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Speaker 1: West Up. Yeah, it'slip service at Angela. Ye. I'm Sephany Santiago,

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Speaker 1: I'm G. G. Maguire and we have a very special

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Speaker 1: guest house. Hi guys, it's Valerie Laura. How you there

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Speaker 1: that shy now when you was talking all that ship

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Speaker 1: before a minute ago? Let me take another sip so startling?

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Speaker 1: All right? Well, you know it's finally warm in New

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Speaker 1: York City. You are getting ready for the summer. So

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Speaker 1: our first tip of the day is what are the

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Speaker 1: things that you do to get ready for summer? Because

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Speaker 1: clearly we've been you know, slacking, having a good time,

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Speaker 1: and which is Memorial weekend? Who's eating crazy? So what

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Speaker 1: are some things that you guys do? What are some

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Speaker 1: tips to get ready for the summer. How many people

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Speaker 1: are ready for the summer. I'm I'm ready. I just

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Speaker 1: need a tan something I've been there? Would I do

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Speaker 1: I find myself, you know, buying a lot of swimsuits

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Speaker 1: right before I find myself buying so many. I just

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Speaker 1: spent like seven and I have so many already at

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Speaker 1: I'm like many babies? Is do I need bab Just

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Speaker 1: like shoes, you can't never have too many. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: it's a lot of cute one piece basises now. Never

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Speaker 1: used to want a weird one, but there's so many

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Speaker 1: cute ones now, mom. And I just made myself a

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Speaker 1: really cute one piece basis. I saw you over there

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Speaker 1: making babies. Yeah, I'm anything highwaisted and one piece. I

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Speaker 1: love it. No, they're super cute though, Like you don't

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Speaker 1: even have to be all like you know, showing every

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Speaker 1: now that babies is cut out. There's even a new style.

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Speaker 1: It's it's a thong, but it's like a high waisted

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Speaker 1: and it's it's like in a really sexy place right here.

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Speaker 1: It looks nice. I just I just bought one, and

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Speaker 1: I mean I don't I don't like to cover that much.

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Speaker 1: I like to show more. I like, I think the

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Speaker 1: smaller my basing student is, the nicer it looks. Listen,

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Speaker 1: I'd be cuming up, especially I was in Kanda. You

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. You don't want to be on

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Speaker 1: nobody's like instage. That's true, because but I got some

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Speaker 1: really dope. That's another thing I find myself lying cover

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Speaker 1: so what are some other things we're doing to get

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Speaker 1: ready for the semi ladies? Bad? What you're doing? I mean,

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Speaker 1: I always Summer sixteen came too fast, but I like

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Speaker 1: to always. I like colonics. I get I've never had

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Speaker 1: a colonic. I've never had one either, And I had

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Speaker 1: It's brave, like on a regular basis and whatever that.

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Speaker 1: However regularly you're supposed to do it. She would do

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Speaker 1: like your first time, there's like levels to it, sessions

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Speaker 1: like that, Yeah, you're supposed to do one that kind

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Speaker 1: of hydrates your colon. Then the second one kind of

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Speaker 1: gets to stuff really good, and then the third one

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Speaker 1: I did it one time? You did, and I wasn't.

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Speaker 1: I did it one time because when I got my

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Speaker 1: I was consipated for a month. I could not have

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Speaker 1: But you're supposed to like the first one kind of

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Speaker 1: these fiber mixed things you can mix in your drink

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Speaker 1: cramps or like child labor cramps. Yeah, but if you're

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Speaker 1: so I was just stressed the funk out I was.

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Speaker 1: I was drinking a lot of water. I was trying everything,

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Speaker 1: googling everything, I did everything. I was just taking laxatives.

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Speaker 1: Calonics aren't good for you, and you shouldn't do them.

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Speaker 1: if they rubture something, you will be I mean, is

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Speaker 1: And I was like, is there we do a lot

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Speaker 1: You want doing? I'm asking some people like and then

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Speaker 1: like what a gushing up in you? Oh no, this

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Speaker 1: doesn't feel too sa I'm not gonna lie. I remember

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Speaker 1: it's it's I mean, it's kind of like four play.

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Speaker 1: I mean, while I'm gonna you know, so I remember,

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Speaker 1: Like I'm just I'm just why I think. But it's like,

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Speaker 1: I'm ready to be out. And has anybody ever broken

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Speaker 1: a date they know you have you're in a relationship. No,

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00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:34,440
Speaker 1: that's not okay. I think it's okay. I do it.

424
00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:40,400
Speaker 1: I mean they're just friends, though it gets true they're

425
00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:42,680
Speaker 1: new friends if they're new. And it depends on what

426
00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:45,119
Speaker 1: kind of drink you're talking about, like a social drink

427
00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:47,520
Speaker 1: where there's a lot of other people there, or just

428
00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:50,159
Speaker 1: a one on one you're like, oh, where are you

429
00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:52,240
Speaker 1: at where I'm in your area? Come out, let's have

430
00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:54,320
Speaker 1: a drink before I got to go do something else.

431
00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:56,240
Speaker 1: Like what do you like that? I mean, I think

432
00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:58,200
Speaker 1: it would be okay for me because of what I

433
00:22:58,280 --> 00:22:59,960
Speaker 1: do for a living. But I don't think it would

434
00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:03,359
Speaker 1: be okay for I think it's okay if he's a

435
00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:07,080
Speaker 1: j I don't think it's okay. I think to me,

436
00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:11,840
Speaker 1: like I think, like I just feel like there's something

437
00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:14,120
Speaker 1: wrong with us, because why is it that if it's

438
00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:17,240
Speaker 1: a guy and a girl automatically if you can go

439
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 1: out with your home girl have to work and have

440
00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:21,000
Speaker 1: a drink. Like I have a lot of guy friends

441
00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:24,480
Speaker 1: that I've never had any sex with, but maybe you

442
00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:27,919
Speaker 1: think they would. I mean, I'm sure like guys are

443
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:30,840
Speaker 1: in that case, you know, I know, but if I

444
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:33,359
Speaker 1: if I have oh and oh, like if I'm good,

445
00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:36,080
Speaker 1: so then it should it should be all right, right like,

446
00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:39,159
Speaker 1: because I would think like wants my boyfriend probably wouldn't

447
00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:40,920
Speaker 1: want me to go out with somebody that he knows

448
00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:43,919
Speaker 1: is attracted to me, right exactly. That's the That's the thing.

449
00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:46,840
Speaker 1: It depends on the dynamic of the relationship. If if

450
00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:49,920
Speaker 1: it's a flirting thing, I don't think it's okay, obviously not.

451
00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:53,520
Speaker 1: But let's it's like a business even I like you,

452
00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:55,399
Speaker 1: you know, I don't even like the girl. She's just

453
00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:59,240
Speaker 1: super hot, right like, Like, let's you get okay with

454
00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:01,880
Speaker 1: me going out with your boyfriend for a drink. I would.

455
00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:04,320
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be okay with me going on with somebody

456
00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:07,399
Speaker 1: else's word for I would though, Like I mean, I

457
00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:10,680
Speaker 1: don't ask him, you know, Like I'm a girl. I

458
00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:13,439
Speaker 1: wouldn't even play myself. I wouldn't do that. I mean,

459
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:15,920
Speaker 1: if I knew that you just sucked everybody else's man.

460
00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:17,879
Speaker 1: But like, let's say, if Angela be like, oh but

461
00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:19,720
Speaker 1: we here at this part we have I don't know

462
00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:21,520
Speaker 1: if it's a weak thing, that's what I said, If

463
00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:25,400
Speaker 1: it's you just like the ether and then she called

464
00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:28,879
Speaker 1: different they were together. I also think it depends on

465
00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:33,280
Speaker 1: who the girl is. Yeah, yeah, it's circumstantial, because you're

466
00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:35,280
Speaker 1: not to have a problem with me being around ever

467
00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:37,280
Speaker 1: in life. I could probably spend the night at his house.

468
00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:39,399
Speaker 1: He wouldn't give a ship, you know, and then you

469
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:41,359
Speaker 1: know me too. You know I'm not that type of person.

470
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 1: And stephanitiely you know, if I was Stephanie's crazy anyway though,

471
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:49,240
Speaker 1: because I don't know, I'm a little passive. I'm just saying.

472
00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:51,360
Speaker 1: But she also probably wouldn't think she wouldn't say nothing

473
00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:53,879
Speaker 1: to me, but she might say something Tom Right now,

474
00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:56,679
Speaker 1: I'm like, what are you doing going on with my friends? Right?

475
00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:00,239
Speaker 1: What do you do you? By accident? Ever slept one

476
00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:02,959
Speaker 1: of your friend's boyfriends. No, because I don't play at all.

