Speaker 1: West Up. Yeah, it'slip service at Angela. Ye. I'm Sephany Santiago,
Speaker 1: I'm G. G. Maguire and we have a very special
Speaker 1: guest house. Hi guys, it's Valerie Laura. How you there
Speaker 1: that shy now when you was talking all that ship
Speaker 1: before a minute ago? Let me take another sip so startling?
Speaker 1: All right? Well, you know it's finally warm in New
Speaker 1: York City. You are getting ready for the summer. So
Speaker 1: our first tip of the day is what are the
Speaker 1: things that you do to get ready for summer? Because
Speaker 1: clearly we've been you know, slacking, having a good time,
Speaker 1: and which is Memorial weekend? Who's eating crazy? So what
Speaker 1: are some things that you guys do? What are some
Speaker 1: tips to get ready for the summer. How many people
Speaker 1: are ready for the summer. I'm I'm ready. I just
Speaker 1: need a tan something I've been there? Would I do
Speaker 1: I find myself, you know, buying a lot of swimsuits
Speaker 1: right before I find myself buying so many. I just
Speaker 1: spent like seven and I have so many already at
Speaker 1: I'm like many babies? Is do I need bab Just
Speaker 1: like shoes, you can't never have too many. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: it's a lot of cute one piece basises now. Never
Speaker 1: used to want a weird one, but there's so many
Speaker 1: cute ones now, mom. And I just made myself a
Speaker 1: really cute one piece basis. I saw you over there
Speaker 1: making babies. Yeah, I'm anything highwaisted and one piece. I
Speaker 1: love it. No, they're super cute though, Like you don't
Speaker 1: even have to be all like you know, showing every
Speaker 1: now that babies is cut out. There's even a new style.
Speaker 1: It's it's a thong, but it's like a high waisted
Speaker 1: and it's it's like in a really sexy place right here.
Speaker 1: It looks nice. I just I just bought one, and
Speaker 1: I mean I don't I don't like to cover that much.
Speaker 1: I like to show more. I like, I think the
Speaker 1: smaller my basing student is, the nicer it looks. Listen,
Speaker 1: I'd be cuming up, especially I was in Kanda. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. You don't want to be on
Speaker 1: nobody's like instage. That's true, because but I got some
Speaker 1: really dope. That's another thing I find myself lying cover
Speaker 1: ups those don't last me. Yeah, yeah, and I lose them.
Speaker 1: I like, I don't know, I leave them. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: gotta get cover ups all the time. Yeah, all right,
Speaker 1: so what are some other things we're doing to get
Speaker 1: ready for the semi ladies? Bad? What you're doing? I mean,
Speaker 1: I always Summer sixteen came too fast, but I like
Speaker 1: to always. I like colonics. I get I've never had
Speaker 1: a colonic. I've never had one either, And I had
Speaker 1: a friend that used to get them all the time.
Speaker 1: It's brave, like on a regular basis and whatever that.
Speaker 1: However regularly you're supposed to do it. She would do
Speaker 1: it often. I used to. They say in the beginning,
Speaker 1: like your first time, there's like levels to it, sessions
Speaker 1: like that, Yeah, you're supposed to do one that kind
Speaker 1: of hydrates your colon. Then the second one kind of
Speaker 1: gets to stuff really good, and then the third one
Speaker 1: is like, all right, you're good. How does that three?
Speaker 1: I did it one time? You did, and I wasn't.
Speaker 1: I did it one time because when I got my
Speaker 1: breasted on, like the anesthesia made all my organs go
Speaker 1: to sleep. So yeah, I was um. I was constipated, No, lie,
Speaker 1: I was consipated for a month. I could not have
Speaker 1: a movement. And that's what makes you after surgery, That's
Speaker 1: how you know that you're okay, it's after you. It
Speaker 1: was not normal. That's not normal. And and for me,
Speaker 1: I'm very regular, like I feel uncomfortable if you like, Yeah, everybody,
Speaker 1: I didn't want to, but so I was really consipated.
Speaker 1: So I went and got a colonic. I didn't one
Speaker 1: time it took. It didn't help regulate me. You know
Speaker 1: what's funny with the day I had to finally had
Speaker 1: a movement, and I'm telling you it was like twenty
Speaker 1: nine days later because I was helping um the day
Speaker 1: I finally had a movement. No, I had a movement
Speaker 1: right after the surgery. But then that's it. Nothing else,
Speaker 1: that's it. Yeah. So when the day I finally had
Speaker 1: a movement with made it happen was pinkberry, I didn't
Speaker 1: say very yeah yeah, and liked everything work again, will
Speaker 1: kiss me. What the colonic did was empty everything. You know,
Speaker 1: I was backed up for so long. So yeah, I
Speaker 1: felt bad when I got When I got I tell
Speaker 1: everybody who gets breast and plants to get a light
Speaker 1: bulb suction at the same time, because you automatically just
Speaker 1: fluff up after you get breast and plants. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: that didn't help me being me, not having a movement
Speaker 1: for so long, you know. So I gained a lot
Speaker 1: of weight after I got my breast and plants. That's
Speaker 1: where the whole plastic surgery thing started, because it was
Speaker 1: only supposed to be breast and plants, but I gained
Speaker 1: so much weight from the boobs. I had to get
Speaker 1: a light bulb. And when I was doing a light bulb,
Speaker 1: was like, hey, might as well put the fut in
Speaker 1: my butt. I don't know, let's go to waste. I
Speaker 1: started to throw it away when I could go with
Speaker 1: my butt, so I started. I got my first colonic
Speaker 1: because I was gonna shoot this pick these pictures for
Speaker 1: this magazine thing I was doing, and I'm like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, I'm so fat. I just had a baby.
Speaker 1: What I'm gonna do? And I got my first one?
Speaker 1: But you're supposed to like the first one kind of
Speaker 1: doesn't really do anything, supposedly, especially if you're backed up,
Speaker 1: because it kind of moisturized. Everything hydrates the cold and
Speaker 1: then the next time you come then you know, things
Speaker 1: come out. I prepped for it, so I took all
Speaker 1: these fiber mixed things you can mix in your drink
Speaker 1: for like three days. Yeah, because if you don't, then
Speaker 1: it can be a little painful. If you have steak
Speaker 1: and pork like the week before, it feels like worse
Speaker 1: cramps or like child labor cramps. Yeah, but if you're
Speaker 1: prepped and like you take your fiber and everything before,
Speaker 1: it's like you can have great conversations and make jokes
Speaker 1: while you're doing. It's not that. Yeah. When I didn't,
Speaker 1: but I felt like it emptied me out and then
Speaker 1: like like you said, it like put like you could
Speaker 1: feel the coolness of the water and side like the need.
Speaker 1: It's not a bad the thing. It's like really thin,
Speaker 1: like let's say you're pinky and like, I mean, I
Speaker 1: could have all you guys sitting in the room while
Speaker 1: I do it. That's how it is. It doesn't smell
Speaker 1: at first. I'm like, it's gonna smell like pooping here?
Speaker 1: Can everybody get like? And it wasn't. It just it
Speaker 1: feels kind of weird when it's like something's about to
Speaker 1: come out because you feel like and then you can
Speaker 1: kind of see it and then you're like, oh, and
Speaker 1: it's kind of exciting, like oh, look what I but
Speaker 1: you can't smell anything. There's no mess. It's like literally
Speaker 1: from the machine, like from the tube into a machine
Speaker 1: and you get out comfortable. One time I did it
Speaker 1: and I was laughing, making jokes. I was sitting there
Speaker 1: like I was sunbathing. And then the second time I
Speaker 1: went to like a rhodisio like one of those things
Speaker 1: that brings you met over and over until you tapped
Speaker 1: the thing down, and I was in pain. Like I
Speaker 1: was like, basically, just make sure you watch what you eat.
Speaker 1: Get some fiber, yes before get fiber, maybe juice a
Speaker 1: little bit like prep stuff. Well, they gave me some
Speaker 1: stuff like I said, e berry with like silium husk,
Speaker 1: the high fiber. Then like her, you should do it.
Speaker 1: I want your stomach feels flattery immediately and you feel
Speaker 1: like the turkey from Christmas is released, like it's good.
Speaker 1: Well you uncomfortable staff when you did it, I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't feel like um. I feel like it actually
Speaker 1: made me a little more bloated because I had the
Speaker 1: floor inside of something. But the next like maybe a
Speaker 1: day or two later, I could not I felt the
Speaker 1: difference like I felt lighter after. I don't remember. I
Speaker 1: wasn't eating a lot because I wasn't having any movement,
Speaker 1: so I was just stressed the funk out I was.
Speaker 1: I was drinking a lot of water. I was trying everything,
Speaker 1: googling everything, I did everything. I was just taking laxatives.
