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Speaker 5: Hello, beautiful people, Welcome to another episode of the Truth

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Speaker 5: after Dark.

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Speaker 4: I am your host czar for a day.

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Speaker 2: I'm your boy the Truth Truth.

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Speaker 5: You don't have the feed out tonight. Tonight they said,

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Speaker 5: how many likes for Padaka.

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Speaker 4: Get his feeding?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: No, no, it depends like I like my shoes is comfortable,

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Speaker 1: So I need to give me some nice little slippers though, yeah, show.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So if anybody wants to send Paul some nice

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Speaker 2: What brands is out there?

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Speaker 4: Send me some slippers everything?

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Speaker 5: So we have to obviously discuss the fact that fifty

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Speaker 2: Nobody gets one hundred they do.

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Speaker 4: I have one hundred fifty thousand likes.

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Speaker 2: Damn, all right, we don't have to run it up.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, all right, we still got time.

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Speaker 4: We have some time.

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Speaker 5: We're going to see I'm grateful that I said one

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Speaker 1: You should have said somebody. I said somebody. You could

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Speaker 4: You're right, You're right, you're right. So anyways, that's cool.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna get there. Were pushing right now. We are

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Speaker 5: Okay, So anyways, Rapper Freddy Gibbs was asked, okay, yeah,

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Speaker 5: he was asked recently, what's his biggest money, regret, and

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Speaker 4: Do you believe that most men have this mindset?

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Speaker 1: I mean I think most successful men, you know, spend

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Speaker 5: But wife is not a hole. He said, hoes. He's

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Speaker 5: It's different to as like a woman that you're with,

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Speaker 1: No guys that just flew like man. Twenty girls out

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Speaker 5: But if you are dating a girl and immediately her

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Speaker 5: Well, if you can't do the basic thing, that's for yourself.

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Speaker 5: If you are meeting just now meeting a woman and

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Speaker 2: It's a different climate now.

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Speaker 1: We live in a generation to where most successful men

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Speaker 2: It's like we buying love. Now. It's like the dam

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Speaker 1: It ain't really a lot of stories out there of

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Speaker 1: Like I hear about like what Gucci man the girl

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Speaker 4: Oh, I hear a lot of stories like that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, those stories are cracking and they're not being glorified enough.

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Speaker 2: I think we need to bring more of those stories

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Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, because you know, women get such a bad

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Speaker 5: Well in this relationship, I see, like, you know, a

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Speaker 4: She knows this, she knows that or she doesn't. So

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Speaker 4: I'm just give you some money while you just go

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Speaker 5: Like we're not going to open up a whole business

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Speaker 4: People didn't have that all the time. So it's okay.

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Speaker 5: You just have to be smart about your investments and

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Speaker 2: None of these girls want to work.

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Speaker 1: They just want to get it fast, they want to

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Speaker 1: But there's a lot of ways to make brand now

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Speaker 5: Yeah, there's so many avenues and there's so many things,

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Speaker 4: That I think that's the message here.

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Speaker 5: It's not the married first of all, that should it's

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Speaker 4: That's crazy.

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Speaker 5: So anyways, do you think that we should give our

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Speaker 2: Little kid ship. That's public embarrassing.

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Speaker 4: She did it in front of him, Yeah, she jumped

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Speaker 1: Your damn mind caused you to jump on stage with

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Speaker 2: Are you out? Did you lose your damn mind?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 5: Now, what if like Usher did his performance and he

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Speaker 5: No but what do you what do you think about

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Speaker 5: the little cherry.

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00:20:15,320 --> 00:20:16,600
Speaker 2: Us should come over for the cherry?

445
00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:19,720
Speaker 5: Is that more disrespectful to you if you're right there

446
00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:22,000
Speaker 5: or if you're at home, Like, let's say you're not

447
00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:23,040
Speaker 5: there and.

448
00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:25,480
Speaker 2: She does it, Man, she better say, next girl with.

449
00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:27,399
Speaker 4: That cherry, either if you're there or if.

450
00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:29,720
Speaker 2: You're right there, next girl with the cherry?

451
00:20:29,840 --> 00:20:35,040
Speaker 1: What if you're not there, next girl with the cherry?

452
00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:37,200
Speaker 2: They are not there. You gotta respect me if I'm

453
00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:38,480
Speaker 2: there or not. What's the difference.

454
00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:38,920
Speaker 3: Now?

455
00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:42,040
Speaker 5: What if you're in a situation where they're call you

456
00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:45,679
Speaker 5: up on stage you didn't even know, and the girl,

457
00:20:45,800 --> 00:20:48,119
Speaker 5: the singer just starts to like grind on, you do

458
00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:48,600
Speaker 5: all of this?

459
00:20:48,760 --> 00:20:49,400
Speaker 4: What are you doing?

460
00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:57,000
Speaker 1: My chick cannot go on the stage.

461
00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:57,840
Speaker 5: If you're what if someone calls you on stage and

462
00:20:57,880 --> 00:21:01,080
Speaker 5: you don't know what it's for and it's a concert

463
00:21:01,359 --> 00:21:04,840
Speaker 5: and it's a woman singing Maya whoever something.

464
00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:09,119
Speaker 4: You're not gonna do that. You're gonna be like, no.

465
00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:09,920
Speaker 2: No, no, unless she called on a gang of people

466
00:21:09,920 --> 00:21:10,720
Speaker 2: and we're just gonna be up there.

467
00:21:12,480 --> 00:21:14,480
Speaker 5: What does she called a gang of people? And but

468
00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:16,600
Speaker 5: she grabbed you to sit in a chair and started

469
00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:17,159
Speaker 5: getting it.

470
00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:20,640
Speaker 4: What are you doing? I'm gonna sit there and you're

471
00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:21,199
Speaker 4: gonna get it.

472
00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:23,399
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna be sitting there. I'm not getting that.

473
00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:24,159
Speaker 2: I'm just sitting there.

474
00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:25,960
Speaker 4: I don't know what. He starts grinding on you.

475
00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:29,080
Speaker 5: So that's not more disrespectful than a woman doing with that.

476
00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:32,280
Speaker 4: So how do you get show? It's a show? Then

477
00:21:32,320 --> 00:21:33,240
Speaker 4: I can do the cherry.

478
00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:34,200
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no.

479
00:21:34,119 --> 00:21:35,320
Speaker 4: It's a show.

480
00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:36,760
Speaker 2: I didn't know she was gonna do that. You saw

481
00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:38,320
Speaker 2: the cherry come. I thought I was just sitting there.

