1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:03,160 Speaker 1: Good morning, Usa yo yo yo yo yo yo yo 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:04,920 Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo 3 00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:06,480 Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo. 4 00:00:06,519 --> 00:00:08,159 Speaker 2: Yo yo yo. Yes, is that what up? 5 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:08,400 Speaker 3: Onna? 6 00:00:08,440 --> 00:00:08,600 Speaker 4: Roe? 7 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:11,639 Speaker 2: So good morning, Charlamagne to God, Peace to the planet. 8 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 5: Is Monday? 9 00:00:14,880 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 6: Good morning? 10 00:00:15,440 --> 00:00:17,639 Speaker 1: How y'all feel out there? I feel blessed, black and 11 00:00:17,680 --> 00:00:20,079 Speaker 1: holly favored. Happy to be here another day to serve 12 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:21,560 Speaker 1: our beautiful listeners. What's happening? 13 00:00:21,600 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 2: That's right? Good morning. Hopefully you had a great weekend. 14 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:24,239 Speaker 2: How was your weekend? 15 00:00:24,760 --> 00:00:24,920 Speaker 7: Oh? 16 00:00:24,960 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 8: Mine was great. I chill with family. I just yeah, 17 00:00:28,640 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 8: I didn't do I didn't work all the way. 18 00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 2: You chilled? 19 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:33,840 Speaker 9: Yeah, chill. I had a curry weekend. 20 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:37,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. I had a very busy weekend. It started off 21 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:39,239 Speaker 2: on Friday night, date night with the wife. I took 22 00:00:39,240 --> 00:00:40,599 Speaker 2: out to see Vibes Cartel. 23 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:41,720 Speaker 9: Oh you was in a mix? 24 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:46,839 Speaker 2: What what now? The Ball Clays, which is located in Brooklyn, 25 00:00:46,960 --> 00:00:49,239 Speaker 2: is where the Brooklyn Nets play with the Liberty plays. 26 00:00:49,440 --> 00:00:51,239 Speaker 2: It usually takes me by an hour to get there 27 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 2: from the crib. Right Friday night took me every bit 28 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:56,120 Speaker 2: of two hours and forty five minutes to get there. 29 00:00:56,560 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 2: It was so many people out there was. 30 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 9: It worth it. It looked like it. 31 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 2: Well you know what it is, so you know, of 32 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 2: course it was worth it. I had a great time. 33 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:06,319 Speaker 2: I don't know every single record, but my wife is 34 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 2: part Jamaican, so that is her thing, so she rocked 35 00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 2: out the whole night. But when I mean they turned 36 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:17,120 Speaker 2: Brooklyn into like Jamaica, Jamaica. They had like the jerk 37 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:19,960 Speaker 2: chicken trucks outside of PC and Riches, They had the 38 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 2: jerk chicken trucks outside the library. They had the jerk 39 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:23,440 Speaker 2: chicken trucks everywhere. 40 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 6: You say, people in Houston know what the hell you're 41 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:26,759 Speaker 6: talking about. Could you be a little bit more descriptive? 42 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:31,880 Speaker 2: I just said vibes, Cartels con. They don't know what 43 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:35,679 Speaker 2: place the sell electronics. They don't sell piece of Richard Downtown. 44 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 2: I don't know, he don't know, but they it's an 45 00:01:37,880 --> 00:01:40,760 Speaker 2: electric spot. So they had jerk chicken spots everywhere. So 46 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:43,480 Speaker 2: that was amazing. He brought out busting Rhymes on Friday. 47 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 10: Uh. 48 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 2: He brought out Booju Bontown on Friday, so an amazing show. Great, great, great, 49 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 2: great show. And then Saturday, the professional soccer team that 50 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 2: plays in New York City that took my son to 51 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 2: the game, and he was able to start the game. 52 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:56,520 Speaker 2: You know how in each city that you go push 53 00:01:56,520 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 2: a button to start the game, you ring the bell 54 00:01:58,280 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 2: or something like that. So he was able to push 55 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 2: the button to start the game. So it was a 56 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 2: big family fun weekend. So Salutor vibes Cartel in the 57 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:08,480 Speaker 2: New York City Football Club for happening. It's had a 58 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 2: great time, great time this weekend. 59 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:11,560 Speaker 6: Who to everybody I saw in Baltimore? 60 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 1: Man, I was in Baltimore, Maryland all weekend Justice Justice 61 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 1: Hometown for my daughter's a cheerleading competition. 62 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 6: And right now I'm wearing a hoodie from Nick's Fish House. 63 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 1: Okay, nick fish House is a spot I went to 64 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 1: in Baltimore. 65 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 9: It was that good. 66 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 1: You took the merch well, you know what they showed 67 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 1: me a lot of love, Salutor, Carley. You know, you 68 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 1: know when you being out of town, you know you 69 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:32,400 Speaker 1: might hit people up and ask them where to go, 70 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:34,679 Speaker 1: or you might go on Google and you see where 71 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 1: the best restaurants are. And I just went on Google, 72 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 1: and you know, nick Fish House came up and I 73 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 1: just went there. 74 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:40,520 Speaker 6: Just to go eat. 75 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:44,359 Speaker 1: And the owner there, Carly Man, dropping the clues BOMD 76 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:47,400 Speaker 1: for Carley. She wasn't even there, but when she heard 77 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 1: I was there, they showed a lot of love to 78 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 1: me and my family. So thank you Carley, and thank 79 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 1: you everybody at Nick's Fish House. And they gave me 80 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:56,560 Speaker 1: this hoodie to wear. So when people get me merched 81 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:57,519 Speaker 1: the wear you know what I mean, I want to 82 00:02:57,560 --> 00:02:59,799 Speaker 1: support So yeah, I woard so lut Nick's Fish. 83 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, today on the show, Mel Robbins will be 84 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:03,240 Speaker 2: joining us. 85 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:05,640 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love Mel Robbins. Dropping the clues 86 00:03:05,680 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 1: bombs for Mel Robbins. I just did her podcast last week, 87 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:11,120 Speaker 1: The Mel Robbins Podcast, one of the number one podcasts 88 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:12,919 Speaker 1: in the country. And you know, she has a great 89 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 1: book out right now that I've been telling everybody is 90 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:17,640 Speaker 1: a must read. If you have not read The Let 91 00:03:17,639 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 1: Them Theory, if you're not listening to the Let Them Theory. 92 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:20,840 Speaker 6: You need to. 93 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:21,640 Speaker 11: Uh. 94 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:24,120 Speaker 1: It's described as a life changing tool that millions of 95 00:03:24,160 --> 00:03:25,520 Speaker 1: people can't stop talking about. 96 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:27,240 Speaker 6: And I guess I'm one of those millions of people. 97 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:27,640 Speaker 6: That's right. 98 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 2: So we're gonna pick kicking it with Mel Robbinson a 99 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:31,360 Speaker 2: little bit. And then we got front page news Morgan 100 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:33,679 Speaker 2: will be joining us so don't go anywhere. It's the 101 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 2: breakfast Club. Good morning, good morning. Everybody's DJ n V. 102 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 2: Jess Hilarry is Charlamagne the guy. We are the breakfast Club, 103 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 2: long the roster, filling in for jests. 104 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 1: You know what else I realized about Baltimore and I 105 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:45,839 Speaker 1: was just was here to talk about this. They really 106 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 1: do call everybody shorty in Baltimore. The guys hen calling 107 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 1: I ain't never heard. Maybe I ain't never paid no attention, 108 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 1: but when a man call you shorty, that's a little 109 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 1: and SA respect O R d y yoo. 110 00:03:58,520 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 2: Charlote, what up? 111 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 6: Uncle shawl up? Shawty? 112 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:02,320 Speaker 2: What he was talking about this? 113 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 8: You know what they say that like how we just 114 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:08,520 Speaker 8: say like yo, like it's just like their thing. Well, 115 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 8: but they don't say like shaw It's like shorty. 116 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 2: It's like I don't care or actually, we gotta keeps 117 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 2: getting some front page news. 118 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 6: Now. 119 00:04:17,839 --> 00:04:21,120 Speaker 2: April nineteenth, the NBA playoffs be again. I don't know 120 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 2: what team you're rooting for. It looks like Cleveland looks 121 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 2: pretty good, and so there's OKC. But I'm going for 122 00:04:25,760 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 2: the Knicks, is what it is? All right? 123 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 7: What up? Uggain? 124 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:30,720 Speaker 12: Hey, y'all, what up? 125 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 2: Shan, what up? 126 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:32,039 Speaker 7: What up? 127 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 12: Dummy? 128 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:35,960 Speaker 13: That's usually what it's, you know, the Baltimore L definitely, 129 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:37,840 Speaker 13: And I don't know. 130 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 12: That you put a T y a d y on. 131 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:42,919 Speaker 13: It's usually sure or low, which is like short for 132 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 13: shorty or little. 133 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:45,920 Speaker 12: But you know, I'm not gonna get too much into that, 134 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 12: just because speak more to that later. First step on 135 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 12: front page. 136 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:52,040 Speaker 13: President Trump is said to be in excellent health following 137 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:54,839 Speaker 13: his annual check up on Friday. White House physician Sean 138 00:04:55,040 --> 00:05:02,000 Speaker 13: Barbella described Trump's neurological condition as robust and released on Sunday. Overall, 139 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:05,040 Speaker 13: it said the seventy eight year old commander in chief 140 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 13: was found to be an excellent cognitive and physical health. 141 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 13: Barbella noted that Trump is six foot three and weighs 142 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 13: two hundred and twenty four pounds. He concluded by saying, 143 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:19,360 Speaker 13: the President is fully fit to execute his duties in office. 144 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 13: And the President actually spoke to reporters on Sunday aboard 145 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 13: Air Force one, and here's what he had to say 146 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:26,360 Speaker 13: in regards to his checkup. 147 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 14: Sick a listen and perfect, and I took a cognitive 148 00:05:31,320 --> 00:05:34,200 Speaker 14: exam and I would challenge anybody here to beat host marks, 149 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 14: because I have a perfect mark. 150 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:37,200 Speaker 2: Are you oppressed by that? 151 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:41,239 Speaker 12: Are you impressed by that? All right? So the president 152 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 12: is good, in good health. 153 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:46,360 Speaker 13: So the White House press, excuse me, white House physician says. 154 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:48,160 Speaker 12: In other news, let's talk tariffs. 155 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 13: A top advisor to President Trump says the administration's tariffs 156 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:54,080 Speaker 13: are working of Hearing on NBC's Meet the Press, Peter 157 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:56,680 Speaker 13: Navarro pushed back against concerns the White House didn't have 158 00:05:56,720 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 13: a plan for implementing tariffs, saying they were issued with 159 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:03,360 Speaker 13: a specific goal in mind. Let's take a listen to 160 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:05,480 Speaker 13: what that goal is, Peter Navarro. 161 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:08,920 Speaker 15: So that's what we set knowing full well, knowing full 162 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 15: well that a lot. 163 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 14: Of countries would come right to. 164 00:06:12,040 --> 00:06:14,039 Speaker 2: Us and want a bargain. 165 00:06:14,200 --> 00:06:17,359 Speaker 12: We've got ninety deals in ninety days, possibly pending. 166 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 13: Yeah, So we insisted the tariffs are working as designed 167 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:24,919 Speaker 13: as and have already pushed many countries to come to 168 00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 13: the negotiating table when it comes to the US now. 169 00:06:27,200 --> 00:06:29,480 Speaker 13: Navarro went on to say the Trump administration is working 170 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:33,039 Speaker 13: to fix unfair trading practices that keep US goods out 171 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:37,839 Speaker 13: of foreign markets. Navarro also insisted relationships, his relationship with 172 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 13: Elon Musk is great, despite the fact that they have 173 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:44,039 Speaker 13: had that little exchange before where he called Musk or 174 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:47,599 Speaker 13: where Musk called him a moron. On the other side 175 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 13: of the aisle, Senator Elizabeth Warren says President Trump's tariffs 176 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:54,120 Speaker 13: are hurting the US economy. She made those comments on 177 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:57,760 Speaker 13: CNN State of the Union, saying the uncertainty around how 178 00:06:57,800 --> 00:07:00,719 Speaker 13: the tariffs will be enforced is stopping company from actually 179 00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 13: making investments in this country. Let's take a listen to 180 00:07:03,640 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 13: Senator Elizabeth Warren. 181 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:10,800 Speaker 16: Investors will not invest in the United States when Donald 182 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:14,720 Speaker 16: Trump is playing red light green light with tariffs. And 183 00:07:14,760 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 16: it's entirely appropriate to have an investigation to make sure 184 00:07:19,080 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 16: that Donald Trump, donald Trump's family, donald Trump's inner circle 185 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 16: didn't get advanced information and trade on that information. 186 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 13: So Warren, who serves on the Senate Banking Committee, also 187 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:36,840 Speaker 13: renewed calls for an investigation. As you heard in the audio, 188 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:40,120 Speaker 13: it's possible insider training, saying Trump may have committed a 189 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:43,200 Speaker 13: crime by telling allies to buy stocks shortly before announcing 190 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 13: the tearff pause, and the announcement caused stock prices to 191 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:50,800 Speaker 13: improve drastically. Excuse me to improve dramatically after days of 192 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:52,040 Speaker 13: losses up. 193 00:07:51,960 --> 00:07:55,720 Speaker 1: Cannot commit crimes. He has presidential immunity. All he has 194 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 1: to do is say that it was some type of 195 00:07:57,040 --> 00:07:59,560 Speaker 1: official act and the Supreme Court will say, hey, it 196 00:07:59,600 --> 00:08:01,360 Speaker 1: wasn't a time that he committed. Why do we keep 197 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 1: back and like we forgot that he got granted presidential immunity. 198 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:04,480 Speaker 2: I don't know. 199 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 12: The Supreme Court is seeming to take case by case, so. 200 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:08,120 Speaker 6: We will see. 201 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:11,760 Speaker 2: Please, So the time's working or not, because you know, 202 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:13,200 Speaker 2: on one side they say they're working. On the other 203 00:08:13,200 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 2: side they say that not, but you know, numbers are everything. 204 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 2: Are they working? 205 00:08:16,640 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 13: So when it comes to the numbers, I mean, prices 206 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 13: are up for us right now. But you know, that's 207 00:08:20,840 --> 00:08:23,320 Speaker 13: the whole point is that supposedly these countries are going 208 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:25,760 Speaker 13: to be coming to the negotiating table to make sure 209 00:08:25,800 --> 00:08:29,920 Speaker 13: that trade is more fair in the United States as 210 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:32,480 Speaker 13: well as wherever these countries are abroad. 211 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:33,880 Speaker 12: But the whole thing. 212 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:37,640 Speaker 13: Is supposedly we're not going to know until about ninety days. 213 00:08:37,679 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 13: But then again, he put the ninety day pause, so 214 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:42,000 Speaker 13: it's hard to tell, to be honest, you know, we'll 215 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 13: see it's a waiting we'll see type of situation that 216 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:46,680 Speaker 13: we're in right now regarding tariffs and also Morgan. 217 00:08:46,679 --> 00:08:48,199 Speaker 1: I know you're probably gonna talk about it next hoile, 218 00:08:48,240 --> 00:08:50,679 Speaker 1: but you know, the Supreme Court told Donald Trump to 219 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:53,679 Speaker 1: do something last week, which is bringing the brother back 220 00:08:53,720 --> 00:08:57,960 Speaker 1: from Maryland. And they told the Supreme Court SMD. Yeah, well, 221 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:01,200 Speaker 1: well Trump State briefcad s MD. 222 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:03,680 Speaker 12: That's what they said at first. But you know, and 223 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:06,400 Speaker 12: true Trump fashion, he has changed changed his mind. And 224 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:07,439 Speaker 12: there's enough date on that. 225 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:09,800 Speaker 2: All right, we'll do that next hour. Everybody else, get 226 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:12,440 Speaker 2: it off your chest eight hundred five eight five one 227 00:09:12,480 --> 00:09:14,800 Speaker 2: oh five one. If you need to vent phone lines 228 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:17,079 Speaker 2: to why to open eight hundred five eight five one 229 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 2: oh five one is the Breakfast Club? 230 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:26,319 Speaker 17: Good morning the Breakfast Club. This is your time to 231 00:09:26,320 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 17: get it off your chest. Eight hundred five eight five 232 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 17: one five one. We want to hear from you on 233 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:31,600 Speaker 17: the Breakfast Club. 234 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:34,800 Speaker 2: Hello. Who's this go? 235 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:36,600 Speaker 18: Good morning dj MV. What's going on? 236 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:36,760 Speaker 11: Bro? 237 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 18: This is you said by the Rose Evans. 238 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:40,640 Speaker 2: Whatever you get it off your chest? Brother? 239 00:09:40,920 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 1: Well, just why I want. 240 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:43,599 Speaker 18: To talk with Just give you some love, you know, 241 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:46,520 Speaker 18: I show you, uh you posted on the pictures of 242 00:09:46,520 --> 00:09:49,200 Speaker 18: you and your son at the soccer master or whatever, 243 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 18: and you're always doing that. You know, I really love 244 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 18: seeing black file who peeked out over these kids. You know, 245 00:09:54,760 --> 00:09:56,959 Speaker 18: enough of us don't do that. And you know, I 246 00:09:57,760 --> 00:10:02,400 Speaker 18: myself happened to be the five, the three best sons 247 00:10:02,440 --> 00:10:05,200 Speaker 18: in the world. I feel like every father she'd feel 248 00:10:05,200 --> 00:10:07,600 Speaker 18: that way about about his son and his daughters. 249 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:08,080 Speaker 16: I know how. 250 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:11,400 Speaker 18: Charlemagne all the spending time with his daughters, you know, 251 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:15,359 Speaker 18: everything they took it. That's that going on. You guys 252 00:10:15,400 --> 00:10:19,640 Speaker 18: never ever put your family seck. And I love to 253 00:10:19,679 --> 00:10:24,200 Speaker 18: appreciate that. Charlemagne. Yes, sir, he's my brother. 254 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:25,960 Speaker 2: How were you word? 255 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:26,640 Speaker 19: I was? 256 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 18: You know, I was vibing, I was, I was out there. 257 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:32,000 Speaker 18: You know, I had my eyes peeled. I never saw 258 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:34,560 Speaker 18: that my brother. You know, we had the conversation on Friday. 259 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:38,480 Speaker 18: You had to know about you watching my trailer, sir. 260 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:40,640 Speaker 6: Oh shoot to watch? 261 00:10:41,640 --> 00:10:44,960 Speaker 18: Yes, sir, you missed show money on Instagram? 262 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:48,120 Speaker 6: Tag me in it real quick on igs, I can 263 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:48,840 Speaker 6: find it quick. 264 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:52,160 Speaker 18: I can't. Okay, hold on, tag you right now. 265 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:52,640 Speaker 6: Yeah. 266 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 1: My Instagram is see the god ce t A A 267 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 1: G follows. 268 00:10:57,040 --> 00:10:59,760 Speaker 18: I know what you come on but a week. 269 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:01,360 Speaker 1: And I was just doing the shout out for those 270 00:11:01,400 --> 00:11:02,920 Speaker 1: who don't know so I can get some new follows. 271 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:03,320 Speaker 2: That's up. 272 00:11:03,559 --> 00:11:05,079 Speaker 18: Okay, So what I'm gonna do is I'm gonna I'm 273 00:11:05,400 --> 00:11:06,440 Speaker 18: I'm gonna tag you right. 