WEBVTT - Episode 53 Ft Valerie Lora

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<v Speaker 1>West Up. Yeah, it'slip service at Angela. Ye. I'm Sephany Santiago,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm G. G. Maguire and we have a very special

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<v Speaker 1>guest house. Hi guys, it's Valerie Laura. How you there

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<v Speaker 1>that shy now when you was talking all that ship

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<v Speaker 1>before a minute ago? Let me take another sip so startling?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? Well, you know it's finally warm in New

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<v Speaker 1>York City. You are getting ready for the summer. So

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<v Speaker 1>our first tip of the day is what are the

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<v Speaker 1>things that you do to get ready for summer? Because

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<v Speaker 1>clearly we've been you know, slacking, having a good time,

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<v Speaker 1>and which is Memorial weekend? Who's eating crazy? So what

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<v Speaker 1>are some things that you guys do? What are some

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<v Speaker 1>tips to get ready for the summer. How many people

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<v Speaker 1>are ready for the summer. I'm I'm ready. I just

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<v Speaker 1>need a tan something I've been there? Would I do

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<v Speaker 1>I find myself, you know, buying a lot of swimsuits

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<v Speaker 1>right before I find myself buying so many. I just

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<v Speaker 1>spent like seven and I have so many already at

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like many babies? Is do I need bab Just

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<v Speaker 1>like shoes, you can't never have too many. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's a lot of cute one piece basises now. Never

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<v Speaker 1>used to want a weird one, but there's so many

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<v Speaker 1>cute ones now, mom. And I just made myself a

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<v Speaker 1>really cute one piece basis. I saw you over there

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<v Speaker 1>making babies. Yeah, I'm anything highwaisted and one piece. I

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<v Speaker 1>love it. No, they're super cute though, Like you don't

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<v Speaker 1>even have to be all like you know, showing every

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<v Speaker 1>now that babies is cut out. There's even a new style.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's a thong, but it's like a high waisted

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<v Speaker 1>and it's it's like in a really sexy place right here.

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<v Speaker 1>It looks nice. I just I just bought one, and

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I don't I don't like to cover that much.

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<v Speaker 1>I like to show more. I like, I think the

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<v Speaker 1>smaller my basing student is, the nicer it looks. Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be cuming up, especially I was in Kanda. You

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. You don't want to be on

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<v Speaker 1>nobody's like instage. That's true, because but I got some

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<v Speaker 1>really dope. That's another thing I find myself lying cover

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<v Speaker 1>ups those don't last me. Yeah, yeah, and I lose them.

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<v Speaker 1>I like, I don't know, I leave them. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta get cover ups all the time. Yeah, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>so what are some other things we're doing to get

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<v Speaker 1>ready for the semi ladies? Bad? What you're doing? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I always Summer sixteen came too fast, but I like

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<v Speaker 1>to always. I like colonics. I get I've never had

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<v Speaker 1>a colonic. I've never had one either, And I had

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<v Speaker 1>a friend that used to get them all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>It's brave, like on a regular basis and whatever that.

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<v Speaker 1>However regularly you're supposed to do it. She would do

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<v Speaker 1>it often. I used to. They say in the beginning,

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<v Speaker 1>like your first time, there's like levels to it, sessions

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<v Speaker 1>like that, Yeah, you're supposed to do one that kind

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<v Speaker 1>of hydrates your colon. Then the second one kind of

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<v Speaker 1>gets to stuff really good, and then the third one

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<v Speaker 1>is like, all right, you're good. How does that three?

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<v Speaker 1>I did it one time? You did, and I wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I did it one time because when I got my

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<v Speaker 1>breasted on, like the anesthesia made all my organs go

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<v Speaker 1>to sleep. So yeah, I was um. I was constipated, No, lie,

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<v Speaker 1>I was consipated for a month. I could not have

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<v Speaker 1>a movement. And that's what makes you after surgery, That's

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<v Speaker 1>how you know that you're okay, it's after you. It

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<v Speaker 1>was not normal. That's not normal. And and for me,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very regular, like I feel uncomfortable if you like, Yeah, everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to, but so I was really consipated.

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<v Speaker 1>So I went and got a colonic. I didn't one

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<v Speaker 1>time it took. It didn't help regulate me. You know

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<v Speaker 1>what's funny with the day I had to finally had

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<v Speaker 1>a movement, and I'm telling you it was like twenty

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<v Speaker 1>nine days later because I was helping um the day

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<v Speaker 1>I finally had a movement. No, I had a movement

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<v Speaker 1>right after the surgery. But then that's it. Nothing else,

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<v Speaker 1>that's it. Yeah. So when the day I finally had

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<v Speaker 1>a movement with made it happen was pinkberry, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>say very yeah yeah, and liked everything work again, will

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<v Speaker 1>kiss me. What the colonic did was empty everything. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I was backed up for so long. So yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>felt bad when I got When I got I tell

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<v Speaker 1>everybody who gets breast and plants to get a light

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<v Speaker 1>bulb suction at the same time, because you automatically just

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<v Speaker 1>fluff up after you get breast and plants. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>that didn't help me being me, not having a movement

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<v Speaker 1>for so long, you know. So I gained a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of weight after I got my breast and plants. That's

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<v Speaker 1>where the whole plastic surgery thing started, because it was

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<v Speaker 1>only supposed to be breast and plants, but I gained

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<v Speaker 1>so much weight from the boobs. I had to get

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<v Speaker 1>a light bulb. And when I was doing a light bulb,

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<v Speaker 1>was like, hey, might as well put the fut in

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<v Speaker 1>my butt. I don't know, let's go to waste. I

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<v Speaker 1>started to throw it away when I could go with

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<v Speaker 1>my butt, so I started. I got my first colonic

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<v Speaker 1>because I was gonna shoot this pick these pictures for

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<v Speaker 1>this magazine thing I was doing, and I'm like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, I'm so fat. I just had a baby.

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<v Speaker 1>What I'm gonna do? And I got my first one?

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<v Speaker 1>But you're supposed to like the first one kind of

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't really do anything, supposedly, especially if you're backed up,

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<v Speaker 1>because it kind of moisturized. Everything hydrates the cold and

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<v Speaker 1>then the next time you come then you know, things

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<v Speaker 1>come out. I prepped for it, so I took all

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<v Speaker 1>these fiber mixed things you can mix in your drink

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<v Speaker 1>for like three days. Yeah, because if you don't, then

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<v Speaker 1>it can be a little painful. If you have steak

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<v Speaker 1>and pork like the week before, it feels like worse

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<v Speaker 1>cramps or like child labor cramps. Yeah, but if you're

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<v Speaker 1>prepped and like you take your fiber and everything before,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like you can have great conversations and make jokes

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<v Speaker 1>while you're doing. It's not that. Yeah. When I didn't,

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<v Speaker 1>but I felt like it emptied me out and then

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<v Speaker 1>like like you said, it like put like you could

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<v Speaker 1>feel the coolness of the water and side like the need.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not a bad the thing. It's like really thin,

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<v Speaker 1>like let's say you're pinky and like, I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>could have all you guys sitting in the room while

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<v Speaker 1>I do it. That's how it is. It doesn't smell

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<v Speaker 1>at first. I'm like, it's gonna smell like pooping here?

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<v Speaker 1>Can everybody get like? And it wasn't. It just it

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<v Speaker 1>feels kind of weird when it's like something's about to

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<v Speaker 1>come out because you feel like and then you can

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<v Speaker 1>kind of see it and then you're like, oh, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of exciting, like oh, look what I but

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<v Speaker 1>you can't smell anything. There's no mess. It's like literally

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<v Speaker 1>from the machine, like from the tube into a machine

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<v Speaker 1>and you get out comfortable. One time I did it

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<v Speaker 1>and I was laughing, making jokes. I was sitting there

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<v Speaker 1>like I was sunbathing. And then the second time I

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<v Speaker 1>went to like a rhodisio like one of those things

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<v Speaker 1>that brings you met over and over until you tapped

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<v Speaker 1>the thing down, and I was in pain. Like I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, basically, just make sure you watch what you eat.

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<v Speaker 1>Get some fiber, yes before get fiber, maybe juice a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit like prep stuff. Well, they gave me some

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<v Speaker 1>stuff like I said, e berry with like silium husk,

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<v Speaker 1>the high fiber. Then like her, you should do it.

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<v Speaker 1>I want your stomach feels flattery immediately and you feel

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<v Speaker 1>like the turkey from Christmas is released, like it's good.

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<v Speaker 1>Well you uncomfortable staff when you did it, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feel like um. I feel like it actually

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<v Speaker 1>made me a little more bloated because I had the

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<v Speaker 1>floor inside of something. But the next like maybe a

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<v Speaker 1>day or two later, I could not I felt the

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<v Speaker 1>difference like I felt lighter after. I don't remember. I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't eating a lot because I wasn't having any movement,

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<v Speaker 1>so I was just stressed the funk out I was.

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<v Speaker 1>I was drinking a lot of water. I was trying everything,

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<v Speaker 1>googling everything, I did everything. I was just taking laxatives.

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<v Speaker 1>That was the only way I could have a movement.

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<v Speaker 1>Calonics aren't good for you, and you shouldn't do them.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of people say that sometimes your body becomes

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<v Speaker 1>dependent on it, Like, you know, it's not natural for

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<v Speaker 1>you to get a kalonic, So I mean, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>recommend it, like every time you want to lose five

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<v Speaker 1>pounds the klonic, but like maybe once or twice a year,

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<v Speaker 1>just yea and even place like anybody who tells you

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<v Speaker 1>come here every week to get it, don't there, because

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<v Speaker 1>a good place would tell you, like, no, you're not

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to do it all the time. It's just you know,

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<v Speaker 1>unless you have like can it harm you in any way?

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<v Speaker 1>If they do it the wrong way, it should definitely

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<v Speaker 1>be like a licensed or like a m D because

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<v Speaker 1>if they rubture something, you will be I mean, is

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<v Speaker 1>the most important thing in the world. You'll break your

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<v Speaker 1>ship gripper. And yeah, like if people have got it,

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<v Speaker 1>there's been serious problems the wrong thing happening getting getting

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<v Speaker 1>kalonic is kind of like having anal sex in a way. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of not. Well, I don't know because me

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't have a lot of anal sex. I

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<v Speaker 1>have more. And you know what's funny is that when

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<v Speaker 1>I told him I'm getting a chalonic, he was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>so that means UM, give you a chalonic tonight? Yes, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, is there we do a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of guys get calonics or do they feel weird about that? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>That's like a pause thing for dude. Yeah, but they do,

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<v Speaker 1>they do, and they don't admit it. Like where I

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<v Speaker 1>go one of my friends. One of my friends went

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<v Speaker 1>with me and he was like, you know, asking questions

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<v Speaker 1>and then he's like, I would never do it. First

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<v Speaker 1>of all, the doctor's too hot. I'm having hard on

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<v Speaker 1>my klonic. But then I heard that he's been there

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<v Speaker 1>numerous times to get colon. He lied, and then time

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<v Speaker 1>you go, you're going to run into him. They're like,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you doing here? The last time I was there,

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<v Speaker 1>there's an artist that was there and he kind of

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<v Speaker 1>I guess he got like free services, so he was

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<v Speaker 1>like promoting and posting. But he was like, this is

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<v Speaker 1>where I get my juices from. And I'm like, you

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<v Speaker 1>just came out of the klonic room. I got to

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<v Speaker 1>lie to kick it. I feel like men get it,

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<v Speaker 1>but they don't admit to it. Has it have a tang?

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<v Speaker 1>You want doing? I'm asking some people like and then

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<v Speaker 1>like what a gushing up in you? Oh no, this

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't feel too sa I'm not gonna lie. I remember

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<v Speaker 1>doing it, and I was like, I got kind of

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh this this feels kind of it's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna make me horny. Yeah, because it's after no and

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's I mean, it's kind of like four play.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like, you know, but I'll take a finger

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<v Speaker 1>thumb in my ask when I'm drunk, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, while I'm gonna you know, so I remember,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just I remember thinking like I'm just nasty,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm just I'm just why I think. But it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you feel the coolness you know what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>talking to, Like because your body's ninety eight point six

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<v Speaker 1>right point six degrees and that is not it's it's cool,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and it feels good a cool sensation too. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing is after though, like they put a toilet

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<v Speaker 1>right next to the room. Like when you're finished, you

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<v Speaker 1>have to go, and sometimes you sit and like more

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<v Speaker 1>stuff keeps coming, like the water. You don't gotta wear

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<v Speaker 1>a type, but you just sit in the bathroom for

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit and maybe like they're still shore colon

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<v Speaker 1>and it'll come out, So don't go on. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>go to a doctor. I didn't go to a doctor

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<v Speaker 1>to get it done. I went to like a little

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<v Speaker 1>spot in the city. This sounds a little shady, looked

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<v Speaker 1>a little shady. I'm gonna take it at my spot

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<v Speaker 1>at um no, because I just wanted to get it done.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want clean, like but you have to go

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<v Speaker 1>up some stairs. And then why didn't you go to

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<v Speaker 1>a real doctor? Though? Because I thought that was you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I googled it, Where could I get a colonic in

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<v Speaker 1>New York City? And that's what popped up the power

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<v Speaker 1>of Ye, it wasn't a doctor. I know. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think it was a doctor. Do you have to go

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<v Speaker 1>to a doctor? You don't have to do anything? But

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<v Speaker 1>you only got one colon? Can't up? What do you

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<v Speaker 1>say getting ready for the summer? What are some tips

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<v Speaker 1>from you? Well, I want to say something nasty. But

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm going to say first, both I will um,

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<v Speaker 1>I like to listen. I love to cook. You all

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<v Speaker 1>know I love to cook on that grill and I

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<v Speaker 1>love to feed, right, I love to keep my family.

