
Speaker 2: there's there's a lot of pervs in that business.

1581
01:06:57,120 --> 01:07:00,400
Speaker 3: Get a female trainer. Women know women, they know each

1582
01:07:00,400 --> 01:07:01,840
Speaker 3: other's bodies, they know what they're feeling, they.

1583
01:07:01,880 --> 01:07:06,600
Speaker 6: Know, yes, but women don't. From my experience, I've had both.

1584
01:07:07,320 --> 01:07:10,840
Speaker 6: The man was better for me because he was stricter.

1585
01:07:12,320 --> 01:07:15,160
Speaker 6: He was a stricter and probably because of my relationship

1586
01:07:15,360 --> 01:07:17,520
Speaker 6: with my father, I probably respected his dynamic a little

1587
01:07:17,520 --> 01:07:18,880
Speaker 6: bit more when he would tell me to do stuff

1588
01:07:18,960 --> 01:07:20,520
Speaker 6: like a girl ain't aboud to yell at me.

1589
01:07:20,720 --> 01:07:21,280
Speaker 3: I just can't.

1590
01:07:21,320 --> 01:07:23,160
Speaker 6: You ain't about to yell at me. Fuck you talking

1591
01:07:23,200 --> 01:07:25,240
Speaker 6: to But like when men yell at me, it's like,

1592
01:07:25,240 --> 01:07:27,080
Speaker 6: all right, I hear you.

1593
01:07:27,560 --> 01:07:29,080
Speaker 3: I'll do it. Whatever you're saying. That's dark.

1594
01:07:29,400 --> 01:07:30,240
Speaker 2: That's for mister Fred.

1595
01:07:32,240 --> 01:07:33,439
Speaker 3: That's dark. I just wasn't.

1596
01:07:33,520 --> 01:07:35,560
Speaker 6: I was taught to respect male authority.

1597
01:07:36,080 --> 01:07:36,360
Speaker 3: Were you.

1598
01:07:36,920 --> 01:07:43,600
Speaker 2: I was not your But like I'm paying you, actually

1599
01:07:44,200 --> 01:07:46,600
Speaker 2: I'm actually putting money in you're paying the trainer.

1600
01:07:47,440 --> 01:07:49,760
Speaker 8: The it is what it is.

1601
01:07:50,160 --> 01:07:53,160
Speaker 6: No, I'm just I feel like women will sometimes having

1602
01:07:53,200 --> 01:07:56,400
Speaker 6: a male and also with some women that I've seen.

1603
01:07:56,440 --> 01:07:57,880
Speaker 3: I had a friend that had a personal trainer.

1604
01:07:58,880 --> 01:08:00,600
Speaker 6: It can be you were looking at her body and

1605
01:08:00,680 --> 01:08:02,960
Speaker 6: wondering why her body isn't doing why your body isn't

1606
01:08:03,000 --> 01:08:04,440
Speaker 6: doing what her body is doing, And it can be

1607
01:08:04,600 --> 01:08:06,880
Speaker 6: a distraction. You can feel, you know, you're sitting next

1608
01:08:06,920 --> 01:08:08,040
Speaker 6: to some fine ass one.

1609
01:08:08,000 --> 01:08:10,280
Speaker 3: But that's insecurity. It ain't no training gonna help that.

1610
01:08:10,400 --> 01:08:11,760
Speaker 6: But she's insecure here.

1611
01:08:11,840 --> 01:08:13,720
Speaker 3: So that's why you get a woman training. Girl, I

1612
01:08:13,800 --> 01:08:16,040
Speaker 3: want my body likeye, So then put the fucking potato

1613
01:08:16,120 --> 01:08:19,920
Speaker 3: salad down. Damn I love potato. See that's what I'm saying.

1614
01:08:20,479 --> 01:08:24,599
Speaker 3: But that's why your striations ain't showing. Put the potatoes

1615
01:08:24,960 --> 01:08:27,439
Speaker 3: the muscles right here, like the striations is. You know

1616
01:08:27,600 --> 01:08:32,599
Speaker 3: when it's cut, when it's definition. I'm saying, get your striations.