274 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:07,520 Speaker 10: Now, but listen, tell them. 275 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:09,560 Speaker 18: All I want to do is picture to one of 276 00:11:09,559 --> 00:11:11,959 Speaker 18: your people. I know you too busy, a lot going on. 277 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:14,360 Speaker 18: When you see it, you know what I'm I'm gonna 278 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:17,200 Speaker 18: tag you right now though, but dj Envy, Yes, sir, bro, 279 00:11:17,360 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 18: I really really really want to know that. I really 280 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 18: appreciate how you out with the kids or whatever, and 281 00:11:22,840 --> 00:11:25,480 Speaker 18: how you are showing the young father how you can 282 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:27,959 Speaker 18: be having all this going on at the end of 283 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:31,320 Speaker 18: the day, Dad is your number one job, bro, Big 284 00:11:31,400 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 18: up on that. 285 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:33,440 Speaker 2: Absolutely have a great time doing it. 286 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 18: To one last thing we released, Navidad. 287 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:38,680 Speaker 2: I don't know what that means, sir. 288 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:39,600 Speaker 6: You know what that means. 289 00:11:39,600 --> 00:11:41,480 Speaker 2: I don't know what that means. Happy birthday to YouTube? 290 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:42,720 Speaker 18: So wrong? Is that long? 291 00:11:42,800 --> 00:11:43,160 Speaker 1: What's up? 292 00:11:43,240 --> 00:11:43,880 Speaker 19: Long? Hey? 293 00:11:43,880 --> 00:11:46,840 Speaker 18: Good morning, good morning? And listen they be Christen, they 294 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:50,840 Speaker 18: be on you. I don't like that shit baby jumping you. Listen. Listen. 295 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:54,560 Speaker 18: Your time is your time and listen. You don't want 296 00:11:54,640 --> 00:12:00,319 Speaker 18: mister right now, you want mister right thank you. I mean, 297 00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 18: you know, I appreciate that. 298 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:06,480 Speaker 2: But Charlemagne, yes, sir, you said we gotta go use kay, 299 00:12:08,200 --> 00:12:08,760 Speaker 2: appreciate you. 300 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:11,920 Speaker 9: Anybody letting me say period you had to come on 301 00:12:11,960 --> 00:12:12,760 Speaker 9: city because. 302 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:13,560 Speaker 2: He was lett him go with. 303 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:15,120 Speaker 9: What he was saying. 304 00:12:15,280 --> 00:12:16,319 Speaker 2: That Jesus bad. 305 00:12:16,360 --> 00:12:17,280 Speaker 9: When I'm getting some love. 306 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:18,480 Speaker 2: Hello, who's this. 307 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:19,240 Speaker 12: In the vain? 308 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:19,560 Speaker 10: Blue? 309 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:20,280 Speaker 2: Then blue? 310 00:12:20,280 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 11: What's up? 311 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:21,400 Speaker 2: Get it off your chest? 312 00:12:21,520 --> 00:12:23,079 Speaker 20: Hey, I just wanted to give you all a shout 313 00:12:23,080 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 20: out real quick, uh, good morning every Monday. And I 314 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:28,560 Speaker 20: just kind of want to touch on those terror that 315 00:12:28,600 --> 00:12:31,720 Speaker 20: you're uh a little too earlier with Donald Trump. 316 00:12:32,520 --> 00:12:33,920 Speaker 10: I think it's important. 317 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:36,480 Speaker 20: Right now for what he's doing, uh, because a lot 318 00:12:36,480 --> 00:12:38,840 Speaker 20: of people are, you know, worried about the short term 319 00:12:39,400 --> 00:12:43,319 Speaker 20: uh prices increasing and things like that. But you're basically 320 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:46,360 Speaker 20: in bed with the enemy. And if you ask anybody 321 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:48,559 Speaker 20: with common ton if it's okay to be in bed 322 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:51,200 Speaker 20: with the enemy, most people will tell you no. The 323 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:56,200 Speaker 20: terariff against fault countries are basically to avoid China from 324 00:12:56,240 --> 00:12:59,960 Speaker 20: sending their product to the country to exploit trade. 325 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:02,200 Speaker 6: Agree with those countries, Listen. 326 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:04,719 Speaker 1: I hope that the long term, I hope there is 327 00:13:04,760 --> 00:13:06,480 Speaker 1: a long term plan to this and I hope it 328 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:07,040 Speaker 1: does work out. 329 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:08,400 Speaker 6: I'm not sitting here rooting against it. 330 00:13:08,559 --> 00:13:10,480 Speaker 1: But you know, when we talk about, you know, for 331 00:13:10,559 --> 00:13:13,800 Speaker 1: the moment people having some pain, you do realize those 332 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:16,960 Speaker 1: moments can kill people, right, Like, people really can't afford 333 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:19,160 Speaker 1: to livet Like, that's it effect that there's a great 334 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 1: I don't know if y'all watched Black Mirror, but I 335 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:23,720 Speaker 1: watched the episode of Black Mirror yesterday that Tracy Ellis 336 00:13:23,760 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 1: rosses in. 337 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:26,640 Speaker 9: Is that the one that Ray was just sent well Easter. 338 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:28,800 Speaker 1: Ray is not in that episode, but because it's anthology series, 339 00:13:28,840 --> 00:13:30,720 Speaker 1: but Tracy Ellis ross is in it. And it's literally 340 00:13:30,720 --> 00:13:33,560 Speaker 1: an episode about how a person, about how a couple 341 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:36,360 Speaker 1: cannot afford to live. That I'm not gonna tell you 342 00:13:36,360 --> 00:13:38,240 Speaker 1: no more than that, but that's literally what it's about. 343 00:13:38,360 --> 00:13:41,520 Speaker 1: Some people cannot afford to live, and they have to 344 00:13:41,520 --> 00:13:44,120 Speaker 1: make a choice on whether or not to stay alive 345 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:46,280 Speaker 1: or die simply because they can't afford to live. 346 00:13:46,520 --> 00:13:49,040 Speaker 2: Well, get it off your chest eight hundred five eight 347 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:50,880 Speaker 2: five one oh five to one. If you need to VID, 348 00:13:50,960 --> 00:13:52,880 Speaker 2: hit us up now. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, 349 00:13:53,280 --> 00:13:58,600 Speaker 2: the Breakfast Club, right right? 350 00:13:58,679 --> 00:14:01,880 Speaker 18: Ray, Yo, charlomne yamvy, what up are we lost? 351 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:03,760 Speaker 2: This is your time to get it off your chest. 352 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:06,840 Speaker 2: I got an indoor pool pool. We want to hear 353 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:08,040 Speaker 2: from you on the breakfast club. 354 00:14:08,240 --> 00:14:10,040 Speaker 18: Get on the phone right now, He'll tell you what 355 00:14:10,120 --> 00:14:12,280 Speaker 18: it is we live. Hello. 356 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:13,640 Speaker 2: Who's this yo? 357 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 18: This is Chris Chris. 358 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 2: Get it off your chest, man, I want. 359 00:14:17,040 --> 00:14:18,480 Speaker 10: To figure up Viob's cartel. 360 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:18,880 Speaker 12: Man. 361 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:20,840 Speaker 18: He came did his thing in Brooklyn. 362 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:21,840 Speaker 17: Man, that was nice. 363 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:22,040 Speaker 1: Man. 364 00:14:22,040 --> 00:14:24,240 Speaker 18: I live in Florida, though, but man, I'm Jamaican and 365 00:14:24,440 --> 00:14:26,440 Speaker 18: just to see that, that's that's big for the culture. 366 00:14:26,480 --> 00:14:26,680 Speaker 1: Man. 367 00:14:26,760 --> 00:14:28,080 Speaker 2: Oh you didn't go to the show, you just you 368 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:28,760 Speaker 2: just check it in. 369 00:14:29,240 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, cause that's big man, you know what 370 00:14:31,320 --> 00:14:33,880 Speaker 1: I'm saying, jamaking and just for the dance out community. 371 00:14:33,920 --> 00:14:34,640 Speaker 10: Man, that's big. 372 00:14:34,960 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 2: Everybody came together, no incident, no problems. It was a 373 00:14:38,560 --> 00:14:40,000 Speaker 2: great show. He's gonna be out there soon. 374 00:14:40,040 --> 00:14:41,360 Speaker 6: I think he's got a Miami concert. 375 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:43,680 Speaker 2: He got a Miami consent in Fort lauda Dale concert 376 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 2: coming up. So you definitely got to check that. 377 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:47,720 Speaker 18: Yeah, yeah, for sure, man, big off the vibe. 378 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:53,160 Speaker 1: Actually it's April no May seventeenth, he'll be in Sunrise Florida. 379 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:56,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely checking out great show. Hello, who's this Hey? 380 00:14:56,680 --> 00:14:57,240 Speaker 21: Good morning? 381 00:14:57,360 --> 00:14:58,680 Speaker 20: Did he say hey, Shaye? 382 00:14:58,720 --> 00:14:59,600 Speaker 2: Get it off your chest? 383 00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:04,200 Speaker 4: So this is a request for trova made. I'm requesting 384 00:15:04,320 --> 00:15:07,640 Speaker 4: that you stop giving black people donkey of the day. 385 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:11,480 Speaker 1: That's impossible, that would be that would be discrimination. Black 386 00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:13,720 Speaker 1: donkey today does not discriminate. 387 00:15:13,520 --> 00:15:16,760 Speaker 4: Exactly, But that's what we do now. We've gotten rid 388 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:20,880 Speaker 4: of THEE and I practices. So let's stop giving black 389 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 4: people donkey yesterday. 390 00:15:22,920 --> 00:15:25,200 Speaker 6: That that would be stupid. Donkey today does not discriminate. 391 00:15:25,240 --> 00:15:28,280 Speaker 1: Black people get donkey, White people get donkey, Asians get donkey. 392 00:15:28,560 --> 00:15:30,280 Speaker 6: That's why we do. Guess what race it is? 393 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:30,440 Speaker 19: Like? 394 00:15:30,520 --> 00:15:33,040 Speaker 7: No, Yeah, and I know. 395 00:15:34,080 --> 00:15:37,720 Speaker 4: I feel like it shines a very negative spotlight on 396 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:42,280 Speaker 4: black people. We've already got enough negativity on us. Why 397 00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:44,600 Speaker 4: do we have to spread will not weave? But why 398 00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:46,680 Speaker 4: do you have to spread to love and give it 399 00:15:46,760 --> 00:15:50,640 Speaker 4: to different races when there's enough foolery going on amongst 400 00:15:50,680 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 4: older communities. 401 00:15:51,720 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 1: The fact that you even here's the thing, right, are 402 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 1: you going to stop talking about black people period? When 403 00:15:56,400 --> 00:15:58,680 Speaker 1: you when when when you see a trending topic and 404 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:01,960 Speaker 1: it's somebody, uh, you know, getting jumped on social media 405 00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:03,600 Speaker 1: for whatever, are you gonna not chime in? 406 00:16:04,480 --> 00:16:06,640 Speaker 4: Well, I really don't try me and anyway, oh you 407 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:07,400 Speaker 4: really don't know. 408 00:16:07,440 --> 00:16:08,520 Speaker 6: You have to stop. Period. 409 00:16:08,560 --> 00:16:10,240 Speaker 1: That means that if you want me to stop giving 410 00:16:10,280 --> 00:16:14,080 Speaker 1: black people donkey today, then you can't ever speak uh 411 00:16:14,320 --> 00:16:16,360 Speaker 1: ill about black people in any way, shape or form, 412 00:16:16,440 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 1: even if they do something stupid that doesn't make no sense. 413 00:16:18,880 --> 00:16:20,960 Speaker 4: Right, I don't do it, you know, I don't do 414 00:16:21,080 --> 00:16:24,560 Speaker 4: that online. Yeah, I don't speak negative about black people. 415 00:16:24,880 --> 00:16:27,120 Speaker 1: I don't think it's I don't think it's speaking negative 416 00:16:27,160 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 1: to state the obvious. And and please don't make don't 417 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:32,000 Speaker 1: make donkey today a race thing. Okay, Donkey to day 418 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:34,480 Speaker 1: is about giving people the credit they deserve for being stupid. 419 00:16:34,600 --> 00:16:36,480 Speaker 2: Well, thank you, Hello, who's this? 420 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:40,200 Speaker 21: Hey? 421 00:16:40,600 --> 00:16:41,560 Speaker 6: What part of the A four three? 422 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 21: You calling from from Georgetown? But I'm leaving the most call. 423 00:16:44,640 --> 00:16:46,360 Speaker 6: Telling hey what you got? You got a little you 424 00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:47,240 Speaker 6: got a little boo out there. 425 00:16:47,520 --> 00:16:50,000 Speaker 21: Don't do that. I've got a little job, a little. 426 00:16:49,840 --> 00:16:52,800 Speaker 6: Job, okay, okay, okay, all right, So. 427 00:16:52,840 --> 00:16:59,360 Speaker 21: Good morning, guys, good morning, good morning. Congratulated you on 428 00:16:59,400 --> 00:17:03,480 Speaker 21: your book speaking Johnny Kate plus a sophisticated version I 429 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:04,360 Speaker 21: liked that for you. 430 00:17:04,920 --> 00:17:07,200 Speaker 6: She said, what, thank you? 431 00:17:06,600 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 21: It's John Kate plus a Charlamage. 432 00:17:12,359 --> 00:17:16,080 Speaker 2: Like, huh, the book comes out tomorrow, real life, real family. 433 00:17:16,119 --> 00:17:16,520 Speaker 7: But thank you. 434 00:17:16,560 --> 00:17:17,160 Speaker 2: Have you got it yet? 435 00:17:17,160 --> 00:17:17,320 Speaker 1: Well? 436 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:18,399 Speaker 2: Have you ordered it? Pre ordered? 437 00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:21,119 Speaker 21: I got the other one, so I am going with this, Okay, 438 00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:25,399 Speaker 21: I got Charlemagne book. I didn't want to take a 439 00:17:25,480 --> 00:17:28,760 Speaker 21: gratulation on your podcast. I love you. I love that 440 00:17:28,960 --> 00:17:32,560 Speaker 21: for you, and I wanted to mention when you was 441 00:17:32,600 --> 00:17:36,080 Speaker 21: on college team and he is saying, you wanted to know, 442 00:17:36,359 --> 00:17:38,719 Speaker 21: like why you are so important and he said, it's 443 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:41,520 Speaker 21: your time. That's why you're here. It is your season, 444 00:17:41,560 --> 00:17:46,000 Speaker 21: and I want you to bask in that. And you're welcome. Charlemagne. 445 00:17:46,920 --> 00:17:48,960 Speaker 21: A few months ago, I called him right before Christmas 446 00:17:48,960 --> 00:17:51,360 Speaker 21: and I told you guys that you know, my mom, 447 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:53,159 Speaker 21: my sister, and my brother had died all with. 448 00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:54,120 Speaker 18: Her four months. 449 00:17:54,680 --> 00:17:57,359 Speaker 21: I forgot to mention that I went to therapy and 450 00:17:57,400 --> 00:17:58,959 Speaker 21: you were the reason why I went to therapy. 451 00:17:59,080 --> 00:18:01,960 Speaker 6: Oh dope, man, that's dope. I'm glad that are you 452 00:18:02,000 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 6: still in there? 453 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:06,159 Speaker 21: You just went for a little bit, ran out, so 454 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:08,800 Speaker 21: I'm not in there anymore, but I will go back. 455 00:18:09,080 --> 00:18:13,679 Speaker 1: Well, listen, go to Mentalwealth Alliance dot org. That's my uh, 456 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:16,480 Speaker 1: that's my that's my mental health nonprofit. And you know 457 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:19,920 Speaker 1: we have opportunities for you to receive like free therapy 458 00:18:19,960 --> 00:18:21,760 Speaker 1: and free grief grief counseling. 459 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:22,919 Speaker 21: Okay, I'll do that. 460 00:18:23,000 --> 00:18:24,800 Speaker 6: Yeah, go to Mentalwealth Alliance dot org. 461 00:18:25,119 --> 00:18:27,440 Speaker 21: All right, I hope you guys have a great weed. 462 00:18:27,400 --> 00:18:30,359 Speaker 1: You too, Sending you nothing but positive energy, loving like 463 00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:31,840 Speaker 1: get it off your chest. 464 00:18:31,880 --> 00:18:34,240 Speaker 2: Eight hundred five eight five one five one. Now we 465 00:18:34,240 --> 00:18:35,399 Speaker 2: got the latest lawn coming up. 466 00:18:35,560 --> 00:18:35,840 Speaker 1: We do. 467 00:18:35,880 --> 00:18:38,320 Speaker 8: You're honest, there's some trouble. There's already trouble here, but 468 00:18:38,320 --> 00:18:39,160 Speaker 8: try to start the pot. 469 00:18:41,240 --> 00:18:44,160 Speaker 6: Girl Biling. 470 00:18:46,040 --> 00:18:46,800 Speaker 9: Reheated it for the game. 471 00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:47,520 Speaker 6: We did not. 472 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:50,200 Speaker 1: It never cooled off. Anybody that thinks it cools off 473 00:18:50,200 --> 00:18:50,959 Speaker 1: ain't paying attention. 474 00:18:50,960 --> 00:18:51,840 Speaker 6: And you must be twelve. 475 00:18:52,119 --> 00:18:53,679 Speaker 9: We're gonna talk about it, all right. 476 00:18:53,760 --> 00:18:57,080 Speaker 6: That's like Tom and Jerry. That beef is up forever forever. 477 00:18:57,400 --> 00:18:59,119 Speaker 9: I had to mute my tweets. I tweeted like is 478 00:18:59,160 --> 00:18:59,920 Speaker 9: this going to go on forever? 479 00:19:00,600 --> 00:19:00,840 Speaker 2: Yes? 480 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:01,199 Speaker 6: It is. 481 00:19:01,240 --> 00:19:02,240 Speaker 2: Oh, you don't know your history? 482 00:19:02,520 --> 00:19:04,920 Speaker 9: I do you talk about it. We'll get into it, y'all. 483 00:19:04,960 --> 00:19:06,840 Speaker 2: Save it all right, we'll get into that next it's 484 00:19:06,880 --> 00:19:10,200 Speaker 2: the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. 485 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:12,720 Speaker 1: Morning. 486 00:19:12,720 --> 00:19:16,560 Speaker 2: Everybody is ceej Envy, Jess, Hilarry, Charlamagne, the guy. We 487 00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:17,680 Speaker 2: are the Breakfast Club. 488 00:19:17,720 --> 00:19:18,200 Speaker 7: Good morning. 489 00:19:18,520 --> 00:19:19,720 Speaker 2: Let's get to the latest with Lauren. 490 00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:23,160 Speaker 5: Lauren be coming a straight fast man. 491 00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:26,280 Speaker 7: She gets them somebody that knows somebody detail. 492 00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:28,680 Speaker 9: I'm the homegirl that knows a little bit about everything. 493 00:19:29,640 --> 00:19:30,840 Speaker 6: She'd be having the latest on it. 494 00:19:30,960 --> 00:19:34,560 Speaker 2: That's the big law. The latest with Lauren la Rosa. 495 00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:37,119 Speaker 1: Sometimes you have facts, sometimes you have details, sometimes you 496 00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:38,040 Speaker 1: have a little bit everything. 497 00:19:38,240 --> 00:19:40,120 Speaker 2: It's the latest on the Breakfast Club. 498 00:19:40,520 --> 00:19:40,840 Speaker 19: Something. 499 00:19:42,720 --> 00:19:45,480 Speaker 8: So Jau and fifty cent are going well, I would 500 00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:47,600 Speaker 8: say back and forth, but fifty cent hasn't fully responded 501 00:19:47,640 --> 00:19:49,840 Speaker 8: to Jarro yet. But he did respond to the fact 502 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:52,040 Speaker 8: that ja Rul was on the Breakfast Club and we 503 00:19:52,119 --> 00:19:54,520 Speaker 8: had a conversation with him about fifty and a few things. 504 00:19:54,600 --> 00:19:56,320 Speaker 9: Let's take a listen to Jarow and the Breakfast Club. 505 00:19:56,760 --> 00:19:58,399 Speaker 11: You know, I see some of the things that he 506 00:19:58,440 --> 00:20:02,399 Speaker 11: gets involved in, fuse on something like like crow up money. 507 00:20:02,440 --> 00:20:02,960 Speaker 9: You know what I'm saying. 508 00:20:03,000 --> 00:20:04,879 Speaker 11: Like, when I see the things that he does, and 509 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:07,640 Speaker 11: you know he did the Earth a million, I'm like. 510 00:20:08,359 --> 00:20:09,240 Speaker 6: How do you feel about that? 511 00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:12,960 Speaker 11: So, of course nobody likes all his goofies, but it's goofy, 512 00:20:13,359 --> 00:20:14,679 Speaker 11: you know what I'm saying. So I'm like, I'm not. 513 00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:17,359 Speaker 11: Preme said it best because I was hot, you know 514 00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:17,760 Speaker 11: what I'm saying. 515 00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:20,360 Speaker 2: I was hot. I was I was ready to go nuclear. 516 00:20:20,359 --> 00:20:21,520 Speaker 6: And you know, I say. 517 00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:23,600 Speaker 11: I spoke to him anyway, and Prince said, y'all, he 518 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:25,760 Speaker 11: said that. He said, you know, he said, here's you 519 00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:28,240 Speaker 11: gotta understand about who we are and what we are. Said, 520 00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:32,359 Speaker 11: we are masters of self defense. I said, because I'm not. 521 00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:35,200 Speaker 11: I'm I don't want to start trouble and make trouble 522 00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:37,879 Speaker 11: with people. But if we got to get into it 523 00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:41,080 Speaker 11: and make it, oh, I'll I'll put it to it 524 00:20:41,320 --> 00:20:43,000 Speaker 11: or I'll take it to the next you know. So 525 00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:45,240 Speaker 11: that's why I'm like, you know what, that is the 526 00:20:45,960 --> 00:20:48,560 Speaker 11: best description of what I am and who I am 527 00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:51,119 Speaker 11: as a man that I could ever think about. 528 00:20:52,400 --> 00:20:52,680 Speaker 9: Yeah. 529 00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:55,480 Speaker 8: So, after the video started to make the rounds, fifty 530 00:20:55,520 --> 00:20:57,679 Speaker 8: Cent posted to his Instagram and then deleted it. It 531 00:20:57,760 --> 00:21:00,119 Speaker 8: was a screenshot at Jarrul sitting in a sea here 532 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:02,200 Speaker 8: at the Breakfast Club, and the caption said the breakfast 533 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:05,960 Speaker 8: club should be ashamed of themselves asking questions that perpetuate violence. 534 00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:08,399 Speaker 8: This fool has been getting ready to go what he 535 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:11,920 Speaker 8: calls nuclear for twenty two years. Laugh oulout your man 536 00:21:11,960 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 8: and my runts right now. So after this raps, Yeah, 537 00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:20,159 Speaker 8: it's like you know the the Wayians be like smoking 538 00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:20,840 Speaker 8: on your homie. 539 00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:21,680 Speaker 9: That. 540 00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 8: So then Jarroul got on Twitter or x and decided 541 00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:28,040 Speaker 8: to respond. He said he had a day off from tour, 542 00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:30,920 Speaker 8: so he had time and then he just started going off. 543 00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:33,920 Speaker 8: So he told fifty that until fifty does something to 544 00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:36,080 Speaker 8: the people that shot him, he can't trol no more 545 00:21:36,119 --> 00:21:38,680 Speaker 8: go hand to get business like a champ. He told 546 00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:42,000 Speaker 8: him the SMD. He called him the B word. He said, 547 00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:43,960 Speaker 8: he already ate your he already ate his lunch, so 548 00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:48,680 Speaker 8: shut up. They someone had said. Somebody responded to Jarrol 549 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:51,840 Speaker 8: and said, just admit that you watch Power lmao, like 550 00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:54,000 Speaker 8: calling him a fan. Jarrol said, never seen one episode. 551 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:56,439 Speaker 8: He's solid or where he is? He told fifty from 552 00:21:56,480 --> 00:21:59,119 Speaker 8: now on, his name is Booboo and that's what they 553 00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:00,600 Speaker 8: used to call because that's they used to call him 554 00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:02,360 Speaker 8: on the streets. But really it was booboo to fool. 555 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:05,879 Speaker 8: He says that fifty cents from the streets from Brooklyn, 556 00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:10,240 Speaker 8: you boo boo from Queens. He says he called fifty 557 00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:13,480 Speaker 8: cent used car salesman. He brought the fact that he 558 00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:16,639 Speaker 8: used to be used car salesman. Everything you do is trash, 559 00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:21,879 Speaker 8: not one good music, one good album after that, trash, trash, 560 00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:26,080 Speaker 8: TV shows, trash everything. Some of these tweets is not 561 00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:29,000 Speaker 8: really tweeting. He says that he's gonna make. 562 00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:31,600 Speaker 9: He just looked. 563 00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:33,280 Speaker 8: He said fifty c in his garbage that he's trashed, 564 00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:35,159 Speaker 8: and people were responding to that, like, now you know 565 00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:36,600 Speaker 8: that ain't true. You know he didn't have some good 566 00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:40,040 Speaker 8: music and has some hits and yeah, so he's just 567 00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:42,840 Speaker 8: been going off on Twitter. Fifty has not responded to 568 00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:45,159 Speaker 8: this yet, but I'm sure he probably might. But he 569 00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:48,240 Speaker 8: did delete that first tweet, I mean that first Instagram post. 570 00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:50,879 Speaker 1: It tickles me to watch the new generation, you know, 571 00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:53,040 Speaker 1: be intrigued by this, like we've been watching this forever. 