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<v Speaker 1>I love to cook. I love to cook on the grill.

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<v Speaker 1>So as soon as the ice milk, I'm on the

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<v Speaker 1>grill with a coat on and hat and gloves. So

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<v Speaker 1>I've been on the grill. No, no, no, no, I

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<v Speaker 1>start as soon as I can stand there be outside

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<v Speaker 1>in front of that grill. I'm cooking my dinner on

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<v Speaker 1>the grill. And I think that, Um, I just start

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<v Speaker 1>to eat healthier tours the summer. So by the time

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<v Speaker 1>the summer gets here, and you know, I'm not all

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<v Speaker 1>like heavy with the fatty foods and the starches and

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<v Speaker 1>roast beefs and potatoes, and you know, I do more

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<v Speaker 1>vegetables and fish and shrimp and turkey briggers. Um. And

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<v Speaker 1>the summer I find myself eating like just naturally, eating

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<v Speaker 1>like more greens and salads and stuff. And the nasty

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<v Speaker 1>thing I was gonna say is um, I like to

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<v Speaker 1>hold my breath when I write, Dick, I feel like summer, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because I feel like it tightens up my stomach. I

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<v Speaker 1>was just like doing some apps like like engaging your

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<v Speaker 1>coral while you're having sex. Okay, so you just be

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<v Speaker 1>working out and working out for one day more calories

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<v Speaker 1>like that. In my mind, I feel like it makes

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<v Speaker 1>my stomach tighter and it makes everything tight my core.

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<v Speaker 1>It does. You know, it's been funny egs after um

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<v Speaker 1>after your boyfriend like comes inside you when you do

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<v Speaker 1>keegos right there? Yeah, yeah, yeah you're pregnant either. It's

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<v Speaker 1>fun Yeah, I can't say yeah, like a weird love

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<v Speaker 1>thing that I love to go to the bathroom and see,

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<v Speaker 1>like how much comes out, Like you'd like to come

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<v Speaker 1>you have me too. I always want to see how

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<v Speaker 1>much it was, Like it was with a lot of them.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a lot. No, But I know you're doing you're

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<v Speaker 1>beating whatever because you can't say what a guy has

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<v Speaker 1>been up you about how much comming has gas a

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<v Speaker 1>whole lot like saying yeah, that means he's been waiting.

0:14:05.000 --> 0:14:09.720
<v Speaker 1>But guys come inside of you, like even your man

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<v Speaker 1>when you're on birth control, Like it sucks up the press.

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<v Speaker 1>It gives you an older But that's what to p

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<v Speaker 1>right after you have sex. Comments very that's a different

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<v Speaker 1>that's a different way. It's a different way. I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate it, and it does mess up your p

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<v Speaker 1>especially if the guys, Like if you're not circumcised and

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<v Speaker 1>you came inside you, like and you had sex randomly,

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<v Speaker 1>like not fresh out shower, like, then you're in trouble.

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<v Speaker 1>Vagina sensitive. It's all. You can't mess it up. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want nobody in his house, like I feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>goes very pretty quick. It does, right, listen. That's one

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<v Speaker 1>thing though. Sometimes after you have sex, you don't feel

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<v Speaker 1>like going to the bathroom, but you have to. You

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<v Speaker 1>have to. That's very important. Like I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>network did it, but they did like an inquiry in

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<v Speaker 1>the park, like about the scientific reason why you have

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<v Speaker 1>to pee, Like, it's true, you have too. It kills

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<v Speaker 1>the bacteria, pianistic and it's good for you because the cold,

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<v Speaker 1>the vagina and asshole are so close to each other

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<v Speaker 1>and all the fluids with you, so you'll get an infection.

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<v Speaker 1>You're also not supposed to let somebody do an know

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<v Speaker 1>and then have sex with you because you're asking the

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<v Speaker 1>put it. But come on, some people don't know, or

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<v Speaker 1>if you're using a condom. You have to change the condom.

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<v Speaker 1>But some people really don't know that. Yeah, it's good

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<v Speaker 1>to put that out there. Now, what if somebody has antosex?

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<v Speaker 1>Can you suck his dick after that? No, after the show,

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<v Speaker 1>after that, after the shot. When you're when you're having

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<v Speaker 1>antosex or me personally, there's a lot of running to

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<v Speaker 1>the bathroom in between, like in between actions, there's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of let me clean you all don't. Yeah, sterilizations,

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<v Speaker 1>we go. We sterilized the instruments in between every move. Definitely,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like insex because I I don't need the

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<v Speaker 1>poop is so important to me, and I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>this is so serious, like I don't want to mess

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<v Speaker 1>my ship up. Like I don't even like taking pills

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<v Speaker 1>because I don't want it to sunk up my pooping

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<v Speaker 1>patterns like pop in the morning and to me anal

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<v Speaker 1>sex or different medication funks up my ship, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>And where is this ship after you shower? That's again,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. There's my b TM. I right, but

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<v Speaker 1>I poop like this with my feet up on the toilet.

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<v Speaker 1>You do used to be your leg down postipation? No,

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<v Speaker 1>it helps, you know, and it comes out so much easier.

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<v Speaker 1>It goes better. And I'm on my phone, like, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>you're like the people in Thailand. Have you ever seen

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<v Speaker 1>a toilet in Thailand? So it's just a hurt, just

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<v Speaker 1>a roll on the floor, so like that on the

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<v Speaker 1>toilet and my feet on the toilet, and they poop

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<v Speaker 1>like that on the toilet. And then when you go

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<v Speaker 1>into that into the city and Thailand, they have pictures

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<v Speaker 1>of like on the toilet, like, don't poop like this

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<v Speaker 1>because that's like people from the villages that really. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>let me ask you this. Your boyfriend, are you okay

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<v Speaker 1>with him? Like if he comes in while you're taking

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<v Speaker 1>a ship and he just sees you with your legs up,

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<v Speaker 1>we already think I'm crazy anyway, So I love people

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<v Speaker 1>talking to people while I'm shitting. I don't have problems

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<v Speaker 1>shitting me. I can't even we will mind child holding

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<v Speaker 1>them back from while I'm taking a smn't know what

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<v Speaker 1>you on for breakfast, babes, know my poop doesn't I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it smells like poop, but it's not like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I go like, it's not like blue the bathroom. I

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<v Speaker 1>go like twice a day, like I think people can

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes just thinks a little bit, like if I've been

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<v Speaker 1>drinking or about eat whatever, like the trone. Sometimes yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>some specially for the birds coming out. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>that is the word. Yeah one time velvet cake and

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<v Speaker 1>my ship was blue. That's a blueberry or corn. Corn

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<v Speaker 1>does not sig. It comes and comes. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>can we switch it? Can we switch the topic? And

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<v Speaker 1>we can't get because kids me not said that's it time.

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<v Speaker 1>So now you know the rule is for people in general,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the best time to be single in the summer, right,

0:18:14.160 --> 0:18:16.399
<v Speaker 1>and everybody's getting you know, everybody that was like in

0:18:16.520 --> 0:18:18.520
<v Speaker 1>relationships your man, it's like, all right, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready to be a little more wild and loose

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<v Speaker 1>and a girl sometimes be like you the win to nigger.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready to be out. And has anybody ever broken

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<v Speaker 1>up with you? Like for the summer? The love of

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<v Speaker 1>my life right when I was really young. Know, it

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<v Speaker 1>was such a bad breakup. I think I'm still affective

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<v Speaker 1>by it today. I was so young and he was older.

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<v Speaker 1>I always like older guys. So he told me, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>somemmer's coming. And when I first got with you, it

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<v Speaker 1>was like you know when you get a new puppy

0:18:54.359 --> 0:18:57.040
<v Speaker 1>and then the puppy grows up and it's no more.

0:18:57.160 --> 0:18:59.800
<v Speaker 1>So that's how he broke up with me. Like my

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<v Speaker 1>co Yes, Washington he can put in Washington Heights. He

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<v Speaker 1>compared it to like getting a new puppy and not

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<v Speaker 1>having a new puppy, feeling no more was gone. Absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>But I remember being in club Exit. That's how long

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<v Speaker 1>ago it was, like he walks to go to a lord.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go for steven Sundays to the club like

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<v Speaker 1>I loved him more after that. I don't know why

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<v Speaker 1>after he broke up after he was such an asshole.

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<v Speaker 1>When I was young, I was a little dumb. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean they were the more I wanted. I mean, truthfully,

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<v Speaker 1>do girls really like nice guys? I mean, I know

0:19:43.640 --> 0:19:46.240
<v Speaker 1>it's a stereotypical question, but it's the truth. Like do

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<v Speaker 1>you like anybody that's just too nice? Nice guys? Geez,

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<v Speaker 1>don't because my man is an asshole. He is the

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<v Speaker 1>king of as you think you'd like to argue. He

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<v Speaker 1>likes to argue, but you think you like it because

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<v Speaker 1>if he likes it. In yes, she likes to make up,

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<v Speaker 1>but is it an argument like you know, is it?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, honestly make you horn here. But we haven't

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<v Speaker 1>had many arguments since we've been back together, which is

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<v Speaker 1>a good thing. We had a really good vacation. We

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<v Speaker 1>had amazing birthdays, the two of us our birthdays or

0:20:18.320 --> 0:20:21.040
<v Speaker 1>six days apart, and you know, we had birthday vacation

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<v Speaker 1>and friends and family and fun and there hasn't been

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<v Speaker 1>any drama, thank god. So why do you think that is? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you think change that y'all are not really arguing. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we did a lot of communicating during our break and

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of things came to light on both sides,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think that we're able to understand your own what.

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<v Speaker 1>We broke up for eight months and got back together

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<v Speaker 1>so together during that break up time. During that break

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<v Speaker 1>up time, UM, we did a lot of communicating, a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of talking, and UM, I think that we're able

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<v Speaker 1>to understand each other better. Break it's not always a

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<v Speaker 1>bad thing. Sometimes people need it. Yeah, I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>I think we it was good for us. I think

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<v Speaker 1>we needed that time apart. We were like five years

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<v Speaker 1>and at the time, So yeah, I think a little

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<v Speaker 1>break never hurt nobody. Yeah, we've been great since now.

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<v Speaker 1>One of my friends is dating this guy, and um,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess for some reason, she's not that attracted to

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<v Speaker 1>him anymore. So she sends niken pictures to herself to

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<v Speaker 1>like another guy and that tours you better chill out

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<v Speaker 1>with all that. Oh, now, is that a reason for

0:21:30.200 --> 0:21:34.280
<v Speaker 1>your man to break up with you? Because I never

0:21:34.520 --> 0:21:39.359
<v Speaker 1>have The person lives in another country. It doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 1>Guys can't take it. They can dish it, but they

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<v Speaker 1>can't take it. Anything is cheating to him. She can

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<v Speaker 1>sneeze on the next man and he'll be like, bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm leaving you. Like the thing is herself, because if

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<v Speaker 1>she feels the need to send naked pictures, that means

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<v Speaker 1>she won't be sucked by somebody else. She just feels

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<v Speaker 1>like her boyfriend's not that attentive anymore. So she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I just like the attention for the

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<v Speaker 1>attention from somewhere. But the last time she sent her

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<v Speaker 1>own boyfriend and naked picture him on deck. They need

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<v Speaker 1>to find some She needs to write down the list

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<v Speaker 1>of like why she even working with him or still

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<v Speaker 1>with him or in the first place, and figure out

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<v Speaker 1>where the voids are. Because if you feel like you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta send like you need that attention, and you think

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay when you're in a relationship to meet people

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<v Speaker 1>have the opposite sex and like be cool with them. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>what about you know you meet somebody at the opposite

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<v Speaker 1>sex and y'all go out for drinks, but not on

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<v Speaker 1>a date they know you have you're in a relationship. No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not okay. I think it's okay. I do it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean they're just friends, though it gets true they're

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<v Speaker 1>new friends if they're new. And it depends on what

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<v Speaker 1>kind of drink you're talking about, like a social drink

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<v Speaker 1>where there's a lot of other people there, or just

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<v Speaker 1>a one on one you're like, oh, where are you

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<v Speaker 1>at where I'm in your area? Come out, let's have

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<v Speaker 1>a drink before I got to go do something else.