482
00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:41,280
Speaker 5: So now your woman goes on stage with a bunch

483
00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:44,160
Speaker 5: of other women. Chris Brown's performing. But then he sits

484
00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:49,320
Speaker 5: her down and he started, Okay, it's not Chris, it's whoever.

485
00:21:49,840 --> 00:21:52,400
Speaker 5: Like just any artist that we don't know that that's

486
00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:56,840
Speaker 5: gonna happen. Jenuine whoever, she goes up on stage, it's

487
00:21:56,880 --> 00:21:59,200
Speaker 5: a bunch of women, and you're like, yeah, go baby,

488
00:21:59,240 --> 00:21:59,520
Speaker 5: hit it.

489
00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:01,800
Speaker 4: And then she that he sits her down, so that's fine.

490
00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:03,639
Speaker 4: He starts grinding her. She didn't look at me.

491
00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:04,800
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be in the stands and I'm.

492
00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:08,080
Speaker 5: Be like and so, but you're not gonna go sit down?

493
00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:12,200
Speaker 5: When when when the girl starts grinding on you gonna happen.

494
00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:13,480
Speaker 5: She didn't know that was gonna happen.

495
00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:15,040
Speaker 2: What's the difference from being at the strip club?

496
00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:15,199
Speaker 1: Is that?

497
00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:19,600
Speaker 4: Okay, the point is, yeah, she.

498
00:22:19,560 --> 00:22:20,399
Speaker 2: Ain't taking her clothes.

499
00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:23,720
Speaker 4: It's embarrassing. It's embarrassing.

500
00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:26,639
Speaker 5: I'm never watching my man up there getting grinded on

501
00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:29,040
Speaker 5: by another woman on stage in front of all these people.

502
00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:32,080
Speaker 4: That's embarrassing. I didn't know that the man was.

503
00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:35,240
Speaker 2: I can't tell her like move like in front.

504
00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:38,120
Speaker 5: Of millions exactly, So I can't tell a grown man

505
00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:39,160
Speaker 5: to move.

506
00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:40,680
Speaker 2: No, you can't go on the stage.

507
00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:43,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, if it's a bunch of women, we're all going up.

508
00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:45,960
Speaker 2: So choose another girl, Hey, get her, take her.

509
00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:48,320
Speaker 4: Then you choose another man, you tell him sit down.

510
00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:50,200
Speaker 2: I didn't know what that was gonna happen.

511
00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:52,280
Speaker 4: He didn't know it wasna.

512
00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:55,200
Speaker 2: Men more likely to do it than women. You know that.

513
00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:58,679
Speaker 5: No, women, lind On men Jeanne Jackson from back in

514
00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:03,560
Speaker 5: the day, back in I'm talking about that now, everyone, Kalani.

515
00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:06,920
Speaker 5: They always bring people upstairs. No, they always do that period,

516
00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:07,359
Speaker 5: point blank.

517
00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:10,560
Speaker 4: Like so many people do that.

518
00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:12,440
Speaker 1: That's usually planned out. They know who they're gonna pick.

519
00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:15,480
Speaker 1: He probably part of the show. No, it ain't random.

520
00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:16,160
Speaker 4: You're you.

521
00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:19,199
Speaker 5: You are a double standard ass person, and that's what

522
00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:20,000
Speaker 5: I've learned with you.

523
00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:20,920
Speaker 2: And I don't like that.

524
00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:24,919
Speaker 4: That's crazy, but you know whatever, at the end of

525
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:26,520
Speaker 4: the day, it is what it is.

526
00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:29,520
Speaker 5: I think it's it's disrespectful, regardless. I don't think it's

527
00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:32,000
Speaker 5: more disrespectful if a woman does it then a man

528
00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:34,480
Speaker 5: does it. It's just not more disrespectful to me, Perier

529
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Speaker 2: I like it.

534
00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:56,040
Speaker 4: Okay, so this is crazy. So there's a viral clip.

535
00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:58,720
Speaker 5: Or whatever of this woman on a podcast, right and

536
00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:00,919
Speaker 5: she says she doesn't want a man who has a

537
00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:04,680
Speaker 5: sister or a living mother because she said that that's

538
00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:05,680
Speaker 5: a deal breaker for her.

539
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:08,400
Speaker 2: She doesn't or a living mother.

540
00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:10,840
Speaker 5: Because she doesn't like another woman that cares for her

541
00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:12,600
Speaker 5: man deeper than her so deeply.

542
00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:14,800
Speaker 4: That's crazy.

543
00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:16,400
Speaker 2: Maybe she's been through something with that.

544
00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:21,000
Speaker 5: No, but that's ridiculous, though. I think that's so horrible

545
00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:25,320
Speaker 5: to say, Like what kind of level of insecurity or whatever.

546
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:26,879
Speaker 5: I don't know what you want to call that. Do

547
00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:30,000
Speaker 5: you have to have to say I don't want somebody

548
00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 5: who has a living mother or a sister.

549
00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:37,200
Speaker 1: I think a girl like that is really like has

550
00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:39,600
Speaker 1: to be like a masculine type of woman or a

551
00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:44,280
Speaker 1: controlling type of woman, because like unless you're gonna be

552
00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:46,720
Speaker 1: with him the rest of your life, you know, like

553
00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:49,359
Speaker 1: relationships come and go, so like when I break up

554
00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:52,800
Speaker 1: with you, I don't have like you don't want me

555
00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:56,200
Speaker 1: to like go back and take advice from my mama

556
00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:59,960
Speaker 1: or have that love for my sister and things like that.

557
00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:04,960
Speaker 1: It sounds like, I don't know, it just sounds like

558
00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:07,520
Speaker 1: something like you you want to be the only woman

559
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:08,120
Speaker 1: in his life.

560
00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:10,280
Speaker 4: Yes, that's what she's exactly what she said.

561
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 5: Who cares so like deeply listen And first of all,

562
00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:17,720
Speaker 5: you can't just go to like when people are in

563
00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:18,800
Speaker 5: a relationship, they're dating.

564
00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:22,320
Speaker 2: To me, they can have girlfriends either girls that are friends.

565
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:24,480
Speaker 5: I mean, I don't think that men should have Hello

566
00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:27,119
Speaker 5: girlfriends that they're chopping up with and best friends of women.

567
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:28,399
Speaker 4: I don't mess with that period.

568
00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:29,919
Speaker 5: Just like a man don't want me to have no

569
00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:31,480
Speaker 5: Hello homeboys and want to lunch.

570
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:34,040
Speaker 4: That's I'm not cool with that.

571
00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:38,199
Speaker 5: Sister, family, cousins, I don't care like you should have that.