572 00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:57,200 Speaker 1: This is Cowboys versus Redskins, This is Lakers versus versus 573 00:22:57,200 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 1: North Carolin, this is the Hatfield versus McCoy's. 574 00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:00,880 Speaker 6: That's what Jo ruling. 575 00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:02,159 Speaker 2: And it'll never end. 576 00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:03,199 Speaker 6: It's never gonna end. 577 00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:06,600 Speaker 2: It'll be ninety nine with canes going at each sitting each. 578 00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:09,360 Speaker 6: Other with wheelchairs. This is just the case, like it's 579 00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:11,920 Speaker 6: a beef that will never end. And I understand it. 580 00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:15,800 Speaker 1: If you know the history between them, you will completely understand. 581 00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:17,600 Speaker 1: And I ain't got time to sit here and give 582 00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:18,760 Speaker 1: y'all know history lessons. 583 00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:22,359 Speaker 8: Yeah, jo Rul started posting paperwork calling fifty cent a 584 00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:24,920 Speaker 8: rat like it was going and going and going and going. 585 00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:26,720 Speaker 8: I tweeted, I'm like, y'all, I love both of them, 586 00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:29,080 Speaker 8: white kick, that's just in Oh. I had to meet 587 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:31,840 Speaker 8: my tweet the way that people were like, we don't 588 00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:33,240 Speaker 8: want it to end and it's not going I'm like. 589 00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:35,280 Speaker 2: Well, no, it's a never end. It's not going to end. 590 00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:37,480 Speaker 2: Like I said, there'll be ninety nine and wheelchairs and 591 00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:39,960 Speaker 2: canes going at each other. Dis and Eve. 592 00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:40,760 Speaker 22: Yeah. 593 00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:44,200 Speaker 1: Well and from from never Mind, I was good, never mind, 594 00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:45,679 Speaker 1: it don't even matter, none of your business. 595 00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:48,840 Speaker 6: It's not it's not well. 596 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 1: But if you go watch the interview, all I'm gonna 597 00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:54,840 Speaker 1: say from fifty's perspective, when you feel like somebody tried 598 00:23:54,840 --> 00:24:01,680 Speaker 1: to take everything from you, everything, yeah, not just lively everything. 599 00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:04,399 Speaker 6: Yeah, it's not goever it's a fevol. 600 00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:06,119 Speaker 2: It's never well. 601 00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:09,439 Speaker 8: Speaking of going up, Gail King is going to space today, 602 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:13,920 Speaker 8: So as long as weather permits today, Gail King will 603 00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:16,119 Speaker 8: be going up into space at nine thirty am. 604 00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:17,680 Speaker 9: But it's not just Gail King. 605 00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:20,400 Speaker 8: This is actually the first all woman crew to lift 606 00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:23,360 Speaker 8: off in nearly six decades, and they'll be going up 607 00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:25,880 Speaker 8: via Blue Origin, which is owned by Eli Muh I'm sorry, 608 00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:29,399 Speaker 8: which is owned by Jeff Bezos. Now in this flight 609 00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:33,919 Speaker 8: you have Gail King, Katy Perry, Laurence Sanchez who is 610 00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:40,000 Speaker 8: the fiance of Jeff besos Aihabo Aman Nuegian, and Carrion Flynn. 611 00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:41,800 Speaker 9: So they'll be headed up at nine thirty and there 612 00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:42,680 Speaker 9: will be a live. 613 00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:45,320 Speaker 8: Stream that will be streaming this that I believe that 614 00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:49,000 Speaker 8: livestream portal opens around like eight am on various places 615 00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:52,000 Speaker 8: where you can watch them prior to and getting on 616 00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:53,600 Speaker 8: and taking off, and they'll be up there for some 617 00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:54,879 Speaker 8: time and then they'll come right back down. 618 00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:56,480 Speaker 2: I've got there for a minute or something like that. 619 00:24:56,560 --> 00:24:58,679 Speaker 8: Yeah, but then they have to before they go up 620 00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:00,840 Speaker 8: though it does have to be cleared of course weather 621 00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:03,320 Speaker 8: and all that stuff, so it's all depending. But I 622 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:04,760 Speaker 8: don't know about y'all, but I was saying about this. 623 00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:06,399 Speaker 8: The dad just ask Charlotte, like, would y'all ever go 624 00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:06,840 Speaker 8: to space? 625 00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:09,400 Speaker 6: Nope? 626 00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:12,480 Speaker 2: Before I would have, But now I got six kids, 627 00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:13,800 Speaker 2: now I might. 628 00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:15,480 Speaker 6: I ain't got no reason to be up there. 629 00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:17,680 Speaker 2: I would love that, but I've done sky diving, I've 630 00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:20,000 Speaker 2: done all types of stupid stuff before, but not now. 631 00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:22,359 Speaker 6: But the six kid Now, I saw something yesterday. 632 00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:24,000 Speaker 1: I was reading this weekend about how they're building like 633 00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:28,160 Speaker 1: a space hotel that's gonna be for like four hundred guests, 634 00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:30,280 Speaker 1: and it's gonna have artificial gravity up there. And I'm like, 635 00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:32,520 Speaker 1: I have no reason to be up there. You know, 636 00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:35,320 Speaker 1: I'm cool. I like being on island, so I don't 637 00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:37,080 Speaker 1: need to be in space. Hell, I need to be 638 00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:37,480 Speaker 1: in space. 639 00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:39,720 Speaker 8: I think it's just the excitement to say you experienced 640 00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:41,280 Speaker 8: it and to see what it is. And they'll actually 641 00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:43,840 Speaker 8: unbuckle and float in the capsule for about four minutes 642 00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:44,840 Speaker 8: while up. 643 00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:46,760 Speaker 2: There, oh longer than a minute? Well what y'all? Wish 644 00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:47,760 Speaker 2: them the best of love, praying I. 645 00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:48,439 Speaker 6: Wait to hear about it. 646 00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:49,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, you didn't even show me. 647 00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:51,800 Speaker 6: I don't need to experience that. I can smart people 648 00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:52,600 Speaker 6: learn from their own mistakes. 649 00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:54,520 Speaker 1: Whyse people learn from the mistakes of others, not saying 650 00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:55,840 Speaker 1: that they're making a mistake. I'm just saying that I 651 00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:58,600 Speaker 1: can learn and enjoy something watching somebody else. 652 00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 6: I'm fine watching them. 653 00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:02,520 Speaker 8: Yeah, some people gotta walk and some people got to 654 00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:04,040 Speaker 8: sit down and watch. And I'm down and sit. 655 00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:08,119 Speaker 1: Down and watch. There's no business being in space, but 656 00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:10,720 Speaker 1: I wish him the best stuff. I'm not a thrill 657 00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:13,440 Speaker 1: seeker like that. Like life is, you know, hectic enough. 658 00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:16,200 Speaker 2: I used to be, Like I said, I did the 659 00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:19,360 Speaker 2: sky diving thing, I do that zipping over the Safari. 660 00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:22,160 Speaker 8: It's all crazy because I used to be a flight 661 00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:23,879 Speaker 8: aer sent it, but I would never do stuff like that, did. 662 00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:26,600 Speaker 2: All that stupid stuff like I guess and plus I 663 00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:26,879 Speaker 2: got it. 664 00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:29,120 Speaker 1: I got I deal with anxiety like I don't need 665 00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:31,440 Speaker 1: to be scaring myself. I don't even like going to 666 00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:33,560 Speaker 1: see horror movies to have them pay somebody to scare me. 667 00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:36,000 Speaker 1: For people that go on roller coasters for what I will. 668 00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:40,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm a roller That one jump out of plane 669 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:43,920 Speaker 2: was everything. I wouldn't do it again, but it was everything, 670 00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:47,480 Speaker 2: just free floating in the sky like Superman. 671 00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:48,000 Speaker 7: Yeah. 672 00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:51,200 Speaker 2: Win you and you just just watching. Everything was beautiful. 673 00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:51,520 Speaker 19: Man. 674 00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:54,639 Speaker 6: Again, I was all the thrill I needed, guns pulled on, 675 00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:57,920 Speaker 6: needed and beat. You know what I'm saying. 676 00:26:57,920 --> 00:26:59,240 Speaker 9: I've been through a lot over there. 677 00:26:59,320 --> 00:26:59,879 Speaker 2: You don't need to know. 678 00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:01,840 Speaker 6: I deserve everything I got. I deserve it all. 679 00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:03,480 Speaker 9: Hereiot, you're going to be right here on the ground 680 00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:04,760 Speaker 9: to it and fill it. 681 00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:07,200 Speaker 2: That's right, that's right, right, he gonna be in space. 682 00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:10,040 Speaker 2: That is the latest with Laura. Now when we come back, 683 00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:12,160 Speaker 2: we got front Page News and then author Mel Robbins 684 00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:13,600 Speaker 2: will be joining us. That don't go anywhere. It's the 685 00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:14,160 Speaker 2: Breakfast Club. 686 00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:17,800 Speaker 23: Good morning, you're checking out the Breakfast Club Morning. 687 00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:21,919 Speaker 2: Everybody is DJ Envy Jess Hilarious, Charlamage the guy. We 688 00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:24,159 Speaker 2: are to Breakfast Club. Layla Rosa is here. Let's get 689 00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:27,280 Speaker 2: in some front page news. Now, if you're an NBA fan, 690 00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:31,119 Speaker 2: the playoffs again. April nineteenth, all right, So April nineteenth 691 00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:33,880 Speaker 2: they have the playing tournament and then the playoffs begin. 692 00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:36,000 Speaker 2: So good luck to the New York Knicks out there. 693 00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:37,320 Speaker 2: All right? What up, Morgan? 694 00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:38,400 Speaker 12: Hey, what's up? Al? 695 00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:41,439 Speaker 13: So earlier in the show, we were talking about President 696 00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:43,919 Speaker 13: Trump and the Supreme Court, right, so he said he 697 00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:46,879 Speaker 13: will follow the Supreme Court order to return a Maryland 698 00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:49,160 Speaker 13: man who was wrongfully reported. Now. Last Thursday, the High 699 00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:52,199 Speaker 13: Court ruled that the government must facilitate the return of 700 00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:55,560 Speaker 13: Kilmar Abrego Garcia, who was supported by accident last month 701 00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:58,040 Speaker 13: to an El Salvador prison now. When asked about it 702 00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:01,880 Speaker 13: on Air Force One on Friday, Trump said he respects 703 00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:04,600 Speaker 13: the Supreme Court and that if the Supreme Court said 704 00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:06,119 Speaker 13: bring somebody back. 705 00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:07,800 Speaker 12: That he would do it. Charlemagne. 706 00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:10,439 Speaker 13: So, the State Department says, the Maryland man who was 707 00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:13,760 Speaker 13: wrongfully afforded to El Salvador is quote alive and secure. 708 00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:18,320 Speaker 13: Officials initially wouldn't get his whereabouts. On Saturday, but it 709 00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:20,280 Speaker 13: was revealed that Garcia is being held in a Now 710 00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:23,720 Speaker 13: Salvador in prison called the Terrorism Confinement Center, and later 711 00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:27,920 Speaker 13: lawyers for Garcia are US also asking the judge to 712 00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:31,560 Speaker 13: hold the Justice Apartment in contempt for failing to return 713 00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:32,280 Speaker 13: him to the US. 714 00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:37,200 Speaker 12: So, right now, what the judge and what's surrounding. 715 00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:40,200 Speaker 13: This case basically is they are trying to facilitate his return. 716 00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:43,320 Speaker 13: But they also said that that can't happen, you know, 717 00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:46,440 Speaker 13: as immediate as the courts would like. 718 00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:49,360 Speaker 1: I saw that Friday, with twelve hours ago to Trump, 719 00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:52,120 Speaker 1: administration contends it has no duty to return the illegally 720 00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:53,320 Speaker 1: deported man to the US. 721 00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:56,959 Speaker 6: That was literally twelve hours ago. Listen in the New 722 00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:57,440 Speaker 6: York Times. 723 00:28:57,480 --> 00:29:00,640 Speaker 1: I saw him say that Friday, but hours ago they 724 00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:01,720 Speaker 1: said something totally different. 725 00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:04,520 Speaker 13: I was going to say on Saturday. This is what 726 00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:06,280 Speaker 13: he said, that the man is alive and secure. I 727 00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:09,400 Speaker 13: know that the court has ruled that he is supposed 728 00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:12,880 Speaker 13: to provide or the administration excuse me, and the DOJ 729 00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:17,479 Speaker 13: is supposed to provide daily updates to the court, to 730 00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:21,560 Speaker 13: the judge in regards to Garcia, how they're facilitating getting 731 00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:23,840 Speaker 13: him back. So I should have an update again for 732 00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:26,440 Speaker 13: you tomorrow. I'm supposed to based on what the court ruled. 733 00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:28,840 Speaker 13: But you know, we will see again. We will see 734 00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:32,560 Speaker 13: with Trump, we will see. Switching gears to Pennsylvania. A 735 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:35,040 Speaker 13: man is in custody and will face attempted murder and 736 00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:37,880 Speaker 13: arson charges following an early morning fire at the Pennsylvania 737 00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:38,800 Speaker 13: Governor's mansion. 738 00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:40,920 Speaker 12: According to the Pennsylvania. 739 00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:44,680 Speaker 13: State Police, firefighters responded to the Harrisburg residents of Shapiro 740 00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:48,000 Speaker 13: at about two am. Now, Jos Shapiro says his family 741 00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:51,280 Speaker 13: was home at the time, but we're able to escape unharmed. 742 00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:54,440 Speaker 13: Governor Josh Shapiro also said the violence needs to stop 743 00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:56,120 Speaker 13: and this action will not deter him. 744 00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:58,240 Speaker 12: Let's take a listen to his comments. 745 00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:01,200 Speaker 14: It's kind of violence is becoming far too common in 746 00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:04,120 Speaker 14: our society, and I don't give it damn if it's 747 00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:08,480 Speaker 14: coming from one particular side or the other. If this 748 00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:13,240 Speaker 14: individual was trying to deter me from doing my job 749 00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:16,720 Speaker 14: as your governor, rest assured, I will find a way 750 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:21,240 Speaker 14: to work even harder than I was just yesterday. 751 00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:22,400 Speaker 2: Yes Luther. 752 00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:26,120 Speaker 1: Governor jos Shapiro man, great governor, great human. I hate 753 00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:27,720 Speaker 1: that happened to him and his family, and I don't 754 00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:30,120 Speaker 1: understand how that happened. Like that's the governor's mansion. How 755 00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:32,240 Speaker 1: did he even get onto property? Yeah, how did he 756 00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:33,800 Speaker 1: even get close enough to the house and even said 757 00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:35,360 Speaker 1: it on that that's scary. 758 00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:37,120 Speaker 12: Shapiro did say that. 759 00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:39,280 Speaker 13: He went on to say that the attack was targeted, 760 00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:42,719 Speaker 13: but a specific motive is not yet known of Pennsylvania 761 00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:46,400 Speaker 13: State Police, of course, say that the investigation is ongoing 762 00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:49,160 Speaker 13: and they believe it was an act of arson. So again, 763 00:30:49,200 --> 00:30:51,480 Speaker 13: I'll keep you posted as that story develops. 764 00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:54,560 Speaker 1: Well, you know, keep this in mind, Governor Shapiro. The 765 00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:57,200 Speaker 1: reason they're targeting you is because you are a threat 766 00:30:57,640 --> 00:30:59,800 Speaker 1: to Luther. Governor Jos Shapiro, like you know, and it's 767 00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:03,160 Speaker 1: that you know, in twenty twenty eight he'd be a 768 00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:06,479 Speaker 1: prime candidate. But the Democratic brand is so whack that 769 00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:09,440 Speaker 1: it makes the great ones like Governor Joshuapiro, you know, 770 00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:11,760 Speaker 1: it chained them a little bit just because the brand 771 00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:12,280 Speaker 1: is so whack. 772 00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:14,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you got to fix the security. Got to 773 00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:16,200 Speaker 2: make sure he's more security now, Like you said, he's 774 00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:18,000 Speaker 2: in the governor's mansion. There's no way in hell they 775 00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:18,920 Speaker 2: should have got that close. 776 00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:20,680 Speaker 8: So right, they got on about the house, but it 777 00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:23,720 Speaker 8: shouldn't have been all right, all right, guys, And I 778 00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:25,840 Speaker 8: just wanted to touch on this story. 779 00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:28,200 Speaker 13: There is a story that's been developing. I've been watching 780 00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:30,520 Speaker 13: this story, but I didn't want to rush to report 781 00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:33,000 Speaker 13: on it and just let some of the facts come out. 782 00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:36,080 Speaker 13: There's been a developing story out of Texas following a 783 00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:39,120 Speaker 13: stabbing death at a high school track meet. Carmelo Anthony, 784 00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:42,240 Speaker 13: with a k no relation to the basketball players that 785 00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:45,200 Speaker 13: I know of, was charged in a fatal stabbing of 786 00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:48,440 Speaker 13: seventeen year old Austin Metcalf at a track meet about 787 00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:51,800 Speaker 13: two weeks ago at Frisco's Id's Memorial High School. Now, 788 00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:53,800 Speaker 13: his family announced on Saturday that they had hired a 789 00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:57,160 Speaker 13: new attorney to represent Anthony. Anthony has no previous criminal 790 00:31:57,200 --> 00:31:59,640 Speaker 13: history and isn't likely to be considered a flight risk 791 00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:02,760 Speaker 13: since his family lives in Frisco. Now, local activists and 792 00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:05,960 Speaker 13: spokesperson for Anthony addressed the media to clear up some 793 00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:09,200 Speaker 13: rumors that this happened as a result of Metcalf bullying 794 00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:11,800 Speaker 13: Anthony and that the two knew each other prior to 795 00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:14,800 Speaker 13: this incident, which is not true. Let's take a listen 796 00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:18,520 Speaker 13: to spokesperson Dominique Alexander does. 797 00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:26,800 Speaker 1: Disinformation that is going online is hurting this case and it. 798 00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:27,920 Speaker 7: Has to stop. 799 00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:30,959 Speaker 2: It has to stop, y'all. 800 00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:35,720 Speaker 1: As we know it right now, Austin Metcalf and Carmela 801 00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:37,640 Speaker 1: Anthony did not know each other. 802 00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:42,239 Speaker 6: They did not know each other. Let's stop it. 803 00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:45,800 Speaker 13: So for the Frisco murder suspect Carmelo Anthony, he has 804 00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:48,560 Speaker 13: a bond reduction hearing scheduled for today. His attorney's planned 805 00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:51,120 Speaker 13: to ask the court to reduce his bond to one 806 00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:55,360 Speaker 13: million dollars. Now, Metcalf was laid to rest over the 807 00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:58,000 Speaker 13: weekend on Saturday. Let's take a listen to Austin Metcalf, 808 00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:01,520 Speaker 13: the father he will as he talks about his son. 809 00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:04,800 Speaker 20: He stabbed my son in the heart and killed him. 810 00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:06,120 Speaker 4: That's the extent of this. 811 00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:10,160 Speaker 21: That's what it was over something so small, so trivial. 