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<v Speaker 1>Like what do you like that? I mean, I think

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<v Speaker 1>it would be okay for me because of what I

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<v Speaker 1>do for a living. But I don't think it would

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<v Speaker 1>be okay for I think it's okay if he's a

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<v Speaker 1>j I don't think it's okay. I think to me,

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<v Speaker 1>like I think, like I just feel like there's something

0:23:11.920 --> 0:23:14.120
<v Speaker 1>wrong with us, because why is it that if it's

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<v Speaker 1>a guy and a girl automatically if you can go

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<v Speaker 1>out with your home girl have to work and have

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<v Speaker 1>a drink. Like I have a lot of guy friends

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<v Speaker 1>that I've never had any sex with, but maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>think they would. I mean, I'm sure like guys are

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<v Speaker 1>in that case, you know, I know, but if I

0:23:30.960 --> 0:23:33.359
<v Speaker 1>if I have oh and oh, like if I'm good,

0:23:33.640 --> 0:23:36.080
<v Speaker 1>so then it should it should be all right, right like,

0:23:36.400 --> 0:23:39.159
<v Speaker 1>because I would think like wants my boyfriend probably wouldn't

0:23:39.160 --> 0:23:40.920
<v Speaker 1>want me to go out with somebody that he knows

0:23:41.040 --> 0:23:43.919
<v Speaker 1>is attracted to me, right exactly. That's the That's the thing.

0:23:44.000 --> 0:23:46.840
<v Speaker 1>It depends on the dynamic of the relationship. If if

0:23:46.960 --> 0:23:49.920
<v Speaker 1>it's a flirting thing, I don't think it's okay, obviously not.

0:23:50.240 --> 0:23:53.520
<v Speaker 1>But let's it's like a business even I like you,

0:23:53.680 --> 0:23:55.399
<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't even like the girl. She's just

0:23:55.520 --> 0:23:59.240
<v Speaker 1>super hot, right like, Like, let's you get okay with

0:23:59.440 --> 0:24:01.880
<v Speaker 1>me going out with your boyfriend for a drink. I would.

0:24:01.920 --> 0:24:04.320
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't be okay with me going on with somebody

0:24:04.359 --> 0:24:07.399
<v Speaker 1>else's word for I would though, Like I mean, I

0:24:07.480 --> 0:24:10.680
<v Speaker 1>don't ask him, you know, Like I'm a girl. I

0:24:10.720 --> 0:24:13.439
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't even play myself. I wouldn't do that. I mean,

0:24:13.520 --> 0:24:15.920
<v Speaker 1>if I knew that you just sucked everybody else's man.

0:24:15.960 --> 0:24:17.879
<v Speaker 1>But like, let's say, if Angela be like, oh but

0:24:17.960 --> 0:24:19.720
<v Speaker 1>we here at this part we have I don't know

0:24:19.800 --> 0:24:21.520
<v Speaker 1>if it's a weak thing, that's what I said, If

0:24:21.560 --> 0:24:25.400
<v Speaker 1>it's you just like the ether and then she called

0:24:26.359 --> 0:24:28.879
<v Speaker 1>different they were together. I also think it depends on

0:24:28.920 --> 0:24:33.280
<v Speaker 1>who the girl is. Yeah, yeah, it's circumstantial, because you're

0:24:33.280 --> 0:24:35.280
<v Speaker 1>not to have a problem with me being around ever

0:24:35.400 --> 0:24:37.280
<v Speaker 1>in life. I could probably spend the night at his house.

0:24:37.520 --> 0:24:39.399
<v Speaker 1>He wouldn't give a ship, you know, and then you

0:24:39.520 --> 0:24:41.359
<v Speaker 1>know me too. You know I'm not that type of person.

0:24:41.920 --> 0:24:44.560
<v Speaker 1>And stephanitiely you know, if I was Stephanie's crazy anyway though,

0:24:44.560 --> 0:24:49.240
<v Speaker 1>because I don't know, I'm a little passive. I'm just saying.

0:24:49.359 --> 0:24:51.360
<v Speaker 1>But she also probably wouldn't think she wouldn't say nothing

0:24:51.400 --> 0:24:53.879
<v Speaker 1>to me, but she might say something Tom Right now,

0:24:54.000 --> 0:24:56.679
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what are you doing going on with my friends? Right?

0:24:57.600 --> 0:25:00.239
<v Speaker 1>What do you do you? By accident? Ever slept one

0:25:00.280 --> 0:25:02.959
<v Speaker 1>of your friend's boyfriends. No, because I don't play at all.

0:25:03.080 --> 0:25:06.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Sometimes people could drink your friends slept

0:25:06.640 --> 0:25:09.240
<v Speaker 1>with but it wasn't your friend. No, I mean this

0:25:09.400 --> 0:25:11.760
<v Speaker 1>is the thing, like I once my friends have sex

0:25:11.800 --> 0:25:13.560
<v Speaker 1>with a guy. I don't care who it is. It's like,

0:25:14.320 --> 0:25:17.199
<v Speaker 1>I'm not even attracted to you anymore unless it's one

0:25:17.280 --> 0:25:20.560
<v Speaker 1>of those guys that you just passed around, like girl, yeah,

0:25:20.760 --> 0:25:22.960
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. But one of my friends

0:25:23.359 --> 0:25:27.840
<v Speaker 1>girls got them too, But you are one of my

0:25:28.040 --> 0:25:31.040
<v Speaker 1>friend's boyfriend somebody they were in a serious relationship. No,

0:25:32.280 --> 0:25:35.760
<v Speaker 1>you're gross now, it's like, no, so if you went

0:25:35.800 --> 0:25:37.800
<v Speaker 1>out with another guy that you just Girls have done

0:25:37.840 --> 0:25:41.200
<v Speaker 1>that to me. Girls sleep with mind they want to

0:25:41.200 --> 0:25:44.920
<v Speaker 1>see that's your friend anymore. That's happened to me. My

0:25:45.600 --> 0:25:49.640
<v Speaker 1>my daughter has a sister her same age, and it's

0:25:49.640 --> 0:25:52.879
<v Speaker 1>gonna be your friends. Well, I thought, obviously it wasn't.

0:25:54.280 --> 0:25:57.440
<v Speaker 1>How do you know such a fan of you that

0:25:57.520 --> 0:26:01.000
<v Speaker 1>anything you want you have, they want, they they wanted, like,

0:26:01.200 --> 0:26:03.359
<v Speaker 1>oh I work here here she then you go on

0:26:03.440 --> 0:26:05.560
<v Speaker 1>to Sam Salon, I'm going to there's like ten on

0:26:05.640 --> 0:26:08.800
<v Speaker 1>the black damn this X to like seven exit and

0:26:08.920 --> 0:26:11.280
<v Speaker 1>all right behind you. Like sometimes, how do you work

0:26:11.320 --> 0:26:13.960
<v Speaker 1>through something like that? How do you work through something

0:26:14.200 --> 0:26:18.520
<v Speaker 1>like the way I dealt with it was I felt

0:26:18.560 --> 0:26:21.080
<v Speaker 1>like all right. I felt like they were good together

0:26:21.080 --> 0:26:23.480
<v Speaker 1>because if he went to do that to me, then

0:26:23.840 --> 0:26:25.840
<v Speaker 1>they're the same kind of person and they're both not

0:26:26.040 --> 0:26:28.679
<v Speaker 1>for me. That's how I felt like, alright, keep each other,

0:26:28.800 --> 0:26:31.000
<v Speaker 1>hope it works out because you have both justice Gray.

0:26:31.480 --> 0:26:33.080
<v Speaker 1>So you didn't end up back with him. That was

0:26:33.200 --> 0:26:37.320
<v Speaker 1>absolutely not She never again never looked back. That's good.

0:26:37.680 --> 0:26:39.480
<v Speaker 1>And that was a person that you know, like, there's

0:26:39.520 --> 0:26:41.560
<v Speaker 1>a way the one person you're week fur and turned

0:26:41.600 --> 0:26:45.359
<v Speaker 1>domb for, like like in the movie Casino. Remember, but

0:26:45.480 --> 0:26:47.240
<v Speaker 1>that's one thing that will make me get over a

0:26:47.280 --> 0:26:49.960
<v Speaker 1>guy really quick if he works with some one of

0:26:50.000 --> 0:26:53.240
<v Speaker 1>my friends or a wag bitch. It's like, that's it.

0:26:53.520 --> 0:26:56.680
<v Speaker 1>I was so in love with this guy a day ago,

0:26:56.800 --> 0:27:00.520
<v Speaker 1>but now he's just so wax that the chicken is.

0:27:00.600 --> 0:27:02.280
<v Speaker 1>You'd be like, oh, you're sucked with her? Well you

0:27:02.400 --> 0:27:05.399
<v Speaker 1>know she. I think you'd be like, why am I

0:27:05.480 --> 0:27:09.639
<v Speaker 1>hating to me? It was just like, well, they'll they'll

0:27:09.680 --> 0:27:13.240
<v Speaker 1>get their karma, and they did, because that I believe

0:27:13.280 --> 0:27:16.080
<v Speaker 1>in karma. To listen, I don't guy to do nothing

0:27:16.119 --> 0:27:22.399
<v Speaker 1>to nobody. That ship is so now it's okay. You

0:27:22.480 --> 0:27:24.040
<v Speaker 1>think for you to meet a guy that you know,

0:27:24.119 --> 0:27:25.640
<v Speaker 1>and become cool with him and go out of drinks

0:27:25.640 --> 0:27:29.520
<v Speaker 1>even if you're in a relationship. For in my relationship,

0:27:29.640 --> 0:27:32.159
<v Speaker 1>can meet him though not like somebody was cool with before,

0:27:33.359 --> 0:27:36.560
<v Speaker 1>but like somebody to meet somebody knew, you know what.

0:27:36.880 --> 0:27:40.200
<v Speaker 1>Like to me, it's okay, But that does leave a

0:27:40.320 --> 0:27:43.720
<v Speaker 1>lot of room for error because you're human, no matter

0:27:43.720 --> 0:27:45.600
<v Speaker 1>if I've been with somebody ten years. If I meet

0:27:45.640 --> 0:27:48.320
<v Speaker 1>some other dude and it's somebody I'm attracted to and

0:27:48.359 --> 0:27:51.040
<v Speaker 1>it's fun conversation and we're having a drink, so now

0:27:51.160 --> 0:27:55.320
<v Speaker 1>you're inhibitions are like things can happen. So if you're

0:27:55.359 --> 0:27:57.760
<v Speaker 1>a person that's in a relationship, sometimes you shouldn't put

0:27:57.800 --> 0:28:00.400
<v Speaker 1>yourself in situations. But if you're just having a drink

0:28:00.480 --> 0:28:03.000
<v Speaker 1>and oh my god, casual but not like pre planned,

0:28:03.200 --> 0:28:05.840
<v Speaker 1>and there's excitement and you're doing extra to your bake

0:28:05.920 --> 0:28:08.959
<v Speaker 1>up and get e secure and sexy, Like, is there

0:28:09.000 --> 0:28:11.960
<v Speaker 1>a time limit on when somebody else can like text

0:28:12.000 --> 0:28:15.800
<v Speaker 1>you or call you at night? I think so absolutely. Yeah,

0:28:15.880 --> 0:28:19.240
<v Speaker 1>you don't want to be she'll be calling me during

0:28:19.240 --> 0:28:22.160
<v Speaker 1>booty call hours. When I'm in a relationship, I flip

0:28:22.320 --> 0:28:24.520
<v Speaker 1>on everybody that hits me up, like Afrey lover a

0:28:24.640 --> 0:28:28.359
<v Speaker 1>prwe because when I was on our break and I

0:28:28.480 --> 0:28:30.600
<v Speaker 1>moved away to Philly, I was managing a strip club.

0:28:30.760 --> 0:28:32.760
<v Speaker 1>So a lot of people would call me late at night,

0:28:32.920 --> 0:28:34.760
<v Speaker 1>late at night, you know, on my side, Can I

0:28:34.840 --> 0:28:37.159
<v Speaker 1>get in you here? What's up? I'm on the table.