Speaker 1: That was the only way I could have a movement.
Speaker 1: Calonics aren't good for you, and you shouldn't do them.
Speaker 1: A lot of people say that sometimes your body becomes
Speaker 1: dependent on it, Like, you know, it's not natural for
Speaker 1: you to get a kalonic, So I mean, I don't
Speaker 1: recommend it, like every time you want to lose five
Speaker 1: pounds the klonic, but like maybe once or twice a year,
Speaker 1: just yea and even place like anybody who tells you
Speaker 1: come here every week to get it, don't there, because
Speaker 1: a good place would tell you, like, no, you're not
Speaker 1: supposed to do it all the time. It's just you know,
Speaker 1: unless you have like can it harm you in any way?
Speaker 1: If they do it the wrong way, it should definitely
Speaker 1: be like a licensed or like a m D because
Speaker 1: if they rubture something, you will be I mean, is
Speaker 1: the most important thing in the world. You'll break your
Speaker 1: ship gripper. And yeah, like if people have got it,
Speaker 1: there's been serious problems the wrong thing happening getting getting
Speaker 1: kalonic is kind of like having anal sex in a way. No,
Speaker 1: it's kind of not. Well, I don't know because me
Speaker 1: and I don't have a lot of anal sex. I
Speaker 1: have more. And you know what's funny is that when
Speaker 1: I told him I'm getting a chalonic, he was like, oh,
Speaker 1: so that means UM, give you a chalonic tonight? Yes, exactly.
Speaker 1: And I was like, is there we do a lot
Speaker 1: of guys get calonics or do they feel weird about that? Man?
Speaker 1: That's like a pause thing for dude. Yeah, but they do,
Speaker 1: they do, and they don't admit it. Like where I
Speaker 1: go one of my friends. One of my friends went
Speaker 1: with me and he was like, you know, asking questions
Speaker 1: and then he's like, I would never do it. First
Speaker 1: of all, the doctor's too hot. I'm having hard on
Speaker 1: my klonic. But then I heard that he's been there
Speaker 1: numerous times to get colon. He lied, and then time
Speaker 1: you go, you're going to run into him. They're like,
Speaker 1: what are you doing here? The last time I was there,
Speaker 1: there's an artist that was there and he kind of
Speaker 1: I guess he got like free services, so he was
Speaker 1: like promoting and posting. But he was like, this is
Speaker 1: where I get my juices from. And I'm like, you
Speaker 1: just came out of the klonic room. I got to
Speaker 1: lie to kick it. I feel like men get it,
Speaker 1: but they don't admit to it. Has it have a tang?
Speaker 1: You want doing? I'm asking some people like and then
Speaker 1: like what a gushing up in you? Oh no, this
Speaker 1: doesn't feel too sa I'm not gonna lie. I remember
Speaker 1: doing it, and I was like, I got kind of
Speaker 1: I was like, oh this this feels kind of it's
Speaker 1: gonna make me horny. Yeah, because it's after no and
Speaker 1: it's it's I mean, it's kind of like four play.
Speaker 1: I don't like, you know, but I'll take a finger
Speaker 1: thumb in my ask when I'm drunk, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, while I'm gonna you know, so I remember,
Speaker 1: but I just I remember thinking like I'm just nasty,
Speaker 1: Like I'm just I'm just why I think. But it's like,
Speaker 1: you know, you feel the coolness you know what I'm
Speaker 1: talking to, Like because your body's ninety eight point six
Speaker 1: right point six degrees and that is not it's it's cool,
Speaker 1: you know, and it feels good a cool sensation too. Yeah.
Speaker 1: The thing is after though, like they put a toilet
Speaker 1: right next to the room. Like when you're finished, you
Speaker 1: have to go, and sometimes you sit and like more
Speaker 1: stuff keeps coming, like the water. You don't gotta wear
Speaker 1: a type, but you just sit in the bathroom for
Speaker 1: a little bit and maybe like they're still shore colon
Speaker 1: and it'll come out, So don't go on. I didn't
Speaker 1: go to a doctor. I didn't go to a doctor
Speaker 1: to get it done. I went to like a little
Speaker 1: spot in the city. This sounds a little shady, looked
Speaker 1: a little shady. I'm gonna take it at my spot
Speaker 1: at um no, because I just wanted to get it done.
Speaker 1: I just want clean, like but you have to go
Speaker 1: up some stairs. And then why didn't you go to
Speaker 1: a real doctor? Though? Because I thought that was you know,
Speaker 1: I googled it, Where could I get a colonic in
Speaker 1: New York City? And that's what popped up the power
Speaker 1: of Ye, it wasn't a doctor. I know. I don't
Speaker 1: think it was a doctor. Do you have to go
Speaker 1: to a doctor? You don't have to do anything? But
Speaker 1: you only got one colon? Can't up? What do you
Speaker 1: say getting ready for the summer? What are some tips
Speaker 1: from you? Well, I want to say something nasty. But
Speaker 1: what I'm going to say first, both I will um,
Speaker 1: I like to listen. I love to cook. You all
Speaker 1: know I love to cook on that grill and I
Speaker 1: love to feed, right, I love to keep my family.
Speaker 1: I love to cook. I love to cook on the grill.
Speaker 1: So as soon as the ice milk, I'm on the
Speaker 1: grill with a coat on and hat and gloves. So
Speaker 1: I've been on the grill. No, no, no, no, I
Speaker 1: start as soon as I can stand there be outside
Speaker 1: in front of that grill. I'm cooking my dinner on
Speaker 1: the grill. And I think that, Um, I just start
Speaker 1: to eat healthier tours the summer. So by the time
Speaker 1: the summer gets here, and you know, I'm not all
Speaker 1: like heavy with the fatty foods and the starches and
Speaker 1: roast beefs and potatoes, and you know, I do more
Speaker 1: vegetables and fish and shrimp and turkey briggers. Um. And
Speaker 1: the summer I find myself eating like just naturally, eating
Speaker 1: like more greens and salads and stuff. And the nasty
Speaker 1: thing I was gonna say is um, I like to
Speaker 1: hold my breath when I write, Dick, I feel like summer, Yeah,
Speaker 1: because I feel like it tightens up my stomach. I
Speaker 1: was just like doing some apps like like engaging your
Speaker 1: coral while you're having sex. Okay, so you just be
Speaker 1: working out and working out for one day more calories
Speaker 1: like that. In my mind, I feel like it makes
Speaker 1: my stomach tighter and it makes everything tight my core.
Speaker 1: It does. You know, it's been funny egs after um
Speaker 1: after your boyfriend like comes inside you when you do
Speaker 1: keegos right there? Yeah, yeah, yeah you're pregnant either. It's
Speaker 1: fun Yeah, I can't say yeah, like a weird love
Speaker 1: thing that I love to go to the bathroom and see,
Speaker 1: like how much comes out, Like you'd like to come
Speaker 1: you have me too. I always want to see how
Speaker 1: much it was, Like it was with a lot of them.
Speaker 1: That's a lot. No, But I know you're doing you're
Speaker 1: beating whatever because you can't say what a guy has
Speaker 1: been up you about how much comming has gas a
Speaker 1: whole lot like saying yeah, that means he's been waiting.
Speaker 1: But guys come inside of you, like even your man
Speaker 1: when you're on birth control, Like it sucks up the press.
Speaker 1: It gives you an older But that's what to p
Speaker 1: right after you have sex. Comments very that's a different
Speaker 1: that's a different way. It's a different way. I don't.
Speaker 1: I hate it, and it does mess up your p
Speaker 1: especially if the guys, Like if you're not circumcised and
Speaker 1: you came inside you, like and you had sex randomly,
Speaker 1: like not fresh out shower, like, then you're in trouble.
Speaker 1: Vagina sensitive. It's all. You can't mess it up. I
Speaker 1: don't want nobody in his house, like I feel like,
Speaker 1: goes very pretty quick. It does, right, listen. That's one
Speaker 1: thing though. Sometimes after you have sex, you don't feel
Speaker 1: like going to the bathroom, but you have to. You
Speaker 1: have to. That's very important. Like I don't know what
Speaker 1: network did it, but they did like an inquiry in
Speaker 1: the park, like about the scientific reason why you have
Speaker 1: to pee, Like, it's true, you have too. It kills
Speaker 1: the bacteria, pianistic and it's good for you because the cold,
Speaker 1: the vagina and asshole are so close to each other
Speaker 1: and all the fluids with you, so you'll get an infection.
Speaker 1: You're also not supposed to let somebody do an know
Speaker 1: and then have sex with you because you're asking the
Speaker 1: put it. But come on, some people don't know, or
Speaker 1: if you're using a condom. You have to change the condom.