572
00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:40,160
Speaker 5: I want that and maybe I could be cool with them,

573
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:42,560
Speaker 5: you know, Like I love I love someone who has

574
00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:44,520
Speaker 5: like a sister or mom that I can get bowed

575
00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:47,520
Speaker 5: up with. Like for me, I love family. The idea

576
00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:50,800
Speaker 5: of family is like everything to me. And I'm really

577
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:53,879
Speaker 5: big on like villages and like building your village and

578
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:55,560
Speaker 5: village politics and having that.

579
00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:58,840
Speaker 4: So for me, like I've always loved dating.

580
00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:01,480
Speaker 5: A man who has family and a big family that

581
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:03,600
Speaker 5: I can like be involved in, you know, because it

582
00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:06,159
Speaker 5: just feels like it feels good, especially if it's a

583
00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:09,720
Speaker 5: sister like I was best friends with my ex sister.

584
00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:12,960
Speaker 5: Best friends like yeah, going to Pilate's kicking it all

585
00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:15,119
Speaker 5: the time every day, and like even when I was

586
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:17,439
Speaker 5: going through with him, she was great to give me

587
00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:19,920
Speaker 5: advice because she knew both of us, but knew him

588
00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:22,760
Speaker 5: and would just be like no, Like she stopped us

589
00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:27,360
Speaker 5: from like getting into major like breakups multiple times. But

590
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:30,480
Speaker 5: the sown side of that is if you do break up, like,

591
00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:32,720
Speaker 5: the goal is always if I'm dating someone, I want

592
00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 5: to be with you for the rest of my life, right,

593
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:37,720
Speaker 5: I mean I didn't always feel that, but like you know,

594
00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:40,400
Speaker 5: that's so.

595
00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:43,080
Speaker 4: That's what happened when we broke up. She told me

596
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 4: that he.

597
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:46,119
Speaker 5: Wasn't comfortable with us having a friendship anyone because I

598
00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:48,960
Speaker 5: was killing hand and I agree with that, but it

599
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:52,239
Speaker 5: hurt because I broke up with you and you like,

600
00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:55,640
Speaker 5: I'm losing two people. So that was and the kid

601
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:58,199
Speaker 5: like and I'm close to your kids, like that was

602
00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:01,919
Speaker 5: a whole like kids the sister like that was like

603
00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 5: heart wrenching because I'm like, damn, I just lost.

604
00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:06,720
Speaker 4: A whole family and the mama.

605
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:10,120
Speaker 5: Everybody, you know what I'm saying, Like, and that's tough part.

606
00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 5: But I don't regret it, because I still feel like

607
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 5: that felt so amazing during the time, you know, like

608
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 5: I want that and I love that, you know. So

609
00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:22,159
Speaker 5: I think that's just some like weird insecurity stuff or

610
00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:24,440
Speaker 5: like some weird you know, I.

611
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:28,240
Speaker 4: Don't know, sounds. Yeah, it just sounds like you just

612
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:28,720
Speaker 4: want to be.

613
00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:30,600
Speaker 1: The only woman in his life. And these is not

614
00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 1: even like girl friends. These are family, like a mom though. Damn,

615
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:38,840
Speaker 1: that's crazy. So I'm looking for an old man. How

616
00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:40,200
Speaker 1: old is she?

617
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:45,560
Speaker 5: She looked like she was my age, like thirty five. Yeah, yeah,

618
00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:49,679
Speaker 5: so I don't know, Like, yeah, so I mean she

619
00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:51,880
Speaker 5: doesn't necessarily have to be looking for an old man.

620
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, older man. Most older men who don't have a sister.

621
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:57,720
Speaker 1: Most a lot of older men in their forties don't

622
00:27:57,720 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 1: have their mom.

623
00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:01,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, I can see that, you know what I'm saying. Yeah,

624
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:02,960
Speaker 4: so that's tough.

625
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:05,920
Speaker 5: Like I personally feel like that's fucked up to even say,

626
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:07,879
Speaker 5: you know, I wouldn't.

627
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:12,080
Speaker 4: I don't like that at all. Anyways.

628
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:16,959
Speaker 5: So woman advises, and what do you think about this?

629
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 5: That you shouldn't tell your man and everything because they'll

630
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:21,800
Speaker 5: use it against you, Like, don't tell your man about

631
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:24,720
Speaker 5: the past. Traumas and your relationships are the hard things

632
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 5: that you've been through in life, because what they'll do

633
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:32,160
Speaker 5: is they'll use it as at AMMO to weaponize your past. Yeah,

634
00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:34,520
Speaker 5: because I've heard this a lot, Like even I've had

635
00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:37,480
Speaker 5: this advice given to me, like don't tell your man

636
00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:40,440
Speaker 5: about all the men who hurt you, right, because then

637
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:42,240
Speaker 5: they're gonna just look at you and be like, Okay,

638
00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:45,160
Speaker 5: well now I know how to manipulate you. Would hurt you,

639
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:48,720
Speaker 5: I know what works to make you feel Like I

640
00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 5: think as women, we tell men these these problems because

641
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 5: we're like, please don't hurt me like this, you know,

642
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:57,640
Speaker 5: like this is so hard, Please don't do this to me.

643
00:28:57,800 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 5: And then a lot of the time they do that

644
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:03,560
Speaker 5: plus worse, and you're like, damn, you know, you knew

645
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:04,360
Speaker 5: what I've been through.

646
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:07,840
Speaker 4: You knew that I had this going on, and now

647
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:11,400
Speaker 4: you're just like weaponizing it or using it to manipulate me.

648
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:16,960
Speaker 4: Manipulate Yeah, Like if you know my weakness is, you know,

649
00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:18,479
Speaker 4: like you know my weakness is.

650
00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:22,680
Speaker 1: Every man should know his woman's weaknesses and strengths like

651
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:28,200
Speaker 1: each other's. Yeah, but like what is a weakness, Like

652
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 1: what is that? Like if I say a certain thing,

653
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 1: you're gonna cry or go into a depression, like what

654
00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:35,800
Speaker 1: is the weakness?

655
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 5: Like I mean, it's just like you can tell them

656
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:40,960
Speaker 5: like I had issues with my mom or this or that,

657
00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:42,960
Speaker 5: or I had this, and then a man could be like,

658
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:45,680
Speaker 5: well do you like you know, like people just say

659
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:49,480
Speaker 5: slip you know what I mean? And it's like it's

660
00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:51,560
Speaker 5: hard because you want to be vulnerable with someone and

661
00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 5: you want to trust them, right, but you don't want

662
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:57,280
Speaker 5: that to be weaponized against you in weak moments where

663
00:29:57,280 --> 00:30:00,200
Speaker 5: it's like yo, like why you even bring that up

664
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:02,280
Speaker 5: right now? Like that has nothing to do with it,

665
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:04,440
Speaker 5: Like you know, and I think that.