0:28:37.600 --> 0:28:39.280
<v Speaker 1>And for the first couple of weeks after I left

0:28:39.320 --> 0:28:41.120
<v Speaker 1>the club and moved back home, my phone will be

0:28:41.480 --> 0:28:43.200
<v Speaker 1>be going off at one thirty two, three o'clock in

0:28:43.240 --> 0:28:47.719
<v Speaker 1>the morning, and I just be like, yeah, I had

0:28:47.920 --> 0:28:50.600
<v Speaker 1>was understandable because it was part of your word. But

0:28:51.440 --> 0:28:54.160
<v Speaker 1>the guys don't worry if to die down. So got

0:28:54.200 --> 0:28:57.840
<v Speaker 1>to the quay there used to be like guys in

0:28:57.880 --> 0:29:00.640
<v Speaker 1>the morning, no matter why because and a lot of time,

0:29:00.760 --> 0:29:03.360
<v Speaker 1>you know, I was just in a relationship. A lot

0:29:03.440 --> 0:29:06.040
<v Speaker 1>of time I'll be like with my man and getting

0:29:06.080 --> 0:29:07.760
<v Speaker 1>a call at one thirty in the morning, and it

0:29:07.800 --> 0:29:12.240
<v Speaker 1>would be a nightlife person, know what I'm saying, exactly,

0:29:12.560 --> 0:29:15.440
<v Speaker 1>or a promoter or something like that, even like, oh,

0:29:15.640 --> 0:29:17.560
<v Speaker 1>I need you to host this party for me next

0:29:17.600 --> 0:29:23.560
<v Speaker 1>week morning exactly. Yeah. I'm I'm a I'm total and

0:29:23.720 --> 0:29:27.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm a very nocturnal person. You to me, shouldn't that

0:29:27.400 --> 0:29:32.680
<v Speaker 1>be acceptable because most of your no, but still it

0:29:32.760 --> 0:29:35.560
<v Speaker 1>should be acceptable. But I would work out at nine

0:29:35.640 --> 0:29:38.120
<v Speaker 1>tomorrow and you get to know and I you know,

0:29:38.320 --> 0:29:41.120
<v Speaker 1>I have I had a crazy boyfriend. We're both crazy.

0:29:41.480 --> 0:29:49.040
<v Speaker 1>So no matter what was like after after after eleven pm,

0:29:49.120 --> 0:29:50.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, you know, I gotta man, I want to

0:29:50.880 --> 0:29:58.760
<v Speaker 1>fuck you hit me up? Is that weird? I am?

0:29:58.920 --> 0:30:03.040
<v Speaker 1>I am? Do not to serve Queen is not to

0:30:03.080 --> 0:30:06.160
<v Speaker 1>serve King. His BlackBerry is always on silent, like I'll

0:30:06.160 --> 0:30:08.680
<v Speaker 1>be here to tell him not to serve Queen. That's

0:30:08.720 --> 0:30:10.160
<v Speaker 1>exactly what I used to do when I was with

0:30:10.760 --> 0:30:13.160
<v Speaker 1>my last boyfriend. Every night, as soon as he would

0:30:13.160 --> 0:30:14.760
<v Speaker 1>come home, I'll put my phone on do not to serve.

0:30:14.920 --> 0:30:17.760
<v Speaker 1>You know, it's crazy, that's terrible for me. Like he

0:30:18.080 --> 0:30:20.239
<v Speaker 1>is always on the phone because he'd be like if

0:30:20.280 --> 0:30:22.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't answer right then, and I'm gonna miss some money.

0:30:22.480 --> 0:30:24.720
<v Speaker 1>That's how he feels, to the point where he even

0:30:24.760 --> 0:30:27.360
<v Speaker 1>got like a phone holder thing in the shower and

0:30:27.480 --> 0:30:31.080
<v Speaker 1>then we're so excited about phones being waterproof. I think

0:30:31.120 --> 0:30:33.920
<v Speaker 1>the only time he's not on the phone is during sex.

0:30:34.480 --> 0:30:41.680
<v Speaker 1>I think because everything everything he does, even the shower,

0:30:41.920 --> 0:30:44.840
<v Speaker 1>like when the shower, like the shows that I'm like,

0:30:44.920 --> 0:30:48.560
<v Speaker 1>this ship is ridiculous, ridiculous, he's okay with you, Like

0:30:48.640 --> 0:30:50.360
<v Speaker 1>if he leaves his phone at home, he's not worried

0:30:50.360 --> 0:30:52.800
<v Speaker 1>about you looking at He don't care. I do not

0:30:52.960 --> 0:30:56.080
<v Speaker 1>do that, so he don't right, But if you did,

0:30:56.840 --> 0:30:59.320
<v Speaker 1>will he be okay with it? You think I don't know.

0:30:59.440 --> 0:31:01.440
<v Speaker 1>It's been a couple of times where like you know

0:31:01.520 --> 0:31:05.400
<v Speaker 1>you're on the phone to be like so right, but

0:31:05.480 --> 0:31:07.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm not. I'm the type of person like I don't

0:31:07.480 --> 0:31:08.880
<v Speaker 1>want to find out, Like I don't want to know.

0:31:09.240 --> 0:31:11.400
<v Speaker 1>I'd rather not even read it if I don't know

0:31:11.720 --> 0:31:14.800
<v Speaker 1>whatever you need, Yeah, like I don't want to know

0:31:14.920 --> 0:31:16.600
<v Speaker 1>if you respect me enough to not make me feel

0:31:16.640 --> 0:31:18.400
<v Speaker 1>like I don't want him doing that ship to me

0:31:18.520 --> 0:31:22.920
<v Speaker 1>because I hate that ship. So be the one. Because

0:31:22.920 --> 0:31:25.440
<v Speaker 1>I have friends, like I have only one friend who

0:31:25.680 --> 0:31:28.520
<v Speaker 1>her and her boyfriend like, well her husband, like he'll

0:31:28.520 --> 0:31:31.640
<v Speaker 1>answer her phone, she answers his phone, or like she'll

0:31:31.680 --> 0:31:33.280
<v Speaker 1>be like, oh, I don't have my phone, so just

0:31:33.360 --> 0:31:35.280
<v Speaker 1>call his phone. I have his phone all day because

0:31:35.320 --> 0:31:39.640
<v Speaker 1>that they if we're together and like my phone not

0:31:39.720 --> 0:31:42.600
<v Speaker 1>working and like I'll have like somebody called I call

0:31:42.680 --> 0:31:44.800
<v Speaker 1>me on his phone, here's his number, blah blah blah,

0:31:44.800 --> 0:31:49.040
<v Speaker 1>but are you not Like I don't know, I'm not

0:31:49.160 --> 0:31:53.239
<v Speaker 1>keeping it, but I would have something or like if

0:31:53.280 --> 0:31:55.080
<v Speaker 1>we were together and I saw Angie call, I would

0:31:55.120 --> 0:31:58.440
<v Speaker 1>answer it like hey girl, right, no, but she means, oh,

0:31:58.800 --> 0:32:03.080
<v Speaker 1>I have his phone today. When we were my head,

0:32:03.120 --> 0:32:06.480
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I was like, look, switch phones with me,

0:32:06.800 --> 0:32:09.720
<v Speaker 1>like let's let's see who's going was switch phones with me?

0:32:09.760 --> 0:32:11.280
<v Speaker 1>And he would not do it. I'm like, switch phones

0:32:11.320 --> 0:32:13.920
<v Speaker 1>with me for a day, like bad. Yeah, I was

0:32:14.040 --> 0:32:20.080
<v Speaker 1>serious because I knew what I wasn't doing that I

0:32:20.200 --> 0:32:22.680
<v Speaker 1>was not. I was serious. I was trying to. I

0:32:22.800 --> 0:32:24.880
<v Speaker 1>was like, know what, don't even take my phone, take

0:32:24.960 --> 0:32:26.480
<v Speaker 1>my phone for the day. I don't even need yours,

0:32:26.480 --> 0:32:28.480
<v Speaker 1>but take mine just and he was like no, I'm cool,

0:32:28.720 --> 0:32:30.200
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm good on it because I don't want you

0:32:30.200 --> 0:32:35.200
<v Speaker 1>to day. Clearly I could have bluff one time, but

0:32:35.280 --> 0:32:37.239
<v Speaker 1>I was just like please, God don't know. Said yes

0:32:39.160 --> 0:32:41.080
<v Speaker 1>I did this guy one time, and he would he

0:32:41.240 --> 0:32:43.240
<v Speaker 1>grabbed my phone and went through it, like went in

0:32:43.320 --> 0:32:45.040
<v Speaker 1>the bathroom and locked it up in the bathroom, and

0:32:45.160 --> 0:32:46.920
<v Speaker 1>I was like, Okay, I can never talk to you

0:32:46.960 --> 0:32:53.800
<v Speaker 1>again in life. Do you guys feel about that because

0:32:54.200 --> 0:32:55.920
<v Speaker 1>I could be talking to y'all and you could you

0:32:55.960 --> 0:32:58.480
<v Speaker 1>could be saying be something really personal. Yeah, and I

0:32:58.480 --> 0:33:01.720
<v Speaker 1>don't want hand eating that. So if you knew somebody

0:33:01.800 --> 0:33:04.160
<v Speaker 1>checked all your ship all the time secretly, would you

0:33:04.400 --> 0:33:08.080
<v Speaker 1>were those b breakups? Yes? I think that's crazy because

0:33:08.080 --> 0:33:10.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't do that, Like, I don't. I don't do

0:33:10.200 --> 0:33:12.400
<v Speaker 1>that either. I can see it's like something popped up

0:33:12.440 --> 0:33:15.320
<v Speaker 1>on my phone. Somebody just texting me and you look, okay,

0:33:15.680 --> 0:33:18.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm not but you're not gonna take my phone and

0:33:18.120 --> 0:33:20.720
<v Speaker 1>go through everything. Now, there's so many apps, you know

0:33:20.800 --> 0:33:23.200
<v Speaker 1>how you can check your kids phone and it comes

0:33:23.240 --> 0:33:26.520
<v Speaker 1>to your computer before kind to his phone when his

0:33:26.880 --> 0:33:30.480
<v Speaker 1>kids getting text messages. You see, So dudes can do

0:33:30.600 --> 0:33:32.320
<v Speaker 1>that to your phone. All you need is like the

0:33:32.640 --> 0:33:36.240
<v Speaker 1>like serious stuff. Let's keep a red this stuff on

0:33:36.320 --> 0:33:38.760
<v Speaker 1>all of my phones that somebody could take it the

0:33:38.840 --> 0:33:42.000
<v Speaker 1>wrong way. You read it and you know what it is,

0:33:42.520 --> 0:33:43.880
<v Speaker 1>but he could take it the wrong way. And I

0:33:44.000 --> 0:33:47.080
<v Speaker 1>send nude I'm send nude pictures to my best friends

0:33:47.080 --> 0:33:51.240
<v Speaker 1>all the time. Likes send me sometime my friends send

0:33:51.320 --> 0:33:53.280
<v Speaker 1>me videos or pictures Like I'm not just saying do

0:33:53.440 --> 0:33:55.560
<v Speaker 1>this do you think I'll like that? Like and it'd

0:33:55.600 --> 0:33:59.160
<v Speaker 1>be like, you know, I don't want him to see that.

0:34:02.800 --> 0:34:04.760
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I usually don't want a guy going through

0:34:04.800 --> 0:34:07.240
<v Speaker 1>my phone because I'm cheating on him. To make that

0:34:07.360 --> 0:34:11.719
<v Speaker 1>clearance everyone, the real reason is, let's down, don't go

0:34:11.800 --> 0:34:13.600
<v Speaker 1>through my phone. You're gonna get your feelings. You're gonna

0:34:13.640 --> 0:34:18.000
<v Speaker 1>get you feel all right. Now. We were talking about

0:34:18.040 --> 0:34:20.560
<v Speaker 1>this earlier. Can you meet quality guys in the club

0:34:20.640 --> 0:34:23.319
<v Speaker 1>and the strip club and the regular club or are

0:34:23.360 --> 0:34:25.320
<v Speaker 1>those guys that you tend to want to leave alone?

0:34:25.320 --> 0:34:28.040
<v Speaker 1>Because people always ask where can I meet a good guy?

0:34:28.360 --> 0:34:29.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to meet a guy in the club

0:34:29.719 --> 0:34:31.640
<v Speaker 1>because that's not the type of person that I went.

0:34:31.719 --> 0:34:36.160
<v Speaker 1>But what do you think I've I've had a serious relationship,

0:34:36.800 --> 0:34:42.160
<v Speaker 1>a serious open relationship, so I don't know. I had

0:34:42.200 --> 0:34:44.480
<v Speaker 1>a relationship with somebody in the club and we worked

0:34:44.480 --> 0:34:49.279
<v Speaker 1>good for a while. I also um dated of radio

0:34:49.360 --> 0:34:53.160
<v Speaker 1>personality slash DJ back in my twenties, and um he

0:34:53.280 --> 0:34:55.880
<v Speaker 1>ended up being married. But but that was a good

0:34:55.920 --> 0:34:57.759
<v Speaker 1>relationship while he was married, and you didn't know. I

0:34:57.800 --> 0:35:01.520
<v Speaker 1>didn't know until he got arrested. That's crazy, got arrested.

0:35:01.719 --> 0:35:06.520
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, but but his not didn't built him out.

0:35:06.760 --> 0:35:08.840
<v Speaker 1>His wife calling threatened him to come and take my

0:35:08.920 --> 0:35:10.279
<v Speaker 1>car because my car was in his name, like he

0:35:10.320 --> 0:35:11.919
<v Speaker 1>had brought me a car and it was his name,

0:35:12.840 --> 0:35:14.360
<v Speaker 1>and she called like, yeah, well i'm his wife and

0:35:14.400 --> 0:35:16.719
<v Speaker 1>I know you're driving a car. I want that one.

