Speaker 1: It's time to catch a Cheater Only on the Jubile Show,
Speaker 1: Jake is on the phone today for to catch a
Speaker 1: Cheater and he thinks that his girlfriend, Madeline might be
Speaker 1: cheating on him. They've been together for a year and
Speaker 1: I guess they just moved in together. How long would
Speaker 1: you move in with Madeline, Jake?
Speaker 2: I've been with her over a year and then like
Speaker 2: like you said, yeah, yeah, and we recently moved in
Speaker 2: together about a month ago.
Speaker 3: About a month ago, Okay, So when did you start
Speaker 3: noticing changes, I guess, or like start suspecting her of
Speaker 3: cheating on you?
Speaker 2: I guess within the past past couple of weeks or
Speaker 2: the past two weeks. Like she hasn't really been home,
Speaker 2: and she's always says she like working late, or she's
Speaker 2: at her friend house even like on the weekdays, which
Speaker 2: is weird. And then for me, like the real, the
Speaker 2: real big like red flag is like she she doesn't
Speaker 2: want to be like intimate with me, and so like
Speaker 2: because I think that was going.
Speaker 3: On, so she just always was like down before.
Speaker 2: Not to just experient where it's like like she doesn't
Speaker 2: want to even like kiss, and like I would ask her,
Speaker 2: like what's up? And she would just say that she's
Speaker 2: tired or she just wants to hang out with her friends,
Speaker 2: and like there shouldn't be an issue with that, And
Speaker 2: I mean I guess yeah.
Speaker 1: And so she was always affectionate before you guys moved
Speaker 1: in together.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, definitely more affectionate than nothing, that's for certain.
Speaker 2: Like it's it's it's it just feels off it and
Speaker 2: it kind of feels sudden. I don't know, it's just.
Speaker 3: Intuition is a real thing that can definitely mess with
Speaker 3: your head too. So when you asked her about it,
Speaker 3: have you asked her about it straight up?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I wouldn't say straight up. I just
Speaker 2: kind of like alluded to it. She picked up on
Speaker 2: it and then like was you know, I kind of
Speaker 2: defensive and I don't know, but I haven't asked her
Speaker 2: like directly.
Speaker 3: Soccer conversation to have, especially when you don't have proof,
Speaker 3: then you know, is there anything else?
Speaker 2: No, I mean, it's it's just like when you're when
Speaker 2: you know you've been with someone for a year and
Speaker 2: then like you move in together and then things just
Speaker 2: change so drastically. Just it feels like something off and
Speaker 2: I think there might be someone else involved.
Speaker 3: Oh do you think that maybe? Now this is just
Speaker 3: a stretch. I've never actually lived with anybody, so please
Speaker 3: correct me if I'm out of pocket on this. But like,
Speaker 3: do you get sick of the person you know right
Speaker 3: when you move in with them and you're together all
Speaker 3: the time. It's kind of like a honeymoon phase. You
Speaker 3: guys have been together for a year. Maybe she's just
Speaker 3: feeling like she doesn't have her space anymore and it
Speaker 3: is a little smothered.
Speaker 2: I mean, I might think it's like I'm all about
Speaker 2: like space just to say, you know, you know, you
Speaker 2: need to go hang out with so old, but like
Speaker 2: it's constant and then when I like want to hang
Speaker 2: out with her, and it's like there's no room for me.
Speaker 2: So I don't. I don't know how to feel.
Speaker 1: Okay, do you feel like she's attracted to you anymore
Speaker 1: or not attracted to you anymore?
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't want to say no, but it
Speaker 2: doesn't feel like it right now.
Speaker 1: I've been there before. Man, that sucks.
Speaker 3: It's a little flaggy, for sure, Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 1: And so and when you ask her about it, she
Speaker 1: just says that she's just tired and stuff.
Speaker 2: Like that. Yeah, just like just you know, I mean
Speaker 2: I get it. You know, she's a hard working, you
Speaker 2: know woman, but like it just we've made time before
Speaker 2: and now things are different. I don't know, it's just
Speaker 2: it just feels weird.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, we'll try to figure out for you. You
Speaker 1: already told us a grocery store. She's a reward a
Speaker 1: rewards card member at so we'll do the usual. We'll
Speaker 1: call up and pretend to be from the grocery store
Speaker 1: and say that every single month, we choose one rewards
Speaker 1: card member at random who gets free flowers delivered anywhere
Speaker 1: to anybody that they want from our Florida department. Will
Speaker 1: see if she sends us to you or to somebody else.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, sounds good.