812 00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:13,640 Speaker 1: He's a leader, you believe in God. 813 00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:18,200 Speaker 20: He was a great kid, made me the proudest father 814 00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:18,800 Speaker 20: in the world. 815 00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:21,280 Speaker 6: That's awesome. 816 00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:24,480 Speaker 13: Yeah, So of course I will keep you guys posted 817 00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:27,560 Speaker 13: as to how this story develops. But again, as mentioned, 818 00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:31,440 Speaker 13: there is a bond reduction hearing today and there seems 819 00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:35,720 Speaker 13: to be quite the support for the suspect. There has 820 00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:39,440 Speaker 13: been a fundraiser. Give go has raised more than two 821 00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:42,640 Speaker 13: hundred and eighty five thousand dollars in regards to support 822 00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:46,520 Speaker 13: for his defense. So gifsing go also has fundraisers for 823 00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:48,680 Speaker 13: Kyle Rittenhouse and Daniel Penny, just to give you guys 824 00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:51,640 Speaker 13: some perspective on that. So it seems to be those 825 00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:55,000 Speaker 13: who are supporting the what's the word I would use, 826 00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:59,240 Speaker 13: less popular or those who just defense basically, I'll just say, 827 00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:02,120 Speaker 13: but yeah, so bringing things home to you guys in 828 00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:04,720 Speaker 13: New York really quickly. To wrap things up, the Central 829 00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:06,800 Speaker 13: Park five, also known as the Exonerated Five, got the 830 00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:08,719 Speaker 13: green light from a federal judge on Thursday to move 831 00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:11,440 Speaker 13: forward with a defamation lawsuit against President Trump. 832 00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:14,000 Speaker 12: The five black and one Hispanic man. 833 00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:16,680 Speaker 13: Were teenagers when they were arrested in nineteen eighty nine 834 00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:19,200 Speaker 13: for assault and rape of a white woman dragging in 835 00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:21,880 Speaker 13: New York City park. Trump took out a full page 836 00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:25,480 Speaker 13: newspaper ad calling for the return of the death penalty 837 00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:29,359 Speaker 13: following the incident. It of course took years before they 838 00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:33,080 Speaker 13: were all eventually freed and exonerated, and someone else confessed 839 00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:35,560 Speaker 13: to the crime and DNA evidence backed that up. That 840 00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:38,320 Speaker 13: didn't stop Trump from commenting on their case as recently 841 00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:40,400 Speaker 13: as twenty twenty four, even going as far as falsely 842 00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:43,200 Speaker 13: claiming the victim in the incident had been killed. 843 00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:44,279 Speaker 12: So these guys. 844 00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:46,640 Speaker 13: Are like, yeah, y'are you're not going to do that 845 00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:49,640 Speaker 13: to me, and they're going to move forward with that 846 00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:53,399 Speaker 13: case in regards to a defamation lawsuit against President Trump. 847 00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:55,200 Speaker 13: So we'll see what happens with that as well. But 848 00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:57,520 Speaker 13: that's your front page news y'all. Y'all can follow me 849 00:34:57,560 --> 00:35:00,560 Speaker 13: on socials at Morgan Media and for more our news coverage, 850 00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:03,560 Speaker 13: follow the Black Information Network at Black Information Network, download 851 00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:05,360 Speaker 13: the free iHeartRadio app, and visit us at b I 852 00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:06,840 Speaker 13: nnews dot com. 853 00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:08,560 Speaker 12: Have you Monday, Let's make it a great. 854 00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:11,879 Speaker 2: Thank you, Morgan, Thank you all. Right now, when we 855 00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:14,719 Speaker 2: come back, Mel Robbins will be joining us. She has 856 00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:16,719 Speaker 2: a new book to Let Them Theory, and we're gonna 857 00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:18,680 Speaker 2: talk to her next And don't move. It's the Breakfast Club. 858 00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:21,000 Speaker 2: Good morning, the Breakfast Club. 859 00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:23,560 Speaker 18: Morning. 860 00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:27,560 Speaker 2: Everybody is DJ Envy, just hilarious, Charlamage the guy we 861 00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:30,240 Speaker 2: are the Breakfast Club. La La Rosa is here as well, 862 00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:33,480 Speaker 2: and we got a special guest in the building. Ladies 863 00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:34,720 Speaker 2: and gentlemen, Meil Robbins. 864 00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:35,120 Speaker 1: Welcome. 865 00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:37,480 Speaker 22: Hey, it's good to see you. How you feeling morning, 866 00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:38,960 Speaker 22: I feel great? How are you doing? 867 00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:41,480 Speaker 1: Bless Black and Holly favorite. This is your first time 868 00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:43,600 Speaker 1: in this studio. You were here in twenty twenty one 869 00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:46,000 Speaker 1: when you had a high five Theory. Yes, yes, but 870 00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:49,600 Speaker 1: now millions of books later, number one podcast in the 871 00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:52,480 Speaker 1: world right now, everybody else. 872 00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:59,200 Speaker 6: Relations It really feels like you've truly arrived. What do 873 00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:01,320 Speaker 6: you what do you think you know the success was 874 00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:02,560 Speaker 6: made all this new success. 875 00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:05,120 Speaker 22: Happen, Well, you know it's not new success. Like what 876 00:36:05,160 --> 00:36:09,720 Speaker 22: you're seeing is the result of fifteen years of just boring, 877 00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:15,360 Speaker 22: grueling daily reps. Like That's what nobody wants to understand, 878 00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:18,640 Speaker 22: is that you can be successful. You can achieve anything 879 00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:21,040 Speaker 22: you want. You just have to be patient. You have 880 00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:23,600 Speaker 22: to get up out of bed every single day and 881 00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:25,279 Speaker 22: put one foot in front of the other. You got 882 00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:27,120 Speaker 22: to be willing to do the things you don't feel 883 00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:30,399 Speaker 22: like doing in the dark when nobody's watching and when 884 00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:32,319 Speaker 22: you think that it's not going to happen for you. 885 00:36:32,760 --> 00:36:36,240 Speaker 22: That is what it's about. It's about just consistent, small moves, 886 00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:38,919 Speaker 22: being patient. I mean, there were so many times where 887 00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:40,880 Speaker 22: I was just like, am I ever going to get 888 00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:43,920 Speaker 22: out of it? Is anyone ever gonna notice? Like am 889 00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:46,360 Speaker 22: I ever gonna get invited to the breakfast club? Like 890 00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:49,120 Speaker 22: one of the like when is somebody gone to notice. 891 00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:51,560 Speaker 2: Your spot that you want it? 892 00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:51,759 Speaker 11: Well? 893 00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:53,839 Speaker 22: No, but seriously, like you kind of sit there because 894 00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:55,880 Speaker 22: I mean every one of us have had those moments, 895 00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:58,520 Speaker 22: whether you're putting out music or you're starting a YouTube 896 00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:01,200 Speaker 22: channel or you started a business, and it's so easy 897 00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:03,200 Speaker 22: to look around at what everybody else is doing and 898 00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:06,040 Speaker 22: think that you're losing some race in life. The real 899 00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:10,400 Speaker 22: game is with yourself. Can you keep going? Can you 900 00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:12,239 Speaker 22: say to yourself? And this is kind of how I 901 00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:14,760 Speaker 22: would keep myself going in those moments, I would say, 902 00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:18,359 Speaker 22: I refuse to believe that this is how the story ends. 903 00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:21,640 Speaker 22: I believe that at some point all of this work 904 00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:24,440 Speaker 22: is going to pay off. I don't have to know how. 905 00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:26,799 Speaker 22: I have to believe that it will. And if it 906 00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:30,160 Speaker 22: hasn't yet, it's not meant to yet. There's some lesson. 907 00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:34,040 Speaker 22: There's something I'm being held for that I don't know 908 00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:35,920 Speaker 22: what it is. But if I choose to believe in 909 00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:37,719 Speaker 22: this moment that things are going to get better, that 910 00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:39,319 Speaker 22: things are going to turn out for me, that all 911 00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:41,719 Speaker 22: this hard work is going to pay off, that trying 912 00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:43,439 Speaker 22: to be a better person is going to pay off, 913 00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:46,000 Speaker 22: at some point I will look back on my life 914 00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:48,759 Speaker 22: and say, oh, that's why it didn't happen. Then, Oh, 915 00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:52,480 Speaker 22: that's why it took longer. Oh that's why either you 916 00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:56,200 Speaker 22: weren't ready or God the universe was holding you for 917 00:37:56,280 --> 00:37:58,080 Speaker 22: a different moment. And so you know, a lot of 918 00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:00,440 Speaker 22: people ask me what is this moment about. I think 919 00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:04,480 Speaker 22: it's about fifteen years of ridiculously hard work becoming a 920 00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:08,640 Speaker 22: better person. I think it's about fifteen years of just 921 00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:12,439 Speaker 22: chipping away at getting out of debt and doing better 922 00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:14,600 Speaker 22: in my marriage, and being a better mother, and getting 923 00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:17,680 Speaker 22: control of my emotions and my mental health, chipping away 924 00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:21,840 Speaker 22: at building a business. And I truly believe that I 925 00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:25,080 Speaker 22: was being held for this moment like this one thousand 926 00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:26,040 Speaker 22: percent is my legacy. 927 00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:27,719 Speaker 2: Well, let me ask you a question, Malt. You talk 928 00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:30,040 Speaker 2: about the reps yep, for you, it worked out and 929 00:38:30,640 --> 00:38:33,960 Speaker 2: successful and great. What about that person that is just 930 00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:36,720 Speaker 2: not good? Right? That rap of that is not good? 931 00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:40,920 Speaker 2: Like trying that podcast person that is doing the podcast 932 00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:44,160 Speaker 2: that is just not good and everybody just stay good 933 00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:45,520 Speaker 2: good to anybody? 934 00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:46,920 Speaker 22: Well, I don't I see, I don't believe that. 935 00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:49,560 Speaker 2: But when do you stop? Because you're a sixty year 936 00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:50,680 Speaker 2: old rapper, like you know, I mean. 937 00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:53,080 Speaker 22: Maybe why can't there be a ninety one ninety year 938 00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:56,680 Speaker 22: old one? See? Maybe what the rapping is for is 939 00:38:56,760 --> 00:38:59,759 Speaker 22: maybe it's not about rapping. Maybe there is something that 940 00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:03,719 Speaker 22: you're doing when you are wrapping and nobody's coming that 941 00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:08,000 Speaker 22: is teaching you a lesson about patience. Maybe what it's 942 00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:11,520 Speaker 22: doing is teaching you to believe in yourself when nobody 943 00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:14,799 Speaker 22: else does. And every time that you show up and 944 00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:17,560 Speaker 22: nobody's there, every time you post a video on your 945 00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:20,719 Speaker 22: YouTube channel that only your uncle and your son are 946 00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:24,560 Speaker 22: subscribed to, every time you post, you're basically saying, you 947 00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:28,000 Speaker 22: know what, screw the world. I believe in myself. I'm 948 00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:30,560 Speaker 22: doing this for myself and so for me when you 949 00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:32,960 Speaker 22: give the example of like the person who's a rappers 950 00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:35,520 Speaker 22: is terrible, just there's lots of people out there doing stuff. 951 00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:37,960 Speaker 22: They're just terrible. What I love is that they felt 952 00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:40,000 Speaker 22: called to do something. I don't care if they felt 953 00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:42,880 Speaker 22: called to do it because they wanted to make more money. 954 00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:46,080 Speaker 22: I mean, hell, I was working five six jobs back, 955 00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:48,040 Speaker 22: you know, fifteen years ago when we were eight hundred 956 00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:50,920 Speaker 22: thousand dollars in debt because I needed groceries on the table, 957 00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:54,320 Speaker 22: I needed gas in the tank. And so motivation to 958 00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:57,160 Speaker 22: be safe and to make money or because of your ambition. 959 00:39:57,239 --> 00:39:59,319 Speaker 22: That's a beautiful thing. But at some point you're going 960 00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:01,759 Speaker 22: to go, I'm I'm not that good at this, but 961 00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:04,160 Speaker 22: I believe and this is what I think is super 962 00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:07,600 Speaker 22: cool about life. Absolutely every experience that you have in 963 00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:11,200 Speaker 22: life is leading you somewhere and teaching you something. And 964 00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:13,600 Speaker 22: I'm gonna one of the reasons why I share so 965 00:40:13,840 --> 00:40:16,319 Speaker 22: much about what I've learned and the mistakes that I've made. 966 00:40:16,360 --> 00:40:20,200 Speaker 22: I'm like the villain and every book is because I'm stubborn, 967 00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:23,520 Speaker 22: Like it takes a sledgehammer from the universe for me 968 00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:26,000 Speaker 22: to wake the hell up and stop doing something like 969 00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:28,840 Speaker 22: I literally get so into my groove, whether it's drinking 970 00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:31,120 Speaker 22: too much or taking my stress out on my kids 971 00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:35,279 Speaker 22: or being a jealous, insecure friend that things have to 972 00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:37,799 Speaker 22: backfire for me to wake up and go, well, yes, 973 00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:39,320 Speaker 22: I better try something different. 974 00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:41,200 Speaker 6: Well, that's what I want to Just set it up. 975 00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:43,720 Speaker 1: About the book, man, there's some books that I believe 976 00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:47,240 Speaker 1: are must reads in life. Delecting Theory by mel Robbins 977 00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:49,120 Speaker 1: has been added to that must readless. My wife got 978 00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:51,120 Speaker 1: it for me a few weeks ago, and the book 979 00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:53,200 Speaker 1: is just essentially about how you have to stop wasting 980 00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:55,640 Speaker 1: your life on things that you can't control. 981 00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:57,240 Speaker 6: When did you get to that revelus? 982 00:40:57,239 --> 00:41:01,840 Speaker 22: Oh my god, fifty four I explained learner, you know, 983 00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:03,719 Speaker 22: And the funny thing is is I'm married to the 984 00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:05,880 Speaker 22: chillest dude on the plan. I mean, I'm married to 985 00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:08,600 Speaker 22: a man who is not only Buddhist, he is a 986 00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:11,799 Speaker 22: death dula. And like when you want to talk about 987 00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:15,840 Speaker 22: like a person, yeah that can just sit in stillness. 988 00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:18,880 Speaker 22: I'm like a tornado of emotion. And so I've always 989 00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:21,000 Speaker 22: wanted to let things go. I've always wanted to not 990 00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:24,120 Speaker 22: care what people think. I've never known how. And see, 991 00:41:24,120 --> 00:41:28,160 Speaker 22: when you're stressed, or you're easily offended like I used 992 00:41:28,200 --> 00:41:31,440 Speaker 22: to be, or you have a lot going on, it 993 00:41:31,560 --> 00:41:35,120 Speaker 22: is very hard to not get wrapped up and what 994 00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:37,440 Speaker 22: other people are thinking and doing. It's very hard to 995 00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:39,640 Speaker 22: not let what your kids are going through stress you out. 996 00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:42,720 Speaker 22: And so you know, I've been trying to do this forever. 997 00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:45,200 Speaker 22: I mean, this is not a new idea. The serenity 998 00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:47,480 Speaker 22: prayer is the let Them theory. In fact, you know, 999 00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:49,600 Speaker 22: I sat down with doctor Martin Luther King the third 1000 00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:52,439 Speaker 22: and his wife and Andrea, and they both said, we write 1001 00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:54,600 Speaker 22: about it in the let Them theory. They both reflect 1002 00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:57,719 Speaker 22: on the fact that this concept that you have to 1003 00:41:58,560 --> 00:42:02,640 Speaker 22: give up control in order to gain control, that your 1004 00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:04,680 Speaker 22: power is in your response that this is part of 1005 00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:10,120 Speaker 22: doctor Martin Luther King Junior's legacy, because your response is 1006 00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:14,080 Speaker 22: what dictates who you are. It's not what's happening out there, 1007 00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:18,000 Speaker 22: it's how you respond to it with your thoughts and 1008 00:42:18,040 --> 00:42:22,080 Speaker 22: your actions and how you process your own emotions. And 1009 00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:24,080 Speaker 22: so I did not know this until I was fifty 1010 00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:26,560 Speaker 22: four years old. And you know for me personally the 1011 00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:29,879 Speaker 22: power of these two words, because let them We've all 1012 00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:32,239 Speaker 22: said let them in our lives a bazillion times. I mean, 1013 00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:36,160 Speaker 22: there's a sermon circulating that's twenty years old. 1014 00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:36,400 Speaker 7: T D. 1015 00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:39,360 Speaker 22: Jakes doing this let them sermons. So this is a 1016 00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:42,320 Speaker 22: concept that has been around since the beginning of time, 1017 00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:45,239 Speaker 22: and that's why this is resonated. I'm not teaching you 1018 00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:47,600 Speaker 22: something new. I'm reminding you of what you already know 1019 00:42:47,680 --> 00:42:50,120 Speaker 22: to be true. And I'm handing you this tool so 1020 00:42:50,239 --> 00:42:52,719 Speaker 22: you can snap out of this crap where we're constantly 1021 00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:54,480 Speaker 22: worked up about what other people are doing to take 1022 00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:55,160 Speaker 22: our power back. 1023 00:42:55,640 --> 00:42:57,759 Speaker 2: We got more with auth of mel Robbins when we 1024 00:42:57,800 --> 00:42:59,759 Speaker 2: come back, So don't move. It's to Breakfast Club, Good 1025 00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:04,080 Speaker 2: morning morning. Everybody is DJ n V, Jess, Hilarry Charlamagne, 1026 00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:06,440 Speaker 2: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club Laura la Rosters 1027 00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:08,520 Speaker 2: here as well. We're still kicking with mel Robbins. 1028 00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:09,160 Speaker 5: Lauren. 1029 00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:13,000 Speaker 8: You talk about managing other people a lot, and I've 1030 00:43:13,080 --> 00:43:14,879 Speaker 8: never heard the term put like that, but you use 1031 00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:18,120 Speaker 8: it to basically talk about how we're so what you're 1032 00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:19,640 Speaker 8: talking about r now, we're worried about other people, but 1033 00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:22,120 Speaker 8: also too, I think it's expectations of other people that 1034 00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:25,600 Speaker 8: we're trying to we're making decisions based around that a lot. 1035 00:43:25,840 --> 00:43:29,080 Speaker 8: When did you realize this whole scale of like managing 1036 00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:31,880 Speaker 8: other people and learning when the clock out of that 1037 00:43:31,960 --> 00:43:32,920 Speaker 8: job of trying to do that? 1038 00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:35,960 Speaker 22: Well, so what's going to happen is this? So when 1039 00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:37,680 Speaker 22: you start using the let them theory, and it's so 1040 00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:40,560 Speaker 22: easy to use the next time you're stressed out or 1041 00:43:40,560 --> 00:43:43,200 Speaker 22: annoyed or frustrated, and it's always with other people, just 1042 00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:45,080 Speaker 22: say let them. That's how you use it. Let them, 1043 00:43:45,160 --> 00:43:47,680 Speaker 22: and you're gonna immediately feel peaceful. Your mom's in a 1044 00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:49,879 Speaker 22: bad mood, letter be in a bad mood, some old 1045 00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:52,040 Speaker 22: friend of yours is talking let them talk trash. Why 1046 00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:56,480 Speaker 22: you're not allowing it? When you say let them, you 1047 00:43:56,560 --> 00:43:59,480 Speaker 22: are reminding yourself there's one thing in life I can't 1048 00:43:59,520 --> 00:44:01,840 Speaker 22: control it time, what other people say, do believe, feel, 1049 00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:04,520 Speaker 22: and it's on my job to So when you start 1050 00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:09,040 Speaker 22: saying let them, and you detach yourself from the responsibility 1051 00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:13,200 Speaker 22: of having to manage somebody else, something interesting happens. You realize, 1052 00:44:13,239 --> 00:44:15,440 Speaker 22: oh my god, I've lived my life in reserve reverse. 1053 00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:19,360 Speaker 22: I actually live my life giving time and energy trying 1054 00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:22,360 Speaker 22: to manage what other people think. I have kept myself 1055 00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:26,440 Speaker 22: in a major or in a relationship, or in a 1056 00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:30,280 Speaker 22: situation because I'm afraid to disappoint my parents or my friends. 