0:35:16.800 --> 0:35:18.399
<v Speaker 1>You think if he would have told you he was married,

0:35:18.440 --> 0:35:22.359
<v Speaker 1>you would have covered form him somehow someway. Well, if

0:35:22.400 --> 0:35:24.080
<v Speaker 1>he would have told me in the beginning back then,

0:35:24.160 --> 0:35:25.880
<v Speaker 1>that was in my like sugar baby days, so I

0:35:25.880 --> 0:35:28.520
<v Speaker 1>probably wouldn't have cared. But he didn't tell me. And

0:35:28.640 --> 0:35:30.480
<v Speaker 1>then when I found out, I was like, really upset

0:35:30.480 --> 0:35:32.719
<v Speaker 1>about it because he lied to you. Because he lied.

0:35:32.880 --> 0:35:34.319
<v Speaker 1>But had he kept it real with me nine times

0:35:34.400 --> 0:35:36.080
<v Speaker 1>up to him back then, I would have wrote. And

0:35:36.160 --> 0:35:37.880
<v Speaker 1>a lot of a lot of guys don't realize that

0:35:37.960 --> 0:35:39.719
<v Speaker 1>sometimes you keep it real with a girl one and

0:35:39.800 --> 0:35:42.399
<v Speaker 1>she's still gonna sunk with you. Yeah, But I feel

0:35:42.440 --> 0:35:44.480
<v Speaker 1>like you can't categorize where you can meet a good

0:35:44.520 --> 0:35:47.000
<v Speaker 1>guy with because good guys and bad guys are everywhere.

0:35:47.520 --> 0:35:49.440
<v Speaker 1>You know you had judged people on because they're at

0:35:49.440 --> 0:35:50.840
<v Speaker 1>the club. It could be you could meet somebody at

0:35:50.880 --> 0:35:52.879
<v Speaker 1>the club that never goes to the club and he's

0:35:52.880 --> 0:35:55.680
<v Speaker 1>only there because it's his homeboy's birthday or or anniversary

0:35:55.880 --> 0:35:58.239
<v Speaker 1>or a special occasion. So you can't say like, oh,

0:35:58.320 --> 0:36:00.200
<v Speaker 1>you can't meet nobody this place at that, but he's

0:36:00.200 --> 0:36:04.960
<v Speaker 1>in the c you can meet the Well, it depends

0:36:04.960 --> 0:36:11.480
<v Speaker 1>on how much money you got. I think I think

0:36:11.960 --> 0:36:14.319
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't date a guy that like I walk into

0:36:14.400 --> 0:36:16.960
<v Speaker 1>the strip club with him and every stripper knows his name,

0:36:17.120 --> 0:36:20.600
<v Speaker 1>and the bartenders like and everybody. Then I'll be like, oh, ship,

0:36:20.760 --> 0:36:24.920
<v Speaker 1>he's always here, he's a regular, and then whatever. Then

0:36:25.000 --> 0:36:28.160
<v Speaker 1>maybe that I wouldn't. I don't know, but the sinners

0:36:28.200 --> 0:36:31.440
<v Speaker 1>are in church. It's not like I was just you

0:36:31.480 --> 0:36:34.600
<v Speaker 1>could probably you think the percentage is higher though, of

0:36:34.640 --> 0:36:36.239
<v Speaker 1>a guy being sucked up if you meet them like

0:36:36.560 --> 0:36:39.879
<v Speaker 1>in the club or it doesn't matter. I don't think

0:36:39.920 --> 0:36:41.680
<v Speaker 1>it matters where you meet a person. The person is

0:36:41.680 --> 0:36:43.279
<v Speaker 1>who they are and how they going to be friends.

0:36:43.320 --> 0:36:45.560
<v Speaker 1>Just recently went on a date with somebody she met

0:36:45.640 --> 0:36:48.400
<v Speaker 1>on an app, like on one of those dating and

0:36:48.520 --> 0:36:50.279
<v Speaker 1>she was really scared about it. But I said, listen,

0:36:50.320 --> 0:36:52.120
<v Speaker 1>you can meet somebody in the club and they could

0:36:52.120 --> 0:36:56.359
<v Speaker 1>be crazy, right, Just so there's no telling what could

0:36:56.360 --> 0:36:59.319
<v Speaker 1>happen regardless of where you meet somebody. That online dating

0:36:59.400 --> 0:37:00.880
<v Speaker 1>thing is really The other day, we were in the

0:37:00.960 --> 0:37:04.080
<v Speaker 1>gym and my boyfriend's friends finished working out. They were

0:37:04.080 --> 0:37:06.000
<v Speaker 1>all talking and he said like nothing to the point

0:37:06.040 --> 0:37:07.920
<v Speaker 1>where I'm like, this is the norm now? How for

0:37:08.120 --> 0:37:09.920
<v Speaker 1>like dating people? He's like, oh, man, I used to

0:37:09.960 --> 0:37:11.759
<v Speaker 1>have sex. Let me go on this app so I

0:37:11.800 --> 0:37:14.400
<v Speaker 1>could get me a girl tonight. So I'm like, what,

0:37:14.640 --> 0:37:19.080
<v Speaker 1>you just have sex with girls? He's like, yeah, like you,

0:37:19.200 --> 0:37:21.200
<v Speaker 1>it's better and it's like no string. That's as you

0:37:21.280 --> 0:37:22.879
<v Speaker 1>meet them. You can see they picture, how they look,

0:37:22.920 --> 0:37:24.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, they know how to cook or not by

0:37:24.440 --> 0:37:26.680
<v Speaker 1>the encryptian, and then you have sex with them and

0:37:26.719 --> 0:37:28.680
<v Speaker 1>then that's it. You picked the next girl tomorrow. I

0:37:28.800 --> 0:37:33.000
<v Speaker 1>was like, that's disgusting. It's like shopping. Yes, sounds like

0:37:33.480 --> 0:37:37.880
<v Speaker 1>it is. I didn't. I didn't know that it was.

0:37:38.200 --> 0:37:40.719
<v Speaker 1>I guess I'm old now or something. We don't do that.

0:37:42.040 --> 0:37:43.560
<v Speaker 1>Definitely year in the club all the time, just like

0:37:43.640 --> 0:37:46.520
<v Speaker 1>me because we obviously host parties. Dada dada da. So

0:37:46.760 --> 0:37:48.520
<v Speaker 1>do you have you ever met a quality guy in

0:37:48.600 --> 0:37:50.839
<v Speaker 1>the club. Well, I always had a rule of thumb

0:37:51.000 --> 0:37:53.440
<v Speaker 1>that I would not date a guy that I met

0:37:53.520 --> 0:37:56.239
<v Speaker 1>in the club, Like I don't want to. I don't.

0:37:56.280 --> 0:37:57.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't like when guys trying to talk to me

0:37:57.920 --> 0:37:59.719
<v Speaker 1>when I'm drunk because I feel like you're trying to

0:37:59.760 --> 0:38:01.960
<v Speaker 1>play me because I'm drunk. You think, yeah, but you're

0:38:02.000 --> 0:38:04.160
<v Speaker 1>in the club. What did They still polite and nice though,

0:38:04.239 --> 0:38:06.040
<v Speaker 1>even though you know, I swear and I've met a

0:38:06.120 --> 0:38:12.160
<v Speaker 1>lot of guys. But finally, finally back in two thousand thirteen,

0:38:13.560 --> 0:38:16.279
<v Speaker 1>and to that, no, because I had a relationship, I

0:38:16.400 --> 0:38:18.480
<v Speaker 1>met this guy in the club. It's the first time

0:38:18.480 --> 0:38:20.480
<v Speaker 1>I ever met a guy in the club that I

0:38:20.800 --> 0:38:24.920
<v Speaker 1>actually slept with and had a thing with. And it

0:38:25.080 --> 0:38:29.480
<v Speaker 1>was a nightmare. So from my experience, I don't know.

0:38:31.880 --> 0:38:36.480
<v Speaker 1>One time it wasn't bad. No, he's I found out

0:38:36.520 --> 0:38:38.879
<v Speaker 1>he had he had a whole other life. He had

0:38:38.960 --> 0:38:43.520
<v Speaker 1>a wife and kids, and it was crazy. It was

0:38:43.600 --> 0:38:46.360
<v Speaker 1>a really it was a man. Yeah, that's probably the

0:38:46.440 --> 0:38:49.040
<v Speaker 1>number one thing they lie about. And I swore that

0:38:49.440 --> 0:38:52.000
<v Speaker 1>he was like my rebound from my son's father. So

0:38:52.120 --> 0:38:53.680
<v Speaker 1>I swore I was in love with him. You know,

0:38:53.920 --> 0:38:56.359
<v Speaker 1>it's hard on the rebound, you know what I mean.

0:38:56.960 --> 0:38:58.520
<v Speaker 1>So I swore I was in love with him and

0:38:58.640 --> 0:39:01.920
<v Speaker 1>he just put me through so much. This is why

0:39:01.960 --> 0:39:03.160
<v Speaker 1>you had to ask glass. When you meet them, you

0:39:03.200 --> 0:39:05.360
<v Speaker 1>have to be like, so, do you have a girlfriend? No,

0:39:05.520 --> 0:39:07.719
<v Speaker 1>do you have a wife? You got you? So what's

0:39:07.800 --> 0:39:09.600
<v Speaker 1>some merson if? Do you have someone that would be

0:39:09.680 --> 0:39:12.479
<v Speaker 1>upset if they saw us sitting here having a conversation? Yeah,

0:39:13.000 --> 0:39:16.239
<v Speaker 1>like you know, you gotta go that all the levels. Great?

0:39:16.680 --> 0:39:18.560
<v Speaker 1>Are you know you have someone you're having sex with?

0:39:18.719 --> 0:39:20.560
<v Speaker 1>What are the questions that you asked somebody when you

0:39:20.640 --> 0:39:23.200
<v Speaker 1>first start on the first date? What are some good questions?

0:39:23.200 --> 0:39:25.920
<v Speaker 1>Where do you live? Like? Who, what do you do?

0:39:26.160 --> 0:39:27.840
<v Speaker 1>Where do you live? Is that rude to ask that

0:39:27.920 --> 0:39:30.920
<v Speaker 1>on the first date? No, okay, I'm just asking the

0:39:31.080 --> 0:39:32.440
<v Speaker 1>damn s. You're gonna want to know where you live

0:39:32.560 --> 0:39:34.239
<v Speaker 1>so you can ask where do you live? Who do

0:39:34.320 --> 0:39:36.600
<v Speaker 1>you live? We're not really like where, like what's your address?

0:39:36.680 --> 0:39:39.200
<v Speaker 1>But like how is your living situation? Like what's your

0:39:39.239 --> 0:39:42.920
<v Speaker 1>living situation? Does your wife sleeping You sleep on the

0:39:43.000 --> 0:39:46.520
<v Speaker 1>couch and she's sleeping around? Do you have a roommate?

0:39:46.600 --> 0:39:48.479
<v Speaker 1>Do you live with your grandma? You know how many

0:39:48.600 --> 0:39:51.960
<v Speaker 1>dudes say that you live with your baby mama your

0:39:52.719 --> 0:39:55.200
<v Speaker 1>couch together? But I'm not with my baby mom, but

0:39:55.280 --> 0:39:57.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to help, but pay the rent, so sleep

0:39:57.280 --> 0:40:01.840
<v Speaker 1>on the couch. What are some other questions you got

0:40:01.960 --> 0:40:05.200
<v Speaker 1>to ask? What's your sign? Yeah, that's probably what I

0:40:05.280 --> 0:40:07.560
<v Speaker 1>asked on the first sign. That's a nice that's a

0:40:07.640 --> 0:40:10.160
<v Speaker 1>nice icebreaker. I don't think I've had a normal first

0:40:10.239 --> 0:40:14.520
<v Speaker 1>day and so long. That's like, by the time we

0:40:14.680 --> 0:40:20.080
<v Speaker 1>got to them, we already know for the little steed

0:40:20.320 --> 0:40:23.120
<v Speaker 1>trampled there a little? How already do that? To swear?

0:40:23.880 --> 0:40:26.399
<v Speaker 1>I swear whoever is gonna be my next boyfriend, I'm

0:40:26.440 --> 0:40:30.520
<v Speaker 1>gonna be really faithful to them. She like, like she

0:40:30.800 --> 0:40:34.000
<v Speaker 1>actually could say without laughing, No, I am, because I

0:40:34.120 --> 0:40:36.840
<v Speaker 1>think I'm I'm warm. Sure, all right? What is I

0:40:36.920 --> 0:40:39.560
<v Speaker 1>believe you? Because I made that bow and I did

0:40:39.600 --> 0:40:42.160
<v Speaker 1>it and you did it. I did alright. Some more questions.

0:40:42.239 --> 0:40:44.239
<v Speaker 1>Is it okay to ask a guy like what he

0:40:44.360 --> 0:40:47.279
<v Speaker 1>does for a living and to get an idea of

0:40:47.400 --> 0:40:51.520
<v Speaker 1>like you think? So not in the what do you work? Well,

0:40:51.560 --> 0:40:52.840
<v Speaker 1>you can say where do you work or what do

0:40:52.920 --> 0:40:56.120
<v Speaker 1>you do? Yeah, that's a typical question. What do you

0:40:56.239 --> 0:40:59.680
<v Speaker 1>do when do you get into Like what's your score? Yeah?