666
00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:07,600
Speaker 1: That's I think I know something I've done that I

667
00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:11,240
Speaker 1: think before and it was wrong. I think I have

668
00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:13,800
Speaker 1: you something against somebody. It was just like when I

669
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 1: was in a relationship and you know, the mom would

670
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:19,120
Speaker 1: be around and you see how the mom move and

671
00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:21,240
Speaker 1: how her behavior is. And then when the mammy and

672
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:24,720
Speaker 1: around and they relationship wasn't all that, you know, and

673
00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:26,920
Speaker 1: then I'll be like you just like your mama couldn't

674
00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:30,640
Speaker 1: stand that, could not stand me saying that, and it

675
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:32,280
Speaker 1: was just like, damn, that's what you're going to grow

676
00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:35,480
Speaker 1: into Like damn, is that weaponizing that?

677
00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:38,440
Speaker 4: Like, I mean, that's a little different. I think.

678
00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:41,720
Speaker 2: I think I couldn't stand me to say that though.

679
00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:44,000
Speaker 5: Yeah I get that, but I think it's more say too,

680
00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:47,600
Speaker 5: like if I'm going through something and it's like me

681
00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:49,720
Speaker 5: and my mom were close growing up, and you're like,

682
00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:53,720
Speaker 5: well that's why, Like I understand that's probably because you

683
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 5: and your mom were close, so you don't get like

684
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:57,280
Speaker 5: da da da, like you know how you throw something

685
00:30:57,440 --> 00:31:00,040
Speaker 5: or like I was, Oh, that's because you know you

686
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 5: were That's why I see why your ex slapped you,

687
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:08,600
Speaker 5: like like like you know what I'm saying, Like it's

688
00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 5: different to be like I could see y'all have similarities

689
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 5: versus like yeah, okay, I see see I need I

690
00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:17,719
Speaker 5: see why that man fucked you up like something like

691
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:23,160
Speaker 5: that or like yeah that's like whoa, like you're blowing

692
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:26,160
Speaker 5: me like or whatever the case is, is like trying

693
00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:30,000
Speaker 5: to weaponize your past against you, like oh, yeah, I

694
00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:31,920
Speaker 5: see why you and your mom didn't have a close

695
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 5: relationship because maybe or like the little like patronizing things

696
00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 5: like well maybe you see it like that because you

697
00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:40,480
Speaker 5: know obviously you weren't close with your mom. She didn't

698
00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:42,720
Speaker 5: fuck with you, so like you probably are not as

699
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:48,280
Speaker 5: confident or like they understand like insecurity, like you understand

700
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:50,960
Speaker 5: my insecurity of why I went like this. So now

701
00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:53,960
Speaker 5: you're like, oh, you can use it against somebody if

702
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:58,200
Speaker 5: you're with the wrong man, because man can easily listen.

703
00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:00,440
Speaker 5: I know, I seen this. You could be the most

704
00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 5: powerful woman in the world, meaning you have a great

705
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:06,120
Speaker 5: like career. You're a boss, you could be a lawyer,

706
00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:08,760
Speaker 5: you could be a psychologist, you could be a therapist.

707
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 5: I've seen the most the women in the most high

708
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:14,240
Speaker 5: career is very smart, multiple degrees get.

709
00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:15,200
Speaker 4: Manipulated by a man.

710
00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:18,760
Speaker 5: And usually it's the ones that are the smartest that

711
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:22,600
Speaker 5: get manipulated by a man because that's a woman's weakness

712
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:25,800
Speaker 5: a man. And so for a woman, it's like protect

713
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:29,240
Speaker 5: yourself because if you're just putting all of that out

714
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:31,560
Speaker 5: there before you really know see, women will come off

715
00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:33,360
Speaker 5: the bat and be like this happened to me, This

716
00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:35,320
Speaker 5: happened from the beginning, and it's like you don't even

717
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:37,800
Speaker 5: know this man yet, yeah, you know what I mean,

718
00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:40,360
Speaker 5: And they're just at the first day, like my axe,

719
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:41,960
Speaker 5: he cheated and lied.

720
00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 1: And but that's hard to hold back because, like when

721
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:46,880
Speaker 1: you're starting to get to know somebody, it's a lot

722
00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:50,120
Speaker 1: of questions asked. You starting to be around somebody so much,

723
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 1: you start asking you know a lot of like about

724
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 1: their vulnerabilities and stuff. So it's hard, Like when you

725
00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:59,120
Speaker 1: start really liking somebody, that is why turn into love?

726
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:02,120
Speaker 1: How do you not give a lot of stuff?

727
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 2: You know?

728
00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:07,000
Speaker 1: How do you not give them a piece of like

729
00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:11,840
Speaker 1: something that's close to you? You know, that's what love is.

730
00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:13,960
Speaker 1: You just started, Like when y'all just sitting down the

731
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 1: couch or on the bed dinner, you just be talking

732
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:19,120
Speaker 1: about your past or or do it what you're gonna

733
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:21,960
Speaker 1: say about guys that he asks about, Like when y'all

734
00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:23,600
Speaker 1: in that face like dn you know I used to

735
00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:25,880
Speaker 1: talk to who? How did that go? Why did y'all end?

736
00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:28,040
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? And you ask the vice

737
00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:30,080
Speaker 1: versus them questions like how was that? How long was

738
00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:33,240
Speaker 1: your longest relationship? How did that end? Where'd y'all meet?

739
00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:35,360
Speaker 1: And you know a lot of those questions get asked,

740
00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:38,440
Speaker 1: and so that's when those conversations just being had, that's

741
00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 1: when you know, you start hearing about things that went

742
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 1: wrong or went right. And you get a chance to like,

743
00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:47,040
Speaker 1: all right, let me tuck that in, let me put

744
00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:50,560
Speaker 1: that in a foul sheet. And then when the arguments

745
00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:54,440
Speaker 1: start happening, you start pulling stuff out, and.

746
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:54,640
Speaker 4: That's not cool.

747
00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 2: It's cool.

748
00:33:55,880 --> 00:34:00,239
Speaker 5: I'm not ever gonna be weaponizing someone's past, and like her,

749
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 5: you start saying shit, yeah, that's why you get you

750
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:03,160
Speaker 5: can't say.

751
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:08,040
Speaker 1: You know, y'all, you can't poke somebody. Every time you

752
00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:10,520
Speaker 1: can't poke the pair, you can't continue to It can

753
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:12,319
Speaker 1: get toxic the more and more you do that.