Speaker 1: But some people really don't know that. Yeah, it's good
Speaker 1: to put that out there. Now, what if somebody has antosex?
Speaker 1: Can you suck his dick after that? No, after the show,
Speaker 1: after that, after the shot. When you're when you're having
Speaker 1: antosex or me personally, there's a lot of running to
Speaker 1: the bathroom in between, like in between actions, there's a
Speaker 1: lot of let me clean you all don't. Yeah, sterilizations,
Speaker 1: we go. We sterilized the instruments in between every move. Definitely,
Speaker 1: I don't like insex because I I don't need the
Speaker 1: poop is so important to me, and I feel like
Speaker 1: this is so serious, like I don't want to mess
Speaker 1: my ship up. Like I don't even like taking pills
Speaker 1: because I don't want it to sunk up my pooping
Speaker 1: patterns like pop in the morning and to me anal
Speaker 1: sex or different medication funks up my ship, you know,
Speaker 1: And where is this ship after you shower? That's again,
Speaker 1: I don't know. There's my b TM. I right, but
Speaker 1: I poop like this with my feet up on the toilet.
Speaker 1: You do used to be your leg down postipation? No,
Speaker 1: it helps, you know, and it comes out so much easier.
Speaker 1: It goes better. And I'm on my phone, like, dude,
Speaker 1: you're like the people in Thailand. Have you ever seen
Speaker 1: a toilet in Thailand? So it's just a hurt, just
Speaker 1: a roll on the floor, so like that on the
Speaker 1: toilet and my feet on the toilet, and they poop
Speaker 1: like that on the toilet. And then when you go
Speaker 1: into that into the city and Thailand, they have pictures
Speaker 1: of like on the toilet, like, don't poop like this
Speaker 1: because that's like people from the villages that really. Now,
Speaker 1: let me ask you this. Your boyfriend, are you okay
Speaker 1: with him? Like if he comes in while you're taking
Speaker 1: a ship and he just sees you with your legs up,
Speaker 1: we already think I'm crazy anyway, So I love people
Speaker 1: talking to people while I'm shitting. I don't have problems
Speaker 1: shitting me. I can't even we will mind child holding
Speaker 1: them back from while I'm taking a smn't know what
Speaker 1: you on for breakfast, babes, know my poop doesn't I mean,
Speaker 1: it smells like poop, but it's not like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I go like, it's not like blue the bathroom. I
Speaker 1: go like twice a day, like I think people can
Speaker 1: sometimes just thinks a little bit, like if I've been
Speaker 1: drinking or about eat whatever, like the trone. Sometimes yeah,
Speaker 1: some specially for the birds coming out. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: that is the word. Yeah one time velvet cake and
Speaker 1: my ship was blue. That's a blueberry or corn. Corn
Speaker 1: does not sig. It comes and comes. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: can we switch it? Can we switch the topic? And
Speaker 1: we can't get because kids me not said that's it time.
Speaker 1: So now you know the rule is for people in general,
Speaker 1: it's the best time to be single in the summer, right,
Speaker 1: and everybody's getting you know, everybody that was like in
Speaker 1: relationships your man, it's like, all right, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm ready to be a little more wild and loose
Speaker 1: and a girl sometimes be like you the win to nigger.
Speaker 1: I'm ready to be out. And has anybody ever broken
Speaker 1: up with you? Like for the summer? The love of
Speaker 1: my life right when I was really young. Know, it
Speaker 1: was such a bad breakup. I think I'm still affective
Speaker 1: by it today. I was so young and he was older.
Speaker 1: I always like older guys. So he told me, you know,
Speaker 1: somemmer's coming. And when I first got with you, it
Speaker 1: was like you know when you get a new puppy
Speaker 1: and then the puppy grows up and it's no more.
Speaker 1: So that's how he broke up with me. Like my
Speaker 1: co Yes, Washington he can put in Washington Heights. He
Speaker 1: compared it to like getting a new puppy and not
Speaker 1: having a new puppy, feeling no more was gone. Absolutely,
Speaker 1: But I remember being in club Exit. That's how long
Speaker 1: ago it was, like he walks to go to a lord.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go for steven Sundays to the club like
Speaker 1: I loved him more after that. I don't know why
Speaker 1: after he broke up after he was such an asshole.
Speaker 1: When I was young, I was a little dumb. I
Speaker 1: mean they were the more I wanted. I mean, truthfully,
Speaker 1: do girls really like nice guys? I mean, I know
Speaker 1: it's a stereotypical question, but it's the truth. Like do
Speaker 1: you like anybody that's just too nice? Nice guys? Geez,
Speaker 1: don't because my man is an asshole. He is the
Speaker 1: king of as you think you'd like to argue. He
Speaker 1: likes to argue, but you think you like it because
Speaker 1: if he likes it. In yes, she likes to make up,
Speaker 1: but is it an argument like you know, is it?
Speaker 1: You know, honestly make you horn here. But we haven't
Speaker 1: had many arguments since we've been back together, which is
Speaker 1: a good thing. We had a really good vacation. We
Speaker 1: had amazing birthdays, the two of us our birthdays or
Speaker 1: six days apart, and you know, we had birthday vacation
Speaker 1: and friends and family and fun and there hasn't been
Speaker 1: any drama, thank god. So why do you think that is? Like,
Speaker 1: what do you think change that y'all are not really arguing. Well,
Speaker 1: we did a lot of communicating during our break and
Speaker 1: a lot of things came to light on both sides,
Speaker 1: and I think that we're able to understand your own what.
Speaker 1: We broke up for eight months and got back together
Speaker 1: so together during that break up time. During that break
Speaker 1: up time, UM, we did a lot of communicating, a
Speaker 1: lot of talking, and UM, I think that we're able
Speaker 1: to understand each other better. Break it's not always a
Speaker 1: bad thing. Sometimes people need it. Yeah, I think it's
Speaker 1: I think we it was good for us. I think
Speaker 1: we needed that time apart. We were like five years
Speaker 1: and at the time, So yeah, I think a little
Speaker 1: break never hurt nobody. Yeah, we've been great since now.
Speaker 1: One of my friends is dating this guy, and um,
Speaker 1: I guess for some reason, she's not that attracted to
Speaker 1: him anymore. So she sends niken pictures to herself to
Speaker 1: like another guy and that tours you better chill out
Speaker 1: with all that. Oh, now, is that a reason for
Speaker 1: your man to break up with you? Because I never
Speaker 1: have The person lives in another country. It doesn't matter.
Speaker 1: Guys can't take it. They can dish it, but they
Speaker 1: can't take it. Anything is cheating to him. She can
Speaker 1: sneeze on the next man and he'll be like, bitch,
Speaker 1: I'm leaving you. Like the thing is herself, because if
Speaker 1: she feels the need to send naked pictures, that means
Speaker 1: she won't be sucked by somebody else. She just feels
Speaker 1: like her boyfriend's not that attentive anymore. So she's like,
Speaker 1: you know what, I just like the attention for the
Speaker 1: attention from somewhere. But the last time she sent her
Speaker 1: own boyfriend and naked picture him on deck. They need
Speaker 1: to find some She needs to write down the list
Speaker 1: of like why she even working with him or still
Speaker 1: with him or in the first place, and figure out
Speaker 1: where the voids are. Because if you feel like you
Speaker 1: gotta send like you need that attention, and you think
Speaker 1: it's okay when you're in a relationship to meet people
Speaker 1: have the opposite sex and like be cool with them. Yes,
Speaker 1: what about you know you meet somebody at the opposite
Speaker 1: sex and y'all go out for drinks, but not on
Speaker 1: a date they know you have you're in a relationship. No,
Speaker 1: that's not okay. I think it's okay. I do it.
Speaker 1: I mean they're just friends, though it gets true they're
Speaker 1: new friends if they're new. And it depends on what
Speaker 1: kind of drink you're talking about, like a social drink
Speaker 1: where there's a lot of other people there, or just
Speaker 1: a one on one you're like, oh, where are you
Speaker 1: at where I'm in your area? Come out, let's have
Speaker 1: a drink before I got to go do something else.
Speaker 1: Like what do you like that? I mean, I think
Speaker 1: it would be okay for me because of what I
Speaker 1: do for a living. But I don't think it would
Speaker 1: be okay for I think it's okay if he's a
Speaker 1: j I don't think it's okay. I think to me,
Speaker 1: like I think, like I just feel like there's something
Speaker 1: wrong with us, because why is it that if it's
Speaker 1: a guy and a girl automatically if you can go
Speaker 1: out with your home girl have to work and have
Speaker 1: a drink. Like I have a lot of guy friends
Speaker 1: that I've never had any sex with, but maybe you
Speaker 1: think they would. I mean, I'm sure like guys are
Speaker 1: in that case, you know, I know, but if I
Speaker 1: if I have oh and oh, like if I'm good,
Speaker 1: so then it should it should be all right, right like,
Speaker 1: because I would think like wants my boyfriend probably wouldn't
Speaker 1: want me to go out with somebody that he knows
Speaker 1: is attracted to me, right exactly. That's the That's the thing.