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Speaker 1: it's time to catch a Cheater only on the Tuble
Speaker 1: Show if you're just joining us for to Catch a Cheater. Today,
Speaker 1: Jake is on the phone and he thinks that it's
Speaker 1: girlfriend of a year might be cheating on him. They
Speaker 1: just moved in together a month ago. So we're about
Speaker 1: to call her and pretend to be from the grocery
Speaker 1: store that she's a rewards card member at and say that.
Speaker 1: Every single month, we choose one rewards card member at
Speaker 1: random who gets free flowers delivered from our floral department,
Speaker 1: and we'll see if she sends those to him or
Speaker 1: to somebody else. But before we do that, Jake, why
Speaker 1: don't you catch everybody up on why you think Madeleine
Speaker 1: might be cheating?
Speaker 2: Uh? Yeah, we've been together a year. We just moved
Speaker 2: in recently but within a month and then now like
Speaker 2: our whole routine has changed. She doesn't want to be
Speaker 2: intimate with me. She's always working late and hanging out
Speaker 2: with friends, even on the weekdays.
Speaker 1: All right, man, you ready to call her?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Yeah, hello?
Speaker 1: Hi? Is this Madeline who's a rewards card member at? Oh? Yeah, hi, hi, madam.
Speaker 1: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone
Speaker 1: call on condilet.
Speaker 3: You know that.
Speaker 1: Congratulations here the most big winner?
Speaker 4: So what did I What did I win?
Speaker 1: Maybe I didn't know this, But every single month, we
Speaker 1: choose one of our loyal and great Rewards Card members
Speaker 1: to say thank you very much for being such a
Speaker 1: great customer by giving you free flowers to be delivered
Speaker 1: from our floral department anywhere in the United States, absolutely free.
Speaker 1: You just won thirty six long stem red roses, a
Speaker 1: box of candy, and a car to be delivered to
Speaker 1: anybody that you want.
Speaker 4: Wow, okay, thanks, well, thank you. I never wear any thanks,
Speaker 4: so I.
Speaker 1: Can't say that anymore. That's the fun part.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I guess that.
Speaker 1: So here's how it works. If you know the person
Speaker 1: you want to send them to. I can take the
Speaker 1: information down in just a few minutes here over the phone.
Speaker 1: If you're not sure yet, I can set up a
Speaker 1: time to call you back.
Speaker 4: Yeah no, I can. I can do it right now.
Speaker 4: I can't get going soon anyway.
Speaker 1: So now, fine, if you could just give me the
Speaker 1: first and the last name of the person you want
Speaker 1: to send them to.
Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, I want to send it to my friend Emily.
Speaker 4: Her mom just passed away, so I really think this
Speaker 4: would absolutely make her like brighten her day, and she
Speaker 4: loves chocolate.
Speaker 1: So okay, all right, I'd love to offer you a
Speaker 1: romantic as well. That's just the red roses type thing.
Speaker 1: The other ones we can well, I'll pull to pull
Speaker 1: up the other options for those, but I'm sure there
Speaker 1: would be different kind of flower.
Speaker 4: Oh I don't Okay, I don't need.
Speaker 1: A romance, one special special someone in your life or anything.
Speaker 4: So god no, I mean if you only knew you now,
Speaker 4: what is that supposed to mean? What that one? Hello?
Speaker 2: Yeah? What is that supposed to mean?
Speaker 1: That's your boyfriend?
Speaker 3: Jake?
Speaker 1: What?
Speaker 4: Jake? What? What is going on?
Speaker 1: This is actually the Jubil Show. It's a radio show,
Speaker 1: and we do a segment where if you think your
Speaker 1: significant other might be cheating, you try to see who
Speaker 1: they send flowers to.
Speaker 4: That's what this is, Jake. You think I'm cheating, I'm cheating, Well,
Speaker 4: well what's what's what's the doing?
Speaker 2: When he asked you about the love interest? And you're like,
Speaker 2: oh god, if you only knew, Like, what what's that
Speaker 2: all about?
Speaker 4: Because you're driving me crazy? Yeah you want to know?
Speaker 4: You got me on the radio. You want to know.
Speaker 4: I think let's do it all right? Box up?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 4: I can't stand living with you. Okay, you don't do
Speaker 4: any dishes. All you do is play video games. You
Speaker 4: never want to hang out when I'm there, So I'm
Speaker 4: kind of confused. You know why you would even bother
Speaker 4: thinking I was cheating? I mean, okay, never helped me say,
Speaker 4: you never helped clean. You never make a bed, You
Speaker 4: never do anything.
Speaker 2: Why Why is this the first time that I that
Speaker 2: I can recall you bringing this up? You've never bought
Speaker 2: this up to me?
Speaker 4: Jake? Are you brand now? Are you brand thanking now?
Speaker 4: I have talked to you about this.