754
00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:14,440
Speaker 5: You know, well, I think that you have to be

755
00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:17,400
Speaker 5: careful about what you say in relationships because relationships is

756
00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:19,600
Speaker 5: like an apple. Once you take a bite out of it,

757
00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:22,200
Speaker 5: you don't get that piece back. It's not gonna go.

758
00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:24,040
Speaker 5: You can say something. My sister telling me this is

759
00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:26,439
Speaker 5: a long time ago. You have to be careful about

760
00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:28,799
Speaker 5: saying things out of anger because although the person will

761
00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:32,279
Speaker 5: apologize to you, I mean they'll forgive you, they'll never

762
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:35,360
Speaker 5: forget what you said to that You're always gonna remember

763
00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 5: you said to them about that. And that always stuck

764
00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:40,120
Speaker 5: with me when she told me that, because I'm like

765
00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:42,959
Speaker 5: very careful now, First of all, for me, it takes

766
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:45,560
Speaker 5: a lot for me to get angry, Like it's a

767
00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:48,960
Speaker 5: lot for me to be like just so mad, Like

768
00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:51,239
Speaker 5: a lot of people have not seen me mad like that.

769
00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:54,560
Speaker 5: And for me, like I tend to just be like,

770
00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 5: you know what, I need to breathe, I need to

771
00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:58,319
Speaker 5: close off because I don't want to say nothing, you know,

772
00:34:58,480 --> 00:34:59,960
Speaker 5: but it takes a lot for me to get there.

773
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:00,719
Speaker 4: Anyways.

774
00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:02,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's being a lot of times what we call

775
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:08,839
Speaker 1: that like emotional immaturity or something or so like yeah,

776
00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:11,640
Speaker 1: it's just it's tough when you're get in the arguments

777
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:14,880
Speaker 1: because like you don't want to grab your partner and

778
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:17,680
Speaker 1: do something that's gonna regret something, but then you say

779
00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:19,000
Speaker 1: something you regret.

780
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:22,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, and that's saying something is hurtful, like and that

781
00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:25,839
Speaker 5: shit sticks with you, like you can hear something and

782
00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:28,520
Speaker 5: it just will eat you up and you're always remember

783
00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:30,359
Speaker 5: and it could be a small thing that you say,

784
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:33,879
Speaker 5: but it's just like damn right, and then every time

785
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:36,719
Speaker 5: something about that like around that you go back to

786
00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:39,880
Speaker 5: that like damn you said that, Like that really hurting.

787
00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:42,960
Speaker 5: That must be how you really feel, because people tend

788
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:45,879
Speaker 5: to say how they feel when they're angry or when

789
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:49,319
Speaker 5: they're drunk. Like you know, people just say things that

790
00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:49,759
Speaker 5: they feel.

791
00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:51,719
Speaker 1: I think people when they're angry are drunk, they're gonna

792
00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:55,239
Speaker 1: say things to maybe not how they feel, but they

793
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:58,680
Speaker 1: want it like a body blow and want to hurt.

794
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:00,480
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

795
00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:02,480
Speaker 1: Maybe they don't feel like that, but they when you

796
00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:04,960
Speaker 1: mad at each other, you'll say something to hurt your

797
00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:07,440
Speaker 1: partner when you're really mad at him. And I don't

798
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:09,040
Speaker 1: necessarily think it's always the truth.

799
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:13,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, I can see that for sure. Yeah, for sure,

800
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:16,359
Speaker 5: that's hurtful. I don't like shit like that.

801
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:18,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, you try to because it's like y'all

802
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:21,440
Speaker 1: hurting each other right now, right now, we throwing jabs

803
00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:24,680
Speaker 1: at each other. Might not mean it, you know, but

804
00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:25,240
Speaker 1: it's hurtful.

805
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 5: I don't think I do the jab throwing though I'm

806
00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:30,840
Speaker 5: not good at that. That one's a hard one for

807
00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:33,719
Speaker 5: me because I don't want to intentionally hurt anybody like

808
00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:37,960
Speaker 5: that's when you're mad, Yeah, you says, yeah, I get that.

809
00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:44,919
Speaker 5: So anyways, moving on. Chrissy Teagan, which is John Legend's wife. Yeah,

810
00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:49,160
Speaker 5: she said that the reason her relationship and her marriage

811
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:53,000
Speaker 5: stays alive is because she hides the un sexy moments

812
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:55,919
Speaker 5: from her husband, meaning like, for all he knows, I've

813
00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:57,720
Speaker 5: never pooped or farted.

814
00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:00,400
Speaker 2: Damn, that's crazy.

815
00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:04,440
Speaker 5: As she's saying, like she unless it's like in her sleep,

816
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:08,440
Speaker 5: she knew none of that. And she's not like trying

817
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 5: to be like unsexy in front of him, burping or

818
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:15,960
Speaker 5: all that. Like She's like, I'm keeping it super like sexy.

819
00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:17,880
Speaker 1: At all times. That's hard to do when you live

820
00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:20,279
Speaker 1: with a lot. How do you do that? How do

821
00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:22,040
Speaker 1: you not just let one go on the couch.

822
00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:24,799
Speaker 4: No, I'm not doing that ever.

823
00:37:24,920 --> 00:37:28,240
Speaker 5: I've never done that unless I'm asleep.

824
00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:31,759
Speaker 4: I promise you I'm never doing that.

825
00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:34,360
Speaker 5: I mean, I've been living with someone for five years

826
00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:36,560
Speaker 5: and I will never just fart in front of him,

827
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:37,760
Speaker 5: Like that's crazy.

828
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:39,480
Speaker 2: You ain't going to take a ship in front of him?

829
00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:42,799
Speaker 5: No, No, I in front of them like I mean,

830
00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:45,439
Speaker 5: like yes, I will be like whoa, I my step up, girls,

831
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:47,120
Speaker 5: I have to go to that. But I'm not going

832
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 5: to be like, yes, I'm just taking a ship, like

833
00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:50,760
Speaker 5: I'm going to take a ship.

834
00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:53,320
Speaker 2: Like I'm not feel if you was taking the deuce

835
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:54,520
Speaker 2: and he walked.

836
00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:56,880
Speaker 4: Over the like hey, I mean that's happened I lived.

837
00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:59,200
Speaker 2: With a man, Like is that kind of like how

838
00:37:59,200 --> 00:37:59,640
Speaker 2: do you feel?

839
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:04,680
Speaker 5: I just be like they like concentrate her to concentrate,

840
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:05,920
Speaker 5: Like are you taking that?