Speaker 1: It depends on the dynamic of the relationship. If if
Speaker 1: it's a flirting thing, I don't think it's okay, obviously not.
Speaker 1: But let's it's like a business even I like you,
Speaker 1: you know, I don't even like the girl. She's just
Speaker 1: super hot, right like, Like, let's you get okay with
Speaker 1: me going out with your boyfriend for a drink. I would.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be okay with me going on with somebody
Speaker 1: else's word for I would though, Like I mean, I
Speaker 1: don't ask him, you know, Like I'm a girl. I
Speaker 1: wouldn't even play myself. I wouldn't do that. I mean,
Speaker 1: if I knew that you just sucked everybody else's man.
Speaker 1: But like, let's say, if Angela be like, oh but
Speaker 1: we here at this part we have I don't know
Speaker 1: if it's a weak thing, that's what I said, If
Speaker 1: it's you just like the ether and then she called
Speaker 1: different they were together. I also think it depends on
Speaker 1: who the girl is. Yeah, yeah, it's circumstantial, because you're
Speaker 1: not to have a problem with me being around ever
Speaker 1: in life. I could probably spend the night at his house.
Speaker 1: He wouldn't give a ship, you know, and then you
Speaker 1: know me too. You know I'm not that type of person.
Speaker 1: And stephanitiely you know, if I was Stephanie's crazy anyway though,
Speaker 1: because I don't know, I'm a little passive. I'm just saying.
Speaker 1: But she also probably wouldn't think she wouldn't say nothing
Speaker 1: to me, but she might say something Tom Right now,
Speaker 1: I'm like, what are you doing going on with my friends? Right?
Speaker 1: What do you do you? By accident? Ever slept one
Speaker 1: of your friend's boyfriends. No, because I don't play at all.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Sometimes people could drink your friends slept
Speaker 1: with but it wasn't your friend. No, I mean this
Speaker 1: is the thing, like I once my friends have sex
Speaker 1: with a guy. I don't care who it is. It's like,
Speaker 1: I'm not even attracted to you anymore unless it's one
Speaker 1: of those guys that you just passed around, like girl, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But one of my friends
Speaker 1: girls got them too, But you are one of my
Speaker 1: friend's boyfriend somebody they were in a serious relationship. No,
Speaker 1: you're gross now, it's like, no, so if you went
Speaker 1: out with another guy that you just Girls have done
Speaker 1: that to me. Girls sleep with mind they want to
Speaker 1: see that's your friend anymore. That's happened to me. My
Speaker 1: my daughter has a sister her same age, and it's
Speaker 1: gonna be your friends. Well, I thought, obviously it wasn't.
Speaker 1: How do you know such a fan of you that
Speaker 1: anything you want you have, they want, they they wanted, like,
Speaker 1: oh I work here here she then you go on
Speaker 1: to Sam Salon, I'm going to there's like ten on
Speaker 1: the black damn this X to like seven exit and
Speaker 1: all right behind you. Like sometimes, how do you work
Speaker 1: through something like that? How do you work through something
Speaker 1: like the way I dealt with it was I felt
Speaker 1: like all right. I felt like they were good together
Speaker 1: because if he went to do that to me, then
Speaker 1: they're the same kind of person and they're both not
Speaker 1: for me. That's how I felt like, alright, keep each other,
Speaker 1: hope it works out because you have both justice Gray.
Speaker 1: So you didn't end up back with him. That was
Speaker 1: absolutely not She never again never looked back. That's good.
Speaker 1: And that was a person that you know, like, there's
Speaker 1: a way the one person you're week fur and turned
Speaker 1: domb for, like like in the movie Casino. Remember, but
Speaker 1: that's one thing that will make me get over a
Speaker 1: guy really quick if he works with some one of
Speaker 1: my friends or a wag bitch. It's like, that's it.
Speaker 1: I was so in love with this guy a day ago,
Speaker 1: but now he's just so wax that the chicken is.
Speaker 1: You'd be like, oh, you're sucked with her? Well you
Speaker 1: know she. I think you'd be like, why am I
Speaker 1: hating to me? It was just like, well, they'll they'll
Speaker 1: get their karma, and they did, because that I believe
Speaker 1: in karma. To listen, I don't guy to do nothing
Speaker 1: to nobody. That ship is so now it's okay. You
Speaker 1: think for you to meet a guy that you know,
Speaker 1: and become cool with him and go out of drinks
Speaker 1: even if you're in a relationship. For in my relationship,
Speaker 1: can meet him though not like somebody was cool with before,
Speaker 1: but like somebody to meet somebody knew, you know what.
Speaker 1: Like to me, it's okay, But that does leave a
Speaker 1: lot of room for error because you're human, no matter
Speaker 1: if I've been with somebody ten years. If I meet
Speaker 1: some other dude and it's somebody I'm attracted to and
Speaker 1: it's fun conversation and we're having a drink, so now
Speaker 1: you're inhibitions are like things can happen. So if you're
Speaker 1: a person that's in a relationship, sometimes you shouldn't put
Speaker 1: yourself in situations. But if you're just having a drink
Speaker 1: and oh my god, casual but not like pre planned,
Speaker 1: and there's excitement and you're doing extra to your bake
Speaker 1: up and get e secure and sexy, Like, is there
Speaker 1: a time limit on when somebody else can like text
Speaker 1: you or call you at night? I think so absolutely. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you don't want to be she'll be calling me during
Speaker 1: booty call hours. When I'm in a relationship, I flip
Speaker 1: on everybody that hits me up, like Afrey lover a
Speaker 1: prwe because when I was on our break and I
Speaker 1: moved away to Philly, I was managing a strip club.
Speaker 1: So a lot of people would call me late at night,
Speaker 1: late at night, you know, on my side, Can I
Speaker 1: get in you here? What's up? I'm on the table.
Speaker 1: And for the first couple of weeks after I left
Speaker 1: the club and moved back home, my phone will be
Speaker 1: be going off at one thirty two, three o'clock in
Speaker 1: the morning, and I just be like, yeah, I had
Speaker 1: was understandable because it was part of your word. But
Speaker 1: the guys don't worry if to die down. So got
Speaker 1: to the quay there used to be like guys in
Speaker 1: the morning, no matter why because and a lot of time,
Speaker 1: you know, I was just in a relationship. A lot
Speaker 1: of time I'll be like with my man and getting
Speaker 1: a call at one thirty in the morning, and it
Speaker 1: would be a nightlife person, know what I'm saying, exactly,
Speaker 1: or a promoter or something like that, even like, oh,
Speaker 1: I need you to host this party for me next
Speaker 1: week morning exactly. Yeah. I'm I'm a I'm total and
Speaker 1: I'm a very nocturnal person. You to me, shouldn't that
Speaker 1: be acceptable because most of your no, but still it
Speaker 1: should be acceptable. But I would work out at nine
Speaker 1: tomorrow and you get to know and I you know,
Speaker 1: I have I had a crazy boyfriend. We're both crazy.
Speaker 1: So no matter what was like after after after eleven pm,
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, I gotta man, I want to
Speaker 1: fuck you hit me up? Is that weird? I am?
Speaker 1: I am? Do not to serve Queen is not to
Speaker 1: serve King. His BlackBerry is always on silent, like I'll
Speaker 1: be here to tell him not to serve Queen. That's
Speaker 1: exactly what I used to do when I was with
Speaker 1: my last boyfriend. Every night, as soon as he would
Speaker 1: come home, I'll put my phone on do not to serve.
Speaker 1: You know, it's crazy, that's terrible for me. Like he
Speaker 1: is always on the phone because he'd be like if
Speaker 1: I don't answer right then, and I'm gonna miss some money.
Speaker 1: That's how he feels, to the point where he even
Speaker 1: got like a phone holder thing in the shower and
Speaker 1: then we're so excited about phones being waterproof. I think
Speaker 1: the only time he's not on the phone is during sex.
Speaker 1: I think because everything everything he does, even the shower,
Speaker 1: like when the shower, like the shows that I'm like,
Speaker 1: this ship is ridiculous, ridiculous, he's okay with you, Like
Speaker 1: if he leaves his phone at home, he's not worried
Speaker 1: about you looking at He don't care. I do not
Speaker 1: do that, so he don't right, But if you did,
Speaker 1: will he be okay with it? You think I don't know.
Speaker 1: It's been a couple of times where like you know
Speaker 1: you're on the phone to be like so right, but
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm the type of person like I don't
Speaker 1: want to find out, Like I don't want to know.