Speaker 5: I have asked you, Oh hey, can you take out
Speaker 5: the garbage? Oh hey, you left your dirty underwear with
Speaker 5: skid marks? Or again, can you please put them away?
Speaker 5: I don't like being your underwear.
Speaker 4: You just you didn't hear me, were you? No, don't
Speaker 4: completely that direct. I have been that direct. You have
Speaker 4: been that checked out because it benefits you to pretend
Speaker 4: you don't know what I'm saying or understand, so that
Speaker 4: I do it anyway, because I can't stand to live
Speaker 4: and fil I don't.
Speaker 2: I don't think you say you say you're disdirect. First
Speaker 2: of all, this is the first time I'm finding out
Speaker 2: that your friend Emily's mom died. All right, my Cadolan? Yeah,
Speaker 2: why didn't you tell me about that stuff like a busy.
Speaker 4: Plan fortnite or whatever the hell it is talking to
Speaker 4: your friends on your little headset? Okay? Why would I?
Speaker 4: I can't even get your attention if you expect me.
Speaker 2: To read your mind. Sometimes sometimes your dad is directed
Speaker 2: as you're saying your gee.
Speaker 4: Jake, when the dishes, when you eat your food off
Speaker 4: of a plate and then you put it in the sink,
Speaker 4: or actually you even leave it just in the kitchen table. You.
Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know where you're raised in a barn,
Speaker 4: but you want me to tell you to put your
Speaker 4: plate awake because I'm your mommy. Okay, do you want
Speaker 4: to go live with your mom? With your mommy?
Speaker 1: Do you want to live with him anymore?
Speaker 4: I don't know. Yes, I don't know because he is
Speaker 4: not the person I met in the paid for a year.
Speaker 4: It seems as soon as we moved in together, he's
Speaker 4: turned into like this completely checked out slob that expects
Speaker 4: me to do everything. So I don't know that I
Speaker 4: want to keep living together.
Speaker 3: I mean he does bring up a good point though,
Speaker 3: that and communication and being direct is kind of the
Speaker 3: key to communicating.
Speaker 4: I have been communicating, you know, turn that around. You
Speaker 4: know you ever heard of projection, Jake? That's you trying
Speaker 4: to be defensive and saying, oh, you never say anything
Speaker 4: when over you're just not listening.
Speaker 2: I mean, you've been a little mean right now, But
Speaker 2: like my thing is, you.
Speaker 4: Want to talk about communication? You thought I was cheating.
Speaker 4: You didn't bring that about over dinner or sit me
Speaker 4: down to have a chat about it. You can you
Speaker 4: call them rady?
Speaker 2: I I asked you why why you're you know, why
Speaker 2: you work it so late? Why are so tired? Like
Speaker 2: I would ask you those things and you would just
Speaker 2: be like, I gotta work late, I gotta go to
Speaker 2: my friend's house.
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, last few weeks, because it's been pointless
Speaker 4: to tell you anything because you.
Speaker 2: Call it the I'm sorry. I don't know to say
Speaker 2: other than I'm sorry that I haven't been doing my
Speaker 2: fair share of things at the house. Madam. I love you,
Speaker 2: and I you know I get it. What can I
Speaker 2: do besides verbalizing and doing what I need to do? What? Like?
Speaker 2: Are you? Are you do?
Speaker 4: I think you need to and I appreciate your apology,
Speaker 4: and I'm glad that it seems like we're having an
Speaker 4: open dialogue now. I can't believe the radio had to
Speaker 4: take us do it. But I need you to do
Speaker 4: the work to figure out why us moving into together
Speaker 4: has caused this behavior for you, because I can't do
Speaker 4: that for you.
Speaker 2: Okay, we'd be a little more open with our conversations.
Speaker 4: I'm open. I'll go to therapy. You want to go
Speaker 4: to therapy, because I'll go. But I'm not doing all
Speaker 4: the work to get us there.
Speaker 2: I just need to know that you are on the
Speaker 2: same page with us. Let's say, let's say good.
Speaker 4: I mean, are you willing to go fifty to fifty
Speaker 4: and do things?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 4: Okay, we're on the same page.
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm glad things are working out. I'll put
Speaker 2: down the call of duty if maybe I can have
Speaker 2: some call of booty.
Speaker 4: Oh, I think you got to pick up the dishes
Speaker 4: and laundering first before you start pushing your luck there.
Speaker 2: Do it.
Speaker 1: Okay, we'll do it.
Speaker 2: Go ahead. You better bring a white glove by the
Speaker 2: time you get home, because this place is going to
Speaker 2: be like spotless nice.
Speaker 4: Okay, all right, I will.
Speaker 1: I'm glad that you weren't cheating, Madeline, and hopefully you
Speaker 1: guys can work it out Black.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm glad I wasn't cheating too. The Jebel shows
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