0:40:59.719 --> 0:41:02.400
<v Speaker 1>What's your goals? Do you want a family? Do you

0:41:02.440 --> 0:41:04.759
<v Speaker 1>have kids? I think that's the first day question, like what,

0:41:05.200 --> 0:41:06.839
<v Speaker 1>like what are your goals? What do you want out?

0:41:06.880 --> 0:41:08.919
<v Speaker 1>Like a lot of times relationship don't work. Sometimes maybe

0:41:08.920 --> 0:41:11.160
<v Speaker 1>people don't want really not on the same page. Sometimes

0:41:11.239 --> 0:41:13.759
<v Speaker 1>guys just want to have sex. Girls just want to

0:41:13.800 --> 0:41:17.480
<v Speaker 1>have sex sometimes too, So it's okay to like, but

0:41:17.520 --> 0:41:19.399
<v Speaker 1>would a guy take you on a full date if

0:41:19.440 --> 0:41:23.879
<v Speaker 1>he just wanted to have sex? Yeah? You guys would

0:41:23.880 --> 0:41:28.720
<v Speaker 1>do anything to get the place to come on anything.

0:41:28.920 --> 0:41:31.000
<v Speaker 1>You can get any guys to do anything to get

0:41:33.000 --> 0:41:34.879
<v Speaker 1>And the more you hold out, the more you hold

0:41:34.960 --> 0:41:39.279
<v Speaker 1>out to higher the bid. Okay, the phrase is going

0:41:39.400 --> 0:41:45.400
<v Speaker 1>on estate down yet, Yeah, I gotta agree with that.

0:41:45.480 --> 0:41:47.520
<v Speaker 1>I find you get way more out of guys before

0:41:47.600 --> 0:41:49.879
<v Speaker 1>you give them sex. Way, I mean you still could

0:41:49.920 --> 0:41:54.640
<v Speaker 1>get a lot after two. Yeah, for sure, it's good thing.

0:41:54.680 --> 0:41:56.120
<v Speaker 1>I saw my family. She was going out with this

0:41:56.200 --> 0:41:58.040
<v Speaker 1>guy that she just met on this app. I said,

0:41:58.360 --> 0:42:01.080
<v Speaker 1>don't get drunk. Whatever you do, don't take but advice.

0:42:01.239 --> 0:42:04.040
<v Speaker 1>You have two drinks and that's because she gets up.

0:42:04.080 --> 0:42:06.840
<v Speaker 1>That's that's that's how they are a millionaire matchmaker. Like

0:42:06.920 --> 0:42:08.839
<v Speaker 1>they have rules like you can't have you can only

0:42:08.880 --> 0:42:11.799
<v Speaker 1>have two drinks and you can't do any shots because listen,

0:42:11.880 --> 0:42:15.080
<v Speaker 1>have you ever had an embarrassing first date? Oh my god,

0:42:15.200 --> 0:42:18.480
<v Speaker 1>I have. I went on with this DJ for our

0:42:18.560 --> 0:42:28.880
<v Speaker 1>first date. We had such a good date. He really

0:42:29.000 --> 0:42:32.040
<v Speaker 1>liked me at the time, because we started hating each

0:42:32.080 --> 0:42:35.279
<v Speaker 1>other not long after that. But we went on a

0:42:35.440 --> 0:42:37.680
<v Speaker 1>date and I'll never forget it. It was when you

0:42:37.800 --> 0:42:41.759
<v Speaker 1>remember when American apparel first got really popular. So I

0:42:41.880 --> 0:42:45.240
<v Speaker 1>was wearing like one of those stupid American apparel dresses

0:42:49.960 --> 0:42:52.319
<v Speaker 1>and I had, oh my god, it was so bad.

0:42:52.440 --> 0:42:54.480
<v Speaker 1>We haven't talking for a long time, but I had

0:42:54.520 --> 0:42:57.360
<v Speaker 1>on this dress and we got really drunk. Like we

0:42:57.440 --> 0:42:59.120
<v Speaker 1>went to a nice dinner and then we went to

0:42:59.200 --> 0:43:02.240
<v Speaker 1>a club after words, and I got so watched up drunk.

0:43:02.520 --> 0:43:05.800
<v Speaker 1>He had to like carry me out no underwear on.

0:43:06.600 --> 0:43:10.160
<v Speaker 1>It was a mask. But we ended up being We

0:43:10.320 --> 0:43:13.680
<v Speaker 1>ended up each other first like eight months after that,

0:43:13.840 --> 0:43:16.080
<v Speaker 1>and that was our first day. So I mean, it

0:43:16.280 --> 0:43:19.080
<v Speaker 1>wasn't it was okay with it. He was pretty drunk too,

0:43:19.360 --> 0:43:22.000
<v Speaker 1>was embarrassed. I was, so I woke up the next day.

0:43:22.280 --> 0:43:24.799
<v Speaker 1>I woke because I ended up sleeping with him that night.

0:43:25.040 --> 0:43:27.360
<v Speaker 1>We didn't have sex though, because he didn't want to

0:43:27.640 --> 0:43:31.600
<v Speaker 1>have sex to sleep. Yeah, because he was like, I'm

0:43:31.640 --> 0:43:35.080
<v Speaker 1>too drunk. Yeah he probably couldn't either, because I learned

0:43:35.120 --> 0:43:39.440
<v Speaker 1>that about him. Like on like, um, if he drank

0:43:39.480 --> 0:43:42.440
<v Speaker 1>a lot, it wasn't that good. Yeah you know what

0:43:42.520 --> 0:43:44.640
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it was. I'm not gonna say it was bad.

0:43:44.880 --> 0:43:47.080
<v Speaker 1>It was all right. You know that's the words when

0:43:47.080 --> 0:43:49.160
<v Speaker 1>you have junk sex and you don't remember it. Yeah,

0:43:49.280 --> 0:43:53.040
<v Speaker 1>so we we didn't like when you just don't remember

0:43:53.320 --> 0:43:56.200
<v Speaker 1>and ship start coming back slowly. Yeah, that's how I

0:43:56.280 --> 0:44:00.200
<v Speaker 1>woke up, like, oh my god, did I have This

0:44:00.280 --> 0:44:01.880
<v Speaker 1>is the funniest story. She says she has sex with

0:44:01.920 --> 0:44:04.000
<v Speaker 1>a guy and his dog was in the room and

0:44:04.239 --> 0:44:06.440
<v Speaker 1>she was like that, like say that the dog's name

0:44:06.480 --> 0:44:08.840
<v Speaker 1>was Fighter. She was like Fighter, you see your owners

0:44:08.960 --> 0:44:14.080
<v Speaker 1>fucking me? You see? Really she's dog was there, Like

0:44:14.800 --> 0:44:16.839
<v Speaker 1>my dogs are always in the room when we have sex.

0:44:17.520 --> 0:44:21.080
<v Speaker 1>So how was their reaction? They like go in the

0:44:21.200 --> 0:44:23.600
<v Speaker 1>corner and like lay on their doggy bed like you're

0:44:23.600 --> 0:44:26.480
<v Speaker 1>being attacked, and they just like tax when they just

0:44:26.520 --> 0:44:28.440
<v Speaker 1>sit there and look like what are y'all doing? Like

0:44:28.480 --> 0:44:33.080
<v Speaker 1>they'd be like some fus like I used to put

0:44:33.120 --> 0:44:36.680
<v Speaker 1>tyson in the bathroom, but now like can't go off.

0:44:37.800 --> 0:44:39.360
<v Speaker 1>My room is big enough that he's like off on

0:44:39.400 --> 0:44:40.800
<v Speaker 1>the other side of the room in the corner. And

0:44:40.920 --> 0:44:43.839
<v Speaker 1>like what you think. Anytime we start to get into

0:44:43.880 --> 0:44:45.040
<v Speaker 1>sex and the dogs in the bed, I ain't to

0:44:45.160 --> 0:44:48.239
<v Speaker 1>get off the bed. Yeah, please, the dogs look at

0:44:48.239 --> 0:44:52.640
<v Speaker 1>your ass. I immediately make the dogs get down off

0:44:52.680 --> 0:44:54.560
<v Speaker 1>the bed, and then they'll go about their business like

0:44:54.640 --> 0:44:57.200
<v Speaker 1>off to like different corners or whatever. And there's people

0:44:57.440 --> 0:45:06.200
<v Speaker 1>are having like our kids, like well, you know my kids.

0:45:07.080 --> 0:45:09.319
<v Speaker 1>I know, but it's so weird, like we don't put

0:45:09.360 --> 0:45:11.480
<v Speaker 1>them out like I would put them out. I gotta

0:45:11.520 --> 0:45:15.120
<v Speaker 1>go happy pats. Cats while you're fucking they jump on

0:45:15.239 --> 0:45:20.480
<v Speaker 1>you with set much more than dogs. You guys, got

0:45:20.520 --> 0:45:23.000
<v Speaker 1>them out the room the moment they jump on you,

0:45:23.320 --> 0:45:26.200
<v Speaker 1>like the go and put a pole hand. It's bad.

0:45:26.600 --> 0:45:31.000
<v Speaker 1>It's really little pause feel crazy, A little scrassy tongue

0:45:32.280 --> 0:45:35.000
<v Speaker 1>happening to your tongue. You know. That's one time. One

0:45:35.040 --> 0:45:37.200
<v Speaker 1>time my son's father, you and I we're having sex.

0:45:37.239 --> 0:45:40.240
<v Speaker 1>We had a cat named Edwin off what was his name, Edwin?

0:45:40.360 --> 0:45:43.120
<v Speaker 1>The cats name was Edwin. It's like a real person.

0:45:43.640 --> 0:45:47.200
<v Speaker 1>So and so we're having sex and Edwin just jumped

0:45:47.400 --> 0:45:53.640
<v Speaker 1>and jumped in attacked his balls, and yeah, it was bad.

0:45:54.719 --> 0:45:58.160
<v Speaker 1>He was so bad like that, r the sacks everything.

0:45:58.239 --> 0:46:04.960
<v Speaker 1>It was bad. Ball they're fragile like eggs. You gotta

0:46:05.040 --> 0:46:08.839
<v Speaker 1>be careful. No, he was so upset about that. Cats

0:46:08.880 --> 0:46:11.239
<v Speaker 1>are vicious man. You know, cats will attack you like

0:46:11.360 --> 0:46:17.800
<v Speaker 1>out of nowhere next to you are cool, man, you

0:46:17.960 --> 0:46:20.160
<v Speaker 1>have cats or dogs or anything that poops that I

0:46:20.200 --> 0:46:23.759
<v Speaker 1>did even push out because that's a lot of Yeah,

0:46:24.120 --> 0:46:25.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, it's just a lot of work. Like you

0:46:25.640 --> 0:46:27.759
<v Speaker 1>gotta walk them and then you gotta feed them. Then

0:46:27.760 --> 0:46:29.480
<v Speaker 1>when you go somewhere, somebody it's like having to somebody

0:46:29.520 --> 0:46:32.520
<v Speaker 1>gotta take care of them. Yes, the medical bills. Then

0:46:32.640 --> 0:46:37.759
<v Speaker 1>they broke your furniture andla blah. Now Atlicia Keys recently

0:46:37.800 --> 0:46:39.839
<v Speaker 1>posted a picture and you know she doesn't wear she's

0:46:39.920 --> 0:46:43.279
<v Speaker 1>ditched wearing makeup. She looks good. But how do y'all

0:46:43.280 --> 0:46:46.359
<v Speaker 1>feel about not wearing makeup? I don't wear as much

0:46:46.400 --> 0:46:50.279
<v Speaker 1>makeup as I used to, but I'm definitely not giving

0:46:50.400 --> 0:46:54.000
<v Speaker 1>up my makeup right, Like sorry, but what is there

0:46:54.000 --> 0:46:55.800
<v Speaker 1>anywhere you go with no makeup on? Or will you

0:46:55.840 --> 0:46:58.359
<v Speaker 1>not even like go to the supermarket. Yeah, of course

0:46:58.800 --> 0:47:01.520
<v Speaker 1>a lot of ways with no makeup. I go everywhere

0:47:01.600 --> 0:47:04.360
<v Speaker 1>were no makeup on. But I'm still not giving up makeup.

0:47:04.840 --> 0:47:07.360
<v Speaker 1>She's not giving up makeup either. She's gonna wear makeup

0:47:07.719 --> 0:47:10.759
<v Speaker 1>because I feel like sometimes, especially when if you're going

0:47:10.800 --> 0:47:12.520
<v Speaker 1>to the supermarket, I know I'm running to people, and

0:47:12.600 --> 0:47:14.800
<v Speaker 1>he's like, the only time I don't wear makeup is

0:47:14.840 --> 0:47:16.400
<v Speaker 1>like when I go work out or if I'm just

0:47:16.560 --> 0:47:18.319
<v Speaker 1>like on my way to somewhere where I know they're

0:47:18.320 --> 0:47:22.040
<v Speaker 1>gonna have makeup, but I'm not really gonna do stuff.