1057 00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:34,040 Speaker 22: I mean, how many people keep drinking or keep going 1058 00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:35,960 Speaker 22: out at night when what they really want to do 1059 00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:39,040 Speaker 22: is launch a business, and so they don't take the 1060 00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:40,920 Speaker 22: weekends to work on the things that they want to 1061 00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:43,200 Speaker 22: work on because they feel like they don't want to 1062 00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:45,239 Speaker 22: disappoint their friends or people going to talk about them. 1063 00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:48,040 Speaker 22: That's you giving power to other people. Like another way 1064 00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:50,640 Speaker 22: that we give power to other people is we get 1065 00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:53,600 Speaker 22: so focused on the headlines that we gaslight ourselves into 1066 00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:56,080 Speaker 22: believing that you have no power. It's complete garbage. Of 1067 00:44:56,120 --> 00:44:58,799 Speaker 22: course you have power. And so when you start saying 1068 00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:01,400 Speaker 22: let them, it's sort of this revelation where you're like, 1069 00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:05,760 Speaker 22: oh my god, I spend so much time and energy 1070 00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:08,160 Speaker 22: worrying about other people. I spent so much time and 1071 00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:09,600 Speaker 22: energy letting them stress me out. 1072 00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:11,680 Speaker 8: But is there a level of like when that becomes 1073 00:45:11,719 --> 00:45:13,960 Speaker 8: easier versus harder? Because when you were just talking, I 1074 00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:16,520 Speaker 8: thought about Michelle Obama in the podcast, one of the 1075 00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:18,560 Speaker 8: podcasts she did this week, she was talking about how 1076 00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:20,959 Speaker 8: she realized she was doing a lot for other people 1077 00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:23,600 Speaker 8: not thinking about herself, and she started making decisions for herself. 1078 00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:25,239 Speaker 8: So she's going place she wants to go and do 1079 00:45:25,280 --> 00:45:27,920 Speaker 8: things she's like that don't and they think she's divorce 1080 00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:31,440 Speaker 8: because of it. Yeah, but it's like, she's Michelle Obama, 1081 00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:34,759 Speaker 8: so it's hard for her to like the noise is 1082 00:45:34,840 --> 00:45:37,320 Speaker 8: so it's a lot louder for her well. 1083 00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:40,719 Speaker 22: Of course. But whether or not you pay attention to 1084 00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:43,960 Speaker 22: that is within your control. Whether or not you look 1085 00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:46,040 Speaker 22: at your phone, and we're all guilty of it, whether 1086 00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:49,200 Speaker 22: you are Michelle Obama or you're just going into your 1087 00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:52,800 Speaker 22: middle school, whether or not you give attention to the gossip, 1088 00:45:53,000 --> 00:45:55,880 Speaker 22: you look for, the gossip, you mainline it, that is 1089 00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:59,360 Speaker 22: within your control. If you say I can never ever 1090 00:45:59,600 --> 00:46:02,680 Speaker 22: ever stop somebody from lying about me, from making up 1091 00:46:02,680 --> 00:46:05,560 Speaker 22: stuff about me, from you know, saying whatever they're going 1092 00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:08,560 Speaker 22: to say. So why on earth would I spend any 1093 00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:11,439 Speaker 22: time and energy managing it? And then you go, let 1094 00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:13,320 Speaker 22: me This is the second part of the theory. Once't 1095 00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:15,560 Speaker 22: you say let them, let them think negative thoughts, let 1096 00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:17,640 Speaker 22: them make up all kinds of crap, because if you 1097 00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:19,759 Speaker 22: know you're not getting divorced, what do you care about 1098 00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:23,279 Speaker 22: these idiots saying let me remind myself that I know 1099 00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:26,200 Speaker 22: the truth. And when you know the truth about who 1100 00:46:26,280 --> 00:46:28,880 Speaker 22: you are, you don't think about other people. When you 1101 00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:31,640 Speaker 22: live your life in a way that makes you proud, 1102 00:46:32,120 --> 00:46:33,800 Speaker 22: you don't think about other people. 1103 00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:36,680 Speaker 5: You tell me to read her. 1104 00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:38,200 Speaker 9: Book, and I was, and I already had the book 1105 00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:39,799 Speaker 9: because I think Eddie had given it to us a minute. 1106 00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:42,080 Speaker 9: And I was like, oh, I got the book, and for. 1107 00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:44,479 Speaker 22: You got it. It will change your damn. I'm telling 1108 00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:45,480 Speaker 22: you it will change your life. 1109 00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:47,920 Speaker 2: Because but you have to get to that stage, yes, 1110 00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:51,239 Speaker 2: because it's that stage. 1111 00:46:51,760 --> 00:47:01,640 Speaker 8: He think he was born that way, and I've. 1112 00:46:57,360 --> 00:46:58,320 Speaker 6: Never truly cared. 1113 00:46:58,440 --> 00:46:58,560 Speaker 11: Right. 1114 00:46:58,680 --> 00:47:00,520 Speaker 1: But then even when I thought of the care, I 1115 00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:02,880 Speaker 1: realize things like the serenity prayer, a little simple thing 1116 00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:05,280 Speaker 1: that you saw sitting in your grandmother's house. You realize 1117 00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:07,520 Speaker 1: that is absolutely the true of God. Grammy just serenityed 1118 00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:09,160 Speaker 1: the accept things I can not change, courage to change 1119 00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:09,759 Speaker 1: the things I can, and. 1120 00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:10,560 Speaker 6: With them no difference. 1121 00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:12,319 Speaker 1: And the easiest way to let go of what you 1122 00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:15,319 Speaker 1: can't control is just realizing you've never had control to 1123 00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:15,719 Speaker 1: begin with. 1124 00:47:16,160 --> 00:47:17,880 Speaker 22: And here's another thing that's really important. That's why you're 1125 00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:20,200 Speaker 22: gonna love it, is that what will start to happen 1126 00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:22,799 Speaker 22: when you say let them is it's not that you're 1127 00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:25,640 Speaker 22: allowing people to do bad things. They're already doing bad things. 1128 00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:29,719 Speaker 22: You're recognizing that it's not your job to manage other people, 1129 00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:32,240 Speaker 22: because this is a book that's about power and control 1130 00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:36,000 Speaker 22: and peace. Then you say, let me remind myself how 1131 00:47:36,040 --> 00:47:40,000 Speaker 22: I respond to things. Actually is where my power is. 1132 00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:43,040 Speaker 22: So do I give this any time and energy or not? 1133 00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:46,000 Speaker 22: Do I double down on just living my life in 1134 00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:48,600 Speaker 22: a way that makes me proud of myself, which is 1135 00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:50,879 Speaker 22: where your power is. And the thing that that also 1136 00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:56,680 Speaker 22: changed me dramatically is I couldn't believe how much stress 1137 00:47:57,400 --> 00:48:00,640 Speaker 22: I felt and how I was bracing all the time. 1138 00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:03,880 Speaker 22: And when you start to say let them, and you 1139 00:48:04,000 --> 00:48:09,520 Speaker 22: release that kind of obligation to make other people happy, 1140 00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:12,040 Speaker 22: or to make everybody know that you're not divorced or 1141 00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:14,880 Speaker 22: that everything's okay, or like, just let them think whatever 1142 00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:16,520 Speaker 22: they want to think, and live your life in a 1143 00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:19,239 Speaker 22: way that makes you proud. You're going to get all 1144 00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:22,440 Speaker 22: this time and energy back. And what I love about 1145 00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:25,480 Speaker 22: this is when you're less stressed and when you're not 1146 00:48:25,600 --> 00:48:28,919 Speaker 22: bracing all the time. Because you know your boss is narcissistic, 1147 00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:31,720 Speaker 22: so why on earth would you walk into work assuming 1148 00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:33,719 Speaker 22: that that he's going to be anything other than what 1149 00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:36,839 Speaker 22: it already has always been. Let them be who they are. 1150 00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:38,920 Speaker 6: I love the Managing Stress chapter. 1151 00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:41,080 Speaker 1: And in that chapter you say you can't control how 1152 00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:45,640 Speaker 1: other adults behave and stressing about it diminishes your power. 1153 00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:48,000 Speaker 1: You'll never reach the full potential of your life if 1154 00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:50,400 Speaker 1: you continue to allow stupid things to rule people, to 1155 00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:51,279 Speaker 1: drain your life force. 1156 00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:51,799 Speaker 2: Can you yes? 1157 00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:51,920 Speaker 24: Me? 1158 00:48:52,040 --> 00:48:52,200 Speaker 11: Yes? 1159 00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:55,160 Speaker 22: So the two most important resources that you have in 1160 00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:58,360 Speaker 22: life time energy, That's what you got. How you spend 1161 00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:02,080 Speaker 22: your time, where you put your energy, it actually determines 1162 00:49:02,120 --> 00:49:04,680 Speaker 22: your experience of life. And that's why I say, if 1163 00:49:04,719 --> 00:49:07,239 Speaker 22: you have this experience right now, where you're exhausted and 1164 00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:10,960 Speaker 22: overwhelmed and nervous, and you're not like feeling like you 1165 00:49:11,000 --> 00:49:13,560 Speaker 22: can ever have time for yourself or your goals. Just 1166 00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:16,480 Speaker 22: start clicking. You're not the problem. The problem is all 1167 00:49:16,520 --> 00:49:19,160 Speaker 22: this time and energy you spend dealing with other people, 1168 00:49:19,640 --> 00:49:22,439 Speaker 22: and so let them is a boundary that you draw 1169 00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:25,000 Speaker 22: where you start to recognize, Okay, I'm gonna let other 1170 00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:28,279 Speaker 22: people think and feel and do and have their opinions, 1171 00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:30,799 Speaker 22: and I'm gonna let them be disappointed. I'm gonna let 1172 00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:34,760 Speaker 22: them misunderstand me, and I'm going to let me really 1173 00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:37,920 Speaker 22: take that time and energy back and pour it into 1174 00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:41,279 Speaker 22: working on myself and staying in my piece. And what 1175 00:49:41,360 --> 00:49:45,440 Speaker 22: I've found is that when I'm less stressed, which i 1176 00:49:45,480 --> 00:49:49,920 Speaker 22: am because I'm not allowing stupid stuff for other people 1177 00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:53,279 Speaker 22: to stress me out, I'm actually a better person. I 1178 00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:55,920 Speaker 22: make more money because I can use my brain instead 1179 00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:59,160 Speaker 22: of being in fire or flight. I don't like vomit 1180 00:49:59,239 --> 00:50:01,480 Speaker 22: on my kids. My emotions. Like I used to be 1181 00:50:01,520 --> 00:50:03,239 Speaker 22: the kind of person that would come in at you know, 1182 00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:06,279 Speaker 22: after work and yelling at everybody or mad at the 1183 00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:07,960 Speaker 22: dog for crying out loud, and then I'd be like, 1184 00:50:07,960 --> 00:50:09,839 Speaker 22: I'm sorry, it's a bad day at work, stressful day 1185 00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:12,319 Speaker 22: at work with the dogs the book, you know, they 1186 00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:13,759 Speaker 22: kind of do this and then they come back and 1187 00:50:13,760 --> 00:50:19,320 Speaker 22: they're really nice because they literally dogs don't like punish 1188 00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:22,479 Speaker 22: you for that. And it's so sad that I used 1189 00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:25,600 Speaker 22: to leave the worst of me for the people I 1190 00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:28,040 Speaker 22: cared about the most and then blame it on the 1191 00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:28,919 Speaker 22: stress of the day. 1192 00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:29,120 Speaker 19: That. 1193 00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:31,680 Speaker 22: By the way, when you use the let them theory, 1194 00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:34,919 Speaker 22: you have control over whether or not this stuff gets 1195 00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:35,120 Speaker 22: to you. 1196 00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:38,440 Speaker 2: Let me do it. I have a question. Yeah, in 1197 00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:41,319 Speaker 2: chapter five, you say let them think bad thoughts about you, right. 1198 00:50:41,800 --> 00:50:43,560 Speaker 2: The question with that is when a lot of people 1199 00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:48,440 Speaker 2: sometimes especially on social media, right, nobody facts checks anymore. 1200 00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:51,840 Speaker 2: But that could affect your reputation. That can affect your business. 1201 00:50:51,840 --> 00:50:54,879 Speaker 2: That could affect the way that your kid's teachers look 1202 00:50:54,920 --> 00:50:57,000 Speaker 2: at you, or business that comes outd of course, what 1203 00:50:57,000 --> 00:50:58,160 Speaker 2: are you doing well? 1204 00:50:58,200 --> 00:51:01,439 Speaker 22: So here this is a very trick question because you're 1205 00:51:01,520 --> 00:51:05,640 Speaker 22: talking about the PR and the media swirl. PR is 1206 00:51:05,640 --> 00:51:08,799 Speaker 22: a little bit different in personal like, I think it's 1207 00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:11,399 Speaker 22: really important to understand who you are, whether you're dealing 1208 00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:13,880 Speaker 22: with rumors at a middle school or you're dealing with 1209 00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:16,040 Speaker 22: rumors in your community, or you've got somebody in your 1210 00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:20,160 Speaker 22: family trash talking you. In order to repair your reputation, 1211 00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:23,480 Speaker 22: it is better to show than to tell. In my opinion, 1212 00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:26,640 Speaker 22: you prove the truth based on how you show up 1213 00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:29,080 Speaker 22: in life, not based on the words that come out 1214 00:51:29,120 --> 00:51:32,120 Speaker 22: of your mouth. And if there is somebody spreading things 1215 00:51:32,160 --> 00:51:34,799 Speaker 22: about you, the best way to handle it is to 1216 00:51:34,840 --> 00:51:37,880 Speaker 22: go directly to that person and to ask them about it. 1217 00:51:37,960 --> 00:51:40,400 Speaker 22: Because those kind of people, the people that gossip about you, 1218 00:51:41,000 --> 00:51:44,440 Speaker 22: ultimately end up crumbling anyway, sure, because it always catches. 1219 00:51:44,239 --> 00:51:44,640 Speaker 11: Up with them. 1220 00:51:44,760 --> 00:51:46,560 Speaker 2: All Right, we got more with Meil Robbins when we 1221 00:51:46,600 --> 00:51:49,280 Speaker 2: come back. It's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning Horning everybody 1222 00:51:49,280 --> 00:51:52,960 Speaker 2: at ej Envy Jess, hilarious Charlamage. The guy we are 1223 00:51:53,040 --> 00:51:55,640 Speaker 2: to Breakfast Club is still kicking it with Mel Robbins. 1224 00:51:55,920 --> 00:51:58,879 Speaker 2: A new book, The Let Them Theory, is out right now. 1225 00:51:59,000 --> 00:52:01,399 Speaker 1: Charlomagne, you know you were in the book you talk 1226 00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:04,560 Speaker 1: about how you felt paralyzed by imposter syndrome, especially when 1227 00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:07,080 Speaker 1: you were teaching. Yeah, the five second rule, I wonder 1228 00:52:07,120 --> 00:52:09,080 Speaker 1: what's changed since then? Like, well, gives you the confidence 1229 00:52:09,120 --> 00:52:11,319 Speaker 1: and authority now to feel like you can go out 1230 00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:11,880 Speaker 1: here and teach to. 1231 00:52:11,880 --> 00:52:12,239 Speaker 2: Let them do. 1232 00:52:12,360 --> 00:52:16,040 Speaker 22: That's a great, great question. So you know how well, 1233 00:52:16,080 --> 00:52:20,640 Speaker 22: First of all, impostor syndrome is deeply misunderstood. So imposter 1234 00:52:20,840 --> 00:52:23,560 Speaker 22: syndrome does not mean that you don't belong in the 1235 00:52:23,640 --> 00:52:27,359 Speaker 22: room you're in. Imposter syndrome means you actually want to 1236 00:52:27,400 --> 00:52:30,279 Speaker 22: be in the room you're in, and there's skills or 1237 00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:33,080 Speaker 22: there's experience that you need to gain in order to 1238 00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:36,439 Speaker 22: dominate in that room. Imposter syndrome is actually not self doubt. 1239 00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:39,359 Speaker 9: It's ambition. And so explain that a bit because it's 1240 00:52:39,400 --> 00:52:40,759 Speaker 9: always been said the other way. 1241 00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:43,319 Speaker 22: Yeah, and so if you really think about it, if 1242 00:52:43,320 --> 00:52:46,520 Speaker 22: you walk into a room and you don't feel imposter syndrome, 1243 00:52:46,680 --> 00:52:48,279 Speaker 22: it's because you don't want to be in that room. 1244 00:52:48,520 --> 00:52:51,200 Speaker 22: You don't care what people think about you in that room. 1245 00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:53,759 Speaker 22: If you walk into a room and you feel a 1246 00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:57,719 Speaker 22: sense of imposter syndrome, it's because you care about what 1247 00:52:57,760 --> 00:52:59,560 Speaker 22: people think about you in that room. It means you're 1248 00:52:59,560 --> 00:53:01,759 Speaker 22: ambition and wants you to succeed in that room. 1249 00:53:01,800 --> 00:53:05,800 Speaker 15: I was like push to stay sharp, correct and also 1250 00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:10,120 Speaker 15: like hey, I want to actually succeed around people like this, 1251 00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:12,680 Speaker 15: which means what are the skills I need and what 1252 00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:15,200 Speaker 15: I started to understand, and I think it explains a 1253 00:53:15,200 --> 00:53:16,880 Speaker 15: lot about why I am who I. 1254 00:53:16,880 --> 00:53:19,720 Speaker 22: Am is that we're all the same. Everybody is dealing 1255 00:53:19,719 --> 00:53:21,759 Speaker 22: with the same stuff. Yes, it's easier if you have 1256 00:53:21,800 --> 00:53:23,960 Speaker 22: more money and more resources, but at the end of 1257 00:53:23,960 --> 00:53:26,280 Speaker 22: the day, everybody's got a family member that they're worried about. 1258 00:53:26,400 --> 00:53:31,200 Speaker 22: Everybody has ambition they're not tapping into. Everybody has things 1259 00:53:31,200 --> 00:53:32,839 Speaker 22: that they want to pursue in their life, and they're 1260 00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:35,920 Speaker 22: kind of letting themselves down a little bit. Everybody struggles 1261 00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:38,560 Speaker 22: with a little bit of uncertainty and anxiety at times. 1262 00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:42,320 Speaker 22: Everybody has hopes and dreams and feels a little discouraged 1263 00:53:42,320 --> 00:53:44,880 Speaker 22: and overwhelmed. And when you start at a baseline that 1264 00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:48,520 Speaker 22: people would love to thrive, and people thrive when they can, 1265 00:53:48,960 --> 00:53:52,480 Speaker 22: and if they can't, I believe it's because they're discouraged, 1266 00:53:52,560 --> 00:53:55,960 Speaker 22: or there's some skill building or some experience or you know, 1267 00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:58,960 Speaker 22: some mentorship that's missing. That's it, but that you're built 1268 00:53:59,080 --> 00:54:02,160 Speaker 22: to thrive. So when you really start at that baseline, 1269 00:54:02,200 --> 00:54:04,000 Speaker 22: like you know, I make it a practice. By the way, 1270 00:54:04,040 --> 00:54:05,759 Speaker 22: this is this is one thing that will change your 1271 00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:08,440 Speaker 22: life when you go into a public bathroom. Two things. 1272 00:54:08,800 --> 00:54:12,359 Speaker 22: I always leave the space better than when I found it. 1273 00:54:12,640 --> 00:54:14,440 Speaker 9: I always public bathroom. 1274 00:54:15,600 --> 00:54:18,520 Speaker 22: No, no, no, I literally that's why I don't go into 1275 00:54:18,520 --> 00:54:25,760 Speaker 22: that stall. But no, just because if somebody like destroy 1276 00:54:25,920 --> 00:54:28,960 Speaker 22: especially women, If somebody destroys the seat, peas all over 1277 00:54:28,960 --> 00:54:31,800 Speaker 22: it and then they leave, that is a human being 1278 00:54:32,120 --> 00:54:37,120 Speaker 22: that is so disconnected from the interconnection of the human experience. 1279 00:54:37,440 --> 00:54:41,440 Speaker 22: You are leaving that for another person, and so making 1280 00:54:41,480 --> 00:54:44,280 Speaker 22: sure that you don't leave your mess for another person, 1281 00:54:44,320 --> 00:54:46,120 Speaker 22: making sure that you just kind of wipe down the counter. 1282 00:54:46,160 --> 00:54:47,480 Speaker 22: And then here's the second thing. If there is a 1283 00:54:47,640 --> 00:54:50,240 Speaker 22: human being cleaning that bathroom, please look in the ai 1284 00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:55,640 Speaker 22: and say thank you. All like that right there is 1285 00:54:55,680 --> 00:54:59,600 Speaker 22: a simple thing that will make you start to shake 1286 00:54:59,680 --> 00:55:02,360 Speaker 22: out of that woe is me or that stress or 1287 00:55:02,400 --> 00:55:06,640 Speaker 22: that overwhelm Let them know you appreciate and see what 1288 00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:09,960 Speaker 22: they're doing, because it changes who you are. And then 1289 00:55:10,000 --> 00:55:12,960 Speaker 22: you start to see all day long that there are 1290 00:55:13,239 --> 00:55:15,680 Speaker 22: like you know, I can't look at you, i'mna cry. 1291 00:55:16,560 --> 00:55:21,960 Speaker 22: People are just walking around disconnected. And the power of 1292 00:55:22,080 --> 00:55:25,399 Speaker 22: starting to be the one that wakes people up. Hey, 1293 00:55:25,719 --> 00:55:27,600 Speaker 22: you know I always get an ell or Hey, how 1294 00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:31,160 Speaker 22: is everybody doing like it's shocking how we have gotten 1295 00:55:31,280 --> 00:55:34,439 Speaker 22: so far away from that sense of community. And there's 1296 00:55:34,480 --> 00:55:37,000 Speaker 22: actually research around this. They call it either weak ties. 1297 00:55:37,120 --> 00:55:39,919 Speaker 22: I call them warm connections. Those people that you see 1298 00:55:39,920 --> 00:55:41,360 Speaker 22: in the building every day, that you say hello to 1299 00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:44,720 Speaker 22: the person that's walking the dog that you you know, 1300 00:55:44,719 --> 00:55:46,600 Speaker 22: know the name of the dog in your neighborhood. These 1301 00:55:46,719 --> 00:55:50,600 Speaker 22: relationships matter because they make you feel human again. 1302 00:55:50,800 --> 00:55:53,840 Speaker 9: Will you feel to impact from what you're doing with 1303 00:55:53,960 --> 00:55:55,680 Speaker 9: your book and to let them theory, like you just 1304 00:55:55,680 --> 00:55:57,680 Speaker 9: got emotional just not even just about your impact, but 1305 00:55:57,719 --> 00:56:00,560 Speaker 9: just talking about just change in the world. How does 1306 00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:02,440 Speaker 9: it make you feel like do you take a moment 1307 00:56:02,520 --> 00:56:04,400 Speaker 9: just of gratitude and be like, because I saw all 1308 00:56:04,440 --> 00:56:06,359 Speaker 9: the tattoos in the book, and I was like, that's 1309 00:56:06,440 --> 00:56:09,320 Speaker 9: so fire. It's hard to make people like actually believe 1310 00:56:09,440 --> 00:56:10,560 Speaker 9: something that's not tangible. 1311 00:56:10,840 --> 00:56:13,239 Speaker 22: One of the things that you know, for me, I 1312 00:56:13,400 --> 00:56:15,560 Speaker 22: spent so many. 1313 00:56:15,360 --> 00:56:19,560 Speaker 25: Years like hating myself and feeling like I was a 1314 00:56:19,600 --> 00:56:22,960 Speaker 25: really bad person. And when you get stuck in life, 1315 00:56:23,040 --> 00:56:25,840 Speaker 25: it's easy to think you're the only one. And so 1316 00:56:26,239 --> 00:56:31,239 Speaker 25: I'm just literally on a mission to share whatever I 1317 00:56:31,239 --> 00:56:33,640 Speaker 25: could share and give people access just like you guys 1318 00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:38,080 Speaker 25: give people access to incredible thinkers and experts and resources. 