841
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:07,960
Speaker 2: Dude? You want the most relaxed set, and you just

842
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:09,000
Speaker 2: want to be relaxed, and.

843
00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:10,880
Speaker 4: I just don't want like what are you in here?

844
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:14,360
Speaker 5: Like I need a minute, Like don't just come in here,

845
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:16,799
Speaker 5: Like that's crazy. Like if I'm taking a shower, yes,

846
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:20,640
Speaker 5: come in like if I'm just rush, but like if

847
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 5: I'm doing this and like, but then it's like if

848
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:26,680
Speaker 5: a man is then it's kind of different because you're

849
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:29,040
Speaker 5: just like men don't care, you know what I mean?

850
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 4: Like men just fart.

851
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:34,400
Speaker 1: Don't care to come in here when I'm taking the

852
00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 1: dude sto because it's almost like prayer.

853
00:38:37,120 --> 00:38:39,680
Speaker 2: You want to be left alone. You want silence, you

854
00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:40,200
Speaker 2: want to just.

855
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 5: Be I don't want to be there with anyone take

856
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:45,600
Speaker 5: like I'm very sensitive to like different smells, Like I

857
00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:47,760
Speaker 5: don't want to be in there when anyone.

858
00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:50,160
Speaker 2: Come in there, like whoa, Like what you're gonna do?

859
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:50,760
Speaker 4: WHOA?

860
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:52,920
Speaker 2: I didn't know you could bring that smell out?

861
00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:58,759
Speaker 4: Girl, don't got to change. Don't come in here. Don't

862
00:38:58,800 --> 00:38:59,880
Speaker 4: not come in here.

863
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:00,920
Speaker 3: God damn.

864
00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:03,600
Speaker 5: I think I believe in what she's saying because I

865
00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:06,200
Speaker 5: feel like, for me, you're gonna slip up or something's

866
00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:07,920
Speaker 5: gonna happen. But I think for the most part, I

867
00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:11,920
Speaker 5: don't want my man to be seeing that like that,

868
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:14,840
Speaker 5: Like I just don't think it's necessary. Like I was

869
00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:17,759
Speaker 5: talking to Heather and Terrell about this, and Heather was like,

870
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:19,600
Speaker 5: I fart in front of him all the time. I

871
00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 5: don't give a damn, And she was like, but he

872
00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:23,719
Speaker 5: will not fart in front of me or in front

873
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:26,759
Speaker 5: of me, So it's like opposite for them. Me personally,

874
00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:29,400
Speaker 5: I'm not faring in front of no man unless, like

875
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:33,120
Speaker 5: I said, it's out of my coun draw or like

876
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:35,320
Speaker 5: I don't want to do any of that, Like I don't.

877
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:36,840
Speaker 2: Feel that might be grounds for breakup.

878
00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:39,400
Speaker 4: That's not grounds for breakup.

879
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:42,640
Speaker 1: You walk in and you gotta tell your girl something

880
00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:45,360
Speaker 1: while she's taking the deuce, and that smell is so

881
00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:49,640
Speaker 1: powerful you're gonna be like, oh no, this is this

882
00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:50,040
Speaker 1: is it.

883
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:54,400
Speaker 5: I don't walk in while I'm I know something.

884
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:56,719
Speaker 4: I was fucked. I have a best upset.

885
00:39:56,880 --> 00:39:59,000
Speaker 1: It's gonna be uncomfortable when you come back to the couch.

886
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:01,359
Speaker 1: It's gonna be like take ah.

887
00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:06,279
Speaker 5: You know that this this had happened to me one

888
00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:10,239
Speaker 5: time to where I's.

889
00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:12,240
Speaker 4: When I like a on like a fourth or fifth date.

890
00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:15,600
Speaker 5: I was going, like my best friend came over and

891
00:40:15,640 --> 00:40:18,719
Speaker 5: had like mushroom tea right and was making it.

892
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:20,200
Speaker 4: I didn't know. So I went in the kitchen.

893
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:23,600
Speaker 5: I had the tea and I like got dressed whatever, whatever, whatever.

894
00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:26,600
Speaker 4: I get over there. He's cooking me like dinner or whatever.

895
00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:31,359
Speaker 5: And so I get over there and I'm like like

896
00:40:31,520 --> 00:40:35,399
Speaker 5: my stomach I was on the I was like, this

897
00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:36,200
Speaker 5: is so embarrassing.

898
00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:38,000
Speaker 2: I'm like I have to go out crazy.

899
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:39,480
Speaker 5: And he was like, well, my juice is like our

900
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:41,359
Speaker 5: fifth day. And I really liked him, and I.

901
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:44,440
Speaker 4: Was like this is I'm like, this is so embrassing.

902
00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:47,319
Speaker 5: And he had like a bathroom downstairs, so I'm like,

903
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:48,560
Speaker 5: I just have to use the bathroom.

904
00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:49,000
Speaker 2: I have to go.

905
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:54,879
Speaker 4: I was in the bathroom for an hour, couldn't even

906
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:58,000
Speaker 4: eat the food because of the tea. Couldn't even eat

907
00:40:58,040 --> 00:40:58,480
Speaker 4: the food.

908
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 5: It was this was like the downstairs bathroom stet was

909
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:04,839
Speaker 5: like smaller. So when I came out of there, I

910
00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:07,640
Speaker 5: was the most embarrassed I have ever been because what

911
00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:09,400
Speaker 5: else was I doing in the bathroom? Found now you know,

912
00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:13,760
Speaker 5: I was like getting like it was like full blown liquid,

913
00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:17,040
Speaker 5: Like my was sick. I was sick to my stofach.

914
00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:19,239
Speaker 5: After that, I was like, yeah, I'm about to go.

915
00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:21,399
Speaker 2: I'd be like, you know, we can't do this no more.

916
00:41:21,440 --> 00:41:23,719
Speaker 5: No, he was like, he was so sweet. He was like, no,

917
00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:26,320
Speaker 5: come on, baby, laid down. You want to take a shower,

918
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:27,719
Speaker 5: Like I'm running the shower for you.

919
00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:30,839
Speaker 2: Like last he was trying to get it popping. Yeah,

920
00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 2: he was trying to get popping. Leave. I didn't get

921
00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:33,880
Speaker 2: all this.

922
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:39,080
Speaker 5: No, he was my boyfriend after that, before that, no, before,

923
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:41,400
Speaker 5: but he turned into my boyfriend. But the point is

924
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:43,799
Speaker 5: is like that was like the crazy. But he was

925
00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:45,960
Speaker 5: very sweet about it and he knew what was going on.