Speaker 1: I'd rather not even read it if I don't know
Speaker 1: whatever you need, Yeah, like I don't want to know
Speaker 1: if you respect me enough to not make me feel
Speaker 1: like I don't want him doing that ship to me
Speaker 1: because I hate that ship. So be the one. Because
Speaker 1: I have friends, like I have only one friend who
Speaker 1: her and her boyfriend like, well her husband, like he'll
Speaker 1: answer her phone, she answers his phone, or like she'll
Speaker 1: be like, oh, I don't have my phone, so just
Speaker 1: call his phone. I have his phone all day because
Speaker 1: that they if we're together and like my phone not
Speaker 1: working and like I'll have like somebody called I call
Speaker 1: me on his phone, here's his number, blah blah blah,
Speaker 1: but are you not Like I don't know, I'm not
Speaker 1: keeping it, but I would have something or like if
Speaker 1: we were together and I saw Angie call, I would
Speaker 1: answer it like hey girl, right, no, but she means, oh,
Speaker 1: I have his phone today. When we were my head,
Speaker 1: I was like, I was like, look, switch phones with me,
Speaker 1: like let's let's see who's going was switch phones with me?
Speaker 1: And he would not do it. I'm like, switch phones
Speaker 1: with me for a day, like bad. Yeah, I was
Speaker 1: serious because I knew what I wasn't doing that I
Speaker 1: was not. I was serious. I was trying to. I
Speaker 1: was like, know what, don't even take my phone, take
Speaker 1: my phone for the day. I don't even need yours,
Speaker 1: but take mine just and he was like no, I'm cool,
Speaker 1: Like I'm good on it because I don't want you
Speaker 1: to day. Clearly I could have bluff one time, but
Speaker 1: I was just like please, God don't know. Said yes
Speaker 1: I did this guy one time, and he would he
Speaker 1: grabbed my phone and went through it, like went in
Speaker 1: the bathroom and locked it up in the bathroom, and
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, I can never talk to you
Speaker 1: again in life. Do you guys feel about that because
Speaker 1: I could be talking to y'all and you could you
Speaker 1: could be saying be something really personal. Yeah, and I
Speaker 1: don't want hand eating that. So if you knew somebody
Speaker 1: checked all your ship all the time secretly, would you
Speaker 1: were those b breakups? Yes? I think that's crazy because
Speaker 1: I don't do that, Like, I don't. I don't do
Speaker 1: that either. I can see it's like something popped up
Speaker 1: on my phone. Somebody just texting me and you look, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm not but you're not gonna take my phone and
Speaker 1: go through everything. Now, there's so many apps, you know
Speaker 1: how you can check your kids phone and it comes
Speaker 1: to your computer before kind to his phone when his
Speaker 1: kids getting text messages. You see, So dudes can do
Speaker 1: that to your phone. All you need is like the
Speaker 1: like serious stuff. Let's keep a red this stuff on
Speaker 1: all of my phones that somebody could take it the
Speaker 1: wrong way. You read it and you know what it is,
Speaker 1: but he could take it the wrong way. And I
Speaker 1: send nude I'm send nude pictures to my best friends
Speaker 1: all the time. Likes send me sometime my friends send
Speaker 1: me videos or pictures Like I'm not just saying do
Speaker 1: this do you think I'll like that? Like and it'd
Speaker 1: be like, you know, I don't want him to see that.
Speaker 1: I don't. I usually don't want a guy going through
Speaker 1: my phone because I'm cheating on him. To make that
Speaker 1: clearance everyone, the real reason is, let's down, don't go
Speaker 1: through my phone. You're gonna get your feelings. You're gonna
Speaker 1: get you feel all right. Now. We were talking about
Speaker 1: this earlier. Can you meet quality guys in the club
Speaker 1: and the strip club and the regular club or are
Speaker 1: those guys that you tend to want to leave alone?
Speaker 1: Because people always ask where can I meet a good guy?
Speaker 1: I don't want to meet a guy in the club
Speaker 1: because that's not the type of person that I went.
Speaker 1: But what do you think I've I've had a serious relationship,
Speaker 1: a serious open relationship, so I don't know. I had
Speaker 1: a relationship with somebody in the club and we worked
Speaker 1: good for a while. I also um dated of radio
Speaker 1: personality slash DJ back in my twenties, and um he
Speaker 1: ended up being married. But but that was a good
Speaker 1: relationship while he was married, and you didn't know. I
Speaker 1: didn't know until he got arrested. That's crazy, got arrested.
Speaker 1: But yeah, but but his not didn't built him out.
Speaker 1: His wife calling threatened him to come and take my
Speaker 1: car because my car was in his name, like he
Speaker 1: had brought me a car and it was his name,
Speaker 1: and she called like, yeah, well i'm his wife and
Speaker 1: I know you're driving a car. I want that one.
Speaker 1: You think if he would have told you he was married,
Speaker 1: you would have covered form him somehow someway. Well, if
Speaker 1: he would have told me in the beginning back then,
Speaker 1: that was in my like sugar baby days, so I
Speaker 1: probably wouldn't have cared. But he didn't tell me. And
Speaker 1: then when I found out, I was like, really upset
Speaker 1: about it because he lied to you. Because he lied.
Speaker 1: But had he kept it real with me nine times
Speaker 1: up to him back then, I would have wrote. And
Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of guys don't realize that
Speaker 1: sometimes you keep it real with a girl one and
Speaker 1: she's still gonna sunk with you. Yeah, But I feel
Speaker 1: like you can't categorize where you can meet a good
Speaker 1: guy with because good guys and bad guys are everywhere.
Speaker 1: You know you had judged people on because they're at
Speaker 1: the club. It could be you could meet somebody at
Speaker 1: the club that never goes to the club and he's
Speaker 1: only there because it's his homeboy's birthday or or anniversary
Speaker 1: or a special occasion. So you can't say like, oh,
Speaker 1: you can't meet nobody this place at that, but he's
Speaker 1: in the c you can meet the Well, it depends
Speaker 1: on how much money you got. I think I think
Speaker 1: I wouldn't date a guy that like I walk into
Speaker 1: the strip club with him and every stripper knows his name,
Speaker 1: and the bartenders like and everybody. Then I'll be like, oh, ship,
Speaker 1: he's always here, he's a regular, and then whatever. Then
Speaker 1: maybe that I wouldn't. I don't know, but the sinners
Speaker 1: are in church. It's not like I was just you
Speaker 1: could probably you think the percentage is higher though, of
Speaker 1: a guy being sucked up if you meet them like
Speaker 1: in the club or it doesn't matter. I don't think
Speaker 1: it matters where you meet a person. The person is
Speaker 1: who they are and how they going to be friends.
Speaker 1: Just recently went on a date with somebody she met
Speaker 1: on an app, like on one of those dating and
Speaker 1: she was really scared about it. But I said, listen,
Speaker 1: you can meet somebody in the club and they could
Speaker 1: be crazy, right, Just so there's no telling what could
Speaker 1: happen regardless of where you meet somebody. That online dating
Speaker 1: thing is really The other day, we were in the
Speaker 1: gym and my boyfriend's friends finished working out. They were
Speaker 1: all talking and he said like nothing to the point
Speaker 1: where I'm like, this is the norm now? How for
Speaker 1: like dating people? He's like, oh, man, I used to
Speaker 1: have sex. Let me go on this app so I
Speaker 1: could get me a girl tonight. So I'm like, what,
Speaker 1: you just have sex with girls? He's like, yeah, like you,
Speaker 1: it's better and it's like no string. That's as you
Speaker 1: meet them. You can see they picture, how they look,
Speaker 1: you know, they know how to cook or not by
Speaker 1: the encryptian, and then you have sex with them and
Speaker 1: then that's it. You picked the next girl tomorrow. I
Speaker 1: was like, that's disgusting. It's like shopping. Yes, sounds like
Speaker 1: it is. I didn't. I didn't know that it was.
Speaker 1: I guess I'm old now or something. We don't do that.
Speaker 1: Definitely year in the club all the time, just like
Speaker 1: me because we obviously host parties. Dada dada da. So
Speaker 1: do you have you ever met a quality guy in
Speaker 1: the club. Well, I always had a rule of thumb
Speaker 1: that I would not date a guy that I met
Speaker 1: in the club, Like I don't want to. I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't like when guys trying to talk to me
Speaker 1: when I'm drunk because I feel like you're trying to
Speaker 1: play me because I'm drunk. You think, yeah, but you're
Speaker 1: in the club. What did They still polite and nice though,
Speaker 1: even though you know, I swear and I've met a
Speaker 1: lot of guys. But finally, finally back in two thousand thirteen,
Speaker 1: and to that, no, because I had a relationship, I
Speaker 1: met this guy in the club. It's the first time
Speaker 1: I ever met a guy in the club that I
Speaker 1: actually slept with and had a thing with. And it
Speaker 1: was a nightmare. So from my experience, I don't know.