477
00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:06,560
Speaker 1: I don't know. Sometimes people could drink your friends slept

478
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:09,240
Speaker 1: with but it wasn't your friend. No, I mean this

479
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:11,760
Speaker 1: is the thing, like I once my friends have sex

480
00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:13,560
Speaker 1: with a guy. I don't care who it is. It's like,

481
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:17,199
Speaker 1: I'm not even attracted to you anymore unless it's one

482
00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 1: of those guys that you just passed around, like girl, yeah,

483
00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:22,960
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But one of my friends

484
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:27,840
Speaker 1: girls got them too, But you are one of my

485
00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:31,040
Speaker 1: friend's boyfriend somebody they were in a serious relationship. No,

486
00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:35,760
Speaker 1: you're gross now, it's like, no, so if you went

487
00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 1: out with another guy that you just Girls have done

488
00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:41,200
Speaker 1: that to me. Girls sleep with mind they want to

489
00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:44,920
Speaker 1: see that's your friend anymore. That's happened to me. My

490
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:49,640
Speaker 1: my daughter has a sister her same age, and it's

491
00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:52,879
Speaker 1: gonna be your friends. Well, I thought, obviously it wasn't.

492
00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:57,440
Speaker 1: How do you know such a fan of you that

493
00:25:57,520 --> 00:26:01,000
Speaker 1: anything you want you have, they want, they they wanted, like,

494
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:03,359
Speaker 1: oh I work here here she then you go on

495
00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:05,560
Speaker 1: to Sam Salon, I'm going to there's like ten on

496
00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:08,800
Speaker 1: the black damn this X to like seven exit and

497
00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 1: all right behind you. Like sometimes, how do you work

498
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:13,960
Speaker 1: through something like that? How do you work through something

499
00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:18,520
Speaker 1: like the way I dealt with it was I felt

500
00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:21,080
Speaker 1: like all right. I felt like they were good together

501
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:23,480
Speaker 1: because if he went to do that to me, then

502
00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:25,840
Speaker 1: they're the same kind of person and they're both not

503
00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:28,679
Speaker 1: for me. That's how I felt like, alright, keep each other,

504
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 1: hope it works out because you have both justice Gray.

505
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:33,080
Speaker 1: So you didn't end up back with him. That was

506
00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:37,320
Speaker 1: absolutely not She never again never looked back. That's good.

507
00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:39,480
Speaker 1: And that was a person that you know, like, there's

508
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:41,560
Speaker 1: a way the one person you're week fur and turned

509
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:45,359
Speaker 1: domb for, like like in the movie Casino. Remember, but

510
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 1: that's one thing that will make me get over a

511
00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:49,960
Speaker 1: guy really quick if he works with some one of

512
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:53,240
Speaker 1: my friends or a wag bitch. It's like, that's it.

513
00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:56,680
Speaker 1: I was so in love with this guy a day ago,

514
00:26:56,800 --> 00:27:00,520
Speaker 1: but now he's just so wax that the chicken is.

515
00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 1: You'd be like, oh, you're sucked with her? Well you

516
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:05,399
Speaker 1: know she. I think you'd be like, why am I

517
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:09,639
Speaker 1: hating to me? It was just like, well, they'll they'll

518
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:13,240
Speaker 1: get their karma, and they did, because that I believe

519
00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 1: in karma. To listen, I don't guy to do nothing

520
00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:22,399
Speaker 1: to nobody. That ship is so now it's okay. You

521
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:24,040
Speaker 1: think for you to meet a guy that you know,

522
00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:25,640
Speaker 1: and become cool with him and go out of drinks

523
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 1: even if you're in a relationship. For in my relationship,

524
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:32,159
Speaker 1: can meet him though not like somebody was cool with before,

525
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 1: but like somebody to meet somebody knew, you know what.

526
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:40,200
Speaker 1: Like to me, it's okay, But that does leave a

527
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 1: lot of room for error because you're human, no matter

528
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 1: if I've been with somebody ten years. If I meet

529
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:48,320
Speaker 1: some other dude and it's somebody I'm attracted to and

530
00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:51,040
Speaker 1: it's fun conversation and we're having a drink, so now

531
00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:55,320
Speaker 1: you're inhibitions are like things can happen. So if you're

532
00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:57,760
Speaker 1: a person that's in a relationship, sometimes you shouldn't put

533
00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:00,400
Speaker 1: yourself in situations. But if you're just having a drink

534
00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:03,000
Speaker 1: and oh my god, casual but not like pre planned,

535
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:05,840
Speaker 1: and there's excitement and you're doing extra to your bake

536
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:08,959
Speaker 1: up and get e secure and sexy, Like, is there

537
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 1: a time limit on when somebody else can like text

538
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:15,800
Speaker 1: you or call you at night? I think so absolutely. Yeah,

539
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:19,240
Speaker 1: you don't want to be she'll be calling me during

540
00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:22,160
Speaker 1: booty call hours. When I'm in a relationship, I flip

541
00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 1: on everybody that hits me up, like Afrey lover a

542
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:28,359
Speaker 1: prwe because when I was on our break and I

543
00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:30,600
Speaker 1: moved away to Philly, I was managing a strip club.

544
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:32,760
Speaker 1: So a lot of people would call me late at night,

545
00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 1: late at night, you know, on my side, Can I

546
00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:37,159
Speaker 1: get in you here? What's up? I'm on the table.

547
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:39,280
Speaker 1: And for the first couple of weeks after I left

548
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:41,120
Speaker 1: the club and moved back home, my phone will be

549
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 1: be going off at one thirty two, three o'clock in

550
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:47,719
Speaker 1: the morning, and I just be like, yeah, I had

551
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:50,600
Speaker 1: was understandable because it was part of your word. But

552
00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:54,160
Speaker 1: the guys don't worry if to die down. So got

553
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:57,840
Speaker 1: to the quay there used to be like guys in

554
00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:00,640
Speaker 1: the morning, no matter why because and a lot of time,

555
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:03,360
Speaker 1: you know, I was just in a relationship. A lot

556
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:06,040
Speaker 1: of time I'll be like with my man and getting

557
00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:07,760
Speaker 1: a call at one thirty in the morning, and it

558
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:12,240
Speaker 1: would be a nightlife person, know what I'm saying, exactly,

559
00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:15,440
Speaker 1: or a promoter or something like that, even like, oh,

560
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 1: I need you to host this party for me next

561
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:23,560
Speaker 1: week morning exactly. Yeah. I'm I'm a I'm total and

562
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:27,320
Speaker 1: I'm a very nocturnal person. You to me, shouldn't that

563
00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 1: be acceptable because most of your no, but still it

564
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:35,560
Speaker 1: should be acceptable. But I would work out at nine

565
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:38,120
Speaker 1: tomorrow and you get to know and I you know,

566
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:41,120
Speaker 1: I have I had a crazy boyfriend. We're both crazy.

567
00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 1: So no matter what was like after after after eleven pm,

568
00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:50,840
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, I gotta man, I want to

569
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:58,760
Speaker 1: fuck you hit me up? Is that weird? I am?

570
00:29:58,920 --> 00:30:03,040
Speaker 1: I am? Do not to serve Queen is not to

571
00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:06,160
Speaker 1: serve King. His BlackBerry is always on silent, like I'll

572
00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:08,680
Speaker 1: be here to tell him not to serve Queen. That's

573
00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:10,160
Speaker 1: exactly what I used to do when I was with

574
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:13,160
Speaker 1: my last boyfriend. Every night, as soon as he would

575
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 1: come home, I'll put my phone on do not to serve.

576
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:17,760
Speaker 1: You know, it's crazy, that's terrible for me. Like he

577
00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:20,239
Speaker 1: is always on the phone because he'd be like if

578
00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:22,320
Speaker 1: I don't answer right then, and I'm gonna miss some money.

579
00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:24,720
Speaker 1: That's how he feels, to the point where he even

580
00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:27,360
Speaker 1: got like a phone holder thing in the shower and

581
00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 1: then we're so excited about phones being waterproof. I think

582
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 1: the only time he's not on the phone is during sex.

583
00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:41,680
Speaker 1: I think because everything everything he does, even the shower,

584
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 1: like when the shower, like the shows that I'm like,

585
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 1: this ship is ridiculous, ridiculous, he's okay with you, Like

586
00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 1: if he leaves his phone at home, he's not worried

587
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:52,800
Speaker 1: about you looking at He don't care. I do not

588
00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:56,080
Speaker 1: do that, so he don't right, But if you did,

589
00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 1: will he be okay with it? You think I don't know.

590
00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:01,440
Speaker 1: It's been a couple of times where like you know

591
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:05,400
Speaker 1: you're on the phone to be like so right, but

592
00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:07,480
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm the type of person like I don't

593
00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 1: want to find out, Like I don't want to know.