1319 00:56:38,200 --> 00:56:41,480 Speaker 22: You know, your work is reaching some way halfway around 1320 00:56:41,480 --> 00:56:44,560 Speaker 22: the world that doesn't even have a toilet in your house, 1321 00:56:45,160 --> 00:56:48,759 Speaker 22: And how incredible is that? And if I can save 1322 00:56:48,840 --> 00:56:51,400 Speaker 22: anybody the headaches and the heartaches that I cause myself 1323 00:56:51,400 --> 00:56:53,160 Speaker 22: for the people that I care about, because I didn't 1324 00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:55,360 Speaker 22: know any better. I didn't know what the problem was. 1325 00:56:55,440 --> 00:56:57,520 Speaker 22: I didn't know how to change myself. I didn't know 1326 00:56:57,560 --> 00:57:00,120 Speaker 22: how to push through the emotion that is a life while. 1327 00:57:00,560 --> 00:57:02,160 Speaker 9: Why did you hate yourself though? Because you can't do 1328 00:57:02,160 --> 00:57:03,080 Speaker 9: anything about what you don't know. 1329 00:57:03,120 --> 00:57:05,360 Speaker 22: Oh my god, we don't have time. I literally like 1330 00:57:05,440 --> 00:57:07,720 Speaker 22: from the amount of cheating I did when I was little, 1331 00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:12,440 Speaker 22: to the undiagnosed anxiety or the undiagnosed to SLEXI and 1332 00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:16,080 Speaker 22: ADHD and how that created tremendous anxiety, to the way 1333 00:57:16,080 --> 00:57:19,360 Speaker 22: that childhood trauma impacted me that I didn't even realize 1334 00:57:19,440 --> 00:57:22,680 Speaker 22: was impacting me, Like it's just chronic. I just did 1335 00:57:22,680 --> 00:57:24,400 Speaker 22: not think I was a bad person. And there's a 1336 00:57:24,400 --> 00:57:28,080 Speaker 22: lot of people walking around that have a hundred times 1337 00:57:28,120 --> 00:57:31,600 Speaker 22: more negative thoughts than they do positive ones, And a 1338 00:57:31,640 --> 00:57:34,560 Speaker 22: lot of people develop a habit of being very self critical. 1339 00:57:35,280 --> 00:57:37,680 Speaker 22: It's never enough, like you're never gonna make it, like 1340 00:57:37,720 --> 00:57:40,040 Speaker 22: you're always so stupid. Why did you do that? Either 1341 00:57:40,080 --> 00:57:42,120 Speaker 22: because that's how they were talked to when they were little, 1342 00:57:42,360 --> 00:57:45,520 Speaker 22: or because it's this like almost protective thing that if 1343 00:57:45,560 --> 00:57:47,959 Speaker 22: you beat yourself up first, you're gonna catch it before 1344 00:57:48,000 --> 00:57:51,040 Speaker 22: other people do. And I got to a point, and 1345 00:57:51,080 --> 00:57:54,000 Speaker 22: this is an important thing. The only thing you need 1346 00:57:54,040 --> 00:57:56,400 Speaker 22: to make your life better is one decision. How I'm 1347 00:57:56,400 --> 00:57:58,560 Speaker 22: living my life right now and how it feels no 1348 00:57:58,640 --> 00:58:00,960 Speaker 22: longer works for me. All you need to know if 1349 00:58:01,000 --> 00:58:04,120 Speaker 22: you can have the courage to say that to yourself, 1350 00:58:04,480 --> 00:58:06,920 Speaker 22: you now have tipped the first domino because you've made 1351 00:58:06,960 --> 00:58:09,040 Speaker 22: a decision that you want to change how your life feels. 1352 00:58:09,040 --> 00:58:11,160 Speaker 22: You made a decision that you want to change how 1353 00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:13,160 Speaker 22: it feels up here. And for me as a mom, 1354 00:58:13,520 --> 00:58:17,200 Speaker 22: like your kids absorb the way that you treat yourself. 1355 00:58:17,800 --> 00:58:20,959 Speaker 22: And so having two daughters that I started noticing, my god, 1356 00:58:21,040 --> 00:58:23,480 Speaker 22: why are these beautiful young women picking themselves apart? Well 1357 00:58:23,480 --> 00:58:25,320 Speaker 22: because I do. Why are they so hard on because 1358 00:58:25,360 --> 00:58:27,560 Speaker 22: I was so hard on myself That's how they learn it, 1359 00:58:27,600 --> 00:58:30,960 Speaker 22: And so I don't want them to do that to themselves. 1360 00:58:31,200 --> 00:58:32,640 Speaker 22: And you know, the thing I was going to share 1361 00:58:32,720 --> 00:58:34,840 Speaker 22: that's made a huge difference for me is that I 1362 00:58:35,080 --> 00:58:38,280 Speaker 22: keep the impact front and center. And so we send 1363 00:58:38,320 --> 00:58:41,360 Speaker 22: an email out five days a week. There's a person 1364 00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:44,320 Speaker 22: on our team whose job is to assemble all of 1365 00:58:44,520 --> 00:58:46,840 Speaker 22: the things that people are saying all over the world 1366 00:58:47,000 --> 00:58:50,920 Speaker 22: about the books and podcasts, not about Mel, but about 1367 00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:54,479 Speaker 22: what you learned. And I'll tell you every day there's 1368 00:58:54,840 --> 00:58:56,680 Speaker 22: twenty to thirty of them. And just the other day 1369 00:58:56,720 --> 00:58:59,440 Speaker 22: there was a person who talked about how he was 1370 00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:03,720 Speaker 22: a step dad and the relationship ended and those step 1371 00:59:03,760 --> 00:59:05,880 Speaker 22: kids were his life and he didn't want to be 1372 00:59:05,920 --> 00:59:09,840 Speaker 22: here anymore. And somebody started to share the podcast with 1373 00:59:09,920 --> 00:59:13,040 Speaker 22: him and he would go and take a walk every 1374 00:59:13,080 --> 00:59:15,280 Speaker 22: morning and listen to the podcast, and it started to give 1375 00:59:15,320 --> 00:59:17,320 Speaker 22: him a sense of hope. And now he uses the 1376 00:59:17,400 --> 00:59:19,880 Speaker 22: let them theory. This is a person that actually works 1377 00:59:19,960 --> 00:59:23,840 Speaker 22: in like a police operations control center. Never in a 1378 00:59:23,840 --> 00:59:25,920 Speaker 22: million years would I think this is somebody that's listening 1379 00:59:26,000 --> 00:59:28,680 Speaker 22: to the Mel Robins podcast or listening to this kind 1380 00:59:28,680 --> 00:59:32,760 Speaker 22: of conversation. But it goes to prove that everybody wants 1381 00:59:32,840 --> 00:59:35,880 Speaker 22: to do well. Everybody wants to thrive, and you know 1382 00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:38,680 Speaker 22: when you're not doing well. You know when you're not thriving. 1383 00:59:39,120 --> 00:59:41,280 Speaker 22: The problem for most of us is just kind of 1384 00:59:41,280 --> 00:59:44,120 Speaker 22: feeling like I don't think this could change, And the 1385 00:59:44,160 --> 00:59:46,200 Speaker 22: fact is, of course it can change. If you've ever 1386 00:59:46,240 --> 00:59:48,120 Speaker 22: been happy in your life, you can be happy again. 1387 00:59:48,600 --> 00:59:50,800 Speaker 22: If you've ever been proud of yourself, you can be 1388 00:59:50,800 --> 00:59:53,000 Speaker 22: proud of yourself again. If you've ever forgiven somebody else, 1389 00:59:53,240 --> 00:59:54,480 Speaker 22: you can learn to forgive yourself. 1390 00:59:54,560 --> 00:59:56,560 Speaker 1: And you know, also, God doesn't call it to qualify it. 1391 00:59:56,600 --> 00:59:59,480 Speaker 1: He qualified the called and you've been called Mail Robin. 1392 00:59:59,240 --> 00:59:59,640 Speaker 22: I feel that. 1393 01:00:00,320 --> 01:00:01,560 Speaker 6: Love you man, I love you too. 1394 01:00:01,720 --> 01:00:04,080 Speaker 2: Wow. That's right. Well we appreciate you for joining us. 1395 01:00:04,200 --> 01:00:05,320 Speaker 6: Thank you. 1396 01:00:05,600 --> 01:00:07,840 Speaker 2: All right. Well it's Mel Robbins. It's the Breakfast Club. 1397 01:00:07,880 --> 01:00:08,280 Speaker 2: Good morning. 1398 01:00:08,440 --> 01:00:10,640 Speaker 1: Yes, it's one of those dangerous morning show, The Breakfast Club. 1399 01:00:10,880 --> 01:00:12,840 Speaker 1: Salute to Mel Robbins for pulling up in his time 1400 01:00:12,840 --> 01:00:13,640 Speaker 1: for the Latest with Lauren. 1401 01:00:14,480 --> 01:00:16,080 Speaker 5: Lauren becoming a straight fast. 1402 01:00:17,640 --> 01:00:18,040 Speaker 2: She gets them. 1403 01:00:18,240 --> 01:00:20,520 Speaker 7: Somebody that knows, somebody gets the detail. 1404 01:00:20,880 --> 01:00:22,920 Speaker 9: I'm a long girl that knows a little bit about everything. 1405 01:00:23,840 --> 01:00:25,200 Speaker 6: She'd be having the latest on this. 1406 01:00:27,240 --> 01:00:28,800 Speaker 2: The Latest with Lauren la Rosa. 1407 01:00:28,880 --> 01:00:31,400 Speaker 1: Sometimes you have fact sometimes you have details, sometimes you 1408 01:00:31,400 --> 01:00:31,920 Speaker 1: have a little bit. 1409 01:00:31,960 --> 01:00:35,000 Speaker 2: Every time, it's the latest on the breakfast club, talk 1410 01:00:35,160 --> 01:00:35,440 Speaker 2: to me. 1411 01:00:36,840 --> 01:00:39,479 Speaker 8: So Coachella went down, and I will say I feel 1412 01:00:39,480 --> 01:00:41,040 Speaker 8: like it was quiet around Coachella this year. You know 1413 01:00:41,080 --> 01:00:43,320 Speaker 8: it's a big music festival, but there were certain moments 1414 01:00:43,320 --> 01:00:47,960 Speaker 8: that definitely picked up. Cardi B performed. Missy Elliott actually 1415 01:00:47,960 --> 01:00:50,360 Speaker 8: made her Coachella debuties. It's her first time at Coachella, 1416 01:00:50,720 --> 01:00:54,000 Speaker 8: and she came out as a full Transformer and then 1417 01:00:54,080 --> 01:00:56,960 Speaker 8: she shed the Transformer skin and she performed and people 1418 01:00:57,320 --> 01:00:59,920 Speaker 8: just watching fans react because I don't know if they 1419 01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:02,880 Speaker 8: never seen a Missy Elliott video or performance that I 1420 01:01:02,920 --> 01:01:05,040 Speaker 8: don't think that they didn't know how she was coming, 1421 01:01:05,080 --> 01:01:05,840 Speaker 8: she said, never. 1422 01:01:05,680 --> 01:01:07,080 Speaker 6: Seen that level of creativity? 1423 01:01:07,200 --> 01:01:08,560 Speaker 9: Yo, what it was crazy? 1424 01:01:08,680 --> 01:01:13,120 Speaker 8: Yeah, she's been preparing this set since November twenty twenty four, 1425 01:01:13,280 --> 01:01:15,360 Speaker 8: she said when she revealed that she would be there, 1426 01:01:15,520 --> 01:01:16,760 Speaker 8: that she was going to be doing something out of 1427 01:01:16,800 --> 01:01:19,560 Speaker 8: this world, which is very on brand for Missy. So 1428 01:01:19,560 --> 01:01:22,280 Speaker 8: she performed as well. Then you had Meg thee Stallion 1429 01:01:22,520 --> 01:01:23,320 Speaker 8: that also performed. 1430 01:01:23,440 --> 01:01:26,640 Speaker 1: Doesn't it feel good to see creative folks, young people, 1431 01:01:27,240 --> 01:01:29,200 Speaker 1: the people that actually care about their craft? 1432 01:01:29,360 --> 01:01:30,160 Speaker 9: Oh over and above. 1433 01:01:30,160 --> 01:01:31,720 Speaker 6: They are about this stage performance. 1434 01:01:32,080 --> 01:01:37,360 Speaker 8: They online calling her a transformer misdemeanor Elliott now over 1435 01:01:37,400 --> 01:01:39,120 Speaker 8: and above. When I say her set was fired, it 1436 01:01:39,160 --> 01:01:41,480 Speaker 8: was fire from start to finish. But also Meg thee 1437 01:01:41,520 --> 01:01:44,240 Speaker 8: Stallion had a really good set too, and she brought 1438 01:01:44,280 --> 01:01:47,160 Speaker 8: out Sierra. She brought out Victoria Bonnet, but then she 1439 01:01:47,280 --> 01:01:49,280 Speaker 8: surprised the crowd when she brought out Queen Latifa. 1440 01:01:49,400 --> 01:01:51,320 Speaker 1: The key, the key is not to be hot for 1441 01:01:51,360 --> 01:01:53,960 Speaker 1: the moment. The key is to be timeless. That's the 1442 01:01:54,000 --> 01:01:56,080 Speaker 1: moral of the story. The key is to be classic. 1443 01:01:56,520 --> 01:01:57,960 Speaker 1: When you classic, you live forever. 1444 01:01:59,240 --> 01:01:59,479 Speaker 2: Now. 1445 01:01:59,720 --> 01:02:03,760 Speaker 8: The the thing behind megde Stallion's stage was girl power. 1446 01:02:03,840 --> 01:02:06,520 Speaker 8: So as I mentioned, she brought out Victoria Monet Sierra. 1447 01:02:06,560 --> 01:02:08,200 Speaker 8: Did you know they had to do a performance and 1448 01:02:08,280 --> 01:02:12,240 Speaker 8: she did goodies. It was a great especially because Megdae 1449 01:02:12,240 --> 01:02:15,360 Speaker 8: Stallion really dances, so her Victoria Money Sierra. They got 1450 01:02:15,360 --> 01:02:18,080 Speaker 8: busy on stage, but there were also some moments off 1451 01:02:18,080 --> 01:02:20,800 Speaker 8: the stage at this year's Coachella as well too. Chris 1452 01:02:20,840 --> 01:02:24,000 Speaker 8: Brown was a topic of conversation all weekend because there 1453 01:02:24,080 --> 01:02:27,560 Speaker 8: was video of him hanging out with Tianna Taylor in 1454 01:02:27,600 --> 01:02:30,920 Speaker 8: discussion with Tiana Taylor and video of him and Carucci 1455 01:02:31,080 --> 01:02:33,800 Speaker 8: having a laugh. So people were like, oh wait, he's 1456 01:02:33,840 --> 01:02:36,880 Speaker 8: good with all these people. So while we still upset people, 1457 01:02:36,920 --> 01:02:38,600 Speaker 8: all you gotta learn to mind your business. 1458 01:02:38,640 --> 01:02:40,000 Speaker 9: And people have moved on. We should too. 1459 01:02:40,080 --> 01:02:42,880 Speaker 8: I know it's my job to mind the business and 1460 01:02:43,160 --> 01:02:45,440 Speaker 8: talk about the business. Yours too, sir? Not really you 1461 01:02:45,560 --> 01:02:47,880 Speaker 8: talking as well? Okay you finished? 1462 01:02:48,240 --> 01:02:49,560 Speaker 9: Are you done well? 1463 01:02:49,680 --> 01:02:53,200 Speaker 8: The moment with Tianna Taylor sparked interest in conversation because 1464 01:02:53,240 --> 01:02:54,720 Speaker 8: there was the whole back of forth member and they 1465 01:02:54,720 --> 01:02:55,960 Speaker 8: said that like that that was the reason why him 1466 01:02:55,960 --> 01:02:56,720 Speaker 8: and Usher got. 1467 01:02:56,560 --> 01:02:58,360 Speaker 9: Into it and all those things. 1468 01:02:58,440 --> 01:03:00,480 Speaker 8: And I think in the video when you see it, 1469 01:03:00,520 --> 01:03:02,200 Speaker 8: you could tell the brother and sister the like back 1470 01:03:02,200 --> 01:03:04,200 Speaker 8: and forth and banter that they have. And then of 1471 01:03:04,200 --> 01:03:06,400 Speaker 8: course in the video with Cruci, you know he's you know, 1472 01:03:06,480 --> 01:03:09,640 Speaker 8: formally dated her. There's been some accusations there as well too. 1473 01:03:09,960 --> 01:03:11,760 Speaker 8: They're laughing, joking, having a good time, and now that 1474 01:03:11,800 --> 01:03:14,080 Speaker 8: people are flooding Crucci's commons talking about girl, go get 1475 01:03:14,120 --> 01:03:14,640 Speaker 8: your man back. 1476 01:03:15,160 --> 01:03:17,440 Speaker 1: It's funny that we think we know these people because 1477 01:03:17,480 --> 01:03:18,960 Speaker 1: these are the moments that we see them. 1478 01:03:18,960 --> 01:03:19,280 Speaker 18: We don't. 1479 01:03:19,840 --> 01:03:22,280 Speaker 1: They might have been talked. Yeah, you know what, I'm 1480 01:03:22,280 --> 01:03:24,960 Speaker 1: saying they might have been communicated. This is just the 1481 01:03:24,960 --> 01:03:27,960 Speaker 1: moments that we see. But we see these brief moments 1482 01:03:27,960 --> 01:03:29,400 Speaker 1: ever so often. It's sway we know. 1483 01:03:29,400 --> 01:03:31,360 Speaker 9: These people one hundred percent. I think people do that. 1484 01:03:31,400 --> 01:03:33,640 Speaker 8: I mean there's celebrities ain't gonna see every moment, but 1485 01:03:34,080 --> 01:03:37,440 Speaker 8: I do think it's something like this the conversation. You know, 1486 01:03:37,480 --> 01:03:40,680 Speaker 8: they've been online arguing about people being able and not 1487 01:03:40,720 --> 01:03:42,240 Speaker 8: being able to move on and all that good stuff. 1488 01:03:42,240 --> 01:03:44,440 Speaker 8: But I will say the festival did look good this year, 1489 01:03:44,440 --> 01:03:45,880 Speaker 8: and everybody else was there look good as well too. 1490 01:03:45,880 --> 01:03:50,200 Speaker 8: Because Tianna Taylor, baby m she eats every year at 1491 01:03:50,240 --> 01:03:52,760 Speaker 8: the festival. You saw Siana Taylor. I'm gonna show you her. 1492 01:03:52,840 --> 01:03:54,520 Speaker 8: Let me show you t t and all black with 1493 01:03:54,560 --> 01:03:56,720 Speaker 8: the stomach out. She never comes to play. 1494 01:03:58,600 --> 01:04:01,440 Speaker 6: Yes, I'm still be lying about not working out. I 1495 01:04:01,720 --> 01:04:02,440 Speaker 6: ain't after I. 1496 01:04:02,440 --> 01:04:04,800 Speaker 9: Don't know what she do, but baby, when I get 1497 01:04:04,840 --> 01:04:05,520 Speaker 9: the money signing. 1498 01:04:05,720 --> 01:04:08,880 Speaker 1: You got the genetics though, miss Nikkis You get that 1499 01:04:08,920 --> 01:04:09,920 Speaker 1: from miss nikkis. 1500 01:04:11,960 --> 01:04:12,560 Speaker 9: Amazing? 1501 01:04:13,280 --> 01:04:13,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1502 01:04:13,560 --> 01:04:15,800 Speaker 9: So that's that's your recap of coach. 1503 01:04:16,400 --> 01:04:19,000 Speaker 6: Okay, well, thank you, Lorden. You're welcome for after the hour. 1504 01:04:19,080 --> 01:04:22,320 Speaker 1: We got donkey today and I need Cody Palmer of Harrisburg, 1505 01:04:22,360 --> 01:04:24,080 Speaker 1: Pennsylvania to come to the front of the congregation. 1506 01:04:24,160 --> 01:04:25,400 Speaker 6: We like to have a word with him. It's the 1507 01:04:25,400 --> 01:04:26,040 Speaker 6: breakfast club. 1508 01:04:26,720 --> 01:04:32,440 Speaker 23: You're checking out. The breakfast club. You charge some donkey 1509 01:04:32,480 --> 01:04:33,320 Speaker 23: to day is just started. 1510 01:04:34,400 --> 01:04:39,680 Speaker 2: Charlotte Man ready day. I never read them donkey other day? 1511 01:04:39,680 --> 01:04:43,640 Speaker 2: What is it? Say it again, Arla, I'm a bunk. 1512 01:04:44,000 --> 01:04:45,840 Speaker 2: Yes you are. 1513 01:04:49,360 --> 01:04:53,360 Speaker 1: That, Charlotte Vane the same, Yes donkey today for Monday, 1514 01:04:53,400 --> 01:04:56,160 Speaker 1: April fourteenth, go to thirty eight year old Cody Palmer 1515 01:04:56,400 --> 01:04:59,440 Speaker 1: of Harrisburg, Pennsylvania. Now, if you haven't heard, Cody is 1516 01:04:59,480 --> 01:05:03,040 Speaker 1: the suspect who's been arrested in charge with terrorism because 1517 01:05:03,080 --> 01:05:07,240 Speaker 1: of an arson attack on Pennsylvania Governor josh Shapiro's residence 1518 01:05:07,560 --> 01:05:10,080 Speaker 1: over the weekend as Joshapiro's and. 1519 01:05:10,040 --> 01:05:12,040 Speaker 6: His family slept. 1520 01:05:12,520 --> 01:05:15,560 Speaker 1: Now, Governor Joshapiro is Jewish, and this incident happened on 1521 01:05:15,600 --> 01:05:17,120 Speaker 1: the first night to pass over. Well, I don't know 1522 01:05:17,120 --> 01:05:19,560 Speaker 1: if this incident was a Jewish thing or a Democrat thing. 1523 01:05:19,600 --> 01:05:22,280 Speaker 1: But let's go to six ABC Philadelphia for the report Polease. 1524 01:05:22,480 --> 01:05:26,680 Speaker 26: Governor jos Shapiro described himself as emotional but not fearful. 1525 01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:31,160 Speaker 26: Outside the Governor's residence in Harrisburg Sunday afternoon. This after 1526 01:05:31,280 --> 01:05:33,960 Speaker 26: state police say thirty eight year old Cody Bamber of 1527 01:05:34,080 --> 01:05:38,120 Speaker 26: Harrisburg set the state dining room on fire overnight. New 1528 01:05:38,200 --> 01:05:41,800 Speaker 26: video shows the destruction where Shapiro and his family celebrated 1529 01:05:41,880 --> 01:05:44,720 Speaker 26: passover just hours before on Saturday night. 1530 01:05:45,040 --> 01:05:47,800 Speaker 14: This kind of violence is becoming far too common in 1531 01:05:47,800 --> 01:05:50,760 Speaker 14: our society, and I don't give it damn if it's 1532 01:05:50,760 --> 01:05:54,920 Speaker 14: coming from one particular side or the other, and it 1533 01:05:55,000 --> 01:05:55,960 Speaker 14: has to stop. 1534 01:05:56,160 --> 01:05:59,440 Speaker 26: Police say it's clear Bomber had a plan and moved quickly. 1535 01:05:59,680 --> 01:06:01,840 Speaker 26: They say he was inside the home less than a 1536 01:06:01,920 --> 01:06:05,880 Speaker 26: minute and used homemade devices what sources described to ABC 1537 01:06:05,960 --> 01:06:09,880 Speaker 26: News as a Molotov cocktail. Sources tell ABC News Bomber 1538 01:06:10,000 --> 01:06:14,040 Speaker 26: is a mechanic who expressed disdain for Democrats, primarily related 1539 01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:18,120 Speaker 26: to financial issues. They're also not ruling out Shapiro's Jewish 1540 01:06:18,160 --> 01:06:19,920 Speaker 26: faith as a motivating factor. 1541 01:06:21,040 --> 01:06:22,960 Speaker 6: Now, I'm not the highest grade of weed in the dispensary. 1542 01:06:23,000 --> 01:06:24,840 Speaker 1: But when somebody asked me, do I think this was 1543 01:06:24,840 --> 01:06:27,760 Speaker 1: a Jewish thing or a Democrat thing, I'm gonna say 1544 01:06:27,760 --> 01:06:29,720 Speaker 1: a combination of both. Okay, when you look at the 1545 01:06:29,760 --> 01:06:32,480 Speaker 1: timing of the incident first day of passover, and the 1546 01:06:32,520 --> 01:06:35,720 Speaker 1: fact Governor you know, Shapiro is a high profile Jewish man. 1547 01:06:35,760 --> 01:06:38,000 Speaker 1: If you are anti Semitic and you're looking to make 1548 01:06:38,040 --> 01:06:40,840 Speaker 1: a statement, you're looking to make a splash, he's your guy. 1549 01:06:40,960 --> 01:06:43,560 Speaker 1: But what I want us to pay attention to is 1550 01:06:43,600 --> 01:06:47,240 Speaker 1: how America has gone completely backwards. 1551 01:06:47,440 --> 01:06:48,160 Speaker 6: In a lot of ways. 1552 01:06:48,160 --> 01:06:49,880 Speaker 1: I don't even know if we've gone backwards or if 1553 01:06:49,880 --> 01:06:52,560 Speaker 1: a lot of these races cancer cells were just laying 1554 01:06:52,680 --> 01:06:56,320 Speaker 1: dormant in the body of America. They were just in hibernation, okay, 1555 01:06:56,360 --> 01:06:59,040 Speaker 1: And they were just in a hibernation like state, and 1556 01:06:59,120 --> 01:07:02,360 Speaker 1: now they've been started in slumber because of the current 1557 01:07:02,440 --> 01:07:04,480 Speaker 1: political climate in this country. You don't get me wrong, 1558 01:07:04,520 --> 01:07:07,680 Speaker 1: it's always existing, okay. But man, what happened to Governor 1559 01:07:07,760 --> 01:07:11,120 Speaker 1: Shapiro and his family could happen to anybody who was 1560 01:07:11,160 --> 01:07:14,680 Speaker 1: a member of a marginalized group. In twenty twenty five, 1561 01:07:14,720 --> 01:07:17,440 Speaker 1: doctor Martin Luther King Junior said it best, an injustice 1562 01:07:17,480 --> 01:07:20,640 Speaker 1: anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere, and this was 1563 01:07:20,680 --> 01:07:23,400 Speaker 1: a complete injustice. And those words couldn't be more fitting 1564 01:07:23,440 --> 01:07:25,280 Speaker 1: because one of the first times I heard about something 1565 01:07:25,320 --> 01:07:27,640 Speaker 1: like this happening was when it happened to doctor Martin 1566 01:07:27,720 --> 01:07:30,400 Speaker 1: Luther King Junior. January thirty of nineteen fifty six. Martin 1567 01:07:30,480 --> 01:07:33,520 Speaker 1: Luther King Junior's wife and child were inside when his 1568 01:07:33,600 --> 01:07:36,520 Speaker 1: home was firebombed. All prais is due to God. Neither 1569 01:07:36,560 --> 01:07:40,080 Speaker 1: of them were harmed. Okay, Malcolm X. February fourteenth, nineteen 1570 01:07:40,120 --> 01:07:42,600 Speaker 1: sixty five, his house was firebombed. He had his wife 1571 01:07:42,600 --> 01:07:44,520 Speaker 1: and four daughters in the house. By the way, to 1572 01:07:44,600 --> 01:07:47,560 Speaker 1: all the simple minded digital d heads out there, I 1573 01:07:47,600 --> 01:07:50,280 Speaker 1: am not comparing Governor Shaperio to doctor MLK Jr. 1574 01:07:50,320 --> 01:07:51,000 Speaker 6: And Malcolm X. 1575 01:07:51,120 --> 01:07:53,560 Speaker 1: I'm just telling you that when you hear certain stories, 1576 01:07:54,000 --> 01:07:57,800 Speaker 1: when you see certain images, especially horrific things like somebody 1577 01:07:58,080 --> 01:08:01,360 Speaker 1: fire bombing your house, setting your house on fire while 1578 01:08:01,440 --> 01:08:04,000 Speaker 1: you're in there with your family, if you have any 1579 01:08:04,000 --> 01:08:06,800 Speaker 1: type of empathy, it sticks with you and you say 1580 01:08:06,840 --> 01:08:09,400 Speaker 1: to yourself, I pray that never happens to me and 1581 01:08:09,440 --> 01:08:10,000 Speaker 1: my family. 1582 01:08:10,040 --> 01:08:11,840 Speaker 6: And you thought that those things were. 1583 01:08:11,640 --> 01:08:15,280 Speaker 1: Just things of the past, but no, when you see 1584 01:08:15,320 --> 01:08:17,960 Speaker 1: them still happening to folks in twenty twenty five, it's 1585 01:08:18,040 --> 01:08:20,800 Speaker 1: just a reminder that potentially it could happen to you. 1586 01:08:20,920 --> 01:08:21,120 Speaker 11: Now. 1587 01:08:21,160 --> 01:08:23,000 Speaker 1: I don't know how Cody got this close to the 1588 01:08:23,040 --> 01:08:25,880 Speaker 1: governor's mansion. I mean, it's the damn governor's mansion. There 1589 01:08:25,880 --> 01:08:27,840 Speaker 1: should never be a breach of security there. But I'm 1590 01:08:27,840 --> 01:08:30,960 Speaker 1: starting to believe when it comes to guarding elected officials, 1591 01:08:31,479 --> 01:08:34,240 Speaker 1: Pennsylvania has the worst security ever. I mean, that's what 1592 01:08:34,280 --> 01:08:36,680 Speaker 1: Donald Trump almost got clipped. And now with thirty eight 1593 01:08:36,720 --> 01:08:38,599 Speaker 1: year old kid can jump the governess and he's trust 1594 01:08:38,600 --> 01:08:38,800 Speaker 1: of ball. 1595 01:08:38,840 --> 01:08:39,960 Speaker 6: He's not a kid? What am I saying? 1596 01:08:40,040 --> 01:08:41,800 Speaker 1: And now a thirty eight year old man can jump 1597 01:08:41,800 --> 01:08:45,519 Speaker 1: the governor's mansion and actually start a fire with homemade 1598 01:08:45,600 --> 01:08:50,599 Speaker 1: devices and get away before he's ultimately caught. Now, Cody 1599 01:08:50,600 --> 01:08:54,040 Speaker 1: Obama's mother said that Cody suffers from mental illness and 1600 01:08:54,080 --> 01:08:55,160 Speaker 1: he was off his medication. 1601 01:08:55,479 --> 01:08:57,160 Speaker 6: Listen, you know, I overstand. 1602 01:08:57,360 --> 01:09:00,320 Speaker 1: Okay, mental health issues are serious and require compassion, but 1603 01:09:00,400 --> 01:09:04,599 Speaker 1: that doesn't excuse actions that endanger lives and threaten public safety. Okay, 1604 01:09:04,600 --> 01:09:07,759 Speaker 1: he can get all the help he needs in somebody's prison, Okay, 1605 01:09:07,800 --> 01:09:09,840 Speaker 1: because we have to make examples of people like this, 1606 01:09:09,960 --> 01:09:13,000 Speaker 1: I also feel like discrimination is a form of mental illness. 1607 01:09:13,040 --> 01:09:15,320 Speaker 1: To hate someone because of what their race is, their 1608 01:09:15,320 --> 01:09:18,640 Speaker 1: religion is, their gender is, their sexuality is. If you 1609 01:09:18,720 --> 01:09:21,880 Speaker 1: hate people because of what they are. You are mentally ill. 1610 01:09:22,080 --> 01:09:24,560 Speaker 1: And I don't want to see anyone being attacked or 1611 01:09:24,600 --> 01:09:28,120 Speaker 1: being the target of potential violence because of what they are. Okay, 1612 01:09:28,160 --> 01:09:30,439 Speaker 1: their race, their faith, their political party. Do we not 1613 01:09:30,600 --> 01:09:34,760 Speaker 1: understand that diversity is what truly makes America great? And 1614 01:09:34,800 --> 01:09:38,479 Speaker 1: by the way, if you don't like somebody's politics, well 1615 01:09:38,520 --> 01:09:38,960 Speaker 1: get in the. 1616 01:09:38,920 --> 01:09:41,200 Speaker 6: Politics yourself and challenge them. 1617 01:09:41,400 --> 01:09:44,559 Speaker 1: Okay, are support the politicians you like and help them 1618 01:09:44,560 --> 01:09:48,080 Speaker 1: defeat the politicians you don't. That's how things are done 1619 01:09:48,280 --> 01:09:52,320 Speaker 1: in a civilized country. But unfortunately this country has always 1620 01:09:52,400 --> 01:09:56,360 Speaker 1: lied to itself about being civilized. Please give Cody Palmer 1621 01:09:56,400 --> 01:10:02,040 Speaker 1: of Harrisburg, Pennsylvania the biggest he hull. 1622 01:10:03,439 --> 01:10:04,880 Speaker 6: Sad, Yes, very sad. 1623 01:10:05,360 --> 01:10:07,920 Speaker 1: Now we had Meil Robins here last hour, Lauren lrossa 1624 01:10:08,080 --> 01:10:08,599 Speaker 1: great convo. 1625 01:10:08,720 --> 01:10:10,960 Speaker 6: Did you learn anything I did? How long? 1626 01:10:11,000 --> 01:10:11,120 Speaker 3: Goo? 1627 01:10:11,120 --> 01:10:12,559 Speaker 6: Did I tell you to read the lect them Theory? 1628 01:10:13,520 --> 01:10:15,040 Speaker 9: I got the book you told me about probably two 1629 01:10:15,040 --> 01:10:15,599 Speaker 9: months ago? 1630 01:10:16,040 --> 01:10:16,400 Speaker 6: That long? 1631 01:10:16,439 --> 01:10:18,120 Speaker 9: A month ago? Yeah, it was a minute ago. Yes, 1632 01:10:18,600 --> 01:10:20,080 Speaker 9: just in conversation you were be like, you need to 1633 01:10:20,080 --> 01:10:21,000 Speaker 9: read to let them theory. 