Speaker 1: One time it wasn't bad. No, he's I found out
Speaker 1: he had he had a whole other life. He had
Speaker 1: a wife and kids, and it was crazy. It was
Speaker 1: a really it was a man. Yeah, that's probably the
Speaker 1: number one thing they lie about. And I swore that
Speaker 1: he was like my rebound from my son's father. So
Speaker 1: I swore I was in love with him. You know,
Speaker 1: it's hard on the rebound, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: So I swore I was in love with him and
Speaker 1: he just put me through so much. This is why
Speaker 1: you had to ask glass. When you meet them, you
Speaker 1: have to be like, so, do you have a girlfriend? No,
Speaker 1: do you have a wife? You got you? So what's
Speaker 1: some merson if? Do you have someone that would be
Speaker 1: upset if they saw us sitting here having a conversation? Yeah,
Speaker 1: like you know, you gotta go that all the levels. Great?
Speaker 1: Are you know you have someone you're having sex with?
Speaker 1: What are the questions that you asked somebody when you
Speaker 1: first start on the first date? What are some good questions?
Speaker 1: Where do you live? Like? Who, what do you do?
Speaker 1: Where do you live? Is that rude to ask that
Speaker 1: on the first date? No, okay, I'm just asking the
Speaker 1: damn s. You're gonna want to know where you live
Speaker 1: so you can ask where do you live? Who do
Speaker 1: you live? We're not really like where, like what's your address?
Speaker 1: But like how is your living situation? Like what's your
Speaker 1: living situation? Does your wife sleeping You sleep on the
Speaker 1: couch and she's sleeping around? Do you have a roommate?
Speaker 1: Do you live with your grandma? You know how many
Speaker 1: dudes say that you live with your baby mama your
Speaker 1: couch together? But I'm not with my baby mom, but
Speaker 1: I'm trying to help, but pay the rent, so sleep
Speaker 1: on the couch. What are some other questions you got
Speaker 1: to ask? What's your sign? Yeah, that's probably what I
Speaker 1: asked on the first sign. That's a nice that's a
Speaker 1: nice icebreaker. I don't think I've had a normal first
Speaker 1: day and so long. That's like, by the time we
Speaker 1: got to them, we already know for the little steed
Speaker 1: trampled there a little? How already do that? To swear?
Speaker 1: I swear whoever is gonna be my next boyfriend, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be really faithful to them. She like, like she
Speaker 1: actually could say without laughing, No, I am, because I
Speaker 1: think I'm I'm warm. Sure, all right? What is I
Speaker 1: believe you? Because I made that bow and I did
Speaker 1: it and you did it. I did alright. Some more questions.
Speaker 1: Is it okay to ask a guy like what he
Speaker 1: does for a living and to get an idea of
Speaker 1: like you think? So not in the what do you work? Well,
Speaker 1: you can say where do you work or what do
Speaker 1: you do? Yeah, that's a typical question. What do you
Speaker 1: do when do you get into Like what's your score? Yeah?
Speaker 1: What's your goals? Do you want a family? Do you
Speaker 1: have kids? I think that's the first day question, like what,
Speaker 1: like what are your goals? What do you want out?
Speaker 1: Like a lot of times relationship don't work. Sometimes maybe
Speaker 1: people don't want really not on the same page. Sometimes
Speaker 1: guys just want to have sex. Girls just want to
Speaker 1: have sex sometimes too, So it's okay to like, but
Speaker 1: would a guy take you on a full date if
Speaker 1: he just wanted to have sex? Yeah? You guys would
Speaker 1: do anything to get the place to come on anything.
Speaker 1: You can get any guys to do anything to get
Speaker 1: And the more you hold out, the more you hold
Speaker 1: out to higher the bid. Okay, the phrase is going
Speaker 1: on estate down yet, Yeah, I gotta agree with that.
Speaker 1: I find you get way more out of guys before
Speaker 1: you give them sex. Way, I mean you still could
Speaker 1: get a lot after two. Yeah, for sure, it's good thing.
Speaker 1: I saw my family. She was going out with this
Speaker 1: guy that she just met on this app. I said,
Speaker 1: don't get drunk. Whatever you do, don't take but advice.
Speaker 1: You have two drinks and that's because she gets up.
Speaker 1: That's that's that's how they are a millionaire matchmaker. Like
Speaker 1: they have rules like you can't have you can only
Speaker 1: have two drinks and you can't do any shots because listen,
Speaker 1: have you ever had an embarrassing first date? Oh my god,
Speaker 1: I have. I went on with this DJ for our
Speaker 1: first date. We had such a good date. He really
Speaker 1: liked me at the time, because we started hating each
Speaker 1: other not long after that. But we went on a
Speaker 1: date and I'll never forget it. It was when you
Speaker 1: remember when American apparel first got really popular. So I
Speaker 1: was wearing like one of those stupid American apparel dresses
Speaker 1: and I had, oh my god, it was so bad.
Speaker 1: We haven't talking for a long time, but I had
Speaker 1: on this dress and we got really drunk. Like we
Speaker 1: went to a nice dinner and then we went to
Speaker 1: a club after words, and I got so watched up drunk.
Speaker 1: He had to like carry me out no underwear on.
Speaker 1: It was a mask. But we ended up being We
Speaker 1: ended up each other first like eight months after that,
Speaker 1: and that was our first day. So I mean, it
Speaker 1: wasn't it was okay with it. He was pretty drunk too,
Speaker 1: was embarrassed. I was, so I woke up the next day.
Speaker 1: I woke because I ended up sleeping with him that night.
Speaker 1: We didn't have sex though, because he didn't want to
Speaker 1: have sex to sleep. Yeah, because he was like, I'm
Speaker 1: too drunk. Yeah he probably couldn't either, because I learned
Speaker 1: that about him. Like on like, um, if he drank
Speaker 1: a lot, it wasn't that good. Yeah you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, it was. I'm not gonna say it was bad.
Speaker 1: It was all right. You know that's the words when
Speaker 1: you have junk sex and you don't remember it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so we we didn't like when you just don't remember
Speaker 1: and ship start coming back slowly. Yeah, that's how I
Speaker 1: woke up, like, oh my god, did I have This
Speaker 1: is the funniest story. She says she has sex with
Speaker 1: a guy and his dog was in the room and
Speaker 1: she was like that, like say that the dog's name
Speaker 1: was Fighter. She was like Fighter, you see your owners
Speaker 1: fucking me? You see? Really she's dog was there, Like
Speaker 1: my dogs are always in the room when we have sex.
Speaker 1: So how was their reaction? They like go in the
Speaker 1: corner and like lay on their doggy bed like you're
Speaker 1: being attacked, and they just like tax when they just
Speaker 1: sit there and look like what are y'all doing? Like
Speaker 1: they'd be like some fus like I used to put
Speaker 1: tyson in the bathroom, but now like can't go off.
Speaker 1: My room is big enough that he's like off on
Speaker 1: the other side of the room in the corner. And
Speaker 1: like what you think. Anytime we start to get into
Speaker 1: sex and the dogs in the bed, I ain't to
Speaker 1: get off the bed. Yeah, please, the dogs look at
Speaker 1: your ass. I immediately make the dogs get down off
Speaker 1: the bed, and then they'll go about their business like
Speaker 1: off to like different corners or whatever. And there's people
Speaker 1: are having like our kids, like well, you know my kids.
Speaker 1: I know, but it's so weird, like we don't put
Speaker 1: them out like I would put them out. I gotta
Speaker 1: go happy pats. Cats while you're fucking they jump on
Speaker 1: you with set much more than dogs. You guys, got
Speaker 1: them out the room the moment they jump on you,
Speaker 1: like the go and put a pole hand. It's bad.
Speaker 1: It's really little pause feel crazy, A little scrassy tongue
Speaker 1: happening to your tongue. You know. That's one time. One
Speaker 1: time my son's father, you and I we're having sex.
Speaker 1: We had a cat named Edwin off what was his name, Edwin?
Speaker 1: The cats name was Edwin. It's like a real person.
Speaker 1: So and so we're having sex and Edwin just jumped
Speaker 1: and jumped in attacked his balls, and yeah, it was bad.
Speaker 1: He was so bad like that, r the sacks everything.