594
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:11,400
Speaker 1: I'd rather not even read it if I don't know

595
00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:14,800
Speaker 1: whatever you need, Yeah, like I don't want to know

596
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:16,600
Speaker 1: if you respect me enough to not make me feel

597
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 1: like I don't want him doing that ship to me

598
00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:22,920
Speaker 1: because I hate that ship. So be the one. Because

599
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 1: I have friends, like I have only one friend who

600
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:28,520
Speaker 1: her and her boyfriend like, well her husband, like he'll

601
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 1: answer her phone, she answers his phone, or like she'll

602
00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:33,280
Speaker 1: be like, oh, I don't have my phone, so just

603
00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:35,280
Speaker 1: call his phone. I have his phone all day because

604
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:39,640
Speaker 1: that they if we're together and like my phone not

605
00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:42,600
Speaker 1: working and like I'll have like somebody called I call

606
00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:44,800
Speaker 1: me on his phone, here's his number, blah blah blah,

607
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:49,040
Speaker 1: but are you not Like I don't know, I'm not

608
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:53,239
Speaker 1: keeping it, but I would have something or like if

609
00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:55,080
Speaker 1: we were together and I saw Angie call, I would

610
00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:58,440
Speaker 1: answer it like hey girl, right, no, but she means, oh,

611
00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 1: I have his phone today. When we were my head,

612
00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:06,480
Speaker 1: I was like, I was like, look, switch phones with me,

613
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:09,720
Speaker 1: like let's let's see who's going was switch phones with me?

614
00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:11,280
Speaker 1: And he would not do it. I'm like, switch phones

615
00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:13,920
Speaker 1: with me for a day, like bad. Yeah, I was

616
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:20,080
Speaker 1: serious because I knew what I wasn't doing that I

617
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 1: was not. I was serious. I was trying to. I

618
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:24,880
Speaker 1: was like, know what, don't even take my phone, take

619
00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:26,480
Speaker 1: my phone for the day. I don't even need yours,

620
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:28,480
Speaker 1: but take mine just and he was like no, I'm cool,

621
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 1: Like I'm good on it because I don't want you

622
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:35,200
Speaker 1: to day. Clearly I could have bluff one time, but

623
00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:37,239
Speaker 1: I was just like please, God don't know. Said yes

624
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 1: I did this guy one time, and he would he

625
00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:43,240
Speaker 1: grabbed my phone and went through it, like went in

626
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 1: the bathroom and locked it up in the bathroom, and

627
00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, I can never talk to you

628
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:53,800
Speaker 1: again in life. Do you guys feel about that because

629
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 1: I could be talking to y'all and you could you

630
00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 1: could be saying be something really personal. Yeah, and I

631
00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:01,720
Speaker 1: don't want hand eating that. So if you knew somebody

632
00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:04,160
Speaker 1: checked all your ship all the time secretly, would you

633
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:08,080
Speaker 1: were those b breakups? Yes? I think that's crazy because

634
00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 1: I don't do that, Like, I don't. I don't do

635
00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:12,400
Speaker 1: that either. I can see it's like something popped up

636
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:15,320
Speaker 1: on my phone. Somebody just texting me and you look, okay,

637
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:18,000
Speaker 1: I'm not but you're not gonna take my phone and

638
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 1: go through everything. Now, there's so many apps, you know

639
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 1: how you can check your kids phone and it comes

640
00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 1: to your computer before kind to his phone when his

641
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 1: kids getting text messages. You see, So dudes can do

642
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:32,320
Speaker 1: that to your phone. All you need is like the

643
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:36,240
Speaker 1: like serious stuff. Let's keep a red this stuff on

644
00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 1: all of my phones that somebody could take it the

645
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:42,000
Speaker 1: wrong way. You read it and you know what it is,

646
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:43,880
Speaker 1: but he could take it the wrong way. And I

647
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:47,080
Speaker 1: send nude I'm send nude pictures to my best friends

648
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:51,240
Speaker 1: all the time. Likes send me sometime my friends send

649
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,280
Speaker 1: me videos or pictures Like I'm not just saying do

650
00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:55,560
Speaker 1: this do you think I'll like that? Like and it'd

651
00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:59,160
Speaker 1: be like, you know, I don't want him to see that.

652
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:04,760
Speaker 1: I don't. I usually don't want a guy going through

653
00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:07,240
Speaker 1: my phone because I'm cheating on him. To make that

654
00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:11,719
Speaker 1: clearance everyone, the real reason is, let's down, don't go

655
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:13,600
Speaker 1: through my phone. You're gonna get your feelings. You're gonna

656
00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:18,000
Speaker 1: get you feel all right. Now. We were talking about

657
00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 1: this earlier. Can you meet quality guys in the club

658
00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:23,319
Speaker 1: and the strip club and the regular club or are

659
00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:25,320
Speaker 1: those guys that you tend to want to leave alone?

660
00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:28,040
Speaker 1: Because people always ask where can I meet a good guy?

661
00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 1: I don't want to meet a guy in the club

662
00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:31,640
Speaker 1: because that's not the type of person that I went.

663
00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 1: But what do you think I've I've had a serious relationship,

664
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 1: a serious open relationship, so I don't know. I had

665
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:44,480
Speaker 1: a relationship with somebody in the club and we worked

666
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:49,279
Speaker 1: good for a while. I also um dated of radio

667
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:53,160
Speaker 1: personality slash DJ back in my twenties, and um he

668
00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:55,880
Speaker 1: ended up being married. But but that was a good

669
00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:57,759
Speaker 1: relationship while he was married, and you didn't know. I

670
00:34:57,800 --> 00:35:01,520
Speaker 1: didn't know until he got arrested. That's crazy, got arrested.

671
00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:06,520
Speaker 1: But yeah, but but his not didn't built him out.

672
00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:08,840
Speaker 1: His wife calling threatened him to come and take my

673
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:10,279
Speaker 1: car because my car was in his name, like he

674
00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:11,919
Speaker 1: had brought me a car and it was his name,

675
00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:14,360
Speaker 1: and she called like, yeah, well i'm his wife and

676
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:16,719
Speaker 1: I know you're driving a car. I want that one.

677
00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:18,399
Speaker 1: You think if he would have told you he was married,

678
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:22,359
Speaker 1: you would have covered form him somehow someway. Well, if

679
00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 1: he would have told me in the beginning back then,

680
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:25,880
Speaker 1: that was in my like sugar baby days, so I

681
00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:28,520
Speaker 1: probably wouldn't have cared. But he didn't tell me. And

682
00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:30,480
Speaker 1: then when I found out, I was like, really upset

683
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:32,719
Speaker 1: about it because he lied to you. Because he lied.

684
00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:34,319
Speaker 1: But had he kept it real with me nine times

685
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:36,080
Speaker 1: up to him back then, I would have wrote. And

686
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:37,880
Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of guys don't realize that

687
00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:39,719
Speaker 1: sometimes you keep it real with a girl one and

688
00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:42,399
Speaker 1: she's still gonna sunk with you. Yeah, But I feel

689
00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:44,480
Speaker 1: like you can't categorize where you can meet a good

690
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 1: guy with because good guys and bad guys are everywhere.

691
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:49,440
Speaker 1: You know you had judged people on because they're at

692
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:50,840
Speaker 1: the club. It could be you could meet somebody at

693
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:52,879
Speaker 1: the club that never goes to the club and he's

694
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:55,680
Speaker 1: only there because it's his homeboy's birthday or or anniversary

695
00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:58,239
Speaker 1: or a special occasion. So you can't say like, oh,

696
00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:00,200
Speaker 1: you can't meet nobody this place at that, but he's

697
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:04,960
Speaker 1: in the c you can meet the Well, it depends

698
00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:11,480
Speaker 1: on how much money you got. I think I think

699
00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:14,319
Speaker 1: I wouldn't date a guy that like I walk into

700
00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 1: the strip club with him and every stripper knows his name,

701
00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:20,600
Speaker 1: and the bartenders like and everybody. Then I'll be like, oh, ship,

702
00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 1: he's always here, he's a regular, and then whatever. Then

703
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 1: maybe that I wouldn't. I don't know, but the sinners

704
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:31,440
Speaker 1: are in church. It's not like I was just you

705
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:34,600
Speaker 1: could probably you think the percentage is higher though, of

706
00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:36,239
Speaker 1: a guy being sucked up if you meet them like

707
00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:39,879
Speaker 1: in the club or it doesn't matter. I don't think

708
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:41,680
Speaker 1: it matters where you meet a person. The person is

709
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:43,279
Speaker 1: who they are and how they going to be friends.