0:47:22.719 --> 0:47:24.719
<v Speaker 1>I didn't wear makeup the other day, like coming back

0:47:24.800 --> 0:47:27.320
<v Speaker 1>from Dominican Republic on the plane, I was like, I

0:47:27.360 --> 0:47:29.839
<v Speaker 1>don't feel like I have a big glasses on though, well, yeah,

0:47:29.840 --> 0:47:32.440
<v Speaker 1>I have last extensions. I love them. They help a

0:47:32.520 --> 0:47:34.400
<v Speaker 1>lot because you don't have to do anything like the

0:47:34.560 --> 0:47:36.640
<v Speaker 1>last three months. They don't move, and it's just it

0:47:36.719 --> 0:47:38.439
<v Speaker 1>looks like you have on makeup even if you don't.

0:47:39.200 --> 0:47:42.399
<v Speaker 1>But you now, why did she give it up? Though?

0:47:42.480 --> 0:47:47.400
<v Speaker 1>Like I don't know about what she said, something about

0:47:47.719 --> 0:47:50.520
<v Speaker 1>um covering up her natural beauty. I didn't know she

0:47:50.560 --> 0:47:53.520
<v Speaker 1>had freckles, which, by the way, I love freckles. A

0:47:53.600 --> 0:47:56.120
<v Speaker 1>lot of artists struggle. I know some friends that are

0:47:56.200 --> 0:47:58.680
<v Speaker 1>artists at full face of freckles that people don't even

0:47:58.760 --> 0:48:00.920
<v Speaker 1>know because you know, they're always in full face makeup,

0:48:01.320 --> 0:48:03.120
<v Speaker 1>and that's like a thing because makeup art is just

0:48:03.360 --> 0:48:07.040
<v Speaker 1>cover your freckles. Yeah, alright, So here's what she said.

0:48:07.160 --> 0:48:11.480
<v Speaker 1>She said she's been photographed lately in her skin, she said,

0:48:11.480 --> 0:48:13.120
<v Speaker 1>before I said a minute album, I wrote a list

0:48:13.200 --> 0:48:14.839
<v Speaker 1>of all the things I was sick of, and mom

0:48:14.920 --> 0:48:16.880
<v Speaker 1>was how much women are brainwashed into feeling like we

0:48:16.960 --> 0:48:19.360
<v Speaker 1>have to be skinny or sexy or desirable or perfect.

0:48:19.840 --> 0:48:21.279
<v Speaker 1>One of the many things I was said of was

0:48:21.360 --> 0:48:25.239
<v Speaker 1>a constant judgment of women. So I guess she felt

0:48:25.280 --> 0:48:28.080
<v Speaker 1>like she doesn't want to have to wear makeup and forever,

0:48:28.400 --> 0:48:32.520
<v Speaker 1>like for this season or for the summer, don't. But

0:48:32.680 --> 0:48:35.680
<v Speaker 1>maybe it's a face. She's an artist, a really big artist,

0:48:35.880 --> 0:48:40.279
<v Speaker 1>you know. Yeah, she's gonna put makeup on, you know,

0:48:40.400 --> 0:48:42.800
<v Speaker 1>it's I don't think she ditched it forever, but I

0:48:43.120 --> 0:48:46.600
<v Speaker 1>guess she's on she's feeling like maybe I don't need it,

0:48:46.760 --> 0:48:49.239
<v Speaker 1>and I'm gonna go out more without it, Like I'm

0:48:49.239 --> 0:48:51.880
<v Speaker 1>gonna get photographed more without it than with it. Probably

0:48:52.080 --> 0:48:54.360
<v Speaker 1>and she's probably getting hell of facials and all this

0:48:54.840 --> 0:48:56.719
<v Speaker 1>rich people. Yeah right, because you can look right. God,

0:48:57.640 --> 0:48:59.880
<v Speaker 1>what was that that she was getting the blood for

0:49:00.120 --> 0:49:04.880
<v Speaker 1>shoals and everyone. I think that, um, you know, putting

0:49:04.960 --> 0:49:08.000
<v Speaker 1>makeup on it, it's good. You know what about girls

0:49:08.040 --> 0:49:11.600
<v Speaker 1>who have a scar on their face or really dark circles,

0:49:11.640 --> 0:49:13.960
<v Speaker 1>that's something you get from genetics. You know what. I

0:49:14.080 --> 0:49:17.360
<v Speaker 1>hate when people are FaceTime me and I'm like, look terrible.

0:49:17.840 --> 0:49:21.400
<v Speaker 1>I put the thob over the camera, like what you

0:49:21.440 --> 0:49:24.240
<v Speaker 1>got a scar from your head, no makeup, looking awful,

0:49:24.320 --> 0:49:26.000
<v Speaker 1>and then somebody want to face time you, and then

0:49:26.320 --> 0:49:27.880
<v Speaker 1>you gotta get the angle right because you know, you

0:49:27.960 --> 0:49:32.879
<v Speaker 1>gotta be on FaceTime like this. I feel like I went.

0:49:32.960 --> 0:49:35.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't wear makeup all the time. I never wear

0:49:35.320 --> 0:49:38.279
<v Speaker 1>makeup unless I'm working or I'm going out or something

0:49:38.360 --> 0:49:41.319
<v Speaker 1>like that. I never wear makeup. But I don't think

0:49:41.400 --> 0:49:44.080
<v Speaker 1>that girls should. I think it's nice to not wear makeup.

0:49:44.120 --> 0:49:45.960
<v Speaker 1>But I don't think girls should feel bad because they

0:49:46.040 --> 0:49:48.440
<v Speaker 1>want to be glam you know what I mean. I

0:49:48.560 --> 0:49:51.319
<v Speaker 1>think the best thing is somebody with a beautiful face

0:49:51.400 --> 0:49:53.920
<v Speaker 1>that doesn't have makeup or like light makeup. To me,

0:49:54.040 --> 0:49:55.560
<v Speaker 1>that's what I'm into now that I'm going to be

0:49:55.680 --> 0:49:58.440
<v Speaker 1>thirty soon, I'm like less makeup because I feel like

0:49:58.440 --> 0:50:00.520
<v Speaker 1>when I wear more, I look older now. So I

0:50:00.600 --> 0:50:02.560
<v Speaker 1>want to wear like a little bit or like what

0:50:02.719 --> 0:50:04.760
<v Speaker 1>kind of make up? A glow and a little nude

0:50:05.000 --> 0:50:07.120
<v Speaker 1>like that. Here's what she said. Every time I left

0:50:07.120 --> 0:50:08.560
<v Speaker 1>the house, I would be worried if I didn't put

0:50:08.560 --> 0:50:10.960
<v Speaker 1>on makeup. What if someone wanted a picture? She said

0:50:11.000 --> 0:50:13.600
<v Speaker 1>that behavior was not healthy, and when she showed up

0:50:13.640 --> 0:50:15.520
<v Speaker 1>for a photo shoot fresh from the gym with her

0:50:15.560 --> 0:50:18.960
<v Speaker 1>face squab bear and the photo photographer insisted on stepping

0:50:18.960 --> 0:50:20.360
<v Speaker 1>here on the spatch, she said, I swear it is

0:50:20.400 --> 0:50:23.960
<v Speaker 1>the strongest, most empowered, most free, and most honestly beautiful

0:50:24.040 --> 0:50:28.440
<v Speaker 1>that I've ever felt. So there you go go, Alicia.

0:50:29.800 --> 0:50:31.640
<v Speaker 1>Is it weird for you, like when you're dating somebody

0:50:31.680 --> 0:50:33.759
<v Speaker 1>for the first time they see you like not done up.

0:50:33.800 --> 0:50:36.319
<v Speaker 1>Do you ever think about that? Nope, I don't ever

0:50:36.480 --> 0:50:38.399
<v Speaker 1>really think about that. I don't think about it either.

0:50:38.520 --> 0:50:40.719
<v Speaker 1>I think guys first see me would not make up on,

0:50:40.880 --> 0:50:42.480
<v Speaker 1>and then they see me done up, and it's like, oh,

0:50:43.160 --> 0:50:45.720
<v Speaker 1>it's different because guys act like they don't like makeup,

0:50:45.760 --> 0:50:49.360
<v Speaker 1>but then they do they guys been like, babe, you

0:50:49.440 --> 0:50:51.200
<v Speaker 1>look good. It don't matter if you gain way, but

0:50:52.239 --> 0:50:57.080
<v Speaker 1>walk by and you'd be like, but you just told me. Guys,

0:50:57.200 --> 0:50:59.680
<v Speaker 1>I only say out their mouth that they don't like

0:51:00.040 --> 0:51:04.239
<v Speaker 1>us in surgery. Guys. Men love plastic surgery. It's they're

0:51:04.320 --> 0:51:07.560
<v Speaker 1>the reason that it's been happening all these years since

0:51:07.600 --> 0:51:11.000
<v Speaker 1>the eighties. They don't care. How yeah, I just don't

0:51:11.480 --> 0:51:14.040
<v Speaker 1>if you don't tell them, and they just think in

0:51:14.080 --> 0:51:18.320
<v Speaker 1>their head like she didn't tell me, So it's natural memoria.

0:51:18.400 --> 0:51:20.719
<v Speaker 1>We can just passed, right. Is it weird if you're

0:51:20.800 --> 0:51:22.960
<v Speaker 1>dating somebody and they go out of town like with

0:51:23.080 --> 0:51:25.480
<v Speaker 1>their boys for Memorial Weekend? Do you feel Do you

0:51:25.480 --> 0:51:32.239
<v Speaker 1>ever feel weird about guys trips? You always in the

0:51:32.280 --> 0:51:34.720
<v Speaker 1>back of your head some ship mike right down because

0:51:35.480 --> 0:51:40.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't like it. Yeah, I don't like it. I

0:51:40.120 --> 0:51:42.960
<v Speaker 1>mean I'm cool, like i'm you know, I'm dating, I'm single,

0:51:43.280 --> 0:51:46.799
<v Speaker 1>and of course you know there there was a lot

0:51:46.840 --> 0:51:50.080
<v Speaker 1>of people traveling this weekend. And I will never mention anything.

0:51:50.120 --> 0:51:52.920
<v Speaker 1>I will not complain, but it's just like to see it.

0:51:53.040 --> 0:51:57.360
<v Speaker 1>It's just like right, yes, and it's like I'll have

0:51:57.560 --> 0:52:01.719
<v Speaker 1>fun groups like he has a lot of friends that

0:52:01.800 --> 0:52:04.200
<v Speaker 1>will travel with us, and everybody will bring a girlfriend,

0:52:04.239 --> 0:52:05.919
<v Speaker 1>and then the single girls to come and the single

0:52:05.960 --> 0:52:08.680
<v Speaker 1>guys come. Like this past weekend, we we ended up

0:52:08.719 --> 0:52:11.000
<v Speaker 1>being like twenty two deep between like you know what,

0:52:13.120 --> 0:52:15.200
<v Speaker 1>and that's a great time. Let's say I know you

0:52:15.320 --> 0:52:17.359
<v Speaker 1>and your boyfriend, but now we're in groups but you're

0:52:17.440 --> 0:52:21.520
<v Speaker 1>not there. Now that's like, oh, that's the worst feeling,

0:52:22.040 --> 0:52:23.960
<v Speaker 1>Like what are you doing? I'm not here when it's

0:52:24.000 --> 0:52:27.719
<v Speaker 1>your three day weekend and your friends man entertaining your friend.