926
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:50,280
Speaker 5: But he was just like, yo, I don't know.

927
00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:50,600
Speaker 4: You're not fucking with that.

928
00:41:51,040 --> 00:41:52,879
Speaker 1: Oh no, I got I got you know, I got

929
00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:53,839
Speaker 1: to reevaluate this.

930
00:41:55,040 --> 00:41:59,319
Speaker 2: She came out.

931
00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:02,000
Speaker 5: Going So anyways, there's a woman who said or sitting

932
00:42:02,120 --> 00:42:04,279
Speaker 5: I think a man said this. Whatever you do never

933
00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:07,400
Speaker 5: sleep in later than the woman that you're with. Seeing

934
00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:11,160
Speaker 5: a man relax invokes a visceral feeling of disgust in

935
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:12,719
Speaker 5: a woman that's not easily the.

936
00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:17,759
Speaker 4: Spelled, which is crazy because why would.

937
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:19,839
Speaker 5: Be so upset that the man is sleep. I don't

938
00:42:19,840 --> 00:42:21,000
Speaker 5: feel that way.

939
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:23,560
Speaker 2: But I think more men feel that way about women

940
00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:24,560
Speaker 2: that if they're sleep.

941
00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:28,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, but women that's not fair though, because women have

942
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:29,440
Speaker 5: so many different hormones.

943
00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:31,280
Speaker 4: Like men wake up with the sasceron.

944
00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 5: That's why they're usually hard when they wake up, because

945
00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:36,000
Speaker 5: you guys wake up with energy, you have the sascerone.

946
00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:39,400
Speaker 5: Women we go through too many hormone fluctuations. We're not

947
00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:42,000
Speaker 5: open energizing the morning like you guys are.

948
00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:44,839
Speaker 1: I think it all depends on the dynamic of the household,

949
00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 1: like you know, and what's going on. You gotta like

950
00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:50,360
Speaker 1: kind of see, like if you're waking up and you're like, damn,

951
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 1: she's lazy, Like dare you getting up doing everything every

952
00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:55,600
Speaker 1: day and playing the bills?

953
00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 4: Ain't you doing that?

954
00:42:57,400 --> 00:42:58,640
Speaker 1: You do all of that and you come back to

955
00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:04,840
Speaker 1: the room and a knocked out damn like something like damn.

956
00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 2: Like it's ten o'clock.

957
00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 1: Yeah. No.

958
00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:08,360
Speaker 4: I feel like more.

959
00:43:08,360 --> 00:43:10,520
Speaker 2: Men feel that more so than the women, because men

960
00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:11,440
Speaker 2: gonna get up.

961
00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:15,080
Speaker 5: Because men have the energy, though it's different women we

962
00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 5: were on our periods, when our periods about to start

963
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:19,719
Speaker 5: when this, we have like lower energy throughout. And it's

964
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:22,640
Speaker 5: not something I make it up as scientific, Like we

965
00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:26,520
Speaker 5: literally have hormone fluctuations. I come from a household where

966
00:43:26,560 --> 00:43:29,600
Speaker 5: like if I was asleep past eight, like I'm getting

967
00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:32,160
Speaker 5: like in trouble, so I have to like pretend I'm

968
00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:35,279
Speaker 5: up and like just my dad was super disciplined with that,

969
00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:38,719
Speaker 5: so like I still have that anxiety on my chest, like,

970
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:39,799
Speaker 5: oh my god, I have to get up.

971
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:40,480
Speaker 4: This is crazy.

972
00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:44,160
Speaker 5: But also at the same time, like I do understand

973
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:47,319
Speaker 5: like women we do have different like fluctuations in our

974
00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:50,560
Speaker 5: home runs and we be like we be tired, but

975
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:54,960
Speaker 5: men also be falling asleep like anywhere and everywhere.

976
00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:58,840
Speaker 4: Man can fall asleep, like not do it?

977
00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:05,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, your TV beau passed out right.

978
00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:07,760
Speaker 1: Against leave anywhere. I done passed out on the couch

979
00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:09,080
Speaker 1: outside in the backyard.

980
00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:09,359
Speaker 3: Yeah.

981
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:12,239
Speaker 5: I think men can sleep anywhere more and women like

982
00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:13,720
Speaker 5: they sleep at night.

983
00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:16,080
Speaker 1: Like y'all, y'all can't just pass out right now.

984
00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:21,200
Speaker 5: Okay, So before we wrap up, we know Valentine's Day

985
00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:24,759
Speaker 5: is coming up. Valentine, so what do you feel like

986
00:44:25,239 --> 00:44:27,959
Speaker 5: men and women should expect. Like a lot of people

987
00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:30,839
Speaker 5: say Valentine's Day is just a woman's holiday, Like she's

988
00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:32,680
Speaker 5: the one who gets the gifts and it's about her

989
00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:33,880
Speaker 5: and flowers.

990
00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:35,000
Speaker 4: Like what do you feel.

991
00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:40,319
Speaker 2: Valentine Day? Yeah, it's mainly for a women.

992
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:42,480
Speaker 1: You know, this is an opportunity to kind of just

993
00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:46,200
Speaker 1: you know, let the woman know how special she is

994
00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:49,279
Speaker 1: that day. And you know, whether it be like a

995
00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:53,080
Speaker 1: nice dinner conversation or whatever y'all want to do to

996
00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:54,080
Speaker 1: just have that time.

997
00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:57,040
Speaker 2: You know, it's just you got to put it don't matter.

998
00:44:57,400 --> 00:44:58,239
Speaker 2: Is this is the day.

999
00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:00,640
Speaker 1: We set this aside, no matter what's going we were,

1000
00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:02,799
Speaker 1: this is we're gonna do something. We're gonna spend some

1001
00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:05,600
Speaker 1: time with each other and talk, yeah, and be around

1002
00:45:05,600 --> 00:45:08,680
Speaker 1: each other. Like it's almost like a birthday for the girl,

1003
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:11,280
Speaker 1: almost like them their birthday. It's like a second birthday

1004
00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:14,000
Speaker 1: for the year for a girl. Like truthfully, especially when

1005
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:15,960
Speaker 1: you're in a relationship, it's like, all right, let me

1006
00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:16,839
Speaker 1: take the time out.

1007
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:18,759
Speaker 2: This is her day. You know.

1008
00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:22,200
Speaker 1: It ain't like y'all getting us presents. It's more to

1009
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:26,520
Speaker 1: goud just hey, happy Valentine's Day. You know the colors

1010
00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:30,000
Speaker 1: are red obviously roses. You think hard, you think.