710
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:45,560
Speaker 1: Just recently went on a date with somebody she met

711
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:48,400
Speaker 1: on an app, like on one of those dating and

712
00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:50,279
Speaker 1: she was really scared about it. But I said, listen,

713
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:52,120
Speaker 1: you can meet somebody in the club and they could

714
00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:56,359
Speaker 1: be crazy, right, Just so there's no telling what could

715
00:36:56,360 --> 00:36:59,319
Speaker 1: happen regardless of where you meet somebody. That online dating

716
00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:00,880
Speaker 1: thing is really The other day, we were in the

717
00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 1: gym and my boyfriend's friends finished working out. They were

718
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:06,000
Speaker 1: all talking and he said like nothing to the point

719
00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:07,920
Speaker 1: where I'm like, this is the norm now? How for

720
00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:09,920
Speaker 1: like dating people? He's like, oh, man, I used to

721
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:11,759
Speaker 1: have sex. Let me go on this app so I

722
00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:14,400
Speaker 1: could get me a girl tonight. So I'm like, what,

723
00:37:14,640 --> 00:37:19,080
Speaker 1: you just have sex with girls? He's like, yeah, like you,

724
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:21,200
Speaker 1: it's better and it's like no string. That's as you

725
00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:22,879
Speaker 1: meet them. You can see they picture, how they look,

726
00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:24,400
Speaker 1: you know, they know how to cook or not by

727
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:26,680
Speaker 1: the encryptian, and then you have sex with them and

728
00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 1: then that's it. You picked the next girl tomorrow. I

729
00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:33,000
Speaker 1: was like, that's disgusting. It's like shopping. Yes, sounds like

730
00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:37,880
Speaker 1: it is. I didn't. I didn't know that it was.

731
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:40,719
Speaker 1: I guess I'm old now or something. We don't do that.

732
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:43,560
Speaker 1: Definitely year in the club all the time, just like

733
00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:46,520
Speaker 1: me because we obviously host parties. Dada dada da. So

734
00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:48,520
Speaker 1: do you have you ever met a quality guy in

735
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:50,839
Speaker 1: the club. Well, I always had a rule of thumb

736
00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:53,440
Speaker 1: that I would not date a guy that I met

737
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:56,239
Speaker 1: in the club, Like I don't want to. I don't.

738
00:37:56,280 --> 00:37:57,800
Speaker 1: I don't like when guys trying to talk to me

739
00:37:57,920 --> 00:37:59,719
Speaker 1: when I'm drunk because I feel like you're trying to

740
00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:01,960
Speaker 1: play me because I'm drunk. You think, yeah, but you're

741
00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:04,160
Speaker 1: in the club. What did They still polite and nice though,

742
00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:06,040
Speaker 1: even though you know, I swear and I've met a

743
00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:12,160
Speaker 1: lot of guys. But finally, finally back in two thousand thirteen,

744
00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:16,279
Speaker 1: and to that, no, because I had a relationship, I

745
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:18,480
Speaker 1: met this guy in the club. It's the first time

746
00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:20,480
Speaker 1: I ever met a guy in the club that I

747
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:24,920
Speaker 1: actually slept with and had a thing with. And it

748
00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:29,480
Speaker 1: was a nightmare. So from my experience, I don't know.

749
00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:36,480
Speaker 1: One time it wasn't bad. No, he's I found out

750
00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:38,879
Speaker 1: he had he had a whole other life. He had

751
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:43,520
Speaker 1: a wife and kids, and it was crazy. It was

752
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:46,360
Speaker 1: a really it was a man. Yeah, that's probably the

753
00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:49,040
Speaker 1: number one thing they lie about. And I swore that

754
00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:52,000
Speaker 1: he was like my rebound from my son's father. So

755
00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:53,680
Speaker 1: I swore I was in love with him. You know,

756
00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:56,359
Speaker 1: it's hard on the rebound, you know what I mean.

757
00:38:56,960 --> 00:38:58,520
Speaker 1: So I swore I was in love with him and

758
00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:01,920
Speaker 1: he just put me through so much. This is why

759
00:39:01,960 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 1: you had to ask glass. When you meet them, you

760
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:05,360
Speaker 1: have to be like, so, do you have a girlfriend? No,

761
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:07,719
Speaker 1: do you have a wife? You got you? So what's

762
00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:09,600
Speaker 1: some merson if? Do you have someone that would be

763
00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:12,479
Speaker 1: upset if they saw us sitting here having a conversation? Yeah,

764
00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:16,239
Speaker 1: like you know, you gotta go that all the levels. Great?

765
00:39:16,680 --> 00:39:18,560
Speaker 1: Are you know you have someone you're having sex with?

766
00:39:18,719 --> 00:39:20,560
Speaker 1: What are the questions that you asked somebody when you

767
00:39:20,640 --> 00:39:23,200
Speaker 1: first start on the first date? What are some good questions?

768
00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:25,920
Speaker 1: Where do you live? Like? Who, what do you do?

769
00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:27,840
Speaker 1: Where do you live? Is that rude to ask that

770
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:30,920
Speaker 1: on the first date? No, okay, I'm just asking the

771
00:39:31,080 --> 00:39:32,440
Speaker 1: damn s. You're gonna want to know where you live

772
00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:34,239
Speaker 1: so you can ask where do you live? Who do

773
00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:36,600
Speaker 1: you live? We're not really like where, like what's your address?

774
00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:39,200
Speaker 1: But like how is your living situation? Like what's your

775
00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:42,920
Speaker 1: living situation? Does your wife sleeping You sleep on the

776
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 1: couch and she's sleeping around? Do you have a roommate?

777
00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:48,479
Speaker 1: Do you live with your grandma? You know how many

778
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:51,960
Speaker 1: dudes say that you live with your baby mama your

779
00:39:52,719 --> 00:39:55,200
Speaker 1: couch together? But I'm not with my baby mom, but

780
00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:57,239
Speaker 1: I'm trying to help, but pay the rent, so sleep

781
00:39:57,280 --> 00:40:01,840
Speaker 1: on the couch. What are some other questions you got

782
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:05,200
Speaker 1: to ask? What's your sign? Yeah, that's probably what I

783
00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:07,560
Speaker 1: asked on the first sign. That's a nice that's a

784
00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:10,160
Speaker 1: nice icebreaker. I don't think I've had a normal first

785
00:40:10,239 --> 00:40:14,520
Speaker 1: day and so long. That's like, by the time we

786
00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:20,080
Speaker 1: got to them, we already know for the little steed

787
00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 1: trampled there a little? How already do that? To swear?

788
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:26,399
Speaker 1: I swear whoever is gonna be my next boyfriend, I'm

789
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:30,520
Speaker 1: gonna be really faithful to them. She like, like she

790
00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:34,000
Speaker 1: actually could say without laughing, No, I am, because I

791
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:36,840
Speaker 1: think I'm I'm warm. Sure, all right? What is I

792
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:39,560
Speaker 1: believe you? Because I made that bow and I did

793
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 1: it and you did it. I did alright. Some more questions.

794
00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:44,239
Speaker 1: Is it okay to ask a guy like what he

795
00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:47,279
Speaker 1: does for a living and to get an idea of

796
00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 1: like you think? So not in the what do you work? Well,

797
00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:52,840
Speaker 1: you can say where do you work or what do

798
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:56,120
Speaker 1: you do? Yeah, that's a typical question. What do you

799
00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:59,680
Speaker 1: do when do you get into Like what's your score? Yeah?

800
00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:02,400
Speaker 1: What's your goals? Do you want a family? Do you

801
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:04,759
Speaker 1: have kids? I think that's the first day question, like what,

802
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:06,839
Speaker 1: like what are your goals? What do you want out?

803
00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:08,919
Speaker 1: Like a lot of times relationship don't work. Sometimes maybe

804
00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:11,160
Speaker 1: people don't want really not on the same page. Sometimes

805
00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:13,759
Speaker 1: guys just want to have sex. Girls just want to

806
00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 1: have sex sometimes too, So it's okay to like, but

807
00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:19,399
Speaker 1: would a guy take you on a full date if

808
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:23,879
Speaker 1: he just wanted to have sex? Yeah? You guys would

809
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:28,720
Speaker 1: do anything to get the place to come on anything.

810
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:31,000
Speaker 1: You can get any guys to do anything to get

811
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:34,879
Speaker 1: And the more you hold out, the more you hold

812
00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:39,279
Speaker 1: out to higher the bid. Okay, the phrase is going

813
00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:45,400
Speaker 1: on estate down yet, Yeah, I gotta agree with that.

814
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:47,520
Speaker 1: I find you get way more out of guys before

815
00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:49,879
Speaker 1: you give them sex. Way, I mean you still could

816
00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:54,640
Speaker 1: get a lot after two. Yeah, for sure, it's good thing.

817
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:56,120
Speaker 1: I saw my family. She was going out with this

818
00:41:56,200 --> 00:41:58,040
Speaker 1: guy that she just met on this app. I said,

819
00:41:58,360 --> 00:42:01,080
Speaker 1: don't get drunk. Whatever you do, don't take but advice.

820
00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:04,040
Speaker 1: You have two drinks and that's because she gets up.

821
00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:06,840
Speaker 1: That's that's that's how they are a millionaire matchmaker. Like

822
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:08,839
Speaker 1: they have rules like you can't have you can only

823
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:11,799
Speaker 1: have two drinks and you can't do any shots because listen,

824
00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:15,080
Speaker 1: have you ever had an embarrassing first date? Oh my god,

825
00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:18,480
Speaker 1: I have. I went on with this DJ for our

826
00:42:18,560 --> 00:42:28,880
Speaker 1: first date. We had such a good date. He really

827
00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 1: liked me at the time, because we started hating each

828
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:35,279
Speaker 1: other not long after that. But we went on a

829
00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:37,680
Speaker 1: date and I'll never forget it. It was when you

830
00:42:37,800 --> 00:42:41,759
Speaker 1: remember when American apparel first got really popular. So I

831
00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:45,240
Speaker 1: was wearing like one of those stupid American apparel dresses

832
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:52,319
Speaker 1: and I had, oh my god, it was so bad.