1634 01:10:21,080 --> 01:10:23,680 Speaker 1: Yes, I am recommending this book to everybody. And you 1635 01:10:23,720 --> 01:10:25,400 Speaker 1: know what I would like to do right now, I 1636 01:10:25,400 --> 01:10:27,960 Speaker 1: would like to open up the phone lines and talk 1637 01:10:28,040 --> 01:10:31,799 Speaker 1: to people who have already applied to let them theory 1638 01:10:32,120 --> 01:10:34,599 Speaker 1: to their life. I want to know how they're applying 1639 01:10:34,640 --> 01:10:37,800 Speaker 1: to let them theory to their life and uh. 1640 01:10:38,479 --> 01:10:41,400 Speaker 6: Yeah, that's it. How How into what? 1641 01:10:42,000 --> 01:10:42,280 Speaker 2: Yes? 1642 01:10:42,479 --> 01:10:45,280 Speaker 1: How into what have you applied to let them theory 1643 01:10:45,520 --> 01:10:47,000 Speaker 1: to your life? Where do you think you need to 1644 01:10:47,000 --> 01:10:47,920 Speaker 1: apply that in your life? 1645 01:10:48,000 --> 01:10:50,559 Speaker 9: Lauren is new levels and new devils. 1646 01:10:50,600 --> 01:10:53,519 Speaker 8: This there's a lot of critiques that happen when people 1647 01:10:53,520 --> 01:10:55,160 Speaker 8: think that they can just you know, you put your 1648 01:10:55,200 --> 01:10:58,120 Speaker 8: art out there, okay, And I'm having to quiet noise 1649 01:10:58,160 --> 01:10:59,760 Speaker 8: and just let people feel how they feel and do 1650 01:10:59,840 --> 01:11:02,439 Speaker 8: they do because I know what I do. What I do, well, 1651 01:11:02,560 --> 01:11:04,880 Speaker 8: that's what I'm having to apply to let them And 1652 01:11:04,960 --> 01:11:08,000 Speaker 8: with you, I'll be having to let you a lot 1653 01:11:08,320 --> 01:11:10,120 Speaker 8: because I'm gonna smack you if not. 1654 01:11:10,800 --> 01:11:13,559 Speaker 6: You know, you know you need to start telling the 1655 01:11:13,560 --> 01:11:14,200 Speaker 6: people the truth. 1656 01:11:14,320 --> 01:11:14,880 Speaker 9: What's the truth? 1657 01:11:14,880 --> 01:11:15,640 Speaker 6: How much you love me? 1658 01:11:16,040 --> 01:11:18,600 Speaker 8: I do love you, but I'll be having to let you. 1659 01:11:18,640 --> 01:11:20,120 Speaker 8: We have to let people we love all the time. 1660 01:11:20,160 --> 01:11:21,800 Speaker 8: Back of your wife, because I'm sure she'd be want 1661 01:11:21,800 --> 01:11:22,400 Speaker 8: to smack you too. 1662 01:11:22,720 --> 01:11:25,120 Speaker 1: You're gonna stop making the people think I'm not a 1663 01:11:25,200 --> 01:11:25,759 Speaker 1: nice person. 1664 01:11:26,720 --> 01:11:28,519 Speaker 9: What a time they're nice. They just don't believe them. 1665 01:11:28,600 --> 01:11:29,360 Speaker 9: You know what you need to do? 1666 01:11:30,160 --> 01:11:32,600 Speaker 2: Let them that's right, that's right, and that's exactly what 1667 01:11:32,680 --> 01:11:33,320 Speaker 2: I let them do. 1668 01:11:33,600 --> 01:11:36,000 Speaker 1: Okay one eight hundred five A five one oh five one. 1669 01:11:36,080 --> 01:11:38,640 Speaker 1: Call us right now. Tell us how you are applying 1670 01:11:39,080 --> 01:11:41,120 Speaker 1: Mel Robbins to let them theory to your life. 1671 01:11:41,240 --> 01:11:42,400 Speaker 6: It's the Breakfast Club. 1672 01:11:43,040 --> 01:11:51,519 Speaker 2: The Breakfast Club. It's topic times. 1673 01:11:52,880 --> 01:11:55,240 Speaker 23: Call eight hundred five five five one to join in 1674 01:11:55,280 --> 01:11:56,840 Speaker 23: to the discussion with the Breakfast Club. 1675 01:11:58,439 --> 01:12:01,520 Speaker 1: Yes's the world's mos Dangerous Morning Short Breakfast Club. Charlamagne 1676 01:12:01,520 --> 01:12:05,080 Speaker 1: the God, Lauren LaRosa, DJ NB and just Hilarius are out. 1677 01:12:04,920 --> 01:12:08,000 Speaker 6: Today and we're talking Mail Robbins, the lect the theory. 1678 01:12:08,000 --> 01:12:09,120 Speaker 6: You know, Mail was here. 1679 01:12:09,520 --> 01:12:11,479 Speaker 1: Last hour that this wasn't That wasn't her first time 1680 01:12:11,520 --> 01:12:12,800 Speaker 1: on the Breakfast Club either. She came on to the 1681 01:12:12,800 --> 01:12:15,040 Speaker 1: Breakfast Club back in twenty twenty one when she was 1682 01:12:15,040 --> 01:12:18,519 Speaker 1: promoting Yes, the high five rule when you wake up 1683 01:12:18,520 --> 01:12:20,160 Speaker 1: in the morning and you give yourself a high five 1684 01:12:20,200 --> 01:12:23,240 Speaker 1: in the mirror every morning. But we're talking Mail Robins, 1685 01:12:23,240 --> 01:12:27,000 Speaker 1: the left them theory, Lauren LaRosa high five habit, high 1686 01:12:27,040 --> 01:12:30,000 Speaker 1: five habit. There you go, Lauren Lroossa, how are you 1687 01:12:30,160 --> 01:12:31,439 Speaker 1: using the left them theory in your life? 1688 01:12:32,560 --> 01:12:34,720 Speaker 8: Letting people just, you know, have their opinions about me? 1689 01:12:34,920 --> 01:12:37,200 Speaker 8: And it's a lot of opinions now, you know, especially 1690 01:12:37,200 --> 01:12:39,160 Speaker 8: sitting up here with y'all. You've done this for a 1691 01:12:39,160 --> 01:12:39,959 Speaker 8: long time. 1692 01:12:39,800 --> 01:12:42,280 Speaker 1: Every day, but you getting comb to it and you 1693 01:12:42,400 --> 01:12:44,360 Speaker 1: realize you do have to use the lect them theory 1694 01:12:44,400 --> 01:12:47,439 Speaker 1: when it comes to that because we are public servants 1695 01:12:47,600 --> 01:12:49,720 Speaker 1: and we're getting on this radio every day and we're 1696 01:12:49,760 --> 01:12:51,960 Speaker 1: doing a service for the public, and the public is 1697 01:12:52,000 --> 01:12:53,400 Speaker 1: allowed to have their opinions about it. 1698 01:12:53,400 --> 01:12:55,360 Speaker 8: And I also think too, what you realize when you 1699 01:12:55,400 --> 01:12:57,439 Speaker 8: look into the let them theory is that you can't 1700 01:12:57,479 --> 01:12:58,479 Speaker 8: control how people feel. 1701 01:12:58,520 --> 01:12:58,720 Speaker 2: Nope. 1702 01:12:58,800 --> 01:13:00,559 Speaker 8: Like if you take everything and that some one says 1703 01:13:00,600 --> 01:13:02,599 Speaker 8: about you and try to create like here's a guideline 1704 01:13:02,600 --> 01:13:04,400 Speaker 8: of what I should be doing, you could do all 1705 01:13:04,400 --> 01:13:06,000 Speaker 8: of that and it could still feel that way. So 1706 01:13:06,040 --> 01:13:07,880 Speaker 8: you got to just know what your goal is and 1707 01:13:08,360 --> 01:13:10,880 Speaker 8: level up or or sit still depend on what you 1708 01:13:10,920 --> 01:13:12,240 Speaker 8: want to do because you can't control none of that. 1709 01:13:12,280 --> 01:13:14,840 Speaker 6: Why do we forget things that we learned in our 1710 01:13:14,840 --> 01:13:15,599 Speaker 6: ground my house. 1711 01:13:15,400 --> 01:13:17,439 Speaker 9: When we was kids, because life hits you like. 1712 01:13:17,400 --> 01:13:18,360 Speaker 6: The serenity prayer. 1713 01:13:18,560 --> 01:13:20,479 Speaker 1: God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I 1714 01:13:20,479 --> 01:13:22,559 Speaker 1: cannot change, the courage the change the things I can, 1715 01:13:22,800 --> 01:13:24,920 Speaker 1: and the wisdom to know the difference. You know, when 1716 01:13:24,920 --> 01:13:29,519 Speaker 1: you absolutely positively will relinquish all control, when you realize 1717 01:13:29,520 --> 01:13:32,720 Speaker 1: you don't have any We don't control nothing. All we 1718 01:13:32,760 --> 01:13:36,200 Speaker 1: do is wake up in the morning, pray, do our affirmations, 1719 01:13:36,200 --> 01:13:37,320 Speaker 1: and go out into the world. 1720 01:13:37,520 --> 01:13:40,080 Speaker 6: And we are a subject to whatever the world brings 1721 01:13:40,160 --> 01:13:40,639 Speaker 6: us that day. 1722 01:13:40,720 --> 01:13:42,880 Speaker 9: Easier said than done for a lot of people. 1723 01:13:43,360 --> 01:13:45,760 Speaker 6: Well you better do it. Let's go to the phone lines. 1724 01:13:45,760 --> 01:13:47,760 Speaker 2: Who's this, It's free Free. 1725 01:13:47,760 --> 01:13:48,679 Speaker 6: What's happening to my brother? 1726 01:13:48,960 --> 01:13:49,639 Speaker 10: What's going on? 1727 01:13:49,720 --> 01:13:49,920 Speaker 18: Man? 1728 01:13:50,000 --> 01:13:52,160 Speaker 6: How are you applying to let them theory to your life? 1729 01:13:52,240 --> 01:13:52,439 Speaker 7: King? 1730 01:13:52,840 --> 01:13:54,880 Speaker 10: Well, first off, I didn't even know that it was 1731 01:13:55,160 --> 01:13:58,320 Speaker 10: called the left them theory. I just about three years ago. 1732 01:13:58,840 --> 01:14:01,719 Speaker 10: I mean, let's this sister, keep a gangster about thirty 1733 01:14:01,720 --> 01:14:03,479 Speaker 10: seven thirty five years in my life. I'll just a 1734 01:14:03,479 --> 01:14:05,840 Speaker 10: complete piece of you know, you know what I'm saying, 1735 01:14:05,840 --> 01:14:10,040 Speaker 10: All that the other drugs, you know, wildish ye, crazy 1736 01:14:10,400 --> 01:14:12,880 Speaker 10: and everything that comes with the dead friends and the 1737 01:14:13,040 --> 01:14:16,640 Speaker 10: guy that I and about three years ago I met this, 1738 01:14:16,240 --> 01:14:20,240 Speaker 10: this wonderful woman. Man, this this queen, my beautiful black queen. 1739 01:14:20,280 --> 01:14:22,960 Speaker 10: Shot out to you. Baby, I'm a white boy, you 1740 01:14:23,000 --> 01:14:27,240 Speaker 10: know what I'm saying. Uh, But and she she did. 1741 01:14:27,280 --> 01:14:31,680 Speaker 10: She helped me let everything go, from family members of 1742 01:14:31,720 --> 01:14:34,200 Speaker 10: my dead friends that I was helping that I can't 1743 01:14:34,240 --> 01:14:37,040 Speaker 10: help no more, from people from your back and your 1744 01:14:37,080 --> 01:14:40,120 Speaker 10: path that you say you never let you'll never let go, 1745 01:14:40,320 --> 01:14:43,080 Speaker 10: you know, till death. You know what I'm saying, patted, 1746 01:14:43,160 --> 01:14:46,360 Speaker 10: it's all that you know, and I just had to 1747 01:14:46,360 --> 01:14:48,479 Speaker 10: figure out that I can do nothing for it. And 1748 01:14:49,520 --> 01:14:51,880 Speaker 10: if I don't move forward, I'm going to continue living 1749 01:14:51,880 --> 01:14:55,080 Speaker 10: on this demon time. I mean, my girlfriend before my wife, 1750 01:14:55,120 --> 01:14:56,919 Speaker 10: was a stripper. Excuse my language. 1751 01:14:57,280 --> 01:14:58,920 Speaker 2: Damn, there's a lot of you. 1752 01:14:59,200 --> 01:15:00,479 Speaker 6: So you are so you you're. 1753 01:15:00,320 --> 01:15:02,080 Speaker 1: A white man who met a black woman, and the 1754 01:15:02,080 --> 01:15:03,639 Speaker 1: black woman changed your life totally. 1755 01:15:04,000 --> 01:15:06,280 Speaker 10: No dog, black chicken on whole life, man, you know 1756 01:15:06,320 --> 01:15:06,760 Speaker 10: what I'm saying. 1757 01:15:06,800 --> 01:15:11,120 Speaker 6: But okay, yes, this one changed your life. 1758 01:15:11,560 --> 01:15:14,160 Speaker 10: Yeah, I mean, she just he's just you know, and 1759 01:15:14,200 --> 01:15:17,280 Speaker 10: I guess since I was looking since listening to you 1760 01:15:17,360 --> 01:15:20,680 Speaker 10: this morning, now I know that it's thought the you know, 1761 01:15:20,920 --> 01:15:23,680 Speaker 10: the let it go. You know, I just had to 1762 01:15:23,760 --> 01:15:26,600 Speaker 10: let everything from my past go, and now I have 1763 01:15:26,720 --> 01:15:29,840 Speaker 10: peaceful nights, no more Nightmared. You know what I'm saying. 1764 01:15:30,400 --> 01:15:32,960 Speaker 10: It's just a whole change of life. In three years, 1765 01:15:33,000 --> 01:15:37,400 Speaker 10: I got a beautiful news, six week old baby. I 1766 01:15:37,439 --> 01:15:39,759 Speaker 10: got two beautiful step sons that are in my world. 1767 01:15:40,520 --> 01:15:40,720 Speaker 18: You know. 1768 01:15:41,160 --> 01:15:43,599 Speaker 6: Okay, Well, thank you for calling my brother. I don't 1769 01:15:43,600 --> 01:15:44,680 Speaker 6: know if that was to let them there. 1770 01:15:45,120 --> 01:15:46,920 Speaker 8: I think what he was trying to say is is 1771 01:15:46,960 --> 01:15:49,519 Speaker 8: that once he whatever was bothering him from his past, 1772 01:15:49,640 --> 01:15:52,160 Speaker 8: maybe whatever he was, he had to learn to let 1773 01:15:52,200 --> 01:15:53,559 Speaker 8: them or let that just be. 1774 01:15:53,800 --> 01:15:53,920 Speaker 11: Well. 1775 01:15:54,000 --> 01:15:55,920 Speaker 6: Yeah, detachment, Yeah, detachment. 1776 01:15:57,120 --> 01:15:59,040 Speaker 8: Male's story was like that, Like when she decided to 1777 01:15:59,040 --> 01:16:01,519 Speaker 8: detach from everything she she sat from, she was able 1778 01:16:01,600 --> 01:16:02,640 Speaker 8: to like level up in. 1779 01:16:02,720 --> 01:16:04,880 Speaker 6: That's successful, that's true. Good morning. Who's this? 1780 01:16:05,160 --> 01:16:05,679 Speaker 10: Good morning? 1781 01:16:05,720 --> 01:16:06,559 Speaker 18: This is Kimberly. 1782 01:16:06,760 --> 01:16:07,840 Speaker 6: Hey Kimberly, how are you? 1783 01:16:08,240 --> 01:16:09,400 Speaker 18: I'm okay in yourself? 1784 01:16:09,479 --> 01:16:12,200 Speaker 1: Guys, Blessed Black and Holly Favored. We're talking about mel 1785 01:16:12,320 --> 01:16:15,960 Speaker 1: Robbins electing theory this morning, and we're asking people, how 1786 01:16:16,000 --> 01:16:17,679 Speaker 1: have you applied to electing theory to your life? 1787 01:16:17,920 --> 01:16:21,240 Speaker 27: Easy change the number and cut them all off. 1788 01:16:22,040 --> 01:16:22,880 Speaker 6: That is part of it. 1789 01:16:23,200 --> 01:16:26,719 Speaker 28: Yes, yes, so I have a brother that had a stroke, 1790 01:16:27,240 --> 01:16:29,200 Speaker 28: and I also have an eighteen year old son that 1791 01:16:29,320 --> 01:16:31,880 Speaker 28: thinks life is sweet. 1792 01:16:32,000 --> 01:16:34,160 Speaker 21: So you know what I do, change my number and 1793 01:16:34,200 --> 01:16:34,800 Speaker 21: cut them off. 1794 01:16:35,439 --> 01:16:37,559 Speaker 6: Damn did you you wait until he turned eighteen on 1795 01:16:37,560 --> 01:16:37,840 Speaker 6: the dock? 1796 01:16:38,320 --> 01:16:38,479 Speaker 11: Uh? 1797 01:16:38,560 --> 01:16:39,480 Speaker 21: Yeah? 1798 01:16:39,680 --> 01:16:41,519 Speaker 27: He even got mad with me because I didn't call 1799 01:16:41,560 --> 01:16:42,759 Speaker 27: him for a sixteen birthday. 1800 01:16:43,360 --> 01:16:46,880 Speaker 1: Listen, man, when you pray to God to take negativity 1801 01:16:46,920 --> 01:16:49,400 Speaker 1: out your life, he's not swinging at spirits. He's swinging 1802 01:16:49,400 --> 01:16:52,720 Speaker 1: at people and things that are the embodiment of that negativity. 1803 01:16:52,920 --> 01:16:54,599 Speaker 6: And sometimes it's she close family. 1804 01:16:55,000 --> 01:16:58,040 Speaker 21: And it's so true because I end up don't have 1805 01:16:58,120 --> 01:16:58,759 Speaker 21: my two brothers. 1806 01:16:59,040 --> 01:17:01,559 Speaker 18: I lost my mother. After I lost my mother. 1807 01:17:01,560 --> 01:17:04,320 Speaker 21: I don't talk to my two brothers now my son. 1808 01:17:04,600 --> 01:17:08,160 Speaker 6: So damn, Okay, we'll have a great day. 1809 01:17:11,960 --> 01:17:12,080 Speaker 19: Us. 1810 01:17:12,160 --> 01:17:14,960 Speaker 8: Okay, we'll have a great day. That she lost her, 1811 01:17:15,040 --> 01:17:17,000 Speaker 8: she ain't got nobody. Just have great day. 1812 01:17:17,040 --> 01:17:18,679 Speaker 1: But she made a choice. It's not like she said 1813 01:17:18,720 --> 01:17:20,679 Speaker 1: she made the choice to cut them off. I'm saying, 1814 01:17:21,160 --> 01:17:23,400 Speaker 1: it's not like they died or something. I went to Like, 1815 01:17:23,439 --> 01:17:25,560 Speaker 1: she made a choice. And so you know what, I 1816 01:17:25,600 --> 01:17:26,120 Speaker 1: got a letter. 1817 01:17:26,439 --> 01:17:29,280 Speaker 8: People are really moving variables in our life, Like you 1818 01:17:29,280 --> 01:17:31,479 Speaker 8: don't have to have certain people in your life and everything. 1819 01:17:31,800 --> 01:17:34,439 Speaker 8: So the first two callers, it's all about people, and yes, 1820 01:17:34,560 --> 01:17:37,040 Speaker 8: you can just totally just not deal with those people. 1821 01:17:36,840 --> 01:17:39,639 Speaker 1: Because, as I've been saying, this is my whole life. 1822 01:17:39,840 --> 01:17:43,240 Speaker 1: When you pray to God to take negativity out your life, 1823 01:17:43,640 --> 01:17:44,680 Speaker 1: he's not gonna. 1824 01:17:44,439 --> 01:17:47,400 Speaker 6: Be swinging at things. He's gonna be swinging at people. 1825 01:17:47,640 --> 01:17:49,320 Speaker 8: God, there's a man in this room that won't leave 1826 01:17:49,320 --> 01:17:51,560 Speaker 8: my wig alone. Please remove all the evil. 1827 01:17:51,920 --> 01:17:53,080 Speaker 7: You need to remove the wig. 1828 01:17:53,560 --> 01:17:58,920 Speaker 1: If you remove the wig, you remove I feel. 1829 01:17:58,160 --> 01:18:00,360 Speaker 8: It's a tricker eat that you spoke about the Bible. 1830 01:18:00,400 --> 01:18:02,559 Speaker 8: I feel it every day. Please remove the demons in 1831 01:18:02,560 --> 01:18:03,080 Speaker 8: the spirits. 1832 01:18:03,160 --> 01:18:04,760 Speaker 1: Call us right now one hundred and five and five 1833 01:18:04,800 --> 01:18:06,320 Speaker 1: one oh five one. Tell us how to let them. 1834 01:18:06,360 --> 01:18:09,120 Speaker 1: Theory have been applied to your life. It's the Breakfast 1835 01:18:09,160 --> 01:18:15,360 Speaker 1: Club's say. 1836 01:18:16,680 --> 01:18:20,000 Speaker 23: If y'all talking about it, you know we talking about it. 1837 01:18:20,000 --> 01:18:23,240 Speaker 23: It's to times called eight hundred five eight five one 1838 01:18:23,439 --> 01:18:25,840 Speaker 23: five one to join into the discussion with the Breakfast Club. 1839 01:18:26,439 --> 01:18:28,760 Speaker 1: Yes, it's the world's most dangerous morning show, The Breakfast Club. 1840 01:18:28,880 --> 01:18:32,200 Speaker 1: Charlamagne to God, Lauren Loo says here, Jess hilarious, and 1841 01:18:32,280 --> 01:18:35,639 Speaker 1: dj Enva out right now, but we're talking Meil Robins 1842 01:18:35,720 --> 01:18:36,400 Speaker 1: to let them theory. 1843 01:18:36,439 --> 01:18:38,680 Speaker 6: You know, Meil was here last hour with us. And 1844 01:18:38,720 --> 01:18:39,679 Speaker 6: if you don't know what the Left. 1845 01:18:39,560 --> 01:18:42,960 Speaker 1: Them theory is, it is a mindset tool that encourages 1846 01:18:43,000 --> 01:18:46,799 Speaker 1: you to stop trying to control or change others thoughts 1847 01:18:47,000 --> 01:18:49,720 Speaker 1: and behaviors. Instead, you focus on your own peace and 1848 01:18:49,720 --> 01:18:52,360 Speaker 1: well being by accepting that others are free to make 1849 01:18:52,400 --> 01:18:54,920 Speaker 1: their own choices. Meil Robbins put it in a book 1850 01:18:55,280 --> 01:18:57,040 Speaker 1: called The Lect Them Theory. It came out at the 1851 01:18:57,120 --> 01:19:00,720 Speaker 1: end of December. It's sold I think damn near four 1852 01:19:00,760 --> 01:19:04,400 Speaker 1: million copies in eighteen weeks. And you know, people are 1853 01:19:04,800 --> 01:19:07,720 Speaker 1: either applying to let them theory to their life or 1854 01:19:07,800 --> 01:19:10,479 Speaker 1: realizing they've already applied it, but now they have the 1855 01:19:10,600 --> 01:19:13,479 Speaker 1: language to know what to call it. So let's go 1856 01:19:13,520 --> 01:19:15,680 Speaker 1: to the phone lines. Good morning, who's this? This is 1857 01:19:15,720 --> 01:19:17,439 Speaker 1: Crystal Peace, Crystal, how are you? 1858 01:19:17,880 --> 01:19:18,439 Speaker 28: I'm blessed? 1859 01:19:18,439 --> 01:19:18,760 Speaker 27: How are you? 1860 01:19:18,840 --> 01:19:19,080 Speaker 24: King? 1861 01:19:19,360 --> 01:19:19,679 Speaker 6: Blessed? 1862 01:19:19,680 --> 01:19:22,439 Speaker 1: Black and Holly Favorite were talking to let them theory 1863 01:19:22,479 --> 01:19:24,439 Speaker 1: this morning. How have you applied to let them theory 1864 01:19:24,520 --> 01:19:24,880 Speaker 1: your life? 1865 01:19:24,880 --> 01:19:25,280 Speaker 6: Crystal? 1866 01:19:25,680 --> 01:19:28,600 Speaker 28: Well, I have applied to let them theory to my 1867 01:19:28,760 --> 01:19:31,120 Speaker 28: life to survive being an entrepreneur. 1868 01:19:31,720 --> 01:19:33,120 Speaker 21: I just put my job. 1869 01:19:33,000 --> 01:19:37,160 Speaker 28: In tealth care to focus on, like being a serial entrepreneur. 1870 01:19:37,280 --> 01:19:40,519 Speaker 28: I went from songwriter to screenwriter, and you know, there's 1871 01:19:40,560 --> 01:19:45,439 Speaker 28: a lot of discouraging things out here, but I let 1872 01:19:45,520 --> 01:19:48,599 Speaker 28: them doubt me. I let them do things from out 1873 01:19:48,680 --> 01:19:50,640 Speaker 28: on the internet to try to make it seem like 1874 01:19:50,680 --> 01:19:53,400 Speaker 28: they're doing things and they're not. I try to let 1875 01:19:53,439 --> 01:19:56,559 Speaker 28: all my haters, you know, let them tear down, because 1876 01:19:56,600 --> 01:19:59,200 Speaker 28: nothing they do is going to prosper anyway. Yes, sure, 1877 01:19:59,240 --> 01:20:02,920 Speaker 28: and I just try to stay proud. You know, I 1878 01:20:02,960 --> 01:20:07,040 Speaker 28: have other businesses too. But it's interesting because the more 1879 01:20:07,120 --> 01:20:10,120 Speaker 28: you the more people let you down, you know, because 1880 01:20:10,120 --> 01:20:12,160 Speaker 28: people will tell you, oh, I could do this for you, 1881 01:20:12,360 --> 01:20:15,320 Speaker 28: I got you. The more I become that for myself. 1882 01:20:15,680 --> 01:20:20,320 Speaker 28: So I have to literally figure out what I'm not 1883 01:20:20,479 --> 01:20:24,719 Speaker 28: getting and do it for myself because everybody who surrounds 1884 01:20:24,720 --> 01:20:27,080 Speaker 28: you are in their own world and it feels like 1885 01:20:27,160 --> 01:20:31,000 Speaker 28: they don't care. Like people don't serve anymore. People don't 1886 01:20:31,000 --> 01:20:33,519 Speaker 28: want to serve you as an assistant. They want to 1887 01:20:33,560 --> 01:20:36,000 Speaker 28: be the star. So it's like, even if I get 1888 01:20:36,000 --> 01:20:38,960 Speaker 28: an assistant there, they're probably not going to be loyal, 1889 01:20:39,280 --> 01:20:42,040 Speaker 28: you know, because everybody's so focused on themselves. So I 1890 01:20:42,240 --> 01:20:44,360 Speaker 28: just let everybody around me do them. And I wake 1891 01:20:44,439 --> 01:20:46,360 Speaker 28: up in the morning and I give myself a plan 1892 01:20:46,800 --> 01:20:48,439 Speaker 28: and I try to just stick to the plan and 1893 01:20:48,560 --> 01:20:52,840 Speaker 28: talk to myself throughout the day, you know, just saying them. 1894 01:20:53,280 --> 01:20:55,200 Speaker 1: Man, you are absolutely right. You don't want to tell 1895 01:20:55,200 --> 01:20:57,639 Speaker 1: you something about social media. The reason you should absolutely 1896 01:20:57,680 --> 01:20:59,720 Speaker 1: let people talk about you on social media. 1897 01:20:59,800 --> 01:21:00,400 Speaker 6: And you know this. 1898 01:21:00,640 --> 01:21:03,479 Speaker 1: I talked about this when I was on Mail's podcast, 1899 01:21:03,479 --> 01:21:04,559 Speaker 1: Mail Robins podcast. 1900 01:21:05,000 --> 01:21:06,559 Speaker 6: The algorithm don't know the difference. 1901 01:21:07,000 --> 01:21:08,880 Speaker 1: So you got a bunch of people that might be 1902 01:21:08,920 --> 01:21:11,080 Speaker 1: online talking bad about you, but then you'll have some 1903 01:21:11,120 --> 01:21:13,760 Speaker 1: people that are supporting you as well. And all our 1904 01:21:13,760 --> 01:21:17,080 Speaker 1: algorithm knows it that your name is being mentioned. That's it, 1905 01:21:17,160 --> 01:21:22,240 Speaker 1: So it works for you anyway. It's still your benefit anyway, right, Charlamayne. 1906 01:21:23,040 --> 01:21:24,680 Speaker 28: While we're on the top of the books, and you 1907 01:21:24,720 --> 01:21:26,840 Speaker 28: love books, can we get like a booklist from you, 1908 01:21:26,920 --> 01:21:28,559 Speaker 28: because I'm trying to buy a bunch of books that 1909 01:21:29,080 --> 01:21:31,760 Speaker 28: are healthy for mental health and all that. So I 1910 01:21:31,840 --> 01:21:33,280 Speaker 28: just want to ask you that. 1911 01:21:33,880 --> 01:21:34,840 Speaker 10: Because I'm in my book. 1912 01:21:36,040 --> 01:21:37,000 Speaker 6: Yeah, I try not to. 1913 01:21:38,280 --> 01:21:40,000 Speaker 28: I'm trying not to go to social media first thing 1914 01:21:40,000 --> 01:21:42,240 Speaker 28: every morning now, so as a part of my new 1915 01:21:42,360 --> 01:21:44,759 Speaker 28: entrepreneur life and screenwriting and film. 1916 01:21:44,760 --> 01:21:46,480 Speaker 21: I'm trying to be myself. 1917 01:21:46,160 --> 01:21:48,800 Speaker 1: With Well, I'm gonna recommend you two books right now, 1918 01:21:48,880 --> 01:21:53,000 Speaker 1: Ego is the Enemy by Ryan Holliday and The Unapologetic Guy, 1919 01:21:53,080 --> 01:21:55,599 Speaker 1: The Black Mental Health by doctor Rita Walker. 1920 01:21:56,000 --> 01:21:56,360 Speaker 15: Got it? 1921 01:21:56,400 --> 01:21:56,599 Speaker 18: Oh? 1922 01:21:56,680 --> 01:21:57,120 Speaker 27: Thank you? 1923 01:21:57,360 --> 01:21:59,879 Speaker 6: Yes, ma'am, all right, thank. 1924 01:21:59,680 --> 01:22:01,599 Speaker 21: You so much for y'all love and y'all goodness. 1925 01:22:01,840 --> 01:22:05,160 Speaker 1: Absolutely, Let's take it one more, ritt, Let's take one more. 1926 01:22:05,240 --> 01:22:06,920 Speaker 6: Let's take one more. Good morning. 1927 01:22:06,920 --> 01:22:08,880 Speaker 7: Who's this April Peace? 1928 01:22:08,920 --> 01:22:09,200 Speaker 6: April? 1929 01:22:09,240 --> 01:22:10,000 Speaker 7: How how are you? 1930 01:22:10,120 --> 01:22:11,040 Speaker 6: Where are you calling from? 1931 01:22:11,960 --> 01:22:15,080 Speaker 1: From Atlanta at l We're gonna be in Atlanta on 1932 01:22:15,120 --> 01:22:18,439 Speaker 1: April twenty sixth for the third annual Black Effect Podcast Festivals. 1933 01:22:18,439 --> 01:22:20,280 Speaker 1: To go, get your tickets if you haven't gotten them already. 1934 01:22:20,680 --> 01:22:22,640 Speaker 6: Sarah J. Robins will be on that stage doing her 1935 01:22:22,680 --> 01:22:26,400 Speaker 6: Woman of All podcast live. Okay, but we're here to talk. 1936 01:22:26,800 --> 01:22:28,680 Speaker 1: We're here to talk about Melton Robbinson The Left the 1937 01:22:28,800 --> 01:22:31,160 Speaker 1: theory right now, how have you applied it to your life? 1938 01:22:31,240 --> 01:22:31,320 Speaker 7: So? 1939 01:22:31,439 --> 01:22:34,120 Speaker 27: I haven't read the book, but I did hear one 1940 01:22:34,120 --> 01:22:36,559 Speaker 27: of her podcasts, so I became familiar with the let 1941 01:22:36,600 --> 01:22:41,880 Speaker 27: them theory and applying that for myself a lot of 1942 01:22:41,920 --> 01:22:44,960 Speaker 27: people out feel have slept on me and you know, 1943 01:22:45,120 --> 01:22:46,760 Speaker 27: just kind of treating me a certain type of way. 1944 01:22:47,240 --> 01:22:52,040 Speaker 27: And I let them by continuing to be myself, showing 1945 01:22:52,160 --> 01:22:56,360 Speaker 27: up with love and light, and they eventually some of 1946 01:22:56,400 --> 01:23:00,280 Speaker 27: them have turned around and see the deep down that 1947 01:23:00,320 --> 01:23:02,280 Speaker 27: I'm just moving the way that I am and that's 1948 01:23:02,280 --> 01:23:05,120 Speaker 27: how I am, So they kind of change their perspective 1949 01:23:06,080 --> 01:23:07,759 Speaker 27: by just me being myself. 1950 01:23:07,840 --> 01:23:08,760 Speaker 23: I let them have. 1951 01:23:08,840 --> 01:23:12,240 Speaker 27: Their feelings and whatever for whatever reason, and I'm just 1952 01:23:12,320 --> 01:23:15,360 Speaker 27: letting them see them and I'm continuing to move the 1953 01:23:15,360 --> 01:23:15,880 Speaker 27: way that I do. 1954 01:23:17,439 --> 01:23:20,120 Speaker 6: That's all you can do. Have a great day, Yes, well, 1955 01:23:20,120 --> 01:23:23,799 Speaker 6: thank y'all. And that's literally what the lefting theory is. 1956 01:23:23,840 --> 01:23:27,000 Speaker 1: It's literally a mindset to that encourages you to stop 1957 01:23:27,040 --> 01:23:31,040 Speaker 1: trying to control or change other people's thoughts and behaviors. 1958 01:23:31,360 --> 01:23:31,920 Speaker 9: That can't. 1959 01:23:32,320 --> 01:23:33,719 Speaker 2: You can't. Can't you can't. 1960 01:23:33,720 --> 01:23:36,000 Speaker 6: You cannot control other people. I tell y'all all the time. 1961 01:23:36,080 --> 01:23:38,760 Speaker 1: And we wake up every single day and all we're 1962 01:23:38,800 --> 01:23:42,880 Speaker 1: trying to do is avoid crazy. And that crazy usually 1963 01:23:42,920 --> 01:23:44,360 Speaker 1: comes in the form of other people. 1964 01:23:44,920 --> 01:23:47,240 Speaker 9: I thought you're bout saying it usually comes from Florida. 1965 01:23:47,320 --> 01:23:51,320 Speaker 1: It does, though, but we love Florida. We like going 1966 01:23:51,360 --> 01:23:53,800 Speaker 1: to Miami, we like going to Disney World. We know, 1967 01:23:53,920 --> 01:23:56,280 Speaker 1: so it's still the same thing. But listen, go out 1968 01:23:56,280 --> 01:23:58,040 Speaker 1: there and get mel Robbins the let them theory. 1969 01:23:58,120 --> 01:23:59,360 Speaker 6: She don't need me to promote her book. 1970 01:23:59,439 --> 01:24:02,040 Speaker 1: This book is, you know, selling like crack in the eighties, 1971 01:24:02,240 --> 01:24:05,080 Speaker 1: but it is a fantastic read and it's one of 1972 01:24:05,080 --> 01:24:07,760 Speaker 1: those books that I'm recommending to everybody. 