Speaker 1: It was bad. Ball they're fragile like eggs. You gotta
Speaker 1: be careful. No, he was so upset about that. Cats
Speaker 1: are vicious man. You know, cats will attack you like
Speaker 1: out of nowhere next to you are cool, man, you
Speaker 1: have cats or dogs or anything that poops that I
Speaker 1: did even push out because that's a lot of Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, it's just a lot of work. Like you
Speaker 1: gotta walk them and then you gotta feed them. Then
Speaker 1: when you go somewhere, somebody it's like having to somebody
Speaker 1: gotta take care of them. Yes, the medical bills. Then
Speaker 1: they broke your furniture andla blah. Now Atlicia Keys recently
Speaker 1: posted a picture and you know she doesn't wear she's
Speaker 1: ditched wearing makeup. She looks good. But how do y'all
Speaker 1: feel about not wearing makeup? I don't wear as much
Speaker 1: makeup as I used to, but I'm definitely not giving
Speaker 1: up my makeup right, Like sorry, but what is there
Speaker 1: anywhere you go with no makeup on? Or will you
Speaker 1: not even like go to the supermarket. Yeah, of course
Speaker 1: a lot of ways with no makeup. I go everywhere
Speaker 1: were no makeup on. But I'm still not giving up makeup.
Speaker 1: She's not giving up makeup either. She's gonna wear makeup
Speaker 1: because I feel like sometimes, especially when if you're going
Speaker 1: to the supermarket, I know I'm running to people, and
Speaker 1: he's like, the only time I don't wear makeup is
Speaker 1: like when I go work out or if I'm just
Speaker 1: like on my way to somewhere where I know they're
Speaker 1: gonna have makeup, but I'm not really gonna do stuff.
Speaker 1: I didn't wear makeup the other day, like coming back
Speaker 1: from Dominican Republic on the plane, I was like, I
Speaker 1: don't feel like I have a big glasses on though, well, yeah,
Speaker 1: I have last extensions. I love them. They help a
Speaker 1: lot because you don't have to do anything like the
Speaker 1: last three months. They don't move, and it's just it
Speaker 1: looks like you have on makeup even if you don't.
Speaker 1: But you now, why did she give it up? Though?
Speaker 1: Like I don't know about what she said, something about
Speaker 1: um covering up her natural beauty. I didn't know she
Speaker 1: had freckles, which, by the way, I love freckles. A
Speaker 1: lot of artists struggle. I know some friends that are
Speaker 1: artists at full face of freckles that people don't even
Speaker 1: know because you know, they're always in full face makeup,
Speaker 1: and that's like a thing because makeup art is just
Speaker 1: cover your freckles. Yeah, alright, So here's what she said.
Speaker 1: She said she's been photographed lately in her skin, she said,
Speaker 1: before I said a minute album, I wrote a list
Speaker 1: of all the things I was sick of, and mom
Speaker 1: was how much women are brainwashed into feeling like we
Speaker 1: have to be skinny or sexy or desirable or perfect.
Speaker 1: One of the many things I was said of was
Speaker 1: a constant judgment of women. So I guess she felt
Speaker 1: like she doesn't want to have to wear makeup and forever,
Speaker 1: like for this season or for the summer, don't. But
Speaker 1: maybe it's a face. She's an artist, a really big artist,
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, she's gonna put makeup on, you know,
Speaker 1: it's I don't think she ditched it forever, but I
Speaker 1: guess she's on she's feeling like maybe I don't need it,
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna go out more without it, Like I'm
Speaker 1: gonna get photographed more without it than with it. Probably
Speaker 1: and she's probably getting hell of facials and all this
Speaker 1: rich people. Yeah right, because you can look right. God,
Speaker 1: what was that that she was getting the blood for
Speaker 1: shoals and everyone. I think that, um, you know, putting
Speaker 1: makeup on it, it's good. You know what about girls
Speaker 1: who have a scar on their face or really dark circles,
Speaker 1: that's something you get from genetics. You know what. I
Speaker 1: hate when people are FaceTime me and I'm like, look terrible.
Speaker 1: I put the thob over the camera, like what you
Speaker 1: got a scar from your head, no makeup, looking awful,
Speaker 1: and then somebody want to face time you, and then
Speaker 1: you gotta get the angle right because you know, you
Speaker 1: gotta be on FaceTime like this. I feel like I went.
Speaker 1: I don't wear makeup all the time. I never wear
Speaker 1: makeup unless I'm working or I'm going out or something
Speaker 1: like that. I never wear makeup. But I don't think
Speaker 1: that girls should. I think it's nice to not wear makeup.
Speaker 1: But I don't think girls should feel bad because they
Speaker 1: want to be glam you know what I mean. I
Speaker 1: think the best thing is somebody with a beautiful face
Speaker 1: that doesn't have makeup or like light makeup. To me,
Speaker 1: that's what I'm into now that I'm going to be
Speaker 1: thirty soon, I'm like less makeup because I feel like
Speaker 1: when I wear more, I look older now. So I
Speaker 1: want to wear like a little bit or like what
Speaker 1: kind of make up? A glow and a little nude
Speaker 1: like that. Here's what she said. Every time I left
Speaker 1: the house, I would be worried if I didn't put
Speaker 1: on makeup. What if someone wanted a picture? She said
Speaker 1: that behavior was not healthy, and when she showed up
Speaker 1: for a photo shoot fresh from the gym with her
Speaker 1: face squab bear and the photo photographer insisted on stepping
Speaker 1: here on the spatch, she said, I swear it is
Speaker 1: the strongest, most empowered, most free, and most honestly beautiful
Speaker 1: that I've ever felt. So there you go go, Alicia.
Speaker 1: Is it weird for you, like when you're dating somebody
Speaker 1: for the first time they see you like not done up.
Speaker 1: Do you ever think about that? Nope, I don't ever
Speaker 1: really think about that. I don't think about it either.
Speaker 1: I think guys first see me would not make up on,
Speaker 1: and then they see me done up, and it's like, oh,
Speaker 1: it's different because guys act like they don't like makeup,
Speaker 1: but then they do they guys been like, babe, you
Speaker 1: look good. It don't matter if you gain way, but
Speaker 1: walk by and you'd be like, but you just told me. Guys,
Speaker 1: I only say out their mouth that they don't like
Speaker 1: us in surgery. Guys. Men love plastic surgery. It's they're
Speaker 1: the reason that it's been happening all these years since
Speaker 1: the eighties. They don't care. How yeah, I just don't
Speaker 1: if you don't tell them, and they just think in
Speaker 1: their head like she didn't tell me, So it's natural memoria.
Speaker 1: We can just passed, right. Is it weird if you're
Speaker 1: dating somebody and they go out of town like with
Speaker 1: their boys for Memorial Weekend? Do you feel Do you
Speaker 1: ever feel weird about guys trips? You always in the
Speaker 1: back of your head some ship mike right down because
Speaker 1: I don't like it. Yeah, I don't like it. I
Speaker 1: mean I'm cool, like i'm you know, I'm dating, I'm single,
Speaker 1: and of course you know there there was a lot
Speaker 1: of people traveling this weekend. And I will never mention anything.
Speaker 1: I will not complain, but it's just like to see it.
Speaker 1: It's just like right, yes, and it's like I'll have
Speaker 1: fun groups like he has a lot of friends that
Speaker 1: will travel with us, and everybody will bring a girlfriend,
Speaker 1: and then the single girls to come and the single
Speaker 1: guys come. Like this past weekend, we we ended up
Speaker 1: being like twenty two deep between like you know what,
Speaker 1: and that's a great time. Let's say I know you
Speaker 1: and your boyfriend, but now we're in groups but you're
Speaker 1: not there. Now that's like, oh, that's the worst feeling,
Speaker 1: Like what are you doing? I'm not here when it's
Speaker 1: your three day weekend and your friends man entertaining your friend.