833
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:54,480
Speaker 1: We haven't talking for a long time, but I had

834
00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:57,360
Speaker 1: on this dress and we got really drunk. Like we

835
00:42:57,440 --> 00:42:59,120
Speaker 1: went to a nice dinner and then we went to

836
00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:02,240
Speaker 1: a club after words, and I got so watched up drunk.

837
00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:05,800
Speaker 1: He had to like carry me out no underwear on.

838
00:43:06,600 --> 00:43:10,160
Speaker 1: It was a mask. But we ended up being We

839
00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:13,680
Speaker 1: ended up each other first like eight months after that,

840
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:16,080
Speaker 1: and that was our first day. So I mean, it

841
00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:19,080
Speaker 1: wasn't it was okay with it. He was pretty drunk too,

842
00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:22,000
Speaker 1: was embarrassed. I was, so I woke up the next day.

843
00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:24,799
Speaker 1: I woke because I ended up sleeping with him that night.

844
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:27,360
Speaker 1: We didn't have sex though, because he didn't want to

845
00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:31,600
Speaker 1: have sex to sleep. Yeah, because he was like, I'm

846
00:43:31,640 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 1: too drunk. Yeah he probably couldn't either, because I learned

847
00:43:35,120 --> 00:43:39,440
Speaker 1: that about him. Like on like, um, if he drank

848
00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:42,440
Speaker 1: a lot, it wasn't that good. Yeah you know what

849
00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:44,640
Speaker 1: I mean, it was. I'm not gonna say it was bad.

850
00:43:44,880 --> 00:43:47,080
Speaker 1: It was all right. You know that's the words when

851
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:49,160
Speaker 1: you have junk sex and you don't remember it. Yeah,

852
00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:53,040
Speaker 1: so we we didn't like when you just don't remember

853
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:56,200
Speaker 1: and ship start coming back slowly. Yeah, that's how I

854
00:43:56,280 --> 00:44:00,200
Speaker 1: woke up, like, oh my god, did I have This

855
00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:01,880
Speaker 1: is the funniest story. She says she has sex with

856
00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:04,000
Speaker 1: a guy and his dog was in the room and

857
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:06,440
Speaker 1: she was like that, like say that the dog's name

858
00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:08,840
Speaker 1: was Fighter. She was like Fighter, you see your owners

859
00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:14,080
Speaker 1: fucking me? You see? Really she's dog was there, Like

860
00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:16,839
Speaker 1: my dogs are always in the room when we have sex.

861
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:21,080
Speaker 1: So how was their reaction? They like go in the

862
00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:23,600
Speaker 1: corner and like lay on their doggy bed like you're

863
00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:26,480
Speaker 1: being attacked, and they just like tax when they just

864
00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:28,440
Speaker 1: sit there and look like what are y'all doing? Like

865
00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 1: they'd be like some fus like I used to put

866
00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:36,680
Speaker 1: tyson in the bathroom, but now like can't go off.

867
00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:39,360
Speaker 1: My room is big enough that he's like off on

868
00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:40,800
Speaker 1: the other side of the room in the corner. And

869
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:43,839
Speaker 1: like what you think. Anytime we start to get into

870
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:45,040
Speaker 1: sex and the dogs in the bed, I ain't to

871
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:48,239
Speaker 1: get off the bed. Yeah, please, the dogs look at

872
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:52,640
Speaker 1: your ass. I immediately make the dogs get down off

873
00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:54,560
Speaker 1: the bed, and then they'll go about their business like

874
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:57,200
Speaker 1: off to like different corners or whatever. And there's people

875
00:44:57,440 --> 00:45:06,200
Speaker 1: are having like our kids, like well, you know my kids.

876
00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:09,319
Speaker 1: I know, but it's so weird, like we don't put

877
00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:11,480
Speaker 1: them out like I would put them out. I gotta

878
00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:15,120
Speaker 1: go happy pats. Cats while you're fucking they jump on

879
00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 1: you with set much more than dogs. You guys, got

880
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:23,000
Speaker 1: them out the room the moment they jump on you,

881
00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:26,200
Speaker 1: like the go and put a pole hand. It's bad.

882
00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:31,000
Speaker 1: It's really little pause feel crazy, A little scrassy tongue

883
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:35,000
Speaker 1: happening to your tongue. You know. That's one time. One

884
00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:37,200
Speaker 1: time my son's father, you and I we're having sex.

885
00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:40,240
Speaker 1: We had a cat named Edwin off what was his name, Edwin?

886
00:45:40,360 --> 00:45:43,120
Speaker 1: The cats name was Edwin. It's like a real person.

887
00:45:43,640 --> 00:45:47,200
Speaker 1: So and so we're having sex and Edwin just jumped

888
00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:53,640
Speaker 1: and jumped in attacked his balls, and yeah, it was bad.

889
00:45:54,719 --> 00:45:58,160
Speaker 1: He was so bad like that, r the sacks everything.

890
00:45:58,239 --> 00:46:04,960
Speaker 1: It was bad. Ball they're fragile like eggs. You gotta

891
00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:08,839
Speaker 1: be careful. No, he was so upset about that. Cats

892
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:11,239
Speaker 1: are vicious man. You know, cats will attack you like

893
00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:17,800
Speaker 1: out of nowhere next to you are cool, man, you

894
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 1: have cats or dogs or anything that poops that I

895
00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:23,759
Speaker 1: did even push out because that's a lot of Yeah,

896
00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:25,600
Speaker 1: you know, it's just a lot of work. Like you

897
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:27,759
Speaker 1: gotta walk them and then you gotta feed them. Then

898
00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:29,480
Speaker 1: when you go somewhere, somebody it's like having to somebody

899
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 1: gotta take care of them. Yes, the medical bills. Then

900
00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:37,759
Speaker 1: they broke your furniture andla blah. Now Atlicia Keys recently

901
00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:39,839
Speaker 1: posted a picture and you know she doesn't wear she's

902
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:43,279
Speaker 1: ditched wearing makeup. She looks good. But how do y'all

903
00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:46,359
Speaker 1: feel about not wearing makeup? I don't wear as much

904
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:50,279
Speaker 1: makeup as I used to, but I'm definitely not giving

905
00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:54,000
Speaker 1: up my makeup right, Like sorry, but what is there

906
00:46:54,000 --> 00:46:55,800
Speaker 1: anywhere you go with no makeup on? Or will you

907
00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:58,359
Speaker 1: not even like go to the supermarket. Yeah, of course

908
00:46:58,800 --> 00:47:01,520
Speaker 1: a lot of ways with no makeup. I go everywhere

909
00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:04,360
Speaker 1: were no makeup on. But I'm still not giving up makeup.

910
00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:07,360
Speaker 1: She's not giving up makeup either. She's gonna wear makeup

911
00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:10,759
Speaker 1: because I feel like sometimes, especially when if you're going

912
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:12,520
Speaker 1: to the supermarket, I know I'm running to people, and

913
00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:14,800
Speaker 1: he's like, the only time I don't wear makeup is

914
00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:16,400
Speaker 1: like when I go work out or if I'm just

915
00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:18,319
Speaker 1: like on my way to somewhere where I know they're

916
00:47:18,320 --> 00:47:22,040
Speaker 1: gonna have makeup, but I'm not really gonna do stuff.

917
00:47:22,719 --> 00:47:24,719
Speaker 1: I didn't wear makeup the other day, like coming back

918
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:27,320
Speaker 1: from Dominican Republic on the plane, I was like, I

919
00:47:27,360 --> 00:47:29,839
Speaker 1: don't feel like I have a big glasses on though, well, yeah,

920
00:47:29,840 --> 00:47:32,440
Speaker 1: I have last extensions. I love them. They help a

921
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:34,400
Speaker 1: lot because you don't have to do anything like the

922
00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:36,640
Speaker 1: last three months. They don't move, and it's just it

923
00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:38,439
Speaker 1: looks like you have on makeup even if you don't.

924
00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:42,399
Speaker 1: But you now, why did she give it up? Though?

925
00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:47,400
Speaker 1: Like I don't know about what she said, something about

926
00:47:47,719 --> 00:47:50,520
Speaker 1: um covering up her natural beauty. I didn't know she

927
00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:53,520
Speaker 1: had freckles, which, by the way, I love freckles. A

928
00:47:53,600 --> 00:47:56,120
Speaker 1: lot of artists struggle. I know some friends that are

929
00:47:56,200 --> 00:47:58,680
Speaker 1: artists at full face of freckles that people don't even

930
00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:00,920
Speaker 1: know because you know, they're always in full face makeup,

931
00:48:01,320 --> 00:48:03,120
Speaker 1: and that's like a thing because makeup art is just

932
00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:07,040
Speaker 1: cover your freckles. Yeah, alright, So here's what she said.