1973 01:24:07,880 --> 01:24:09,479 Speaker 9: You really are You told me about it way before 1974 01:24:09,479 --> 01:24:11,080 Speaker 9: we even know she was coming up here. 1975 01:24:10,920 --> 01:24:13,800 Speaker 1: Because sometimes you know, we forget, Like to me, you 1976 01:24:13,880 --> 01:24:16,479 Speaker 1: just need these simple reminders, like I always tell we 1977 01:24:16,520 --> 01:24:18,800 Speaker 1: talk about the serenity prayer all the time, right, and 1978 01:24:18,880 --> 01:24:21,240 Speaker 1: we know what the serenity prayer is, but sometimes we 1979 01:24:21,280 --> 01:24:23,320 Speaker 1: forget that and we just need to be reminded that 1980 01:24:23,360 --> 01:24:26,240 Speaker 1: we're not in control of anything. So just let people 1981 01:24:26,320 --> 01:24:27,080 Speaker 1: be who they are. 1982 01:24:27,200 --> 01:24:28,920 Speaker 8: You think were getting better because you yell at us 1983 01:24:28,960 --> 01:24:31,000 Speaker 8: all the time, us, me, Jess, all the producers. 1984 01:24:31,200 --> 01:24:31,960 Speaker 9: You think we're getting better. 1985 01:24:32,080 --> 01:24:33,680 Speaker 6: No, that's why I'm gonna keep yelling at y'all. 1986 01:24:33,840 --> 01:24:36,519 Speaker 12: Oh you just like to. 1987 01:24:36,560 --> 01:24:38,640 Speaker 8: Yell talk about Tell people I'm not a mean but 1988 01:24:38,760 --> 01:24:40,360 Speaker 8: you really just old and be yelling. 1989 01:24:40,640 --> 01:24:42,160 Speaker 2: Like I've told you that. 1990 01:24:42,120 --> 01:24:47,160 Speaker 1: I think you got better. Okay, Jess needs work. NV 1991 01:24:47,280 --> 01:24:53,559 Speaker 1: definitely needs work. It's still a little bit. I'm just saying, 1992 01:24:54,000 --> 01:24:55,200 Speaker 1: y'all care a little bit too. 1993 01:24:55,080 --> 01:24:57,839 Speaker 6: Much about the opinions of other people. That's all. Okay, 1994 01:24:57,960 --> 01:24:58,360 Speaker 6: that's all. 1995 01:24:59,000 --> 01:25:00,880 Speaker 9: So me and my edges we gonna be chilling. 1996 01:25:01,160 --> 01:25:02,640 Speaker 6: We got the latest with Lauren coming up. 1997 01:25:02,880 --> 01:25:05,439 Speaker 9: We do what you got vibes Cartel. 1998 01:25:05,520 --> 01:25:08,200 Speaker 8: He made history, he did it, the big return back 1999 01:25:08,240 --> 01:25:11,080 Speaker 8: to New York after twenty years. There are some big moments, 2000 01:25:11,080 --> 01:25:13,400 Speaker 8: including the fact that Drake gifted him this like ovo 2001 01:25:13,479 --> 01:25:15,200 Speaker 8: chain is one of two only him and him and 2002 01:25:15,280 --> 01:25:17,879 Speaker 8: Drake have it. And I got all the details about everything, 2003 01:25:17,880 --> 01:25:19,639 Speaker 8: how long it took to make it. I got all 2004 01:25:19,680 --> 01:25:20,240 Speaker 8: the details. 2005 01:25:20,320 --> 01:25:23,040 Speaker 6: So hold on, it's only two chains change. Yeah, so 2006 01:25:23,400 --> 01:25:25,120 Speaker 6: it's well, tell me, I tell me when we come back. 2007 01:25:25,160 --> 01:25:26,519 Speaker 6: It's the latest with Lauren. When we come back to 2008 01:25:26,600 --> 01:25:27,240 Speaker 6: the Breakfast Club. 2009 01:25:27,760 --> 01:25:28,920 Speaker 2: The Breakfast Club. 2010 01:25:31,520 --> 01:25:33,439 Speaker 1: That's right, it is the Breakfast Club, the world's most 2011 01:25:33,479 --> 01:25:34,360 Speaker 1: dangerous morning showing. 2012 01:25:34,360 --> 01:25:35,960 Speaker 6: Now it's time for the latest with Lauren. 2013 01:25:36,320 --> 01:25:39,200 Speaker 5: Lauren be coming straight fast man. 2014 01:25:39,439 --> 01:25:39,880 Speaker 2: She gets him. 2015 01:25:40,040 --> 01:25:42,320 Speaker 7: Somebody that knows, somebody gets the detail. 2016 01:25:42,680 --> 01:25:44,719 Speaker 9: I'm the homegirl that knows a little bit about everything. 2017 01:25:45,680 --> 01:25:46,200 Speaker 6: She'd be having. 2018 01:25:46,200 --> 01:25:50,080 Speaker 2: The latest on the lawn is the latest with Lauren 2019 01:25:50,160 --> 01:25:50,599 Speaker 2: la Rosa. 2020 01:25:50,680 --> 01:25:53,160 Speaker 6: Sometimes you have fact, sometimes you have details. Sometimes you 2021 01:25:53,200 --> 01:25:54,120 Speaker 6: have a little bit of everything. 2022 01:25:54,280 --> 01:25:56,160 Speaker 2: It's the latest on the Breakfast Club. 2023 01:25:56,560 --> 01:25:59,479 Speaker 1: Talk to me what we got ll Cool Bay Vibes, 2024 01:25:59,520 --> 01:26:00,839 Speaker 1: Cartel World Boss. 2025 01:26:01,479 --> 01:26:04,800 Speaker 8: He returned to New York and he did his big 2026 01:26:04,920 --> 01:26:08,719 Speaker 8: US return. So this was his first US headlining show 2027 01:26:08,760 --> 01:26:11,800 Speaker 8: in over twenty years. So there were some pretty big 2028 01:26:11,840 --> 01:26:14,160 Speaker 8: moments out of the show. So he came out to 2029 01:26:14,880 --> 01:26:18,000 Speaker 8: his remix that he did to Acons Locked Up, which 2030 01:26:18,000 --> 01:26:19,840 Speaker 8: of course was very my mental after everything and he's 2031 01:26:19,880 --> 01:26:22,360 Speaker 8: been through, and the crowd just embraced him. 2032 01:26:22,680 --> 01:26:23,200 Speaker 9: Crazy. 2033 01:26:24,240 --> 01:26:26,839 Speaker 8: Bill wo actually is calling this show like the opening 2034 01:26:26,920 --> 01:26:29,080 Speaker 8: night alone, because you know it was sold out. Crazy right, 2035 01:26:30,040 --> 01:26:32,200 Speaker 8: they're calling this show one of the most memorable nights 2036 01:26:32,200 --> 01:26:34,799 Speaker 8: of live music in the Boroughs storied history. 2037 01:26:34,960 --> 01:26:37,439 Speaker 1: I mean, listen, people were's your vibes Cartel and you know, 2038 01:26:37,520 --> 01:26:41,519 Speaker 1: after meeting him, I can understand why people enjoy him 2039 01:26:41,520 --> 01:26:41,960 Speaker 1: the way that he did. 2040 01:26:42,000 --> 01:26:43,760 Speaker 8: I was telling people that all weekend, like he is 2041 01:26:43,920 --> 01:26:47,120 Speaker 8: very personal, he's super funny, like I see the Star 2042 01:26:47,240 --> 01:26:48,560 Speaker 8: and a lot of times it's hard to pickle on 2043 01:26:48,600 --> 01:26:50,799 Speaker 8: that with certain artists. Let's take a listen to him 2044 01:26:50,920 --> 01:26:52,960 Speaker 8: in the ACM moment when he walked out on stage. 2045 01:26:53,160 --> 01:26:57,280 Speaker 1: I think Jamaica should narrate everything. I'm not gonna lie. 2046 01:26:57,360 --> 01:26:58,960 Speaker 1: I thought about that the other day out that some 2047 01:26:59,120 --> 01:27:02,920 Speaker 1: airport and they had it and making a narrating calling 2048 01:27:02,960 --> 01:27:05,880 Speaker 1: people you know what I'm saying the gate, Oh my god, 2049 01:27:05,920 --> 01:27:12,439 Speaker 1: that was so amazing. Now bonding Kay three Kate Tree. 2050 01:27:11,760 --> 01:27:14,639 Speaker 6: Out like yo, Jamaica narrate everything well. 2051 01:27:15,479 --> 01:27:17,880 Speaker 8: Also throughout the night he brought out some different people. 2052 01:27:18,000 --> 01:27:20,280 Speaker 8: Of course, Little Kim hit the stage. One of the 2053 01:27:20,400 --> 01:27:24,080 Speaker 8: night's neo shin see a fab Spice. Of course he 2054 01:27:24,160 --> 01:27:27,520 Speaker 8: can't come and not bring the dance tall Queen Spice. 2055 01:27:27,840 --> 01:27:31,160 Speaker 8: He performed Summertime Clock's Fever, the Brooklyn Anthem. When he 2056 01:27:31,160 --> 01:27:32,960 Speaker 8: did the Brooklyn Anthem, he actually put on a Brooklyn 2057 01:27:32,960 --> 01:27:34,960 Speaker 8: Next jersey, but he had it on back wheres he 2058 01:27:35,000 --> 01:27:37,760 Speaker 8: had to like fix the jersey or whatever. But he 2059 01:27:37,840 --> 01:27:41,400 Speaker 8: also did his song Mama, and he brought his mom 2060 01:27:41,400 --> 01:27:43,519 Speaker 8: out when he did it, he goes down on one knee. 2061 01:27:43,520 --> 01:27:45,040 Speaker 8: It was just a good moment, you know, because the 2062 01:27:45,080 --> 01:27:46,600 Speaker 8: song talks about everything they've been through and what they 2063 01:27:46,640 --> 01:27:48,920 Speaker 8: don't have to go through no more. And she's carressing 2064 01:27:48,960 --> 01:27:50,680 Speaker 8: him and they're in front of all these people. But 2065 01:27:51,360 --> 01:27:53,360 Speaker 8: there was a moment during the show where he got 2066 01:27:53,400 --> 01:27:55,839 Speaker 8: so emotional he couldn't finish a song. He was performing 2067 01:27:55,880 --> 01:27:57,640 Speaker 8: his song God is the Greatest and he broke down. 2068 01:27:57,680 --> 01:27:58,640 Speaker 9: Let's take a listen. 2069 01:28:01,280 --> 01:28:01,519 Speaker 7: Time. 2070 01:28:06,760 --> 01:28:16,759 Speaker 3: M Mmm, does listen solo? 2071 01:28:17,080 --> 01:28:18,920 Speaker 20: Does I mean enough? 2072 01:28:19,360 --> 01:28:25,160 Speaker 24: One night man be Us I watched God dis I 2073 01:28:25,280 --> 01:28:31,000 Speaker 24: did listen? So does I mean like man bet Us watch? 2074 01:28:36,120 --> 01:28:38,320 Speaker 1: I mean, can you imagine, you know, you've been in 2075 01:28:38,320 --> 01:28:41,639 Speaker 1: prison for thirteen years, thinking that you're never gonna see 2076 01:28:41,680 --> 01:28:45,160 Speaker 1: you know, the freedom again, right, and then you actually 2077 01:28:45,160 --> 01:28:45,679 Speaker 1: get freed. 2078 01:28:45,720 --> 01:28:47,639 Speaker 6: Of course, absolutely. 2079 01:28:47,080 --> 01:28:48,840 Speaker 8: Get free, and you sell out two back to back 2080 01:28:48,920 --> 01:28:51,280 Speaker 8: shows at the Bark Place and the nineteen thousand people 2081 01:28:51,280 --> 01:28:55,080 Speaker 8: it's with that stadium hole. Cardi B was also in attendance. 2082 01:28:55,280 --> 01:28:58,320 Speaker 8: DJ Envy went with his wife Gia. Now you know 2083 01:28:58,360 --> 01:29:02,320 Speaker 8: who also was there in tears. Safari Sofari was there 2084 01:29:02,360 --> 01:29:04,639 Speaker 8: in tears. He said, you know, Vibes is his his hero. 2085 01:29:05,120 --> 01:29:07,160 Speaker 8: Seeing him on stage in that big return. 2086 01:29:06,880 --> 01:29:07,360 Speaker 9: Made him. 2087 01:29:10,120 --> 01:29:12,120 Speaker 8: Why would you make me laugh? It was a really 2088 01:29:12,120 --> 01:29:15,639 Speaker 8: emotional moment for Safari. But yeah, so shout out to Vibes. 2089 01:29:16,160 --> 01:29:17,559 Speaker 6: I saw people kill the Safari for that. 2090 01:29:17,600 --> 01:29:20,360 Speaker 1: But Joe Safari has always shown and expressed his love 2091 01:29:20,680 --> 01:29:21,719 Speaker 1: for Vibes Cartel. 2092 01:29:21,880 --> 01:29:22,559 Speaker 9: So why you laugh? 2093 01:29:23,120 --> 01:29:25,280 Speaker 6: But I was thinking about something that happened last week 2094 01:29:25,280 --> 01:29:29,400 Speaker 6: when Bobbs was here, I know. So that's what I 2095 01:29:29,479 --> 01:29:29,960 Speaker 6: was laughing that. 2096 01:29:30,120 --> 01:29:31,640 Speaker 8: I think, I know if we wanted to share it, 2097 01:29:31,960 --> 01:29:35,560 Speaker 8: I'm okay. So another moment that happened. Vibes Cartel was 2098 01:29:35,600 --> 01:29:39,960 Speaker 8: gifted these Ovio chains from Drake. They were like a surprise, 2099 01:29:40,040 --> 01:29:43,680 Speaker 8: special gift from Vibes to Drake. Now I spoke to 2100 01:29:43,760 --> 01:29:47,040 Speaker 8: Alex Moss's team. Alex Moss is the jeweler who created 2101 01:29:47,040 --> 01:29:49,479 Speaker 8: these chains with Drake, and from what I'm told, it 2102 01:29:49,520 --> 01:29:51,720 Speaker 8: took seven months to make. Drake came up with the 2103 01:29:51,800 --> 01:29:53,559 Speaker 8: idea and brought it to Alex to bring it to 2104 01:29:53,600 --> 01:29:55,360 Speaker 8: life because he wanted to, you know, give Vibes a 2105 01:29:55,360 --> 01:29:57,799 Speaker 8: big welcome home gift. Drake was involved in the process 2106 01:29:57,800 --> 01:30:00,680 Speaker 8: of customizing the Joy from the beginning. Alex most of 2107 01:30:00,760 --> 01:30:02,559 Speaker 8: his team work with Drake a lot, so he trusts 2108 01:30:02,600 --> 01:30:05,240 Speaker 8: Alex created vision in his taste when it comes to 2109 01:30:05,400 --> 01:30:06,000 Speaker 8: taking the lead. 2110 01:30:06,360 --> 01:30:07,679 Speaker 6: Why would Vibes want an owl. 2111 01:30:08,640 --> 01:30:10,920 Speaker 8: Vibes is a he's a huge supporter of Drake. He 2112 01:30:11,080 --> 01:30:12,560 Speaker 8: back to him and the Kendrick Lamar. They talked a 2113 01:30:12,600 --> 01:30:13,160 Speaker 8: lot about Drake. 2114 01:30:13,200 --> 01:30:15,240 Speaker 6: Oh they got to do with the owl? Will continue? 2115 01:30:15,280 --> 01:30:16,120 Speaker 9: It's like you know what I mean? 2116 01:30:16,240 --> 01:30:16,599 Speaker 2: Continue? 2117 01:30:17,720 --> 01:30:21,720 Speaker 8: So it's a fourteen character yellow gold they have. They 2118 01:30:22,200 --> 01:30:24,760 Speaker 8: have like some camo on it and printed in it 2119 01:30:24,800 --> 01:30:29,639 Speaker 8: and diamonds because you know the whole Vibes the general 2120 01:30:30,479 --> 01:30:32,600 Speaker 8: what else. There's so many details. Drake really took a 2121 01:30:32,640 --> 01:30:35,000 Speaker 8: time on this. There's only two created. There's one for 2122 01:30:35,080 --> 01:30:37,040 Speaker 8: Vibes Cartel and one for Drake himself. 2123 01:30:37,120 --> 01:30:37,320 Speaker 22: Drake. 2124 01:30:37,439 --> 01:30:40,719 Speaker 1: Actually, yeah, now why is Vibes the only other person 2125 01:30:40,760 --> 01:30:41,759 Speaker 1: with that type of owl? 2126 01:30:42,439 --> 01:30:47,280 Speaker 6: What about Chumps? What about forty? It's party, it's pream 2127 01:30:47,520 --> 01:30:50,160 Speaker 6: and baka. They would like a new owl. 2128 01:30:50,360 --> 01:30:53,160 Speaker 9: It's something special for the world. Boss. Wow, don't do that. 2129 01:30:53,400 --> 01:30:55,800 Speaker 1: Why can't they have an owl? Nobody else has? 2130 01:30:56,080 --> 01:30:58,240 Speaker 9: They probably do you all in their owl business? You 2131 01:30:58,320 --> 01:30:58,920 Speaker 9: want WOMBOO? 2132 01:30:59,040 --> 01:31:02,120 Speaker 1: No I don't. And it's like why just him and Drake? Okay, 2133 01:31:02,080 --> 01:31:03,799 Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure this out, Like what's the connection. 2134 01:31:04,800 --> 01:31:09,240 Speaker 8: He's a huge icon that he looks up to but yeah, 2135 01:31:09,240 --> 01:31:10,479 Speaker 8: so it was a good gift. I tried to get 2136 01:31:10,479 --> 01:31:12,320 Speaker 8: the price in but they ain't doing all that. They 2137 01:31:12,320 --> 01:31:14,880 Speaker 8: said it's priceless. So shout out to Drake on that 2138 01:31:14,920 --> 01:31:16,439 Speaker 8: gift because that one super virus well and it's a 2139 01:31:16,439 --> 01:31:19,080 Speaker 8: great ol. Now as we wrap up, can I do 2140 01:31:19,200 --> 01:31:21,080 Speaker 8: one of the clips that we had really quick? I 2141 01:31:21,080 --> 01:31:22,400 Speaker 8: also wanted to answer the question a lot of you 2142 01:31:22,400 --> 01:31:25,040 Speaker 8: guys are trying to figure out why Joe Tacopino, who 2143 01:31:25,080 --> 01:31:27,880 Speaker 8: is now representing Wendy on the personal attorney side, was 2144 01:31:27,920 --> 01:31:29,960 Speaker 8: denied the ability to go to dinner with Wendy. I 2145 01:31:30,000 --> 01:31:32,080 Speaker 8: feel like some people thought that this was a retaliation 2146 01:31:32,200 --> 01:31:34,880 Speaker 8: thing from her conservativeship. Well, Joe Tacopina called in to 2147 01:31:34,920 --> 01:31:36,680 Speaker 8: talk to us exclusively today to explain it. 2148 01:31:36,720 --> 01:31:37,360 Speaker 9: Let's take a listen. 2149 01:31:38,240 --> 01:31:42,120 Speaker 19: There may have been a motivating factor to Superna Morcy 2150 01:31:42,120 --> 01:31:44,920 Speaker 19: canceling that dinner, which could have included the fact that 2151 01:31:44,960 --> 01:31:47,040 Speaker 19: I was there. So the lesson they want to do, 2152 01:31:47,320 --> 01:31:50,720 Speaker 19: guys is see me inside that quarto. I'm not going 2153 01:31:50,800 --> 01:31:54,639 Speaker 19: to be gentle about how one is being treated as 2154 01:31:54,640 --> 01:31:57,880 Speaker 19: far as that dinner one be. Myself and Alys were 2155 01:31:57,920 --> 01:32:01,200 Speaker 19: supposed to have dinner that night, last minute. Literally, as 2156 01:32:01,240 --> 01:32:04,680 Speaker 19: Wendy was rested and ready to leave her room, she 2157 01:32:04,840 --> 01:32:08,040 Speaker 19: was told she couldn't go by Supreme Marty because Alice 2158 01:32:08,200 --> 01:32:10,599 Speaker 19: was testifying the next day to hear it, so therefore 2159 01:32:10,600 --> 01:32:13,680 Speaker 19: she couldn't see Wendy in person that night. So if 2160 01:32:13,680 --> 01:32:17,000 Speaker 19: the whole point was they couldn't get together the night 2161 01:32:17,040 --> 01:32:20,840 Speaker 19: before her testimony, as if somehow Wendy would influence out 2162 01:32:20,920 --> 01:32:25,120 Speaker 19: the testimony, which is ridiculous, It wouldn't really make sense 2163 01:32:25,280 --> 01:32:27,400 Speaker 19: to cancel that dinner because they could have just been 2164 01:32:27,439 --> 01:32:29,479 Speaker 19: on the phone. Well, I don't know if they knew 2165 01:32:29,520 --> 01:32:31,160 Speaker 19: I was going to be at that dinner. It just 2166 01:32:31,200 --> 01:32:33,080 Speaker 19: seems highly coincidental. 2167 01:32:34,240 --> 01:32:36,519 Speaker 8: Baby, they got Wendy in a choke code over there, 2168 01:32:36,520 --> 01:32:39,080 Speaker 8: don't they. They're trying to show her something. We also, 2169 01:32:39,680 --> 01:32:42,080 Speaker 8: real quick we also asked them to about the money 2170 01:32:42,120 --> 01:32:44,120 Speaker 8: because we were trying to figure out. You know, Wendy's 2171 01:32:44,120 --> 01:32:46,040 Speaker 8: been saying that Sabrina uses her money to hire these 2172 01:32:46,080 --> 01:32:48,640 Speaker 8: high powate attorneys and blah blah blahlah blah. So I 2173 01:32:48,840 --> 01:32:50,680 Speaker 8: was like, well, wait, so Sabrina's letting her pay you 2174 01:32:50,680 --> 01:32:52,120 Speaker 8: because if they don't want you there, they ain't gonna 2175 01:32:52,160 --> 01:32:54,240 Speaker 8: let the money flow, and he said that that has 2176 01:32:54,320 --> 01:32:57,400 Speaker 8: did Sabrina's not paying him. Wendy's families, actually you know, 2177 01:32:57,479 --> 01:32:59,679 Speaker 8: and him are taking care of that, but he didn't 2178 01:32:59,680 --> 01:33:01,040 Speaker 8: want to go into it. He said that that's something 2179 01:33:01,080 --> 01:33:02,800 Speaker 8: between him and the family. He's not worried about the 2180 01:33:02,800 --> 01:33:05,080 Speaker 8: money right now. He's just trying to make sure Wendy Street. 2181 01:33:05,360 --> 01:33:08,480 Speaker 6: I'm sure we'll hear more on the Latest with Lauren podcasts. 2182 01:33:08,520 --> 01:33:09,080 Speaker 9: Oh period. 2183 01:33:09,120 --> 01:33:10,479 Speaker 8: You know, some of these clips is going right on 2184 01:33:10,560 --> 01:33:12,600 Speaker 8: over there. And I told y'all in today's episode that 2185 01:33:12,600 --> 01:33:14,439 Speaker 8: we would have Joe call in. So I hope you 2186 01:33:14,439 --> 01:33:16,800 Speaker 8: guys have enjoyed the bounce between the two platforms, and 2187 01:33:16,840 --> 01:33:18,839 Speaker 8: we do got some more exclusive clips from our conversation 2188 01:33:18,880 --> 01:33:21,759 Speaker 8: with Joe Takapina that will be on tomorrow morning's episode 2189 01:33:21,760 --> 01:33:23,639 Speaker 8: of the Latest with Lauren le Rosa the podcast. 2190 01:33:23,760 --> 01:33:25,479 Speaker 1: Make sure you subscribe to The Latest with Laura la 2191 01:33:25,520 --> 01:33:28,679 Speaker 1: Rosso on The Black Effect iHeartRadio podcast Network. And speaking 2192 01:33:28,680 --> 01:33:31,320 Speaker 1: of that, we have the third annual Black Effect Podcast 2193 01:33:31,400 --> 01:33:34,080 Speaker 1: Festival happening Saturday, April twenty sixth. 2194 01:33:34,080 --> 01:33:36,040 Speaker 6: In Atlanta at Pullman Yards. 2195 01:33:36,080 --> 01:33:38,200 Speaker 1: Go get your tickets at Black Effect dot Com Slash 2196 01:33:38,280 --> 01:33:40,400 Speaker 1: Podcast Festival. Some of your favorite podcasts are going to 2197 01:33:40,439 --> 01:33:43,320 Speaker 1: be on that stage. Tanking j Valentine will be on 2198 01:33:43,360 --> 01:33:45,800 Speaker 1: there with the R and B Money podcast SATA Jake 2199 01:33:45,880 --> 01:33:47,240 Speaker 1: Roberts will be on there with the Woman of. 2200 01:33:47,280 --> 01:33:49,439 Speaker 6: Alved podcast, plus a whole lot more. 2201 01:33:49,479 --> 01:33:51,879 Speaker 1: So go to Black Effect dot Com Slash Podcast Festival 2202 01:33:52,040 --> 01:33:54,080 Speaker 1: to get you tickets, and the People's Choice mixed with 2203 01:33:54,120 --> 01:33:55,560 Speaker 1: DJMB is up next. 2204 01:33:56,080 --> 01:33:57,679 Speaker 2: You're checking out the Breakfast Club. 2205 01:33:58,479 --> 01:34:00,120 Speaker 1: Yes, it's the World's most Dangerous More than You're to 2206 01:34:00,120 --> 01:34:03,960 Speaker 1: Breakfast Club Charlamagne and God Lauren LaRosa. DJ Envy is gone, 2207 01:34:04,040 --> 01:34:06,360 Speaker 1: he had to go out doing some book trapping and 2208 01:34:06,880 --> 01:34:09,839 Speaker 1: just his son's born day is the day Ashton? 2209 01:34:10,040 --> 01:34:10,240 Speaker 7: Right? 2210 01:34:10,479 --> 01:34:13,200 Speaker 6: Yeah today? Yeah, think yeah. 2211 01:34:13,200 --> 01:34:16,160 Speaker 1: Ashtons turned thirteen today, So happy born Day to Ashton. 2212 01:34:16,200 --> 01:34:18,599 Speaker 1: I'm sure Jess is doing a lot of great things 2213 01:34:18,600 --> 01:34:21,120 Speaker 1: for him down in Baltimore. And salute to Baltimore. I 2214 01:34:21,120 --> 01:34:24,559 Speaker 1: was in Baltimore all weekend for my daughter's cheerleading tournament. 2215 01:34:24,600 --> 01:34:26,519 Speaker 1: Man had a great time in Baltimore. I want to 2216 01:34:26,560 --> 01:34:31,479 Speaker 1: salute Carly at Nick's Fishhouse. Man, Carlely, thank you for 2217 01:34:31,520 --> 01:34:34,360 Speaker 1: the love that you showed me and my wife at 2218 01:34:34,479 --> 01:34:36,679 Speaker 1: Nick's Fishhouse this past weekend. 2219 01:34:36,720 --> 01:34:39,800 Speaker 6: You see I'm rocking the Knicks Fish House merchandise. 2220 01:34:39,479 --> 01:34:40,840 Speaker 9: Big merch. 2221 01:34:41,200 --> 01:34:41,360 Speaker 18: Oh. 2222 01:34:41,400 --> 01:34:43,759 Speaker 9: I like the back of that. Yes, that's fire. 2223 01:34:43,840 --> 01:34:45,040 Speaker 6: They asked me if I wanted a hoodie. 2224 01:34:45,080 --> 01:34:47,599 Speaker 1: I'm like, hell yeah, you know, because I show love 2225 01:34:47,640 --> 01:34:48,720 Speaker 1: to people who show love to me. 2226 01:34:48,880 --> 01:34:50,880 Speaker 6: So Cary, thank you for the love this weekend. 2227 01:34:50,880 --> 01:34:53,760 Speaker 1: Thank you for the merch and just the hospitality y'all 2228 01:34:53,800 --> 01:34:55,479 Speaker 1: showed us at Knicks Fish House. 2229 01:34:56,320 --> 01:34:57,840 Speaker 6: You got something going on, DR. 2230 01:34:58,240 --> 01:35:00,320 Speaker 8: I mean, we got a lot going on the podcast here. 2231 01:35:00,560 --> 01:35:03,320 Speaker 8: Please continue to download it on everywhere you get podcasts 2232 01:35:03,320 --> 01:35:06,160 Speaker 8: audio to eye heart app. You can also now watch it. 2233 01:35:06,240 --> 01:35:08,200 Speaker 8: It is a delayed watch. You'll be on my body, 2234 01:35:08,200 --> 01:35:11,519 Speaker 8: but I like that though. Every day after the audio, 2235 01:35:11,600 --> 01:35:13,840 Speaker 8: so twenty four hours after the audio you can watch it. 2236 01:35:13,880 --> 01:35:16,000 Speaker 9: But I do post clips the day of on my 2237 01:35:16,040 --> 01:35:16,559 Speaker 9: social media. 2238 01:35:16,680 --> 01:35:18,600 Speaker 6: Post the video twenty four hours after the audio. 2239 01:35:18,400 --> 01:35:20,519 Speaker 9: In full, but I post social media clips day of. 2240 01:35:20,680 --> 01:35:22,479 Speaker 8: We're working on it because at first it was forty eight, 2241 01:35:22,600 --> 01:35:24,519 Speaker 8: so you know it should be day off. 2242 01:35:24,960 --> 01:35:25,840 Speaker 9: We're working on it. 2243 01:35:25,880 --> 01:35:26,720 Speaker 6: But what you're going to the d. 2244 01:35:26,800 --> 01:35:28,880 Speaker 8: Off for, I'm going to DR because it is the 2245 01:35:29,040 --> 01:35:32,559 Speaker 8: HBCU Black Alumni weekend, and you know, whenever something that 2246 01:35:32,560 --> 01:35:33,280 Speaker 8: and it's HBCU. 2247 01:35:33,280 --> 01:35:34,800 Speaker 9: They bring me out to have a good time. 2248 01:35:34,840 --> 01:35:36,040 Speaker 6: About you going for a BBL. 2249 01:35:36,080 --> 01:35:37,760 Speaker 1: I'm like, come on, I don't even have enough weight 2250 01:35:37,840 --> 01:35:40,160 Speaker 1: on my battle because something's happened like that. You know people, 2251 01:35:40,320 --> 01:35:41,920 Speaker 1: you know you're getting a little love out here in 2252 01:35:41,960 --> 01:35:43,240 Speaker 1: these streets, and all of a sudden, now you want 2253 01:35:43,280 --> 01:35:44,559 Speaker 1: to have plantic surgery like yo. 2254 01:35:44,640 --> 01:35:46,400 Speaker 9: Chill now go to BBM. 2255 01:35:46,520 --> 01:35:48,200 Speaker 6: No, I'm not. You don't have to do that at all. 2256 01:35:48,280 --> 01:35:49,679 Speaker 1: You don't have to tell me because I'm not going 2257 01:35:49,680 --> 01:35:52,759 Speaker 1: there for making sure. Okay, I heard you saying the initials. 2258 01:35:52,800 --> 01:35:54,400 Speaker 1: I wasn't paying attention. It was HBCU. 2259 01:35:54,640 --> 01:35:57,599 Speaker 8: Yes, not bb I know you ain't graduate from nowhere 2260 01:35:57,600 --> 01:36:00,840 Speaker 8: because you even talking about That's right, HBCU Black Alumni Weekend, 2261 01:36:00,840 --> 01:36:02,439 Speaker 8: May twenty second through the twenty seventh. 2262 01:36:02,479 --> 01:36:05,559 Speaker 9: I will be there. Memorial Day getaway dot com. Let 2263 01:36:05,600 --> 01:36:05,840 Speaker 9: them know. 2264 01:36:05,880 --> 01:36:07,720 Speaker 8: I check out. You can select who referred you. Lauren 2265 01:36:07,760 --> 01:36:09,920 Speaker 8: LaRosa referred you, and come out have a good time 2266 01:36:09,920 --> 01:36:11,040 Speaker 8: with me. Bring your friends. 2267 01:36:11,120 --> 01:36:12,719 Speaker 9: It's gonna be good, all. 2268 01:36:12,680 --> 01:36:15,000 Speaker 1: Right, So yes, go check that out. Join Lauren LaRosa 2269 01:36:15,520 --> 01:36:18,040 Speaker 1: Memorial Day Weekend in the d R. When we come back. 2270 01:36:18,040 --> 01:36:19,960 Speaker 1: We got the positive note. It's the Breakfast Club. 2271 01:36:20,120 --> 01:36:20,559 Speaker 6: Yep, it's the. 2272 01:36:20,560 --> 01:36:22,280 Speaker 1: World No Danger, It's born to show The Breakfast Club, 2273 01:36:22,360 --> 01:36:25,640 Speaker 1: Charlamage God, Lauren LaRosa, DJ Envy. He's out doing some 2274 01:36:25,680 --> 01:36:28,800 Speaker 1: book trapping. His new book comes out tomorrow, Real Life, 2275 01:36:28,840 --> 01:36:31,599 Speaker 1: Real Family, him and his wife Da Casey. So you'll 2276 01:36:31,640 --> 01:36:35,080 Speaker 1: see them out in about doing a pr thing. 2277 01:36:35,479 --> 01:36:36,519 Speaker 6: What did he say he was going to do? 2278 01:36:36,880 --> 01:36:40,720 Speaker 9: I believe like Good Day in New York Americas. Uh huh. 2279 01:36:40,760 --> 01:36:42,840 Speaker 8: They've been doing some podcasts. I know they did, then 2280 01:36:42,880 --> 01:36:44,320 Speaker 8: they did. I don't know if I can say which 2281 01:36:44,360 --> 01:36:46,439 Speaker 8: one they did. It is some podcasts too, like it down. 2282 01:36:46,479 --> 01:36:48,439 Speaker 6: All right, Well, you'll see them out and about. 2283 01:36:48,560 --> 01:36:52,240 Speaker 1: And Jesse Larius Ashton's her son is born Dare the 2284 01:36:52,320 --> 01:36:53,360 Speaker 1: day he turns thirteen. 2285 01:36:53,439 --> 01:36:55,200 Speaker 6: So I've be born day to Ashton Man. 2286 01:36:55,320 --> 01:36:57,320 Speaker 1: And we got to thank the Mighty Mail Robbins for 2287 01:36:57,360 --> 01:37:00,519 Speaker 1: pulling up her new book to let them theories available 2288 01:37:00,520 --> 01:37:03,320 Speaker 1: everywhere you buy books now. It's so damn near four 2289 01:37:03,360 --> 01:37:05,160 Speaker 1: million copies in eighteen weeks. 2290 01:37:05,240 --> 01:37:05,840 Speaker 9: That's power. 2291 01:37:06,120 --> 01:37:07,840 Speaker 6: You know how crazy that that is? 2292 01:37:07,880 --> 01:37:09,240 Speaker 9: That's power that is. 2293 01:37:10,200 --> 01:37:13,080 Speaker 8: That is so like people have to go get a 2294 01:37:13,080 --> 01:37:15,320 Speaker 8: book or go and find it and pay for it 2295 01:37:15,360 --> 01:37:16,120 Speaker 8: and download it. 2296 01:37:16,160 --> 01:37:17,240 Speaker 9: That's like having to go buy a CD. 2297 01:37:17,520 --> 01:37:20,759 Speaker 1: Yes, so salute to Meil Robbins. I actually did her podcast. 2298 01:37:21,479 --> 01:37:23,639 Speaker 1: It came out last week. I did it back in March, 2299 01:37:23,680 --> 01:37:25,680 Speaker 1: but it came out last week. Man, So you know, 2300 01:37:25,720 --> 01:37:27,720 Speaker 1: go check me out on the Meil Robins podcast. And 2301 01:37:27,760 --> 01:37:30,280 Speaker 1: make sure you go check out Meil Robbins on the 2302 01:37:30,280 --> 01:37:33,120 Speaker 1: Breakfast Club, whether it's the Breakfast Club podcast, our Breakfast 2303 01:37:33,120 --> 01:37:37,519 Speaker 1: Club YouTube page available right now. Actually, and my positive 2304 01:37:37,560 --> 01:37:40,280 Speaker 1: note is a quote from Meil Robbins. Mel Robbins once said, 2305 01:37:40,680 --> 01:37:41,719 Speaker 1: start before you're already. 2306 01:37:42,160 --> 01:37:42,799 Speaker 6: Don't prepare. 2307 01:37:42,920 --> 01:37:46,280 Speaker 1: Begin You are one decision away from a completely different life, 2308 01:37:46,400 --> 01:37:47,719 Speaker 1: and your feelings don't matter. 2309 01:37:47,880 --> 01:37:50,439 Speaker 6: The only thing that matters is what you do. Have 2310 01:37:50,520 --> 01:37:51,160 Speaker 6: a blessed day. 2311 01:37:51,400 --> 01:37:54,080 Speaker 12: Breakfast Club, bitch is you don't finish for y'all done.