1617
01:08:32,080 --> 01:08:34,120
Speaker 2: Right, Okay, you just give her packs when anyone like

1618
01:08:34,160 --> 01:08:36,320
Speaker 2: that could have a nice little.

1619
01:08:36,240 --> 01:08:39,599
Speaker 6: Get her a good personal trainer. If she's more comfortable

1620
01:08:39,600 --> 01:08:41,200
Speaker 6: with a woman, that's fine. Get her a good personal

1621
01:08:41,280 --> 01:08:43,400
Speaker 6: trainer if you have the extra funds for it. I

1622
01:08:43,479 --> 01:08:46,200
Speaker 6: think that that's a good. Like you know, because sometimes

1623
01:08:46,240 --> 01:08:49,759
Speaker 6: when your partner is motivating you like, it's tougher because

1624
01:08:49,760 --> 01:08:51,840
Speaker 6: you don't feel like you like if I'm supposed to

1625
01:08:51,880 --> 01:08:53,280
Speaker 6: meet my partner at the gym. I don't feel bad

1626
01:08:53,280 --> 01:08:55,080
Speaker 6: about canceling on them because it's my partner.

1627
01:08:55,160 --> 01:08:55,720
Speaker 3: We live together.

1628
01:08:55,760 --> 01:08:56,840
Speaker 6: It's like I don't want to go out.

1629
01:08:56,840 --> 01:08:57,200
Speaker 3: I want to go.

1630
01:08:57,520 --> 01:08:59,680
Speaker 6: If my partner is paying somebody to be at the

1631
01:08:59,720 --> 01:09:01,160
Speaker 6: gym and they're waiting for me to be there at

1632
01:09:01,200 --> 01:09:03,559
Speaker 6: eight am, it's more motivation of like, fuck, I don't

1633
01:09:03,560 --> 01:09:04,680
Speaker 6: want to go. I don't want to go, but I

1634
01:09:04,880 --> 01:09:05,840
Speaker 6: have to go, and.

1635
01:09:06,160 --> 01:09:07,960
Speaker 2: I find that we'll not the opposite, per say, but

1636
01:09:08,200 --> 01:09:10,280
Speaker 2: if I'm working out with a partner that keeps me

1637
01:09:10,360 --> 01:09:13,439
Speaker 2: more honest with everything, like I can cancel myself. I

1638
01:09:13,600 --> 01:09:16,080
Speaker 2: just be like I'm tired, But if my partner's like

1639
01:09:16,080 --> 01:09:18,320
Speaker 2: we're going at this time, I would feel obligatord to

1640
01:09:18,400 --> 01:09:18,560
Speaker 2: do it.

1641
01:09:18,720 --> 01:09:19,599
Speaker 3: Well yeah, no, for sure.

1642
01:09:19,640 --> 01:09:22,160
Speaker 6: But I'm just talking about in comparison to the personal trainer,

1643
01:09:22,640 --> 01:09:24,560
Speaker 6: Like a person like I can, I can guilt my

1644
01:09:24,600 --> 01:09:26,479
Speaker 6: part like I can be like babybe were really sleepy,

1645
01:09:26,520 --> 01:09:28,240
Speaker 6: have sex with him and go to sleep and neither

1646
01:09:28,240 --> 01:09:30,400
Speaker 6: one of us will feel any guilt. If he's paying

1647
01:09:30,439 --> 01:09:33,160
Speaker 6: a personal trainer is like I have to go make

1648
01:09:33,160 --> 01:09:33,920
Speaker 6: any weapons.

1649
01:09:34,240 --> 01:09:35,600
Speaker 2: No, that's and that's what he You don't want to

1650
01:09:35,600 --> 01:09:38,160
Speaker 2: sleep with them because you want to tonight, we got

1651
01:09:38,280 --> 01:09:40,360
Speaker 2: to go to the gym. That's a form of manipulation

1652
01:09:40,680 --> 01:09:41,920
Speaker 2: and it's.