933
00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:11,480
Speaker 1: She said she's been photographed lately in her skin, she said,

934
00:48:11,480 --> 00:48:13,120
Speaker 1: before I said a minute album, I wrote a list

935
00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:14,839
Speaker 1: of all the things I was sick of, and mom

936
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:16,880
Speaker 1: was how much women are brainwashed into feeling like we

937
00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:19,360
Speaker 1: have to be skinny or sexy or desirable or perfect.

938
00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:21,279
Speaker 1: One of the many things I was said of was

939
00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:25,239
Speaker 1: a constant judgment of women. So I guess she felt

940
00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:28,080
Speaker 1: like she doesn't want to have to wear makeup and forever,

941
00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:32,520
Speaker 1: like for this season or for the summer, don't. But

942
00:48:32,680 --> 00:48:35,680
Speaker 1: maybe it's a face. She's an artist, a really big artist,

943
00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:40,279
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, she's gonna put makeup on, you know,

944
00:48:40,400 --> 00:48:42,800
Speaker 1: it's I don't think she ditched it forever, but I

945
00:48:43,120 --> 00:48:46,600
Speaker 1: guess she's on she's feeling like maybe I don't need it,

946
00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:49,239
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna go out more without it, Like I'm

947
00:48:49,239 --> 00:48:51,880
Speaker 1: gonna get photographed more without it than with it. Probably

948
00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:54,360
Speaker 1: and she's probably getting hell of facials and all this

949
00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:56,719
Speaker 1: rich people. Yeah right, because you can look right. God,

950
00:48:57,640 --> 00:48:59,880
Speaker 1: what was that that she was getting the blood for

951
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:04,880
Speaker 1: shoals and everyone. I think that, um, you know, putting

952
00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:08,000
Speaker 1: makeup on it, it's good. You know what about girls

953
00:49:08,040 --> 00:49:11,600
Speaker 1: who have a scar on their face or really dark circles,

954
00:49:11,640 --> 00:49:13,960
Speaker 1: that's something you get from genetics. You know what. I

955
00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:17,360
Speaker 1: hate when people are FaceTime me and I'm like, look terrible.

956
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:21,400
Speaker 1: I put the thob over the camera, like what you

957
00:49:21,440 --> 00:49:24,240
Speaker 1: got a scar from your head, no makeup, looking awful,

958
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:26,000
Speaker 1: and then somebody want to face time you, and then

959
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:27,880
Speaker 1: you gotta get the angle right because you know, you

960
00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:32,879
Speaker 1: gotta be on FaceTime like this. I feel like I went.

961
00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:35,239
Speaker 1: I don't wear makeup all the time. I never wear

962
00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:38,279
Speaker 1: makeup unless I'm working or I'm going out or something

963
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:41,319
Speaker 1: like that. I never wear makeup. But I don't think

964
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:44,080
Speaker 1: that girls should. I think it's nice to not wear makeup.

965
00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:45,960
Speaker 1: But I don't think girls should feel bad because they

966
00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:48,440
Speaker 1: want to be glam you know what I mean. I

967
00:49:48,560 --> 00:49:51,319
Speaker 1: think the best thing is somebody with a beautiful face

968
00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:53,920
Speaker 1: that doesn't have makeup or like light makeup. To me,

969
00:49:54,040 --> 00:49:55,560
Speaker 1: that's what I'm into now that I'm going to be

970
00:49:55,680 --> 00:49:58,440
Speaker 1: thirty soon, I'm like less makeup because I feel like

971
00:49:58,440 --> 00:50:00,520
Speaker 1: when I wear more, I look older now. So I

972
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:02,560
Speaker 1: want to wear like a little bit or like what

973
00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:04,760
Speaker 1: kind of make up? A glow and a little nude

974
00:50:05,000 --> 00:50:07,120
Speaker 1: like that. Here's what she said. Every time I left

975
00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:08,560
Speaker 1: the house, I would be worried if I didn't put

976
00:50:08,560 --> 00:50:10,960
Speaker 1: on makeup. What if someone wanted a picture? She said

977
00:50:11,000 --> 00:50:13,600
Speaker 1: that behavior was not healthy, and when she showed up

978
00:50:13,640 --> 00:50:15,520
Speaker 1: for a photo shoot fresh from the gym with her

979
00:50:15,560 --> 00:50:18,960
Speaker 1: face squab bear and the photo photographer insisted on stepping

980
00:50:18,960 --> 00:50:20,360
Speaker 1: here on the spatch, she said, I swear it is

981
00:50:20,400 --> 00:50:23,960
Speaker 1: the strongest, most empowered, most free, and most honestly beautiful

982
00:50:24,040 --> 00:50:28,440
Speaker 1: that I've ever felt. So there you go go, Alicia.

983
00:50:29,800 --> 00:50:31,640
Speaker 1: Is it weird for you, like when you're dating somebody

984
00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:33,759
Speaker 1: for the first time they see you like not done up.

985
00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:36,319
Speaker 1: Do you ever think about that? Nope, I don't ever

986
00:50:36,480 --> 00:50:38,399
Speaker 1: really think about that. I don't think about it either.

987
00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:40,719
Speaker 1: I think guys first see me would not make up on,

988
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:42,480
Speaker 1: and then they see me done up, and it's like, oh,

989
00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:45,720
Speaker 1: it's different because guys act like they don't like makeup,

990
00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:49,360
Speaker 1: but then they do they guys been like, babe, you

991
00:50:49,440 --> 00:50:51,200
Speaker 1: look good. It don't matter if you gain way, but

992
00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:57,080
Speaker 1: walk by and you'd be like, but you just told me. Guys,

993
00:50:57,200 --> 00:50:59,680
Speaker 1: I only say out their mouth that they don't like

994
00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:04,239
Speaker 1: us in surgery. Guys. Men love plastic surgery. It's they're

995
00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:07,560
Speaker 1: the reason that it's been happening all these years since

996
00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:11,000
Speaker 1: the eighties. They don't care. How yeah, I just don't

997
00:51:11,480 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 1: if you don't tell them, and they just think in

998
00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:18,320
Speaker 1: their head like she didn't tell me, So it's natural memoria.

999
00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:20,719
Speaker 1: We can just passed, right. Is it weird if you're

1000
00:51:20,800 --> 00:51:22,960
Speaker 1: dating somebody and they go out of town like with

1001
00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:25,480
Speaker 1: their boys for Memorial Weekend? Do you feel Do you

1002
00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:32,239
Speaker 1: ever feel weird about guys trips? You always in the

1003
00:51:32,280 --> 00:51:34,720
Speaker 1: back of your head some ship mike right down because

1004
00:51:35,480 --> 00:51:40,040
Speaker 1: I don't like it. Yeah, I don't like it. I

1005
00:51:40,120 --> 00:51:42,960
Speaker 1: mean I'm cool, like i'm you know, I'm dating, I'm single,

1006
00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:46,799
Speaker 1: and of course you know there there was a lot

1007
00:51:46,840 --> 00:51:50,080
Speaker 1: of people traveling this weekend. And I will never mention anything.

1008
00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:52,920
Speaker 1: I will not complain, but it's just like to see it.

1009
00:51:53,040 --> 00:51:57,360
Speaker 1: It's just like right, yes, and it's like I'll have

1010
00:51:57,560 --> 00:52:01,719
Speaker 1: fun groups like he has a lot of friends that

1011
00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:04,200
Speaker 1: will travel with us, and everybody will bring a girlfriend,

1012
00:52:04,239 --> 00:52:05,919
Speaker 1: and then the single girls to come and the single

1013
00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:08,680
Speaker 1: guys come. Like this past weekend, we we ended up

1014
00:52:08,719 --> 00:52:11,000
Speaker 1: being like twenty two deep between like you know what,

1015
00:52:13,120 --> 00:52:15,200
Speaker 1: and that's a great time. Let's say I know you

1016
00:52:15,320 --> 00:52:17,359
Speaker 1: and your boyfriend, but now we're in groups but you're

1017
00:52:17,440 --> 00:52:21,520
Speaker 1: not there. Now that's like, oh, that's the worst feeling,

1018
00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:23,960
Speaker 1: Like what are you doing? I'm not here when it's

1019
00:52:24,000 --> 00:52:27,719
Speaker 1: your three day weekend and your friends man entertaining your friend.