0:52:27.880 --> 0:52:31.040
<v Speaker 1>You have to mind your absolutely, I'll tell because what

0:52:31.120 --> 0:52:33.520
<v Speaker 1>if what if you're only friends with her because of

0:52:33.680 --> 0:52:37.480
<v Speaker 1>the like it's your boyfriends, you know, friends girlfriend, and

0:52:37.520 --> 0:52:41.520
<v Speaker 1>you'll become cool, you know what's funny like due to

0:52:41.600 --> 0:52:44.239
<v Speaker 1>others what you have them do to you. Right, But

0:52:44.360 --> 0:52:46.399
<v Speaker 1>then in the same note, you always have this friend,

0:52:46.520 --> 0:52:48.680
<v Speaker 1>right who no matter how many times you told her,

0:52:48.840 --> 0:52:51.960
<v Speaker 1>they're still so sometimes that girl, you're just gonna be like,

0:52:52.080 --> 0:52:54.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm not the same in the argument because this is

0:52:54.400 --> 0:52:56.800
<v Speaker 1>episode twenty nine point six. You know what it is,

0:52:57.400 --> 0:52:59.000
<v Speaker 1>They're gonna get back together and I'm gonna be the

0:52:59.080 --> 0:53:00.759
<v Speaker 1>bad guy. And then so let me just mind my

0:53:00.800 --> 0:53:02.839
<v Speaker 1>business because next time, I'm not coming in because that's

0:53:02.840 --> 0:53:04.680
<v Speaker 1>where it gets a little tricky because then now your

0:53:04.680 --> 0:53:07.719
<v Speaker 1>boyfriend can't bring you around his friends because you don't

0:53:07.760 --> 0:53:10.480
<v Speaker 1>want you to tell what they're doing. Yeah, I feel

0:53:10.520 --> 0:53:12.719
<v Speaker 1>like the guy has to be respectful because he needs

0:53:12.760 --> 0:53:15.680
<v Speaker 1>to respect my friendship. And if alright, do what you're

0:53:15.920 --> 0:53:18.600
<v Speaker 1>creepy guys do, but tell the girl to play her

0:53:18.640 --> 0:53:21.160
<v Speaker 1>position and don't let me notice or me see, just

0:53:21.280 --> 0:53:22.880
<v Speaker 1>like you wouldn't want her to because that puts you

0:53:22.920 --> 0:53:25.279
<v Speaker 1>in away position. Now, now I gotta be I was

0:53:25.360 --> 0:53:27.200
<v Speaker 1>there with your little side chick. Now I gotta be

0:53:27.320 --> 0:53:30.160
<v Speaker 1>around your wife. Yes, where Angela? Imagine that Valerie, you

0:53:30.320 --> 0:53:33.640
<v Speaker 1>was there and you didn't tell me, like like, then

0:53:33.719 --> 0:53:35.879
<v Speaker 1>there goes our friendships and then you'll be like, well

0:53:36.000 --> 0:53:38.040
<v Speaker 1>it's you know what am I gonna do? And then

0:53:38.080 --> 0:53:40.600
<v Speaker 1>I feel like, Okay, that's not really my friend, right

0:53:41.960 --> 0:53:44.000
<v Speaker 1>or you could I was drunk, girl, I don't even know,

0:53:47.440 --> 0:53:50.040
<v Speaker 1>but that is a horrible situation. I feel like that's

0:53:50.080 --> 0:53:52.680
<v Speaker 1>how the guy should handle it, like pretend like um

0:53:52.719 --> 0:53:55.080
<v Speaker 1>would be just like if it was her and tied

0:53:55.120 --> 0:53:57.160
<v Speaker 1>it for me to would you tell your boyfriend first,

0:53:57.200 --> 0:54:00.120
<v Speaker 1>like I gotta tell her. I would tell him, you

0:54:00.200 --> 0:54:02.319
<v Speaker 1>think I'm not gonna tell right now, I would tell

0:54:02.400 --> 0:54:04.520
<v Speaker 1>him you better let him know. I wouldn't even I'd

0:54:04.520 --> 0:54:06.600
<v Speaker 1>be like, you better call her from now and let

0:54:06.680 --> 0:54:09.279
<v Speaker 1>her know, because I'm telling my version of the few. Now,

0:54:09.360 --> 0:54:11.160
<v Speaker 1>what if you become friends with this girl and yeah,

0:54:11.280 --> 0:54:18.080
<v Speaker 1>with her and she cheats and her boyfriend. It depends, right,

0:54:18.760 --> 0:54:21.239
<v Speaker 1>because you gotta go home and tell your man. Are

0:54:21.280 --> 0:54:23.920
<v Speaker 1>there things that you don't tell your man? Or do

0:54:23.960 --> 0:54:26.120
<v Speaker 1>you feel like you tell him everything, like things that happened,

0:54:26.160 --> 0:54:28.120
<v Speaker 1>Like if your friend tells you something and she's like,

0:54:28.200 --> 0:54:32.440
<v Speaker 1>don't tell anybody? Do we tell our man anyway? It

0:54:32.560 --> 0:54:35.040
<v Speaker 1>kind of depends on what it is. Sometimes for me,

0:54:35.120 --> 0:54:37.560
<v Speaker 1>it depends on what it is because it used to

0:54:37.560 --> 0:54:39.600
<v Speaker 1>be able to tell you a man anything. Yeah, and

0:54:39.640 --> 0:54:42.319
<v Speaker 1>when you're in a relationship that you vent to your man,

0:54:42.480 --> 0:54:44.800
<v Speaker 1>like when your home girls getting on your nerves, you

0:54:45.080 --> 0:54:47.120
<v Speaker 1>vun to him, you know what I mean? So, but

0:54:47.200 --> 0:54:49.360
<v Speaker 1>what if she's the old girl he gave me her piece,

0:54:49.760 --> 0:54:51.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to tell my boyfriend. I might tell my

0:54:51.600 --> 0:55:04.920
<v Speaker 1>boyfriend that if your cups and house. But that's one

0:55:05.000 --> 0:55:07.640
<v Speaker 1>thing that happened to me one time when I did

0:55:07.840 --> 0:55:10.080
<v Speaker 1>this guy, and I said, tell him everything. This is

0:55:10.080 --> 0:55:13.120
<v Speaker 1>why I don't do that anymore. And after we broke up,

0:55:13.400 --> 0:55:15.160
<v Speaker 1>he called my job. I was some stuff at like

0:55:15.320 --> 0:55:16.680
<v Speaker 1>what happened at work? Like, oh, let me tell you

0:55:16.719 --> 0:55:19.120
<v Speaker 1>what happened at work today. He called my job and

0:55:19.200 --> 0:55:21.960
<v Speaker 1>tried to get me fired and was telling people like

0:55:22.040 --> 0:55:24.480
<v Speaker 1>what I and this this bitch at work was on

0:55:24.520 --> 0:55:26.160
<v Speaker 1>the phone him for like an hour listening I didn't

0:55:26.160 --> 0:55:28.239
<v Speaker 1>even know and was like really talking. I was like,

0:55:28.280 --> 0:55:30.960
<v Speaker 1>so you're gonna just entertain this crazy, like you know

0:55:31.000 --> 0:55:32.520
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, because all it takes is for you

0:55:32.600 --> 0:55:34.320
<v Speaker 1>to say some things that are too and some things aren't,

0:55:34.320 --> 0:55:37.600
<v Speaker 1>and they're gonna believe every So after that, I was

0:55:37.640 --> 0:55:39.520
<v Speaker 1>just like, all right, this is crazy. But after that

0:55:39.640 --> 0:55:42.680
<v Speaker 1>I realized that certain things you don't tell a lot

0:55:42.800 --> 0:55:44.759
<v Speaker 1>of things you don't some things like you might want

0:55:44.760 --> 0:55:46.960
<v Speaker 1>to come fide, Like, man, what should I do? You

0:55:47.040 --> 0:55:48.680
<v Speaker 1>know my friend this and this happened. I don't know

0:55:48.680 --> 0:55:50.840
<v Speaker 1>if I should tell her? What do you think certain

0:55:50.920 --> 0:55:52.920
<v Speaker 1>things you will confide to him, but other things that

0:55:53.000 --> 0:55:55.560
<v Speaker 1>are like really personal that if it ever came back

0:55:55.640 --> 0:55:58.920
<v Speaker 1>that you told you would be horrified. You shouldn't tell, right,

0:55:59.600 --> 0:56:01.919
<v Speaker 1>because that's right. You never know in a relationship. I'm

0:56:01.920 --> 0:56:04.040
<v Speaker 1>sure we've all dated somebody that later on we become

0:56:04.080 --> 0:56:06.520
<v Speaker 1>the worst enemies. You never think it's gonna get there.

0:56:06.760 --> 0:56:09.200
<v Speaker 1>You never think that's gonna happen, and it does. Even

0:56:09.280 --> 0:56:12.760
<v Speaker 1>You should treat everything like especially if you're not married,

0:56:12.920 --> 0:56:15.840
<v Speaker 1>if you're dating, even if with time, because that's the

0:56:15.920 --> 0:56:18.200
<v Speaker 1>worst part of a relationship, the information they leave with

0:56:18.719 --> 0:56:21.160
<v Speaker 1>because they know about you. You know, your deepest turk

0:56:21.320 --> 0:56:23.520
<v Speaker 1>is whatever makes you. I know some sh about you too,

0:56:26.040 --> 0:56:29.840
<v Speaker 1>and I got my evidence right playing he liked his

0:56:29.960 --> 0:56:32.960
<v Speaker 1>bigger heads. But you shut the funk up after that.

0:56:34.640 --> 0:56:37.000
<v Speaker 1>You know about all our three women too. I don't

0:56:37.000 --> 0:56:40.520
<v Speaker 1>care about confidentiality agreement that I signed. I will let

0:56:40.600 --> 0:56:42.759
<v Speaker 1>everybody know, so shut the funk up. Don't talk about

0:56:42.800 --> 0:56:51.000
<v Speaker 1>my child, yes, yes, all right, Well listen, Valerie. I

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate you coming through for us. It's a lip service.

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<v Speaker 1>And of course you know we do this every week

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<v Speaker 1>every Thursday. We've been on point. Okay stuff anybody saying, oh, y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>we put it out every single every single I know

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<v Speaker 1>he was a little shaky at first figuring it out.

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<v Speaker 1>We gotta go over a year and we're good. And

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<v Speaker 1>I promised you there's some really big things about to happen. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And we appreciate you all for listening, and we thank

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<v Speaker 1>you very I appreciate you coming through. And really it's fun.

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<v Speaker 1>I like my little bound bound and Stephanie, who we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be interviewing you on here. I just love the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that things have come a long way from when

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<v Speaker 1>we first started this show. Like when we first started

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<v Speaker 1>let's just talk about this was newly single and Stephanie

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<v Speaker 1>was in a relationship holding her jail boo down. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, now and now you're in I'm back with him.

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<v Speaker 1>This is all like a submission at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>let's let's let's ever we should put her on dates selected,

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't know if I want to hurt nobody's

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<v Speaker 1>feelings like that. This sious. No, I'm not girl Sagittarius.

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<v Speaker 1>But guys that with Stephanie love her like they'll be like, man,

0:58:09.160 --> 0:58:13.919
<v Speaker 1>she is friend? Right? No? I mean was she when

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<v Speaker 1>you could guys fall in love with me and then

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<v Speaker 1>it's like I don't like we break up? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>so they always love me and we always loved them,

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<v Speaker 1>but we just can't. We don't realize how sensitive these

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<v Speaker 1>men really are. They are guys said to act like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to be in a relationship, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just gonna hit it, and no, you know, I find that.

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<v Speaker 1>I find out when I laid that on the table.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm enjoying my single life. I like dating

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm happy. I feel like guys try so much

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<v Speaker 1>harder to actually be in my house and and be

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<v Speaker 1>in a relation on this, I want to Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's like when a girl that's I'm not into guys

0:58:51.840 --> 0:58:54.240
<v Speaker 1>tells a guy like, oh, I'm lesbian, and they'd be like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>let me be the one to take you back to

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<v Speaker 1>that like a spark challenge. Do you think are you

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<v Speaker 1>the kind of girl that because obviously you hold your

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<v Speaker 1>own Sometimes when I was saying this to one of

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<v Speaker 1>my friends as single, and she's like, I don't get what.

0:59:09.640 --> 0:59:11.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm so single. I have my own house, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like this and I'm educated, and I'm like, that's exactly why.

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<v Speaker 1>Because she'll meet a guy first date and she screams like,

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<v Speaker 1>think independent. It's independent. I don't need to I'll pay

0:59:22.720 --> 0:59:28.840
<v Speaker 1>the bill, and guys like they want to feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you need them. Ye, so do you think that happens

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<v Speaker 1>to you sometimes that do? I just feel like, damn,

0:59:35.840 --> 0:59:39.280
<v Speaker 1>she don't even need me. I think, guys, Um, when

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<v Speaker 1>I start to curve them because of that, they let

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<v Speaker 1>go faster. The better I do, the easier it just

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<v Speaker 1>out to be like it. I know she got more mad, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I know she. I know she's dating all over the place.

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<v Speaker 1>I know she could take care of herself, like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even need to see. But the truth of the

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<v Speaker 1>man is, you could have a boyfriend if you wanted to.

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<v Speaker 1>You just she was not to know. Of course, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just times no time, and I have to say, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I really enjoy the guys that I say I love you,

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<v Speaker 1>I love you, know, but um, this time, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to settle, you know what I mean? This time,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to just be in a relationship because

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<v Speaker 1>I want to be And I think it takes a

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<v Speaker 1>much stronger person and much stronger women to say I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna be with somebody just for the take of

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<v Speaker 1>being with somebody. I want to maybe somebody that I

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<v Speaker 1>could see myself with, like exactly, that's the point I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to call you my man unless I feel like that,

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<v Speaker 1>right And that's why I say this. Next time, I

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<v Speaker 1>know I'm gonna be able to be faithful because when

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<v Speaker 1>I decided to be in a relationship, it's going to

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<v Speaker 1>be something that I want. You know, at the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now, I don't if I find the guy, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not just gonna be with anybody just because I

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<v Speaker 1>want to be in a relationship. That's the room for

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<v Speaker 1>Stephanie Dix. Be big, that's your sex, have perfect timing.

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<v Speaker 1>May all your men spoil you and treat you like

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<v Speaker 1>the queen that you are. Jesus name man. And he

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<v Speaker 1>eat like a king, okay, eating like he's hungry. And

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<v Speaker 1>on that note, that was live service.