1653
01:09:41,800 --> 01:09:43,040
Speaker 3: A great minute. They will work on me.

1654
01:09:43,760 --> 01:09:45,320
Speaker 6: Yeah, but that's not I will come in this bitch

1655
01:09:45,360 --> 01:09:47,320
Speaker 6: looking like Tyra Banks exactly.

1656
01:09:47,840 --> 01:09:50,040
Speaker 3: You want me to knock that. Let's get let's knock

1657
01:09:50,080 --> 01:09:52,200
Speaker 3: this work out out and come back in the house

1658
01:09:52,240 --> 01:09:53,839
Speaker 3: and knock headboard.

1659
01:09:53,920 --> 01:09:54,160
Speaker 4: You know what?

1660
01:09:54,240 --> 01:09:56,000
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, what happens when you have sex with him

1661
01:09:56,040 --> 01:09:57,640
Speaker 2: and he still goes to the gym? And I just

1662
01:09:57,680 --> 01:09:59,439
Speaker 2: saw a viral video of a girl with her whole

1663
01:09:59,520 --> 01:10:02,600
Speaker 2: ass shee at the gym. If I'm worried about you,

1664
01:10:02,680 --> 01:10:06,040
Speaker 2: shet not with tights on like she had her ass out.

1665
01:10:06,960 --> 01:10:09,439
Speaker 2: It was damn near a throng and doing that. People

1666
01:10:09,520 --> 01:10:11,720
Speaker 2: trying to go viral on the internet, which I think

1667
01:10:11,760 --> 01:10:14,400
Speaker 2: in mind you she looked good, but that like, what

1668
01:10:14,520 --> 01:10:16,519
Speaker 2: the fuck you doing? Nobody wants to see us in

1669
01:10:16,560 --> 01:10:17,360
Speaker 2: the gym, I.

1670
01:10:17,400 --> 01:10:19,400
Speaker 3: Mean people want to see it. No I don't. I don't.

1671
01:10:24,840 --> 01:10:26,920
Speaker 2: Same same with the Lizzo combo with the Lakers game.

1672
01:10:27,439 --> 01:10:29,840
Speaker 2: Keep your ass cheeks out of pubble at the Lakers

1673
01:10:29,880 --> 01:10:31,799
Speaker 2: game at the gym too. I don't care what your

1674
01:10:31,920 --> 01:10:35,320
Speaker 2: cheeks look good at the gym, like put something on.

1675
01:10:36,160 --> 01:10:39,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, but if she's a physic the ass yeah. What

1676
01:10:39,479 --> 01:10:41,120
Speaker 3: if she's a physic model and she has to see

1677
01:10:41,200 --> 01:10:42,760
Speaker 3: make sure everything is looking she's about to go.

1678
01:10:42,960 --> 01:10:46,400
Speaker 2: No, she was on Live like doing squats with her

1679
01:10:46,439 --> 01:10:50,160
Speaker 2: whole ass out. This is your planet fitness, the funk

1680
01:10:50,240 --> 01:10:50,559
Speaker 2: you doing.

1681
01:10:50,880 --> 01:10:54,760
Speaker 3: Let me know what's planet fit off? Which one?

1682
01:10:55,600 --> 01:10:58,760
Speaker 2: I will tell you that gym off, Mike. But let's

1683
01:10:58,760 --> 01:10:59,920
Speaker 2: get out of here in the meantime so you can

1684
01:11:00,040 --> 01:11:00,439
Speaker 2: make the gym.

1685
01:11:00,800 --> 01:11:02,600
Speaker 3: Let's do that, all right. We'll be back in a

1686
01:11:02,640 --> 01:11:06,360
Speaker 3: couple of days to talk to y'all. Until then, as always,

1687
01:11:06,640 --> 01:11:10,880
Speaker 3: be safe, be blessed. I'm that nigga, he's just ginger peace,

1688
01:11:11,560 --> 01:11:12,840
Speaker 3: no Wien.