1020
00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:31,040
Speaker 1: You have to mind your absolutely, I'll tell because what

1021
00:52:31,120 --> 00:52:33,520
Speaker 1: if what if you're only friends with her because of

1022
00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:37,480
Speaker 1: the like it's your boyfriends, you know, friends girlfriend, and

1023
00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:41,520
Speaker 1: you'll become cool, you know what's funny like due to

1024
00:52:41,600 --> 00:52:44,239
Speaker 1: others what you have them do to you. Right, But

1025
00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:46,399
Speaker 1: then in the same note, you always have this friend,

1026
00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:48,680
Speaker 1: right who no matter how many times you told her,

1027
00:52:48,840 --> 00:52:51,960
Speaker 1: they're still so sometimes that girl, you're just gonna be like,

1028
00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:54,320
Speaker 1: I'm not the same in the argument because this is

1029
00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:56,800
Speaker 1: episode twenty nine point six. You know what it is,

1030
00:52:57,400 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 1: They're gonna get back together and I'm gonna be the

1031
00:52:59,080 --> 00:53:00,759
Speaker 1: bad guy. And then so let me just mind my

1032
00:53:00,800 --> 00:53:02,839
Speaker 1: business because next time, I'm not coming in because that's

1033
00:53:02,840 --> 00:53:04,680
Speaker 1: where it gets a little tricky because then now your

1034
00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:07,719
Speaker 1: boyfriend can't bring you around his friends because you don't

1035
00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:10,480
Speaker 1: want you to tell what they're doing. Yeah, I feel

1036
00:53:10,520 --> 00:53:12,719
Speaker 1: like the guy has to be respectful because he needs

1037
00:53:12,760 --> 00:53:15,680
Speaker 1: to respect my friendship. And if alright, do what you're

1038
00:53:15,920 --> 00:53:18,600
Speaker 1: creepy guys do, but tell the girl to play her

1039
00:53:18,640 --> 00:53:21,160
Speaker 1: position and don't let me notice or me see, just

1040
00:53:21,280 --> 00:53:22,880
Speaker 1: like you wouldn't want her to because that puts you

1041
00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:25,279
Speaker 1: in away position. Now, now I gotta be I was

1042
00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:27,200
Speaker 1: there with your little side chick. Now I gotta be

1043
00:53:27,320 --> 00:53:30,160
Speaker 1: around your wife. Yes, where Angela? Imagine that Valerie, you

1044
00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:33,640
Speaker 1: was there and you didn't tell me, like like, then

1045
00:53:33,719 --> 00:53:35,879
Speaker 1: there goes our friendships and then you'll be like, well

1046
00:53:36,000 --> 00:53:38,040
Speaker 1: it's you know what am I gonna do? And then

1047
00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:40,600
Speaker 1: I feel like, Okay, that's not really my friend, right

1048
00:53:41,960 --> 00:53:44,000
Speaker 1: or you could I was drunk, girl, I don't even know,

1049
00:53:47,440 --> 00:53:50,040
Speaker 1: but that is a horrible situation. I feel like that's

1050
00:53:50,080 --> 00:53:52,680
Speaker 1: how the guy should handle it, like pretend like um

1051
00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:55,080
Speaker 1: would be just like if it was her and tied

1052
00:53:55,120 --> 00:53:57,160
Speaker 1: it for me to would you tell your boyfriend first,

1053
00:53:57,200 --> 00:54:00,120
Speaker 1: like I gotta tell her. I would tell him, you

1054
00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:02,319
Speaker 1: think I'm not gonna tell right now, I would tell

1055
00:54:02,400 --> 00:54:04,520
Speaker 1: him you better let him know. I wouldn't even I'd

1056
00:54:04,520 --> 00:54:06,600
Speaker 1: be like, you better call her from now and let

1057
00:54:06,680 --> 00:54:09,279
Speaker 1: her know, because I'm telling my version of the few. Now,

1058
00:54:09,360 --> 00:54:11,160
Speaker 1: what if you become friends with this girl and yeah,

1059
00:54:11,280 --> 00:54:18,080
Speaker 1: with her and she cheats and her boyfriend. It depends, right,

1060
00:54:18,760 --> 00:54:21,239
Speaker 1: because you gotta go home and tell your man. Are

1061
00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:23,920
Speaker 1: there things that you don't tell your man? Or do

1062
00:54:23,960 --> 00:54:26,120
Speaker 1: you feel like you tell him everything, like things that happened,

1063
00:54:26,160 --> 00:54:28,120
Speaker 1: Like if your friend tells you something and she's like,

1064
00:54:28,200 --> 00:54:32,440
Speaker 1: don't tell anybody? Do we tell our man anyway? It

1065
00:54:32,560 --> 00:54:35,040
Speaker 1: kind of depends on what it is. Sometimes for me,

1066
00:54:35,120 --> 00:54:37,560
Speaker 1: it depends on what it is because it used to

1067
00:54:37,560 --> 00:54:39,600
Speaker 1: be able to tell you a man anything. Yeah, and

1068
00:54:39,640 --> 00:54:42,319
Speaker 1: when you're in a relationship that you vent to your man,

1069
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:44,800
Speaker 1: like when your home girls getting on your nerves, you

1070
00:54:45,080 --> 00:54:47,120
Speaker 1: vun to him, you know what I mean? So, but

1071
00:54:47,200 --> 00:54:49,360
Speaker 1: what if she's the old girl he gave me her piece,

1072
00:54:49,760 --> 00:54:51,480
Speaker 1: I'm going to tell my boyfriend. I might tell my

1073
00:54:51,600 --> 00:55:04,920
Speaker 1: boyfriend that if your cups and house. But that's one

1074
00:55:05,000 --> 00:55:07,640
Speaker 1: thing that happened to me one time when I did

1075
00:55:07,840 --> 00:55:10,080
Speaker 1: this guy, and I said, tell him everything. This is

1076
00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:13,120
Speaker 1: why I don't do that anymore. And after we broke up,

1077
00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:15,160
Speaker 1: he called my job. I was some stuff at like

1078
00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:16,680
Speaker 1: what happened at work? Like, oh, let me tell you

1079
00:55:16,719 --> 00:55:19,120
Speaker 1: what happened at work today. He called my job and

1080
00:55:19,200 --> 00:55:21,960
Speaker 1: tried to get me fired and was telling people like

1081
00:55:22,040 --> 00:55:24,480
Speaker 1: what I and this this bitch at work was on

1082
00:55:24,520 --> 00:55:26,160
Speaker 1: the phone him for like an hour listening I didn't

1083
00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:28,239
Speaker 1: even know and was like really talking. I was like,

1084
00:55:28,280 --> 00:55:30,960
Speaker 1: so you're gonna just entertain this crazy, like you know

1085
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:32,520
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, because all it takes is for you

1086
00:55:32,600 --> 00:55:34,320
Speaker 1: to say some things that are too and some things aren't,

1087
00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:37,600
Speaker 1: and they're gonna believe every So after that, I was

1088
00:55:37,640 --> 00:55:39,520
Speaker 1: just like, all right, this is crazy. But after that

1089
00:55:39,640 --> 00:55:42,680
Speaker 1: I realized that certain things you don't tell a lot

1090
00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:44,759
Speaker 1: of things you don't some things like you might want

1091
00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:46,960
Speaker 1: to come fide, Like, man, what should I do? You

1092
00:55:47,040 --> 00:55:48,680
Speaker 1: know my friend this and this happened. I don't know

1093
00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:50,840
Speaker 1: if I should tell her? What do you think certain

1094
00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:52,920
Speaker 1: things you will confide to him, but other things that

1095
00:55:53,000 --> 00:55:55,560
Speaker 1: are like really personal that if it ever came back

1096
00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:58,920
Speaker 1: that you told you would be horrified. You shouldn't tell, right,

1097
00:55:59,600 --> 00:56:01,919
Speaker 1: because that's right. You never know in a relationship. I'm

1098
00:56:01,920 --> 00:56:04,040
Speaker 1: sure we've all dated somebody that later on we become

1099
00:56:04,080 --> 00:56:06,520
Speaker 1: the worst enemies. You never think it's gonna get there.

1100
00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:09,200
Speaker 1: You never think that's gonna happen, and it does. Even

1101
00:56:09,280 --> 00:56:12,760
Speaker 1: You should treat everything like especially if you're not married,

1102
00:56:12,920 --> 00:56:15,840
Speaker 1: if you're dating, even if with time, because that's the

1103
00:56:15,920 --> 00:56:18,200
Speaker 1: worst part of a relationship, the information they leave with

1104
00:56:18,719 --> 00:56:21,160
Speaker 1: because they know about you. You know, your deepest turk

1105
00:56:21,320 --> 00:56:23,520
Speaker 1: is whatever makes you. I know some sh about you too,

1106
00:56:26,040 --> 00:56:29,840
Speaker 1: and I got my evidence right playing he liked his

1107
00:56:29,960 --> 00:56:32,960
Speaker 1: bigger heads. But you shut the funk up after that.

1108
00:56:34,640 --> 00:56:37,000
Speaker 1: You know about all our three women too. I don't

1109
00:56:37,000 --> 00:56:40,520
Speaker 1: care about confidentiality agreement that I signed. I will let

1110
00:56:40,600 --> 00:56:42,759
Speaker 1: everybody know, so shut the funk up. Don't talk about

1111
00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:51,000
Speaker 1: my child, yes, yes, all right, Well listen, Valerie. I

1112
00:56:51,040 --> 00:56:54,320
Speaker 1: appreciate you coming through for us. It's a lip service.