1011
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:31,920
Speaker 4: Romance, right right, I think all of.

1012
00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:35,640
Speaker 1: That type of thing. So women are lucky. Y'all got y'all,

1013
00:45:35,640 --> 00:45:40,720
Speaker 1: got y'all. Birthday, you got Valentine Day, you got Christmas,

1014
00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:41,400
Speaker 1: you got damn this.

1015
00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:44,160
Speaker 2: Sometimes some people give gifts on Easter.

1016
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:45,920
Speaker 4: Well men get Christmas.

1017
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:48,239
Speaker 1: Well yeah, we get something back on Christmas. We don't

1018
00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:49,560
Speaker 1: get nothing for our birthdays.

1019
00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 4: Men definitely should get something for their birthday.

1020
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:55,239
Speaker 2: We don't. We kind of do what we don't, So you.

1021
00:45:55,160 --> 00:45:56,800
Speaker 4: Should get something for your birth man.

1022
00:45:57,239 --> 00:46:00,279
Speaker 5: And I feel like, do you feel like if a

1023
00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:02,319
Speaker 5: man doesn't do anything for a woman, that's a sign

1024
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:03,719
Speaker 5: that he's really not rocking with her.

1025
00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:06,840
Speaker 2: He doesn't do anything that doesn't even make sense?

1026
00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:10,080
Speaker 4: Like no, what if like you're dating someone and he's

1027
00:46:10,120 --> 00:46:10,520
Speaker 4: just like.

1028
00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:13,480
Speaker 2: Dating though, it's difference from dating and being with somebody.

1029
00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:17,240
Speaker 1: Well, let's say you're dating. Let's say you're dating somebody

1030
00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:21,560
Speaker 1: and he don't do absolutely nothing.

1031
00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:23,440
Speaker 5: Or he's like, oh, actually I gotta work this day,

1032
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:24,680
Speaker 5: I'm busy da la la lah.

1033
00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:27,200
Speaker 4: Does that mean he has another chick that's more important

1034
00:46:27,200 --> 00:46:27,520
Speaker 4: than you?

1035
00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:30,160
Speaker 1: I don't know it depends on that they live in

1036
00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:32,920
Speaker 1: the same state. Yes, do they do they I don't.

1037
00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:33,480
Speaker 2: Know what's going on.

1038
00:46:33,480 --> 00:46:37,799
Speaker 1: I don't know the situation in the city as they

1039
00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:41,399
Speaker 1: you know, well, how many days we've been on two

1040
00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:44,239
Speaker 1: or three? I mean, I think you should send a

1041
00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:47,920
Speaker 1: small gesture if you're dating, you can send like one

1042
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 1: ros like just a sexy rose and maybe like you know,

1043
00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:55,239
Speaker 1: send her some uber eats if you gotta work, or

1044
00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:58,240
Speaker 1: send her to dinner with her friends as a gesture,

1045
00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:00,000
Speaker 1: like hey, once you go to dinner with your homegrok

1046
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:03,520
Speaker 1: or something here, it's on me. You know, it would

1047
00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:05,399
Speaker 1: be something like that because I got stuff to do.

1048
00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:09,279
Speaker 5: I think that if a man that I'm dating is

1049
00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:12,280
Speaker 5: like not rocking with me on Valentine's Day, I probably

1050
00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:15,400
Speaker 5: would feel like, oh, I'm really not like at the

1051
00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:15,799
Speaker 5: top of.

1052
00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:18,080
Speaker 4: His list of the women he's dealing with. That's what

1053
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:18,839
Speaker 4: I would think.

1054
00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:22,080
Speaker 1: But y'all just dating. Remember you said this is like

1055
00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:23,239
Speaker 1: the third or fourth date.

1056
00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:27,040
Speaker 5: I don't care because by the time before or fourth date,

1057
00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:31,759
Speaker 5: like we are rocking to me, like what what, like

1058
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:32,399
Speaker 5: why are you.

1059
00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:35,160
Speaker 4: And we should be going to dinner?

1060
00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:36,840
Speaker 5: I'm not expecting like if you're not my man, I

1061
00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:40,880
Speaker 5: don't expect like a gift and all this, but like damn, like, okay,

1062
00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:43,120
Speaker 5: we should be at dinner, we should be at a movie,

1063
00:47:43,200 --> 00:47:46,680
Speaker 5: we should be at the house cooking like something. Because

1064
00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:48,759
Speaker 5: then if that's the case, that means you're either have

1065
00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:51,640
Speaker 5: different options available and I'm not the one that's on

1066
00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:52,560
Speaker 5: the top of your list.

1067
00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:53,840
Speaker 4: I'm just one in rotation.

1068
00:47:54,239 --> 00:47:56,319
Speaker 5: But the other girl that you like more is gonna

1069
00:47:56,320 --> 00:48:00,359
Speaker 5: get Valentine's because someone's getting that Valentine's Day is getting

1070
00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:02,400
Speaker 5: that Valentine's Day.

1071
00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

1072
00:48:02,719 --> 00:48:05,759
Speaker 5: Or like, if you're dating and you decide like I'm

1073
00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:07,359
Speaker 5: just not gonna do anything for her and I'm really

1074
00:48:07,400 --> 00:48:09,640
Speaker 5: not doing nothing with nobody else, then you're just I'm

1075
00:48:09,640 --> 00:48:12,720
Speaker 5: not I don't like that, like a dinner, just spending

1076
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:15,440
Speaker 5: the day because women be lonely on Valentine's Day if

1077
00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:18,080
Speaker 5: you don't have anybody, because then you feel bad about yourself.

1078
00:48:18,320 --> 00:48:20,479
Speaker 4: Oh my god, I'm alone. I don't have any guy,

1079
00:48:20,640 --> 00:48:21,120
Speaker 4: I don't.

1080
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:23,719
Speaker 5: Have anybody, and I'm dating a man and you don't

1081
00:48:23,719 --> 00:48:27,600
Speaker 5: even make me feel special at all. I'm cool, I'm cool.

1082
00:48:28,280 --> 00:48:31,640
Speaker 5: I'm not doing that no more anyways, thank you. Guys

1083
00:48:31,680 --> 00:48:34,200
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1084
00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:34,919
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1085
00:48:35,640 --> 00:48:40,040
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1086
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:44,839
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1087
00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:48,799
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1088
00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:50,480
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1089
00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:16,160
Speaker 2: Listen is the taking over the game? All right?

1090
00:49:16,200 --> 00:49:19,760
Speaker 1: Everybody, Welcome to Truth after Dark.

1091
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Speaker 4: Do you think that men or women are more toxic