Speaker 1: You have to mind your absolutely, I'll tell because what
Speaker 1: if what if you're only friends with her because of
Speaker 1: the like it's your boyfriends, you know, friends girlfriend, and
Speaker 1: you'll become cool, you know what's funny like due to
Speaker 1: others what you have them do to you. Right, But
Speaker 1: then in the same note, you always have this friend,
Speaker 1: right who no matter how many times you told her,
Speaker 1: they're still so sometimes that girl, you're just gonna be like,
Speaker 1: I'm not the same in the argument because this is
Speaker 1: episode twenty nine point six. You know what it is,
Speaker 1: They're gonna get back together and I'm gonna be the
Speaker 1: bad guy. And then so let me just mind my
Speaker 1: business because next time, I'm not coming in because that's
Speaker 1: where it gets a little tricky because then now your
Speaker 1: boyfriend can't bring you around his friends because you don't
Speaker 1: want you to tell what they're doing. Yeah, I feel
Speaker 1: like the guy has to be respectful because he needs
Speaker 1: to respect my friendship. And if alright, do what you're
Speaker 1: creepy guys do, but tell the girl to play her
Speaker 1: position and don't let me notice or me see, just
Speaker 1: like you wouldn't want her to because that puts you
Speaker 1: in away position. Now, now I gotta be I was
Speaker 1: there with your little side chick. Now I gotta be
Speaker 1: around your wife. Yes, where Angela? Imagine that Valerie, you
Speaker 1: was there and you didn't tell me, like like, then
Speaker 1: there goes our friendships and then you'll be like, well
Speaker 1: it's you know what am I gonna do? And then
Speaker 1: I feel like, Okay, that's not really my friend, right
Speaker 1: or you could I was drunk, girl, I don't even know,
Speaker 1: but that is a horrible situation. I feel like that's
Speaker 1: how the guy should handle it, like pretend like um
Speaker 1: would be just like if it was her and tied
Speaker 1: it for me to would you tell your boyfriend first,
Speaker 1: like I gotta tell her. I would tell him, you
Speaker 1: think I'm not gonna tell right now, I would tell
Speaker 1: him you better let him know. I wouldn't even I'd
Speaker 1: be like, you better call her from now and let
Speaker 1: her know, because I'm telling my version of the few. Now,
Speaker 1: what if you become friends with this girl and yeah,
Speaker 1: with her and she cheats and her boyfriend. It depends, right,
Speaker 1: because you gotta go home and tell your man. Are
Speaker 1: there things that you don't tell your man? Or do
Speaker 1: you feel like you tell him everything, like things that happened,
Speaker 1: Like if your friend tells you something and she's like,
Speaker 1: don't tell anybody? Do we tell our man anyway? It
Speaker 1: kind of depends on what it is. Sometimes for me,
Speaker 1: it depends on what it is because it used to
Speaker 1: be able to tell you a man anything. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: when you're in a relationship that you vent to your man,
Speaker 1: like when your home girls getting on your nerves, you
Speaker 1: vun to him, you know what I mean? So, but
Speaker 1: what if she's the old girl he gave me her piece,
Speaker 1: I'm going to tell my boyfriend. I might tell my
Speaker 1: boyfriend that if your cups and house. But that's one
Speaker 1: thing that happened to me one time when I did
Speaker 1: this guy, and I said, tell him everything. This is
Speaker 1: why I don't do that anymore. And after we broke up,
Speaker 1: he called my job. I was some stuff at like
Speaker 1: what happened at work? Like, oh, let me tell you
Speaker 1: what happened at work today. He called my job and
Speaker 1: tried to get me fired and was telling people like
Speaker 1: what I and this this bitch at work was on
Speaker 1: the phone him for like an hour listening I didn't
Speaker 1: even know and was like really talking. I was like,
Speaker 1: so you're gonna just entertain this crazy, like you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, because all it takes is for you
Speaker 1: to say some things that are too and some things aren't,
Speaker 1: and they're gonna believe every So after that, I was
Speaker 1: just like, all right, this is crazy. But after that
Speaker 1: I realized that certain things you don't tell a lot
Speaker 1: of things you don't some things like you might want
Speaker 1: to come fide, Like, man, what should I do? You
Speaker 1: know my friend this and this happened. I don't know
Speaker 1: if I should tell her? What do you think certain
Speaker 1: things you will confide to him, but other things that
Speaker 1: are like really personal that if it ever came back
Speaker 1: that you told you would be horrified. You shouldn't tell, right,
Speaker 1: because that's right. You never know in a relationship. I'm
Speaker 1: sure we've all dated somebody that later on we become
Speaker 1: the worst enemies. You never think it's gonna get there.
Speaker 1: You never think that's gonna happen, and it does. Even
Speaker 1: You should treat everything like especially if you're not married,
Speaker 1: if you're dating, even if with time, because that's the
Speaker 1: worst part of a relationship, the information they leave with
Speaker 1: because they know about you. You know, your deepest turk
Speaker 1: is whatever makes you. I know some sh about you too,
Speaker 1: and I got my evidence right playing he liked his
Speaker 1: bigger heads. But you shut the funk up after that.
Speaker 1: You know about all our three women too. I don't
Speaker 1: care about confidentiality agreement that I signed. I will let
Speaker 1: everybody know, so shut the funk up. Don't talk about
Speaker 1: my child, yes, yes, all right, Well listen, Valerie. I
Speaker 1: appreciate you coming through for us. It's a lip service.
Speaker 1: And of course you know we do this every week
Speaker 1: every Thursday. We've been on point. Okay stuff anybody saying, oh, y'all,
Speaker 1: we put it out every single every single I know
Speaker 1: he was a little shaky at first figuring it out.
Speaker 1: We gotta go over a year and we're good. And
Speaker 1: I promised you there's some really big things about to happen. Yes,
Speaker 1: And we appreciate you all for listening, and we thank
Speaker 1: you very I appreciate you coming through. And really it's fun.
Speaker 1: I like my little bound bound and Stephanie, who we're
Speaker 1: gonna be interviewing you on here. I just love the
Speaker 1: fact that things have come a long way from when
Speaker 1: we first started this show. Like when we first started
Speaker 1: let's just talk about this was newly single and Stephanie
Speaker 1: was in a relationship holding her jail boo down. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, now and now you're in I'm back with him.
Speaker 1: This is all like a submission at the end of
Speaker 1: let's let's let's ever we should put her on dates selected,
Speaker 1: But I don't know if I want to hurt nobody's
Speaker 1: feelings like that. This sious. No, I'm not girl Sagittarius.
Speaker 1: But guys that with Stephanie love her like they'll be like, man,
Speaker 1: she is friend? Right? No? I mean was she when
Speaker 1: you could guys fall in love with me and then
Speaker 1: it's like I don't like we break up? You know,
Speaker 1: so they always love me and we always loved them,
Speaker 1: but we just can't. We don't realize how sensitive these
Speaker 1: men really are. They are guys said to act like
Speaker 1: I don't want to be in a relationship, but I'm
Speaker 1: just gonna hit it, and no, you know, I find that.
Speaker 1: I find out when I laid that on the table.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm enjoying my single life. I like dating
Speaker 1: and I'm happy. I feel like guys try so much
Speaker 1: harder to actually be in my house and and be
Speaker 1: in a relation on this, I want to Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's like when a girl that's I'm not into guys
Speaker 1: tells a guy like, oh, I'm lesbian, and they'd be like, well,
Speaker 1: let me be the one to take you back to
Speaker 1: that like a spark challenge. Do you think are you
Speaker 1: the kind of girl that because obviously you hold your
Speaker 1: own Sometimes when I was saying this to one of
Speaker 1: my friends as single, and she's like, I don't get what.
Speaker 1: I'm so single. I have my own house, and I'm
Speaker 1: like this and I'm educated, and I'm like, that's exactly why.
Speaker 1: Because she'll meet a guy first date and she screams like,
Speaker 1: think independent. It's independent. I don't need to I'll pay
Speaker 1: the bill, and guys like they want to feel like
Speaker 1: you need them. Ye, so do you think that happens
Speaker 1: to you sometimes that do? I just feel like, damn,
Speaker 1: she don't even need me. I think, guys, Um, when
Speaker 1: I start to curve them because of that, they let
Speaker 1: go faster. The better I do, the easier it just
Speaker 1: out to be like it. I know she got more mad, guys.
Speaker 1: I know she. I know she's dating all over the place.
Speaker 1: I know she could take care of herself, like I
Speaker 1: don't even need to see. But the truth of the
Speaker 1: man is, you could have a boyfriend if you wanted to.
Speaker 1: You just she was not to know. Of course, it's
Speaker 1: just times no time, and I have to say, like,
Speaker 1: I really enjoy the guys that I say I love you,
Speaker 1: I love you, know, but um, this time, I don't
Speaker 1: want to settle, you know what I mean? This time,
Speaker 1: I don't want to just be in a relationship because
Speaker 1: I want to be And I think it takes a
Speaker 1: much stronger person and much stronger women to say I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna be with somebody just for the take of
Speaker 1: being with somebody. I want to maybe somebody that I
Speaker 1: could see myself with, like exactly, that's the point I'm
Speaker 1: going to call you my man unless I feel like that,
Speaker 1: right And that's why I say this. Next time, I
Speaker 1: know I'm gonna be able to be faithful because when
Speaker 1: I decided to be in a relationship, it's going to
Speaker 1: be something that I want. You know, at the time.
Speaker 1: Right now, I don't if I find the guy, but
Speaker 1: I'm not just gonna be with anybody just because I
Speaker 1: want to be in a relationship. That's the room for
Speaker 1: Stephanie Dix. Be big, that's your sex, have perfect timing.
Speaker 1: May all your men spoil you and treat you like
Speaker 1: the queen that you are. Jesus name man. And he
Speaker 1: eat like a king, okay, eating like he's hungry. And
Speaker 1: on that note, that was live service.