1113
00:56:55,080 --> 00:56:56,920
Speaker 1: And of course you know we do this every week

1114
00:56:57,120 --> 00:57:01,080
Speaker 1: every Thursday. We've been on point. Okay stuff anybody saying, oh, y'all,

1115
00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:03,560
Speaker 1: we put it out every single every single I know

1116
00:57:03,640 --> 00:57:06,000
Speaker 1: he was a little shaky at first figuring it out.

1117
00:57:06,960 --> 00:57:09,719
Speaker 1: We gotta go over a year and we're good. And

1118
00:57:09,800 --> 00:57:12,640
Speaker 1: I promised you there's some really big things about to happen. Yes,

1119
00:57:13,480 --> 00:57:16,560
Speaker 1: And we appreciate you all for listening, and we thank

1120
00:57:16,600 --> 00:57:20,080
Speaker 1: you very I appreciate you coming through. And really it's fun.

1121
00:57:21,280 --> 00:57:26,720
Speaker 1: I like my little bound bound and Stephanie, who we're

1122
00:57:26,760 --> 00:57:32,280
Speaker 1: gonna be interviewing you on here. I just love the

1123
00:57:32,360 --> 00:57:34,160
Speaker 1: fact that things have come a long way from when

1124
00:57:34,200 --> 00:57:36,560
Speaker 1: we first started this show. Like when we first started

1125
00:57:36,600 --> 00:57:39,920
Speaker 1: let's just talk about this was newly single and Stephanie

1126
00:57:40,000 --> 00:57:42,120
Speaker 1: was in a relationship holding her jail boo down. Oh

1127
00:57:42,200 --> 00:57:46,360
Speaker 1: my god, now and now you're in I'm back with him.

1128
00:57:49,160 --> 00:57:52,480
Speaker 1: This is all like a submission at the end of

1129
00:57:52,680 --> 00:57:55,920
Speaker 1: let's let's let's ever we should put her on dates selected,

1130
00:57:56,000 --> 00:57:57,640
Speaker 1: But I don't know if I want to hurt nobody's

1131
00:57:57,680 --> 00:58:04,440
Speaker 1: feelings like that. This sious. No, I'm not girl Sagittarius.

1132
00:58:05,200 --> 00:58:09,040
Speaker 1: But guys that with Stephanie love her like they'll be like, man,

1133
00:58:09,160 --> 00:58:13,919
Speaker 1: she is friend? Right? No? I mean was she when

1134
00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:16,320
Speaker 1: you could guys fall in love with me and then

1135
00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:19,200
Speaker 1: it's like I don't like we break up? You know,

1136
00:58:19,360 --> 00:58:21,800
Speaker 1: so they always love me and we always loved them,

1137
00:58:21,840 --> 00:58:23,880
Speaker 1: but we just can't. We don't realize how sensitive these

1138
00:58:23,920 --> 00:58:26,240
Speaker 1: men really are. They are guys said to act like

1139
00:58:26,360 --> 00:58:28,160
Speaker 1: I don't want to be in a relationship, but I'm

1140
00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:31,080
Speaker 1: just gonna hit it, and no, you know, I find that.

1141
00:58:31,760 --> 00:58:33,360
Speaker 1: I find out when I laid that on the table.

1142
00:58:33,400 --> 00:58:36,720
Speaker 1: You know, I'm enjoying my single life. I like dating

1143
00:58:36,880 --> 00:58:40,400
Speaker 1: and I'm happy. I feel like guys try so much

1144
00:58:40,480 --> 00:58:43,520
Speaker 1: harder to actually be in my house and and be

1145
00:58:43,720 --> 00:58:48,160
Speaker 1: in a relation on this, I want to Okay, Yeah,

1146
00:58:49,120 --> 00:58:51,800
Speaker 1: that's like when a girl that's I'm not into guys

1147
00:58:51,840 --> 00:58:54,240
Speaker 1: tells a guy like, oh, I'm lesbian, and they'd be like, well,

1148
00:58:54,320 --> 00:58:56,160
Speaker 1: let me be the one to take you back to

1149
00:58:56,240 --> 00:59:00,880
Speaker 1: that like a spark challenge. Do you think are you

1150
00:59:00,960 --> 00:59:04,440
Speaker 1: the kind of girl that because obviously you hold your

1151
00:59:04,480 --> 00:59:07,440
Speaker 1: own Sometimes when I was saying this to one of

1152
00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:09,560
Speaker 1: my friends as single, and she's like, I don't get what.

1153
00:59:09,640 --> 00:59:11,480
Speaker 1: I'm so single. I have my own house, and I'm

1154
00:59:11,520 --> 00:59:15,960
Speaker 1: like this and I'm educated, and I'm like, that's exactly why.

1155
00:59:16,040 --> 00:59:19,160
Speaker 1: Because she'll meet a guy first date and she screams like,

1156
00:59:19,280 --> 00:59:22,640
Speaker 1: think independent. It's independent. I don't need to I'll pay

1157
00:59:22,720 --> 00:59:28,840
Speaker 1: the bill, and guys like they want to feel like

1158
00:59:29,200 --> 00:59:33,880
Speaker 1: you need them. Ye, so do you think that happens

1159
00:59:33,880 --> 00:59:35,760
Speaker 1: to you sometimes that do? I just feel like, damn,

1160
00:59:35,840 --> 00:59:39,280
Speaker 1: she don't even need me. I think, guys, Um, when

1161
00:59:39,320 --> 00:59:42,000
Speaker 1: I start to curve them because of that, they let

1162
00:59:42,120 --> 00:59:45,800
Speaker 1: go faster. The better I do, the easier it just

1163
00:59:46,160 --> 00:59:48,200
Speaker 1: out to be like it. I know she got more mad, guys.

1164
00:59:48,320 --> 00:59:51,080
Speaker 1: I know she. I know she's dating all over the place.

1165
00:59:51,240 --> 00:59:53,080
Speaker 1: I know she could take care of herself, like I

1166
00:59:53,120 --> 00:59:54,520
Speaker 1: don't even need to see. But the truth of the

1167
00:59:54,560 --> 00:59:56,880
Speaker 1: man is, you could have a boyfriend if you wanted to.

1168
00:59:57,000 --> 00:59:59,200
Speaker 1: You just she was not to know. Of course, it's

1169
00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:04,960
Speaker 1: just times no time, and I have to say, like,

1170
01:00:05,080 --> 01:00:09,000
Speaker 1: I really enjoy the guys that I say I love you,

1171
01:00:11,640 --> 01:00:16,000
Speaker 1: I love you, know, but um, this time, I don't

1172
01:00:16,000 --> 01:00:17,760
Speaker 1: want to settle, you know what I mean? This time,

1173
01:00:17,760 --> 01:00:20,360
Speaker 1: I don't want to just be in a relationship because

1174
01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:23,320
Speaker 1: I want to be And I think it takes a

1175
01:00:23,520 --> 01:00:26,160
Speaker 1: much stronger person and much stronger women to say I'm

1176
01:00:26,200 --> 01:00:27,640
Speaker 1: not gonna be with somebody just for the take of

1177
01:00:27,680 --> 01:00:29,160
Speaker 1: being with somebody. I want to maybe somebody that I

1178
01:00:29,200 --> 01:00:33,160
Speaker 1: could see myself with, like exactly, that's the point I'm

1179
01:00:33,160 --> 01:00:34,920
Speaker 1: going to call you my man unless I feel like that,

1180
01:00:35,160 --> 01:00:37,120
Speaker 1: right And that's why I say this. Next time, I

1181
01:00:37,200 --> 01:00:39,280
Speaker 1: know I'm gonna be able to be faithful because when

1182
01:00:39,320 --> 01:00:41,000
Speaker 1: I decided to be in a relationship, it's going to

1183
01:00:41,080 --> 01:00:43,320
Speaker 1: be something that I want. You know, at the time.

1184
01:00:43,800 --> 01:00:46,840
Speaker 1: Right now, I don't if I find the guy, but

1185
01:00:46,920 --> 01:00:48,840
Speaker 1: I'm not just gonna be with anybody just because I

1186
01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:51,120
Speaker 1: want to be in a relationship. That's the room for

1187
01:00:51,160 --> 01:00:59,880
Speaker 1: Stephanie Dix. Be big, that's your sex, have perfect timing.

1188
01:01:02,360 --> 01:01:04,600
Speaker 1: May all your men spoil you and treat you like

1189
01:01:04,720 --> 01:01:09,040
Speaker 1: the queen that you are. Jesus name man. And he

1190
01:01:09,120 --> 01:01:14,080
Speaker 1: eat like a king, okay, eating like he's hungry. And

1191
01:01:14,200 --> 01:01:16,160
Speaker 1: on that note, that was live service.